You’re speaking facts. We don’t have an identity, we have habits and traits that we develop over time due to circumstances, and we accept this as our identity. But nothing is set in stone.
Yes, but may I add to this. Our social identity is shaped/ conditioned by others, especially in our formative years, by significant others. That is how we create our own reality and see the world as we are, not as it is.
yes! i hate when people complain about how unhappy they are with the way they look/their clothes/hair/being too pale when they have the means to change it, just change it!
This was so insightful and validating. I grew up with an older sister who was praised for her intellect and I was always on the slower side. She bullied me into believing I was stupid and I still struggle with that to this day, even though I have a college degree and a great job that I excel at. Still learning how to self fulfill my prophecy but it’s in motion!
This video was insanely helpful and eye-opening. My perspective on myself has genuinely changed, you don't understand how much hearing this helped me. Thank you Madeline
17:20 I also have adhd and everything u said here was so relatable 😭 same thing with me, absolutely hated talking and answering in school as a child and honestly all throughout my life, I think it’s the energy it takes for our brain to focus on the information that we physically can’t talk on top (also prob social anxiety as well) but the hyperactive brain making us feel deeply about topics can cause feelings of unworthiness for kids with adhd :/ good to recognise these things though to understand and improve, for years I had no idea and was constantly worsening myself
I'M SCROLLING THROUGH TH-cam AND IT WAS SO UNEXPECTED AND NICE TO SEE THIS NEW VIDEO. Of course you're shooting, smart girl! you inspire me, because I also want to start a channel I LOVEEE YOUUU💘
You should check out San Clemente CA. It’s situation perfectly between San Diego and LA and it’s on the beach. Surprisingly, rent there is also cheaper than LA and the neighboring beach towns are fantastic (Carlsbad, Dana Point, Laguna Beach)
i was gonna suggest other places in CA for the weather, but i didn’t actually know any places, so im going to just put a like on your suggestion to bump it up 😂😂
“Believe it and you will see it” + “if you change the way you look at things, the things you look at will change” I live by these Wayne Dyer quotes they go both ways too so I kinda feel like if I’m u at least aiming for neutral my experience is already elevated + more stable + a blank slate for anything good on top of that to be that and not just swallowed tying to cancel out the bad.
This is awesome. I've been deconstructing the internal beliefs and perceptions I have about myself, and other people, and the world for years now. Keep finding even deeper beliefs that cause suffering, and really curiously investigate them, why do I think this why, why do I believe this, who told me this etc... And it's a difficult journey, but it's so worth it. When you deconstruct these limiting beliefs, you get the opportunity to decide who you want to be. Right now I'm working through such a deep painful belief I've lived with my whole life. That I'm not good enough. It's such a fucker of a belief, it really messes with your experience of life in every way. But over this last year I've seen a huge shift in how I treat myself, how I show up in my relationships, and what I believe I'm worthy of. I'm starting to act like I am good enough. But really, the truth is, we are all far more than enough
This resonated so strongly with me. I’ve always been a pessimist by default, but as I get older I understand that there is no value in that. So I’ve been actively trying to be more accepting when things don’t go as I initially expect. It’s the universe giving me a sign or an opportunity, rather than a hurdle or an attack on me. I’ve by no means mastered it, and pessimism is still my knee jerk reaction. But I’m learning to talk myself out of that and look at the other side. It’s not easy, but it’s getting easier every year. How you perceive your circumstances is fully up to you, and that’s so powerful!
It's incredible how our perspective can shape our reality and outlook on life. Believing in ourselves and maintaining a positive mindset truly opens doors to blessings we might not have noticed otherwise.
I relate to this girl so much. I was also extremely shy, strange and basically non-verbal until the age of like 12. And YES I am now overcompensating for the lost years by talking a lot, going out and standing up for myself. And even now I still feel 'odd' even though I am seemingly popular and get along well with people. So reassuring ❤
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Im currently anxious and I know all of this but in moments of extreme anxiety its hard to remember this THANK YOU
This is how these Knobhead women win. (Because of Weak men) She even has an incredibly short attention span.... And absent mindedness. She asked questions and pretended to answer it.... And spiralled down completely random topic. Like bank accounts? There's no connection between her Brain and mouth.
omg this came at the PERFECT time, I have therapy tomorrow and I'm going to show her this because it's EXACTLY how I feel !!! I'm just not in the confidence part yet 😭😭
I think you should just do whatever makes you happy !! Don’t worry about how other people perceive you, you know you want to move to Los Angeles. You could also move to just another place in Cali if ur scared or the Los Angeles title. Thank u for this podcast ❤
The one thing people should always do in life is learning how to build value. Doesn't always have to be monetary value, but some form of value for yourself.
i feel you so much girl !! It's been 4 years that i moved to London, and the weather here is just depressing me. I am thinking of another plce where to go but i feel stuck because of my job.... I think you should try and move to LA, what can go wrong? You have nothing that is keeping you here in terms of house contract or job.. so you are pretty much free to explore. Even if it doesn't turn right, the worst that can happen is that you ome back to London in one year. You will find London exactly as it is now, don't worry, you will not miss out haha Also, I think that is even more intresting in your 20s to live in 4\5 different places. it brings out sides of you that you will never find out by staying in your old same comfort town. I am 26 now and have lived in 4 different places since i moved out of my parents house for uni when i was 18 and i can look back ans see all the different stages of my mind and life prosprective based on the place where i was and the people i met there... i actually mimss that so much :( !!! I think that since i am an "audlt" and i have a real job it is so much more difficult for me to take the decison to just leave. But I want to move, pls if you have any suggestion in how to not feel stuck and be brave to leave your job and start a new life sowhere else I am here to hear.
Your very honest women I like your boldness. You remind me of someone I know whom has strong will of what we want to do in life and don't have to care to other people think and says. This is just it, don't mind others and just think. What is it for me?
We are so similar it’s scary lol same name, look alike, and I also had to drop out of high school because of constant panic attacks and the embarrassment of just existing lol
Oh, Madeline, you are so beautiful and animated. I love you darling. I can understand why you easily make friends. Everyone should want to be your friend. Please realize that you should be having the best time of your life. Calm down, best wishes, many hugs, bye, bye.
Mix the flat tire scenario with reading your daily horoscope... And it will definitely make sense..what mads is talking about is fates huge hands guiding us
There's no breathing app on the market that could make me as calm as listening to this podcast does. I literally save a new one for when I need to calm down
Random guy here, Girls do not wast your 20's learn to eat clean become a gourmet drink rarely lean in to who you are. Only connect with similar tribes, learn to filter for great men, skip the F-boys don't obsess about others or social media. Go out in the world, this girl gives gold!
I know you said that you don't like how people say money doesn't make you happy. What they really mean is that money cannot fix you of your mental health. Money cannot cure depression, anxiety and other psychological problems. Money really just makes you more of who you really are. It expands you. And a lot of people who have money become more fearful. They could be afraid to lose it. But money does give you some certainty and security. It can help you meet some of your basic needs like shelter and food. And it's true that you can use money to buy experiences. And a lot of us would rather spend money on people we love. Because when we only think about ourselves, we suffer a lot more. Nature gives us clues when we help others and we are of service and we provide value for people we get. Rewarded. Nature is teaching us that we should care about each other.
"I enjoyed hearing your perspective, and it's always interesting to touch upon some of the same topics years down the road. At least, I like to reflect on my younger self." I will be looking forward to listening in and catching up on your content.
I loved this episode so much! When you started talking about feeling the need to move and all the things you’re looking for, I immediately thought Florida!! We have such warm weather and it’s much calmer than LA! Also the rent is muchhh much better than LA. Anyways whatever you choose, I hope it all works out for you 💕
Self fullfilling prophecy ( labelling theory) is an extremely potent construct. We are influenced by others a lot more than what we think or would admit to.
Hey, my intuition tells me that I like your energy and ether. In terms of having been thought of as special needs I can relate, happened to me in grade 3 at age 7. In most schooling and jobs people have mostly thought of me as being deficient socially or mentally in some way, when in reality it was predjudice and discrimination and lack of understanding and accomodation and fairness for pseudo-disabled people. Me only learning to train myself to write with my dominant hand (left hand) starting at age 30 till now at age 33. Also, I've only just started learning to train myself to "have guts while being left body dominant" (weird phrasing I know) around this stage of my life. But anyway, I'm making progress and I am happy! Good luck in your potential plans in LA. Not trying to throw negative info, it sounds like you've been there. Just pointing out the lack of walkability/not being a walkable city as well as the homeless there which people complain about, but you seem to be looking at that stuff, the lack of walking positively. But anyway, follow your gut, it sounds like it's "cheaper than the UK" from your perspective! Best of luck! Thanks for sharing your story!
America: Northeast Newport, resort capital of the world. LA is hollow full of people trying to climb the influencer ladder. New York is full of ppl who have already climbed the social ladder. Newport is full of people who were born at the top of the social ladder like I was. Now IDGAF abt it and am a man of the people. Its the historical getaway for the hyper elite. Still has a handful of billionaires and retired top celebs (Judge Judy, Jay Leno). Point is I have shaped the town to be selfless when the entire essence is about who you know. Go where you want, just wanted to make my hometown more interesting. Ill be at graduate school regardless. My endgame is in that town. I think you are a wholesome person most of the time.
Because it doesn't matter your gender or the colour of your skin, at the end of the day, underneath it all, we are all human. And we have a lot more in common than people like to believe.
37:15 Though you say you’re not an LA person why not try Santa Barbara and if not Ventura County? Both counties are just outside of LA and have more of a suburban like feel while still being a big city and luckily if you miss LA it’s quite literally 20-30 minutes down the freeway. Usually because of this not only are things less packed but rent is also less expensive since you’re not in the deep city. Plus there are TONS of small towns in the area alike Santa Paula, Camarillo, Ojai, and Oxnard that have more of an overall communal feeling and hopefully not too much culture shock coming from countryside Britain especially if your planing on moving.
When I say we’re the same person I MEAN IT I swear I’m in university I’m studying English and just started linguistics and I just finished season two of killing eve and ofc I’m obsessed w villanelle not mentioning the shyness and adhd behaviors that I have since I was a kid and so many things I notice while watching ur episodes ,a lot of coincidences and I genuinely don’t know why?
15 seconds in but the how to be hot and confident video was my first one i saw of yours and it changed my life honestly and i’ve avidly watched everything of yours ever since. so this is full circle for me 🥲💜
I'm was thinking the same way about "manifestion", like in the way that you really can influence what you experience and who you can become in life a few years ago too. I for example, and this might seem shallow, always wanted to have scx with beautiful girls I found attractive but was always very insecure. Then one day I just got this realization that I can just be who I want and come off as attractive if I want while I was standing at a very crowded bus stop in the city and I just let that vibe out and smiled and had a very open body language and also realized that I didn't care about those other "NPC's" that were just standing by, even if that sounds a bit mean (but I was always coming from that fear of judgement, thats why). And then there was this beautiful asian girl who noticed me right away when I was like that and she directly looked at me and bit her lip in that you know what way. Then I got scared because what I believed actually worked and I thought I was crazy and thats something I "can't" go further for whatever reason. I had multiple instances where I did it and then shied away instead of actually going through. I'm 27 now and while you talk about gaining a lot of self confidence when you just became 20, this makes me feel like it's already getting too late for me. I don't know. Maybe its also because I havent had a feeling of real success or fun in over 5 years too. Its just so sad that what you achieved feels like a dream to me even though I had so many chances to manifest it too. I know its a lot of self pity but I just dont get how I am still supposed to live a life where I can feel as great as you and I know that feeling. I dont even really have friends who really are on the same wavelength so maybe thats why too. It gives me a lot of hope that there are actually girls out there who are crazy, no offense, just like me and are very pretty, so I hope I'll just go for it if I see the chance next time.
It’s interesting but it doesn’t surprise me since Muslims are human just like the rest of all of us, just that they follow a different religion but it all comes down to that at the core of what binds us all no matter what religion you’re from or place everybody is human and religion can be perfect or not but we are not since we’re human.
travel!! obviously only determines on how expensive it would be but if u think ur financially stable for it travelling around Europe and other places like the US would be so fun to watch icl and would help u with your issue about wanting to move and where :)
Girly, get the HELL out of this UK! So I can live vicariously through you until I can get the hell out myself! 😭 I also don’t love the idea of LA, but it has a unique appeal that other places don’t. It’s similar enough to home, with English being the primary language and the culture being comparable, but the weather is better and there’s more opportunity. If you hate it, you’re never stuck. Try it out! Might be the best thing you ever do!
You’re speaking facts. We don’t have an identity, we have habits and traits that we develop over time due to circumstances, and we accept this as our identity. But nothing is set in stone.
Yes, but may I add to this. Our social identity is shaped/ conditioned by others, especially in our formative years, by significant others. That is how we create our own reality and see the world as we are, not as it is.
Yes! Identify can change by just changing what we do on a daily basis ❤
She is speaking gibberish.
I told my gay friends. They went bananas...! xD
What’s her only fans profile
Seeing your videos after a long week is like catching up with an old friend I love it
Watching this perspective as a religious person is honestly so interesting. I love to hear other people’s perspectives on things like this ❤️
Same 💯
Thank you
What’s her only fans profile
yes! i hate when people complain about how unhappy they are with the way they look/their clothes/hair/being too pale when they have the means to change it, just change it!
The way I’d follow every single advice you give is crazy😭😭😭
do not do that !
@@madelineargy😃
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This was so insightful and validating. I grew up with an older sister who was praised for her intellect and I was always on the slower side. She bullied me into believing I was stupid and I still struggle with that to this day, even though I have a college degree and a great job that I excel at. Still learning how to self fulfill my prophecy but it’s in motion!
You are Dim because you listened to 42 mins of literal Horseshit.
This video was insanely helpful and eye-opening. My perspective on myself has genuinely changed, you don't understand how much hearing this helped me. Thank you Madeline
Honestly, when u went to LA you were so happy and it’s soooo your vibe. So move girl, I’m here for it!
This!!
she also was so consistent too she seemed inspired
17:20 I also have adhd and everything u said here was so relatable 😭 same thing with me, absolutely hated talking and answering in school as a child and honestly all throughout my life, I think it’s the energy it takes for our brain to focus on the information that we physically can’t talk on top (also prob social anxiety as well) but the hyperactive brain making us feel deeply about topics can cause feelings of unworthiness for kids with adhd :/ good to recognise these things though to understand and improve, for years I had no idea and was constantly worsening myself
Madeleine as someone also newly diagnosed with adhd/add and going through college these videos are sooo helpful and validating ❤️
Fluent in Yapanese and I loved every second 😁❤️
MADELINE im so happy u and brooke r friends now plssss make content together ILYYYY
I'M SCROLLING THROUGH TH-cam AND IT WAS SO UNEXPECTED AND NICE TO SEE THIS NEW VIDEO. Of course you're shooting, smart girl! you inspire me, because I also want to start a channel
I LOVEEE YOUUU💘
This has come at the PERFECT time for me I can’t even explain. 🙏🏽
i love you this video is like a gods gift ive been feeling so down lately and completely forgot i can just not feel like that
Congratulations
You should check out San Clemente CA. It’s situation perfectly between San Diego and LA and it’s on the beach. Surprisingly, rent there is also cheaper than LA and the neighboring beach towns are fantastic (Carlsbad, Dana Point, Laguna Beach)
i was gonna suggest other places in CA for the weather, but i didn’t actually know any places, so im going to just put a like on your suggestion to bump it up 😂😂
“Believe it and you will see it” + “if you change the way you look at things, the things you look at will change” I live by these Wayne Dyer quotes they go both ways too so I kinda feel like if I’m u at least aiming for neutral my experience is already elevated + more stable + a blank slate for anything good on top of that to be that and not just swallowed tying to cancel out the bad.
Madeline literally helped a lot of girls boost up their confidence and whoever is reading this ur very beautiful and everythiinnggg🎀✨
your path is very similar to mine, sometimes I think how crazy the similarities are between us
it's so cool to be heard, even through a screen
This is awesome. I've been deconstructing the internal beliefs and perceptions I have about myself, and other people, and the world for years now. Keep finding even deeper beliefs that cause suffering, and really curiously investigate them, why do I think this why, why do I believe this, who told me this etc... And it's a difficult journey, but it's so worth it. When you deconstruct these limiting beliefs, you get the opportunity to decide who you want to be. Right now I'm working through such a deep painful belief I've lived with my whole life. That I'm not good enough. It's such a fucker of a belief, it really messes with your experience of life in every way. But over this last year I've seen a huge shift in how I treat myself, how I show up in my relationships, and what I believe I'm worthy of. I'm starting to act like I am good enough. But really, the truth is, we are all far more than enough
This resonated so strongly with me. I’ve always been a pessimist by default, but as I get older I understand that there is no value in that. So I’ve been actively trying to be more accepting when things don’t go as I initially expect. It’s the universe giving me a sign or an opportunity, rather than a hurdle or an attack on me. I’ve by no means mastered it, and pessimism is still my knee jerk reaction. But I’m learning to talk myself out of that and look at the other side. It’s not easy, but it’s getting easier every year. How you perceive your circumstances is fully up to you, and that’s so powerful!
I’m proud of you!
This is the only thing that calms me down during final exams, love you for your videos 🫶🏼
It's incredible how our perspective can shape our reality and outlook on life. Believing in ourselves and maintaining a positive mindset truly opens doors to blessings we might not have noticed otherwise.
I’ve never heard anyone else who had the same experience as a child!!! Embarrassed of anything and everything 😅 thank you for this
I relate to this girl so much. I was also extremely shy, strange and basically non-verbal until the age of like 12. And YES I am now overcompensating for the lost years by talking a lot, going out and standing up for myself. And even now I still feel 'odd' even though I am seemingly popular and get along well with people. So reassuring ❤
17:00 that part gave me so much motivation i struggle with selective mutism and i hope i can be like that some day
me too!!! love to see that im not alone with sm
This was soooo good. I can’t tell you how much I needed this.❤
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Im currently anxious and I know all of this but in moments of extreme anxiety its hard to remember this THANK YOU
Face card going insane 😍😍
Literally
This is how these Knobhead women win. (Because of Weak men)
She even has an incredibly short attention span.... And absent mindedness.
She asked questions and pretended to answer it.... And spiralled down completely random topic. Like bank accounts?
There's no connection between her Brain and mouth.
your skin looks AMAZING
learning russian because of villanelle is so real
Is that a movie character? Which movie plz 💕
@@sahar719 she’s from a show called killing eve
I love that mindset of having to be delusional to reach ur goals or move on in life, its actually what cench explained too at his chickenshop date
love that
Best episode you’ve done so far ❤
Yeah, basically be mindful of your vibration (perspective) and adjust when necessary to experience the best life (perspective) possible.
So...vibration doesn't mean anything all alongg?
You're definitely beautiful Madeline, don't ever doubt that🥰 You're also adorable, sweet smart & funny and very loved ❣
omg this came at the PERFECT time, I have therapy tomorrow and I'm going to show her this because it's EXACTLY how I feel !!! I'm just not in the confidence part yet 😭😭
I think you should just do whatever makes you happy !! Don’t worry about how other people perceive you, you know you want to move to Los Angeles. You could also move to just another place in Cali if ur scared or the Los Angeles title. Thank u for this podcast ❤
this is honestly the secret to life
My favorite episode so far!!
I'll never miss an episode
this is rlly helpful, i literally needed this rn
Crazy how our emotions is the charge and energy of what we’ll attract into our lives
The one thing people should always do in life is learning how to build value. Doesn't always have to be monetary value, but some form of value for yourself.
i feel you so much girl !! It's been 4 years that i moved to London, and the weather here is just depressing me. I am thinking of another plce where to go but i feel stuck because of my job.... I think you should try and move to LA, what can go wrong? You have nothing that is keeping you here in terms of house contract or job.. so you are pretty much free to explore. Even if it doesn't turn right, the worst that can happen is that you ome back to London in one year. You will find London exactly as it is now, don't worry, you will not miss out haha Also, I think that is even more intresting in your 20s to live in 4\5 different places. it brings out sides of you that you will never find out by staying in your old same comfort town. I am 26 now and have lived in 4 different places since i moved out of my parents house for uni when i was 18 and i can look back ans see all the different stages of my mind and life prosprective based on the place where i was and the people i met there... i actually mimss that so much :( !!! I think that since i am an "audlt" and i have a real job it is so much more difficult for me to take the decison to just leave. But I want to move, pls if you have any suggestion in how to not feel stuck and be brave to leave your job and start a new life sowhere else I am here to hear.
the villanelle obsession was so real
this was so good and such a healthy episode, might be my fav from u so far
Everything about this girl is super charming! What a gem! 💎
Great work as always, your content is refreshingly beautiful. ✨👌
MAKE MORE VIDEOS LIKE THIS PLEASEEE
love your authenticity girl!
Low key God heard your prayers and knew she wasn’t it and better was coming for you ❤
Your very honest women I like your boldness. You remind me of someone I know whom has strong will of what we want to do in life and don't have to care to other people think and says. This is just it, don't mind others and just think. What is it for me?
We are so similar it’s scary lol same name, look alike, and I also had to drop out of high school because of constant panic attacks and the embarrassment of just existing lol
Oh, Madeline, you are so beautiful and animated. I love you darling. I can understand why you easily make friends. Everyone should want to be your friend. Please realize that you should be having the best time of your life. Calm down, best wishes, many hugs, bye, bye.
Mix the flat tire scenario with reading your daily horoscope... And it will definitely make sense..what mads is talking about is fates huge hands guiding us
There's no breathing app on the market that could make me as calm as listening to this podcast does. I literally save a new one for when I need to calm down
Thanks for sharing.
Have an amazing wonderful girl. ❤❤
Random guy here, Girls do not wast your 20's learn to eat clean become a gourmet drink rarely lean in to who you are. Only connect with similar tribes, learn to filter for great men, skip the F-boys don't obsess about others or social media. Go out in the world, this girl gives gold!
I know you said that you don't like how people say money doesn't make you happy. What they really mean is that money cannot fix you of your mental health. Money cannot cure depression, anxiety and other psychological problems. Money really just makes you more of who you really are. It expands you. And a lot of people who have money become more fearful. They could be afraid to lose it. But money does give you some certainty and security. It can help you meet some of your basic needs like shelter and food. And it's true that you can use money to buy experiences. And a lot of us would rather spend money on people we love. Because when we only think about ourselves, we suffer a lot more. Nature gives us clues when we help others and we are of service and we provide value for people we get. Rewarded. Nature is teaching us that we should care about each other.
thank you so much for this madz i love you
LOVING the spiritual toneeeee magical girly
"I enjoyed hearing your perspective, and it's always interesting to touch upon some of the same topics years down the road. At least, I like to reflect on my younger self."
I will be looking forward to listening in and catching up on your content.
THIS IS THE EARLIEST I'VE EVER BEEN!
I loved this episode so much! When you started talking about feeling the need to move and all the things you’re looking for, I immediately thought Florida!! We have such warm weather and it’s much calmer than LA! Also the rent is muchhh much better than LA. Anyways whatever you choose, I hope it all works out for you 💕
omg girl I am in love with your content
your so real and inspiring fr
and WERE SO SIMILAR LIKE OML
i love it 🔥🔥🫶🏻🫶🏻🙌🏻
Self fullfilling prophecy ( labelling theory) is an extremely potent construct. We are influenced by others a lot more than what we think or would admit to.
People with faith are strong; People who doubt a lot are weak. Strong belief surpasses great actions.
Hey, my intuition tells me that I like your energy and ether. In terms of having been thought of as special needs I can relate, happened to me in grade 3 at age 7. In most schooling and jobs people have mostly thought of me as being deficient socially or mentally in some way, when in reality it was predjudice and discrimination and lack of understanding and accomodation and fairness for pseudo-disabled people.
Me only learning to train myself to write with my dominant hand (left hand) starting at age 30 till now at age 33. Also, I've only just started learning to train myself to "have guts while being left body dominant" (weird phrasing I know) around this stage of my life. But anyway, I'm making progress and I am happy! Good luck in your potential plans in LA. Not trying to throw negative info, it sounds like you've been there. Just pointing out the lack of walkability/not being a walkable city as well as the homeless there which people complain about, but you seem to be looking at that stuff, the lack of walking positively. But anyway, follow your gut, it sounds like it's "cheaper than the UK" from your perspective! Best of luck! Thanks for sharing your story!
America: Northeast Newport, resort capital of the world. LA is hollow full of people trying to climb the influencer ladder. New York is full of ppl who have already climbed the social ladder. Newport is full of people who were born at the top of the social ladder like I was. Now IDGAF abt it and am a man of the people. Its the historical getaway for the hyper elite. Still has a handful of billionaires and retired top celebs (Judge Judy, Jay Leno).
Point is I have shaped the town to be selfless when the entire essence is about who you know. Go where you want, just wanted to make my hometown more interesting. Ill be at graduate school regardless. My endgame is in that town. I think you are a wholesome person most of the time.
Your best pod yet
why am i listening to madeline podcast like i have the same problem as her but im a 18yrs old straight white men 💀
You can do whatever you want
@@ehams9527 i hope
Because it doesn't matter your gender or the colour of your skin, at the end of the day, underneath it all, we are all human. And we have a lot more in common than people like to believe.
Because you are a lovely 18yrs straight white man 🫶🏽😘
thank u so much 4 this i rly needed to hear it today
Thank you for providing entertainment while I'm revising!!!!!!! listening to you yap is somewhat educational I can't lie
I’m at work you just saved my life
u help me sm you dont understand i thank you sm I relate sm
Omg she is so pretty😮
37:15 Though you say you’re not an LA person why not try Santa Barbara and if not Ventura County? Both counties are just outside of LA and have more of a suburban like feel while still being a big city and luckily if you miss LA it’s quite literally 20-30 minutes down the freeway.
Usually because of this not only are things less packed but rent is also less expensive since you’re not in the deep city. Plus there are TONS of small towns in the area alike Santa Paula, Camarillo, Ojai, and Oxnard that have more of an overall communal feeling and hopefully not too much culture shock coming from countryside Britain especially if your planing on moving.
When I say we’re the same person I MEAN IT I swear I’m in university I’m studying English and just started linguistics and I just finished season two of killing eve and ofc I’m obsessed w villanelle not mentioning the shyness and adhd behaviors that I have since I was a kid and so many things I notice while watching ur episodes ,a lot of coincidences and I genuinely don’t know why?
Finding the 'money's hidden magic' ebook should be your top priority, even if it's the last thing you do in life
Girl ypur skin is GLOWINGGGGGGG
Really don’t worry don’t even think about it …. you’re a star 🌟
i needed to hear this rn
loveddd this episode def my fav
15 seconds in but the how to be hot and confident video was my first one i saw of yours and it changed my life honestly and i’ve avidly watched everything of yours ever since. so this is full circle for me 🥲💜
LMAOO I feel like we all went through the phase of villanelle obsession I love jodie comer
I'm was thinking the same way about "manifestion", like in the way that you really can influence what you experience and who you can become in life a few years ago too. I for example, and this might seem shallow, always wanted to have scx with beautiful girls I found attractive but was always very insecure. Then one day I just got this realization that I can just be who I want and come off as attractive if I want while I was standing at a very crowded bus stop in the city and I just let that vibe out and smiled and had a very open body language and also realized that I didn't care about those other "NPC's" that were just standing by, even if that sounds a bit mean (but I was always coming from that fear of judgement, thats why). And then there was this beautiful asian girl who noticed me right away when I was like that and she directly looked at me and bit her lip in that you know what way. Then I got scared because what I believed actually worked and I thought I was crazy and thats something I "can't" go further for whatever reason. I had multiple instances where I did it and then shied away instead of actually going through. I'm 27 now and while you talk about gaining a lot of self confidence when you just became 20, this makes me feel like it's already getting too late for me. I don't know. Maybe its also because I havent had a feeling of real success or fun in over 5 years too. Its just so sad that what you achieved feels like a dream to me even though I had so many chances to manifest it too. I know its a lot of self pity but I just dont get how I am still supposed to live a life where I can feel as great as you and I know that feeling. I dont even really have friends who really are on the same wavelength so maybe thats why too. It gives me a lot of hope that there are actually girls out there who are crazy, no offense, just like me and are very pretty, so I hope I'll just go for it if I see the chance next time.
you are right mady
Haha, thanks for being candid and authentic. This episode will help the people it needs to
THIS IS THE EARLIEST EVER BEEN WHAT THE HECK
Same and I'm still in school😂
hope you get to keep that kind of flow in you and keep yourself healthy madz
This episode is everything you are such an intelligent bae
Cool stuff, it’s interesting how a mind can influence the rest of the body and things outside it. Have a good week!
Madeline is love you.❤❤❤ ever thought of Australia its warm,palm trees vibes nice people and its probably safer in Australia than in America
La and Australia are very different vibes. You seem so happy in La so i think La is probably the best option.😊😊
3:00 you are talking about an islamic phenomenon called taqwa, interesting to hear this from a non-muslim.
It’s interesting but it doesn’t surprise me since Muslims are human just like the rest of all of us, just that they follow a different religion but it all comes down to that at the core of what binds us all no matter what religion you’re from or place everybody is human and religion can be perfect or not but we are not since we’re human.
I was gonna say the same it’s called “خيره”
travel!! obviously only determines on how expensive it would be but if u think ur financially stable for it travelling around Europe and other places like the US would be so fun to watch icl and would help u with your issue about wanting to move and where :)
omg I love Killing Eve and there's so much to love about Villanelle
This was enlightening
Great insights:) cya out there sometime
Girly, get the HELL out of this UK! So I can live vicariously through you until I can get the hell out myself! 😭 I also don’t love the idea of LA, but it has a unique appeal that other places don’t. It’s similar enough to home, with English being the primary language and the culture being comparable, but the weather is better and there’s more opportunity. If you hate it, you’re never stuck. Try it out! Might be the best thing you ever do!
😮 12:32 love all of this. Can hard relate. Love the vid. Liked
This is powerful... the first part...