Tati- I went through a VERY similar situation where I was accused of doing something I did not do and I won. It is very disheartening and upsetting that someone you knew and formed a bond with could do this to you. All I can say is stay strong and power through - you will prevail and come out the other side stronger. Although you could have lived without going through this - You will be ok.
Yeah, I just can’t wrap my head around how any of this is allowed. By the fourth time he sued her, that judge should have been like “sir, leave this poor woman alone! And go on with your damn life“ (also, I know it was four different states, so the judge wasn’t the same judge for all four. But, you would think he would still be able to see all of the previous lawsuits he filed against her.)
It’s always fascinated me (as someone who isn’t from the US) how there are multiple different laws & regulations (including lawsuits) in different states despite them being part of the same country - especially when it comes from one person. I can’t imagine how stressful one lawsuit is let alone multiple! Sending my love to you Tati 🤍
Each state has their own state laws because that sovereign state is trying to meet the needs of their state as best they can. And that is different for Maine, Missouri, Arizona, and Alaska. Each state is an independent entity subject only to the basic requirements of the U.S. Constitution
Imagine someone who hates you to death and yet watches every single video you post, hears every single word you say, follows you wherever go and move… this person should get an award for being your most dedicated follower. It’s an addicted obsession. They go to sleep every night just thinking of you, crying about what you’re saying or doing… Mental illness. Tell me that this person is a narcissist psychopath without telling me. These are the kind of people that accomplish nothing in their life except by leeching from other people’s success. You’ll beat this, mama! God is on your side!
Hi Tati, Good Luck tomorrow and the advice I give from a court reporting firm side. Listen to the question if you're not sure don't be afraid to ask them to repeat or rephrase especially if you don't understand it. Wait for them to finish asking their question before you responds the worst thing on a court reporter is when people talk over one another and you can't understand what they're saying because they're talking over one another. Especially if you have a fast speaking attorney that is just firing questions left and right and it's boggling the mind because you're trying to comprehend what they're saying but they're speaking so fast If you don't know your responses don't be afraid to say I don't remember I don't recall or I don't know. Don't be afraid to ask for a break if it gets to be overwhelming. There's nothing wrong with asking for a break for you to go to the washroom or to get a drink of water to just give yourself a moment to take a deep breath and try and calm down. Sometimes there are female attorneys there too. Hopefully you have an excellent attorney yourself that will have prepared you and prepped you for all this and giving you a sense of peace and not to feel so stressed about it virtual hugs 🤗 and prayers 🙏 to you.
Also answer the question that's being asked. For example, if they ask, "do you know what time it is?" Don't say, "yes it's x time." Say, "yes." Keep your answers short and straight to the point.
@@aliciahicks8020I think there might be if the majority of their claims get thrown out and there is a pattern of behavior. I’d say this is how rich people make each other suffer. I know it’s not cheap to sue someone
I’ve been there. For a medical malpractice case that cost me my fertility. To go through infertility AND then a court case on top of it is re-traumatizing. I don’t see how people sue “just because” I remember my deposition day. It was terrified waiting for that day. People who haven’t been there don’t understand the cloud that just looms over you constantly. Scared to check the mail or emails just because receiving letters and notices or calls from attorneys are so triggering. I feel for you. but I’m here to tell you nothing feels better than that first freeing breath when it’s all over.
I was taken back to court by my daughter's dad in July. The lead up is just as exhausting with the anxiety that builds. Also, having any small mishap or decision you've made be scrutinized and questioned is really hard. I fully understand how you're feeling. Praying for you. He will get you through this
Good luck Tati! To answer your question, to relax, I do paint by numbers! I can completely decompress and be with myself. I’m very specific on the kits I do, so I always get the Artist’s Loft paint by number from Michaels! I’m not very artsy, so to have a canvas already lined for me is perfect. Highly recommend! ❤
No one asked but... this kind of stress is exactly what Family Court felt like for me. I left an abusive relationship and he dragged me through countless invalid motions just to exhaust me financially and emotionally when I was already raising our daughter alone. 5 years later, the trial finally ended in my favor and I have some peace. Just an "I see you moms being treated unfairly and it will get better" ❤
I’m just so impressed with how calm and collected you are, despite everything, you still carry on as your normal, fun, inspiring self. I hope all goes well so you can put it behind you. Now you just have more evidence of how strong and resilient you are.
Tati I so hope that February comes & goes so fast for you! I always wish you the best and I’m so happy this is ALMOST finally done!! You deserve to move on with your life and not have this constantly hanging on your back. Much love and best wishes for everything to end in your favor ❤
I’m not an attorney or pretend to be one. You seem to be being “stalked” through the legal system. With three frivolous lawsuits already dismissed, one would think that sets a precedent for recourse to put and end to this nonsense. I’m sorry this is happening to you, sending positive vibes.
Praying for a hedge of protection around you, Tati. It is so difficult to trust that the universe will take care of things, especially when one person is basically tanking himself trying to go after you. Don't pay his legal fees, because THAT is probably coming, if it hasn't. He is acting like a crazed gangster. Praying for strength and patience 100 miles long ❤
Hi Tati, I’m an attorney in Dallas and a long-time viewer who loves you and all of your content ❤. I’m so sorry you’re going through this traumatic experience. Even as a lawyer, getting sued personally, especially by a former friend and business partner, would be terrible and overwhelming for anyone to experience, and I’m inspired by how classily you’ve chosen to overcome the experience to the best anyone could by refusing to let it eat away at your positive spirit and embitter you. I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts. To your question in the video, unfortunately (and I have to note that this is just informal advice to a friend and not the professional advice of my firm, sorry to have to point that out), I do recommend that you tone down the makeup for court and the depo and avoid glitter 😊Impressions are a part of the strategy and you don’t want to give off the air that you aren’t taking the events seriously. You want to let the court know how much of a toll these events have taken on you personally and professionally, which is still authentic, although maybe a side you’re more uncomfortable showing to the other side. Although I know you are trying your best to rise above it all, you don’t want to come off as defiant or cold to the adjudicators by glamming it up too much in the courtroom, who you’re trying to get on your side! I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you!
This was weird advice. Are you really an attorney? 😆 That seems like such ridiculous, and immature advice, to give someone about court appearances. Most people, with common sense, know not to go into court wearing glitter. But, actually, Tati never wears an offensive amount of glitter, even in her glam styles. Compared to many makeup artists on TH-cam, Tati has a very natural, neutral esthetic. I’m 99% sure Tati goes into a courtroom wearing a nice business suit, probably a slick back hairstyle, or soft blowout hairstyle, and a neutral makeup. I mean, LOOK at her style….does she look like she’d wear glitter into a courtroom? 🙄 How insulting to her.
@@EnvyBluif you watch the video to the end, Tati asks if she should wear glitter to depo & if it would make her look less serious. So this is why this advice was given…
Tati, I still have your eyeshadow palette and I'm never tossing it no matter what! I look forward to your videos every week (5 years now) and I am grateful for every video you upload. Stay strong and everything happens for a reason hugs!
A massive clear-out of things tied to the issue always helps calm me, because it feels like I am already starting to get rid of it before I actually am doing the thing if that makes sense
You filling in your brows with the spa music playing was actually so relaxing and peaceful... the perfect mood to set if you're feeling stressed and anxious. I really hope you can leave all this legal stuff behind you soon!
The very fact that a man who has been incredibly inappropriate, and has caused you so much trauma, both personally and professionally, has been allowed to initiate so many frivolous lawsuits is astonishing. You will be in my thoughts and prayers Tati. Hopefully you and James can finally be rid of that man and his entire despicable family once and for all!
Whenever I am overwhelmed or stressed, I like to listen to contemporary Christian music. It’s always uplifting and really feeds my soul. Helps me to trust in the one in control! Christ! Sending you prayers of love, strength, and courage!!👍😘 You got this!!
The SAME person suing someone in 4 different states shows that persons state of mind isn’t stable and hopefully the judges see that. This sounds like an angry person on a cash grab and I’m sending prayers your way ❤
Hi Tati, I’ve been a subscriber of yours for a few years and have watched you go through all the ups and downs of person stories that you have been willing to share. And this video just really hit a cord for me. What you’re describing is almost exactly what happened to my brother and his wife. Long story short they went into business with a long time good friend and before the business even opened they had a huge falling out and the other party did some shady things and eventually sued my brother, criminally and also civilly. It has been going on for over a year and finally the criminal case against my brother was dropped. And what a relief and vindication he felt when it did! But I have been watching him and his family go through this whole ordeal and have witness how debilitating, anxiety driven, stressful, and worst of all hurt by a person they thought were their friend. He’s still dealing with it because there’s been more than one lawsuit. But no matter what happens at the end I know this will always haunt him because he lost a friend in the process. I wish you the best outcome in this and hope you could move on and have peace when this is all over. Sending prayers and love your way!
Good luck, Tati & James! Just be calm and answer honestly. Don’t sugar coat. It feels very invasive, but they really do need to know all of the nitty gritty. It’s better to put it all out on the table than have regrets about not mentioning something. Be consistent and confident. You got this! 💕
Warm bath with LOTS of epsom salts, like 2+ CUPS, depending on the size of the tub, and play worship music, it will shift your focus and relax your whole body, soul, and spirit. Praying for you, girl! 💜✝️💜
I've stumbled on your video, and felt compassion for you. Hang on, be courageous, keep your head up and move forward. This too shall pass and whatever the outcome, you will go through the season and look at it from the rearview mirror. Sending you much love and support💙
I am soooo sorry that you are going through this BULL....I'm always amazed that cruel people can get away with so much!! I am sending you much love, confidence, power, health and a better outcome them you imagined!!!
I got fired illegally and started litigation before I got fired. 2 meetings and 5 emails = $5k. Still got fired and switched to a no win no fee situation. However, I've never been through anything more expensive and stressful. We are going to negotiations end of October and if we can't reach an agreement we will be going to court. So incredibly frustrating, litigation is the never ending story..... Hope you come to a positive conclusion soon xxx
Heartbroken for you Tati. This must be unimaginably hard. I hope that you making this video doesn’t encourage this person to keep attacking you just to keep you down. I understand your need at this time though to speak your truth. Wishing you all the best, and most of all, peace. ❤
I’m so sorry you are going through this. The legal process was a huge source of trauma for me. People use the courts to abuse others. It’s ridiculous. I will send prayers your way. ❤
For relaxing/unwinding, I absolutely love kayaking! Any sort of exercise really, but there's something about being out in nature on the water t that's so calming. PS I don't think it would be wrong/bad to wear glitter to court! As you said, you should be your authentic self and do what makes you feel most confident.
Hiking! Idk why but when I'm stress even a short walk in the woods is amazingly helpful. I'll even sit on the ground and pray/meditate. Being near water helps too! I wish you the best of luck. Karhma is really. All things will work out the way they're supposed to ❤
I'm so sorry you are going through all of this! Praying for you and sending so much love! I am also learning to let go of the feelings I shouldn't have. It only hurts me not them.
I've been there. It's not a picnic. I'm not religious, but I am spiritual. I meditated and journaled daily. I found that writing 10 things I'm grateful for every day made me realize that no matter what, there are always people who are in worse situations. Some days, I was grateful that the day was over but I did write consistently and I swear it helped. I'm sending positive thoughts your way.
When I have a nerve wrecking event, I watch Tati videos. Seriously! You got me through a divorce and many life changing events. I can always escape for a bit watching your videos. ❤
When I’m stressed out I go to the sauna/steam room and get all the toxicity out. I feel like a new person, it won’t take my problems away but I’ll be glowing ❤😂
We are with you Tati. Still can’t believe this happened to you and it’s been so long. However, I am sure things are moving forward in a positive direction 👌
I hope this is the beginning of a quick end...no one should have to live with this level of stress for so long. X Love the upload and fingers crossed all goes well in LV! ❤
I was disposed a couple of months ago. It was terrifying before hand. Once I got through it, I realized that it wasn’t as bad as I thought. I felt better once it was over. Yes, they can ask you uncomfortable questions but keep in mind they are just looking to see if you are a person who is trustworthy and if a jury would like you or not. They are trying to also catch inconsistencies in your story. Just tell your side of the story. If you need a break to breathe, ask for it after you answer their question. There are ton of videos here that guide you with depositions. That also helped me loads. As far as glitter eye, that may be over the top. I would honestly dress as sophisticated as possible. Like I mentioned before, they are also looking to see how the jury would see you. Keep your head up! Dont let this affect you, remember that stress causes havoc in your health.( highly suggest you read the Body Keeps Score) ❤
You got this tati!!!! When I get stressed I use mantras... simple sayings I can say over and over in my head or out loud to remind myself that I'm ok. Things like "I am safe in the place I am in" or "this too will pass"
I'm soooo sorry you've been through sooo much and also was elated to see that 3 of your old lawsuits were dismissed...YAY. Sending you GOOD VIBES AND IT'S GOING TO GO GREAT AND IN YOUR FAVOR! Hugs from NYC
When I'm super stressed out, I go to the Korean Spa for the day. Relaxing in the tubs and getting a scrub is so satisfying. Especially if you can go with a couple of friends. ☺ They have them in Dallas, and I've heard the King's spa is good from my friends up there. I'm so happy you are getting some closure. I hope that person has time to reflect and realize how wrong he/she has been and that they decide "no more". Lots of love to you, Tati! 🥰💙 And glitter is ALWAYS appropriate! 😊
i totally understand, though it was a different reason but i was stuck for 5 years just battling to court related to my late husbands wrongful death and covid pushed it 2 years as well, just living with anxiety for 5 years was not fun and i could not grieve properly, it was like swimming in the ocean with brick tied to both your feet and just struggling to keep my head above water. On the positive note, after i got through it i feel like i have been the strongest person i have ever been, emotionally and mentally... so I hope you get through it.
Tati, I'm sending you love, light and strength. I'm sorry you have to go through this, and I hope it goes as smoothly as possible for you. I also hope you can find a way to compartmentalise your experience of this a bit and create space to enjoy your life alongside the difficulties. Good luck!
I have bought coloring books and a big travel set of markers and when I get anxious I color. It required me to focus and helps a lot. It’s also creative and offers some instant gratification.
Thanks for sharing what's going on in your life right now. I'm praying for a good outcome for you in Nevada. I crochet to relax when something is really stressing me out. I made an entire new sweater leading up to, and after my 6th brain surgery 4 weeks ago. Surgery is always really stressful, and since there's a chance of a brain bleed and stroke, I get really emotionally unhinged. While I was stressed out pre-surgery, and while I was recovering, I crocheted constantly. Keeping my hands busy really helps.
Ok so I am rewatching the second half of this because the spa music when you were doing your brows put me to sleep in THE BEST way. I got such a good night sleep last night and I swear it was from falling asleep to your video with the spa music hahaha
How to alleviate stress: meditate on how thankful you are, give love and compassion to those who are lost, and be even more thankful that you aren't lost too. Yes! Wear the glitter!
Not going to comment on the drama. I'm here to say you're looking so beautiful with less filler and botox. Let's make our natural faces the norm again!❤
I’m 62 years old…. I wear glitter everyday! Going out, staying home…..everyday! It makes me happy ❤ praying for your deposition, been there, it will be all good!
With traumatic court dates unfortunately I have a lot of experience. And I’ll say that what got me through was constant worship music and fasting. Fasting just brings alignment with Gods voice and so much peace into our lives. Praying for you, Tati!
@kattenaj27 *TATI BEAUTY® closed up shop two years ago.* Had @MollyBurkeOfficial acquired the eyeshadow palette, she'd regard it as the most accessible palette to date.
Tati, just came on here to tell you how much EMDR therapy has helped me with anxiety. DUring stressful moments I take a second to practice what i learned during EMDR and it helps a lot--the technique is called Tapping and grounding. Highly recommend it. Good luck and praying for you. The Lord will defend you.
Thank you Tati for sharing your stressful time with us... My life has been extremely stressful the last 3 years too...I have tears in my eyes as I watch your video and type this... You're an inspiration to me right now... Love you! XO 😘
To relax when I’m stressed I go for a run, spend time in nature, a lot of self care, get a pedicure or window shop… I need to spend time by myself doing things I love and just be in the moment ❤
I have been waiting 4 years to get both my hips replaced,,I have had one done but waiting on the right side.what worries me is how much longer do I have to wait my life has been on hold for 4 years as I can not walk,I have put on loads of weight like 6 stone my life is a living hell. I love you though and you do not deserve all this crap that is going on with you you are an amazing woman and so nice and kind xxx
I was in Vegas in May 2023 and I highly recommend the Escape Game on the top floor of the Forum Shops at Caesars. We did The Heist and the submarine one. Such quality and SO FUN!
This is called Litigation Abuse at this point I would try filing some kind of restraining order or try to figure out how to tell the courts about how your being abused through litigation !
First off, buffets are bomb 😂❤ and second, godspeed and good luck on the trial. You deserve the world, sis, I've been a fan since maybe 2016, so I've seen everything evolve and devolve. Hang in there, you got this. 🎉❤
Tati- I went through a VERY similar situation where I was accused of doing something I did not do and I won. It is very disheartening and upsetting that someone you knew and formed a bond with could do this to you. All I can say is stay strong and power through - you will prevail and come out the other side stronger. Although you could have lived without going through this - You will be ok.
I am so relieved to hear you won! thank goodness xx
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I don’t understand how, suing someone over and over isn’t considered friggin harassment?!
Exactly what I was thinking!!!
Seriously intimidation tactics
Right?! There has to be something that a judge can rule, where the same ding dong can't sue you in every state.
Who was suing her?
Yeah, I just can’t wrap my head around how any of this is allowed. By the fourth time he sued her, that judge should have been like “sir, leave this poor woman alone! And go on with your damn life“ (also, I know it was four different states, so the judge wasn’t the same judge for all four. But, you would think he would still be able to see all of the previous lawsuits he filed against her.)
It’s always fascinated me (as someone who isn’t from the US) how there are multiple different laws & regulations (including lawsuits) in different states despite them being part of the same country - especially when it comes from one person. I can’t imagine how stressful one lawsuit is let alone multiple! Sending my love to you Tati 🤍
Australia? Are we both Australian?
Each state has their own state laws because that sovereign state is trying to meet the needs of their state as best they can. And that is different for Maine, Missouri, Arizona, and Alaska. Each state is an independent entity subject only to the basic requirements of the U.S. Constitution
@@tikik1583but some laws need to be uniformed across the entire country.
@@tikik1583Great explanation. 👏🏻
Imagine someone who hates you to death and yet watches every single video you post, hears every single word you say, follows you wherever go and move… this person should get an award for being your most dedicated follower. It’s an addicted obsession. They go to sleep every night just thinking of you, crying about what you’re saying or doing… Mental illness. Tell me that this person is a narcissist psychopath without telling me. These are the kind of people that accomplish nothing in their life except by leeching from other people’s success. You’ll beat this, mama! God is on your side!
Hi Tati, Good Luck tomorrow and the advice I give from a court reporting firm side. Listen to the question if you're not sure don't be afraid to ask them to repeat or rephrase especially if you don't understand it. Wait for them to finish asking their question before you responds the worst thing on a court reporter is when people talk over one another and you can't understand what they're saying because they're talking over one another. Especially if you have a fast speaking attorney that is just firing questions left and right and it's boggling the mind because you're trying to comprehend what they're saying but they're speaking so fast
If you don't know your responses don't be afraid to say I don't remember I don't recall or I don't know. Don't be afraid to ask for a break if it gets to be overwhelming. There's nothing wrong with asking for a break for you to go to the washroom or to get a drink of water to just give yourself a moment to take a deep breath and try and calm down. Sometimes there are female attorneys there too. Hopefully you have an excellent attorney yourself that will have prepared you and prepped you for all this and giving you a sense of peace and not to feel so stressed about it virtual hugs 🤗 and prayers 🙏 to you.
That was excellent advice 😊
Also answer the question that's being asked. For example, if they ask, "do you know what time it is?" Don't say, "yes it's x time." Say, "yes." Keep your answers short and straight to the point.
If someone's dragging you all over the country... can you counter sue for harassment and damages?
Yes you can ;)
@@aliciahicks8020y ... 3 years of harrassed
I think the best thing, if at all possible, is to ignore them. Of course, you MUST answer litigation. Therein lies their "power." Sick.
@@aliciahicks8020I think there might be if the majority of their claims get thrown out and there is a pattern of behavior. I’d say this is how rich people make each other suffer. I know it’s not cheap to sue someone
I know someone who was labeled a vexatious litigant in CA. I wonder if there's a federal version of that because he's filing in different states.
I’ve been there. For a medical malpractice case that cost me my fertility. To go through infertility AND then a court case on top of it is re-traumatizing. I don’t see how people sue “just because” I remember my deposition day. It was terrified waiting for that day. People who haven’t been there don’t understand the cloud that just looms over you constantly. Scared to check the mail or emails just because receiving letters and notices or calls from attorneys are so triggering. I feel for you. but I’m here to tell you nothing feels better than that first freeing breath when it’s all over.
I was taken back to court by my daughter's dad in July. The lead up is just as exhausting with the anxiety that builds. Also, having any small mishap or decision you've made be scrutinized and questioned is really hard. I fully understand how you're feeling. Praying for you. He will get you through this
Good luck Tati! To answer your question, to relax, I do paint by numbers! I can completely decompress and be with myself. I’m very specific on the kits I do, so I always get the Artist’s Loft paint by number from Michaels! I’m not very artsy, so to have a canvas already lined for me is perfect. Highly recommend! ❤
This sounds fun! I’m gonna look into this at my local Michael’s. Thanks!
No one asked but... this kind of stress is exactly what Family Court felt like for me. I left an abusive relationship and he dragged me through countless invalid motions just to exhaust me financially and emotionally when I was already raising our daughter alone. 5 years later, the trial finally ended in my favor and I have some peace. Just an "I see you moms being treated unfairly and it will get better" ❤
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I’m sorry you went through all that! I’m glad you have now found your peace and it’ll go up from here babe!
Sad to say I can totally relate!! I hope things have settled for you and you have found peace!
I’m so sorry! That sounds awful. 😢
I’m just so impressed with how calm and collected you are, despite everything, you still carry on as your normal, fun, inspiring self. I hope all goes well so you can put it behind you. Now you just have more evidence of how strong and resilient you are.
Tati I so hope that February comes & goes so fast for you! I always wish you the best and I’m so happy this is ALMOST finally done!! You deserve to move on with your life and not have this constantly hanging on your back. Much love and best wishes for everything to end in your favor ❤
Been watching you since I was 16! Now I’m 23! You’ve always been so positive and beautiful 💜 you deserve all the greatness in the world! 🍓💜
I started when I was 16 but stopped watching a few years ago because I didn't go on TH-cam a lot and here I am. 23 as well ☺️
I’m not an attorney or pretend to be one. You seem to be being “stalked” through the legal system. With three frivolous lawsuits already dismissed, one would think that sets a precedent for recourse to put and end to this nonsense. I’m sorry this is happening to you, sending positive vibes.
Praying for a hedge of protection around you, Tati. It is so difficult to trust that the universe will take care of things, especially when one person is basically tanking himself trying to go after you. Don't pay his legal fees, because THAT is probably coming, if it hasn't. He is acting like a crazed gangster. Praying for strength and patience 100 miles long ❤
Hi Tati, I’m an attorney in Dallas and a long-time viewer who loves you and all of your content ❤. I’m so sorry you’re going through this traumatic experience. Even as a lawyer, getting sued personally, especially by a former friend and business partner, would be terrible and overwhelming for anyone to experience, and I’m inspired by how classily you’ve chosen to overcome the experience to the best anyone could by refusing to let it eat away at your positive spirit and embitter you. I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts.
To your question in the video, unfortunately (and I have to note that this is just informal advice to a friend and not the professional advice of my firm, sorry to have to point that out), I do recommend that you tone down the makeup for court and the depo and avoid glitter 😊Impressions are a part of the strategy and you don’t want to give off the air that you aren’t taking the events seriously. You want to let the court know how much of a toll these events have taken on you personally and professionally, which is still authentic, although maybe a side you’re more uncomfortable showing to the other side. Although I know you are trying your best to rise above it all, you don’t want to come off as defiant or cold to the adjudicators by glamming it up too much in the courtroom, who you’re trying to get on your side! I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you!
This was weird advice. Are you really an attorney? 😆 That seems like such ridiculous, and immature advice, to give someone about court appearances. Most people, with common sense, know not to go into court wearing glitter. But, actually, Tati never wears an offensive amount of glitter, even in her glam styles. Compared to many makeup artists on TH-cam, Tati has a very natural, neutral esthetic. I’m 99% sure Tati goes into a courtroom wearing a nice business suit, probably a slick back hairstyle, or soft blowout hairstyle, and a neutral makeup. I mean, LOOK at her style….does she look like she’d wear glitter into a courtroom? 🙄 How insulting to her.
@@EnvyBluif you watch the video to the end, Tati asks if she should wear glitter to depo & if it would make her look less serious. So this is why this advice was given…
I would bust out the Tati palette for court. ❤❤❤
@@katelyndodge9634because she has no common sense😂
@@EnvyBluwhat’s weird about it? 🤔
Tati, I still have your eyeshadow palette and I'm never tossing it no matter what! I look forward to your videos every week (5 years now) and I am grateful for every video you upload. Stay strong and everything happens for a reason hugs!
I cherish that palette!! LOL It's the best! ♥
@@Lisa-re9opi’m so jealous of everyone who has a Tati palette 😭🫶🏻 truly a piece of history lol
Such a special palette! My daughter in law gifted it to me for Xmas the year it was released and I was thrilled!
When someone sues you over and over and they continually lose...they shoud be forced to pay your attorney bills PLUS other costs. Its unbelievable.
A massive clear-out of things tied to the issue always helps calm me, because it feels like I am already starting to get rid of it before I actually am doing the thing if that makes sense
You filling in your brows with the spa music playing was actually so relaxing and peaceful... the perfect mood to set if you're feeling stressed and anxious. I really hope you can leave all this legal stuff behind you soon!
The very fact that a man who has been incredibly inappropriate, and has caused you so much trauma, both personally and professionally, has been allowed to initiate so many frivolous lawsuits is astonishing. You will be in my thoughts and prayers Tati. Hopefully you and James can finally be rid of that man and his entire despicable family once and for all!
Agreed. Very well put!
Exactly! It is absolutely astonishing! 🤯
Who is it?
@@mikaf8516 her former business partner
Whenever I am overwhelmed or stressed, I like to listen to contemporary Christian music. It’s always uplifting and really feeds my soul. Helps me to trust in the one in control! Christ! Sending you prayers of love, strength, and courage!!👍😘 You got this!!
You’re handling everything so gracefully ❤ praying for you guys
The SAME person suing someone in 4 different states shows that persons state of mind isn’t stable and hopefully the judges see that. This sounds like an angry person on a cash grab and I’m sending prayers your way ❤
YES. He's so unstable and he's also attracted to minors. Something seriously wrong with him
Who is it?
@@almadanielleguerrero8449Jaime Carlos o Geofredo Estrella
Hi Tati, I’ve been a subscriber of yours for a few years and have watched you go through all the ups and downs of person stories that you have been willing to share. And this video just really hit a cord for me. What you’re describing is almost exactly what happened to my brother and his wife. Long story short they went into business with a long time good friend and before the business even opened they had a huge falling out and the other party did some shady things and eventually sued my brother, criminally and also civilly. It has been going on for over a year and finally the criminal case against my brother was dropped. And what a relief and vindication he felt when it did! But I have been watching him and his family go through this whole ordeal and have witness how debilitating, anxiety driven, stressful, and worst of all hurt by a person they thought were their friend. He’s still dealing with it because there’s been more than one lawsuit. But no matter what happens at the end I know this will always haunt him because he lost a friend in the process. I wish you the best outcome in this and hope you could move on and have peace when this is all over. Sending prayers and love your way!
Let it out, Tati! We got you!
You know when Tati is in a boss mood, because she always wears the Van Cleef earrings!!❤
Ok super fan! 👏 I see you ❤
And those Van Cleef bracelets OMG I really love them!!
And a chocolate toned sweater. ❤️
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Good luck, Tati & James! Just be calm and answer honestly. Don’t sugar coat. It feels very invasive, but they really do need to know all of the nitty gritty. It’s better to put it all out on the table than have regrets about not mentioning something. Be consistent and confident. You got this! 💕
Warm bath with LOTS of epsom salts, like 2+ CUPS, depending on the size of the tub, and play worship music, it will shift your focus and relax your whole body, soul, and spirit. Praying for you, girl! 💜✝️💜
I've stumbled on your video, and felt compassion for you. Hang on, be courageous, keep your head up and move forward. This too shall pass and whatever the outcome, you will go through the season and look at it from the rearview mirror. Sending you much love and support💙
Philippians 4:6 “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be known to God.”
Praying for you and James, Tati. Stay strong ❤
I am soooo sorry that you are going through this BULL....I'm always amazed that cruel people can get away with so much!! I am sending you much love, confidence, power, health and a better outcome them you imagined!!!
You look good with or without makeup,,, beauty is within … remember honesty speaks for itself 🌹❤️
I love this comment, very beautifully written ❤
I got fired illegally and started litigation before I got fired. 2 meetings and 5 emails = $5k.
Still got fired and switched to a no win no fee situation.
However, I've never been through anything more expensive and stressful.
We are going to negotiations end of October and if we can't reach an agreement we will be going to court.
So incredibly frustrating, litigation is the never ending story.....
Hope you come to a positive conclusion soon xxx
I’m so happy u got rid of all the demonic people from your life , God has got you trust him ❤❤❤❤❤😊
Lol 😂 right
Heartbroken for you Tati. This must be unimaginably hard. I hope that you making this video doesn’t encourage this person to keep attacking you just to keep you down. I understand your need at this time though to speak your truth. Wishing you all the best, and most of all, peace. ❤
Best of luck Tati, not that you need it but know that so many people are behind you and support you!
I’m so sorry you are going through this. The legal process was a huge source of trauma for me. People use the courts to abuse others. It’s ridiculous. I will send prayers your way. ❤
For relaxing/unwinding, I absolutely love kayaking! Any sort of exercise really, but there's something about being out in nature on the water t that's so calming.
PS I don't think it would be wrong/bad to wear glitter to court! As you said, you should be your authentic self and do what makes you feel most confident.
It will be ok Tati❤! Justice will be served ❤
Sending prayers for things to get better . I think you are amazing ❤️
I empathize deeply with you Tati, I totally wish the best to you with your pending legal situation(s).
Hiking! Idk why but when I'm stress even a short walk in the woods is amazingly helpful. I'll even sit on the ground and pray/meditate. Being near water helps too! I wish you the best of luck. Karhma is really. All things will work out the way they're supposed to ❤
I'm so sorry you are going through all of this! Praying for you and sending so much love! I am also learning to let go of the feelings I shouldn't have. It only hurts me not them.
You can do it Tati! Best wishes xx
So sorry to hear you’re still going through all this mess. 😢 Praying for you.
YOU GOT THIS! Best of luck Tati! 🙏🩷💜
I've been there. It's not a picnic. I'm not religious, but I am spiritual. I meditated and journaled daily. I found that writing 10 things I'm grateful for every day made me realize that no matter what, there are always people who are in worse situations. Some days, I was grateful that the day was over but I did write consistently and I swear it helped. I'm sending positive thoughts your way.
I love unwinding by colouring, it’s been very relaxing for my brain and keeps me busy for a while 🙌🏼💗
When I have a nerve wrecking event, I watch Tati videos. Seriously! You got me through a divorce and many life changing events. I can always escape for a bit watching your videos. ❤
You've got this! Saltz will look after you ❤
Stay strong Tati ❤
When I’m stressed out I go to the sauna/steam room and get all the toxicity out. I feel like a new person, it won’t take my problems away but I’ll be glowing ❤😂
CAUGHT this two days late but hope everything went well and that you ROCKED THAT GLITTER during deposition.
We are with you Tati. Still can’t believe this happened to you and it’s been so long. However, I am sure things are moving forward in a positive direction 👌
You have no idea how listening to you speak about this has helped me in a current situation. Thank you ❤
I hope this is the beginning of a quick end...no one should have to live with this level of stress for so long. X
Love the upload and fingers crossed all goes well in LV! ❤
I was disposed a couple of months ago. It was terrifying before hand. Once I got through it, I realized that it wasn’t as bad as I thought. I felt better once it was over. Yes, they can ask you uncomfortable questions but keep in mind they are just looking to see if you are a person who is trustworthy and if a jury would like you or not. They are trying to also catch inconsistencies in your story. Just tell your side of the story. If you need a break to breathe, ask for it after you answer their question. There are ton of videos here that guide you with depositions. That also helped me loads.
As far as glitter eye, that may be over the top. I would honestly dress as sophisticated as possible. Like I mentioned before, they are also looking to see how the jury would see you. Keep your head up! Dont let this affect you, remember that stress causes havoc in your health.( highly suggest you read the Body Keeps Score) ❤
You got this tati!!!! When I get stressed I use mantras... simple sayings I can say over and over in my head or out loud to remind myself that I'm ok. Things like "I am safe in the place I am in" or "this too will pass"
I'm soooo sorry you've been through sooo much and also was elated to see that 3 of your old lawsuits were dismissed...YAY. Sending you GOOD VIBES AND IT'S GOING TO GO GREAT AND IN YOUR FAVOR! Hugs from NYC
I hope everything gets better girl ❤
You’re a stronger-than-you-know woman Tati! You’ve got this. Sending love and prayers.
When I'm super stressed out, I go to the Korean Spa for the day. Relaxing in the tubs and getting a scrub is so satisfying. Especially if you can go with a couple of friends. ☺ They have them in Dallas, and I've heard the King's spa is good from my friends up there. I'm so happy you are getting some closure. I hope that person has time to reflect and realize how wrong he/she has been and that they decide "no more". Lots of love to you, Tati! 🥰💙
And glitter is ALWAYS appropriate! 😊
i totally understand, though it was a different reason but i was stuck for 5 years just battling to court related to my late husbands wrongful death and covid pushed it 2 years as well, just living with anxiety for 5 years was not fun and i could not grieve properly, it was like swimming in the ocean with brick tied to both your feet and just struggling to keep my head above water. On the positive note, after i got through it i feel like i have been the strongest person i have ever been, emotionally and mentally... so I hope you get through it.
Tati, I'm sending you love, light and strength. I'm sorry you have to go through this, and I hope it goes as smoothly as possible for you. I also hope you can find a way to compartmentalise your experience of this a bit and create space to enjoy your life alongside the difficulties. Good luck!
I have bought coloring books and a big travel set of markers and when I get anxious I color. It required me to focus and helps a lot. It’s also creative and offers some instant gratification.
Wishing you all the best. Your hair looks lovely with highlights.
Thanks for sharing what's going on in your life right now. I'm praying for a good outcome for you in Nevada.
I crochet to relax when something is really stressing me out. I made an entire new sweater leading up to, and after my 6th brain surgery 4 weeks ago. Surgery is always really stressful, and since there's a chance of a brain bleed and stroke, I get really emotionally unhinged. While I was stressed out pre-surgery, and while I was recovering, I crocheted constantly. Keeping my hands busy really helps.
Ok so I am rewatching the second half of this because the spa music when you were doing your brows put me to sleep in THE BEST way. I got such a good night sleep last night and I swear it was from falling asleep to your video with the spa music hahaha
How to alleviate stress: meditate on how thankful you are, give love and compassion to those who are lost, and be even more thankful that you aren't lost too. Yes! Wear the glitter!
Not going to comment on the drama. I'm here to say you're looking so beautiful with less filler and botox. Let's make our natural faces the norm again!❤
Backhanded compliment. Just say you think she's beautiful and go
@WickedMondays only people who make backhanded compliments would even think that way! So, the problem truly is your mindset. Get some help.
We've got your back Tati! You got this!! 🙏
I’m 62 years old…. I wear glitter everyday! Going out, staying home…..everyday! It makes me happy ❤ praying for your deposition, been there, it will be all good!
With traumatic court dates unfortunately I have a lot of experience. And I’ll say that what got me through was constant worship music and fasting. Fasting just brings alignment with Gods voice and so much peace into our lives. Praying for you, Tati!
Tati!!! don't let them get you down you get down on them and don't be afraid (YOU FIGHT!!!)🤨
I need this to be over because I need another palette from you!
This!!!!
10000000%
Those glitter shadows were the best!!!
@kattenaj27 *TATI BEAUTY® closed up shop two years ago.* Had @MollyBurkeOfficial acquired the eyeshadow palette, she'd regard it as the most accessible palette to date.
@@BCSchmerker word?
You don't need to tell the world anything. Don't risk more lawsuits. Work this out by talking in person to trusted people. Well wishes to you!
Tati, just came on here to tell you how much EMDR therapy has helped me with anxiety. DUring stressful moments I take a second to practice what i learned during EMDR and it helps a lot--the technique is called Tapping and grounding. Highly recommend it. Good luck and praying for you. The Lord will defend you.
YES!!! Completely agree. EMDR is life changing and helps with anxiety/trauma.
When I’m under a lot of stress I talk with my therapist. Such a relief and decreases my anxiety. Good luck. It’s a slam dunk you will win. 👏
Tati, one thing I'm so glad to see is that you & James have worked through it all. I believe you will come out of this stronger! ❤
Thank you Tati for sharing your stressful time with us... My life has been extremely stressful the last 3 years too...I have tears in my eyes as I watch your video and type this... You're an inspiration to me right now... Love you! XO 😘
You can do it Tati!! You look gorgeous as always ❤
Thankyou for sharing I have things going on in my life as well that gives me that same feeling now u don’t feel so alone it has to get better soon!
To relax when I’m stressed I go for a run, spend time in nature, a lot of self care, get a pedicure or window shop… I need to spend time by myself doing things I love and just be in the moment ❤
LOVE YOU! YOU HAVE ALL MY LOVE AND SUPPORT. ANYBODY DOESN'T LIKE IT, SCREW 'EM!!!! BTW, my name is Karen, and I AM the manager! 😂😂❤❤❤❤😂😂
So excited that relief is around the corner for you! Sending love and good energy to you ❤
ahh good luck Tati! You'll get through this!
I have been waiting 4 years to get both my hips replaced,,I have had one done but waiting on the right side.what worries me is how much longer do I have to wait my life has been on hold for 4 years as I can not walk,I have put on loads of weight like 6 stone my life is a living hell. I love you though and you do not deserve all this crap that is going on with you you are an amazing woman and so nice and kind xxx
I was in Vegas in May 2023 and I highly recommend the Escape Game on the top floor of the Forum Shops at Caesars. We did The Heist and the submarine one. Such quality and SO FUN!
Love your content Tati!! Sending all the good vibes and luck to you!!
I’m praying for you girlie, I always knew you were literally honest
Praying for you Tati. I can't imagine how hard this has been for you. God's got you. Btw, this look was killer, especially that lip combo. Very nice!
This is called Litigation Abuse at this point I would try filing some kind of restraining order or try to figure out how to tell the courts about how your being abused through litigation !
Anytime I’m stressed or anxious before a big event I listen to Abraham Hicks videos on here. IYKYK. Sending you lots of peace and blessings Tati ✨
Love you Tati You got this and you are most definitely in God's hands 💜💜🙏🙏
First off, buffets are bomb 😂❤ and second, godspeed and good luck on the trial. You deserve the world, sis, I've been a fan since maybe 2016, so I've seen everything evolve and devolve. Hang in there, you got this. 🎉❤
Praying for you Tati ❤❤❤❤
Prayers. I hope all went well so you can heal and move forward with Tati.
I practice yoga to reset.
Glitter is always a great choice. I wear it daily even to work, as it makes me feel great.