This is the most beautiful and inspiring minimalism video I’ve seen. I just found your channel today and I love it. I’ve been slowing shifting toward minimalism over the past 10 years. Not buying is my new superpower. Thank you for sharing your lifestyle!
Hi, I was just reading through the comments and thought I might leave one as well. I wanted to share that as a writer I enjoy listening to stories, fiction or nonfiction. I come to your channel to listen and view the non fictional story you produce. Thank you for sharing your gift with us. A deep bow of respect to you.
Very inspiring! I used to buy duplicates of favorite clothes and I, too, have stopped doing that because owning duplicates made the original item less special--except, like you, for daily-use pieces like underwear and socks. 🥰❤️⭐️
Hi Benita! Enjoying things without purchasing them is one of my favourite things to do. I once heard someone say that they consider admiring shop displays of pretty things as akin to viewing things in a gallery. I tried it and it works!
I do this too ! I love beautiful things but no longer feel the need to buy everything I like ( thank goodness as can't afford to😆) I especially love to browse shops such as Anthropologie and department stores. I find this inspires my creativity and often reminds me of something similar I already have at home (which I then appreciate even more)😊💗
@@gillianm9367 yes I agree with you, sometimes you just need to see your things from a different perspective, how someone else has used it to inspire you 👍😁
I've always been a simplistic person. It really lightens your soul when you let go of what you don't NEED. I can't even remember the last time I've worn any jewelry besides 4 good pieces. I filled 3 shoeboxes full of costume jewelry and donated them. I won't buy anymore. I truly look forward to your videos.
I have a hard time understanding why it is sooo very hard to get rid of things, I am like you, I dont wear jewelry but have three whole boxes of it I have acquired over the years, but I never have thought about getting rid of it because it is "my" jewelry, ha ha.
I love your videos, sister! I figured out years ago what are my favorite colors to wear: red, purple, royal blue, emerald green, black, and white. My only neutrals are shades of grey, from medium to deep charcoal. Browns, tans, beige, etc., make my skin look sickly. Your home is gorgeous and very warm and inviting. Thanks for sharing!
Benita, You are the sunshine to my morning. Perfect way to start my day while sipping some coffee. Signed up for Morning Brew. Thank you for the suggestion. There is a long list of items I no longer buy but drinking water is at the top. Here in America it is a huge, ridiculous source of pollution. Be well and stay awesome.
Window shopping, yay! I've been practising it for years now. Also, I love your videos, Benita, because your style, be it minimalist or whatever, is so honest. Honest minimalism at its best.
So many home youtube videos show people using scented laundry detergent, fabric softener and scented beads all together. I think it binds to the fabric and doesn't allow to clean the garmet thoroughly. Also they contain chemicals and are bad for the environment. Another one, is people using paper plates on a daily basis. Love your ideas!
Oh my, Benita, you’ve uncovered my secret obsession- scented candles. They can be quite pricey so I rarely burn them because once they are gone, so us the scent! So they sit in my hutch while, like you, I burn cheaper candles. I know longer buy dressy clothes, batteries for a watch I never wear, Starbucks coffee and shoes with heels.
Hmmm, things I no longer buy.. Nail polish, home decor, hair styling products, makeup, disposable straws, working on finding reusable alternatives for other disposable things, dryer sheets, coffee out,... I mean I think maybe there are enough things that I could make a video like this too! It won't be as beautifully filmed as yours, however. Your videos are inspiring to me on many levels! ❤️
Thank you for the video Benita. For me the biggest impact was going paperless. I have all my favourite books in my reading apps. My business went fully digital, so no more papers or folders lying around. No more stationary. If feels really good.
I was nodding in agreement during your video when you spoke of embracing window shopping for “viewing enjoyment”, without the want to purchase. I’ve been moving more and more towards this mindset. It’s actually kind of freeing! Getting rid of things that are of no use to you makes sense, irrelevant of what other people do. If it’s not useful to you, someone else can enjoy it! 💜
We're almost 100% on the same page, Benita. :-) However, I've always been a jewelry freak and bought too much during the first year of the pandemic as "retail therapy" (the worst kind of therapy there is, IMO). Now I'm considering selling some pieces, even though I'll lose money. And I'm trying not to buy any more. But in general it does make me happyish. Thanks for the great video.
I just discovered your channel and I am enjoying it so much! Thank you for the inspiration. Just recently it has sunk in that I don't need to necessarily have multiples of belongings that I use and enjoy -(candleholders, dishes, books, clothing). I can just have one or few and that is enough. This has been very freeing.
First thing that came to mind.. Haircuts (service). I have an electric hair clippers I've been using for 10 years and with a scissors that's all I need to cut my hair. Buying something, in this case, actually made my life simpler. I don't buy shampoo, soap is enough to wash my head / shorter hair. I don't buy fast food, everything I eat comes from a weekly grocery store visit and weekly going out to eat for Sushi on Saturday with friends! I've a digital minimalist for 15+ years. Besides a nice PC setup and Nintendo Switch most my entertainment is digital or free, like day hiking with friends, so there is no need to buy gear.
Hello Benita! 😀 I love window shopping! Your video came at a perfect time - we have just switched over to wool dryer balls (waiting for them, and I'm excited to try)! I am not buying (or stocking up) on anything that I don't need right now, currently going through everything and using what I have and when something runs out, I am planning on trying something new! ❤ I do enjoy books ~ I think what I love the most is turning the page, lol. I love the feel of books and enjoy going to the library. I don't wear jewelry either - I have (3) pieces that were given to me, I have them, but only wear if I go out. I do have a collection of purses that I am working on slimming down - I really don't need all of them, just love purses and bags. To help curb some of my impulse buying, I have unsubscribed from emails that I have with shops and stores that I like - I think this has really helped me because I am a sucker when it comes to an great deal from an email offer. Enjoy your day, and as always I really enjoy your content. ❤💞❤
Lovely to have another video from you 👍all thought provoking and I'm already doing some of the same. Recently switched to a glass nail file and love it! Wish I'd discovered it years ago. For me, it leaves my nails with a beautiful smooth finish, no ragged bits. Do persevere, it's worth it. Also, I never use scented candles now after discovering that some scents are toxic for pets (we have a Border Collie.) White candles look just as beautiful 😍 thanks for your inspiring videos and it's lovely to see you looking great 👍 xx
Hi Benita, I was never a big consumer, but I have a lot of beautiful and unique things purchased over the years on travels and inherited. So my resolution has been to use all the good things as often as I can, and to enjoy them. Using beautiful things makes me really happy, and I do not replace them once I have used them unless I feel the need. I wear my French perfume every day! I wear hand embroidered Pashminas from India as my everyday winter scarves. I am unable to use special occasion clothing all the time, but everything else I have that is beautiful and expensive and unique, I try to use as much as possible and enjoy.
Enjoyed the video. It's so difficult to be a minimalist in the States. It's consume buy, buy, buy. It gets into your head, but I try to fight it. It's an uphill battle.
I totally understand that we live under different circumstances. Keep fighting that urge to shop though and enjoy looking at things without feeling you need to have them.
Thank you for another inspiring video, Benita! When my son was a baby I thought cloth diapers were the way to go initially (didn't work out that way), but over the years I've kept purchasing them for their multi-use functions. They're especially nice for removing makeup or skincare products, and softer than washcloths. They're also good for dusting fragile items. Window shopping is delightful!
It’s always a good morning when there is a new video from you. I stopped buying scented candles or anything scented because it was irritating my sinuses. I stopped wearing perfume years ago for the same reason. All great tips. Thank you for another great video.
This video really gave me food for thought. I am a point of purchase shoppers, but from now on I’m going to change that habit into one of just window shopping. Thank you for this. I love your channel.
You are such an inspiration! I haven’t purchased paper towels or paper napkins in years. Bought cheap, white cotton napkins for cleaning and nicer, gray napkins for meals. No fabric softener or dryer sheets. Instead I use ZUM brand detergent when I want a little scent to my clothes (Patchouli, Sea Salt and Frankincense are incredible!) I have’t bought plastic (baggies) in over a year. We have beeswax wraps and a few silicone bags for on the go stuff. I have whittled my beauty/skincare items down to those that work, and have FINALLY stopped buying things to “try” them. My problem still is that if I like a clothing item, I will just continue to buy it. I love white linen shirts…so..I keep buying white linen shirts! I love GAP “Modern Fit” white/black t-shirts, and now own 12 (and find myself continuously looking at them online!) I keep trying to figure out where this “collectors mentality” comes from. Back before I even knew what minimalism or intentional living was, I owned 40 tulle skirts from Anthropologie, 80 pairs of high heeled mary jane pumps, 30 cashmere sweaters, and 50 eternity scarves! INSANE! I am at least aware of my predilection now, and try to steer myself away. I have a black velour dress from JJill I LOVE. What do I do on an almost daily basis? Scour ebay for the same dress in gray! Send help!🥸😅
Suspect, you would seem to have plenty of money or large debts. Spend your time doing something else - go and look at documentaries about how Foodbanks work and how poor folk live. Then use you time and energy to help them. They often got that way because they spent money as you do, without thinking that constant income could stop one day through accident, illness or some swindling swine. I'm not saying don't enjoy your hard earned cash as well but you did say to send help.......
@@lynnoorman2144 I have neither large sums, nor debt. I collect items from thrift stores, ebay or big sales over long periods of time. It’s the “collectors mentality” I’m referring to. Why, as humans, in the 21st century, do we still want to hunt and gather?
I started to make my own all purpose cleaning solution years ago. I only use warm water, dish soap, vinegar and 10 drops of essential oils. Works like a charm. I only use bleach on the toilet for obvious reasons but take special care with the quantity. You don’t need a huge amount for it to work as intended. Just a quick squirt, rub with the brush everything and let it sit and desinfect. Rinse after 10 minutes.
I love videos like this. I don’t buy ornaments,they are just dust collectors. I use bar soap and not shower gel in plastic bottles,no fabric softener or dryer sheets. We have always bought secondhand furniture,only new mattresses and sofas.
I think your clothes are fantastic. Love the vintage items. I am really enjoying your videos. They are calm and peaceful and beautiful. Hello from Iowa in the US.
yess new video from Benita, my day is better!! PS i recently noticed the Muji cleaning system in one of your videos and i ordered it immediately, im so impatient for my package haha! looks so practical and has a beautiful design, so glad i saw it on your channel:)
I pretty much follow all the same non-purchasing habits. I do have jewelry from years ago but pretty much only wear my $10.00 watch from Target, two silver bracelets made for me by my cousin Rune, a few pairs of earrings and a necklace my husband gave me. Additionally, I don’t buy paper napkins as I use cloth ones. I am now a window shopper myself as I don’t see the need to spend money on decorative items. I enjoy seeing what’s new but enjoy even more using the items I have in new creative and different ways.
Good video Benita. I am slowly getting to the same point. I am not forcing myself to get rid of anything, it's happening naturally. I am not longer buying: (-) Paper towels for the kirtchen (+) kitchen fabric towels, (-) cotton for removing make up (+) mini fabric towels.
Sending greetings from Czechia! I love your videos, they are so inpiring and calm to me. I no longer buy a lot of disposable items - kitchen paper towels, woman pads, razors, diapers, straws etc. Instead of them I used clothe ones or metal ones ( in case of razors). We are building our house now by ourself, we will move there in few months so I started to deutter and minimize the all inventory in our rental apartment. But it is quite hard because of children staff.
I love reusable face rounds - I have several sets of bamboo ones and they are fabulous. I use them for cleaning my face at night, but sometimes also make cleansing and toning wipes for my teen with castile soap, witch hazel, and a few oils. Easy to do and we can adjust the solution to his needs if he's having more breakouts, etc. We clean with vinegar and baking soda too. Always fun to find someone else who does this. :D
Thanking you very much from Germany! You are quite inspirational and motivational! I no longer purchase: scented candles (I love the simple tealights), plastic kitchen items.. I use only glass, hobby supplies.. I have all I need for cooking and baking, cds/dvds/paid TV or movies, souvenirs, fast fashion. Please share the brand of dryer which you have! I am needing a new one!!! Thank you for all your guidance!
Hi Benita, i found you just at the right time! Lockdown made me think about reducing the ‘stuff’ I own. I have started & believe your videos will be soooo inspiring to help me on this journey. The local charity shops are rubbing their hands with glee 😂❤❤
same as you since i gave away 80% of all of my belongings i dont buy or own any of those things you mentioned anymore i also dont buy seasonal decoration 🙂🥰 life is much better with less stuff .....love from Athens Greece
I have greatly simplified my life over the last few yrs. I am still not close to my end goals. Some of my “bad” habits I have broken, and will hopefully be able to at least lessen my remaining ones. I deal with chronic depression which sometimes slows me down for extended periods of time. But I have learned to simply pick myself up when I feel better and get back to work…..on my physical space as well as my mental/emotional space. I no longer buy multiple magazines or books and have thinned out the number of books I had to a manageable number for me. I’ve mostly broken my habit of tv/online shopping. I no longer have 4 sets of dinnerware or multiple sets of sheets or blankets/throws. Progress has been slower than I’d hoped for. But that’s ok. I’m trying to decide if I honestly want to get to a minimalistic level in my home. I suspect I’ll always want more stuff than a dedicated minimalist. I’ve been flirting with the idea of a capsule wardrobe for quite some time but I don’t honestly think I want to go in that direction. Paring down the sheer amount of clothes I have will be more manageable for me to live with. The changes I’ve made have made my life easier and more peaceful. I still like pretty things but they don’t own me any more. I no longer refer to myself as a Material Girl. 😁😁😁
Always inspiring, Benita! I'm glad to see I do many things like you do! (no duplicates, just clothes I really use, neutral colours also) It was a huge difference in finances when I start to do my own cleaning produts (lemon, vinnegar, biocarbonate).I also use ecofriendly beauty produts: solid toothpaste, deodorant, shampoo and soap. I do body exfoliation with salt and essential oils. I do my own spray for home with fresh plants, like lavender but I use the same scent for the all house (I don't like to mix). In kitchen, I love to be minimal; I don't like to cook, recipes, and so. Like fresh food, no diaries, but still working to minimize sugar and coffee. And I really need to minimize boks. Still like to touch them, even if I do not use them anymore. It's a working process...;-)
I'm sitting here enjoying your video while a scented candle is on and, right before you mentioned scented candles, I was thinking the scent was too strong. I always thought tapered candles made a mess, but maybe they don't? Thanks for the video, Benita. Always a nice, relaxing time.
it's true the candles fill with dust, I try to follow your advice and I haven't bought clothes or shoes for two years because I don't need them, I love the choice of neutral colors. I don't buy newspapers anymore.Love you Benita ❤️
Hello, there's something I can hardly stop buying...perfumed candle 😏😏😁and when you said Dyptique( I'm french) I laughed so much 🤦♀️🤣🤣 and my perfume "fahreneiht" (from Dior for men) that I had for first time when I was 19 and I'm 45 and I'll never change😏😉 Thank you,et bises à vous et aux chats 👍😘❤
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Thanks for the inspiration. I haven't used fabric softener for decades. I haven't replaced it and don't feel the need. Likely because I wear only natural fibres. I also stopped buying microfibre and polyester fabrics because they contribute to microplastics in the environment.
Really look forward to your videos. I’ve stopped buying jewellery as I have more than enough and you always seem to just wear your favourites anyway! I’ve also stopped buying books, instead I have them on my Kindle and iPad instead, much less clutter and dust catching!
I don’t buy perfume also. As you said, if you have a shower and wash your hair with nice scents, what for? I will consider stop buying scented candles, because of the reason you gave.
Thank you for a great video Benita! I think these are all really practical and steps I will take too👍🏻 We have stopped using paper napkins and I am now also using cotton rounds as you do…it seems to work perfectly 😉less waste makes me feel better
I'm almost there except for clothes and books. I wear a lot of different colors that bring me joy and will keep doing that, and I failed my one-in-one-out book rule during Covid. But scented anything, cleaning chemicals, extras of anything, new jewelry etc - no interest.
I almost agree with most of these… I never buy jewellery, fragrance, scented candles or decor.. but I have a slight addiction to books and accessories.. I always will get a new scarf or pair of mittens.
I don't buy make-up because I'm allergic to most make-up. So I also do not need any special make-up remover, etc. I try to combine products when I can (like olive oil soap that I can use on my face, body and as shampoo). I do like colorful tops (which I buy at a thrift store - but they are overstocks. I get them deeply discounted but they are new with tags). I own 3 pairs of jeans - so all of my tops go with every botton no matter the color. I don't color my hair or wear nail polish and I cut my own hair (my daughter trims my neck and checks that the back is even) I also do not get mani - pedi's. I've given my jewelry away to my daughters and daughter-in-law. With the exception of a few fragrances (one my daughter gave to me for my birthday) - I no longer buy perfumes/colognes either.
Yes I dont buy any paper hand towel and less chemical for cleaning home like y basic is better. I use candle but with lid because of dust. Minimalist wardrobes and tidy up. Love your video's ❤ so many inspiration. More I'm aging less stuff I need around me. Just live simple as posible 😊
Ooh I must be a minimalist too as I don’t buy most of the same as you! I now use an old fashioned metal razor instead of the disposable ones, and use everyday soap instead of shaving foam which seems to work just as well. I do use body lotion but actually find I enjoy coconut oil as a body moisturiser much more. I really don’t feel the need for lots of clothes and shoes anymore, I buy upgrades from eBay when I start to feel too tatty for work. And shoes can be re heeled fine. Xx
I have never bought hair conditioner or fabric sofener. I now never buy magazines or newspapers. I buy good quality clothes that I wear for years & years. I do buy jewellery as I enjoy wearing it & will continue to buy books. Everything else I am cutting down on.
I purchased a set of fabric napkins, flour sack towels, and fabric handkerchiefs - now I no longer buy facial tissues, paper napkins, and paper towels. It’s been over a decade and still going strong.
I love collecting free pots, china nd cutlery catalogs rather than buying the items itself. I love looking at them and if I get them it always ended collecting dust in my glass shelf.
thank you. your video's are very calming and inspiring. i have to minimalize, even when doing that its still not minimal, but perfectly balanced so your video's help me. Here in an overcrowded Netherlands, minimalizing fits the culture since there's much pressure from the outside world. ;-)
I also "window shop for entertainment". Seeing the latest product releases in person helps me with decision making. No more heavy catalogues & magazines taking up space in my home. "Enjoy pretty things without owning them" Ha! Same here. That's why I save images on my phone. I like making mood boards with all those images. Fabric softener, I tried it for a month with a new washing machine & never again. Fragrance overload. Jewellery, I just can't bear the weight of it on my skin. Found this out when I tried a gold chain necklace. Another great list for others to maybe consider in their own journey to minimalism.
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Could you please also link a blog post you were talking about in the video? The one about cleaning :)
@@krewetkaaaa It's linked in the description box but here you go www.benitalarsson.com/blog/how-to-clean-sustainably
I heard the expression 'admire not aquire' and it has become my mantra, especially when I am tempted to buy.
Thats such a great mantra!
This is the most beautiful and inspiring minimalism video I’ve seen. I just found your channel today and I love it. I’ve been slowing shifting toward minimalism over the past 10 years. Not buying is my new superpower. Thank you for sharing your lifestyle!
Hi, I was just reading through the comments and thought I might leave one as well.
I wanted to share that as a writer I enjoy listening to stories, fiction or nonfiction. I come to your channel to listen and view the non fictional story you produce. Thank you for sharing your gift with us.
A deep bow of respect to you.
Thank you, that's so sweet of you!
Yes I made myself reusable rounds from flannel left over from sewing projects.
@@Connie-ts1dv I tried that first but they just ended up as knots when I washed them. Probably used the wrong fabric scraps for it 😅
@@BenitaLarsson I layered 6 or 7 pieces and zigzagged edges. Mine are about 3 inches across.
Very inspiring! I used to buy duplicates of favorite clothes and I, too, have stopped doing that because owning duplicates made the original item less special--except, like you, for daily-use pieces like underwear and socks. 🥰❤️⭐️
That’s a great way to describe it!
You have such a calming voice,I could listen to you for hours.
Aww, thank you so much!
Hi Benita! Enjoying things without purchasing them is one of my favourite things to do. I once heard someone say that they consider admiring shop displays of pretty things as akin to viewing things in a gallery. I tried it and it works!
It does work well!
That is a fantastic way to think of it 😊. My mom and I are also happy to window shop, we like looking at all the options.
I do this too ! I love beautiful things but no longer feel the need to buy everything I like ( thank goodness as can't afford to😆) I especially love to browse shops such as Anthropologie and department stores. I find this inspires my creativity and often reminds me of something similar I already have at home (which I then appreciate even more)😊💗
@@gillianm9367 yes I agree with you, sometimes you just need to see your things from a different perspective, how someone else has used it to inspire you 👍😁
I love that you kept the silver heart necklace.
I don’t buy heeled shoes anymore. It’s flats all day, every day for me 🙌
Oh, I'm so with you on the flats! Haven't worn heals since ninth grade 😅
I've always been a simplistic person. It really lightens your soul when you let go of what you don't NEED. I can't even remember the last time I've worn any jewelry besides 4 good pieces. I filled 3 shoeboxes full of costume jewelry and donated them. I won't buy anymore. I truly look forward to your videos.
Such a good call to donate it! Someone else will be happy!
I have a hard time understanding why it is sooo very hard to get rid of things, I am like you, I dont wear jewelry but have three whole boxes of it I have acquired over the years, but I never have thought about getting rid of it because it is "my" jewelry, ha ha.
I love your videos, sister! I figured out years ago what are my favorite colors to wear: red, purple, royal blue, emerald green, black, and white. My only neutrals are shades of grey, from medium to deep charcoal. Browns, tans, beige, etc., make my skin look sickly.
Your home is gorgeous and very warm and inviting. Thanks for sharing!
Benita,
You are the sunshine to my morning. Perfect way to start my day while sipping some coffee. Signed up for Morning Brew. Thank you for the suggestion. There is a long list of items I no longer buy but drinking water is at the top. Here in America it is a huge, ridiculous source of pollution.
Be well and stay awesome.
Love that! We are super lucky to have great tap water over here.
Window shopping, yay! I've been practising it for years now. Also, I love your videos, Benita, because your style, be it minimalist or whatever, is so honest. Honest minimalism at its best.
So happy you enjoy them!
I'm not sure what store you are showing us in the beginning but I love it!
It's Iris Hantverk!
So many home youtube videos show people using scented laundry detergent, fabric softener and scented beads all together. I think it binds to the fabric and doesn't allow to clean the garmet thoroughly. Also they contain chemicals and are bad for the environment. Another one, is people using paper plates on a daily basis. Love your ideas!
Oh my, Benita, you’ve uncovered my secret obsession- scented candles. They can be quite pricey so I rarely burn them because once they are gone, so us the scent! So they sit in my hutch while, like you, I burn cheaper candles.
I know longer buy dressy clothes, batteries for a watch I never wear, Starbucks coffee and shoes with heels.
Haha, you should burn them if you enjoy them though!😉
Hmmm, things I no longer buy.. Nail polish, home decor, hair styling products, makeup, disposable straws, working on finding reusable alternatives for other disposable things, dryer sheets, coffee out,... I mean I think maybe there are enough things that I could make a video like this too! It won't be as beautifully filmed as yours, however. Your videos are inspiring to me on many levels! ❤️
Aww, thank you so much!
Thank you for the video Benita. For me the biggest impact was going paperless. I have all my favourite books in my reading apps. My business went fully digital, so no more papers or folders lying around. No more stationary. If feels really good.
I was nodding in agreement during your video when you spoke of embracing window shopping for “viewing enjoyment”, without the want to purchase. I’ve been moving more and more towards this mindset. It’s actually kind of freeing! Getting rid of things that are of no use to you makes sense, irrelevant of what other people do. If it’s not useful to you, someone else can enjoy it! 💜
Yes, exactly! Thank you!
While I am not a minimalist I do enjoy organizing and keeping spaces tidy and cozy. I enjoy your channel regardless 🌸🙂
I love tidy and cozy!🙌🏻
I feel the same way shopping. It can be overwhelming. Sometimes just nice to window shop and get ideas and use what I have!
So nice to just window shop!
We're almost 100% on the same page, Benita. :-) However, I've always been a jewelry freak and bought too much during the first year of the pandemic as "retail therapy" (the worst kind of therapy there is, IMO). Now I'm considering selling some pieces, even though I'll lose money. And I'm trying not to buy any more. But in general it does make me happyish. Thanks for the great video.
We each enjoy different things and if you love all your jewelry, that’s fine!
I just discovered your channel and I am enjoying it so much! Thank you for the inspiration. Just recently it has sunk in that I don't need to necessarily have multiples of belongings that I use and enjoy -(candleholders, dishes, books, clothing). I can just have one or few and that is enough. This has been very freeing.
Have one or few and that is enough 🙌🏻
First thing that came to mind.. Haircuts (service). I have an electric hair clippers I've been using for 10 years and with a scissors that's all I need to cut my hair. Buying something, in this case, actually made my life simpler. I don't buy shampoo, soap is enough to wash my head / shorter hair. I don't buy fast food, everything I eat comes from a weekly grocery store visit and weekly going out to eat for Sushi on Saturday with friends! I've a digital minimalist for 15+ years. Besides a nice PC setup and Nintendo Switch most my entertainment is digital or free, like day hiking with friends, so there is no need to buy gear.
Hello Benita! 😀 I love window shopping! Your video came at a perfect time - we have just switched over to wool dryer balls (waiting for them, and I'm excited to try)! I am not buying (or stocking up) on anything that I don't need right now, currently going through everything and using what I have and when something runs out, I am planning on trying something new! ❤ I do enjoy books ~ I think what I love the most is turning the page, lol. I love the feel of books and enjoy going to the library. I don't wear jewelry either - I have (3) pieces that were given to me, I have them, but only wear if I go out. I do have a collection of purses that I am working on slimming down - I really don't need all of them, just love purses and bags. To help curb some of my impulse buying, I have unsubscribed from emails that I have with shops and stores that I like - I think this has really helped me because I am a sucker when it comes to an great deal from an email offer. Enjoy your day, and as always I really enjoy your content. ❤💞❤
Unsubscribing is a great call! That way you won’t get tempted by things you don’t need🤓
Lovely to have another video from you 👍all thought provoking and I'm already doing some of the same. Recently switched to a glass nail file and love it! Wish I'd discovered it years ago. For me, it leaves my nails with a beautiful smooth finish, no ragged bits. Do persevere, it's worth it. Also, I never use scented candles now after discovering that some scents are toxic for pets (we have a Border Collie.) White candles look just as beautiful 😍 thanks for your inspiring videos and it's lovely to see you looking great 👍 xx
My glass file files really well but with short nails and a thicker file it's been a bit of an adjustment on angling it 😅
Hi Benita, I was never a big consumer, but I have a lot of beautiful and unique things purchased over the years on travels and inherited. So my resolution has been to use all the good things as often as I can, and to enjoy them. Using beautiful things makes me really happy, and I do not replace them once I have used them unless I feel the need. I wear my French perfume every day! I wear hand embroidered Pashminas from India as my everyday winter scarves. I am unable to use special occasion clothing all the time, but everything else I have that is beautiful and expensive and unique, I try to use as much as possible and enjoy.
Yes, always use your best! Don't ever "save it" 🙌🏻
Love my Very Irrestible by Givency!!! Long live perfume!
Checking out books from the library is a great way to read and not own additional books. I almost always find even recent titles at the library.
Enjoyed the video. It's so difficult to be a minimalist in the States. It's consume buy, buy, buy. It gets into your head, but I try to fight it. It's an uphill battle.
Do you know Becoming minimalist channel ? Joshua lives in the u.s. and his videos are really insightful and helpful.
Benita has great minimalist videos that’s how I discovered her. she inspired me and I gave myself one year to fully declutter.
I totally understand that we live under different circumstances. Keep fighting that urge to shop though and enjoy looking at things without feeling you need to have them.
Aww, I'm so happy to hear that!
Omg yes, a daily uphill battle. It’s so stressful.
Thank you for another inspiring video, Benita! When my son was a baby I thought cloth diapers were the way to go initially (didn't work out that way), but over the years I've kept purchasing them for their multi-use functions. They're especially nice for removing makeup or skincare products, and softer than washcloths. They're also good for dusting fragile items. Window shopping is delightful!
Love that you found a great use for them!
This video is so calming and your cat is so cute
Hello Benita, a tip for 'sharpening' your glass nail files... run them under cold water 😊
It’s always a good morning when there is a new video from you. I stopped buying scented candles or anything scented because it was irritating my sinuses. I stopped wearing perfume years ago for the same reason. All great tips. Thank you for another great video.
I'm wondering if I have an issue with my sinuses too since strong scents are increasingly bothering me 🤔
This video really gave me food for thought. I am a point of purchase shoppers, but from now on I’m going to change that habit into one of just window shopping. Thank you for this. I love your channel.
You are such an inspiration! I haven’t purchased paper towels or paper napkins in years. Bought cheap, white cotton napkins for cleaning and nicer, gray napkins for meals. No fabric softener or dryer sheets. Instead I use ZUM brand detergent when I want a little scent to my clothes (Patchouli, Sea Salt and Frankincense are incredible!) I have’t bought plastic (baggies) in over a year. We have beeswax wraps and a few silicone bags for on the go stuff. I have whittled my beauty/skincare items down to those that work, and have FINALLY stopped buying things to “try” them. My problem still is that if I like a clothing item, I will just continue to buy it. I love white linen shirts…so..I keep buying white linen shirts! I love GAP “Modern Fit” white/black t-shirts, and now own 12 (and find myself continuously looking at them online!) I keep trying to figure out where this “collectors mentality” comes from. Back before I even knew what minimalism or intentional living was, I owned 40 tulle skirts from Anthropologie, 80 pairs of high heeled mary jane pumps, 30 cashmere sweaters, and 50 eternity scarves! INSANE! I am at least aware of my predilection now, and try to steer myself away. I have a black velour dress from JJill I LOVE. What do I do on an almost daily basis? Scour ebay for the same dress in gray! Send help!🥸😅
Thank you so much for sharing!
Suspect, you would seem to have plenty of money or large debts. Spend your time doing something else - go and look at documentaries about how Foodbanks work and how poor folk live. Then use you time and energy to help them. They often got that way because they spent money as you do, without thinking that constant income could stop one day through accident, illness or some swindling swine. I'm not saying don't enjoy your hard earned cash as well but you did say to send help.......
@@lynnoorman2144 I have neither large sums, nor debt. I collect items from thrift stores, ebay or big sales over long periods of time. It’s the “collectors mentality” I’m referring to. Why, as humans, in the 21st century, do we still want to hunt and gather?
I started to make my own all purpose cleaning solution years ago. I only use warm water, dish soap, vinegar and 10 drops of essential oils. Works like a charm. I only use bleach on the toilet for obvious reasons but take special care with the quantity. You don’t need a huge amount for it to work as intended. Just a quick squirt, rub with the brush everything and let it sit and desinfect. Rinse after 10 minutes.
Thanks for sharing, that's great!
I love videos like this.
I don’t buy ornaments,they are just dust collectors.
I use bar soap and not shower gel in plastic bottles,no fabric softener or dryer sheets.
We have always bought secondhand furniture,only new mattresses and sofas.
I’m totally with you on the decor items!
Your cat is so adorable, what a sweetheart!
She's a little sweetie!😊
Once more loved watching the video. I just love the way you present it. ❤ to both you and ur 🐈.
Thank you so much!
I think your clothes are fantastic. Love the vintage items. I am really enjoying your videos. They are calm and peaceful and beautiful. Hello from Iowa in the US.
Thank you so much! My mom's jackets are pretty great!
Agreed the vintage jackets from her Mom are gorgeous
An inspiring video! I am learning to control my impulsive shopping habits and minimize my stocked stuff. Thanks a lot.
yess new video from Benita, my day is better!! PS i recently noticed the Muji cleaning system in one of your videos and i ordered it immediately, im so impatient for my package haha! looks so practical and has a beautiful design, so glad i saw it on your channel:)
Hope you like it!
I pretty much follow all the same non-purchasing habits. I do have jewelry from years ago but pretty much only wear my $10.00 watch from Target, two silver bracelets made for me by my cousin Rune, a few pairs of earrings and a necklace my husband gave me. Additionally, I don’t buy paper napkins as I use cloth ones. I am now a window shopper myself as I don’t see the need to spend money on decorative items. I enjoy seeing what’s new but enjoy even more using the items I have in new creative and different ways.
I love this "enjoy seeing what’s new but enjoy even more using the items I have in new creative and different ways" 🙌🏻
Good video Benita. I am slowly getting to the same point. I am not forcing myself to get rid of anything, it's happening naturally. I am not longer buying: (-) Paper towels for the kirtchen (+) kitchen fabric towels, (-) cotton for removing make up (+) mini fabric towels.
Watching your videos is always soothing for me. Thank you.
I don't buy scented candles. I only buy an ordinary candles which is more cheaper and will only use it incase on emergency or power outrage.
Yay! I've never bought any of these things and am also looking into prescription sunglasses. Snap! 😊
Sending greetings from Czechia! I love your videos, they are so inpiring and calm to me. I no longer buy a lot of disposable items - kitchen paper towels, woman pads, razors, diapers, straws etc. Instead of them I used clothe ones or metal ones ( in case of razors). We are building our house now by ourself, we will move there in few months so I started to deutter and minimize the all inventory in our rental apartment. But it is quite hard because of children staff.
How exciting with the new house!
Helpful video, Bonita. Hope your health continues to be strong. Happy day from California!
Glad you found it helpful!😊
I love reusable face rounds - I have several sets of bamboo ones and they are fabulous. I use them for cleaning my face at night, but sometimes also make cleansing and toning wipes for my teen with castile soap, witch hazel, and a few oils. Easy to do and we can adjust the solution to his needs if he's having more breakouts, etc.
We clean with vinegar and baking soda too. Always fun to find someone else who does this. :D
They're great, aren't they! I bought a set that was a bit too abrasive for my face once but it now lives in my kitchen!
@@BenitaLarsson That's perfect! 😃
Thanking you very much from Germany! You are quite inspirational and motivational! I no longer purchase: scented candles (I love the simple tealights), plastic kitchen items.. I use only glass, hobby supplies.. I have all I need for cooking and baking, cds/dvds/paid TV or movies, souvenirs, fast fashion. Please share the brand of dryer which you have! I am needing a new one!!! Thank you for all your guidance!
Love your list! My dryer was in my apartment when I moved in. It’s a Bosch, so a good brand but it’s old and started to leak a bit unfortunately.
@@BenitaLarsson oh yes Bosch is fantastic. Thank you for the information! Hope yours is fixed soon.
Hi Benita, your organisational skills and calmness are impressive. Love your lifestyle. Thank you.
It's years already that I'm not buying any magazines or books. There are all in library and it saved me a lot of money 🙂
I love the library so much!
Hi Benita, i found you just at the right time! Lockdown made me think about reducing the ‘stuff’ I own. I have started & believe your videos will be soooo inspiring to help me on this journey. The local charity shops are rubbing their hands with glee 😂❤❤
Yay to your decluttering journey!
same as you since i gave away 80% of all of my belongings i dont buy or own any of those things you mentioned anymore i also dont buy seasonal decoration 🙂🥰 life is much better with less stuff .....love from Athens Greece
Thank you for sharing the reusable makeup pads!! I will certainly be investing in these for my daughter and I!! Have a wonderful day!!
They work super well!
Benita, I really love your vids. I, in turn, have gone minimalist. I am also helping my daughters join. All a work in progress, and so freeing!
It is very freeing!🙌🏻
I have greatly simplified my life over the last few yrs. I am still not close to my end goals. Some of my “bad” habits I have broken, and will hopefully be able to at least lessen my remaining ones. I deal with chronic depression which sometimes slows me down for extended periods of time. But I have learned to simply pick myself up when I feel better and get back to work…..on my physical space as well as my mental/emotional space.
I no longer buy multiple magazines or books and have thinned out the number of books I had to a manageable number for me. I’ve mostly broken my habit of tv/online shopping. I no longer have 4 sets of dinnerware or multiple sets of sheets or blankets/throws. Progress has been slower than I’d hoped for. But that’s ok.
I’m trying to decide if I honestly want to get to a minimalistic level in my home. I suspect I’ll always want more stuff than a dedicated minimalist.
I’ve been flirting with the idea of a capsule wardrobe for quite some time but I don’t honestly think I want to go in that direction. Paring down the sheer amount of clothes I have will be more manageable for me to live with.
The changes I’ve made have made my life easier and more peaceful. I still like pretty things but they don’t own me any more. I no longer refer to myself as a Material Girl. 😁😁😁
Very inspiring! I think I may start culling stuff from my life. Extraneous stuff.
Always inspiring, Benita! I'm glad to see I do many things like you do! (no duplicates, just clothes I really use, neutral colours also) It was a huge difference in finances when I start to do my own cleaning produts (lemon, vinnegar, biocarbonate).I also use ecofriendly beauty produts: solid toothpaste, deodorant, shampoo and soap. I do body exfoliation with salt and essential oils. I do my own spray for home with fresh plants, like lavender but I use the same scent for the all house (I don't like to mix). In kitchen, I love to be minimal; I don't like to cook, recipes, and so. Like fresh food, no diaries, but still working to minimize sugar and coffee. And I really need to minimize boks. Still like to touch them, even if I do not use them anymore. It's a working process...;-)
I love your list!🙌🏻
Books are in a special category !!!
Thanks for the rec on Morning Brew. I’ve enjoyed it for weeks .
I love it too!
This was such a helpful and enjoyable video! Gave me lots to think about in terms of my own shopping.
I'm sitting here enjoying your video while a scented candle is on and, right before you mentioned scented candles, I was thinking the scent was too strong. I always thought tapered candles made a mess, but maybe they don't? Thanks for the video, Benita. Always a nice, relaxing time.
I think it depends on the candle. I usually get the stearin ones that don't run.
it's true the candles fill with dust, I try to follow your advice and I haven't bought clothes or shoes for two years because I don't need them, I love the choice of neutral colors. I don't buy newspapers anymore.Love you Benita ❤️
Aww, thank you so much!
Hello, there's something I can hardly stop buying...perfumed candle 😏😏😁and when you said Dyptique( I'm french) I laughed so much 🤦♀️🤣🤣 and my perfume "fahreneiht" (from Dior for men) that I had for first time when I was 19 and I'm 45 and I'll never change😏😉
Thank you,et bises à vous et aux chats 👍😘❤
To each their own!🙌🏻
And candles by Jo Malone
Your video popped up just in time to start my day right! 😀
Opposite ends of the world!
Thank you. Benita. Such an inspiring post. It is good to re-focus how we live and enjoy a simple life.
So glad you enjoyed it!
Love reading morning brew with my morning brew…
Một bài hát rất hoài niệm , nhớ những ngày bồng bột của tuổi trẻ, chút kỷ niệm của tình yêu, lời chia tay vội vàng đúng như cái bồng bột ấy. Đức Phúc cover lại bài hát này tâm trạng quá !
Thanks for the inspiration. I haven't used fabric softener for decades. I haven't replaced it and don't feel the need. Likely because I wear only natural fibres. I also stopped buying microfibre and polyester fabrics because they contribute to microplastics in the environment.
That’s great! I use a Guppyfriend laundry bag when I wash microfibers.
@@BenitaLarsson Those bags sound brilliant. I've heard you mention them, but I don't think they're well known in North America.
Congrats !!
I'm still in process of minimalism and your videos inspire me to go on. Greetings from Brazil
Thank you! Glad they inspire!
Love your list. It bugs me though that while I hit 90% of things on your list, I still can't consider myself a minimalist 😂
Really look forward to your videos. I’ve stopped buying jewellery as I have more than enough and you always seem to just wear your favourites anyway! I’ve also stopped buying books, instead I have them on my Kindle and iPad instead, much less clutter and dust catching!
Yes, we usually do wear the same all the time anyway, don't we?!
I don’t buy perfume also. As you said, if you have a shower and wash your hair with nice scents, what for? I will consider stop buying scented candles, because of the reason you gave.
Thank you for a great video Benita! I think these are all really practical and steps I will take too👍🏻
We have stopped using paper napkins and I am now also using cotton rounds as you do…it seems to work perfectly 😉less waste makes me feel better
Every little thing helps!🙌🏻
Hi 😊
I love your videos. Your house transmits tranquility.
Greetings from Mexico. 👋😘
Thank you so much!
I'm almost there except for clothes and books. I wear a lot of different colors that bring me joy and will keep doing that, and I failed my one-in-one-out book rule during Covid. But scented anything, cleaning chemicals, extras of anything, new jewelry etc - no interest.
I stopped buying hair gel, fancy patterned socks.dryer sheets, at the moment can't think of anything else. Have a blessed day Benita.✌🙏🤗💗☕🌻
Totally on board with those!
I almost agree with most of these… I never buy jewellery, fragrance, scented candles or decor.. but I have a slight addiction to books and accessories.. I always will get a new scarf or pair of mittens.
We all have things that are hard to resist!
Hello Benita,
I love your "minimal life" and I am too quite minimal but I cannot live without books ;-D
Them keep the books!😊
@@BenitaLarsson ahahah in the end I’ll have a library 🙂
Classic, stylish and smart..best choice for clothes , you can never go wrong with that
Exactly my thoughts on clothes!
Thanks for sharing Another great video! I really enjoy watching your videos, it’s so relaxing 😌
I don't buy make-up because I'm allergic to most make-up. So I also do not need any special make-up remover, etc. I try to combine products when I can (like olive oil soap that I can use on my face, body and as shampoo). I do like colorful tops (which I buy at a thrift store - but they are overstocks. I get them deeply discounted but they are new with tags). I own 3 pairs of jeans - so all of my tops go with every botton no matter the color. I don't color my hair or wear nail polish and I cut my own hair (my daughter trims my neck and checks that the back is even) I also do not get mani - pedi's.
I've given my jewelry away to my daughters and daughter-in-law. With the exception of a few fragrances (one my daughter gave to me for my birthday) - I no longer buy perfumes/colognes either.
Enjoyed learning new things and the simplicity of this video! =)
I have similar lifestyle to you and feel much more inspired!
Yes I dont buy any paper hand towel and less chemical for cleaning home like y basic is better. I use candle but with lid because of dust. Minimalist wardrobes and tidy up. Love your video's ❤ so many inspiration. More I'm aging less stuff I need around me. Just live simple as posible 😊
I agree so with you on needing less and less!
I use the library for books and audiobooks, fabric softener is vinegar, i make my own non paper wipes for the kitchen
That's a great list of things!
That was so enjoyable! I stopped buying air fresheners instead I make my own with water and few drops of lavender oil :)
Ooh I must be a minimalist too as I don’t buy most of the same as you! I now use an old fashioned metal razor instead of the disposable ones, and use everyday soap instead of shaving foam which seems to work just as well. I do use body lotion but actually find I enjoy coconut oil as a body moisturiser much more. I really don’t feel the need for lots of clothes and shoes anymore, I buy upgrades from eBay when I start to feel too tatty for work. And shoes can be re heeled fine. Xx
I have never bought hair conditioner or fabric sofener. I now never buy magazines or newspapers. I buy good quality clothes that I wear for years & years. I do buy jewellery
as I enjoy wearing it & will continue to buy books. Everything else I am cutting down on.
Reading is my main entertainment so that is where I spend money on used books. Other than necessities I am going to try and have "no spend" months.
I've never tried a no spend month! 🙌🏻
I’m with you on the books!
love you videos! thanks for all the advise and tips to a live a less cluttered life
Glad you like them!
I purchased a set of fabric napkins, flour sack towels, and fabric handkerchiefs - now I no longer buy facial tissues, paper napkins, and paper towels. It’s been over a decade and still going strong.
That is so great!
I love collecting free pots, china nd cutlery catalogs rather than buying the items itself. I love looking at them and if I get them it always ended collecting dust in my glass shelf.
We don’t buy kitchen papertowels and napkins. We use cotton napkins, dish cloths and teatowels instead, and have for about 5 years.
That’s so great!
So you don’t use bleach at all? I Really like that. How do you whiten the whites & remove stubborn bathroom spots please? Tiles, bathtub…
Never bleach. I use vinegar and bicarbonate to clean.
Your videos is so relaxing.
thank you. your video's are very calming and inspiring. i have to minimalize, even when doing that its still not minimal, but perfectly balanced so your video's help me. Here in an overcrowded Netherlands, minimalizing fits the culture since there's much pressure from the outside world. ;-)
I also "window shop for entertainment". Seeing the latest product releases in person helps me with decision making. No more heavy catalogues & magazines taking up space in my home.
"Enjoy pretty things without owning them" Ha! Same here. That's why I save images on my phone. I like making mood boards with all those images.
Fabric softener, I tried it for a month with a new washing machine & never again. Fragrance overload.
Jewellery, I just can't bear the weight of it on my skin. Found this out when I tried a gold chain necklace.
Another great list for others to maybe consider in their own journey to minimalism.
Thank you so much for sharing!
Wow i have never heard of a glass nail filer. 🤔 liked this vid...thankyou 😇
You give me such great ideas. Love your life💛