ไม่สามารถเล่นวิดีโอนี้
ขออภัยในความไม่สะดวก
She's upset because of her husband, who favors their younger son[Hello Counselor ENG,THA/2018.09.17]
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 ส.ค. 2024
- Click the "Caption" button to activate subtitle!
Hello Counselor EP.380
Guests : Yoo Minsang, Shim Jinhwa, Sunmi, NU’EST W'S JR & Ren
#HelloCouselor #Hello_Clip #Hello380
▶Subscribe KBS World Official Pages
TH-cam Subscribe： / kbsworld
Homepage: www.kbsworld.co.kr
Facebook: / kbsworld
Twitter: / kbsworldtv
Instagram: / kbsworldtv
Line: goo.gl/g5iRQV
Android Download : bit.ly/1NOZFKr
IOS Download : apple.co/1NktctW
![No one in this family is on my side. [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.01.14]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/T7KZvo4xVLs/mqdefault.jpg)
![No one in this family is on my side. [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.01.14]](/img/tr.png)
![12-year-old boy has older sisters who treat him like a slave [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.03.11]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/zC7Agnum6BY/mqdefault.jpg)
![Her pain was hidden behind her smile..[Hello Counselor ENG,THA/2018.9.17]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/7SpNFLrv-n4/mqdefault.jpg)
"I'll be a good boy too"
OMG YOU ALREADY ARE ONE YOU DID NOTHING WRONG😭
Panda God lkr I felt so bad
I know right I cried when he said that 😭😭😭😭
agree
Jian so desperated to get love from his dad i think
That was upsetting
I want to punch his dad
i was crying when i watched that part
"Do you want seo-an to be yelled at too?"
_Instantly answers_
"No, I don't"
*One day, this kid will be a much better dad than his own father will ever be*
He'll be match better!
Facts!
This comment made my eyes tear up
Trueee
@@gen.dh7 the whole video did..
She is a great mother, she can feel her first son's feeling. She is crying when she tells them the story of Jian. Jian didn't ask help from anyone, and just crying silently alone, but her mom speaks up for him. Jian takes the same pure heart as his mom.
I felt Jian's pain through his mother :( So sad to witness one of your precious sons being mistreated by his own father.
Yeah, and I think he probably cried his eyes put to his mom every night about this
The fact that his husband moved the chair further from his son when both child came sit down with him is so heartbreaking
I really scrolled through the comments to see if anyone else caught that. After the older son helped his brother sit he then sat down on the other side of his dad sitting on the edge closet, almost touching his dad and then his dad scooted his chair away to be closer to the younger son. That broke my heart.
I wanted to insult him so many times
Oh yes! I noticed and was wondering anyone noticed too! Such a shitty dad.. I can't watch this... I feel so sorry for the mum and eldest son... 😭😭😭
yeah i noticed too
I think that the dad did that to be in the middle in between his kids since he was further from the younger one 🤷♀️
The fact that Jian was still apologizing to his father when he did nothing wrong, and that he's taking it out on a kid at school because he's likely treated the same at home just makes me so much angrier at the father on top of everything else. I mean he's been doing it before Seo an was even born with him being sick as a kid and his father not thinking it to be worth it. What is going through his mind?
Chase Barber I
Not only that, but the father ended up making Seo-an spoiled! Even though Jian’s father loved Seo-an more, he still love his brother, which is a good thing. Jian is such a good kid...
@@cloudyolk_ Exactly like the kids are at both extremes of bad parenting.
Sweet Jesus, I hope the mother divorced him and marries an actual man not this excuse of a human being
Just like the husband said, hes from a certain district that is culturally different from how other people may traditionally
raise their children, so he isn't 100% to blame.
The fact that when they asked if he could love Jian HALF as much as his other son, and he sat there and had to THINK about it pisses me off
I'm your 1k likes
Mila Aqwina BTS aww thanks love 💕
Bitxh looked as if it was the hardest he ever thought in his entire life...like wtf?
true. I was cursing like he's his dad....and he needed to think?
Ikr they even say HALF but he still acting like it's the hardest thing to do
The part where Sunmi literally said that she wanted to raise him herself I have never related more like Jian is such a sweet boy how can his father ever neglect him like what???
timestamp?
@@friendusesthisaccountnocom9928 20:26
He’s so amazing and respectful. He never blamed his dad nor brother for him getting this awful treatment. He even told his dad “ I’ll be a good boy too “ like wtf. Baby you did nothing wrong. I want Sunni to raise him bc wtf.
@@rosie5816 Ik it's really sad
This broke my heart. After that whole thing, all Jian said was "I'll be a good boy too". Like he doesn't realise how much of an angel he is already.
I was crying at that moment but after seeing a girl crying hilariously I started laughing 😁
I’m happy that the mom stands up for her child......
Yeah, at least the mum loves him. Poor Jian.
Yes, I'm happy the mom sees the problem and tries to actually takes action to change it! She could've put on a blind eye and pretend like there's nothing wrong, but she didn't and I can't be more grateful for that
Monster Fastclaw But The thing is, she isn’t trying hard enough. It’s probably all of the stress her husband put onto her that she can’t even sort out the situation.
I feel the mom favours the older son more than the younger son tho
Jian also doesn't act resentful against his father or brother, probably because of his mother's guidance. Although he has started to show rebellion at school which is a great cause for worry :(
What kind of Dad just sits there while his sons crying and doesn't do anything!
He's a sick sick man.
ikr.. he should've hugged his son 😡
Haven Blackfeather he was holding the youngest one hand and he wasn’t even crying!
@@earthphoenix7068 what an evil. I won't be surprised when you become a parent someday and ended up just like their dad.
My dad calls me psycho and he says I have a mental illness
"he always has to be alert in order to survive" damn that breaks my heart.
I tried so hard not to cry but I couldn’t help it when Jian said he’d be a good boy too.
I had a similar relationship with my father, and that feeling of loneliness and worthlessness is something you never ever forget.
I hope you know you have a Heavenly Father who loves you so much 🙏🏼❤️
i think i feel you well i have never though that it would be that much that my father hates me but i still like he doesn't like me that much .I'm 13. I'm the only daughter in 3 boys i have two older brothers and a twin brother. my dad is a bit old fashioned so he always thinks that girls have no use but do house chores and give birth i don't think we ever talk and if we did it would like i was talking to a wall he would hum and the ignore me. it makes me feel so sad,i was crying the whole video and crying in the writing of this comment if only my dad could change the way he treats ne just a bit
Sunmi *actually* looked like she was gonna beat the shit out of the dad
I know every time the camera panned over we both had the same expression LOL
i'll do the same, everyone want to do the same. no doubts
I mean who wouldn’t want to 🙃
I actually slapped my phone screen when the dad was on it
lmfao xd
This is how children get depressed at such a young age. All he wants is to get accepted by his father. Get loved by his father. Get acknowledged by his father.This really broke my heart, I couldn’t stop crying.🙁
Yes☹️😭
Leila Ahmad me too 😭😭😭
I also can't stop crying it's so heart breaking
The so called father is just a monster how could he do that to his own son
Same😭😢
omg so trueee 100%
Some people don't deserve to be parents. The older kid broke my heart, he's too sweet, despite the abuse.
I’m just watching this now and I’m dying to know if Jian has a better relationship with his dad. This episode is making me bawl my eyes out. This is so heartbreaking and hard to watch.
ep 400 around 6:38 has a heart warming update
@@tchoi97 are you sure it’s that episode?? i watched the whole thing and nothing was said about them
@@ella-ch7du maybe it’s 406? I searched the one the first person said, but haven’t looked at it, I’m just looking at thumbnail, cause I’m watching this video
@@ella-ch7du it;s episode 400, i just watched it.
What really got me was when Jian was crying into his arm and his dad wouldn't even look at him. Seo-an was smiling, not knowing what was going on, and the dad was completely ignoring his crying older son to dote on his younger, laughing one. It was like watching two different tv channels at once. I'm not surprised Jian was acting out at school. I hope they got them both a psychiatrist to work through this.
Right
@@ellysaidatrisanty1033 Seo an's manipulative and spoilt as a result of how his father treats Jian. But it's not the children's fault. It's because of the father that Jian is suffering and Seo An is acting like that.
I started crying when Jian cry!
@@nctforlife2360 what are you talking about! seoan is a baby even if you are mad u shouldnt talk like that about a baby! blame the dad not the kid!!
I accidentally disliked oopsie hah
I just burst into tears at the end when Jian cried. No child should ever have to feel that way.
Me too
Same i fell the sadness
I feel that till this day. This happened to me too. It got me in tears cuz i know how jian feels💔
I started crying when the mother started crying. Sadly I can relate to this situation. I just hope the little boy is ok and gets the love he deserves
Yeah it's so sadd🥺🥺
I think he's treating his son exactly the same way he was treated by his own father. This stuff propagates through generations until the circle is broken.
That’s what I’m thinking. I was hoping they would ask
Exactly, this cycle never ends unless they divorce and go their separate ways :/
The fact that Jian started crying when his grandma was talking about how even she believes her son is too hard on him. Also how he started crying when his dad actually said something nice to him:( poor kid, he must have so much weighing on him because of his dad. I really do hope Jian’s dad becomes more affectionate and loving with him. I do understand that the younger son is a little kid and may need more attention, but Jian is also a child too, he needs love as well.
When Jian said that "he'll be a good boy" my heart broke to pieces. What kind of parents make their child believe that they ain't good enough.
Haruka 90 honestly!! I couldn’t hold my tears anymore, it hurt me to see him feel the need to tell his dad that he’ll be better when he wasn’t the one that needed to improve
Most parents do this in matter fact I admit that the father is really bad but if it was the mother no one would care
Haruka 90 I was trying to hold it in then I cried when Jian cried I felt so bad...
I teared at that part.....it was so upsetting to see such a young child deprived of love
same sentiments
At this point
If the boy said "I don't have father, he is dead"
I'll understand him as well :')
Yea
yeah i remember i have a classmate that really hate her mom for not taking care of her so she tell our teacher that her mom is dead
I'll understand him too 🥺 no child deserves a bad treatment from parents. And for parents to practice favouritism is just awful.
One day if nothing change he will say it
@@user-md9mq6do3b yeah
I've cried when ji an said "I'll be a good boy too"😭😭😭 We're all know that he depressed and been crying silently alone😢😢😢 the mom did the right decision to came here
25:14 how are they all so composed with their tears bruh I’m balling my eyes out 😭😭 Jian is so cute and handsome and deserves so much more love from his dad and Seo-an is manipulative af haha
when jian came out and had the brightest smile on his face even after all the shit he's been through, even took care of his little brother despite everything, i started sobbing... he's such a pure, shining soul and soon it'll be tarnished by his own father. i grew up with parents that favored my brother and that kind of trauma stays with you forever... i really, really hope jian will be okay.
Same here.. my mum loves my younger brother so dearly and i often feel left out since she always sided with him and also since i am older i was always blamed even thou it was him who started it. i do get angry at times and feel like this was unfair but seeing jian smiling so cheerfully when he enters i knew hes an angel. I hope the best for him and hopefully his dad will love them both equally.
Same happens to me. Me and my brother have a 6 years age gap, I'm turning 15 this year and he is 21 years old. I grew up being the culprit of everything, I don't have my parents attention at all and my brother is studying abroad so my parents pay more attention to him than to me, but I love them after all and I can't deny the fact that I am going to be traumatized. 😕💜
nebular I totally agree....my parents do pay attention to me...but they pay more attention to my sister’s life....they always ask her how her day goes and things like that....I’m the older one and when I do something wrong they pay attention....when I come downstairs no one notices so I myself quietly go back upstairs....but when my sister does something it gets noticed and when I do something great it’s just a simple nod and smile and that’s it.....because of this consistent behavior I have become super independent and know no one will take my side anyways...it really does stick with you everywhere you go....
I'd also like to commend the mother because if not for her taking care of Jian, I don't think he would grow up to be as sweet, considering how his father is treating him. He didn't even have any ill-will against Se-on (even taking care of him), probably because his mother makes sure to explain and fill in the misunderstandings as much as she could.
And when he said that he said that he didn’t want his brother to be yelled at just shows that Jian loves his brother and doesn’t want him to feel the same way he does 😭so heartbreaking
The father didn't even looked at jian and comforted him when he was crying. I feel so bad for jian, he is a very sweet boy and if the father continues being like this I don't think jian will talk to him when he will grow up
I think so. If the father still act like that i think jian will grow up and acy awkwardly towards his father and he only care abt his mom the most😥
@@Abcdefghij_1101 yes I know the feeling. My father don't live here with me and he lives in other place. So now I don't really miss him and its awkward to talk personal things with him
@@Abcdefghij_1101 well, if he doesn't change, I can guarantee it'll end up that way. I only prioritise my mum now. *happened to me irl. only diff is I'm a daughter. Also eldest*
This is exactly what happened to my brothers. My dad use to take good care of them but after my youngest sibling was born...he ignored them so now they don't want to talk to him. They get scared that he might yell or something. I have that problem too.
Yes.. I agree.. but if one day the older son become richest people and successful person I dont think he will favour his father.. this happen to ones to taiwan artist.. until now he never want to know about his father.. he only take care his mom only
Dude this episode had me bawling like a big baby. My heart broke for Jian and seeing him hurting and crying made it worst. I hope his father changes and treats him with love and gives him some positive attention
i love how the mom explains everything without trying to be rude
the dad is just..
I've never seen that many shocked exclamations from the audience from watching this show for many years, the audience were like "😨omg" every time that sorry excuse of a father opened his mouth
† i been a fan of this show for a long time too and i don’t think i ever saw the audience showing so many reactions either, there was a girl bawling even
Really? I watched a lot of Hello Counselors and there are plenty
thats me rn
At 6:46? Or 7:59?
Lol yeah I noticed that too. Even the applaud for the father's introduction was downright pathetic and the jerk deserved it. I'm sure the guests and mc's made up most of the applause
It really broke my heart to see Jian crying. You could tell he was holding a lot of emotional distress. Kids regardless of what age can tell when you favor one sibling over the other especially when you treat the differently. I really hope Jian will get closer with his dad because It’ll be really sad if Jian grows up resenting both his dad and little brother. The dad really needs to try and make an effort to getting close with him.
This is how it was for me . my mom would come into the room. Not acknowledge us . wheres so and so..I mao i would wind her up by saying drop dead . and mention all my sisters names . she would say well i know your here. And i would reply . well you could acknowledge us first . then ask for her. Im 56 and still seeking approval from people. . this is..why i will always fight for kids to be happy .
Yeah I agree.
Jian is so handsome and Seo- an is cute
even worse one of my cousin looks like him and seeing this makes me wanna go and hug jian and talk to him about shit .also jian is the same age as my cousin that i'm talking about so i'm like wtf.
It makes me sadder seeing how quietly he cries because that means he's always tried to hold it in. It hurts both emotionally AND physically in your chest to hold in negative feelings and the memories of both types of pain can stick for a very long time if a child starts doing that from a young age. I hope his dad really changes his attitude towards him and make him feel happier to be in this family.
I know this is from 3 years ago but the fact that Jian still love and care for his little brother despite the unfair treatment speaks volume. He’s literally an angel. If his dad didn’t, then his mom raised him well
You can't blame the youngest child , because he is still a baby he doesn't understand many things , maybe he acts like he's cute , it's because of his father's teachings .
Keep strong Jian , we love you !
@@anathimpotulwana245 you cant really call a little kid manipulative, remember that kids REALLY like attention and thats probably it, but its hella unfair that the father gives so much attention to the youngest rather than sharing them equally
sorry for my comment, I was just angry at how the little kid made the older one take blame for his mistakes taking advantage of how his father dotes on him and it's not his fault
It's usually natural for children to want attention, I don't even understand why people here are hating on a kid for this. It's natural, and he's used to all the attention so that's why he feels awkward when it's diverted to his older brother. It's honestly the father's fault for everything
@@shahidaafzal1247 AGREED
Yes that’s why I think the mother not even bother smiling at the youngest son singing or saying he is manipulative Is one of the reasons he is also trying so hard. I think the mother maybe feels bad giving the youngest a lot of affection as she is protective of jian so the youngest one wants to impress her. The father ofc carried most fault. I just can imagine the mother getting mad at the youngest for being as she said "manipulative" and consoles jian so he feels a bit „jealous“ which isn’t healthy for the family. There shouldn’t be any dividing
He didn't even bother to look at Ji-an when he was crying all over and instead the happy younger son. He is disgusting, toxic messed up brain. I hope Jian grows well in the future and get all the love he once missed.
Ikrrrr my heart literally broke down while seeing that...!!!
@@snehaagarwal2455 yes i cried!! ㅠㅠ
he actually changed, he's trying his best to be a good father now, you should watch episode 400 to see them again ! Ji-an and his father have a much more healthy son and father relationship now! :D
@@mariamunthe1213 Do you know what timestamp? :>
@@mariamunthe1213 omg really?? gosh what a relief, I'm happy for them! ㅠㅠ
when Jian started to cry, I started to cry aswell
Gl
t
Me too hahaha
TaesTeasWife same here 😂 idk why but it's break my heart so much everytime i saw jian's crying
same ;-;😢 and hi army💜
me too
When Jian said that he will try to be a good boy, I just burst out crying. I watched this video 2 years ago and I still cry watching this. I hope his father has changed
"I'll be a good son too" just shows us how matured this kid is. Btw I've watched this ep many times. But still, it made me cry every time I watched.
When Jian said "I'll be a good boy, too" I lost it I started UGLY crying and it takes a lot for me to ugly cry. And if I'm being honest Jian deserves so much better if I was the wife I would honestly just get a divorce because if you can't love BOTH of my children then don't love any of them.
(yes, ik that sounds harsh but it's just my opinion)
Brooklyn Perry omg I ugly cried to Ik how you feel 💔god so many emotions
Agree, because living with someone like him is toxic, a kid growing up with a father like him will only bring him down and several their siblings relationship in the future.
Brooklyn Perry same
@@TinaLee-lc6kd 😔✊
I get your point but getting a divorce is not that easy in some of Asian countries compared to Western countries because they really value the family traditions. Getting a divorce here is not that common because it is showing that you failed with your marriage, that's why even tho some partners keep on fighting, they never take it to divorcing if there is still a solution for the problem. It's kind of like "Work things out first before deciding"~
When Jian rubbed his eye, I think he did it to stop his tears from falling :(
Yh :-(
i think so too :'(
For the people who are worried they are doing great now. They both have made an amazing bond with each other. In episode 400 they showed selfies of them and Jian looked so happy. They also said he became a child actor and his dad is so proud of him and loves him alot.
I AM GLAD TO HEAR THAT, I HAVE FELT BAD FOR JIAN SO MUCH
Where is the link please tell me
All acting
That father is acting
He so clearly doesn't love his son and he made it extremely obvious. Even his body language was turned away from his oldest son.
At this age, Jian would still try to gain his father's love and attention, but very soon, probably 1 or 2 more years he will stop doing so, and thats when its too late. And that father can regret for his whole life. But I really hope he changes, because this kid deserves all the love
Exactly! I was the same with my narcissict mom, then i hit puberty And fight all the freaking time , as an adult i tried to Talk to her seriously on why she favor my useless brother instead of me, she told me i imaging everything... Can you believe that woman!!!! She call me crazy after all the years she Yell ay me for every little thing while my bother id just as her, a narcissict Who thinks the Word go around him .
Soooo AGREE with You. The father should prepare for the worst!!!!!
This what You said is really happened! Maybe now Jian will still chase for His father's love, then puberty hit. Goodbye father! Maybe, Jian will not even think that He should be kind and chase His father's love anymore.
I see this kind of things happened in the real life, the kid dont think that He/She need The father loves anymore. Well, the kid still a good kid tho. The kid has a very good life too... Since the kid is very independent and smart. It just the kid doesnt bother anymore about The father. and The father regret it when the father get old.
@@AyAReI00 lol I feel ya. The diff is it's my father, and I can clearly attest that my brother is indeed USELESS (my other bro is better, so there is a point of comparison)
Your so unfair. This is so sick!
@@emilyconnor3911 oh no, he is useless, he doesnt do any chore at home, NOTHING cuz according to him "he doesnt know to" he is older than me , he just Play dumb to avoid helping at home, he doesnt Cook anything since i have memory And then i ask him for at least do the dishes ... Do you know what was his answer??? "Why dont you do It? Are you not able to?" ... I got so mad but off course he does that cuz my mother always had his back .. he is literally a manchild
how can his father just sit there while his son cries next to him...heartless..thank god for the mother to raise Jian
This whole interview made me cry. How can a dad do this to his elder son. I mean I have an elder brother too but we get loved equally. And now I am in standard 6 and he is in 8
When jian cried, my heart broke. No child deserves this ;((
I need to see Jian's glow up after 10 years.
Yesssss
Hope he will. I don't want him to get depressed at this age because of his rotten father.
Same
Same
AND LOOK AT THOSE DIMPLES❤️
I love jian just like sunmi said.. I want raise him too..
Mul Yadi, me too😍😎😘
Mul Yadi me tooo😊
Sameeee, I‘m willing to give him everything he wants
Yea , he's more obedient actually
I loved Jian how well mannered and understanding he is ❤️ I hope his father show more love to him and equally treats both sons 👍🏻
This episode had me crying the whole time, Jian is such a sweet kid and I hope he's doing better now
I cried when Jian said that
“I will be a good boy too”
Me too😭💔
you only started crying then... oops
Right he thinks that it’s his fault that he gets blamed at for stuff and he’s saying that so his dad can start to love him it’s so sad, from the start when the mom started crying I’ve been bawling my eyes out through the whole 30mins :( I hope the family is doing well not because that can affect jian in the long run
You can already see how the youngest son tries to get attention whenever the attention goes to Jian...He's indeed such a cute baby but the way he's growing up is not promising
the younger kid is so annoying IMO
Gwyn. nicole agree
this so much. he is the manipulative one
When the dad say jian is manipulative i think other way.. the youngest is the manipulative one.. i hate the dad when see jian cry but hia focus only on his second child..
Couldn't agree more
I love how everyone is just done with the husband
Jian is soo handsome
He can become idol when he grows up
This is the only episode to ever make me cry. Watching Jian break down and cling to his dad after getting that little piece of (unconvincing) affection was so difficult, I didn't even realize tears were streaming down my face until the episode ended. I really hope the dad DID change.
Can we just take a moment and give major props to that mom, though? She actually stands up for her son and holds her husband responsible for his actions. That's rare in Korea, especially on this show. Usually, they make excuses or even takes the father's side. Not only does she not make excuses for him, she came ON THIS SHOW specifically to try to change the behavior and expose him. A+ Mommy right there.
Unconvincing lol *clocked* haha
It made me cry so much in the end
I doubted, he didn’t even do anything when jian cry, he only hug him because they told him to
This made me cry so much too after watching it a few times
Bawling here :(
This man doesn't deserve such a lovely innocent cutie child. What goes around comes around. He better be prepared cus sooner or later he's going to get hurt too.
Agree with u
Yes, don’t blame Jian when he become adult and he don’t care about their own father. Even when the father is sick.
Looking at Jian, i can understand how much love he needs from his father, which is obvious he's supposed to get it. After all, Jian is just a 9-year kid, and he's actually very mature for his age. Hoping that his father will love and take care for him more cz he deserves for all.
who in their right mind would always criticize their own son who is literally a child for everything, i mean EVERYTHING that he does. that inconsiderate father always have answers/reasons to give. It's baffling.
This is the first time I cried so hard while watching hello counselor. The moment jian cried is heartbreaking 😭💔
😭 me too i felt so bad for jian, he doesn't deserve that
Me too. Poor jian 😭😭
Sameee😢😢😢
This episode is so heartbreaking...💔
ivy con me too! It’s so heart breaking
I HAD NEVER CRIED SO MUCH WITH ONE OF THESE. Poor baby boy 💔 I hope the dad really changes his behaviour towards Jian. He doesn't deserve to grow up like this
Huhuhu me too. 😭😭😭
Me too
I cried way to much that my dog come to support me lol
AyAReI00 awwww, that's a good doggo
Ugh!! My heart just shattered watching this💔💔I want to give Jian a hug. He’s so sweet and all he wants is for his father to care. I got emotional seeing him fall apart😢😢He doesn’t deserve to feel so alone. I hope that their family bond strengthens after this. His little brother is absolutely adorable by the way😍
Seeing a good boy telling his heart out, bawling his sadness. "i'll be a good boy too." breaks my heart
i cried while watching this omg. i'm glad jian gets treated better now, but i still despise the dad for making him feel alone during his childhood.
When the younger sings her mom doesn't react...but she's all smile when her boy starts singing...she cried from beginning to end she felt really upset and bad for him...😭😭😭...when only 9 yr old starts crying in front of everyone the reason bcoz he felt that he's not loved enough by his dad...how his mother would've felt...it totally breaks my heart 😭 💔
So true.. 😭😭 for me, when he started to cry, i know that he is matured enough to realize that his father did not favor him
And the dad called him manipulative like wtf? He’s a kid
I'm so sure just to look at Jian, he is so cute and he's not pretend to be cute, he acts normally but the younger one tries to be cute. His dad makes me feel likes the younger one was so fake. Eventhough both of them are cute in their own way, I have no emotion for the younger but smile when I see the older one. He just so so nice. My heart breaks when I heard he would try to be a good boy, he doesn't have to, he's already is
Plot twist
His favored son will treat him bad when his old and his ignored sons will help him in those days.
This happens to my mom up until now. She was abuse and not loved by my Grandma almost as if my mom is not her own child. Now my mom takes care of her now that she's old and bed ridden and her favored other children doesn't even bother to take care of her.
@@angelicahilario5250 Same situation with my teachers mother.
my mom is like that too, she treat my grandma until now and others child (my mom siblings) just pretend didnt see and hear all my grandma distress at all. in the past my mom was raise by the other family and yeah i could say that grandma abandoned her. but i loved the way my mom takes her responsibility to grandma by came to our family. maybe god know the best🙏
Hemmmm Classic.
Bruh that always be in drama
i'm glad the mother can see the younger son manipulating, it was also very obvious when he started acting cute to pull the attention away from his older brother.
My heart hurts for Jian, especially cause it hits close to home for me. If things don't change, he will come to resent his father and brother deeply.
the mom really cares for her children seeing her cry wants me to cry
He doesn't realize how blessed he is to have two beautiful children who want to love him. He has no clue. That's heartbreaking and silly. He's an adult. They aren't. Gosh. I am bawling.
exactly how i feel :(
I'm trying so hard not to sob. I feel so sorry for him... I can kind of relate. Jeez, I got a headache from crying so much... I need fluff, asap ._.
And then the dad is going to be like “why doesn’t my kid come to see me” when they are older
Right
True~
Yash
exactly
I won't visit my father either He is an abuser he abuse my mother and cheated until my mother die
When Jian said he will be a good son and they hugged each other my heart broke inside my chest and I almost shed a tear. Which is a feat for me because I never cry-
It's been 5 years, and i still cryin watch this
Jian is a literal angel. He didn't want his lil bro to be yelled at even though he gets yelled at all the time. He looked so happy and cheerful when Seo-an was singing. People have such great kids and yet mistreat them. Then once they hit puberty or grow up they wonder why their child has resentment or issues towards them.
Even when the father favoured Seo an over Jian, as the older brother he still didn’t envy or resent Seo an and instead, you could see, when Seo an was singing, the love that he had for Seo an regardless of how unfairly he was treated. I’m not the one to cry so easily but no matter how hard I tried to hold it back I couldn’t help but cry for Jian, especially when he had his head down, probably trying to hide his face while crying too. How is the child so sweet? He’s so adorable! How can someone say that they’ve lost their appetite because of him?
I think it might have to do with the fact that Jian feels that good dad loves his brother because he is cute and he doesn't love him because he's not and the fact is that I think that just might be thinking "yeah this is inventible this should happen because I'm not as good as him."
Which make me feel so bad for that's kid. 😭
Yeah he's really amazing
Humayra Ali same i got so upset by the father and i cried as if there is like no tomorrow
Jian is really a handsome boy , his dimples are so cute. I hope that he has a happy future ahead
Watching the dad say "I'm proud of you" literally made me cry knowing my parents could never say that :,)
The whole family dynamic is ruined man
Father favors the second child
Mother sees that and starts to favor the older child
Second child resents first child because he has all the mother’s love
First child resents the second child because he has all the father’s love
Father and mother will lose respect for one another
Siblings will have no respect for one another
This is a terrible terrible situation unbelievable
Q Q actually the first child doesn’t hate the second child he just feels isolated from his fathers love
@Emily John I agree, and it's very depressing, poor baby..
Emily John they will start to hate each other only because of their father
If the father continues to do this I think the younger one will grow up arrogant and selfish and the oldest son will grow up with many heart wounds
This is a very unheathly family just because of this psychopath
I think the father is a psychopath
As a parent you cant not love your own kids
Disgusting
Giulia Ruiu I agree 100% I’m just saying what’s really sad is that the oldest will probably suffer and he never did anything wrong. I hope no one EVER has to get treated like this.
( I agree this dad is a psychopath )
Emily John regardless of how the child feels right now, if the father continues to act this way then the oldest will most probably feel resentment towards the second child. my comment was made on the basis of how the father NEEDS to stop his horrible behavior before the whole family goes into ruins.
With all this, Jian is starting to fear his own father and with that fear, the resentment will come sooner or later. The only thing this kid wants, is the love of his father but if he continues like this, one of them will eventually cut off the relationship. Jian deserves to have a father who cares for him and i'm sorry to say this, but his father is an Asshole. He said he doesn't think it's wrong to favour the younger brother over him. He called his own son annoying, manipulative and dissapointing when it actually should we Jian, who should feel dissapointed and manipulated by his father. As a Dad, he completly failed his duty and it's gonna take a lot for him to change his mind and make up for what he did to his son...
Michelle Hawk yeah while watching this I actually kinda hoped the mother would be like I’m not gonna do this to my kid and you know cut him outa their lives even for the youngest that would be best in my opinion . The man is just horrible.what he does is neglect and only mentally retarded ppl don’t see their own fault to this extend. He was just happily telling everyone how much he hates his son that is just disgusting and wrong.
Ps im sorry it kinda makes me mad😅
I bet his father was treated the way he treats that son so he's passing down something bad instead of correcting it.
jian deserves so much love! he must be understood cause he’s just experiencing life but that dad is immature and only care about his life!
Michelle Hawk i know how jian feels... when i was a child my dad was always getting mad either coz of works or tired. I'm scared of him and the impact of this is now i become distance from him because of the awkwardness and we didn't really talk to each others ☹️
Michelle Hawk I study psychology and what u said can really do happen if nothing changes...I agree with your comment to 95%🙌🏼
This dad is a bad person but I think he didn't have two great parents either so I don't wanna judge him too fast.. Altho I feel like a liiiiittlle punch in his face, by accident ofcourse, wouldn't make me feel pity for him 😇
This is the first time I cried watching this show. Seeing him cry made me cry so much😭🥺. And he is so adorable with the dimples and all. I just wanna hug🤗 him✨🧡
2nd bby is cute because he has mom's look,,the first one has his dad's look..i can't understand why would he hates his own version..LMAO
9 years old children already develop their own thinking, emotion and analyzing their own environment. If this unregretful father don't have a proper solution to build back the relationship, he will lost Jian..I kept cursing the father from the beginning!!!
Aslinza Zainuddin the relationship has already suffered I doubt they will ever be able to have a genuine close relationship
You ain't alone. I was graphing out all of the ways that this man could lose his whole family.
I think hes actually only 8 because Koreans calculate age differently and it was said that he is in second grade.
Same here
Gosh I feel so bad for Jian. He’s nine (eight international age?) and he’s getting yelled at so often that he’s basically traumatized. Even if he ends up loving the younger one more because of the kidney thing, doesn’t mean he can treat the older one like that. Also, he has dimples!!! That’s so cute^^ and I don’t usually like children, but I still think this behavior is too extreme. This is definitely not the definition of “being strict” to your children. This is almost to the point of abuse tbh. (if not already)
I hope the dad keeps his word and really does treat him better. It’s good that the mom came to hello counselor because if not, then this could’ve went on and it wouldn’t have ended well, I’m sure.
I hope Seo-an doesnt turn out to be a bad person, by the way things are going he might become too spoiled... This brought me to tears because i can relate so much. To anyone going through something similar, I hope you know ur not alone, and eventually we will find our happiness. We deserve it.
STOP- I CRIED MORE THAN THREE TIMES WATCHING THIS I WONDER HOW THEIR DOING NOW THOOO WE NEED A PT 2!!! PLZZZ
YESSSS 😭
EXACTLY
When Jian started crying, I couldn’t hold back my tears, he’s only nine years old, and his dad scolded him at such a age
I think his dad should love him unconditionally either way, cute or not. You should never compare your child to another, it just isn’t right.
Favoring a child isn’t something you could do. Kids have feelings too, and I think people should understand that more.
98.3% of the people watching this cried(at least)
Edit: AHHH this makes me so sad that 346(or more) people cried while watching this T^T
I cried badly
It’s true ..
Those same 98.3% probably wants to slap the dad
true man
me too
I cried when Jian cried and it rlly broke my heart. That kid is so precious and I hope his life becomes better 🤍
Honestly this is the most heartbreaking episode of hellos counsellor ever. The fact that a dad would be so discriminatory towards one of their son to the point of abuse is sickening!!! Can’t believe what kind of mental torture Jian must be going through and yet managed to smile and protect his younger brother. Couldn’t be me, I immensely respect your courage jian
It’s heartbreaking knowing that Jian loves seo-an even when he is treated unfairly. I found Jians cuteness more cute because he looked innocent while seo-an had the face of “I know I’m cute”he is cute but it’s really unfair
but.....that's cause seo-an is a baby, he doesn't even know wtf is going on all he thinking about is "baby shark", ya'll rlly makin a baby out to be a sociopath you do realise all babies are this "manipulative", my baby cousin is the devil himself if you think this is manipulative lol
My heart hurt watching Jian crying alone when they talking about how bad his treat him 😢 He is just 9 years old but he understands his father not loving him, he is so painful and sad OMG 😣 Thank for mother for always understand and beside Jian 😥
Jian is the kid
Don’t worry Jian. JOIN THE DARK SIDE!!! You will always be happy.
Samee
Literally I can't express my feeling I don't know why I am crying really I am happy that his mom understand him. He is such a cute boy . Parents should not differentiate between their children they should love their children equally.
poor Jian couldn't even look up as he was crying. I just feel such an immense feeling of running away and escaping coming from him and that hurts, especially when talking about whether your parent the one who should love you unconditionally, even tolerates you.
Once jian said " I'll be a good boy too" I started bawling my eyes out. I be never cried this hard, this dad need to learn how love his children equally!!
babyy. stephanie sis I was crying from the beginning when the mom came at first and started crying 😭
And the fact that he said the kids these days were manipulative was just insulting. I started crying cause 1) i am a teenager and 2) thats your fucking child. I mean, sure your youngest was born with one kidney but like that doesnt give you the excuse to treat your eldest like a fucking stranger.
And the fact that he said the kids these days were manipulative was just insulting. I started crying cause 1) i am a teenager and 2) thats your fucking child. I mean, sure your youngest was born with one kidney but like that doesnt give you the excuse to treat your eldest like a fucking stranger.
HE'S ALREADY A GOOD BOY! I feel so sad that this kid, at a very young age, thinks that he's not good enough!! Im so frustrated, no child deserve this. I started crying my eyes out when he said that. Its midnight and my eyes are swollen. Seriously, I want to hug that kid and tell him that he's a good kid and he did nothing wrong.
Sameee
Gosh I cried so much towards the end seeing Jian crying, also breaks my heart when he said he trys his best to do things right and to make his father proud but then gets labeled as a "manimpulated and annoying son" by his OWN father, Jian deserve something better than this, he deserves love and attention from his dad.
Yeah, the dad is a piece of shit for sure. Poor Jian deserves much better. Glad the mum is there for him, but it's sad that the dad isn't supportive of him and Seo-an is a horrible little brother.
Same it broke me into pieces towards the end I hope he's actually doing what he promised right now poor jian 😞
same:
SAME
me too
i've watch this five times and i still can't hold my tears when i see jian cry.
The mother said Jian gets an upset stomach when he eats too fast but Jian tried eating faster just so he could gain a compliment from his father and the fact that he thought it was his fault that he didn't gain his father's affection really broke my heart
MY DAD WAITED FOR ME FOR HOURS IN A RESTAURANT JUST FOR ME TO FINISH MY FOOD WHEN I WAS 9 AND THIS STUPID MAN CANT EVEN WAIT FOR 15 MINS FOR JIAN
WTH U HAVE A GOOD DAD
N YEA THIS DICKDAD CAN GO TO HELL
@@clairewilkinson47 he nagged at me at that time also HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA but yeah he is a very good dad 😊
You will grow up as a great man because of your great father, sir
@@nurlydia898 i am 18 and i am a girl. HAHAHAHAHSH but yes, i'll try my best to be as a good and obedient child to my parents :)
@@ren3288 hehe. I am so so sorry sister. 😁
Bless their mother though, she is doing an amazing job
Yup. I'm as worried for Jian's well being as I am for her, too. Imagine thinking you married a great man, and this is the type of person you find out you're "stuck" with, as the father of your children... :(
I am not quite sure,as she seems quite distant with the little one
But she is distant to the second one
It's hard to say as this show is pretty edited, I don't think the father is as distant from the older boy as they make it appear (but we can clearly see that their is an issue) due to the editing we might not be seeing a full picture with the mom.
Got7 Twice i think shes more closer to the first son bc of how the dad treats their youngest. mayb thats why she seems like that idk
I cried seeing the little boy crying. It’s really heartbreaking. All parents should be considerable to their child.
I've seen this video repeatedly so many times but when I see jian cry I can't hold my tears back😭🥺every single time seeing that little boy cry like that just for his own fathers love is just so sad. It's making my heart heavy it's been 2 years since it has been released I hope jian is growing up happily with love❤️
Edit: I'm here again two years later. And it's been 4 years since the video came up and i cried again. Jian must be 13 years old now i hope he grew up with love and care and i hope he is happy and healthy
"Kids are so manipulative these days." I really want to slap the husband for this one line. I know kids can be manipulative but saying that about your son who you tries to gain your affection is really... I'm hoping we will see them again to see if he changed.
Seeing babyJian crying i just want to slappp the father into another universe.
he does realize that the younger son is also a kid- right? even if he isn’t right now and is a baby he will eventually be one and that he himself was once a time one too LMAO
"Manipulative"....FOR WHAT? YOUR LOVE? WTF. If anything his father is the one being manipulative for constantly projecting his jealousy onto the child and pulling away from him. Jian's intentions are pure. His father's intentions are absolute selfish and crap.
Yea I also want to punch him in the face
Well everyone are manipulative to get what they want tho it's just hella natural, it's sad with the fact that the father was thinking like that
The part where they mention how the wife is scared that Jian won’t be talking with his dad as much anymore as he grows older because of this behavior....is so true....because I’m like that...as I grew older...conversations with my parents have gotten lower....it’s because I just gave up on having a full on conversation because of favoritism....I wish I could go and hug Jian
Very true
Sorry that you went through through that.
I feel you.
This is so truee. I came to the point that my heart is a stone. I dont like talking anymore with them. When they try to talk i'll just go with "ahh" then done. They said that i am so peaceful in nature but little they did know that i dont like talking with them because they favored a lot on my siblings. Their financial support is already enough and i dont need their love.
same here!
whenever i watch this i’m always on the verge of tears
Litterally whoever doesn't cry from this video doesn't understand the situation. This made me BAWL over and over again. I hope the father acts like an actual father to Jian and loves both brothers equally