It’s called confidence! When you know who you are, why you are the way you are, why you hold the values that you do, how you conduct yourself as a person in all your interactions in life. It takes a deeper understanding of oneself to be confident, and at peace with yourself!
I been waiting for this cambo for last 2 years. These 2 guys helped me get from almost Homeless to being in a good spot of life. Thank you both for your value
Agreed 💯%‼️ Patrick is SO wise! I would listening on any video I watch! And Tom is a master interviewer. They both do such great interviews that it’s interesting to hear them chat. Love it
Never heard of this guy before. I LOVE him. Brilliant. Love how he talks about silencing the noise but being absolutely clear. You must know your values and principles. Man! This is so good. Thank you Tom!!!
1:57 Not not extraordinary because he fled Iran but because he fled from Iran. It changes you and no doubt gives you a chance to appreciate life and be determined. I can already tell this is a great person.
Patrick details what attracted him to bodybuilding and what he learned from it. [3:13] Patrick shares what Arnold Schwarzenegger represents to him. [4:38] Patrick analyzes the role DNA and experiences play in our potential. [9:18] Patrick speaks on the power of clarity. [15:00] Patrick and Tom discuss the process of shaping your identity. [17:30] Patrick dives into living with intention and urgency. [22:08] Patrick explains the power of not caring what other people think. [28:31] Patrick explores the idea of family traditions. [34:29] Patrick details his belief of aligning lifestyle with belief. [37:50] Patrick reveals the impact he wants to have on the world. [38:57]
I love how Tom introduces his guests.He honors them,speaks highly of them & actually listens to them without interrupting.When I create a great impact on my life & inspire others in the same process enough to be recognized,I'd love for a guy like Tom to interview me.Always enjoy Impact Theory.I learn something from every guest he has in his show.Thank you
Someting magical happened in the middle of this video... Pat took over the interview for a sec and it felt so natural for me. That energyshift was so beautiful and not disrespectful at all. Can’t really explain it. Then I realised I was watching two of my favorite interviewers of all times... and it all mades sense.
Very grateful for this video. Between 17 and 55 I could accomplish anything--manifest anything and every intention I set. Something happened after my divorce that dragged on for 4 years. Something died. This year after my book was published, I found some energy shifts and the people that were important started showing up. I really like the 2 1/2 example. Blessings to both of you.
This episode was definitely had a lot impact on me! I think Patrick was probably one of the first guests to have get Tom talking a lot which is hilarious and awesome! The idea of just questioning everything to seek clarity is frigging genius! I took away so much! Thanks Patrick, and thanks Tom!
Not making up to a million before retirement is unfulfilled retirement.!! I’m 54 and my wife 50 we are both retired with over $3 million in net worth and no debts. Currently living smart and frugal with our money. No longer putting blames on FED for our misfortunes. Saving and investing lifestyle in the stock market made it possible for us this early, even till now we earn weekly.
Credits to *ROCH DUNGCA-SCHREIBER,* she saw me through the process. You can glance her name up on the internet and verify her yourself. she has years of financial market experience...
You guys are bots. And it hilarious how good you have become at tricking people. For anyone do not let this comment or these chain of comments trick you.
This is the most real you've been Tom thank you. I relate to you more than I ever thought could be possible even growing up in the Pacific Northwest. My favorite interview with you and Patrick Bet David in the year or so I've been watching these videos. Biggest takeaway: Determine what's your identity is going to be and stick with it. Work hard on skills it takes to become who you want to be and dont be afraid to be honest about what you are doing. The more clear and specific you can be about your desired goals and outcomes the more realistic they become!
*Use their hatred to motivate you, not affect you.* It's like setting up impossible challenges. It should trigger us to do even more, when we hear NO and IMPOSSIBLE. Let's get it!
Agree, actually negative emotions like anger,disappointment, insecurity, pain,etc are a great fuel to succeed, and the best revenge is massive success.
I find the moments between exchanging sentences the most magical about these interviews. So much to learn from a conversation between two expert conversationists.
Tom please you need to invite this guest again! I love all the shows but this one specially i didnt want it to end. I feel he has sooo much knowledge to share with us. This really inspired me. Please and thank you ❤️
21:23 this hits home - my parents got divorced 2 years ago after 29 years of marriage and my mom told me that she never really loved my dad but she did it for her kids to have the best life possible.. Many factors considered, that selfless sacrifice is a huge part of my drive today 🙏🏻
If you after 29 years can say you’ve been with someone, intimate with someone, laughed and cried with someone.. can say you’ve never loved him.. you’re a demon. Ngl.. so now you’re telling me you applaud her for doing so and you find drive in the fact she disrespected your dad like that.. 😂 bro if I was your dad I’d be in jail and you and your mom would be resting in hell. 😂
OMG this video!! When you watch a video and you have to press pause several times just to fully digest what has just been said!! So much in this video resonated with me that I can’t even begin to list everything off!! I freaking LOVE this channel (& impact for women too!!) You guys have on THE BEST guests and have THE BEST conversations!!!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾❤️
Great video. We are all seeking for financial independence and a better way of life. This is not difficult to achieve with savvy investing, a frugal lifestyle, and cautious budgeting. I'm glad I learned early on to work hard for financial independence. As Warren Buffet said, he has seen this happen many times in his life. Not an investor, My husband and i never earned more than a middle class salary. We plan to get retired at 58 with a stock portfolio worth $4M. We have never sold so much as one share of stock.
@Stanley Edwin Any chance you can recommend who you work with for those of us who want to make the right plays now and be better positioned for a healthy retirement?
@Stanley Edwin This is useful information; I copied her whole name and pasted it into my browser; her website appeared immediately, and her qualifications are excellent; thank you for sharing.
About half way thru I realized things became truly more fascinating by you opening up Tom. Thank you for sharing! It’s always a blessing to hear what it took for you to overcome “your” barriers.
" Declaring your intention serves a purpose" (23:17). Tom always amazing at how deep into the minds you go of G.O.A.Ts. Pat thanks for going " deep with purpose, if you don't move what could take place" (26:38) insight. Legendary Show
I’m going to be completely honest I’ve only watched 8 and a half minutes of this because everything in here was 🔥. I’m not gonna watch the rest until I’ve applied everything for a week at least because the discipline is the part that has been kicking my butt the last 4-5 years despite all the growth in all the areas of my life. I wasn’t disciplined in one area and it affected every other area
I honestly did have some prejudice towards Patrick but after this interview, i have changed my views. His passion and energy could be interpreted in a negative way.He is very unique in so many ways.
Tom, your work here on TH-cam reminds me of something I say when someone asks me about raising my son. I tell them “oh my gosh, it’s awesome! 16 is the best age ever! “ I’ve literally been saying that for the past 14 years because, barring the first two years, it has been my experience. Similarly, I find myself saying this about every single one of your interviews! Especially this one! Thank you so much.
Great interview. I love the notion of establishing expectations to reduce drama. There was so much basic advice in this interview that is easily applicable to your life. Nice job!
OMG! Patrick again answered difficult questions about marriage and family. whether its the balance between mom and wife, or considering parents as no less imperfect mortals than ourselves. his clarity is contagious more than anything else. blessed to witness men like Tom and Patrick in today's times.
This guy is awesome, & perfect timing for me hearing it now. Such a short interview, he spends so much time listening, yet what he says is powerful... easily a top 5 IT for me.
@@gagzy1989 It was awesome! SO many takeaways. I mean, I listen to Impact almost every day, and there are always nuggets, but I've been devouring Personal Development for years so it's rare that one person has so MANY nuggets all in one place. I'll def have to check out more of Patrick's interviews online.
When I logged into TH-cam and saw that a new Impact Theory video was JUST released, I did a little happy dance. Thank you for making my workday easier to swallow and a moment of growth as I can sit here working in quiet while listening to ways on how to find peace.
@The New Paulo Coelho I've seen better days but have had worse times. So, this is THE Paulo Coelho? Talking to me?! Today, I am decompressing and mixing in self-love with focusing on school. Hard, but worth it, for now. How are you?!
Patrick thank you for being such a positive, consistent role model. My man, there is no one like you! I appreciate your consistency and preparation. Always. All the best!
*31:35**-**33:50* "The more you tell the world how to manage expectations when dealing with you, and what to anticipate, you minimize a lot of the noises."
Ha I grew up in tacoma the same time as Tom and I have no idea what world he was living in. I lived in the hood and went to the nice schools so I saw it all. There are people of every kind here and always have been
I've watched all of your videos.. I would say that this video was so close to me personally and was really touched.. everything you guys talked about is real life facts
I don't think that haters always point out your weaknesses. Sometimes they see weaknesses where there are none. For instance ppl who told the 'Beatles' that their music sucked and that they'll never amount to anything or people who told Giselle Bundchen and other Supermodels that they are ugly. Or people who told Mariah Carey that she can't sing
I can so relate to this "I take a decision and then tell everyone about it who/how I will be". This was the case when I was pregnant. I had not even done a test yet but I felt so sure that I already told it to friends and family without having a test confirming it. The test was then only to get physical proof of something I knew was going on. Or when I decided to apply for new jobs, I started telling some closer colleagues of mine that I would be leaving the company soon and when they asked where I was going, I just said "it's all still open but something will come up soon".. and it did. Some people really don't like this overly enthusiastic, confident energy and say you should first be sure of something and then start telling it, but my feeling IS certainty even when it is not yet in my touchable reality.
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When you call PBD for an interview and he spends half of the time interviewing you, you know this episode is gold.
Kids are who they are when born very dangerous thought….he wouldn’t have respected you Tom…
Totally agree with you 😊
PBD the OG of interviewing! He litterally flipped the script on TB 🤣 love both these guys!
Noticed that too, he imposed the game he wanted to play here
Yes, thank you for that.
You rarely see a guy with tremendous strong belief in himself. So charismatic.
So there's this president in America...
It’s called confidence! When you know who you are, why you are the way you are, why you hold the values that you do, how you conduct yourself as a person in all your interactions in life. It takes a deeper understanding of oneself to be confident, and at peace with yourself!
If you want to avoid all criticism, say nothing, do nothing, be nothing. May each individual rise into our authentic soul power beyond any fear.
Pat is so humble that even when he takes an interview he becomes the interviewer.
The best interviews are always conversations.❤❤❤
*Peoples words hold no value until you choose to give them value. Choose carefully as some are trying to bring you down, while others bring you up.*
bat-skull 97 Amen. Gbe.. Motivate!
That’s right 🔥
bat-skull 97 yes!
Ivan Garcia 💯
I been waiting for this cambo for last 2 years. These 2 guys helped me get from almost Homeless to being in a good spot of life. Thank you both for your value
how you going today? just for self-motivation
“Controlling the narrative”
Is the motto of all self-actualised people
Legit
Thoughtquake right there 🎯🎇
never expected these two together and I follow both for some time, love it
I literally thought this the moment this video started playing! :)
Where are from stud?
Patrick is amazing! I appreciate him so much. He’s added a ton of value to myself and my family. How long have you been following him?
An excellent collab. Two GOATs.
@@Jehosephat126126 at least a year if I am not wrong, he is a good model in life
Two Titans interviewing each other ... not intentionally but by divine design ... awesome!
Such a great conversation man!
Hey Lewis, his interview at your channel is also very very awesome🙌🙌🙌🔥🔥
Now I'm starting to see the much bigger picture and I'm glad I'm able to listen now
Hello sir, I am Gita from Hyderabad, India.I am a great fan of yours can I have your contact number?
My name
😍
Agreed 💯%‼️
Patrick is SO wise! I would listening on any video I watch!
And Tom is a master interviewer. They both do such great interviews that it’s interesting to hear them chat.
Love it
Never heard of this guy before. I LOVE him. Brilliant. Love how he talks about silencing the noise but being absolutely clear. You must know your values and principles. Man! This is so good. Thank you Tom!!!
💯
1:57 Not not extraordinary because he fled Iran but because he fled from Iran. It changes you and no doubt gives you a chance to appreciate life and be determined. I can already tell this is a great person.
FINALLY. PBD & Tom together. Two of the best.
I love when my favorites come together and do a video 🔥
Owtbound Records epic
Patrick details what attracted him to bodybuilding and what he learned from it. [3:13]
Patrick shares what Arnold Schwarzenegger represents to him. [4:38]
Patrick analyzes the role DNA and experiences play in our potential. [9:18]
Patrick speaks on the power of clarity. [15:00]
Patrick and Tom discuss the process of shaping your identity. [17:30]
Patrick dives into living with intention and urgency. [22:08]
Patrick explains the power of not caring what other people think. [28:31]
Patrick explores the idea of family traditions. [34:29]
Patrick details his belief of aligning lifestyle with belief. [37:50]
Patrick reveals the impact he wants to have on the world. [38:57]
I love how Tom introduces his guests.He honors them,speaks highly of them & actually listens to them without interrupting.When I create a great impact on my life & inspire others in the same process enough to be recognized,I'd love for a guy like Tom to interview me.Always enjoy Impact Theory.I learn something from every guest he has in his show.Thank you
Someting magical happened in the middle of this video... Pat took over the interview for a sec and it felt so natural for me. That energyshift was so beautiful and not disrespectful at all. Can’t really explain it. Then I realised I was watching two of my favorite interviewers of all times... and it all mades sense.
That’s why I love Pat - in this episode, I’m not even sure who’s interviewing who
L😜 L. True Salesmanship. Full force. Mah man!
Patrick is so good at it
Very grateful for this video. Between 17 and 55 I could accomplish anything--manifest anything and every intention I set. Something happened after my divorce that dragged on for 4 years. Something died. This year after my book was published, I found some energy shifts and the people that were important started showing up. I really like the 2 1/2 example. Blessings to both of you.
This episode was definitely had a lot impact on me! I think Patrick was probably one of the first guests to have get Tom talking a lot which is hilarious and awesome! The idea of just questioning everything to seek clarity is frigging genius! I took away so much! Thanks Patrick, and thanks Tom!
It's what all sales people know how to do!
Not making up to a million before retirement is unfulfilled retirement.!! I’m 54 and my wife 50 we are both retired with over $3 million in net worth and no debts. Currently living smart and frugal with our money. No longer putting blames on FED for our misfortunes. Saving and investing lifestyle in the stock market made it possible for us this early, even till now we earn weekly.
Credits to *ROCH DUNGCA-SCHREIBER,* she saw me through the process. You can glance her name up on the internet and verify her yourself. she has years of financial market experience...
You guys are bots. And it hilarious how good you have become at tricking people. For anyone do not let this comment or these chain of comments trick you.
@@derekdgarcia1apart from that, in my opinion there is really never a retirement. It’s really selfish to just “make it” and live comfortably.
This is the most real you've been Tom thank you. I relate to you more than I ever thought could be possible even growing up in the Pacific Northwest. My favorite interview with you and Patrick Bet David in the year or so I've been watching these videos.
Biggest takeaway: Determine what's your identity is going to be and stick with it. Work hard on skills it takes to become who you want to be and dont be afraid to be honest about what you are doing. The more clear and specific you can be about your desired goals and outcomes the more realistic they become!
i think this guy might be one of my favorite speakers on this show. His way of talking and listening is fascinating. I couldn't stop watching
Agreed!
*Use their hatred to motivate you, not affect you.*
It's like setting up impossible challenges.
It should trigger us to do even more, when we hear NO and IMPOSSIBLE.
Let's get it!
It's like you are ever where 😂 keep hustling🤘
You have a great TH-cam channel 🔥 keep it up ☝️
Agree, actually negative emotions like anger,disappointment, insecurity, pain,etc are a great fuel to succeed, and the best revenge is massive success.
I find the moments between exchanging sentences the most magical about these interviews. So much to learn from a conversation between two expert conversationists.
😮 Patrick Bet David! Great draw Tom!!! Keep changing the world!
Patrick is the embodiment of what every American strives to be if you work hard and just be the best person you can be.
Patrick and Tom in the same video? This is a MUST watch video! I LOVE it!
Pat is such a good interviewer he turned from the interviewee to the interviewer! Solid gold
So much chemistry between these two! Enjoyable to watch.
I love when free thinkers do not automatically subscribe to others beliefs if and until they have a conviction.
Pat is so good, he flipped everything and started getting information about Tom... Thats a brilliant skill
Tom please you need to invite this guest again! I love all the shows but this one specially i didnt want it to end. I feel he has sooo much knowledge to share with us. This really inspired me. Please and thank you ❤️
Omg I just fell in love with what he said at 32 min🤣 every man should take this advice !!!!!
When Patrick Bet David speaks it's just sharp clarity wisdom word flow from his mind and heart, thanks for sitting down with Tom Bilyeu
This one is a pleasant surprise. PBD has such a logical approach.
21:23 this hits home - my parents got divorced 2 years ago after 29 years of marriage and my mom told me that she never really loved my dad but she did it for her kids to have the best life possible..
Many factors considered, that selfless sacrifice is a huge part of my drive today 🙏🏻
If you after 29 years can say you’ve been with someone, intimate with someone, laughed and cried with someone.. can say you’ve never loved him.. you’re a demon. Ngl.. so now you’re telling me you applaud her for doing so and you find drive in the fact she disrespected your dad like that.. 😂 bro if I was your dad I’d be in jail and you and your mom would be resting in hell. 😂
OMG this video!! When you watch a video and you have to press pause several times just to fully digest what has just been said!! So much in this video resonated with me that I can’t even begin to list everything off!! I freaking LOVE this channel (& impact for women too!!) You guys have on THE BEST guests and have THE BEST conversations!!!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾❤️
Sorry I meant to write impact of women not for*
Patrick David is a true impact creator. More respect to him now more than ever since this.
Having these 2 awesome spirits sit in a room & speak is like my favorite day on earth 🌍 Thank you
I'm going to watch this video soon but I love this guy. His insight into the finance world is A1. Can't wait to dive into this meeting of the minds!
I have been wondering why ‘Patrick’ hasn’t been on this show yet. Today my prayers have been answered.
you just gotta love Pat and Tom , Valuetainment and Impact theory !💯
I'm growing a youtube channel and I can't even imagine the number of haters will be in the comment section when I get even BIGGER
Great video. We are all seeking for financial independence and a better way of life. This is not difficult to achieve with savvy investing, a frugal lifestyle, and cautious budgeting. I'm glad I learned early on to work hard for financial independence. As Warren Buffet said, he has seen this happen many times in his life. Not an investor, My husband and i never earned more than a middle class salary. We plan to get retired at 58 with a stock portfolio worth $4M. We have never sold so much as one share of stock.
@Stanley Edwin Any chance you can recommend who you work with for those of us who want to make the right plays now and be better positioned for a healthy retirement?
@Stanley Edwin This is useful information; I copied her whole name and pasted it into my browser; her website appeared immediately, and her qualifications are excellent; thank you for sharing.
About half way thru I realized things became truly more fascinating by you opening up Tom. Thank you for sharing! It’s always a blessing to hear what it took for you to overcome “your” barriers.
Patrick Bet David. I learnt alot from you on this interview.
Key thing for me to question the everything including my beliefs.
" Declaring your intention serves a purpose" (23:17). Tom always amazing at how deep into the minds you go of G.O.A.Ts. Pat thanks for going " deep with purpose, if you don't move what could take place"
(26:38) insight. Legendary Show
Pat has the wisdom of a 70 year old. What an inspiration.
I’m going to be completely honest I’ve only watched 8 and a half minutes of this because everything in here was 🔥. I’m not gonna watch the rest until I’ve applied everything for a week at least because the discipline is the part that has been kicking my butt the last 4-5 years despite all the growth in all the areas of my life. I wasn’t disciplined in one area and it affected every other area
I honestly did have some prejudice towards Patrick but after this interview, i have changed my views. His passion and energy could be interpreted in a negative way.He is very unique in so many ways.
YESS! I literally clapped my hands together at my "Recommended for you"!!
Tom, your work here on TH-cam reminds me of something I say when someone asks me about raising my son.
I tell them “oh my gosh, it’s awesome! 16 is the best age ever! “ I’ve literally been saying that for the past 14 years because, barring the first two years, it has been my experience.
Similarly, I find myself saying this about every single one of your interviews! Especially this one! Thank you so much.
Both of these guys will change the world for the better and we got to see their beginning!
Great interview. I love the notion of establishing expectations to reduce drama. There was so much basic advice in this interview that is easily applicable to your life. Nice job!
What he said to his mom about becoming #2 is so awesome, wish my husband had the clarity to do the same!
These two have massive respect for each other. Love to see it!!
Yesss!! Thank you for taking Patrick to the show 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Fist time I felt Tom kinda being interviewed and analyzed
You can tell Pat is a great person, wish there were more Pats’ out there. 💯
OMG! Patrick again answered difficult questions about marriage and family. whether its the balance between mom and wife, or considering parents as no less imperfect mortals than ourselves. his clarity is contagious more than anything else. blessed to witness men like Tom and Patrick in today's times.
It's finally here. Thanks Tom!
Thank God for this channel .
I've been waiting for you with Patrick thanks a lot
Do you keep your opportunities open to earn extra income by helping others and potentially meet Patrick?
Each child does what they choose to do. We can influence them but in the end we do what we choose.
Absolutely loved this! 🙌🏼❤️
the best interviewer meets the best teacher. fucking flipped when i saw this!
@PatrickBetDavid: positive peer pressure...legendary
This guy is awesome, & perfect timing for me hearing it now. Such a short interview, he spends so much time listening, yet what he says is powerful... easily a top 5 IT for me.
Everyone in the world should watch this. Phenomenal.
Tom - thanks for all the value you bring with each episode. Seriously appreciate it.
It’s about time these two got together !! much love ❤️
OOOH! 30 seconds in and I already know this is going to be GREAT!!
how was it??????
@@gagzy1989 It was awesome! SO many takeaways. I mean, I listen to Impact almost every day, and there are always nuggets, but I've been devouring Personal Development for years so it's rare that one person has so MANY nuggets all in one place. I'll def have to check out more of Patrick's interviews online.
So awesome that Tom gets interviewed half of the time! I love hearing more of Your story Tom!
Damn one of the CLEAREST interviews on the channel that really is straight forward but kinda tough to do
PBD and Tom Bilyeu = LEGENDS!
Second time watching! Great podcast. I learned just as much the second time watching
Wow. I didn't know Lisa was an artist. I googled after watching this. She is amazing. Thank you so much for sharing.
Patrick Bet David is genious....I love his videos. Thanks Tom
When I logged into TH-cam and saw that a new Impact Theory video was JUST released, I did a little happy dance. Thank you for making my workday easier to swallow and a moment of growth as I can sit here working in quiet while listening to ways on how to find peace.
@The New Paulo Coelho
I've seen better days but have had worse times. So, this is THE Paulo Coelho? Talking to me?!
Today, I am decompressing and mixing in self-love with focusing on school. Hard, but worth it, for now. How are you?!
Wow. I love this talk. This is definitely one of my favorite episodes. I can listen for hours. Thanks so much Tom.
Patrick thank you for being such a positive, consistent role model. My man, there is no one like you! I appreciate your consistency and preparation. Always. All the best!
*31:35**-**33:50*
"The more you tell the world how to manage expectations when dealing with you, and what to anticipate, you minimize a lot of the noises."
Update Guys! Completed reading another book. Book Count: 114 :)
Wow, very impressive
@@XxP4B10 Thanks :)
@Han Solo :)
how much time you take to read a book?
when did u read a books is it ramdomly a day or spacfic time?
@@Daniyal-ep4cj Specific time makes it possible :)
Is kinda bizzar seeing two good interviewers back an forth I feel like they doing reverse psychology at each other, great content over all
Valuable interview! Thank you both!
Two of my favorite people together.
Finally he’s here
Ha I grew up in tacoma the same time as Tom and I have no idea what world he was living in. I lived in the hood and went to the nice schools so I saw it all. There are people of every kind here and always have been
Spent the last few days bingewatching Patricks videos haha, what a crossover
I've watched all of your videos.. I would say that this video was so close to me personally and was really touched.. everything you guys talked about is real life facts
This interview is amazing thank you. Eye-opening 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Can’t believe this video is here!!!!
I don't think that haters always point out your weaknesses. Sometimes they see weaknesses where there are none. For instance ppl who told the 'Beatles' that their music sucked and that they'll never amount to anything or people who told Giselle Bundchen and other Supermodels that they are ugly. Or people who told Mariah Carey that she can't sing
Your guest is a great listener.Respect
Tom + Pat = impact entertainment
MAKE SURE HE GETS A SECOND INTERVIEW
Two of my favourite people speaking - what a great episode
Patrick is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥....
#valuetainment squad
Harris Reis put me on to this channel and I love it! The energy gets me hyped up to keep going!
I can so relate to this "I take a decision and then tell everyone about it who/how I will be". This was the case when I was pregnant. I had not even done a test yet but I felt so sure that I already told it to friends and family without having a test confirming it. The test was then only to get physical proof of something I knew was going on. Or when I decided to apply for new jobs, I started telling some closer colleagues of mine that I would be leaving the company soon and when they asked where I was going, I just said "it's all still open but something will come up soon".. and it did. Some people really don't like this overly enthusiastic, confident energy and say you should first be sure of something and then start telling it, but my feeling IS certainty even when it is not yet in my touchable reality.