#39 It's Been a Struggle: Everything’s Hitting Us at Once

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  • @hakankucukbaskan120
    @hakankucukbaskan120 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Get well soon
    I wish you good health, God bless you

  • @Elfraty
    @Elfraty 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Never ever give up. Good times will come again!

  • @anyat8115
    @anyat8115 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wishing all 3 of you speedy recoveries..... Your gardens looks MAGNIFICENT! Imagine, that....a well.

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much! We love our garden in wintertime! It's so nice and green 😍 Sicily becomes so beautiful after some rain 🌧 And we become happier 😆 I think next projects is a chicken coop and then we will see what we could do about the well. My husband is trying to gather some courage to give it a try ❤️

  • @mbrylewski
    @mbrylewski 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My sincerest sympathy to both of you. I hope you both are back to full health soon. Your previous dog was called Spike. So is our dog called! What a coincidence

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you 😊 We are getting better ❤️ Spike is such a beautiful name for a dog. Lucky you to have Spike in your life 🐕 ❤️

  • @ScribeAdept
    @ScribeAdept 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for sharing your story with all of us - the 'bad' (frustrations, set backs, sadness, overwhelming stuff) as well as the 'good'.

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's life, but sometimes we wish there were fewer downs just for a while 😆 But we are trying to be real. We are happy that people appreciate honesty and like our crazy journey 😃

  • @iouliavvedenskaya3942
    @iouliavvedenskaya3942 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dear Brave Friends, feel better soon! Sending you al my good energy, heal and prosper ...

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for sending us some good energy! Very well needed ❤️ We will try to take it easy 😊 Warm wishes from Sicily ❤️

  • @GailLentini
    @GailLentini 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sending you prayers and best wishes for a speedy recovery 🙏

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We are grateful for your kindness ♥️ Thank you ❤️

  • @EstherStefanatos-dx2rx
    @EstherStefanatos-dx2rx 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You both have had a long hot and dry summer. Sometimes the body says it’s time to slow down and rest. Your farm looks fantastic. The well sounds like a great idea. Merry Christmas to you both

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's why we love winter. It's a wonderful time to heal and spend more time relaxing at home. We love those cooler shorter days. We love our winter green farm! It's just so much more beautiful and watered by the rain. We hope we will have enough courage to try doing well ourselves 😆 Merry Christmas to you, and thank you for following our story 😊

  • @KDiG812
    @KDiG812 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My prayers and best wishes to you both. Exercises and rest will help.

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for your wishes and prayers ❤️ Resting helps a lot! Physio therapy is looking promising, too 🤞

  • @ninakeiser673
    @ninakeiser673 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Get well soon!

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you! ❤️ We have one week of rain ahead. So we will be able to rest a bit more.

  • @juliesemczyszyn5015
    @juliesemczyszyn5015 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sometimes we all get hit at once but it will pass soon. Speedy recovery to all of you. X

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you ❤️ We always hope the new year will be a bit kinder to us and all the people. xxx

  • @joannag9900
    @joannag9900 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good luck. Merry Christmas and everything good for You. 😊

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you. Merry Christmas, we wish you loads of good things happening to you next year ❤️

  • @juliaskordou544
    @juliaskordou544 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    hope you all feel better soon.

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you. We hope so, too ❤️ 🙏

  • @PeterMccabe-h3q
    @PeterMccabe-h3q 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I hope you guys feel better and that Lucky is on the mend. Hang in there, but you need time to recover. Merry Xmas and all the best Love you guys.

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We are getting better, but first, we will need to overcome some cold as well 😆 Lucky is much better and cheeky as always. Merry Christmas! Love from Sicily ❤️

  • @dianamartin9558
    @dianamartin9558 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I hope you all are on the mend…. ❤

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And I catched cold yesterday 😆 Never ending story 😆

    • @dianamartin9558
      @dianamartin9558 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ omg! Gonna need some pastina soup. Get well soon. So happy to meet you both!

  • @raymondgilmour1533
    @raymondgilmour1533 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hopefully you are both on the mend 🙏 soon….and your doggy. Lucky 😊

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      We hope so, too 🙏 Sometimes only time can help us to heal and know that there are so many kind people who care ❤️

    • @raymondgilmour1533
      @raymondgilmour1533 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ absolutely 👍❤️

  • @daynight4902
    @daynight4902 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    GOD BLESS YOU

  • @s.n.6558
    @s.n.6558 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Praying for you all. XXX from NL

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for your prayers, we appreciate them ❤️ xxx

  • @robertwilliamson9255
    @robertwilliamson9255 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    A very nice couple! I hope you soon feel stronger!!🖐🏻🖐🏻

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@robertwilliamson9255 Thank you for this kind message ❤️

  • @juliaskordou544
    @juliaskordou544 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    it may help if you put a bit of hot water on her food so it softens a little. easier for digestion

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for your good advice. I will do it today 😉 ❤️

  • @katiecerasoli1104
    @katiecerasoli1104 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Have you tried physical therapy… it worked for me… I had pain in my lower leg… I waited 4 months for it to improve. It Didn’t then I started going to physical therapy twice a week. It was amazing .. it took a few months of me doing the daily exercises to get 100% recovery. A year later… I have no daily pain… and I still do my exercises daily. You might want to check this out physical therapy if you haven’t yet. I hope you feel better soon. Take care katie

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you, Katie for your comment. I am happy to hear that you are pain-free. It can be really debilitating daily pain. I just started going to physio 3 weeks ago. A very slight improvement, still a long way to go. Hopefully, with daily exercise, I will heal as well ❤️

    • @katiecerasoli1104
      @katiecerasoli1104 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ it does take time… make sure you do your exercises daily… even a few. I use a heating pad at night on my lower back… … you can put this on your hip.. (I have a waist band heating pad… I got it on amazon …) so if you like the heat this might help as well. Or they have those natural heating pad that you put in microwave. I also use a roll on pain relief… I live in the USA so it would be a different brand in Italy. I’m sure your therapist can recommend. I carry it with me … sometimes my hip or knees hurt and I put it on… and it numbs the pain. It took me 4 months of the therapy and then I continued my exercises… not necessarily daily but.. I now work out at a gym and swim. The pain in my lower leg and hip… not sciatica.. Started November 2023 and I finally went to physical therapy February 2024 to June 2024 and then the gym/swim at least 3-4 times a week. You could do this at home too… continue with the exercises they give you). Good luck 🍀 take care Katie
      … Also just An idea for a part time job… maybe instead of farming in the summer . … you could teach Italian online) Teach online: Become an online tutor at Preply
      preply.com/en/teach
      And there are other sites… you can look into. Or in your town you could teach tourists or expats?
      On Airbnb they have experiences… not sure how this works… but you and your husband could offer tours of your area or Airbnb ‘life on a farm’ experience.. in the USA people like to do things like that. Anyhow just some ideas?!
      For example
      www.airbnb.com/s/Sicily--Italy/experiences?tab_id=experience_tab&refinement_paths%5B%5D=%2Fexperiences&place_id=ChIJs1lT0GhiEBMRUH22ZykECwE&flexible_trip_lengths%5B%5D=one_week&monthly_start_date=2025-01-01&monthly_length=3&monthly_end_date=2025-04-01&rank_mode=default&location_bb=Qhs%2FnkF6cmxCDfiuQT7PvA%3D%3D&query=Sicily%2C%20Italy&date_picker_type=calendar&checkin=2025-01-20&adults=2&search_type=unknown
      Bye Katie

  • @lkozik7958
    @lkozik7958 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Best wishes for a blessed and happy Christmas. My husband grew up in Argentina where the burocracy is a problem. You might try a little “gift” to help the papers to be processed. A bottle of whiskey, chocolates, or $$?? I also have hip pain, and my chiropractor recommends 20 min of heat, and 20 min of ice packs. You might ask your therapist if that would help. ❤❤❤

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Merry Christmas, and thank you for your message. We have somebody who deals with all that paperwork. So we are dependent on him. He is the "lucky" one that has to deal with those people daily. I love using cold on my hip, and it definitely helps, but heat was not great for me so far. We wish you a Merry Christmas and a pain free new year ❤️

  • @AlK-t4x
    @AlK-t4x 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Did you try a heated pad or hot water bottle on the hip? I had this in my shoulder....every moment I was inactive I used it, even when the pain subsided. I feel it stimulated blood flow and subsequently healing the shoulder. It is 90% better after 6 months.

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I am happy to hear that you found a way that helps with healing ❤️ I have tried using heat, but my body didn't like it, but cold helps me a lot. It's like a painkiller that removes the pain for 1 hour, at least. I hope you will heal 100% and be pain-free 🙏 ❤️ Let's hope for pain-free 2025 😉

  • @Handala-e8w
    @Handala-e8w 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I hope you get well soon. Enjoy your fresh olive oil!

  • @AnthonyWeston-g6g
    @AnthonyWeston-g6g 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Only rest will help this. Maybe TH-cam can assist with self help Dr Mandel podcast stretching exercises

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for your recommendation! I have tried so many exercises myself, but now I am following only what PT is telling me to do. I have tried to heal myself, and it didn't work. I was actually doing much more trying to heal quicker. His exercises are minimal right now, and the process is very slow. I just need to have some patience ❤️

    • @AnthonyWeston-g6g
      @AnthonyWeston-g6g 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@SomethingLikeThis1 yes indeed and I wish you god speed in your recovery

  • @MichaelDeMita-w7s
    @MichaelDeMita-w7s 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It is not good for your mental health to continue this way. It lloks like farm life in Sicily is not for you, normal jobs may be the healthier and happier route for you. TH-cam is not going to bridge the gap as you mentioned before. Good luck to you.

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @MichaelDeMita-w7s Thank you for your suggestion. It's been tough, but it's not only farm life, its health, and family. All the little things are happening from everywhere. The problem is that normal jobs are difficult to find in Sicily. But we are always looking for something. Winter garden is great, and we love it. Summer Garden will have to be much smaller, and we might do tourist tours here. We would be happy if TH-cam would pay our bills. Otherwise, we are not big spenders.

  • @rawaxis
    @rawaxis 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Just go raw vegan and all your dis-ease will fade away. Markus Rothkranz The Healthy Life on TH-cam will guide you.

    • @gerty9250
      @gerty9250 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Nope, carnivore diet is best.

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I will check the TH-cam channel! Thank you for your suggestion. I heard many good things about both, but we grow mostly vegetables, so more likely that I would do vegan than carnivore (which I heard helps a lot too!)

  • @jacobtribe9623
    @jacobtribe9623 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have been watching different channels of couples moving to sicily, I watched the last 3 of your videos, I have to say you come across complaining too much about many things, I might be wrong , but I perceive from your complainings that Sicily is not for you. I might br wrong Sicily is not for you, you probably you should mve somewhere else, somewhere where life suits your needs.

    • @SomethingLikeThis1
      @SomethingLikeThis1  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I mean, it all depends on so many factors. If you are retiring here, then it's a great place to do so, and have that "La Dolce Vita" lifestyle. But if you are a working age person who has to make a living, then it's another story. Make sure you are comparing similar stories. We are here mostly because of the family that we want to have nearby. We could show only good side of the things, but these 4 years had been really tough on us and we chose to show both sides of the things.