Hi Pastor RC Blakes! Could you speak about understanding how to discern when it is right to allow a man to return into your life having realized the value of you as a woman (such as in the case of you & Lisa), versus when allowing this man to return into your life is a disrespect to yourself and your soul & leading to repetition of cycles? How do you know that when he returns with serious intention, that it’s true and sent by God? 🙏🏽 thank you always for your work! ❤
❤❤ Pastor RC Blakes. You give great advice. But the obvious issue that i see is dark skinned black women who are dealing with colorism & texturism from black men. Preach the elephant in the room. Your advice is really limited
I've been watching pastor Blakes for over three years and he never fails to tickle me! Lol!! So good! He has a couple things he ALWAYS says "y'all be jumping up and down in the middle of that bed" "PhD women and a GED men" "let me move on before I get in trouble, I can hear y'all now" "y'all be in the middle of that bed" "Holla at ya boy" and MANY others!! 😅 love him!!
He be saying things that make me almost spit out my drink😂😂😂…he be tickling me and he is just that funny in the church house!! He knows how to deliver it and keeps it 100!!!
And that's what I am doing now after 15 years😪 my soon to be ex husband is not a good person. Nothing is ever his fault and he is very petty. Smh. I have to let GO
See now that’s the problem right there pastor. People don’t take the time to build, learn and grow with one another. This generation gets so caught up instant gratification! We ready for the lesson pastor ❤❤❤
1. There must be attraction 2. Spiritual harmony Emotional agreement Intellectual mirror 🪞 3. Compatibility / aligning on core beliefs, values n morals
Can't wait for this one pastor I just know that one day that THE MOST HIGH YAH IS GOING TO BLESS ME WITH A LOVE THAT IS GOING TO BE SO AWESOME AND LOVING AND WONDERFUL
22:00 is so real, that’s why I made my other comment. They come around knowing what they like and they try you out then make you feel bad for the way you are designed
I feel like I am being talked through by my father. Thank God for your life, Pastor. You are indeed bringing us lessons Father God specifically designed for His kingdom daughters.
See I know I’m not crazy😂 A man said to me if a man and woman is not tearing each others clothes off in relationship then it won’t work.. smh and this man is in his 50’s.. Thank you bishop for clarifying this!
That's the truth cuz if everything functions...oh something gots to give...and if it's so horrible it can't..oh then that's a problem either way! That's fact that man was telling the truth sex not everything but depending on age it can be a problem! I haven't heard the message yet bout to listen now but still that's a problem attraction to your partner cones from love and respect if the relationship toxic and disrespectful the woman will have a hard time giving it to that man and a lot of women reach reach high libido when they get older now that's a problem! Im a listen to the message now 😏
@@AllstarAlicia I understand wanting to be insanely in love... however, if sex is all you base the relationship on then it's gone to fail. You do have to get out of the bed and want to talk and be around one another. That's all I am saying. I've seen and had a relationship like that and yes the sex was fantastic!! but when it was over and we had to deal with life is wasn't so insanely in love then. I believe two people should have a strong attraction to one another... but it's must go beyond just that to live and have a meaningful life with that person.
Pastor you on a roll because you were God sent your videos have really help me change my mindset totally different after a 20yr relationship and married 18yrs we were never evenly yoked I learned my lesson not trama lessons I love you and your wife bless both of y'all
I was hollering today. The analogy of the contractor and the building materials was excellent. I am staying positive and encouraged while awaiting a truly aligned and "equally yoked" partner. Thank you Pastor Blakes for the ever right on time messages. Your wisdom is a cherished gift. ❤
This Queenology event is awesome! Preparing women! (I have a question though! Who is helping in preparing the Kings, the men for their mate, the Queens? We need more of the good men, Kings, to help prepare the Godly men!!!
This teaching is truly a blessing to my soul. I have these standards for myself but couldn’t put it all into words. Praise God for you Bishop and Sis Lisa. Thank you for this message. God bless you for sharing.
Hey Bishop R C, your announcement and advert of Queenology 2024 is really making me feel left out 😢 I really desire and pray that I'll get to attend one of these Queenology conventions live. It'll be a dream come true for me, to say the least. I work as a missionary teacher in an international school in Rwanda and the new school session will just be resuming the same week of Queenology 2024 so I won't be able to attend. I look forward to hooking up online for the whole convention, God willing 🙌🏽
Excited for this!!! Your words are uplifting and inspiring. You help me to be a better version of myself. So thankful God lead me to you. God bless you and Lady Lisa. ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for confirming everything I’ve been thinking. My friends think like the world. So I can’t talk this deep to them. Also the relationship I just got out of, I tried to bring up these points and it went OVER THEIR HEAD. It was a relationship based off sex!!!! Thank you Gosh for putting this on his heart to share. It was confirmation for me!!! ❤
Pastor, I'm loving the ways you are challenging me to see relationships in a different way. Can you spend more time with describing kind vs. type? God bless you, sir.
I love you and Tony Gaskins videos. Hands down best clear advice, and when put into practice consistently leads to success 🙌 👏 GOD BLESS you all greatly 🙏
Being someone's type does not equal being of his kind. Intellect is only attractive to the extent it is coupled with life, (self)awareness, warmth of heart, ideals and care. "You have to build to that (connection), most of you are waiting for those microwave relationships" -. Good likening!
good advice especially the compatility part must help when im weaker in and i do the same as long as dont feel like im raising someones son. we should help eachother level up
I really have to thank him so much listening to him has definitely woke me up it was so embarrassing to believe I have been putting up with the foolishness I have put up with and he has turned my thought process around And once I stop thinking with my mindset my broken mindset things just got better with faith and prayers I made it through sending love because you have changed my life
I am mad that I missed the live! I just watched this video twice Bishop it was Amazing!! You spoke absolute truth! This whole video was a 🎤 drop moment! Thank you as always Bishop you always keep it real and honest! God bless you and Lady Lisa💙🩷🙏🏽
Thank you so much for your time Man of God! I’ve been reading your books and applying your wisdom to my life and let me just say , my life is changing in so many miraculous ways !!
"AWESOME, INDEED!!!" ... "TRULY POWERFUL AND TRULY PROFOUND & VERY MEANINGFUL, INDEED!!!" ... "MANY CHEERFUL THANKS", PASTOR RC BLAKES, FOR THE "OUTSTANDING TEACHING JOB", THAT YOU ALWAYS DO, FOR US ALL!!!" ... "YOU'RE SUCH A GREAT DIVINE BLESSINGS, AS ALWAYS!!!!" ... BLESSINGS ALWAYS, MS. DEBORAH J. STEELE, ATLANTA, GA. - 4/29//24
This was a great video, Bishop as always, Bishop!! Some rushed relationships 2-6 months then married are not wanting to hold the burden of premarital sexual engagements. Many find it difficult to date and get to know each other 1-2 years without feeling as you say being in the middle of the bed. I agree there are some who may fully be prepared that early of knowing someone, but it’s imperative to know who you’re spiritually attaching yourself to in relationships. I definitely agree choosing is a choice. Some are holding out for a made up person in their minds that may never come and miss out on a good man or woman.
GOOD EVENING PASTOR BLAKES , BLESS YOU FOR THIS NEEDED TEACHING FOR US ALL ! , DO YOU REMEMBER HOW WE ALL WOULD BE ON THE SEE/ SAW YOU BOTH IN OPPOSITE ENDS HAD TO BALANCE WITH ONE ANOTHER , UNTIY , UNDERSTANDING ,AGREEMENT, COMMITMENT BUILDING ! IS POWER AND STRENGTH, YES RIGHTEOUS , COMPATIBILITY AND CONNECT , BUILDING WITH THE RIGHT MATE IS "WISE" ! BUT YOU GOTTA BE WILLING TO COMMIT WITH A MADE UP HEART AND MIND!!!
GREAT EVENING FAMILY!!!! Lisa and I are so glad you’re here. Invite someone else to join us tonight
GREAT knowledge nuggets, pebbles, rocks & boulders😆 Pastor Blakes & First Lady! You are APPRECIATED!
Hi Pastor RC Blakes! Could you speak about understanding how to discern when it is right to allow a man to return into your life having realized the value of you as a woman (such as in the case of you & Lisa), versus when allowing this man to return into your life is a disrespect to yourself and your soul & leading to repetition of cycles? How do you know that when he returns with serious intention, that it’s true and sent by God? 🙏🏽 thank you always for your work! ❤
Has your facebook page been hacked? I’ve notice very inappropriate content being posted on your Facebook page and had to unfollow.
❤❤ Pastor RC Blakes. You give great advice. But the obvious issue that i see is dark skinned black women who are dealing with colorism & texturism from black men. Preach the elephant in the room. Your advice is really limited
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I've been watching pastor Blakes for over three years and he never fails to tickle me! Lol!! So good! He has a couple things he ALWAYS says "y'all be jumping up and down in the middle of that bed" "PhD women and a GED men" "let me move on before I get in trouble, I can hear y'all now" "y'all be in the middle of that bed" "Holla at ya boy" and MANY others!! 😅 love him!!
Right? He is so funny... the paint Job and Rims won't cut it Bae. 😂😂😂
Paster is funny yet real and I appreciate it. He has his little insiders 😂
He dislikes ‘little men”, bubble popping girls, rear end/back side photos 🤣🤣…
Yes!! I always get at least one chuckle!😂😂 He breaks it all the way down!👌🏾
He be saying things that make me almost spit out my drink😂😂😂…he be tickling me and he is just that funny in the church house!! He knows how to deliver it and keeps it 100!!!
There is nothing worse than a man pretending to be that person and finding out he was not.
This!! Smh
Tragic Asl
Been there and what a let down and mess! 😢
And that's what I am doing now after 15 years😪 my soon to be ex husband is not a good person. Nothing is ever his fault and he is very petty. Smh. I have to let GO
You are so right about that but life goes on.
See now that’s the problem right there pastor. People don’t take the time to build, learn and grow with one another. This generation gets so caught up instant gratification! We ready for the lesson pastor ❤❤❤
So true💯💯💯
I concur with you.
The Queenoly theme song is one of the MOST BEAUTIFUL I’ve ever heard. Thank you for honoring us.
A man will only go as far as a woman will let him go.
TRUE FACTS!!!!!
Well said
No, a man should always respect all women. Mother and sisters included.
1. There must be attraction
2. Spiritual harmony
Emotional agreement
Intellectual mirror 🪞
3. Compatibility / aligning on core beliefs, values n morals
❤ Thank-you!
I have never love, respect and learn so much from Pastor Blake. He really is the dad I never had and the father that I need in my life ❤️
I love how you and TG are shouting one another out! Wow ❤
Yes!
IKR!! ❤
Yes! Heard Tony Gaskins shout 🙌
2 brothers on a mission to do right and spread the truth 🙌🏽
I follow both, they are helping me get it right🌱
Definitely cannot believe you are turning 60! I deeply appreciated this message today! You always bless me ❤
Can't wait for this one pastor I just know that one day that THE MOST HIGH YAH IS GOING TO BLESS ME WITH A LOVE THAT IS GOING TO BE SO AWESOME AND LOVING AND WONDERFUL
22:00 is so real, that’s why I made my other comment. They come around knowing what they like and they try you out then make you feel bad for the way you are designed
Hanging around the ice cream isle, with diabetes! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Not me... I'm on the spinach and broccoli isle!
And kale 😂
I feel like I am being talked through by my father. Thank God for your life, Pastor. You are indeed bringing us lessons Father God specifically designed for His kingdom daughters.
Monday nights are a blessing.🙏🏽
Attraction, compatibility and connection
Thank you for taking the time😊
Aside the serious conversation...do Y'all get puzzled at how Rc blakes remains youthful....he never age's...since I started listening to him...
See I know I’m not crazy😂 A man said to me if a man and woman is not tearing each others clothes off in relationship then it won’t work.. smh and this man is in his 50’s.. Thank you bishop for clarifying this!
That's the truth cuz if everything functions...oh something gots to give...and if it's so horrible it can't..oh then that's a problem either way! That's fact that man was telling the truth sex not everything but depending on age it can be a problem! I haven't heard the message yet bout to listen now but still that's a problem attraction to your partner cones from love and respect if the relationship toxic and disrespectful the woman will have a hard time giving it to that man and a lot of women reach reach high libido when they get older now that's a problem! Im a listen to the message now 😏
This is nothing but the truth lmfao I always said if we aren’t insanely in love with each other the shit won’t work
@@AllstarAlicia I understand wanting to be insanely in love... however, if sex is all you base the relationship on then it's gone to fail. You do have to get out of the bed and want to talk and be around one another. That's all I am saying. I've seen and had a relationship like that and yes the sex was fantastic!! but when it was over and we had to deal with life is wasn't so insanely in love then. I believe two people should have a strong attraction to one another... but it's must go beyond just that to live and have a meaningful life with that person.
Pastor you on a roll because you were God sent your videos have really help me change my mindset totally different after a 20yr relationship and married 18yrs we were never evenly yoked I learned my lesson not trama lessons I love you and your wife bless both of y'all
Monday is my second favorite day besides Sunday because your commitment to your daughters💕 so blessed for you 💕
Wisdom has knocked on tonight! Not only entertaining but applying !!!
Congrats on 30yrs❤❤❤❤❤❤
I was hollering today. The analogy of the contractor and the building materials was excellent. I am staying positive and encouraged while awaiting a truly aligned and "equally yoked" partner. Thank you Pastor Blakes for the ever right on time messages. Your wisdom is a cherished gift. ❤
This one hit harder than i expected, thank you Lord
I can't wait to hear what Pastor Blake has to say
This Queenology event is awesome! Preparing women! (I have a question though! Who is helping in preparing the Kings, the men for their mate, the Queens?
We need more of the good men, Kings, to help prepare the Godly men!!!
So true
Agree
Connection is a choice
Yes!!!!! The Spiritual connection is it!
Beautiful and true.
This teaching is truly a blessing to my soul. I have these standards for myself but couldn’t put it all into words. Praise God for you Bishop and Sis Lisa. Thank you for this message. God bless you for sharing.
Hey Bishop R C, your announcement and advert of Queenology 2024 is really making me feel left out 😢 I really desire and pray that I'll get to attend one of these Queenology conventions live. It'll be a dream come true for me, to say the least. I work as a missionary teacher in an international school in Rwanda and the new school session will just be resuming the same week of Queenology 2024 so I won't be able to attend. I look forward to hooking up online for the whole convention, God willing 🙌🏽
Whoooooo!!! God is talking to me through you 🙏🏽
Excited for this!!! Your words are uplifting and inspiring. You help me to be a better version of myself. So thankful God lead me to you. God bless you and Lady Lisa. ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
RC, I will always give you a like.
I thank God for you, what you do for me with each video is appreciated beyond what words can express. ❤️
Thank you for confirming everything I’ve been thinking. My friends think like the world. So I can’t talk this deep to them. Also the relationship I just got out of, I tried to bring up these points and it went OVER THEIR HEAD. It was a relationship based off sex!!!! Thank you Gosh for putting this on his heart to share. It was confirmation for me!!! ❤
I like the episode first before even watching. You are giving free game, so that’s the least I can do.
I love you Pastor. Your teachings has groomed into a rare and quality breed of a woman.
This is life changing!!!! Pastor Blakes thank you for your labor of love!!!! The truth will shole make ya free!!!
Pastor, I'm loving the ways you are challenging me to see relationships in a different way. Can you spend more time with describing kind vs. type? God bless you, sir.
Emotional Agreement
Connection is a choice... Thank you.
I love you and Tony Gaskins videos. Hands down best clear advice, and when put into practice consistently leads to success 🙌 👏 GOD BLESS you all greatly 🙏
Yes pastor the principles of God will never change when it comes to marriage dating. How woman should conduct herself with a man 🙏
Purposeful and Powerful Words Indeed.
Thank you Pastor Blakes! My next relationship shall be built on compatibility and not just physical attraction.
Good evening Bishop RC and family
This is a good one. I need to rewatch it again. Blessings!
I am rewatching it now👀👂🏾👩🏿💻
So awesome. A very needed and necessary teaching.
Wisdom in the name of Jesus amen . I declare and decree at the top in the name of Jesus amen
That was so good, I'm watching and listening all over again!🙏
So important as always 🌺🙏 thank you for your service ❤️
Being someone's type does not equal being of his kind. Intellect is only attractive to the extent it is coupled with life, (self)awareness, warmth of heart, ideals and care. "You have to build to that (connection), most of you are waiting for those microwave relationships" -. Good likening!
Much love to you Bishop and Lisa ❤
Bedankt
good advice especially the compatility part must help when im weaker in and i do the same as long as dont feel like im raising someones son. we should help eachother level up
Good evening 🙏 So happy to catch a live of Pastor Blakes! 🙌
Hello. Interesting topic.
Such wisdom!! You help make the process so accessible and grounded! Thank you Pastor
I don’t just Like…I Love!
Thank you Pastor Blakes
Congratulations👍💕
That was soul line
Make it plain paster! This was good!
When are you coming to the UK, Pastor Blakes? We'd love to welcome you here ❤
I really have to thank him so much listening to him has definitely woke me up it was so embarrassing to believe I have been putting up with the foolishness I have put up with and he has turned my thought process around And once I stop thinking with my mindset my broken mindset things just got better with faith and prayers I made it through sending love because you have changed my life
Thank you.
Great Message Bishop ❤
This SO POWERFUL Sir, may God continue to flood you with wisdom to guide us 🙏. God bless you and Lady Lisa richly.
I am mad that I missed the live! I just watched this video twice Bishop it was Amazing!! You spoke absolute truth! This whole video was a 🎤 drop moment! Thank you as always Bishop you always keep it real and honest! God bless you and Lady Lisa💙🩷🙏🏽
Your words have blessed my life , Thank you !! 😊
Teaching Good Pastor
I wanna go to Queenology so much, hope to see you guys soon! I confess I haven't read the book yet, thank you so much for the beautiful opportunity 😍
Thank you wonderful message!
Blessings to your family Peace 🕊️🎉❤
To the amazing pastor and father may the lord bless u ❤️Thank for all u do may the lord bless u and your family ❤️
We love you in Patterson Louisiana that's the Tri-City area and we adore your wife❤💪😇🙏
Thank you so much for your time Man of God! I’ve been reading your books and applying your wisdom to my life and let me just say , my life is changing in so many miraculous ways !!
Good evening from Costa Rica 🇨🇷
lol I love ur sense of humor and wise words
You have taught me so much your awesome, man of God
"AWESOME, INDEED!!!" ... "TRULY POWERFUL AND TRULY PROFOUND & VERY MEANINGFUL, INDEED!!!" ... "MANY CHEERFUL THANKS", PASTOR RC BLAKES, FOR THE "OUTSTANDING TEACHING JOB", THAT YOU ALWAYS DO, FOR US ALL!!!" ... "YOU'RE SUCH A GREAT DIVINE BLESSINGS, AS ALWAYS!!!!" ... BLESSINGS ALWAYS, MS. DEBORAH J. STEELE, ATLANTA, GA. - 4/29//24
Thank God for you, Bishop. You and Lady Lisa ❤
Great read, and resonates with my current situation. Thank you, Baba 😊 💕🫶💫
Watching from Dillon SC ❤
This was a great video, Bishop as always, Bishop!! Some rushed relationships 2-6 months then married are not wanting to hold the burden of premarital sexual engagements. Many find it difficult to date and get to know each other 1-2 years without feeling as you say being in the middle of the bed. I agree there are some who may fully be prepared that early of knowing someone, but it’s imperative to know who you’re spiritually attaching yourself to in relationships. I definitely agree choosing is a choice. Some are holding out for a made up person in their minds that may never come and miss out on a good man or woman.
Excellent video. Well explained. Alot of it I already know but good to hear it with clarity.
Yes, Amen. I received this message 🙌
Great one this week
Purpose Partner
Say that again u r so so right Pastor Blakes...❤❤❤
This was Good 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
The message was well-received. Thank you.
This is sooo POWEFUL!!!
Thank you Bishop! I wish I knew this when I was younger. It too old (72) to look for a committed relationship.
❤You're never too old❤
Thankyou This was so on time I praise our Lord for his love to give us his perfect word❤
This was a beautiful blessing thank you
Such a timely Word...Thank you.
So beautiful and awesome Bishop thank you🙏🏾🙏🏾!
This word is right on point tonight ❤
And he is also funny tonight
But so true ❤
GOOD EVENING PASTOR BLAKES , BLESS YOU FOR THIS NEEDED TEACHING FOR US ALL ! , DO YOU REMEMBER HOW WE ALL WOULD BE ON THE SEE/ SAW YOU BOTH IN OPPOSITE ENDS HAD TO BALANCE WITH ONE ANOTHER , UNTIY , UNDERSTANDING ,AGREEMENT, COMMITMENT BUILDING ! IS POWER AND STRENGTH, YES RIGHTEOUS , COMPATIBILITY AND CONNECT , BUILDING WITH THE RIGHT MATE IS "WISE" ! BUT YOU GOTTA BE WILLING TO COMMIT WITH A MADE UP HEART AND MIND!!!