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This is the best video ever heard about the philippines' women and foreigners' relationships.
I have great advice for people in their 40s 50 60s 70s if you were born and some of you were in your teens when the SUGAR HiLL GANG came out try to get to know mature women in their 30s focusing on looks alone before getting to know someone can go wrong I been with my Filipina since 2014 we have a son I didn't set out looking for one of the sexiest beautiful women in the Philippines I was looking for a woman I could grow with and got to know her over 3 years before meeting her I'm still with the same woman don't focus on looks alone
Of course true love,and faith!!!!
Then you didnt see many vids about it before. This guy forgot to mention so many red flags.
12 yrs it ok but now they got . Age difference is 20 to 30 Plus
you need to watch more videos
I married a Filipina in 1995. I met her, spent a week and a half together. She applied for the fiance' visa and six months later she was here and we married shortly after. I am now 68 and she is 56 Y/O. 12 year difference. We have two daughters. She was a virgin when I married her at 30 Y/O. I am the only man she has ever known. We are very happy. Our daughters are the joy of our lives. I am looking forward to her taking care of me in my golden years. I appreciate her more than ever before. We re till in love. And I am a very happy man. Marrying a Filipina was he best thing I ever did for myself.
I congratulate you. That said, you met her in 1995. That was figuratively like 100 years ago, given the technological changes, social media,and matriarchy.
While that's a great story, most of the interest is in larger age gaps
Many western couples have a 12 yr age gap so your situation doesn't bring the question up.
I congratulate you on your beautiful marriage and life. Your situation is extremely rare these days. I wish you and your family all the best. GOD BLESS 🙏
@@jk-califkid5017 sorry but you have no idea what you are talking about. All marriages are a set of ideals. I have a 26 year gap with my wife who happens to be filipina. We have been together for a decade and our kids are amazing. Yes, there are scammers but percentage wise to say a California girl? The California girl is much more likely to be after that cash, not the filipina. These girls do not want someone their same age because they hate the games younger guys play. I agree with them. Others are for someone their age, just like in the USA or anywhere else on the planet. The differences when you find an amazing filipina? LOYALTY, dedication to family unlike anything you know, NO GREED, happiness in just being a family is truly special..... These girls, for the most part are amazing and the best possible mate you could have. Me? Was broken from American girls that had motives. My filipina? World traveler, Flight attendant for Qatar Air, had more money than I ever will and is completely loyal to me. Love is a great thing and age plays zero in that role.
@@daddski1
Great to hear of another successful marriageb/relationship . I myself am currently in a long-distance relationship for over three years now with a Filipina. We are 20 years and three months apart in age. I am 65 and she is almost 45. We’ve been waiting on this K-1 visa process for over six months now . Hoping there is not going to be a government shut down as this will truly delay things even longer. By the way, I retired as a flight attendant back in 2001. Is your wife still a flight attendant? Have there been any difficulties with other men ? Thanksattempting to seduce your wife away from you?
We live in the Philippines! I am respected , honored, looked after , treated with compassion!
I married a filippino . She came from extreme poverty , had to leave her kids when they were very young . Then I happened , I was lucky enough or was it divine intervention tha we met. She was heading for a deep hole she could never survive , We were in Kuwait . I saved her and her family .No girl wants to live in this way with hungary kids . That was in 2008 , it's now 2023 we are still together so now I live in the filippines . A lot more to this story .
I also have many friends in the Philippines 🇵🇭 for the last 13 years. They've all been very good friends and none of them have ever asked for money. There are plenty of scammers in the Philippines 🇵🇭 but there are more good and decent Filipinos.
Yea I used to know one Filipina online from Cebu, she made some story that she needed $300 for a flight to Singapore for a job interview, I replied no.
don't be fooled, so many filipinas are scammers.
fully agreed
@@GoldKingsMansome are like that, why asking money to others.
I am unlucky you want to say.. i fall in for Filipina scammers most of the time? The majority are scammers don't be misinformed.. they defend their actions on poverty and yet call themselves a catholic country
Excuse me, I am a Filipino, an Aircraft Maintenance Engineer, and worked my *SS in different countries, but in a TWIST of fate, I married a Blonde Australian girl, we are a VERY happy family, with 2 olive-skinned girls, and I did NOT fancy her Aussie Citizenship, but in the CONTRARY, I brought her to the US when I got my petition from my Filipino-American parents.
You're the man. Thanks for counter balancing the statistics.
My second wife is a filipina and the best thing that ever happened to me. 15 year age difference which has been no problem
I think its ok, but pushing the boundaries. If she's a little older then the gap less of a problem I think.
I was a victim of a pinay nurse who acted like she was in love with me but actually she was a lesbian and trying to marry me for her papers then divorce me and bring her girlfriend to the US and make her legal. She was caught before I married her, heartbroken but lucky it ended
NEVER MARRY A PINAY, SO YOU WILL NOT BE VICTIMIZED.
Now there are that.. But there are way good women in Phils.. Have your sensors up when talking to one.
@@sidedude1641 I have heard about good women, but never saw them. Maybe in Biringan city in Samar. hahahaha
@@abc-mf4jn Have u seen campbell family vlog? The pinay got jugs like uummm and very loyal to her old s
black hubby who is under medical condition. Many of them like that.
She's bi-sexual
I’ve married a Waray Waray for ten years- I am 21 years her senior. It’s been tumultuous but I wouldn’t trade this woman for anyone. We have six be beautiful kids together two biological- and a grandson. I love my wife and she appears to love me😂❤ Love and mutual respect and devotion are ageless.
I married a 26 yr old filipina @ 51, after talking w/her on the phone & FB for over a year . After 20 yrs , I think shes simply the best woman I ve ever met ! Highly educated ,Beautiful at 46 , …works hard & makes more money in the states than I do 😳 She still hangs onto me like gold in public , here in the Midwest . She s A Winner On Any Scale . We act like silly teenagers in public , constantly smooching and snuggling , wherever we are .
That wasn't your wife. That's your daughter OMG.
Good for you!
Daughter and daddy.
Some can pull it off, but I generally don't recommend this kind of gap. 26 and 38 can work. 26 and 28 is better. Just because someone can make a half court shot, doesn't mean he can do it twice or anyone can.
Congratulations brother
I just married my Philippina and I’m 53 she is 21. Best thing I ever did!
My husband is almost bald,big stomach,lot of sickness,black,No money(but he is hardworking man),and 19yrs gap , I LOVE him,i respect and care of him,, coz Hes a perfect for what i want in man,,he is family oriented, God Fearing,respectful, ddnt drink alcohol and smoke and he really treated me like a Queen,he can cook,hand wash,cleaning our home and we helped each other to all household.and most thing is HE LOVE AND ACCEPTED my children and family
Great, but so many other outcomes are sadly different.
I was married to a British man. He only gave me money for food & NOTHING else. I juggled work, a mother, a wife & I did all house work, made sure that our garden looking nice always . I had NO emotional, physical support etc NO social life. We never had family holidays, going to the restaurants, or take aways. I always fight for my kids survival. I never felt being love, care , support fr my late husband even when I lost some of my family back home. I felt lonely, unhappy, frustrated. I didn’t feel living Luxury while married to him. I divorced him in the end. Im living in uk for nearly 5 decades. I’ve only been back in the Philippines 4x. Twice for funerals. By the way, yes, I sent sintavos to my relatives . That was my life marrying a foreigner. Im so happy to hear/read when a Pilipina has a good foreigner husband. Good luck & god bless them all 🙏🙏
Thank you so much for sharing your deeply personal story. It's a powerful reminder that each relationship is unique, with its own challenges and experiences. I'm sorry to hear about the struggles you faced, but it's heartening to know that you've found your own path to happiness. Your strength and resilience are truly inspiring. Wishing you all the best in the future, and may you continue to find joy and fulfillment in every aspect of your life. 🙏
Thank you Keyframe5. By the way, I have 2 kids & with the help of our dear LORD , both finished university & both have reasonable good job. My son work & live in London & my daughter ( married with 2 beautiful kids ) live in live in Melbourne. I live on my own near my son & never get married again. Im now happy with my beautiful family. God Bless you & your family 🙏🙏🙏❤️
@@edithah2374 You just had to bring religion into it. Delusional.
Not all foreigners are good. That true.
We have 15 years gap yes I love my husband. He is my life we are almost 25 years together and very happy.
They like maturity, responsibility, confidence, financial stability and faithfulness that Filipino men don’t have. PS: I’m 55 and my Filipina girlfriend is 20. Both of us are very happy.
Nice bar girl - mercano
The true test of her love is to bring her to the states. Let her work and make her own money. See if you still loves you enough to stick around.
@@ellvtv2314 she be gone and taken everything he has in the states
When your in laws are younger than yourself. This is just wrong, no matter how you turn it.
Old cocks make great chicken soup, but that’s about it.
Why would he bring her near the poison of the useless American women?
There is a 19 years age gap with my Filipina partner, I don't feel uncomfortable at all and we never struggle, I'm actually very pleasantly surprised
Like driving a bus with your eyes closed and be pleasantly surprised that you didn’t mount the curb within 3 seconds.
The younger, the better!
Waiting for you to croak
Twenty years is acceptable difference for many Filipinas, but it starts to become too much for most at thirty years difference, and very few can accept forty years.
me and my husband too we have 19yrs gap
Depends entirely on the Filipina. My ex was all about the money and reinforced the stereotype that Filipinas only want a trip to the big PX. If I ended up sick, her only concern was when I'd be back to work and bringing in the overtime pay. During one layoff period, she even brought me divorce papers. She just brought the blank documents (she didn't understand that everything had to be filled out and filed) and tipped her hand that all she was interested in was the bank account. This was after we'd gone through a year's worth of communication and all the expense to bring her and her daughter over here. It wasn't until about four years into the relationship that she even noticed what color my eyes were.
In hindsight, I either didn't ask the right questions or I heard only what I wanted to hear, or maybe she knew what the right answers were to get on my good side. If you're considering marrying *anyone* from anywhere else, get the answers you need before you commit. Don't think with your heart (or some other organ), but use your head.
True, but I would also say, what were you thinking in going to a 3rd world country. You wanted to exploit a younger woman who would see you as high value because of the exchange rate. These were not good intentions.
Like I've said to others....a real man wants a partner on equal footing. Getting someone desperate for a better life is essentially clogging them on the head with a club and taking them into your cave.
What you're supposed to do is find someone who is your equal and likes you back, not because you're the only choice, but because she chooses you from among many possible choices. And you're supposed to convince her every day that you're still the right one.
So theres one thing you must know all over the world theres women that are golddiggers. Not only filipinas as i know.
Every country have golddiggers. So boys be wise in choosing a woman whom you marry
@@user-sf3jr3yb2u
"all over the world theres women that are golddiggers."
Yeah but you know, I place the fault on the original poster (somerandombaldguy). He went over there with bad intentions.
Look, the bottom line here is, as men -- and YES, I'm a man -- we're supposed to want an equal partner.
We all agree that the ancient way, going up to a woman and clubbing her on the head and dragging her into the cave, is morally wrong, correct???
Well, going to to a 3rd world country because you "can't find a woman in the USA", which really means "my life sucks, I suck, and no women in the USA are impressed, therefore I went to a 3rd world country where the exchange rate would make me look rich and therefore I would have power over her", is the modern equivalent.
We're not supposed to want to have power over women, we're not supposed to want someone who never stands up for herself AND doesn't talk back to us, etc.
Huge power differences in a relationship are wrong! Real men don't want that.
Avoid bargirls or dating sites. Best bet is a recommendation is always from a friend that is Filipino.. it's not hard to make friends with filipinos.
Filipinas are feminine, soft, sweet and lovely. Who wouldn't marry them ?
Very true!!!
So are other ASIAN women.
@@RickiHockersmith83 naw the others eye slants and lack of English are unattractive
That's true I'm filipina❤❤❤
@@RickiHockersmith83 True, but Filipinos speak English and are Christian.
Wow, great video, thank you so much. I'm 68, my Filipina g/f is 34, and we get along great. We have lots in common, and the age difference isn't a factor. Naturally, I'll be sure to see that she's taken care of financially after I pass, I think that's the only descent thing to do.
If you're an exception, congrats. For others, this seems like a large gap. I wouldn't want to be circling the drain as she is still young. Some arrangements can work I suppose. If both are happy, nobody should criticize.
As a citizen of the Philippines, this content is ironically true and relevant, most Filipinos along with a Filipinas have this traditional mindset so called opportunism and nepotism, that is if opportunity comes from a fortunate people in the likes influential politicians, wealthy businessmen to high classed foreigners(like expats)like its a chance to grab some prestige and fortune from these kinds of people, it's a belief that one's social living will uplift to its best. Filipinos have this long time mentality of being opportunistic in any manner even in the expense of clinging and dragging down others just for an advantage. Most Filipinas will choose to marry foreigners than local men just for the purpose of lifetime support and a great social standing in return for companionship...
there ARE Filipnas like that yes but there are just as many who couldn't give a s**t about that .. there ARE many true love relationships with older western men and Filipinas .. outsiders with their sanctimonious .. self righteous .. hypocritical judgmental attitudes says way way way more about those individuals than it does about two people GENUINELY in love .. personally i thoroughly enjoy ruffling the feathers of such people 🤗
@@paulthurson Well said Sir, not all women in a country and nationality(even Filipinas)are not in a bad reputation. I guess it's a matter of personal case to case, if you found a right and sincere woman in life. it's a happy life but if found otherwise(cheating, scamming, extortionist woman)it's an unfortunate and wrong choice into a miserable life✌✌✌
@charlesjosephdiputado804
yes you're very much correct .. that's why a man has to vet a woman very carefully before throwing himself all in to a relationship .. this applies anyplace in the world but yes even more so in countries with high levels of poverty
You could be correct. Everyone has options in this world. In dating, if women have many options, they will pick the best. The term opportunistic is quite harsh. If I, as a middle-aged man have several options, would I choose a woman who is in my age bracket? Definitely not, I will take a younger woman who can provide a youthful energy in my life. 😊
@@JunBermz
exactly 💯
Theres another reason a filipina marries an older guy. Older retired men can usually afford to live in the Philippines 🇵🇭. Where young foreigners cant. They have to go back to their home country to work. Retired guys get a government pension and many have money saved over the last 2-2.5 decades.
I think its more for the younger men who are accomplished in the States and ready for marriage. Those relationships rock.
I married my beautiful wife 7 years ago, I was 53 and she 39. Amazing 7 years and looking forward to forever😊
What it comes down to is a cultural difference. In the PI, it is all about the family and supporting each other so everyone survives. If she marries an older expat, they will be expected to pitch in to the family if he is perceived to bring in more money. She offers her youth and beauty and in return he offers financial support. As long as he understands going in, what the expectations are, no one cares as long as he stays in her country. If he brings her to his country, he will be viewed very negatively and takes the risk she will get “Westernized.”
AMERICANIZED, CALIFORNICATED!
I agree with u, some filipino like that and I understand their situation, in my case is different story. I dont support my family in the Philippines for their daily needs. We offer for financial support for emergency only like hospital bills thats it. Not only me but of course my other siblings too, we helping each other.😊
I agree that does happen but not a given. In my case, my wife is much younger and she has been a flight attendant in the middle east for a decade. She has more money than I ever will and her family are farmers with a great income themselves. They expect nothing and ask for nothing. They are happy she found love and family. In the last ten years I think we sent a total of 200 dollars and that was to help with a funeral for her grandma and the family, sent that money back as soon as they could.
Yep 👍 my wife and I have a 40 year age difference. I married her knowing that it was a transactional relationship in a sense that I was getting a younger wife and she was getting financial security 😊 going on 7 years now and I’m still loving it. after all , no matter what the age difference it almost always boils down to men marrying for looks and women for money 😅😅 no use sugar coating it😉😉 so what’s the difference whether the woman’s your age or 40 years younger ?🤷♂️🤷♂️
@@keith-kb1zl Yes that is a fact and you have to live with that. There is no such thing as something for nothing.
I came across this video through TH-cam algorithm.
This was a VERY WELL DONE video. Even the Ai worked very well; and your editing, commentary were spot on!!
Salamat!!
Meeting a Filipino woman is easy. Meeting one who will not ask you for money is hard
True, they are looking for a reliable ATM !
@@lilyjazel7764 what a crock. another know it all that knows nothing. these types are everywhere and a rare thing in the pi. learn before judging
@makingthemovebydarren9255If he asks for sex, she better ask for an engagement ring. 😂
True love will not ask for money.
True
I started dating a beautiful 21 year old Chinese girl when I was 56. Dated for two years then married. My family thought she was just a green card. We been married 14 years
Congratulations !
It sounds like you found a fool. What was your body count at age 56 ???? And she young enough to be your granddaughter
@@gregorylyon1004 I was lucky. She is both beautiful and smart. I was married 37 years to my first wife. Family thought this Chinese girl would leave after she got a green card. She is now a citizen and we have been married for fourteen years. You must be jealous.
@@williamruby4140 Well I didn't know about your past marriage. That's a lot more respectable than these men with high body counts preying upon young women with low mileage. Can't you at least understand where I am coming from??? I have a 22 year old daughter. And I'll be damned if she married a 40 year old with a body count of 50 or more
@@williamruby4140I would laugh if your daughter at 18 years old wanted to marry a 45 year old fart who has a body count of 60. Only then would you understand what I'm saying
I appreciate the layers of truth and honesty of your profound insight of challenges and triumphs of Filipino women and cultural values. You know your subject very well. Well done.
One of the most balanced videos on this topic I have seen - well done 👍
I only have a 15 year age gap.
I could not ask for a better wife.
We have been together for many years now. After we came to the U.S. she enjoyed traveling in our rv.
Then she wanted to finish her degree. She refuses to be my equal
She waits on me hand and foot always has. The money she wants to send to her children she works for it. I have no complaints.
I agree with thus video. If considering Marrying a phillipina please do your research and even spend some time just visiting the philippines making friends. Out of every county I have visited most in the philippines speak good English. It boils down to what your goals are in the end. I would also like to mention that even though the philippines is modernizing most live on incomes less than $600 a month and take bucket showers and squat over toilets, so moving to America is like Disneyland. I am moving to philippines because most prefer to be home and family is #1. This is my main reason for wanting to move to philippines. Traditional family values and the desire for family to succeed. Age doesn't matter if you are healthy and decent in appearance and a plus in the long run. Too big of an age difference and out of shape is risky, however love is love and if you choose wisely based on simular values and shared interest you will be happy. Life is a constant learning curve but as long a you respect cross cultures and values its a win win...I hope I provided useful information and always seek to pay it forward for a better place for everyone.
This topic has been presented by probably 100 TH-cam bloggers in the Philippines, after all, it is up to each individual whether they want to enter into a relationship with a large age difference. There is no explanation other than that it is abnormal in the West and normal in Asia. There is nothing more to say about that matter.
lol abnormal where? The USA and Europe is filled with younger woman marriages. the difference? 90 percent are about money and comfort in the west. Saying it is not accepted is just someones head in the sand. It is everywhere. These women are amazing and if you are blessed to find one, hang on tight, she will be your solid rock to stand with. I know mine is.
@@daddski1 I am 40 years older than my wife and we have been together for 12 years now. No problem for me, but as I said, there is generally a different attitude in Asia than in the West, but there are exceptions such as myself and Mick Jagger🙂
I’m not a Filipino, I can’t speak for them, but marry a man who is 20 years older than me, I feel there is no mental connection, there is no shared goals and there is no quality of life, I wouldn’t want a life like that, in fact any woman who has a better personal quality wouldn’t tolerate that!
Iam usa at 68 she is philipino at 37 . We're going on 9 years . Better than I could of ever imagined still:-)
I married a philippino in 2000 we've been married for over 20 years now. Was? The best thing that I ever did our age gap is 20 years.
I'm a Canadian citizen who lived in Athens Greece during the 70's and 80's. I worked at the Canadian Embassy for a few years in my early 30's. Back then, any Greek who was considered even remotely affluent had a Filipina house maid....including the Canadian Ambassador. I hooked up with The Ambassador's Filipina house maid which allowed me access to a large Filipina community. I found them to be very warm, sincere, friendly and fun loving. They'd all get together on their days off. There was always a party at someone's apartment. They'd throw the most amazing parties. Lots of food (pot luck style), music, dancing and laughs. They're HUGE music lovers. Pretty much all of them were indeed sending money back home to support family.
I ended up dating three Pina's in the space of two years. As a consequence, I picked up a reasonable amount of their language. The breakups were always initiated by me as I was unfortunately very immature and irresponsible back then. Not meaning to stereotype, having done a lot of international travelling, it was a well known fact that in every country I visited, many guys I met whom local girls wouldn't look twice at (regardless of age, and/or physical condition) had traveled to the Philippines and came back with beautiful young Filipinas...which appeared to be at least half their age. Sadly it's true that at least in the cases that I witnessed, it was for financial security.
So you're a Canadian diplomat with immunity
@@timngim583 Not sure if I had diplomatic immunity or not. I was hired as a local driver who happened to have Canadian citizenship. Regardless, what does that have to do with my dating a few Philippinas?
Well that's the hard fact of their lives.
My dear may u find a God fearing woman to love and cherish for the rest of your life.My husband was 30 years order than me.He was 86 when he pass away 2 years ago.People really judged me but I didn't care .I loved and cherished and took care of him till the end.
I could send you our photos together .If you don't mind.He was wheelchair bound for 5 years and got alzimer.Yet in the toughest moment of our lives together I loved him more.I got my strength from my Lord Jesus.I carried my husband from wheelchair to bed and drive him around as well.He is not very rich but I did help him financially. I worked as a private taxi and carry him along in the car.as I cannot leave him alone at home. You see. Not all filipina marry for monèy
Most Filipinas dont want to leave the Philippines bcuz of the family. They would rather live in the Philippines 🇵🇭 Ive watched many interviews with Filipinas the majority dont want to western guys. Koreans are the preferred country. Its closer to the Philippines 🇵🇭. But many Filipinas want western men bcuz they want that mixed race baby. The Filipinas that won the Miss Universe Pageant were all mixed Filipino and western guys.
"Ive watched many interviews with Filipinas the majority dont want to western guys". LMAO. Never believe pinays of what they say. Indeed they don't love foreigners, but only to marry for benefits.
Propaganda
@@MysTicBiGz How's t hat propaganda
@@George-ux6zzMestizos make up around 2 % of the population, but run 98% of the mainstream news and media in the Philippines.
@@MysTicBiGzYes exactly "PROPAGANDA"
My Philipino partner is half my age 33 years age gap. We bouth benifit I have a beautiful wife and she is cared for regarding money issues thats never a lot. In my old age she will care for me unlike UK where people end up in old peoples homes waiting to die. Its a win solution with more benifits than marrying any woman from my own country who most tend to live a exspensive life style and they have lost there good looks. Sex life with a lady half my age keeps me fit no exspensive gym to pay for. Young men tend to make Philippino females pregnant and walk away from there responsibilitys. Mature men rarely do that.
"An next to me is an ex-girlfriend of mine" lol! No one noticed something odd about the girlfriend??
I thought he was hooked up with a ladyboy! Not judging....🤨
As soon as a boomers wife dies he shacks up with some filipino that funnels all his wealth to her family back home
Yes, and in the Philippines 🇵🇭 if a filipina lives with a guy without marriage the filipina can take half of what he earned during the time they were together. If you own a house together she will end up with the house if she refuses to lease the land to the foreigner.
Or she will not
Rent don’t own. Have exit money available if you can
soooo, kinda like america huh?
I love Filipino people not just because I am married to a kind, caring, loving and faithful and beautiful Filipina but in general they are loveable and adorable people indeed. I have much respect for them. I thank you for your honest comments in this presentation. I honor your choice! Salamat Po!
Great video!
Guys, please understand that the images you see of the Filipino girls in this video are A I generated. After several trips to many areas in the Philippines, I can tell you that there are some very beautiful girls there; however, they make up only a very small percent of the female population and the odds of you meeting one, let alone dating one, are slim.
Not saying you shouldn't go there and have a look around, but just visit with a reasonable set of expectations.
Very true,very small group,if you marry one,very lucky,i guess iam a lucky guy,46 yrs difference in age,hahahaha!!!
Thanks for being honest. They make it look like you can pick beautiful women on every tree and street corner.
That was a comprehensive video on the subject. Good Job!
One of the best videos I've seen like this. I want to learn how to make this kind of video. I'm sure it is a lot of work.
Very honest and legitimate reveal of one to expect in marrying a woman from a Asian country.❤
I have to say in the USA if you're dating a girl 30 years younger 90% of the time she is looking for a sugar daddy, been there and done that. In the end, as long as you enjoy each other's company then it's all good.
This is one of the best videos I’ve ever seen, balancing out the true experience about foreigners marrying Filipinas . i’m 53 and my Filipina 21.
even though it’s the best thing I ever did the culture shock and family pressure is real. Even though at times it’s been really hard ,we stick together, because it’s a test to your relationship, but true love overcomes anything.
With most of my family being Filipinos I could fit in nicely. Plus im used to very hot, humid and storms almost every day in Florida. During summer months Florida weather is almost identical to the Philippines. Plus theres the occasional hurricane/typhoon.
You also have to consider the marriage and family culture. I think that makes it an obvious no brainer. The fact that you have some cultural experience is going to make is really easy and it will feel right. Just have to find the right one.
Both parties must be patient with each other in all matters relating to continue building their love for each other in so many different ways other physical intimacy building a trust and care for each other and respect in all instances whether you live in the Phillipines or any where you decide to live together and communication between each other..❤
Thanks buddy!
Gives me a lot to think about. 👍
Glad to help
New to channel. My Canadian friend in his 50’s went to the Phillipines after meeting one online, they now have a baby boy together and he travels back and forth. Doing well now. He had two failed marriages from before.
Making a baby is the easy part. Being a father is an art few manage to master.
@@westerlywinds5684 I'm sure he has had practice since he had some kids previously. He worked Construction, lotta hours and pay now he can chillax a bit.
Your 50 yrs old Canadian friend go to the Philippines to see other bargirls and younger side chicks as well.
@@RickiHockersmith83 He ain’t like that, proper gent.
@@GoldKingsMan A proper 50s gent wouldn't marry a 25 yrs gap age from a third world country.
Hi, good, informative and hopeful video for those seeking love and companionship . Of course, you need to take time ( maybe years) to understand each other and the complex family relationships and dependencies.
Thanks for the tips!
@@Keyframe5Welcome back
Great video. Very informative with fun and interesting graphics. I think a part two video would be nice to delve more into red flags, communication problems, family pressure problems, and more age gap problems. I think this video might also be relevant with women from other countries like Vietnam and Thailand marrying older westerners. I married a Vietnamese woman 10 years younger and we ended up getting divorced after 10 years. I am not sure if she really loved me or used me or a little of both. Marriage is difficult under the best of circumstances and when you add in language differences, age and maturity differences, religious differences, cultural differences and money then it can be daunting. That said, I am still open to doing it again BUT I am less naive now and more careful. My biggest advice is make sure your communication as a couple is great, otherwise misunderstandings and problems will grow and fester.
I really appreciate your comment! It means a lot to hear that you found the video informative and enjoyed the graphics. Your suggestion for part two is excellent, and I'll definitely take it into consideration. I'm sorry to hear about your past experience, but I'm glad you're still open to the possibility of marriage.
Filipinas know English well
@@windellchapman8397 true but not all are fluent in English. There are also big cultural differences. I dated some Filipinas after my divorce so even though they understood English well, they did not fully understand that most American husbands expect that he would come first with his wife after marriage and not her parents or family, for example.
Hello
Right, "keep in mind that views differ greatly among Filipinas". Like if you go to the Northern part of the Philippines especially women from the Cordilleras, women there are quite different in personality & not into foreign men so how much more if they were old foreign guys😅but the southern part like the Visayas islands is where you can usually see this age-gap Fil-foreign relationships.
wow atleast someone notice the difference the woman from the north compare to the southern womn😜
Hahaahah truelala I am igorot working abroad 19 years never in my dream to marry a foreigner 😂😂😂
I have a strong opinion here. Yes, it is for money, it is not love. If a Filipina had opportunity for income through self work or marry a good Filipino man in her country, this 'age gap' situation with a western man would even not exist. Look at it another way. If a western man really cared, he would simply look for a Filipina woman closer to his age...and I wonder why that does not happen often? Yes, it is for sex and her beauty and age. So it is money for sex long term. Here is the real problem: 1st she is their children's caregiver, and then she moves into his caregiver...it is not a good situation. Age gap 10 to 15 OK, this 30 to 40 is way too much.
You have the best explanation and best vlog, that really makes a good view of pilipina women , how they married to a men , how they take it seriously according to their Christian beliefs, thank you, and “GOG” bless you always
I live in Philippines and asked the average young Filipina about age gap. They prefer someone their own age. I think it's better to tell people the results or objective conclusions without creating a narrative. Just ask middle class young Filipinas. They prefer a young man.
Thank you for speaking out . The large age gap relationships and marriages are disturbing and uncomfortable to witness .
@lucymoser Please provide objective sources of your conclusions.
Most Filipinas are from seperated or broken marriages. Most do not get involved into legitimate marriages. There is a high rate of unwed mothers. As far as families, recently Philippines had to pass new laws to protect children from their parents for sx trafficking. I also live in the Philippines. Also, over 90% marry their own men and within 5-10 years of their own age.
You’re nuts. I’m older handsome and wealthy. I can charm them and be engaged in one week with those that say only the same age. If you have game, age is not considered
@@Midwest10 Okay, you're handsome, money, good game. Regardless, according to the Philippines statistics authority (PSA), "To be exact, married men had a median age of 29 years while women were 27. Most of the weddings that occurred in 2021 were contracted through civil ceremony." This means, there is a 2 year gap with the vast majority of marriages in the Philippines. Most prefer people their own age. Sorry, Silver fox player.
@@lilyjazel7764 than best you stay away from
I am a Filipina, 41 yrs old married to my husband who is a 64 yrs old. Money is not an issue to us because I never asked money from him. I am highly educated and earn my own money as a teacher. I love him so much, he is so hardworking, loyal and respectful. I adore him so much!
Note that there’s is also the circumstance of the western man not returning to their home country with their wife.
I'm married with a Philippina already for 21 yrs. Love aspect is not a zero but we are already 14 yrs sepporated from table and bed. She is 13 yrs younger than me and is my second Philippina wife. I'm divorced from the first because that woman goes whith many man out etc. Am I happy? Not for 100% but now I!m already 57 yrs old and very sick in my spinal core. I give up surching for another woman. This one gives me stil my food and Monster drinks and that's make me happy.😁
Wow! I like your views! I forgot those aspects that you saw.❤❤
The Philippines is a Roman Catholic country thats why Western attracted to Filipina also English is widely used in Philippines which make it easier for Western European.
My wife was 25 years younger and second wife 30 years younger ...yes i am rich
You are a pedophile and you married your caretaker - she will change your diapers .
Rich in nonsense
Hi im new here just found your channel and im interested to share my thoughts and experience about your content Im Filipina im married to a foreigner for 8 years our age gap was 32 years and after 2 years i migrated in Usa but he passed away a year and 8 months ago which is my darkness days of my life. But life is so short i have to accept the reality his gone.. my life must go on... although we didn't have kids. Because maybe still not time. For me foreigners i like their white skin color and older person is more matured mind set more experienced and ready to settle especially their sweet And now im in my 2nd relationship we met here north carolina. Watching here from Usa originally from pampanga Philippines 🇵🇭 🇺🇸❤️
Apparently, even when a husband dies young, there's no shortage of men in the US that would love to date and marry a good woman. There must be a reputation of Filipina women being great wives.
In fact, I know of a case of a very fat and homely Filipina who was already middle age. Her husband died and I was surprised that she was remarried not so long after. Yes, she met a great guy within a few months of dating. I guess they are very happy, after she was left broke and homeless by the first husband. Now everything is great.
She did have one major super power. When she opened her mouth to speak, the softest and most gentle voice came out of her. She was so very kind and innocent. It was like you're speaking directly to an angel.
As an Asian individual, I can see how you would find it difficult to date in America. American women do not typically go for Asian men because (typically) women like men significantly taller and larger than they are. Additionally, westernized women prefer a very HIGH STATUS man and Asians are not VIEWED as high status in the west. Until I turned fifty, for example, living in America I dated many women significantly younger than me because I was tall and had a very socially upwardly mobile occupation. Even in my mid forties I was still able to date twenty year old women as well as older women my age and older. After fifty, the entire game changed even though I was still in GREAT physical shape. and had a great job.
But, here is the rub...
Women prefer ABOVE ALL THINGS - MONEY. Women (sadly) are to be purchased. They always were and always have been. You want the pretty girl?? SHOW ME THE MONEY - they say. I've seen very "unattractive" men dating very beautiful women all because they were wealthy. That's the true bottom line. Do other things count? Well, somewhat. But is Leonardo DiCaprio THAT attractive with his middle aged paunch? Nope. So, why does he get the DDG's (Drop Dead Gorgeous) girls?? Because he is well known and loaded. So, place someone in THAT situation verses mine, and HE is always going to win no matter how I look.
Bottom line: SEARCH: '4M' and see what you come up with.
Even western man ain't good enough for western women now.
@@djperryboy Certainly not. You are correct PRIMARILY because WOMEN ARE NEVER SATISFIED. I had a girlfriend of mine tell me once, "Women ONLY want what they cannot get. If they CAN get it - or end up getting it, they no longer want it." While another girlfriend of mine stated, "Men would get a lot more if they would hold out for more and give less."
These are all very telling quotes from very beautiful women who played the field often.
Consider the situation with Gisele Bundchen and Tom Brady. She had it ALL with the most desirable man of our times. Yet, she threw it all away for something that would never last. Even Tom wasn't 'good enough'. No man EVER is.
@@Jubal.Harshaw I just feel that Asian women are better wives and more reliable in general. Filipinas are just easier for an American guy to relate to and communicate with. Plus there's compatibility with religion. I have not experience the never satisfied problem. I've heard about it but its not in my experience. Our sone is also married to a Filipina and I have to say that she's stellar. We did everything the right way, got the advanced degree, went to church, lived right and the benefits accumulate. I can't deny my own experience and I do wish it for other but not as a big age gap but as compatible matches.
It’s basically for financial stability. But you don’t see middle class or upper class Filipinas marrying these foreigners unless they are also educated and fit with the upper class, which a lot of these foreigners aren’t by the fact they marry women from the provinces or lower classes.
And women in the US expect you to make 6 figures and expect you to take care of them.
I was also dating young highly educated students from the middle and upper class over there.. Women won’t even look at me in England my home country.
Filipinas seemed to admire my blue eyes and personality on such a serious level that I have never experienced in the UK with western women.
I am 38 and bald/white/average shape… If I knew how they were going to treat me I would have gone there a lot sooner and never dated white western women ever again.
It’s certainly not about the common myths of green card or gold digger.. They are very easy to find out too.. Most are genuinely nice and really very attracted to mature white men..
Blue eyes will literally have you dating A list celebrities in the Philippines if you are clean, well groomed, well mannered and well dressed… Filipinas are Conservatives.. They don’t like vulgar bad boy type men with no respect for others..
Nice guys finish first in the Philippines.
All marriages are a set of ideals. I have a 26 year gap with my wife who happens to be filipina. We have been together for a decade and our kids are amazing. Yes, there are scammers but percentage wise to say a California girl? The California girl is much more likely to be after that cash, not the filipina. These girls do not want someone their same age because they hate the games younger guys play. I agree with them. Others are for someone their age, just like in the USA or anywhere else on the planet. The differences when you find an amazing filipina? LOYALTY, dedication to family unlike anything you know, NO GREED, happiness in just being a family is truly special..... These girls, for the most part are amazing and the best possible mate you could have. Me? Was broken from American girls that had motives. My filipina? World traveler, Flight attendant for Qatar Air, had more money than I ever will and is completely loyal to me. Love is a great thing and age plays zero in that role.
congrats po
Enjoyable video , will be watching more of your's , thanks .
Yes yes, this is really informative and great in helping to understand the cross cultural advantages AND challenges. :)
I can't understand how a 50 Year old can marry a 20 year old and not be super embarrassed
It’s disgusting
I don't get it either. 50 and 40, sure that can work.
Very thorough video. Thank you
My filipina wife wife is 48 years younger than me. However she is understanding, helpful and a wonderful wife. I thank God for her. Her insight helps me to be a better person.
You’re a child predator
Gorgeous filipinas are lucky to have been born filipina and good looking
I had to study work invest for decades for my money
All they had to do is marry
Social media seems to have changed the majority of pinays to prefer same age or younger now unlike before but there are still some ok for older age gap. Also it's rare to find anyone respectful and consistently caring. Most just want to use for money. It took me nearly 2 years finding the wrong girls till I found the right one online but we are only together 1 month and 1st meeting Feb 14 so am a bit nervous if she will love me in person. She is 23 and 23 years younger. Hoping for the best.
Clear expectations plus a pre-nup are essential.
Ah, age gaps. Well, Mother Nature and all the Gods clearly smile approvingly on such unions, and even bless them. How do we know? Nature has given men the ability to father children into their 70s, and even beyond. But she limits women from that ability beyond around the age of 40. Nature has also arranged it that older men seldom like women closer to their own ages. But nature has provided that many a younger lady likes men who are substantially older than they are. It may look as if it's all about money. But women naturally want mature men who can financially support the wife and kids, and who are no longer playing around.
And nature doesn't prevent love from developing between those of different ages. Nothing new under the sun❤️❤️
Thank you Dr. Ruth for your forensic analogy
Great video and advice
I don't understand the huge concern if a foreign woman is interested in finance, that seem more and more prevalent every year any where. I mean we see tons of Western woman doing the same to a extravagant amount. seems like most of the woman in the Philippines just want a lot less. instead of Prada bags they want a more low middle class income which translates to a higher income in their county. Woman want security and safety in every culture.
The concerned are middle age western women afraid of competion.
These men who have a problem with women needing financial security still want youth and beauty and feel they owe nothing for it. It's all about what they get. A good marriage takes into account what both people need.
The won't to be taken care of by a man that's already established. They don't want a younger mane who is still looking for a career. It makes sense lol. They don't want drama with younger guys. They want a man who knows he wants marriage and a partner.
You still don't get it alot of Western Europe Americans or Australian, Canadian travel to Philippines to look for dating since Philippines use English language it's very easy for Western European to understand.
My husband and I has 20years age gap, we are together for 10yrs, married for almost 4yrs. I have my own career when I met him. We are inseparable. He is not rich nor perfect we have our own struggles but he does everything to make me happy and by appreciating all of that i love him in return and want to spend the rest of my life loving him. I am so blessed!
I love brown pretty woman Philippines beautiful woman 👩
There is no recipe for success every relationship is different,, and i been Thailand and Philippines and thai girls to selfish, Philippine girls way better or should i say pinay
I found this video funny and sweet. it's a universal rule applies to everywhere in the world
Well,Divorce is now approved in the Philippines
Thanks for your Nice share ❤ God bless you ❤❤
Nice video mate!
i am a filipino married to a british man,am married for 17 yrs,our gap is not far but not like this very big gap,yeh if you love to each other why not to get married,and its depends to a person whom you love,and its in your heart to love for that person or money,yeh in our culture money or love but for me its love and money its involve here,yeh sad to say in our time now many filipina marry a western man for convinient but not for me because i love my husband until now and since i meet him i like him and i love him,we have a one child and he looks like his father,were happily married yeh not perfect but happy married,love and respect is needed to the relationships...
New subscriber here. Because I love your content.
I am a filipino, me and my wife have 15 year gap.. Filipinas love mature men😊
Filipinas from the third world always love mature men for money and security only.
Mature man and money
congrats
Matters little as long as both parties are satisfied...
Best video I have ever heard about Filipinos marrying foreigners.
Its the oldest trade known to mankind. Youth and beauty is traded for financial stability and resources. No one should be mad or surprised at this.
I Filipina wife and I have been married 25 years, 21 year age gap, best thing that ever happened to me! My wife is the best!
I never asked for anything to my boyfriend but some of his family thought I’m a gold digger without thinking about how genuine I am. Now, their lost not mine. Am breaking up with him.
We just need a true companion.
get a dog
get a dog
@@wtzan That's abnormal people like you that would f..k a dog.
I loved the AI snow blower... it's got the snow blowing out of the gas tank and btw, how many wheels does that snow blower have?
Many reasons. Of course some marry for money. But stability, loyalty, romance etc
It is all a game a fake game to get out of POVERTY , you know this really anyway
@@Bereadyalways123 But it could be real
@@waynebrown4407 ye ye and the Twin Towers are still standing in New York, what planet are you on ?
I agree to you r kind words truely love trust faithful to each other restpect is we really needs Love always win right ❤❤
I’m 21 married 64 years old man so I’m sure I am the only one, no one else
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Been there, done that, 19-59, 3 years 24/7 in Dumaguete. Its money, size, and a blue eyed baby. RUN!
Watching from Baguio City.l appreciate it.great .keep going.Godbless