My life was changed FOREVER | Derik's Cliff Accident Part 2
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 พ.ค. 2021
- My life got turned upside down years after falling off of a 30 ft cliff. I talk all about what happened and how I was able to get through some really dark times. Many tears were shed in this one!
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The greatest gift a father can give to his children is to love their mother. I see how much your husband loves you Sarah. God bless all of you!!
....the greatest gifts a father can give his children are to love and respect their mother in all ways..always!
@David Taber Hunny lots and lots of people still stay married. Being negative doesn’t help anyone including you.
Loving your child’s mother and showing that to your child does have a wonderful effect on your children and their perspective of love and life. I know. I had those parents that where absolutely picture perfect love story. Still are. 30 years later. It’s beautiful and it designed how I wanted to be loved.
@David Taber
And there you have it...ignorance at its best! No not all marriages end in divorce as I'm guessing yours has! Your negitivity bores me...bye!
I love your videos. Your such a great young couple and such good parents to Jack.
Totally agree.
I love how he appreciated his parents. We don’t do that enough. Mostly kids take their parents for granted.
I love you guys. Who is the little girl?
I think they take us for granted, UNTIL they become adults themselves.
Derik, I know you were only in my class for a short time because it was a crazy year of big classes and a teacher quit, and I just remember how awesome your group was. I remember your mom asking me about your attention and how you were doing, and I couldn’t believe you had experienced what you did. Now you have an amazing wife and beautiful son, and I just love seeing you grow! Keep sharing your story. Write it down too so you have multiple copies. Love you and your sweet family!
that’s so cool that you were his teacher!
“He’s not just a dad- he’s the BEST dad!” Sarah, you are a loving, supportive wife who knows what a treasure she has in her husband.
Makes me sad that people feel shame, failure if they return early from a mission. Anyone who serves for any amount of time, anywhere are amazing!!!! And equal
Wish I could go back and tell my 19 year old self that! Seriously so true.
Many young people in various churches go to mission fields. It is not an easy thing to do. Some commit for a year, they're back in 3 months. People must remember they are kids away from home, really far, in foreign lands.
@@DerikAndSarah One thing that has helped me navigate life (im 68 now) is to be gentle/kind with ourselves. How would you speak if it was a friend of yours? We can only do our best at any point. That standard changes with health and circumstances. But as long as we are doing our best in that moment , we are successful. Much love and prayers from Peru
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Such Beatiful Words of Wisdom!😊❤️
💛ThankYou💛
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@@DerikAndSarah ah oh yes! I'm 64 and there are Many things I'd love to tell my 18 yr old self. But I've always been extremely hard headed so I probably wouldn't even Listen to my 64 yr old self! But you guys are So Amazing. My 64 yr old one armed fat self has learned so many awesome things from you two kids and Jack. Thank you for putting yourselves out there to help us all. God richly bless your family including both sets of your parents and families! 🛐🙏✝️
"God puts people in our lives for a reason and things happen for a reason. " Sarah is an Angel and Derrick A Miracle.and Baby Jack a Sweetie. You 2 were Destined to be together. It was Fate.
Amen
Amen to that! 🙏🏽💕💕💕
Amen to that! 🙏🏽💕💕💕
So glad that you're not ashamed or embarrassed to talk about your mental health issues, Derrik. Everyone has issues now and then, some people have continuous issues their entire lives, it is nothing to be ashamed of! So proud of you two young ppl, so centered, so kind, and such good parents!
"We rise by lifting others," and you two lift us. 💙
A kid in my school was in an ATV accident where it flipped on top of his head (yes he was wearing a helmet), and he fell into a 2 month coma over the end of the school year and the summer. He had severe brain swelling and we had several moments where we genuinely thought he was going to die. Ecstatic to say that he has graduated rehab and is now going to school on an altered schedule, trying to get his normal life back. I think I speak for everyone when I say we are stoked that you are here, Derik. God bless you and your family for many years to come ❤❤
Not me crying in bed about how cute this family is and how amazing in all the ways they are ❤️❤️ seriously needed this so inspiring
Not me neither 😂
Pass the tissue ❤
Never me either. I don't cry in response to stranger stories.
It’s awesome that you and Sarah met because she’s definitely your soulmate! ❤I’m sure you and your parents were so worried!❤
You’re little family is a huge breath of fresh air and sunshine. I love how you love Jack and each other. Bless you.
Derick, the greatest gift a husband can have is a good wife. Sarah saw the beauty in your relationship when she first met you. You are such a lovely person. Every time I see you grab your darling little boy, my heart swells. Every child deserves a daddy like that. Love to you both.
As an older person who has happily lived alone forever, I still find joy in others love stories! When you said that the way Sarah made you feel was how you wanted to feel forever, touched me so!! You are both so inspiring, you actually glow with light from within your souls! And you created Jack, a supernova!! I am glad you found each other so young; all the more time to spend supporting each other and enriching yours and others lives!
I consider finding your vlogs a great gift!! And I thank you, sincerely.
You have faced your travails with courage and humor. I am humbled. Love, from Maine!!.
Wow. Can't express enough how much this means to us! Thank you so much 🤍
Hello from SC!!!! I pray my daughter will find a love like this!!! She is such an amazing young woman and she deserves the best love of a life time! 🥰
You explained it perfectly. Idk how but I can feel their amazing souls and how pure they are. They generate love , compassion, humility and so much more. It truly is a pleasure watching them. I am 37 and still haven't found the one for me Honestly I have given up trying. I've had a hard life and I only made it harder due to bad choices I made but seeing their happiness inspires me and gives me hope.
You said it best
Beautifully said! I couldn't have said it any better as I feel the same way about them. Thank you for saying all the things I couldn't. 💜😊
I hope you know now Derek, coming home early from your mission trip wasn’t you being a failure…. at all. You went there to serve the Lord & you did! But the Lord had plans for you to serve in other ways too & that’s exactly what you’re doing now. You’re humble, kind and faithful; being those things & being open about your life & struggles is another way that you’re absolutely serving the Lord! 💕
Thank you for telling your story. I am in that dark place now and I’ve spent a majority of my life there. I’ve struggled with depression, anxiety, PTSD, etc. my whole life. But I hope I can one day find the light. Sometimes I think it’s unfair what all I’ve been through but I try very hard to use those things to connect with others & tell them how I definitely wouldn’t be here without God.
You guys are so pure and beautiful together! And you guys definitely make the absolute most BEAUTIFUL babies 😍😍 I hope I will find my “Derek” one day too 🥰🥺
@kturby you are not alone ♡
Sarah is crying the whole time!! she loves you so much!!🥰 Sarah, you are amazing!!
How anyone could dislike the story these two young people have to share, is beyond me. Sarah, you’re a testament of what it takes to keep a marriage going. The love that you have is evident in the joy that you share.
Derik, you had me weeping right along with Sarah. You’re trials have made you the loving and compassionate young man you are. I know it’s not easy, but I can see you two together for many years. God bless you both on your journey.
Your guys story is not far from my husband and I. High school sweet hearts 4 kids later and 18 years later. Still strong and better than ever. He also suffered with frontal lobe damage when he was a kid. Ocd, anxiety and depression, bipolar substance abuse and the list goes on. Keep up the good work. Miracles do exists. My miracles names are Ayden Jack Emily and lil Leo. Our children! Keep up the good work. Y’all have a bright future. It does get easier.
Thanks for sharing this! That is seriously amazing 🙌🏼🤍
This is what true love looks like. Two people that belong together ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for sharing your story! I just wish I'd heard it a year ago... I lost my fiance when we were in a car wreck in August. The police and press thought he was drunk but I'd been with him non-stop and I know he wasn't. For the last year, I knew something was off with him. His personality had changed but I didn't know what was going on and since he seemed mostly hopeful, I wanted to believe he was ok. In 2016, he'd cracked his skull in a serious motorcycle accident, and in the two years before the accident, he'd had 5 or 6 concussions while riding his dirt bike. The last one was serious enough that I took him to a doctor but I couldn't make him go in. If only I had known then about the long term effects of head injuries. Listening to your story was so familiar. So many of the issues you dealt with were very much like the things happening with him. I wish so much that I had recognized it before it was too late. I can't help thinking that if I had watched your story before he died, maybe he and 2 other people would still be alive today, and I would still have my best friend. I hope someone else who's watching recognizes the long term effects of head injuries and gets help and support like you did.
I love watching your videos. Since the accident, I don't really talk to anyone so TH-cam is pretty much my connection to the outside world.
Also, one last thing. After the accident, I had my fiance's phone because mine was lost at the crash scene and somehow his phone had been put in the ambulance with me (he was taken by helecopter. He never regained consciousness). Anyway, I got a call on his phone the next day from a Mormon missionary he had been spending time with before the crash. When I explained to him what had happened and that Ben was gone, he continued to call me every day and was a huge source of comfort to me. I'm so sad I didn't write down his number once I eventually got my phone back from the police and gave his phone to his sister. I wish I still had that wonderful kind stranger to talk to. He didn't want anything from me and didn't judge. He just comforted and supported me in a way no one else has known how to do.
Since Ben died, it's been difficult for me to talk to anyone, but for some reason, it was easy to talk to that missionary. I guess this is stupid to mention because it's beside the point but I have so much gratitude for the kindness and selflessness I experienced from him. From watching you, I have no doubt you and your beautiful wife and your family have helped others just as much as that man helped me during the worst time of my life.
Again, thanks for sharing your story. It's inspiring to hear that you survived and now have so much love and happiness with your beautiful family. I love your videos. I discovered you from the adorable shorts with Jack (and your brother's vids with Ozzy). You all make me smile during a really dark time. I wish you all the best.❤️
After reading the tragedy that happened to you and how much you suffered from losing your love, the mystery of having someone you didn’t know supporting you with words only as you never met, and it was terminated when you returned the cell phone to his sister…I wonder why you never asked her if she received a call from this man⁉️
Life is a mystery as you never know what may happen next but if you really want this man’s advice, talk to his sister.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. Sending love your way✨
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All I see is an awesome husband and dad.. your life is better, you’re stronger, and you’re an example for other trauma survivors.. sometimes things don’t work out like they did for you. I’m a retired ER nurse who worked many traumas in a huge facility so I can tell you from experience.. you surely are a MIRACLE MAN…Much love to the 3 of you!
I'm not sure how your family started showing up in my feed, but I am so glad you did. I feel blessed. Thank you for sharing your story, and for being truly beautiful in all sense of the word. You are inspiring in life, love, joy, and in your faith. Keep sharing, the world needs more people like you in their lives. God bless you.
Same here! All of a sudden I saw one of their videos and I was like wow! These guys are great!
I feel the same way about this couple, they are truly a blessing to anyone who watches their vlogs
I think I was prompted to watch o of their shorts.
I saw a gorgeous family with amazing but down to earth personalities and I was hooked 🪝 ❤
Sarah YOU ARE AWESOME!!
She tried to hold in the tears as best as she could. Hearing your story is so humbling and reminds us all to appreciate the now, and to love those who truly love us. ❤️
Derek was humbled at a very early age and how to deal with real grown up trama. Which leaves no room for anything but true realness.
We are all so happy for you to still be here ❤️
Sarah, you’re an angel! And Derik must’ve deserved you. Bottom line, you are both awesome and very inspiring. All the best to your family!
Props you guys. Appearing frail is not an easy thing for most humans to do. Bravery, faith, love, vulnerability/trust are huge. Your love and respect for each other is wonderful; your kids are so fortunate to have a Mum & Dad who love each other like you do ❤😊
Yeah, I got all misty when Sarah said Derik was so pure. That is an amazing compliment and an important quality to look for, as well as to work on.
Sarah, it is the purity of your own heart that championed the growth in the man you adore. I love how you actively cultivate patience and humor and fun in your life with Derik and Jack.
So heartening to be invited to share. Thank you. Please, please, as you grow in fame and fortune, don’t let the hustlers into your life. I will pray to keep your eyes pure above all.
This is beautifully written. I wholeheartedly agree❤
Perfectly spoken!!! ❤
Sarah is a darling girl, and I see in her eyes the tremendous amount of love she has for you. As a couple, you’re light for others!
Your a testament to God's healing power and goodness I pray complete wholeness in Jesus name
Just from me, but as a Differently Abled person that became this way from an accident: I am the way I am because G-d had my journey planned out before I was born. Who am I to question it? I am blessed to be a blessing to others with similar medical issues as I have that I may be their Support and Mentor.
@@lorriefinley3129 Beautiful❣️
You can see your wife and the love she has...
You are very lucky and I am so thankful your here with us!
I'm a recent widow and I'm so glad I found this channel. You guys have brought me so much joy at a very difficult time in my life. The love yall share is just so pure and beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story with me and being a part of my day. You guys make me smile ☺
Derik, you were saved from that fall because you have so much more to offer this world! You guys are such an inspiration to the young couples of the world❣️ keep sharing ❣️❣️❣️
Thank you guys for sharing your story. It's really important because nowadays people are self conscious when it comes to telling people that they see a psychologist or a psychiatrist. *Not only does the body need healing, but also the soul.*
Thanks again and hugs from Spain❤️
Of course! That is seriously so true. They are seriously so helpful!
Thank you for being so generous with sharing your experience Derik! Sarah, you are a “rock”! My son had a tumor removed from his head the size of a golf ball a yr ago January. His wife has been amazing through his radiation, year of chemo and God blessed our family with them getting pregnant with their first child right before he started radiation. The January before that my daughter was at her roommates cabin in the Mtns near Heber City and had a seizure tubing down the hill. She stopped breathing and had to be flown out. I see God’s divine Grace through miracles for you Derik, my daughter and my son. Congratulations on Graduating and I’m looking forward to more videos of your darling family!!! I just discovered your channel yesterday and you 3 bring Sunshine to my soul!☀️🤩☀️🥳
I was tearing right up along with you, Sarah! Your love is an inspiration. 💜
Sarah is a beautiful soul, pure and genuine, and obviously strong. I’m amazed that you, as a gorgeous blonde, we’re able to remain pure for your one true love. That is so unique and special these days. Jack is adorable and obviously LOVED! He is blessed to have such attentive parents. You guys are an inspiration to so many of us! Thank you for sharing your story, and your lives.
Kind of a random note…I’m Honduran and I live in the “murder capital”. It’s crazy to know that someone like you actually came here to visit. It’s nothing like the news say. Yes, it is dangerous to be by yourself walking in the streets, but it’s not like you’re going to get murdered by walking from one house to another, it depends on what part of the country you are. Love you guys, just wanted to clarify things ❤️❤️❤️❤️
You are totally right. When I first got called there everyone went to Google and obviously it said the worst😬 It was back in 2014 too. I was in some beautiful areas as well and the country as a whole really is amazing! I'd love to go back soon! People there are SO friendly!
@@DerikAndSarah Oh my gosh! Thanks for replying back! Yes, Honduras is full of beautiful places, such as Bay Islands. You should totally come back and explore and show the beautiful parts of Honduras! Love you guys!
@@DerikAndSarah my older brother is going on a mission in September. im super excited for him, but im reallyyy gonna miss him. how did it feel for you to be away from your family?
Dude! You really are literally like THE BEST DAD! I love watching your adorable little family! If only more couples could find this kind of joy and wonder in each other!! God Bless all of you!
On a side note: little Jacks hair.... AMAZING!
God bless you Derrick! Your story is so precious! God is so good. I’m so glad He has worked in your life. Bringing Sarah in is an amazing addition! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
what a beautiful story-- you two are perfect together. Jack is a sweetie! Sarah- you are so sweet. I love seeing you both interact with Jack- he is a lucky little boy to have such great parents!
I’ve gone through some super traumatic stuff too.. the best thing I can say is talk about it. It helps healing so much to talk about it a lot, don’t bottle it up. Keep going! You weren’t meant to die, so don’t think that. You were meant to live because your soul deserves the wonderful life you have 💕 I don’t know you but I’m truly rooting for you and your life!
Sarah, your observation is spot on. I'm going through a really tough overwhelming time in my life and have all these things to figure out, and feel like I'm drowning. Watching the videos you guys make help remind me that people are out there that are genuine, nice, and who manage to find enjoyment in the little things. It helps remind me constantly to do the same. You guys are amazing, and your parents are amazing too for teaching you everything you know!
Blessings!!
Same! Hugs and prayers to you.
You two are BOTH so kind, humble, honest, and GENUINE! Thank you for sharing these parts of your lives with us!
I'm new to watching your videos and I must say you guys are so cute together. I just finished listening to part 1 and part 2 regarding your accident. I would have to say you're a walking miracle. I'm a nurse Practitioner and I have to think they evaluated and talked to you about PTSD. I would definitely say you qualified. I'm so happy you met Sarah, she's just lovely. The first video I watched was when Sarah was in labor with Jack and the you holding him and just marveling at him and how cute he was. It was so sweet. I pray that God continues to bless you both and Iittle Jack through all the days of your life.
Looking forward to further videos.❤
Hes such a good dad!! What a blessing
You two are a barrel of laughs .I love the way daddy is always running to baby telling him he was so beautiful. And mama when she laughs it contagious I find myself laughing also.
Did they ever test you for PTSD? That accident would have caused severe trauma that you may not have dealt with. I’m so glad you are doing well!
Not everyone who has had a traumatic event in their lives has PTSD. Each person has their way of dealing with these issues in their life. Some people talk it out with family and friends, some who internalize it, which can create PTSD, and some who get triggered with sounds, smells, or feelings that cause them to react.
What an amazing couple. You actually make me proud. I suffer from a generic disease that causes me to kind of introvert as no one understands it. My amazing husband has never left my side. Even when I spend time alone in our room reading or watching tv. He never gets mad at me, he supports every single thing I go through. I wish there was more I could do for him. To give him credit as I feel.he keeps me alive and keeps me going. God Bless you both and thank you for opening up and sharing your story
Sounds just like me and my relationship..
I watched part 1 and now part 2 I came to watch your channel after seeing the shorts with jack😃God truly has blessed you and your family.
I didn’t fall off a cliff but u talking about the struggles of medication was so helpful. I have been struggling to find the right medication for my anxiety, depression, and adhd. and when those aren’t in control my ocd get really bad. medication is hard to get perfect because they always have heavy side effects. but this was so helpful to hear about i don’t feel alone.
It made me so happy to hear you tell about your relationship with your parents. As a parent of four, each one had their special qualities that tested me to provide the support they needed in their lives. I'm glad your parents stepped up for you. ❤️🙏
I hate that someone else understands what brain fog is but it’s also nice to know I’m not the only one. You two are super sweet! Continue to share your joy like rain drops! ❤️♥️
As someone who has battled depression for 11 years, there is indeed light out there. God will do amazing things if we give Him the chance. I'm so glad that you're in a great spot in your life. It's so endearing to see you and your family and how much you love each other. Your story will help lots of people. God bless your wonderful family ❤
I had a similar situation happen. I fell down a chimney and broke my back. God is good brother. And I absolutely love how much you love that little dude you have. That's the way it is supposed to be. My daughter is the love of my life. God bless you guys
You two were meant to be. You are clearly so very good together. Life has its ups and downs, but your love will carry you through. Keep listening to each other and supporting one and other everyday from the smallest things right up to their biggest dreams. Don’t ever forget how you felt on days like today where talking can bring tears to your eyes.Wishing all three of you so much love. Looking forward to meeting the forth member of your family when that happens down the road. I definitely see a tiny baby girl with lots of white blonde hair in your futures. You are such good parents, I wish you so much happiness.
We all need a Sarah in our lifes, bless her.
This was the very best story I’ve heard ever. I am so in love with you guys. You are so incredibly lucky to have found each other. All in Gods plan for sure. Most housewives watching this is so jealous of Sarah. Sarah you are a shining star. Thank you both for opening up and sharing your story. And to your parents. I cannot imagine any two braver people to watch your child fall and then be told a stomach turning if your son makes it. Ugh, like I said I hope to never hear those words, witness such tragedy and be so terrified that they could lose you. I’ve been in a small plane that was being tossed through the sky during a March storm and to hear you tell your moms fear of that was truly dead on fact. Scary stuff for sure. Jack is one very lucky little boy to have you two.. keep on making great content
Thanks so much for sharing. As you get older you can see how God uses all the things that happen in your life to shape you into who you become. Yes there is light at the end of every tunnel. And that is the perfect description for little miss Sarah she exudes it. If we all were as positive as the two if you the world would be such a better place. Love and prayers to you both. And sweet Jack!
So true. Thanks you so much!! 🙏
I'm in my 70's and first saw a short with you both and Jack. It was so refreshing to see loving people who were so happy being parents and being together. Your's is a "reality show" people should be watching. You brighten my day when I skim through TH-cam and catch one of your videos. The love you have for each other, your children and life is beautiful.
This is a good story for ALL other people suffering from head concussions, which is never a
small matter. Thank you for shining a light at the end of the tunnel for all those still suffering. ✨✨✨✨✨
Glad you are ok and doing better ❤️
Thank you! 🙌🏼
This is their life They live this way. I am blown away
And here I was thinking I couldn't like you guys any more than I already did....foolish me. Along comes this video, and now I'm in love! You two have the most genuine and pure love I've ever seen, both for each other and for that beautiful baby boy! Thank you for sharing your story!
Yes. I can feel her strength through these videos. A very strong, but silent strength!! She’s a very special person.
I just want to say that seeing the love and support you two have for each other in this video makes me so excited for the day I find my person
Your strength and patience is amazing, Sarah.
I love how Sarah really supported him throughout all of this like these people are the people who we should root for and appreciate people like Sarah and people like derik
I hope all of you the best seriously
So glad I found your channel.Everyone has a story and there's probably somebody watching that it will help. I think it's not easy to be "real",maybe even harder for men,but you're such sweet genuine people,and I'm really happy for you! Thanks for sharing!😊
You guys have the sweetest relationship! I love watching your videos. You’re so uplifting! And there is absolutely no shame in coming home early from your mission, Derik. Your heart was in the right place and you served for as long as the Lord needed you to serve in that area of the world. Now you are being an example of Christ to so many people by sharing the things you do on TH-cam. ❤️ Thanks for all you guys share!
Sounds like God sent you an Angel through your wife💐
This is such a beautiful story of transformation.
I’m so glad you’re okay. Our God is absolutely incredible!
You both are amazing people!
Derek, you're an amazing young man with an amazing young, beautiful wife! You have an awesome testimony that I am sure you're sharing! Thanks for sharing your testimony with us . You're reaching a lot of people here. Keep talking. We're listening. We're praying for you and Sarah and Jack. God bless you and your family Derick!❤🥰
An amazing testimony God gave you! And an amazing wife!!
This whole situation is crazy to hear. As a toddler my dad got into a motorcycle accident which led to traumatic brain damage that changed the whole corse of his life for the worse. So it’s good to see a happy ending in this kind of situation. It’s like a breath of fresh air.
I feel like a lot of people see Derik being silly so often which is great but this story really puts the focus on the fact that you’re both human and genuine. I’m so glad to hear how far he’s come! I’d be interested to hear Tanners perspective on this whole story too!
He is the epitome of a good man ❤️ And Sarah you are the perfect match, what a beautiful love story 🥺🥰
Sarah, you are a wonderful wife!!! Derek, you are incredibly blessed!! 💝🙌🏼🙏🏻
God bless your little family 💞
Love, love, love your relationship and the dad's love for his son.
What an amazing story. It is so beautiful to hear how you acknowledge your parents for everything they’ve done for you. Not too many people do. And it is also so wonderful to see your gratitude and deep love for Sarah. She is a great woman for standing by you from the beginning. You two were meant to be together 😍😍 I am a firm believer that things happen for a reason. Maybe God in His infinite wisdom put you through this so you would meet Sarah.
I do believe everything happens for a reason. But on the other hand I myself do not believe that God would let or put anyone through something like that on purpose. God .
I think the best part of all of these videos you have made is that Jack and Sunny will have so many amazing videos of their parents to look back on and learn your story and the story of the parts of their childhood they were too young to remember. These are so candid and honest and such a keepsake for your family.
Again, you are absolutely AMAZING! God bless you and your beautiful family! As a person with an autoimmune disorder, the fact that you didn't let your accident limit you, inspires me. I'm going to sign up to play softball this summer. Thank you for being brave enough to tell your story. You rock, dude!
both of you radiate such positive energy-it's contagious! So happy to be following your journey and just followed weston😂
Good for you, Amanda! 👏👏👏👏
Sounds like you were put into each other's lives for a reason! Love you guys. ❤
I am crying just thinking about what you have been through and so glad God and Winston brought you to Sarah. She is a rock and it is so obvious how supportive of each other you both are. I, too, suffered from brain fog...there were times I'd be driving my car and stop for a traffic light and when it turned green, I could see green but I didn't know for sure it was green and I'd wait for the guy behind me to beep. It lasted, on and off, for several years and we believe it was caused by inner ear issues. Anyway, it had me thinking I was going crazy so I just want to say how proud I am to see you share this with all of us and be so vulnerable. You are both amazing people and parents!!! Love you both and wish you only great things on your journey together!!!
Thank you for sharing this amazing and deeply personal story. I have only seen your shorts and always loved Derik’s playful spirit and this explains so much. I love that neither of you are taking anything for granted and appreciate each and every day!
And yes, Sarah is awesome. And so are you!
You two are amazing! What you’ve already faced and walked through is something most people don’t ever have to face! God gave you each other to be that helpmate you each needed!!! I just thank God for what He’s done in your lives and what He’s going to do☝🏻🙏🏼♥️ Very inspiring to the rest of us!!♥️
You are disappointed that you had to end your mission early but you are on a mission with your you tube channel! How many people are listening and reacting? You are all loved❤️❤️❤️
AMEN❤❤
I'm so glad you opened up about what you went through back in the beginning and even now. You both are awesome young people. Wise beyond your years. Keep working together! God bless your love.
literally crying to the words derik said about you :')
Can you imagine everything from your parents perspective now that you're a Daddy? How insane is that. I had my daughter a few days after y'all had Jack and I feel like so many things have such a different perspective... and I don't have a traumatic experience like you!
Tori, I honestly believe with most parents, maybe moreso slightly with the Mama's, that comes with being a parent.
I have Grandchildren now. Both of my children were Cesearian births. A Daughter first and then a Son. Providing both were healthy, they were, we had already determined just the two was enough.
There's a reason I'm sharing this. While in the hospital for days before being released, I had my Son with me as much as I could. This will stay with me as long as I live, I remember having his body laying with his head under my chin and the length of him laying on my torso. This was a common way he slept on me. In knowing he was my last baby, I wanted him to grow as with his percentile, yet somehow manage staying a baby a little longer. All for me, so I could hold on this time a little longer!
I remember thinking while holding him, "I have to treasure these thoughts, these precious days, lock these memories of this time to always remember these days". With the words of that sentence, I envisioned placing within my heart, a chest with a lock and key. I have gone there so many times in my life, opening the chest, recalling all that I still hold dear of the early days of my Son's life.
Each child is a blessing and I am so happy for the two of mine.
Our perspective certainly changes. Bless your little one and your family.
I could never image this could ever happen to Derik! He is so down to earth!
You two are such lovely people, you can see how much love you have for eachother. Marriage is work and you show how you two are there for eachother. Gods blessings on your lives and marriage.
Thanks for sharing, I work as a speech therapist and spent some time in a traumatic brain injury clinic and your story is so inspirational for others who have had similar experiences. Shows you how impactful and important love and support is to your recovery! God is good!
I am so touched by your story, Derik and Sarah. And I guarantee that anyone hearing it will take something from it (like a gift) that will help them. It’s probably something different for every person (depending on what’s happening in their life) but nonetheless there is a gift for everyone. Thank you for your generosity in sharing with us! ❤️
Such a important story. Thank you so very much for sharing this journey. As a mom to a teen going through a rough metal health period I truly appreciate hearing that even though things are tough now, he/we will come out of it and be so much more than we can imagine. Thank you for sharing your lives with us.
I watched this when it was posted, and something told me to watch this again. I've been having a hard time, and I realized your husband is my husband. Our husband's are so similar in the way they love us. Thanks for posting. I'm so glad Derik is doing better and so grateful for your patience, Sarah. 💗
Mental health should never be taboo. It's okay to not be okay. It really sucks how much people avoid it! It's so real and personal, and a lot of people don't understand it. 🙏 thank you!!
You are both blessed to have found each other! Having been through a rough car wreck myself, I can empathize the wonder you felt at still being alive! You are a survivor Derek and need a supportive circle. Your parents are steadfast and firm believers. 📖 Your Dad's blessing was powerful indeed. But Sara is your ROCK and truly is Awesome. Her love for you and Jack shines from her. 💖 I always think that when I share my story, somebody needed to hear it. I believe in words holding Power, so maybe the listener needed a reminder of God's love or to believe in people serving as his Angel's here on Earth (like the Nurse at your accident scene). Thanks for sharing your story as it happened and will continue to evolve. Blessings to your family! 🙏
God has a plan for each of us. When we think life is falling apart, it's actually coming together as God designed. He put you two together. Y'all are an inspiration.
I literally just found you guys like 4 hours ago. I binge watched all of your shorts and I’m so in love with you guys. Your story, your energy, your faith, the “weeeee” sound, Jack’s little face but most of all, the fact that you guys are here and that you made it. I had a nasty accident that has resulted in 9 orthopedic surgeries and my life did a complete 180. It may sound weird but, these past few hours especially after listening about your terrible accident, I feel like the life that is starting to grow again in my heart and in my head will be worth living and I can’t wait for it to be as fun and love filled as yours is. When you think that life has kicked your teeth in, someone else, somewhere else is having theirs kicked in as well. I love your story and how you share it and I’m here for all of it! I’ll keep watching, I hope you can feel the love and energy we are sending you back just to thank you for letting us, me, in. Thanks guys…
Your new fan in the Bronx, NY….Liz♥️.
PS
(I copied and pasted the same message on part 2)
For you guys: Smooches!!!
For Jack: WEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!
You guys make me cry 😭 you two are incredible people. This is my favorite TH-cam channel. You guys keep it so real and I just love it. I’m grateful for this channel I guess is what I’m saying 🙏🏼