Mentally WEAK Woman 1. Rapid emotional swings - from great faith to great despair 2. Constantly striving for acceptance - she gets hurt when people say negative things 3. She sacrifices her virtue for promises and hope Mentally TOUGH Women 1. Vents sooner - understands the importance of expressing her feelings before she gets broken 2. Speaks less - choosing words wisely. She understands the power of silence 3. Lets go faster - knows when a person has proven not to be viable for the future 4. Choose logic over emotions to make decisions when necessary 5. Vets first - asks questions/interviews a man for the purpose of vetting (assess before committing) 6. Accepts that life is joy and pain - understands the duality of life as an essential part of growth 7. Does not dramatize circumstances - abhors drama queens 8. Only chooses friends that will confront her, correct her and elevate her 9. Never allows her purpose, value or happiness to be defined by outside factors
The sense you make is like you know me personally.. it’s crazy .. your helping a lot of woman upgrade their lives . I enjoy your pragmatic spiritual take on things added with blunt truth and lately also Phychiastrist view points and quotes and references.. it simply doesn’t get better than this !!
I am sitting here crying because after everything I’ve learned I just know I have to walk away from my husband but we have kids . Do you have a video on how to walk away when you have kids . I have to talk to him that’s why it’s so difficult . I’m also pregnant but I cannot take this anymore . I cannot continue in a marriage were I am not loved properly.
I left my marriage when I was pregnant with my seventh child. We had been together for almost ten years. He was emotionally abusive and abandoned us several times. I knew it was me or him. He was ruining my mental and physical health. I did it to save my life and protect my children. I have a TH-cam channel and books that can help you. God bless. Stay strong.❤
Because you chose to even watch the video shows you're stronger than you think. Learning and realizing certain things about yourself is not weak minded 😊
Sometimes, the first person a woman needs to be stronger than is her father. If he doesn't raise her to know her value as a woman, she will spend forever navigating a world filled with men who take advantage of her, until she wises up.
Neither my father or mother raised me to know my worth or love myself…My father molested my sister and I. He also taught me how to use my body for money at the age of 16 years old…My father gave me and my ex best friend money to show him and his friend our bodies naked(I was 16 and she was 15) I’ve had to be in survival mode my whole life. My mother only had fake love for me and I was my worst enemy…I didn’t realize until the last 5-6 years the betrayal I experienced from her, from telling my business to anyone and talking negatively about me behind my back. All I know is God has been with me through it all! The good, the bad and the I’m surprised I’m still alive and Loved me no matter what! Thank you God 🙏🏽💕🙏🏽
@@jennifer_of_all_tradez2223 you can break the generational curse. You are strong and you have God on your side. I'm so sorry that you had to live through that. Praying for you.
I can be a bit shy, but when it comes to addressing important matters, I pray to the Lord for wisdom and guidance on how to navigate the situation before, during, and afterwards. Just last week, I had a conversation with a coworker because there was a situation where she wasn't very kind to me. Though I was nervous, I didn't want things to escalate in a negative direction if it could be avoided. Approaching her privately, I genuinely and politely asked her about what happened that day. She immediately apologized sincerely and reflected on her behavior towards me. It turned out to be a heartwarming conversation, and I'm glad we had it. I chose to extend grace and forgiveness 🙏🏾✝️🌸 I'm not someone who can sit back and dwell on problematic situations. Despite my shyness, I find courage and strength through prayer.
@@fenty4140 Oh, absolutely. When you explore beyond your usual surroundings, you'll have the opportunity to encounter a diverse range of individuals. 😊
But spiritual mental strong people get very tired because most people do not operate at this capacity. But we do have extreme level of contentment that allows us to overcome our spiritual tiredness in being strong. We can refresh ourselves in truth that gives peace.
I am working on being mentally, emotionally, and spiritually tough. I am 68 years old, and I have been beaten down and broken by my family and men through the years. I have made a lot of improvements in my life mentally, emotionally, spiritually, academically, financially, and socially. Healing is a process. I want to be a mentality strong woman. I am mentally strong in some ways. I am going to continue to work towards loving myself and okay with being myself. Thank you for this video!
I’ve been struggling with mental toughness ever since I experienced narcissistic abuse. It really took me out and now I’m trying to get my footing in life again. Thank you for this pastor.
I'm with you Sis! Though I don't know you personally, I understand 😢I'm healing as well after being in that type of toxic relationship. I'll pray for you and you please 🙏 😔 for me. Thank you.
Just realized I'm mentally tough💪🏾. Everything I've been through was to build my strength and prepare me for my destiny. All things work together for my good. 🙌🏾🙏🏾
I use to be a weak minded woman but since I’ve been watching you for the past year you have helped me be much stronger in my thoughts my actions and to learn more about me. I still have a long way to go but I’m strong then I’ve ever been. Thank you RC and Lisa. ❤❤❤. I’ll see you in Atlanta in August.
What a slap in the face!! Thank you for opening my eyes to be a mentally strong woman! Not only for me but for my descendant. May God keep blessing you. RC
Pastor RC Blake’s would you please make a video for us single mothers who are raising boys. I would love steps for raising boys logically and not emotionally. Thank you for all you do!
Bishop you have truly been a blessing for me. I’ve been listening to you for the past ten months during my healing and transformation journey. You’re amazing. Much love to you and Lisa.
I vacillate between the two after being emotionally triggered by a life event, especially if it involves abandonment/rejection. All I can say is that I’m working on it and I’m thankful God cleans my heart and renews by spirit. God bless you all.
Wonderful talk. The physical strength needs to be looked at how it was presented here. Women give birth, give life. That alone is a demonstration of her physical strength.
LORD THANK YOU FOR THIS MAN AND HIS FAMILY!!!! WORDS CAN'T EXPLAIN HOW APPRECIATIVE WE ARE TO HAVE HIM IN OUR LIVES!!! IF I COULD BLESS HIS FAMILY WITH A MILLION DOLLARS I WOULD.... WITHOUT HESITATION ❤❤❤❤ GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS THIS MAN TO BE A BLESSING TO OTHERS!!!!!
Life tried to crush me, but I am still here getting strong by developing my mental strength. Listen to you, Tony Gaskins, Sarah Blakes Roberts, the list goes on, and I have been improving greatly. My environment can not throw me off my circle of developing.
Thank you Bishop Blakes for your ministry I found you years ago and the impact you had on me is tremendous and profound I'm grateful to the Lord Jesus Christ for mental toughness powerful message sending it to a close friend of mine😊🙌🏾
When God reveals those red flags in another person he expects you to take action. Took me 30 years to learn this lesson. 😢 Don't be afraid to walk away!
The best way to grow is in silence. People can not destroy what they do not know about. My energies are different they say what they want, I hear there's no better reaction than no response.
I ❤that we can speak to the Lord anyway 24/7. He will never gossip or betray us. I ❤the gift of discernment esp dealing with people. A lot of women need to go to throne more often than to the phone unless you know the person has your back. Always talk to God. A lot of women do talked too much. Many are nosy and gossip. Many don’t take care of their business but want to be into yours.But there are godly women.
Your tone is a tone that …and I’m speaking from experience, it’s relaxing. It’s a tone that’s it’s comforting. So, it’s a tone that clearly God uses you as a vessel and no matter what’s going on a person can relax and take a load off. Much love to you and yours 🙌🏽 because of you I know how a man is supposed to talk to me. Love is the ultimate power. Not knowledge. But LOVE. God bless you ❤️
I have you posted all over my Facebook page. Women need to be aware of what you sharing in your video. So far i check all the box but i still need growth in areas as well. Thank you for your spiritual guidance, teaching and wisdom. 💪🏿💪🏿
24:57 This is the 2nd time that the person Hannah of the Bible was mentioned by a minister this week. It’s as if God is letting me know all the times He has heard me cry!! Praise Jesus for the confirmation!! 😊 🙏
When he said “ in fact about it she don’t even want a relationship until she is CLEAR in the fact that she owns her happiness, self esteem. She AND the creator determine HER VALUE” spoke Straight to the season I’m in. 🔥🔥🔥❤️🤣😱☀️🎁
Thank you R. C. Blakes. This sums up the major problem I've had in life - i.e. allowing myself to be squeezed by the world into a smaller shape than I really am. I don't naturally conform to what the world wants but always felt it was my own failure. Now, listening to this video, I know differently.
WELCOME FAMILY. 😊 Please LIKE this as you come in today.
Thanks to you and Mrs. Blakes
Glad to be here Mr.Blakes…God bless you and your wife for all that you both do!
Amen 🙏🏿
Thank you
Thank you too you both ❤
Mentally WEAK Woman
1. Rapid emotional swings - from great faith to great despair
2. Constantly striving for acceptance - she gets hurt when people say negative things
3. She sacrifices her virtue for promises and hope
Mentally TOUGH Women
1. Vents sooner - understands the importance of expressing her feelings before she gets broken
2. Speaks less - choosing words wisely. She understands the power of silence
3. Lets go faster - knows when a person has proven not to be viable for the future
4. Choose logic over emotions to make decisions when necessary
5. Vets first - asks questions/interviews a man for the purpose of vetting (assess before committing)
6. Accepts that life is joy and pain - understands the duality of life as an essential part of growth
7. Does not dramatize circumstances - abhors drama queens
8. Only chooses friends that will confront her, correct her and elevate her
9. Never allows her purpose, value or happiness to be defined by outside factors
Thank you
Thank you Queen! 👑🌸🫶🏻
Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much!! 🌸
Thanks so much
The sense you make is like you know me personally.. it’s crazy .. your helping a lot of woman upgrade their lives . I enjoy your pragmatic spiritual take on things added with blunt truth and lately also Phychiastrist view points and quotes and references.. it simply doesn’t get better than this !!
Wow. This is touching. I can feel that there are no empty words used here. Thank you
Pastor RC is our gift. Thank God for his ministry!💕
☝🏾 indeed 🙂↕️
I'm encouraged in knowing that my journey of weak mindness was merely a path needed to be strong in my tough mindness. Thank you!
Facts☮️💟✝️
You are showing us how to become a beautiful MASTERPIECE.
Yes he is
That will be my Motto cry a tear an keep it moving😊
YUPPA🏃🏾♀️
Mine too
Tye Tribette ..... song Only One Night
Mentally tough women are also very "discerning" and have an "excellent" judge of character.
Yes indeed
Amen! 🙏🏽
I think that connects to #8. When you're a good judge of character, you're very particular about who you allow to get close to you.
I let my 7,8 year old daughter's listen to this message
I am sitting here crying because after everything I’ve learned I just know I have to walk away from my husband but we have kids . Do you have a video on how to walk away when you have kids . I have to talk to him that’s why it’s so difficult . I’m also pregnant but I cannot take this anymore . I cannot continue in a marriage were I am not loved properly.
God will give you the strength & encouragement to leave. Blessings to you sis 🙏🏽💜
I left my marriage when I was pregnant with my seventh child. We had been together for almost ten years. He was emotionally abusive and abandoned us several times. I knew it was me or him. He was ruining my mental and physical health. I did it to save my life and protect my children. I have a TH-cam channel and books that can help you. God bless. Stay strong.❤
@@KrystleLaughter That’s what I’m pregnant with right now, baby #7 ❤️
Praying God gives you direction.
@@keiwill2911 I believe it ❤️
I'm embarrassed by my previous mental weakness but will make an effort to be stronger. It's good to be challenged. Thank you Pastor
DIDNT EVEN REALISE I WAS A MENTALLY WEAK WOMAN BUT IM DETERMINED TO WORK ON MYSELF AND BE A BETTER VERSION OF MYSELF😢 THANKS DR BLAKES
❤❤❤ You got this!
@charmetrathomas3860 thanks miss Charm really appreciate that 😘
@@nosisam3217 You are most welcome Queen ♥️.
Amen!! Me Too
Because you chose to even watch the video shows you're stronger than you think. Learning and realizing certain things about yourself is not weak minded 😊
Sometimes, the first person a woman needs to be stronger than is her father. If he doesn't raise her to know her value as a woman, she will spend forever navigating a world filled with men who take advantage of her, until she wises up.
Neither my father or mother raised me to know my worth or love myself…My father molested my sister and I. He also taught me how to use my body for money at the age of 16 years old…My father gave me and my ex best friend money to show him and his friend our bodies naked(I was 16 and she was 15) I’ve had to be in survival mode my whole life. My mother only had fake love for me and I was my worst enemy…I didn’t realize until the last 5-6 years the betrayal I experienced from her, from telling my business to anyone and talking negatively about me behind my back. All I know is God has been with me through it all! The good, the bad and the I’m surprised I’m still alive and Loved me no matter what! Thank you God 🙏🏽💕🙏🏽
@@jennifer_of_all_tradez2223 you can break the generational curse. You are strong and you have God on your side. I'm so sorry that you had to live through that. Praying for you.
Yes, tell me about it
100% TRUTH
I can be a bit shy, but when it comes to addressing important matters, I pray to the Lord for wisdom and guidance on how to navigate the situation before, during, and afterwards. Just last week, I had a conversation with a coworker because there was a situation where she wasn't very kind to me. Though I was nervous, I didn't want things to escalate in a negative direction if it could be avoided.
Approaching her privately, I genuinely and politely asked her about what happened that day. She immediately apologized sincerely and reflected on her behavior towards me. It turned out to be a heartwarming conversation, and I'm glad we had it. I chose to extend grace and forgiveness 🙏🏾✝️🌸
I'm not someone who can sit back and dwell on problematic situations. Despite my shyness, I find courage and strength through prayer.
🙏❤
Is an American Black woman shy? I have yet to see that and I am almost 60 years old.
@@fenty4140 Oh, absolutely. When you explore beyond your usual surroundings, you'll have the opportunity to encounter a diverse range of individuals. 😊
But spiritual mental strong people get very tired because most people do not operate at this capacity. But we do have extreme level of contentment that allows us to overcome our spiritual tiredness in being strong. We can refresh ourselves in truth that gives peace.
Pastor Blake you and Lisa should have a talk show
But there are cons to that though. Look how many couples who did that divorced
@MsLLewis77I agree with you 100 percent
I am working on being mentally, emotionally, and spiritually tough. I am 68 years old, and I have been beaten down and broken by my family and men through the years. I have made a lot of improvements in my life mentally, emotionally, spiritually, academically, financially, and socially. Healing is a process. I want to be a mentality strong woman. I am mentally strong in some ways. I am going to continue to work towards loving myself and okay with being myself. Thank you for this video!
Yes we are strong. I am 69 & truly understand!! You’re not alone. Life is certainly a journey.
That's where it begins god Bless
I’ve been struggling with mental toughness ever since I experienced narcissistic abuse. It really took me out and now I’m trying to get my footing in life again. Thank you for this pastor.
I can relate, but I wouldn’t let him break me.
I'm with you Sis! Though I don't know you personally, I understand 😢I'm healing as well after being in that type of toxic relationship. I'll pray for you and you please 🙏 😔 for me. Thank you.
It'll happen for you, sis. Just keep moving forward ❤
Been there but I promise there is light on the other side with faith.
You’re not the only one struggling. Give yourself grace & patience❤️🙏🏾.
Just realized I'm mentally tough💪🏾. Everything I've been through was to build my strength and prepare me for my destiny. All things work together for my good. 🙌🏾🙏🏾
I use to be a weak minded woman but since I’ve been watching you for the past year you have helped me be much stronger in my thoughts my actions and to learn more about me. I still have a long way to go but I’m strong then I’ve ever been. Thank you RC and Lisa. ❤❤❤. I’ll see you in Atlanta in August.
What a slap in the face!! Thank you for opening my eyes to be a mentally strong woman! Not only for me but for my descendant. May God keep blessing you. RC
Pastor RC Blake’s would you please make a video for us single mothers who are raising boys. I would love steps for raising boys logically and not emotionally. Thank you for all you do!
That would be great
Yes this would be greatly appreciated!
This would be Awesome and it's much needed!
This 🙏🏾
Excellent idea, I'd live that too
So glad I trained my mind. This world is wicked, not all though. You cannot go into ANYTHING weak minded!!
Amen we have to be strong in Faith and Believe we deserve better and the Best..
It did not come to stay. It came to pass🙏✝️💞
And let it make you STRONGER not weaker
I trusted first and verified after. I'm paying the price. I'm in the process of healing and finding myself
Thank you, pastor Blakes.. this message came through at exactly the right moment. I found it most helpful. 🙏🙌
It’s so hard when these principles were not modeled to you rather the opposite was your norm 😢
Negative energies can not flow where there is no current. where your focus flows, your energy goes.
When he said a mentally tough women choose life and let go of things killing her 💜
Bishop you have truly been a blessing for me. I’ve been listening to you for the past ten months during my healing and transformation journey. You’re amazing. Much love to you and Lisa.
I vacillate between the two after being emotionally triggered by a life event, especially if it involves abandonment/rejection. All I can say is that I’m working on it and I’m thankful God cleans my heart and renews by spirit. God bless you all.
Wonderful talk. The physical strength needs to be looked at how it was presented here. Women give birth, give life. That alone is a demonstration of her physical strength.
My life is amazing
LORD THANK YOU FOR THIS MAN AND HIS FAMILY!!!! WORDS CAN'T EXPLAIN HOW APPRECIATIVE WE ARE TO HAVE HIM IN OUR LIVES!!! IF I COULD BLESS HIS FAMILY WITH A MILLION DOLLARS I WOULD.... WITHOUT HESITATION ❤❤❤❤ GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS THIS MAN TO BE A BLESSING TO OTHERS!!!!!
Life tried to crush me, but I am still here getting strong by developing my mental strength. Listen to you, Tony Gaskins, Sarah Blakes Roberts, the list goes on, and I have been improving greatly. My environment can not throw me off my circle of developing.
I would love to go next year. God says the same! I’m going if I go by myself ❤❤❤❤
Thank you Pastor 🙏🏾🤍
Thank you Bishop Blakes for your ministry I found you years ago and the impact you had on me is tremendous and profound I'm grateful to the Lord Jesus Christ for mental toughness powerful message sending it to a close friend of mine😊🙌🏾
I already know, this will be good! God Bless you Bishop
Thank you for this powerful word. We need more lessons like this. Please make a part 2.
SPEAK ON IT PASTOR
Sometimes, a woman overcomes despite depression. You can have depression and still be strong
Mentally tough women are also very "discerning" and have an "excellent" judge of characte
Yes lord
COMMON SENSE is Key 🗝️
Committed to values over feelings
When God reveals those red flags in another person he expects you to take action. Took me 30 years to learn this lesson. 😢 Don't be afraid to walk away!
God only opens doors that are meant for you! 🙏🏼
Thank you teaching
we are going to ask questions not speak too much ...just listen
Good Evening All, Pastor and First Lady Blakes 👑👑🙏🏼⚜️❤
THIS RIGHT HERE BISHOP!!! YOU PREACHING I SO NEEDED THIS...
Goodnight Pastor And Everyone
That is true! I thank God for renewing my mind and toughening me up
The best way to grow is in silence. People can not destroy what they do not know about. My energies are different they say what they want, I hear there's no better reaction than no response.
I love it. Definitely making me do a self check and reflection. I always ask God to show me .. me! God bless you MOG! ❤
Yes I'm going thru this on my job this chic just won't shut up
I know the feeling. This chick is so arrogant and talks so much. She is a wek minded woman. She's all over the place and is an emotional wreck.
RC. ..U are Always a pleasure to listen to your sermons...always enlightening and on point...someday hope to b able to met both u and Lisa.....❤
I just did this too my son today an I have to stand firm thanks for the conformation
You preached a word today. Thank you for this 🤗
Good Evening Bishop and Mrs. Lisa❤
Great content tonight Bishop keep up the great work
Good evening Bishop, First and all the beautiful Queens
Thank you. One of your finest podcasts. Thankvyou.
Preach it RJ!!! (Lou UK)
So Happy I get to hear you Live tonight
Ready for teaching bishop! ❤
A very touching message ❤ Thank you for the revelation.
My life is amazing 🙏🏽💜🕊️
Come on Pastor!
Thanks
Thank you.
I ❤that we can speak to the Lord anyway 24/7. He will never gossip or betray us. I ❤the gift of discernment esp dealing with people.
A lot of women need to go to throne more often than to the phone unless you know the person has your back. Always talk to God. A lot of women do talked too much. Many are nosy and gossip. Many don’t take care of their business but want to be into yours.But there are godly women.
Powerful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You. Are truly a blessing. Thank you.
Thank you Pastor
Love listening to this guy I am critical however our woman need support particularly black women Christian and non-christian alike .
Good evening Pastor RC Blanks
I thank God for you Sir, I thank God for your loved ones, sharing your wisdom and knowledge is a blessing. I am grateful thank you
Hello everyone! 👋🏾👋🏾
I love these talks Pastor Blakes. Thank you for all you do!
Thank you pastor! We appreciate you!!🎉
Your tone is a tone that …and I’m speaking from experience, it’s relaxing. It’s a tone that’s it’s comforting. So, it’s a tone that clearly God uses you as a vessel and no matter what’s going on a person can relax and take a load off. Much love to you and yours 🙌🏽 because of you I know how a man is supposed to talk to me. Love is the ultimate power. Not knowledge. But LOVE. God bless you ❤️
God bless you Sir. You are doing good. I am indeed blessed.
See you at the Top my Brother 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This is very good advice I’ve needed pastor
Many people have been waiting for God to talk with them , sometimes the angels are there for them and they refuse it .
The Angel is Bishop Blakes.
I have you posted all over my Facebook page. Women need to be aware of what you sharing in your video. So far i check all the box but i still need growth in areas as well. Thank you for your spiritual guidance, teaching and wisdom. 💪🏿💪🏿
24:57
This is the 2nd time that the person Hannah of the Bible was mentioned by a minister this week. It’s as if God is letting me know all the times He has heard me cry!! Praise Jesus for the confirmation!! 😊 🙏
Correct Pastor 👌🏽👌🏽
Im so glad I'm not weak anymore 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you RC Blake's this was a powerful message thank you❤❤❤
Preach Bishop
When he said “ in fact about it she don’t even want a relationship until she is CLEAR in the fact that she owns her happiness, self esteem. She AND the creator determine HER VALUE” spoke Straight to the season I’m in. 🔥🔥🔥❤️🤣😱☀️🎁
Thank you R. C. Blakes. This sums up the major problem I've had in life - i.e. allowing myself to be squeezed by the world into a smaller shape than I really am. I don't naturally conform to what the world wants but always felt it was my own failure. Now, listening to this video, I know differently.
Hey Ladies Please try to make it Queenology this year ...
WONDERFUL AWESOME MESSAGE, VERY Greatful ❤ Thank you Pastor and First Lady Blakes, Many Blessings ❤
AMEN , GOD SENT Messagers Blakes ❤❤❤❤
No i am not tired of hearing you talk to us rev blake!
Yassss preach now
Thank you for always delivering the truth pastor.
Thankyou perfect peace is from the lord from within. Thankyou Jesus.
See you at the top!
Please make a short video out of the section approximately -30:50 to -28:50 about raising sons. It needs to go viral to moms and grandmothers !