That is truly confidence! People who absolutely know what they are talking about don't have anything to prove. Just like Jesus when Satan tried to tempt him... come back with facts...not emotions or defensiveness.
@ StepOff1276 I totally understand what you are saying. *I* am a very content, Christian, single woman myself, and am not sure I can be marriage material either. 🤷🏽♀️ I’m supposed to be meeting a Christian Brother in the next two weeks, so we shall see if marriage is what the Lord wants for me…🇨🇦
Karri always brings revelation. I love the fact she summed up what I cannot put in words! There is truly a demonic attack on relationships. My prayer is that Gods divine plan comes forth for our lives !
Dear future wifey podcast is why I got remarried a year ago!!!! I will always support this podcast. It can change the trajectory of one’s life! May God continue to bless this purpose!
Laterrass! This was amazing. Karri was all in the business. She did not lie. ( CUSTOM TAKES LONGER). She said everything I couldn't. We need her on the podcast. Travis is hilarious. Love his vulnerability and honesty. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 This knowledge was awesome.
@BOLD 2 B U Motivational Life Coach Yes! I love her realness. She said everything, everything I prayed to God that my partner understood about me. And prayed that he position and prepare me for our purpose. This is God thing period. So, I took a little meat, and spit out the bones from each panelist( Help meet, or Mate, Character, Integrity, Leadership, Clarity, and Communication, Set the tone and create the space.) I don't believe any woman should dumb herself down. Our Kings should celebrate and see her strengths as a compliment) Cultivate me. What's the vision and then watch me work it.❤️🙏🏼
When Stephan speaks, i feel such a peaceful presence surrounding him and me as i listen. I also Love that He includes God in every point. I love how he keeps God at the center of his answers. Calm, wise, masculine, well-mannered, consice and clear. I really feel God's presense and wisdom in him. God bless you Stephan and thank you for your obedience to God.
This was a great panel discussion. When Pastor Karrianna broke down what she is looking for in a man that was a drop the mic 🎤 moment. She articulated that so well. I loved hearing from the men as well. Communication is everything! Thank you to the entire panel. God Bless❤️
What was so beautiful is that Latteras said he was ending with the woman in green and she and her husband ended up sharing that his podcast saved their marriage. Look at God!!!🙌🏽
@@DearFutureWifey witnessing these confirmations has been mind-blowing for us as well. Thank you for allowing us access to your personal journey! Amen
I just came back to this video because I just saw that Pastor Karri is now engaged to Pastor Jamal Bryant. I remember her speaking these words so I hope that he is all of that and more to her 🙏🏾
I just watched this all the way from Zimbabwe🇿🇼. I decided to surrender everything to God this year and be obedient to God. It was tough because it included letting go of a 5 year relationship which God did not approve of. So watching this, really gave me hope that being obedient to God will not get me what I want but what is best for me. This in turn helps me heal and be a better person not just for my future family but for the community too
I found this out. I married a preacher who didn't have children and was clueless helping me raise the children I brought into the marriage. His harshness was offensive to them and to me. We're still friends but I had to get out of this remainder quickly.
As a 40 something, never married, and without children, I had lost all hope for marriage and companionship, this podcast and this panel has renewed my hope and breathed new life into a dream that I thought was dead. Thank you all for allowing the Holy Spirit to speak through you to the lost and hopeless - to people like me who had felt forgotten. God bless each of you.🙏🏾❤️
I feel the same way. As a 40 something as well, I lost all hope in finding love but this podcast and this episode have been a great reminder that love is still possible.
When she said she wasn’t competing with the mother, the dog, the daughter!! A lot of women feel that way! When does a man want to spend more time with the woman he’s to marry than the family/friends/life he has been so attached to for so many years? It’s like they don’t trust us to leave. They should not feel guilty about spending more time with their future or made to feel they got to spend as equal the amount of time with them to appease everybody. I don’t understand it
I like that. I am still single and not married because I am waiting on what God has crafted and made specially for me! Its Custom made! Thank you Pastor Carrie!
I am in full agreement with you. I am not allowed to help the Lord out at all to find my husband. The Lord knows EXACTLY what he is doing and the Lord doesn't need my help in bring his word to pass in my life! I am not allowed to go on dating sites to meet men. The Lord has someone who is taylor made just for me! Someone who will fit my life like a glove. Someone who I can do life with and someone who will wonderfully fit my future. Someone who will tell me that divorce is not an option in our marriage. Wait upon the Lord and be of a good COURAGE! He will strengthen thy heart! Smile Keshia
THIS LIVE PODCAST WAS EVERYTHING!!!!! DR. KARI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOUR WORDS WERE SO FULL OF TRUTH AND DIRECTNESS!!!!! I ABSOLUTELY APPRECIATE THIS LIVE PODCAST!!!
Stephan Labossiere ALWAYS maintains his composure! He is DEFINITELY husband material so much wisdom and whom ever he chooses to be his wife is going to be one blessed woman!
There is no way one wouldn’t want to get their act together after watching this podcast. It had me reflecting on my life choices and asking myself if am I leaving in my purpose??? The greatest I’ve watched by FAR ❤🙏🏽
When Stephan said that sometimes we interfere with God’s work of a lesson in someone’s life by extending a hand when they NEED to hit their rock bottom- in order to hear God. That’s amazing bcuz I’ve always said this, yet, Ive continued to help my mother despite how ungrateful she can be. From the time I was 19 to present day, I’m 37 - I’ve always tried to be her salvation. Like whenever she comes up with something that she needs to make her happy “if I just had this (insert a car, insert a business plan and investor, insert new furniture, insert a new home), I can be happy,,, and like clockwork- I have gotten it for her, and she is bored of it or does wrong by it and we’re back to square one. A couple weeks ago was the first time I decided to cut off all financial, emotional and every other form of me thinking I’m extending a “salvation” to her…. And it feels good but it’s also an adjustment
Thank you for this! Sorry a late response just now seeing this video. My mom says the same thing. I try and think the same way as you. They have so much built up trauma and if they are not truly wanting to heal and close doors and go to God and therapy they will be forever sad. Thank you for showing me "we" cannot help them
I disagree. Find balance so that you are not in a financially vulnerable position, but NEVER cut off your dear mother who carried you for 9 months, financially or emotionally. As our parents age, they get more difficult to handle and that is what we should adjust to. You are probably receiving blessings from the Creator of the heavens and the earth, the ultimate Provider who is Ash-shakuur (the most grateful). 🌹
Jessie needs to calm down…she’s really hyper and not listening to understand… he mentioned ‘his mother’ taking care of 3 kids and fixing a pipe if needed. She’s doing too much and seems a bit immature for this panel IMO.
This was such an amazing panel talk! Dr. Karri Turner has definitely brought the language I needed to articulate what I desired. Again, it was a pleasure to listen to you all!
Thank you so much !!! I really appreciate the love and support because this journey hasn’t been an easy one. How I knew that God was speaking through Willie is the fact that I actually have been getting up at 2:30 AM. Currently, I’ve been up since that time just talking to God and getting more insight about my future. I thank God for Laterras and all he’s done with this podcast because it really has changed my life 🙌🏽
Hear me when I say that this discussion in its entirety should go viral. There were multiple wisdom nuggets here. I've enjoyed following Stephan and now I've discovered a couple of other coaches with excellent advice as well. Hands down, this was brilliant.
So very grateful to be on this amazing panel, with such incredible people! God’s continued blessings and Favor Latteras! Sorry I was so loud y’all lol, I couldn’t hear myself.
You were loud, but when I say every word was meant to be HEARD! Sis, you needed an offering plate!! Loved every moment...you literally spoke key components of all my desires! Continue to let the Lord use you woman of God!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽 You were such a blessing! Like what my other sister said though...you have to BE what you desire, I preach this all the time! We must practice what we preach! 🙌🏽 This whole panel was dropping gems! 💎 Love you guys! Mad I didn't know about this live event...I would've definitely been there!! Anywho...God Bless 🙏🏽
@@INQUIRINGMINEZ I don’t blame her, but he seems rather arrogant and she needs someone that can be her best friend. Although they were laughing together, he doesn’t strike me as one to be silly.
This is the realest, liveliest, raw, gritty, humorous, anointed panel that I have experienced! The energy on this panel is absolutely incredible!! Thank you so much for this!!!! I have loved every moment of this!!!! WOW!!!!
Jessie is operating in her attention seeking self. 😢 She's trying to steal the attention from the word being delivered 🙄 that the woman had to stand up from being overshadowed. The man sitting next to her body language is telling. I want her to win.
U said a mouthful, we(the black community) need this as much as we need water...and you know how much we need water! Great show, can't wait till the next one.
Dr Karri had me going with what she said, but then she ended up with Jamal BABY DADDY Bryant and I’m confused and disappointed! I hope she’s not settling because it won’t last if she is.
This episode is everything! Being single is exciting. This is so fun. There is a new season for us to engage quality singles as friends before moving into relationships. Accountability helps us surrender to God and one another.
As a former assistant of Dr. Karri,who I STILL call for prayer..is so living her purpose..I am grateful for our paths crossing!! One thing I will always remember is she is a believer in celebration of birthdays..she believes that you celebrate you..such a revelation ❤
Stephan was the best speaker. I liked that he was very thoughtful, composed and articulate on his responses. That did matter a lot in this conversation and said a lot about him. Some speakers were a little much for me.
As a WOG it was a breath of fresh air to hear these men speak about what they need or look for. It reassured me I’m not to much for being that type of woman because there’s men who are looking for the type of WOG I am 🙏🏽
Such a great podcast! Lots of laughs. Christian Keys was showing out! Lol! Also, lots of wisdom. One thing in particular, Stephan kept bringing things back to consulting with God. Sometimes, just because we are saved, we Really think we know what we are doing, and we make decisions based on our own experiences, reasoning , and sometimes pain , and don’t consult God. We have to seek God’s direction every step of the way concerning potential relationships.
@@PhoenixRising82672 How is my comment misandry. I complimented two men that I found impressive so you make no sense. Stephen represents what I feel is maturity and Christian spirit is very nice.
Ok so most of us are on the same page. Stephan is a calm spirit of maturity up there. He listens more than he speaks. He’s not up there to impress. He’s up there for true discussion and edification. 👏🏾👏🏾
I've been following Stephan for a good while and I've read some of his books, and although he is human like the rest of us, he always presents with a "balanced calm" about him. This tells me he is TRULY listening and his response is always in a clear meaningful manner. Jesse can tone it back a few notches...
So all of these people are single? This is what’s wrong with marriage today. All of these relationship/marriage conversations held by single people (some who’ve been single for a long time and will die single) A naked man selling clothes
I need to remind myself to stop trying to eat and drink while watching this podcast. Ginger Ale does not go down easy when you’re laughing. 😂 LOVED IT! Need an encore!
Dr. Karri Turner is a dynamic speaker. This panel was my first & only experience with her and I really like what I heard from her today. She is on fire for the Lord.
This conversation was awesome. I wasn’t going to watch when I saw Jamal Bryant lol but I decided to give it a go because I really thought this would be a great panel and it was! This poured so much life into me and I am so glad I watched. I really feel like it restored my hope a little bit and also showed me I’m on the right track. A lot of what was said here was confirmation of things I have learned and the Lord has shown me. Thanks to everyone who contributed to this conversation ❤
I appreciated the conversations and I have a high level of respect for Stephan; he was the relationship expert on the panel,he listened and gave wisdom in a humble yet provoking and profound way. Willie Moore Jr. was anointed when he prophesied to that young man, and Karri was on fire when she spoke about clarity.
Awesome panel!!! Definitely could've done without Jessie Woo. She was definitely not on the caliber of the other panelist - steady giving, ratchet, thirsty, ghetto and wild. Major distraction 🙄
Laterras you've been hitting some Top Ranked people. I'm excited to watch the growth and seeing how God is raising your bar! Blessings to you my brother! #KeepGoing
I am married, will celebrate 30 years this year, and this episode was so enlightening to me. Really enjoyed the conversations and revelations. Great job 💕
Stephan was my favorite. He gave the most logical and practical advice out of all the guests on the panel. Jessie Woo was doing the most and derailed some of the conversations being so dramatic. I loved that the men pushed back when some of the women were putting blame on men for their personal experiences with men.
Being feminine doesn’t have anything to do with what you do, instead it’s an unspoken inner gift that connects with the right man. It’s a way of carrying yourself. A quiet and gentle spirit based from the strength of the Holy Spirit.
Same here. Same boat. 17 years abstinent and still believing 🙌🏽❤️. Dated but just won’t settle. A lot of the time was me getting closer to God, healing, getting to know me and getting prepared to be the the right one
@Carmen Coulter I COMMEND you for walking in obedience for 17 years - sis you ROCK!!! I trust and believe the Lord will bless you for your obedience. Thanks for sharing!
I’m a South African single woman based in China, for the first time in a long time I feel a sense of dignity as a single soon to be 40 year old. Thanks to all of you for removing the shame and embarrassment that comes with being single especially at my age and affirming that in God’s time we will all find our life partners/spouses.May you all stay blessed and in God’s powerful presence ❤️😘🙏🏽🙌🥰👌
I was confused as to why she was there because everything Christian spoke about not wanting in a woman embodied Jessie. She shows her entire body and is a lukewarm Christian. Kerri is an example of a proverbs 31 woman, but I guesst they wanted to make it interesting
Ditch the list; a man isn’t a representative of his bank account, credit score, income, educational background, height, weight, complexion. 1st you want a god-fearing, praying man, hardworking, is/who/wants to be a great father, faithful, loyal, honest, who’s accountable to God. As a Christian woman, please go to therapy, especially if you’re easily angered, argumentative, rude, takes a long time to forgive, ect. If you’re trying to find a “partner” or a man equal to you, that’s not biblical. You have to submit, meaning getting/helping him to fulfill his dreams/vision/plan. You’re a “helpmate.” many of you women have friend-zoned or rejected your husband because he’s not making 100k, over 6ft, extremely handsome, college degree ect.. those things aren’t biblical requirements for a man. You trust/surrender completely for who God wants you to be with. I’m turning 38, God blessed me with the man of his choice.. he proposed in 16 months, getting married in the fall. And ladies he’s handsome, over 6ft, makes over 100k, God doesn’t disappoint! God is a loving father, he’s not going to put you with garbage.
Happily married and marriage IS NOT suppose to be this hard. It's not roses and cookies all day but it's definitely not this. So much self-centeredness and so many rules from folks who haven't had successful relationships themselves. Furthermore, I was not whole when I married, you never will be because if you're married long enough whatever the "whole" either of you thinks they are changes. Growing and learning together is all apart of the process and can be a beautiful (and yes, sometimes bumpy) road. It's the journey of life IN love that helps make us feel whole because we are BOTH constantly pouring into EACH OTHER - so sad that so many are missing out on this😢 For any others that are in happy, HEALTHY marriages - be grateful and continue to honor your partner and yourselves because despite what social media says, IT IS WORTH IT☮️
This was so encouraging for me. I was beginning to grow weary in my season of singleness but hearing from the men on the stage caused me to reflect on all of the hard work I have done and to remain faithful because they do exist! 🔑discipline 1Peter 3:1-9
Meanwhile some of the women on the panel looked like they dressed for the street...short black shorts...got thighs and boobs out, and old girl with red jumpsuit got her boobs out too. There is so much beauty in modesty...." concealed sexy is still sexy". 1 Timothy 2:9-10
@@fatudaniel7301 right! For those of us who follow her, we get it. I find authenticity in any form thoroughly refreshing, and Jessie showed up fully as her true self. Churchified people know how to put on a socially-acceptable face/mask, so when they meet someone who doesn’t fit the neat, little cookie-cutter image they think everyone should be (aka-they meet a real one in her rare, raw form), it agitates their spirit.
It was a pleasure to be apart of this great event.
Love you Stephan ! Love hearing your knowledge KING❤️
Thank you for your level of authenticity and awareness! From the words of you all it awaken something. That seemed to be on snooze. Thank you all!
Honestly you’re the reason I watched🤭 love your input on these topics💯✨
You have no idea how much attention you commanded in the way you presented yourself.
Blessings. Thanks for keeping things honest as a man.
You can tell Stephan is a HEALED, masculine man.
Yes He Is!!
You know it!!
Yes!!!
Yes he is
But damn, why he single. His DM should be loaded
I love Stephan. I like how he sits quietly and then speaks with wisdom. He always speaks the truth in a healthy well-balanced way!!!
That is truly confidence! People who absolutely know what they are talking about don't have anything to prove. Just like Jesus when Satan tried to tempt him... come back with facts...not emotions or defensiveness.
Totally agree. He carries himself with confidence and secure in who he is as a man and a man of God.
I was thinking the same thing about him.
FACTS! His calmness is confident! So proud of my Haitian brother… words weight heavy and have power
Me too! I saw him on the thumbnail pic and couldn't click fast enough.
I am NOT marriage material. I'm okay with that! More people should admit this truth so you don't bleed on those that didn't cut you. Amen 🙏🏾
Awww.. YOU WILL BE BLESSED FOR BEING TRUTHFUL WITH YOURSELF, FIRST ♥️🤞🏾
Wow. That statement that the viewer above “I am NOT marriage material … “ is … has … a lot going on living in their truth is powerful.
Yes great truth
If only many more of us would own that truth. Powerful statement ❤
@ StepOff1276 I totally understand what you are saying. *I* am a very content, Christian, single woman myself, and am not sure I can be marriage material either. 🤷🏽♀️ I’m supposed to be meeting a Christian Brother in the next two weeks, so we shall see if marriage is what the Lord wants for me…🇨🇦
“We date the same spirit in a different body” … Omgs . Her whole speech was everything !!!
I promise I've always said and been through this. Thank God I got saved and He set me free. Found my person in my 40's
That quote is the honest to God's truth Same Spirit but different costume
That is a FACT!
FACT!!!
I teared up when she said that
That made me nervous
Stephan is all maturity. His contribution is always balanced and well-rounded.
YES....
Too much ignorance in expressions... waiting on God...😢
I agree. I always want to hear him speak more.
Absolutely ❤!
rightt.. He does not have to say too much, a few facts that you will think about for a while.
Karri always brings revelation. I love the fact she summed up what I cannot put in words! There is truly a demonic attack on relationships. My prayer is that Gods divine plan comes forth for our lives !
Yesssss
The Devil plays wicked games.
But I declare it in Jesus name, we shall overcome. ✊🏾
Karri spoke for every single woman in the world from every single intersection!
She sure did
😅😅 no
Yes she spoke volumes ❤ her. The whole panel was great too.
Karri was on point!
She did 😊
Dear future wifey podcast is why I got remarried a year ago!!!! I will always support this podcast. It can change the trajectory of one’s life! May God continue to bless this purpose!
“… it can change the trajectory of one’s life”… WORD!!!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽
Congrats🎉
Laterrass! This was amazing. Karri was all in the business. She did not lie. ( CUSTOM TAKES LONGER). She said everything I couldn't. We need her on the podcast. Travis is hilarious. Love his vulnerability and honesty. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 This knowledge was awesome.
Thank you so much!!
@@DearFutureWifey I am extremely proud of you. You represent Kingdom Ambassadors well.🙏🏼♥️👑
Karri is telling the truth and cracking me up! Loveeee her realness!!!! Ashy and lying!!!
Yesss I love it. ❤❤
@BOLD 2 B U Motivational Life Coach Yes! I love her realness. She said everything, everything I prayed to God that my partner understood about me. And prayed that he position and prepare me for our purpose. This is God thing period. So, I took a little meat, and spit out the bones from each panelist( Help meet, or Mate, Character, Integrity, Leadership, Clarity, and Communication, Set the tone and create the space.) I don't believe any woman should dumb herself down. Our Kings should celebrate and see her strengths as a compliment) Cultivate me. What's the vision and then watch me work it.❤️🙏🏼
Stephen is a calm and refreshing soul, and Kerri was the bomb. Truly inspiring conversation. We need more of these conversations
I definitely see why they were sat next to each other .
*Yes, we do!* 💖💖💖
MY 2 FAVORITES! Been following @StephaSpeaks TH-cam channel for some years now! And @DrKarri is my new FAV LADY 🥰🥰🤞🏾🤞🏾
When Stephan speaks, i feel such a peaceful presence surrounding him and me as i listen. I also Love that He includes God in every point. I love how he keeps God at the center of his answers. Calm, wise, masculine, well-mannered, consice and clear. I really feel God's presense and wisdom in him. God bless you Stephan and thank you for your obedience to God.
This was a great panel discussion. When Pastor Karrianna broke down what she is looking for in a man that was a drop the mic 🎤 moment. She articulated that so well. I loved hearing from the men as well. Communication is everything! Thank you to the entire panel. God Bless❤️
Amen
YASSS, JESUS IS 🔥 IN HER!! YASSSS, I COME IN AGREEMENT WIT HER & HER WRDS OVA MOI & MY LYFE IN JESUS NAME, AMEN!!
Yes, that was awesome!
Yes she shook the table
And Then God answered engaging her to Dr. Jamal Bryant
What was so beautiful is that Latteras said he was ending with the woman in green and she and her husband ended up sharing that his podcast saved their marriage. Look at God!!!🙌🏽
Blew my mind!!!!!
God is so intentional!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
My same thought about Laterras saying they would end with the woman in the green, that was God directing his angels. Wow!!! Gave me chills!
God!
@@DearFutureWifey witnessing these confirmations has been mind-blowing for us as well. Thank you for allowing us access to your personal journey! Amen
"I thrive in Clarity" - Karri on the behalf of the black women's collective lol
baaaaaby listen, she preached a whole sermon!
Yassss!!!
True.. clarity is bae for us women because we have a gift of thorough thinking. If you don't clarify my thinking is misguided.
WOW!!!! This is phenomenal!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
My favorite statement 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I just came back to this video because I just saw that Pastor Karri is now engaged to Pastor Jamal Bryant. I remember her speaking these words so I hope that he is all of that and more to her 🙏🏾
Amen
Amen!!!I pray she does not Settle!!!!!
God masterfully answered BOTH and joined them together. Let no man separate.
With Pastor Jamal I believe she's got the right one for her.
I just watched this all the way from Zimbabwe🇿🇼. I decided to surrender everything to God this year and be obedient to God. It was tough because it included letting go of a 5 year relationship which God did not approve of. So watching this, really gave me hope that being obedient to God will not get me what I want but what is best for me. This in turn helps me heal and be a better person not just for my future family but for the community too
Chokwadi hama yangu... Na Jesu zvinoita.... I enjoyed this podcast... It's one of the best so far.
Also a Zimbabwean just watched it today and felt blessed by the deep word which was shared
It's nice to see fellow countrymates on this insightful podcast
@@anotidamuruma6883 ikr. As a country there's a lot we need to heal from
Stephan is a true man….like how he doesn’t overly talk….he watches
Me too
😂 👀kinda sus tho….
*Lol, he was, wasn't he, lol?*
He's very mature and listens well
YESS.. He Observes & PAY ATTENTION!!!!!!! ✊🏾👏🏾👏🏾
There is such a quiet strength that Stephan exudes in this. It is amazing. I honor and respect the character he is presenting.
This!
I know right!! He's the best one there!!
Stephan is my favourite. He is a Godsend!
Just because a person is a Christian does not mean they are right for you.
I found this out. I married a preacher who didn't have children and was clueless helping me raise the children I brought into the marriage. His harshness was offensive to them and to me. We're still friends but I had to get out of this remainder quickly.
So true!!❤
True I prayed to God what I should have and I was shocked at his answer but it was Muslim and I married a Muslim and I’m very very happy
I think she speaks for all of us when she says we thrive in clarity. That was dope.
💯💯💯💯That was for me!
Yes, that reminder: God Is NOT the Author of Confusion!' (1 Corin. 14:33)
We need Dr.Karri on the podcast 🔥🔥🔥🔥
yes ASAP!!!
Yes Lord!!! She was incredible 🔥🔥🔥
Dr. Karri is on point!!
Expeditiously!
I approve this message!🙋🏾♀️
As a 40 something, never married, and without children, I had lost all hope for marriage and companionship, this podcast and this panel has renewed my hope and breathed new life into a dream that I thought was dead. Thank you all for allowing the Holy Spirit to speak through you to the lost and hopeless - to people like me who had felt forgotten. God bless each of you.🙏🏾❤️
Same here. 40 something, never married and no kids. I definitely have hope that God will introduce me to my king and believe the same for you too💕🙏🏾
Amen Queens God has already done it !! 🎉🎉
I feel the same way. I can relate still waiting for my person.
I feel the same way. As a 40 something as well, I lost all hope in finding love but this podcast and this episode have been a great reminder that love is still possible.
it will happen❤❤❤
When she said she wasn’t competing with the mother, the dog, the daughter!! A lot of women feel that way! When does a man want to spend more time with the woman he’s to marry than the family/friends/life he has been so attached to for so many years? It’s like they don’t trust us to leave. They should not feel guilty about spending more time with their future or made to feel they got to spend as equal the amount of time with them to appease everybody. I don’t understand it
Not the dog lol
I like that. I am still single and not married because I am waiting on what God has crafted and made specially for me! Its Custom made! Thank you Pastor Carrie!
I am in full agreement with you. I am not allowed to help the Lord out at all to find my husband. The Lord knows EXACTLY what he is doing and the Lord doesn't need my help in bring his word to pass in my life! I am not allowed to go on dating sites to meet men. The Lord has someone who is taylor made just for me! Someone who will fit my life like a glove. Someone who I can do life with and someone who will wonderfully fit my future. Someone who will tell me that divorce is not an option in our marriage. Wait upon the Lord and be of a good COURAGE! He will strengthen thy heart! Smile Keshia
@@thequeenofresources I love all of this that u just said.
Thank you Love!
Amen!❤
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I’m only 30 something minutes in and I’m loving this!…….. “cancel the appetizers” my new saying 😂
Lol mine too!
THIS LIVE PODCAST WAS EVERYTHING!!!!! DR. KARI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOUR WORDS WERE SO FULL OF TRUTH AND DIRECTNESS!!!!! I ABSOLUTELY APPRECIATE THIS LIVE PODCAST!!!
Christian's body language, leaning away from Jessie's Woo, she disturbed him
There's something special about Stephan, his composure, charisma is second to none
Very true..
I agree with you
Stephan Labossiere ALWAYS maintains his composure! He is DEFINITELY husband material so much wisdom and whom ever he chooses to be his wife is going to be one blessed woman!
I know his DMs full
There is no way one wouldn’t want to get their act together after watching this podcast. It had me reflecting on my life choices and asking myself if am I leaving in my purpose??? The greatest I’ve watched by FAR ❤🙏🏽
I came for Jessie but was introduced to Kerri and was so blessed because of it❤🙌🏾🏃🏾♀️
Shouldve let Stephen speak most of the time he gets straight to the point every time ❤
“Be the Love you want to attract! Build your Character traits so you can attract those traits”
Woooo Lord, this was sooo GOOOD! So many nuggets. Thank all of you for this❤
DR. KARRIIIIIIII 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 God is using you!!!! Thank you for allowing God to speak through you. Amazing panel, great discussion.
When Stephan said that sometimes we interfere with God’s work of a lesson in someone’s life by extending a hand when they NEED to hit their rock bottom- in order to hear God. That’s amazing bcuz I’ve always said this, yet, Ive continued to help my mother despite how ungrateful she can be. From the time I was 19 to present day, I’m 37 - I’ve always tried to be her salvation. Like whenever she comes up with something that she needs to make her happy “if I just had this (insert a car, insert a business plan and investor, insert new furniture, insert a new home), I can be happy,,, and like clockwork- I have gotten it for her, and she is bored of it or does wrong by it and we’re back to square one. A couple weeks ago was the first time I decided to cut off all financial, emotional and every other form of me thinking I’m extending a “salvation” to her…. And it feels good but it’s also an adjustment
Ungrateful does make you stop giving once you see it.
Thank you for this! Sorry a late response just now seeing this video. My mom says the same thing. I try and think the same way as you. They have so much built up trauma and if they are not truly wanting to heal and close doors and go to God and therapy they will be forever sad. Thank you for showing me "we" cannot help them
I disagree. Find balance so that you are not in a financially vulnerable position, but NEVER cut off your dear mother who carried you for 9 months, financially or emotionally.
As our parents age, they get more difficult to handle and that is what we should adjust to.
You are probably receiving blessings from the Creator of the heavens and the earth, the ultimate Provider who is Ash-shakuur (the most grateful). 🌹
Jessie needs to calm down…she’s really hyper and not listening to understand… he mentioned ‘his mother’ taking care of 3 kids and fixing a pipe if needed. She’s doing too much and seems a bit immature for this panel IMO.
This was such an amazing panel talk! Dr. Karri Turner has definitely brought the language I needed to articulate what I desired. Again, it was a pleasure to listen to you all!
❤❤❤❤❤❤amen
*Yes!*
I loved that Willie spoke prophetically in that young man’s life❤
Yessss!!! I really enjoy when Willie spoke life into this young man. God be to glory. He need to to be on his podcast
That was beautiful 😭🙌
Me too! It was truly powerful 😢
Thank you so much !!! I really appreciate the love and support because this journey hasn’t been an easy one. How I knew that God was speaking through Willie is the fact that I actually have been getting up at 2:30 AM. Currently, I’ve been up since that time just talking to God and getting more insight about my future. I thank God for Laterras and all he’s done with this podcast because it really has changed my life 🙌🏽
@@ajsway6320 praise God!!!!!!!! He’s so amazing!!!!! You keep going your headed in the right direction 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
#BLESSED🦋
Hear me when I say that this discussion in its entirety should go viral. There were multiple wisdom nuggets here. I've enjoyed following Stephan and now I've discovered a couple of other coaches with excellent advice as well. Hands down, this was brilliant.
So very grateful to be on this amazing panel, with such incredible people! God’s continued blessings and Favor Latteras! Sorry I was so loud y’all lol, I couldn’t hear myself.
You were truly a blessing to hear!
@@hopeg6023 Thank you so much beautiful!
Dr.Karri you dropped some gems so glad I got to witness this conversation in person 🔥🙌🏽🔥 I NEED CLARITY 💁🏽♀️🙌🏽
Your words were seasoned with OIL! Keep pouring!!♥️🙏🏾👐🏾👏🏾🔥
You were loud, but when I say every word was meant to be HEARD! Sis, you needed an offering plate!! Loved every moment...you literally spoke key components of all my desires! Continue to let the Lord use you woman of God!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽 You were such a blessing! Like what my other sister said though...you have to BE what you desire, I preach this all the time! We must practice what we preach! 🙌🏽 This whole panel was dropping gems! 💎 Love you guys! Mad I didn't know about this live event...I would've definitely been there!! Anywho...God Bless 🙏🏽
i swear the humor between Christian Keyes and jessie woo is hilarious. I love it.
Right she was flirting too🤣🤣🤣
@@INQUIRINGMINEZ I don’t blame her, but he seems rather arrogant and she needs someone that can be her best friend. Although they were laughing together, he doesn’t strike me as one to be silly.
@@cwdplus If you have seen other interviews with him, he is down to earth but she was being a bit much. I think he was uncomfortable.
@@aubriellemorgan he may have been, but she’s a comedian and was entertaining the crowd, otherwise it would’ve been informative but boring
Wheeeeewwwww she wanted himmmm and I don’t think he want herrr lol. He did seem uncomfortable.
This is the realest, liveliest, raw, gritty, humorous, anointed panel that I have experienced! The energy on this panel is absolutely incredible!! Thank you so much for this!!!! I have loved every moment of this!!!! WOW!!!!
Yes it wasn't stiff, churchy and superficial . A fee moments I clutched my pearls 😂
But Jamal!?.... Okay,
God bless you congratulations 🎉🙏🙏🙏
"A woman should present and NOT pursue. A man should pursue and NOT persuade."
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Jessie is operating in her attention seeking self. 😢 She's trying to steal the attention from the word being delivered 🙄 that the woman had to stand up from being overshadowed. The man sitting next to her body language is telling. I want her to win.
Exactly….shes doing too much. You can tell the man next to her is sort of put off by her behavior.
Have more of these so our community will get back to loving each other again.
U said a mouthful, we(the black community) need this as much as we need water...and you know how much we need water! Great show, can't wait till the next one.
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Dr Karri had me going with what she said, but then she ended up with Jamal BABY DADDY Bryant and I’m confused and disappointed! I hope she’s not settling because it won’t last if she is.
This episode is everything! Being single is exciting. This is so fun. There is a new season for us to engage quality singles as friends before moving into relationships. Accountability helps us surrender to God and one another.
great perspective
Hey we have the same name ❤
💯💯💯💯💜
...You have women who are carrying DESTINY and PURPOSE on them!👏
Stephan and Christian along with Kari were amazing.
I appreciate the maturity of them… no extra attention. Just class and maturity!
Agreed. some of the over the top personalities can be funny in the beginning but then become overkill
AGREEDDDD 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Agreed, again!
Jessie brings the vibe and the energy
The girl in the shorts needs to sit down stop being so thirsty for attention let other ppl talk 😡
I always love the way Christian never compromises his values.
That's what I like about him as well.
NO HE DOESN'T. THAT'S ADMIRABLE!!
Agree
As a former assistant of Dr. Karri,who I STILL call for prayer..is so living her purpose..I am grateful for our paths crossing!! One thing I will always remember is she is a believer in celebration of birthdays..she believes that you celebrate you..such a revelation ❤
This was something I needed to hear! Thanks for sharing, the you celebrate you part ❤
A purpose partner needs to be every godly single's desire, not just a Christian spouse.
Anybody else here from the proposal 🙋🏽♀️
Such a pleasure sharing the stage with these amazing men and women.
Stephan was the best speaker. I liked that he was very thoughtful, composed and articulate on his responses. That did matter a lot in this conversation and said a lot about him. Some speakers were a little much for me.
Totally agrée! I follow him too!🤗
I’m still in awe that I witnessed this in person!! I’m forever grateful!🥰
Jealous 😢
Same it was amazing live
@@lollikiss25 please don’t be. The recording is phenomenal too!💗🙏🏾
@@tiffanyn06 did you go to the singles event the next day? I would have if I knew about it!
@@DRDDM2024 nooooo 🥺 upset I missed it
Stephan Speaks and Dr Kerri are Holy Spirit filled.
As a WOG it was a breath of fresh air to hear these men speak about what they need or look for. It reassured me I’m not to much for being that type of woman because there’s men who are looking for the type of WOG I am 🙏🏽
Exactly!
Such a great podcast! Lots of laughs. Christian Keys was showing out! Lol! Also, lots of wisdom. One thing in particular, Stephan kept bringing things back to consulting with God. Sometimes, just because we are saved, we Really think we know what we are doing, and we make decisions based on our own experiences, reasoning , and sometimes pain , and don’t consult God. We have to seek God’s direction every step of the way concerning potential relationships.
Amen! God is key to it all! Consult Him indeed🙌🏿
If the world only had more men like Stephen, he exudes maturity. I love Christian spirit a lot, he’s a consistent bro
Stop with the misandry
@@PhoenixRising82672 How is my comment misandry. I complimented two men that I found impressive so you make no sense. Stephen represents what I feel is maturity and Christian spirit is very nice.
@@PhoenixRising82672 stop projecting🤣🤣🤣🤣do you even know what misandry is?
Ok so most of us are on the same page. Stephan is a calm spirit of maturity up there. He listens more than he speaks. He’s not up there to impress. He’s up there for true discussion and edification. 👏🏾👏🏾
I've been following Stephan for a good while and I've read some of his books, and although he is human like the rest of us, he always presents with a "balanced calm" about him. This tells me he is TRULY listening and his response is always in a clear meaningful manner. Jesse can tone it back a few notches...
RIGHT! Jess's presentation was NOT it!
Agreed!
I was beginning to think I was the odd person out in this regards about Jessie, refreshing to see another agrees
Stephan is an intelligent voice of good reasoning.
This was so good. Its interesting that we ladies are facing the same dating issues globally. 😢
💯💯💜
So all of these people are single? This is what’s wrong with marriage today. All of these relationship/marriage conversations held by single people (some who’ve been single for a long time and will die single) A naked man selling clothes
I need to remind myself to stop trying to eat and drink while watching this podcast. Ginger Ale does not go down easy when you’re laughing. 😂 LOVED IT! Need an encore!
Love that!
Stephan Speaks is everything....We love you!Very informative session from all the panelists. Thank you!
I could've listened to Keri and Stephen all day long!!
Yes! I loved that they were to the point but shared knowledge from a calm, cool, collective point of view.
Dr. Karri Turner is a dynamic speaker. This panel was my first & only experience with her and I really like what I heard from her today. She is on fire for the Lord.
This conversation was awesome. I wasn’t going to watch when I saw Jamal Bryant lol but I decided to give it a go because I really thought this would be a great panel and it was! This poured so much life into me and I am so glad I watched. I really feel like it restored my hope a little bit and also showed me I’m on the right track. A lot of what was said here was confirmation of things I have learned and the Lord has shown me. Thanks to everyone who contributed to this conversation ❤
A lot this was confirmation for me too, so glad I watched. Wasn't going to either when I saw Jamal but glad I gave it a chance.
Agreed
Aubrielle…I thought the same thing…but when Laterras commits to a topic I know it’s gonna be 🔥🔥🔥
Same.
Same!!!
I appreciated the conversations and I have a high level of respect for Stephan; he was the relationship expert on the panel,he listened and gave wisdom in a humble yet provoking and profound way. Willie Moore Jr. was anointed when he prophesied to that young man, and Karri was on fire when she spoke about clarity.
Awesome panel!!! Definitely could've done without Jessie Woo. She was definitely not on the caliber of the other panelist - steady giving, ratchet, thirsty, ghetto and wild. Major distraction 🙄
This was AMAZING....Christian taught me something *SEND THE APPETIZERS BACK* 😂
Laterras you've been hitting some Top Ranked people. I'm excited to watch the growth and seeing how God is raising your bar! Blessings to you my brother! #KeepGoing
I am married, will celebrate 30 years this year, and this episode was so enlightening to me. Really enjoyed the conversations and revelations. Great job 💕
I enjoyed this..Jessie woo you are funny but please learn how to be an elegant lady😩🤣
Stephan was my favorite. He gave the most logical and practical advice out of all the guests on the panel. Jessie Woo was doing the most and derailed some of the conversations being so dramatic. I loved that the men pushed back when some of the women were putting blame on men for their personal experiences with men.
I was irritated everytime she spoke, how come her mic was always on while others like Destiny was not given enough attention
This episode was theeeeee most layered episode hands down! I fell in love with the conversation that took place here. So many gems to unpack!
I LOVE STEPHAN'S DEMEANOR... SUCH POISE
I love how Stephan explains everything. God bless you Sir. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
The chic in the black blazer is getting on my nerves.
Another 2 hrs would be welcome 🤗🥰 I wasn't ready to stop listening!!
I've NEVA being fed so well in my life!!!
Thank you All ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ashy and lying took me out 😂 but! This WHOLE panel was AMAZING!! Everyone's testimonies was just a blessing! #BlackLoveIsAMust #YesLAWDT 😊👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️
Being feminine doesn’t have anything to do with what you do, instead it’s an unspoken inner gift that connects with the right man. It’s a way of carrying yourself. A quiet and gentle spirit based from the strength of the Holy Spirit.
❤❤❤ love your comment!
Chileeeeeeeee Karri Turner got her man now! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
This panel blessed me immensely. I'm not giving up on love in spite of being single for fifteen years and practicing abstinence.
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Omgosh. My fear is that I will be single this long
Same here. Same boat. 17 years abstinent and still believing 🙌🏽❤️. Dated but just won’t settle. A lot of the time was me getting closer to God, healing, getting to know me and getting prepared to be the the right one
@Carmen Coulter I COMMEND you for walking in obedience for 17 years - sis you ROCK!!! I trust and believe the Lord will bless you for your obedience. Thanks for sharing!
I’m a South African single woman based in China, for the first time in a long time I feel a sense of dignity as a single soon to be 40 year old. Thanks to all of you for removing the shame and embarrassment that comes with being single especially at my age and affirming that in God’s time we will all find our life partners/spouses.May you all stay blessed and in God’s powerful presence ❤️😘🙏🏽🙌🥰👌
I’m also from SA! I hope you’re doing well that side.❤
I am thanks very much,hope you are doing well too in SA dear ❤️
Hi my African sister.
Underlying every good relationship is God and the willingness to do what is required to make it work.
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Hey sis ❤❤❤❤
This was absolutely amazing! Enjoy every guest! If Christian sends back one more appetizer! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Jess provided a great balance to this panel. She made it light, jovial and fun.
I was confused as to why she was there because everything Christian spoke about not wanting in a woman embodied Jessie. She shows her entire body and is a lukewarm Christian. Kerri is an example of a proverbs 31 woman, but I guesst they wanted to make it interesting
@MissAki1 yes, I gathered she attracts ghetto men because...whew chile!😮
Yes she did, she balanced it very well
She brings in a different demographic and thus a larger audience to hear the panel.
@@kimm3375 Yep!
Thanks! I receive so much from your broadcast. I'm 66 years old and been divorced for 45 years, yet I am ready to marry again now.
Ditch the list; a man isn’t a representative of his bank account, credit score, income, educational background, height, weight, complexion. 1st you want a god-fearing, praying man, hardworking, is/who/wants to be a great father, faithful, loyal, honest, who’s accountable to God. As a Christian woman, please go to therapy, especially if you’re easily angered, argumentative, rude, takes a long time to forgive, ect. If you’re trying to find a “partner” or a man equal to you, that’s not biblical. You have to submit, meaning getting/helping him to fulfill his dreams/vision/plan. You’re a “helpmate.” many of you women have friend-zoned or rejected your husband because he’s not making 100k, over 6ft, extremely handsome, college degree ect.. those things aren’t biblical requirements for a man. You trust/surrender completely for who God wants you to be with. I’m turning 38, God blessed me with the man of his choice.. he proposed in 16 months, getting married in the fall. And ladies he’s handsome, over 6ft, makes over 100k, God doesn’t disappoint! God is a loving father, he’s not going to put you with garbage.
You go girl!
Happily married and marriage IS NOT suppose to be this hard. It's not roses and cookies all day but it's definitely not this. So much self-centeredness and so many rules from folks who haven't had successful relationships themselves.
Furthermore, I was not whole when I married, you never will be because if you're married long enough whatever the "whole" either of you thinks they are changes. Growing and learning together is all apart of the process and can be a beautiful (and yes, sometimes bumpy) road. It's the journey of life IN love that helps make us feel whole because we are BOTH constantly pouring into EACH OTHER - so sad that so many are missing out on this😢
For any others that are in happy, HEALTHY marriages - be grateful and continue to honor your partner and yourselves because despite what social media says, IT IS WORTH IT☮️
j Matthews 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Yes, marriage should not be particularly hard....to people who say that...I always respond with, you're married to the wrong person...
Very true
This was so encouraging for me. I was beginning to grow weary in my season of singleness but hearing from the men on the stage caused me to reflect on all of the hard work I have done and to remain faithful because they do exist! 🔑discipline 1Peter 3:1-9
Meanwhile some of the women on the panel looked like they dressed for the street...short black shorts...got thighs and boobs out, and old girl with red jumpsuit got her boobs out too.
There is so much beauty in modesty...." concealed sexy is still sexy".
1 Timothy 2:9-10
Miss Turner talks with so much authority, passion, wisdom, and understanding! I love it!
This was Amazing! I soaked up so many nuggets!!!!!!❤
Me too. This was so good and very much needed!
Christian is the WHOLE package! Jessie can barely contain herself. 😂
It was annoying.
She likes attention lol
@@veronicamontgomery1744 She's just being herself danm.
You know she made me cringe
@@fatudaniel7301 right! For those of us who follow her, we get it. I find authenticity in any form thoroughly refreshing, and Jessie showed up fully as her true self.
Churchified people know how to put on a socially-acceptable face/mask, so when they meet someone who doesn’t fit the neat, little cookie-cutter image they think everyone should be (aka-they meet a real one in her rare, raw form), it agitates their spirit.
1:05:38 - 1:12:43 she is PREACHING 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Baby Facts
Laterras, this was absolutely amazing!! Thank you again for your obedience and transparency!!❤❤💜💜