This is the way of biology. Weak men are not meant to mate. Why hypergamy even exists? Half of the story is that only the well of dudes take action. It is quite simple. For long term stuff a manly man has more drive, woman has usually much less. Duh.
Moral of the story, boys.. our work doesn’t stop after we finally succeeded in picking up a girl on the 1 millionth time.. we need to work extra hard in the bed too.. it’s all about the woman, remember that. How you like it and what you want means nothing.. she doesn’t need to work for you
I got to say, you channel by far is the best.....you dont sit and talk a bunch of bullshit for 5 mins, u just get right into it and bammm....your done. nice short videos. I have the attention span of a 2yo.....so your the only one I watch till the end. good job
Mistakes Men Make in the Bedroom 1. You seem uncomfortable 2. you ask if it's OK 3. you don't take the lead 4. you keep it basic & boring 5. you skip the foreplay
@@Lordran__ I wouldnt be even to sleep with anybody cause i would be so stressed about everything cause first time is always scary. Thats why getting in relationship will make the fear go away when you talk about sex and things that you both like.
Relaxing is key. A smile is good. If you're not enjoying then there's kind of no point. I'm old school. My wife took the lead she was sooooo relaxed and LOVED sex. I'm a widower now. I'm very lucky to have met her . My advice was is appreciate your partner more than anything else. It's about being together. Yes don't get your tips from porn or Holly wood films. You'll be overwhelmed. Think of it as some time together . Putting pressure on yourself Is wrong.
Great video with lots of useful tips! If I’m nitpicking here tho I think the second point could’ve been phrased better: I personally think partners should be encouraged to ask each other what they prefer rather than it turn into a huge guessing game. From my experience, it usually makes things run a lot smoother and avoids a lot of potential accidents and misunderstandings. After reviewing that segment a few times, I think you were ultimately trying to get at hesitation being the issue (not the actual asking for preferences aspect of it) which I can definitely agree with. I feel like hesitation or any kind of behavior that shows a lack of confidence by either party can really kill the mood in the bedroom. But that’s just my take on it. Let me know if I’m misinterpreting it and you really did mean something else. Once again, thank you for putting together this video! They keep getting better and better!
Notice how it's on the guy if it's success or failure. Literally what just about everything revolves around with women not having to worry about any level accountability.
He must take control and lead the way, must not ask questions. But must do it perfectly. Basically the guy has to be a mind reader. As Jack Nicholson says in the movie "As good as it gets" when is asked how he portrays women so well in his books. "I think of a man and take away reason and accountability" I think that sums it up pretty well.
1:35 I think that as a male, in the world we're living in, in the west, this goes without saying if men are smart. If I'm sleeping with a girl and she says 'stop' while we're in the act, I have confidence that I'll be able to stop, she would have to ask me, "why did you stop?" For me to continue because I don't like the idea to be in a "me too" case
Nope! Not if you want to bang her. Then you have to do whatever it takes because unless they are submissive like a lot of Asian women. You have a new challenge to deal with.
Funny how only the last one is somewhat a mistake. All 4 of these can and probably will happen with most guys nowadays because we rather go slowly, unsurely and without taking a lead because we don't wanna be sued or accused of rape. I don't think I have to explain how common that thing actually is.
well you can also just accidentally kill the mood by saying the wrong thing, or touching her wrong, etc etc, it doesnt JUST have to be that you might be accused of going too far - and no one sues you for rape. you either go to jail or you dont.
As a viewer of How To Beast too, I can say that Julia is perfect wife material. You can see how much of a supporting wife she is only by taking a look at her links in the description. Girls, this is a role model for you...
Another good point about positions is: the positions that feels the best to her and hits the best spot might not be the one that feels best to you, and vice versa.
Men….Here’s the deal! 💯 1. Develops a skill- set to earn six-figure or higher income 2. Become Visible and verifiable 3. Seek out and find a network of like-minded high-value men 4. Physical optimization and self defense skills!
I’m a woman and and agree with nothing she said, except for the last point or not skipping foreplay. It’s about connection, authenticity, communication, and making sure everyone is getting pleasure. All of those are proxies for “bedroom skills”. Don’t get carried away and forget that she’s 50% of the people in the room (probably, ha) and don’t take ridiculous lists like this too seriously, focus on her pleasure and you’ll get yours 😂
In what world is asking for consent weak? You want us to go to jail? If someone asks you for consent and you feel obligated to reciprocate, that sounds like a “you” problem
@@rife133 The girl of course! She’s saying that the guy shouldn’t ask for consent because it’ll “kill the mood” but communication is very important, if a girl feels obligated to say yes just because you’re already in the bedroom, that’s on her. If she doesn’t want it, she should be an adult, stop being so weak and passive, and say no - assert where she draws the line! If you’re not comfortable talking about sex - if talking about it “kills the mood”, then maybe you’re not ready to have it yet. 🤷🏻♂️
One of my friend took the lead in the bedroom and the next day the woman filed a rape case against him . I also remembered once I approached a girl i liked , she called me a pervert and left , women are just delusional you say something and does just the opposite. I have seen a lot of shitty things and now if you ask me i will say the women should take the first step , she should ask a guy out , pay for the dates and make the first move because it is safer with them . Guys like me will never slap a women in public , never call her pervert , never use date as monthly food expense and neither file a case against her and destroy her life . Things are just easy with men .
Even at 40 i can last at least an hour but the problem is I cant really do my missionary style without my feet being on the floor because my back is so screwed up.
Proverbs 31:10 - "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies." Some of us are not looking for women to date for bedroom activity; we seek true love. We don't want to treat women as sex objects. We just want one good woman to cherish, love, and honor. And all we want in return is to be loved back and never stray.
Women only want it when it's right for them, and they feel like it. Us men want it anytime all the time. Why is us the ones to adjust to the women whims and wants?
Chicks need a list too. For example, lying there like a wooden log. Just because a guy is big and hairy like a bear, that does not mean you gotta pretend you're dead. Another thing - teeth. A big no.
One thing you forget to mention a guy has to have sexual experience the virgin is the one who most likely will be nervous or uncomfortable but it's a hard pill to swallow for some girls they would say it doesn't matter wether he might be a virgin or not but deep down every girl would rather have a guy who's had sex before and ofcource if he's had it many times if you have the experience as a guy in sex how can you still be nervous you won't you'll know what to do and how girls get turned on
What about a lady who is close mind....and doesn't like more positions than missionary and cowgirl...what to do when she doesn't like to much of foreplay...what to do if she is telling you what to do...😂... So nope, you aren't right...every lady is different. 😂
If she's telling you what to do then either she's dominant or you're doing it wrong. On the second point, it can be a bit of a minefield - what works for her one time may not work for her the next, if she's in a different mood and/or at a different point in her menstrual cycle.
Kissing, kissing her on the lips, kissing her on different parts of her body, talking to her, making eye contact, eating her out, fingering her, cuddling. All of that.
It's funny how in relationships it's always the guy who makes mistakes.
welcome to modern day feminism
yeah
This is the way of biology. Weak men are not meant to mate.
Why hypergamy even exists? Half of the story is that only the well of dudes take action. It is quite simple.
For long term stuff a manly man has more drive, woman has usually much less. Duh.
goddd!!! i was just about to comment that 👍
@@aedim3928 welcome to just modern day
Man sounds like it’s ALL one sided. 100% on the guy.
Did you read the title of the video before commenting or are you just slow in the head...
She’s giving advice on how the guy can take the lead in the bedroom.
It's all good... this is just baseline shit. Girls will get aggressive and take the lead once they feel comfortable.
I was thinking the exact same thing... #YouBeWarmAfterTheDinnerAndTheDrinks
Because the man is the leader in the relationship. The woman submits to him. So why are you complaining?
The margin of error is too great at this point. Haven’t dated since 2021, and I don’t even miss it.
I solved all these problems by stopping having sex
😂
😄
I never started to begin with.
@@tigranvartanov9905 not all heroes wear capes
Hey! Congratulations! Sometimes the juice ain't worth the squeeze! Men do all the work, and she gets multiple orgasms. No thank you!
Moral of the story, boys.. our work doesn’t stop after we finally succeeded in picking up a girl on the 1 millionth time.. we need to work extra hard in the bed too.. it’s all about the woman, remember that. How you like it and what you want means nothing.. she doesn’t need to work for you
U did not understand anything she said.
@@USAviation85💯
He exactly understood what she said
@@jenkundovski3832You did not understand what HE said.
@@USAviation85 Doesnt work like that with me unfortunately. You own it if you allow it.
Can’t make any mistakes if you don’t have sex!
Hey dear how are you doin
Mistake number one: picking women with fake enhancements.
I got to say, you channel by far is the best.....you dont sit and talk a bunch of bullshit for 5 mins, u just get right into it and bammm....your done. nice short videos. I have the attention span of a 2yo.....so your the only one I watch till the end. good job
Mistakes Men Make in the Bedroom
1. You seem uncomfortable
2. you ask if it's OK
3. you don't take the lead
4. you keep it basic & boring
5. you skip the foreplay
What's foreplay
As a 16yo virgin who got no bitches, this video is rly good for me😂
@@kurkkumopo2281 yea it is and you'll get one, you just have to be confident
@@kurkkumopo2281 16 is young. I didn’t get laid until I was 34.
@@Lordran__ I wouldnt be even to sleep with anybody cause i would be so stressed about everything cause first time is always scary. Thats why getting in relationship will make the fear go away when you talk about sex and things that you both like.
As Winston would say , "Just have fun out there " 😆
I absolutely love the background music. So calm and soothing as you deliver this important message. Thank you.
Relaxing is key. A smile is good. If you're not enjoying then there's kind of no point. I'm old school. My wife took the lead she was sooooo relaxed and LOVED sex. I'm a widower now. I'm very lucky to have met her
. My advice was is appreciate your partner more than anything else. It's about being together. Yes don't get your tips from porn or Holly wood films. You'll be overwhelmed. Think of it as some time together . Putting pressure on yourself Is wrong.
Don't forget mutual 'catholick' preppy pleasure if you(rub rub) know what I saying..... hello!
I'm sorry for your loss. May God help you in your life, and may He bless her soul.
Great video with lots of useful tips! If I’m nitpicking here tho I think the second point could’ve been phrased better: I personally think partners should be encouraged to ask each other what they prefer rather than it turn into a huge guessing game. From my experience, it usually makes things run a lot smoother and avoids a lot of potential accidents and misunderstandings.
After reviewing that segment a few times, I think you were ultimately trying to get at hesitation being the issue (not the actual asking for preferences aspect of it) which I can definitely agree with. I feel like hesitation or any kind of behavior that shows a lack of confidence by either party can really kill the mood in the bedroom.
But that’s just my take on it. Let me know if I’m misinterpreting it and you really did mean something else. Once again, thank you for putting together this video! They keep getting better and better!
Hey dear how are you doin
Well said man! Fully agree.
So...dont be uncomfortable/ just be relaxed....but at the same time keep all five of these things in mind....got it
Notice how it's on the guy if it's success or failure. Literally what just about everything revolves around with women not having to worry about any level accountability.
Number 2, sometimes it's better to protect yourself if you're a man. At least that first time. You can't blame the guy for not wanting a rape charge.
He must take control and lead the way, must not ask questions. But must do it perfectly. Basically the guy has to be a mind reader.
As Jack Nicholson says in the movie "As good as it gets" when is asked how he portrays women so well in his books.
"I think of a man and take away reason and accountability" I think that sums it up pretty well.
1:35 I think that as a male, in the world we're living in, in the west, this goes without saying if men are smart. If I'm sleeping with a girl and she says 'stop' while we're in the act, I have confidence that I'll be able to stop, she would have to ask me, "why did you stop?" For me to continue because I don't like the idea to be in a "me too" case
I love your videos as you're straight forward and no waisting time
Do woman make mistakes in the bedroom?
NEVER. Not in the bedroom, the relationship, or in life in general. Always on the man... /s
@@bigd3087😂
Nope! Not if you want to bang her. Then you have to do whatever it takes because unless they are submissive like a lot of Asian women. You have a new challenge to deal with.
if a woman makes mistakes, she probably used to be a man. It's impossible for women to make mistakes
They do-when they sleep with you! 😂
Solid advice. Guys, remember to thrust with your hips. Not your back. Work your glute muscles!
Stay single, don't make mistakes💪💪💪
Straight to the A!
Don't even ask about it.
Funny how only the last one is somewhat a mistake.
All 4 of these can and probably will happen with most guys nowadays because we rather go slowly, unsurely and without taking a lead because we don't wanna be sued or accused of rape. I don't think I have to explain how common that thing actually is.
Amen
YES
well you can also just accidentally kill the mood by saying the wrong thing, or touching her wrong, etc etc, it doesnt JUST have to be that you might be accused of going too far - and no one sues you for rape. you either go to jail or you dont.
Also, why must one partner take the lead? Why can’t both put in equal effort?
i might just give up dating (I havent even started yet)
Hey not sure how long you've had your own channel! I'm hooked! Love the advice! God bless!
I love how she says if the girl says no then it means no but what about if the guy says no?
As a viewer of How To Beast too, I can say that Julia is perfect wife material. You can see how much of a supporting wife she is only by taking a look at her links in the description. Girls, this is a role model for you...
When a hot girl is telling you how to do it you will listen :)
Number one, viagra
Number two, viagra
Number tree, don't worry take some viagra
I have abstained from sex for 39 years and counting, I feel great.
💀
Lol
You're coping.
I really doubt that dude
@@simoneades7327 Yes. Voluntary. They dont explicitly ASK me but I know they are THINKING it, and I choose not to proceed every time
Yo this is so toxic. Why is everything on the guy? If a guy isn't comfortable at first but gets comfy slowly what's wrong in that?
shit my anxiety just spiked fuck
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Thanks eyyy....keep em coming
Younger girls said that i need a more experienced women, and older girls said that i need a younger chick to resist me....
Hey dear how are you doin
Thanks for this vid.I needed this advice. Also you are right put all your worries aside and go with the flow :) im going to try this out
Thanks for the heads up 🫡
Amazing advice
Thanks! It might come in handy some day.
Another good point about positions is: the positions that feels the best to her and hits the best spot might not be the one that feels best to you, and vice versa.
Hey dear how are you doin
Foreplay, dirty talk and touching are most important before sex.
The only mistake a man should be worried about in the bedroom --- not hiding his wallet.
That voice change thing you have going on is hilarious😅
She right!!! Learning from her ✨🙏🙏🙏
Uh i make all the mistakes 😂
Hey dear how are you doin
" Haram "- Andrew Tate😂
So I'm still waiting for the part where the fu_cking girl has to do something 🤣🤣🤣
They don't look for it. They could, but they just don't want to.
What about what men want???
made almost all these mistakes my first time a few months ago and i cringe everyday thinking about it.
Atleast u fucked something
Hey julia, love your videos! Try to change the font of the chapters in the video though, I think a modern one could be better! Great video!!!
No doesn’t always mean No.
Men….Here’s the deal! 💯 1. Develops a skill- set to earn six-figure or higher income 2. Become Visible and verifiable 3. Seek out and find a network of like-minded high-value men 4. Physical optimization and self defense skills!
Never an issue after a bottle , just do it , she’ll let ya know if you cross a line😂
I’m a woman and and agree with nothing she said, except for the last point or not skipping foreplay. It’s about connection, authenticity, communication, and making sure everyone is getting pleasure. All of those are proxies for “bedroom skills”. Don’t get carried away and forget that she’s 50% of the people in the room (probably, ha) and don’t take ridiculous lists like this too seriously, focus on her pleasure and you’ll get yours 😂
RED sayd foreplay is not important lol
In what world is asking for consent weak? You want us to go to jail? If someone asks you for consent and you feel obligated to reciprocate, that sounds like a “you” problem
Bro fr?
@@rife133 what I mean is it’s not that hard to say no 😒
@@zanyryan6417 who to say no?
@@rife133 The girl of course! She’s saying that the guy shouldn’t ask for consent because it’ll “kill the mood” but communication is very important, if a girl feels obligated to say yes just because you’re already in the bedroom, that’s on her. If she doesn’t want it, she should be an adult, stop being so weak and passive, and say no - assert where she draws the line! If you’re not comfortable talking about sex - if talking about it “kills the mood”, then maybe you’re not ready to have it yet. 🤷🏻♂️
@@zanyryan6417 that's a girl thing I think
One of my friend took the lead in the bedroom and the next day the woman filed a rape case against him . I also remembered once I approached a girl i liked , she called me a pervert and left , women are just delusional you say something and does just the opposite. I have seen a lot of shitty things and now if you ask me i will say the women should take the first step , she should ask a guy out , pay for the dates and make the first move because it is safer with them . Guys like me will never slap a women in public , never call her pervert , never use date as monthly food expense and neither file a case against her and destroy her life . Things are just easy with men .
Women are tough creatures to keep happy.
thx this really helped me a lot
Even at 40 i can last at least an hour but the problem is I cant really do my missionary style without my feet being on the floor because my back is so screwed up.
Do it sideways
no woman wants it straight for an hour. none. i call bullshit. or you have a rare sexual dysfunction that most guys would hate.
Proverbs 31:10 - "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies." Some of us are not looking for women to date for bedroom activity; we seek true love. We don't want to treat women as sex objects. We just want one good woman to cherish, love, and honor. And all we want in return is to be loved back and never stray.
What about mistakes woman make in the bedroom and in life in general?!
Good thing I never get to the bedroom.
6) Never bite a clithoris.
Clitoris
@@richardpauly1635 him too :)
how about a list of mistakes women make in the bedroom -- they do it too
This video was helpful thank you ❤️🌍🫂
You mean mistakes your boyfriend makes in bedroom lol
I gotta say this is actually a pretty solid video.
Hey dear how are you doin
5 mistakes women make in the bedroom. Pot meet kettle
Well there is ONE way to ask if she likes it and it still works....
When you obviously both know she does and you're just driving that point home ;)
Good tips... 👍
Hey dear how are you doin
Best Girl Ever❤
Great video, too general, Maybe with being more specific can make it better :)
"NUMBER 2 IS WRONG!"
Fake it until you make it
I am midway through my second decade without intimacy. A real quick question for the men here. Which arm is it under again?
Sounds like she doesn’t want the guy to communicate
Women only want it when it's right for them, and they feel like it.
Us men want it anytime all the time.
Why is us the ones to adjust to the women whims and wants?
Chicks need a list too. For example, lying there like a wooden log. Just because a guy is big and hairy like a bear, that does not mean you gotta pretend you're dead. Another thing - teeth. A big no.
One thing you forget to mention a guy has to have sexual experience the virgin is the one who most likely will be nervous or uncomfortable but it's a hard pill to swallow for some girls they would say it doesn't matter wether he might be a virgin or not but deep down every girl would rather have a guy who's had sex before and ofcource if he's had it many times if you have the experience as a guy in sex how can you still be nervous you won't you'll know what to do and how girls get turned on
What is foreplay?
The video was great but I'd like to add something and that's both parties actually take part instead of the guy doing everything
in sweden we have a new law called the consent law and that means you have to talk about it
Name of his channel should be… HowToMarryAWhore
Julia , as a man I have to admit something , that's really touchy subject over here , you are amazing girl , hats off to you...
is this all happens in a bed room ??🤣🤣🤣
What about a lady who is close mind....and doesn't like more positions than missionary and cowgirl...what to do when she doesn't like to much of foreplay...what to do if she is telling you what to do...😂...
So nope, you aren't right...every lady is different. 😂
If she's telling you what to do then either she's dominant or you're doing it wrong. On the second point, it can be a bit of a minefield - what works for her one time may not work for her the next, if she's in a different mood and/or at a different point in her menstrual cycle.
Change her mind
So I just have to avoid every girl and I'm fine. Thanks
Not girls. Women. Especially the ones that are nuts.
Ok so what is good foreplay?
What does the bedroom and ambiance need to look like?
Kissing, kissing her on the lips, kissing her on different parts of her body, talking to her, making eye contact, eating her out, fingering her, cuddling. All of that.
I got a question for you. Do women ever do anything wrong in the bedroom? Is it always a man's fault if something goes wrong?
I can go twice in 10 minutes. That's including the 5 minute break in between.
It’s very odd that women cannot just answer a direct question once in a while.
Finally, the truth 😊
# 4 - 9 words: Yes, no, Harder, softer, faster, slower, that's the spot.
Honestly, I wasn't nervous my first time, and I have dated over 70 women.
Lesson: stay single, women are more complicated than integral calculus.
True Monk life all the way
Why do girls not like asking a question that makes me feel uncomfortable with the whole thing
10 minutes bro what do u think i am a robot