Filipino mother taking care of Korean kids who aren’t biologically her children [Part 1] | K-DOC
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I find it kinda sad that she has worked so hard to assimilate to the korean culture, learning the language, eating the food, etc. but there does not seem to be any effort on her husband and his family to be open and learn her culture so she can feel a bit at home. It's like the expectation is all for her to fully change to fit in to them.
Unfortunately, Philippinos are very prejudiced in Korea because they are seen as a poorer country and the help. It is quite sad, tbh, because Philippino people are some of the most talented, beautiful, kind, fun, funny, hard working people I have ever met. And I am an Albanian living in Canada lol.
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@ thank you for the correction :)
that’s what I thought. I’m a mixed race kid and my mum is southeast asian too but the dynamic is different. my mum only cooks cambodian, thai or chinese food 😂 my dad gets sick of it sometimes bc that’s all he gets and he didn’t grow up on it but he allows her to do southeast asian stuff without question. my mum speaks english to him and sometimes khmer (cambodian) to me. must admit, I’ve lost the ability to speak it but I can at least understand a lot.
but this in general just seems very odd... apparently one kid is actually hers? but when will they learn her language? they are missing out on learning about their own heritage. I bet she will face repercussions and seriously miss her own family. this man gives me the impression that he doesn’t ever go back to the Philippines for a holiday or something at least too.
and just a little extra fact I should let you know, korean and chinese men these days are known to marry girls from SEA because they are “easier”. but dw, they’ll find out the truth one day once their feistiness comes into action. 💀
Yah ur right some korean who married filipina are not interested on philippine culture.. they think they are more superior than south east asian. I dont like to get married east asian people because they dont give a damn about ur culture.
I hope they don't take her for granted.. she's doing a lot
@@dmeforever9496 That’s really weak-minded, foolish and imbecile said of you.
@@dmeforever9496 how a working mother is selling her body? Then how single mother out there going to survive? will you pay for her and her children foods and other necessities? You need to learn the words “selling” and “working” better, please. Plus it’s her talent after all and it might helps her to get overcome her stress (well if she currently going through it)
I agree~~
@@dmeforever9496 omg u are too old and your mind is too cheap🤢
@DMe Forever Yes singing is a talent. You’re fucking weird to think that equates to “selling her body”.
I really hope the husband's family, parents and kids aren't treating her wrongly. I don't like to see her kindness and commitment to family being exploited and taken for granted by them.
Yasssss malaysiaaaaa
Exactly. The girl seems to be spoiled. And I can’t help not to notice how sometimes she just looks sad and unhappy.
same, I hope he didnt marry her just so he has a nanny for his kids and an extra housekeeper and grocery shopper for his mom
he doesn't have any other option.
@@dmeforever9496 Nahhh... Men and women can do whatever they want - husbands can stay home and take care of the kids, while the wives earn the money. It's 2021 for goodness sake!
why do i feel like it’s only the son that genuinely cares about her, the whole family except the son gives me bad vibes
I'VE NEVER RELATED TO ANYONE AS MUCH AS THIS.
Same bro 😭 i mean i almost thought of her as the maid when she said her husband wakes up around 9am while she does all the work for people she's basically unrelated. Smells fishy tbh 🤐
@@mia_3342 i thought that too but benefit of the doubt he looks to be of the generation when the wife is expected to do everything. Its comforting to see the mother in law and husband also doing the beekeeping as its a family business. It would be nice if the family showed some interest in her culture too. Maybe it comes up in the other parts.
that’s how a lot of “moms” or “ajummas” are treated in Korea…
Koreans are like that. They always seem cold.
The son seems like he genuinely appreciates her and I can really feel a strong bond between them. It’s nice to see her treat these kids as if they were her own. It’s not an easy thing to do. I just want to know why they’d make someone with an allergy to bees work around them??
My mum is the same, she Thai yet she did more for my half siblings than their biological mum. My mum even cooked, clean, did their laundry and gave them money
Lütfen bekleyiniz
@@ayhantilki v
Korea is plastic surgery country
@Bang me Chan gago natawa ako sa pangalan mo HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
The words "You married someone means you married the family too" does exist.
For some people, it’s not like that tho…
Marrying someone does not mean becoming the other persons family maid or caretaker.
No I'm married to a man with a 18 years old daughter, and a 15 years old son and I'm in my early 20s I'm 23 years old and sorry but I don't feel like the mother of grown adult woman aged 18 years old who could be my friend and a teen aged 15.
@@anaisanais9461 but do you act as a mother figure towards them?
@@sukiikn no lmao. Why would I act as a mother figure to an adult around my age who could be my friend? We are 5 years apart with the adult one aged 18 so I look at her like I look at an adult lmao we are in the same college. Same for the 15 years old, I don't even talk to him. He is grown enough.
Would a 28 years old have a mother figure with me even if I'm 23? No so same here. They are not children anymore, they are not 3 years old.
She's so good in singing and taking care of the kids even tho it's not her own 😍
even at the point of her own misery!
@@alfawolf7125 yessss
That’s how it is in Asian culture. More than being just a marriage of two people, it’s also a marriage of two families. I’m Asian and I don’t want that stereotypical Asian mother in law but hope for someone who is kind at least
@@elithluxe7568 but Korea is plastic surgery country
@@elithluxe7568 yes!! a marriage of two families:
THE MAN'S FAMILY AND THE WOMAN WITHOUT HER FAMILY..HER FAMILY IS MOSTLY EXCLUDED! in fact brazilians are more closed knit!
5:36 is it just me who noticed that she carried everything while her mother-in-law and husband were walking carefree? The husband only cares about her singing. The husband knew his wife is allergic to bees/pollen, and yet he let her work on the bee farm. I wish all my fellow Filipinos are not treated like this.
i got a bit annoyed with this ep ngl
@@k-doc467 Thank you for understanding my sentiment. I have nothing against Koreans. I just hope that my countrymen are treated properly by other foreigners, not just Koreans. Some foreigners see Filipinos as low-class workers, maids, etc. We are very understanding and kind people. Foreigners like Filipina wives because they are very caring and compassionate. Please, do not abuse our kindness.
I felt bad too the Korean inlaws are a real problem in this case the husband too
I see it too. ☹️
yea that got me mad too. this queen needs to be treated better
I hate this part of me thinking that she's been treated like a maid or what. I hope that I'm wrong :(((
That's what i'm thinking too
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The only difference is, she is not paid.
My grandma used to treat me like this as well...like maybe until I was 8. Im filipino btw. Im not spoiled and I never took advantage of my mama(I love her sm) But my situation was different so uhm idk....
There was no part in this 10min video where she got treated like a maid. It was just a typical life of mom.
But young women from Philippines and Vietnam do get imported to countryside Korean men for marriage.
Most step mom's aren't like that,she sets a bar for all the good step mother,she seems like a nice person too
A mother who is doing job as singer is not good mother at all, that's selling her body off, even step mother is less than honorable
@@dmeforever9496 whaaat hahahahahahaha so all musician women with kids are bad mothers hahahahaha your so useless
@@dmeforever9496 What goes around comes around. One fine day, you may feel a touch of experience of the step mother/step father, or else you will become the one like them.
On that day, I hope you won't feel the bad comment like you does.
@@dmeforever9496 wow, what a asinine comment.
@@dmeforever9496 Oh c'mon shut up
I am just so impressed how she is speaking their language so fluently as if she grew up with it.
Prolly bcoz she's a Filipino and they are known for their flexible tongue
@@dyme917 I'm a Filipino and must be a dumb one 😂 bc I took 3 yrs of Spanish and still can't speak it fluently 😂😂
@@dyme917 Ohh, maybe. Haha. I grew up in one of the Province in the Philippines and I was thought 6 languages/dialects when I was a kid. Hiligaynon as my mother tongue, Cebuano because of my dad, Spanish because of my grandmother, Cantonese because my mom works overseas since I was a kid (so she wants me to adjust before I visit her), Tagalog and English is mandatory in school. I thought this was normal before because it seems normal. We were thought to always learn so we can communicate with others better and make them feel at ease.
Filipinos quickly learns languages. There are vlogs here of Filipino marrried to Japanese and Europeans also speak their languages fluently.
@@mermaidkm7910 I moved to the US when I was 13 and I don't speak English with a thick accent like my mom does. But she never stopped speaking Bisaya around me. So I'm still fluent in Bisaya and Tagalog. Although my cousins who live in Zamboanga can speak Spanish fluently. But I think they call the dialect Chabakano, but correct me if I'm wrong. I wish I knew more than two though.
She’s allergic to pollen but they make her work at a bee farm?
They’re taking advantage on her, I guess 🙁
i kinda assumed she wanted to help out of her own will
@@walwal6449 i agree with you. She seems like the type that loves to keep busy and probably insits on just helping out too. Plus pollen allergy is just hayfever nothing some anti-histamine tablets cant fix
@@walwal6449 she wants to please.
Filipina wives tend to please their husbands through submission.
@@sssgee6266 she just can't complain because she needs to get along with her in-laws.
One of the reasons why I didn’t wanna marry a Korean guy is because of this situation. Most of them are still living with their parents together and it’s not my cup of tea. And the oppas you watch in kdramas don’t exist in real life. Well I guess there’s an exception.Her husband doesn’t really care about her at all except her talent in singing. I had Korean boyfriends and they are far different from those kdrama. Most of my boyfriends mom when they hear about the Philippines, they immediately think it’s a very poor country.
Well, you shouldn’t only look to marry or date somebody just because they’re Korean. That’s mad weird
@@usernhdefjhruhu12 I agree. Filipinos are crazy about Koreans that sometimes they ignore the attitude and character. They thought that Koreans are just like in the drama or BTS.😅 I won’t deny that I had the same outlook before but thank goodness I’m change.
& as if there are no poor people in Korea?! Korea was once a very very poor country too while the Philippines was in it's glorious days. Oh well,..what do they know much when they haven't even visited & lived in the country.
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Girl bless you. I really hope they're treating you well. It's not easy to raise kids let alone someone else's kids.
@@dmeforever9496 stop copying and pasting the same comment dumbass.
Unfortunately it's fairly common for Korean men to marry Filipino women and treat them like servants. A lot of Koreans look down on Filipinos, and feel like they should be "grateful" that they take them out of poverty to live a better life in Korea. My husband is Korean and I'm American, but I know of many Filipinas who aren't treated well.
:( that’s terrible. Here in the Philippines we love anything Korean because of the Kpop and Kdrama phenomenon.
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@@kokocute123 don't get too obsessed with anything
@@dmeforever9496 wtf...shut it.
@@dmeforever9496 WOW 😒. What a garbage mindset 🤢🤮
Maybe the first wife left that family because she can't handle her situation with them anymore..Tell her husband he should treat her nice.
Not nice to assume. Maybe she passed away? Kinda disrespectful if she did and you say that comment.
@@bpxl53yewz29 They’re asking the real questions. Cause I would also like to know if the ex left bc they were treating the ex wife like a maid.
@@mikuforlife1929 I saw no evidence of bad treatment by the family or husband. The mother-in- law does all the cooking and is teaching her how to cook too. Husband supports her pursuit of becoming a famous singer in Korea. So disrespectful to accuse them of something not there. No one questioning her reasons for coming to Korea??
@@bpxl53yewz29 she went there as a singer
you can only assume and dont keep that in your head for a long time...your little 🧠 might explode...making gossip makes you immature for the rest of your fucking sad life.
So she basically married that dude to become a maid & take care of the whole family.. welp I’d rather be single & earn my own money & have freedom
Yeah looks like that. But she's happy thats all what matters. One day she'll reap what she has sown.
@@bumblebee3435 yeah i do hope that she's happy with her life tho
The family is treating her like a maid. It hurts to see my fellow filipino people being treated like this.
Doing everything for "her" family is it really means to be maid to her family. she is happy to be with her family... If anyone who have the mindset of doing chores in the family = servant in the family. Then no parents should raise their children as family
the husband could have spared his wife from helping out in beekeeping considering she is allergic to it.. he knows that she is allergic to pollen yet makes her help out with keeping the bees? he could have let her stay in the house since she also does help with the house chores and takes care of his kids.. so terrible..
INDEED
Maybe she takes meds which make it not so bad.
it's a family business and they don't have a helper. If you're in her position would you want your old mother in law do that thing? NO. what kind of person would want to do that. Even though you can see the mother in law helping she can't do that all day with her old bones.
She works like a horse if this is her daily routine irl. But that’s the trade off of being married and have 2 kids to take care off.
Abuse
omg the daughter is old to physically do everything her yet the mom must even put on shoe for her. she will grow up entitled
We only see short video clips from their life, you don’t know if she doesn’t do anything at all. My own mother liked taking care of me and my sibling a lot up until 12 years old, and yet we both grew up to be able to do stuff on our own and not complain much. Unless you see the daughter being disrespectful and whining for stuff, don’t judge that she’ll turn out bad just cause her mom wants to do more for her than other normal kids.
Not really entitled but maybe could lack life skills but you gotta give them leeway because the step-parent is probably trying to establish a relationship with the kids and it happened when they are not babies anymore. We can't judge them with this vid alone. But it's best if the kids can do tasks at home for their own brain development.
@@cottagemouse4873 She’s older than 5
Most koreans are
Mostly entitled kids are the one that never been taken care of ,because they spoiled them with just money and shopping
She's so pretty, hardworking and talented. I really hope she's not being mistreated coz she's too precious!
There’s a saying that goes like this “Never gives a mic to a Filipino” I’m not a Filipino and I agree
weh pinoy ka e 😂
don't generalize
well, in my case, don't give me a mic or else it will rain so hard 😅
@@DianneDuallo Hahaha savage 😂
@@DianneDuallo gurl santos is not only a filipino surname spanish has also have santos surname.
She’s been treated as a house maid, not a wife nor a “mother” not really part of the Family except for the little boy. She worked so hard to fit in the korean culture. Sad
Mmmm, i dont think she looks like a maid or is treated like one. I thinks they treat her like any other daughter in law or step mother. But the family seem to really enjoy her company, and she seem to enjoy being around them and living her life with them, so I dont think we should judge solely based on this small clip of their lives. I hope she can achieve her dreams, and they live happy lives.
Bro she COMPLETELY looks like a maid for them
@@milk.8184 Where's the evidence? She doesn't cook. The mother-in-law does. She didn't even make breakfast for the kids. She gave them rice and kimchee. Really?? So she helps her husband collect the honey. What's wrong with that?
@@milk.8184 I mean to be fair woman in SK are generally expected to be the mom, mind the kids & house/husband. It’s not right but that’s how they treat woman. Don’t let idols or kdramas fool you into thinking otherwise.
She is a good wife. Wishing her lots of happiness.
@@dmeforever9496 shes not their mother. She is a step mom. And she does not sell her body, so why say that?
Why is she doing all these stuffs. Those kids can't put shoes on by themselves? It's like she is being treated as a carer than a mom or a wife?
I feel like the in-laws are so unfair, like they only like her to learn the culture and speak Korean, but they don't like to learn a the girl's culture.
Sigh that’s how it is in asian countries even if the wife is also asian but from a different country
They are too old already so why they need to bother i have inlaws who cant speak english but im fine because they are too old to learn ..
@@CindysBisvlog But the husband didn't bother to learn tagalog. Even the husband's in-laws are Filipino, and his in-laws are old as well.
They live in Korea
@@slee2695 The husband's family want her to go to Korea bcos they dont want to learn the girl's culture. They just want the girl to learn about their culture.
Why is she working around pollen if highly allergic wtf??
Seems she's unable to speak up on that she's too kind
From this alone seems they don't really care about her
I understand why y'all saying like a maid now
99% of Filipinos are good singers, I’m proud to say I belong with the 1%
I think the husband comes across a bit arrogant actually. The wife does alot for him and his family. He clearly earns a comfortable living judging by their home and business- that surely he could afford to fly his family to the Philippines for holiday and show the kids where the step mom comes from.
I didn't like it when the mother in law said she should learn more Korean culture. Can't they make an effort to learns hers?
Maybe because they think our own culture is trash 😅
Typical Korean behavior, learn their culture and language and sacrifice yourself for them and get nothing back, not surprised
Why are Filipinas so good at singing?
Filipinos are just talented musically it's not fair 😩
that's subjective
most of them but im part of the 0.1% who doesn't sings that well 😭
The secret: karaoke 🎤 😉 All occasion in the Philippines have karaoke 👍🏻
We sing Adele, Whitney Houston songs in the morning 🌄 just pure talent 😊
She is as cute as a button, such an adorable mother.
She's beautiful, kindhearted, and incredibly talented. I hope the husband treats her right because he'd likely be powerless without her
Filipinos are so adaptable. They can adjust well to living anywhere and even learn the language quickly
So true. Lots of Filipino nationals live and work in my country. Very hard work people.
Yeah they work rlly hard
They’re very admirable
more like assimilate.
Yeah, it's true♡
I love when the boy wrote a letter to you. He said, you love and took care of him Even he was not your biological mother. --- THAT'S THE STORY OF YOUR LIFE IN KOREA. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK.
It must be hard for her to live with her in laws because they are koreans and she's not a korean...
We Filipinos are used to love with our extended families so I think it's not that hard for her.
@@aldensola4908 yeah we take care of our extended families too but the korean and filipino culture is very different from each other and the language is also different so it is way harder to live with korean in laws if you're not a korean
@@aldensola4908 People say that all the time but when they themselves have to live in a far away country they have a hard time adjusting. Facts is it is normal to feel frustrated when going through culture shock. Filipinos who have to go through that, don’t deny it please. Denial just brings more pain , you have to share to your family what you truly feel
I've watched her sing in a Korean Show.
She got a nice vocal tonality in her.
Idk if it's just culture difference, but do kids at that age in korean still babysit by their mother? because as far as I know. When I was the same age as them. My mom already thought me on washing the dishes, cleaning our house and preparing my uniform by myself.
Well I’m Filipino , and since I was born I was spoiled till the first year of middle school. And honestly even now I’m a bit spoiled because my parents aren’t making me do any house chores or such and when I was a kid there was always someone who clothed,washed and fed me .
And my parents knows that because they actually wanted me to enjoy my childhood because they never had one .
I know ! I think by 10 I was already doing some chores, like my own bed, cleaning my space, like my room, washing my dishes without having my mom behind me.
They must be lazy, spoiled kids or something?
She spoon feeds that girl? When I was that age, it would've humiliated me to the point of death.
I think its a cultural thing 😆😊 even to to this day (in my mid twenties) my mom offers to spoon feed me or wants to make sure i eat, offering me bites of her food when i visit home because of motherly affection! Asians hardly verbalize love, but it shows in our actions ☺️
Why it is that like every single Filipino is good at singing?
seeing your comment makes me think twice about being a filipino #pressured
Because of their National Anthem.
@@zing6704 national anthem is high note especially at the end
Exactly! I used to work in a hotel with a lot of Filipinos there and I asked them the same question hahaha they said they have this tradition of getting together with the family and they pass on the mic and sing during their get together. So this might have something to do with their vocal.
But they really have great vocal.
Because every Filipinos have karaoke machines in their homes
Demn she's like a maid. She should return to phi to take care of her own kids
taking care of the kids before going to school is usually normal in the Philippines, so I'm more shocked that they're amazed at what she's doing.
True .are you a filipina ??
Unless your already a teen on old enough to do it yourself
Bro that’s normal in all cultures expect for dead beat parents
Yes it’s normal, my mom did the same til i was in high school since i went to college away from home. My niece in college(online/home school) now, still my mom prepares all
Yeah it's normal but it's not her biological kids btw. Maybe they're amazed by how she takes care of the kids even they're not her own.
She sings better than most idols
Maybe your faves.
Oohh no kboos will attack you they cant accept that most of their idols arent singer w/o the help of mighty auto tune😂
I agree
Naahhh she’s just Filipino
@@mekilaolandesca8119 She's just filipino but accept the fact that she really did sing well if you would compare to any KPOP idols out there.
it’s not about biological mother or not but if you love and care for the child that’s all that matter. You’re mother by heart!♥️
After seeing this, i hope the Korean families are treating her better.
Naku ate ginawa kang katulong. Insulto ang reaksyon ng biyanan mo nong may bumati sa iyo.Hindi man lang niya sinuportahan ang pagbati para sa iyo.Naka libre sila ng katulong. Mahal din kapag kumuha ng katulong. Tsk!
Girl please know your worth and think before committing to somebody. You better need someone that actually think and care for you. Not someone that instantly pass all the responsibility to you. And your husband is not a Gentleman 😕
I appreciate K-DOC for uploading this show. I've been a fan of this show since the beginning and was upset KBS stopped uploading them. LOL I get anxious when I go on other websites. I just don't want a virus. 😂
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Frr
@@k-doc467 i-
I dont like the way they treat her, I feel bad for her
I actually think she's well assimilated in the family. It's a rural area where women are expected to help with the livelihood. The family actually looks supportive of her singing and she can actually fool around with her husband. If she were treated like a 3rd class citizen, i dont think they would have the confidence to show their lives on tv and reveal themselves to the public. Usually filkor marriages dont end well when the man is in the countryside (wrecked expectations, white lies before marriage, nagging in laws, idealistic view of the other half, etc) but they seem to be getting along well
I agree. Also, while Pinays are very gentle and loving and usually avoid making a fuss, you can also learn some lessons, if you push them too far. This woman doesn't look like someone who will be treated badly without speaking up.
Yep the husband takes care of her in his own way and she takes care of the family in her own way. A lot of people are criticizing him but I see that he does care for her. I sense no bad vibes between them. The neighbors at the market there also adore her and everyone looks proud to have her. They have good relations
@@TheTruthHurts6666lol y’all are beyond delusional. Would you like husband like him ? Go and marry them, there are many
@@TheTruthHurts6666how does he take care of her in his own way ? By paying her ? Well ya she is treated like maid.
@@TheTruthHurts6666let me ask you, if you loved and respected someone, and you are living with them, would you try to learn their language and culture ? How come he doesn’t do that ? Even simple conversation in her language he doesn’t know. He doesn’t care for her culture. His way of taking care of her is just making payment bc he sees her as an object he bought.
Korean families can be really egoist sometimes. I feel bad for this hard working mom.
Guys, she's typical korean or can we say asian house wife. Generally this is what happen to asian women when they get married. They become more of a maid than a wife in the family. Our patriarchy culture is still that strong. We still fail to treat women as an equal partner that run the family. They still the one that must do the house chores and adapt regardless of their cultural background.
Not all asian countries are like this. In PH the husband and all the children help with the chores. Not just the mom.
that's not true in the Philippines tho, dad & mom are equal here
As an Indian, I can agree. I dont know if we can generalise it to all asian countries. But in India, Yes
7:27 go off queen XD man I love the editor
as she should 😌💅🏻
Period 🙌💯
@@k-doc467 😂😂😂😂❤️
😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
the husband treats her like a maid i hope he at least has a job...
I've read nightmare stories about Filipino women who marry South Korean men. One of them pimped his wife because the medical bills for the birth of their child were too high.
Oh that is so horrible!
Where did you read them?
That girl is way too old for the mom to be feeding her, doing her hair, putting on her shoes ???
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Akala kung saan hahahaha
Hello from Mexico,
Pampanga! Hahaha! (Joke lang, im not from mexico, pamp.) ;)
greetings from seoul 🙋🏻♀️
Were from Philippines to all people who where confused what were saying hahahaha
@@k-doc467 😆😆😆
Did u get the joke? 😮
She looks a bit like Rose from 90 days Fiance 🌹👀
I see it too
Haha yeah . 1st glance she looks like rose. 🤣
I saw it too hahaha even some of her reactions are similar, but maybe it's a typical filipino thing ??
@@HarunaMaurer It is
They got a maid for free. lmao
maybe its because i was skipping around a bit, but i dont see the family taking advantage of her tho? they seem very caring and supportive of her. Its like she is the kids true mom and theyre just nonchalant about it. just normal bratty kids who are spoiled by their mom a bit
Right sameeee I’m like waiting for it
Maybe you are desensitized to subtle forms of mistreatment here. 😊 I understand if this maybe the norm in your country or family, so maybe for you, this is nothing.
It’s victim mentality
@@Fartsquad_ victim mentality? Can you explain what you think the concept of "victim mentality" is. It's out of context here. Let me guess, you failed Logic 101 in college?
@@aced6370 bruh I’m being forreal that I skipped around, just point out a few and I can look over???no need to be so passive aggressive and rude man jeez. someone else pointed out that she was carrying the groceries and the husband was rude for not carrying it and I def agree with that.
I don’t like how her husband treats her. His vibes is just not it
Im a filipina, i would never married for less, it should be equal. Somehow i feel that she is like a maid or a nanny, but since she choose it then its her choice.
Ung ngpunta k nang Korea pra maging katulong nang pamilya nang asawa mo. 😅. Better Dito nlng sa pinas may sahod kapa.
Those kids can feed themselves. Wtf? They’re using her. I feel bad as a Korean.
She’s so beautiful and hardworking. I hope her family understands how amazing and how much of a blessing she is.
This documentary shows how a pinay/filipino woman adapts very well however what situation she may be. The family adored her., And this is encouraging that even so we have different nationalities etc. we can be FAMILY. ❤️ much love for my fellow pinay! 💞
“she’s better than beyonce” uh lets calm down now 😭
She look depressed.
Mother love not come from only giving birth. There is Lord Krishna story in India... Who born from quern womb and raised by a normal family mother yashoda.. And there mother and child love is more beautiful then anything
The westerners in the comments saying there’s abuse or they’re nervous the koreans will mistreat her give me very “woke savior complex” vibes as what they’re essentially saying is “koreans are abusive to other asians and only see dils as slaves” when that’s not the dynamic going on here. First off, the mother-in-law cooks instead of leaving all the cooking of unfamiliar foods to the dil, second the husband gets her medicine ready so he’s clearly not emotionally detached. The father in law praises her singing and instead of pressuring her for success he tells her it’s ok to not get first place, she’s still a good singer. She complains, she fools around, she smacks her husbands head with a beecatching net for fun. It’s about perspective. Looking at it from a good perspective makes the family seem very supportive despite her “unconventional” job choice of a singer and housewife, but tinted-glasses and a “we in the west are so much better” mentality only focuses on the things the family can improve on. It’s so annoying to me, especially because if you see the other parts you can tell the husband and children are her biggest fans and supporters. It’s good that we all want her to succeed, pursue her dreams, and be safe and happy, but why is it always tinted by the argument that the “koreans are treating her like a maid” when it just looks like she’s willingly integrating herself as family by helping them just like they help her?
The west thinks the earth revolves around their ideologies lol. Asians have a different way of showing affection and isn't often openly displayed. They be judging everyone when their country is a mess and filled with all the problems that they point out in other countries. The kind of people who never clean their own yard but have time to complain about their neighbor's yard 😂
Many are literally filipinos that are hoping that it’s not abuse. There’s a known fact that many (not all) East Asians looking down on South Asians. So no, not really just random westerners with a savior complex but more of many SEA being concern because we know what goes on behind closed doors in Asia.
@@kookiealienonearth3144 I agree!
I think there are many FILIPINOS who are CONCERN because being Filipino myself, I know that there are many cases where East Asians look down on SEA. So no, it is not just Westerners but also Southeast Asians.
uhm, i work with a nice korean lady who actually said some of her people, including her own sister, do think of filipinos as maids. Not generalizing all koreans, and this is only a small part of this reality show subject’s life, but reading the content creator comment that he’s uncomfortable with this episode, the whole “woke savior complex” thing probably has more basis here than we’d like to admit.
From the outside looking in, it seems like she’s being used
She's so prettyyy! I hope they're treating her right and not taking her for granted..
Is it Philippine's water have something miracle related music 🎶 why they are so talented in singing
They seem like taking her for granted just my feelings or is it just me?
Same… It feels like the husband is putting the responsibility of his kids on her and she feels more of a miss who takes care of everyone. She deserves so much more. Her kids don’t seem even grateful for her especially the girl she seems immature
Raising step kids isn't a big deal in most places, but since Korean society places an emphesis on blood relations, non-biological children being raised by someone else is rare. It's sad. A family isnt based on love, but love. This lady seems genuine. I hope she gets respect.
I find it sad that people are so quick to judge someone else's relationship, with no knowledge of that relationship. This relationship might not fit your "ideal" relationship, but the keyword here is Your. They seem perfectly happy. The husband is supportive of the wife's dream of becoming a Korean singer.
I feel she is not being treated equally. So does so much for the family. What do they do for her especially the husband. I feel that he is selfish
Why that bald guy told her she might fake her allergy so she doesn't need to work
He was obviously joking. He is an overall nice person- I promise.
@@Naamy19X9 ok
Can see in her eyes , she’s not happy.
Idk i fell that she is like a nanny and a maid than a housewife. But she chooses that kind of life. So it's her life and choices 🤔🙂
Ang spoiled brat ng mga anak ung mga ganyang edad dito sa pilipinas kayang na asikasuhin sarili jusmiyo
She feels like a live in maid than a mother. Seriously…
Korean husband is so lucky to have filipina wife, filipino doesnt care if you have child the important to us respect, honest, love and care but sometimes they abuse us for being kind they want to marry us because thats the easy way to have nanny. Well thats my observation. Hoping this family treat her well not see her just a helper.
Not all tho
Bruh they need to learn how to do things themselves.
I can only hope that they have so much respect to her and that she wasn't taken for granted. That the man did not marry her just to be the yayas of his offsprings.
Second episode is better. Shows how much the husband supports her and her singing career
What a happy family! Love doesn't have a colour or origins 🥰
Unpaid maid named wife
I love the subtitle *go off queen* while she was singing 😂 even the translator is rooting for her.
I would like to see them what are they doing behind the camera.
i feel so bad because for filipinas at times, being the mom is what’s expected of them. however, there seems to be a lack of interest in her culture and where she’s from.. at least once a week i have some sort of filipino dish or every few weeks.. i hope i am wrong and she is embracing her culture behind closed doors :) i can definitely see the filipina side popping out when she sings !!!!
I honestly dont think she is married to that man. I think she is the maid/servent. Something fishy is going on
I see this happen often with men having Filipina girlfriends/wives when they are only with her for being subservient or to "control". Overall I noticed that it it's common with guys(honestly mostly white guys) who have asian girlfriends/wives. Like they need someone to do housework for them or maids.
nah it's not about race they do same with Korean women too. That region is known to love "traditional housewives" 🤮 and that is why young Korean girls and guys refuse to marry or go to suburban/farmland regions. But unfortunately, people from other countries dont know so...it's sad
People treat you how you allow them. Filipino worship white skin so it's an exchange of users
For all you know Filipinos are just simple people and they just want to be a big help rather than be the pain in the ass.
7:40 oh wow, her voice would be perfect for jazz too!!
it's my first time seeing a karaoke inside their home in korea because we all know that they have ktv and as i expected it is because of a Filipino culture to have that at home hahah ,every filipino wants to sing .
Philippine women take care of everything and their kids … all mates around the world are philippine… their men are questionable…
Which men are you taking about???
Filipino men are Handsome and great! Filipinos are great and kind hearted people
Im proud of her dispite of her circumstances she shine in her own way.. Good luck Miki on your journey as a singer and in your marriage life ❤️❤️❤️🤩🤩🤩🤩🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭
I am a Filipina, and was even experiencing racism from Korean people not all but most of them. It's so sad on my part because knowing that when they went to our country, they seems special to us. I am more upset knowing the history how Filipinos helped them in a war. And often used us because they knew how kind and sofhearted Filipinas are..
A lot of homes in the philippines have those karaoke machines or those karaoke mics and people just jam!
A lot of men do this back in my country as well where they just marry so the wife can take care of his kids and chores and he can relax. I love kdoc for always pointing out the blunt truth ❤
my mom's friend who has a korean husband and lives in korea was treated poorly by her in-laws. They treated her as if she doesn't know how to use appliances and really thought poorly of her. Until she became an English teacher in korea. Her in-laws and husband didn't want her to have a job and wants her to just stay at home because she's a 'woman'. They didn't want her to earn her own money but she did anyways. And she repeatedly made them see that she's not someone they can push around.. I'm so happy for her. I hope this filipina will get what she deserves and she won't be taken for granted.. ❤️
Looks like a maid than a wife the kids are all grown also doing basic things no wonder why,I hope these family will treat her will