"This Is A Woman's Sexual Fantasy" - Stop Being The Nice Guy & Master Seduction | Robert Greene
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Join me for a deep dive into the art of seduction with best-selling author and expert strategist, Robert Greene. Known for his profound understanding of human nature, Greene shares game-changing insights that are a game-changer in your dating approach and what women will find attractive about you.
In this episode, we're breaking down the barriers that hold many men back in their romantic pursuits. We're challenging the "nice guy" stereotype and embracing the power of strategic moves, artful authenticity, and the courage to be vulnerable.
Greene says, "Seduction involves the desire to lose control." It's time to step out of your analytical mindset and tune into the woman you desire and dare to be vulnerable. Discover why Robert believes that flirtation is more about the looks you give than the words you use.
We're also exploring the power of fantasies, and unpacking the role of men in today’s society. What’s the right amount of masculine that commands power and respect without being hyper masculine and a turn off for many women?
By the end of this episode you’ll have a deeper understanding of seduction, attraction, and the authentic connection that women crave. Your journey to becoming irresistibly desirable starts here.
Chapter Markers:
[00:00] Introduction for Seduction
[00:28] What She Fantasizes About?
[11:23] Secretly You Want Seduction
[15:57] This Isn’t Seduction…
[22:42] The Powerless ‘Nice Guy’
[39:11] Seductive Masculine Qualities
[53:12] Channeling True Power
[1:09:55] The Game of Seduction
[1:14:31] Your Mother’s Seductive Power
[1:18:50] Up Your Dating Game
Robert Greene’s Seductive Wisdom Quotes:
“Seduction involves the desire to lose control.”
“The origin of seduction actually comes from our relation to our parents.”
“I just want to get men out of the mode because we are so goddamn analytical that it’s such a problem that reading a book, [...] get the f*ck outta there and pay attention to the person.”
“An ambitious man, he may be a little uncontrollable, he may be a little bit dangerous, but damn it he’s going to be able to survive in a very tough world.”
“Seduction is a language that does not involve words.”
“The flirtation is not in the words that you say but it’s in the looks that you give and the energy that you radiate.”
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Two guys discussing a woman's sexual fantasy....
Could you not find two women for the panel?
My wife is crazy and I f'n hate it.
@@dtsai Divorce her
You refer to "the rules", for seducation, flirtation, how things changed for you personally and how you met your wife once you learned. Who does one listen to/read for these rules?
I DONT THINK U HATED CAUSE IF YOU DO YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN GONE LONG AGO
@@dtsai
Keanu Reeves is a great example of someone who doesn’t need to yell or get out order when explaining himself. He’s always cool, calm, and collected and is highly generous, not only with his money, but his time and attention. He’s definitely someone that young men or just anyone should look up to.
Hes also a goodlooking, tall multimillionaire.
He has $300 million
@@Therevolution7 He also lost his pregnant wife and baby to a car accident, and has spent most of his life on a spiritual journey to get over this. As well as his best friend dying at 23 (River Phoenix). You would have to 1.) live a high end actor life and 2.) lose everything (and have to overcome it) to reach his level of spiritual chill. It's very unlikely anyone will be like him; he's in the top .0001 percent OF the top .00001 of people. He's awesome, but...an odd life and a rare gem.
But Keenu Reeves is highly attractive and has had incredible success. it is very hard to introduce into you the type of charisma that Keenu emulates. However, I appreciate him a lot
Keanu Reeves is also very tall and in his youth he was one of the most handsome men. He didn't really have to do anything, women looked at him for 3 seconds and were in love
- do not treat people by stereotypes but get into their world.
- powerlessness corrupts more than power
- women (and men) want to feel special, important, different
- a weak ego (insecurities) is anti-seductive
- being dominant is a positive trait
- your mother conditions your unconscious desires
As a home schooled I can say my success with women compared to public schoolers is far greater. Human connection is built within us, during school years we gather nothing but insecurities which mess with our built-in perception. As a homeschooler I was primarily focused on my work and hobbies, not many friends, just brothers and sisters to play with. This upbringing has set me up, my flow and conversation is almost effortless, it did take me a couple of years to refine myself in the public world but now social skills combined with concrete personal identity makes me very peculiar compared to regular people. Public school puts filters and resentments on ppl, home school allows kids to find their strengths and weaknesses without societal pressures, which come later on.
Interesting perspective. I thought the opposite, but you make sense. Public school was a psychological and physical warzone, at times.
@@boethius1812Homeschooling is crapped on by society alot and it is encouraged by the system becoz the public schooling system is the only way that they can get their claws into your child's head and psyche while they are young and tear them down before they get a chance to become strong.
Homeschooled kids are often mentally healthier and that's not a co-incidence...
Depends on what your parents are like. In my experience home schooled kids were always hyper sheltered weirdos with god complexes who thought they were so much better and smarter than everyone else
@boethius1812 The opposite is true too. I also did homeschooling. Is saw some children become better equipped socially than the average public school kid, and others become way worse off than a public school kid. It depends on the social opportunities, experiences and social exposure available to the homeschooled kid.
You’ve got to figure in attachment theory; sounds like your family was secure. If you grew up in an alcoholic family, public schools, insane as they are, might have provided moments of true friendship and connection with positive role models
Very important information from Robert for men: Stay calm, breathe, don't yell, don't be violent, be gentle, be generous with a woman, take responsibility for your mistakes and don't blame others.
Also be able to read if you're dealing with an abusive passive aggressive covert narcissist.
@@sednasix6608 What do you mean with that?
Say no, never accomodate and never be a nice guy
@@ashwinashwin3663 Good luck then.
Sounds like you got half of it.
I would definitely watch a 5h podcast if Robert Greene is the one talking.
Robert is a national treasure.
Same lol
I think it's nice time from time to hear the host's thoughts too. It is a conversation afterall
Robert is so interesting and good at explaining hard things in a gentle way
Looks like this guy wanted to interview himself with Robert. He literally did
"this guy" owns this huge platform and is having a discussion with RB
correction... its an interview, where he just spoke the entire time. People are watching this to hear what robert greene, the guest, has to say@@MSA-uj7cp
@@MSA-uj7cpTom, is that you?
@@MSA-uj7cp "That guy" is naive. He should take notes from Mark Laita of Soft White Underbelly and LISTEN. Not steam roll his knowledge on said subject down his guests throat. "That guy" needs to give his guest the attention and respect he deserves. "That guy" doesn't understand the concept of making the guests the "star" of his show.
He always does.
Generosity VS Nice Guy is the key. My 'nice guy' has an agenda of sex or attention depending on the woman. It's definitely trauma induced from childhood and wanting to make mom and dad happy and to stop fighting. It makes you stingy in so many ways. Whereas when I'm being generous there is no real agenda going on. I just want to be there for the person and give more of myself in that moment rather than being stingy with my energy.
Exactly, being nice is people pleasing action. Kindness not so much generosity but can include it. you don't have to kind to her even. Be kind to others show's her you are kind. If you kind to people who serve you then that intrigues her. The man is nice to her but unkind to others is a red flag.
Whoa, never thought of personifying the "nice guy" part of myself. I'm definitely a people pleaser (also stemming from childhood trauma, yuh) and find myself giving all my energy to everyone except myself. Then I'll feel resentful towards others for not doing the same, but like, that's not fair to them, unrealistic, and just not a healthy way to go about things in general. That's my fault/problem though, not theirs. Whenever I start to feel resentful, I can totally just think the "nice guy" is telling me I should dedicate some time to myself.
Thanks for sharing homie
wtf is this world coming to. men (myself included) watching videos to learn how to get girls. the fact that these things even exists and are so popular nowadays tells so much about how f'd up the world is becoming. its basically men trying to learn how to be men because they can't act like one being raised in today's age. because women also don't act like women (they are correlated obviously). just the thought of having kids and what kind of life they're gonna be having scares me
wtf is this world coming to. men (myself included) watching videos to learn how to get girls. the fact that these things even exists and are so popular nowadays tells so much about how f'd up the world is becoming. its basically men trying to learn how to be men because they can't act like one being raised in today's age. because women also don't act like women (they are correlated obviously). just the thought of having kids and what kind of life they're gonna be having scares me
Real talk, bro. Nice guy vibes often come with strings attached. Generosity, on the other hand, no hidden agenda. It's about giving without expecting anything in return. Drop the nice guy act, be genuinely generous - that's where the real power is. Keep it real, no strings attached.
Tom Talks too much about himself and how he has mastered it all.
TRUTH‼️… and clearly he hasn’t mastered it!
Noticed this too. To me, Tom’s talking about himself is him highlighting his insecurities
Well I mean he cultivates looking like a roadie for a butt rock band.
Yep, noticing that too, as well as him mentioning ON EVERY PODCAST of his, I've listened too, about how" MUCH MONEY I HAVE!"
In all his podcasts, he interrupts and tells about himself and his problems when he needs to just let the guest talk. He needs to take lessons from his wife and her podcasts
I will do 1 pushup for each like this comments get...
When?
I can do 33 push-ups in a single rep.
Whew.
I did 30 in 1 push up
Was push-ups mentioned in the interview?
@@jackslater8688 you have to watch it. No cheating you sneaky dog
So happy you have him on today
I wasn't sure if I'd like this based on the title, knowing it could go so many ways, but Robert Greene is great. I love hearing about the why. Very informative and clicks any missing pieces into place.
I am highly present with you in what you are saying. Totally into what you are saying, getting to know you deeply...
I am slightly dangerous, and very resourceful....
😋
This is not Tinder, buddy! Hehe@@godswittness69
Sure does!
Hahahah Same here.
Brittany, do you find Robert sexually attractive?
I read the book "art of seduction" and "laws of human nature". Although laws of humans nature does not soley focus on love, It is still paritaly related to seducction. I read them as a last resort when no girl would ever show interest in me. Completion of his books allowed me to understand psychology deeper, however I am still single. I would recomend anyone who is struggling just go out and make some female friends. Reading is not even 20 percent of the answer, I personally would give reading around 5 percent credit if you want to succedd in love or relationships. His other books are far more useful in workplace or business and easier to apply than romance.
You're absolutely correct. Surround yourself with women of all types. Become friends with as many as you can, regardless of their physical attractiveness or whether they're single or not. Not only will you come to understand them better, but you'll become much more confident around them. That makes it far easier to attract romantic partners.
It's most useful when you already have a normal life and are already surrounded by female friends, colleagues etc whom you can practice some of these principles on.
After reading the book, I now get more ass than a toilet seat.
Everything has to be natural, there's no point reading a book and following rule by rule because it won't seem natural, Robert already said that
I read "How to win friends and influence people" and immediately I was basically able to get any woman who would give me a chance, e.g. if she'd reply to my messages, was single and in my league, I could get with her. The problem them became about being selective enough to pick a good woman rather than just getting laid or getting a relationship.
Robert green is always the man for alot of topics for men❤
There's also _How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen_ by David Brooks.
He’s spot on about using niceness strategically
Thank you for sharing and time your renowned guest
Thank you so much for this interview!
This is what is called an incredible deep level conversation!
Thank you for this podcast. Everything he said was true!
Robert is an absolute gem of a human, can’t wait to listen 📈
That was a very insightful conversation. Specially I connected to the lines: fear of no loss, specially when you talking to your type of woman. Also the part you have to be present in the moment with your heart. Find myself often follow my script. Thanks for all the value both of you.
Not fearing loss means moving on when rejected. Not stalking, harassing, obsessing over her in any shape or form, contacting people asking about her or ruining her life, social life, career, decision to move, love life, etc. that’s not cool, calm and collected. It’s the opposite. It’s brash, psychotic, jealous, bitter and insecure. The longer you do it, the more bitter you are.
I always like what Mr. Greene says.
33:14 Spot on what Robert is saying here. That is what we will think in a situation like that because All women regardless of how confident some may be, we still have this insecurity and this fear of rejection. That is what I would feel immediately in that situation when a man says lets not go any further. I would actually cry thinking he saw my fat rolls and wants to go home. Haha.
😂😂. The fat rolls part. Too funny
Great interview!
Love it ! always love Robert Greene’ books and ideas 🙏🏻🌷✨🙏🏻
Glad you’ve enjoyed it, sweet sexy little honey 🍯 pot
Ohhhhhh is that the Infamous Robert Greene😳 OG fa real. Thank you for this
This interview was profound and exactly what I needed. Thank you.
Follow this garbage at your own peril. He’s right about everything he’s right about mystery and seduction. His advice will definitely get you laid. And in the morning, when you are not able to be her fantasy into the next day, when you have to go back to work when you have to return to your real life, when the responsibilities rise with the sun to dissolve your fantasy island, she will destroy you.
Robert is a blessing to us all
Yes. Some hosts are smart enough to know we came on the hear their guests.
Omg they finally posted Timestamps 🙂😄😊👏👏👏 THANK YOU
6:00 People secretly want to be vulnerable
13:00 People secretly want to be seduced
25:50 Women have a sixth sense about insecure men
29:50 Develop observation skills
36:00 Being stingy is anti seductive
39:30 Virtual sex
43:00 Masculine role models
46:00 *Aggression; ambition*
51:00 Channeling testosterone
54:00 Elon Musk; ferocity
1:00:00 Be like water; it can flow or crash
1:05:00 Have an element of “I don’t care”
1:08:00 It’s the mental aspect that makes you a great athlete
1:11:00 Women vs men in seduction
1:27:30 Be in the moment
amazing episode please do more such episodes on seduction!
There’s still hope in this world. Thank you Tom and Robert Greene.
thanks man for provide us this great interview with sir Robert Greene
25.12 If you want to lose a girl quietly, be too nice. Works like a charm. Keep her? Boundaries and backing off creates interest. They can FEEL this. Tom always asks very insightful questions. And, Robert is BILLIANT!!! He has improved my life on so many occasions. THANK YOU, Gentelmen!!
Robert Greene is a ninja of seduction and very knowledgeable and advanced. I love you!
He seduced you
None of this matters if the woman doesn't find you attractive,, women are allowed to care about looks now and that bothers some men
Bingo
Yea we've always wanted the pretty boys since our teens. Guys don't know the power of a handsome man to us. Gets the oxytocin going not the sexual stimulation men get by visual. The infatuation hormone is super strong. Look at how girls scream for BTS or boy bands that's oxytocin. Look how hypnotized men are at strip clubs, it's a diff hormone reaction.
Absolutely nailed it. FIRST establish that she's attracted to you, if not , it doesn't matter.
Attractive physically? Ive seen a lot of successful, confident men with game who arent the best looking get with woman who are better looking than them.
@@samnectarUh.. I'd take an ugly billionaire chick 7 days a week and twice on Sunday 😂
My goal in life is to become a Vampire Billionaire
"You need to know when to disappear for a week so they know they can't take you for granted". "Everyone secretly wants to be vulnerable." So... gain trust, then cynically manipulate. Great way to create lasting connection.
Boom.
Female language exactly.
@@PeteLG but in this case, a book of it written by a guy describing how to succeed in relationship. Bad approach no matter who is doing it imo.
@@KK-dv3whwomen like that though
thats why i quit dating women this days not worth it ...
That was hell of a podcast. This man is a gem to society.
That’s debatable.
If advocating extreme manipulativeness and psychopathy is being considered a gem today, then f society.
He wrote the famous book "The 48 Laws Of Power" , a favourite of the ultimate psychopath Tony Blair , says it all @@A_n_y_t_i_m_e
He has his own TH-cam channel: Just search for him 😊
@@masteryoda498 you’re negative and self defeating.
I have a bit of a problem with the whole concept of going out of your way to seduce someone. You are engaging in actions that you would not otherwise do. Actions that are not born out of your own character. You are trying to game the system. It is definitely being fake. But fine, let's say that being fake is good enough for you. How long do you think you can keep the act up before you drop the ball and revert to your real character? Until you are in the relationship? Until you marry? What about the years after that? Isn't it better to be your real self and let the person get attracted to the real you? Isn't that a much bigger win? You can do some self improvement if you don't like yourself, go to the gym, make more money etc., but don't go trying to be someone else.
My interpretation is not to put up a facade, but rather to be focused in your approach and mindful of your actions, and how they are intepreted. You gotta get one foot in the door before you both put on sweatpants and eat a tub of B3n and Jerrys. Also don't be a "nice guy(tm)". Which is actually kind of a crappy facade in a way. Seducing =/= gaming the system unless ya are.
yes 100%. Society also tells men to do all the chasing. And that we need external things to be good enough. Thats why people chase money or exhausting careers. We literally contribute to woman's favor instead of being stoic and let them come to us. Which from experience works a lot better then the opposite.
@emf2482 you need some form of value for women to come to you though
Women don't care about a stoic man if he's still a bum
@@patrickmahon3476 To be fair this video teaches some things that we are doing wrong and should fix, that are not part of your character identity.
The world is nuanced.
But overall I think the whole premise of the video is wrong.
Thanks for telling us you didn't watch the video without telling us lol.
1:01:04 "meek"
It doesn't mean "weak"
it's more like "trained" or "disciplined"
similar to "cooperative/ controllable by its master"
To illustrate:
a MEEK horse is still strong to carry loads and people. But it is rideable and can be steered by a rider.
Same case with police dogs.
They are meeked but not weak.
#tamed
What an interesting conversation this is.
Great conversation and awesome interview. Robert is one of my favorite authors and I see why he's comfortable with Tom. Great yield of info.
Your humility and confidence shine through every episode, Tom! 🌟🎥 #ConfidenceIsKey #StayHumble
I like how he referred to Machiavelli(knowing how to shift with the times), that took me straight to 48 Laws of power.
Yes! Tom nailed it. Woman do want to feel they are the only one that their man wants, desires, and cant contain his strong desire for her, but only for her.
this conversation will go down the history books. I've learned so much from these two guys and I'm looking forward to reading the art of seduction❤.
Well done.I appreciate your advice. The discussion about office dynamics is so true. All I can say is well said and all I advise is look at your own integrity and at the same time do not let yourselves people to get used ( look at this closely)
You probably/ likely be deeply hurt in so many ways however don't perpetuate that hurt.
about @23:00 "POWERLESSNESS CORRUPTS MORE THAN A POWER" -
Thank you for this.
Excellent interview!!!
I love Robert Greene's interviews.
30:35 immediately made me click the like button cuz bro...he started speaking some real truth...but so far this has been a great podcast...im watching it while i do my workout.
so imma get back to my workout and get back to listen to this.. much love to yall
"It's pretty clear if you pay attention, right?" Nice one, Robert. :)
Be nice with boundaries
Robert Green is my spiritual leader.
I really needed this video
Thank you for the insight
The teacher student thing would be a good ethical question regardless of it being done at an adult school.
GREAT. was even more interesting than I expected. Touched on some topics we dont hear every day
Robert Greene is a genius very great a session
Finally!!! Thanks!
If this guy were really a master of seduction, surely he wouldn't have picked those glasses.
One minute into it, it sounded like two teenage gamers trying to plan how to storyboard an animation.video of anime porn.
Or would he? The point is, if you've got skills/game, you can wear dorky glasses. Doesn't matter.
Peace through strength. Forge your body and skills, but most importantly, your will to act when it is absolutely necessary, but the best fight or battle is the one that never took place. Using the brain is the most important tool and weapon...keep it all sharp!
Love the vulnerability from Tom in this video lol
Tom needs to stop injecting what he thinks about the subject and instead draw out Greene. Tom made an interviewer's biggest mistake at the beginning of this interview but did get better as it continued.
32:17 Man, this made me LOL. I have been there brother.
I made a similar mistake. We were undressed and she was the one who said maybe we should slow down and I listened... facepalm
(Not saying one should force things after that point but one can be a little more insistent if the woman is just casually and orally suggesting to take it slow or whatever)
@@NatrajChaturvedino you definitely did the right thing!! ❤❤
Okay we human have duality,you have to strike a balance not too nice and not too harsh, to show that you are capable of both.
Return of a legend.😏
Two guys who don't get beautiful women discuss seduction.
ha
How can you bring Robert Greene and speak more than him!!
Two of my favorite thought leaders.. epic episode 🙏🏼
I think of myself as a nice guy, and I know it came from my childhood because my mother showed love toward me if I was a nice boy. So now, as an adult, I'm always nice to others because I want them to like me, and most of the time, I get hurt and feel being used by others.
Don’t feel that way ,there are plenty of women who will embrace your kindness and will want you as a loving partner .❤
Great video. I don’t enjoy when people who have never been to war speak on it. War is like football? I’ve done both and they couldn’t be more far apart. Stick to what you know brother. Both of you are smarter than I am by far. Neither of you are warriors.
I think perhaps you might havectaken that comparison too literally. My suggestion is that they were referring to strategy in that strategy is applicable to both scenarios.
Your taking that statement too literally. They are just making a rough comparison there because both things are physical in nature.
Football is a lot like war. Or rather, it's a proxy for it. It allows you to execute plans with teammates against another team of males. It requires strength, skill, and courage, and it's relentless in its rules. I've never been to war, and I can't speak on the terror, shock of reality opening up before you, the depth of being forced to make choices that shake your whole self, the darkness and inescapability. There's not much of that in football. But football allows you to determine who might be good in a war, and having a sorting hat for mate quality, without a bunch of your males dying. So goes the theory.
I didn't watch the video to be honest. I do think you have a point. The subject of women shouldn't be compared to war or football in anyway. Men are the reason both(football/war) happen. Men also are the only ones playing or fighting. These guys are trying to be part of the groups trying to create better men for women. Why? Women are suppose to support their men in general. Pretty simple concept. Men must respect the women WHILE women support and respect men. It's all changed now. Women are entitled and spoiled. How can you change that. If men are basically still the same.🤷♂️. In general of course.
These days you need written contracts and video documentation to prove that everything was consensual
"Meek" is derived from a greek word describing their war horses. Very powerful, but obedient to their rider. It had nothing to do with weakness, in the context the word was used 2000 years ago.
This guy (Robert) is real. Exactly the places where we deal with violence everyday.
I only got through tye first 9 minutes, but I sure wish you'd understand that women are listening too!
What are your thoughts on this?
Tate be catching stray bullets everywhere he goes 😂
,,, As well he should.
That's one very insecure dude. That's why he got rekt by Greta Thunberg and pizza boxes lul
When a fighter invites a wizard to a philosophical discussion, both have distinctly different ways of understanding reality and/or and solving problems.
When you spoke of fear, my bet is fear of rejection, failure, creepiness, openness, etc. at the onset. Not the fear of the power someone has over you. Anecdotal because I've never felt that, although I do tend to slip on healthy distance after the act so perhaps a different manifestation of the same (that has ended a couple of good things over the years). Our society gives alternatives to the list I mentioned at the start and punishes them readily. I think younger generations have become so constricted by culture it has become a failure to act - just a guess.
How fucked up is it that you have to be mean to women or treat them poorly to get them to like you!
Your statement is one of the only statements in this chat room that makes sense. Everyone else are slaves to their female masters.
blame the fucking parents
Robert sounds like he's about to sneeze and looks like he's about to cry.
Let's see how you look after you suffer a stroke and lose control of 1/2 of your body.
Yep. There's this thing called allergies you see...
@@IIISWILIII Oh. That sounds awful. No one I've met have expressed allergies like that.
Be Both I considerm MYself Sweet And sour ! People do not need to be abusive !
“Be Yourself”… one if not the most misunderstood secrets to a fulfilled life
If “be yourself” worked everyone would already be successful at this
They made sliding into the adventure of human emotions EXPENSIVE, lol. Plus, social media exacebates the degree to which women want to feel, which raises the bar for what women desire, making it to where the average man can not fulfill those desires.
That's why I dropped out of the market. When the market recognizes my value, I will make the product available again.
@@mickcrovo5238- Some guys just aren't relatable.
Don't be average then
@@rml4289 I’m 6’, fit and athletic, 6-figure income, and socially skilled. If you listened to what they said, it’s not just the average guy who is undervalued, it’s all but the top 10%.
@@rml4289 exactly
Taking love advice from this guy sounds dangerous enough lol
Over competition is actually weak but the internalised David Goggin’s approach is an option. Keep your pain to yourself and always remember the strong, intelligent, shape-shifter Tortoise is always accruing good energies in the Spiritual Universe.
Tom sharing the line he used on his student 😅😂 smfh... "Sit down, you're not going anywhere." Silky!
Playing games will only get you into a divorce down the line.
Thank uuuuuuu
People pleasing can be a sign of complex/childhood trauma as part of the fight-flight-freeze-fawn response. Fawning, being overly nice to protect one's self from a perceived threat, making sure you're 'being good' to avoid the pain of a parent who is likely highly critical/abusive. Anticipating their needs and fulfilling them to be safe. A deep seated pattern that once you understand its origins, you can begin to amend your behaviour to better or improved reactions to people around you.
Happily as a German resident I am able to order the book (also via the most Mainstream literature warehouse), so no cancelling atm.
From an evolutionary standpoint, women have historically exhibited a preference for robust mates capable of ensuring protection, provision, and the ability to produce healthy offspring. These inclinations are deeply embedded in their genetic makeup, forged over hundreds of thousands of years of evolution. However, contemporary efforts to alter these dynamics within a mere few decades have led to an increase in individuals, both women and men, relying on antidepressants, experiencing fractured familial structures, and engaging in neurotic relationships.
Emphasizing adherence to fundamental principles rooted in nature's design could potentially provide a more stable foundation for relationships.
Fool in the cap looks like that chef dude in Emmerdale
Generosity, a confidence from not being insecure, calm coolness, bring an aura that you respect their qualities, differences, and uniqueness...Plus, pay attention, know when humor, compliments, and empathy can be useful......Genuine gentleman get the key to the lock box... "I gotta write this shit down'......
In my experience if you don't have one it's difficult to get started but once you catch one several others are getting in line. If I fall for it I end up with none again. I'm single at 61. I've fell for it 3 or 4 times throughout life. It's getting harder and harder to get started lately. 🤔
Fall for what?
Trying to manage or juggle 2 or 3@@byanymeansnecessary398
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3x
30 to 60 jumping jacks or more
10 to 20 bicep curls or more
10 to 20 shoulder presses or more
3x
30 situps or more
3x
Run 1/4 mile or more
4x
Mix and match
Nice
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