Why Your Worth Is Not Dependent on What You Accomplish
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ต.ค. 2024
- Why Your Worth Is Not Dependent on What You Accomplish
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I listen to your advice and I just cry and cry. Another way of life does exist.
I am so thankful for my parents. Growing up with ADHD, Dyslexia, and anxiety was hard. I was so lucky to have parents who were EXTREMELY involved. They were my biggest advocates and did work themselves to help me. They never relied on other people. They demanded my schools did everything they could to help me.
Oh my gosh! I NEVER thought I would hear another rational human being speak my mind! "Let them fail." "It's ok to GET INVOLVED!" Thank you!
My parents think I'm "sensitive" in comparison to them but I'm tough as nails in other people's opinion. It's different for everyone. They grew up harder than I did, I grew up harder than others I know. We all have different levels of things we find difficult.
My little girls LOVE our elderly couple across the street and even pray for them 💗 almost made me cry the first time I heard the eldest say she loves them!
You sound like wonderful parents and your daughter sound so precious. Well done
Yes, we always have to listen to our own gut and not let others' cloud our judgment!
I appreciate the first segment. I want the lifestyle of being known in some capacity, but the realization is I just want to do what I love for a living.
ADHD Mom sounds like she's desperately looking at what other people have/haven't done but can't embrace her own role and responsibilities. HERS. Not her role in finding more help. But HER role, how she and her husband interact with him, how they deal with his meltdowns, how they address him, talk to him, discipline him, encourage him...there seems to be a big disconnect there. No wonder he's acting out.
I'm a mom of toddlers. It's hard to tell the truth about our roles as mothers and fathers. We HAVE to tell the truth to help our babies. It seemed like she wasnt ready to tell the truth.
I’m a mom with ADHD, finally diagnosed as an adult in college, and I have two boys with ADHD. Owning up to your own shortcomings as a parent is hard. It’s so easy to hand the act of discipline to the school because your child is there 8+ hours a day, you have your own issues, and you probably have 3-4 hours a weekday to know your child and connect. The real issue is that school is raising our children and we are babysitting them until they go back on Monday. This pandemic was a wake up call to let us see what parenting really looks like. I am now homeschooling my children, ADHD and all. I finally know them, their hobbies, needs, wants. And we’re a family of six on a $56k/yr income.
Thank you for calling this lady out
I just love the positivity of this podcast.
Thank God I had good Christian mentors that helped me get thru bad times with just their presence at church and at my Christian school. Never underestimate the power of mentoring in a kids life. You have no idea what their home life is like. My parents put on good fronts with the Christian school and churches that we went to. My home life was complete chaos and I went thru the same thing that this poor girl went thru with a brother who violated me. I never told anyone until I was an adult.
Amazing
Episode! As always ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
A good book with a great title that I love is...
The conversation is the relationship
Love the advice for the mom. It really resonated with me. Thank you both for talking about the topic. It’s so difficult being a parent. It’s so hard to know the best path. Wonderful stuff.
I need to have a funeral for the relationship that I no longer have with my daughter; difference is life after is not looking so great.
I NEEDED THIS ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Here's a survival strategy: You're kids aren't mini versions of yourself. A person with ADD is not a defective version of other people. If a different version of success is meaningful to the son....be there for that.
Love your videos!
Could it be the child saw things that might have affected him
how do I avoid self-sabotaging myself?
The most important words, "It was NOT your fault."
of course it's not her fault why would it even be her fault
ADHD mom doesn’t want to take responsibility for her role in her sons behavior. She’s probably a bad parent
Your worth is not in what you accomplish is a half truth. Your worth to God and loved ones is not based on what you accomplish. However, if you never aspire to do or be anything then you are of no value to society. We need to get this understanding correct.
You should have stopped at the God and loved ones part. You are not your failures and you are not your accomplishments.
@@deepdownderryl That's true, but have to create some value in society in order to have value in society. Loved someone, raised a family, invented something that helps mankind for the better something. It's important to understand the difference. Yes, we all have value to God, because we are his creation. But there are people who use this to make excuses for themselves. I have ADHD myself. Someone helped me to cope with it, but I had to take responsibility for my ADHD and learn to manage it. The guy who is an acholic once he's offered help must take responsibility for his issue to overcome it. God requires us to take responsibility for ourselves. What if Galileo had decided to give up on his work in astronomy? What if the inventors Like Tesla, Eddison, Ford, Carver and others had decided that there was no value in their accomplishments? Mankind would have never benefited from what they did. While our value as a human being does not come from our accomplishments, our value to society is directly related to it. Mankind always moves forward for the better when we accomplish great things.
@@Smartguy561 that was some wonderful wisdom, thanks for sharing. ;) Have a wonderful day.
I also feel it's important for us as humans, to know/love their inner self... Really loves yourself. If we are in a peaceful place of love/understanding with our Man in the Glass... I think the world could be more honest/proud place to be. Great Blessings to you on your journey.
@@Smartguy561 listen bud, I agree with you that accomplishments are kinda neat and stuff but if those people didn't accomplish that we would probably not have electricity but if people had a healthier self worth and view of themselves and subsequently treated others better I'd take universal happiness over self driving cars, my guy
@@Smartguy561 you sound like someone who would say if van Gogh didn't suffer from mental health issues we wouldn't have a pretty blue yellow painting, bruh
John loves funerals....😂😂😂
That ladies husband is just arrogant, not competitive...
I enjoy listening to John but I dislike the fake funeral advice, so corny, off putting after all the good advice.
I can understand why you would think that. I think for them, it seems like he takes himself too seriously and this is a corny/funny way to pay homage to past career and look toward future while keeping it light hearted
In other words, we're going to make sure you accomplish nothing.