How I see the US after living in Europe for 2 Years

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  • @ZoneCracker
    @ZoneCracker ปีที่แล้ว +7096

    America is a place where people have dreams.
    Europe is a place where people have lives.

    • @alkemystica
      @alkemystica ปีที่แล้ว +84

      so the logic says Europeans live without dreaming

    • @josephj6521
      @josephj6521 ปีที่แล้ว +448

      @@alkemysticaEuropeans mostly are living their dreams. Work/life balance is very important as well as social interactions. This excludes the UK who are a mini-USA.

    • @alkemystica
      @alkemystica ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@LalaDepala00 It;s true. Lots of great things in Europe

    • @alkemystica
      @alkemystica ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@josephj6521 I am sure some are. Although in my opinion work/life balance is a distorted concept.

    • @user-wm3rh8ne9k
      @user-wm3rh8ne9k ปีที่แล้ว +52

      One (living a good life) doesn't exclude the other (dreaming).
      Just explore your dreams, find your path(s - yes they can be multiple!)) and enjoy the ride! With love from Europe. ;-)

  • @robertwinkel9209
    @robertwinkel9209 ปีที่แล้ว +4671

    My wife and I took jobs in Europe 5 years ago. Within 4 months we knew we did not want to move back to the US ever.

    • @daveinportugal
      @daveinportugal  ปีที่แล้ว +212

      Wow! Never looking back

    • @JeepCherokeeful
      @JeepCherokeeful ปีที่แล้ว +87

      All depends on the person, their interests and where they lived in the USA. If you’re working for “the man” 6 days a week, 12 hours like the presenter, well, it’d move to a dozen other countries to escape that. Especially Flint or Detroit or LA, guess people are actually mentally challenged?

    • @kirstyg3978
      @kirstyg3978 ปีที่แล้ว +220

      I hear you on that. My hubby is european we moved back to his home country last year. 2 months in I asked him what was he thinking leaving here for the US lol. And how the hell do it for 20 years. 😂 my kids will be born and raised here for sure.

    • @LosAngelesHypnosis
      @LosAngelesHypnosis ปีที่แล้ว +76

      ​@@daveinportugalI am looking to move in 3 years. I will be semi-retiring. I am ready for the change because of all the reasons you have given. Love your info. Thank you.

    • @ricksworlddereaux2397
      @ricksworlddereaux2397 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      Life in Europe,is much more cheaper,safer,calmer...and if you get old..there is cheap or free Healthcare..thats its of Socialcapitalism in Europe..compare to hard Capitalism in the USA..with Rich or dye Attitude..no Middleclass there anymore..🤔🇺🇸🇪🇺

  • @necrophobya
    @necrophobya ปีที่แล้ว +2829

    I did my PhD in the Netherlands, and once we had an American candidate for a postdoc position. He was great, but after his presentation, he asked us in a very cocky manner, almost looking down on us, lowly Europeans "do you guys EVEN work weekends?". Our professor who is Korean and did his PhD in USA put him in his place very fast hy saying "I've worked in 3 continents, America, East Asia, and now Europe and I can say that indeed Europeans work the smallest amount of hours. But the output is the same"

    • @ngauruhoezodiac3143
      @ngauruhoezodiac3143 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      There is no need for output to exceed demand.

    • @myname-pe2pe
      @myname-pe2pe ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Tbh that might have just been a missed shot at humour, I work at a national lab in the States, there is quite often miscommunication amongst us and the international workers and scientists, after time though we adjust to each other

    • @ntmn8444
      @ntmn8444 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      How stupid. I’m American and laugh in the face of employers. I will give you everything I have, but ONLY 9-5 M-F. After that, it’s my life, and I don’t owe you the rest of my waking hours. And yes, I’ll take my vacations. Because let’s face it, when you have your chance you will replace me sooner than you can say “gotcha”.

    • @Pdmc-vu5gj
      @Pdmc-vu5gj ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@@myname-pe2peNot really. It was obnoxious and generalizing.

    • @MoonPump
      @MoonPump ปีที่แล้ว

      Just salty losers who live to hate America. There’s a reason they all go to America to learn in the first place lmao because we’re on top

  • @johnnydonaldcarr1847
    @johnnydonaldcarr1847 ปีที่แล้ว +512

    After having lived in Germany for 21 years as an American. I have changed my perspectives on health insurance, 30 days paid vacation with vacation pay and overall a slower paced life Style. Americans seem to think Europeans are traveling like crazy to see all of Europe in a short time. When in reality it's more likely you will rent a house for 2 weeks and just relax with family and friends. A new life with a fresh prospective.
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    • @werpu12
      @werpu12 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Yes indeed we do not rush during our vacations, we really just go to some place and relax for a week or two, or some people get plastered daily. We have a stronger distinction between work and free time, work means work and nothing else, free time means no work. So given germany was mentioned, the productivity over the entire year is pretty similar to the USA despite having 5 weeks of vacation! Thats because work is more compressed and serious and people tend to focus better with shorter work hours, the rest is lost time, you just dont feel it like that because you are exhausted!

    • @hansmeier3287
      @hansmeier3287 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Health insurance was made possible by the solidarity of our nation state in Germany in the 1870s. Now, anti-German politicians pull in millions and millions of illegal foreigners and half of them dont even work but get social security and health coverage for free - which means we Germans have to to work to pay taxes for them...
      Plus Ukrainians.

    • @paulm2467
      @paulm2467 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      American tourists race from country to country trying to cram in as much as possible and that is hard to understand for Europeans. Most of them don't realise that American tourists are so time restricted and get incredibly few holidays.

    • @lynndupree1205
      @lynndupree1205 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      As an older American with physical restrictions and not much genuine interest in preparing food, I believe if I lived in a European country I might miss the amazing variety of pre-washed, prepared, frozen, and packaged deli foods, that I can pick up at any grocery store. I hear people extoll the virtues of healthy natural foods, but to me, that sounds like it might be an obstacle. I often push my cart down the frozen food aisle and think to myself, thank the gods I don't have to fix dinner! I just throw together a fast (pre-washed) salad while I pop a frozen entre into the microwave! That might sound silly to some people, but having access to literally dozens of these kinds of convenience foods is critical for me. I do really think the European countries have a better work/ life balance and a more wholesome attitude toward money, and less hangups about relationships.

    • @paulm2467
      @paulm2467 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lynndupree1205 That convenience is killing you. The amount of chemicals, antibiotics, proven carcinogens, genetic engineering etc. allowed under your business dominated regulatory bodies and food 'safety' standards is criminal. In the rest of the developed world you have to prove that each additive is completely harmless, in the USA it has to be proven to be harmful, that's an extremely dangerous approach. There is a reason that most of you are fat, unfit and die 5 years younger than Europeans on average.

  • @katherinenowik2265
    @katherinenowik2265 ปีที่แล้ว +967

    I am Canadian and moved to Europe over 36 years ago, much like you l sold everythingand bought a one way ticket to France. Your comparison of American, which has similarities to Canadian is very accurate. I now live in England and travel all around Europe with much ease. I can't go back to North America now, it would be a huge culture shock. America has a lot to offer but Europe is where you will find life's riches without being a millionaire

    • @Leo29568
      @Leo29568 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      ‘Finding life’s riches without being a millionaire’ - this is what life is all about.

    • @utubecomment21
      @utubecomment21 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry, but America has nothing to offer. The food sucks, the healthcare is a total rip-off, education is laughable at best. But I have to admit that if murdering innocent people and stealing their resources was an Olympic sport, America would win Gold, Silver & Bronze!
      As for Canada, it is the most racist place I've ever been to … and I've been to Cape Town! Bill Burr was right!
      *Bill Burr: Canada Is Not Some Post-Racial Paradise | CONAN on TBS* th-cam.com/video/-hZ5gTYMk8Y/w-d-xo.html

    • @soulshine8531
      @soulshine8531 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Went i was in Paris years ago i thought we’ll I’d rather be poor in Paris than Dallas. I tried MX-not so much. I have animals and figured out i need to keep working so back to US for now.

    • @RIZFERD
      @RIZFERD ปีที่แล้ว

      The longer I am back in Indonesia to me, western world and middle east are the real third world.
      Even most of you don't know that world map is inaccurate since Mercator projection 1569.
      Real Indonesia is Huge as Russia but much richer.
      All you know is your mediocre tiny world and boxes your entire life, that's the meaning of black box including what Abrahamic religions wanting to have, including toga square hat/cap during graduation ceremony.
      My comment is intimidating for thus not prepared for the truth thus not a complete multiracial not multilingual never been living around the world all alone since childhood are just the same never evolved dumb apes stuck inside your tiny boxes your entire life and not learning from the past to evolve better.

    • @andddrea11
      @andddrea11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ⁠@@Leo29568that’s something nice to say if you have the money. But when you’re poor, or you want to achieve certain things in life, like to afford buying a house, to have a family… you start thinking about the bills and how you’re gonna make it. Even if it’s Europe.

  • @EvaRomo-o1u
    @EvaRomo-o1u ปีที่แล้ว +1304

    When I moved to the United States, one of the things that surprised me was the obsession with people's "ethnicity" and the classification people do with it.

    • @martinn.6082
      @martinn.6082 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      That's not necessarily a bad thing. Many PoC I know had more problems with racism in Europe than in the US, since we don't "think" as much about diversity as Americans do.

    • @beebee-vv5ly
      @beebee-vv5ly ปีที่แล้ว

      you wrong. For European citizens was always important religion. They build and establish their countries based on law and direction of Christianity.European people now are opening eyes because they notice as they let in too many muslims with their toxic traditions and muslims disrespect and abuse European citizens and their culture. muslims and 3rd world immigrants are the biggest problem and unwanted issues in Europe now. Every single European country where they let them in they made there crime, islamic terrorists attacks, abusing women, overpopulated with out of logic number of kids creating poverty by this in Europe, they abuse benefits system stealing tax payers money because muslims are the biggest unemployed group in Europe now. They are just lazy.they don't bother study languages and educate themselves. Europe is fed up and will do all to close the borders. European people were tolerant but enough is enough for 3rd world barbarians

    • @melodieneil712
      @melodieneil712 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Really sad, isn’t it???

    • @srisungazesplash1340
      @srisungazesplash1340 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      You can survive in peace as long as you are white skinned…. I have seen racism and non acceptance with my fellow dark skinned people…. Totally

    • @LennyCash777
      @LennyCash777 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @srisungazesplash1340 Yeah, go tell that to Ryan Carson, Andreas Probst, and Josh Kruger. They're three more recent examples of the "peaceful survivability" of the white skinned in the U.S. And at least two of them were lefty, naive virtue signaling types like Melodie Neil who commented above comes across as being. Hopefully, Melodie or someone else she cares about won't have to learn the hard way the same way they did.

  • @GillerHeston
    @GillerHeston ปีที่แล้ว +1557

    I am in my early 60s and retired at 53. Lots of people gave me pushback because they had difficulty grasping the concept of not working if you don’t have to. I looked at my life as stages. I earned everything I have now through a lot of hard work, but I owe it to myself to “stop and smell the roses” in my final stage of life. In my case I left the country after I retired and live in Latin America. It allowed me to get away from all the negative things happening in America while appreciating my new environment. I have yet to meet anyone who regrets retirement.

    • @eloign7147
      @eloign7147 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Nice way to retire. For me, I believe retirees who struggle to meet their basic needs are the ones who could not accumulate enough money during their active years to meet their needs. Retirement choices determine a lot of things. My wife and I both spent same number of years in the civil service, she invested through a wealth manager and myself through the 401k. We both still earning after our retirement.

    • @joshbarney114
      @joshbarney114 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is true. I'm in my mid 50's now. My wife and I were following this same trajectory. Last two years, I pulled out my money and invested with her wealth manager. Not catching up with her profits over the years, but at least I earn more. I'm making money even before retiring, and my retirement fund has grown way more than it would have with just the 401(k). Haha.

    • @rogerwheelers4322
      @rogerwheelers4322 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's unfortunate most people don't have such information. I don't really blame people who panic. Lack of information can be a big hurdle. I've been making more than a million dollars by just investing through an advisor, and I don't have to do much work. Doesn't matter if the economy is misbehaving; great wealth managers will always make returns.

    • @harwellron1289
      @harwellron1289 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think this is something I should do, but I've been stalling for a long time now. I don't really know which firm to work with; I feel they are all the same but it seems you’ve got it all worked out with the firm you work with so i surely wouldn’t mind a recommendation.

    • @rogerwheelers4322
      @rogerwheelers4322 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I definitely share your sentiment about these firms. When I was starting out, I checked out a couple of freelance investors online, so you could do the same. I personally work with “Colleen Janie Towe”, and she's is widely recognized for her proficiency and expertise in the financial market. With a comprehensive knowledge of portfolio diversification, she is acknowledged as an authority in this field. Most likely, her deets can be found on the net, so you can confirm yourself.

  • @leesweeney8879
    @leesweeney8879 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    Portugal made me so much calmer about life.
    Been here 18 months.
    Will never go back.

    • @hulkhatepunybanner
      @hulkhatepunybanner 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      *Already took your pound of flesh out of America, eh?*

    • @lukesanchez9961
      @lukesanchez9961 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Stay there

    • @EricTheBody
      @EricTheBody 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@lukesanchez9961that comes off as so jealous. Maybe you should check Europe out.

    • @flaviabarosio7759
      @flaviabarosio7759 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Assolutamente d accordo con te, ❤

    • @hadrienleon
      @hadrienleon 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How did you do it? Any tips ?

  • @pamelaportland1286
    @pamelaportland1286 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    So true on all levels. I lived in Europe for 20 years. The work life balance is what I admired the most. Working for the US government you were not a team player if you used your vacation time. You were labeled as lazy and not committed to the team. It got old. My commitment was to my family and myself. Not my job. That was making a living and nothing more but Americans demand this allegiance which means you sacrifice happiness for the sake of a job. It's psychotic. A constant struggle. This is where America falls short.

    • @PeterNGloor
      @PeterNGloor ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I have lived in Europe for 72 years now, and I still like it.....

    • @TravelinRosy2025
      @TravelinRosy2025 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree usa sucks

    • @RIZFERD
      @RIZFERD ปีที่แล้ว

      The longer I am back in Indonesia to me, western world and middle east are the real third world.
      Even most of you don't know that world map is inaccurate since Mercator projection 1569.
      Real Indonesia is Huge as Russia but much richer.
      All you know is your mediocre tiny world and boxes your entire life, that's the meaning of black box including what Abrahamic religions wanting to have, including toga square hat/cap during graduation ceremony.
      My comment is intimidating for thus not prepared for the truth thus not a complete multiracial not multilingual never been living around the world all alone since childhood are just the same never evolved dumb apes stuck inside your tiny boxes your entire life and not learning from the past to evolve better.

    • @ej34b
      @ej34b ปีที่แล้ว +1

      fall short is saying it nicely. It is a fundamental cultural aberration.

    • @SBezmy
      @SBezmy ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It’s not true on every level. The part where he says “Europe” doesn’t have political extremism and polarized politics is beyond ridiculous.

  • @Valhalla_Heathen
    @Valhalla_Heathen ปีที่แล้ว +751

    American from Nevada here. When I managed to visit Nordic countries like Sweden, Finland and Norway I felt like I was in utter bliss! But Norway was the country in particular that made me feel not wanting to go back to the US, it felt like home there 🇳🇴

    • @melodyal3357
      @melodyal3357 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      If you felt like that about north countries, try south. That´t where people truly know how to enjoy and live their lives. North countries are cold compared to the south ones. Best mentalities and lifestyles are in european south countries such as Italy, Spain, Greece, Balkans... Those nations will teach you how to be closer to what really matters in life (family, friends, siestas, etc..) and I am sure that after spending time there you will mentally and spiritually feel and be healthier, it´s inevitable. :)

    • @MirceaKitsune
      @MirceaKitsune ปีที่แล้ว

      Never thought I'd live to say this, but I hope we never become like America! Although the EU is being taken over by techno-dystopian children detached from reality, we're holding it together so far. Whatever moral paranoia and societal cultism destroyed America isn't manifesting as strongly here, less for a few places like France and of course Britain which left the EU before going mad. People in my area at least generally don't care about anything: Whether you're for or against LGBT, believe in global warming or not, vaccines... sure we have those with strong opinions having to push something and crying on their associated media channels, but at the end of the day no one lynches anyone else for it and this stuff never holds long. If the EU keeps going authoritarian we'll likely leave it eventually, but for now it seems to be one of the last empires bearable to live in left on the planet.

    • @perolden
      @perolden ปีที่แล้ว

      @@melodyal3357 Sadly, this is incorrect, the southern countries are problem countries, you can never expect anything to be done, if you order some work, it'll be done in a shoddy way, by people that show up every third day, and blaming it all on their sick mother in law.

    • @anak.-ix5zg
      @anak.-ix5zg ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How abt the cold?

    • @SkankHuntForty2
      @SkankHuntForty2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Would you say the same if you're Asian or black, living in Norway? Or do you think it's only welcoming for whites. Real question.

  • @davidabbett7011
    @davidabbett7011 ปีที่แล้ว +789

    My wife and I lived in Italy for a 4 year expatriate assignment and we had similar epiphanies. Work/Life balance, my wife feeling far safer in Europe, quality of food and lack of artificial preservatives, fresh & seasonal fruits & vegetables, a sense of community that we have lost in U.S., personal data protection, a not for profit medical system, and NOT having to live in the U.S. during a NEVER ENDING political season.

    • @RIZFERD
      @RIZFERD ปีที่แล้ว

      The longer I am back in Indonesia to me, western world and middle east are the real third world.
      Even most of you don't know that world map is inaccurate since Mercator projection 1569.
      Real Indonesia is Huge as Russia but much richer.
      All you know is your mediocre tiny world and boxes your entire life, that's the meaning of black box including what Abrahamic religions wanting to have, including toga square hat/cap during graduation ceremony.
      My comment is intimidating for thus not prepared for the truth thus not a complete multiracial not multilingual never been living around the world all alone since childhood are just the same never evolved dumb apes stuck inside your tiny boxes your entire life and not learning from the past to evolve better.

    • @fpvflyriding
      @fpvflyriding ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I would move to Italy & live in the northern most part!

    • @warriorshedge6772
      @warriorshedge6772 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thats bullshit, with the migrant crime rate around?

    • @davidabbett7011
      @davidabbett7011 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@warriorshedge6772 . . . Troll

    • @antoniotorcoli5740
      @antoniotorcoli5740 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​​@@warriorshedge6772Italy has one of the lowest homicide rate in the world. www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_intentional_homicide_rate&ved=2ahUKEwiFw4q4utKBAxWQwAIHHSWrCm4QFnoECBUQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3tSm3gWKOPCIeTd-8qc5yl

  • @loonaya
    @loonaya 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +99

    Saying that food is a bit better in Europe than in the US is the understatement of the century especially from a guy living in Portugal where food is exceptional.

    • @TimBadger-w7d
      @TimBadger-w7d 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I moved to The USA 14 years ago. The toxins in the food have made me ill.

  • @jorgefortes6674
    @jorgefortes6674 ปีที่แล้ว +608

    As a 67 yo Portuguese I must tell you this true story: Back in 1991 I met an Australian guy who stayed in Portugal for a while. One of the things he complained about was the time he had to wait for the food in a restaurant. He claimed that in Sydney's McDonalds an hamburguer would be served in 5 minutes.and I was totally flabbergasted when he told me that the seats were slanted in order to not let the clients be comfortable in order to leave asap..That really annoyed me to core. I realised that who or what was behind the whole concept of this inhuman racket was evil. This guy, instead of finding this state of affairs disgusting supported the scam and worse, he hoped that this thing would come to Portugal...

    • @THEROOTMATTERS
      @THEROOTMATTERS ปีที่แล้ว +56

      SAD! I AGREE. PORTUGAL DOES NOT NEED THE AMERICAN WAY

    • @infinity4evr
      @infinity4evr ปีที่แล้ว +35

      He was Australian and that pretty much says it all. They support the establishment and have a tyrannical world view.

    • @britjj5126
      @britjj5126 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ​@infinity4evr have you been or lived in Australia before??

    • @ginacardarella
      @ginacardarella ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My family's from northern italy never had anything experience bad like that

    • @britjj5126
      @britjj5126 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      You met 1 Australian guy back in the 90s and somehow he is the representative for how all Aussies operate. Go figure.

  • @SandraHof
    @SandraHof ปีที่แล้ว +331

    Your assessment of things about living in Europe over the US I think is very accurate. I have lived in Poland for 10 years. I have always felt safe in my city, even walking at night or on public transportation. I can afford health care here and the standard of care is generally very good. I live off my Social Security. My lifestyle is simple. But still much better than it would be in the US on my limited income. We do not have the gun violence of the US. I don’t need a car here, so I don’t have that expense. The rail system is so good in Europe and airfare is cheap within Europe, so travel is much more affordable once in Europe. I am grateful for my American upbringing and the life I had there for the first 57 years of my life. But I am also grateful for these past 10 years in Poland.

    • @selectiveoutrage6617
      @selectiveoutrage6617 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Do you pay cash for health care? Did you speak Polish when you arrived or have you learned while there? Seems like a difficult language.

    • @imveryhungry112
      @imveryhungry112 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      most of it is our culture. When I was in high school the kids would curse out the teachers and I even saw one punch a teacher in the face. Outside of the usa that stuff is very strange. But here it is totally accepted.

    • @selectiveoutrage6617
      @selectiveoutrage6617 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@imveryhungry112 And people wonder why few want to be teachers these days.

    • @Sebastian-zn3dx
      @Sebastian-zn3dx ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Europe has only been living in a bubble of well-being since the end of World War II and as a result of becoming a colony of US hegemony. The real Europe is a poor and violent place that can be seen precisely before the world wars. Most European countries are bankrupt and live on DEBT and that debt can only be maintained by an artificial hegemony of the Euro. Right now, Germany, which is the "industrial engine" without cheap Russian energy, is no longer competitive and the rest of the countries are condemned to fall into economic and social decline. This whole vision that Europeans "have lives" has no historical basis, just look at the millions of immigrants who fled from there to seek a better life.

    • @Jack-tk1is
      @Jack-tk1is ปีที่แล้ว +9

      America is for Leaders,
      America 🇺🇸 is where People make a difference & Make the world a better place through innovations 💡

  • @AndNowIWrite
    @AndNowIWrite ปีที่แล้ว +189

    My husband and I retired here in 2019, had a little house in Central Portugal, and then an apartment near the ocean. In 2020, we bought and refitted a van and been traveling around Europe for two years and just rented a house in Northern Portugal so we can complete the 5 year visa requirements. We don't move in until September, so we're hanging out on a mountainside in Chaves. I can't help but notice all the families here, camping, singing, dining together, and although it cheers me to see this, it saddens me. No way can families in the US all get time off at the same time for get togethers. The Portuguese people are some of the most helpful people we've ever encountered. They often don't realize how special they and their culture are because there's such a comparison with the US, (mainly due to movies) I love the look on their faces whenever I tell them how much better life is here, the pace, the kindness.

    • @fernandosr2001
      @fernandosr2001 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I love the Portuguese people as well. They are very kind and feel very happy when they can help you. Such a genuine and down-to-earth people. I'm Brazilian and even coming from a related country, there is no comparison. I recently got my Portuguese citizenship and look forward to moving to Portugal. Where I really feel at home.

    • @JPF222
      @JPF222 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@fernandosr2001 It warms my heart to read that from a Brazilian brother, espero que sejas feliz aqui❤ Thank you both for your kind comments

    • @fernandosr2001
      @fernandosr2001 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Obrigado, amigo!@@JPF222

    • @MsPoliteRants
      @MsPoliteRants 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This honestly made me tear up. I long for that kind of connection. I can’t believe I don’t like my birth country (USA)

    • @larryjones9773
      @larryjones9773 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MsPoliteRants We could have done a LOT worse than the US. Our ancestors were ambitious risk takers for moving to the US. We've built the world's leading financial/military power. We are the envy of the world.

  • @tdig105
    @tdig105 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I have a niece that moved from Philadelphia to Spain in college. She has been there for probably close to 20 years now. She rarely comes back to America to visit. She loves where she lives.

  • @steveparker2938
    @steveparker2938 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    I lived in England (close to Oxford) for two years and so many of the things you say are true, especially the "work to live not live to work" mentality. I also loved the dining out experience. You go to a pub, sit with friends and eat pub grub and talk for HOURS and now one pushes drink or food on you nor do the "hint" at the fact it's time for you to go. It's a totally different mind set

    • @christophresmerowski1824
      @christophresmerowski1824 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      German here. You're right, it's the stupid Old World mindset ... staying away from risks and being a toddler in the nanny state. Totally immature.

    • @achimdemus-holzhaeuser1233
      @achimdemus-holzhaeuser1233 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They don't need to push, the atmosphere let people order drink after drink just by themselves :)

    • @laurenraine
      @laurenraine ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes, I lived in England at several times in my life. I miss that so much, finding that Americans are so isolated from each other, and becoming more so every day.

    • @tyyneviljakainen5108
      @tyyneviljakainen5108 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not case in Finland

    • @serpentines6356
      @serpentines6356 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@laurenraine Yes, unfortunately, that happens. One of the drawbacks I don't like about my country.
      It's mostly like that in big, or growing cities, along with the pro-criminal AG's, laws happening.
      It's insane.
      I have friends who live in a smaller town, college area, a lot of people are starting to move there. They like the locale, friendly people.

  • @ceooflonelinessinc.267
    @ceooflonelinessinc.267 ปีที่แล้ว +858

    I as an european had to chance to travel the US for a month. Being brainwashed with the stereotype, that americans are stupid, uncultivated and backwards we experienced a culture shock. Everyone we met was absolutely kind, friendly and helpful. We had many special encounters which we will never forget like being invited to a BBQ, when locals noticed that we as tourists arrived at the motel at a time where every restaurant was already closed. Overall, we really liked the vibes americans bring in to their day. They always have this upbeat, optimistic and positive spirit.
    This is not something you experienc in Europe.
    Beside that, the US is a beautiful country, with countless things to offer. The nature is magnificient. You will find everything Mother Nature created in this country. I hiked wild canyons and deserts in the West. I paddled through swamps and swum in Caribbean like waters in the South. In the North we climbed alpine mountains and glaciers and went skiing. And the best thing about the nature is that it is overall easily accessible. State and National parks offer a fantastic infrastructure to explore nature. Furthermore we found america to be a very cultivated society. We were never able to find the stereotype, that Americans behave uncultivated. We actually found it to be quite the opposite. Every bigger City got a cosmopolitan vibe. You will a vibrant food culture, world famous museums and a ton of interesting venues like concerts, musicals and sports. This doesn’t stop outside of these metropolises. Every state or region seems to preserve their generic identity in a kitschy, but beautiful way. Everything looks highly maintained. Whether it is their architecture, food or music. We loved the small fisher towns along the east coast. Everything seemed to be out of a movie or a novel. There were main streets with cafés and art galleries. We were impressed with the French Colonial Architecture in the south states, especially in Savanna. What a beautiful town! We absolutely fell in love with California. Beginning with the surf towns like SB nestled in their Spanish architecture, ending with Napa Valley with their residents and vine yards.
    I will never forget this month. Thank you America.

    • @nickdsp8089
      @nickdsp8089 ปีที่แล้ว +222

      Traveling as a tourist and visiting many places it s not the same as permanently living in a country. Experiencing the working, education and health care provided for you and your family.

    • @ceooflonelinessinc.267
      @ceooflonelinessinc.267 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know @@nickdsp8089

    • @daveinportugal
      @daveinportugal  ปีที่แล้ว +94

      Beautiful perspective! Thanks for sharing

    • @MrGrand2000
      @MrGrand2000 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      You were here on vacation..a lot different than living here…

    • @ceooflonelinessinc.267
      @ceooflonelinessinc.267 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      @@MrGrand2000 I would prefer living an average life in the States than living an average life where I live.

  • @houseofodalys6294
    @houseofodalys6294 ปีที่แล้ว +483

    I moved to Portugal with my 23 yr old daughter 10 months ago from Miami. I was basically working to pay rent and when that rent was about to go up 50% I just started the process for my visa to Portugal. Just yesterday my daughter showed me how her nails had grown from no more anxieties. I have a sense of peace and calm that I that I had never experienced in my daily life while in the states. You video is so on point!!

    • @piccalillipit9211
      @piccalillipit9211 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      "Just yesterday my daughter showed me how her nails had grown from no more anxieties" WOW thats amazing.
      I know its not the same but for 25 years our narcissist father lived with my sister in the UK. He finally had a massive argument with them and moved out - my sister now has nails for the first time in 25 years...

    • @joeperdomo9214
      @joeperdomo9214 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Well, well, well....we are also from Miami and decided back in June of last year to make our move also. So, we did our paperwork for a non-lucrative visa from Miami and we moved to Seville Spain in December of last year. It has been hard yo adapt to European life somewhat, but so glad we made the move. We just couldn't deal with Miami any longer, and as a native floridian, I would never thought of ever leaving south florida, but it just got to the point that we couldn't deal with it any more. We drive to Portugal every once in a while and we love it also. Even though we're very fluent in spanish we thought about Portugal before deciding Spain, but we were afraid of the language barrier. Who knows, we still haven't bought a place here in Spain yet so maybe we'll think twice. This guy hit the nail right on with this video. Good luck in Portugal.

    • @anamakesthings
      @anamakesthings ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@joeperdomo9214if you know Spanish, it's gonna be a breeze to learn Portuguese (all Latin languages for that matter)
      Turn on the news cycle or an audiobook and leave them playing in the background while you go about your daily tasks and you'll be amazed by how much you'll pick up intuitively ✌️

    • @Skyl3t0n
      @Skyl3t0n ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@piccalillipit9211 What do you mean by that? Were they not growing before? Was she nibbling on them?

    • @fahad1162
      @fahad1162 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What was the visa process like, what service did you use and what do you need to apply?

  • @lordfebo
    @lordfebo ปีที่แล้ว +245

    Well told. I would add just one more advantage of Europe (which we Europeans take for granted): drinking tap water.
    Oh, yes, and we always pay the price we are being advertised. No extra tax, charges and fees, and especially no 20% tip. Our waiters are fairly paid by the employer.

    • @jamescorry63
      @jamescorry63 ปีที่แล้ว

      thats actually the norm for all countries whose ruling system is based on Social indoctrines not on Capitalistic indoctrines , not just in most countries that make up Europe , but Aus , NZ , Great Brittain , Ireland ,,,, trouble with a lot of Americans , is they think they are paying for everything , when in actual fact , because they pay low Taxes and spend most of their GDP on war mongering , there is very little left for the people themselves , and don't forget Americans have their FREEDUMBS

    • @matteodotdpsatgmaildotcom2451
      @matteodotdpsatgmaildotcom2451 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      They are not fairly paid, but they can live off it at least

    • @Stepantc
      @Stepantc ปีที่แล้ว +5

      VAT entered the chat

    • @lordfebo
      @lordfebo ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@Stepantc Every price in EU is VAT inclusive.

    • @annamc3947
      @annamc3947 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Drinking tap water? That’s normal in the US. In Europe they’re always charging you for bottled water. Totally the opposite.

  • @reekachristina4288
    @reekachristina4288 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I did this in 2009 at 23 years old. Moved abroad. Have lived in South Korea, France, Germany and Georgia. Its completely changed me as a person! Thanks for the video!

  • @dinismantas7265
    @dinismantas7265 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    If I had to summarize the difference between the USA (after talking to both Americans, Europeans/family that lived there and reading) and Portugal, I would say that the USA is associated with the idea of "what can be done and what can be accomplished", Portugal is the country of "it is not possible".
    Some people claim that the USA is not the same anymore. Perhaps true, I don't know, but maybe that is part of what is giving rise to the toxic division that we all are exposed to through the media.
    In Portugal, you can witness a lot of complaining, a lot of low level dissatisfaction, and quite a bit of pessimism. Generally speaking, people get by, find their solutions (even if it means informal "under the table" economy) and are content with the "enough". Some, with a more ambitious nature or driven by need, leave the country and often don't return. Portugal has been a country of immigrants for a long time. Why do you think people would hop on a wooden ship and sail to unkown parts, while living for months or years under terrible conditions? Maybe that was the birth of "saudade"?
    Both have good and bad aspects to it, but a lot is driven by the dimension and the difference in the access to resources.
    I just have to add that Americans who come to Portugal, and still keep their American level remunerations, will have access to a lifestyle that is unrecognizable to most Portuguese. Not a complaint, just reality.

    • @leonelantonio6512
      @leonelantonio6512 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I grew up here in Portugal and I can tell you option It´s most accurate I´ve read so far. For the expats and digital nomades this the paradise... but for us is not!!! Is constant struggle every month to pay the bills and have a dicent life... majority of young people want to move abroad because the situation here is far from been "nice" or " a walk in the park".

    • @alkemystica
      @alkemystica ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@leonelantonio6512 You can say that for basically all of southern EU and it's clearly not a coincidence.

    • @leonelantonio6512
      @leonelantonio6512 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@alkemystica no is not a coincidence mate

    • @pauloferreira1319
      @pauloferreira1319 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Yes, in these videos they always forget to mention that keeping your USA salary, or at least a big part of it, makes all of the difference in your lifestyle when going to a country like Portugal... One thing is to be living in Portugal with a median Portuguese salary, another thing is to live in Portugal with a median USA salary!

    • @leonelantonio6512
      @leonelantonio6512 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@pauloferreira1319 nada contra. Mas no final eles a vir e nos a ir 😂 está é a realidade da situação

  • @HelderP1337
    @HelderP1337 ปีที่แล้ว +500

    As a Portuguese myself, living in the USA for 12 years now, what you said here is pretty much spot on. To the better or worse, it is what it is.
    I miss my home country of Portugal, can't wait to move back with everything I learned here.

    • @maxbarko8717
      @maxbarko8717 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      As a German living in Canada I feel the same. I wish I had have moved back to Europe.

    • @PUAlum
      @PUAlum ปีที่แล้ว +19

      i"m so tempted to try living in Portugal. I'm an American who is tired of our politics and of the low levels of cultural awareness. What do you most miss about Portugal?

    • @daveinportugal
      @daveinportugal  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🙏

    • @HelderP1337
      @HelderP1337 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@PUAlum the politics is definitely a huge one here in the US. I've lost friendships because they didn't align with me on certain stuff. I'll never understand people that only want to hang around like minded people, you'll never grow that way. It's sad, but the polarization is really being felt, and I see it getting worse with every passing year.
      I love this country's constitution, I love the free speech amendment, and the overall sense of freedom and entrepreneurship you have in here, I've learned a lot from it, I've grown and I'm a different person with different ideals now than I was 5 years ago.
      You really need to walk on eggshells when talking to people, specially to coworkers and professional environments, and I never felt that before. I feel that often I can't be myself.
      As for Portugal, I miss the weather, having the 4 seasons is amazing, if feels like the year is a little longer and you can appreciate the change throughout the year.
      I miss the food, it's some of the best cuisine in the world, IMHO.
      I miss the laid back people, people are really chill in Portugal, (Arguably too much, that's one of the reasons I left in my early 20s. I wanted that hustle culture)
      I miss the coffee shops, pastries, and the dinner culture. People actually sit down for dinner and lunch and hang around with their friends and families for a long time, here in the US that only really happens during Thanksgiving, in there it's literally every day.
      I also miss the scenery, PT is tiny compared to even California but the north and the south, and even the interior is so different in terms of landscape, and subculture. You drive for an hour in any direction and it's nuts how the little subtle things change.
      Here in the US, everything is very samey, even if you go to a different state you are the same coffee shops, same restaurant chains, etc.
      One of the bad things about Portugal tho, is its economy. Many people live in poverty, barely scraping by, although tbh it's not much different than here in the US, it's just the standards are a little different.
      But I feel for the people that work 50 hour weeks to make less than 1000 euros a month, unfortunately that's the norm in many places and since there's a huge lack of professional opportunities you kinda feel like you're stacked at the bottom and can't get out, and the 'crabs in a bucket's culture doesn't help either, if you have ideas or hungry for more many people will try to demotivate you - that's a Europe thing that I'll never understand.

    • @brunomorgado9347
      @brunomorgado9347 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@HelderP1337 I feel you brother (from the same nation). I never, ever, thought to immigrate to the US because of the exact same things you described (though very disguised) about the pure capitalism that happens in the country you’re at currently. I do think that for a perfect society, we should have some kind of mild socialism. The problem about Portugal situation, atm, is exactly the "extreme" socialism (or the real socialism) that we live in. In my POV, the current state of socialism practiced here is hurting the growth of the country. Because in order for you to own a business, property, or even have a decent pay check to live a decent life, you'll most likely given up to ~45% of it's worth. This is insane. And it has an explanation. The reason is that almost of the country is poor already (about ~4m) and socialism mandates we fix this problem by taxing everyone above this line of poverty to redistribute wealth as hard as possible. The real problem is, unfortunately, that this is a snowball.

  • @0Demiyah0
    @0Demiyah0 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Living in The Netherlands, but also having lived for short periods in South-Korea, Italy and the U.S.A., my appreciation for my own country has increased so much. I love the work-life balance, the safety, the social security system, the quality of food vs costs, the infrastructure, the education, it's just a good life here... In this shitty world, this is probably the best place to enjoy a calm and secure life, even with the inflation and housing crisis that are problematic at the moment.

    • @brb4903
      @brb4903 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I would rate life in NL as 8/10, if there wouldn't be a housing crisis it would be 9/10

    • @artgreen6915
      @artgreen6915 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There's a 'housing crisis' in the UK too. I'm not saying there isn't one, and I don't blame people for focusing on solutions. But there's only occasional and rarely quality analysis of what's caused this. House building dropped a bit after the Financial Crisis but has since rebounded somewhat. Has there been a population explosion in the meantime? I don't think so. A bit more immigration perhaps, but not that would explain this by itself. I don't get it, and I don't get the lack of analysis.
      Another factor cited is the breakdown in family life with less 2-3 child families and more single people living in apartments which is less space efficient perhaps. But most of that change occurred before 2000 I would think - I don't feel it especially accelerated in the last 5 years. The Dutch problems may be different from the UK ones, I don't know.

    • @f.k.3762
      @f.k.3762 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You‘re doing a good job in the NL and you can be proud of your country and its achievements. Greetings from Germany

    • @GianniDN
      @GianniDN 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Depends where you lived in Italy because Northern Italy is amazing, safe and very rich. We have the highest GDP per capita in the world if we were a separate country from the South.

    • @xplorercolorado9224
      @xplorercolorado9224 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for speaking up. People do not realize how much freedom and opportunities we have here. Sometimes, you have to travel out of this country to see how people suffer in other countries to appreciate what we have. It may not be a paradise, but it's definitely not the hell as some countries.

  • @bklynrizz714
    @bklynrizz714 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    My wife and I visited Ireland in 2015. For two weeks we drove around Southern Ireland stopping in most of the larger cities as well as the small towns. We fell in love with Ireland. The people were very friendly, the food was delicious, and the Guinness tasted better. Our favorite place was Killarney. We dreaded returning to the US.

    • @CryptoLuke96
      @CryptoLuke96 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Come back 🇮🇪

    • @womenfrom0202
      @womenfrom0202 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Good on you to do one country for those two whole weeks

    • @masonhancock5350
      @masonhancock5350 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Magnificent country. The economic issue is heartbreaking, as in most places now. Love the Irish.

    • @Valhalla_Heathen
      @Valhalla_Heathen ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I spent a week in Oslo, Norway and felt the same way you did about Ireland. Oh the nostalgia! 🙏🏻

    • @AdamOBrien29
      @AdamOBrien29 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Always welcome back 🇮🇪🇮🇪🇮🇪

  • @mountainbikemayhem1833
    @mountainbikemayhem1833 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    I retired in my 40’s and moved to the Azores (Portugal). While I agree with your sentiments, I also have to warn viewers that these truths don’t mean everything here is perfect. As an expat/immigrant it’s difficult to navigate through the red tape…Sef (immigration), finance (taxes), Saude (healthcare)…the difficulty is asking 10 people the same question and getting 6 different answers. Even the locals don’t understand how the system works sometimes. I also have experienced the ‘outsider’ aspect, as in not being invited/included because I am a foreigner, and while the culture is full of festivals and events, and these are public celebrations…most have dinners and bbq’s that you will not be invited to because you are not family. I have friends here who are Portuguese but lived in the states for decades, they moved back here and are also treated as outsiders by their own family… The quality of life is great, no violent crime, peaceful existence, good quality food…but frustrations exist.

    • @sandrathompson1277
      @sandrathompson1277 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I have family who lived in America for three years..they suffered the same thing..eventually found other non Americans who became good friends..so this happening wherever you go….

    •  ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Açôres is Beautiful and people in general are good and calm people, but it's a very "closed" social environment, started by the fact that it's a very limited space(island) and the isolation (Midle of Atlantic) make people "small minded" in what concerns to social closeness. When a strong event like a natural disaster(Açôres Vulcanic situation), or Popular Traditional Festivities or even more locally someone well known and loved dies or is in trouble, then people get together and their Good spirit and human nature comes out. Otherwise, the "mind your own business" mood wins...it's unexcapable. But if you come to Continental Portugal, generally you wouldn't feel like that.

    • @trevor6607
      @trevor6607 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honest experience. I appreciate this insight.

    • @josecunhaesilva5713
      @josecunhaesilva5713 ปีที่แล้ว

      ...and most "expats" put themselves in a "guetto" excluding locals from their interaction groups. Things are running in both ways!

    • @Staronqueen
      @Staronqueen ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Your experience as an immigrant in your new country of choice is normal. The official term for such is what is known as “culture shock”. If you were an immigrant in the US you would have experienced all of the same hurdles as you are having in Portugal.
      How many Americans invited that new foreigner next door to their BBQ gathering?🤔
      The local people don’t have any knowledge about the things you need to know for they have had no reason to access the services that you have as an immigrant. They were born there.
      People who immigrate to the US or Canada etc. whether, they willingly choose to do so, or had to due to situations such as war or searching for the North American dream; their experience as immigrants would not have been any different. Most immigrants in their new country of choice often settle in communities where there are people of similar backgrounds.
      Fifty three years ago, on my 18 year, I came to my current adapted country and for twenty five years I had a very fulfilling job working as a Immigration Settlement Officer with newcomers to my country. I know a lot about being an immigrant and what life is like for other immigrants.
      Enjoy your new life in the Azores. I promise you that the “culture shock” would fade away in a couple of years. Blessings to you🙏

  • @connorpayne9830
    @connorpayne9830 ปีที่แล้ว +501

    I love the way that Americans refer to Europe almost like a country

    • @mikeantonio3163
      @mikeantonio3163 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I don't!

    • @AidPast
      @AidPast ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Europeans do the same about the US, in all fairness

    • @susannebrunberg4174
      @susannebrunberg4174 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      ​@@AidPast
      Well, not all do that. But the US is one country with 50 states. While in Europe there are about 50 countries.

    • @AidPast
      @AidPast ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@susannebrunberg4174 each state is almost like a separate country with its very own constitution and legislation. Many Europeans don’t realize that in addition to the federal constitution, each US state has its own state constitution.

    • @mikeantonio3163
      @mikeantonio3163 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@AidPast America is one country?

  • @Misterjackson_WTJ
    @Misterjackson_WTJ ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video I loves everything about. My wife is from Germany and live in Phoenix Arizona, da heat place lol alot of the stuff you talked about, she has told me lol we goto Germany every 2 years or sooner for 3 weeks or more. Again appreciate the video

  • @geniosoftcarregosa
    @geniosoftcarregosa ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Hi Dave, i am portuguese and is very nice to see your perspective of what we did better and worse at Europe and Portugal. And it's great to know that after knowing all of that you choose our country to live. We don't have a 'Portuguese Dream' in opposite to the 'American Dream' but i think we try to make our common reality that dream. That's a way of not competing for the dream but colaborating for it.

    • @jd_romano
      @jd_romano หลายเดือนก่อน

      The most average Portuguese dream right now is: "I wish I could rent an apartment and not break the bank"

  • @christophersigle888
    @christophersigle888 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Having lived in UK, Germany, and Turkey over a 12 year period I can attest to much of this video. it is important for Americans to experience other cultures and hopefully to expand perspective. My wife and I moved back to the United States in 2006 and often reflect on the nuances/preferences of European living. Outstanding video!

    • @karimtemri1664
      @karimtemri1664 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would like to move to the US but its very hard to get a work visa

  • @huha47
    @huha47 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    After living in LA for almost a couple decades, I had decided to move to Australia, but before doing so, took a trip to Europe for the first time, spent a good 3 weeks behind the Iron Curtain, also visited a friend in Germany. The trip caused me to rethink moving to Aussie Land. Two years later, I moved to Austria, hook, line and sinker, been here 31 years, now an Austrian citizen, no regrets, and enjoying living in southern Austria near Italy. Best decision of my life! Have lived on 4 continents and in 6 countries, plus an island.

    • @huha47
      @huha47 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@chorton53 life is full of surprises. Nothing in my life was planned, but it's been great so far. Wishing you all the best!

    • @huha47
      @huha47 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Rene_Moor3095 Do history books omit that phrasing? It's to put things in content, since a year's differences between 88 and 89, were significant, practically no sign of Russian suppression in the country. Anyone visiting after the fall for the first time would have never notice anything. Fortunately, I have Fotos of things which quickly disappeared, as well as knowing how people accepted their new freedom.

    • @high-d8872
      @high-d8872 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      As an Austrian (born and raised) with german ancestors (looks like the rats were leaving the sinking ship😅) i love to hear people move to Austria. We have the perfect Mischung. Northern perfectionism, southern way of life, and bavarian dialect. 😂 and many different cultures and languages mixed together. I love it ❤

    • @huha47
      @huha47 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@high-d8872 My ancestry is pure European. One Set of grandparents came from Hungary, though they met in Canada, in essence I'm second Generation. My great grandfather came from German and knew him quite well into my teen years, and his wie was from Sweden. I'm pretty much a Mischung. Greetings from Villach.

    • @amandadewet4022
      @amandadewet4022 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@Rene_Moor3095Did this not accurately described those circumstances visited and not the current environment? Two very different places, I am sure you could agree with that before and after picture.🎉

  • @franciscomanuelteruelgutie6790
    @franciscomanuelteruelgutie6790 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Portugal is a great place... great people, great history, great gastronomy. Hugs from Spain.

  • @robertlang3857
    @robertlang3857 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    As long as the US has a for profit healthcare and educational system, it will never be close to be considered the greatest country in the world! I've been to Europe many, many times. There's no comparison to the quality of life in Europe

    • @Renro87
      @Renro87 ปีที่แล้ว

      What are you trying to say? Its good that people die because the government is greedy and people aren’t as educated because the education system is fucked and it costs money?

    • @BoGy1980
      @BoGy1980 ปีที่แล้ว

      The whole american system is "for profit", that's exactly the definition of capitalism; doing things to gain money. Socialism on the other hand is "doing thigs to help others", which in the USA is of course displayed as "communism" because the ones in power fear that people would realize that capitalism is just a system to enslave people. Socialism sees everyone as equal, capitalism sees the rich as powerful and all the rest are slaves or unwanted people. That creates a reality where people don't want to live in anymore, hence they try to escape it by walking the streets like zombies while on heavy narcotics like fentanyl... It's the system that pushes these people into such lives, it's not the people that WANT to live such lives...
      There is not a kid that says "when i grow up i want to become a drug-addict walking like a zombie", no they dream of achieving things like a firefighter or a becoming a docter. While they grow up these kids change into "i want to become rich" because during their childhood they're fed the money-drug so many times that they also become addicted to the shiny glare of the golden calf... It's just the truth, nothing more...

    • @JacekJaworowski-s9u
      @JacekJaworowski-s9u ปีที่แล้ว +7

      he just said hes using private healtcare in portugal hahaha

    • @williamforsyth6667
      @williamforsyth6667 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JacekJaworowski-s9u "using private healtcare"
      1) He is paying 85 EUR for extra services. I am sure, his employer pays much more (a certain percentage of his salary) for the basic state healthcare.
      2) Even without paying for private healthcare, in Western Europe everyone gets a good healthcare. People are patriots and feel solidarity for fellow citizens.

    • @anneobrien8367
      @anneobrien8367 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      If he is not a EU citizen, he is not entitled to an E111 which gives you free health care as you move around.

  • @ninaelsbethgustavsen2131
    @ninaelsbethgustavsen2131 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Europeans work to live.
    Not the other way around.
    Love from Norway 🇳🇴

  • @avril.227
    @avril.227 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I love the refreshing honesty in this video. I have never felt valued in the US. I’m a lower income worker at 52, and the negativity and competitiveness is isolating. I have worked in a few professions and hope to have a little savings and social security, if I’m lucky, to live a simple yet fulfilling life as an Expat when I retire. I’m dreaming of culture and kindness. Also this video shows how living a life with a higher income and a valued profession allows the options of work and experiences abroad.

  • @randywolgast615
    @randywolgast615 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I lived in Belgium for 3 years and everything you said I totally agree with. It was a hard transition for me moving back to the States.

    • @karimtemri1664
      @karimtemri1664 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm Italian and working in Belgium. even though I enjoy the healthy food and healthcare in Belgium I think it's a boring place.. nothing ever happens here. However when I visited the east coast in USA it was fun. I would like to move there

  • @cabayern9416
    @cabayern9416 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Moved from California to Germany. Best decision I ever made. Quality of life greatly improved in all areas. Excellent work life balance, much better personal safety, and more peace and quiet.

    • @sunshadow9704
      @sunshadow9704 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you dont mind me asking, what is your status in Germany? I just returned from Germany as a tourist and found out that it is exceptionally hard to stay in Germany. You either must find a job in Germany (which implies solid knowledge of German) or marry one.

    • @cabayern9416
      @cabayern9416 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@sunshadow9704 In order to procure gainful employment, in any country, it is quite beneficial (and should be required) to have knowledge of that language (at least speaking and comprehending spoken language). I have an MA, years of experience and am fluent in German. Living here has been far easier (on many levels) than living in the US. Is not hard to stay if you can prove you won't milk the social welfare system.

    • @Catchingcars
      @Catchingcars 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i am sorry but i dont know how you have more peace here in Germany? Being to both countries people in the U.S. are much nicer and friendlier and they mind their own business when it come to ( why ist your car running) you can't do this you can't to that stop being loud it's a sunday etc. realitsically i feel like the U.S. is much more relaxed when it comes to such things and personal space...

    • @anniepsyduck6558
      @anniepsyduck6558 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@Catchingcars More peace by not having gunshots fired at random schools and not hearing loud cars doing stupid things on the road for starters. Also Germans don't work themselves to death and in general you have more rights (no need to answer emails after working hours, no need to hide your beer bottle in a brown bag, no need to be paranoid about other humans)

    • @Catchingcars
      @Catchingcars 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@anniepsyduck6558 true that makes sense but therefor you have to pay for absolutely everything even something called ard zdf Gebühr look it up and there is no parking when you come home to your apartment at least in cities because the streets are absolutely packed and everyone bothers you about you cant do this you cant do that... you cant walk here you cant drive here why is your ac running and dont let me mention Pfand bottles when speaking of bottles having to collect them in a seperate trash bag and then bring them back to the store once a week absolutely insane i guess like always there are pros and cons to both

  • @markmichaud2638
    @markmichaud2638 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Can agree with pretty much everything you stated. As an American that has been living in Sweden for over 7 years, I don't ever see myself moving back. I miss my family and friends but not the United States.

  • @StevenCarnes
    @StevenCarnes ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Well done video. I agree with everything you said.
    I've traveled to 48 countries and circumnavigated the northern hemisphere back in 1993 when the USSR was disintigrating.
    I've lived in 4 countries outside the USA: Japan for 3 years, Singapore for 4 months, and The Netherlands twice, first for 4 months on a foreign exchange and now for 10 years.
    I'm planning to continue to live here until I die, with a lot more travel in between now and then.
    When friends and relatives asked why I was leaving the USA in 2013, my answer was "for a higher quality of life." And the other answer was "because the USA is becoming an angrier and more aggressive society which I don't like." I'm still happy with my choice and my visits back to the USA reinforce my belief in my decision.

    • @zwaveevents
      @zwaveevents ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've lived in Germany (won't make that mistake again) Kuwait (lots of fun but just sell booze already) and the USA. After traveling to over 30 countries there is a reason the Philippines, USA and Mexico are so highly visited. We are exciting. Most of Europe I had to check my pulse to make sure I wasn't in Purgatory. Went mountaineering in Switzerland and they kept talking about thin air at an elevation below the base of most mountains in the USA. Europe is like watching paint dry compared to the USA and Mexico. For the quiet life where people travel to try food Europe would be alright. But I'd rather scuba dive wreaks giving Nazi ships the middle finger in the med than choke down a snail in Monaco.

    • @prettybrwneyez7757
      @prettybrwneyez7757 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same and good for you!

    • @miroperinich2495
      @miroperinich2495 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was in America 2 cities in Texas and Norfolk in the east. I live in Croatia (European Union) and people from many countries of the world came to my country to live with their families. Here, safety is the most important thing and we have a good and stress-free life. There are also Americans, some have seen 50 countries and chose this place. th-cam.com/video/tWZyvsVYQec/w-d-xo.html Ashley Colburn - Feels Like Home th-cam.com/video/6dHhL6e2HgM/w-d-xo.html Why Zagreb is the Best Place I Have Ever Lived
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    • @jonathanchimaras5428
      @jonathanchimaras5428 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe it's just cognitive bias, dude.

  • @kailahmann1823
    @kailahmann1823 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I'd say, it's not just "binge drinking", it's "binge living": Everything has to be as big and loud as possible. Your burger doesn't need fresh salat, it needs to be "supersized". Your car doesn't need to be luxury, it needs to be "super duty" to haul the big ego…

    • @pauladuncanadams1750
      @pauladuncanadams1750 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My house is 800 sf and my car is a Chevy Sonic.

    • @JayandSarah
      @JayandSarah ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Bingo. The folks in America (North America) have all the stuff... but actually, they are not very wealthy. It's a facade.

    • @moe4meswtdg
      @moe4meswtdg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not everyone in the U S thinks this way. Many are happy with less. The ones that do have a lot of stuff, it’s because they can.

    • @nightfighter7452
      @nightfighter7452 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@moe4meswtdg I'm sitting here wondering who tf these people are talking about 😂

    • @SasquatchLovesMe
      @SasquatchLovesMe วันที่ผ่านมา

      "Binge Living" - great way to describe the American mentality.

  • @milenasings
    @milenasings ปีที่แล้ว +33

    If I had to do the video of opposite experience I would point out exactly the same differences and cultural shocks I got moving from Europe to US for a few years. From agricultural Slovenia straight into the streets of NY. 😊 But funny thing is that wherever you live, part of it stays with you, part of that place you’ll always miss. At the end of the day you have to weigh out whatever suits your lifestyle more.

  • @dustinnunley9234
    @dustinnunley9234 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm really appreciative of your views and look forward to visiting Portugal next June!

  • @1artistvocalist
    @1artistvocalist ปีที่แล้ว +163

    I am a singer and a fine artist. A band hired me in Tyrol, Austria in the 90's and paid to move me there. It was an incredible experience. Having also visited many countries in Europe I can say you are so accurate in this video! I have been thinking of moving to Portugal or Ireland for awhile now. As a single female who is older, it is a little scary. I am praying for direction. Appreciate your video!

    • @sophiaelayne9984
      @sophiaelayne9984 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Do it! Life is fleeting go for it.

    • @Sup4hi33tk1LLa
      @Sup4hi33tk1LLa ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Go for Portugal. Skip Ireland all together. I live here for 2 years and is getting worse and worse. Rent is going through the roof, food prices the same. And is becoming less and less safe on the roads

    • @sophiaelayne9984
      @sophiaelayne9984 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ireland!? Really? I don't know why I find that surprising. @@Sup4hi33tk1LLa

    • @henkvandervossen6616
      @henkvandervossen6616 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just leap, but take financial precautions and get info from those who went before

    • @henkvandervossen6616
      @henkvandervossen6616 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Portugal has the better climate and lower cost of living.

  • @cpbergin
    @cpbergin 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Came across your videos. Interesting and informative. I fell in love with Sintra when there. I am from Reno and live in France!

  • @TheRunpoker
    @TheRunpoker ปีที่แล้ว +414

    Your brush is certainly broad. But as a danish person who lived one year in the US and visited many parts of the country I definitely recognise the picture. I met some brilliant and quiet cultured people in the US, but I also was amazed at how little general knowledge about the world people possessed including language skills. Also attending high school it was quite the chock that the teachers were totally uninterest in critical thinking and the students ability to reflect and apply logical thought. It’s was all about memorisation and reproducing with a strong sense of indoctrination. Some quite intelligent kids rebelled against this and were often sanctioned and many wore ankle chains (due to misdemeanour crime) that the police used to enforce a curfew. This was all very strange to me. My teachers in Europe has always encouraged us to think independently and critically.

    • @egris00
      @egris00 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @TheRunpoker You may have hit on the main cause of America's political woes today. Its this lack of critical thinking that creates an easily manipulated populace - ie. Q-anon, Maga and other such non learned groups who react rather than think.

    • @kevin.j9165
      @kevin.j9165 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, thinking critically in the US is frowned upon these days lol they want you to be liberal or conservative and anything aside from that is no bueno.

    • @latp9567
      @latp9567 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Right? When I first came here I was pretty sure that most people would have a high level of general knowledge but it ended up being the opposite.

    • @kevin.j9165
      @kevin.j9165 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@latp9567 In my experience, it’s only certain cities that display a lack of general knowledge. Or college campuses lol but about half of the country is exceptionally smart. It just depends on which cities you live in.

    • @cezino10001
      @cezino10001 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@egris00Well I came from post socialist country where we had to learn to think critically not once but twice- to survive and think how establishment wanted us to think and than to think for ourselves. So this is why I 100% support MAGA. You have mo clue what you are talking about. The majority of post communist immigrants knew since day one what BS whole Covid was about. Not many are jabbed with poison and brainwashed by media and “education “ in this shitty whole of the collapsing world. Enjoy what you created. Stupidity, death and sickness.

  • @mickeybailey1108
    @mickeybailey1108 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    I appreciate your perspective om Europe. My partner for 16 years is from Denmark. So we have traveled a lot in Europe in that time. I have come to appreciate how relaxed people are for the most part. Lacking the worries of healthcare and gaining the benefits of good education seperates Europe from the US in a big way. So glad my son is buying a home in Italy next month. We will work together to restore a 110 year old farmhouse. A dream come true for our family and my foot in the door to spending more time exploring.

    • @daveinportugal
      @daveinportugal  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Sounds like an incredible project in Italy! Dinner party invite?

    • @HeartOfFire-cp4vf
      @HeartOfFire-cp4vf ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for choosing Europe to start a new and better life

    • @alemassa6632
      @alemassa6632 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Life in Italy is much better, your son will never regrets it.

  • @pt5820
    @pt5820 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Great show Dave and well said. We have been living in Portugal now for almost 5 years what a great country and great people . Totally enjoying life here!

    • @imveryhungry112
      @imveryhungry112 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      are you living off usa dollars? Or are you in with the locals earning a living there along with them? Im curious how awesome it is if you have to actually earn a living there vs if you go over there with usa dollars.

    • @Sebastian-zn3dx
      @Sebastian-zn3dx ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your comment that talks about Portugal surprised me. Did you know that Portugal is a bankrupt country that lives year after year on money borrowed from the European central bank?... that is the great secret of almost all European countries, borrowed money and an artificial monetary hegemony... and it is impossible for it to last much longer.

    • @Jack-tk1is
      @Jack-tk1is ปีที่แล้ว

      America 🇺🇸 is where People make a difference & Make the world a better place through innovations 💡
      USA is for Leaders & not People in Comfort Zone

  • @cecilialeitet2794
    @cecilialeitet2794 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    In the US, your identity is tightly tied to your profession, and the most common thing people asked me when I was there is "what do you do?" In Europe (at least most of it, I have not been to every country) it is so much more. Your hobbies, your ideals, your friends and your family. Work is part of it, but not more important than the rest. Very rarely do I ask a stranger what they do or who they vote for. I ask deeper, more meaningful questions and talk about life in general. For me, that is one of the biggest differences between our cultures.

    • @MichaelDamianPHD
      @MichaelDamianPHD 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I find this untrue as an American who's also lived in Europe. In the US I am never particularly concerned with what people do, but as a friendly question when getting to know someone, I fail to see how it is somehow not relevant and that I should instead focus on their hobbies or "ideals." It's just one of the first things that comes up about a person. Nor do I ever find that Americans, as opposed to Europeans, are always asking me what I do or defining me by that.

    • @enjoystraveling
      @enjoystraveling 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MichaelDamianPHD yes my career job is somewhat well that being a person in the United States although I find when people used to ask me that when I was in the United States, it seemed like they wanted to know just to be able to put me in a category as if I was good enough to be talked to because I was a professor or doctor or lawyer. And in Europe in general, the question is not asked. It’s more important to talk about other things that are more important than putting person in a category.

    • @enjoystraveling
      @enjoystraveling 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I should’ve read the first part of this sentence, I made a mistake and I can’t correct it. The iPad doesn’t let me.?

  • @JesuisIamEstoyyoSonoIoIchbin
    @JesuisIamEstoyyoSonoIoIchbin ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Thanks for your video, imagine if every American would go live in an other country for year, how it would change the USA. As a French Canadian that traveled extensively in Europe and Asia, I dream of a day when I would gladly go back in the US and feel safe and free to go about without turning my head.

    • @mjor6406
      @mjor6406 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Many cities in USA are safe. Safer than a lot of areas in Canada

    • @JesuisIamEstoyyoSonoIoIchbin
      @JesuisIamEstoyyoSonoIoIchbin ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mjor6406 lol! Really please name then I am curious

    • @SUMERUP
      @SUMERUP ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@mjor6406?

    • @mjor6406
      @mjor6406 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SUMERUP Newport Beach, Burlington, Raleigh, Portland Maine, Denver is just as safe as Calgary. Many suburbs in the USA are just as safe as Canada.

    • @mjor6406
      @mjor6406 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@JesuisIamEstoyyoSonoIoIchbin don't be so smug. Too many junkies and shootings and stabbings in Canada too.

  • @bduffy1215
    @bduffy1215 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Thanks for the video and you are on target. I lived in Barcelona for a few years and life was so much easier. When I came back it was a culture shock. Would love to get back to a simpler way of life with less toxicity that we are experiences here in the US.

    • @karimtemri1664
      @karimtemri1664 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm suee the level of toxicity depends on which state ur in

  • @greggschroeder
    @greggschroeder ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I moved back to the United States for family reasons after living abroad since 1988. I knew it would be a shock and it is. I miss a lot of the things you outline - good food at acceptable prices, lower-cost healthcare options, personal safety, in particular. I don't imagine I can "be the change" now that I'm here, but I will do my small part of maintaining my work-life balance and generally trying not to get sucked into what's "normal" here or anywhere. Living abroad helps you to realize there are many ways to create a life for yourself and to question everything.

  • @thirstykayak246
    @thirstykayak246 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really nice video. Thanks for sharing.

  • @chuckmurray1825
    @chuckmurray1825 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    Yeah, you pretty much hit the nail on the head. I'm thinking about renting out my condo here in ATL and making the move to Portugal. The lifestyle is more balanced and healthcare is much more affordable. The pace is slower and a Portuguese boat captain put it to me last year when I was visiting, "in Portugal, it's not an emergency unless it's a medical emergency." He went on to say that Americans kill themselves with the constant stress and pressure of deadlines and overwhelming numbers of tasks on a daily basis. Even a Type A like myself had to admit that he was right. I came back to the U.S. with a different perspective on life.

    • @kjmcindoe6408
      @kjmcindoe6408 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You're not the only one. Every time I watch this young man's channel I want to do likewise. Meantime, have picked up a Portuguese language course and am going to Portugal soon to check it out. Good luck!

    • @BoGy1980
      @BoGy1980 ปีที่แล้ว

      I still think one of the most stupid mindsets in the USA is that people are frowned upon when they take paid leave or get ILL and stay home. They don't seem to realize that if you never release steam from a boiling kettle, you shorten its life-span. America lives to work, while in EU we work to live. In the USA it's seemingly normal to take your illness to work and make everyone ill and this has a way bigger impact on overal productivity than removing yourself and not infecting your colleagues while you get healthy again. I've heard stories from people that in almost a decade took less then 12 days of vacation time IN TOTAL! While here in europe 12 days is about half of what we annually are supposed to take.. if you extrapolate this; in the usa people take 24x less time to relieve stress, recuperate and actually enjoy the life they've been working for. That's why in EU people are a lot more happy at work and in their daily lives, and it keeps us motivated to keep doing our best and perform to the maximum. While in the usa people start their carreers very productive but the older they get the more worn-out they are and with all that experience they work at a third of their capacity because of the big imbalance between work/life. People are actually working themselves in the grave that way!

    • @Fuinhaa
      @Fuinhaa ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@kjmcindoe6408I hope you enjoy your stay! Check out the beaches, last few days it has been so hot in here its almost unbearable! Get Sun Cream 😂

    • @theroamingsavage8813
      @theroamingsavage8813 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      What I'm most glad to see from ur message is u actually took the time to travel OUTSIDE the US and not just to Disneyland or New York, and that u actually LISTENED and INTERACTED with locals out there.
      It truly is life changing to see how we in the States live in an over-caffeinated over-worked state of anxiety all the time never taking a proper vacation or brake from anything.
      If ur not working 60 hours a week, have 2 "side hustles", work Uber on the weekend and have $1 million in home and car debt, ur considered a failure... WTF?? 😂
      I tell everyone I'm States we live in an insane bubble here, and all it takes is to get out of ur comfort zone and travel to Asia, Europe, South America, to see with ur own eyes a vastly different life philosophy. It's beautiful

    • @daveinportugal
      @daveinportugal  ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I get told to slow down and don't stress still frequently. And I'm at like a 4 out of 10 on the scale I was moving in US. The art of letting go

  • @nette4307
    @nette4307 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    Great video - thanks for making/posting it! I am Danish but lived in the US for almost 30 years and also became a US citizen. Two years ago, I moved to Germany with my German husband. Thought I'd add my background before I comment on the US, the politics and the polarization we see in the country now. You touched on the political polarization, and while I agree with you that the country is incredibly divided, I don't believe it's due to politics. In my opinion, what we're seeing is the result of ethics - those who have it and those who don't know the meaning of the word. The #1 killer of children and youth in the US is gun violence - yet nothing is being done about it, because "guns don't kill - people do." Seen from outside the US, the argument seems weird: kids are dying, and they will continue to do so, while we twiddle our fingers and cling to our guns. Countries with stricter gun laws don't lose children in the number the US does. I.e. so many put their personal right above the rights of those innocent bystanders' right to live. It's a question of ethics. Skyrocketing health care cost and the fact that we as investors can invest in hospitals, looking to make a profit on sick people. A question of ethics. Teachers having to fund their own teaching materials and classroom activities, yet the ultra wealthy pay little to no taxes. That's a question of ethics. The list goes on. This isn't a question about left versus right, Democrats versus Republicans. It's a question about what kind of society we want to build. I believe that as long as the conversation stateside remains focused on politics, economics, religion without ever going into the deeper territory of ethics, the polarization will only get worse. As long as schools are having fund raisers and insured people are going bankrupt due to medical bills, while the majority seems to not even question it, the US will remain polarized. The American Dream might be alive for the few but for the many, it has ceased to exist.
    Regarding work-life balance, I'd be interested to hear what European countries you have lived in. I am not familiar with Portuguese work life but have worked in several European countries. When I compare to the US, the one thing that stands out to me, is the sheer number of never-ending meetings I sat through in my US jobs. Endless Powerpoint presentations and talking heads holding the floor because they could. At the end of those meetings, very little had been accomplished and there was a sense of Rinse & Repeat. I loved my jobs but spent way too much time at work thanks to all those meetings. There is also a LOT more socializing going on in a US work place than what you'd see in Norther Europe. It always struck me how my US coworkers seemed to be looking for friends at work - and then wanted to maintain those friendships during work hours. The Northern European model is, do your work - then we'll have a beer or a meal after work. So work hours are far more productive, forget about the water cooler conversations. If you have a couple of friends at work, you make time to see them outside of work hours.

    • @bitcoinisfreedommoney.fckt2663
      @bitcoinisfreedommoney.fckt2663 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Switzerland has a high per capita gun ownership than the US and almost zero gun crime. So what's your point? Have you even bothered to look at EXACTLY which group is committing virtually ALL of the guncrime in the US?

    • @ohioladybug7390
      @ohioladybug7390 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Excellent comment!

    • @ImForgivenToo
      @ImForgivenToo ปีที่แล้ว

      @nette4307.............guns are the #1 killer of children ??? really ???? 63 million died by ABORTIONS in just 50 yrs!

    • @MirceaKitsune
      @MirceaKitsune ปีที่แล้ว

      Europe is doing well because we don't have as many ethics as America, and I pray it stays this way. You may think that's cold or evil to encourage, but look at where "morality" and this fanatical concept of society brought the USA, with people destroying their and others lives over silly moral or social issues I couldn't even comprehend giving a damn about! LGBTQ, global warming, vaccines... for or against, who cares? Just leave everyone do what they want and we're all good! As for guns I often wish our population was armed to protect ourselves against the state authoritarianism threatening all of the free world these days, though the downside like you said is the gun violence we see across America... unless the EU gets as authoritarian as the US and we'll really need them to defend our liberty from them, I guess we can do without for now.

    • @bernadettesandoval3990
      @bernadettesandoval3990 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is gun crime in some cities with the strictest gun controls in the country. The "random" school shooters are all on prescription drugs because pharma owns the government. All of the problems in USA are due to government corruption. The education industrial complex, the medical industrial complex and their abortion industry that supplies the raw materials for their Frankensteinish experimentation, Big Agriculture, the war machine, and on and on. They have destroyed the society.

  • @irisbernardes6023
    @irisbernardes6023 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    As a portuguese living abroad I have to say that although my country is really great to live in, unfortunally that isnt the reality for every portuguese person. Obviously you talked about EU in general I suppose, but since you’re living in Portugal I thought I could share my opinion on that. You’re right that we dont talk about politics often, and I think is worth mentioning thats because most of us dont really understand it, myself included. We tend to vote for the same and safe because we dont have better options, and many of the old population, wich we have a lot of are stuck in Salazar era. You cant live by yourself in the city because rents are super expensive, even to buy a house you will work only to pay the bank. Unfortunaly I feel sometimes that my country is more for foregners that for myself, we welcome everyone and forget to help our own people. No country is perfect and mine is no expection, I just wish it would be easier for me to go back, but working to survive only isnt a good life.

    • @deliciouscolours
      @deliciouscolours ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hi Iris. Same here, living abroad for over 12 years. We are planning to go back and have a business of some sort but I can't say we are not a bit scared. The culture is a huge barrier too because it's so different from Central Europe, older people are stuck in the Salazar era, you are so right! I think schools don't teach kids to think, they teach them to obey authorities, the older the people the more scared they are to defy "authorities". It's very sad, really!

    • @alejandrolopezxochihua3371
      @alejandrolopezxochihua3371 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I can agree with that, sometimes I feel like life is easier for us foreigners in Lisbon, I’m a French-Mexican working in Lisbon and I barely feel like I’m in Portugal, it feels like everyone here is French or American. At restaurants and nightclubs you only see foreigners. I haven’t met Portuguese people yet. I expend the whole day either talking in French or English even Spanish on rare occasions, but I haven’t been in need of speaking Portuguese

    • @irisbernardes6023
      @irisbernardes6023 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      ​@alejandrolopezxochihua3371 unfortunally Portuguese people are often "forced" to emigrate because we can't find decent jobs and a university degree doesn't mean much these days. We have the mentality that what comes from outside is better, and that is so wrong, we have so much history and culture and we overlook that. I like to hear that people like our country obviously, but when we come to a point where foreigners have it easier than our own population, that's not acceptance, that's just very sad.

    • @irisbernardes6023
      @irisbernardes6023 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@deliciouscoloursand when they're not afraid and actually make strikes to try and change something, all you hear is "what for? Nothings going to change". It's very sad to think we prefer to remain in the situation we are now than to actuallytake action to change it.

    • @flocoo1359
      @flocoo1359 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      ​@@alejandrolopezxochihua3371yeah, maybe that is because foreigners with a higher financial capacity are completely disrupting the housing market (and other markets) by moving here by the thousands ,in a country where the average salary goes around 800€-900€, and the government and municipalities do nothing to control it. They in fact double down on it as if it was something great, leaving locals completely unprotected against the economic inequality where they have to compete for a space. It's very sad. Currently average Portuguese people with normal jobs afford a house. An average rent in Lisbon today goes for around 1500€. Rooms are 700€-800€. How would average Portuguese people be able to pay for these? How can a student afford a room? I can't say it is your fault, but all these Americans, French and other foreign nationalities moving in hordes to Portugal just because "it is super cheap" are creating a huge impact in the country. It's not cheap for us, and I have to say this feels like neo-colonialism leveraged by money. People are literally being expelled from the cities via life cost increase. Even the suburbs are not affordable anymore. And don't even start me on the "annexation" of coastal lands, which we would travel to enjoy the beach since our childhood, but are now being bought and made inaccessible. Something that is supposed to be illegal, but money will allow you to circumvent. I blame this on the greed and lack of vision of our people and politicians. A lot are just getting rich on the low hanging fruit by selling us out and transforming this country into a huge Disneyland and hotel. We now face challenges such as: how will teachers, policemen, nurses or garage collectors work in the city if they can't afford to live in the surroundings? An hotel organization was demanding free land to the government, so they could build affordable housing for their own employees, since no one was willing to move there for a low wage which wouldn't allow them to pay a local rent. There is no bright future for a country which just lives from tourism. I see no plan to leverage higher value activities on the money tourism and high end immigration is bringing. Just more tourism and more digital nomads. I fear this will create future generations of subservient and low cultured people. What is the point of getting an education if all there is to do is work at a restaurant, hotel or drive a tuc-tuc for foreigners. Also, a lot of businesses are transforming to please the expat's taste, since there is more money to get from that, destroying a lot of low end quality businesses we had here, because foreigners don't like it. This is another erasure happening from this "great migration" to Portugal. It is basically turning into an uncharacteristic country where you get exactly the same expet you could get in the US, Dubai, Berlin, Stockholm, São Paulo or Singapore.

  • @ronniewilliford3449
    @ronniewilliford3449 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Super interesting vid, Dave. My wife and I have talked about moving to Europe and I've heard a lot of these same pros and cons voiced by other folks. We tend to jump into wherever the new adventure lies. It's nice to hear your thoughts on the subject.

  • @jasonmoore5892
    @jasonmoore5892 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This was a very thought out video. I'm an American that has lived from Sea to shining Sea and have been self employed since, I got out of the Military. I'm going to retire outside the US and Portugal is one of my top picks. You just hit the nail on the head with all the topics you covered. Keep going, Great job! Thank you!

    • @simoncampbell3144
      @simoncampbell3144 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't forget your golf clubs

    • @lpm6439
      @lpm6439 ปีที่แล้ว

      Remember that South Europe (and East Europe) is the 'poor' part of Europe and difficult to get a job in. Even if you're a bank manager you will be on minimum wage. So, you better have savings. Better still if you're retired and don't need to chase the low paying jobs that don't give you anything, basically..

    • @teresacardoso9895
      @teresacardoso9895 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just informing you that the Portuguese don't like their country to be the playard of old retired foreigners.

    • @matr3ko
      @matr3ko ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@teresacardoso9895 Maybe you share that i idea, and you dont speak on behalf of all Portuguese. I live in an area that has hundreds of retired foreigners mixed in with the local community, i see no problems. Normal people living normal lives

  • @rowandowland1391
    @rowandowland1391 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    We've moved to Italy after 60+ years living in Australia and can relate to many of your own experiences. You look so much more healthy now than you did before you arrived. Something must be working for you.

    • @daveinportugal
      @daveinportugal  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Must be the surfing and daily sunshine 😜

  • @monikamorandi2862
    @monikamorandi2862 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    I agree with my whole heart! As a swiss travelling back and forth to the States- I love the Country but am devastated by the toxic, paranoid climate there. Not able to understand the unability to have healthcare for everyone🤷‍♀️

    • @timmy-wj2hc
      @timmy-wj2hc ปีที่แล้ว

      Greed and capitalism are the reason there is no healthcare for all in the US.
      The reason there is a strong welfare state in Europe was because it was a response to Communism of the Soviet Union providing housing, healthcare, and education for free. So the Europeans knew the people would revolt and overthrow the capiralists who only care about profits instead of the Planet and Humanity.

    • @cyanogen7582
      @cyanogen7582 ปีที่แล้ว

      The answer to that is simply that the US is a very selfish country with a lot of individualism. Most don't like the idea of paying to take care of someone else, they just want to take care of themselves.

    • @jessicamoore1314
      @jessicamoore1314 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It is toxic and paranoid for a reason … there is gross inequality & ineffective/bad systems in the government, healthcare, policing, energy, education and financial sectors.
      I am very happy here as an American in Switzerland, even if it isn’t perfect here too.

    • @linuxman7777
      @linuxman7777 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lobbyists, and the fact the government is too powerful here. Most average people support universal healthcare, but the rich don't so it doesn't happen.

    • @mikem9309
      @mikem9309 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I haven’t been to the USA in many years but it seems that things are getting really messy and toxic there. So much hatred for so many reasons. I’ve heard it described as A third world country with money

  • @willowmallow
    @willowmallow 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s lovely to see the happiness on your face when talking about your life in Portugal! I do love Europe- so much to explore!! (i’m a brit).

  • @fortuna7469
    @fortuna7469 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Great video, thanks! Regarding political polarization.. the reason why families and communities are not as politically divided in European countries as in the US is not because we here in Europe don't talk about issues. It is because our political systems are different to the system in the US: many European countries have multiple parties that form coalition governments. For example here in Finland we have 9 parties in the parliament of which 4 parties are in the current government. When there is a multiple party system, peoples' or families' identities do not get so intertwined with a certain party. You can vote for different parties depending on the current situation and not always vote for the same party because you identify with it. Moreover, since parties always need to form coalitions with each other for the government they must be able to negotiate with each other, and hence, treat other parties reasonably well.

    • @daveinportugal
      @daveinportugal  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Much more reasonable to me! Thanks for the perspective and comment!

    • @themartinandersson
      @themartinandersson ปีที่แล้ว

      Almost 400 million people and they have only two parties to vote on. It's a farce.

    • @aycc-nbh7289
      @aycc-nbh7289 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We still have coalitions in the US, but they may as well not exist if independent politicians always side with particular factions. Though I’m pretty sure that if this sort of thing can happen in one country, it can happen in every country.

    • @geraldbutler5484
      @geraldbutler5484 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aycc-nbh7289your political system is totally corrupted by money. Having only 2 parties polarises the nation. Finally your president seems untouchable like a Middle Ages king.

    • @susanatkinson3978
      @susanatkinson3978 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing that....I'd like to learn more about it. As a US citizen that sounds so much better😊

  • @ToriHalfon
    @ToriHalfon ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Great video, you pretty much summed up all the reasons why we want to leave the US.
    When we were in Berlin in April, and all the shops closed at 6pm so the workers could have a life, I was like “this is magical they actually want their citizens to have free time to live!”

    • @JCX-9
      @JCX-9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol do you honestly think that the stores that stay open late here in US don’t have workers taking different shifts? I am from Europe and that’s one thing i hated, they were either closed for lunch or gone for the day. Screw that. How the heck you shop after work?

    • @Sebastian-zn3dx
      @Sebastian-zn3dx ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Europe has only been living in a bubble of well-being since the end of World War II and as a result of becoming a colony of US hegemony. The real Europe is a poor and violent place that can be seen precisely before the world wars. Most European countries are bankrupt and live on DEBT and that debt can only be maintained by an artificial hegemony of the Euro. Right now, Germany, which is the "industrial engine" without cheap Russian energy, is no longer competitive and the rest of the countries are condemned to fall into economic and social decline. This whole vision that Europeans "have lives" has no historical basis, just look at the millions of immigrants who fled from there to seek a better life.

    • @serpentines6356
      @serpentines6356 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's why I liked the "Blue laws" when I lived in PA.
      I thought it was good people were honoring the need for a day of rest, and be with family, and friends.
      It's a religious, spiritual value. That's a good thing, and I think a lot of Americans are getting bratty, and narcissistic because we are losing that. Many Americans think they are so damn smart, and religion, or being humble is stupid, and "beneath" them.
      I am not religious, but I see what this narcissistic, atheist cr*p is doing to people, and its not good.

    • @serpentines6356
      @serpentines6356 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@Sebastian-zn3dx I sure am worried about the U.S. debt.

    • @Xiroi87
      @Xiroi87 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Sebastian-zn3dx why do you keep posting the same message, no matter what the OP says? Are you a bot or a bored troll?

  • @kirstyg3978
    @kirstyg3978 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    As an American currently living in Europe in a country where the citizens matter. I don’t think I ever wanna go back. Oh and the little to no crime definitely and overall safety definitely minimized my anxiety.

    • @nosouponhead
      @nosouponhead ปีที่แล้ว

      There's too much crime in the US. It's all a result of slavery and then government handouts. Very sad.

  • @marilynpenny2250
    @marilynpenny2250 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Very true... as a well traveled Canadian, I have realized we are so European in our lifestyle and culture... thank goodness

  • @devonteforeman
    @devonteforeman ปีที่แล้ว +186

    You should read the business insider article "Americans flocked to Portugal for cheaper, more peaceful lives, but newcomers also brought crowds and drove up the cost of living." Many people in Portugal do not want American colonizers driving up the cost of their real estate.

    • @eweb4949
      @eweb4949 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Who can blame the native Portuguese for being unhappy about higher real estate prices? No one would want higher home prices (unless they already own a home and want the value to go up).

    • @itshadouken
      @itshadouken ปีที่แล้ว +36

      This has been proven statistically false via census data. Hardly any Americans have actually migrated to Portugal. There are only about 7,000 Americans living in Portugal, meanwhile there are millions of Portuguese living in America. Know your facts mate

    • @devonteforeman
      @devonteforeman ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@itshadouken You're arguing in bad faith by including American citizens that are descendants of Portuguese migrants. The number of Portuguese nationals living in America is about 50,000. The number of Americans living in Portugal increased by 45% in 2021, and has increased by 239% since 2017.

    • @jackiem.dearroyo8739
      @jackiem.dearroyo8739 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      As for me and my family, we are very grateful with US that adopted us as Americans, we are from Colombia and Perú, and we love the security of this place, still we will love to go to Europe were are our ancestors and meet some of them. Thanks so much for sharing.

    • @itshadouken
      @itshadouken ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@devonteforeman I’m not arguing in bad faith, the fact is the number of Americans who are living in Portugal is statistically too small to effect home prices or even be noticeable. Inflation of the $Euro is what drove up real state prices in Portugal, all of Europe, America, Japan, China, and almost world wide. You can quote big percentage increase but that’s because the number was so small. If there were only 2 and then there were 10 that’s a 500% increase but also only 10. The population of Portugal is 10.3 million and there’s only 7,000 Americans based on census date from the Portuguese government. There are 15 times more Americans moving to Costa Rica which has half the population of Portugal and yet no issues with real estate market.

  • @kunaltuna
    @kunaltuna ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I am a Turkish Computer Scientist who studied and worked in Germany, and subsequently did a Ph.D. in the U.S., and Iived there for 12 years. I completely agree with the food, culture, and "work to live" aspects that are mentioned. On the negative side, one thing I should add is that I was bored to death living the suburban life first in Upstate New York, and then in New Jersey. However, on the plus side, I never felt as a foreigner and was very well respected for my work and abilities. Me and my wife were making a lot of money even as salaried employees that friends in Germany couldn't come close. Europe, in my case Germany, is great if you accept to be mediocre. You earn enough to enjoy life in cafes, restaurants, museums, etc., and have time to see the world. On the negative side, as a Turkish engineer who spoke fluent German, I was not respected nearly as much as in the U.S. for my abilities and ideas. U.S. felt like heaven afterwards.

    • @Colombia20102018
      @Colombia20102018 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Your case might be special because there are millions of Turkish living in Germany. I heard about three million people. The Turkish culture is very strong in places like Berlin. Then, in my opinion I believe it is harder for a Turkish to fully immerse in the German culture. I agree with the salary part. Salaries in the US are better, plus taxes are lower. On the other hand, there are many subsidies and free things in Germany to make up for it. For example, when I was in the US, I was paying about $200 per kid for daycare. Not only is daycare free in Berlin, but the government gives you Kindergeld. So for two kids I was paying more than $1600 just on daycare per month. In Berlin I get about €500 on Kindergeld a month. So maybe my salary is a little lower than in the US, but thanks to those subsidies, it evens out. I don’t know if I am going to stay here forever, but college is also free here, while a degree in the US in a decent university will cost more than a 100K per child.

    • @kunaltuna
      @kunaltuna ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Colombia20102018 My case is not at all special. On the contrary, most of the Turks living in Germany are special cases. They were recruited by the German industry in the 60's coming from the poorest and most uneducated parts of the country. There are millions of Turks like me, mostly in the big cities like Istanbul and Ankara. Even one grandfather of mine was an engineer (the other being a doctor). Nowadays, a lot of so called "white Turks" (white collared) are migrating to Germany because of the economic situation in Turkey. But also because of the political situation. Germany's new migration laws make it very easy for, lets say a computer scientist like me, to pass few interviews via Skype or Zoom and be recruited by a German IT company despite the fact that they don't speak a word of German. As for the social state arguments you are making, you are absolutely right. The U.S. is a jungle. You either make it or be broken. No job security, no social help, no health insurance if you are jobless, etc. BUT, if you make it, you can make it big. You can reach your full potential. Many of my friends stayed in Germany and they are perfectly happy. Also many went to the U.S. and made it there. A lot of them made it in Turkey too. Despite the bad economic situation nowadays, Turkey is still a middle income country, not a poor country. And if you are well educated you can earn good money too.

    • @Lawrence64
      @Lawrence64 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bingo

    • @PamelaTitterington
      @PamelaTitterington ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No one is mediocre

    • @BruceWing
      @BruceWing ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PamelaTitterington- People, as people, are not mediocre. People, on any given skill/profession/activity, ARE mediocre at a given skill/profession/activity.

  • @kateflies3930
    @kateflies3930 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I remember when, many years ago our daughter came back to the States after having spent a year in the Peace Corp in Botswana...she said she was almost in tears over the number of choices of food in the supermarket... happily settled on a 100 acre organic farm near Georgian Bay in Ontario. I realize this country is a melting pot, or really a mosaic of many different ethnic and cultural backgrounds, but have always felt , everything has to be done larger, louder, faster than it needs to be...

    • @cq8822
      @cq8822 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think it stems from the fact that the citizens had to be that way when they were building a country. We are still a new enough country that the individual fighting spirit still reigns. I think it’s time to realize we’ve made it we need to become more of a community and to get a work / life balance in order. I think we value the wrong things like work, not taking our vacations, climbing that corporate ladder. When quality of life should define our success and relationships with our neighbors.

    • @TravelinRosy2025
      @TravelinRosy2025 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes

    • @thaisachan
      @thaisachan ปีที่แล้ว

      It calls... capitalism. Everything can be profitable.

    • @logicfxtrading2280
      @logicfxtrading2280 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You can hardly compare Botswana with Europe.

  • @mikesvacation
    @mikesvacation 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your video is amazing, it was a big relief for you to validate what I've been suspecting for a long time. 👍🙏

  • @christianmarcel7766
    @christianmarcel7766 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I’m French, from Paris, and lived in Boston 7 years. We moved to the south of France 3 years ago. I think it’s very hard to generalize to the whole Europe. It’s SO diverse, in terms of systems and cultures that it’s very different countries to countries however you nailed the general idea and the main differences. Although, food is very expensive here. The quality is much better but it’s very expensive comparatively to the US.
    Also, even if the cost of living is much lower, the salaries are also much lower than in the US. Overall, I feel like, financially speaking, it’s about the same. We’re actually better off in our case but that’s just our specific experience.

    • @jadedjhypsi
      @jadedjhypsi ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think the same except right now it is almost impossible to find a job in Portugal compared to a hot market in the states =)

    • @christianmarcel7766
      @christianmarcel7766 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@jadedjhypsi Now France has the best economy in Europe. In Paris it's easy to find a job, but the cost of living is much higher. There are plenty of places in France where you can live with lower cost of living.

    • @penname5766
      @penname5766 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Cost of food also varies across Europe though - here in the UK, for example, our food is much cheaper than in the US and very high quality.

    • @christianmarcel7766
      @christianmarcel7766 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@penname5766 I'm not sure about that. Food in the UK is notoriously known for being very expensive as you guys don't produce much. The large majority is imported and with Brexit the prices have spiked.

    • @penname5766
      @penname5766 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@christianmarcel7766 There is a video by Evan Edinger where he directly compares the cost of buying food in the UK versus the US with the currency conversion, and everything here comes out around half the price. He even does shops in different supermarkets and compares them to outlets on a par over there, and the UK is cheaper by miles.

  • @skiesboi
    @skiesboi ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I agree with much of what you're saying. I will just say one thing, that whilst "Europeans" might not be working hard to retire early, I think that because there is so much so close and then deals, much of what Americans are rushing to retire so that they can do (travel the world, for example) is something that many Europeans do over the span of their life, whether it is a weekend in Amsterdam or a week in Bali.

    • @themartinandersson
      @themartinandersson ปีที่แล้ว +10

      A majority of all Americans don't even have a passport lol

    • @matildesantos4215
      @matildesantos4215 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@themartinanderssonwell have you any idea how large America is ? We don't need a passport to travel to Miami or Yellowstone national park from New York City. 75 million Americans visited Florida in 2019 the year preceeding Covid .That's just one state

    • @themartinandersson
      @themartinandersson ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@matildesantos4215 No I had absolutely no idea 😂
      All of the U.S. is pretty much the same (except from the nature, of course). Had it not been for the announcement from the GPS you wouldn't know that you crossed from one state into the other.
      You should get a passport and do some real traveling 👍

    • @rachelgregory888
      @rachelgregory888 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree. It's easy to travel in Europe throughout your life.

    • @Hmmm313
      @Hmmm313 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Merikans have debt all there lifes..

  • @robertrosalez3414
    @robertrosalez3414 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Glad to hear you got to experience another country. I too was so fortunate to have lived in Europe for 10 years starting at the age of 20. I completely agree with your analysis. When I returned to the U.S., it was a culture shock. Regarding education and alcohol, you're absolutely correct. And yes, after two world wars in your front yard, Europeans learned from it and learned to live life. Old world vs new world.

    • @amazingllama3918
      @amazingllama3918 ปีที่แล้ว

      All I have to do is cut out "two world wars" and replace it with "a world war". Your comment is at best inconsequential.
      Imagine if D Day were left up to people like roberto salad

    • @boobopish
      @boobopish ปีที่แล้ว

      Couldn’t agree more. Well said.

  • @p.m.bradley9049
    @p.m.bradley9049 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks!

  • @thevibrancyreboot3835
    @thevibrancyreboot3835 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I went to Ireland last fall. It was a beautiful country and I enjoyed everything I saw and everyone I met, but one of the best parts of the trip that I didn't realize I would appreciate was the experience of being away from the toxic American news cycle. I went into instant depression when we hit our first US airport upon returning and heard all the TVs blaring. My SO and I are now planning to move abroad to be away from the divisiveness that's fostered by the news in the US, but also to enjoy many of the benefits you mentioned in your video. I just went to get a mammogram this AM and found out it wouldn't have been in network with my insurance. My out of pocket costs would have run me between $500-700. That's ridiculous. One shouldn't have to fear paying for a preventative procedure. I'm already going to be paying for my student loans until I die. I guess I just may get to die faster in the US to be put out of my misery because I can't afford the ridiculous high medical costs, partly because I'm already broke from the cost to attend school and better myself?!
    The US needs to wake up to this ridiculousness. It just isn't able to compete anymore on a global scale to many of the first world countries in quality of life.

    • @maggieg5719
      @maggieg5719 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      By law in the US, mammograms are covered along with your annual exam.
      As far as your student loans, no one wants to hear you complain. You wanted that money, so you got it for whatever spent it on! Maybe you should have prepared for a better paying occupation? Also, under the Braindead administration, you weren’t required to pay interest on your loans which taxpayers have to pay. Did you pay down your principal during all these months? Did you at least work 40 hours per weeks? Did you ever consider taking a second job just to pay towards your principal payments? Could you have lived with your parents rent free to pay as much money as possible towards your principal payments? Stop blaming others for your bad choices!

    • @jayvailey
      @jayvailey ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can't speak for Ireland, but the UK media is absolutely filled with drama that can be just as annoying as US media. However, the US definitely needs universal healthcare and cheaper education. They also need to get rid of gen eds. A Bachelors degree takes 3 years most other places because you don't spend a year doing pointless classes.

    • @janeaustin9897
      @janeaustin9897 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why won' t you come to Russia? You' ll see a totally different picture from what they show you. I don' t pay for my insurance as it' s free. Kindergarten is cheap even in cities. And so on...

    • @williamgullett5911
      @williamgullett5911 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@janeaustin9897Your insurance is free but are you covered for everything?

    • @SallyStClair-tv9gf
      @SallyStClair-tv9gf ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@janeaustin9897Pay for kindergarten, I'm confused as I only know the US where it's free.
      A blend of RU and Western medical would be ideal. Research & Development is best as collaborative open source access to research papers.

  • @friuliancottage
    @friuliancottage ปีที่แล้ว +29

    As a now elderly former English woman, living for the past 53 years in Italy and whose distant ancestors were some of the first European settlers to America, I must say I agree with you. However, I have never been to the USA and have no inclination to do so. I am, or perhaps was, a get up and go person as my ancestors must have been but I am happy to have planned and made my life here in continental Europe. Portugal is lovely too. Good luck to you.

  • @dylanmoris6211
    @dylanmoris6211 ปีที่แล้ว +967

    Success depends on the actions or steps you take to achieve it. Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Financial management is a crucial topic that most tend to shy away from, and ends up haunting them in the near future.., I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life!!

    • @williamsbrown4026
      @williamsbrown4026 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life beaus I invested early ahead this time .

    • @LionTowercoporation
      @LionTowercoporation ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly ! That's my major concern and what kind of profitable business or investment can someone do with the current rise in economic downturn

    • @UshnicYuvnikof
      @UshnicYuvnikof ปีที่แล้ว +5

      have been investing in stocks and real estate for over 10 years now and I have made good amount of money. My portfolio has grown exponentially with the help of an advisor and I can say its going well . what an amazing way to make money!

    • @KelvinWallace
      @KelvinWallace ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@UshnicYuvnikof Would you kindly suggest a professional with a range of investing options? This is quite unusual, and I look forward to hearing from you.

    • @UshnicYuvnikof
      @UshnicYuvnikof ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The adviser I'm in touch with is ''Colleen Janie Towe ''. She was recently interviewed on CNBC Television. You can use something else, for me her strategy works hence my result. she provides entry and exit point for the securities I focus on.

  • @tameia
    @tameia 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this, thank you for sharing! I visited London for 3 weeks and did not want to come back. It was like a different world, so much community, and true freedom of expression. Much love! ❤

  • @honestabe1940
    @honestabe1940 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Amen brother! I got to live in Germany for 12 years. 3 times, 4 years each time with U.S. Army. Germany is pretty much in center of Europe so easy access to many countries. Italy, Austria, Switzerland, Spain, France, Belgium, Netherlands, Sweden, Denmark, Norway. Living there for years you get to know and appreciate the different cultures, especially in contrast to America. Sorry to say it but a lot of America looks ugly in comparison! Oh yeah, forgot, took the train to Lisbon, rented a car and drove down coast for a week. Incredible food!

    • @anfieldreds_1892
      @anfieldreds_1892 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I also served in British Army in Germany. whereabouts were you? I did 5 years out there. loved it 👌🏿

    • @walecznypegaz3584
      @walecznypegaz3584 ปีที่แล้ว

      After all, Germany is a ghetto

    • @DamianP-n7b
      @DamianP-n7b ปีที่แล้ว

      And yet you forget Germany's neighbours Poland, Czechia and other East and South European countries. I've never been to the US but l can name all 50 States out of a pocket and you, ignorant American leave out half of Europe. This tells much about American psyche.

  • @joannekellam191
    @joannekellam191 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for sharing your opinions! Considering a move to Portugal and this is the kind of insight I am happy to hear.

  • @RisingAboveToxic
    @RisingAboveToxic ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I should've done this three years ago. This was a great video. You discussed several different areas that are super important. When I move to Europe someday, I am fully confident that my quality of life will improve.

  • @keko4618
    @keko4618 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a nice video, make`s me happy. My home country Finland, now happiest in the world 7 years in row. We finally began to believe it might be right.

  • @momchilyordanov8190
    @momchilyordanov8190 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I know many people in U.S., because before we joined EU, America was one of the most desired immigration destinations for people in my country. When we compare, the 1st topic of the video comes up most of the time. Work/life balance (as titled in the video). In my country, the law says the working week is 40 hours. That is 5 days, 8 hours each. In reality, that gets overlooked often, but also is followed as a rule in many companies. In my company the 40-hour rule is in play, but with a (advantageous) caveat - I actually work 4 days, 10 hours each. That results in 3 full days of rest every week. They pay me full time salary (I work the 40) but I have 3 days of rest weekly. Every time I mention that to my U.S. based friends, they are outraged lol. Most of them work 5 days of 10 or more hours and some weeks 6 days even. So, yes, they make more money than me. But in reality - every year (that's 50 weeks), I get 50 extra rest days. How much money does that equates to? And in the 11 years at my company, I've got 550+ extra rest days 😄And then comes the final nail in the coffin. The paid leave. By law, we get 20 workdays (not calendar days) free, with full pay. That translates in 4 week every year, when you go on vacation (or just stay at home ofc) and you get a full salary. But for my particular profession, the law say 25 work days. So I get 5 weeks of paid leave every year, on top of my extra 50 days of rest 😄. When I explain that, many of my U.S. based friends simply refuse to believe me and think I'm exaggerating or joking 😄

    • @StuStevens-rn7rb
      @StuStevens-rn7rb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow - nice "perks."

    • @labgma1553
      @labgma1553 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Weird I live in USA and worked the four 10 hour shifts with 3 days off for 15 years. Also worked a three 12 hr shift with 4 days a week off for several years. There is no 8 hour 5 days a week requirement in USA. The company decides what is best suited so your post is totally wrong.

  • @enitalp
    @enitalp ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Fun video. I'm French, born in Paris, and lived and worked there until 2004. I moved to Canada, Montreal, Quebec. and everything you said, I did say (besides food and some part of health care) as a difference between Paris and Montreal; in 2021, I moved from Montreal to a country house 150km from Montreal near a medium size town. I did get the same cultural shock from Paris to Montreal and now Montreal to Sherbrooke. No stress; everything is literally 10 minutes away. People are so lovely and friendly, etc.
    I could never go back; in almost 20 years, I only spent 3 days in France for a business trip.

    • @Copainbig
      @Copainbig ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Paris is not France. I have lived in Canada for 5 years, and me and my Canadian wife want to go live in France… But Paris? I’d prefer to die.

    • @milibrkovic7387
      @milibrkovic7387 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I live in Sherbrooke and the city sucks 🤣🤣

    • @stillmind5892
      @stillmind5892 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah, but Paris is one of the very worst European cities to live in..

    • @brucejamiesn3802
      @brucejamiesn3802 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand why you love Quebec. I went there in August and talked to the Parisian proprietors of an auberge. They said it was much easier to start a business in Quebec compared to France. I don't understand why more young French don't move there because of friendliness of the people and the beauty of the nature.

    • @enitalp
      @enitalp ปีที่แล้ว

      The weather 🌦
      36C in summer and -32C in winter.
      And the taxes (next year, I'm reaching the last bracket, around 52%/54% of federal + provincial taxes).
      But, 0% TVA (TPS+TVQ) on fresh products like fruits or meat, taxes are only applied to transformed products.
      So "rich" people eat frozen food, while "poor" people eat vegetables and meat.
      @@brucejamiesn3802

  • @stormnorm358
    @stormnorm358 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I'm from the Detroit area as well. I've been living in the UK for over 30 years and I agree with you whole heartedly. I used to have panic attacks, worrying about the violence in the US. It's insane that it's just accepted there. Also, I know several people in the US who are still working at 70+. Not because they want to, but because they can't afford to retire! So glad I moved and raised my family here in the UK.

    • @commentsarefree4311
      @commentsarefree4311 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Some Europeans would suggest the UK is not really Europe. As a European I would agree with that statement. Brexit and it's after effects have shown us the UK is a bit different in many ways, standard of living being one.

    • @jennybertenshaw7694
      @jennybertenshaw7694 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@commentsarefree4311 There were about 3 MILLION British ex-pats in Europe who were not allowed to vote in the highly RIGGED Brexit referendum..(Thanks to the American Steve Bannon and Cambridge Analytica)We were deprived of our rights and have STILL not got them back.The average Brit spends more time and money in other European countries than any other nationality. We LOVED being in the EU... heartbreaking to leave it

    • @stormnorm358
      @stormnorm358 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@commentsarefree4311 I think many Brits would agree with you and Brexit has made it harder to feel like we are part of Europe. But there are many differences between all European countries. I think the majority of people in Britain would like to rejoin the EU or at least the common market. I'm not sure what you meant by standard of living.

    • @StandardCabrera
      @StandardCabrera ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@commentsarefree4311 the vote was 51%, half of us woke up very, very pissed off the next day. Boris Johnson should be in jail for gaslighting these idiots

    • @stephengay5373
      @stephengay5373 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm British and European too. Millions of Brits feel the same and we are quite possibly the majority these days.

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You’re smart

  • @g.l.murphy9287
    @g.l.murphy9287 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I agree with all of your statements. I am from Canada but we have similar issues as in the US. Having traveled to Europe many times, I admire the diverse cultures of every country I have been to and will continue to travel there again and again. On a different note, I am walking the Camino Portuguese at the beginning of October and very much looking forward to my first visit to Porto.

  • @AnexoRialto
    @AnexoRialto ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I live in Spain where I first arrived from the USA in the mid 1980s. People work long hours for relatively low salaries. People don't spend their days lazing in the cafes. On the plus side, there's a relatively well-functioning public health service and statutory annual vacation. Immigrating to a foreign country is an enriching experience, but it's not for most people. You're always going to be foreigner and I will never be considered a "real" Spaniard. And I've definitely heard slurs spoken out loud against Latin American and African immigrants. I myself have been told to "go back where I came from". It's not common, but it happens. Every country has its problems, and we also bring our own psychological baggage wherever we go. I don't regret emigrating, but I don't idealize it either.

    • @TurdBoi666
      @TurdBoi666 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @andrewveitch8515
    @andrewveitch8515 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Having lived in the USA for 22yrs now, as someone born and raised in South Africa, I definitely can identify with the points you made about life in the USA. I think the biggest thing now is how toxically divided the US is now and how that has permeated everyones interactions with one another. I live in California and have heard that we cannot drive our CA cars into other states due to State Hate. Pretty sad. I think Americans right now are in a state of despondency , high stress, depression, coupled with anger and bitterness. Pretty certain that is why channels such as yours have caught the attention of so many describing how they want to "escape" from this place which once was home. Living here is so unaffordable now (not just in CA); homelessness and poverty increasing. Lack of politeness and manners or courtesy of any sort, so prevalent. I know that I will not be spending my retirement years when I turn 60 in this country. Thanks for your informative and honest insights into the European Expat/ immigrant experience.

    • @hans-jurgenoberfeld343
      @hans-jurgenoberfeld343 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I sense a bitterness in your words. Germany is looking for well-trained workers.

    • @pilargarrido1316
      @pilargarrido1316 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      all you said is true , I was born and live in Lisbon we can be poor compared to other countries but for sure we have quality of life . I would not change it for any other country in the world .

    • @stephaniepersin4222
      @stephaniepersin4222 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m from SW Pennsylvania and go to Ohio regularly and travelled last March to Indiana very briefly. I’m a staunch Democrat and my Commonweath leans Democrat 90% of time and is fools Gold to Republicans but I never get harassed ever. I’m from the north. I’m going to have to adapt in retirement in under a decade when I want to live out west because they seem to be mentally off and gun nuts. I’ll probably have to carry a gun and take lessons to pistol shoot.

    • @PETER394100
      @PETER394100 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ⁠@@stephaniepersin4222…..sounds more like you’re talking about the southeastern and south central part of the U.S. as being gun crazy and dangerous. I’d be scared to death to spend my retirement in Florida or Texas with what they’ve now become. Give me California, Nevada, Arizona or the Pacific northwest (Washington, Oregon) any day of the week!

    • @stephaniepersin4222
      @stephaniepersin4222 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PETER394100 I’m speaking about small town RVing on BLM lands off grid using generator and solar energy in Arizona or New Mexico. I have a lot of customers from Latin America who shop at the grocery retail job I have and they’re never loud and violent like my own kind. I’d get a gun to protect me from mental unstable fellow white people.

  • @Jonathanrootinspector
    @Jonathanrootinspector ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've been to a bunch of European countries and Portugal was the best. Unexpectedly so, great food, beautiful beaches, etc.

  • @Chacarruna
    @Chacarruna ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I grew up in Spain and half of my adult life I have lived in America, and in between 5 years in the UK, and I approve this message 😂😂. You nailed everything, and my plan is to have the best of both worlds, part of the year here in the States and part in Europe. Thanks to the American dream I, hopefully, will be able to retire/semi-retire early, while none of the people I know in Europe can do that. Thanks for an excellent video.

  • @maureenmolleron747
    @maureenmolleron747 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Married a Frenchman in the US. After 8years his company called him back to France. Been living here for 30 years.
    My 2 eldest returned to the US and one is deeply unhappy. She's married to an Italian in the US and both have European citizenship, so they may return.
    The youngest was 5 when we moved here, and is completely bilingual and more French. American.

  • @katjachen573
    @katjachen573 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I grew up in Germany and have lived in the US for 30 years. Our moving date for Portugal is Spring of 2025 for exactly the reasons you mentioned. I miss the quality of food, the community, the conversations and the diversity. I never grew accustomed to living in fear like so many of my friends and colleagues do...carrying concealed weapons because "you never know". Our daughter has chronic health issues and whenever she's in Europe, they magically disappear. We believe in the power of good nutrition and a less stressful environment. Dave, I love following your channel and share your videos with my friends who think we're nuts about moving back to Europe😂.

    • @daveinportugal
      @daveinportugal  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Love your comment and hearing your story! Thank you so much for sharing my videos

    • @pauloferreira1319
      @pauloferreira1319 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I just hope that you and/or your partner are retired, or you are going to have a salary coming from US or another country, otherwise your Portuguese dream will become a nightmare...

    • @travelbirdmarciasilva-mart6827
      @travelbirdmarciasilva-mart6827 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Very interesting, I am in a similar situation, when I am in Europe my allergies are gone, as soon as I get back in the US, I become extremely congested, coughing, headaches, sneezing, That is one of the reason that sadly I will leave the US in a couple of years, to improve my health.

    • @susannebrunberg4174
      @susannebrunberg4174 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@travelbirdmarciasilva-mart6827 Think twice before you move to Europe... It can easily become a nightmare

    • @matildesantos4215
      @matildesantos4215 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@pauloferreira1319good advice coming from a Portuguese.

  • @florenciacostabel3323
    @florenciacostabel3323 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Absolutely honest, very interesting. Thank you Sir!

  • @danielsemyck7683
    @danielsemyck7683 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    This is EXACTLY why we're retiring to Portugal!! Love your viewpoints on living there!

    • @daveinportugal
      @daveinportugal  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Daniel!

    • @57rrg
      @57rrg ปีที่แล้ว

      He will eventually return to the USA after missing his friends and family. It's inevitable.

    • @suzipam1234
      @suzipam1234 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@57rrgi will never go back to the usa. I now dont know how i could have lived there. Its a false way of life

    • @rafalkaminski6389
      @rafalkaminski6389 ปีที่แล้ว

      The sooner, the better

  • @milo_thatch_incarnate
    @milo_thatch_incarnate ปีที่แล้ว +24

    From what I’ve been seeing and hearing, I think the “work to live, not live to work“ mentality is spreading in the US, which I’m glad of. I certainly live that way.
    I also love that Europe has a culture of not caring as much whether they’re remembered. I feel that way as well. I really don’t care if I’m remembered by anyone other than my family and friends; and I would hope that I’m remembered by them because I made a lasting positive impact on their lives. That’s what I care about.

    • @finnagain236
      @finnagain236 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Please, don,t!
      Do not spread the word.
      You want a system like Europe, build it on your own.
      Greetings from Austria

    • @l4kr
      @l4kr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@finnagain236 Bro chill

    • @xhagast
      @xhagast ปีที่แล้ว

      The TRUTH is that you will NOT be remembered. Most mayor figures in the world barely leave a mention in the history books. Working HARD today to retire early is BEYOND overrated. And often you can't even retire early, or comfortably. That being so, the "work to live, not live to work" mentality in a place where it is POSSIBLE makes sense. Now ask me if it is possible in the US. I fear it is not. Unless you work from home you are DOOMED to waste your life driving. That will take tens of hours from you, every WEEK, for sure every month. In Europe you can walk most places.

    • @milo_thatch_incarnate
      @milo_thatch_incarnate ปีที่แล้ว

      @@xhagast - I personally think that the last few sentences of your comment are a matter of opinion and attitude.
      I love driving, because I get to listen to music I love, learn new things by listening to podcasts, or be immersed in a great story by listening to an audiobook.
      Walking everywhere is also nice... but you CAN choose to find things to love about any situation you're in. Even driving. That's called choosing a positive, cheerful attitude. :)

    • @xhagast
      @xhagast ปีที่แล้ว

      @@milo_thatch_incarnate Count the time you spend driving. It piles up. Also, you may be used to it but every time you get behind the wheel you are risking your life. One slip and you are a statistic.

  • @ToniGlick
    @ToniGlick ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I've been in Canada for over 20 years. There are things about the US I miss but overall I got out before things went way downhill. Up here we have so many more social structures, like healthcare and a child tax benefit that just makes life so much easier.

    • @susanmeredith4957
      @susanmeredith4957 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agree. I’ve been in Canada 40 yrs, before things got so toxic in the US. I’m horrified by what’s happening. Love our medical system.

    • @sc3639
      @sc3639 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@susanmeredith4957 you must not have used the medical system much. So many people still do not have family drs. It takes months if not years to get into see a specialist. That is just to see the specialist. You still need him to put you on the list then to get the surgery. Lets hope that you do not require a life saving surgery. Many many canadians die before they ever get to see their dr. So many people die here because of lazy drs not looking into their issues. Cancer is a common one that people go to drs but drs often misdiagnose it till it is too late. People are delusional if they think that canadas health care is good. It is not.

    • @BlueRidgeBubble
      @BlueRidgeBubble ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@sc3639Yeah, thousands of people in Canada die a year on the waiting list
      That isn't propaganda
      It's a published fact
      It isnt all sunshine and rainbows in Canada lol
      Ask the first nation

    • @paul.hogan720
      @paul.hogan720 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The Healthcare system is unimaginably atrocious in Canada, I have been waiting for 3 months to get a surgery and I'm a young person. Meanwhile 70% of young Canadians say they will never think about buying a house/property. Try to find one positive video about canada on TH-cam...you can't. Entire country is a joke

    • @robindepner9168
      @robindepner9168 ปีที่แล้ว

      Commie Canada..medical care is terrible.

  • @denmark2680
    @denmark2680 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    There is a big difference in general between the southern and northern Europe, and eastern and western Europe too. It’s hard to compare Europe as we are all the same. There are such a big difference in every way…

    • @DipsAndPushups
      @DipsAndPushups 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I live in Serbia, South Eastern Europe, I wouldn't ever change it for the USA. We have universal healthcare, way better worker's rights, also we have free university for half the students and the other half pays way less than American students, home ownership percentage here is 90% while in America is less than 50% (that's another crazy thing, in the US renting apartments is the norm), we also have a month of paid vacation time guaranteed by law, over a year of maternal paid leave guaranteed by law, we work less than Americans, we don't have nearly as much religious fundamentalists and they are not as powerful, we have way better public transportation, our music is better, our socialist built neighborhoods are way superior to both American downtown and American suburbs. Living here feels like we are in a resort center, there is nature everywhere around me, plenty of places to walk, ride a bike, plenty of places for children to play in nature and banks for parents and grandparents to watch them over, plenty of sports courts, while the population density is high, grocery stores are at a walking distance, public transportation is great. I have the benefits of living in nature while actually living in a city and having the benefits of living in the city. The only thing that this place lacks is a sea and a beach for the sea but that's why almost everyone goes to a sea vacation most, if not every year (to either Greece or Montenegro in most cases).

    • @TheRougefish
      @TheRougefish 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You need to get out of town. A South Eastern European here. Your racist roots are showing.

  • @jameyfrank
    @jameyfrank ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My husband and I moved to Lisbon four months ago, and I feel like it’s going to extend our lives. My resting heart rate immediately dropped by 15%. We didn’t realize how stressed out and burned out we were until we were out of the fire, of constantly working for a paycheck just to break even. We had to get out of that spin cycle.
    Even in so-called expensive Lisbon, things are half or less what they were in San Francisco, and we are no longer frightened of the idea of a “healthcare event“ which could ruin our retirement. It’s also so refreshing to have reliable infrastructure, particularly such amazing and super inexpensive transportation. Portuguese people that we have met have been nothing but welcoming and friendly, and very interested in our move here.
    But we’ve just scratched the surface, I can’t wait to see what we discovered in Portugal in the years to come!

    • @thebuttermilkyway687
      @thebuttermilkyway687 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you still working? How did you get a work visa and job? I’m trying to make a change to save my health and happiness; would appreciate some advice

  • @emanuelaroaestrada5571
    @emanuelaroaestrada5571 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    As a Belgian who left highschool a couple of years ago,
    Personally I prefer American high school structure (not curriculum) We get forced into deciding our trade at 12 years old. Changing this trade it not as easy which takes a lot of chances and encouragement from students in the long run. I like that in the US you get a general education in HS with some choice classes with different trades and as well un Uni that you can take a couple of classes. It is cheap but the school system doesn't let you just transfer to something different

    • @sandrathompson1277
      @sandrathompson1277 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Not many countries make you decide what you want to do at the age of 12 years..never ever heard of such a thing…

    • @mrbunny6203
      @mrbunny6203 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Also from Belgium here. I felt I needed to clarify a bit. They changed the system 3years ago(I am not up to date on the difference) but before that there were 3-4 main categories you could choose. There was Latin, economics, math&science and human science& society. You also have more technical options or options that focus on specific jobs, but it's often seen as a downgrade in your diploma so kids will often go with the first 4 options(especially in the beginning of their studies). School did force you to choose at 12years old when ofc you have no idea what to do. You do have the option to change between studies but the problem is that you often barely see courses of, for example economics if you follow math&science . Which makes changing difficult indeed bc you have to catch up in knowledge. Also it's known that teaching in Belgium has declined and our current minister is blaming everyone except himself.
      But I do agree that it would be nice to follow a main subject but be able to choose a couple of classes.

    • @sasapopadic384
      @sasapopadic384 ปีที่แล้ว

      US educating sistem is pure trash....

    • @pauladuncanadams1750
      @pauladuncanadams1750 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sandrathompson1277 It's true. Six years of Primary. High School is also six years, divided up into two year segments. You can graduate after eight years of schooling and go into a trade. Or you can move on, but you need to make that choice at age twelve. I agree, many people don't really know what they want to do until they are in their twenties and in other countries it's much easier to decide that you are not interested in what you have studied and change course.

    • @JDSNNA
      @JDSNNA ปีที่แล้ว

      Also from Belgium here, I agree that at the age of 12 very few really know what they want in life and the introduction of having the multiple self chosen classes to help them discover more options. However, I still think no matter what starting categorie you chose you always get educated on every single basic knowledge you’ll need in your life. Besides, if at the age of 16-17 you realize you want to go learn a specific trade it’s totally possible! I started of in general high school education(the category with latin/modern/economic). That’s where gained all the general knowledge I needed. At 16 went a totally different direction and started a technical mechanical education in wich I did very well because of my previous years of education. Got the diploma and oh yeah if you then decide you want something totally different, there’s an employment service from the government that let’s you start work in company’s willing to train and educate you while you get paid by the government ot the employer, depending wich one you have, as a highly praised landscaper I now do very well and love my job, the opportunity to learn this in real working situations instead of from pieces of paper behind a school desk, I never would have been this competent in my trade. We really do have a great country!!!

  • @temporaryinnanity
    @temporaryinnanity ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I am a Portuguese American- 2nd gen. I grew up surrounded by my Portuguese family in the US. I am half Portuguese. The other half English, dutch, and French mixture going all the way back to 1620. I haven't lived in Europe, though I do have Portuguese citizenship maintained through ancestry. I mention this all to preface why I feel as though I have experienced 3 distinct cultures- maybe more in combination. Additionally, I am old and have had time to reflect on these things.
    There is only one "United States". I can get the same exact stack of pancakes in Boston, Detroit, Arkansas, New Mexico, Or Los Angeles. We all speak the same language for the most part. On the other hand, there are multitudes of different "American Experiences" depending on peoples back story. One thing that binds those experiences though is that- unless your last name is "Eagle Feather", we're all immigrants here to one degree or another.
    Our original cultures and backgrounds may be wildly different, but like it or not they all get mashed together in this chaotic mess of a country. Sooner or later- those kids got to boogie, and just like that- that foreign group are now your in-laws. Hell- when my family gets together it's like the United Nations. After I type this I'm driving to the beach to hang out with my Chinese family.
    My point is just that all of us immigrants here- for the most part, share one thing in common. Our ancestors were optimists and dreamers- and were brave enough to put it into action. We are the descendants of the extra Europeans, slaves, hustlers, bandits, farmers, fisher-folk- all trying for something better. So yes- we are entrepreneurial. But that is a very simple-minded, narrow understanding of something much bigger and stronger. Like a weed that grows through the crack with the power to break the pavement- we are hard-wired survivors. Sometimes fat, ugly, stupid ones, but it does explain why we don't assume that good things are not going to happen- and that it is safe to strive for something and take some risks.
    On the other hand, the great expanse of the US took a lot of the competitive pressure away that Europe still endured. The pressures my great grandfather left continued on and finally exploded into the horrible world war. Europe got to learn a lesson we haven't yet here in the US...
    Sorry- I'm a rambling old man... I would just like you all to think about the fact that migration experiences differ wildly due to history and context. My ancestors ALL fled poverty and war in Europe, while today Europeans thankfully enjoy relative wealth and security. I can certainly envision a possibility where I would emigrate back even. 50 years ago Portugal was in the grip of a brutal dictatorship. My grand parents- as poor as they were- used to sew money into the cuffs of clothing that was smuggled back to Portugal by the church to try to help the poor there. They would NEVER have considered moving back.
    I am so happy for myself- and all of you- that we live in an age where we have the opportunity to make the choice of how and where we would like to live. That some of you- fed up with the US hustle, can find maybe your best life in Portugal. It is a very Portuguese thing to be like the wave that travels across the ocean to crash on a foreign shore. But, if you look closely, there is always a little ripple that bounces off the beach and heads back.

    • @deepwaters9300
      @deepwaters9300 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I lived in Europe, Italy and France and studied in Berlin both East and West. Americans do not understand the history. They have no idea that the GDR was a Communist Dictatorship with medieval style torture. The book Stasiland points this out. My relatives fled Switzerland due to the Calvinists and Germany due to the Germans. The USA is really the only place that I have not felt that fear that I could feel in East Berlin and sometimes France. Not as much fear in Italy. Thank you for your comments.

    • @martinpeters4548
      @martinpeters4548 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very well said! you sir, should make a video

    • @jessika3288
      @jessika3288 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, guess you should have led with "whites only". African descent Americans are not "immigrants to one degree or another" and have not had the generational wealth luxury to choose where to live even to this day.

  • @TheWorld4all
    @TheWorld4all หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I live in Asia now. I left the states 8 years ago and it was the best decision I have made in my life.