Are there Social Media Rules for Relationships?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ธ.ค. 2024
- Psychiatrist and relationship expert Dr. Ish Major breaks down some relationship rules when it comes to social media, having a “work wife” or “work husband” and watching adult films.
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Social media definitely does cause conflict in relationships and marriages
Social media ruins relationships and marriages.
All the time people don’t know how to live an private life
i agree
Worda my soul 💯💯
I disagree. I broke up with my boyfriend because he was vulgar on social media and flirting with others. He broke all the borders. It's disgusting.
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Exactly! Happens more than you think
I feel it it sucks wen u have ppl hitting u up but wen u dnt state that ur committed and not interested i think its u whoms at fault
💯 There are some who do this.. Never claim them as your bf 😉
I just broke up with mine too. Couldnt give up the 1000+ internet half naked girls for me. The one hes SUPPOSE to be in a relTionship with...💔
If your partner is taking photos and posting shit that is obviously validation seeking outside your partnership then they DO NOT respect you. If your partner is complaining about you & shaming you on social media they DO NOT respect you. It does not inherently have anything to do with lack of trust on anyone’s part
true 100%
Amen!!! Can't stand an attention wh0re
Right mines taking pics doggy style n I asked her to delete it she cried call me controlling and a loser I had to leave her
I also dislike the term "work wife", it's diminishes the sanctity of "wife"
Then they bring the work wife home...thats where the real action happens n the demon comes out. Then you are caught up 360 deal with a FBI agent/ Amateur porn star/ down low lesbian/ and stinky kitty. Sounds like a bad deal.
It's not ok to watch porn, it's addictive 😕. This guy knows nothing. Flirting with any coworkers is wrong. You're married act like it. You can have a friendship without flirting.
"Act"?
@@YhelloWish rolling my eyes
He’s projecting
The doctor? He knows nothing? lol
Act like you're married meaning actions should reflect someone who is committed and doesn't want to boink everything that walks or make you insecure...
this guy is so uninformed, he doesnt even know the damage that porn does to the relationship and to self esteem, he is probably defending men like him, wants to keep secrets in commited relationships and make his partner like she/he is not enough by watching porn.
Ikr poor guy
NADINE BELFRAGE watching porn is completely normal both male and female watch porn if you feel some type of way it’s your insecurities speaking fr
THANK YOU
@@janae205 bro do it’s normal to watch two or more people having sex ? That’s kinda weird
completely agree, think of what pornography stands for, women allowing men to use their bodies for $$$ and vice versa, exposing your body to the world for men/women to get sexually excited, when it should be for your husband/wife, where is the dignity, self respect, value our worth as human beings, the human race is distinguished from animals for a reason & purpose, those who engage in pornography & watch it, it's a sin & risk demonic infestation, vexation, possession, temptation, there is no love in pornography, it's instant sexual selfish gratification, not to mention rapists & serial killers watch it, studies have been shown
You cannot have a work wife or work husband/ vice versa. Period. If you get along with a person at work that's the opposite sex - That is your coworker. Nothing else. Make a mistake -and they'll snitch you to the boss. Then you'll understand who your real husband/wife 'really' is.
A person "can" have whatever they fucking want lol. This is a load of shite, there's people out there that have been dating their work friends and are currently married. You're just projecting.
@@Denzz2 The only way for you to still be dating your work friends while you are MARRIED. Is when you have NO MORALS. Why are you married if you are still dating??? Are you a child who still doesn't know what marriage is or still can't make a permanent decision of what you want. The only people who still date other people while they are married are CHILDREN who haven't mentally developed yet. It's people like you who think the idea of 'still dating' other people while married - are the ones poisoning the entire community with your spirit of PERVERSION. - You guys are the type to marry only to destroy the life of another person. You don't know what the word marriage is. Stop spreading your nonsense here online talking about how it's ok to date your coworkers while you're married. (dating is not a friendship action). - Grow up and STOP poisoning the world with your childish meaning of marriage. No one cares about your spirit of Perversion.
I have several work wives... never snitching
My bf just posted a very inappropriate sexual caption with a pic of himself on insta. I told him I thought the caption was inappropriate and disrespectful towards me and he told me I'm childish and insecure and negative. He said nobody he follows knows me and its very minor. He didn't see where I was coming from and said he won't delete/edit the caption....I walked due to the fact he was not willing to consider my feelings.whats everyone's take on this?
You did the right thing
if the post is disrespectful, sexually inappropriate, etc., he's disregarding your thoughts, feelings & the question you have to ask is: what's more important the post or how your feel, think & your relationship, he needs to make a choice, true love is sacrifice & always thinking of what's best for their person
I'm having a similar situation I don't post explicit pics but I have posted "questionable" posts according to my bf in the past. I recently learned he wants me to send him pics before posting and I thought it was because he wanted to see them before anyone else but turns out he said he wants to "approve or deny" them for posting. It honestly doesn't sit right with me because I feel like it's regulating my expression but I want to respect him at the same time is there something I'm missing from his side? Cause as a woman and feminist I just find it degrading
@@aaliyah2560 I don’t agree with the approve/deny consent he’s trying to introduce I believe it’s controlling. But you yourself as a woman know what crossing a line even if it blurred lol, so you really have to be mindful. We know what we think and feel and the subliminal messages that are sent through behaviors action pic etc. So the real question is when you post what kind of attention are you looking for and what potential interactions can they start and is that worth your relationship?
@@Clicka85 thank you for saying this. I'm facing this with my new girlfriend. I'm really not intending on controlling her, but you cannot be posting provocative images on social media as if you're still a single woman. I'm not a jealous gent, I'm high value and of high reputation, and I need a high Calibre woman by my side
Wrong advice, this doctor wrong, total transparency, respect, love,loyalty
Communication is the best thing in communication
They are not but also the most part is normally communication
anyone who watches pornography needs serious psychological counselling, they're brainwashed
When does it start
When you come to social media or in the workplace boundaries is a must in your relationship. No flirting no playing no communicating with X is an old flings leave it alone.
Rule of thumb delete ur social media and start a new account with family and close friends only. If u have issues after that u doing the wrong thing online and this is if ur relationship gets serious plus u can always reactivate ur account if things go south and u end up single again
I disagree with not exchanging social media because I caught my ex asking women on dates online and our counselor suggested exchanging social media as a way for him to make amends and it was an excellent idea.
Social media destroys relationships , facts !
Lol…laughed when it went dead silent in the audience when the psychiatrist and relationship expert said it was a “horrible idea” to share passwords.
Totally disagree, boundaries are necessary for a healthy relationship, but flirting and even emojis, it's questionable
Walls or windows. No relationship happens between walls. Dopey ass show and advice
Natty Z can you please elaborate brother
What about my woman says she don't flirt but men flirt with her on FB,/ instagram. She says it stopped but she's still too friendly
If they are commenting and she does not reply then that’s on the guys. Now if she replies then that’s a problem
I have no problem with guys flirting because I give out vibes that don't encourage it. She should block anyone who crosses boundaries - out of respect for you.
@@honeybunch6473 Respect to our relationship yes. What I mean is when guy's are telling her how beautiful and gorgeous she is, some say they want to meet her, marry her, that her eyes are so deep, say they think they're falling in love with her, want to write a song about her, leave her voice clips saying "Hey beautiful where you been, Dog emojis with big hearts beating out of their chest and she would like their posts, and dig this.. she would send me screenshots of some of these early in our relationship few years ago. Some of these guys she still has them on her friends list on FB! Her friends list is blocked I can't see them, and she won't show me when we're together. She lives in Berlin I'm in Michigan/US. LDR I'm 56 she's 60!!! So this was bad five years ago. 2016-2018 then it calmed down when she finally told them I was real jealous and to respect her wishes and then they "allegedly completely stopped. She's not active on FB no more, working too much but she's got a " Instagram she don't post nothing on but I know she gets stuff from people that post. So am I a controlling man or is she not respecting me? She said no man tells me what to do with my friends on social media my X husband tried that. He was a real control freak and cruel to her ok, but I'm a different man, I want to be respected and treated with love not like a child and her being CONDESCENDING
If u have nothing to hide should never be an issue . Everyone should be as open as possible. You should pick your person and only your person. It's not rocket science.
Porn is a deal breaker its disgusting, disrespectful, destructive and your littterly telling your significant other they are not enough. You want cake on the side ..
What if your significant other blocks you on social media?
Kimberley Ferreira that’s a big red flag
Its good for your own health
I’m going through this issue right now and I’m lost about how to handle it. Me and my partner was connected on the books but once I seen inappropriate comments and dms, I expressed how I felt. Before me his page was live and mostly women always commented but once we changes status...his page became as dry as the Sahara desert. We talked about how it makes me feel but all he got out of what all I said was that I have more things to worry bout then social media. He said with the worrying I’m doing, he feels that I’m becoming controlling, worrying to much, and the ppl that he’s connected to he’ll never gonna see. Mind you, he’s a trucker driver, who’s on the road sometimes weeks at a time but I’m there patiently waiting for his return. After our discussion about how I felt tho, he said he needed space, then went out his way to disown da relationship to blocking me to taking down our posts and pictures. A week later, we have made up but when ever I bring up the books, he clams up and goes in defense mode. My heart hurts but I love this man, just need to know if I’m kinda overthinking things or should I continue feeling some type of way?
lol that is not your significant other babes
@@brookburgess6104 love someone else who deserves you
This guy just gave bad advice.
What is it when you’re in a long distance relationship with an AIRMEN, she claims she doesn’t has any social media accounts, then later find out she has more than 23 different social media accounts with (one of them is with unknown name & another one with another man’s name) her name spelled & pronounced different.
She for da streets ( in my Future voice)
Awful video. “If you trust your partner don’t ask for a password” well I guess they forgot about you can trust a person who’s very good at lying.
Yeah because you checking on him could never be BECAUSE HE IS TELLING A WOMAN HE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH HER...No no the problem is because you are insecure and thats the problem.....like WTF
Insecure when I see my girlfriend with facinations with a guy on FB. Emotional cheating is real, if men flirt on FB/instagram and she talks to them that's cheating
Psychiatrists prescribe, they don’t do therapy!!! Here’s the thing, it all depends on the history of the couples, and sometimes sharing passwords can help couples rebuild trust
Facts
I agree
I know right
Lost 3 of my relationships due to porn use. A screen is not real, your partner is. That is time & energy you could use together instead. Do not recommend.
Maybe you gotta work on your skills
My ex was communicating with a married man / coworker on fb and sent selphies - broke it up
Question: my girl post her self every once and a while also on tik tok is it bad should I say sum
I got a question is it okay for ur gd to have her exs pics on social media? Really need answer
I don't like it or use it to make relationships. It is not safe at all. I use it for work only. It is the worst type of communication between people especially for single mothers.
Never cheated or did anything my new wife(who was cheated on by her previous husband and her dad with MS killed himself when she was 14) I liked I picture of my friend from a class in high school in a bikini. I admitted yes she looked good but she was my old friend who was my partner in class all year. We were friends! After that we never communicated.
I was berated and screamed at as a cheater although that’s just not the damn truth! I just scrolled, MINDLESSLY liked her pic because I don’t even THINK ABOUT IT, then keep going on with my life. I know I have no intentions with this person so why should I care?
Everyone’s situations are different and I know who I am. It’s infuriating to be condemned as a cheater for this BUT I REMAIN CALM AND LISTEN TO HER FEELINGS.
I love my wife so I will not like any pictures of attractive old acquaintances in the future.
At the same time, I am not a person who responds well to situations like this. We love each other because we can be ourselves and she is my friend!
I am a calm patient man who listens but it’s rediculous to think I’m a cheater for liking a fucking picture. I am villainized for even attempting to explain such a mindless thing that my brain didn’t even think about !
Now she has this false image painted of me that she holds against me . This is a hard time for us, I understand how I made her feel I guess, but now she treats me differently.
Why did you just marry me, and all the sudden think I’m a cheater? You know who I am. We have deep conversations every night about anything, and we share our honest feelings about them! Politics, news, gossip, feelings, our personal lives, whatever!
But why does she have this thought in her head, and won’t listen to me???
Idk it’s crazy….
“You can’t change the past or predict the outcome of the future, but you can break the present”
Hope she can forgive me soon. I’m sick of this “doghouse”
I miss my wife
Was it truly only one picture??? My ex was a constant liker lol of what I'd consider body pics... boobs butts bikinis strippers etc... once I visually seen what he was emoji-ing and commented on I didn't look at him the same ...although he claimed no cheating no inbox- ing for me it was ok he acts like a nice good dude around me but soon as he logs in he's super inappropriate flirty ass horn dog...not saying you're these things but I might can give you insight on how your wife feels if you did that several times
I disappear with everything this guy said. He sounds Like he doesn’t know what’s going on in the world. It’s much to soft did the door open for everything to start. call Work Wife, come on man!
How about this. Forget trust and partnership Why do you need an app for any type of fulfilment or satisfaction. Your life must be boring.
The real question is how should I know I trust them
Dr. i is a certified city boy 🫡😈
how did i not agree with anything he said?
Looks like Steve Harvey in his younger days
Here are the rules - get off it
My boyfriend was friends with the chick that took his virginity. It really made me mad.
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What if anyone follows is a female and your girlfriend tries to remove every female no matter who it is?
Well why not? If you have an issue with that, then you shouldn't be in a serious committed relationship... Why does it bother you, do they mean something? Have a secret agenda??? 🤔😉
Let people do what they want to do to see what they rather do. If you are going to unload in everybody...you will do it with or without her policing. People will cheat on the person they claim to love and do the most disgusting shit ever when they do it. Just because they can. She still not gonna leave even after all that foot work and contracting the germs. All she will do is get you back...and make sure it hurts you real good. Maybe have your best friend or brother as the perfect get back and let them leave their evidence behind in her walls. This is what modern gf/bf has come to. Swapping germs.
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Absolutely the wrong advice, nonsense bollocks, is all about respect
My partner and I are in a committed relationship, we've been following each other on Instagram, messaging and video chatting on there for a year. And now I noticed my partner unfollowed me on instagram, while we still talk to each other on there. I'm so confused and I want to know why.
Ask her
Is disrespectful to post his ex on facebook
Yeah....okay 😅
I wouldn't exchange passwords unless we were married
I will my life he should!
Lol agree with most except the work wife . Thats a recipe for a an affair how do yall not see this 😂
Porn is poison.
Relationships are traps. Just have friends.
ZeroDebtInvestments they really are worst decision I’ve ever made
@@gregw3469 lol
When I get hitched I own his social media lol 😂 jk jk jk
these are some old rules...
What??? Just blah blah .... married people should not even be on sovial media. And if u need it for business then get a professional to do it for u. No need to spend hrs a day watching bullshit reels and naked ig models twirk
💯 Only unsuccesful people do that.. They lack focus and discipline
Piak
I have been seeing your comments so many times in different places for the last few years across youtube 😂❤
This is wrong advice… who is his wife or work wife.. Hate to be her
Terrible.
I think. Face. Book. An. Messenger. Hurts. A relationship. Because. The. Guys on messenger an the woman trys to. Tex or call. For. A long. Time. Then blows. Up. His phone. Then when the. Woman asked. Why he did not answer the phone when he. Called her on messenger well. The. Guy. Won't. Say. So I think. The man should give the. Woman his. Phone. Number. An. The. Heck. With. Messenger
Are you stroking out? Are you okay?
What terrible advice.
Smart
Hold the phone. My wife reconnected with some clown she was with in the 90s on Social Media.
She said basically he was a bum but the sex was great. Lived with her. She was a single Mom. She finally told him to get out. BUT!!!! Continued to have random sex hook ups for months after they broke up.
2023. They reconnected on social media. Started messengering each other. Then exchanged numbers. Then started calling each other.
She said they are just catching up, yet she is running around all starry eyed.
What do y'all think about your gf posting on social media but doesn't open text
Wrong wrong wrong ... God
Stop worrying lady’s men are meant to f lives up 😂 just except it
If you have a social media account and You don't have to add your partner It's your account You do what you want And if she don't like it block her If I have a snapshat And I don't want to add my wife I don't have to cause it's mine
Dr. ish gave horrible advice 😂
Horrible advice
Needed this
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