Things High Value Men Do (with women)
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1. Understand the laws of attraction. Be masculine and set boundaries.
2. Not being bitter to women. Take responsibility and become the best man you can be.
3. Understanding what you want. Know your values and what type of woman you're looking for.
4. You come first. Take care of yourself before you take care of others, don't be afraid to be selfish.
If you have to be selfish in a relationship just to maintain them in the worst possible way
You are doing it wrong
And nothing good will come with that 😉
@@andresbgjwmt6973
I’m pretty sure you’re taking being selfish in the most negative definition.
Take care of yourself first, otherwise you won’t be able to take care of others.
I think you glossed over the entire comment. It's a too long, didn't read comment. He's just summarizing the video into one comment, not giving his personal opinion.
Put your oxygen mask on first. This then lets you help others. Same idea as #4. #1 seems like a part of #4, throwing in self-confidence. #3 is awesome - I know so many who have failed at this and it never works out.
Never truer words were ever said! C'mon men standup for yourself. You won't regret it. I didn't.
If she shows up 45 minutes late I will already be gone after 20 minutes.
id still stay there and order my drink and food and flirt with the waitress if shes cute lol
I did that to a girl last Friday want intentional she waited
I’ll still be there but after she arrives will let her know I only had a set amount of time and have to leave now.
@@rubenwong9574re you Kurt Russell? 😂
I will be gone after 1 minete😂
I dated a girl with kids that were brats from hell I told her one day if your kids keep treating you and us this way I'm out. She told me they aren't little robots. Then you become a robot and get onto your kids. It rocked on for 2 weeks and no change so I told her look I asked you to work with your kids you aren't I not going to fight and have your kids tell me how and what to do under our roof once we together for the long haul. So I'm out. Our parenting thoughts didn't line up I honestly didn't want to do that. But I wasn't going allow my happiness to be ruled by a child etc. She told me how selfish I was etc. Might be but I'm not going to allow a third party in our relationship you and me etc. She's been married 2 twice since we broke up 7 years ago
If a women shows up 45 minutes late for our first date. The only way I would still be there is if she text me to let me know she's running late/caught in traffic...etc. There has to be a reason. If she doesn't even show me the courtesy of texting or calling to let me know this, she does not value anyone's time but her own.
On #4 I would add - " Don't treat the woman like she is the prize. High value men know that they are the prize." Always treat women with respect but demand the same from them.
Yeah, There's no need to respect a woman when she won't respect a Man....
#Dont_be_a_simp
#No_more_Toxic_feminism
Give them what they deserve. If you ever see a women is disrespectful then put her in the same place of disrespect....
Dear Guys, Make them taste their own food....
The society has made it harder for both men and women
Hey dear how are you doing?
As a man i dont think most women regardless of their looks are worth the trouble.
Thats why i got my passport and found a soft and feminine woman somewhere else.
eh you look in the wrong place carlos
You want a gold medal or something?
@@user-tg5ck5hh2n I do hope that you didnt find that woman in a bar in Puhket.
The real thai people hate them.
There are real women out there the only tricky part are to find them.
So, you went to Thailand and didn't tell anybody!
@@user-tg5ck5hh2n You paid for her car payments. Confucius say you very nice guy, who soon go broke....
The number one test a man should give a woman he’s interested in is to ask her to do something for him, such as help him clip rose bushes in his grandparent's flower garden -- a 30 minute job from start to finish. Another possibility would be to ask her to read a draft of his history term paper and provide feedback -- a 15 to 30 minute job. Alternatively, ask her to help you pick out a shirt and tie for an upcoming job interview. Basically, don't go on a typical date. As a guy, you just want to know if she's willing to help you do stuff. If she's willing, then that’s a very good sign. You’ll be able to assess how compatible you are when working on a project together. If she doesn't want to assist you, then drop her - no matter how beautiful she is. If a woman doesn't want to help a man with reasonable requests, she likely doesn't really care about him, and he’ll never be happy with her. If you have a good time together, why not stop somewhere close by for a quick bite to eat.
45 minutes late? Um bye bye at the 20 minute mark without a call
Women want respect, whilst standing you up.
The irony isn't lost us on us 😂😂
They want us to respect them, it’s a one-way street. Another they want, they’re entitled to, that’s how they think.
I spend my time working on myself, self-improvement. For me I feel that is key to getting women instead of breaking my back trying to find them.
One time I went out on a blind date with a girl at work. We were talking on the phone as she was a supplier for my Company. We got along so well on the phone, that I asked her out. We met at a restaurant and sat down and began to talk before we ordered. She said, I thought you would be taller. I responded; I thought you would be prettier. We never saw each other again. What a shame, two honest people.
Hey dear how are you doing?
Way to deal with her disrespect. Put her in her place. Quickly.
Hope you did separate checks.
Thats the shallowness in her coming out, she’s going after the 6s, 6 feet tall, 6 figure income, 6 inches below the belt
You were attracted to your voices half not whole
Ya this is exactly what turns me off online dating, at barley 5’4 I can’t really list my height, do I just wait till this happens at the meetup?
This video is funny cause as a high value male, this is exactly what I've been doing with this girl I like. First date, she came up to me with all these needs and wants. I said whoa whoa... I think you're used to guys doing exactly what you want. I'm not that type, I'm a different caliber guy. We work our way up over here. She's totally changed her approach with me since then. Even making me food on our second date!
I play drums myself, so I'm gonna apply the value discourse in finding the right band, also I've been straight edge since four years so I'm not gonna hang out anymore with people who smoke or drink; I respect such activities that I used to engage in myself but right now it feels like I have completely different values from drinkers or potheads, so I think a friend doesn't have to share your values but someone you wanna build a project with, such as a band or a relationship, must share your core values, unless it's gonna end up in the worst ways.
Cool channel though, I appreciate your analytical standpoint on such complex issues.
Not only are you helping men by having this channel but women too! Because masculinity is beautiful and desired by women and nature. When masculinity wins, women will also.
Ultimately everyone wins once our desires/needs are met. A beautiful world & relationship are possible - remember this! By the way you are even more sexy by helping Masculinity.
1. When you cut her off, NEVER go back.
2. Start every relationship with a clean slate.
3. NEVER settle for what you do not like, you will never be totally happy.
4. Honestly be who you are.
5. Only give her 1% more than she gives you, she reaps what she sows.
"I just want a guy to lead me. But not like all the time. Only when I feel... like I want to BE lead"
I really don't care how the girl thinks I am happy in my own skin 😂
Hey dear how are you doin?
Been watching your husbands videos and now I’m watching yours too, you both are really helping me and my thought process and feelings of what’s acceptable and not. So thank you for all the great knowledge and help!
Julia keep posting these videos. They help so much from a male perspective. I’m an OG beast fan. And your perspective is so much different than David and it helps so much
One of the best informational videos I’ve ever seen about modern ways of thinking. 👍
I need a girl with a mindset like yours. You are amazing!
Wow! This is the first video I watched of yours, although been watching How To Beast for a long time. You did a great job in this video!
Great video.
Some very sound and solid Messages.
you are just talking facts, i really admire the effort you put for this video
Who’s waiting around for 45minutes? 🤣
Julia thanks for you wisdom!!! That’s why I’m taking my time!!!
I had plans with a chick and then the day we were supposed to hang out it was silence on her end. I didn’t text or call her I just went about my day. A week later she texts me saying sorry for flaking that she had to “house sit” last min that was her excuse. She still texts me trying to meet up but I just ignore her texts
That is the behaviour of a king.
Well done. If she's super hot, you could always tell her that you'll see her again, but she has to drive over to your place on a weeknight (because she's no longer worthy of a weekend date), and she has to bring over dinner.
These are awesome, Julia. Thanks for sharing.
well spoken and spot on. I’m happily married for over 15 years and just stumbled on this channel and I couldn’t agree with you more .
Good job !
Hey dear how are you doing?
Superb video and great information.
Much appreciated 🙏
Thanks i feel this has really helped me! Hope my new mindset works! tysm!
solid and great advice, men you should take this by heart
I get it. Finally!!
Don’t be nice, but be nice. Got it!
Great advice Julia. Keep up the great work!
Hey dear how are you doing?
There is something I struggle to understand there : how a better dating life is supposed to help get a good relationship ? To me it sounds like "helping people get a better dating life" only encourages them to multiply the dates going from person to person basically making them market products, instead on focusing on what's important : making a good relationship last.
Educational. This is one of the most objective videos I've watched about this.
Good advice. I do appreciate a woman’s perspective.
Thanks Julia for the great spot on video. In today's modern society it has become difficult to date, I've notice that as well as a guy. I am right now working on myself and saving for a car when coming back into the dating world. The Red Pill have some solid things to say but I never wanted to get fall into the category of having to blame women. If I get rejected, I move on.
Hey dear how are you doing?
Really like I you went in to more detail on the beast dating program thinking about applying soon
Wow, this is some intriguing advice. Thanks Julia.
Hey dear how are you doing?
I think this is an excellent channel. This woman gets it.
the voice change threw me off at first... Nice feature and nice video!!
Thank you for the Advice Julia, its great to see a women like yourself helping guys like us who practically don't have a dating life. This is a a great way to find out how I need to re-think how i approach women and re think how I see myself.
Fantastic, I appreciate you. I’m guilty of these
I don’t disagree with this information you share. It’s spot on for some people. The one thing that is being left out is the psychology of people with issues such as PTSD, BPD, Dissociative, Borderline, etc. A lot of guys are in love with a girl who suffers with some of these issues. Sometimes, a man can see past the issues and into her heart and unconditionally falls in love with her. We need a resource for these situations as well. It changes the dynamics quite a bit.
Thank you big sister for the knowledge 🙏
She has some great points.
It’s so hard these days.. thanks for sharing everything
Hey dear how are you doing?
Excellent video!
This is actually pretty good advice.
Thanks for sharing this information have a amazing day ❤
I like how you zoom in and out, flipping clips, makes it more dynamic, I spent minutes just to figure out how many different angles there are. I guessed only 1 camera. If a girl has to be TOLD that she can't be 45min late for a date. . . I don't know, maybe she's ain't the one, gotta move on. 😁
wow, you are speaking so much god damn truth !
Thank you, nice content.
I showed up once on a first date 45 min late LMAO. I was excused since I was new to town and didn’t calculate traffic. It was at a mall too. I asked if she wanted to go window shopping for a first date to get to know each other and have time to talk. Mall dates show each others materialistic interests as well to determine style and personality.
This is valuable because even though I am not totally there yet as a man of value, I know that I'm on the right path. Still, as a man who may be on the right path you can fall so its good for a friendly reminder to keep your shit together and focus on these guidelines
Hey dear how are you doing?
I don't think you will ever feel like "you've arrived". You'll always have work to do, but I think the journey is more important than the destination. Journey on brother.
Yes, it's very important to build your life around seeking approval from others. Good luck with that.
I've politely put women in their places early on regarding their flakey behavior, and it ended up being the last time I saw them because THEY got defensive and labeled me as insensitive or controlling and decided they were no interested in me, lol. Now, not that I'd ever want a future date with someone who acted that way towards me following THEIR rude behavior, but it shows you that not every woman respects you when you lay down your boundaries, even when these boundaries are reasonable and common sensical
@@eugene9852 I agree 100%. My point was politely putting a woman in her place isn't some magical way to improve her respect for you and enhance your relationship.
Well at least you didn't have to waste any further time with low value females by putting boundaries early on
@@davidrivas6412 yep. I just wish I hadn't blown whatever time and money on them I blew before finding out their true nature.
Those who do not respect boundaries will rage quit the game. Great point.
As Mark Manson says, polarize them quickly, so that you don't waste your time. Thanks for sharing your experience.
Very well said👏
A high value woman doesn't have to be actively pursuing a $500k+ yearly salary, have 3 PhDs, can speak 20+ different languages, travelled to over 100+ countries and own her own real estate business empire. She just needs to be feminine, bring a positive and happy no-drama attitude, peace and calmness into the man's life. When it comes to a long term relationship, high value men aren't looking for a competitor/rival (we leave work-related topics behind in the office), or a provider (we can willingly and easily earn our own money and don't expect the women to pay the bill anyway) or someone to argue/gossip with when we get home (there's enough Netflix/reality TV shows for that).
Julia thank you for the advice, and I just want us as men to know that we should never change for the women we love, no matter what
Hey dear how are you doing?
Hey Julia.... New here but I've been watching David for years (as well as the other David, Marni, and the rest of your friends).
Just here to say. you are totally 1000% on point.. What you say works, I know it from experience. Not only Im doing it daily with women at work and around in the malls... I know that's what they love.. and I also notice so many men around me are afraid to do it these days... which is not only sad bit really weird and suspicious.. like someone is twisting society in a devious way.
Please continue doing what you do... because this is really encouraging and helpful. -It even helped me a few years ago when I was a virgin... to literally find a sex slave/gf who ended up living in my apartment for half a year.. Until I became so fed up with sex and intimacy... so much that unfortunately.. now Im no longer even into women, not even into humans.. I just need a rest from life.
The thing is .. now Im almost 38 .. happily "pu*sy-less" for over 3 years now. I do flirt, I do banter with so many women at work and around me. I can notice many of them are giving me lustful looks, checking me up, trying to get my attention after I only talked to them once and ignoring them after that. All because of my unique charisma and my bossy and energetic behavior at work where the majority are low value, unattractive and lazy men from one particular stereotypical nationality that's known for being lazy and their men having high pitched voices and their girlfriend's are bossing them around. So even their girlfriends, who are taken... are checking me out and even cheating on them with other guys from other nationalities... who all look like macho gangsters. (And Im also related to them through my granpa's side so we look similar).
Anyway Im digressing...
My point is.. now that Im much more mature, I know the game. I know how to handle women... I moved from Croatia to Netherlands for work.
I also thought women here will be interesting.... but.... turns out.. I cant really relate with any and Im not attracted to almost any.
since...
Here are mostly: a bit of Dutch, a lot of Arabs and the majority are just Polish everywhere.
So..
#1 Dutch girls almost all of them have fat double chins, dress and behave like bimbos from generic cocktail bars, their English is bad and they are afraid of foreigners
#2 Arab girls just dress like hoes in pantyhose and leather jacket and are bringing home African guys on weekends and they are mostly just simple minded also
#3 And worst of the worst of the absolute worst.... Polish women. THEIR ENGLISH IS ABSOLUTELY ZERO! ..Whatever you ask them they just say "yes yes yes", their humor is ZERO. They dont accept critics or instruction, and if you joke they think of it as harassment.
They all look the same, they are unbelievably lazy at work, constantly blabbering like chickens, constantly complaining, cheap, low value. Way too bossy. They all have same looks with glasses, same face, same lips, same body shape and their language is so irritating to me it literally gets me soft. Id' prefer dating a gypsy any day instead of them. heck Id date even a filthy homeless woman with flies in her hair instead of them. Because their character is just the worst. I never would have believed it until I lived with them and worked with them. Even my extremely inclusive and leftie friend from Croatia found out and shares the same opinion now after she also moved to Netherlands.
The Netherlands is absolutely not what they are showing on TH-cam reviews.. Especially not the southern parts.
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So the only decent, hot and intelligent women I know here... are mostly just Portuguese, Hungarian, Chinese, Greek, Romanian, Latvian, Bulgarian and Croatian ones.. which are super rare to find.
And most of them I know are taken.
But ... lets put women aside for now.... Because my issue is.. even when I find some.. Im not interested.... Even though Im on nofap and I do everything I can to boost me testosterone levels.
Still there are other more important issues that are preventing me from even considering any intimate interactions.
First..
#1) Im struggling with earning more income...(living frugally, dont smoke, dont drink, dont use drugs or sex workers ofc.). But still 450 € per week is not enough to get a car and a decent private apartment...So Im living with roomies and going to work close by with a bike. -Im trying to launch some online stores and side businesses but that's not really possible without a private home first.. which is difficult to find here especially for a good price but Im working on it.
#2) Second... well.. Without a private home, I cant really hope to take chicks home.. can I .. and then I also need to buy a car with the same salary.... Because.. there are clubs here where I can meet decent and like-minded women but they can only be found in some rock bars in far away cities miles away.. when I can only go on weekends with a train.. which is not really viable plan now.
#3) Third and really my main c0ck-block is that.. really ..... what is really happening in my mind.... Im just waiting for death... Since I dont want to grow older than 45. I dont want to look old or feel old or need any help from others or not being able to compete for young women anymore. So far from what I can see... sometimes it still happens that Im getting flirty looks and recently even "verbal slutty invitations" IRL from some girls from my housing.. which Im completely ignoring.. because they go with everyone... And on dating apps Im getting only likes from older women than me... those in the 40-50 yo range. ... Which is not bad... those actually attract me much more. And currently Im talking to like 2 of them .. to see where that is going.
And the second thing beside death that Im waiting.... is....well... some research by scientists who are trying to accomplish natural teeth regrowth. Since Im missing like 2 teeth behind my left and 2 teeth behind my right cheeks. Which fell off during growing up. And I dont want artificial implants, because that would be too expensive, too painful and too time consuming, there are many complications, and I may also need jaw bone grafts first. - If it wasnt for that.. I would definitely have lots of dates by now.
But yeah.... I just cant let my self have those. Because.... people judge subconsciously. And I dont have time for that.
So instead of dating.. what I do is:
1) Searching ways to make money in my free time
2) Searching affordable apartments close to work
3) Searching natural teeth regrowth technology, studies, trials and clinics that can or will be able to do it within a few years
By that time.... my match range will be 60-70 yo women..... but hey... some of them look like 20 from what I've seen! ;)
The fact that you typed this stuff on a youtube comment section like anyone cares says is the reason why you dont have a girl and why you are poor.
Great video!! True!
#5: Do all that without thinking about it because you are generally confident, so get confident. Take good care of the guy in the mirror, because if he is not your best friend, nobody is. Women fall for guys that don't need them, so make her work for you making room for her.
If she wants to be your reason, that shouldn't come too easy.
Good advice, reminds me of Napoleon Hill's advice to get to know the man in the mirror, cause he's the only one who can help you when all shit is breaking loose (my paraphrase from Golden Rules).
Hi, Julia. Great advice. Spot on. I have a question. What are your thoughts on this Passport Bros movement?
It takes years or even decades to become a high value man. Education, career, money, experience in dating and relationships, mistakes, etc.
I agree with a lot of what you say. The problem is most men aren’t high value and even if they are their failure in the past with women gives them little to no confidence. I am pretty good looking and in shape and I have hobbies but still find it hard to get dates. Most of not worth my time either. I love the way that you tap but lost men have almost no options so that’s why they cling on or they go for a girl that doesn’t align with their values because she is pretty. It’s demoralizing even for someone like me who has been single for 2.5 years and forced into celibacy against my will. I love this channel but I’m just not sure what I should do. Sometimes it doesn’t even feel worth it to put effort in because I never have a girl reciprocate my effort.
Also, dating a lot of girls to find the right one costs a lot of $$$$Money. Have you seen the prices at restaurants in 2023? Plus, the tips.
Appreciate the videos and advice Julia, I'm just curious what your advice would be for someone who can find dates with potential high value women, but then loses interest in responding and talking with them because of a busy lifestyle.. dating feels so tiring lately that it kills motivation to want to make the effort. This is after taking a 3 year break from dating to focus on myself, my career and improving my life to bring a woman into.
Hey dear how are you doing?
If you are too busy for a woman , than stay single. Simple.
These lamps are superior
This s brilliant and sincere stuff 🌹
Hey dear how are you doin?
Thanks thats good stuff
“If she shows up 45 minutes late”??? I’m not sure I would still be sitting there waiting. I’d go practice meeting another person during that 45 minutes
Lots of good lessons here
Hard not being bitter, being a lifelong reject virgin at 32. But hey can't blame anyone but yourself.
I'm a very old fashioned guy but I'm only 36 and I've always believed and was taught to put people first to "serve and not be served" sorta thing and I find it very hard to put my self first.
How do i break out of this mindset?
i feel you bro. same problem for me.
45 minutes late if I'm even still sitting there looking like an idiot waiting on her, I'd tell her that is not acceptable. I probably wouldn't wait more than 10-15 minutes past an agreed time. If you can't even show up on time for the first date/drink/coffee then you are telling me right off the bat you don't respect me. It's different if she texts and says "I'm on my way, but I'm stuck in traffic, I'm sorry." That at least shows that she is making an effort and respects you enough to let you know why she is delayed.
Good video.
I'll just treat it like I treat my dog, I've got clear boundaries that I won't put up with and my dog knows it, No biting, No tearing up things, Be loyal, Defend me if necessary and I do all those things as well. Since my dog knows the rules I won't put up with a woman who should be more intelligent than my dog and has less respect for me than my dog.
I don’t comment that often but I have to say you two are so lucky to have found each other you’ve got what I want someone who understands me, I wish you all the best in fife
Hey dear how are you doing?
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Good video
My wife showed up 45 minutes late for our wedding nobody in the brides party had a watch! We have been married 32 years. We have never had an argument and trust me she has set me up to have one. Valuable lesson here, (FF) Forgive and forget! You can pick your wife but not your kids. I Was in 3 long term relationships before marriage. If you argue before you marry nothing in the world is going to fix that trust me. I am the only one of the dozen or so of my lifelong friends marriages who did not get divorced. Wife has totaled three of my cars! I do not care love rises above all things.
My wife was ALWYAS 30 minutes late, so I adjusted accordingly. I would set up dinner reservations for 7:30 pm, but tell her it was 7:00. So I didnt stress when she was 30 minutes late...LOL
You are attractive and seem to be a mature woman.
Thanks for your input. Good to hear confirmation.
You spoke well. It took work to do all of that.
I'm pretty much done with American women. I live abroad 5 months a year and I prefer women overseas better.
Great advice. Hopefully, this will help me with finding a girlfriend.
Wait so are you saying women don't know right from wrong.or how to treat people and they need a big strong man to come along and how did you put them in their place
Here’s the sad sad truth you always have to put women in their place it’s like purgatory it never ends
Solid.
Modern scourge: overthinking romantic relationships.
I don’t you understand how a relationship could be more happy by passing the years
Hey dear how are you doin?
I want a woman that knows what you know because knowing is half the battle. The other half is execution. Gimme more.
Im very interested in your coaching sessions. You're very smart. Could learn alot from you😊 2:24
Good morning. Is there a way to dm? I would appreciate it highly. I have a question. Thank you in advance.
You have a very spiritual nature
Very good 👍
You are awesome
You are great , most of the videos for pua made by girls are lame , but u are really good 👍👍
I'm ur biggest fan
Hey Julia I a have for question about Date safe permit for online dating Can you next about it ?
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