My Very First Time with a Guy
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ม.ค. 2022
- Hi All, It's crazy how we can learn from certain memories of our past years later. I wanted to share this memory because it comes up in my mind from time to time and I need to get it off of my chest. Please let me know if you have a similar story.
Richie W.
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This experience will be with you for the rest of your life. You're a good man, don't ever look down on yourself.
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This is not a bad story at all. Maybe it's a little sad and a bit mysterious, but it sounds like a positive life experience. It's actually a very good story. Thank you for sharing.
Awesome work Richie dont ever stop being great
Sexual first experiences aren’t always good, but you learn things. If I had a kid, I would try to help them feel more positive about being true to themselves; I think in many places, the world is more accepting now. Thanks for your story.
Another great story Richie keep them coming because you are good telling them!!!!!!👍👍👍
Thanks for listening
A great and mysterious first time story. So glad I found you on You Tube!
Love your stories. You're so darned sincere.
My penis causes great queefs.
I just adore your vids. keep them coming. sending love.
What you describe with your memory on this sounds like disassociation possibly. It's one way the mind protects its self from trauma. Thank you for shareing, hope making this made you mabe feel better about it!
I never thought of it that way.
Trauma is when you are a boy
a very young boy age 8 , so two 15 year old guys are
having fun you gave him a
signal some how & he
responded it felt real
good later l worked out l
had been raped by an older
guy In a public toilet 🙄
Dude like your TH-cam video @@RichieWest
@@RichieWestcarnt beat a big long though
What a amazing story Richie. Yup 1st time encounters are always hard and you can't rewind it. Love this story babe keep up the good work 👍👍👌👌😘😘😘💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🌈🤠
I think this story is very relatable. Thanks for sharing.
Richie's ability to make (older) dudes fall in love/lust with and simp for him never ceases to amaze me.
And A lot of these things could be plots in a coming of age BL drama series/movie. Right them down, add some "spice" and concoct the screen play.
First sexual experiences gay or straight rarely go that well. That's just part of life.
He asks you use the ocndom on him that you just used on him and you're like You better be. a bottom who
I was 10 when my 15yr old neighbor took advantage of me,I never said anything to anybody because deep down I liked him. He was the only blond kid in our neighborhood who hung out with us,he had long hair and was very cute. Sadly he died at 16 in a car accident.
His life was cut short 🙁
@@lawrenceharris7369 His parents gave him a Mustang for his 16th Birthday,he enjoy it for 2 months then went drag racing and crash.
@@lawrenceharris7369 He took that a55 before departing tho
If it weren't for you he would have never had any experiences at all.
Jeez that really sucks that your first experience was so negative.
I think it's understandable to be uncomfortable as it sounds like the guy was pretty forceful with you, which isn't the experience you want in the moment you feel vulnerable and anxious with a first time.
It almost sounds like a semi traumatic event which maybe why it keeps popping into your head.
I've had some pretty unwanted experiences in my life as well and I think talking about them and receiving feedback from supportive people can help you have an idea of how to address your thoughts on them.
All in all Richie you seem to be a very chill and sweet guy, so I'm glad that beginning experience hasn't pulled you into a darker space of mind.
Take care.
Just found your channel on TH-cam. It's really great to see a confident young man who is not afraid to be himself! You are a great example to others and I wish you everything good that life can give you. Rob in Cymru (Wales in the United Kingdom but Welsh is my first language, hence Cymru lol 😊)
Thanks Rob 😉
@@RichieWest hi my name is chetan from England I found your video amazing what a great strory many congratulations for being so brave coming out I am gay too it’s nice to meet you I love being on the beach too I am aged 45 you will find someone
Nice going. You are a good storyteller.
That was a wonderful story. Thanks for sharing, your fabulous.❤
WOW! Imagine purple shirt boy watching this video and saying to himself "HOLY HELL THAT WAS ME!!!"
Thanks for sharing man
You’re a natural storyteller. Ok I have to stop watching or I won’t get anything done 😂
Thank you so much for the compliment! :)
@@RichieWest you have a great channel. I love the authenticity. Hard to come by
Death relatives frowning on you. Ha ha you made my day! Thanks Rich!
It seems that a lot of what made this experience a negative one for you are the thoughts/fears you projected onto it at the time. You might be able to reevaluate the experience and eventually see it in a more positive light.
shocked u didn't hook up with the boy who was involved. Cool dad was passed out during the night. We've all done crazy nights like this, no shame! Coming out is always fun.
You are not alone. Not everyone's first experience is perfect. I had a similar experience when I was 16 yo. I was way too young. I am sure you will find love!
Beautiful, normal gay adolescent mixed emotions , i can so relate ,digging deep into how we grow and learn to be well adjusted mature gay men , thank you
Hi Richie. I have had the same type of experience. Many years ago. I picked up a hitchhiker on the way home from a late night concert in Cleveland Ohio. He was from St Paul Minnesota. He was hitchhiking to Philadelphia.
Tell us more....I love these stories...give details.
As I said after the concert. I had to drive 50 miles East home. A guy was on the ramp with his thumb out. I was on my vacation week so felt very happy. I stopped to give him a ride as far as my exit home. We talked about little things. Mostly about myself. He was going to visit a musician friend in Philadelphia. At the time I did not have a life at all. I had moved out of my parents home to my first apartment. I was deep in the closet. No sex life at all. No idea how to even start. Well by the time I got to my exit. I decided That I’d drive him all the way. I know it’s hard to believe. It’s true.
@@tonyhornbuckle8378 You sound like me many years ago, I was in the closet and had no sex life at all and didn't know how to approach anyone. Tell us more about what happened, I'm very interested.
be here now be still close eyes listen to your breathing rest in present awareness.
"My Dad, my Dog and Me" Hardcover available at Amazon or wherever books are sold. 😁 0:27
Hi John, we meet again!😁😁
@@victordepaul1061 😇🙏
😂😂😂
I remember mine. I was like a year older than the guy and I meet him in university, he asked to sit next to me in calculus I said sure. Well about a month or two after that he liked me on a dating app and asked to hang out. We went to the park and talked the he kissed me, I was shocked. So I think he kinda got the hint but we talked more and I said I had to go so I left and went to Taco Bell and washed my mouth out with antibacterial hand soap. I felt so bad like I broke a promise to myself.
I am glad you needed to talk about it, but please elaborate, or be a bit more specific. Did you wind up 'blowing him', or 'owing him' because he did "x" for you? You felt disgusted and embarrassed, but did you feel ashamed, guilt, fear, used, taken advantage of, abused, appreciated, loved, delighted with the experience, or wish you could have done more? Who guided the direction, and which anatomical part do you recall? If he contacted you today, what would you tell him?
He can't be more specific, because it might breach TH-cam's rules on sexual content.
My 1st was when I was 11. A scraggly boy named Ricky. I went back to California and found him in my boyhood city of Westminster and at age 50, Ricky was hot! Lifted weights his whole life. Living in his father's house he inherited. We spent four days together and hit all the Orange County gay bars. He is happy and I am happy! The adventure always continues!
What an inspirng story. Thanks.
Yo i just moved there - any bar recommendations
This was nice to hear. Thank you for sharing it💙💙
You uhm i gotta tell you something...
Nice! Boys will be boys.
I started it bicycle age I pedaled all over the neighborhood to hook up with various different guys. And I'm sure glad I did I'm glad I was active as I could be because I got to enjoy 1977 to 1985 without fear or worry
This was a deep story man. Your so courageous! ❤
Thank you!
@@RichieWest Anytime man. I love your content
@@RichieWest I am looking 👀 for a gorgeous cute 🥰 boy
@chetanvinayak6799 you will find one
@@jamesfranz7508 thank you 🙏 good evening how are you I am fine I am from England where are you from please are you good at cooking 🥘 what job do you do I work at the hebburn manor care home 🏡 it used to be called Windsor care home 🏡 it was my mum and dad’s place now’s it’s been sold I work in the kitchen washing dishes preparing vegetables etc we deal with residential nursing 👨🍼 and Alzheimer’s it’s a horrible disease I never wish that on anybody or anyone
You got nothing to be ashamed of sometime first time makes you feel ashamed don't you sound like a really smart guy xc
We have no role models to help us along the way. What to do, how to act and react. How to be with someone without sex as a primer. No warnings about raw sex and abuse. At 15, our straight friends have these things to help them. Someone to hold my hand - someone to kiss me - someone to tell me that they love me. It is difficult enough just avoiding haters to start with. No one to guide me.
I had watched three or four your videos, and was really into you. Thought it was cute how you were doing your videos beside your looks, which are beautiful by the way I’m in the redhead but then you lied to me on the video saying that you felt dirty, and had to take a shower after you blew that guy and I was like, you just lied to me not so cute anymore! PS, I had a smile from ear to ear watching you took me back for that. I thank you.
Are you still looking for the “Chestnut “ scent for your candles ??
thank you for being honest! everyone’s first gay experience is different. once you do it and realize that is who you are, then coming out to yourself is the first step. side note, EVERYONE! NEVER use earphones/buds/muffs when walking or running…anyone can sneak up on you. you can’t hear sirens. you can’t hear bikes or skaters etc. i know it helps distract you from the monotony of what your doing but it is not worth the risk! in other news i hope your right with this manifestation thing…been conjuring up a decent guy to settle down with for some time! NADA! 🦩🏳️🌈
I agree. Lesson learned.
When I was 16 I was playing with a boy at the beach. We were catching tiny crabs and rough housing. When it became obvious he wanted to root, I just wasn’t ready to face that side of myself.
The rest of the trip he just stared at my face like a puppy the whole time. I felt so sorry for him.
He’s married to an Asian lady now and has kids.
Did you go no to root with another?
Maybe you just don't like doing it in the bushes 😘. Looking forward to the next teen Richie story 🙃
My Dad. My dog. My life. Sounds like a book title to me.😉
What did the other guy do for you ?
Richie thanks for sharing ❤. My first was when I was 13. I found him in 8th grade PE class when we were doing a unit on wrestling 😂. He was awesome as a friend with benefits. At the end of that summer his dad got transferred so he had to move. I missed him but somehow years later I ran into him in a restaurant in Kansas City. He had a wife and kids in Denver. He was in town on business. We caught up for a couple hours. I was glad he was happy. I never hated myself ever even when I was younger in parochial school. God wires us gay. That's a fact ❤.
You’re absolutely right! It’s not a choice, it’s who we are inside and out. Don’t let Republicans or religious zealots tell you you’re any less than they are. Remember…Christ taught us to love, not hate. How unChristlike our society has degenerated to.
@@yogiperogy it started to get very ugly almost 500yrs ago and got increasingly worse over puritans and later on Victorian prudes who implented a lot in new criminal codes all over the world. any signs of weakening within this absurd system were washed away by the AIDS epidemic and US prudery in films and TV shows since the early 1980s. now US evangelicals are trying to turn back the clock again
If you met an aggressive guy now, would you visit it as assault? So if it happened today, what would you do?
I have been using "beautiful" to refer to boys, since I was 3 years old. My grandmother was an English professor, and she reminded me beautiful is used for women and girls. Men and boys are handsome. I felt boys were more beautiful than handsome. The experience is part of you. Don't forget it. His gaydar told him you were safe.
My first time was beautiful and I love it
FIRST... A VERY CALM GUY USING "BORED"... HOW DIFFERENT THE FIRST RICHIE WAS FROM THE PRESENT ONE... CALMNESS WAS FELT AS AN ENEMY, AT THAT TIME...
SECOND... THAT GUY YOU 'RE TALKING ABOUT WAS THE ONE WHO "OPENED THE DOOR"... MAYBE YOU WAS NOT DISGUSTED BY THE EXPERIENCE, BUT BY THE FEELING THAT THE FIRST RICHIE WAS IRREMEDIATELY, PERMANENTLY, CHANGED BY IT...
THIRD... I THINK THAT IN A WAY WE ALL HAVE TO BE THANKFUL TO HIM... YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE DUE TO HIM TOO...
FOURTH... MY LIKE IS AGAIN UPON YOU...
I'm 23 and College (Hochschule) and never had a positive experience with another male, nor with a female therefore I get where you are coming from. The only person I truly felt something was another guy, but he fell out of my life. So I got curious about my sexuality and dated toxic people wich was a mistake because I never felt good afterwards. All the gay people on campus think I'm weird (and maybe too straight for them) and don't want to talk to me.
dark hair, more tanned, short shorts, purple shirt. Wow I would have too!!!
That was a good story
Good story. Nice guy!
When you do not have cell phone service, what were those guys doing with their cell phone? 😝😝😝 You are just rolling flower around our ears 👂
He'll, I thought this was something bad. This is VERY NORMAL and nothing to be ashamed of
Early sexual experience are awkward. It's great that you can talk about it though.
Oh, that slimey layer of guilt! Oddly, I had that only with self grat. My first time was a glory hole that was a setup. It was partly arranged by a Christian friend. My straight high school buddies all knew about it when I got back in the car. Oh they razzed me. But, what great friends. I liked your story. Be yourself and love who you are!
Two thoughts: 1) The story about the frisbee reminds me of the movie "The Summer of Scott Noll." I remember the uncut version because of the sneakers (I have a CVO / slip-on sneaker fetish). I have just graduated from college, and it was one of the first videos I bought and brought back home.
2) My first time was during my first year of college (1974). I was 17, and he was a senior (~21). We lasted for about 12 weeks. He was "gay" only when his girlfriend wasn't around. I didn't know this about him till he kicked me to the curb, telling me to forget what happened; I didn't want to forget, as I loved the experience. I honored his wishes because I cared about him. He never wanted to switch. I liked his ass so badly..... Another time ...
Interesting story
What did you think of the initial taste?
Not only gay, a queen.
I have got to say as a gay guy .why do lgbt people shy away from intimacy.first your that lucky to be intimate with a person of same gender .you get this chance very rarely in 21st century .don't shy away.
Im still waiting for my first time
I'm like what is the outer banks?
Did that first experience make you think about a hard head deflowering your rose bud?
you might not remember him But I would put $$$$ on it he remembers you Rich ! 😁😁
I was in high school first time
Funny story in the early 2000's I was in northeast North Carolina. Where mobile phones don't work at all. That was interesting. The most interesting middle of nowhere was a house on an island in New Hampshire. I spent time sleeping on the dock, chasing guppies, just having a good time. I miss that. But seeing all the stars is what bowls me over. And yeah first times tend to be the ones we block out.
What year did this take place?
2014
I love your stories I wish to chat w you. You are a good person seen . How could i chat w you man?
You remember that d though. 🤣😋
It's a wonderful experience in my book.😋
Hi Richie how are you buddy. I'll be your videos on youtubes. I love you buddy. From mark remillard.👍🥰
Hearing your conversation about underage sex underscores the problems with adults having sex with underage kids. The trauma and life-long issues this presents should be on the mind of every single person who wants to engage with someone who is mentally and sexually immature. I experimented with a teen when I was a teen as well. It’s awkward, and causes an eruption of emotions teens are not equipped to deal with.
Speak for youself. Everybody starts having sex when theyre in their teens. Do you want to make peple wait untill theyre 21?
Richie You Are Ace
Hi
Nice story ❤️💋 looking good
Sounds like you met a member of the Fey folk.
for two "guys" the same age having an encounter like that together, the proper term is "guy" or "teen". use "boy" if yall were in line with your Mom to sit in Santa's lap at the mall, and you believed it was legit. those are the proper terms to use. Your first instinct, and video title are correct, imo
You are so sweet. I wish you were mine to defend and protect. I would take care of you with all my heart.
i've never regret to be gay .
thats because every boys difference. clearly the boy he was with was not for him.
this gonna be me too
15 and 25? No. So sorry luv. My first time wasn’t fun either
Sweet!😊
GAWD I LOVE GUYS!😊😊😊😊😊
You felt bad and dirty because you inyuiyion was telling you its wrong. s you ignore your intuition it begins to get numbed down until one day you cant feell it anymore and do not know right from wrong, thats when we're doomed, you'll see your still young.
Sounds like you’re having PTSD and you were assaulted. You went along with it as a survival instinct and you would have preferred it didn’t happen with a stranger.
I can understand you still and its your design .are you 100%gay ? Let your self discover new things 😊
Hey... I'm a total horndog like you... been there done that!
Um don’t feel bad at all man! It’s not a traumatic experience tbh. It’s just sexually positive.
Ahhh, with a good wig, and some serious pearls, you could be ELIZABETH TUDOR! hehhe, kisses
Sorry but the manifestation thing is bullshit. In my 40’s now and been wanting the same damn things everyday since I was a teen. Well… nothing ‘manifested’ at all.
great stories and all your experience. gingers are so hot. Scout Boys is so hot!
I know, right? I love gingers.
T5t
Now look how far you have come! You are blowing guys for a living with reckless abandon. Funny how manifesting things work out, Richie!
Ouch...
I tried to forget too but I could not why I love it and and never look back since
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Your an amazingly handsome man. You'll eventually find the one your looking for. Don't sweat it sexy.
First time was good
♥
Tu es trop mignon. Tu as de beaux yeux.
So you're gay. That's fine. there is nothing to be ashamed about.