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  • Megyn Kelly TODAY welcomes psychologist Ramani Durvasula and relationship expert Logan Levkoff for a discussion of how to spot cheating in a relationship. They also discuss “microcheating,” which Levkoff says is “in the eye of the beholder.”
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    @sandrakem45 ปีที่แล้ว +532

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      @daniellasanchez7521 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @sandrakem45 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @daniellasanchez7521 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @kcjd10
    @kcjd10 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1463

    Dr. Ramani Durvasula is one of my favorite people. I've been watching other interviews with her and she's so warm and explains things in a way that is clear and very informative and interesting. I just love her.

    • @levedia
      @levedia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      just dont be brainwashed about taking the phone in the bathroom. I surf the net for my number 2. lol

    • @dr.saugetconfidential5894
      @dr.saugetconfidential5894 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MissRafferty yes

    • @kcjd10
      @kcjd10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nick N So many people do. 😂 True story, though... my ex-husband used to take his phone in there, too. I had already found proof a few times that he couldn't be trusted and was at least trying to cheat, if he hadn't already cheated. We were at family's house once and had a long drive back, so we were taking turns using the bathroom one after another, quickly, so we could get on the road. I went in after him and he left his phone in there, still on and unlocked, with a dating site open. He was a member of that site and had been on there looking. So while I'm well aware that people take their phones in while going to the bathroom just for entertainment, it's definitely not always innocent. In my case, though, there were a LOT of other suspicious things. If the only thing someone does is take their phone in the bathroom, I wouldn't worry about it. :)

    • @jaclynh9343
      @jaclynh9343 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too... she is incredible.. so insightful and intellegent...

    • @angelb9812
      @angelb9812 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same here!

  • @VanderpumpRHOB
    @VanderpumpRHOB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Micro cheating was so minimized when I addressed it and how deceptive it is. If you have to hide, or delete anything, it shouldn’t be there. If it hurts your spouse, it’s wrong. It’s disrespectful. It’s not just the attention to someone else, it’s the act of disloyalty even small. I use to think I was enough, found out he has been shady the entire relationship.

    • @a.m.pietroschek1972
      @a.m.pietroschek1972 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dunno, if that helps: Immature males tend to excuse their disloyalty & lack of commitment by their need to be free (indomitable urge myth). A toxic attitude, as blaming the woman is even part of it, when the woman did literally nothing wrong at all.

    • @sugma5249
      @sugma5249 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      REALL REALL REALL IT WAS SWEPT UNDER THE RUG!!!

  • @honorsmeme
    @honorsmeme 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2781

    The blonde lady had no insight, the dark haired lady really knows her stuff. If you want a superficial consultation go to the blonde, if you want a in depth consultation go to the dark haired lady.

    • @delightful5165
      @delightful5165 6 ปีที่แล้ว +235

      That's what years of education looks like

    • @rose4490
      @rose4490 6 ปีที่แล้ว +232

      Myshell Johnson the stuff the blonde relationship and sexuality expert says sounds wishy washy to me, I prefer the brunette one, because she's a clinical psychologist.

    • @pollabolla
      @pollabolla 6 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      I was thinking the EXACT same thing!

    • @Fairyviewroad
      @Fairyviewroad 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Myshell Johnson - I thought the same thing.

    • @miryreina925
      @miryreina925 6 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Myshell Johnson yes! Theb"dark haired lady " is an expert on narcissism, psychopathy etc!

  • @genxmum5569
    @genxmum5569 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1595

    If they cheated with you, they will cheat on you.

    • @michelleburkes2535
      @michelleburkes2535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      True!!!!!

    • @randomjan33
      @randomjan33 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Men with no kids no marriage vasectomy leaves me thinking about that man

    • @7Mushrooms7
      @7Mushrooms7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Yes, how you get them is how you lose them.

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      @almajones9447 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      *PERIOD*

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      @iniubongnkanga9390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

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  • @nrz5017
    @nrz5017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    Cheating is one of the worst things you can do in a relationship. I cannot imagine myself ever cheating on my partner.

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    • @SaystheTruth3
      @SaystheTruth3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Unfortunately it's more common than you know...

    • @MikeThaPhilosopher
      @MikeThaPhilosopher ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You’re one of the few great people on this planet. The thought of being cheated on literally makes my stomach turn

  • @tatan4939
    @tatan4939 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1195

    ‘ if somebody is charming when you first date them, then dont date them’ 😂 true! Now im thankful my boyfriend is really akward and weird on our first date 😂😂😂

    • @kareenafahim5673
      @kareenafahim5673 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Tine Joaquin true cause they use thier fake side

    • @tatan4939
      @tatan4939 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The Dragon blah blah. Nothing pleases you honey. 😅

    • @metadelic6338
      @metadelic6338 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      True, but that could also apply to a person who appears to me mean, happy, angry, akward, weird, rich, poor, and so on. People generally show you what they want you to see in them,... not who they truly are. That true self can take a while to become apparent.

    • @dxxl-
      @dxxl- 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Look up covert narcissists...
      Wolves in sheep's clothing.
      It goes both ways, you just need to know the signs of manipulation, the very textbook stages of narcs... the lovebombing can be quiet and manipulative its not always just charming.

    • @angelablackthorne3026
      @angelablackthorne3026 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Narcissists try to seem normal and "extra normal". Whatever you see, it's not their real self, it's whatever they think you want them to be. Whatever they gather will gain your sympathy and trust. I agree with the guy who said that not all charming people are narcissists. If you run away from everyone with any charm you'll end up married to an asshat! The key is to get to know someone before you allow yourself to get deeply emotionally involved and always have an escape hatch. Never put yourself in a position of dependency on someone you barely know. If you're already flying to Rio with someone you just met, and you don't know anyone else who knows them, you're probably taking a miscalculated risk. But I see people do that stuff all the time. They practically bring a U-haul to the second date and then they wonder how they didn't see that something was wrong. lol There wasn't time! Meet their friends! Meet their family! Then fly to Rio...

  • @patrickpepin8577
    @patrickpepin8577 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1754

    Finally narcissism is being discussed in the mainstream media.

    • @ChristopherShreeve
      @ChristopherShreeve 6 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      I wish our society cared as much about good people as it does about successful people.

    • @romant142
      @romant142 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Christopher Hendricks exactly

    • @yeetspageet5679
      @yeetspageet5679 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Christopher Hendricks the issue here is being good =/= being successful and the stronger instinct between self preservation and empathy for others will be a large factor in what you choose.

    • @Gloria_All_Day
      @Gloria_All_Day 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      With the leader of our country being one , its going to be discussed a lot.

    • @honorsmeme
      @honorsmeme 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't know your religion but it's also mentioned in the Bible 2 Timothy 3

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  • @pauladsilva9374
    @pauladsilva9374 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1537

    Your intuition is your strongest guide.

    • @amandabass04
      @amandabass04 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I strongly agree!

    • @intellips
      @intellips 6 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Not if you have a mental disorder

    • @daviddesouza6154
      @daviddesouza6154 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Hernan Diaz then you aren’t in touch with it. But I agree mental disorders can disconnect you from it sadly :(

    • @nicholecarr7333
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      Absolutely right!

    • @chadbasedwick8517
      @chadbasedwick8517 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My intuition tells me this is mostly nonsense. I know that dr. Whoever that is. Is not the expert that she is trying to portray. Im thinking her true talent is using charm to gain confidence. Before anyone gets butthurt over that statement. I would challenge them to go research some of these topics that she rants about(or even just one should be sufficient). Like a book published by someone who is recognized by their peers in that field. Fortunately there are many resources. It won't take long for you to realize that her understanding of that particular subject is pretty thin at best. I watched her talk about phsycopaths, sociopaths, and how to tell the difference. She's barely got cliff notes, thats about it. She would keep referring to the "layman" , and what they don't understand. In some cases she seemed to just make it up on the fly. Its fascinating how her charisma seems resonate with so many people. My gut reaction to her was recoil. I've seen her in several videos now. 90 percent of the comments are praise, admiration, even love. People seem to instantly trust her and everything that rolls off her tongue. Seriously try vetting her. It may even give you a whole new perspective on social disorders, and what it's like when people who most likely have them, hide in plain sight as experts in diagnosing them. Yeah sorry, but she's scary. Maybe its harmless and she's not ripping anyone off. They just want some therapy, someone they trust, someone who makes you good or whatever. That's cool, just make sure that's really what they are. Its annoying because the genuine article is out there ,and what they have to say is way more interesting.

  • @glorybelmaymo7284
    @glorybelmaymo7284 6 ปีที่แล้ว +807

    The blond lady totally envies the psychologist

    • @MrBrooklyn06
      @MrBrooklyn06 6 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      Felt like she was trying to go against everything the Dr said, was quite annoying coz she had nothing worthwhile to say.

    • @acharich
      @acharich 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💀💀💀

    • @evilqueen09
      @evilqueen09 6 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I know the dark haired lady has her doctorate degree in psychology and does research in psychology, what does the other one do?

    • @williamwallace2278
      @williamwallace2278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      One is qualified! She isn't the one! The middle eastern or Latina lady is politely suffering inside & tolerating these pair of couch candy

    • @sarahsmith9934
      @sarahsmith9934 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      William Wallace I think she’s Indian

  • @toxicstatesofamerica1277
    @toxicstatesofamerica1277 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1149

    Often the cheater is very possessive and highly jealous as well.

    • @heyhuda56
      @heyhuda56 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Toxic States Of America yes!!!

    • @laatorres8325
      @laatorres8325 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      So TRUE

    • @rob20ist
      @rob20ist 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That’s why in relationships couples should give three our two days too themselves but they usually don’t do that.

    • @halak6033
      @halak6033 6 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      I'm naturally possessive and jealous, but I'm not a cheater. It's actually the opposite. I always seem to get guys who don't like me as much as I like them.

    • @laatorres8325
      @laatorres8325 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Hala K I wonder why

  • @TexasCat99
    @TexasCat99 6 ปีที่แล้ว +598

    When your partner is constantly cheating... they will never stop. They will cry, beg and promise they will change. But they will never stop cheating, NEVER EVER stop cheating and breaking your heart.

    • @joshuawalker5249
      @joshuawalker5249 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      TexasCat99 ever heard of an open relationship?

    • @TexasCat99
      @TexasCat99 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Emmanuel Walker Even in an open relationship, if a partner is lying and cheating behind the other person's back, it's still cheating.

    • @TexasCat99
      @TexasCat99 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Emmanuel Walker non-consenting open relationship is also cheating. and that is very abusive to the Betrayed person. It's very disgusting and horrible thing to do to another person, especially one that you are supposed to be in love with or married to .

    • @margaretcaldarone3545
      @margaretcaldarone3545 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      TexasCat99 If they admit it, some never never will

    • @geferris83
      @geferris83 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i agree 100 percent

  • @mathateress
    @mathateress ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Nothing more lonely than being in the wrong relationship, you can't believe what i found out from my ex Husband's phone because of his recent inconsistency at home, i reached out to Almods through a friend at work and he gained me access into my man's phone socia media activies, he was shocked by the evidence i got from his phone when i confronted him, but i'm grateful to Almods for saving me from such deceit and liar

  • @MikeThaPhilosopher
    @MikeThaPhilosopher 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Ways to catch a cheater:
    - Ask them to see their phone randomly.. if they hesitate or look nervous.. there is something that they’re trying to hide
    - Wait until they’re sleep and take their phone and go through every single app and text thread
    - If you suspect they’re cheating or talking to someone while you’re not around.. if you have a spare phone.. you should mirror their phone onto another

  • @aiken510
    @aiken510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    When the blonde lady said "there are no signs" and Dr. Durvasula gave a TON of signs. LOL!

  • @talksick508
    @talksick508 6 ปีที่แล้ว +697

    Too many ppl jumping into relationships when they shouldn’t be

    • @userk2876
      @userk2876 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      This is so true! Take your time, don't rush anything, there is no need to!

    • @SAM-MME
      @SAM-MME 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      People are afraid to be alone so they just jump into a relationship.

    • @user-sp8eb6iz7f
      @user-sp8eb6iz7f 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Monogamy: The big Lie.

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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    • @peterbuilttough3406
      @peterbuilttough3406 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Guilty as charged...but I have learned a lot

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    • @breaks3085
      @breaks3085 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly sweetness

  • @charlotteboyett-napper4780
    @charlotteboyett-napper4780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I dated a man with a sociopathic personality. Was the most painful experience of my life.

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      @jackpetersen7545 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @toneman335
    @toneman335 6 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    The blonde guest is clueless about toxic people like a Narcissists.

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    • @averythebutterfly
      @averythebutterfly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can a narcissist be someone who comes from a family Who is spoil and gets what they wants

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    • @Charmedbykhy
      @Charmedbykhy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Sound of Jesus Well in Human Sexuality class (level 300) 55% men 35% woman admit to cheating and 70% of men and 50% said they would cheat but won't because they fear being caught.

    • @andrewtram3256
      @andrewtram3256 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      23% and 19% of billions of people is how much? sounds like a lot to me...

    • @leojboby
      @leojboby 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @siobhan i like the glass half full view of it.

    • @dreday77764
      @dreday77764 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That’s why iv been single since 2007 and loving it. Over those years I have several affairs with married women, fooled around with men’s girlfriends and I can honestly says it’s an epidemic that people just don’t realise.. stay single people

    • @TheKiller6378
      @TheKiller6378 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They cheated on this too.

  • @itsaaronlolz
    @itsaaronlolz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    if he has a pulse he’s a cheater 😂

  • @LemansSunset350
    @LemansSunset350 6 ปีที่แล้ว +556

    Society has lost its moral compass

    • @rose4490
      @rose4490 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      LemansSunset350 Amen to that!

    • @yeetspageet5679
      @yeetspageet5679 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      People need to think more for themselves. If they have any kind of heart then a little thinking will show you what's right and wrong with your current morals.

    • @Mmmmkaaay
      @Mmmmkaaay 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Pretty sure cheating has always been happening. This is NOT a modern phenomenon. Didn't you read "The Scarlet Letter"? Or watch "Madmen". Every decade for centuries.

    • @NeverDoubtTheWorm
      @NeverDoubtTheWorm 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Preach

    • @carmelcapicorn8452
      @carmelcapicorn8452 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @MelissaMisinco
    @MelissaMisinco 6 ปีที่แล้ว +483

    I dated a sociopath by the definition of this psychologist. Thinking back I saw the red flags but when I tried to end things he changed completely and said what I wanted to hear and did what I wanted from a lover, but in the end it always ends in deceit/ cheating with these types of people.

    • @MelissaMisinco
      @MelissaMisinco 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Brian Waller Women are not stupid but when you are young and inexperienced in relationships you like to believe what you want to believe. It’s very common for people to make mistakes in relationships even when we have strong intuition. A lot of the time we ignore red flags yes, but it comes with newness of it all. These guys after all try to act like “Prince Charming” “ The good guy” “The broken guy” they have different masks. They can be handsome or they can be fat and unattractive doesn’t matter.

    • @dimitri_zhang
      @dimitri_zhang 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Valentina Worldwide *woosh*
      That went right over your head.

    • @deekayvixen
      @deekayvixen 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I dated a psychopath. The charm and charisma were off the chart when we met. The relationship turned toxic very quickly.

    • @deniseslack55
      @deniseslack55 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So true that it will always end the same

    • @beth9603
      @beth9603 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Melissa Misinco YES - basically me too. Someone was dating this girl for 7 years but then asked me out?? And told a lot of lies, strung us two both along and basically told me what I wanted to hear

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    • @SaystheTruth3
      @SaystheTruth3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @EvieMatavelli
    @EvieMatavelli 6 ปีที่แล้ว +440

    Micro-cheating!? Ohhh God! I can’t be colder to people. I already feel so disconnected and depressed in this superficial society.

    • @PrairieDawnC
      @PrairieDawnC 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Madame Evie if your partner or their partner doesn't mind then your warmth is not wrong

    • @honorsmeme
      @honorsmeme 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Just remember that YOU choose your surroundings. If you want deeper relationships find them. You don't have to stay in a place that makes you depressed. You do have a choice

    • @empress_highpriestess3307
      @empress_highpriestess3307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Many people stay in lifeless or passionless marriages..out of fear..laziness or finances..period

    • @tinad8561
      @tinad8561 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Madame Evie There’s no new information about cheating; the way you get on a talk show is by coining a term and writing a book. (You’ll notice that the two “signs” of cheating are 1) change and 2) cellphone security.) This is all to disguise an absence of content.

    • @jamaton
      @jamaton 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Micro cheating is when you make love to a guy with a micropenis

  • @talksick508
    @talksick508 6 ปีที่แล้ว +577

    Phone face down
    Taking it wherever
    Gut never lies

    • @MakeupTiffany
      @MakeupTiffany 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Truth! Thank you!!

    • @poojajoshi1759
      @poojajoshi1759 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My friends bf does all the above with his phone he insults her a lot in public in front of others he sometimes acts very controlling especially about money . He has no stable career no job he hates working he does not like socialising much he tells my friend that he will socially commit at the right time he is separated from his family he did cheat on my friend but when that girl left him he came back to her begging how would you describe this man and his future? Can he be a good family man

    • @dxxl-
      @dxxl- 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yet... being a victim of narcissist abuse...
      I fear every little thing that pops up on my phone that might anger my narcissist so I often do these things to avoid those random messages on facebook from guys I dont know and dont care to know etc...
      So this isn't true necessarily always.
      Victims that are often shamed and fear those moments can do these things and look like the bag guy.

    • @insomthegreat
      @insomthegreat 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Breathing

    • @nina-bh4nx
      @nina-bh4nx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      They can also turn their phone off around you

  • @Bokuzen035
    @Bokuzen035 6 ปีที่แล้ว +723

    microcheating?? You mean flirting? Anyone calling themselves a relationship expert does so because they have no education of relevance. Ramani Durvasula Knew what she was talking about. Logan Levkoff sounded like she was just repeating stuff she has heard, but has no in depth knowledge on the subject

    • @Msfracture
      @Msfracture 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Flirting doesn't always cross a line.. but Microcheating does.

    • @penylayne
      @penylayne 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Msfracture I was thinking the exact same thing. Lots of ppl would flirt if their partner was standing right there, but it's what you Wouldn't do if ur partner was right there that's cheating. If ur both ok with what the others doing, then it doesn't pertain to you. ;)

    • @BowieBrooks
      @BowieBrooks 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Foyva triggered i see

    • @Saiege
      @Saiege 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Meaning more like, you're talking to your ex and flirting with or sending pics or whatever that's micro cheating. Sexting random people online, could be micro cheating or full on cheating but that depends on you

    • @ottrovgeisha2150
      @ottrovgeisha2150 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Really? Ramani knew? I guess this is the reason she confuses "empathy" with "mirroring" and goes on bragging about how she shames her clients by asking: "how would YOU feel when your spouse did exactly the same, huh?". She calls this empathy, but this is mirroring, NOT empathy, this is the OPPOSITE of empathy. She is trying to induce mirroring in patients by shaming them. Not only does she confuse this with empathy, she also brags about how she bullies her clients. Only a person with no real empathy would confuse the two after being supposedly studying psychology and having a degree and all. She rests on clishes and platitudes about people, then wants them to assume that everybody feels the same in the situation that may not at all be the same, when reversed. She does not even consider among thousands of other things the basic idea that many so-called cheaters actually would like their spouse to cheat on them too, because that would make them morally equal. Plus there are so many other things to consider, which she even does not dream, let alone analyze. Why should she though, she thinks being "mean" is sociopathy and tells others not to date charming people; therefore rewarding the very behavior she was complaining about in the first place.. Mind boggling.

  • @jaxlizarr725
    @jaxlizarr725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    Yes, a woman’s intuition is never wrong. I felt it, saw the signs (everything that was described) yet blinded myself until I was ready. Deep down you know.

    • @botdetector6323
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    • @godsproperty2167
      @godsproperty2167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Intuitive women say...I feel somethings off.
      Rationale women say...I think somethings off, but it's all the same, one just think with their feelings, but doubt the feelings because they are subtle. However intuition should be trusted.

    • @heatherp444
      @heatherp444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Best comment!

    • @someyoungguyjohnson7239
      @someyoungguyjohnson7239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's not just women, hunny, guys can spot a cheater just as easily.

  • @RodneyKimbangu
    @RodneyKimbangu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dr Ramini rocks. When she opens her mouth, I listen!

  • @deontaeb.
    @deontaeb. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Based on my experience with toxic relationships, there’s honestly no such thing is a good cheater cheaters always find a way to tell on themselves no matter how hard they try to hide it you just gotta pay close attention to their behaviors.

    • @margaretsanfran7317
      @margaretsanfran7317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mines started ACTUALLY WANTING to bring her into our conversations I was like RIGHT THATS ENOUGH GET OUT U OLD FOOL 😁

  • @littlechicken963
    @littlechicken963 6 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    My thought has always been if she cheated on him she will cheat on you .

    • @ChristopherShreeve
      @ChristopherShreeve 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True that.

    • @marylouise1992
      @marylouise1992 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Not true

    • @littlechicken963
      @littlechicken963 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Mary Louise Aguila having been hit on by married woman or even friends girlfriends I know what I am talking about .although I have felt compassion they were in bad relationships there was no way I would help someone cheat .

    • @marylouise1992
      @marylouise1992 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm not saying that you would help anyone do so. I'm saying it's wrong and not true to say "if she cheated on him she will cheat on you"

    • @ChristopherShreeve
      @ChristopherShreeve 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Why is that wrong? If she's cheating on her current partner to be with you now then she will do the same thing to you later on with someone else. It's just common sense to stay away from people who do that.

  • @kayreece96
    @kayreece96 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    1 sign of cheating ive noticed is when they start accusing you of cheating and they r getting paranoid every time you text someone/they ask who messaged you. They dont want u to cheat even tho they are and they know it's wrong so it's heavy in their mind.

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    • @anandabliss9997
      @anandabliss9997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s called projection. I learned that from my work as an assistant/med secretary to a very prestigious psychiatrist. When I did his dictation for his patient’s med rec I noticed how often this scenario played out. The narcissist always needs validation from someone other than their mate to feel powerful. But always accused their faithful partner to deflect from their wrong doing. I perceived it to be done out of guilt.

    • @julianacarwile7057
      @julianacarwile7057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm paranoid and not a cheater.

    • @def0rm0
      @def0rm0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Not always. I've had past trauma from multiple relationships where it's happened . So, when I sense the same behaviors, I get scared and question .

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  • @melisunsal98
    @melisunsal98 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My dad is in the military and I couldn't even begin to describe how upset my dad would feel if my mom was cheating on him especially since she would be his second divorce while serving(his first didn't cheat she just couldn't do the whole "moving all the time" lifestyle). I'm so sorry that happened to him and I hope he found someone better and moved on with his life(I also hope she was shamed for cheating on him by her own family) Cheating should be a crime and punish as one. It hurts so many people and end some as well. Cheaters will never understand all the harm they do. P.s thanks for the shout out M.r Whills appreciate it an it was a surprise. Much love Reliablespy

  • @MsChynadoll716
    @MsChynadoll716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +308

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  • @terah101
    @terah101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    A general rule I will always have: If they cheated on someone else with me, they will cheat on me with someone else.

  • @cherylmcleod6088
    @cherylmcleod6088 6 ปีที่แล้ว +924

    I'm on the dark hair team...Shes good

    • @jaclynh9343
      @jaclynh9343 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Me too. Dr. Ramani is brilliant...

    • @angelb9812
      @angelb9812 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      it's not a competition.

    • @MrBrooklyn06
      @MrBrooklyn06 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      donkey brains it’s not a competition but the blonde acting like it was a competition. Watch her when the Dr was talking, she looked uncomfortable and wanted to debate everything she was saying.

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      @misscandace4111 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @speakthetruth414
    @speakthetruth414 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People are too flawed to be in a relationship.

  • @mbinghamworks146
    @mbinghamworks146 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My gosh, the fact that this has 1.6 million views is frightening. We all need to do better.

  • @SK-hd1yk
    @SK-hd1yk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +670

    Apparently none of these women have names: it’s “the blonde lady” “the dark haired lady” 🤣

    • @vuyisekaluphuzi8249
      @vuyisekaluphuzi8249 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I think I did catch the doctors name being mentioned, Ramani. Dr Ramani

    • @sal2975
      @sal2975 5 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @lw7379
      @lw7379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @shooklizard9039
      @shooklizard9039 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmaoooo

    • @Sogood869
      @Sogood869 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol

  • @prettyinpinklatina
    @prettyinpinklatina 6 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    Khloe Kardashian better have watched this.

    • @Alena-xoxo
      @Alena-xoxo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ana Rodriguez lmfao🙌😅

    • @1Skorpia
      @1Skorpia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Khloe doesnt care. She smart enough to know he wont change. Look at what scott put kourtney thru. Khloe grilled her for taking him back. Thats why the whole thing is hilarious.

    • @coraelizabethconteh6457
      @coraelizabethconteh6457 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please someone send this to her!

    • @Tula_Darkwater
      @Tula_Darkwater 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well a new cheating scandal just broke out. And Khloe is blaming the woman more so than her guy.

    • @beautifulbutterfly2474
      @beautifulbutterfly2474 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ana Rodriguez 😂😂😂😂😂😂She wouldn’t understand though!

  • @selenahornsey7153
    @selenahornsey7153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

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  • @sarag1158
    @sarag1158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dr. Ramani is a national treasure.

  • @sasakiumiquema9608
    @sasakiumiquema9608 6 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    I love Ramani (the dark haired lady) she's so intelligent and could listen to her all day

    • @sonyannafrancis1223
      @sonyannafrancis1223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sasaki Umiquema she's an Indian...proud to be an Indian .

    • @leonardtaylor1904
      @leonardtaylor1904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sonyannafrancis1223 lndian,or just as bad, as any one,and more.

    • @misscandace4111
      @misscandace4111 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @patience5277
      @patience5277 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sonyannafrancis1223 Educated and socialised abroad.

  • @nasrinv
    @nasrinv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    You can always tell when someone is cheating if you pay attention and are willing to see it which most people aren‘t because its understandably very scary because we anticipate being hurt immensely

  • @katherinetutschek4757
    @katherinetutschek4757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was honestly the best representation of cheating and cheaters I've ever seen.

  • @ontim6616
    @ontim6616 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    If you can’t go through your significant other phone it’s a big red flag. Sad but true

    • @kayvion1
      @kayvion1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I dont let nobody go into my phone

    • @S.A.M11
      @S.A.M11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If it gets that point you might as well leave.

    • @ThePrincessdi77
      @ThePrincessdi77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Cheaters delete stuff off their phones anyways

    • @robertct06
      @robertct06 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m not a cheater but my gf has my phone password and when I gave it to her it felt like she owned my phone and a part of me died inside. Idk why. I’ve never told her but I’ve noticed she doesn’t do it anymore and if I get a text she just tells me and I’ll ask her to answer for me now. The answering for me is really nice but at first when she was somewhat possessive about it it hurt

  • @andreyv1
    @andreyv1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Hey! she was on LAHWF's channel

  • @marleneflourentzou680
    @marleneflourentzou680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you dr Ramani really love your advice here as well as on your very informative channel

  • @smiley2477
    @smiley2477 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Mirroring is a Sales tactic and I fell for a Sales trainer that read me just like a book and manipulated me with perfection. He didn't want to commit to me but accused me of cheating for dating or flirting when I wasn't in a relationship with him. He managed to waste 3 years of my life that I can't get back.i definitely would be cautious of a charming man.

  • @iamcourtlane
    @iamcourtlane 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    They cheat because they want to. They think they are slick until you find out. Now when u find out, they may seem like they're breaking up with you or say it's your fault. You found out now, find someone better!

  • @lsbberean1224
    @lsbberean1224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some women think that they want an open relation ship as long as she only gets to be open

  • @Teddietonbear23
    @Teddietonbear23 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was cheated on and he said I am crazy for thinking that. Years later I was right. He was cheating all along. Glad He’s out of my life now the piece of poo. Good luck to everyone who’s got over this horrible thing of cheating and now happy. There loss our gain 👍👍👍👍❤❤❤

  • @vgardner1688
    @vgardner1688 6 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    If you don't want to be faithful then don't be in a comitted relationship. It's not fair to the faithful partner. And if you don't want to be with someone just leave instead of just waiting until someone "better" comes along.

    • @NoCoIntelPro
      @NoCoIntelPro 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      There is no such thing as "better" if the "better" is having an affair with a cheater. Anyone with self- respect would not get involved with a cheater.

    • @annamariesargent6115
      @annamariesargent6115 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I just left a realionship of 13 yrs .yes i saw the signs women calls on his cell never leaving his cell taking it everywhere clasic femimal friends and always steeping out every chance they got and so on and so on but i always comfronted the cituation and always beleved in him i also favored him when it came to a friends hints to whats going as to them. And always second guessed my self. Also. The things he would say behind my back .that just drug me though the dirt .he would say are you going to beleve someone else over me .so of course i would take his word. Over anyone else even if all the signs told me different. And this just got worse over the years. Yes always follow your gut and never secondnd guess yourself. You hslf to beleve in you. Otherwise you become the fool. As i have 13yrs laiter and if i loom back and think by my self on everything all the signs were there slapping me in tbe face .i would just turn the other cheek .

    • @damonf.540
      @damonf.540 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right on. I firmly believe in the same principles. I live by them. I was married for 8 years and my ex slept with her married boss and got pregnant. Had his son 7 months before the divorce was finalized. Still hurts to this day.

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact Mike to help he is a genius, you can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701)

    • @joshschneider9378
      @joshschneider9378 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true Valerie, well put. A lot of people just the easy way out. A sad reality.

  • @SocialLocust
    @SocialLocust 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Haha I love how Durvasula looked directly at the camera when Megyn Kelly struggled to pronounce her name.

  • @sambistabeauty
    @sambistabeauty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    4:55 of course there are signs: 1) sudden schedule changes 2) not seeing him for long periods of time 3) freaking out about phone and on the apps

  • @user-gs3ro4dq8y
    @user-gs3ro4dq8y ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The woman in white in the audience at 3:30 can relate so much 😂

    • @glenn97345
      @glenn97345 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She’s been love bombed in the past 🤣

  • @keithadams897
    @keithadams897 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Once a cheat always a cheat simple

  • @carolpastorino8208
    @carolpastorino8208 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    If you cheat you don't love yourself. If you just brake the relationship if you don't love them anymore it the right thing to do. Love does not cheat

    • @tastelikechinahadababyandn9928
      @tastelikechinahadababyandn9928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I cheated and I can confess that I was taught love is forgiving. When I cheated I felt that love for my bf was still there but not as strong as before.

  • @bluebutterflies4568
    @bluebutterflies4568 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "...Sociopaths are almost like hunters..." well when you put it that way, it's terrifying 😳 😬

  • @letsgetit1002
    @letsgetit1002 6 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Love Ramani! Very intelligent and relatable. She deserves her own show.

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  • @bellsding9323
    @bellsding9323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    1. Change, they start to dress to impress others.
    2. Distant attitude
    3. They wont leave their phone.

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    • @misscandace4111
      @misscandace4111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @misscandace4111
      @misscandace4111 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i know of a very good hacker that can help you with any type of hacking, either phones or computers. My husband was so smooth at hiding his infidelity so I had no proof for months I was referred to some hacker and decided to give him a try the result was incredible because all my cheating husbands text massages, emails, Facebook,bitcoin,youtube,WhatsApp, Snapchat,fortnite ,spotify,Instagram /instagram followers and viber conversations was wired directly to my cellphone. He helped me put a round-the-clock monitoring on him and I got concrete evidence of his escapades if you think your partner is an expert at hiding in his cheat adventure you can contact him too at cybercrack_hack37588 on instagram

    • @ghopeigetit
      @ghopeigetit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Heart emoji to other women, along with telling other women they look nice, sent red flags to me. He made me feel like I was just jealous. When he left he forgot phone, I was able to unlock it. Yep all the things I was made to feel like I'm crazy was true, but even worse. Heart emoji girls were long private messages and sexting. If phone is locked or phone being taken to bathroom was warning sign

    • @shannonbrunton6934
      @shannonbrunton6934 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean everything was wired to your cell phone?

  • @ecaldwell9
    @ecaldwell9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The entire show could have been done w/ Dr. Ramani Durvasula! The other one added nothing!

  • @user-ck6ly4st3v
    @user-ck6ly4st3v 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They can't look at you. Also, you just KNOW, you feel it in your gut, strong intuition.

  • @morningcoffee2471
    @morningcoffee2471 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Dr. Armani is passionate, and it shows. I enjoy listening to her so much.

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact Mike to help he is a genius, you can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701)

  • @jsaldarriaga86
    @jsaldarriaga86 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Ramani Durvasula is so smart! I’m really digging her lately!

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Micro cheating which almost always leads up to an affair with someone or other again isn't that easy to discern unless you have been cheated on for the first time before.

  • @maxinewells7539
    @maxinewells7539 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    OMG I love Dr. Ramani "Keep it real" 💯✔

  • @aayanrussell7972
    @aayanrussell7972 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I think I understood what the therapist meant, but I've been considered charming but it doesn't mean I'm a cheater or have a hidden agenda, it just means that I know how to engage and converse with a woman, listen and have a good sense of humor, charm should not have a negative connotation to it and that's how it could be interpreted here.

  • @ronprince1478
    @ronprince1478 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was sitting in a coffee shop enjoying my coffee, I looked up and a beautiful asian lady and I made eye contact and automatically smiled each other. She lowered her eyes before me and a moment later she turned and walked out of the shop. I have so much respect for that lady she knew we had made small connection and chose to nip it in the bud. I did notice the ring on her finger as she left.

  • @glenn97345
    @glenn97345 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This happened to me, she was married the whole time and was texting me everyday behind her spouses back. I ended up dropping her because I knew she would only do the same to me.

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 6 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    No matter how small, if you keep it from your partner, it's cheating. Big things start from small beginnings right? I love this video and these women. Thank you so much for the informations and your wisdom.

    • @crazyb7122
      @crazyb7122 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      true attraction starts within your heart the mind and soul will follow only if they sense truth in what the heart is approaching ,love has reasons of honesties that's why always trust your heart when entering a relationship !and remember your mind and soul will always come when they feel their protector the heart won't get hurt

  • @will2Collett
    @will2Collett 6 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    micro-cheating victim. It hurts as a man who barely survived the fairy tale marriage.=( A man CAN be faithful.

    • @Moi_81
      @Moi_81 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      william francis Collett Sorry to hear this. 😿

    • @pingpaoping8944
      @pingpaoping8944 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      william francis Collett I couldn’t agree more.

  • @dianethompson9525
    @dianethompson9525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My best friend’s husband started running every day and went to work a 1/2 hr earlier than normal. He was cheating with someone at work!!

    • @Evalauj02
      @Evalauj02 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish work employees can just shared with the spouse, victim, that he husband is cheating on her with this person !

  • @sashanoel8766
    @sashanoel8766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I think women are just being more honest about it now. Ramani hit it on the head, sociopaths are not as rare as we think. I need to hit up her work. She seems like she is a wealth of information.

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ramani is the real deal. She speaks so well.

    • @crazyb7122
      @crazyb7122 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      you never know!!people are are bow to do negative things!at the end of the day a happy wife a happy life!!im a strong believer in that fraze although im not married yet!lol

    • @ha8236
      @ha8236 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is on TH-cam giving free advice. She is AMAZING!

    • @yeahokaycoolcool
      @yeahokaycoolcool 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @zumzy u No.

  • @SquatSimp
    @SquatSimp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A cheater becomes more distant, look for this

  • @dizzyheather
    @dizzyheather 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Ramani! She about calling out Narcs

  • @pulithesouthafrican7869
    @pulithesouthafrican7869 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    7:35 was the moment the blonde guest wished she came more prepared and spoke up more lol😂😂😂

  • @rishaa682
    @rishaa682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    im glad NPD is getting more mainstream awareness

  • @karenmeacham798
    @karenmeacham798 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My spouse didn't want to let find out he'd cheated, and now he doesn't trust me

  • @margaretsanfran7317
    @margaretsanfran7317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    DR.RAMANI ALWAYS GETS IT RIGHT...I SAID THIS IS THE NICEST HES EVER BEEN IN 40 YEARS....I KNEW HE WAS CHEATING BUT LIE DENY HES LONG GONE NOW AMEN

  • @RBG-ez7pd
    @RBG-ez7pd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yea...I won’t tolerate any cheating. Dumped my gf ASAP when I found out.

  • @CheAubrey
    @CheAubrey 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Agree. They lack empathy - they may pretend or portray empathy for manipulative purposes, which they usually do to get you back in. Learnt to trust your instinct. Some ppl really live two lives...You think you know someone and one day you wake up and realized you never knew them. Be careful and take time to get to know someone before you jump into any relationship with them - you'll save yourself years of heartache and pain. Live honest, and free but hold yourself dear or someone will destroy your view on love.

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    • @danbreker
      @danbreker 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @shayeallmon5671
    @shayeallmon5671 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the best educational short video I’ve seen all year!

  • @Y.AG.123AFG
    @Y.AG.123AFG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is for all my guys out there, TRUST your gut, even if everything seems perfect but at the same thing something seems off, TRUST IT. The difference between guys and girls is that guys are bad at hiding infidelity, but girls can keep that secret for the rest of their lives. If you get this gut feeling that something is off, don't confront her straight away, but start paying attention to her actions and ask her questions about your suspicions indirectly and watch her body language and you will eventually realise her stories don't make sense and that she's lying.

    • @SA-iu7xj
      @SA-iu7xj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good strategy

  • @tumonniejohnson8711
    @tumonniejohnson8711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Omg the dark haired lady is my favorite. I've learned so much about my mental health from her🧡

    • @misscandace4111
      @misscandace4111 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i know of a very good hacker that can help you with any type of hacking, either phones or computers. My husband was so smooth at hiding his infidelity so I had no proof for months I was referred to some hacker and decided to give him a try the result was incredible because all my cheating husbands text massages, emails, Facebook,bitcoin,youtube,WhatsApp, Snapchat,fortnite ,spotify,Instagram /instagram followers and viber conversations was wired directly to my cellphone. He helped me put a round-the-clock monitoring on him and I got concrete evidence of his escapades if you think your partner is an expert at hiding in his cheat adventure you can contact him too at cybercrack_hack37588 on instagram

  • @Nostradamusknow
    @Nostradamusknow ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3 cheaters discussing why and how to cheat better.

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  • @TooMuchxD
    @TooMuchxD 6 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    The blonde one is like ," wow I'm learning so much" hahaha

    • @misscandace4111
      @misscandace4111 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i know of a very good hacker that can help you with any type of hacking, either phones or computers. My husband was so smooth at hiding his infidelity so I had no proof for months I was referred to some hacker and decided to give him a try the result was incredible because all my cheating husbands text massages, emails, Facebook,bitcoin,youtube,WhatsApp, Snapchat,fortnite ,spotify,Instagram /instagram followers and viber conversations was wired directly to my cellphone. He helped me put a round-the-clock monitoring on him and I got concrete evidence of his escapades if you think your partner is an expert at hiding in his cheat adventure you can contact him too at cybercrack_hack37588 on instagram

    • @VioletRaya
      @VioletRaya 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      LOL!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @amygonzales9146
      @amygonzales9146 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know! You would think they would have looked at interviews with that blonde lady before allowing her on the show. She's not helpful at all or smart 😖😖

  • @cathyknight7981
    @cathyknight7981 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    When they dress up when their man is going to work and they are on the phone all the time or computer when their man is home!

  • @mikejohnson5157
    @mikejohnson5157 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The spy guy for the phone is a scam, don't do it.

  • @basicbase749
    @basicbase749 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Needs aren’t met so you cheat? Seriously? Then first break up n then do whatever. What an excuse! 2ndly, narcissists will still cheat even if u give them the world, except their ego-supply

    • @userk2876
      @userk2876 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said!

    • @Alejo__
      @Alejo__ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mansi break up and do whatever is your solution? How about be mature and find solutions to your problems rather than run away. How you do something is how you do everything. Thatll be your solution forever

    • @dirkdiggler7990
      @dirkdiggler7990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Once a cheater always a cheater!

    • @zubair4055
      @zubair4055 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said

  • @moimeme7839
    @moimeme7839 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s easy, never talk about ambition or lucrative projects, cheaters will never stick to you, garanteed. Cheaters are the ones who want it all and everything. Cut the snake directly at the source, and just be yourself, and never a cheater will want you in her life👍

  • @brendakrause5639
    @brendakrause5639 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not with a narcissist. They do not care what "your feelings" are about their relationship with you.

  • @nikkobali4103
    @nikkobali4103 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband always refuse to talk. Every time I ask him that we need to talk, he said “ what are you talking about?, get angry and then we quiet not talking for months. Very tired

  • @droid264
    @droid264 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This is a never ending issue...same old same old.

  • @hg77777
    @hg77777 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love the dark haired lady she’s so correct with so much talent

  • @AncientAir
    @AncientAir 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I love the hosts perspective... would your partner be ok with what you are going? Cheating is in the eye of the cheated on. You cannot define what their level of cheating is, they define it... so don’t cross that line or date someone sick who likes that you are micro-cheating because they may get a high from it. Follow the signs, turn away from the person who doesn’t respect your personal values and levels of moral.

    • @ThePossumone
      @ThePossumone 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly - if your partner walked in on what you are doing - would you be guilty or ashamed or know what you are doing is wrong ??