Well remember my name thou. You’ll have to cause it’s urs too 😂 but imma be a actress one day. You’ll see I just ain’t their yet cause I’m broke. But if I was rich it’s be over.
As a straight person I love seeing these videos. It just makes me happy to see people being authentic to how they feel, and getting the positivity and love they deserve!
I am married to a man and I love him. However, I identify as bisexual. I didn't feel comfortable saying that until I was 30. My husband was the first person I told and he was like that makes sense. Does it change anything between us? I said no not really but I feel more comfortable now.
Uuugh thank you for this comment. I’m still figuring things out but I had similar convo and this just made me realize I’m not alone in self discovery as a 28 year old.
10:10 when I came out (non-binary, they/them), I was so scared, even though my parents are the most supportive people ever and my mom is bi, but I was terrified that they would be disappointed or something, and once I finally told them I started crying because I was so scared. My mom started crying too, because she thought she had made me feel like she wouldn't be accepting, which is so not true. Even after they had accepted me, I kept thinking in the back of my mind that they were using my old pronouns and name behind my back, even though, again, they honestly gave me no reason to think that. One day my mom just randomly said "you know we're fully committed to this, right? Your dad and I have been practicing together your new name and pronouns", and I started sobbing because I felt so relieved and happy. I know that a lot of people feel like this about coming out, no matter the circumstances, and it's probably very hard to see your child so terrified of telling you who they are, because you never wanted to make them feel that way. I want those parents to know, its not always your fault, society has made us believe that it's unlikely that anyone will accept us, even the people we're closest with. Obviously there are parents who don't accept their children unfortunately, but I'm talking about ones like mine, who did everything they could to raise me to be completely open and proud of who I am. Even with all that, I still had these fears, and it took me a full year after I realized my gender to tell them, because of my fear. Sorry for this long ass comment, the ending of that video just really hit me, because I remember feeling like that when I came out
i’m going to be honest with you, after reading that, although i don’t know you, i’m really proud of you person! you just told your story about coming out and that is truly amazing! i wish you the best of luck in the future!!
I’m 42, southern, white and Christian. I have 2 daughters (5 and 2). I’ve always said it doesn’t matter who they end up loving as long as they treat them right. They can’t get married til they are 25 and have a college education lol but I’ll accept and love them no matter what. But if anyone tries to hurt my girls then I’m going to kick some ass.
I don’t understand how anyone can disown their child. I carried my oldest for 39 weeks 6 days and 11.5 hours. My second for 39 weeks and 4 days. I had my body cut open to get them here safely. I went thru excruciating pain. I would die for my daughters. So why would I disown my them for who they love? If any parent does that then they are not worthy to be a parent.
As parents it is not our job to necessarily understand, it is our job to love and support our children. My son’s best friend is non binary but still uses he/him and his parents don’t support him. He is now MY son because he’s an amazing human being.
Ur amazing, I am non binary, I'm 11,my parents support me and all that, ur amazing, if they didn't I couldnt imagine how good it would feel to have u as my friends parent, I have a friend who lives at the other side of the world who has supportive parents, and one in my country who had them too, but you are the best, keep doing what ur doing and keep being amazing like u are now! :)
@@averagemcdonaldsbaddie1068 yes this is what they're saying I believe - that they are a Christian who is an ally but they are upset that some religious people try to use their religion against the community
I love the dad's reactions in the cake one's cuz they always look confused about wht's on the cake. There was one dad that was like, "Why are you crying sweetie? it's just cake it's okay."
I love the mom asking her son what his new name would be. She actually is interested in helping her son transition. Edit: I found out that Oliver’s mom doesn’t support him anymore. That’s a real jerk move on the mom’s part
Yeah it seems so sweet and not to bring the mood down but that mom ended up not supporting him later :(( she was just being nice because she was being filmed I feel so bad for Oliver
I heard this on tiktok somewhere: (idk who said it tho) When a person comes out to you, match their energy. If someone is super excited to tell you and are jumping up and down excited, be excited with them! If someone is just being conversational about it, have that reaction. If someone is worried, match that and tell them its ok, thats all we need, is some support.
@@ritacamassa timestamp is 9:38 just type in the tik tok username into tik tok and scroll down until you find the tik tok then scroll up like 2 tik toks or 3 and he should explain about his parents not understanding.
@@userfive1290 on his tik tok he explains, 9:38 look at the tik tok name and then go to his tik tok, scroll down to the tik tok where he tells his mom, then scroll up like 2 or 3 tik toks and u will find his tik tok explaining
I love how the mom said “so what does that mean for us?”....people act so foolish about things they don’t know about, so how about you take a moment to learn. From what I’ve seen, being a sister to a brother in the LGBTQ+ community, ask respectfully and you can learn. My brother was a victim of a hate crime and we lost him Jan. 1 of this year.... in memory of him and his life, I will proudly support the community that loved him 🏳️🌈
So I came out to my mom this year. She accepted it and I didn't think she would. But about a week later we were out to lunch with her church friends and the topic of lgbtq+ came up and she was like yeah I don't really support it. It didn't surprise me just disappointed me. And that's my story lol
that's messed up. right in front of you? she should be ashamed of herself. i don't care how nervous she was, you have it a lot worse. hope she swallows her pride and becomes an actual mother. stay safe and happy pride ^^
My favorite tiktok like this is the one where the girl goes "Dad I'm bi" And her dad goes "Bi? Bi is good, I like bi, you enjoy your best of both worlds" :)))))
at 9:33 ,,, oliver's mom did not accept him ,, it was just because he had the camera up . he posted about it a while ago saying that his mom didn't support him and stuff ,
The first person I told I didn’t plan it. He was a friend from work and we’d been away at something and driving back he’d been talking to me about his current relationship. When he asked me about my situation I just felt safe and told the truth. No big deal, he was great about it but the weight that lifted from my shoulders was amazing.
Whenever I tried to bring up my bisexuality to my mother (forbid I ever try tell me dad), the Bibile get thrown in my face. The only person who has 100% accepted me was my wife and that was enough for me.
My coming out story because why not: Me: *nervous asf,* hey dad...I need to tell you something. Dad: What’s up? Me: I like girls Dad: Woah, how do you know? Me: Idk, I’m just attracted to them? Dad: Me too😎 Then he high-fived me and that was that
Everyone remember you don’t HAVE to come out. It’s a privilege for people to know the real you, it’s not a right. You don’t have to tell anyone so you shouldn’t be or feel pressured to do so
When I came out, my mom thought it was a phase and it hurt me that she didn’t support her kid. Her and my step dad finally accepted me when I was going to a behavioral hospital, they finally realized it wasn’t a phase
I applaud all of these brave, amazing people for coming out and living as their authentic selves👏🏻♥️ I hope with all of my heart that someday in the near future, people will no longer have to come out and that they can just be who they are and be accepted and for celebrated for it 🤞🏻 Thanks for the great video!
@@Sheridantank Last I checked, you can choose not to smoke; you can’t choose attraction. It can be considered “brave” when over half the country’s population supports religions which demonize them.
thanks for making this video, I'm 15 bi and in the closet no literally have no one in my family who would be ok with me, its really nice seeing other adults being open minded and supportive with their kids and just others in general haha I may or may not have cried watching this soo yup just thank you so so much!!
I have the same problem I have only told my grandpa and he supports me I'm just scared to tell the rest of my family but watching this has made me feel relieve
My coming out story is actually really fun, people always laugh when I tell them I ordered 50 of those small flags you put in a cake, the ones with the wooden stick. They were lesbian. When they came I made sure my parents wouldn't see them. I cut off all the sticks, took the flags, got into my closet, and called my mom. When she finally opened the closet I threw the flags right in her face and screamed "surprise". She looked at me real weird with those little flags all over the place, while I was fighting my way out of the closet. She didn't say anything so I said "Mom, I'm gay" she replied with "OHH THAT'S WHAT THIS IS ABOUT! Yeah, I know, this wasn't really needed"
I never actually came out to my parents, I met a girl and a fell in love. We started dating and my parents suspected it so at some point I was like "Lisa is my girlfriend btw" I was honestly more concerned about them being pissed about our age difference than her being a girl. They always made it very clear that they didn't care who any of their kids are with as long as we are happy and it was clear how happy I was
I remember when i came out to my brother,i told him over text by saying he instead of she when i talked about a crush,he was fully supportive and made me feel like being bi wasnt something to hide
in the car one with oliver, he stated after and made another vid talking about how his mom refused to use he/him pronouns and refused to call him oliver
I'm a pansexual female and I wish I could've had the same support from my mother. At the time I came out to my mother as bisexual and she said to me "no your not, your not anything". I will never forget that. I'm about to graduate college and my family is coming down for a graduation dinner. I'm thinking about coming out again but with my aunts and uncles there
I remember the day my daughter came out to me. As her voice started to shake (this was over a phone call, she was in Chicago and I was in Puerto Rico) I told her "I know, I've known for years". We talked for 3 hours (even when I was at work). So I told her that I love you, that mom loves you more and your siblings are in full supportive mode. It was me the one who cried when I told my mom and my siblings. Now she's been married for more than 5 years to her lovely wife and I can't wait to see her later this year, if we have luck this time, It's been almost 3 years without seen her. Love you Di!!!
My dad was in the hospital June 2020 for emergency heart bypass surgery. I had lost my mom 18 months before and was so afraid I’d lose him. I couldn’t be there with him so my last conversation with him before surgery, I said “dad, I never could have told mom this but I want to tell you in case things don’t go well. I’m Bi.” He just said “that doesn’t matter to me. As long as you are happy, I’m happy” I sobbed like a total idiot!
Do they need to know? I feel like unless there's a reason to explain yourself or bring it up, that is something you can keep to yourself, and nobody needs to know or is entitled to know that unless you want them to. It's okay to not say anything and you shouldn't feel badly about keeping that to yourself if you want. Bring it up when you and if you want.
The way I did it was kinda two times. Me and my family make a lot of dirty jokes, so I just through it in there kinda like ‘and that won’t happen to me because I’m aseksual’ also when I had a girlfriend my parents asked about the relationship and sex and I told them about it and showed them an episode of ‘sounds fake but okay’ podcast and they understand a bit better now, not completely but better
As an almost married hetero asexual, you DON'T HAVE TO. Some of my very close friends know, but who has to know is your partner (if you want/have one) and that's it. It's no one else's business but yours and maybe a partner. End of the story.
My favorite coming out tik toks are when the parents are like "About time you came out!?!?" or "Well duh". Just seeing parents already have that level of understanding and are just waiting for when their kids to feel comfortable to come out is sweet but also quite funny
Hello lovelies, happy pride month! To all of my fellow LGBTQ+ friends, whether you're out, not out, or if it's complicated, I love you and I'm so incredibly proud of who you are and who you'll become. You're so so valid, and you have a huge community of people who value you. I hope you have the happiest of days💜
I was outed by a cousin. Got kicked out and told to stay away from my younger brothers and sisters. Eventually my mom let me see my siblings. All that opened the door for 3 cousins and my youngest sister to come out. I would go threw it again for them.
okay first of all, that's messed up. You are perfect the way you are and that was not right of them to keep you away from your siblings. However I admire your compassion for them and I'm happy that all is well now.
the first video was genuinely so cute and wholesome. the mom understood the message first but it took the dad a while to get it. AND HER BROTHER FRICKING FILMING IT WAS PERFECT!!!
Felt this because I came out and my mum said,”yea we know,we expected it due to what you liked as a child”. It makes me laugh because I like girl and boy toys as a kid and look at me now! I’m gender fluid and pansexual!
Oliver's mom had the best reaction. Calm, not panicking but also not making a big deal about it either way. I've heard some parents say that they are worried that their kid might just be confused or might "change their mind" -- and you know what, sure, let's say that the kid might be confused (what kid ISN'T confused about who they are?) and they might change their mind (or rather, they might realize who they are in a deeper level, and identify in a different way later). That doesn't negate who they are in that moment, and how they feel. Let them explore who they are, how they identify, and support them no matter what. I think about it this way - an adult is allowed to believe a certain religion, and feel very strongly about that religious identity. They can later change their mind and identify with a different religion. That doesn't negate their previous beliefs or make them false. Or to give another analogy, let's say your kid said that they love math and want to be a mathematician one day. You'd support that and give them the resources they need to pursue that goal. You wouldn't say, "But I thought you would be a writer! I put you in writing camp last summer. What if you decide later that you want to study English more? You shouldn't join Math Club, because I think that you might later change your mind and decide not to study math at all."
It 100% negates what they can be in the future if they do change their mind at 20 but they had “gender-affirming” surgery at 12. You completely summarized the argument against allowing kids to make permanent decisions because of a temporary feeling.
Does anybody else’s parents say they’re okay with our sexuality no matter what it is but when you tell them, they say they don’t care, but in reality, they’re uncomfortable.
I told my dad that I'm an Asexual PanRom demigirl, A she/they if u will. And about a month ago I was talking to him about clothing and said "I accept that I am biologically female now-" Dad, "Oh so you're finally admitting you're female huh?" I was hurt BC I thought he understood and was OK with it. 😢 But apparently not.
I’m an Panromantic Ace Non-binary I have told some of my closest friends first and they said they’re happy being whoever I am but yet I still think they can be uncomfortable with me :(
i feel that's what happened with my mom. she was going through my tiktok and the next day she told me that she didn't care if i was bi or not as long as i was happy but i feel like she might've been uncomfortable about the situation
I came out to my mom and grandma just like last year, and I’m happy that they’re okay with it. Though actually I just also found out last year that I’m bi, so yeah.
My brother was scared to come out to me, even though he knew I was out. He was having a bad night. We grabbed a few beers and went to the empty baseball field. He goes "hey sis I have something to tell you. Idk how to say it...... I'm bi" I responded with "that's awesome! We can check out people together!" ♥️
actually when I first came out to my dad it was not supposed to happen, me and my friend where talking about it and I started crying cause I'm real emotional and so my dad see's me crying and I just couldn't take it any longer so I tell my dad bawling my head off and when I'm done he shrugs, says ok? and then hugs me😂😀
I remember watching this years ago when i didn't know how to tell my parents, a time later i talked about it for the first time, they've been very suportive since them. So grateful to God for having them.
When I came out, after I explained to my mom and brother that I was queer and not a lesbian my mom held up her hand for a high five and said, “Congrats! You came out!”
I came out to my sister last week. She was very supportive and she told me that our parents would support me and to take my time. Im still scared to come out to my parents. So thankful to have a supporting sister and friends.
"we'll figure out how to make that happen for you." I couldn't keep it together after that, I cried so hard. All parents should be as accepting as that mother is. 🏳️🌈
When Sharon gets teary-eyed it really guts me. You know she probably has been through some stuff, as most of us in the community have, and that feeling resonates with me too. I'm grateful for the strength my chosen family gives me 🥰
When my daughter came out she thought I’ll stop loving her, but hell no I give birth to the wonderful amazing person I just love her more. I would never stop loving her 🥰 she’s my baby.
I remember when I came out it wasn't easy I lost a lot but also had a lot of friends come by my side and support me through it all. I may not have my family much in my life anymore but I have the greatest job in the world and I have a great support group of friends.
my blood family will NEVER compare to the family i have made in the community. parents often view their children as an extension of themselves. but the community loves me for ME and i couldnt be more grateful
I hate watching coming out videos sometimes cause a lot of the time the parents are so supportive and I wish mine were when I came out but I’m happy for them they got lucky
the 9:16 had me in tears- wish my mom asked for my name and respected that. She doesn't even try to call me Alec or he/him. It hurts every time because it feels like she does it on purpose when she calls me princess, niña she and her. I am tired, my mental health is low because of this. I am so glad I am going to college in a month and moving out with my friend who respects me and who I am.
I came out 3 days after I found out I'm Bi though texts. I basically just said "Mom I'm Bi" "Ok I love you no matter what" and then we haven't really talked about it. It is basically like this every time have come out.
I've been out for about a year with some of my family but I'm scared to come out to the rest of them but at least my parents believe I am who I am and love me no matter what
My mum accepts me as I am, she's just happy if I'm happy. But I have never come out to anyone else actually. My worst fear are my grandparents/grandaunt and my dad. My sis kinda knows anyway and all my friends don't care. No clue if I'll ever come out or just show up w my gf
My co-worker who is the same age as my oldest son came out to me last week. I already suspected but did not want ask. Poor child needed relationship advice from a mom, but his parents do not know. I feel privileged that he trusted me enough to tell me. 💕
It’s been very a long journey figuring out my identity. I recently discovered that I identify as an asexual (she/her pronouns). Although I haven’t been able to come out in general but I want to hopefully one day be able to have that conversation with my family. I’m 30 and I was thankful enough to meet some great people and have good conversations with other asexuals. I just hope that folks will be able to just live their lives and be happy.
man, I'm sorry for all y'all in the comments that had no support. that's shit. when my child came out as bi and that they are gender fluid, I was all like, cool. it didn't change my love for them. they are still the fruit of my womb and I love them.
What should we react to next? Let us know in the comments!
Look at react man so inspirational
Reacting to la di die by Nessa barret and Jxdn
Try Not to Laugh Challenge
Elders react to Tupac please
ELDERS REACT TO CORDAE
Sharon with the mom perspective, Ryan’s maturity, Sage’s TikTok, and The Trevor project 👏👏👏
Nooo I must be the first ultra famous sage
@@sagetrebilcock6562 Oop I'm Sage too-
@@sago2941 noooo 😂
@@sagetrebilcock6562 hehehehe yassssss
Well remember my name thou. You’ll have to cause it’s urs too 😂 but imma be a actress one day. You’ll see I just ain’t their yet cause I’m broke. But if I was rich it’s be over.
“And the worst case scenario is that they get cake.”
I’m down for cake..
Ok😃😃😃👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻😁😁😁
@@echoreus Zuko!!!
@@jellybonesmasterfue45 TWICEEEEEE ONCEEEE NAJEONGMOSAJIMIDACHAETZU 😍😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
As an ace i am always down for cake
@@SnorlaxWhisperer Same.
When I came out to my brother, I said "I like girls" and he said "so do I" I thought that was really funny
Me and my brother came out at the same time to each other with a similar way, i was like "i like girls" and he said "i don't" LMFAO 😭
@@janhvi1290 That's pretty funny haha
@@janhvi1290 that makes it a million times better XD
Me: I am a fruity pebble
My friends: we are fruity too
Me: 🙂💗💛💙 and 💗🤍💜🖤💙
Them:🙂💗💜💙
@@janhvi1290 lol
As a straight person I love seeing these videos. It just makes me happy to see people being authentic to how they feel, and getting the positivity and love they deserve!
You are a great ally
I am married to a man and I love him. However, I identify as bisexual. I didn't feel comfortable saying that until I was 30. My husband was the first person I told and he was like that makes sense. Does it change anything between us? I said no not really but I feel more comfortable now.
Uuugh thank you for this comment. I’m still figuring things out but I had similar convo and this just made me realize I’m not alone in self discovery as a 28 year old.
@@BlurHere No you aren't alone. It took a lot for me to figure me out and I still don't even always know.
@@allysonbergey2061 So, he sort of knew before you offically came out?
@@Noa...... He knew I thought girls were pretty but he didn't think it was anything other than just that.
Allyson Bergey,my husband supports me 100%,but I'm still struggling with it. And I only realised it at 37years old.
10:10 when I came out (non-binary, they/them), I was so scared, even though my parents are the most supportive people ever and my mom is bi, but I was terrified that they would be disappointed or something, and once I finally told them I started crying because I was so scared. My mom started crying too, because she thought she had made me feel like she wouldn't be accepting, which is so not true. Even after they had accepted me, I kept thinking in the back of my mind that they were using my old pronouns and name behind my back, even though, again, they honestly gave me no reason to think that. One day my mom just randomly said "you know we're fully committed to this, right? Your dad and I have been practicing together your new name and pronouns", and I started sobbing because I felt so relieved and happy. I know that a lot of people feel like this about coming out, no matter the circumstances, and it's probably very hard to see your child so terrified of telling you who they are, because you never wanted to make them feel that way. I want those parents to know, its not always your fault, society has made us believe that it's unlikely that anyone will accept us, even the people we're closest with. Obviously there are parents who don't accept their children unfortunately, but I'm talking about ones like mine, who did everything they could to raise me to be completely open and proud of who I am. Even with all that, I still had these fears, and it took me a full year after I realized my gender to tell them, because of my fear. Sorry for this long ass comment, the ending of that video just really hit me, because I remember feeling like that when I came out
i’m going to be honest with you, after reading that, although i don’t know you, i’m really proud of you person! you just told your story about coming out and that is truly amazing! i wish you the best of luck in the future!!
This comment is so true my parents are the most supportive people but it still took me so long to come out to my parents.
I’m 42, southern, white and Christian. I have 2 daughters (5 and 2). I’ve always said it doesn’t matter who they end up loving as long as they treat them right. They can’t get married til they are 25 and have a college education lol but I’ll accept and love them no matter what. But if anyone tries to hurt my girls then I’m going to kick some ass.
respect. pure, respect.
This is so precious 🥺❤️
I don’t understand how anyone can disown their child. I carried my oldest for 39 weeks 6 days and 11.5 hours. My second for 39 weeks and 4 days. I had my body cut open to get them here safely. I went thru excruciating pain. I would die for my daughters. So why would I disown my them for who they love? If any parent does that then they are not worthy to be a parent.
respects to u
As parents it is not our job to necessarily understand, it is our job to love and support our children. My son’s best friend is non binary but still uses he/him and his parents don’t support him. He is now MY son because he’s an amazing human being.
Ur amazing, I am non binary, I'm 11,my parents support me and all that, ur amazing, if they didn't I couldnt imagine how good it would feel to have u as my friends parent, I have a friend who lives at the other side of the world who has supportive parents, and one in my country who had them too, but you are the best, keep doing what ur doing and keep being amazing like u are now! :)
My parents do support it so I can’t tell them😔
awe
I'm straight and christian, but the thing that bothers me is that some parents aren't supportive because of what religion they are.
Oh rlly? Wot religion?
@@kayejmiah2547 My Religion, Muslims etc
@@kayejmiah2547 My Religion, Muslims etc
@@callm3cam you could be Christian and support lgbtq+
@@averagemcdonaldsbaddie1068 yes this is what they're saying I believe - that they are a Christian who is an ally but they are upset that some religious people try to use their religion against the community
I love the dad's reactions in the cake one's cuz they always look confused about wht's on the cake. There was one dad that was like, "Why are you crying sweetie? it's just cake it's okay."
😂 dads
I want to see that oh my god
I love the mom asking her son what his new name would be. She actually is interested in helping her son transition.
Edit: I found out that Oliver’s mom doesn’t support him anymore. That’s a real jerk move on the mom’s part
Truly 😭 she said “let’s get it going!” I need a mom like thattttt
Yeah it seems so sweet and not to bring the mood down but that mom ended up not supporting him later :(( she was just being nice because she was being filmed I feel so bad for Oliver
@@elevenmoons4020 omg really!? Now that's just awful
@@rilldineth Wait is that actually true?!
@@elevenmoons4020 Source?
I heard this on tiktok somewhere: (idk who said it tho)
When a person comes out to you, match their energy. If someone is super excited to tell you and are jumping up and down excited, be excited with them! If someone is just being conversational about it, have that reaction. If someone is worried, match that and tell them its ok, thats all we need, is some support.
Oh that's good knowledge! I sure hope I remember that if anyone comes out to me, I wouldn't want them to feel afraid.
that's what I do
I feel so sad For Oliver ;c His mom ended up not supporting him after she was just being nice bc she was being filmed ;c im gonna cry
WHAT, pls tell me where i can see proof lol
can i see the link?
@@ritacamassa timestamp is 9:38 just type in the tik tok username into tik tok and scroll down until you find the tik tok then scroll up like 2 tik toks or 3 and he should explain about his parents not understanding.
@@Mutatedcorpse poor kid :c
@@userfive1290 on his tik tok he explains, 9:38 look at the tik tok name and then go to his tik tok, scroll down to the tik tok where he tells his mom, then scroll up like 2 or 3 tik toks and u will find his tik tok explaining
I love how the mom said “so what does that mean for us?”....people act so foolish about things they don’t know about, so how about you take a moment to learn. From what I’ve seen, being a sister to a brother in the LGBTQ+ community, ask respectfully and you can learn. My brother was a victim of a hate crime and we lost him Jan. 1 of this year.... in memory of him and his life, I will proudly support the community that loved him 🏳️🌈
I'm sorry for your loss. Bless your family, stay strong ♥️♥️
Sorry for your loss just know he will always be with you from above
Oh my gosh.. Im straight, but I support the LGBTQ community and on the first video Im already tearing.
Same here.
Thanks for your support
@@popanga0994 no problem
Same.
So I came out to my mom this year. She accepted it and I didn't think she would. But about a week later we were out to lunch with her church friends and the topic of lgbtq+ came up and she was like yeah I don't really support it. It didn't surprise me just disappointed me. And that's my story lol
omg iam sorry, that really broke my heart to hear that. i hope your fine and doing well and dont give a f@€k what people may say
@@abear5137 I appreciate it hun. And yeah I'm fine and doing descent. Embracing me for me. She can't change who I am ☺️
Sadly my parents didn't accept me when I came out but I'm fine now a I found out I'm pan a I'm not telling my parents mow
@@michellefreis3139 I'm so sorry hun. I'm actually pan as well. I'm glad you're being your true self luv
that's messed up. right in front of you? she should be ashamed of herself. i don't care how nervous she was, you have it a lot worse. hope she swallows her pride and becomes an actual mother. stay safe and happy pride ^^
It hurts that this can never be a possibility to some of us, in some parts of the world coming out is never an option
My favorite tiktok like this is the one where the girl goes "Dad I'm bi" And her dad goes "Bi? Bi is good, I like bi, you enjoy your best of both worlds" :)))))
Hmm that girl's dad is right, the best of both worlds, and the nonbinary, gender fluity(How do I spell fluity AIJA-) worlds.
This is what i called content yes they're are back like OG REACT IS BACK.
OMG YES
They're are? They're means they are...
As an uncle to a niece who has come out, I am so proud of her and grateful to the LGBTQ+ community
Nice
at 9:33 ,,, oliver's mom did not accept him ,, it was just because he had the camera up . he posted about it a while ago saying that his mom didn't support him and stuff ,
noooo :((
link?
😢😢😢😭
@@silk1440 look up his @
@@loop5307 i did but couldnt find it smh
The first person I told I didn’t plan it. He was a friend from work and we’d been away at something and driving back he’d been talking to me about his current relationship. When he asked me about my situation I just felt safe and told the truth. No big deal, he was great about it but the weight that lifted from my shoulders was amazing.
Whenever I tried to bring up my bisexuality to my mother (forbid I ever try tell me dad), the Bibile get thrown in my face. The only person who has 100% accepted me was my wife and that was enough for me.
Very happy you found her!
It's good that you found someone who accepts you for you and that you're happy. :D I'm sorry that your parents weren't accepting, though. :(
Same here sadly but my boyfriend and my friends support me
My coming out story because why not:
Me: *nervous asf,* hey dad...I need to tell you something.
Dad: What’s up?
Me: I like girls
Dad: Woah, how do you know?
Me: Idk, I’m just attracted to them?
Dad: Me too😎
Then he high-fived me and that was that
Awwww👍🏽❤️
What a lad😂
Low key sounds like something my dad would do.
LMAO THATS ADORBS
omgg fun
Not the chick-fil-a add on the coming out videos😭😭
I got a McDonald's ad 😭
Everyone remember you don’t HAVE to come out. It’s a privilege for people to know the real you, it’s not a right. You don’t have to tell anyone so you shouldn’t be or feel pressured to do so
Exactly! I have a deep inner feeling that people are doing this only because it’s trendy and they receive inadequate attention.
I cried at the first one because my mom said it was just a phase when I came out,but now she’s slowly understanding
When I came out, my mom thought it was a phase and it hurt me that she didn’t support her kid. Her and my step dad finally accepted me when I was going to a behavioral hospital, they finally realized it wasn’t a phase
I applaud all of these brave, amazing people for coming out and living as their authentic selves👏🏻♥️ I hope with all of my heart that someday in the near future, people will no longer have to come out and that they can just be who they are and be accepted and for celebrated for it 🤞🏻 Thanks for the great video!
no
@@x2kzx yup
These "people" you call brave are not the men ans women who join the military and the police for are they are not
@@Sheridantank Last I checked, you can choose not to smoke; you can’t choose attraction. It can be considered “brave” when over half the country’s population supports religions which demonize them.
@@vp9549 Exactly! Thank you 👏🏻
thanks for making this video, I'm 15 bi and in the closet no literally have no one in my family who would be ok with me, its really nice seeing other adults being open minded and supportive with their kids and just others in general haha I may or may not have cried watching this soo yup just thank you so so much!!
You are bi-eautiful
@@jellyandthecrewman1834 your gonna make me cry again
I have the same problem I have only told my grandpa and he supports me I'm just scared to tell the rest of my family but watching this has made me feel relieve
@@AidanLovesMinecraftyeah I understand completely, its really nice that your grandpa supports you!
Don't worry I support you :D
when i came out to my friends they were like "ok?" and just carried on with their conversation and i was SOOOO relieved.
Same, i was in 5th grade at the time too😭
Me too. I legit told them yesterday
My friend just said “ok cool, good for you” and we kept playing the game we were playing
My coming out story is actually really fun, people always laugh when I tell them
I ordered 50 of those small flags you put in a cake, the ones with the wooden stick. They were lesbian. When they came I made sure my parents wouldn't see them. I cut off all the sticks, took the flags, got into my closet, and called my mom. When she finally opened the closet I threw the flags right in her face and screamed "surprise". She looked at me real weird with those little flags all over the place, while I was fighting my way out of the closet. She didn't say anything so I said "Mom, I'm gay" she replied with "OHH THAT'S WHAT THIS IS ABOUT! Yeah, I know, this wasn't really needed"
awh😭
This makes me happy but also a little sad bc I didn’t have supportive people in my family and I wish I had that 😕
I never actually came out to my parents, I met a girl and a fell in love. We started dating and my parents suspected it so at some point I was like "Lisa is my girlfriend btw" I was honestly more concerned about them being pissed about our age difference than her being a girl. They always made it very clear that they didn't care who any of their kids are with as long as we are happy and it was clear how happy I was
Y’all I came out at a church parking lot 💀 I have no regrets tho lmao
😂 king/ queen right here 👆
Be my friend LOL
The end of this video had me crying in my room at 10 pm. I'm a 14 year old pansexual and I've been so scared to tell anyone. Thank you so much
Don't worry, you're not the only one.
Just know there’s people out there that love you and support you.
I remember watching this a year ago thinking I'll never be able to do what these brave people did, happy to say I've been out for 8 months now :) ♡
"And figure out how to make that happen for you". Wow that is wonderful way to respond.
I remember when i came out to my brother,i told him over text by saying he instead of she when i talked about a crush,he was fully supportive and made me feel like being bi wasnt something to hide
I'm straight, I just like listening to their stories bc I think it's interesting.
True
omgg same
Yuhh same
I’m bi but a lot of ppl think I’m straight because I hiding in a closet. Soooooo….
11:50 i needed to hear this thank you so much 😭😭 i am confuse with who I am and feel pressured to label my identity 😭
in the car one with oliver, he stated after and made another vid talking about how his mom refused to use he/him pronouns and refused to call him oliver
:(
Nooooo :(
@@Harperyt_yt yeah she acted nice cause she was on camera :((
I'm a pansexual female and I wish I could've had the same support from my mother. At the time I came out to my mother as bisexual and she said to me "no your not, your not anything".
I will never forget that.
I'm about to graduate college and my family is coming down for a graduation dinner. I'm thinking about coming out again but with my aunts and uncles there
I wish you luck! 🏳️🌈
Good luck 💜💜
Good luck
Oh my gosh me toooooo! But my mum said simply "no" then went one with life.
@@aviaesquire aww thank youu!
When I came out to my mom and sisters they all supported me and I busted out in tears as well
I remember the day my daughter came out to me. As her voice started to shake (this was over a phone call, she was in Chicago and I was in Puerto Rico) I told her "I know, I've known for years". We talked for 3 hours (even when I was at work). So I told her that I love you, that mom loves you more and your siblings are in full supportive mode. It was me the one who cried when I told my mom and my siblings. Now she's been married for more than 5 years to her lovely wife and I can't wait to see her later this year, if we have luck this time, It's been almost 3 years without seen her. Love you Di!!!
This is beautiful wishing your family the best
I wish you all a happy reunion!! ♥️♥️
My dad was in the hospital June 2020 for emergency heart bypass surgery. I had lost my mom 18 months before and was so afraid I’d lose him. I couldn’t be there with him so my last conversation with him before surgery, I said “dad, I never could have told mom this but I want to tell you in case things don’t go well. I’m Bi.” He just said “that doesn’t matter to me. As long as you are happy, I’m happy” I sobbed like a total idiot!
I'm asexual and I have no idea how to bring it up. I don't think my family even knows that exist
Do they need to know? I feel like unless there's a reason to explain yourself or bring it up, that is something you can keep to yourself, and nobody needs to know or is entitled to know that unless you want them to. It's okay to not say anything and you shouldn't feel badly about keeping that to yourself if you want. Bring it up when you and if you want.
As a demisexual *I felt that*
but there's no need telling anyone since they already know the bloodline ends with me, so.. 😂😂
The way I did it was kinda two times.
Me and my family make a lot of dirty jokes, so I just through it in there kinda like ‘and that won’t happen to me because I’m aseksual’ also when I had a girlfriend my parents asked about the relationship and sex and I told them about it and showed them an episode of ‘sounds fake but okay’ podcast and they understand a bit better now, not completely but better
Take your time, once you feel ready do it to those who you know will support you, it’s scary but once you do it, it feels liberating
As an almost married hetero asexual, you DON'T HAVE TO. Some of my very close friends know, but who has to know is your partner (if you want/have one) and that's it. It's no one else's business but yours and maybe a partner. End of the story.
watching these videos makes me hope that my parents will be as supportive if and when I come out as bi to them
2:25 what the moms says in a foreign language is "don't cry, why are you crying?" in a warm tone
ur welcome :))
My favorite coming out tik toks are when the parents are like "About time you came out!?!?" or "Well duh". Just seeing parents already have that level of understanding and are just waiting for when their kids to feel comfortable to come out is sweet but also quite funny
Have watched this at least 3 times and each time i had to pause and breathe many times.
Hello lovelies, happy pride month! To all of my fellow LGBTQ+ friends, whether you're out, not out, or if it's complicated, I love you and I'm so incredibly proud of who you are and who you'll become. You're so so valid, and you have a huge community of people who value you. I hope you have the happiest of days💜
I love ays!
@@deltavods2164 ayyyyy
I was outed by a cousin. Got kicked out and told to stay away from my younger brothers and sisters. Eventually my mom let me see my siblings. All that opened the door for 3 cousins and my youngest sister to come out. I would go threw it again for them.
okay first of all, that's messed up. You are perfect the way you are and that was not right of them to keep you away from your siblings. However I admire your compassion for them and I'm happy that all is well now.
Sitting here crying jealous this people coming out went so well
“Okay Gollum, give it to me” hahahaha George is such a mood and I’m here for it!
The guy who said “bi”
“Bi racial?” OMG 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
These made me tear tho 🥹
the first video was genuinely so cute and wholesome. the mom understood the message first but it took the dad a while to get it. AND HER BROTHER FRICKING FILMING IT WAS PERFECT!!!
Can someone please get this message to George: BABE I need to go shopping with you!!! Your style is unmatched! PUHLEASEEEEE 😍😍😍
Same girl!
y'all are wired :/
@@milag8681 wired to my fav tv
Felt this because I came out and my mum said,”yea we know,we expected it due to what you liked as a child”. It makes me laugh because I like girl and boy toys as a kid and look at me now! I’m gender fluid and pansexual!
I’m proud of you for coming out!! :)
Oliver's mom had the best reaction. Calm, not panicking but also not making a big deal about it either way. I've heard some parents say that they are worried that their kid might just be confused or might "change their mind" -- and you know what, sure, let's say that the kid might be confused (what kid ISN'T confused about who they are?) and they might change their mind (or rather, they might realize who they are in a deeper level, and identify in a different way later). That doesn't negate who they are in that moment, and how they feel. Let them explore who they are, how they identify, and support them no matter what.
I think about it this way - an adult is allowed to believe a certain religion, and feel very strongly about that religious identity. They can later change their mind and identify with a different religion. That doesn't negate their previous beliefs or make them false.
Or to give another analogy, let's say your kid said that they love math and want to be a mathematician one day. You'd support that and give them the resources they need to pursue that goal. You wouldn't say, "But I thought you would be a writer! I put you in writing camp last summer. What if you decide later that you want to study English more? You shouldn't join Math Club, because I think that you might later change your mind and decide not to study math at all."
It 100% negates what they can be in the future if they do change their mind at 20 but they had “gender-affirming” surgery at 12. You completely summarized the argument against allowing kids to make permanent decisions because of a temporary feeling.
I came out to my mother by saying these exact words: I’m bicycle without the ‘cycle’
Does anybody else’s parents say they’re okay with our sexuality no matter what it is but when you tell them, they say they don’t care, but in reality, they’re uncomfortable.
I told my dad that I'm an Asexual PanRom demigirl, A she/they if u will. And about a month ago I was talking to him about clothing and said "I accept that I am biologically female now-" Dad, "Oh so you're finally admitting you're female huh?" I was hurt BC I thought he understood and was OK with it. 😢 But apparently not.
I’m an Panromantic Ace Non-binary I have told some of my closest friends first and they said they’re happy being whoever I am but yet I still think they can be uncomfortable with me :(
yup my parents were denying it, i was like bro what.. but now they just understand that i'm never gonna change
mine lol
i feel that's what happened with my mom. she was going through my tiktok and the next day she told me that she didn't care if i was bi or not as long as i was happy but i feel like she might've been uncomfortable about the situation
"I-I'm a b-b-boy..." You can hear the fear/nervousness in his voice ... bless him and his supportive parents
She's not a boy
@@JW-gl4yp he*
@@JW-gl4yp he is, cry about it
Oh, I loved first video dad's reaction: " Surprise! I'm Bi!"
Dad: "Racial?"
XD
must be nice having supportive parents
I'm straight and this made me happy. WOW!!!!
I'm so proud of those people who were brave enough to open up about their true feelings.💖
no
Wtf
@@Sheridantank You LGBTQ?
@@x2kzx yes
@@jamesjr6528 wtf what?
ill never forget when i came out to my mom and she said “okay, i dont love you any less”
I came out to my mom and grandma just like last year, and I’m happy that they’re okay with it. Though actually I just also found out last year that I’m bi, so yeah.
My grandma reacted what? I don’t know if she was confused or didn’t understand it
@Miles What? What ever u just said about all this sins aint got nothin to do with lgbtq+.
If my kid comes out as a part of lgbtq community, i will never reject them because FAMILY IS FOREVER
This is fast and the furious over here. We do this for the fucking family man
Shit my kid going to the adoption senter if that happens
@@loggerlogan6084 can I ask why you only love ur kid if they grow up in ur expectations
@@loggerlogan6084 I hope u never have kids then
the fact my own parents would likely disown me for the first video is kinda sad, thats why they dont know im bi
context i am happily married to my female wife so like it really "doesnt matter" but i still wish i had an affirming family
@@JosephWallace-yy8oqi reallu really bad for you, better they don’t know but it’s even even better that they didn’t know when you were a child
My brother was scared to come out to me, even though he knew I was out. He was having a bad night. We grabbed a few beers and went to the empty baseball field. He goes "hey sis I have something to tell you. Idk how to say it...... I'm bi" I responded with "that's awesome! We can check out people together!" ♥️
“I’m bi”
Dad: *Biracial?*
Daughter and wife: *tf*
"I'm bi"
"Hi bi, I'm dad"
actually when I first came out to my dad it was not supposed to happen, me and my friend where talking about it and I started crying cause I'm real emotional and so my dad see's me crying and I just couldn't take it any longer so I tell my dad bawling my head off and when I'm done he shrugs, says ok? and then hugs me😂😀
I remember watching this years ago when i didn't know how to tell my parents, a time later i talked about it for the first time, they've been very suportive since them. So grateful to God for having them.
If you’re in the closet, we’re all here for you. Stay strong kiddo.
When I came out, after I explained to my mom and brother that I was queer and not a lesbian my mom held up her hand for a high five and said, “Congrats! You came out!”
Then my other brother said, “Really? I thought you were more asexual than anything.” And I responded, “Yeah, I’m that too” 😂
I came out to my sister last week. She was very supportive and she told me that our parents would support me and to take my time. Im still scared to come out to my parents. So thankful to have a supporting sister and friends.
Good for you, you also have my support ❤️
"we'll figure out how to make that happen for you."
I couldn't keep it together after that, I cried so hard.
All parents should be as accepting as that mother is.
🏳️🌈
Oliver handled that like a pro, too. I'm an awkward enby that hates awkward conversations almost as much as I hate awkward silence/pauses. 🤣
fun fact: whoever watched this rn hasn’t watched the whole thing yet
R u sure about that
Yep
They should make it a function where you can’t comment on a video unless you’ve watched the entire thing.
@@FireWolf5342 no.
@Where’s the lie tho Yes lol.
The first one when the mom said "pq vc ta chorando, nn chora" (or "why are you crying? Dont cry" in portuguese) was so sweet
the one of oliver coming out actually wasnt as happy as it seemed his parents didn’t approve off cameras
Really? Aww. I feel so bad :(
Yeah I hope Oliver gets away from them if he wants to. They aren't nice.
The frist mom said: "dont cry, why are you crying?"
When Sharon gets teary-eyed it really guts me. You know she probably has been through some stuff, as most of us in the community have, and that feeling resonates with me too. I'm grateful for the strength my chosen family gives me 🥰
When my daughter came out she thought I’ll stop loving her, but hell no I give birth to the wonderful amazing person I just love her more. I would never stop loving her 🥰 she’s my baby.
thank u for being a great mom
You're such a great mum.
Props to you my friend. We need more people like you in this world. Thank you and keep doing what your doing. ❤️
u are great
I watched these a lot but I have not came out to my parents yet
I remember when I came out it wasn't easy I lost a lot but also had a lot of friends come by my side and support me through it all. I may not have my family much in my life anymore but I have the greatest job in the world and I have a great support group of friends.
my blood family will NEVER compare to the family i have made in the community. parents often view their children as an extension of themselves. but the community loves me for ME and i couldnt be more grateful
not me crying the whole video
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤍🤎🖤
happy pride month everyone!
🖤🤎🤍💜💙💚💛🧡❤️
I hate watching coming out videos sometimes cause a lot of the time the parents are so supportive and I wish mine were when I came out but I’m happy for them they got lucky
the 9:16 had me in tears- wish my mom asked for my name and respected that. She doesn't even try to call me Alec or he/him. It hurts every time because it feels like she does it on purpose when she calls me princess, niña she and her. I am tired, my mental health is low because of this. I am so glad I am going to college in a month and moving out with my friend who respects me and who I am.
I've seen that video before. Apparently the mother was only like this in the video and afterwards she wasn't supportive and was really transphobic
My niece came out to me. She was scared, I said whatever makes you happy makes me happy. You need to be true to yourself to be happy
I came out 3 days after I found out I'm Bi though texts. I basically just said
"Mom I'm Bi"
"Ok I love you no matter what"
and then we haven't really talked about it.
It is basically like this every time have come out.
Awwww, congrats 🏳️🌈
Yeah it just at one moment you are sure of your sexuality and that vest moment to come out ..
It takes time to get to that point bit it worth the joy
I've been out for about a year with some of my family but I'm scared to come out to the rest of them but at least my parents believe I am who I am and love me no matter what
Nice 👍
I have found out through editing this that punctuation is very important.
My mum accepts me as I am, she's just happy if I'm happy. But I have never come out to anyone else actually. My worst fear are my grandparents/grandaunt and my dad. My sis kinda knows anyway and all my friends don't care.
No clue if I'll ever come out or just show up w my gf
My co-worker who is the same age as my oldest son came out to me last week. I already suspected but did not want ask. Poor child needed relationship advice from a mom, but his parents do not know. I feel privileged that he trusted me enough to tell me. 💕
It’s been very a long journey figuring out my identity. I recently discovered that I identify as an asexual (she/her pronouns). Although I haven’t been able to come out in general but I want to hopefully one day be able to have that conversation with my family. I’m 30 and I was thankful enough to meet some great people and have good conversations with other asexuals. I just hope that folks will be able to just live their lives and be happy.
man, I'm sorry for all y'all in the comments that had no support. that's shit. when my child came out as bi and that they are gender fluid, I was all like, cool. it didn't change my love for them. they are still the fruit of my womb and I love them.
The Oliver one made me cry. Tears of JOOOOOY
i came out a few days ago, this makes me so happy
Wow congratulations!!! That's very amazing 💓💓💖💗💗😁😁
Congrats!!!
Congrats!