But why tho? It's something that you have absolutely nothing to do with and you didn't contribute to. It's like saying oh yeah that person?? Yeah the one born with those circumstances?? Yeah I remember them. It's like not that important 😂
I want to be remember as one of the most kind, lovable, sweet, caring person they've ever met. I just want to be remembered as a wonderful human being. Not perfect but a decent human :')
I’m far from pretty, I’m Shrek’s long lost sister. Even his weight is the same as mine. I really don’t care what people think off me, I keep to myself in class. I’ll talk to people but if I can get away with not socialising I will. I’m not the nicest human you’ll ever meet, I’m quite blunt and I struggle showing emotions, but at least I can say I try.
i feel like that's actually a good point. when she's not focusing as much on her looks, she looks prettier because she's not constantly worried about how she looks.
I started sobbing when you said "what do you want to be remembered for?" No. I don't want people to remember me because I look a certain way. I want to be remembered because of my good qualities and my unique skills. Thank you so much for posting this. What you said touched me.
I wanna be remembered as the confident girl. The girl who goes out of her way to get or achieve something she wants. A girl who is fearless,assertive,bold etc… a girl who never stops trying until she achieves her goals. I just want to be someone people who would look up to and go for some advice.
😂 But still, just love yourself, girl 💗 It doesn’t matter at all what others think. It’s not like you would die because someone decided that you are weird. And yeah, actually, no one cares about you. They think about their own problems. No, “Do they like me?”. No-no-no-no. Just better ask yourself, “Do I like them?”
SPENCER and everyone else PLEASE READ!! Spencer is so kind.She has made such an impact on my confidence and how i look at myself and other people.She will be remember throughout my life and i will recommend this chanel and have to si many kids pre teens and adults.Thank you spencer and i wish you the best if luck life has to give ❤
You actually have changed my life I was so incredibly insecure just a month ago and I can’t believe how much my confidence has changed I’m still suffering from really bad anxiety but I am doing better and your helping so much I just wanted to say thank you. ❤️
Why is the slo-mo book page flipping so satisfyingggg Also “What do you want to be remembered for?” -Spencer Barbosa “for the lonely, the daydreamers, the ones who find their friends between the pages of book- YOU MATTER, and your happy ending WILL come. Sometimes the wait is just longer in real life than in fiction.” -the do-over: Lynn painter
Y'all listen.! I watched this video when it was released and she is damn right! I took Her words seriously and and i can tell i never lived a better version of life (where I'm stress free about how i look externally matter ) before! Thank u Spencer
I wanna be remembered as a kind person and I am still trying my best at being kind to everyone I know and helping people and I wanna die of old age when I know I have achieved my goal in life only one goal be kind
I would say that oh spencer she’s the girl that sets goals that seem high but she will totally reach them since she has a insane amount of confidence and it’s good he love for herself is through the roof and it’s amazing
this is definitely good advice but this made me feel worse💔 everyone spreads rumors about me and they are so insecure that it goes off on me and i’m known as not good things. i learn that the only people i need to show up for is my friends and be kind to everyone even if they are rude to me. ❤❤❤
This helped me so much I used to wear pants all time now I can wear shorts without worrying about what people think about me. When I first saw this video I said to myself “ this isn’t going to help me with anything “ but I listened to it and I’m really glad I did.
This video didn’t only make my confidence higher but I was struggling to change my attitude and the question what do u want to be remembered as I will not forget thanks spencer
this actually helped me...i want to be remembered as a musician/singer and a kind and helpful person and after watching your video i am gonna work on these goals:)
oh my gosh thank you so much.I was thinking and not once have a ever wanted to be around someone who as just "pretty" you rally did change my life and perspective. Ilysm
The way you look is a commonality within what one is deep down whether one has discipline or not the way you look physically is just as important as how you look like in the inside mate.
I really needed this today Spencer. Thank you so much! I do think you’re really pretty but I also think you’re really nice and funny and just a great person in general. I’m overweight and I’ve struggled with body image for so long but this really helped me
I love your shorts and just wanted to say that if you are anything irl like you are on TH-cam (which I definitely think you are) you will definitely be remembered as a kind, hard working individual that makes people smile. I know I definitely smile every time I see one of your videos
She gave a promisy and kept it! Thank you so much. I understand that one video can't really change your life, but this one for sure helped me very much ❤
I mean, I already love myself and am not super insecure about my looks but I know that my best friend is and is struggling with it a lot. She feels like people are constantly judging her and that she’s not pretty enough. I NEED to tell her this because this will totally change her life. Thank you Spencer, you’ve done it again. ❤️
but working hard to be who you want to be remembered for can help you be a better person in this life as well. I personally don’t care if I’m famous or not, but I still will try to be the best version of myself that I possibly can.
@@crazy_pyromaniac I honestly don't care if I'm remembered I wake up every morning and I try to be the best person I can be that's all there is. I couldn't care what people think about me I have enough of my own issue to deal with
I want to be remembered as the grunge mysterious kind spookey kid 💝 and what helps me be confident is being silly at the start of the day and quiet at school
Wow, this video really opened my eyes to the holistic approach of boosting confidence. It's not just about physical enhancements but also about mindset and well-being. Kudos to the experts for sharing such valuable insights!
I don't like the saying "no one is perfect" Everybody is perfect in different ways, there is not one type of perfect. We are all made the way we are, so therefore we are all perfect.
Just think about who you want to be now. Think about the things you did that might’ve hurt yourself or others, and make an effort to not do that again. Just thinking about how you are living now, and how you want to be living now, can make a big difference.
You are the nice pretty girl I don't know you but you are pretty Even if you are not the "one who got all the guys"back then,that doesn't mean you're not pretty. You're pretty inside and out
Why not become the gal who secured a strong man worth more than a 100 men? If you go this route you actually cant get that type of man afterwards because men care deeply about visual and physical exclusivity. Being a young mans practice girl is nothing to be proud of. Please respect yourself
“I want to be remembered as a sporty girl” In Highschool, everyone knows me for being the smart girl, but honestly, I don’t want to be remembered for that. I love sport and am quite good at it (except for running 💀) and I want to be known for that. Being known for being smart isn’t really me anymore. Maybe in primary school, but not now.
Love this message- so true! When I’m no longer here, what memories do I want to leave behind? What is the first trait that will pop into people’s heads? 🤔 kindness, funny, thoughtful.. so much more of a gift then “she was so pretty”! Facts babes!!!
Wow. This is amazing. Looking back at all the comments from the very start of this video,(her first video) you can see how it changes to the top comments, and how supportive and thankful the top comments are compared to the older ones. This is Spencer’s first video and from a long time ago, but now y’all can see how much she has impacted other people’s life’s only through 60 second videos. And how much she has progressed. And yes, she is pretty, but because she is confident. Her confidence in the tone of her voice is what’s mostly showing it. And people, you should just watch what this girl has done over time and how much effort she has done. Thank you so much queen ❤❤❤👑👑
I love your videos!!! I have been going through depression and dealing with anxiety and feeling ashamed for my body and not looking like the other girls. You have been helping me feel better about my body and feel way happier! Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️
"What do you wanna be remembered for?”
“I wanna be remembered”
Lmao this sums it up
😹😹🤣🤣
I wanna be remembered as a good TH-camr
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XD
People already describe me as smart and kind. It’s not ridiculous or dumb to want to be remembered as beautiful as well.
She was not saying that she was saying that life isn't about looks it's about the things that matter like kindness and honesty
I can understand.. not so good looking people definitely would like to be pretty very much and which is why they want to be remembered as one.
But why tho? It's something that you have absolutely nothing to do with and you didn't contribute to. It's like saying oh yeah that person?? Yeah the one born with those circumstances?? Yeah I remember them. It's like not that important 😂
I am remembered as the "smart person" and sure that's great, but it feels like I am nothing but that smart person. So yeahhh.....
I want to be remember as one of the most kind, lovable, sweet, caring person they've ever met. I just want to be remembered as a wonderful human being. Not perfect but a decent human :')
I’m far from pretty, I’m Shrek’s long lost sister. Even his weight is the same as mine. I really don’t care what people think off me, I keep to myself in class. I’ll talk to people but if I can get away with not socialising I will.
I’m not the nicest human you’ll ever meet, I’m quite blunt and I struggle showing emotions, but at least I can say I try.
Same!!
@@whyamigae9666 shrek is beautiful.
@@whyamigae9666 shrek is love, Shrek is life
Same♡
"being pretty has never been my goal in life"
** literally the prettiest person ever ** ❤️
i feel like that's actually a good point. when she's not focusing as much on her looks, she looks prettier because she's not constantly worried about how she looks.
I started sobbing when you said "what do you want to be remembered for?" No. I don't want people to remember me because I look a certain way. I want to be remembered because of my good qualities and my unique skills. Thank you so much for posting this. What you said touched me.
Same ❤😊
I want to remembered as a friend who brings everyone in my school connected.
Your prettiness shines threw I don't mean your looks I mean how strong and confident you are
I wanna be remembered as the confident girl. The girl who goes out of her way to get or achieve something she wants. A girl who is fearless,assertive,bold etc… a girl who never stops trying until she achieves her goals. I just want to be someone people who would look up to and go for some advice.
I want to be remembered as someone who is confident, independent and strong🍀
“What do you want to be remembered for?”
My anxiety: “I don’t want to be remembered”
😂 But still, just love yourself, girl 💗 It doesn’t matter at all what others think. It’s not like you would die because someone decided that you are weird. And yeah, actually, no one cares about you. They think about their own problems. No, “Do they like me?”. No-no-no-no. Just better ask yourself, “Do I like them?”
The introvert thing 😊❤
haha Yup
@@OtakuOneeChan00 fr
Same
GIRL you are literally the kind girl who works so hard and makes everyone smile who is ALSO pretty
“Works hard” lmao I didn’t know it was hard work to speak into a camera for 60 second
@@derrick2251 fine you get 471k subscribers
@@sophia2474 id love to. If I were a girl I definitely would because the game would be on easy mode. Just show up and win.
@@derrick2251 agree lol
@@derrick2251 sorry what? Her being a girl gives her an advantage? How
SPENCER and everyone else PLEASE READ!!
Spencer is so kind.She has made such an impact on my confidence and how i look at myself and other people.She will be remember throughout my life and i will recommend this chanel and have to si many kids pre teens and adults.Thank you spencer and i wish you the best if luck life has to give ❤
You are amazing Spencer you encourage me to be confident ❤
You actually have changed my life I was so incredibly insecure just a month ago and I can’t believe how much my confidence has changed I’m still suffering from really bad anxiety but I am doing better and your helping so much I just wanted to say thank you. ❤️
This girl is really beautiful from inside❤❤❤❤
I needed this so bad, you have no idea. Thank you
I want to be remembered for being strong, determined, kind,smart,patient
Confident people are often more comfortable being themselves, without feeling the need to conform or hide who they are.
I’m a dude, and I have confidence issues. This helped a ton. Thank you.
Congratulations j have scrolled down 2 the first Spencer barbosa vid here’s ur trophy🏆
LOVE U GIRL❤❤❤
That smile always makes any day better
Spencer is smoking 🔥 and holds a classic exquisite beauty. She really works hard and is very kind ❤❤❤❤❤🎉
I want to remembered for my hardwork, confidence independence, friendliness but also for being authentic
You just got tears of hapiness to my eyes!
THANK YOU FOR CHANGING MY LIFE!!❤
Thank you so much for this wonderful video Spencer
Why is the slo-mo book page flipping so satisfyingggg
Also “What do you want to be remembered for?” -Spencer Barbosa
“for the lonely, the daydreamers, the ones who find their friends between the pages of book- YOU MATTER, and your happy ending WILL come. Sometimes the wait is just longer in real life than in fiction.” -the do-over: Lynn painter
Who scrolled to her very first video
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Why did you watch then
you garenteed changed my whole perspective on everything. ily so much girl! 🫶
I want to be remembered for being God's child. For serving our holy father and to help others know his beautiful love.
I love this so much thank you
Moses 1 ❤️ changed my life and helped me to love myself :)
@@stephenjackson5065 how did he do so ?
@@goldenlamb777 helped me realize my life had purpose and that I have value even if I don’t see it all the way :)
Yes
I want to be remembered as the person who is always happy to see you. My house is always open and the kettle is freshly boiled.
Y'all listen.! I watched this video when it was released and she is damn right! I took Her words seriously and and i can tell i never lived a better version of life (where I'm stress free about how i look externally matter ) before! Thank u Spencer
I want to be remembered as that one nurse that saved kids and adults life's
Omg
That's super cool! 😊❤
I wanna be remembered as a kind person and I am still trying my best at being kind to everyone I know and helping people and I wanna die of old age when I know I have achieved my goal in life only one goal be kind
I would say that oh spencer she’s the girl that sets goals that seem high but she will totally reach them since she has a insane amount of confidence and it’s good he love for herself is through the roof and it’s amazing
Confidence never ever mattered. Its discipline. Discipline despite what you feel abiut yourself.
this is definitely good advice but this made me feel worse💔 everyone spreads rumors about me and they are so insecure that it goes off on me and i’m known as not good things. i learn that the only people i need to show up for is my friends and be kind to everyone even if they are rude to me. ❤❤❤
I want to be remembered as a person who will speak motivationally and help people feel better about themselves
Your words really speak to me your awesome
Thank you so much for this you have helped me so much
As always, great advice! I want to leave a big foot print; i want to be remembered as a kind, loving woman. I want to touch someone's heart
Ilysm ty for spreading all of this positivity spencer!!!
Ur literally amazing
People like u just make me feel more confident
This helped me so much I used to wear pants all time now I can wear shorts without worrying about what people think about me. When I first saw this video I said to myself “ this isn’t going to help me with anything “ but I listened to it and I’m really glad I did.
i want to be remember as an hardworking artist, fun, strong- independent girl and kind girl.
Is anyone actually independent? Isnt it a pretentious ideal?
This video didn’t only make my confidence higher but I was struggling to change my attitude and the question what do u want to be remembered as I will not forget thanks spencer
Spencer literally makes me so happy and made me feel so confident in who I was❤
"What do you wanna be remembered for"
I want to be remembered for being fun to be with😭
Bro u changed my whole entire perspective of myself… i love ur videos spencer! 🫶🥺
I want to be remembered as one of a innocent, smart, loved person as the prettiest of all
Thank you Spencer.I was really felling so demotivate about my body,how i look like ....But you saved my morning
🌷💕
this actually helped me...i want to be remembered as a musician/singer and a kind and helpful person and after watching your video i am gonna work on these goals:)
oh my gosh thank you so much.I was thinking and not once have a ever wanted to be around someone who as just "pretty" you rally did change my life and perspective. Ilysm
People who scrolled down to Spencer’s first short 👇👇
Sometimes I don’t feel pretty enough so I came to you and Tysm Spencer you e lifted me up so much your such an inspiration keep up the good work!!!
i want to be remembered as the artsy girl who made people happy just by being herself and genuinely cared for people while also being smart
Let us let go and let God. Our confidence will come with knowing the amazing Lord we serve! 🙏🏾💙
I want to be remembered as the girl who is kind to everyone but can also stick up for herself and her friends
I LOVE YOUR NAILS ❤
Me who doesn't want to be remembered: 👀
I will remember you
@@שלומיטלקר-ר4שand I will remember you
I will remember you! 🥰
The way you look is a commonality within what one is deep down whether one has discipline or not the way you look physically is just as important as how you look like in the inside mate.
I really needed this today Spencer. Thank you so much! I do think you’re really pretty but I also think you’re really nice and funny and just a great person in general. I’m overweight and I’ve struggled with body image for so long but this really helped me
Pov u scrolled all the way down to see the beginning of her journey
Wanna be remembered as someone who loved those around them regardless of their flaws, mistakes, or what they did.
I needed this! Thank you kind, hard-working, compassionate soul 💕
You are remembered as a best TH-camr out there with such great advice❤️✨
You know what, you really did change my life
I love your shorts and just wanted to say that if you are anything irl like you are on TH-cam (which I definitely think you are) you will definitely be remembered as a kind, hard working individual that makes people smile. I know I definitely smile every time I see one of your videos
She gave a promisy and kept it! Thank you so much. I understand that one video can't really change your life, but this one for sure helped me very much ❤
Your wonderful thoughts changed my mindset. Thanks for the amazing content. You gained a new subscriber
Omg she already made my life change when she said "I will change your life in 60 seconds." like girl ate with no crumbs like WE NEED TO BE FRIENDS!!
I mean, I already love myself and am not super insecure about my looks but I know that my best friend is and is struggling with it a lot. She feels like people are constantly judging her and that she’s not pretty enough. I NEED to tell her this because this will totally change her life. Thank you Spencer, you’ve done it again. ❤️
Whenever I watch her videos I just look into her eyes She has beautiful eyes 🥰
What do you want to be remembered for? Honestly I couldn't care less I'm going chilling somewhere else
Ok
@@rafka2729 just to clear things up by elsewhere I mean heaven/hell/reincarnation whatever you believe
@@DanielSmith-pq4yc Ok
but working hard to be who you want to be remembered for can help you be a better person in this life as well. I personally don’t care if I’m famous or not, but I still will try to be the best version of myself that I possibly can.
@@crazy_pyromaniac I honestly don't care if I'm remembered I wake up every morning and I try to be the best person I can be that's all there is. I couldn't care what people think about me I have enough of my own issue to deal with
I want to be remember as a kind, caring, loving and sweet person with a beautiful personality and a character even better🤍
You changed my life. I have been questioning my existence and this has helped me more than anything else ever will and I just needed this. Thank you.
I want to be remembered as the grunge mysterious kind spookey kid 💝 and what helps me be confident is being silly at the start of the day and quiet at school
I’d love to be remembered as someone who helps animals,(cats,dogs,..) all sort of injured animals.
"Outer beauty is overrated."
And this comment is underrated 💗👏
Wow, this video really opened my eyes to the holistic approach of
boosting confidence. It's not just about physical enhancements but also
about mindset and well-being. Kudos to the experts for sharing such
valuable insights!
She did change my life in 60 seconds 😳 she made me watch this whole video when I could've been doing something else, #respect.
I want to be remembered for my kindness, sweet voice, hardwork, and wisdom
Ppl in 2024
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Thank you, Spencer, the girl who saves lives 💗🌷💗
I don't like the saying "no one is perfect"
Everybody is perfect in different ways, there is not one type of perfect. We are all made the way we are, so therefore we are all perfect.
she’s literally so beautiful
what if i don't know what i want to be remembered as
Just think about who you want to be now. Think about the things you did that might’ve hurt yourself or others, and make an effort to not do that again. Just thinking about how you are living now, and how you want to be living now, can make a big difference.
@@crazy_pyromaniac still clueless 😂
all i want is to go to bed lmao 🤣
"oh emz? ya shes a lazy moron who never gets outta bed" 😂😂😂
I want to be remembered for the girl that really brave,confident infront of people, discipline and always make people laugh
But I wanna be remembered as the pretty one or the one who got all the guys back then and not the fat nice girl.
You are the nice pretty girl
I don't know you but you are pretty
Even if you are not the "one who got all the guys"back then,that doesn't mean you're not pretty.
You're pretty inside and out
Why not become the gal who secured a strong man worth more than a 100 men? If you go this route you actually cant get that type of man afterwards because men care deeply about visual and physical exclusivity. Being a young mans practice girl is nothing to be proud of. Please respect yourself
“I want to be remembered as a sporty girl”
In Highschool, everyone knows me for being the smart girl, but honestly, I don’t want to be remembered for that. I love sport and am quite good at it (except for running 💀) and I want to be known for that. Being known for being smart isn’t really me anymore. Maybe in primary school, but not now.
I want to be remembered as a prolific sex offender.
I just went through most of your shorts trying to pick the one I thought you looked the best in and ..I can't ! You are stunning in every way
Love this message- so true! When I’m no longer here, what memories do I want to leave behind? What is the first trait that will pop into people’s heads? 🤔 kindness, funny, thoughtful.. so much more of a gift then “she was so pretty”! Facts babes!!!
Wow. This is amazing. Looking back at all the comments from the very start of this video,(her first video) you can see how it changes to the top comments, and how supportive and thankful the top comments are compared to the older ones. This is Spencer’s first video and from a long time ago, but now y’all can see how much she has impacted other people’s life’s only through 60 second videos. And how much she has progressed. And yes, she is pretty, but because she is confident. Her confidence in the tone of her voice is what’s mostly showing it. And people, you should just watch what this girl has done over time and how much effort she has done.
Thank you so much queen ❤❤❤👑👑
Kindness but still people dont give no shit so i started give them back the energy now im the most remembered
I love your videos!!! I have been going through depression and dealing with anxiety and feeling ashamed for my body and not looking like the other girls. You have been helping me feel better about my body and feel way happier! Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️
Not going to lie this is the video that made me subscribe
You're for me "the girl that is confident and spreads confidence everywhere"
I wanna be remembered as that one friend who always tries to make everyone laugh 😃
Easy to say when one is already conventionally attractive and clearly put effort into their appearance
I want to be remembered as a hard worker, always motivated, joyful, intelligent, and just someone you can always count on :)
Why did this actually help me a lot. I want to be remembered as intelligent and powerful in a sense of having a strong will
Hey Spencer I do always remember you as the sweetest, kindest and positive person ever. Love you and love your videos ❤️