They teach kids at a very young age in school about all the different genders. Just to make all the other kids that identify differently, feel socially accepted. So confusing to pre-teens, they begin to question themselves ... And their own identity😢
Seriously tho. So many teens hop on a band wagon just to fit in or get attention. Their brains aren’t even fully developed yet! There’s no possible way they can comprehend the life long effects of these kinds of procedures.
@@mistersirthethird The best thing to do as a teen (but don't do it just because you're told) is to follow your gut instinct. Your instinct usually tells you to rebel against everyone, question everything, and believe nobody. Don't let peer pressure take that away from you. Always doubt everything. You'll be fine :)
You can't go to war, get a tattoo, buy or drink alcohol, vote until you're 18-21, but you can transition at 10 years old even after ONLY ONE therapy session and your parents don't even have to know or give permission in some states. Absolutely DISGUSTING.
It’s true because these people feel lost and their form of coping is telling themselves they’ve found themselves. That is why they make it their personality as well
That applies to all of them. As a trauma su4viver myself, i see it in them. The hurt, the denial, the victimization of themselves... been there (in another context)
Telling an adolescent that gender transitioning will alleviate their gender dysphoria sounds like telling an anorexic they'll feel better if they were skinnier.
I would say it a little bit differently: it's like telling an anorexic that they'll feel better if they had their stomach resection. For me as an educated grown up man who hasn't lost his logic and common sense in this absurd world, any gender related "problems" are a psychiatric disorder, which can should be treated, or at least eased by psychiatric methods, including hormone therapy corresponding to their biological sex
Truth. Someone wanting to mutilate themselves is displaying symptoms of severe mental issues. Encouraging them to go through with their self-harm does not help them, and it is ludicrous and extremely harmful to people to even suggest that it would.
On that same note, its literally the only disorder that we affirm like this. We don't affirm hoarders, eating disorders, cutters, all issues that normally stem from trauma and insecurity just like gender dysphoria.
Actually it has proved an efficient treatment for patients with auditory hallucinations. Rather then trying to suppress the voices, they tried to get patients to be aware of them and then laugh about them or comment with their psychiatrists. In many cases it has proved effective since not pushing hard on dismissing them relieved the tesion of hearing them again. This said, your comment was actually very funny for the context.
I hope not, I haven't worn makeup in years. Doesn't make me a bit less female- maybe less feminine but the cramps and associated pain (and by bra size) did a pretty good job of making sure I remember I'm female 🥴
I have a brother, when we were little he would play barbies with me, he would play dress up with me, he would let me do his makeup, and even want to do mine. That does not mean he's gay or anything, its just having the influence of growing up with a sister. Same thing with me too. I would play cars with him, he absolutely loved cars, dirt bikes, quads, even owned a few. I grew up knowing so much about cars, I was very tomboyish too. I liked hunting lots of physical activities too, yk the usual ' hated dresses', 'didn't like pink', blah blah blah. But that was because why? Because I grew up with the influence of a brother. It does not make me trans, or anything. yes it may from your understanding but I can assure you, i'm nowhere close to being trans, same with my brother.
Very True!..Fairly same experiences as a normal kid in a home with brothers and sisters! or with close male or female friends since childhood who were playmates on a daily basis..that's not make us transgender!
As a detransitioner, I was once approached to take part in a research study on detransitioners by the very doctor who I originally saw to transition, who had detransitioned himself after decades of living as a woman. He needed funding for his research and had to take his case to the university board he worked with. The research project did not go ahead because it wasn't thought to be relevant, and the university board thought it would be too, I quote 'controversial'.
My daughter came to me one day saying she wanted to be a boy. That her friends and the internet told her that she might be a boy since she liked baggie clothes and wasn't really happy with being a girl. Periods hurt and was uncomfortable. Her body was changing in ways that bothered her. I sat her down and told her straight up that she was a girl and I would continue calling her a girl as long as she was a child going through puberty. Until her hormones were completely settled and she was over the age of 18 I was not going to change my mind. If she still felt that way latter on as an adult then we will talk about it again and go from there. Sure enough a few months later she was back to being happy to be a girl except during her monthly period.
My 16 year old had a phase for a moment a few years ago. I'm not sure if I was sweet or harsh but I said, "No Ma'am. You are a girl and theres no mistakes to your design as a girl." She had insecurities and anxiety. Sure enough after therapy she's picking up skirts at the mall, lipgloss and nails. She enjoys her femininity.
I started transitioning 3 years ago at age 12 and that was when my depression and bodily issues truly began. I hated myself and thought everyone around me did as well, I bounced between non binary and trans and began researching ways to run away and get my female parts removed. November last year I tried tying my hair up and that was the trigger, just as simple as tying my hair up again and I began missing my femininity. Luckily all I had really done was publicly change my name and pronouns and cut my hair short. I began growing my hair back out, went back to being a women and soon came across Brett's channel which really did help me out a lot. I am now 15 years old and happier than I ever was last year. My life is slowly improving day by day. ❤
The girl who knew she didn't have disphoria but did it anyway is a textbook example of why these people need unbiased counseling before they transition and why we shouldn't be allowing minors to transition. And by counseling, I mean more than just 2 sessions.
Yup it’s a trend, where you get the love and adoration of the world at the expense of your soul and the souls of those who will be deceived as a result.
@marygraphy5667Pretty sure conversion camp aren’t unbiased and absolutely have their own agenda. People absolutely need unbiased, one-on-one therapy where their thoughts and feelings are properly and fully explored before making life altering decisions. Unresolved trauma isn’t dysphoria and absolutely shouldn’t be treated like it is. There are many reasons why someone might hate their body and gender, and gender reassignment only fixes one.
They have been saying for over 2000 years that the female species is hysterical, manipulative and impressionable; they weren't wrong! This isn't all women ofc, just like saying "men are violent" (which we can say without being accused of sexism or even en objection) doesn't mean all men. The latter you can say without a disclaimer but not the former. It only took the year 2022 and let them loose to be their "true selves" that we got this affirmed. If anything, I bet before organised religions this was the society! I believe it was Jordan Peterson during his Bible lectures who described the chaotic society before organised religion.
“But don’t you know that if you don’t get on puberty blockers prior to puberty you can never properly transition??” That’s what I’ve been told by so many advocates, they link me “science” articles saying how there are no long term physical effects of HRT. I’m sitting here like no effects of HRT? No MENTAL effects? These people are delusional and hurting real trans people who transition as an adult and are happy with their decisions.
@@Hesklif I came here to say this lol. Like bruh I live in the Midwest and the homeless population is huge. It don't even look pretty on the outside lol...
Watching this realization hits...They are creating a whole generation that will always need medical assistance in one way or another. They are not helping these people become more of themselves. They are creating patients. They are creating victims that will have to pay for another surgery or some sort of therapy. My heart breaks on this thought.
@Busy Bee Farms I agree with the comment, but saying that it has always “been the plan” does imply that there is a conspiracy against Gen Z. This begs the question of who exactly is conspiring against us? We need to start defining exactly who is causing our problems. In the case of early childhood transition, it seems to be money-hungry doctors looking to make lots of money.
@Watermarqkiki You're correct about doctors and facilities...MONEY. I'm a woman of Colour who worked in various medical practices. People don't realize that the insurance company might pick a specific topic for doctors to discuss and pay them for that. Example: The patient is within a specific race and age group with a higher probability to develop osteoporosis or have more falls. The CDC sees a rise in STDs within a certain group the doctor will discuss it and test you for it when you have blood drawn. You get your EOB ( Explanation Of Benefits) and see they tested you for gonorrhea or some STD. Yet, the insurance pays the doctor for doing this. However, they'll fight you on paying the doctor for what you came in to see the doctor for originally.
i mean, ppl need occasional sunlight exposure too. estradiol for example is extremely cheap. It's trivial to gather $20 of pills a year. It's just a nonsense post is what I mean.
I’m a family doctor, and unlike surgeons who do make money to perform surgeries, I make no money from giving vaccines or prescribing medicines. I get paid for doing an office visit, but no extra money for anything I order. Just wanted to put that out there, because I love your videos and know you are big on truth!
Well in m'y country GPs were getting paid 3-4 times what they usually did, to work in a vaccination center. in France some doctors made up to 15.000€ a month for that as well. I wonder where you find that amount of money when fréquent claims from public hospitals were never getting positive response by the gvnmt
Well then you have to get yourself a new medical biller because I work in the compliance office in a medical center and vaccines are absolutely a billable CPT code. Whether or not you'll get reimbursement is another story, but some insurance absolutely do have a fee schedule associated with them.
@@jameswillen6749 I said I don’t make any money from giving vaccines or prescribing medicines, and there’s no wRVU that comes my way from doing it, so as a primary care doctor, I am not making money by vaccinating people or writing prescriptions
@@Zulu2020 I know a lot of nurses and my ex-husband was one, and they don’t really know the reimbursement side of things. In the United States, primary care doctors are not making money for ordering labs or giving vaccines. It just doesn’t work like that.
my dad is a 200 pound bald construction worker who loves getting pedicures; my male boyfriend likes to paint his nails and have nice hair; I am a small, dainty looking female who has always worked at stereotypically male jobs, like on truck lots because I love tractor trailers. It’s really sad that you can’t just be a well-rounded individual with a unique personality these days.
I was sexually assaulted by my biological father at 12, before I had even gotten my my first period. He was a mysoginyst who abused women and especially girls. During my time living with him I started to dress and act like a boy, hoping that it would keep him away from me. The bitterness and hatred I felt turned inward, towards the fact that I was a "weak girl" and couldn't fight back. By the time I was in Highschool I was dealing with severe body issues due to the fact that I share a Lot of facial features with that monster. People would constantly tell me how much I looked like him. I was so disgusted. For a while I thought that I might just *be* a boy, and that was before I really even knew what Trans was. I actually went to a therapist and doctor's office about it and my family tried so hard to be accomodating but Also to make sure this was something I wanted. I also had a Highschool "friend" who pushed me to do it because she wanted me as her "boyfriend." It wasn't something I wanted. It never was. I am a Woman and I love being a woman. But the shame, guilt, and Fear of being a girl/woman was what made me feel like I should have been born a boy/man. Thankfully this was before all this craziness happened and I was able to get help for my Actual issues. Which stemmed from childhood abuse and sexual trauma. If I had been born later and went through that painful road of self discovery and healing I have no doubt that I would be in the same position as these poor souls. Thinking about those "what ifs" *terrifies* me.
Clearly these poor victims never got the chance to seek real therapy before they traveled down the trans highway. Maybe more people like you should share your stories. Maybe this increase in reassignment surgeries is precisely because we have a generation of damaged young people. The lockdowns exacerbated underlying anxiety. Social media has alienated people, especially the young. Maybe hearing your story would help some unfortunate person to realize that it is possible to heal. Thank you for sharing your story. I am not sure I could have survived what you endured. You're amazing.
I know of at least two "trans men" who started identifying that way after being sexually harassed or assaulted. It was so hard to listen to them clearly having self hatred stemming from such trauma and deciding it was due to dysphoria and not getting the help they actually needed. One of them did decide they weren't trans which was good for her and I think she's doing better. I'm so sorry that you expirienced that though, and I'm glad you are in a better place now.
Do not let the "what ifs" scare you. The book of James says "Count it all joy when you come through these trials". some don't make it out of these trials and are destroyed like these poor souls. However, GOD still loves them. Jesus Christ STILL LOVES THEM. The Holy Spirit can come and live in them. "Religion" as a power structure is abhorrent, but the real and living Jesus Christ can heal over, mend and put anyone back together. God bless you for surviving through your trauma. I had some horrible things happen to me when I was 5 and 7. I was blessed, even thought the baby sitters that did these things got away with it, that my parents took me to church. They loved me and later when it was found out, I can forgive it and be joyful that Christ healed all that.
You just explained what happened to me. I was always looking for a way to articulate it but you did a phenomenal job. For me it was my stepfather and the exact same thing happened. He was in the military, and I was so far from home that he knew he could get away with it. My Mom was weak in character, so she didn't notice anything or so she said. I never got therapy, but I did find Jesus Christ and that helped me immensely. It's a process, and has been for years. I am older now, married for 34 years to a wonderful, gentle and kind man who I never knew could exist for me but has the patience of Job. God is real and the love of Jesus heals. Praying for all these wonderful souls who have been lied to, deceived, and used by this wicked world. This has always gone on, "there is nothing new under the Sun" In *Rome* it was a common practice for the rich and powerful to have a "catamite" *(a male child companion who'd been sexually altered)* It was all over Rome including and especially the Roman church. Nothing has changed except, Presidents and Heads of State now, are what then were Kings, Queens and the Nobility. This world and its Systems serve the God of this world who is Satan, period. This is a spiritual war going on, not a flesh and blood one.
It seems to be forgotten that puberty is the time of most change in body and mind.. it’s a time if confusion and dealing with new feelings and emotions.. it’s SUPPOSED to be that way.. it’s the hardest time to deal with as it’s the change from child to adult.. its why you don’t make decisions through it.. you will change immensely.. your thought processes grow.. It should be celebrated as a time of transition.. from CHILD to ADULT!! Kids are being taught to hate themselves.. it’s horrible
@@aziahfloyd9146 nope, they can do the surgeries, wears the makeup, do their hair, live as a woman , wear traditional Womens clothing like high heels ….and their dna still says they are a man. They may think they are a woman but they aren’t. In 100 years a side test can look at their bones and extract dna and this will say, this is a man’s bones. They are a man, who has had surgery and is appearing as a woman. They are pretending to be a woman. There is even a TH-cam of an older trans man who says this same thing. There’s nothing you or trans people can say that can prove that a man who has surgically altered themselves to look like a woman, is a real woman. To say they are is so demeaning to us real women. It’s like putting on “being a woman” like it’s a costume is disgusting and offensive. I don’t care if trans woman refer to themselves as trans women. But they are not real women. And a woman can not through surgery and hormones, become a man. There is more to being a man or a woman that that . I could have surgery to make my self look like a cat, get a tail grafted on, eat cat food, meow, play with cat toys and live day to day as if I were a cat…… but that does t make me a real cat! It makes me a human that has surgically altered myself to appear as a cat. My DNA will,show I am human. It dies t matter how much Imwant to be a cat. It doesn’t matter that I think I am a cat. There is what people think or wish and there is reality.
I’m so glad my own mom told me that I definitely wasn’t trans, nor was I gay. My mom had supported me of course, but she never affirmed me for wanting surgery. She knew I wasn’t gay but was being pressured by others because I dressed like a guy (I had been sexually abused when I was young from a different kid) and I had unknowingly took my trauma and went “It was because I’m a girl… so if I’m a boy it won’t happen. I’ll be strong” and so I wanted to transition. After going into the military I realized what I really am. I’m just a tomboy that needed a little therapy and more time to realize what was happening. Kids are not as “Smart” or “Grown up” as they think. You need to give them more time to realize themselves
Good on you. There are a ton of people in this "movement" who are simply looking for Cookie-Cutter solutions to other essentially unrelated issues, like trauma or even general social anxiety.
Kids & teenager are still weakminded & easily sway to radical ideas & practition. Parents should set boundaries & restriction, not because we trying to be strict, but they don't know anything better
I am glad you didn't take a irreversible decision. I know what you were feeling because I also wanted to be a boy when I was young. Just because boys got more freedom than girls when I was growing up. We are just tomboy or tougher/rougher girls. We are very much normal.
@@myentertainmentmypuppies8865 That made me realize... that was a reason for me too! I could never roughhouse with the boys because "She's a girl". That shit really made me angry when i was young
I think what I can appreciate the most is that you (Brett) actually have a huge amount of empathy and compassion for these people and what they've gone through. I'm gay but want nothing to do with the community at large, as it stands right now. THIS is what the loud minority is pushing for, and it's embarrassing that so many more LGBT people vehemently disagree with kids transitioning, and yet do and say nothing. We can bury our heads in the sand and be fine, but what about the generation behind us? I'm only 34, and I'm honestly GLAD I probably won't be having/adopting kids. I wouldn't want to put them through today's school system, and let them be indoctrinated. Horrific, and sad.
I'm bi and I feel you. I told my mom I was bi at 13. I'm 25 now. 3/4 years ago I thought It was time for me to come out and maybe celebrate pride month... then I noticed this whole mess... and I guess I will stay in the closet until things change. Sad.
Well, if you're a good parent you don't put your kids through the public school system. You see, once you have kids... You start to see the big picture about life. You start to see what is really about, personal pursuits are a waste of time. And if you couldn't find purpose, it doesn't matter. You will have purpose now. After all, if you're not procreating... What good are you really doing? Get a job as a social worker? Help out in the soup kitchen? Nah, the only thing that really matters is having kids. And if you actively choose not to have kids, you're basically missing out on the whole point of life. In other words it's a failed life.
well i feel bad for you,but do you know you can get it removed? it will get a lot of time and money but if you really hate it i think it's good for you
So thankful I took years to decide on my first tattoo. Really hope people understand it will be a part of them forever and they should spend a long time thinking about what their first will be.
Went to get tattoo at 16, changed my mind 3 times then decided not to get it. Now In my 4th decade am so happy I do not have any tattoos! Time cane be your friend.
Imagine learning to love who you are instead of having everything you think is an "imperfection" surgically altered so you never have to grow as a person.
I think this is the point everyone has missed in this discussion. If you don't love and accept yourself as you are surgery (or anything else) won't help you. You don't fix an internal problem externally. You don't treat symptoms you treat the problems/ issues.
I'm a 16 year old girl and have had masculine style and mannerisms pretty much my whole life. I wear men's clothes, I have short hair, a male body type, yada yada. I cannot emphasize enough how grateful I am that my parents never put me on hormone therapy when I was younger just because I look and act male. I have never felt that I am a boy and have never wanted to be one. Tomboy culture is disappearing in lieu of trans culture, and it's really unfortunate. I'm blessed to have a family that understands how horrible trans culture is. I'm glad to see that lots of others feel the same way- gays against groomers, for example, or brett/ben/matt and all those at the DW.
The LGBTQ community doesn't understand at even an elementary level, as to how the Big Pharma, and the Medical Industry is completely playing with them, and looping them in all for $$$$.... This is eerily similar to when Opiates like Vicodins, Morphine, Fentanyl, Oxy Contin's first came into the public. Doctors to this day will prescribe you Pain Killers, get you completely hooked, and dependent on them, and then later on offer you an even worse, Addictive Medicine I.E (Suboxone) to get you off of those drugs... It's pretty sickening. And I know this is the case, because of how much those damn surgeries cost these poor people.. It's extremely sad tbh. Since when has Liberals, and more importantly Democrats been on the side of Big Government, and the Pharmaceutical industry?
EXACTLY! There is nothing wrong with being a masculine female or a metrosexual man. I don’t know why we have tried to eliminate these people from our society.
Live dress and be who you want. You keep grounded who you were born as is in your DNA you can't just change a hat and suddenly you're different at the DNA level. Make your way through life you don't got to destroy the body you're giving you the sacred gift enjoy it can do amazing things.
It's infuriating that for decades women have tried to get their tubes tied in their 20's and have been told NO YOU MIGHT WANT CHILDREN LATER. Yet teens can completely remove their breasts cause of 'feelings'. Not too long ago an 18 year old was denied a mammogram. She was told she's too young to worry about breast cancer even though her mom had had it. That girl is now 22 with stage 4 breast cancer. Make it make sense!!!!
I was a married mother planning a 2nd csection, and wanted my tubes tied while they were in there. Nope. A few months after the birth, my husband got done without hassle.
True! When I was 15-16 years old I told my doctor I did not want kids (I asked to be sterilized). They told me I would change my mind...I am in my 20s and still / will always feel this way. I am still trying to get this done
I had a period in my life where I hated being a woman to the point where I would obsessively imagine how great it would be to cut off my breasts and uterus and just become genderless. It's got really bad, to the point that I started to harm myself. My parents took me to the psychiatrist and it turns out that my condition was a combination of severe hormonal imbalance and unprocessed childhood trauma ( I was sexually assaulted as a child). After balancing my hormones and going to therapy I got so much better. I am happy that I got actual help from my parents and I am forever grateful that It happened during the times when cutting off body parts where the last resort.
I went through similar I realized I wanted to be a boy so bad when I was a kid. When I grew up I realized it was because I felt like ppl especially men would respect me more and sexually harass me less if I was a boy. I wouldn’t get catcalled, stalked, harassed, molested or raped anymore. Then I hated all men. Now I have 4 sons and it’s my mission to make them great men and protect others and when they see something to say something. I’ve dedicated my life to make sure they don’t become like the many men I’ve encountered in my life
You are beautiful and perfect just the way you are, and I'm so sorry you went through that and I'm glad you're getting better! I hope the rest of your life is amazing and safe!
I don't usually cry when it comes to politics, but this episode made me cry. reading and hearing what these people are going through because they didn't get the proper help they needed is so heartbreaking and I pray that God helps these people find what he meant for them.
i was convinced i was non binary for my entire freshman year. i recently (a few months ago) found your channel and i'm so grateful to have this wakeup call. the thing i'm most scared of is telling me ultra woke best friend who i've known for 10 years...
Tell her. Because here’s the thing, a real best friend won’t end your friendship because you believe something different. Real friends understand that eachother have different ideas and opinions and that’s okay. I know losing a long time good friend is tough, but being stuck in a friendship held together by pretense and lies is unhealthy and will hurt you worse. Be truthful to yourself and them. If the friendship falls apart, I’m sorry, but perhaps this is a good thing, and you’ll find someone else who you haven’t noticed.
This is what is extremely sad and infuriating. If a young person claims they have gender disforia they are embraced but when they come out as comfortable with who they are, the insane "woke" cult turns against them. This is deeply disturbing and sickening!!
im incredibly similar to you! i fully believed i was non binary during my sophomore year of college, but over the summer realized how wrong i was. i even changed my name and pronouns in the university's system. i also am worried about telling my woke friend, especially since shes my maid of honor at my wedding. i wish you luck and i hope your friend understands :)
Do not let some ‘best friend’ trick you into believing something about yourself that isn’t true. Do not risk your life pleasing others. Be genuine and make your decisions wisely. I hope all the best for you.
@rae of sunshine Tell her before the wedding. So you won't have emotional pain everytime you watch videos or look at Fotos from the wedding celebration, in case she ends your friendship. It sounds harsh, I know, but for the future it's best to get it over with. Believe it or not, there are a lot of people out there, who actually want to be friends with you, without wanting to force you to fit their own agenda. Wish you the best and a wonderful wedding 💍💒😉👍
My daughter was 15 and was taken from me because I would not go along with this garbage. Additionally, they accused me of neglect and attempted to take my freedom as well! These people are insane!
This is honestly horrifying.. As a child, around 6th grade so 11 or 12 I fell into thinking I was transgender. I didn't tell my parents but I told my friends to call me Felix or V because I didn't like my name. It wasn't because I don't want to be called a girl name, it was because I hated MY name. It was never because I wanted to be a boy, it was because I wasn't comfortable with myself. I do not blame my friends for not understanding because they were children too. I was so so sad during this time, I really wanted to die, and no one helped me with my real problem but they just assumed I was suffering with gender dysphoria. I saw the school councilor but I don't think I ever told her how I really felt. Then she died in a kayaking accident and I really felt awful. Then here came covid. Thank God that I found the opposite view. Thank God people you Brett and Ben exist because I found you guys during covid when I was still feeling awful and I did a 180°. Thank you so much for turning me around when I was being encouraged to go further with something I didn't want to.
@silverwolfe9376 agreed. it's nothing to do about gender (which seems to be a coping mechanism) it's just about feeling good as who you are and not avoiding it haha
I dated a girl that was sexually assaulted by several men in her family she decided to be a lesbian. Then men in our work took advantage if her she decided she wanted to be a man. She has had hormones and surgery and is now living as a man. A man who is still unhappy and needs therapy to heal from all the things that happened when he was a girl and has realized he ran from his gender due to what happened and is now stuck in a man body with no way to go back.
This is so heartbreakingly sad! And yet, I have personally known several people with similar stories. For some people, transitioning is misguided effort to feel "safe"-r in his / her birth body, post SA.
Isn’t everyone unhappy with their body when they’re young???? Isn’t everyone lost?? Isn’t that just normal? It’s only when your body starts aging rather than growing can you truly feel comfortable. Because you realise it doesn’t actually matter.
Exaaaaaactly. Once you start aging, you realize, usually quickly, but sometimes gradually, that your there are far more important things to think about. And before you know it, you are middle aged.
I have tattoos I regret from when I was 18, 19, 20.. I predict that within 10 years we are going to be hearing from these kids who will then be adults and they will be asking their parents why they let them ruin their bodies before they knew who they were. Its going to be looked back as such a messed up time period in history.
@@cccinnamorolll and I'm happy for you! But not every single kid who is confused about their gender is going to be happy with the changes they made. The fact that there are detransitioners at all shows us that it's not ALWAYS the answer
God I have never heard of it compared to getting a tattoo, but it is scary to think about how accurate that is! Mindset is always evolving, changing and these things like tattoos can be mostly ignored with a laugh like 'haha yeah i was kind of wild back then'. but this... I can't imagine how that must feel to someone who has changed their mind
And when that happens, all hell will break loose. They will sue their parents and the medical professionals who put them through this horrible situation.
I was born in the capital, Lima. My dad came from deep in the mountains of Peru. He spent his childhood living in one of those small towns with 4 houses surrounded by nothing but nature for hundreds of miles. Not a single time he ever said "Oh by the way, you are a boy, you don't do girl stuff". He never even made a distinction. It was never a big deal. The fact that I was a boy had the same level of importance as my age or my height. Just another aspect of who I was as a whole. My dad was never afraid to kiss my cheek in public or hug me. We called it cheesy back then, not gay. Hell, things were so much easier back then. You ever heard of the phrase, "Your job is not who you are, is just what you do?". I feel like the same can be said about so many other aspects of our lives, like gender. You are barely starting to live. No need to make radical decisions. Always plan ahead. Want to make mistakes? Make them on your own terms, not because someone told you. Much like my words, you can choose to ignore a nugget of wisdom. I'm just saying.. the one who will live with the consequences will be you, not me. Let that sink in. Cheers.
Trans regret is nothing new. Many years ago, I watched a documentary with a group of trans people, (yes they formed support groups years ago), where they discussed their physical and mental trauma. These voices have been ignored and suppressed.
My son was born with a large birth mark on his face. I have to schedule his appts/surgeries at a world renowned hospital and plastic surgery dept. The phone menu options starts with “transgender health program press one, for pediatric patients’ press two” It’s a children’s hospital. Why on earth is the need of kids like mine, who literally need medical attention, the option after an optional and cosmetically based agenda. It’s maddening to hear each time.
The worst part is they _intentionally_ had that department as the first listed option-so it’s heard by every caller, every time, as lowkey mind programming. Repetition is the bedrock of indoctrination. Trans healthcare is a HUGE new revenue source for hospitals, so they’re all inundated with ‘gender affirming care’ propaganda constantly.
I’m a thirteen year old conservative, all my friends, my peers are mostly liberals. So to finally see a community that agrees with me just strengthens my belief more. Thanks Brett! 😊
Stay strong, I got caught up in the insanity and most my friends irl still are accepting and positive of this stuff. I got lucky and got out before moving beyond social transition. It gets super difficult, but I plead and pray you stay strong ❤
As someone who used to believe they were trans and fell victim to the glamourised version of being trans, I am so glad that I have finally come to my senses and that I only got to go as far as cutting my hair.
For a society that constantly preaches acceptance and tolerance to the rest of us, they are not very accepting and tolerant of their very own selves. Being brave is NOT swapping body parts the moment you feel uncomfortable, it having the courage to accept yourself the way you are and learning to be comfortable in your own body
I am a therapist. The therapy community has no one standing up to say that affirmation isn't best practice, other than Jordan Peterson. I would lose my job if I took a public stand, but if enough of us got together...
@@LazyActor I understand standing up for things but if you handle things without caution then it will help no one. Caution doesn’t mean fear I wanted to add, I mean to move with wisdom and not simply out of emotion or even just passion. Standing alone is great, but still. Also I don’t think any heads will be getting chopped off soon.
@rumble I am with you. Currently going into the profession and it breaks my heart to see this happening to young people. we absolutely need more mental health professionals advocating and standing up for what’s right. And I will happily join you in this
@@MP-tj5xv I believe it's time to find those people and take a stand. Just hope that I can help more people by taking a dive out of the field than I could have helped by staying in it
@@kelsi1380 it's your prerogative to abstain from any cases that you need to avoid, like transgender clients. I refuse to cosign bad practice just because it's part of the narrative
My daughter told me at 14 that she wanted to transition. She was also suffering from depression and severe anxiety. I told her I would buy her binders and prosthetics (I hate that I know this exist) but I WAS NOT allowing her to start testosterone or puberty blockers. Any major medical/hormonal changes had to wait until after she was an adult. She’s almost 20 now and hasn’t said anything about it these last two years. I know I made the right decisions and I stand by them
My moms the same supportive but cautious she let me wear makeup and get girls clothes but made me wait till I was an adult and knew what I wanted now I’m on hormones and have started my transition and I’m happy I went into it positive it was what I wanted (I came out at 14 now I’m 19)I also had a good therapist that didn’t jump to conclusions and waited 3 years to diagnose me
Just so you know, hormone blockers don't cause any permanent damage had she wanted to get off them. They merely stop the menstural cycle from forming. It's used on a lot of female cancer patients and women whose periods can't be helped by the pill or prosthetics. Just because she hasn't said anything doesn't mean YOU made the right choice, so don't congratulate yourself, it merely means that she may have been to scared to tell you she regretted her coming out or that maybe bodily changes weren't on the table for her after all (I know for me it wasn't until it was)
I have a niece that was going though gender disphorea throughout high-school. She tried her best to get into a gender role that fit with her current friend circle and started telling people she was Trans and gay. She told everyone this for 4 years and even started being called by a different name than the one she was given at birth. She had begged her mom to take her to go on T for a transition but was never put on it. Now, at the age of 20, she went back to growing her hair out, she's wearing makeup again, wearing more feminine clothes, is no longer dating girls and went back to using she\her Pronouns and using her birth name again. She won't admit it, but I know she feels like she made up the whole Trans thing to fit in and now she's embarrassed about it. At least her mom at enough sense to at LEAST tell her to wait and see how she feels when she's an adult. I know it would have messed her up BIG TIME
As a young girl I was a "tomboy", I wore baggy clothes because people bullied me for my body, I wore dark clothes because I would play outside A LOT and didn't want to dirty dresses or stain clothes, and I didn't like doing my hair because it was tiring to deal with since I had really long hair, I didn't wear makeup or shave any part of my body till i was 15 because my dad didn't let me. I never thought I was a boy, I wasn't brought up with these things so I was never confused about my gender. I WAS confused about my sexuality because of trauma but after help and time, I figured that out. Children are easily influenced, parents need to guide their children. I would NEVER disfigure my child in such a permanent way.
I was 10 years old when I got into all the LGBTQ+ stuff. I was 12 when I thought I was "transgender", then "non-binary" and alllll these other lables. I never told anyone about it, no one online or in real life, I hid what I *thought* was a very serious issue from the world. I thank my past self everyday for not telling anyone, because now, I'm 15 years old and, proudly, a young woman. I began watching Brett's videos at the start of this year and other people with the same views like Matt Walsh and Ben Shapiro. Brett, I'm really not sure if you'll see this, but thank you so much. You helped me heal myself. You helped me to further confirm my feelings of discomfort towards these issues. Thank you so much, Brett. (Apologies if my comment is very wordy and sounds rehearsed, it's just how I like to write. Why write something meaningful without putting effort into the construction?)
I was a survivor of this. I'm 17 now, and this happened when I was 14. Moving into adolescence and early teen-hood, I was unhappy with the changes my body was going through. As are every young female sprouting into young teens. It was in marching band when I found someone who suddenly seemed to solve all of my problems. It gradually happened over time, it wasn't immediate. He was gay. One of them. I confided in him about my insecurities and about how "I didn't like being a girl", how I liked wearing baggy clothes, hanging with boys and not with girls, and how I didn't like makeup. He kept questioning me about these things, and it suddenly made me feel VERY insecure about myself. It was... belittling, patronizing, as if I hadn't really known myself at all. Then out of the blue one night, he asked me if I was transgender. I had no idea. I thought about it a lot. I told him I didn't know, and he didn't say "it's okay, take your time to think about it " he said, "look, I know what you're feeling is because you are trans because I have friends who went through the exact same thing. Trust me." And guess what I did? I trusted him. He introduced me to his friends who were trans, non-binary and all that junk. They hadn't even transitioned yet (this was before minor surgery became a huge problem). I kept it from my family... for a while. I was in so deep, I started making private digital journals, I followed all of these trans influencers. And who was helping me this whole time? My friend. Now that I think about it, he wasn't supporting me at all. He followed these people's exact same agenda, trying to push me into this new life so fast. It wasn't until I saw pictures of surgically made genitals and it DISGUSTED me. I told my parents about what had been going on those past few months. MONTHS. at that point, I was fully considering going to a private doctor to talk about puberty blockers and T-injections. And I'm so glad I talked to my family about it. I was depressed when I did. I told them my situation and that I was genuinely scared. They told me I wasn't trans, and that was it. That I was being delusional. I didn't exactly want it... I was just going along with what I was being pushed into. I lacked the support I needed but at the same time was receiving the wrong kind of support. It was when I told my therapist everything. I was diagnosed with a depressive episode, it wasn't permanent, and she told my mom that I just needed support. Shortly afterwards, I began embracing my feminine side. I cut off all ties with my friend when I found out my ex boyfriend had been cheating on me with him for about a month almost a week before we broke up. 14 year old me would have been jumping at the opportunity with a private doctor for puberty blockers and surgery. I'm glad I didn't, after hearing so many stories. I'm glad I'm not one of them. If I hadn't told my parents, if I hadn't told my RIGHT friends... I'd be yelling for help like these individuals. I was saved. My family and friends were right to be disgusted and disappointed in me. Again, I'm 17 now. If anyone wants to talk about what's happening in the world, or if you are a detransitioner here on this very platform, don't hesitate to reach out for me or anyone else. I was fortunate to not have ruined my body permanently, but my heart aches for those who did and want to go back. To anyone who replies, I'll provide my social info.
Good to see you got th e courage to speak. In this way you can speak out for those too scared to at the moment. You will encounter a lot of blow back but definitely reach out where you can to these kids and tell them just how you want clothing is not. Mutilating your body is permanent.
You made a very wise decision informing your family about your situation, Many others and I are glad that you were able to get the help you needed. Best of luck to you my friend.
Only parents who are fixated on children’s gender are pushing it. Professionals fixated on children are pushing it. Trust. There are professionals fighting this because WE*** know these children are going through phases like any kid that thinks they are a super hero. Kids are VERY impersonating. They mimic. What you teach is what they learn. If they let them BE THEMSELVES, without having to TALK about the 70 genders they believe in, they would understand themselves instead of seeking help somewhere. It’s an actual issue I see DAILY. I have left since. Working as a dental assistant. This world is going down truthfully.
Remember when there were stories about people suing their parents for having them circumcised? Imagine the wrath of these people when they decide to turn on those (parents, doctors etc) who quite literally destroyed their future - any chance at normal relationships, families etc - with this nonsense.
25 minutes? I don't have time for that. Roughly 1 in 300-500 people identify as trans. About 1-8% ever reverse course, and the vast majority of those reverse before they've done anything surgical. The real mental illness right now is the right wing obsession with trans people, especially among your media and pundits....almost as if they're doing it on purpose 😉
As a 17 year old girl who's struggled with gender dysphoria almost all my life, this video had me crying throughout it. I was raped as a 6 year old, and obviously once that happens you want nothing to do with your body or any connection to the gender that seemingly brought such a horror upon you. Luckily, I've been raised in a Christian household with Biblical views, so my parents didn't encourage my behaviors when I started to show signs of dysphoria, but now that I'm a Christian myself I find it even harder to live with my thoughts and the actions I'll give into to make myself appear more masculine(binding with bandages, wearing baggy clothes to hide my body, etc.). Teens like me NEED more honesty about the dangers of transitioning, and acknowledgement that 'yes, these feelings are real and not made up, but we need help accepting that we were born into these bodies'. I wish there was more media out there helping us come to this conclusion and acceptance of ourselves, the way God made us.
oh, May Lord Jesus protect you and continue to heal your heart and give you heavenly peace when you confess and repent, please share struggles with a trustworthy faithful Christian and ask her to pray for each other every week
Continue to seek out Christ & remember that what you’re feeling is due to trauma. No one knows that better than you. You feel uncomfortable in your body b/c a monster took that from you. I deeply encourage you to seek out therapy, psychologists, support groups, anything that might help you. You will never be as you were, but you can grow into something new & beautiful. Trust in God. Let Him be your guide.
Great video. Heartbreaking 💔 thank you for sharing. I wish love and healing for all these young people. Please know whatever you have had done it doesn’t EVER change the real you, the true you, the YOU that will always be there because YOU are loved. YOU are beautiful. YOU are worthy of living a life however YOU choose too. You are good and you can choose to change AND change back to whoever you want to be. I’m so very sorry for the misunderstanding and withholding of information that the doctors did to you. Sounds incredibly painful. And so very long term. I hope the medical advances are asap to get these issues that create so much pain. Hang in there meds will eventually get better and help for you hopefully is very soon ❤
I think 90% of people feel lost and also uncomfortable in their body at some point during teenagehood. You are constantly changing and the hormones are going crazy. These people just need to know they aren't alone. They are vulnerable to anyone who pretends to care as well
I had a period in my life as teen ,i was so insecure/depresed,I would look at the floor when walking in public...I tought I had gone mad and this is how my life is gonna be.... 2 or 3 years latter I become so confident I was allway in the centre of all girls attention... I am so happy I never used any psyhiatric drugs....I think I would be even bigger mess now than at that time... if alive
The LGHDTV community do their absolute best to silence detransitioners. This is what they do when you don't follow in lock-step with their agenda. They never gave a shit about actual gender dysphoria. It's always been about power, and having dissent within your own community hinders the usurping of that power.
People who talk about it are called transphobic, terf, cancelled, harassed, assaulted & doxxed. Some really good channels that talk about this are: A Slightly Twisted Female, Isle Of Ex ,You're Kiddin', Right? & Shape Shifter
I just turned 15 recently, and I am a conservative teen who constantly gets called a conspiracy theorist by my peers. God bless all the free thinkers out there! 🙏😁🇨🇦🇺🇸
That's great! I'm a 17 year old conservative. It often feels like were alone in our beliefs in real life but we aren't. I don't know if your religious or not, but God has our backs. Even if others hate us and ridicule us, God is there.
@@Nightwizard63 exactly, I am 18 and I have taken to posting conservative posts on my ig story and letting the leftists block and unfollow and am starting to find more of our community that way 😂😅.
@@matchaeylle haha heck yeah! I don't mind making them get angry at me. Because I don't care to much about them. I don't like evil, and I don't like the murder of babies and transing the kids.
as a 16 -year- old who thought she was a boy at 12 and 13. i can say i am so happy my mom sat me down and talked to me about it. she put me in therapy and I did end up having to go to the crazy den, but it made me realize how brainwashed i was. i will forever be proud to be a woman.
I was 16 when they tried that on me. I had went to the clinic up in Cleveland the doctor I had talked to was like yes you are a man blah blah blah. They told me I could walk out with testosterone that day. Then they told at the end of the appointment they can have surgeons lined up and ready for the next time I come in. I told her wait I don’t have money who’s going to pay for this I need to think about this first. She with the straightest face literally told me you could kill yourself before then. I just was like wtf got up and walked out. I think she got fired because last time I heard anything about her she doesn’t work there anymore.
When I was 14 I got sexually assaulted, after that I started to sometimes think I’d prefer to be boy. It was all because I felt that being a girl wasn’t safe and that my girly body was somehow at fault for my assault. It is extremely sad when I think about it now . I had the thoughts of wanting to be a guy even though I’m religious and come from a conservative family so I’m glad that nobody „affirmed“ me in my thoughts. Thank you for speaking on how trauma affects the dysphoria and how it can be just related to hating your body after assault.
God loves you. Nothing in all creation can desperate you from the love of God. Romans 8:38-39 Boys and men unfortunately get sexually assaulted to, and make the mistake and generalization of thinking it wouldn’t happen if they were a girl. It’s almost as if everyone wants to be each other, and people think the grass is greener on the other side. When it’s about not comparing yourself to others, as your life is not their life, and their life is not your life. The grass isn’t greener on the other side, it’s green where you water it. God loves you, you’re never alone, there’s nowhere you can go where he can’t see you. Jeremiah 23:24 And vengeance belongs to The Lord. Romans 12:19. Be careful when your enemy falls not to let your heart leap for joy as God will see that and turn his wrath away from them. Proverbs 24:17-18 . (In my opinion because it’s like “ha, that’s what you get”, etc. which may not be a good mindset to have) but maybe more research can help.
The Detransitioners should start a movement to raise awareness of the consequences of transitioning and how it’s very hard to go back once fully transitioned.
@Humility is Wisdom My transition took over ten years. I used to be a mellow, laid-back guy. I transitioned gradually into a short-tempered grouchy son-of-a-bitch.
Yes. They need to be heard. But what about the flip side? Transitioning legitimately helps some. All angles should be considered. More safe guards put in place for children so some sick crazy doctor can't override parental rights. Perhaps lettings the kids feeling gender dysphoria room to explore there gender socially is the answer rather than just throwing them on blockers and hormones.
@@Kira-zm7vy The flip side is what you're seeing now, stupid! And they and their media propagandists is clearly not willing to give up any power from their cult.
@@Kira-zm7vy But the flip side has been hugely exaggerated, we're lied to all the time. Transexuals are not mercilessly hounded, in fact they're some of the most privileged people on the planet, why else would they be demanding we change the English language for a tiny minority of extreme narcissists? I understand not all trans people are pushing this nonsense, but they need to be the one's that call out the self anointed LGBT.... "Leaders" & "Spokespersons".
i was curious about the vaginoplasty and phalloplasty surgeries. i had this morbid curiosity to see what the end results looked like, to see if they closely resembled the real deals at all. well, i wasn't prepared for what i saw. it is real surgery that can have real complications, and there's absolutely no need for it. i saw pictures of men getting their p**** stripped apart and inverted. saw pictures of women getting skin from their arm ripped off for their procedure. it's absolutely horrible. this feeling came over me so strong that i started crying for those people who went through the surgeries. unnecessary pain and unnecessary risks to their overall health. it cut me so deeply
I can definitely confirm this i was 15 and just 6 months ago I was lesbian and dating my very VERY toxic so called "best friend" (which put my in therapy) my parents found out and i decided to put my faith in the Lord and fully commit my life to Him. I am now on a mission to save my cousin who is also trying to be trans and im warning my sister and other teens. God is good, and i am living with my consequences for my actions. I still worry every day if a Godly man will love me because of my past but i am now rededicated to the Lord and i just hope and pray that other teens will see this and reach out to God.💗✝️
You have been made clean by his blood. It isn't about what you have done it is about what he did for you. Your vaule comes from his actions not yours. Obviously this doesn't mean go off and continue to sin Paul address this but God has given us grace for when we fall short. What is grace? Grace is empowerment to live a holy life that we otherwise could not live without him. Mercy is when we were given a second chance when we didn't deserve it. You are now righteous meaning in right standing with God. The person you once were is dead and crucified with Christ. The person you are now is new. What is flesh is flesh what is spirit is spirit. You may be in the same body you have always had but you have been given a new heart and spirit. Old wine can not go into a new wine skin. Hence you are new for he has filled you with new wine. (His spirit and new life) That is why we are called "born again" for you are a new creation. You actions don't define you his love does. Your identity is now found in Christ. Reguard no man according to the flesh. You are worthy of God's love and worthy of a man of God. Welcome to the faith. Jesus loves you so much.
Yes!! 2 of my cousins say they are LGBT, but my whole family is Christian. I don’t know what to do really. So I’ll try my best to lead them back to God and Jesus. ❤
Its not only kids its adults as well bc humans can't be trans its not biologically possible and if u attempt to do so. It harms. U more then helps, unless we are. In. Some cyberpunk world where we can have. Male robotic bodys and female robotic body's, u are still. Ur birth gender. At heart and. History
The lawsuits need to happen the medical industry the government these people need to be held accountable unfortunately I don't believe it will happen for some time
I'm not allowing it fam. Stop blaming all of society as if we are all guilty, when PLENTY of us have been canceled, lost family and friends and jobs and contacts, and more for sharing our opposing opinion. What more l do you expect me to do, break the law? Kidnap? Throw my own life away by protesting and becoming a social media martyr? I have never been in lock step with anything, and I encourage everyone to use the Socratic Method of asking all the questions to come to their own conclusions. Just because I let others live their own lives against my advice doesn't mean I'm allowing it, especially when I have no authority whatsoever over them. Stop painting with a broad brush. If you are guilty of allowing a child in your care to transition, own it and stop pushing that onto the rest of us who told you to step up before you ruined your kid's life.
I feel like my sister was born now she'd be sucked into the trans ideology. Growing up she had severe issues with connecting to her womanhood. She disliked "girly things", she cut her hair short like a boy, she did not like having large breasts and often made comments on how she'd wish she didn't have them at all. She felt disconnected from herself and wanted nothing to do with being a woman, yet she had a strong need to start a family and have children etc. Now she's almost 40 and she's past all that. She still isn't a typical woman, does not wear make-up, keeps her hair short etc, but she's no longer got that feeling that being a woman is wrong. She never was trans. She just grew up in an abusive household where our father treated any woman in his life like dirt. She saw it growing up and thought there's something wrong with being a woman if we're treated this way by our own father. Now he's dead and we're better for it.
It's very possible, I went through some similar stuff.. & I very tomboy. But like your sister I always wanted children. I'm glad to hear she loves herself again.
I'm the same way tho I prefer my hair on the longer side. Some young girls are getting confused. They think they're a boy just cause they don't do girly things when it reality it's just being a tomboy.
My mother grew up poor for a while because her parents divorced. She never felt 'girly' and hated the annoying, overly feminine girls (think: 70's-80's version of YAS QUEEN). She's explicitly told me multiple times that she's extremely glad she didn't have a family who were like that- that she wasn't indoctrinated into such a cultlike society. God bless you and your sister!
@@trademarktm6905 yeah, because who would ever want your kids to think that they might actually be something other than worm food when they die? Did you also tell them that Santa is a lie, the Easter Bunny is a fake, and that the tooth fairy is total bullshit? What a great childhood they must have!
@@trademarktm6905 why take religion away? Doesn't religion sustain cultural norms and rejects degeneracy? Why else do you think society is crumbling? It doesn't matter if he exists or not, it's just the belief in a God that protects the world from being a totally evil place, and it's slowly dying because of you people. I hope you try to comprehend this, because by the time you do, it might be too late.
It's way too late. Satan has the vast majority of the Western world firmly in his grasp and he won't be letting go. If this is to be corrected, it going to require burying hundreds of thousands of doctors, therapists, teachers, and tyrants. It's going to require putting a couple million in their graves and none of you have the heart for it. None of you have the strength so it will not ever change
@@Nick-bd7gy this. idk what the dude said coz his comment is deleted, but ive always found it funny that people play the 'oh but religion does it' whenever someone argues that the lgbt community leave kids alone. one group is preaching degenerate actions, mostly done by people with PROVEN mental illness as dogma, and thats negatively affecting kids both mentally and physically. while the other is merely preaching about God, and good morals. you can lose your faith in God, you can reject praying or whatever else a religion teaches without issue, most do in fact, but you cant unchop a boys sausage, and you cant undo the permanent damages these transitions and puberty blockers etc do. theyre no where near comparable and i find it hilarious when people try to do so.
It truly upsets me that gender dysphoria isn’t considered a mental disorder anymore. Since so many people are pushing it as an identity anyone could have, the truth is being forgotten. These people need help, and no one is looking at the issue through a truthful lens in order to find a solution that really works. (And yeah, it’s been shown that transitioning doesn’t truly decrease psychological distress because suicide rates are the same whether a gender dysphoric person transitions or not.)
It may not be considered a mental disorder by the scientific community, but I think we all know realistically and logically that it really is a mental disorder. That there is something dysfunctional in the brain that is causing all of this.
It actually is a mental disorder and is recorded in the DSM-5. Not sure where you heard it was no longer a mental disorder, but it is. What this trans gender agenda is all about is getting pedophilia into the DSM-5 so it can classify as a mental disorder, Once that happens, pedophiles can commit a crime, go to court, plead mental disorder and their actions are ruled non-criminal, and they get away with their actions (crime). They can then use this gender dysphoria as an excuse to rape children and say the children (of the opposite sex_ wanted and consented to it. It is very nefarious what they are trying to do but the APA is 100% on board. Ya'll need to fight back, FYI
Please find the studies that back it up, oh that's right- you can't. Gender dysphoria is a symptom of being trans and gender dysphoria is considered a mental disorder that can be professionally diagnosed lol. The only way to treat it is by transitioning. The issue with de-transitioners is either that there's trauma that lead them to have gender dysphoria or even body dysmorphia. It is up to the individual to decide wether they want to transition and HOW. Meaning, some transgender people only transition socially and express themselves in the gender they identify as without any surgeries or HRT. Counless studies DO show that after transirioning, transgender people feel relieved, and have less or even no experience of gender dysphoria though.
To say that children aren't being groomed for this is an understatement. I remember when gangsta rap became a thing when I was in middle school. Everyone started wearing flannels and we swore up and down that we were thugs. This is the school and the parents fault
The sad part is most of the schools don't even tell their parents about any of it and will just call the kid whwt it wants to some schools have permission to give kids medications behind parents back shits scary
It isn't so much grooming, it is indoctrinating like a cult. The Doctors in this case are the Cult Leaders/Clergy in this case and are profitting HEAVILY off of this.
That is so heartbreaking. That video should be shared far and wide. So many people let down by adults and professionals willing to do this, knowing the harm and not knowing long term consequences. That absolutely destroyed me. I hate that all of these people are having to deal with this
Trans people that genuinely feel uncomfortable in their current bodies do it easily. The genitals I was born with didn’t match up with my gender, so I took hormones to help change that. They have helped greatly.
As somebody who was sexually assaulted for years as a child, I remember that when I started hitting puberty, I unconsciously hated it and did everything in my power to stop it because I couldn’t bare the idea of becoming a woman. I dressed with masculine clothes and I even developed severe anorexia because I knew it would somewhat “stunt” my normal growth and people wouldn’t sexualise me. It’s scary that had this happened now, the doctors or the people around me would have suggested my being trans, and I would have probably believed it cause I was young and broken and didn’t know any better
It's of no surprise to me that until very recently the largest, almost exclusive trans group was middle aged straight men & younger gay men. Today it's majority young girls, often prepubescent. We need to be asking why that explosion occurred in the last 6 or 7 years. There is usually another reason behind their 'want' to transition. What you've told us is one of them. Another is not accepting ones sexuality (most if not all are gay). Or for family/religious pressure. Or sadly, for attention or to stand out. Until we thoroughly investigate why this has only recently begun (the 'trans'), we should call a halt to the whole thing.
I'm so sorry for what you went through. Thank you for being brave in sharing and helping people realize that a gender "transition" will never fix the underlying hurt and pain caused from that.
I remember when i was 11 i had a tooth growing in the roof of my mouth that needed to be removed and i had no clue what was really going on when the dentist was explaining all the options and possible outcomes. I cant imagine how little you'd understand about something as big as transitioning at such a young age.
When my son was 8 we had an addition put on our house and he wanted one of the new rooms. He would not listen when I told him his current room was bigger and had two windows. Nope had to have a new room. When he was 16 he was like why TF did you let me choose this tiny room? I was just a dumb kid! And that was a Bedroom.
These people dont have common sense - they will say kids can't consent to sex/drinking/ or other adult activities but are perfectly capable to consent to removing a part of their body or permemnantly changing it. Because somehow, not being able to understand the dangers of overconsuming alcohol, the nature of sex, or the basics of taking out a loan, doesn't mean you can't understand the consequences of cutting off your body parts?
Thank God for you Brett, when I first found your channel I thought you were interesting and brave, but reading the comments , you are more than interesting you are giving young people a fighting chance! ❤
Depends on how far down the road you go i guess...harder to detrans for ftm i think, since their voice is changed to be masculine and maybe has to relearn the female voice like mtf did.
@@dennygunawan208 It's hard for both, they can't grow theis penis back. They can't grow their breasts back. And listen to the first guy voice, it's totally fucked up. These ppl destroyed their bodies, this is very sad.
@@traduzindo_shorts well, what i keant is before the surgery stuff. Surgery is a point of no return and as far as i know, not all trans did it, since its very expensive and quite scary. Isnt the first guy is female by birth?
@@traduzindo_shorts If you mean the red-headed guy with the beard, the 1st video, I thought he started out male, because of the shape of his hands, arms and shoulders. Obviously you can put on muscle with hormones, but I don't think bone structure changes. Man, you gotta feel so sorry for these people. The problem starts out in the emotions, and ends up physical.
I was so close to being one of these people. when i was 14 i was convinced i was a girl, my parents made me stop consuming trans media. after a few months of not seeing anything about it those feelings vanished. i dont think i would be alive today if i transitioned
Glad you’re with us. I was almost one too that’s why this pains me so much. When it really is just part of the pangs of growing up, there’s things you’re not gonna like about yourself, you’re body is gonna feel uncomfortable for awhile. But the worst thing you can do is mitigate yourself while this is going on. I always told myself if I still felt like that when I was of age I could do something about it. Turns out I’m just not that “traditional” and it’s totally fine.
The fact is that they keep pushing this on you, and if you keep seeking it out, it will keep being pushed on you and you’ll eventually believe it keeps being pushed on your. It may take some people longer than others before they fall into the belief of what they are seeing or hearing, but the fact is that it starts with curiosity. You see it or you hear it or you read something about it and you get curious so you start looking up more about it And then you start thinking about it and then you start thinking about yourself and it comes together you start thinking do I wanna be a girl or do I want to be a boy and then you start thinking it’s not about do I want to it’s about do I feel like I am And I really do believe that your experience is a great example of this because of the fact that you were exposed to it so much and it became the one thing that you were seeing on the Internet every time you went on Facebook or TH-cam or Instagram or whatever it consumed you and it was only once you got away from it and your parents keeping you away from it, did you realize oh I am me the way I was born not the way they told me I am and it’s OK to have some traditionally feminine traits in your personality But that doesn’t make you transgender and it doesn’t mean that you are a woman. I just hate the fact that so many people are so quick at the instant that someone starts showing any feminine traits or doing anything traditionally, feminine that this community of transgender people are so quick to say he’s a woman let’s start the transition process, like the show I am Jazz on TLC. They literally say at least once an episode we knew she was a girl when she was three years old and that’s why we started transitioning her at the age of three years old. It’s completely normal to be curious about what you are as a human and know that this is an ideology that is available And it’s completely normal to find out what is right for you. I am really thankful to your parents and I’m really glad that you realized oh, I thought I was a girl, but it turns out I am not, and it was just me consuming all of this transgender media that was confusing me so good for you
This is all so sad! My niece was SA when she was 13 which was obviously traumatizing for her. Sometime later she had befriended a transgender person (girl to boy). After that she decided not to be the girly girl she always was her whole life and said she wanted to be a boy. And demanded to be called a different name. Her parents said no and she got mad and took a bunch of pills and ended up in the psych ward. They had family therapy sessions where they told my brother and sister in law that they wouldn’t allow her to go home until they agreed to her demands! So they agreed and brought her home. I couldn’t believe they never suggested therapy for the SA she suffered! I believe she wanted to be a boy to feel less vulnerable and have some control. Because she felt so helpless. After that she demanded testosterone treatment. Thankfully they could never afford it. She has so much control over her parents now it’s crazy! If she doesn’t have her way in everything she threatens to unalive herself. She’s in her 20s now and lives with her parents still, doesn’t work or have a life. She’s the biggest hermit I’ve known. They are all miserable. It saddens me so much that she never got the help she really needed to heal. She was the sweetest most adorable little girl and she’s so intelligent, she could have done anything she wanted. But she’s too messed up to move forward and live her life. 😞😢 I’m just so glad she (so far) hasn’t done any gender affirming treatment!! These people purposely pushing this agenda on children are truly evil!
This is the "lobotomy" movement of this century. There is lot of money that therapists and medical professionals so why milk it. It is so concerning for parents whose kids are in that vulnerable age group.
I believed that I was trans off and on for about five years. I went through many different labels: gender fluid, nonbinary, trans man, demiboy, etc. The summer before my freshman year I went through some stuff with my biological dad that led to me having acute stress disorder. Later during my freshman year I completely decided that I was a boy. I cut my hair, binded with sports bras, wore boy’s clothes, and went by a different name and had people call me “he” at school. I planned on getting on testosterone and having surgery when I got older. Thank God one day at the beginning of my sophomore year my (step)dad sat me down and told me that I wasn’t trans, that it was a result of the internet, the extremely liberal school I went to, and what I went through that summer. I was angry at first and I believed that he was wrong and a bad person and “how dare he not let me express myself” until I really thought about it. I believed that I was “finally happy with myself” despite being extremely suicidal (having attempted or come close to before), self harming, and having an eating disorder. For a long time I believed that parading myself around as a boy made me happy but it didn’t, the attention I got made me happy. I was praised on social media and at school. I realized my mistake. I began to socially detransition (thankfully I hadn’t undergone any medical “treatment”) I ended up losing every single friend at school except for one. ONE. My parents had my sister and I delete TikTok (which I firmly believe everyone should do because it is an absolute cesspool) and I ended up leaving that school and switching to a different one for my junior year. I grew my hair back out, I wear makeup again, and I finally dress like the girl that I am and always have been. But most of all, I finally feel like me again. I didn’t know who I was for years and I have finally found me for the first time since I was a little kid. I have never been happier. Thank God that my dad talked to me that day, if he hadn’t, I most likely wouldn’t still be alive. All of this aside, I know that everything worked out in the end but I can’t help but regret everything so deeply, my first two years of high school were horrific because of this, and it’s disgusting that even my teachers went along with it and kept it from my parents. It makes my stomach turn when I think about it. I’m terrified for my future children. I don’t know what’s going to happen. All I can do is pray.
Good for you for realizing it wasn't true. Most people wouldn't have the brain cells and reasoning to realize. They would have just compared what their "friends" were saying and what the public thought instead of what their own family thought. More people need families and a parent like your father, even they can fold to social to social pressure and think that's what's right for their kids when it's not
im happy for you, but one thing that makes trans people trans are the fact that they don't understand femininity does not equal being a female and masculinity does not equal to being a male, i hope you and more people understand this. :)
Your story could change life’s! I encourage you to keep sharing. 🙌🏼 Any advice for someone to help people who struggle with this to know the truth in their identity?
I'm hearing a pattern of childhood trauma stories that might contribute to this disorder. A lot of these people were victims of severe abuse and rape as children. That in itself should be talked about more.
@@teru_9921 A large percentage of them are autistic. They did a test out in Sweden. How was affecting the bodies. They actually followed the children and paid close mind to every detail. So close that they found out the majority of these children were autistic... And when you take a step back and you look at the majority of the individuals that are going through this they are on the spectrum.
@@Journeestothesmokeymoon I had things happen to me but I never took it as an abusive thing against my own body. That they were sick evil people.. But I was a very physical child. Swam, on the swim team. Ballet. Gymnastics.. I played hard. I was the kid that would get covered in mud. Haha get my shoes stuck in one of the tallest trees in the town. I ran hard with all of the boys. I had some girlfriends but. I wasn't into anything that they were into.. My mother was against makeup. Only because we were born of course they didn't want to spend any extras red scent of their money on me.. It was all for their drugs.. Literally I had to start buying my own clothes by 7th grade. I was like wow this sucks.. We moved, in our lives went downhill fast. It was horrible... But the way they treat this generation.. As a teenager. I played really hard. Surfing. Splunking. Horseback riding. Hunting. Camping. Fishing. Building forts.. We built a treehouse that we called the condo. Three stories in the sky. Loved it. Parents watched over us, so much fun.. When I moved out of the house, that's whenever I was able to put on makeup. And actually style myself like a girl... Every one of my guy friends were like holy crap you look like that. You still look like you look when you were hanging out with us. If you looked like that then I would have dated you.. I'm like everyone has had the balls to say that, I'm going to have the balls to say this back. Really dude You're going to say that. I admitted, I'm happy my mother didn't allow me to wear makeup. Because I had a lot of fun hanging out with you guys.. I had a hard life. So running hard and playing hard was one way I could turn a negative into pure gold.. I learned really young, never to allow others actions or thoughts about me to hurt me. Water off a duck's back float don't flounder. My mother would say all the time. Be the weeping willow. For her branches sway with the wind They don't snap with the storms of life... Hot damn. The weeping willow story finished on her desk. I took my mother's death pretty hard crying The moment I found out cuz I knew that day she was dying. I'm gifted I can tell when people are passing I could feel death on them. death and I have a relationship. I've almost died six times. My mother and I always joke that we have nine lives. She actually died on her 9th life.. That day coming home from work. Atlanta Georgia. Off the side of the highway there's a farm. I pull over, He has a single willow tree growing in a field.. I parked, get caught on barbed wire. Cut myself rip my clothes. I can feel the farmer looking at me. Crying tripping falling getting up and running to the tree. And absolute bawling mess... I'm crying sitting under his tree. Big beautiful old willow.. The wind is blowing It's really hot out. The leaves are chattering with the wind. Every time they blew I could hear my mother. I'm with you I'm with you. You're going to take this hard. I'm with you I'm so sorry. The farmer walks up.. He's like, ma'am ma'am are you okay? Oh sweetie you're bleeding. He hands me a hanky and pulls out another hanky and starts cleaning me up. He's like are you okay? This tree it seems mighty special to you? He sits down and says you don't mind if I take a seat do you? I said no I'm so sorry. Forgive me My mother died. My mother always told me to be the weeping willow for her branches sway with the wind Never snapping with the storms of life. I knew she was dying and she died today. It's been a rough day. A weird day. Seems like there's angels popping out everywhere too. I introduced myself and apologized for breaking on to his land.. He said Oh bless you. I'm so very sorry. You want to hear something really nice. I think it will encircle and finish your story of the willow. He said, a willow will not grow where there is no water. For a man thirsts and he finds a willow growing in a field. Dig and you will find water. For water is the essence of life. We cannot live without it. So from the roots up the willow is one of the strongest trees. It is the tree that is the sign of life. For when the storms blow she is strong from the roots up.. Oh I cried in this dirty oily farmer. Held me apologize cuz he wasn't clean I said you're fine. I grew up on a farm. All kinds. My uncle owns a cattle farm. My other uncle owns and everything farm. We have everything you could ever need on that farm.. You smell like home. I said, you've been cleaning your guns? You smell like gun oil. You smell like my pap.. haha 😆 He said well there Yes I was. Interesting. It's amazing how a smell can bring you back to something. And I looked at him and said home. Yes. He helped me up and said you're not going through that part of the fence and walked me around the other part. Through his gate. Which was not far down I just missed it and all my tears... And my mother's apology. I soon found out. When I got to the house, her number called. I answered the phone and it was empty. I hung up immediately and called my brother at hospice. And I said, is anyone at home? He said no, I said no ones at the house no one's staying with you? He said no. We are all here. With Mom. I said I love you I have to go. I screamed out mom the phone rang. It was her number. It sounded like ever ending, not an echo as if it was reverberating back to you but when I spoke and talked to her it sounded like my voice carried on forever it was incredible. I laid there on the floor and cried for 4 hours. My little one, four years old. I soaked his shorts with my tears. And he said that's okay Mommy. Got up got himself changed. Made me lay down. And then proceeded to put together dinner. PBJ. Grapes. Granola bar. Fishies, peanut butter crackers. Fig Newtons. And chocolate chip cookies for dessert.. and an assortment of juice boxes for my choice. I woke up the whole house was dark. Except for the kitchen light, my little one walks in good evening. I have dinner.. Blown away. Blown away. I was like okay Mommy you're doing a good job. Haha 😆 I found out the next day why my mom was saying I'm sorry. The last 3 years of her life she was angry at me. I put my foot down with her. She wouldn't stop her shenanigans and drugs. That's what led to her death. For the first time I made her stand on her own two feet and she lost a lot of things.. And she was angry at me.. She told my aunt and my grandmother not to have me at her funeral. My mom was crying before she died and her last thing that she said was. I'm so sorry I shouldn't have done what I did your sister's going to be hurt so hurt. I tried to tell Mimi that she wouldn't listen. She said she's standing firm. Your sister's going to be crushed. Tell her I said I'm sorry. And died.. My grandmother and aunt within 10 minutes of each other said that I was selfish for wanting to come home to see my mother to my grave. Instead of being honest and telling me, like my brother was. She was angry. And she did something wrong. My brother got it right away. He actually didn't go to the funeral, because of the way they treated me. He was like that ain't right guys. Especially because I was my mother's keeper not my aunt and I forced my grandmother to stop so that my mom would be clean. It was just the last 3 years of life that took her hard.. for the first time in my life, I let go. I've been my mother's keeper since I've been five.. I'm so happy I wasn't born in this generation. I'm so happy for the strife struggles every bit of it. So grateful. So grateful I have the mind that I have. The gut. The eyes to see the ears to hear and the mind and gut to discerned.
@@Journeestothesmokeymoon But literally if this weird society was in my life. My god how awful. As a teen I played so hard and literally was a mess. Even though I was a ballerina. I was a ballerina with boo-boos. 🤣 Girls would look at me and go ew. Hahaha 😂 I'd rather play with the boys then play with girls. No thanks. Boys don't judge that hard. And they just play and have fun. Riding bikes riding skateboards going surfing canoeing boating fishing hunting. Girls are boring. I had so much fun with the boys. I couldn't imagine life growing up as it is now. It's warped and they've destroyed our world kids don't have much to go to anymore.. The malls are gone. Or almost destroyed. They've wanted us to cancel all of the malls all of the stores. They wanted to shut down all of the precious mom and pop stores. They want to just their big box stores open and then they'll close those. Are you being a good little American? Do you get printed meat this month? Or do you get to eat crickets or mealworms. Oh what they are doing We are living through a horrible experiment. See people don't realize within synthetic biology and biotechnology. They want to grow life form outside of the body. Hence why they are using males trying to implant a uterus and grow a baby in them. I'm not joking. Yes they're doing that. It's really sick and disgusting. The world that they are going through, they're trying to synthesize everything. That's what the merck manual is. Rockefeller sought out to synthesize everything. Everything. You know even if a chemical is the same as a chemical. Such as they consider folic acid folate. It's not. If a person's methyl pathways don't function properly. That chemical changes into a chemical within the cyanide family. It gets trapped in their cells. 40 to 60% of the population can't methylate properly. They have genetic mutations or AKA deformations. The majority of individuals that are going through these hardships, considering to be stuck in the wrong body. A high percentage of them are autistic. It's horrible. It's manipulative of a generation that has lack of empathy and emotion. And it's absurd and psychologically damaging what they are doing to these children. Also we have tons of xenoestrogens from glyphosate. Glyphosate is used in everything even organics. Whenever they state no synthetic pesticide used. Well glyphosate is considered organic. Because the chemical byproduct of it is a chemical salt. It's not organic. It's a xenoestrogen. And it mimics glycine. When uptaken by the cell as glycine it has an extra chemical tail which leaves an open door to invade your cells. Such as prions. Proteins. Given to us by the jabbawockeez. Considered viruses.. mutating DNA via RNA by infiltrating the lymphocyte B cells with viruses. Copying your information handing over its then it has free reign to lay dormant within the vagus nerve or enter the mitochondria cell. Literally since 1799 their pin cushion projects have been bringing harm to people. You can see the genetic mutations as you've looked down your lineage line. Russian roulette are you going to get cancer, are you going to get metabolic disease, are you going to get autoimmune which is a huge bubble of illnesses. Are you going to get Alzheimer's or MS or ALS or CJD or CWD and Alzheimer's is 10 different forms of dementia add-on early onset and childhood. That wasn't around whenever I was young.. They know that synthetics hurt many individuals. They know what they are doing. No one's paying attention to the nano technology that they have been doing. Here's a book for you geoengineered transhumanism Elana Freeland. It'll blow your mind. Truly an encyclopedia for your studies. Of what's really happening. We're in big trouble big big trouble. We are in the fight for the human genome. And the terraforming of our world and history. Please check out Michelle Gibson She is the professor of the mudflood community. Go to her alignment playlist 2016. You'll see a little map with alignments on it for her thumb now. Start there.. JonLevi go to his playlist and just watch all of them. His very first one on antique technology it talks about nanotechnology. Tesla re-engineered the technology that they stole. Many people don't realize that he re-engineered the earthquake machine. They can have earthquakes, they also re-engineered DEW which is no more than mirrors that use direct energy from the Sun plasma to burn things incinerate them literally spontaneous combustion. The Catholic Church was the very first people to put this in writing and their explanation was God was punishing man for being drunk with spirit. Hans Christian Andersen used some of the Catholic writings and medical studies they were doing for inspiration for bleak house. That was the first publication of spontaneous combustion. I've been following this since I've been 8 years old. And studying it. It's no more than DEW. Tesla said if you wish to know the universe thinking vibration and frequency. Peter Davey I call him a natural born engineer others call him a tinker. A musician, one day he was playing the saxophone and everything around him vibrated. He built a machine and this machine could boil water in 3 seconds. Do you know what that would do for nuclear power? Nuclear power is so deadly. These deadly rods heating up water to create steam and convection that turns a fan. Sadly a little bit after Peter shows his technology. He had it for 30 years and he was boiling water for tea. One of his friends witnessed him making water for tea and had to let the world know what he had made. Shocking that Germany right now at this time is releasing frequency heat technology. There's another person I would love you to check out. Jarid Boosters.. Mr booster's work is incredible I've never seen a library like his. He actually has pamphlets and papers of the old times where they show that they had free heat and free electricity. Boiler heat. This is the technology that they took over. And they couldn't get it right. Especially after their mud floods. I'm not joking I think there's a correlation within the synthetic biotechnology that they've been bringing forth and the radioactive material that they keep having us dig for as well as having nuclear power plants. They are not clean energy. Water follows fault lines. Nuclear power plants need water. Water follows fault lines and that is just a huge no no we've already had two big no-nos. Happen. This rabbit hole is so deep and so dark. But I want people to see at least what's happened in their past and what is happening at this very moment. I'm not going to get into the programmable matter technology and AI cuz it's deep.. I hope my words find you. We are so blessed the generation we were born in.
@@MzClementine and because they're on the spectrum, they're easilly influenced by social media. Added that they're teenagers and probably younger, basically the age where they're emotionally and psychologically vulnerable. I'm on the spectrum but I never consider myself a fvckin gender that I'm clearly not, I still retain my common sense and matured healthily like normal adults. So like I said, they need help, not people enabling their delusions.
Something a lot of people don’t know about bottom surgery is, your body can and most of the time *will* treat your “vagina” like a wound, meaning it will scab up and close up, it’s not talked about but it can be absolute hell on a persons body.
Because that's literally what it is. They don't put a vaginal canal inside of them. It's literally a wound. Look at procedure pictures if you can stomach them.
I was shocked when Brett said that. An open... wound!!! Like ... we should know this. This should be common knowledge by now!!! I had no idea. I did know some people could have a wall collapse which sounds pretty horrific.
I don't get why they don't just make the labia and call it a day, wouldn't that help someone feel better about their gender rather than a painful wound? ( Just asking, I honestly don't know much about these operations)
@@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver So they don't show after pictures to the prospective patient? They don't explain the pros and cons of the surgery? Of course the patient never imagines there could be a negative side effect. What kind of monsters parading as doctors would do this to anyone without making sure the person has given informed consent? A doctor on another forum suggested that the hormones they trans patients do not follow the normal course of natural hormones so people's emotions and responses are out of whack. What kind of sick society do we have where hospitals boast about sex reassignment surgery for children, where parents foam at the mouth repeating strange reports of the therapeutic benefits of genital mutilation of their own children and government that is the grand cheerleader of these kinds of surgeries?
Been watching you for over a year, yet somehow just now found this video- TMI time: I’ve always had issues when it came to my parts. I could never find the words. Today I was given the words that match what I’ve felt for years- I just don’t want them. And yes, I was “mistreated” when I was young. Thank you for shedding light on this subject. I now have the words I’ve been looking for and can now take the next steps in finding help and helping my marriage.
as a 15 year old detransitioner, i am so glad i never got any of the "gender affirming care" i wanted when i wanted it because i would've deeply regretted it. I used testosterone boosters from local drugstores and it had a bit of an affect on my body that i still regret to this day. my voice deepened and it gave me extremely irregular periods, so much so to the point that i would go 6+ months without a cycle. although these changes seem small, they are more than small to me and it honestly makes me upset that i did this to myself. transitioning at a young age is very dangerous because you'll never know wether or not it truly is "just a phase."
@@praetorian3902 exactly. my paediatrician told me that the irregular periods are more than likely irreversible due to how much of the t boosters i took (nearly a bottle every week, as i was unsupervised during the phase) so if i ever get pregnant in the future, i wouldn't know for sure unless i took a test.
as a 17 year old who was not educated enough on this topic this im really grateful for brett cooper. she might have been the person that opened my eyes and thanks to her voice, and so many others ofc, i think i might have just saved myself for a lot of trouble in the future.
I identified as a boy for a year. I loved how i was embraced by a community of friends, but I never felt like a boy. I started identifying as a boy after a really traumatic event at 16, that made me hate my body. I mistook this for gender dysphoria. I’m so glad a good friend questioned my new identity and the Lord spoke to me, because i’m recovering now and I love being a girl. I didn’t get any surgeries, but I would have regretted them. Thank you for this video, Brett. Former trans kids appreciate them.
I never identified as non binary or trans or used any of these gender labels, but after therapy I realised that I wasn't asexual or lesbian, it was just because I went trough something traumatic qnd it was reflected on how I view intercourse. I'm quite sure that these people could benefit from proper psychological support and understand what makes them feel like they are *insert pronoun/ gender here *
I have daddy issues because of my father. That means I'm scared of men and I get along better with women. That's not to blame men, that's on me to deal with. If I wasn't aware of the trauma I have, I probably would have been swept up by the lgbt community. I cannot imagine where I would be now.
I’ve watched my aunt turn my male cousin into a girl over the last 7 years. She decided because he liked “girls things” at age 8ish he wanted to be a girl. She received an immense amount of online/ family support for her transgender son… Which I believed encouraged her to push it even further. They got a segment on the local news for the “first transgender” in the ELEMENTARY school! The same on I went to as a child. I truly can’t believe even now he’s a young teen and has a different name. I don’t think she can even comprehend that she may have completely ruined her own child’s life forever. I pray to God that he isn’t convinced to get on hormones and surgery. I watched this happen over the years and I don’t truly believe it was his choice to be a girl, I believe his mother desperately wanted a girl instead of boy (she has two boys) I don’t think there is anything I can do to help my little cousin without being called hateful but I’m almost at the point where I don’t care and I’m about to put a copy of Irreversible Damage in her mail box.
You need to keep her from getting him on medicine or surgery, he will tha k u as an adult later on. This trend of mutilating kids will be looked at in the future the same way we look back on lobotomies now, horrific
I have two teen daughters, 15 and 16, both fully vaxed. My husband and I just had our 3rd baby, a little boy. This Go Around, when getting my baby boy vaxd he had a horrible reaction, like uncontrollably shaking, screaming, giant softball lump at injection site, rash all over his body for about a week. I wasnt sure which vax caused it bc they gave him 3 at the same time. I kept calling my docs office, they repeated their generic reply of "some kids just react like that, if his fever is great than... take him to the hospital." We'll after about a week, constant baby Tylenol, lack of sleep he went back to his happy bubbly self. Over the phone, I told my ped my concerns, but the office and our doc swore up and down it was normal. Due to that reaction, I requested one shot per visit, and they requested if that was my request that i come in every week. So each week I went back to get my baby's next shot. On this one particular vax was three seperate shots, my son already received the 1st dose, when he had the 3 and bad reaction. Now he went in for the 2nd shot and had the same horrible reaction. I again expressed my concerns which were dismissed. I did some research and found that it can cause problems for some children. I told my doc I wanted to wait on the 3rd shot for that particular vax, my doc belittled me basically saying I would kill my child if he didn't get all of the vaccines right away. I told him no and stood my ground, I asked that we proceed with the other vaccines he just told me where so important to my sons health and you know what my doc said? It's my right to refuse but it's their right to kick us out and they did. So much for wanting to help my son and give him the oh so important life saving rest of the vaccines he still needed. I later found out they get a kick back for getting so many kids vaccines with in a certain time frame. Disgusting Long story longer my new ped is amazing and we love her. She listened to my concerns and thinks my son had a neurological reaction to the d a t a p vaccine. She even said don't get a flu bc I work from.home and my son isn't in day care it isn't needed. So refreshing to have an honest kind hearted healthcare worker. I feel like that's rare nowa days.
I remember as a kid I either was rolling around in red mud, playing with Barbies, shooting plastic army men off my bathtub with a squirt gun, or just loving watching cartoons. I feel so sorry for kids now days. I was tomboy and girly girl, thank God my parents just let me be a kid. Stop messing with the kids
Being a tomboy is completely fine. It's like having the best of both worlds through hobbies and interests. Being trans is just pure degeneracy and depravity.
Watching your video on the topic make me feel so sad about all broken souls and lives. I do see the problem in using these people as life long clinic clients and drugs users. So the doctors and pharm companies make money in advance. As a subscriber from Russia I have to say that one year ago it became banned. And such a restrictive act is not because of dictatorship. Just because in last few years the influence of Western countries and States became sooo heavy from social media, movies, magazines and so on, that it was out of control. And I’m happy that being parents in my country now is having rights for you children life and body. I send all my prays to people who were harmed by the greedy and heartless people💜
I’m grateful to have never gone through with surgical procedures to change my gender. From as far back as I can remember, I always felt like there was something wrong with me. I never really ‘thought like a woman’. I’ve been told I have a more masculine way of perceiving the world, whatever that means. Out of feeling different, and just wanting to fit in somewhere, and just generalized confusion, I began to experiment with transitioning. I cut my hair very short, I began going by a new name, and I even started binding behind my parents back. I ended up going to an IOP program for depression when I had just turned 15. (IOP, or Intensive Out Patient, is kind of like living at a mental hospital, but only for 8 hours a day and then you go home to sleep) As soon as I stepped into that room, they asked for your name, age,… and pronouns. Naturally, I panicked. What was I supposed to say? I decided to tell them that I was a He/Him, and they all celebrated for my ‘bravery’. I ended up telling my therapists to not inform my parents of my gender crises, and they unfortunately agreed, while also giving suggestions on HOW to fully transition behind their backs. I was still 15 at this time… I was at my most vulnerable, and I kind of feel betrayed. I recently left that program, was diagnosed with autism, and the world is so much clearer. The fact is that they didn’t even consider it could have been something else other than gender dysphoria. Kids with autism are known to struggle with feeling out of place in their own gender.. We have come to a point where we can’t even trust Mental Health institutions. They will do things behind parents backs and encourage children to do drastic things. I’m so grateful I escaped that headspace before I made a huge mistake.
Them worried about family members being disappointed in them for detransitioning is the most disturbing thing in all of this. It's actually mind-bending.
Probably because family members go through a ton of emotional turmoil from their family member being trans. It makes sense after all the support and challenges people would feel deeply guilty and ashamed that after all that they want to go back. This stuff has a profound impact on all involved
It doesn’t help that the media and the trans industry keeps telling them that their loved ones are going to kill themselves if they didn’t comply. These people are master manipulators and gaslighters. They’re truly evil!
I suspect money is a big reason. It's not the kids who pay the surgeries. The parents might have spent a house or two worth of money - perhaps debt - to cover just the first transition.
It's always hard on the family when you quit some goal you were very passionate about and make everyone think that it's your life purpose and made everyone invested emotionally (and financially). It's kind of like quiting violin after years and years of practice..
@@Kat-zx1pj No it's not. If it were like quitting anyting, it would be quitting drugs or cigarettes. Transitioning isn't a goal. There is no such thing as transitioning in a literal sense. It is only the erection of facade. Biology is biology. "Hard on the family"? I'd say, the opposite is true.
This breaks my heart! I am almost 60, I have 10 siblings and 5 children. I myself was uncomfortable with my body as I turned into a woman, so were several of my sisters and all of my daughters. My brothers didn’t talk about it, but I saw them struggle through puberty and the changing voice, body hair and just those awkward years. If someone had told me or any of us that if we struggle, we must be the opposite sex?!!! We would fail as a society! We need to discuss with our kids why their bodies are changing and why they feel the way they do. It’s a natural confusing, and uncomfortable time for every child. Don’t change them! Help them grow into who they are supposed to be.
People don’t understand how easily children or teens can be influenced and it is so sad.
They teach kids at a very young age in school about all the different genders. Just to make all the other kids that identify differently, feel socially accepted. So confusing to pre-teens, they begin to question themselves ... And their own identity😢
Seriously tho. So many teens hop on a band wagon just to fit in or get attention. Their brains aren’t even fully developed yet! There’s no possible way they can comprehend the life long effects of these kinds of procedures.
teens aren't easily influenced, dumb people are easily influenced
as a teen i can completely confirm this
@@mistersirthethird The best thing to do as a teen (but don't do it just because you're told) is to follow your gut instinct. Your instinct usually tells you to rebel against everyone, question everything, and believe nobody.
Don't let peer pressure take that away from you. Always doubt everything.
You'll be fine :)
You can't go to war, get a tattoo, buy or drink alcohol, vote until you're 18-21, but you can transition at 10 years old even after ONLY ONE therapy session and your parents don't even have to know or give permission in some states. Absolutely DISGUSTING.
“I didn’t need surgery… I needed therapy!” Seriously that was so sad.
It’s true because these people feel lost and their form of coping is telling themselves they’ve found themselves. That is why they make it their personality as well
That applies to all of them. As a trauma su4viver myself, i see it in them. The hurt, the denial, the victimization of themselves... been there (in another context)
@@piiinkDeluxe same
Basically what we were all saying 7 years ago.
@@piiinkDeluxe not all of them thank you lmao.
Telling an adolescent that gender transitioning will alleviate their gender dysphoria sounds like telling an anorexic they'll feel better if they were skinnier.
"you won't hate your body once you make it unrecognizable!!!"
or even getting a stomach reduction surgery
I would say it a little bit differently: it's like telling an anorexic that they'll feel better if they had their stomach resection. For me as an educated grown up man who hasn't lost his logic and common sense in this absurd world, any gender related "problems" are a psychiatric disorder, which can should be treated, or at least eased by psychiatric methods, including hormone therapy corresponding to their biological sex
Truth. Someone wanting to mutilate themselves is displaying symptoms of severe mental issues. Encouraging them to go through with their self-harm does not help them, and it is ludicrous and extremely harmful to people to even suggest that it would.
On that same note, its literally the only disorder that we affirm like this. We don't affirm hoarders, eating disorders, cutters, all issues that normally stem from trauma and insecurity just like gender dysphoria.
Imagine the day we start "treating" schizophrenia by acknowleding the voices
Young sir there is a verse from a song that goes like this. _The day we give in is the day we die_ . Fits the scenarios of today's reality.
"And what pronouns do the voices go by?"
@@HelpW4nted so many voices at least one will be a pirate
Actually it has proved an efficient treatment for patients with auditory hallucinations. Rather then trying to suppress the voices, they tried to get patients to be aware of them and then laugh about them or comment with their psychiatrists. In many cases it has proved effective since not pushing hard on dismissing them relieved the tesion of hearing them again. This said, your comment was actually very funny for the context.
@@alys_grace_ No,they might ask the person about them,but they try very hard to get rid of them.
"I still wear make up, but make up and hair does not make a woman". Exactly, my heart goes to you.
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I hope not, I haven't worn makeup in years. Doesn't make me a bit less female- maybe less feminine but the cramps and associated pain (and by bra size) did a pretty good job of making sure I remember I'm female 🥴
Imagine telling a schizophrenic that the voices they‘re hearing are real and that they‘re perfectly healthy and special for hearing them.
Wait, that would be crazy, wouldn't it?
Have you ever heard of headmates?
@@SubtleStair Lol.
That would be an absolute nightmare
Except schizophrenia causes the person extreme harm, and sometimes harm to other people. So tha'ts not comparable to being transgender.
I have a brother, when we were little he would play barbies with me, he would play dress up with me, he would let me do his makeup, and even want to do mine. That does not mean he's gay or anything, its just having the influence of growing up with a sister. Same thing with me too. I would play cars with him, he absolutely loved cars, dirt bikes, quads, even owned a few. I grew up knowing so much about cars, I was very tomboyish too. I liked hunting lots of physical activities too, yk the usual ' hated dresses', 'didn't like pink', blah blah blah. But that was because why? Because I grew up with the influence of a brother. It does not make me trans, or anything. yes it may from your understanding but I can assure you, i'm nowhere close to being trans, same with my brother.
Same with me and my brothers I agree with this
100% it's called being a kid, exploring and having fun haha
absolutely True!@@WantedFoShow
Very True!..Fairly same experiences as a normal kid in a home with brothers and sisters! or with close male or female friends since childhood who were playmates on a daily basis..that's not make us transgender!
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As a detransitioner, I was once approached to take part in a research study on detransitioners by the very doctor who I originally saw to transition, who had detransitioned himself after decades of living as a woman. He needed funding for his research and had to take his case to the university board he worked with. The research project did not go ahead because it wasn't thought to be relevant, and the university board thought it would be too, I quote 'controversial'.
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Ppl suck
@@OdysseusMDA you don't get a fucking opinion because you don't deserve one.
Well shit
Did he consider crowd funding? It’s not easy not to be deplatformed, but I guess it’s a path much more likely than to get funding the normal way.
My daughter came to me one day saying she wanted to be a boy. That her friends and the internet told her that she might be a boy since she liked baggie clothes and wasn't really happy with being a girl. Periods hurt and was uncomfortable. Her body was changing in ways that bothered her. I sat her down and told her straight up that she was a girl and I would continue calling her a girl as long as she was a child going through puberty. Until her hormones were completely settled and she was over the age of 18 I was not going to change my mind. If she still felt that way latter on as an adult then we will talk about it again and go from there. Sure enough a few months later she was back to being happy to be a girl except during her monthly period.
well done👏🏼
You're fortunate that you don't live in an area where they take your kid away if you don't "affirm."
My 16 year old had a phase for a moment a few years ago. I'm not sure if I was sweet or harsh but I said, "No Ma'am. You are a girl and theres no mistakes to your design as a girl." She had insecurities and anxiety. Sure enough after therapy she's picking up skirts at the mall, lipgloss and nails. She enjoys her femininity.
Same here with my daughter. Those years were so tough for us.
As a trans person (15 yrs old) I agree with this approach
" My child is trans" is like "My cat's vegan". We know who made the choice in both cases.
Who made the choice..?
@@darylvogel8991 Why you’re so clueless.
@@darylvogel8991 obviously the parents- 😀😭
@@darylvogel8991
You, Daryl.
Great quote by Ben Shapiro
I started transitioning 3 years ago at age 12 and that was when my depression and bodily issues truly began. I hated myself and thought everyone around me did as well, I bounced between non binary and trans and began researching ways to run away and get my female parts removed. November last year I tried tying my hair up and that was the trigger, just as simple as tying my hair up again and I began missing my femininity. Luckily all I had really done was publicly change my name and pronouns and cut my hair short. I began growing my hair back out, went back to being a women and soon came across Brett's channel which really did help me out a lot. I am now 15 years old and happier than I ever was last year. My life is slowly improving day by day. ❤
❤. Never get trapped in that loophole
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I'm sooooooo happy for you!!!🎶
Oh dear! I am sooo proud of you! Go on, you will rock life. Life sometimes sucks, but if you start to love who you are, you will never be alone. 😘
GOOD FOR YOU YOU GO!!!!
Thank goodness sending hugs. Love yourself 💘
The girl who knew she didn't have disphoria but did it anyway is a textbook example of why these people need unbiased counseling before they transition and why we shouldn't be allowing minors to transition. And by counseling, I mean more than just 2 sessions.
yeah true,totally agree
Yup it’s a trend, where you get the love and adoration of the world at the expense of your soul and the souls of those who will be deceived as a result.
@marygraphy5667Pretty sure conversion camp aren’t unbiased and absolutely have their own agenda. People absolutely need unbiased, one-on-one therapy where their thoughts and feelings are properly and fully explored before making life altering decisions. Unresolved trauma isn’t dysphoria and absolutely shouldn’t be treated like it is. There are many reasons why someone might hate their body and gender, and gender reassignment only fixes one.
They have been saying for over 2000 years that the female species is hysterical, manipulative and impressionable; they weren't wrong!
This isn't all women ofc, just like saying "men are violent" (which we can say without being accused of sexism or even en objection) doesn't mean all men. The latter you can say without a disclaimer but not the former.
It only took the year 2022 and let them loose to be their "true selves" that we got this affirmed. If anything, I bet before organised religions this was the society! I believe it was Jordan Peterson during his Bible lectures who described the chaotic society before organised religion.
“But don’t you know that if you don’t get on puberty blockers prior to puberty you can never properly transition??”
That’s what I’ve been told by so many advocates, they link me “science” articles saying how there are no long term physical effects of HRT. I’m sitting here like no effects of HRT? No MENTAL effects? These people are delusional and hurting real trans people who transition as an adult and are happy with their decisions.
"It's so pretty on the outside but the inside is fucked up" is such a great reflection of so many of society's problems right now.
its not even pretty on the outside wtf
@@Hesklif I came here to say this lol.
Like bruh I live in the Midwest and the homeless population is huge.
It don't even look pretty on the outside lol...
Yeaahhh, the natural ones aren't even "pretty," I can't even imagine what a doctor-built one looks like!
If you think it’s pretty you are probably a straight man.
There’s nothing pretty about it ,its not only dangerously delusional but a sin and an abomination in the lord’s eyes
Watching this realization hits...They are creating a whole generation that will always need medical assistance in one way or another. They are not helping these people become more of themselves. They are creating patients. They are creating victims that will have to pay for another surgery or some sort of therapy. My heart breaks on this thought.
@Busy Bee Farms I agree with the comment, but saying that it has always “been the plan” does imply that there is a conspiracy against Gen Z. This begs the question of who exactly is conspiring against us? We need to start defining exactly who is causing our problems. In the case of early childhood transition, it seems to be money-hungry doctors looking to make lots of money.
These doctors are creating patients who will keep their pockets lined for the rest of these peoples lives.
@Watermarqkiki You're correct about doctors and facilities...MONEY. I'm a woman of Colour who worked in various medical practices. People don't realize that the insurance company might pick a specific topic for doctors to discuss and pay them for that. Example: The patient is within a specific race and age group with a higher probability to develop osteoporosis or have more falls. The CDC sees a rise in STDs within a certain group the doctor will discuss it and test you for it when you have blood drawn. You get your EOB ( Explanation Of Benefits) and see they tested you for gonorrhea or some STD. Yet, the insurance pays the doctor for doing this. However, they'll fight you on paying the doctor for what you came in to see the doctor for originally.
i mean, ppl need occasional sunlight exposure too. estradiol for example is extremely cheap. It's trivial to gather $20 of pills a year. It's just a nonsense post is what I mean.
America is a capitalistic society. Everything they do is for profit. People were just too blind to see it.
I’m a family doctor, and unlike surgeons who do make money to perform surgeries, I make no money from giving vaccines or prescribing medicines. I get paid for doing an office visit, but no extra money for anything I order. Just wanted to put that out there, because I love your videos and know you are big on truth!
Well in m'y country GPs were getting paid 3-4 times what they usually did, to work in a vaccination center. in France some doctors made up to 15.000€ a month for that as well. I wonder where you find that amount of money when fréquent claims from public hospitals were never getting positive response by the gvnmt
Well then you have to get yourself a new medical biller because I work in the compliance office in a medical center and vaccines are absolutely a billable CPT code. Whether or not you'll get reimbursement is another story, but some insurance absolutely do have a fee schedule associated with them.
@@jameswillen6749 I said I don’t make any money from giving vaccines or prescribing medicines, and there’s no wRVU that comes my way from doing it, so as a primary care doctor, I am not making money by vaccinating people or writing prescriptions
You may not but I know for a fact other general practitioners do, I have a daughter-in-law and a stepdaughter who are both nurses.
@@Zulu2020 I know a lot of nurses and my ex-husband was one, and they don’t really know the reimbursement side of things. In the United States, primary care doctors are not making money for ordering labs or giving vaccines. It just doesn’t work like that.
my dad is a 200 pound bald construction worker who loves getting pedicures; my male boyfriend likes to paint his nails and have nice hair; I am a small, dainty looking female who has always worked at stereotypically male jobs, like on truck lots because I love tractor trailers.
It’s really sad that you can’t just be a well-rounded individual with a unique personality these days.
Exactly, Tomboys and girly boys exist
Tomboys exist. Not only are they not all trans, they're not all lesbian or bi either.
@@misterl0gic I’m a tomboy, and I wholeheartedly like men, and I’m a woman. We exist
@At__real_brettcooper why do people make these accounts? lol
@@misterl0gic exactly! And sometimes tomboys and girly boys like each other and have heterosexual relationships, what a thought!
I was sexually assaulted by my biological father at 12, before I had even gotten my my first period. He was a mysoginyst who abused women and especially girls. During my time living with him I started to dress and act like a boy, hoping that it would keep him away from me. The bitterness and hatred I felt turned inward, towards the fact that I was a "weak girl" and couldn't fight back.
By the time I was in Highschool I was dealing with severe body issues due to the fact that I share a Lot of facial features with that monster. People would constantly tell me how much I looked like him. I was so disgusted.
For a while I thought that I might just *be* a boy, and that was before I really even knew what Trans was. I actually went to a therapist and doctor's office about it and my family tried so hard to be accomodating but Also to make sure this was something I wanted. I also had a Highschool "friend" who pushed me to do it because she wanted me as her "boyfriend."
It wasn't something I wanted. It never was. I am a Woman and I love being a woman. But the shame, guilt, and Fear of being a girl/woman was what made me feel like I should have been born a boy/man.
Thankfully this was before all this craziness happened and I was able to get help for my Actual issues. Which stemmed from childhood abuse and sexual trauma.
If I had been born later and went through that painful road of self discovery and healing I have no doubt that I would be in the same position as these poor souls. Thinking about those "what ifs" *terrifies* me.
Clearly these poor victims never got the chance to seek real therapy before they traveled down the trans highway. Maybe more people like you should share your stories. Maybe this increase in reassignment surgeries is precisely because we have a generation of damaged young people. The lockdowns exacerbated underlying anxiety. Social media has alienated people, especially the young. Maybe hearing your story would help some unfortunate person to realize that it is possible to heal. Thank you for sharing your story. I am not sure I could have survived what you endured. You're amazing.
Bless you. You definitely dodged a bullet there. I really feel sorry for the young kids in Western countries that are exposed to this evil ideology.
I know of at least two "trans men" who started identifying that way after being sexually harassed or assaulted. It was so hard to listen to them clearly having self hatred stemming from such trauma and deciding it was due to dysphoria and not getting the help they actually needed. One of them did decide they weren't trans which was good for her and I think she's doing better. I'm so sorry that you expirienced that though, and I'm glad you are in a better place now.
Do not let the "what ifs" scare you. The book of James says "Count it all joy when you come through these trials". some don't make it out of these trials and are destroyed like these poor souls. However, GOD still loves them. Jesus Christ STILL LOVES THEM. The Holy Spirit can come and live in them. "Religion" as a power structure is abhorrent, but the real and living Jesus Christ can heal over, mend and put anyone back together. God bless you for surviving through your trauma. I had some horrible things happen to me when I was 5 and 7. I was blessed, even thought the baby sitters that did these things got away with it, that my parents took me to church. They loved me and later when it was found out, I can forgive it and be joyful that Christ healed all that.
You just explained what happened to me. I was always
looking for a way to articulate it but you did a phenomenal job.
For me it was my stepfather and the exact same thing happened.
He was in the military, and I was so far from home that he knew he could get
away with it. My Mom was weak in character, so she didn't notice anything or so she said.
I never got therapy, but I did find Jesus Christ and that helped me immensely. It's a process,
and has been for years. I am older now, married for 34 years to a wonderful, gentle and kind man
who I never knew could exist for me but has the patience of Job. God is real and the love of Jesus heals.
Praying for all these wonderful souls who have been lied to, deceived, and used by this wicked world. This has
always gone on, "there is nothing new under the Sun" In *Rome* it was a common practice for the rich and powerful
to have a "catamite" *(a male child companion who'd been sexually altered)* It was all over Rome including and
especially the Roman church. Nothing has changed except, Presidents and Heads of State now, are what then were
Kings, Queens and the Nobility. This world and its Systems serve the God of this world who is Satan, period. This is a spiritual
war going on, not a flesh and blood one.
Because when you go through puberty nothing feels right because your body is changing. Don’t make rash decisions.
Right
Exactly
I didn't know puberty existed until high-school._.) So I never noticed it
It seems to be forgotten that puberty is the time of most change in body and mind.. it’s a time if confusion and dealing with new feelings and emotions.. it’s SUPPOSED to be that way.. it’s the hardest time to deal with as it’s the change from child to adult.. its why you don’t make decisions through it.. you will change immensely.. your thought processes grow..
It should be celebrated as a time of transition.. from CHILD to ADULT!!
Kids are being taught to hate themselves.. it’s horrible
Exactly. There's a hormonal change in your body, but that doesn't mean you must do gender surgery & going through hormonal meds to change your gender.
I was SO close to becoming trans when I was 13 and this video really made me glad I never got surgery
I loved how he said wearing makeup and having your hair done does not make you a woman. THANK YOU!!!
The media is acting like being a women is an esthetic, not biological. XX - female, this is the truth.
Makeup and hair…that’s Dylan Mulvany in a nutshell….making himself appear to be a woman…that’s all he is , he is not a woman.
@@teresahiggs4896 Yes SHE is trans women are woman
@@aziahfloyd9146 nope, they can do the surgeries, wears the makeup, do their hair, live as a woman , wear traditional Womens clothing like high heels ….and their dna still says they are a man. They may think they are a woman but they aren’t. In 100 years a side test can look at their bones and extract dna and this will say, this is a man’s bones.
They are a man, who has had surgery and is appearing as a woman. They are pretending to be a woman.
There is even a TH-cam of an older trans man who says this same thing.
There’s nothing you or trans people can say that can prove that a man who has surgically altered themselves to look like a woman, is a real woman. To say they are is so demeaning to us real women. It’s like putting on “being a woman” like it’s a costume is disgusting and offensive. I don’t care if trans woman refer to themselves as trans women. But they are not real women.
And a woman can not through surgery and hormones, become a man. There is more to being a man or a woman that that .
I could have surgery to make my self look like a cat, get a tail grafted on, eat cat food, meow, play with cat toys and live day to day as if I were a cat…… but that does t make me a real cat! It makes me a human that has surgically altered myself to appear as a cat. My DNA will,show I am human. It dies t matter how much Imwant to be a cat. It doesn’t matter that I think I am a cat.
There is what people think or wish and there is reality.
@@aziahfloyd9146 NOT and NEVER WILL BE
I’m so glad my own mom told me that I definitely wasn’t trans, nor was I gay. My mom had supported me of course, but she never affirmed me for wanting surgery. She knew I wasn’t gay but was being pressured by others because I dressed like a guy (I had been sexually abused when I was young from a different kid) and I had unknowingly took my trauma and went “It was because I’m a girl… so if I’m a boy it won’t happen. I’ll be strong” and so I wanted to transition. After going into the military I realized what I really am. I’m just a tomboy that needed a little therapy and more time to realize what was happening. Kids are not as “Smart” or “Grown up” as they think. You need to give them more time to realize themselves
Good on you.
There are a ton of people in this "movement" who are simply looking for Cookie-Cutter solutions to other essentially unrelated issues, like trauma or even general social anxiety.
I am glad you have found yourself!! It's a difficult thing when you're young!!
Kids & teenager are still weakminded & easily sway to radical ideas & practition. Parents should set boundaries & restriction, not because we trying to be strict, but they don't know anything better
I am glad you didn't take a irreversible decision. I know what you were feeling because I also wanted to be a boy when I was young. Just because boys got more freedom than girls when I was growing up. We are just tomboy or tougher/rougher girls. We are very much normal.
@@myentertainmentmypuppies8865 That made me realize... that was a reason for me too! I could never roughhouse with the boys because "She's a girl". That shit really made me angry when i was young
I think what I can appreciate the most is that you (Brett) actually have a huge amount of empathy and compassion for these people and what they've gone through. I'm gay but want nothing to do with the community at large, as it stands right now. THIS is what the loud minority is pushing for, and it's embarrassing that so many more LGBT people vehemently disagree with kids transitioning, and yet do and say nothing. We can bury our heads in the sand and be fine, but what about the generation behind us? I'm only 34, and I'm honestly GLAD I probably won't be having/adopting kids. I wouldn't want to put them through today's school system, and let them be indoctrinated. Horrific, and sad.
I'm bi and I feel you. I told my mom I was bi at 13. I'm 25 now. 3/4 years ago I thought It was time for me to come out and maybe celebrate pride month... then I noticed this whole mess... and I guess I will stay in the closet until things change. Sad.
Well, if you're a good parent you don't put your kids through the public school system. You see, once you have kids... You start to see the big picture about life. You start to see what is really about, personal pursuits are a waste of time. And if you couldn't find purpose, it doesn't matter. You will have purpose now.
After all, if you're not procreating... What good are you really doing? Get a job as a social worker? Help out in the soup kitchen? Nah, the only thing that really matters is having kids. And if you actively choose not to have kids, you're basically missing out on the whole point of life. In other words it's a failed life.
I have wondered if people had that idea. It seems the trans part of the community has set back progress for Land G people.
I have a tattoo I got when I was 18. Now I hate it. I don't think young people can make a decision to change their sex.
well i feel bad for you,but do you know you can get it removed? it will get a lot of time and money but if you really hate it i think it's good for you
So thankful I took years to decide on my first tattoo. Really hope people understand it will be a part of them forever and they should spend a long time thinking about what their first will be.
I'm 45 now I think I'm just gonna let it ride lol. Plus it's small enough and on my back so I don't see it everyday so I think that helps.
Went to get tattoo at 16, changed my mind 3 times then decided not to get it. Now In my 4th decade am so happy I do not have any tattoos! Time cane be your friend.
@@jimdevlin4949 right!! Wish I had thought about it more.
Imagine learning to love who you are instead of having everything you think is an "imperfection" surgically altered so you never have to grow as a person.
Exactly
I think this is the point everyone has missed in this discussion. If you don't love and accept yourself as you are surgery (or anything else) won't help you. You don't fix an internal problem externally. You don't treat symptoms you treat the problems/ issues.
Yes! Exactly!
Mmm
But they twist the meaning of loving who you are. They always say things like: "I am finally being my true self." It's crazy.
I'm a 16 year old girl and have had masculine style and mannerisms pretty much my whole life. I wear men's clothes, I have short hair, a male body type, yada yada. I cannot emphasize enough how grateful I am that my parents never put me on hormone therapy when I was younger just because I look and act male. I have never felt that I am a boy and have never wanted to be one. Tomboy culture is disappearing in lieu of trans culture, and it's really unfortunate. I'm blessed to have a family that understands how horrible trans culture is. I'm glad to see that lots of others feel the same way- gays against groomers, for example, or brett/ben/matt and all those at the DW.
The LGBTQ community doesn't understand at even an elementary level, as to how the Big Pharma, and the Medical Industry is completely playing with them, and looping them in all for $$$$.... This is eerily similar to when Opiates like Vicodins, Morphine, Fentanyl, Oxy Contin's first came into the public. Doctors to this day will prescribe you Pain Killers, get you completely hooked, and dependent on them, and then later on offer you an even worse, Addictive Medicine I.E (Suboxone) to get you off of those drugs... It's pretty sickening. And I know this is the case, because of how much those damn surgeries cost these poor people.. It's extremely sad tbh. Since when has Liberals, and more importantly Democrats been on the side of Big Government, and the Pharmaceutical industry?
Yeah, keep living the way you do because there's not one way to be a girl ✊✊✊
EXACTLY! There is nothing wrong with being a masculine female or a metrosexual man. I don’t know why we have tried to eliminate these people from our society.
I don't completely agree. Like I know many masc women and they don't wish to be boys. However, I am a trans guy, but not because I'm masculine
Live dress and be who you want. You keep grounded who you were born as is in your DNA you can't just change a hat and suddenly you're different at the DNA level. Make your way through life you don't got to destroy the body you're giving you the sacred gift enjoy it can do amazing things.
As a kid its disgusting to see adults trying to force this on other children
as an adult, i agree
It's infuriating that for decades women have tried to get their tubes tied in their 20's and have been told NO YOU MIGHT WANT CHILDREN LATER. Yet teens can completely remove their breasts cause of 'feelings'. Not too long ago an 18 year old was denied a mammogram. She was told she's too young to worry about breast cancer even though her mom had had it. That girl is now 22 with stage 4 breast cancer. Make it make sense!!!!
I was a married mother planning a 2nd csection, and wanted my tubes tied while they were in there. Nope. A few months after the birth, my husband got done without hassle.
You're absolutely correct...none of it makes sense.
@@Angel-hm9so For many years they wouldn't even let wives make that decision without their husband's permission. Smh.
This is SUCH a great point. Wow. I hadn’t even thought of this comparison.
True! When I was 15-16 years old I told my doctor I did not want kids (I asked to be sterilized). They told me I would change my mind...I am in my 20s and still / will always feel this way. I am still trying to get this done
I had a period in my life where I hated being a woman to the point where I would obsessively imagine how great it would be to cut off my breasts and uterus and just become genderless. It's got really bad, to the point that I started to harm myself. My parents took me to the psychiatrist and it turns out that my condition was a combination of severe hormonal imbalance and unprocessed childhood trauma ( I was sexually assaulted as a child). After balancing my hormones and going to therapy I got so much better. I am happy that I got actual help from my parents and I am forever grateful that It happened during the times when cutting off body parts where the last resort.
Big hugs to you
Im so sorry you went through that. But props to your parents for being wise, good people and props to you for fighting through it 💕
I went through similar
I realized I wanted to be a boy so bad when I was a kid. When I grew up I realized it was because I felt like ppl especially men would respect me more and sexually harass me less if I was a boy.
I wouldn’t get catcalled, stalked, harassed, molested or raped anymore.
Then I hated all men.
Now I have 4 sons and it’s my mission to make them great men and protect others and when they see something to say something. I’ve dedicated my life to make sure they don’t become like the many men I’ve encountered in my life
I also got gender dysphoria after sexual trauma. It seems to be almost 100% correlated with trans identification.
You are beautiful and perfect just the way you are, and I'm so sorry you went through that and I'm glad you're getting better! I hope the rest of your life is amazing and safe!
I don't usually cry when it comes to politics, but this episode made me cry. reading and hearing what these people are going through because they didn't get the proper help they needed is so heartbreaking and I pray that God helps these people find what he meant for them.
i was convinced i was non binary for my entire freshman year. i recently (a few months ago) found your channel and i'm so grateful to have this wakeup call. the thing i'm most scared of is telling me ultra woke best friend who i've known for 10 years...
Tell her. Because here’s the thing, a real best friend won’t end your friendship because you believe something different. Real friends understand that eachother have different ideas and opinions and that’s okay.
I know losing a long time good friend is tough, but being stuck in a friendship held together by pretense and lies is unhealthy and will hurt you worse.
Be truthful to yourself and them. If the friendship falls apart, I’m sorry, but perhaps this is a good thing, and you’ll find someone else who you haven’t noticed.
This is what is extremely sad and infuriating. If a young person claims they have gender disforia they are embraced but when they come out as comfortable with who they are, the insane "woke" cult turns against them. This is deeply disturbing and sickening!!
im incredibly similar to you! i fully believed i was non binary during my sophomore year of college, but over the summer realized how wrong i was. i even changed my name and pronouns in the university's system. i also am worried about telling my woke friend, especially since shes my maid of honor at my wedding. i wish you luck and i hope your friend understands :)
Do not let some ‘best friend’ trick you into believing something about yourself that isn’t true. Do not risk your life pleasing others. Be genuine and make your decisions wisely. I hope all the best for you.
@rae of sunshine
Tell her before the wedding. So you won't have emotional pain everytime you watch videos or look at Fotos from the wedding celebration, in case she ends your friendship. It sounds harsh, I know, but for the future it's best to get it over with. Believe it or not, there are a lot of people out there, who actually want to be friends with you, without wanting to force you to fit their own agenda. Wish you the best and a wonderful wedding 💍💒😉👍
My daughter was 15 and was taken from me because I would not go along with this garbage. Additionally, they accused me of neglect and attempted to take my freedom as well! These people are insane!
I'm so sorry that must have been heart breaking.
I’m sorry. I hate that. I can’t even speak, this world is crazy
I'm so sorry to hear that. Hopefully, the medical community is close to realizing the horror they're abetting right now.
So heartbreaking
@brdjils he supports being able to do whats right for HIS kids
This is honestly horrifying..
As a child, around 6th grade so 11 or 12 I fell into thinking I was transgender. I didn't tell my parents but I told my friends to call me Felix or V because I didn't like my name. It wasn't because I don't want to be called a girl name, it was because I hated MY name. It was never because I wanted to be a boy, it was because I wasn't comfortable with myself. I do not blame my friends for not understanding because they were children too. I was so so sad during this time, I really wanted to die, and no one helped me with my real problem but they just assumed I was suffering with gender dysphoria. I saw the school councilor but I don't think I ever told her how I really felt. Then she died in a kayaking accident and I really felt awful. Then here came covid. Thank God that I found the opposite view. Thank God people you Brett and Ben exist because I found you guys during covid when I was still feeling awful and I did a 180°.
Thank you so much for turning me around when I was being encouraged to go further with something I didn't want to.
This gave me goosebumps, I’m glad you’ve found yourself back.
@@betul3341 Me too. It really scares me for others in similar situations ❤😔
I’m so sorry this has been happening to you, but I’m glad you’re following this channel and everything. Alsoo “Felix” and “V” as in the kpop idols?
@silverwolfe9376 agreed. it's nothing to do about gender (which seems to be a coping mechanism) it's just about feeling good as who you are and not avoiding it haha
Wow amazing story, happy for you . I worry so much about these kids and so glad you found your way
The first one really got me. How could people do these things to CHILDREN?!
I dated a girl that was sexually assaulted by several men in her family she decided to be a lesbian. Then men in our work took advantage if her she decided she wanted to be a man. She has had hormones and surgery and is now living as a man. A man who is still unhappy and needs therapy to heal from all the things that happened when he was a girl and has realized he ran from his gender due to what happened and is now stuck in a man body with no way to go back.
Stories like these are the tiny minority.
@@stillwatersrundeep001 Stories like these are very common. The women who have experienced this tend to keep it private.
"He ran from his gender" whilst simultaneously confirming we're talking about a female.
This is so heartbreakingly sad! And yet, I have personally known several people with similar stories. For some people, transitioning is misguided effort to feel "safe"-r in his / her birth body, post SA.
@@personoflight6411 yes and doctors have a duty of care to explore this and help them and not refer for hormones and surgery.
Isn’t everyone unhappy with their body when they’re young???? Isn’t everyone lost?? Isn’t that just normal?
It’s only when your body starts aging rather than growing can you truly feel comfortable. Because you realise it doesn’t actually matter.
I am so glad this shit wasn’t mainstream when I was a kid, because I would’ve been an easy target for these nut jobs.
Yes, body dysmorphia is normal for teens. The majority of eating disorders and gender dysphoria happen to teens and people diagnosed with autism.
Exactly
Exaaaaaactly. Once you start aging, you realize, usually quickly, but sometimes gradually, that your there are far more important things to think about. And before you know it, you are middle aged.
Unsecured children need to hold tight...hormones are a mess...don't take anything... see where God puts you...
I have tattoos I regret from when I was 18, 19, 20.. I predict that within 10 years we are going to be hearing from these kids who will then be adults and they will be asking their parents why they let them ruin their bodies before they knew who they were. Its going to be looked back as such a messed up time period in history.
9 years transitioned ! Pretty happy if I do say so myself :)
@@cccinnamorolll and I'm happy for you! But not every single kid who is confused about their gender is going to be happy with the changes they made. The fact that there are detransitioners at all shows us that it's not ALWAYS the answer
God I have never heard of it compared to getting a tattoo, but it is scary to think about how accurate that is! Mindset is always evolving, changing and these things like tattoos can be mostly ignored with a laugh like 'haha yeah i was kind of wild back then'. but this... I can't imagine how that must feel to someone who has changed their mind
And when that happens, all hell will break loose. They will sue their parents and the medical professionals who put them through this horrible situation.
it's going to be looked back at at the time we sterilised our young people
I was born in the capital, Lima. My dad came from deep in the mountains of Peru. He spent his childhood living in one of those small towns with 4 houses surrounded by nothing but nature for hundreds of miles. Not a single time he ever said "Oh by the way, you are a boy, you don't do girl stuff". He never even made a distinction. It was never a big deal. The fact that I was a boy had the same level of importance as my age or my height. Just another aspect of who I was as a whole. My dad was never afraid to kiss my cheek in public or hug me. We called it cheesy back then, not gay. Hell, things were so much easier back then. You ever heard of the phrase, "Your job is not who you are, is just what you do?". I feel like the same can be said about so many other aspects of our lives, like gender. You are barely starting to live. No need to make radical decisions. Always plan ahead. Want to make mistakes? Make them on your own terms, not because someone told you. Much like my words, you can choose to ignore a nugget of wisdom. I'm just saying.. the one who will live with the consequences will be you, not me. Let that sink in. Cheers.
Trans regret is nothing new. Many years ago, I watched a documentary with a group of trans people, (yes they formed support groups years ago), where they discussed their physical and mental trauma. These voices have been ignored and suppressed.
Do you know the name of it?
Do u remember the name of the documentary?
What year did this documentary take place in?
Why do you think they did the documentary?
please post a link ..this has to be acknowledged
My son was born with a large birth mark on his face. I have to schedule his appts/surgeries at a world renowned hospital and plastic surgery dept. The phone menu options starts with “transgender health program press one, for pediatric patients’ press two” It’s a children’s hospital. Why on earth is the need of kids like mine, who literally need medical attention, the option after an optional and cosmetically based agenda. It’s maddening to hear each time.
I hope his surgery's go well. I was born with a large birthmark on my arm (which i used to hate but now view as my custom tattoo)
Some of them also get free surgery according to people I talk to about it but I don’t know if it’s true 🤔
The worst part is they _intentionally_ had that department as the first listed option-so it’s heard by every caller, every time, as lowkey mind programming. Repetition is the bedrock of indoctrination.
Trans healthcare is a HUGE new revenue source for hospitals, so they’re all inundated with ‘gender affirming care’ propaganda constantly.
The fact it's option one is especially mind boggling
I’m a thirteen year old conservative, all my friends, my peers are mostly liberals. So to finally see a community that agrees with me just strengthens my belief more. Thanks Brett! 😊
same
Good for you. Keep looking for the good
Same here.
I’m 16 and I feel you. Stay strong you got this!! 🙌
Stay strong, I got caught up in the insanity and most my friends irl still are accepting and positive of this stuff.
I got lucky and got out before moving beyond social transition.
It gets super difficult, but I plead and pray you stay strong ❤
As someone who used to believe they were trans and fell victim to the glamourised version of being trans, I am so glad that I have finally come to my senses and that I only got to go as far as cutting my hair.
Damaging children should be dealt with harshly and swiftly.
I agreeee 100000000%
👌👌👌
44. Ae or 45.apc
There aren't enough millstones for the guilty.
The people damaging children*
otherwise it sounds like you're saying to damage children harshly and swiftly 😂
For a society that constantly preaches acceptance and tolerance to the rest of us, they are not very accepting and tolerant of their very own selves.
Being brave is NOT swapping body parts the moment you feel uncomfortable, it having the courage to accept yourself the way you are and learning to be comfortable in your own body
Being brave is realizing who you are and not listening to bigots who tell you what you aren't. 🤭
@@trademarktm6905 biGOtS
@@trademarktm6905 basically a delusional like you, right?
@@trademarktm6905 Ok
That's the best way I've seen this put and should literally be published somewhere else to be seen more. Paste and publish, seriously.
I am a therapist. The therapy community has no one standing up to say that affirmation isn't best practice, other than Jordan Peterson. I would lose my job if I took a public stand, but if enough of us got together...
@@LazyActor I understand standing up for things but if you handle things without caution then it will help no one. Caution doesn’t mean fear I wanted to add, I mean to move with wisdom and not simply out of emotion or even just passion. Standing alone is great, but still. Also I don’t think any heads will be getting chopped off soon.
Start finding like minded people. Bret Weinstein, Robert Malone, etc were not afraid of the backlash... It's time
@rumble I am with you. Currently going into the profession and it breaks my heart to see this happening to young people. we absolutely need more mental health professionals advocating and standing up for what’s right. And I will happily join you in this
@@MP-tj5xv I believe it's time to find those people and take a stand. Just hope that I can help more people by taking a dive out of the field than I could have helped by staying in it
@@kelsi1380 it's your prerogative to abstain from any cases that you need to avoid, like transgender clients. I refuse to cosign bad practice just because it's part of the narrative
My daughter told me at 14 that she wanted to transition. She was also suffering from depression and severe anxiety. I told her I would buy her binders and prosthetics (I hate that I know this exist) but I WAS NOT allowing her to start testosterone or puberty blockers. Any major medical/hormonal changes had to wait until after she was an adult. She’s almost 20 now and hasn’t said anything about it these last two years. I know I made the right decisions and I stand by them
👏👏👏 good on you. Supportive, an ally, and a great role model, while preventing her from making a decision she’s too young to understand.
Best of both worlds.
Kudos to you, for not bending over the ideology.
Your daughter will thank you later, when she will realize what this is all about.
My moms the same supportive but cautious she let me wear makeup and get girls clothes but made me wait till I was an adult and knew what I wanted now I’m on hormones and have started my transition and I’m happy I went into it positive it was what I wanted (I came out at 14 now I’m 19)I also had a good therapist that didn’t jump to conclusions and waited 3 years to diagnose me
Just so you know, hormone blockers don't cause any permanent damage had she wanted to get off them. They merely stop the menstural cycle from forming. It's used on a lot of female cancer patients and women whose periods can't be helped by the pill or prosthetics.
Just because she hasn't said anything doesn't mean YOU made the right choice, so don't congratulate yourself, it merely means that she may have been to scared to tell you she regretted her coming out or that maybe bodily changes weren't on the table for her after all (I know for me it wasn't until it was)
I have a niece that was going though gender disphorea throughout high-school. She tried her best to get into a gender role that fit with her current friend circle and started telling people she was Trans and gay. She told everyone this for 4 years and even started being called by a different name than the one she was given at birth. She had begged her mom to take her to go on T for a transition but was never put on it. Now, at the age of 20, she went back to growing her hair out, she's wearing makeup again, wearing more feminine clothes, is no longer dating girls and went back to using she\her Pronouns and using her birth name again. She won't admit it, but I know she feels like she made up the whole Trans thing to fit in and now she's embarrassed about it. At least her mom at enough sense to at LEAST tell her to wait and see how she feels when she's an adult. I know it would have messed her up BIG TIME
Brett's smooth transitions to sponsors are honestly so enjoyable lol
Just like her big brother, Ben Shapiro. Lol
She is good!
It’s masterful.
"Just like the segue to our sponsor"
-linus
Gotta be careful or she'll detransition away from her sponsors 😂
As a young girl I was a "tomboy", I wore baggy clothes because people bullied me for my body, I wore dark clothes because I would play outside A LOT and didn't want to dirty dresses or stain clothes, and I didn't like doing my hair because it was tiring to deal with since I had really long hair, I didn't wear makeup or shave any part of my body till i was 15 because my dad didn't let me. I never thought I was a boy, I wasn't brought up with these things so I was never confused about my gender. I WAS confused about my sexuality because of trauma but after help and time, I figured that out. Children are easily influenced, parents need to guide their children. I would NEVER disfigure my child in such a permanent way.
Testimonies like this need to be on the news.
News is funded and controlled by Democrats, and fucking kids up is good for Democrats one world government plans.
They are on fox and news nation
I was 10 years old when I got into all the LGBTQ+ stuff. I was 12 when I thought I was "transgender", then "non-binary" and alllll these other lables. I never told anyone about it, no one online or in real life, I hid what I *thought* was a very serious issue from the world. I thank my past self everyday for not telling anyone, because now, I'm 15 years old and, proudly, a young woman. I began watching Brett's videos at the start of this year and other people with the same views like Matt Walsh and Ben Shapiro. Brett, I'm really not sure if you'll see this, but thank you so much. You helped me heal myself. You helped me to further confirm my feelings of discomfort towards these issues. Thank you so much, Brett.
(Apologies if my comment is very wordy and sounds rehearsed, it's just how I like to write. Why write something meaningful without putting effort into the construction?)
I was a survivor of this. I'm 17 now, and this happened when I was 14. Moving into adolescence and early teen-hood, I was unhappy with the changes my body was going through. As are every young female sprouting into young teens. It was in marching band when I found someone who suddenly seemed to solve all of my problems. It gradually happened over time, it wasn't immediate. He was gay. One of them. I confided in him about my insecurities and about how "I didn't like being a girl", how I liked wearing baggy clothes, hanging with boys and not with girls, and how I didn't like makeup. He kept questioning me about these things, and it suddenly made me feel VERY insecure about myself. It was... belittling, patronizing, as if I hadn't really known myself at all. Then out of the blue one night, he asked me if I was transgender. I had no idea. I thought about it a lot. I told him I didn't know, and he didn't say "it's okay, take your time to think about it " he said, "look, I know what you're feeling is because you are trans because I have friends who went through the exact same thing. Trust me." And guess what I did? I trusted him. He introduced me to his friends who were trans, non-binary and all that junk. They hadn't even transitioned yet (this was before minor surgery became a huge problem). I kept it from my family... for a while.
I was in so deep, I started making private digital journals, I followed all of these trans influencers. And who was helping me this whole time? My friend. Now that I think about it, he wasn't supporting me at all. He followed these people's exact same agenda, trying to push me into this new life so fast. It wasn't until I saw pictures of surgically made genitals and it DISGUSTED me. I told my parents about what had been going on those past few months. MONTHS. at that point, I was fully considering going to a private doctor to talk about puberty blockers and T-injections. And I'm so glad I talked to my family about it. I was depressed when I did. I told them my situation and that I was genuinely scared. They told me I wasn't trans, and that was it. That I was being delusional. I didn't exactly want it... I was just going along with what I was being pushed into. I lacked the support I needed but at the same time was receiving the wrong kind of support. It was when I told my therapist everything. I was diagnosed with a depressive episode, it wasn't permanent, and she told my mom that I just needed support. Shortly afterwards, I began embracing my feminine side. I cut off all ties with my friend when I found out my ex boyfriend had been cheating on me with him for about a month almost a week before we broke up.
14 year old me would have been jumping at the opportunity with a private doctor for puberty blockers and surgery. I'm glad I didn't, after hearing so many stories. I'm glad I'm not one of them. If I hadn't told my parents, if I hadn't told my RIGHT friends... I'd be yelling for help like these individuals. I was saved. My family and friends were right to be disgusted and disappointed in me.
Again, I'm 17 now. If anyone wants to talk about what's happening in the world, or if you are a detransitioner here on this very platform, don't hesitate to reach out for me or anyone else. I was fortunate to not have ruined my body permanently, but my heart aches for those who did and want to go back. To anyone who replies, I'll provide my social info.
Good to see you got th e courage to speak. In this way you can speak out for those too scared to at the moment. You will encounter a lot of blow back but definitely reach out where you can to these kids and tell them just how you want clothing is not. Mutilating your body is permanent.
good for you for letting your story be out there! that takes courage and i'm proud of you 👍🏻(and also for typing aaaaallllll that out 😂)
@Sylvia Reimers it was a process lol 😂
Stay strong 💪🏻
You made a very wise decision informing your family about your situation, Many others and I are glad that you were able to get the help you needed. Best of luck to you my friend.
I feel parents and professionals who are pushing this nonsense will have to take ownership and be prosecuted.... these testimonies are so sad.
Only parents who are fixated on children’s gender are pushing it. Professionals fixated on children are pushing it. Trust. There are professionals fighting this because WE*** know these children are going through phases like any kid that thinks they are a super hero. Kids are VERY impersonating. They mimic. What you teach is what they learn. If they let them BE THEMSELVES, without having to TALK about the 70 genders they believe in, they would understand themselves instead of seeking help somewhere. It’s an actual issue I see DAILY. I have left since. Working as a dental assistant. This world is going down truthfully.
Remember when there were stories about people suing their parents for having them circumcised? Imagine the wrath of these people when they decide to turn on those (parents, doctors etc) who quite literally destroyed their future - any chance at normal relationships, families etc - with this nonsense.
And they won't.
It's all about money
25 minutes? I don't have time for that. Roughly 1 in 300-500 people identify as trans. About 1-8% ever reverse course, and the vast majority of those reverse before they've done anything surgical. The real mental illness right now is the right wing obsession with trans people, especially among your media and pundits....almost as if they're doing it on purpose 😉
As a 17 year old girl who's struggled with gender dysphoria almost all my life, this video had me crying throughout it. I was raped as a 6 year old, and obviously once that happens you want nothing to do with your body or any connection to the gender that seemingly brought such a horror upon you. Luckily, I've been raised in a Christian household with Biblical views, so my parents didn't encourage my behaviors when I started to show signs of dysphoria, but now that I'm a Christian myself I find it even harder to live with my thoughts and the actions I'll give into to make myself appear more masculine(binding with bandages, wearing baggy clothes to hide my body, etc.). Teens like me NEED more honesty about the dangers of transitioning, and acknowledgement that 'yes, these feelings are real and not made up, but we need help accepting that we were born into these bodies'. I wish there was more media out there helping us come to this conclusion and acceptance of ourselves, the way God made us.
I am so glad you were able to find truth.
May God helps you in this new journey.
I perfectly agree.
Whoever you are, Jesus loves you
oh, May Lord Jesus protect you and continue to heal your heart and give you heavenly peace when you confess and repent, please share struggles with a trustworthy faithful Christian and ask her to pray for each other every week
Continue to seek out Christ & remember that what you’re feeling is due to trauma. No one knows that better than you. You feel uncomfortable in your body b/c a monster took that from you. I deeply encourage you to seek out therapy, psychologists, support groups, anything that might help you. You will never be as you were, but you can grow into something new & beautiful. Trust in God. Let Him be your guide.
Great video. Heartbreaking 💔 thank you for sharing. I wish love and healing for all these young people. Please know whatever you have had done it doesn’t EVER change the real you, the true you, the YOU that will always be there because YOU are loved. YOU are beautiful. YOU are worthy of living a life however YOU choose too. You are good and you can choose to change AND change back to whoever you want to be. I’m so very sorry for the misunderstanding and withholding of information that the doctors did to you. Sounds incredibly painful. And so very long term. I hope the medical advances are asap to get these issues that create so much pain. Hang in there meds will eventually get better and help for you hopefully is very soon ❤
I think 90% of people feel lost and also uncomfortable in their body at some point during teenagehood. You are constantly changing and the hormones are going crazy. These people just need to know they aren't alone. They are vulnerable to anyone who pretends to care as well
I agree 100%.
I had a period in my life as teen ,i was so insecure/depresed,I would look at the floor when walking in public...I tought I had gone mad and this is how my life is gonna be....
2 or 3 years latter I become so confident I was allway in the centre of all girls attention...
I am so happy I never used any psyhiatric drugs....I think I would be even bigger mess now than at that time...
if alive
@@Lipi19821 I am so glad you're still here and worked through it. Hugs!
@@brittanynicole9318 thnx ... 🤗
Nah, data disagrees with you.
Why are more ppl not talking about this this is unbelievable
The reality is tens of thousands ARE talking about it. It's being swept under the rug.
The LGHDTV community do their absolute best to silence detransitioners. This is what they do when you don't follow in lock-step with their agenda. They never gave a shit about actual gender dysphoria. It's always been about power, and having dissent within your own community hinders the usurping of that power.
People who talk about it are called transphobic, terf, cancelled, harassed, assaulted & doxxed. Some really good channels that talk about this are: A Slightly Twisted Female, Isle Of Ex ,You're Kiddin', Right? & Shape Shifter
we need to start fighting back against these pedophiles and support the ppl who are against
that nasty crap.
There’s a TH-camr who gets cancelled at least every 4 months for speaking out against this horrible surgeries.
I just turned 15 recently, and I am a conservative teen who constantly gets called a conspiracy theorist by my peers. God bless all the free thinkers out there! 🙏😁🇨🇦🇺🇸
I believe I followed you on Facebook a while back, now im subbed to your TH-cam channel :) good conservative kid fighting for what's right!
That's great! I'm a 17 year old conservative. It often feels like were alone in our beliefs in real life but we aren't. I don't know if your religious or not, but God has our backs. Even if others hate us and ridicule us, God is there.
@@Nightwizard63 exactly, I am 18 and I have taken to posting conservative posts on my ig story and letting the leftists block and unfollow and am starting to find more of our community that way 😂😅.
@@matchaeylle haha heck yeah! I don't mind making them get angry at me. Because I don't care to much about them. I don't like evil, and I don't like the murder of babies and transing the kids.
Your Canadian and your last name is Hockley lol
as a 16 -year- old who thought she was a boy at 12 and 13. i can say i am so happy my mom sat me down and talked to me about it. she put me in therapy and I did end up having to go to the crazy den, but it made me realize how brainwashed i was. i will forever be proud to be a woman.
I was 16 when they tried that on me. I had went to the clinic up in Cleveland the doctor I had talked to was like yes you are a man blah blah blah. They told me I could walk out with testosterone that day. Then they told at the end of the appointment they can have surgeons lined up and ready for the next time I come in. I told her wait I don’t have money who’s going to pay for this I need to think about this first. She with the straightest face literally told me you could kill yourself before then. I just was like wtf got up and walked out. I think she got fired because last time I heard anything about her she doesn’t work there anymore.
Sounds like profit was the sole concern. Doesn't sound like they were worried about you and were going the way of Mr Krabs.
how sick. Literally the perfect advertisement for why vigilantism has to exist
@@TruthDoesNotExist or basic fully informed consent.
Well done
Holy shit
When I was 14 I got sexually assaulted, after that I started to sometimes think I’d prefer to be boy. It was all because I felt that being a girl wasn’t safe and that my girly body was somehow at fault for my assault. It is extremely sad when I think about it now . I had the thoughts of wanting to be a guy even though I’m religious and come from a conservative family so I’m glad that nobody „affirmed“ me in my thoughts. Thank you for speaking on how trauma affects the dysphoria and how it can be just related to hating your body after assault.
Sexual assault affects people in so many different ways. I think it should be studied more what the effects of childhood sexual assault can be
I hear you and totally agree . 😊
God loves you. Nothing in all creation can desperate you from the love of God. Romans 8:38-39 Boys and men unfortunately get sexually assaulted to, and make the mistake and generalization of thinking it wouldn’t happen if they were a girl. It’s almost as if everyone wants to be each other, and people think the grass is greener on the other side. When it’s about not comparing yourself to others, as your life is not their life, and their life is not your life. The grass isn’t greener on the other side, it’s green where you water it. God loves you, you’re never alone, there’s nowhere you can go where he can’t see you. Jeremiah 23:24 And vengeance belongs to The Lord. Romans 12:19. Be careful when your enemy falls not to let your heart leap for joy as God will see that and turn his wrath away from them. Proverbs 24:17-18 . (In my opinion because it’s like “ha, that’s what you get”, etc. which may not be a good mindset to have) but maybe more research can help.
The Detransitioners should start a movement to raise awareness of the consequences of transitioning and how it’s very hard to go back once fully transitioned.
They’re trying, they just get drowned out by the trans community.
@Humility is Wisdom My transition took over ten years. I used to be a mellow, laid-back guy. I transitioned gradually into a short-tempered grouchy son-of-a-bitch.
Yes. They need to be heard. But what about the flip side? Transitioning legitimately helps some. All angles should be considered. More safe guards put in place for children so some sick crazy doctor can't override parental rights. Perhaps lettings the kids feeling gender dysphoria room to explore there gender socially is the answer rather than just throwing them on blockers and hormones.
@@Kira-zm7vy The flip side is what you're seeing now, stupid! And they and their media propagandists is clearly not willing to give up any power from their cult.
@@Kira-zm7vy But the flip side has been hugely exaggerated, we're lied to all the time. Transexuals are not mercilessly hounded, in fact they're some of the most privileged people on the planet, why else would they be demanding we change the English language for a tiny minority of extreme narcissists? I understand not all trans people are pushing this nonsense, but they need to be the one's that call out the self anointed LGBT.... "Leaders" & "Spokespersons".
There are going to be A LOT of lawsuits 10 years from now. Congratulations, everybody! You've reinvented the lobotomy!
Right😓so sad
This will be known in the history books as medical pseudoscience, along side the study of humours in Medieval times and phrenology of the 19th century
I'm convinced Jesus will be coming back before that happens. Seriously. We're witnessing evil unlike anything humanity has seen since the flood
Or female genital mutilation (and male genital mutilation to boot)
i was curious about the vaginoplasty and phalloplasty surgeries. i had this morbid curiosity to see what the end results looked like, to see if they closely resembled the real deals at all. well, i wasn't prepared for what i saw. it is real surgery that can have real complications, and there's absolutely no need for it. i saw pictures of men getting their p**** stripped apart and inverted. saw pictures of women getting skin from their arm ripped off for their procedure. it's absolutely horrible. this feeling came over me so strong that i started crying for those people who went through the surgeries. unnecessary pain and unnecessary risks to their overall health. it cut me so deeply
I can definitely confirm this i was 15 and just 6 months ago I was lesbian and dating my very VERY toxic so called "best friend" (which put my in therapy) my parents found out and i decided to put my faith in the Lord and fully commit my life to Him. I am now on a mission to save my cousin who is also trying to be trans and im warning my sister and other teens. God is good, and i am living with my consequences for my actions. I still worry every day if a Godly man will love me because of my past but i am now rededicated to the Lord and i just hope and pray that other teens will see this and reach out to God.💗✝️
You have been made clean by his blood.
It isn't about what you have done it is about what he did for you.
Your vaule comes from his actions not yours.
Obviously this doesn't mean go off and continue to sin Paul address this but God has given us grace for when we fall short.
What is grace?
Grace is empowerment to live a holy life that we otherwise could not live without him.
Mercy is when we were given a second chance when we didn't deserve it.
You are now righteous meaning in right standing with God.
The person you once were is dead and crucified with Christ.
The person you are now is new.
What is flesh is flesh what is spirit is spirit.
You may be in the same body you have always had but you have been given a new heart and spirit.
Old wine can not go into a new wine skin.
Hence you are new for he has filled you with new wine. (His spirit and new life)
That is why we are called "born again" for you are a new creation.
You actions don't define you his love does.
Your identity is now found in Christ.
Reguard no man according to the flesh.
You are worthy of God's love and worthy of a man of God.
Welcome to the faith.
Jesus loves you so much.
Save your cousin?? Ummm
@@absentooo yep!! Save my cousin.
Yes!! 2 of my cousins say they are LGBT, but my whole family is Christian. I don’t know what to do really. So I’ll try my best to lead them back to God and Jesus. ❤
@@GGeordanna i totally understand, im in the same boat as you are!! You're not alone and God is so proud!!🤍😊
This is so heartbreaking... All of those kids are victims...
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@Crazy melon ! you do realize that circumcision is hygienic, right? you cannot compare the two, lol.
My heart is so broken for what we're ALLOWING to happen to our children.
It's sad
Yeah..
Its not only kids its adults as well bc humans can't be trans its not biologically possible and if u attempt to do so. It harms. U more then helps, unless we are. In. Some cyberpunk world where we can have. Male robotic bodys and female robotic body's, u are still. Ur birth gender. At heart and. History
The lawsuits need to happen the medical industry the government these people need to be held accountable unfortunately I don't believe it will happen for some time
I'm not allowing it fam. Stop blaming all of society as if we are all guilty, when PLENTY of us have been canceled, lost family and friends and jobs and contacts, and more for sharing our opposing opinion. What more l do you expect me to do, break the law? Kidnap? Throw my own life away by protesting and becoming a social media martyr? I have never been in lock step with anything, and I encourage everyone to use the Socratic Method of asking all the questions to come to their own conclusions. Just because I let others live their own lives against my advice doesn't mean I'm allowing it, especially when I have no authority whatsoever over them.
Stop painting with a broad brush. If you are guilty of allowing a child in your care to transition, own it and stop pushing that onto the rest of us who told you to step up before you ruined your kid's life.
I feel like my sister was born now she'd be sucked into the trans ideology. Growing up she had severe issues with connecting to her womanhood. She disliked "girly things", she cut her hair short like a boy, she did not like having large breasts and often made comments on how she'd wish she didn't have them at all. She felt disconnected from herself and wanted nothing to do with being a woman, yet she had a strong need to start a family and have children etc. Now she's almost 40 and she's past all that. She still isn't a typical woman, does not wear make-up, keeps her hair short etc, but she's no longer got that feeling that being a woman is wrong. She never was trans. She just grew up in an abusive household where our father treated any woman in his life like dirt. She saw it growing up and thought there's something wrong with being a woman if we're treated this way by our own father. Now he's dead and we're better for it.
It's very possible, I went through some similar stuff.. & I very tomboy. But like your sister I always wanted children. I'm glad to hear she loves herself again.
My childhood abuser is about to die, it'll be a great day for me.
Stay strong, safe and be blessed always there.
I'm the same way tho I prefer my hair on the longer side. Some young girls are getting confused. They think they're a boy just cause they don't do girly things when it reality it's just being a tomboy.
My mother grew up poor for a while because her parents divorced. She never felt 'girly' and hated the annoying, overly feminine girls (think: 70's-80's version of YAS QUEEN).
She's explicitly told me multiple times that she's extremely glad she didn't have a family who were like that- that she wasn't indoctrinated into such a cultlike society.
God bless you and your sister!
Jesus/God is evil... too many people submit.
These people should SUE their parents and the doctors to force them into this if they were young children when it was being done to them.
That is my line in the sand too, girl. Nothing pisses me off more than what is being done to children. It makes my blood boil. Leave kids alone!! 🤬🤬
Okay, take away all religion from kids too! I don't want my kids believing there's a man in the sky :)
@@trademarktm6905 yeah, because who would ever want your kids to think that they might actually be something other than worm food when they die? Did you also tell them that Santa is a lie, the Easter Bunny is a fake, and that the tooth fairy is total bullshit? What a great childhood they must have!
@@trademarktm6905 why take religion away? Doesn't religion sustain cultural norms and rejects degeneracy? Why else do you think society is crumbling? It doesn't matter if he exists or not, it's just the belief in a God that protects the world from being a totally evil place, and it's slowly dying because of you people. I hope you try to comprehend this, because by the time you do, it might be too late.
It's way too late. Satan has the vast majority of the Western world firmly in his grasp and he won't be letting go. If this is to be corrected, it going to require burying hundreds of thousands of doctors, therapists, teachers, and tyrants. It's going to require putting a couple million in their graves and none of you have the heart for it. None of you have the strength so it will not ever change
@@Nick-bd7gy this. idk what the dude said coz his comment is deleted, but ive always found it funny that people play the 'oh but religion does it' whenever someone argues that the lgbt community leave kids alone. one group is preaching degenerate actions, mostly done by people with PROVEN mental illness as dogma, and thats negatively affecting kids both mentally and physically. while the other is merely preaching about God, and good morals. you can lose your faith in God, you can reject praying or whatever else a religion teaches without issue, most do in fact, but you cant unchop a boys sausage, and you cant undo the permanent damages these transitions and puberty blockers etc do. theyre no where near comparable and i find it hilarious when people try to do so.
It truly upsets me that gender dysphoria isn’t considered a mental disorder anymore. Since so many people are pushing it as an identity anyone could have, the truth is being forgotten. These people need help, and no one is looking at the issue through a truthful lens in order to find a solution that really works. (And yeah, it’s been shown that transitioning doesn’t truly decrease psychological distress because suicide rates are the same whether a gender dysphoric person transitions or not.)
It may not be considered a mental disorder by the scientific community, but I think we all know realistically and logically that it really is a mental disorder. That there is something dysfunctional in the brain that is causing all of this.
It actually is a mental disorder and is recorded in the DSM-5. Not sure where you heard it was no longer a mental disorder, but it is. What this trans gender agenda is all about is getting pedophilia into the DSM-5 so it can classify as a mental disorder, Once that happens, pedophiles can commit a crime, go to court, plead mental disorder and their actions are ruled non-criminal, and they get away with their actions (crime). They can then use this gender dysphoria as an excuse to rape children and say the children (of the opposite sex_ wanted and consented to it. It is very nefarious what they are trying to do but the APA is 100% on board. Ya'll need to fight back, FYI
Please find the studies that back it up, oh that's right- you can't. Gender dysphoria is a symptom of being trans and gender dysphoria is considered a mental disorder that can be professionally diagnosed lol. The only way to treat it is by transitioning. The issue with de-transitioners is either that there's trauma that lead them to have gender dysphoria or even body dysmorphia. It is up to the individual to decide wether they want to transition and HOW. Meaning, some transgender people only transition socially and express themselves in the gender they identify as without any surgeries or HRT. Counless studies DO show that after transirioning, transgender people feel relieved, and have less or even no experience of gender dysphoria though.
It is still listed in teh DSM-5 as a mental disorder. Don't let the left fool you :-)
@@emabumbulyte5961 GAY!
To say that children aren't being groomed for this is an understatement. I remember when gangsta rap became a thing when I was in middle school. Everyone started wearing flannels and we swore up and down that we were thugs. This is the school and the parents fault
The sad part is most of the schools don't even tell their parents about any of it and will just call the kid whwt it wants to some schools have permission to give kids medications behind parents back shits scary
It isn't so much grooming, it is indoctrinating like a cult. The Doctors in this case are the Cult Leaders/Clergy in this case and are profitting HEAVILY off of this.
That is so heartbreaking. That video should be shared far and wide. So many people let down by adults and professionals willing to do this, knowing the harm and not knowing long term consequences. That absolutely destroyed me. I hate that all of these people are having to deal with this
How can people be putting this in their body that changes themselves drastically. I don’t even wanna take pain killers as much as possible.
Neither do I. 👏
Same!!
Same, not even aspirin.
Not even a small tattoo.
Trans people that genuinely feel uncomfortable in their current bodies do it easily. The genitals I was born with didn’t match up with my gender, so I took hormones to help change that. They have helped greatly.
As somebody who was sexually assaulted for years as a child, I remember that when I started hitting puberty, I unconsciously hated it and did everything in my power to stop it because I couldn’t bare the idea of becoming a woman. I dressed with masculine clothes and I even developed severe anorexia because I knew it would somewhat “stunt” my normal growth and people wouldn’t sexualise me. It’s scary that had this happened now, the doctors or the people around me would have suggested my being trans, and I would have probably believed it cause I was young and broken and didn’t know any better
It's of no surprise to me that until very recently the largest, almost exclusive trans group was middle aged straight men & younger gay men. Today it's majority young girls, often prepubescent. We need to be asking why that explosion occurred in the last 6 or 7 years. There is usually another reason behind their 'want' to transition. What you've told us is one of them. Another is not accepting ones sexuality (most if not all are gay). Or for family/religious pressure. Or sadly, for attention or to stand out. Until we thoroughly investigate why this has only recently begun (the 'trans'), we should call a halt to the whole thing.
I'm so sorry for what you went through. Thank you for being brave in sharing and helping people realize that a gender "transition" will never fix the underlying hurt and pain caused from that.
I'm so sorry you went through all of this. This was NEVER your fault, but the fault of the abuser(s).
I remember when i was 11 i had a tooth growing in the roof of my mouth that needed to be removed and i had no clue what was really going on when the dentist was explaining all the options and possible outcomes. I cant imagine how little you'd understand about something as big as transitioning at such a young age.
When my son was 8 we had an addition put on our house and he wanted one of the new rooms. He would not listen when I told him his current room was bigger and had two windows. Nope had to have a new room. When he was 16 he was like why TF did you let me choose this tiny room? I was just a dumb kid! And that was a Bedroom.
These people dont have common sense - they will say kids can't consent to sex/drinking/ or other adult activities but are perfectly capable to consent to removing a part of their body or permemnantly changing it. Because somehow, not being able to understand the dangers of overconsuming alcohol, the nature of sex, or the basics of taking out a loan, doesn't mean you can't understand the consequences of cutting off your body parts?
It’s all done purposefully. It won’t be long until they say that children can consent to relations with an adult 🤦🏼♀️ love is love after all 🤮
Thank God for you Brett, when I first found your channel I thought you were interesting and brave, but reading the comments , you are more than interesting you are giving young people a fighting chance! ❤
Prayers of healing to these people, my heart breaks for anyone uncomfortable in their own skin.
Agreed! Amen!
The confusing part about de transitioning is you can’t really do it. Once you’ve lost those body parts, they’re gone.
Depends on how far down the road you go i guess...harder to detrans for ftm i think, since their voice is changed to be masculine and maybe has to relearn the female voice like mtf did.
@@dennygunawan208 It's hard for both, they can't grow theis penis back. They can't grow their breasts back. And listen to the first guy voice, it's totally fucked up. These ppl destroyed their bodies, this is very sad.
@@traduzindo_shorts well, what i keant is before the surgery stuff. Surgery is a point of no return and as far as i know, not all trans did it, since its very expensive and quite scary.
Isnt the first guy is female by birth?
@@dennygunawan208 Yeah, I get you now. Yes, the first guy seems to be a Ftm but his voice is screwed, at least to my ears.
@@traduzindo_shorts If you mean the red-headed guy with the beard, the 1st video, I thought he started out male, because of the shape of his hands, arms and shoulders. Obviously you can put on muscle with hormones, but I don't think bone structure changes. Man, you gotta feel so sorry for these people. The problem starts out in the emotions, and ends up physical.
I was so close to being one of these people. when i was 14 i was convinced i was a girl, my parents made me stop consuming trans media. after a few months of not seeing anything about it those feelings vanished. i dont think i would be alive today if i transitioned
good on your parents.
Glad you’re with us. I was almost one too that’s why this pains me so much. When it really is just part of the pangs of growing up, there’s things you’re not gonna like about yourself, you’re body is gonna feel uncomfortable for awhile. But the worst thing you can do is mitigate yourself while this is going on. I always told myself if I still felt like that when I was of age I could do something about it. Turns out I’m just not that “traditional” and it’s totally fine.
The fact is that they keep pushing this on you, and if you keep seeking it out, it will keep being pushed on you and you’ll eventually believe it keeps being pushed on your. It may take some people longer than others before they fall into the belief of what they are seeing or hearing, but the fact is that it starts with curiosity. You see it or you hear it or you read something about it and you get curious so you start looking up more about it And then you start thinking about it and then you start thinking about yourself and it comes together you start thinking do I wanna be a girl or do I want to be a boy and then you start thinking it’s not about do I want to it’s about do I feel like I am And I really do believe that your experience is a great example of this because of the fact that you were exposed to it so much and it became the one thing that you were seeing on the Internet every time you went on Facebook or TH-cam or Instagram or whatever it consumed you and it was only once you got away from it and your parents keeping you away from it, did you realize oh I am me the way I was born not the way they told me I am and it’s OK to have some traditionally feminine traits in your personality But that doesn’t make you transgender and it doesn’t mean that you are a woman. I just hate the fact that so many people are so quick at the instant that someone starts showing any feminine traits or doing anything traditionally, feminine that this community of transgender people are so quick to say he’s a woman let’s start the transition process, like the show I am Jazz on TLC. They literally say at least once an episode we knew she was a girl when she was three years old and that’s why we started transitioning her at the age of three years old. It’s completely normal to be curious about what you are as a human and know that this is an ideology that is available And it’s completely normal to find out what is right for you. I am really thankful to your parents and I’m really glad that you realized oh, I thought I was a girl, but it turns out I am not, and it was just me consuming all of this transgender media that was confusing me so good for you
Why wouldn’t you be alive having the surgery isn’t life threatening
@@Dead_space-xi3nu unaliving
This is all so sad! My niece was SA when she was 13 which was obviously traumatizing for her. Sometime later she had befriended a transgender person (girl to boy). After that she decided not to be the girly girl she always was her whole life and said she wanted to be a boy. And demanded to be called a different name. Her parents said no and she got mad and took a bunch of pills and ended up in the psych ward. They had family therapy sessions where they told my brother and sister in law that they wouldn’t allow her to go home until they agreed to her demands!
So they agreed and brought her home. I couldn’t believe they never suggested therapy for the SA she suffered! I believe she wanted to be a boy to feel less vulnerable and have some control. Because she felt so helpless. After that she demanded testosterone treatment. Thankfully they could never afford it. She has so much control over her parents now it’s crazy! If she doesn’t have her way in everything she threatens to unalive herself. She’s in her 20s now and lives with her parents still, doesn’t work or have a life. She’s the biggest hermit I’ve known. They are all miserable. It saddens me so much that she never got the help she really needed to heal. She was the sweetest most adorable little girl and she’s so intelligent, she could have done anything she wanted. But she’s too messed up to move forward and live her life. 😞😢 I’m just so glad she (so far) hasn’t done any gender affirming treatment!!
These people purposely pushing this agenda on children are truly evil!
This is the "lobotomy" movement of this century. There is lot of money that therapists and medical professionals so why milk it. It is so concerning for parents whose kids are in that vulnerable age group.
Yes definitely prioritize therapy for sa!! Honestly I wish people would just not sa others it’s disgusting and unnecessary and traumatizes ppl!!
I believed that I was trans off and on for about five years. I went through many different labels: gender fluid, nonbinary, trans man, demiboy, etc. The summer before my freshman year I went through some stuff with my biological dad that led to me having acute stress disorder. Later during my freshman year I completely decided that I was a boy. I cut my hair, binded with sports bras, wore boy’s clothes, and went by a different name and had people call me “he” at school. I planned on getting on testosterone and having surgery when I got older. Thank God one day at the beginning of my sophomore year my (step)dad sat me down and told me that I wasn’t trans, that it was a result of the internet, the extremely liberal school I went to, and what I went through that summer. I was angry at first and I believed that he was wrong and a bad person and “how dare he not let me express myself” until I really thought about it. I believed that I was “finally happy with myself” despite being extremely suicidal (having attempted or come close to before), self harming, and having an eating disorder. For a long time I believed that parading myself around as a boy made me happy but it didn’t, the attention I got made me happy. I was praised on social media and at school. I realized my mistake. I began to socially detransition (thankfully I hadn’t undergone any medical “treatment”) I ended up losing every single friend at school except for one. ONE. My parents had my sister and I delete TikTok (which I firmly believe everyone should do because it is an absolute cesspool) and I ended up leaving that school and switching to a different one for my junior year. I grew my hair back out, I wear makeup again, and I finally dress like the girl that I am and always have been. But most of all, I finally feel like me again. I didn’t know who I was for years and I have finally found me for the first time since I was a little kid. I have never been happier. Thank God that my dad talked to me that day, if he hadn’t, I most likely wouldn’t still be alive. All of this aside, I know that everything worked out in the end but I can’t help but regret everything so deeply, my first two years of high school were horrific because of this, and it’s disgusting that even my teachers went along with it and kept it from my parents. It makes my stomach turn when I think about it. I’m terrified for my future children. I don’t know what’s going to happen. All I can do is pray.
Good for you for realizing it wasn't true.
Most people wouldn't have the brain cells and reasoning to realize. They would have just compared what their "friends" were saying and what the public thought instead of what their own family thought.
More people need families and a parent like your father, even they can fold to social to social pressure and think that's what's right for their kids when it's not
im happy for you, but one thing that makes trans people trans are the fact that they don't understand femininity does not equal being a female and masculinity does not equal to being a male, i hope you and more people understand this. :)
Your story could change life’s! I encourage you to keep sharing. 🙌🏼 Any advice for someone to help people who struggle with this to know the truth in their identity?
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Wow I'm so happy for u
U go girl 👏🏻
I'm hearing a pattern of childhood trauma stories that might contribute to this disorder. A lot of these people were victims of severe abuse and rape as children. That in itself should be talked about more.
yeah, they probably hate their bodies because of it. What they need isn't a transition, it's therapy
@@teru_9921 A large percentage of them are autistic. They did a test out in Sweden. How was affecting the bodies. They actually followed the children and paid close mind to every detail. So close that they found out the majority of these children were autistic... And when you take a step back and you look at the majority of the individuals that are going through this they are on the spectrum.
@@Journeestothesmokeymoon I had things happen to me but I never took it as an abusive thing against my own body. That they were sick evil people..
But I was a very physical child. Swam, on the swim team. Ballet. Gymnastics.. I played hard. I was the kid that would get covered in mud. Haha get my shoes stuck in one of the tallest trees in the town.
I ran hard with all of the boys. I had some girlfriends but. I wasn't into anything that they were into..
My mother was against makeup. Only because we were born of course they didn't want to spend any extras red scent of their money on me.. It was all for their drugs..
Literally I had to start buying my own clothes by 7th grade. I was like wow this sucks.. We moved, in our lives went downhill fast. It was horrible...
But the way they treat this generation.. As a teenager. I played really hard. Surfing. Splunking. Horseback riding. Hunting. Camping. Fishing. Building forts..
We built a treehouse that we called the condo. Three stories in the sky. Loved it. Parents watched over us, so much fun..
When I moved out of the house, that's whenever I was able to put on makeup. And actually style myself like a girl...
Every one of my guy friends were like holy crap you look like that. You still look like you look when you were hanging out with us. If you looked like that then I would have dated you..
I'm like everyone has had the balls to say that, I'm going to have the balls to say this back. Really dude You're going to say that. I admitted, I'm happy my mother didn't allow me to wear makeup. Because I had a lot of fun hanging out with you guys.. I had a hard life. So running hard and playing hard was one way I could turn a negative into pure gold..
I learned really young, never to allow others actions or thoughts about me to hurt me. Water off a duck's back float don't flounder. My mother would say all the time. Be the weeping willow. For her branches sway with the wind They don't snap with the storms of life...
Hot damn. The weeping willow story finished on her desk. I took my mother's death pretty hard crying The moment I found out cuz I knew that day she was dying. I'm gifted I can tell when people are passing I could feel death on them. death and I have a relationship. I've almost died six times. My mother and I always joke that we have nine lives. She actually died on her 9th life..
That day coming home from work. Atlanta Georgia. Off the side of the highway there's a farm. I pull over, He has a single willow tree growing in a field.. I parked, get caught on barbed wire. Cut myself rip my clothes. I can feel the farmer looking at me. Crying tripping falling getting up and running to the tree. And absolute bawling mess...
I'm crying sitting under his tree. Big beautiful old willow.. The wind is blowing It's really hot out. The leaves are chattering with the wind. Every time they blew I could hear my mother. I'm with you I'm with you. You're going to take this hard. I'm with you I'm so sorry. The farmer walks up..
He's like, ma'am ma'am are you okay? Oh sweetie you're bleeding. He hands me a hanky and pulls out another hanky and starts cleaning me up. He's like are you okay? This tree it seems mighty special to you? He sits down and says you don't mind if I take a seat do you? I said no I'm so sorry. Forgive me My mother died. My mother always told me to be the weeping willow for her branches sway with the wind Never snapping with the storms of life. I knew she was dying and she died today. It's been a rough day. A weird day. Seems like there's angels popping out everywhere too. I introduced myself and apologized for breaking on to his land..
He said Oh bless you. I'm so very sorry. You want to hear something really nice. I think it will encircle and finish your story of the willow. He said, a willow will not grow where there is no water. For a man thirsts and he finds a willow growing in a field. Dig and you will find water. For water is the essence of life. We cannot live without it. So from the roots up the willow is one of the strongest trees. It is the tree that is the sign of life. For when the storms blow she is strong from the roots up.. Oh I cried in this dirty oily farmer. Held me apologize cuz he wasn't clean I said you're fine. I grew up on a farm. All kinds. My uncle owns a cattle farm. My other uncle owns and everything farm. We have everything you could ever need on that farm..
You smell like home. I said, you've been cleaning your guns? You smell like gun oil. You smell like my pap.. haha 😆 He said well there Yes I was. Interesting. It's amazing how a smell can bring you back to something. And I looked at him and said home. Yes. He helped me up and said you're not going through that part of the fence and walked me around the other part. Through his gate. Which was not far down I just missed it and all my tears...
And my mother's apology. I soon found out. When I got to the house, her number called. I answered the phone and it was empty. I hung up immediately and called my brother at hospice. And I said, is anyone at home? He said no, I said no ones at the house no one's staying with you? He said no. We are all here. With Mom. I said I love you I have to go. I screamed out mom the phone rang. It was her number. It sounded like ever ending, not an echo as if it was reverberating back to you but when I spoke and talked to her it sounded like my voice carried on forever it was incredible. I laid there on the floor and cried for 4 hours. My little one, four years old. I soaked his shorts with my tears. And he said that's okay Mommy. Got up got himself changed. Made me lay down. And then proceeded to put together dinner. PBJ. Grapes. Granola bar. Fishies, peanut butter crackers. Fig Newtons. And chocolate chip cookies for dessert.. and an assortment of juice boxes for my choice. I woke up the whole house was dark. Except for the kitchen light, my little one walks in good evening. I have dinner..
Blown away. Blown away. I was like okay Mommy you're doing a good job. Haha 😆
I found out the next day why my mom was saying I'm sorry. The last 3 years of her life she was angry at me. I put my foot down with her. She wouldn't stop her shenanigans and drugs. That's what led to her death. For the first time I made her stand on her own two feet and she lost a lot of things.. And she was angry at me..
She told my aunt and my grandmother not to have me at her funeral. My mom was crying before she died and her last thing that she said was. I'm so sorry I shouldn't have done what I did your sister's going to be hurt so hurt. I tried to tell Mimi that she wouldn't listen. She said she's standing firm. Your sister's going to be crushed. Tell her I said I'm sorry. And died..
My grandmother and aunt within 10 minutes of each other said that I was selfish for wanting to come home to see my mother to my grave. Instead of being honest and telling me, like my brother was. She was angry. And she did something wrong. My brother got it right away. He actually didn't go to the funeral, because of the way they treated me. He was like that ain't right guys. Especially because I was my mother's keeper not my aunt and I forced my grandmother to stop so that my mom would be clean. It was just the last 3 years of life that took her hard.. for the first time in my life, I let go. I've been my mother's keeper since I've been five..
I'm so happy I wasn't born in this generation. I'm so happy for the strife struggles every bit of it. So grateful. So grateful I have the mind that I have. The gut. The eyes to see the ears to hear and the mind and gut to discerned.
@@Journeestothesmokeymoon But literally if this weird society was in my life. My god how awful. As a teen I played so hard and literally was a mess. Even though I was a ballerina. I was a ballerina with boo-boos. 🤣 Girls would look at me and go ew. Hahaha 😂 I'd rather play with the boys then play with girls. No thanks. Boys don't judge that hard. And they just play and have fun. Riding bikes riding skateboards going surfing canoeing boating fishing hunting. Girls are boring. I had so much fun with the boys. I couldn't imagine life growing up as it is now. It's warped and they've destroyed our world kids don't have much to go to anymore.. The malls are gone. Or almost destroyed. They've wanted us to cancel all of the malls all of the stores. They wanted to shut down all of the precious mom and pop stores. They want to just their big box stores open and then they'll close those. Are you being a good little American? Do you get printed meat this month? Or do you get to eat crickets or mealworms. Oh what they are doing We are living through a horrible experiment. See people don't realize within synthetic biology and biotechnology. They want to grow life form outside of the body. Hence why they are using males trying to implant a uterus and grow a baby in them. I'm not joking. Yes they're doing that. It's really sick and disgusting. The world that they are going through, they're trying to synthesize everything. That's what the merck manual is.
Rockefeller sought out to synthesize everything. Everything. You know even if a chemical is the same as a chemical. Such as they consider folic acid folate. It's not. If a person's methyl pathways don't function properly. That chemical changes into a chemical within the cyanide family. It gets trapped in their cells. 40 to 60% of the population can't methylate properly. They have genetic mutations or AKA deformations. The majority of individuals that are going through these hardships, considering to be stuck in the wrong body. A high percentage of them are autistic. It's horrible. It's manipulative of a generation that has lack of empathy and emotion. And it's absurd and psychologically damaging what they are doing to these children. Also we have tons of xenoestrogens from glyphosate. Glyphosate is used in everything even organics. Whenever they state no synthetic pesticide used. Well glyphosate is considered organic. Because the chemical byproduct of it is a chemical salt. It's not organic. It's a xenoestrogen. And it mimics glycine. When uptaken by the cell as glycine it has an extra chemical tail which leaves an open door to invade your cells. Such as prions. Proteins. Given to us by the jabbawockeez. Considered viruses.. mutating DNA via RNA by infiltrating the lymphocyte B cells with viruses. Copying your information handing over its then it has free reign to lay dormant within the vagus nerve or enter the mitochondria cell. Literally since 1799 their pin cushion projects have been bringing harm to people. You can see the genetic mutations as you've looked down your lineage line. Russian roulette are you going to get cancer, are you going to get metabolic disease, are you going to get autoimmune which is a huge bubble of illnesses. Are you going to get Alzheimer's or MS or ALS or CJD or CWD and Alzheimer's is 10 different forms of dementia add-on early onset and childhood. That wasn't around whenever I was young..
They know that synthetics hurt many individuals. They know what they are doing. No one's paying attention to the nano technology that they have been doing. Here's a book for you geoengineered transhumanism Elana Freeland. It'll blow your mind. Truly an encyclopedia for your studies. Of what's really happening. We're in big trouble big big trouble. We are in the fight for the human genome. And the terraforming of our world and history.
Please check out Michelle Gibson She is the professor of the mudflood community. Go to her alignment playlist 2016. You'll see a little map with alignments on it for her thumb now. Start there..
JonLevi go to his playlist and just watch all of them. His very first one on antique technology it talks about nanotechnology. Tesla re-engineered the technology that they stole. Many people don't realize that he re-engineered the earthquake machine. They can have earthquakes, they also re-engineered DEW which is no more than mirrors that use direct energy from the Sun plasma to burn things incinerate them literally spontaneous combustion. The Catholic Church was the very first people to put this in writing and their explanation was God was punishing man for being drunk with spirit. Hans Christian Andersen used some of the Catholic writings and medical studies they were doing for inspiration for bleak house. That was the first publication of spontaneous combustion. I've been following this since I've been 8 years old. And studying it. It's no more than DEW.
Tesla said if you wish to know the universe thinking vibration and frequency. Peter Davey I call him a natural born engineer others call him a tinker. A musician, one day he was playing the saxophone and everything around him vibrated. He built a machine and this machine could boil water in 3 seconds. Do you know what that would do for nuclear power? Nuclear power is so deadly. These deadly rods heating up water to create steam and convection that turns a fan.
Sadly a little bit after Peter shows his technology. He had it for 30 years and he was boiling water for tea. One of his friends witnessed him making water for tea and had to let the world know what he had made. Shocking that Germany right now at this time is releasing frequency heat technology. There's another person I would love you to check out. Jarid Boosters..
Mr booster's work is incredible I've never seen a library like his. He actually has pamphlets and papers of the old times where they show that they had free heat and free electricity. Boiler heat. This is the technology that they took over. And they couldn't get it right. Especially after their mud floods.
I'm not joking I think there's a correlation within the synthetic biotechnology that they've been bringing forth and the radioactive material that they keep having us dig for as well as having nuclear power plants. They are not clean energy. Water follows fault lines. Nuclear power plants need water. Water follows fault lines and that is just a huge no no we've already had two big no-nos. Happen.
This rabbit hole is so deep and so dark. But I want people to see at least what's happened in their past and what is happening at this very moment. I'm not going to get into the programmable matter technology and AI cuz it's deep..
I hope my words find you. We are so blessed the generation we were born in.
@@MzClementine and because they're on the spectrum, they're easilly influenced by social media. Added that they're teenagers and probably younger, basically the age where they're emotionally and psychologically vulnerable. I'm on the spectrum but I never consider myself a fvckin gender that I'm clearly not, I still retain my common sense and matured healthily like normal adults. So like I said, they need help, not people enabling their delusions.
Something a lot of people don’t know about bottom surgery is, your body can and most of the time *will* treat your “vagina” like a wound, meaning it will scab up and close up, it’s not talked about but it can be absolute hell on a persons body.
Because that's literally what it is. They don't put a vaginal canal inside of them. It's literally a wound. Look at procedure pictures if you can stomach them.
I was shocked when Brett said that. An open... wound!!! Like ... we should know this. This should be common knowledge by now!!! I had no idea.
I did know some people could have a wall collapse which sounds pretty horrific.
@@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver they should show it to the kids getting the surgery
I don't get why they don't just make the labia and call it a day, wouldn't that help someone feel better about their gender rather than a painful wound? ( Just asking, I honestly don't know much about these operations)
@@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver So they don't show after pictures to the prospective patient? They don't explain the pros and cons of the surgery? Of course the patient never imagines there could be a negative side effect. What kind of monsters parading as doctors would do this to anyone without making sure the person has given informed consent? A doctor on another forum suggested that the hormones they trans patients do not follow the normal course of natural hormones so people's emotions and responses are out of whack. What kind of sick society do we have where hospitals boast about sex reassignment surgery for children, where parents foam at the mouth repeating strange reports of the therapeutic benefits of genital mutilation of their own children and government that is the grand cheerleader of these kinds of surgeries?
Been watching you for over a year, yet somehow just now found this video-
TMI time: I’ve always had issues when it came to my parts. I could never find the words. Today I was given the words that match what I’ve felt for years- I just don’t want them. And yes, I was “mistreated” when I was young.
Thank you for shedding light on this subject. I now have the words I’ve been looking for and can now take the next steps in finding help and helping my marriage.
as a 15 year old detransitioner, i am so glad i never got any of the "gender affirming care" i wanted when i wanted it because i would've deeply regretted it. I used testosterone boosters from local drugstores and it had a bit of an affect on my body that i still regret to this day. my voice deepened and it gave me extremely irregular periods, so much so to the point that i would go 6+ months without a cycle. although these changes seem small, they are more than small to me and it honestly makes me upset that i did this to myself. transitioning at a young age is very dangerous because you'll never know wether or not it truly is "just a phase."
"gender affirming care" - that isn't a thing and you sound stupid saying it
@@wiggyegg Aww I hope your ok and better 👍
Stay strong and take care of yourself, I hope you get better as time goes on.
So you never really know if you're pregnant.
@@praetorian3902 exactly. my paediatrician told me that the irregular periods are more than likely irreversible due to how much of the t boosters i took (nearly a bottle every week, as i was unsupervised during the phase) so if i ever get pregnant in the future, i wouldn't know for sure unless i took a test.
as a 17 year old who was not educated enough on this topic this im really grateful for brett cooper. she might have been the person that opened my eyes and thanks to her voice, and so many others ofc, i think i might have just saved myself for a lot of trouble in the future.
I identified as a boy for a year. I loved how i was embraced by a community of friends, but I never felt like a boy. I started identifying as a boy after a really traumatic event at 16, that made me hate my body. I mistook this for gender dysphoria. I’m so glad a good friend questioned my new identity and the Lord spoke to me, because i’m recovering now and I love being a girl. I didn’t get any surgeries, but I would have regretted them. Thank you for this video, Brett. Former trans kids appreciate them.
Thank you for sharing your story. You are blessed to have a wise friend.
God bless you and guide you. Jesus is the way to inner peace.
we are with you.
Proud of u for accepting ur real self
Trauma has such far reaching consequences!! I wish parents and counselors and doctors would take this all into account.
So glad you were able to overcome that ❤
Thank you
My heart hurts for these people because they were led down the path of no return. Now they are in physical and emotional pain with no one to turn to .
I never identified as non binary or trans or used any of these gender labels, but after therapy I realised that I wasn't asexual or lesbian, it was just because I went trough something traumatic qnd it was reflected on how I view intercourse.
I'm quite sure that these people could benefit from proper psychological support and understand what makes them feel like they are *insert pronoun/ gender here *
I have daddy issues because of my father. That means I'm scared of men and I get along better with women. That's not to blame men, that's on me to deal with. If I wasn't aware of the trauma I have, I probably would have been swept up by the lgbt community. I cannot imagine where I would be now.
@@ryugujiken6936 you should go to therapy imo
You are correct tho
I’ve watched my aunt turn my male cousin into a girl over the last 7 years. She decided because he liked “girls things” at age 8ish he wanted to be a girl. She received an immense amount of online/ family support for her transgender son… Which I believed encouraged her to push it even further. They got a segment on the local news for the “first transgender” in the ELEMENTARY school! The same on I went to as a child. I truly can’t believe even now he’s a young teen and has a different name. I don’t think she can even comprehend that she may have completely ruined her own child’s life forever. I pray to God that he isn’t convinced to get on hormones and surgery. I watched this happen over the years and I don’t truly believe it was his choice to be a girl, I believe his mother desperately wanted a girl instead of boy (she has two boys) I don’t think there is anything I can do to help my little cousin without being called hateful but I’m almost at the point where I don’t care and I’m about to put a copy of Irreversible Damage in her mail box.
You need to keep her from getting him on medicine or surgery, he will tha k u as an adult later on. This trend of mutilating kids will be looked at in the future the same way we look back on lobotomies now, horrific
I loved you in all the Halloween movies.
I swear in so many cases it’s munchausen by proxy sitsuation.
Do it !
She has 2 boys, she decided to sacrifice one of them to the woke god.
I have two teen daughters, 15 and 16, both fully vaxed. My husband and I just had our 3rd baby, a little boy. This Go Around, when getting my baby boy vaxd he had a horrible reaction, like uncontrollably shaking, screaming, giant softball lump at injection site, rash all over his body for about a week. I wasnt sure which vax caused it bc they gave him 3 at the same time. I kept calling my docs office, they repeated their generic reply of "some kids just react like that, if his fever is great than... take him to the hospital." We'll after about a week, constant baby Tylenol, lack of sleep he went back to his happy bubbly self. Over the phone, I told my ped my concerns, but the office and our doc swore up and down it was normal. Due to that reaction, I requested one shot per visit, and they requested if that was my request that i come in every week. So each week I went back to get my baby's next shot. On this one particular vax was three seperate shots, my son already received the 1st dose, when he had the 3 and bad reaction. Now he went in for the 2nd shot and had the same horrible reaction. I again expressed my concerns which were dismissed. I did some research and found that it can cause problems for some children. I told my doc I wanted to wait on the 3rd shot for that particular vax, my doc belittled me basically saying I would kill my child if he didn't get all of the vaccines right away. I told him no and stood my ground, I asked that we proceed with the other vaccines he just told me where so important to my sons health and you know what my doc said? It's my right to refuse but it's their right to kick us out and they did. So much for wanting to help my son and give him the oh so important life saving rest of the vaccines he still needed. I later found out they get a kick back for getting so many kids vaccines with in a certain time frame. Disgusting
Long story longer my new ped is amazing and we love her. She listened to my concerns and thinks my son had a neurological reaction to the d a t a p vaccine. She even said don't get a flu bc I work from.home and my son isn't in day care it isn't needed. So refreshing to have an honest kind hearted healthcare worker. I feel like that's rare nowa days.
We already have regrets from when we were teenagers. This is a whole different level of irreversible damage that is being done to these young people 😪
Seriously, I remember the cringe shit I did and said back then, I would never trust a teenager with something like this.
I remember as a kid I either was rolling around in red mud, playing with Barbies, shooting plastic army men off my bathtub with a squirt gun, or just loving watching cartoons. I feel so sorry for kids now days. I was tomboy and girly girl, thank God my parents just let me be a kid. Stop messing with the kids
@@hardcoreac Cool, glad you found a good woman. Have a merry Christmas ✝️
I'm the exact same way! I'm glad my parents let me be a kid as well, others need to be doing the same.
I’m so glad I wasn’t raised around this stuff, I’d probably have bought into it having been a tomboy as a teenager
Oh Yeah
I might’ve had people telling me I was trans but my parents would’ve shut that down immediately.
SAME. I 100% would have been susceptible to it.
Being a tomboy is completely fine. It's like having the best of both worlds through hobbies and interests. Being trans is just pure degeneracy and depravity.
Same. Terrifying.
Watching your video on the topic make me feel so sad about all broken souls and lives. I do see the problem in using these people as life long clinic clients and drugs users. So the doctors and pharm companies make money in advance.
As a subscriber from Russia I have to say that one year ago it became banned. And such a restrictive act is not because of dictatorship. Just because in last few years the influence of Western countries and States became sooo heavy from social media, movies, magazines and so on, that it was out of control. And I’m happy that being parents in my country now is having rights for you children life and body.
I send all my prays to people who were harmed by the greedy and heartless people💜
I’m grateful to have never gone through with surgical procedures to change my gender. From as far back as I can remember, I always felt like there was something wrong with me. I never really ‘thought like a woman’. I’ve been told I have a more masculine way of perceiving the world, whatever that means.
Out of feeling different, and just wanting to fit in somewhere, and just generalized confusion, I began to experiment with transitioning. I cut my hair very short, I began going by a new name, and I even started binding behind my parents back.
I ended up going to an IOP program for depression when I had just turned 15. (IOP, or Intensive Out Patient, is kind of like living at a mental hospital, but only for 8 hours a day and then you go home to sleep)
As soon as I stepped into that room, they asked for your name, age,… and pronouns.
Naturally, I panicked. What was I supposed to say?
I decided to tell them that I was a He/Him, and they all celebrated for my ‘bravery’.
I ended up telling my therapists to not inform my parents of my gender crises, and they unfortunately agreed, while also giving suggestions on HOW to fully transition behind their backs. I was still 15 at this time… I was at my most vulnerable, and I kind of feel betrayed.
I recently left that program, was diagnosed with autism, and the world is so much clearer.
The fact is that they didn’t even consider it could have been something else other than gender dysphoria. Kids with autism are known to struggle with feeling out of place in their own gender..
We have come to a point where we can’t even trust Mental Health institutions. They will do things behind parents backs and encourage children to do drastic things.
I’m so grateful I escaped that headspace before I made a huge mistake.
Wow ... your story really needs to be heard. Thank you so much for sharing it, and I wish you all the best.
Them worried about family members being disappointed in them for detransitioning is the most disturbing thing in all of this. It's actually mind-bending.
Probably because family members go through a ton of emotional turmoil from their family member being trans. It makes sense after all the support and challenges people would feel deeply guilty and ashamed that after all that they want to go back. This stuff has a profound impact on all involved
It doesn’t help that the media and the trans industry keeps telling them that their loved ones are going to kill themselves if they didn’t comply. These people are master manipulators and gaslighters. They’re truly evil!
I suspect money is a big reason. It's not the kids who pay the surgeries. The parents might have spent a house or two worth of money - perhaps debt - to cover just the first transition.
It's always hard on the family when you quit some goal you were very passionate about and make everyone think that it's your life purpose and made everyone invested emotionally (and financially). It's kind of like quiting violin after years and years of practice..
@@Kat-zx1pj No it's not. If it were like quitting anyting, it would be quitting drugs or cigarettes. Transitioning isn't a goal. There is no such thing as transitioning in a literal sense. It is only the erection of facade. Biology is biology. "Hard on the family"? I'd say, the opposite is true.
You can't even pierce your ears alone if you are under 18 but you can completely change your gender!!!
I know its a dirty shame what u can do these days.
In America you can if you have an adult with you. People as young as babies can get their ears pierced
This breaks my heart! I am almost 60, I have 10 siblings and 5 children. I myself was uncomfortable with my body as I turned into a woman, so were several of my sisters and all of my daughters. My brothers didn’t talk about it, but I saw them struggle through puberty and the changing voice, body hair and just those awkward years. If someone had told me or any of us that if we struggle, we must be the opposite sex?!!! We would fail as a society! We need to discuss with our kids why their bodies are changing and why they feel the way they do. It’s a natural confusing, and uncomfortable time for every child. Don’t change them! Help them grow into who they are supposed to be.