Narcissist MIL Thought She Tricked Me Into Signing Her "Home Loan" Called Me "Poor Thing" But..
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Jade (OP) was someone who wore her hearts on a sleeve, and because of the bad relationship she's had with her late mother, Jade always looked forward to building a beautiful relationship with her future MIL. Eventually, Jade met Bob, her husband and when Bob introduced her to his parents, she loved them instantly.
Because Jade always looked forward to a mother's love, she specially spent time with Maria, Bob's mom and did things to impress her. Although Maria went over the limit sokmetimes, Jade didn't mind. She loaned Maria money even when it was uncomfortable for her and she never complained.
As time passed, Jade began to notice that Maria was clearly taking advantage of her for her personal gains, but Jade overlooked it. Years later, something happened that caused Jade to withdraw a bit from Maria, but after her husband, Bob relocated to a different country because of his job, Jade became close to Maria again. This time around, Maria was no longer disabled and she no longer asked Jade for favors like she used to.
Unknown to Jade, Maria had been planning something and when Jade finds out, her marriage takes a different turn but she makes sure Maria pays for everything.
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I think Bob knew what his mother was trying to do and he used OP for money because him and his mom was out of work! Op thank God you're smart and saved all those texts and you got your money back. I truly hope you find a good man with a loving family
Sue her for alienate of effection and help him cheat on you!
Matter of fact sue him to
Spousal alienation and infidelity are not crimes. The judge would laugh you out of court.
@@awesomesausein some states you can actually sue for alienation of affection they call it the homewerker law
@@HunterRozen-kn5od where, Mississippi? That's a backwards thing to do in a free country.
I do not exactly know how the suing laws work for all of that but I say sue those @$$h0L3$ as much as possible. I hate them. I think I hate her pantywaste ex husband even more than the MIL.
I would have had the husband investigated because he didn't sound so shocked about what his mother did along with the mils party goers. Then to hook back up with his ex that fast? To much of a coincidence if you ask me.
Yeah, I bet narcissist MiL was pushing for that relationship since she didn't like op and only wanted to take advantage of op. It's obvious that he's a momma's boy to stand up for her and go along with a relationship with an ex while married.
Yes Bob seems a bit shady too. 🤔🤨
Haven`t finished (and won`t)Op seems like more of a problem than Bob, he warned her about Mom and supported her against Mom with baby. OP cared more about her revenge and max humiliation than her husbands familial relationships. Why didn`t OP call him up before hand? She`s had this problem with real family. If he does get back with his ex as your comments states its likely cause she cared about him and helped show him who his Mom was in a loving supportive way, but he wasn`t ready to hear it yet...
@@natyong you're welcomed to do what you like, but my opinion still stands the hubby seems suspicious.
Investigated for what? There’s almost no way to prove that he knew or did anything
Divorce but hire a PI to follow Bob first. After all Bob is cheating. Now I'll listen to the rest of the story
OP now needs to move on with her life and see this all as a learning experience.
I would never sign anything that someone handed me no matter what family member it was
When your husband is choosing his mom over you
Knowing she's a witch..
Sounds like he was in on it...
Divorce him and don't look back
Hand Bob DIVORCE PAPERS .
More than likely they didn't think that op would go through with the lawsuit til served with the papers. It's so typical that they tried everything they could to get op to drop the case and be so childish in glaring at op during court. Classic narcissist, try to lie in court and try to shoo away and lie about the evidence. But don't realize that can get her in deeper trouble for lying in court and that she's not going to get away with it. Her face had to wonderful when op won the case and now she has to pay back over $4 grand back to op. They can pound sand and to stand up for his mommy dearest like that despite what she tried to do then the audacity to cheat to get back at op. It's obvious he's a momma's boy despite that she's a narcissist.
Well, now I understand why she wanted them to have kids so soon. With a kid, she'd be forever tethered to this family and they could continue to abuse and guilt trip her. Since she didn't have kids, she can make a clean break from them and never have anything to do with them again.
What her husband to her MIL did was back stabbing. Good that she got out of the marriage to suing her Ex MIL for the money she had given her. At the end she won made the EX family even angrier. That you become street smart at the end.
Bob & his mommy deserve each other & you’re actually better off without them.
I loaned a BIL around 80 bucks when I was a working kid and he never paid it back. I was taken advantage of a couple of times when I was young and that's how you learn. The message is when dealing with family it's never a loan, you're simply giving it to them.
Can I borrow a couple bucks? Lol
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In general I agree with you. However, character is an important determining factor. I owe some money to my parents for equipment for my business (I'm 40m), and despite no interest or time frame I am 100% determined to pay it back. I'm not stressed, as I'm sure I'll be able to pay it back, but I think about it often. It's a matter of honor to pay back what you owe. I don't understand it when ppl have no shame.
@@robertr392 that same BIL was able to drive my truck when I was stationed overseas while in the military and he blown the engine. I'm sure you know who fixed it when I got back?
I'm so happy that OP wasn't ready to have kids with Bob. Imagine having to deal with all that and having to worry about custody as well.
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Bob was working with momma.....
Her hubby sounds like a shady dude
Girl get a divorce.
NTA..OP..Quit taking BS from your husband and his mother. Put him out too!!
To be away from these two low lifes is a blessing. Thank your lucky stars that you found out before you had any children with him. I can’t beleive he said he would divorce you if you didn’t apologize to his mother who was trying to steal from you AGAIN only this time is was for a house. He should be outraged at his mother. Instead he threatens to divorce you. I believe he already had something going on the side before this.
Mother in law deserved what she got. And divorce the husband if he can’t understand the difference between honesty and deceit. And for cheating on you. Obviously, everyone in the family are dishonest.
"Dear mother in law, i apologize for ever marrying your son. He's a cheater, and you are a grifter."
I don’t loan money! Have bought family member groceries a few times, diapers and paid a utility bill once. Never ever have I given cash!
She has nothing to apologize for, sounds like her husband was already having an affair!!!
My mother took us for $40,000. We were told it would cost that much or more to take her to court and try to prove it, so we were just out our life savings in our 40s. Parents can super suck
No proof she sent them i mean sure she could've faked it but the mil didnt seem smart enough to do it but honestly dont lend money to family as it can be what tears tjem apart
Yes, mil needed a new well so i cover it till she could pay me back. I never got a penny. Then she asked to use my car and hit a guy. I cost me 10,000.00 to get it fixed i did not get help with the money was told it my car. I have to get a new car the other would not go down the road right. That cost 26,000.00 . And just after i got the new car she and her youngest son asked to barrow it and got mad when I said no to ask his brother.
Bob is a mommy's boy.
I would have absolutely told my husband right away. We dealt with his mother's psychotic manipulative behavior for several years and I didn't hold anything back with him. He knew up front if I was going to speak my mind to her, and he never disagreed with me on it.
If OP had talked to her husband about the issue when she found out about her scam, I would've been curious what kind of reaction he had.
I ever say jump to divorce but in this case run. Run far and run fast.
BYE BOB!
Op run as fast and as far as you can. Get everything you can from him as you can. You are not the a- hole
Best to divorce "Bob" since he's cheating behind your back
Easy divorce and adios to all those losers
You get treated the way YOU allow yourself to be treated!
Divorce Bob because he is not emotionally supporting you!
I’d consider him a cheater and also I’d investigate him as well as his mom they just sound too close to the situation together
Nta. Op you need to divorce Bob. He and his mother played you from the beginning. They are not good ppl. They are toxic. Let the trash blow away with the wind and live a better life
Let him go. He's a faithless human and I believe he was in on it with his mom. Which begs the question that she committed a crime of fraud .Is it a deportable offence. Just what we need one more KAREN here in America
Shouldn't shock anybody. Like mother like son. Holy mommy issues. Op needs therapy to work on these emotional problems. Bob's mom humiliated herself and before that had the audacity to gloat about trying to scam op. It's absolutely not worth trying to save a marriage with a toxic mama's boy. I really hate when people confuse compassion with people pleasing and being spineless. You can have a shiny spine and be compassionate at the same time. Op needs to work on herself.
Divorce Bob, he is not worth your tears. You will do better with next one. Tell them all to kiss your ass.
There was a lot of information that was held back here until almost the very end regarding Bob’s infidelity. There is also the not so small matter of knowingly allowing yourself to be used by the MIL. It is clear that Jade the OP had issues that she was addressing in a very unhealthy way. For someone else who is allegedly a nurse I’d expect a better response from then continuing a charade that harm’s one’s self physically, emotionally, and financially. I’d also point out that it isn’t “borrowing” when you never get paid back.
Bob did try to warn her in the beginning
Best she learned before they had kids together. She’s better off without him.
Hubby Bob tried to warn op but it seemed irrelevant to her at the time. Mil has been a deceitful person probably as long as Bob can remember. Breaking the marriage is the best gift Bob could have ever given her.
I would file for divorce and let bob be with his mommy and watch his life falls apart
Divorce. It's all abuse by all of them. He doesn't love you. He used you as much as his mom.
Bye Felicia! Bye Blob!
Divorce him.
Walk away from those of assholes Op
@9:30 MIL with short gray hair goes to prepare some snacks
@10:10 MIL with curly long brown hair returns from preparing the snacks (and the hairdresser)
DIVORCE!!!!!
All these stories have to be from a jr high creative writing class. Soooooo many words to say so little.
People pleasers become doormats. 😈
Yeah, I helped my mother-in-law several times. But it was not through deception.
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Sounded like a planned scam on a vulnerable lady with mommy issues.
If the story is true divorce him and his family
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. It seems that the husband has a rotten character like the mother.
I don't even really understand why the MIL was trying so hard to get the OP to give her grand children? You cannot treat a woman horribly and abusively AND love their child. It just does not work. Its a package deal. Ergo, she would NOT HAVE LOVED THE GRAND CHILDREN ANYWAY.
I love your stories, bro. You're a true storyteller, a master of the arts if you will.
Never had an in law pull something that bad but I was scammed by my own sister before just after getting an inheritance from our grandmother. A stipulation to get it was being past a certain age due to the amount we were getting being the oldest of 3 siblings I got mine right away and my middle sister "borrowed" 600 bucks from me promising to pay it back saying her husband's check was gonna be short being the brother I am I agreed to help since she would get her share around her birthday that year and 600 was a small amount to me at the time since my grandmother had left all 13 grandkids $16000 each but she never paid me back her husband tried to pay part of it back but since my sister blew hers on a broken car and her drug habit she's been in and out of jail since I saw her last I've given up seeing any more of what she owes me
As a son, you have to reach a point where you will no longer tolerate abuse from your mother, whether direct or passive. I don't know what culture the participants are part of, but the culture I belong to says when you take a wife, she becomes the most important woman in your life. You protect her, you provide for her, and, in return, she supports you and nurtures you. How that happens is up to the couple to decide, but the mother-in-law, while holding a position of respect, is an outsider in the relationship and must abide by the rules for same. The likelihood is that the father-in-law knew who he married and he wasn't allowing her to take advantage of him. That being said, he also probably understood the futility of getting her to change her ways.
I would have pretended she tricked me and run out of the house then let her submit the papers.
I am respectfully and humbly acknowledging that I had truly great relationships with both of my mother in laws. I have been married twice. I loved them like they were my biological mothers. I am truly blessed.
Unfortunately the husbands were horrible.
That's so funny and glad for you and your doing great job 😊😅😂
This story is flat out B.S she tricked then threw a party to celebrate and tell her she committed fraud in front of everyone then her husband was telling her from beginning that she shouldn't get that close to his mom she was getting in over her head she didn't listen but he comes back and sides with his mom when she told everyone what she did it just doesn't make sense
Thank you !
Yeah, the OP comes off like she is the perfect person and she has no control over how things played out. If this mess of a story is true, she is a needy woman who from her own telling of the story was more interested in getting a new mommy than a husband. A few months into dating and she is on the phone with mom all the time? Weird. Maybe Bob also wanted kids. Two years in, maybe it bothered him too that she wasn't getting pregnant. And she SHOULD have told him what his mom tried to do with the house loan. She isn't TA, but she isn't blameless.
Never try to buy people's love
You have nothing to apologize for. MIL tried to deceive you into signing for her home. She deserved what she got for trying it and she’s mad and now hubby is mad for you for standing up to his mother. If he wants a divorce send him his papers and see what he does with them. Your husband is a mommy’s boy. If you had of signed the papers for the house you’d have been on the hook for the house if she quit paying on it.
I been there to.
Bob is an idiot. He needs to hear both sides. Not just his mother. She try to take a vantage of you after you were kind to her I seriously think about wanting to be with this man. He seems to be a mama’s boy and not the good kind.
My ex mom in law was a con artist
What a scummy family. Glad OP didn't try to work things out and discovered this quickly enough to start her life again
You were really starved for a mother, so you set yourself up. You need counseling. It will help you to put things in place.
Its never right to let anybody take advantage of you. But I understand where OP is coming from. Its never easy to get out of the clutches of manipulators. Op's mil obviously found a more clueless woman than her whom she could manipulate into signing those home loan papers. Op should be grateful she got rid of them before going financially bankrupt.
FJB
Nope. My in-law never borrowed money from me or my husband. They lend some to us, lol (whenever we need money).
sounds like the mother and son are a pair of wanna be grifters…he knew what his mother was doing
I didn't find this one satisfying. I wanted more carnage. Why didn't she sue her for trying to trick her like that or get he charged for it?
What is a MIL?
OP is a bit of a simp. There was no love in OP giving her MIL money it was aboit OP trting to make up for what she did not have when she was a child Very lucky to dodge such a big bullet. But please get some counselling and a shinier spine.
Another Stupid OP😂
Nta
this entire channel is simply bizarre
This woman with the mother-in-law should go to counseling. Her methodology of fixing herself By kissing up to others. Is pathetic! Buddying up to older women to fix herself she probably came across as a weirdo.
wait. ur saying a bank will just take a signature. dont need to meet with her or need copies of her id, financial records etc?
mom should of just signed her name.
fake sounding story
Op is pathetic on every aspect of her life. Bob post pictures of his new side piece and op still goes back and apologize to the step mom. You have no one to blame but you’re self for putting yourself and allowing you’re self to be in the situation. You deserve what happened, because you allowed it willingly
Tell Bob to get his Pee Pee moisturize from his momma. 😅😮
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