Why are women expected to be the mature adult in these relationships? Why can’t men govern themselves from acting like small children, and when they see a valuable woman, treat her as such? Why is that too much to ask? Why do we have to babysit a man’s behavior? Why can’t he do that???
He can unless it's the wrong he and there are a lot of wrong ones out there. I've learned to ask myself: Why would I tolerate this? What am I trying to get from this manboy that I can't give to myself or find in someone who's done the inner work like I have? Usually, I've allowed inexplicable, incongruent, hypocritical, disrespectful or disloyal behavior because I'm subconsciously trying to correct a relationship from childhood. When I recognize that was never my problem to fix because I was just a child and I can now meet my own needs or find safe people to meet them, there's no longer a perceived need for the manboy. Then, I'm free and he's stuck with himself.
I blame their Mother's for that! Seriously! Mothers teach their Sons how to treat women, and Fathers too, but a lot of Mothers coddle their Sons and let them act like fools when they're little, and grow up into bigger fools!
BEST line I've ever heard "God designed you to start reserving power whenever someone is draining you of yours" Thank you so much, I needed to hear this today. God Bless you.
Lord knows you are telling the truth. God truly has given you a gift of knowledge to help others. We all fall short and we’re not perfect. But that doesn’t take away the gift that God has placed within us. You don’t know how your messages have helped heal broken hearts❤
Wow, amazing content!! Yes as a woman we are so often trained to give even more even if it does not feel good. I am finally seeing through this and stopping it.
Thank You Derek ❤ Yess AMEN 🙏🏽 You have a Ton of Haters on the Tube Derek, but you are serving your Purpose! Your Personal life is “Personal” Thanks So Much for This Video! I’ll watch it a few times!
Amen thank you for the truth Thank you for helping the ones that try to help others.🙏💯% and are literally being took for granted this destroys precious Souls of God if they don't have strong faith.💯% destroys good Heart and souls in people.🙏💯% this is why I always tell anyone never give unless you are truly given from the heart so it won't destroy you when they show you no love back.🙏💯% know that you should only do this for the love of God giving him all the glory.🙏💯% not to give yourself the glory for the gift you've given from your heart for the heart of us is from God.🙏💯 may God always surround you with his precious Guardian Angels you and yours.🙏💯% All love and respect for speaking and teaching others in Jesus name amen.💯%💗🤍💗💯%
I, after time i pulled back n i know what i must do n its been long enough now i know my worth n my growth has been reality check in me, myself, and I bless u thank u keep doing truth
Exactly what I teach my daughter. I'm also kinda mean, he has to earn my ...... they get envious of me and I don't even have a degree. They think I'm on a high horse. I have a bad picker. All in all "I know my self worth (now) , It's going to take more than good sex for me. Spark my intellect. Without communication, we have NOTHING!
You are so correct!!! Once they slow down and pull back. Ungrateful persons get the boot. We are not doing nuthin if he has not contributed anything to value me. This has to stop!!! Walk out!! Value yourselves.
You're so right- and I like the analogy for power saving! Women often give and give and give without saving any of that energy for themselves. Self love, self respect and spiritual awareness are so important for healthy relationships. Thank you!
So true. This person drained me and then categorized me under a group of women that he will never support her or stated his standards have changed. He sure had access to several woman and playing games
I fail back because I felt I was used and he was one sided. When things went wrong and he wants me to do something and I questioned it. He said I was wrong and I was hard headed. So I came in out and told the truth about what was going on and I told him all you do is take take take. He said he was tied because I won't do right. That was the last text I got from him. That's the last text I left behind. Derrick I seen the red flags and didn't want to see and I stayed in the relationship for several years. Lesson learned.
Only mistake I made was i used to judge him unconsciously on mind level but I was someone very good person for everyone though I always tried to release unwanted negative thoughts about him but still got hurted.everyone has flaws but only the one who truly wants you will stick around .
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Why are women expected to be the mature adult in these relationships? Why can’t men govern themselves from acting like small children, and when they see a valuable woman, treat her as such? Why is that too much to ask? Why do we have to babysit a man’s behavior? Why can’t he do that???
He can unless it's the wrong he and there are a lot of wrong ones out there. I've learned to ask myself: Why would I tolerate this? What am I trying to get from this manboy that I can't give to myself or find in someone who's done the inner work like I have? Usually, I've allowed inexplicable, incongruent, hypocritical, disrespectful or disloyal behavior because I'm subconsciously trying to correct a relationship from childhood. When I recognize that was never my problem to fix because I was just a child and I can now meet my own needs or find safe people to meet them, there's no longer a perceived need for the manboy. Then, I'm free and he's stuck with himself.
@@steffiekensley8743exactly 💯
I blame their Mother's for that! Seriously! Mothers teach their Sons how to treat women, and Fathers too, but a lot of Mothers coddle their Sons and let them act like fools when they're little, and grow up into bigger fools!
The best decision I ever made was telling him that I’m no longer an option in Jesus’ mighty name, Amen! 🙌🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥
;D))) heeee , good
BEST line I've ever heard "God designed you to start reserving power whenever someone is draining you of yours" Thank you so much, I needed to hear this today. God Bless you.
If he can't grow with you, then you will grow away from him 😉
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Fact and vice versa
@@curtisdrummerellerbe9544 Right on buddy! 💜
Derrick you are spot on. I love your truthfulness
True
GOD warns us when enough is enough
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So true!
Facts
Yes! I withdrew for my peace of mind and to protect my heart ❤️! Thanks Derrick 😊 ♥️
Amen 💜
Facts
Put Christ first...without Christ, the relationship won't last...truth.
if we don't value our own time and energy , why would anybody else
True. I pull back and I am not playing games. I just can’t waste my time or my affections. You nailed it.
Yessss.
Lord knows you are telling the truth. God truly has given you a gift of knowledge to help others. We all fall short and we’re not perfect. But that doesn’t take away the gift that God has placed within us. You don’t know how your messages have helped heal broken hearts❤
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frfr😊
Definitely pull back to: evaluate the situation; gather my thoughts and feelings; and decide whether I back out or not.
Yessss so correct. If I feel off, if my intuition is alarming me about something I withdraw.
His last words were, "You didn't really love me anyway".
Manipulative!!
Emotional Blackmail
His last words were " I didn't love you from the get go"
I had to make a tough decision that broke my heart but fixed my vision...fall way back to like dissappear
Truth you tell ❤ safety is a priority and not just physical
Amen brorher 🙏🏻
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“Avoid that type of person to begin with”… 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 evolved men Do Exist!
Wow this the 100% truth
Thank you for this information
Protect your peace
Wow, amazing content!! Yes as a woman we are so often trained to give even more even if it does not feel good. I am finally seeing through this and stopping it.
I've watched several of his videos....They are Spot on!!! I don't know where he got his Training, but I highly recommend it to Single women!
GODS DESIGN FORSURE!! Usually once I feel unsafe my body physically won’t let me be physical w that person☝️☝️✔️‼️
God is not real stop lying to yourself
Thank You Derek ❤ Yess AMEN 🙏🏽
You have a Ton of Haters on the Tube Derek, but you are serving your Purpose!
Your Personal life is “Personal”
Thanks So Much for This Video! I’ll watch it a few times!
Right on - your timing is perfect.
Amen thank you for the truth Thank you for helping the ones that try to help others.🙏💯% and are literally being took for granted this destroys precious Souls of God if they don't have strong faith.💯% destroys good Heart and souls in people.🙏💯% this is why I always tell anyone never give unless you are truly given from the heart so it won't destroy you when they show you no love back.🙏💯% know that you should only do this for the love of God giving him all the glory.🙏💯% not to give yourself the glory for the gift you've given from your heart for the heart of us is from God.🙏💯 may God always surround you with his precious Guardian Angels you and yours.🙏💯% All love and respect for speaking and teaching others in Jesus name amen.💯%💗🤍💗💯%
I, after time i pulled back n i know what i must do n its been long enough now i know my worth n my growth has been reality check in me, myself, and I bless u thank u keep doing truth
Great message praise the lord Jesus blessed 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Exactly what I teach my daughter. I'm also kinda mean, he has to earn my ...... they get envious of me and I don't even have a degree. They think I'm on a high horse. I have a bad picker. All in all "I know my self worth (now) , It's going to take more than good sex for me. Spark my intellect. Without communication, we have NOTHING!
periodt!!!
Where were you all my life. . I wish you were my father .
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DON'T HAVE TIME TO WASTE!!!!
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Been through this I know exactly what you talking about 😌
💜4SHO!🥰
You are so right, wow!! God continue blessing you all the days of your life in Jesus Christ name amen.
Loving men to a fault‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ whew you on point💅
You are so correct!!! Once they slow down and pull back. Ungrateful persons get the boot. We are not doing nuthin if he has not contributed anything to value me. This has to stop!!! Walk out!! Value yourselves.
It’s not playing games, it’s respecting yourself.
You're so right- and I like the analogy for power saving! Women often give and give and give without saving any of that energy for themselves. Self love, self respect and spiritual awareness are so important for healthy relationships. Thank you!
I love & value Derrick's content my gosh.....! I can barely listen to this & sit still!!! This applies to people in general! 100%
So true. This person drained me and then categorized me under a group of women that he will never support her or stated his standards have changed. He sure had access to several woman and playing games
True Im that person I attract the wrong person
Derrick you are EVERYTHING for this video!!!! Thanks a million❤❤❤
He fine as hell 💔
Damn sure is😊😊😊
Being ungrateful make 🚶 😢 But I will not turn into a stone❤ 📖 the word...thanks Derek much love need conformation....
I needed this and leave them broken now so much 😢
Thank you for your wisdom, knowledge, and understanding ❤️
If Nothing Else I'm Matching Energy!
Yes,that's how I am feeling,and yes I pull back
OMG...you so on point. That's what's going on now!!! WOW
Yes‼
Thank you well spoken‼
GOD IS GREAT 🙏‼
Amen Derreck Im going through something like this now.
Me too queen
Perfect timing! Ty.
I fail back because I felt I was used and he was one sided. When things went wrong and he wants me to do something and I questioned it. He said I was wrong and I was hard headed. So I came in out and told the truth about what was going on and I told him all you do is take take take. He said he was tied because I won't do right. That was the last text I got from him. That's the last text I left behind.
Derrick I seen the red flags and didn't want to see and I stayed in the relationship for several years. Lesson learned.
All I can say is amen! This is truth inspired talk. Thank you
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So much truth!!!❤❤❤
So happy to have found this channel. Going into low power mode now
Only mistake I made was i used to judge him unconsciously on mind level but I was someone very good person for everyone though I always tried to release unwanted negative thoughts about him but still got hurted.everyone has flaws but only the one who truly wants you will stick around .
You are always 💯 right on! Thank youuuuu!
This applies so much to me and my 30 yr old daughter right now. Snh
Thank You❤
Absolute wisdom!
I approve this message!
Yes!! Once you start acting funny, I definitely back off. I won't be mentally and physically messed up.
Thank you Derrick you keep me going
Thank you for this
I definitely agree 💯💯💯 I. With draw back .from him
Thank you derrick for telling women what men are too p*ssy to say
True 👍🏾 it's like pouring water into a sieve...🤦🏽♀️
Amen
New lessons.
Thank the Lord.
Great point! 👍
Thank you for the message 🙏🏾 ☺️
He doesn’t text or call me but trying to holler at me in public…. I don’t get that. However I just walk pass…head straight.
More appreciated ❤
Oh being good for nothing or making them handicap......thank you.......I
Damn.....💎⚓️ Painstakingly True! 🤍
ReImagining Her!!! Thank you
Very true💯
I can apologize cuz I obviously feel I commented on da wrong post ...This is real true facts like 💯
Very True..... Blessing 🙏
Looking for a new love. Kick rocks
So True
Decrementos a gift 🙏🎯
TRUe both sides of the story. But love yourself let them chase you you don't chase anything but your 💰
Absolutely!
Damn Right❤❤❤👌
Wow this was great to hear. Thank you so much!!
Wise words..facts.. tks
I agree.
Your right on sure did
Love your message
Bravo 👏 big bro.old school 65
👁 u on point!!!! 🙌🏽💪🏾
This Is True.
This right here 👏🏿
True 👍
Thank you for this video!!!
I needed this......
Thank you!
Thank You
Real talk
Amen 💯
You shady but facts are facts! Thanks for the info
Thanks wow definitely needed to hear this message thank you very much insightful message...