I am a 44yo white male, heterosexual, and an Army combat vet (you know, super duper toxically masculine). I have a newly turned 13yo daughter that I recently introduced to your content. She is a fan and I wanted to thank you for the great content that you release. These videos are helping her deal with seeing similar issues in her junior high school. This is a crazy world that we live in now; but we will make it sane again, just one day at a time. cheers Brett
Lmao, what makes the Army toxic masculine? I've met so many Army vets who would drop everything to have a tea party with their daughter, and it sounds like you would too. Don't attach yourself to negativity if you don't truly exhibit those negative traits :)
@@glssprncss appreciate the comment. I stated it more so to be sarcastic towards the fragile soy eaters/drinkers of the world that are emotional hemophiliac's. My daughter is my world.
@@Lydiajareau You sound like you have been through a lot. Too much for someone of your age. I just want my daughter to be a kid for a little bit, not have to deal with all the BS that is going on. you seem to have a really good head on your shoulders. You stick to your guns, be YOU because that is who you are. you have support, even if it is on here. We all have your back, you are not alone, you are our future, and you self corrected into the right direction. Youve proven you can over come difficulties in life. You, are going to be just fine. Sorry mine is so long as well, cheers to you my dear.
When I was 17, about when the pandemic was taking flight, I was just, playing with my style, being a regular tomboy. My mom didn't think anything about it since she's always been open about the way I dress or just my style in general. But, when a friend started noticing my change in style, she told me and convinced me that I was trans and recommended this whole set of trans influencers, so that I could "find myself". I started mentally convincing myself that I was trans, bought myself a binder, cut my long hair and started wearing boys clothes only. My back started hurting like hell and began experiencing severe back pain every single day to the point where I had to go to the ER. Thank god I didn't go too far, never went on testosterone nor surgery. One day I sat with my mom, cried my heart out and told her I couldn't handle it anymore and she could crearly tell that I was falling apart. She told me that nothing was wrong with me, I was just being a woman, with a diferent style. I went back to growing my hair, as it used to be, wore my regular clothes, and once again, I felt like myself. I realized how toxic this content can be, and how it can really play with your mental health and the way you see yourself. To this day your content has helped me so much and I couldn't thank the internet more for recommending your videos. Thank you for what you do ❤
Wow I had a similar experience. Im 18 now but when I was in middle school everyone called me gay or trans or non binary cuz i like jeans and a hoodie. I was raised around boys and I am a tomboy. Anyway, my mom seemed to think i was expressing myself as non-binary and told the school to start calling me they/them. Honestly, I didn't even understand what it was and she didn't even have a conversation with me. It's like she just decided I was LGBTQ. She even told me she would take me shopping for binders and she took me to get my head shaved. I cried for like 3 whole weeks after that. Luckily, I told every teacher that called me that I was a woman even if I didn't look like one lol. A few months ago, I talked with my mom about this and how she kind of forced it on me. She even admitted if I had talked about testosterone, she would have let me take it. That was super scary to hear, Imagine my friend had told me about it or if I had been on social media more. I could be a trans man right now with severe mental health issues. I wonder how many kids didn't get out and are now stuck living like that.
Oh my goodness! Thank the Lord you made it through! In Canada you are allowed to vote at 18. No one should make a life changing decision before then! I would actually push it to 21 years of age. By then you can make an informed decision. 🤞Parents as well should not be making the decision. I have a feeling we will have many of these poor souls suing their parents for having pushed them in that direction. 😡Parents are meant to protect their children!
Y'all don't take advice from non-trans people😭What you experienced wasn't gender dysphoria like these people do,you just had your own style.The people who gave you "advice" probably had just heard about being trans and had no idea what it actually was like.And I'm saying that for the dumbasses who are about to judge all of them for no reason at all
When I was 10 I took a gay quiz on youtube and it said I was bisexual. I started to identify as bisexual in 2020. I only took the test because I had hormones running throughout my body and was slightly sexually attracted to women. After awhile I started to go up and down the spectrum. I was bisexual, then a lesbian, then I was pansexual, then I was into more masculine women than feminine, etc. Then I also got into gender. I was a demi-girl, non-binary, bigender, transgender, etc. Up until this summer I was gay for 3 years. After having a relationship with a guy I finally realized I am a straight women. I love being a women and I don't know why I never did like it. At one point I was asexual and didn't want children. Now I am very excited to have children when I'm older. This all happened to me because I was a 10 year old girl going through puberty that got ahold of the wrong side of TikTok/the internet and wanted to be labeled and fit in.
I grew up in a time where one wasn't confronted with all these labels and possibilities at all, and several of my friends had a similar journey exploring their identity, like you did. They just didn't even have names for any of it (besides "gay/lesbian"). It was very hard on them too. Now, I think people (young people in particular) could benefit greatly if we stop focusing on gender altogether, but it's normal for young folks to go through phases of self-discovery, which often isn't fun.
Kids want to feel special and different but in safe/protected ways. What better way than through these protected groups? When I was young kids would've been FAAAR too afraid of ridicule to claim transgender unless they were convinced they really were. Now it seems like "eh I'll try it and if I don't like it I'll quit" or "this seems like a good way to get some desired attention/control".
Prayers for you! I’ve had a similar experience but Jesus got me outta that before I went in too far! I’m glad you have a wonderful life and excited for you kids for you! God bless you and prayers for you!
I am old enough to remember growing up in a time where me and my peers hated labels. As teens, we would shake our fists at society (metaphorically) and yell "we don't need no labels." A generation later , and most teens today care only about their "labels". It is CRAZY how fast it changed.
I am a 13 year old girl and I feel like I don’t fit in at all. I was starting to question my gender and felt really depressed and that nobody would ever get me. But, once I found you, you opened my eyes to how crazy this actually is. Thank you Brett :)
You are only 13. I'm 30 now but when I was a teenager I never felt like I fit in too. And let me tell you, every teenager feels like this. You are at an age were you are starting to discover who you are. And you can be a girl and wear masculine things or feminine things depending on your mood. It's fine to be a girl and being more boyish. Just take care of yourself and enjoy your hobbies :)
@@tosh.m.k as another almost 30 yr old, I gotta say this hits home, and those "not fitting in" feelings never go away but after a while you do develop different tactics and mechanisms to skirt around those feelings and still engage with people from any "clique" you might be trying to "fit" into.
Most 13 years olds feel they don't fit in unless they have members of the opposite sex trying to bed them. And most 13 year olds don't have that. That's where cults get members. And the Trans community is a cult. Cults find people who feel they don't belong, hug them and tell them they love them ... then take advantage of them ...THEN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THEM !!!. Just relax and cultivate that which is in you that makes you different. Do you think Brett ever tried to be like the crowd?
i went through the same thing when i was your age (i'm now 20) and i'm so glad i didn't actually listen to the people around me who pushed changing genders and a bunch of weird gender identities. puberty as a girl is so difficult and adjusting to the changes can make you feel uncomfortable in your body but you will grow out of it
I had this exact conversation with my daughter while I was cooking dinner. I am a man who has zero interest in football, basketball, baseball, and my daughter doesn’t like to wear skirts. These things don’t make us any less man or woman. They make us human.
These conversations are the actual healthy way to discuss self identity. "You're a girl but you don't like wearing skirts; that's just fine. Be who you want to be." Not the modernized rhetoric of "YOU DON'T HAVE LIKE SKIRTS? YOU ARE MAN IN CHESTFEEDER BODY". Thank you for being a reasonable adult who is not pushing any one ideal on your kid.
So true. I’m a teenager too and seeing the people around me in class or something slowly getting brainwashed and being like “we have to accept everything, don’t you dare criticise anything or you’ll be the outcast” just really pisses me off. I mean go for it, idgaf, but don’t expect me to do the same. I’m going to criticise what I want and that’s not anyone’s fcking business. For me, this whole thing is just completely brain rot, the gender thing went wayyyyy too far and I’m extremely worried about the little children growing up with this
I've never seen anything like this. Honestly, I agree; I grew up a tomboy but that doesn't make me less of a girl. People need to accept that their personality is okay and they don't need to change their identity to match it.
Speaking solely for myself , I always preferred being with a woman like yourself. Romantically , as friends , or as dates sharing space. Being with what I thought of as a real woman was my desire. All the gender identity crap confuses me to no end , I hate it. And for the record "Hate" is not a word I throw around lightly.
As much as I like freedom, transgenderism needs to be limited in some ways, for instance no one should have to recognize a divine gender or be sentenced to homelessness and starvation and excommunication from the global economy rather than apostatize. This is leading to a Shadrak, Meshak and Abednago moment. The angels will shelter the defiant, but that doesn't mean we can't vote to stop it. This is straight up mark of the beast s***.
I’m a 15 year old sophomore and I’m so grateful that you talked about growing up as a tomboy. So many of my peers have tried to convince me that I’m not feminine enough to be a woman because I’m more masculine than most women my age. I started to believe them and I thought I wasn’t a “real woman.” I’m so glad I never tried to change my gender. I’m a woman, and I’m proud of that.
im 44 years old, so a lot older than you, and when i went to school ppl loved to dress as a tomboy and there is nothing wrong with it at all. dress how you want to dress. things are getting so bad now and trying to push ppl to be someone there not, just keep being you :)
As a 40 year old woman that was a tomboy- loved playing outside, sports, dirt, GI Joe's, never wore makeup, comfortable in boys clothes,hated dresses ect. I am still a woman! As I grew out of HS I went through stages of wearing makeup & dresses but it never changed that I'm a woman! They call us tomboys and there is nothing wrong with not being "girly", that's not what makes you a woman. I'm really sad you even went through that & that adults are pushing this agenda. I am so happy that you realized being you is okay & you can spread your story!
Trans person here :Don’t let other poeple tell u what u are, I think that is the problem queer poeple are trying to help people to find out what they are without asking how they feel first
I am a field geologist. Most of my days are spent in the field, hair in a cap, talking smack with drill crews or off roading trucks across closed landfills. I’ve never once thought that made me less of a woman and more of a man.
2000s: we don’t want to be labeled just because we don’t conform to the norm. We have different interests and personalities that make us unique. We don’t even force it on others. 2020s: We want labels and to be labeled. Making up personalities to be unique and force others to conform to us, as we follow trends hundreds are already following, and become less unique, this makes us feel unique.
if she’s trigender that means she identifies as male, female and non-binary right? but, being non-binary means you don’t identify as either male or female 😂 so she’s non-binary then. 🤣
I'm a woman but I don't necessarily "feel" female, I just "feel" like being myself. I face typical femal problems from actual biological problems each months to more stereotypical problems like not being tall enough to reach upper shelves or not getting a glass if pickles open. Otherwise I like to dress in a more feminine or just neutral way and I like to read romance novels, yet I'm also interested in motorsports and love hiking - but none if this makes me more or less of a woman that jzst makes me uniquely me.
Totally agree on those fake compliments... moreover some people are force you to say or act cute or laugh on something while you absolutely don't care about the that stuff
as if "trigender" wasn't enough, there are "neopronouns", not just like "ze/zir", but also "kit/kitself", "dream/dreamself", "corpse/corpseself", "doll/dollself". its so insane.
The only person that's allowed to use corpse as a pronoun is corpse husband. Anyone else is a fuckin lunatic. I tolerate nonbinary people. Key word, tolerate. But every other crazy gender or pronoun can fuck off. And this is coming from someone who's trans :/
I feel like sometimes people are forgetting that being a women or man doesn’t necessarily define who you are, like didn’t we like go through a whole thing about how you can be a women and also not always be feminine 😞
Agree. Hobbies define a person far more than what they want to sleep with. It’s almost pitiful to see people sum themselves up entirely by what they want to fuck. Is that all you are as a person? There’s nothing more to you other than being [insert relevant sexuality].
True. OG Feminists fought years for feminine men and masculine women. And now it feels like we took big steps backwards. Now it’s AGAIN not ok for women to be masculine, bc that automatically takes away being woman from you. You HAVE TO be Trans or nonbinary. Same for feminine men. Like wtf?? Let people just be people without this Transitioning and QT+ bs
You hit the nail on the head so sweetly. They don't value themselves as they are, they need weird labels to feel special. Hopefully they'll just grow up and out of it.
Shes above everyone else. She has gone beyond reality and is everything and nothing all at once. She's here but not here. She is everything she loves yet everything she hates. SHE. IS. TRIGENDER!!
I’m in my 30’s and Emo/Goth was the scene that all the HS misfits and alternative teens were in back in 2003. The only permanent things we were doing were getting tattoos and possibly getting a scar from a bad piercing. Now the misfits and alternative kids are chopping off body parts as a part of the new phase and that terrifies me. And yes a good chunk of these people are going through a phase (not all but a good bit).
Hi. Do u have numbers of how many children are getting gender confirming surgeries? That's important as it may not be that much. Idk if u know who matt walsh is, but he is the "what is a woman" guy. Basicly all of these claims that the country is becoming trans and that millions of kids are getting surgeries is a lie. There really isnt that many kids getting surgeries. Matt went to a congressional meeting and they tore him apart for lack of evidence. These right wing commentators are just as bad as the woke ones. They all complain about fake things just to have something to talk about.
I'm embarrassed to admit this, but in my 20s, I briefly thought I was some kind of non-binary gender because I've always been a tomboy. As I get older (I'm in my mid-30s now), I look back not just with laughter at how foolish I was but with sadness that I bought into that. And I was part of a generation that as teenagers we said "labels are for soup cans".
Sometimes I feel weird for being a female who isn't into sappy romance, a lot of make up and doing things most girls like to do. For example I prefer watching action/suspense shows and movies and also mystery stuff. Meanwhile I have friends who likes romance and I just feel odd. I tried to force myself to like that stuff but I can. I just cringe at it
@@theravenscout4569 i consider myself a girly-girl and i also dont like romance. My husband is much more "romantic" than me. i dont watch shows with drama. I love sci-fi and hate that sappy stuff.
We need people like you speaking out against hormone therapy (or even worse, surgery) for teenagers who are nowhere near close enough to make life-altering decisions yet.
Thank you Brett for opening my eyes. I’m currently a 15 year old girl, and when I was 12-13, I thought I was transgender. I came across your channel and I flourished. Now, I’m a 2 time women’s pageant winner and a semiprofessional musician. You turned my life around. Thank you.
I was brainwashed by my friends at 13 that i was bi. Finally i realised that i wasnt, and i was straight. After that, i was bullied for 2 years of my life because of my views. Im only just coming out of my bullying. Please stop letting people tell you who you are. Please.
This also happened to me! My friend group was super toxic, saying that if you're straight, you're homophobic. Only took me 5 months to realize that they were only seeking attention. (ps: all of this happened during quarantine, when the gender topic on tiktok became huge)
I was a tomboy up until 18yo and was also brainwashed at 12 by a "friend" telling me I might be lesbian and I would know only after I tried. Turns out she was "in love" with me and wanted to take advantage of the fact that I was younger. We kissed for 4-5 times and I decided it was just weird (luckily) and not for me. She's always been a tomboy and now is dressing like a man, dying her hair all different colours and being as loud as she can whenever she speaks (I lived in a small city and saw her often from a distance). It is troubling the thought that hadn't I come to a realisation I might have ended up in the same exact position. You're never too young to be true to yourself.
I was adopted at birth and am in an adoptee group on Facebook. The amount of people who’s entire identity is ‘adopted’. I can honestly say if someone said ‘tell me about yourself’ it wouldn’t even occur to me to start or end with ‘adopted’ or ‘woman’. I cook, I bake, I read, I love camping and woodwork, I have kids and cats and a dog and we have a new kitten. The whole world has gone so very mad.
@@cwningen they aren’t any special breed, just domestic short hair. Twelve year old brother and sister that were abandoned and we just adopted a little girl kitten from the RSPCA with the hopes she will be best friends with our dog. We couldn’t have chosen a better kitten if we tried as she looooves the dog and the dog loves her.
I am a 16 year old girl, 17 later this year. I was once questioning my own gender identity because I was so exposed to it at school and on social media. I have had a total revelation about three years ago and I have done a 180°. For awhile I was really confused, then I got super into politics and I realized how *wrong* I was. I literally cannot thank people like you for existing because you saved me from the delusion I was falling in to.
@Jay Blue we were made to be with a person of the opposite gender, people are pushing their desires over the natural order God made. They have us questioning that if we have a desire it's your identity and you can/should pursue that, but there are lots of people who have desires that they shouldn't pursue like pedophiles. We have to follow God's order for creation, sanctification. Love you all and God bless.
@@ishygoel thats isolating them from the world they live in. Let them learn about it and learn how to face it. I have a friend who went no contact with her parents because they always isolated her from reality.
This is what happens when narcissism is vaunted as a positive trait instead of treating it like the disorder it is. She is clearly deriving her self-worth only from the labels she assigns herself and the attention it draws. Most of us go through this stage in our psychological development between 8 and 15 where our sense of identity grows beyond the superficial. Arrested development: it's not just a TV show.
Yes! "Its so hard adulting! I'm gonna go come up with all the labels I can that aren't 'Mrs. Popstar' because I'm progressive and write fan fiction" And it's being supported.
super glad that young humans (from the comment section here) are listening to Brett and realizing that its okay to be you and you are wonderful just the way you are.
Bro this generation is just screwed, the fact that I literally got brainwashed into believing that I was Bisexual just because I wore boy clothes and didn’t “act” girly enough is crazy. I am only newly 17 years old and watching 20+ year old who are supposed to be the role models for us behave this way truly gives me no hope for humanity. I pray that Jesus may heal these people 🙏🏾
Dude, judging a community of people for simply raising awareness is just ☠️.I also don't understand what you think you achieve when you say "heal".Who you like is something determined by your brain during its development, it isn't a choice nor a disease. Like I can't take this anymore with people who think they're smart to judge something that they haven't experienced.Raising awareness isn't brainwashing,you were just easily disturbed.That's a different case
@@nectarandambrosia_ what I mean by heal is that May God “heal” these people there is no double meaning behind that. Also I don’t care if you like women/men or whatever you like. But telling people what their sexuality is just because they don’t fit the basic narrative of a straight person doesn’t make any sense at all, there are many children exposed to this false news of “you don’t act like other girls so you must be gay” “you like feminine clothing so you must be gay” sexuality, correct me if am wrong shouldn’t be forced down people’s throats but instead should be something you discover on your own. I am not over here bashing Gay people, God said to love your neighbors as you love yourself and I love and cherish the LGBTQ+ community as my neighbors, I may not agree with it but you won’t see me actively hating on them because that’s just not who I am.
@JAOLYXCE Sadly it is shoved down everyone's throats...everywhere ;-; they even wanna teach it to kids that have no clue about sexuality whatsoever, it's getting out of hand
I was a cross dresser for about 4 years as a coping mechanism (I was being s*xually ass**lted nearly daily during this time) and called myself agender, but I never went with any weird pronouns. Once I got some help realized I am definitely not agender. So whenever I see young people claiming to be these made up gender identitys I get really sad because they must be going through something terrible.
Don’t label yourself as something you’re not to defend yourself from horrible people… it’s definitely not your fault and it doesn’t matter what gender you’re to those kind of people
Nothing wrong with crossdressing. If that's your thing, enjoy it. But yeah... the whole AGender thing is just nonsense. I'm glad you got that sorted out. Feel better, buddy.
In my middle school or old middle school every female said they were trans or gay and for some reason I was always the weird kid who was homophobic and called trans people "the thing" or "it" and every time i talked ab LGBT people they would cut me off especially if I tried to talk them out of their strange hallucinations bc i read ab how trans kids who go through the surgery to change their gender permanently, have a 91% chance of commiting suicide. Now i don't know what i should do.😢❤
You should just respect people's gender identities and their pronouns. The high percentage of chance of committing suicide isn't real. There has been so much proof that gender affirming care has improved the mental health of these people. You shouldn't try to change how these people identify as.
@@Celery605 gender is what you are born with and so are pronouns, if no one wants to take part in this new delusion, then we have the right to not take part.
Yikes. You're gonna grow up to be one of those loser sigma editors. Stop being a dick and just find more people who are straight and cis like yourself. Leave the others alone.
@@chanez9440 that doesnt make any sense bcs non-binary is oposite to male and femele, as far as i know non-binary is when you dont indentify with any gender so.... She is speaking bulsshit You cant feel like no famale and no male at the same time you feel like male and female WTF IS THIS
If I look in the mirror and say that I feel handsome in a masculine way but cheerful in a feminine way... That's... nonsense :D But I can justify that as feeling both at the same time and make up some BS about it being some tri-gender HORSESHIT.
when i was 9, i started questioning my gender because of my mothers abuse. i actually transitioned for a while, im 13 now and back on track and chasing my dreams of getting into Princeton! I want to thank you for being a big role model in my life!!
Wow. I have read a lot of these comments and I am amazed by how many lives you have changed. You are such an incredible person. Keep making videos and changing lives!
As a bow hunting daddies girl, I so appreciate you reminding people they can be tomboys and feminine and it doesn’t mean they’re gay! Bless you Brett and love your content💛
@l.a.1477 what the difference tomboy to female to male? One just exhibit more masculization. Tomboy girls like things that are guy and if they keep being this way into adulthood, shot hair, boy hobbies, long pants. They are very close to female to male.
@l.a.1477 no there isn't tomboy is just not that obsessed. And they grow out of it but if the tomboy behaviour still persist then you get trans. However you still confused people when you try to explain that you like doing guy thing and say it's okay. If a guy say he always like playing with dolls, dress up, makeup all the things related to what girls do. Saying it's okay and that he just a femine boy is just escaping reality. 😕 He really has some deep issues that need addressing.
whats frustrating is that none of this shit matters. They're literally just expressing how everybody feels at time. I'm masculine all day, but I get around a kitten and I'm pretty soft. The idea that they need a label is silly.
I am disappointed with my own generation… I’m 16 and I started to understand that pretty much everyone my age is super sensitive and inmature at the age of 14. I have online friends who are OLDER than me and are still wayyy more sensitive and inmature than me. It’s sad honestly… I miss 2014, 2014 was a great year, so was 2016, man the good times… It seems like after the pandemic it’s only gotten worse and worse, and I’m understanding everything more and more. A channel like yours helps me to stay confident and speak up about this stuff! Thank you!
My upbringing around Army men, brothers, uncles, etc, gave me a robust masculine energy. It doesnt conflict with or confuse my womanhood. It does confuse my husband, who has a mildly feminine energy most of the time, having grown up with a strong sister and mother and a gentle, mathematician father. He's still plenty manly in his habits, skills and desires. We are interesting, multi faceted, different, unique people. I cant figure out why everyone is so confused about what a "personality" is.
Because a personality doesn't get you attention, being trans does. The minute any of these guys or girls declare an identity, they're flooded with attention and affirmation and praise. Nobody paid attention to Dylan prior to his days of girlhood and no one paid attention to that eccentric/quirky girl before her trigender thing. The current environment rewards this stuff and worse, it condemns being "normal." Straight and gay are normal so we get these stacked identities that are more nonsensical than the next.
2:55 Thanks for spreading this message. This is what young people today need to hear. I'm almost 30 and I've had some serious identity issues because I'm a man, and I like manly things, but I also have a soft side, I cry easily, and I enjoy certain things that would be viewed as non-masculine. At one point I did start to question whether or not I really was a man. But then I met my SO who loves every part of me and didn't shame me for not fitting into the stereotypical manly man box. I'm now more confident in my masculinity than at any point in my life.
i’m the same! i’m a woman but i love some masculine things, and that’s okay. you’re not a different gender just because you have lots of interests. you’re a person first and foremost, your gender doesn’t define what you like and dislike, your gender is just the category of human you are.
you're just a human. that's all. that's why kids back then were like "don't label us!" and now it's like you must call me this and this or you're whatever phobic. what?
I think also because of a generation of absent, workaholic, screen addicted parents who didn’t put the time and effort into getting to know their children and making them feel special. Everyone deserves to feel special from their parents and partners, and when they don’t get that many will turn to extreme measures like this to get attention and validation :(
I'm 13, and God, this scares me. I'm genuinely scared to live in this society where if you don't feed into delusion, you're hateful. The world wasn't meant to be like this.We have bigger problems to deal with here
During the beginning of highschool, I was brainwashed and peer pressured by my friends who were all apart of the LGBT community to think I was gay. I only thought this because I was afraid that they would exclude me from the group. Since I left this group after they eventually stopped including me because I wasn’t apart of the LGBT community and didn’t have the same beliefs as them. This made me realize how toxic,and delusional these kind of people are. In addition, to the amount of brainwashing they did and how much they can continue to do and attack innocent young people.
Exactly, whatever you are or whoever you are, kindness goes a long way. I'm safe to say that those people do not deserve to talk on behalf of their community, they're wicked. In fact, you can't even call those people you've described "LGBT" people anymore, they're just super toxic people that you should avoid.
So your saying all LGBTQ+ people attack young people into believing that they’re gay?? Like I will admit some gay people do that, but straight people also do that as well. Some people are just manipulative, and I feel like that stereotype for gay people shouldn’t be a thing nor should it be relevant. But that does suck that those people did that, which is wrong. But we shouldn’t be saying every gay person is like that
I’m 12, and I’m happy to be a girl. Last year I said I was ‘non-binary’ and I’m so happy that my parents didn’t feed into it because I am a girl. I love channels like yours because it has really opened my eyes to more ridiculous sides of woke culture.
I have friends like you (I am 13), and unfortunately, they have not changed back to their correct gender. They've all become non binary bisexual whatever, and I'm really disappointed in them because I like them as people, like a lot
@@jaykeeratbhatthal9729you made your account 7 years ago... How can you be 13? I know kids start young in social media this days but... You were 6y if what you're saying is true 😂😂😂
God, I'm so glad I found your channel! I am a simple teenager from Russia, but reading the comments I understand that the problem with "labels" has become universal. Despite the laws of my country, I have repeatedly met people from my city who were ready to pretend to be LGBT or an unusual gender in order to somehow stand out and be "not like everyone else." I considered myself bisexual for a while, but then I realized that it was nothing more than a desire to stand out at the expense of a small group of people and be "unusual". Now I understand that I would like to stand out with my knowledge and skills, and not at the expense of things that should not bother anyone except me.
Do not associate bi and gay and lesbian people with these crazy genders. I’m a gay American, and it’s not a brain disease or a way to stand out. I’m gay, but I’m not flaunting it. These crazy people trying to change their physical body and gender is CRAZY! I don’t get it. Sure love who you love and like who you like, but your born a boy or girl and you’ll die a boy or girl. The other day I saw a “Dragon spirit” gender and I was SO confused.
Привет! Мой Руси не хорошо, но я брать уроки. Русская культура мне очень интересна, и я люблю это. Это очень хорошо на я видеть Русский человек, привет из Шотландии :)
I agree with everything you said, what's happening to our world makes me very sad, I've had trouble my whole life making friends because I'm shy, but I've recently realized It's just so hard to feel like you belong in this world, especially as a kid, I don't necessarily want friends as much, because I've seen how crazy and terrible the people in this generation can be, It feels like getting to know people isn't worth it for the most part, I've been very disappointed wasting time and energy on people who never had my best interest, or even cared for me, a lot of people are very selfish now. This is all coming from a 16 year old girl, so stay strong out there fellow teens, hopefully things will get better.
I just asked my son, “son, can someone have three genders at the same time?” He immediately replied “no, your gender is what’s in your pants”. Well said my boy.
@@lemonstealinghorsdoeuvre i was telling you that: according to you, gender is what's in your pants. yes? then i told you i have a cd in my pants, therefor cd is my gender.
@@chiadiaries mine was, but it was half hearted because it is just a terrible line. "Do you have a mirror in your pocket?" _why do you ask_ "Because I can see myself in your pants" Don't flatter yourself, kid
I used to think I was Bi sexual. Being pressured by the crazy media. I would even think i might be lesbian. I “ came out” to my parents. Then i told them i was straight. I thank God I am truly who i am. Me. A girl who likes boys. I love your channel!
Brett, you are a blessing. I read the comments from the young ladies, and for the first time in a long time I have hope for young people, and especially for young women 🎉
hey brett, i’m 16, and i’m a “cisgender” female. ever since i was 14, i thought identified as some nonbinary gender because of my influence from social media and people in my school. until now, i only just realized how blind i was and how i now feel much happier that i don’t need to try and identify as something different to fit in. thank you brett for opening my eyes and sharing the truth! i will definitely keep watching your show.
Girl 🥺 let's be friends. I had the exactly same experience:(((((( I'm so sorry to hear that like pls these people are so shitty doing to the minds of young teenagers.
I thought I was transgender in my freshman year because the internet told me it would help my problems but it didn’t help me now I realised I’m not trans and very happy being a “cisgender” girl
Same for me (kinda). I wanted to transition into a guy at age 10, but decided I was too shy to ‘ask my parents’ (lol wtf). Anyway I’m a pretty normal girl turning 17 this month. I don’t mean to brag but not transitioning was a true intellectual move
My daughter went through so much confusion that she thought she was Trans from 12yrs old till she was almost 14. I understood why she felt like that. Being bigger and hating her body was part of it. Then we bought her more feminine clothes and a cute bikini since it was summer. She realized that she wanted to grow her hair back out and be herself and ditching the propaganda b.s. 😊❤
Your daughter experience sounds a lot like mine. When I was 14 I thought I was transgender. Only now that I'm 17 I realise I was being brain washed into believing I was transgender by the internet. I wasn't happy with being overly feminine and I didn't want to have a feminine body but that's okay. I'm growing my hair back and I am now loving myself again ❤.
@user-yi2mx2ih3d The user never said that ALL transgender people are invalid. Transgender people exist of course and have existed for a very long time. The user is just saying that children are easily influenced by peer pressure and we should be cautious with transgender identities in children but that doesn't mean we should isolate transgender people as a whole.
Anyone is free to "identify" as anything they wish. And everyone else is free to NOT be forcibly pushed into reinforcing that other person's personal delusion.
Exactly. I believe people should be free to live however they want so long as it doesn't interfere with others. But the second other people need to a) pay for other peoples mistakes as a result of those people living as they want, or b) play along with the delusion (especially under threat of law or public shaming), then a line has been crossed.
Remember, for every one of these people there’s 10,000 normal people living their lives and unaffected by madness. But no one makes videos about those people
I'm 13 and, ugh. I hate this new gender stuff, I was brainwashed at the age of 11 or so and was told i was Bisexual and or Pansexual, i wasn't and my shitty friends brought me down to believe it. I'm now a straight, 13 year old boy. Brett, you are one of a few sane people left. Second Part: Most of my friends were females, since I could never get along with other men due to our shared stupidity (lmao), and people thought i was gay and throughout elementary i was called gay, i had no fucking idea what "Gay" even was until about 5 years ago, this world is falling apart...
I can promise you, you are *not* being “brainwashed”. Nobody should be trying to brainwash anyone, and if they are that has *nothing* to do with the LGBTQ+ community
The fact that you're so young and can have such well thought out opinions on topics that are so important in today's age, is incredible. I love watching your videos because they open a dialog in my own mind and allows me to challenge my own possibly "toxic" thoughts. Keep doing what you're doing, we need more people speaking out.
I am so grateful that my parents had so much influence over me. I am a young woman pretty similar to Brett, I was more of a tomboy, have always loved guns and martial arts, found it easier to hang out with all the guys. I once had the thought that I wished I was a boy, but my mom corrected that thought before it could get a hold of me, so grateful because now I wear pink and have a sparkly tiara next to my boxes of ammo. It is so sad to see young women who just want to feel loved and secure taking on a fake identity because no one tells them it's fine to be who God created them to be. Thank you Brett for speaking truth, this video expressed a lot of my thoughts and feelings.
I agree with you and I had the opposite opinion from yours starting with the pandemic in 2020 when I was very vulnerable, insecure, and bored and the LGBT community took me in, I am now realizing how toxic it all was. Hostility, misogyny with gay men…. Etc… you’re completely right
17 right now and same here but I never trusted the vaccine to begin with. And later on I’ve just been enlightened more and more to the red side of things
People be inventing new genders faster than scientists exploring and inventing new things 💀 Btw love the content you're probably the most educated girl on social media 😂❤️
I knew Brett had a decent reach but didnt know how much of the younger generation she was reaching. So many kids in here that Brett has helped and its heartwarming 🥀🇺🇲
I'm 12 turning 13, being on tik tok and watching all these people say and do diffrent things really confused me, I stated believing and feeding into what these people said about gender and I was honestly so lost. After finding and listening to u Brett I have realized that social media has simply caused me to become a person im not. I'm glad Brett brought this light to me and helped me correct myself, and made me see things in the correct way. All her video are truly so informative and I'm glad you make them 🙏🏼
I don’t understand much of it at all, but it seems clear that she is an immensely kind soul and I hope that she is able to find happiness and peace in herself. I don’t personally know that these things she is focusing on are setting her up for true happiness and it does seem strange in most facets. I hope she has good people around her and that she is able to make a great life for herself!
I agree. I think she is just trying to fit in somewhere. She's an awkward kinda person but seems like she's never been mean to anyone in her life. I hope she does find happiness
Brett, I just want to say that I adore you, you have the most kind and welcoming aura. This vvideo made my day, keep up the good work. You’re a literal angel
I have to disagree... It would be easier to agree with your statement if the rest of America wasn't in shambles when it comes to all of this crap. But social media allowed her to think outside the tringle shaped box... This nation is truly free when it comes to expressing yourself LOL !! Trigender is another thing to add to the board of the random shit ppl identify as that makes zero sense.
Everyone is a result of the world around us, we reflect the infinite micro choices that where made by are parents or people we saw from a young age. What she saw was endless confusion of what reality is. We got a lucky draw, we can have civil conversations, recognise morality and accept reality. As such, it is are job as the mentally sound to help others who may not have such
How? Why? How and why? I really don't get it how someone can be confused about gender. I really try to understand this mindset amd don't want to provoke you. There is no culture except western "culture" where gender confusion exists
it’s great that it cleared up. remember, your gender is not determined by your interests or aesthetics, you’re a person first and foremost, your gender is just the category of human you were born as!
Brett, as a young girl in this modern society, your entire speech in the last 5 or so minutes of this video is absolutely golden. Please make complete videos about how vulnerable girls are to this sort of culture where freaks in the internet provide them a "home" where they can relate. Absolutely love your videos, and I love the work you are doing for young women in this society. I don't know if I like the word feminist, but if feminism was a term that actually meant vouching for and protecting women, you are an absolute feminist.
As I watch more and more of Brett's videos, I feel like I've slowly come to appreciate how much awesome parenting Brett Cooper's mom has done for her. Love the story about inauthentic commenting on friends' posts. It's great to have someone in your life that you trust who can call you out in all the right ways.
i have been so depressed all day, you have definitely cheered me up. I needed the “don’t tag yourself”. It has nothing to do with gender or the topic of the video, but it did help me, so thank you!
Here’s the peculiar thing - I used to follow this person cuz she was ADORABLE getting ready for work every day and doing her makeup. She started getting a lot of attention because she was so precious and pure - it wasn’t until AFTER all the views and follows that she came out and began celebrating her lgbtq+ identity. Just thought that was worth mentioning.
@@soap6364 Because, it's not probably who she really is, but has become because of attention... And because young girls see all this CRAP, yes, it is crap, they think their normal regular everyday feelings are something else than what it actually is - normal life.
i as a young teen was brainwashed to think i was bisexual. i wanna thank brett that she makes this amazing content. i really wished she started this channel years ago because she is speaking the truth!
This is exactly what happened to me! When I was 13 years old, I was in a friendgroup who over the quarantine really got into this gender topic. I didn't want to be left out and so I started saying, that I'm not a girl and today I realize that the only time I ever questioned myself was because of that friend group. Thank God I finally realized that I needed to get out of there, also because they became super toxic, calling everyone who was straight or cis eighther homophobic or transphobic.
Brett you always provide a great mix of empathy and laughing at these people. Personally I don’t usually enjoy one (completely) without the other so it’s ideal!
“Just like a triangle, I have three genders!” Congrats to triangle for coming out hopefully they will inspire more shapes to embrace who they truly are
I think the issue we have stems from social media. No one feels special anymore, so they have to make stuff off and make new identities to get affirmation and feel special
@@jopun3691 No te angusties, esta locura pasará y todo volverá a ser normal, homosexuales y heterosexuales juntos y en familia. Tengo esa esperanza gracias a tantas inquietudes incluyendo personas trans y homosexuales que no están de acuerdo con lo que está sucediendo. Es una dicha ver comentarios como el de ustedes dos. Saludos y éxitos.
Amo que hayas escrito este comentario. Se está volviendo peligroso todo este asunto. Es cierto que muchos gays fueron discriminados, como lo fueron los negros, los indígenas, los judíos, los ateos, los musulmanes, los latinos, etc....la lista no se termina, pero tenían una designación que se llegó a reconocer y respetar, HOMOSEXUALES, eso cubría todo lo que hacía falta para entenderlos, tanto a las mujeres gays como a los hombres gays, no había necesidad de tanta locura, en cada familia hay gays reconocidos y sin problema fueron aceptados porque no tiene ninguna importancia la atracción sexual de cada persona. Sin embargo ahora tienen bandera, alteran el lenguaje, la gramática, no sé que intentan lograr con todo eso. Gracias por estar cuerdo y no caer en esta demente carrera política. Saludos
Don't lose hope , if you recognize it then you are not going crazy . There are evil powers in the world that are doing this on purpose , its just another Marxist attempt to bring down western civilization .
I’m a young woman.. I came over your videos a while and it’s really eye opening to me. I used to click your videos thinking you’re a bad influence and toxic.. now I’m just starting to realize how brainwashed I’ve been by these ‘woke’ individuals. Thank you for reopening my eyes and showing me how chaotic and ‘online’ this is.
I live in Japan. I used to live in America before 2020. I go to an American school and there are a LOT of people who say they’re this, this, and that. This started in 6th Grade. We just finished 7th grade and when I tell you most of the people I know can change their gender like over 20 times in like 2 months. I have some Japanese friends and they don’t really know or understand this stuff (the trans and 72 genders stuff) because this, from what I understand, is a very American thing and it’s kinda weird. My parents don’t plan to move back to America and I don’t really want to either. It’s not just these people making up genders it’s a combination of a lot of stuff but honestly, this is just really weird.
My sister once asked me what I identified as. I told her I was a girl and I was straight. She seemed unsatisfied with my answer and started digging more into what my sexuality was. I told her I’m not into putting more labels on myself. I am a human woman and that’s as far as it goes. It makes me cringe thinking about how she wasn’t satisfied with my answer because it wasn’t what she wanted to hear or it didn’t follow her ideas of self identification. Stand up for yourself kids and don’t let these people push this narrative that you have to identify as something else and change who you are to fit into their view.
@@cedarssanity Can you lgbtq guys stop using the term "cis"... like what, is it so not normal to be the gender you were born in that you guys have to label US the way you hate being labled? I am a woman, not a CIS woman, and don't accept these pointless labels
@@cedarssanityno, there are just people. I'm a man a human man not CIS or any other bullshit you wanna throw out there. The same way I will never accept that I won't accept being called "African-American". I'm fine with black, I'm even fine being called a 'racist' name; but I was born and raised in the US. I have nothing to do with Africa What the hell is "CIS"?
Im 63 years old and i admire the congruence of your thought and the clarity of your words. As a woman more or les liberal, creative i have been years immersed in what is defined now as woke culture. I never fit. I always found so many 8nconsistencies and was longing for something that would set me free of false positivity, fake equality and inventions to excuse flakyness. Im grateful for your work. Keep going. Young and oldneed to hear you. Bless you.
I don’t why society nowadays is questioning their identities. Its stupid. We need more people like you who actually know what their talking about Edit: thanks for all the likes
Its not hard to work out that these females who stuggle to get into a serious relationship are the ones who come out stating they are all these genders
my sister started crying and we had a whole argument because i said that Dylan shouldn't have been able to speak for women because he was not born a woman and then i told her that becoming legally trans should have an age law and she told me that it was the same as a peircing ot tattoo when getting surgery you could die while a piercing can come out and a tattoo can be removed while it take thousands of dollars to got back from trans surgery and even then you still cant got all the way back
I've been called so many names for stating medical facts: transition is PERMANENT. People think detran is just like emo kids removing their eyeliners... it's so not true. we are literally taking away the ability to reproduce from children. People think they can just go off hormone blockers... back in the days if kids aren't going through puberty between certain ages, parents take them to doctors to get checked out. taking hormones have huge permanent consequences on our bodies. but when I try to talk about it, I get shut down. what are we doing to the kids?? I hope future lawsuits can stop this madness
Yeah, you should share Shapeshifter or Ritchie's content with her. Both had SRS surgeries and it's impossible for them to fully detransition and become men again. Ritchie especially is able to articulate how awful it is to realize too late that he's just a gay man, and that he'll never have a fulfilling homosexual relationship with another man because of the surgery. They're both doing the best they can, but it's so heartbreaking.
You can’t go back from “trans” surgery, don’t even try saying that😂😂 it’s a hell of a lot more permanent than a tattoo. At least with a shitty tattoo, you can either get it covered or try to laser it off. Trans surgery? You’re fucked for life in the worst way from what I’ve read.
I've been existing for 16 years, I never expected for humans to literally evolve backwards.
I've been around for 33, and it's still perplexing. A 16 year old with the capacity to understand this is reassuring though, thank you lol
As someone who's been existing for 13 years(almost 14), I'm already over all this shit
We’re devolving at a startling pace.
As a 17 year old, I'm just as surprised as you.
I've been existing for 14 almost 15 years and I completely agree
I am a 44yo white male, heterosexual, and an Army combat vet (you know, super duper toxically masculine). I have a newly turned 13yo daughter that I recently introduced to your content. She is a fan and I wanted to thank you for the great content that you release. These videos are helping her deal with seeing similar issues in her junior high school.
This is a crazy world that we live in now; but we will make it sane again, just one day at a time.
cheers Brett
Amen Brother. God bless you and ur family.
@@Knoispowr thank you
Lmao, what makes the Army toxic masculine? I've met so many Army vets who would drop everything to have a tea party with their daughter, and it sounds like you would too. Don't attach yourself to negativity if you don't truly exhibit those negative traits :)
@@glssprncss appreciate the comment. I stated it more so to be sarcastic towards the fragile soy eaters/drinkers of the world that are emotional hemophiliac's. My daughter is my world.
@@Lydiajareau You sound like you have been through a lot. Too much for someone of your age.
I just want my daughter to be a kid for a little bit, not have to deal with all the BS that is going on.
you seem to have a really good head on your shoulders. You stick to your guns, be YOU because that is who you are. you have support, even if it is on here.
We all have your back, you are not alone, you are our future, and you self corrected into the right direction. Youve proven you can over come difficulties in life. You, are going to be just fine.
Sorry mine is so long as well, cheers to you my dear.
When I was 17, about when the pandemic was taking flight, I was just, playing with my style, being a regular tomboy. My mom didn't think anything about it since she's always been open about the way I dress or just my style in general. But, when a friend started noticing my change in style, she told me and convinced me that I was trans and recommended this whole set of trans influencers, so that I could "find myself". I started mentally convincing myself that I was trans, bought myself a binder, cut my long hair and started wearing boys clothes only. My back started hurting like hell and began experiencing severe back pain every single day to the point where I had to go to the ER. Thank god I didn't go too far, never went on testosterone nor surgery. One day I sat with my mom, cried my heart out and told her I couldn't handle it anymore and she could crearly tell that I was falling apart. She told me that nothing was wrong with me, I was just being a woman, with a diferent style. I went back to growing my hair, as it used to be, wore my regular clothes, and once again, I felt like myself. I realized how toxic this content can be, and how it can really play with your mental health and the way you see yourself.
To this day your content has helped me so much and I couldn't thank the internet more for recommending your videos. Thank you for what you do ❤
Wow I had a similar experience. Im 18 now but when I was in middle school everyone called me gay or trans or non binary cuz i like jeans and a hoodie. I was raised around boys and I am a tomboy. Anyway, my mom seemed to think i was expressing myself as non-binary and told the school to start calling me they/them. Honestly, I didn't even understand what it was and she didn't even have a conversation with me. It's like she just decided I was LGBTQ. She even told me she would take me shopping for binders and she took me to get my head shaved. I cried for like 3 whole weeks after that. Luckily, I told every teacher that called me that I was a woman even if I didn't look like one lol. A few months ago, I talked with my mom about this and how she kind of forced it on me. She even admitted if I had talked about testosterone, she would have let me take it. That was super scary to hear, Imagine my friend had told me about it or if I had been on social media more. I could be a trans man right now with severe mental health issues. I wonder how many kids didn't get out and are now stuck living like that.
❤ you survived the genocidal grooming
Oh my goodness! Thank the Lord you made it through! In Canada you are allowed to vote at 18. No one should make a life changing decision before then! I would actually push it to 21 years of age. By then you can make an informed decision. 🤞Parents as well should not be making the decision. I have a feeling we will have many of these poor souls suing their parents for having pushed them in that direction. 😡Parents are meant to protect their children!
God Bless
Y'all don't take advice from non-trans people😭What you experienced wasn't gender dysphoria like these people do,you just had your own style.The people who gave you "advice" probably had just heard about being trans and had no idea what it actually was like.And I'm saying that for the dumbasses who are about to judge all of them for no reason at all
When I was 10 I took a gay quiz on youtube and it said I was bisexual. I started to identify as bisexual in 2020. I only took the test because I had hormones running throughout my body and was slightly sexually attracted to women. After awhile I started to go up and down the spectrum. I was bisexual, then a lesbian, then I was pansexual, then I was into more masculine women than feminine, etc. Then I also got into gender. I was a demi-girl, non-binary, bigender, transgender, etc. Up until this summer I was gay for 3 years. After having a relationship with a guy I finally realized I am a straight women. I love being a women and I don't know why I never did like it. At one point I was asexual and didn't want children. Now I am very excited to have children when I'm older. This all happened to me because I was a 10 year old girl going through puberty that got ahold of the wrong side of TikTok/the internet and wanted to be labeled and fit in.
I grew up in a time where one wasn't confronted with all these labels and possibilities at all, and several of my friends had a similar journey exploring their identity, like you did. They just didn't even have names for any of it (besides "gay/lesbian"). It was very hard on them too.
Now, I think people (young people in particular) could benefit greatly if we stop focusing on gender altogether, but it's normal for young folks to go through phases of self-discovery, which often isn't fun.
I'm Glad that You got out of It!
Kids want to feel special and different but in safe/protected ways. What better way than through these protected groups? When I was young kids would've been FAAAR too afraid of ridicule to claim transgender unless they were convinced they really were. Now it seems like "eh I'll try it and if I don't like it I'll quit" or "this seems like a good way to get some desired attention/control".
Prayers for you! I’ve had a similar experience but Jesus got me outta that before I went in too far!
I’m glad you have a wonderful life and excited for you kids for you! God bless you and prayers for you!
Holy crapoli, kid! You must have driven your parents to the brink of a mental breakdown! 😮
I am old enough to remember growing up in a time where me and my peers hated labels. As teens, we would shake our fists at society (metaphorically) and yell "we don't need no labels."
A generation later , and most teens today care only about their "labels". It is CRAZY how fast it changed.
I am 43 and NOBODY back in the 80's and 90's had any kind of label on them, we all looked at each other the same and treated each other the same.
I literally remember this no label things too, but now its literally full opposite.
That not just your generation. The ones before yours felt the same.
Yup.
All they care about is dongs and booshienanas
I am a 13 year old girl and I feel like I don’t fit in at all. I was starting to question my gender and felt really depressed and that nobody would ever get me. But, once I found you, you opened my eyes to how crazy this actually is. Thank you Brett :)
You are only 13. I'm 30 now but when I was a teenager I never felt like I fit in too. And let me tell you, every teenager feels like this. You are at an age were you are starting to discover who you are. And you can be a girl and wear masculine things or feminine things depending on your mood. It's fine to be a girl and being more boyish. Just take care of yourself and enjoy your hobbies :)
@@tosh.m.k as another almost 30 yr old, I gotta say this hits home, and those "not fitting in" feelings never go away but after a while you do develop different tactics and mechanisms to skirt around those feelings and still engage with people from any "clique" you might be trying to "fit" into.
Most 13 years olds feel they don't fit in unless they have members of the opposite sex trying to bed them. And most 13 year olds don't have that. That's where cults get members. And the Trans community is a cult. Cults find people who feel they don't belong, hug them and tell them they love them ... then take advantage of them ...THEN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THEM !!!. Just relax and cultivate that which is in you that makes you different. Do you think Brett ever tried to be like the crowd?
i went through the same thing when i was your age (i'm now 20) and i'm so glad i didn't actually listen to the people around me who pushed changing genders and a bunch of weird gender identities. puberty as a girl is so difficult and adjusting to the changes can make you feel uncomfortable in your body but you will grow out of it
Nobody fits in at 13! Give it a few years you’ll realize you’re awesome!
I had this exact conversation with my daughter while I was cooking dinner.
I am a man who has zero interest in football, basketball, baseball, and my daughter doesn’t like to wear skirts. These things don’t make us any less man or woman. They make us human.
Facts
These conversations are the actual healthy way to discuss self identity. "You're a girl but you don't like wearing skirts; that's just fine. Be who you want to be." Not the modernized rhetoric of "YOU DON'T HAVE LIKE SKIRTS? YOU ARE MAN IN CHESTFEEDER BODY". Thank you for being a reasonable adult who is not pushing any one ideal on your kid.
I love this
my father really hate all sport hahahahaha. people shited on him for not manly enough to like sport
facts on facts on facts on facts
I’m 13 and this is literally insane. It’s so sad t think that my generation and the future generations will grow up thinking that this is normal.
So true. I’m a teenager too and seeing the people around me in class or something slowly getting brainwashed and being like “we have to accept everything, don’t you dare criticise anything or you’ll be the outcast” just really pisses me off. I mean go for it, idgaf, but don’t expect me to do the same. I’m going to criticise what I want and that’s not anyone’s fcking business.
For me, this whole thing is just completely brain rot, the gender thing went wayyyyy too far and I’m extremely worried about the little children growing up with this
I'm 13 and LOVE this generation thank the lorddddd being gay is normalized😚😚😚😚
I’m 13 two and I get you this is so stupid like trigrnder sounds so stupid
I've never seen anything like this. Honestly, I agree; I grew up a tomboy but that doesn't make me less of a girl. People need to accept that their personality is okay and they don't need to change their identity to match it.
That's something that always baffles me with this is the duality.
A lot of this rhetoric is ironically reinforcing gender steryotypes.
@@jj_grabes precisely
Speaking solely for myself , I always preferred being with a woman like yourself. Romantically , as friends , or as dates sharing space. Being with what I thought of as a real woman was my desire. All the gender identity crap confuses me to no end , I hate it. And for the record "Hate" is not a word I throw around lightly.
As much as I like freedom, transgenderism needs to be limited in some ways, for instance no one should have to recognize a divine gender or be sentenced to homelessness and starvation and excommunication from the global economy rather than apostatize. This is leading to a Shadrak, Meshak and Abednago moment. The angels will shelter the defiant, but that doesn't mean we can't vote to stop it. This is straight up mark of the beast s***.
@@jj_grabes That’s exactly my issue! And people support it.
I’m a 15 year old sophomore and I’m so grateful that you talked about growing up as a tomboy. So many of my peers have tried to convince me that I’m not feminine enough to be a woman because I’m more masculine than most women my age. I started to believe them and I thought I wasn’t a “real woman.” I’m so glad I never tried to change my gender. I’m a woman, and I’m proud of that.
im 44 years old, so a lot older than you, and when i went to school ppl loved to dress as a tomboy and there is nothing wrong with it at all. dress how you want to dress. things are getting so bad now and trying to push ppl to be someone there not, just keep being you :)
As a 40 year old woman that was a tomboy- loved playing outside, sports, dirt, GI Joe's, never wore makeup, comfortable in boys clothes,hated dresses ect. I am still a woman! As I grew out of HS I went through stages of wearing makeup & dresses but it never changed that I'm a woman! They call us tomboys and there is nothing wrong with not being "girly", that's not what makes you a woman. I'm really sad you even went through that & that adults are pushing this agenda. I am so happy that you realized being you is okay & you can spread your story!
I'm glad you resisted their convincing. They are just trying to lessen competition for the gene pool. Women are fierce
Trans person here :Don’t let other poeple tell u what u are, I think that is the problem queer poeple are trying to help people to find out what they are without asking how they feel first
Being you is good enough❤
For some reason, I knew she was going to hit us with the "hope this clears things up" right after spewing nonsense.
@manticore777 LMFAO I LAUGHED SO HARD MY PARENTS WOKE UP
"Ppggntvayern vpwmdxkdj fpcjqapaa ccerufb"
Hope that clears things up
Sounds to me as if this trigender is just the new bisexual. It's the same thing.
Ya Man they be Going in Deep Meow 🤡🦧💩...
"I'm alive, dead and both at the same time."
I am a field geologist. Most of my days are spent in the field, hair in a cap, talking smack with drill crews or off roading trucks across closed landfills. I’ve never once thought that made me less of a woman and more of a man.
What about geologists being a gender of it's own ??
@@Limanaaa at this point I cannot tell whether you are joking or not
@@Zukireeserealll 😂😂😂
@@LimanaaaHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA 💀
2000s: we don’t want to be labeled just because we don’t conform to the norm. We have different interests and personalities that make us unique. We don’t even force it on others.
2020s: We want labels and to be labeled. Making up personalities to be unique and force others to conform to us, as we follow trends hundreds are already following, and become less unique, this makes us feel unique.
Take me back to the 2000s. Let me be emo in peace without people assuming I'm sucking the teet of the alphabet mafia 😩
Exactly!
I'd gladly go back to 2000
💯 on point, totally agree.
And if they ever invent a time machine, I'll gladly go back to the 2000's 😅
was emo. that was the best teenage phase ever
if she’s trigender that means she identifies as male, female and non-binary right? but, being non-binary means you don’t identify as either male or female 😂 so she’s non-binary then. 🤣
Literally!
It’s different coz she’s non-binary with a 100 extra coats of mental illness
Exactly 🤣🤣🤣
Non-brain certified
Then what is the point of saying non binary if it means that
I'm a woman but I don't necessarily "feel" female, I just "feel" like being myself. I face typical femal problems from actual biological problems each months to more stereotypical problems like not being tall enough to reach upper shelves or not getting a glass if pickles open. Otherwise I like to dress in a more feminine or just neutral way and I like to read romance novels, yet I'm also interested in motorsports and love hiking - but none if this makes me more or less of a woman that jzst makes me uniquely me.
Motor cross and romance novels . I believe there are MC universe romance novels out there too.
Next time you can’t open a glass jar of something palm smack the lid as hard as you can then try to open it 😊
why'd not stop period
Totally agree on those fake compliments... moreover some people are force you to say or act cute or laugh on something while you absolutely don't care about the that stuff
In high school, I would say I was trysexual as a joke like I would try anything sexual. I never thought someone would say it's a real thing.🤣
Yeah, I've heard that joke several times in the past. Never expected to hear it non-ironically.
Funny thing is I think she would spell it as tri-sexual because I don’t think anyone is going to trysexual with her. 😮
Damn I just made the same joke and found this comment. Relieved I'm not the only one 😂
I remember it as well. I'm 42 and have a daughter Brett's age. We are in clown 🤡 world 🌎. 🤦🏽♀️
@@misstasha it reminds me of Madness 'House of Fun' 😂
as if "trigender" wasn't enough, there are "neopronouns", not just like "ze/zir", but also "kit/kitself", "dream/dreamself", "corpse/corpseself", "doll/dollself". its so insane.
I’m actually a brick wall my pronouns are brick/wall how dare you not put me in your comment I will cancel you😡😡 - Random ahh ticktokers
The only person that's allowed to use corpse as a pronoun is corpse husband. Anyone else is a fuckin lunatic. I tolerate nonbinary people. Key word, tolerate. But every other crazy gender or pronoun can fuck off. And this is coming from someone who's trans :/
whaaaaaat?
It’s a no from me, dawg
@@belarellaaaano from me, as well
I feel like sometimes people are forgetting that being a women or man doesn’t necessarily define who you are, like didn’t we like go through a whole thing about how you can be a women and also not always be feminine 😞
I honestly believe that gender roles started this whole "trans movement"
Agree. Hobbies define a person far more than what they want to sleep with.
It’s almost pitiful to see people sum themselves up entirely by what they want to fuck. Is that all you are as a person? There’s nothing more to you other than being [insert relevant sexuality].
Exactly bro
From the looks of it, they forgot. We are more than our sex, genders and sexuality but they forget and it's now their personality.
True. OG Feminists fought years for feminine men and masculine women. And now it feels like we took big steps backwards. Now it’s AGAIN not ok for women to be masculine, bc that automatically takes away being woman from you. You HAVE TO be Trans or nonbinary. Same for feminine men. Like wtf?? Let people just be people without this Transitioning and QT+ bs
You hit the nail on the head so sweetly. They don't value themselves as they are, they need weird labels to feel special. Hopefully they'll just grow up and out of it.
Shes above everyone else. She has gone beyond reality and is everything and nothing all at once. She's here but not here. She is everything she loves yet everything she hates. SHE. IS. TRIGENDER!!
Sounds like you're introducing a superhero lol.
lmfao
Good Lord now that's a slogan
@@sonofyah_ Stop giving marvel ideas…….. Black cat the trigendr thief
@@hellodigitalworld8224 it would probably be more like the Blue Lizard: Pubescent teen trigender Latino and environmental activist
I’m in my 30’s and Emo/Goth was the scene that all the HS misfits and alternative teens were in back in 2003. The only permanent things we were doing were getting tattoos and possibly getting a scar from a bad piercing. Now the misfits and alternative kids are chopping off body parts as a part of the new phase and that terrifies me. And yes a good chunk of these people are going through a phase (not all but a good bit).
I would say majority!
Hi. Do u have numbers of how many children are getting gender confirming surgeries? That's important as it may not be that much. Idk if u know who matt walsh is, but he is the "what is a woman" guy. Basicly all of these claims that the country is becoming trans and that millions of kids are getting surgeries is a lie. There really isnt that many kids getting surgeries. Matt went to a congressional meeting and they tore him apart for lack of evidence. These right wing commentators are just as bad as the woke ones. They all complain about fake things just to have something to talk about.
And I swear you'll only ever see it within the alt communities
Goth girls are hot, though.
At least they wont be able to breed which is a bonus.
I'm embarrassed to admit this, but in my 20s, I briefly thought I was some kind of non-binary gender because I've always been a tomboy. As I get older (I'm in my mid-30s now), I look back not just with laughter at how foolish I was but with sadness that I bought into that. And I was part of a generation that as teenagers we said "labels are for soup cans".
I thought i was asexual. turns out hormonal birth control just really took away any sex drive or sexual attraction.
Sometimes I feel weird for being a female who isn't into sappy romance, a lot of make up and doing things most girls like to do. For example I prefer watching action/suspense shows and movies and also mystery stuff. Meanwhile I have friends who likes romance and I just feel odd. I tried to force myself to like that stuff but I can. I just cringe at it
Identifying as non binary because labels are for soup cans are like the “no brand” brands. Still a label/brand
@@theravenscout4569 i consider myself a girly-girl and i also dont like romance. My husband is much more "romantic" than me. i dont watch shows with drama. I love sci-fi and hate that sappy stuff.
We need people like you speaking out against hormone therapy (or even worse, surgery) for teenagers who are nowhere near close enough to make life-altering decisions yet.
Thank you Brett for opening my eyes. I’m currently a 15 year old girl, and when I was 12-13, I thought I was transgender. I came across your channel and I flourished. Now, I’m a 2 time women’s pageant winner and a semiprofessional musician. You turned my life around. Thank you.
u js werent transgender
good for u but being transgender isnt bad btw just saying
@@Izumii.sillyyit kinda is but it's your opinion
@@TheVengefulSpiritCassidy it isn’t bad in the slightest. But alr ^^
I was brainwashed by my friends at 13 that i was bi. Finally i realised that i wasnt, and i was straight. After that, i was bullied for 2 years of my life because of my views. Im only just coming out of my bullying. Please stop letting people tell you who you are. Please.
Wow am sorry you had to go through that .. Happy you came to realisation
I was also brainwashed. Didnt realise until I wasnt bi until I went to high school
If you feel resentment for those friends, remember that they were brainwashed as well.
This also happened to me! My friend group was super toxic, saying that if you're straight, you're homophobic. Only took me 5 months to realize that they were only seeking attention. (ps: all of this happened during quarantine, when the gender topic on tiktok became huge)
I was a tomboy up until 18yo and was also brainwashed at 12 by a "friend" telling me I might be lesbian and I would know only after I tried. Turns out she was "in love" with me and wanted to take advantage of the fact that I was younger. We kissed for 4-5 times and I decided it was just weird (luckily) and not for me. She's always been a tomboy and now is dressing like a man, dying her hair all different colours and being as loud as she can whenever she speaks (I lived in a small city and saw her often from a distance). It is troubling the thought that hadn't I come to a realisation I might have ended up in the same exact position. You're never too young to be true to yourself.
I was adopted at birth and am in an adoptee group on Facebook. The amount of people who’s entire identity is ‘adopted’. I can honestly say if someone said ‘tell me about yourself’ it wouldn’t even occur to me to start or end with ‘adopted’ or ‘woman’. I cook, I bake, I read, I love camping and woodwork, I have kids and cats and a dog and we have a new kitten. The whole world has gone so very mad.
what type of cats do u have
@@cwningen they aren’t any special breed, just domestic short hair. Twelve year old brother and sister that were abandoned and we just adopted a little girl kitten from the RSPCA with the hopes she will be best friends with our dog. We couldn’t have chosen a better kitten if we tried as she looooves the dog and the dog loves her.
@@Darby0642 they sound adorable
@@cwningen th-cam.com/video/_HV4ZkQtQXQ/w-d-xo.html uploaded just for you 😁
@@cwningen I genuinely find it hilarious that you skipped over the insanity to ask about the cats lmao; best decision here-
I am a 16 year old girl, 17 later this year. I was once questioning my own gender identity because I was so exposed to it at school and on social media. I have had a total revelation about three years ago and I have done a 180°. For awhile I was really confused, then I got super into politics and I realized how *wrong* I was. I literally cannot thank people like you for existing because you saved me from the delusion I was falling in to.
a 360? you mean a 180?
@@yuridapted7459 😂
@Jay Blue we were made to be with a person of the opposite gender, people are pushing their desires over the natural order God made. They have us questioning that if we have a desire it's your identity and you can/should pursue that, but there are lots of people who have desires that they shouldn't pursue like pedophiles. We have to follow God's order for creation, sanctification. Love you all and God bless.
@Visible to all users on TH-cam I shouldn't
@Visible to all users on TH-cam Wdym relax he is just making a statement 😭
when i’m older and have kids, im going to educate my kids with these videos. love all your content girl!
im taking my future kids away from all these stuff, & homeschool them - world is crazy!
@@ishygoel thats isolating them from the world they live in. Let them learn about it and learn how to face it. I have a friend who went no contact with her parents because they always isolated her from reality.
@@aether02737I'm a homeschool kid and it's definitely not isolation
We need to stop worrying about hurting people's "feelings."
This is what happens when narcissism is vaunted as a positive trait instead of treating it like the disorder it is. She is clearly deriving her self-worth only from the labels she assigns herself and the attention it draws. Most of us go through this stage in our psychological development between 8 and 15 where our sense of identity grows beyond the superficial. Arrested development: it's not just a TV show.
ʜᴇʟʟᴏ ғᴀɴ☝️☝️ ʏᴏᴜ ᴡᴏɴ ᴀ ᴠᴀʟᴇɴᴛɪɴᴇ ɢɪғᴛs🎁🎁 ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇ ʙʏ ᴛʜᴇ ɴᴀᴍᴇ ᴀʙᴏᴠᴇ👆ᴏɴ ᴛᴇʟᴇɢʀᴀᴍ ᴛᴏ ᴀᴄᴋɴᴏᴡʟᴇᴅɢᴇ ᴘʀɪᴢᴇ 💌🎊🎊⬆️⬆️↗️🎉🎉↗️.
Yes! "Its so hard adulting! I'm gonna go come up with all the labels I can that aren't 'Mrs. Popstar' because I'm progressive and write fan fiction" And it's being supported.
super glad that young humans (from the comment section here) are listening to Brett and realizing that its okay to be you and you are wonderful just the way you are.
Thank you, im so happy about that. I love My lgtbq friends, but i dont agree with it, and most of them know and dont care, they know i love them.
As a young person, Agreed
I agree, like at school my teacher who is not trans lists her pronouns
@@da4kxwolf17how does that work
Thank you. Your explanation was spot on. We all feel different ways at different times. That's how we're made. Five stars for you.
Bro this generation is just screwed, the fact that I literally got brainwashed into believing that I was Bisexual just because I wore boy clothes and didn’t “act” girly enough is crazy. I am only newly 17 years old and watching 20+ year old who are supposed to be the role models for us behave this way truly gives me no hope for humanity. I pray that Jesus may heal these people 🙏🏾
Dude, judging a community of people for simply raising awareness is just ☠️.I also don't understand what you think you achieve when you say "heal".Who you like is something determined by your brain during its development, it isn't a choice nor a disease. Like I can't take this anymore with people who think they're smart to judge something that they haven't experienced.Raising awareness isn't brainwashing,you were just easily disturbed.That's a different case
@@nectarandambrosia_ what I mean by heal is that May God “heal” these people there is no double meaning behind that. Also I don’t care if you like women/men or whatever you like. But telling people what their sexuality is just because they don’t fit the basic narrative of a straight person doesn’t make any sense at all, there are many children exposed to this false news of “you don’t act like other girls so you must be gay” “you like feminine clothing so you must be gay” sexuality, correct me if am wrong shouldn’t be forced down people’s throats but instead should be something you discover on your own. I am not over here bashing Gay people, God said to love your neighbors as you love yourself and I love and cherish the LGBTQ+ community as my neighbors, I may not agree with it but you won’t see me actively hating on them because that’s just not who I am.
@JAOLYXCE Sadly it is shoved down everyone's throats...everywhere ;-; they even wanna teach it to kids that have no clue about sexuality whatsoever, it's getting out of hand
@@nectarandambrosia_ That's not raising awareness that's straight up manipulating children into thinking they're not normal.
Ew what
I was a cross dresser for about 4 years as a coping mechanism (I was being s*xually ass**lted nearly daily during this time) and called myself agender, but I never went with any weird pronouns. Once I got some help realized I am definitely not agender.
So whenever I see young people claiming to be these made up gender identitys I get really sad because they must be going through something terrible.
Glad you survived and are here with us today ❤
Sorry you went through that. I’m glad you are doing better! 💜
Don’t label yourself as something you’re not to defend yourself from horrible people… it’s definitely not your fault and it doesn’t matter what gender you’re to those kind of people
today's environment makes many people stressed to the point of being mentally unstable and delusional
Nothing wrong with crossdressing. If that's your thing, enjoy it.
But yeah... the whole AGender thing is just nonsense. I'm glad you got that sorted out. Feel better, buddy.
The biggest problem of Tik Tok is that there isn't a dislike button🤷♂️
The biggest problem is that you are ON the Tikety Tok.
@@ronjones-6977 That's just 📠
@@ronjones-6977 Tik Tok youtube istangram etc I see no difference they all filled of the same dumb ppl💀
Of course, there is...the 'DISLIKE' button, is....not going on there, at all.
The communist Chinese don't let you dislike things they tell you what to dislike.
In my middle school or old middle school every female said they were trans or gay and for some reason I was always the weird kid who was homophobic and called trans people "the thing" or "it" and every time i talked ab LGBT people they would cut me off especially if I tried to talk them out of their strange hallucinations bc i read ab how trans kids who go through the surgery to change their gender permanently, have a 91% chance of commiting suicide. Now i don't know what i should do.😢❤
Let them do it, they’ll regret it in the future and see how stupid it was all.
Don't ur awesome ❤
You should just respect people's gender identities and their pronouns. The high percentage of chance of committing suicide isn't real. There has been so much proof that gender affirming care has improved the mental health of these people. You shouldn't try to change how these people identify as.
@@Celery605 gender is what you are born with and so are pronouns, if no one wants to take part in this new delusion, then we have the right to not take part.
Yikes. You're gonna grow up to be one of those loser sigma editors. Stop being a dick and just find more people who are straight and cis like yourself. Leave the others alone.
I LOVE HOW YOU EXPLAINED THE “WE ARE ALL UNIQUE WE ALL FEEL DIFFERENT THINGS” THIS IS SOMETHING EVERYONE NEEDS TO HEAR AAAAAA
💯💯
So basically sometimes she feels like feminine, sometimes she feels masculine, and sometime's she has no idea what she feels? Got it. She's human.
Thats not even it she says she feels thats shes female mal ana non of this two at the SAME TIME i mean thahs craziet
@@chanez9440 that doesnt make any sense bcs non-binary is oposite to male and femele, as far as i know non-binary is when you dont indentify with any gender so.... She is speaking bulsshit
You cant feel like no famale and no male at the same time you feel like male and female WTF IS THIS
Like bruh how can you feel male, female, and neither 💀 now that don’t make no sense bro.
Its like saying a cup is full ,half full, and empty all in one . This person isn't human... they belong to a whole different plant and species fr
If I look in the mirror and say that I feel handsome in a masculine way but cheerful in a feminine way... That's... nonsense :D
But I can justify that as feeling both at the same time and make up some BS about it being some tri-gender HORSESHIT.
when i was 9, i started questioning my gender because of my mothers abuse. i actually transitioned for a while, im 13 now and back on track and chasing my dreams of getting into Princeton! I want to thank you for being a big role model in my life!!
I’m so glad you found the right way back! Continue to follow your dreams!
I'm so happy for you! Keep chasing your dreams. ❤
Wow. I have read a lot of these comments and I am amazed by how many lives you have changed. You are such an incredible person. Keep making videos and changing lives!
As a bow hunting daddies girl, I so appreciate you reminding people they can be tomboys and feminine and it doesn’t mean they’re gay! Bless you Brett and love your content💛
As a long-time tom-boy, yes.
How about long time tom girls for boys?? Boys going out on all girls knitting club??
@l.a.1477 lesbian Tom boy don't make sense. Lesbian are happy being girl why on earth will they want to be trans man. They hate man.
@l.a.1477 what the difference tomboy to female to male? One just exhibit more masculization. Tomboy girls like things that are guy and if they keep being this way into adulthood, shot hair, boy hobbies, long pants. They are very close to female to male.
@l.a.1477 no there isn't tomboy is just not that obsessed. And they grow out of it but if the tomboy behaviour still persist then you get trans. However you still confused people when you try to explain that you like doing guy thing and say it's okay. If a guy say he always like playing with dolls, dress up, makeup all the things related to what girls do. Saying it's okay and that he just a femine boy is just escaping reality. 😕 He really has some deep issues that need addressing.
whats frustrating is that none of this shit matters. They're literally just expressing how everybody feels at time. I'm masculine all day, but I get around a kitten and I'm pretty soft. The idea that they need a label is silly.
Gay.
😂
Awww, kitties.
@@negativeindustrial very gay
@@leithsapitan1428 gender fluid kitties 🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱
@@MrUranium238 what do you mean?..
I am disappointed with my own generation… I’m 16 and I started to understand that pretty much everyone my age is super sensitive and inmature at the age of 14.
I have online friends who are OLDER than me and are still wayyy more sensitive and inmature than me.
It’s sad honestly… I miss 2014, 2014 was a great year, so was 2016, man the good times…
It seems like after the pandemic it’s only gotten worse and worse, and I’m understanding everything more and more.
A channel like yours helps me to stay confident and speak up about this stuff! Thank you!
Please be careful with your older online friends.
@@racheldennison8839 that’s how I was groomed
@@kexusthomas5696 I’m so sorry to hear that ❤️🙏❤️
Same. My friends were really immature too..
Yes dude
2:30 brett makes me feel so much more comfortable with being feminine and having masculine interests
My upbringing around Army men, brothers, uncles, etc, gave me a robust masculine energy. It doesnt conflict with or confuse my womanhood. It does confuse my husband, who has a mildly feminine energy most of the time, having grown up with a strong sister and mother and a gentle, mathematician father. He's still plenty manly in his habits, skills and desires. We are interesting, multi faceted, different, unique people. I cant figure out why everyone is so confused about what a "personality" is.
Because a personality doesn't get you attention, being trans does. The minute any of these guys or girls declare an identity, they're flooded with attention and affirmation and praise. Nobody paid attention to Dylan prior to his days of girlhood and no one paid attention to that eccentric/quirky girl before her trigender thing. The current environment rewards this stuff and worse, it condemns being "normal." Straight and gay are normal so we get these stacked identities that are more nonsensical than the next.
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2:55 Thanks for spreading this message. This is what young people today need to hear. I'm almost 30 and I've had some serious identity issues because I'm a man, and I like manly things, but I also have a soft side, I cry easily, and I enjoy certain things that would be viewed as non-masculine. At one point I did start to question whether or not I really was a man. But then I met my SO who loves every part of me and didn't shame me for not fitting into the stereotypical manly man box. I'm now more confident in my masculinity than at any point in my life.
THISS, people like to put others in boxes for no reason but their own insecurity
Maybe you are just a gay dude? You do you, but you are what you are, whatever that is.
seems you’re human😊
i’m the same! i’m a woman but i love some masculine things, and that’s okay. you’re not a different gender just because you have lots of interests. you’re a person first and foremost, your gender doesn’t define what you like and dislike, your gender is just the category of human you are.
you're just a human. that's all. that's why kids back then were like "don't label us!" and now it's like you must call me this and this or you're whatever phobic. what?
You nailed it when you said they want to feel special. It's a new way to feel special and get attention without having to work for it.
They want to feel so special the only way to describe it as mythical creature
I think also because of a generation of absent, workaholic, screen addicted parents who didn’t put the time and effort into getting to know their children and making them feel special.
Everyone deserves to feel special from their parents and partners, and when they don’t get that many will turn to extreme measures like this to get attention and validation :(
Back in the way that 'trigender girl probably would have been emo or goth . She for sure has an identity crisis.
I'm 13, and God, this scares me. I'm genuinely scared to live in this society where if you don't feed into delusion, you're hateful. The world wasn't meant to be like this.We have bigger problems to deal with here
we indeed have bigger problems to address however we are spending our time arguing about people's freedom of expression. wow.
During the beginning of highschool, I was brainwashed and peer pressured by my friends who were all apart of the LGBT community to think I was gay. I only thought this because I was afraid that they would exclude me from the group. Since I left this group after they eventually stopped including me because I wasn’t apart of the LGBT community and didn’t have the same beliefs as them. This made me realize how toxic,and delusional these kind of people are. In addition, to the amount of brainwashing they did and how much they can continue to do and attack innocent young people.
Great job separating your self from that community. You don’t need them!
Exactly, whatever you are or whoever you are, kindness goes a long way. I'm safe to say that those people do not deserve to talk on behalf of their community, they're wicked. In fact, you can't even call those people you've described "LGBT" people anymore, they're just super toxic people that you should avoid.
as they should tbh
gay people don t need conservative friends
So your saying all LGBTQ+ people attack young people into believing that they’re gay?? Like I will admit some gay people do that, but straight people also do that as well. Some people are just manipulative, and I feel like that stereotype for gay people shouldn’t be a thing nor should it be relevant. But that does suck that those people did that, which is wrong. But we shouldn’t be saying every gay person is like that
@@aylaskye1 She wasn't saying that, or at least she wasn't direct about it.
I’m 12, and I’m happy to be a girl. Last year I said I was ‘non-binary’ and I’m so happy that my parents didn’t feed into it because I am a girl. I love channels like yours because it has really opened my eyes to more ridiculous sides of woke culture.
I have friends like you (I am 13), and unfortunately, they have not changed back to their correct gender. They've all become non binary bisexual whatever, and I'm really disappointed in them because I like them as people, like a lot
You have wonderful parents
preach
You seem like a very smart young person and I'm glad your parents are great! God bless you
@@jaykeeratbhatthal9729you made your account 7 years ago... How can you be 13? I know kids start young in social media this days but... You were 6y if what you're saying is true 😂😂😂
God, I'm so glad I found your channel!
I am a simple teenager from Russia, but reading the comments I understand that the problem with "labels" has become universal. Despite the laws of my country, I have repeatedly met people from my city who were ready to pretend to be LGBT or an unusual gender in order to somehow stand out and be "not like everyone else."
I considered myself bisexual for a while, but then I realized that it was nothing more than a desire to stand out at the expense of a small group of people and be "unusual".
Now I understand that I would like to stand out with my knowledge and skills, and not at the expense of things that should not bother anyone except me.
hi fellow russian bisexual!! so nice to see ppl with the same experience and pov
Do not associate bi and gay and lesbian people with these crazy genders.
I’m a gay American, and it’s not a brain disease or a way to stand out. I’m gay, but I’m not flaunting it.
These crazy people trying to change their physical body and gender is CRAZY! I don’t get it. Sure love who you love and like who you like, but your born a boy or girl and you’ll die a boy or girl. The other day I saw a “Dragon spirit” gender and I was SO confused.
Привет! Мой Руси не хорошо, но я брать уроки. Русская культура мне очень интересна, и я люблю это. Это очень хорошо на я видеть Русский человек, привет из Шотландии :)
@@alislythhh9195she’s not bisexual! (слава Богу!)You need to read better.
Приветствую 😊
I agree with everything you said, what's happening to our world makes me very sad, I've had trouble my whole life making friends because I'm shy, but I've recently realized It's just so hard to feel like you belong in this world, especially as a kid, I don't necessarily want friends as much, because I've seen how crazy and terrible the people in this generation can be, It feels like getting to know people isn't worth it for the most part, I've been very disappointed wasting time and energy on people who never had my best interest, or even cared for me, a lot of people are very selfish now. This is all coming from a 16 year old girl, so stay strong out there fellow teens, hopefully things will get better.
I just asked my son, “son, can someone have three genders at the same time?” He immediately replied “no, your gender is what’s in your pants”. Well said my boy.
i actually have a cd in my pants right now. does that make me a cd??
@@chiadiaries if you hold it at the right angle, I could see myself in...your cd
That's really just one of the worst pickup line, actually worst
@@lemonstealinghorsdoeuvre pickup lines? excuse me? that wasn't a pickup line babe.
@@lemonstealinghorsdoeuvre i was telling you that:
according to you, gender is what's in your pants. yes?
then i told you i have a cd in my pants, therefor cd is my gender.
@@chiadiaries mine was, but it was half hearted because it is just a terrible line.
"Do you have a mirror in your pocket?"
_why do you ask_
"Because I can see myself in your pants"
Don't flatter yourself, kid
I used to think I was Bi sexual. Being pressured by the crazy media. I would even think i might be lesbian. I “ came out” to my parents. Then i told them i was straight. I thank God I am truly who i am. Me. A girl who likes boys. I love your channel!
Sexuality ≠ Gender expression
@@BlueberryCheesecake8 🤣we've got another brainwashed guy/girl/thing here
@@BlueberryCheesecake8 you right, one exists and the other one doesn't 😂
@@Nircn so you are not a girl,boy ect? Gender expression includes man and woman ..
Brett, you are a blessing. I read the comments from the young ladies, and for the first time in a long time I have hope for young people, and especially for young women 🎉
hey brett, i’m 16, and i’m a “cisgender” female. ever since i was 14, i thought identified as some nonbinary gender because of my influence from social media and people in my school. until now, i only just realized how blind i was and how i now feel much happier that i don’t need to try and identify as something different to fit in. thank you brett for opening my eyes and sharing the truth! i will definitely keep watching your show.
Girl 🥺 let's be friends. I had the exactly same experience:(((((( I'm so sorry to hear that like pls these people are so shitty doing to the minds of young teenagers.
@@Angela-pr4xh i’m sorry you also had to go through that, unfortunately the world is slowly becoming more and more corrupt :(
@@pyix3 true my man
I thought I was transgender in my freshman year because the internet told me it would help my problems but it didn’t help me now I realised I’m not trans and very happy being a “cisgender” girl
Same for me (kinda). I wanted to transition into a guy at age 10, but decided I was too shy to ‘ask my parents’ (lol wtf). Anyway I’m a pretty normal girl turning 17 this month. I don’t mean to brag but not transitioning was a true intellectual move
My daughter went through so much confusion that she thought she was Trans from 12yrs old till she was almost 14. I understood why she felt like that. Being bigger and hating her body was part of it. Then we bought her more feminine clothes and a cute bikini since it was summer. She realized that she wanted to grow her hair back out and be herself and ditching the propaganda b.s. 😊❤
Your daughter experience sounds a lot like mine. When I was 14 I thought I was transgender. Only now that I'm 17 I realise I was being brain washed into believing I was transgender by the internet. I wasn't happy with being overly feminine and I didn't want to have a feminine body but that's okay. I'm growing my hair back and I am now loving myself again ❤.
You did what good parents are supposed to do, steered your child in proper direction! Helped her see & live & love the truth!
God bless you all! 🦋
She was NOT trans. Stop feeding into her nonsense
@user-yi2mx2ih3d The user never said that ALL transgender people are invalid. Transgender people exist of course and have existed for a very long time. The user is just saying that children are easily influenced by peer pressure and we should be cautious with transgender identities in children but that doesn't mean we should isolate transgender people as a whole.
Anyone is free to "identify" as anything they wish. And everyone else is free to NOT be forcibly pushed into reinforcing that other person's personal delusion.
Exactly. I believe people should be free to live however they want so long as it doesn't interfere with others. But the second other people need to a) pay for other peoples mistakes as a result of those people living as they want, or b) play along with the delusion (especially under threat of law or public shaming), then a line has been crossed.
Remember, for every one of these people there’s 10,000 normal people living their lives and unaffected by madness. But no one makes videos about those people
I'm 13 and, ugh. I hate this new gender stuff, I was brainwashed at the age of 11 or so and was told i was Bisexual and or Pansexual, i wasn't and my shitty friends brought me down to believe it. I'm now a straight, 13 year old boy. Brett, you are one of a few sane people left.
Second Part:
Most of my friends were females, since I could never get along with other men due to our shared stupidity (lmao), and people thought i was gay and throughout elementary i was called gay, i had no fucking idea what "Gay" even was until about 5 years ago, this world is falling apart...
Found you
@@vallye470 yep. Definitely, wish I could write more but I'm in class.
I can promise you, you are *not* being “brainwashed”. Nobody should be trying to brainwash anyone, and if they are that has *nothing* to do with the LGBTQ+ community
i told everyone i was bi for attention😂😂😭
Oh goodness same
The fact that you're so young and can have such well thought out opinions on topics that are so important in today's age, is incredible. I love watching your videos because they open a dialog in my own mind and allows me to challenge my own possibly "toxic" thoughts. Keep doing what you're doing, we need more people speaking out.
I am so grateful that my parents had so much influence over me. I am a young woman pretty similar to Brett, I was more of a tomboy, have always loved guns and martial arts, found it easier to hang out with all the guys. I once had the thought that I wished I was a boy, but my mom corrected that thought before it could get a hold of me, so grateful because now I wear pink and have a sparkly tiara next to my boxes of ammo.
It is so sad to see young women who just want to feel loved and secure taking on a fake identity because no one tells them it's fine to be who God created them to be. Thank you Brett for speaking truth, this video expressed a lot of my thoughts and feelings.
That line about having a sparkly tiara next to boxes of ammo made me chuckle 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@rose-gl4io Me too :)
Well you're almost there. Glad to see it!
Uh is this a joke.
You are still crazy.
I agree with you and I had the opposite opinion from yours starting with the pandemic in 2020 when I was very vulnerable, insecure, and bored and the LGBT community took me in, I am now realizing how toxic it all was. Hostility, misogyny with gay men…. Etc… you’re completely right
Brett Cooper is probably the most talented person when it comes to incorporating sponsorships into her videos
I just turned 17 and during Covid I thought I was a leftist, thank you so much for sharing the truth and helping me realize how blind I was
You’re welcome
17 right now and same here but I never trusted the vaccine to begin with. And later on I’ve just been enlightened more and more to the red side of things
Welcome to the red pilled!
I'm glad you see it. Most kids just accept this stuff at face value.
I'm from the UK. I am a left leaning person.but this "woke" and "fad lgbt" Crew make true lefties look conservative
People be inventing new genders faster than scientists exploring and inventing new things 💀
Btw love the content you're probably the most educated girl on social media 😂❤️
Ignorant girl*
We should nickname all of them "snail".
@@mikegriego3671 "Sub-humans"*
@@Undefineddehow is she ignorant? People like you are truly delusional
@@Undefinedde *educated
This content is what this generation needs!!!!!
I knew Brett had a decent reach but didnt know how much of the younger generation she was reaching. So many kids in here that Brett has helped and its heartwarming 🥀🇺🇲
what do you mean help?? she makes fun of people like therians and furries and trans people.
@@Milly_G-cha the fact that you watched the video is also funny.
I'm 12 turning 13, being on tik tok and watching all these people say and do diffrent things really confused me, I stated believing and feeding into what these people said about gender and I was honestly so lost. After finding and listening to u Brett I have realized that social media has simply caused me to become a person im not. I'm glad Brett brought this light to me and helped me correct myself, and made me see things in the correct way. All her video are truly so informative and I'm glad you make them 🙏🏼
This is happening to everyone! This is my exact same story I felt forced to be bisexual or a lesbian to be different and intresting
How do you support someone that can't be nice? Explain pls
@@TaleahDesAutelwait, what are you saying she isn't nice 😂
Brett? You talking about Brett?
I don’t understand much of it at all, but it seems clear that she is an immensely kind soul and I hope that she is able to find happiness and peace in herself. I don’t personally know that these things she is focusing on are setting her up for true happiness and it does seem strange in most facets. I hope she has good people around her and that she is able to make a great life for herself!
exactly! that's all we can hope for.
I agree. I think she is just trying to fit in somewhere. She's an awkward kinda person but seems like she's never been mean to anyone in her life. I hope she does find happiness
Agreed
Attentioooo.
Brett, I just want to say that I adore you, you have the most kind and welcoming aura. This vvideo made my day, keep up the good work. You’re a literal angel
Lack of a mother figure-Lack of a father figure-Lack of a sense of self
By these three powers combined. We have created whatever the fuck that is.
Don't be mean she's human
I have to disagree... It would be easier to agree with your statement if the rest of America wasn't in shambles when it comes to all of this crap. But social media allowed her to think outside the tringle shaped box... This nation is truly free when it comes to expressing yourself LOL !! Trigender is another thing to add to the board of the random shit ppl identify as that makes zero sense.
Everyone is a result of the world around us, we reflect the infinite micro choices that where made by are parents or people we saw from a young age. What she saw was endless confusion of what reality is. We got a lucky draw, we can have civil conversations, recognise morality and accept reality. As such, it is are job as the mentally sound to help others who may not have such
@@Undefinedde Retarded, but human. Bless her heart. edit: For God's sake, she said "pebbly-based."
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I've found this channel so interesting and it's educated me on the matters of our world and what is truly going on
Of the matters of the west****
@Exposed Alexander OMG 😅
I'm so glad I found you as a high schooler. I went through gender confusion for YEARS and just listening to you has taken it away sm.
How? Why? How and why? I really don't get it how someone can be confused about gender. I really try to understand this mindset amd don't want to provoke you. There is no culture except western "culture" where gender confusion exists
@@arianitonline8748 gender dysphoria
it’s great that it cleared up. remember, your gender is not determined by your interests or aesthetics, you’re a person first and foremost, your gender is just the category of human you were born as!
@@m4tta yep!! :3
@ArianitOnline - hmmm… gender confusion and dysphoria not quite the same thing
Brett, as a young girl in this modern society, your entire speech in the last 5 or so minutes of this video is absolutely golden. Please make complete videos about how vulnerable girls are to this sort of culture where freaks in the internet provide them a "home" where they can relate. Absolutely love your videos, and I love the work you are doing for young women in this society. I don't know if I like the word feminist, but if feminism was a term that actually meant vouching for and protecting women, you are an absolute feminist.
if this is feminism im gonna become a misogynist and you cant complain
As I watch more and more of Brett's videos, I feel like I've slowly come to appreciate how much awesome parenting Brett Cooper's mom has done for her. Love the story about inauthentic commenting on friends' posts. It's great to have someone in your life that you trust who can call you out in all the right ways.
i have been so depressed all day, you have definitely cheered me up. I needed the “don’t tag yourself”. It has nothing to do with gender or the topic of the video, but it did help me, so thank you!
Here’s the peculiar thing - I used to follow this person cuz she was ADORABLE getting ready for work every day and doing her makeup. She started getting a lot of attention because she was so precious and pure - it wasn’t until AFTER all the views and follows that she came out and began celebrating her lgbtq+ identity. Just thought that was worth mentioning.
okay so what your saying is she blew up, and she got comfortable with her newfound fans, and told them her identity? whatt so crazyyyyyyy
Dang that’s so crazy, wow. So sad
@@soap6364 or got “influenced” into being … trigender???
@@soap6364 Or she hopped on the bandwagon, as many others are doing now that it's fashionable.
@@soap6364 Because, it's not probably who she really is, but has become because of attention... And because young girls see all this CRAP, yes, it is crap, they think their normal regular everyday feelings are something else than what it actually is - normal life.
She's Quantum State Gender she is neither here, nor there and both at the same time! 🤣🤣🤣
God I felt Brent's frustration through my screen lol, PREACH GIRL, PREACH!
Side note: Scheller's intervention was GOLD! Bravo, my friend!
Yes! We need more of Scheller reading comments out of frame!😂
Yesss I was looking for this comment! We need more of that! 🤣
i as a young teen was brainwashed to think i was bisexual. i wanna thank brett that she makes this amazing content. i really wished she started this channel years ago because she is speaking the truth!
u cant be "brainwashed" to be bisexual so
“I hope this clears things up.”
“…It did not!”
This is exactly what happened to me! When I was 13 years old, I was in a friendgroup who over the quarantine really got into this gender topic. I didn't want to be left out and so I started saying, that I'm not a girl and today I realize that the only time I ever questioned myself was because of that friend group. Thank God I finally realized that I needed to get out of there, also because they became super toxic, calling everyone who was straight or cis eighther homophobic or transphobic.
Girl same
Brett you always provide a great mix of empathy and laughing at these people.
Personally I don’t usually enjoy one (completely) without the other so it’s ideal!
Agreed, Brett is sweet and savage at the same time
“Just like a triangle, I have three genders!”
Congrats to triangle for coming out hopefully they will inspire more shapes to embrace who they truly are
Amen brother 👹
Feeling acute, might obtuse later.
😂
Someday there will be a quadrigender.
I'm surprised that she even knows what a triangle even is
That trigender thing terrifies the students from Bulgaria (Scared of triangle problems)
I think the issue we have stems from social media. No one feels special anymore, so they have to make stuff off and make new identities to get affirmation and feel special
I agree!!
EXACTLY
I'm 20, and uninstalling TikTok was the best decision I've made since I existed on this green planet.
I laughed out loud when she said “I hope this clears thing up.” 😂😂
Kaprizov 💚
yeah, as clear as manure in a puddle.
I like how she looks like a literal clown with that make up
I'm a gay man and I love your videos!! Thank you for calling out this "woke" BS and saying it how it is!!
I m trans and i coudnt agree more buddy, ii feels like it is rare to find lgbt person that has critical thinking skills
@@jopun3691
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@@jopun3691
No te angusties, esta locura pasará y todo volverá a ser normal, homosexuales y heterosexuales juntos y en familia.
Tengo esa esperanza gracias a tantas inquietudes incluyendo personas trans y homosexuales que no están de acuerdo con lo que está sucediendo. Es una dicha ver comentarios como el de ustedes dos.
Saludos y éxitos.
These people are destroying everything gay people worked and fought so hard to accomplish.
Amo que hayas escrito este comentario. Se está volviendo peligroso todo este asunto. Es cierto que muchos gays fueron discriminados, como lo fueron los negros, los indígenas, los judíos, los ateos, los musulmanes, los latinos, etc....la lista no se termina, pero tenían una designación que se llegó a reconocer y respetar, HOMOSEXUALES, eso cubría todo lo que hacía falta para entenderlos, tanto a las mujeres gays como a los hombres gays, no había necesidad de tanta locura, en cada familia hay gays reconocidos y sin problema fueron aceptados porque no tiene ninguna importancia la atracción sexual de cada persona. Sin embargo ahora tienen bandera, alteran el lenguaje, la gramática, no sé que intentan lograr con todo eso.
Gracias por estar cuerdo y no caer en esta demente carrera política. Saludos
I am a 14 year old male and this world is actually going insane. We need change.
I remember being 14, and none of this crap existed. Social media has scrambled people’s brains.
Don't lose hope , if you recognize it then you are not going crazy . There are evil powers in the world that are doing this on purpose , its just another Marxist attempt to bring down western civilization .
She's not trying to find herself, she's lost herself.
Lose yourself by eminem
"From my point of view, the normal people are evil!"
"THEN YOU ARE LOST"
The “you have lost your mind” killed me. I can’t stop laughing. Whyyyy are people so crazy?????
I’m a young woman.. I came over your videos a while and it’s really eye opening to me. I used to click your videos thinking you’re a bad influence and toxic.. now I’m just starting to realize how brainwashed I’ve been by these ‘woke’ individuals. Thank you for reopening my eyes and showing me how chaotic and ‘online’ this is.
Girl stay safe, these woke people are getting out of hand
I live in Japan. I used to live in America before 2020. I go to an American school and there are a LOT of people who say they’re this, this, and that. This started in 6th Grade. We just finished 7th grade and when I tell you most of the people I know can change their gender like over 20 times in like 2 months. I have some Japanese friends and they don’t really know or understand this stuff (the trans and 72 genders stuff) because this, from what I understand, is a very American thing and it’s kinda weird. My parents don’t plan to move back to America and I don’t really want to either. It’s not just these people making up genders it’s a combination of a lot of stuff but honestly, this is just really weird.
My sister once asked me what I identified as. I told her I was a girl and I was straight. She seemed unsatisfied with my answer and started digging more into what my sexuality was. I told her I’m not into putting more labels on myself. I am a human woman and that’s as far as it goes. It makes me cringe thinking about how she wasn’t satisfied with my answer because it wasn’t what she wanted to hear or it didn’t follow her ideas of self identification. Stand up for yourself kids and don’t let these people push this narrative that you have to identify as something else and change who you are to fit into their view.
I'm part of the lgbtq+ community and that sounds so dehumanizing. People have to respect that there's CIS people in the world
@@cedarssanity Can you lgbtq guys stop using the term "cis"... like what, is it so not normal to be the gender you were born in that you guys have to label US the way you hate being labled? I am a woman, not a CIS woman, and don't accept these pointless labels
We need more people like you
@@cedarssanityno, there are just people. I'm a man a human man not CIS or any other bullshit you wanna throw out there.
The same way I will never accept that I won't accept being called "African-American". I'm fine with black, I'm even fine being called a 'racist' name; but I was born and raised in the US. I have nothing to do with Africa
What the hell is "CIS"?
@@cedarssanityno more labels. Not cis. Just a person.
Edits on POINT 🤣😩💯
Im 63 years old and i admire the congruence of your thought and the clarity of your words. As a woman more or les liberal, creative i have been years immersed in what is defined now as woke culture. I never fit. I always found so many 8nconsistencies and was longing for something that would set me free of false positivity, fake equality and inventions to excuse flakyness. Im grateful for your work. Keep going. Young and oldneed to hear you. Bless you.
I don’t why society nowadays is questioning their identities. Its stupid. We need more people like you who actually know what their talking about
Edit: thanks for all the likes
Its not hard to work out that these females who stuggle to get into a serious relationship are the ones who come out stating they are all these genders
Trans person here I kinda agree. Cuz I think that there are too many fake trans poeple and neopronouns and fake genders and what not
Ik😭
People these days have too much time on their hands!!!
So being comfortable is stupid?
my sister started crying and we had a whole argument because i said that Dylan shouldn't have been able to speak for women because he was not born a woman and then i told her that becoming legally trans should have an age law and she told me that it was the same as a peircing ot tattoo when getting surgery you could die while a piercing can come out and a tattoo can be removed while it take thousands of dollars to got back from trans surgery and even then you still cant got all the way back
GENIUS
I've been called so many names for stating medical facts: transition is PERMANENT. People think detran is just like emo kids removing their eyeliners... it's so not true. we are literally taking away the ability to reproduce from children. People think they can just go off hormone blockers... back in the days if kids aren't going through puberty between certain ages, parents take them to doctors to get checked out. taking hormones have huge permanent consequences on our bodies. but when I try to talk about it, I get shut down. what are we doing to the kids?? I hope future lawsuits can stop this madness
Sell your sister
Yeah, you should share Shapeshifter or Ritchie's content with her. Both had SRS surgeries and it's impossible for them to fully detransition and become men again. Ritchie especially is able to articulate how awful it is to realize too late that he's just a gay man, and that he'll never have a fulfilling homosexual relationship with another man because of the surgery. They're both doing the best they can, but it's so heartbreaking.
You can’t go back from “trans” surgery, don’t even try saying that😂😂 it’s a hell of a lot more permanent than a tattoo. At least with a shitty tattoo, you can either get it covered or try to laser it off. Trans surgery? You’re fucked for life in the worst way from what I’ve read.