Young Virgins For Sale - The Controversial Bride Market of Bulgaria
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ก.ค. 2019
- Every spring, the town of Stara Zagora in central Bulgaria hosts a controversial bride market where young virgins are paraded in front of suitors who bid on them. The market is the biggest annual get-together for Bulgaria’s 18,000-strong Kalaidzhi Roma clan, a subgroup of the Roma people who face constant prejudice and exclusion across Europe. Unable to live off their ancient coppersmith heritage, the constantly sensationalised bride markets are one of the last surviving Kalaidzhi traditions. To find out why these medieval-sounding markets exist in modern Europe, and how Kalaidzhi girls feel about being sold off, Broadly correspondent Milène Larsson travels to the village of Orizovo to spend time with a family with two daughters as they're preparing for the annual bride market.
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These people are in 2019 and 1619 at the same time
Sad thing is, the people they are talking about are IN bulgaria but are not Bulgarians also known as Jipsy, the people you see in the video are Jipsy and have nothing in common with bulgarians, they have just grown up in that country and selling their children is their cultores way of market, we don't like most of the either... sadly they are the onces that go out of bulgaria to work abroad and tell everyone they are bulgarian....
Um 1619 wasn’t like this
Oh so true.
Does it matter tho? If that’s they way of life since 1619 then let em be. Not everything and people’s way of life has to change cause it’s 2019 and everyone head I up each other’s ass
Ryan Hutchinson oh sorry I think you forgot
Selling people is illegal, it’s called human trafficking.
Human trafficking isn’t culture.
It's weird, it's like they're caught between the modern world and one from hundreds of years ago..
Why are you judging them?
Shane Chambers because they’re selling people
@@sxdxex its not against their will and its tradition
You might be right....perhaps things are changing not overnight though as the girls Mum said...it’s definitely different from when she was married off.
Also, it’s “They’re” as in “They Are”....
Not Their.
They’re, Their and There have three different meanings.
@@jayo3074 It is still against there will. There is many other documentaries where a female as low as 13 being sold and them being abused and treated as a slave. It might be tradition but there tradition is horrible fuck parts of the middle east.
14 year old me was so... Not ready for marriage. She was young and dumb and immature. Im 19 and STILL young and dumb and immature. Still not ready for marriage and probably won't be for a few years. I can't imagine being sold to someone I hardly know at that age.
That means that you'll never be mature
I offer 5$ for you if you are a virgin
@@user-od4yl3rf4nno. 19 is still a baby. Parents should teach their children how to become an adult by giving advice. Being there while growing up is the most effective way. You don't sell them. You don't shoo them away.
@@user-od4yl3rf4n wild take
@@user-od4yl3rf4nspeak about urself💀
Imagine how it would feel if no one offered anything for you 💀
Sad 😢
well, they are lucky
Id feel 🙌🏼 BLESSES, AMEN!❤
I think they would be happy
“These shoes are from the internet” omg that lady is adorable
Yes
karl marx Germany economics scientist you failed in this generation. See girls are sale-ing and i am From 👨👨👧👦🇮🇳.
Why
That lady is not adorable, she is fucking disgusting for selling her daughters
Adorable? She's selling her fucking daughters
I love how the interviewer handled herself very maturely but also made the girls feel comfortable by engaging in gossip
Marlin Alarcon lmaoooo
“wtf”.... “he shot me” that literally killed me.😭
Tropic Lightning huh 💀
Tropic Lightning ohh lol sorry i haven’t seen this video in a minute
@@stupidz5051 you
Just because it’s a tradition doesn’t mean it’s right
It also doesn't mean it's wrong.
@@jamesbond-xl3xsbut it means too much wrong.
@@lakshmiuikey22926 That's just your opinion.
@@jamesbond-xl3xswhat a baseless argument.
@@lakshmiuikey22926It worked for thousand years and only now when people can choose their spouse marriage ends up with high divorce rates. How so?
Whe I moved to Italy, one of my first friends was romany, at that time Ididn't knew about her background, we were both 13 and during our last year in middle school, then, during our last week, when I was able to speak Italian, she told me that she wouldn't continue to study as, her parents had already chosen her future husband, I was shocked, I didn't knew about this things, we talked about this arrangement with the other girls and even the guy she had a crush on. "They chose him years ago, so this will be my last week here, then I'll fly home to marry".
In Pakistan I have a class fellow and he was only 12 but he was engaged
@@MuhammadAshhad-xh9sj till today I look for her, she was very ķind with me, I still have a drawing she gave me... her name was Exona or Egsona... I remember her brother had to be always near by to check on her.. back then I was completely unaware about this background, wish she is doing fine.
@@MuhammadAshhad-xh9sjwtf are you talking about
Are you ok or drunk?
@@C_Stories yes Iam on my census and I think you are drunked
Just putting it out there, this is a Roma gypsy tradition NOT a Bulgarian tradition.
No it's not.. I'm a Roma and this is not a tradition of ours
@Lalisa the queen thank you!
@J Stewart that's not true. This is Irish Traveller stuff not Roma.
Its for lots of countries
@Mohanned Fakhri Germany and France have such women too. Why are you living in Bulgaria of all places?
Theres 18,000 members of this clan and they only marry with in the clan. If this is an old tradition, those 18,000 people are closely related.
Sad but true and disgusting! Makes sense....😂🤮
Sweet home Alabama..
Damn... I can't even see my cousin's cousin as a potential boyfriend... Then this girls can be married off to their relatives...
Sorry... But yuck..
The girl's cousin looks identical to her...
Run. I hear Banjos...
As a Bulgarian myself seeing this truly hurts. Seeing these beautiful young woman being sold in the gypsy community is so unfair. The lack of government control lead to this result. They’re ruining their lives at a young age without having a voice. These gypsy traditions leads to uneducated generations, low income and tension between the Bulgarians and gypsy communities.
@@contgoogle181 I completely agree about this generation. It is truly hard to find a good partner these days. But still these people are not objects to be sold. They have to have the choice to choose who they marry. You can see in the video these girls being in love with someone and being sold to some guy which who knows what kind of person he could be. And just because they’re virgins doesn’t mean that they won’t turn into “whores”. The fact that they marry someone who they don’t love will eventually result to cheating or deep depression. What about their kids? What kind of environment will they grow up in? And unlike them who won’t marry someone they love, you can. And you can look for the kind of girl you want.
@Cont Google do u have a daughter? If so, she will be tossing my salad all day.. and I'll force webcams and take all her $. She will def not learn how to read either
@Cont Google are u a Christian? And do u believe Noah's ark literally happened?
I agree, the bulgarian government should exile those people ..Many people around the world believe that those roma are Bulgarians and no one cares to see the pure beauty of bulgarian hearts. They believe what they see in these videos, extremely sad
@@eligiobudde That's actually pretty accurate, "black" does fit there. Accurate observation, man.
The girls were all so sweet and genuine. I know the culture can be harsh but it would be nice if more girls were like this. I just wish they had the freedom to study and be self sufficient but yet still have their close family ties and bonds. I think it possible to have both. They are all so smart and intelligent that it’s a shame they can’t contribute more to the world. I wish them all so much happiness and happy marriages ❤
Taking care of their husbands and kids its more better . Or you want them to contribute to the world by working as slaves for other men out their homes without kids without a family life then su!ciding at 40yo because they feel lonely ..
@@saint6675 most people have a family, an education and a job (even if they take a job break until children go to school).
No need to go to the extreme.
I agree...but, to be sold as a slave is terrible
@@saint6675 Stay at home moms have 3 times the suicide rate and a high risk for anxiety and depression.
The west values education above all else, but how is that working out for us? Birth Rates are low divorce rates are high and unhappiness is everywhere.We are killing each other, confusing children, what. Makes? Western society so much better than these older traditions? I think that these traditions will do more to continue the human race then the so called enlightened western educated society that I currently live in.
They look a thousand times better without makeup
Agreed
They look like clowns because they look too light:/
True af
For real
Indeed
Kids: Dad how did you met mom?
Dad: basically, I bought her and the rest is history
Dad : who?
They should make a mini series in netflix called "How i brought your Mother."
Sounds like a drowry
Better than, I met mom at a bar, had a one night stand and knocked her up so we got married
Shiro Kuma meet*
I wonder how much money would be enough to get the parents to let an outsider take one as their own. What if a millionaire rolled into town and promised the girl everything she wanted? School to travel or whatever along with like 50-100k for the parents.
I’d say most would take the money
@@Simon-og5vy idk I did research and it said it’s prohibited to marry outsiders I guess one will never know unless they went and tried
Lies again? Dallas Bull S**t Still Virgin
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Something tells me tradition may be worth more to these folks. But who knows 🤷♂️
Just because a man can pay a lot of money doesnt make him a good man or husband. God please protect these girls!!
No
i love how she becomes their friend more so than an interviewer
So true 😊😊 I've also noticed
Don't you think that elder generations have f*cked up this entire world bride market are you kidding me
But you she sale her self too under boyfriend lies so she more bad
Bilal Abuaqoulah first off that doesn’t rlly make sense and second of saying that u have a significant other is the fastest way to turn someone down without hurting feelings so she obviously picked that other explaining her situation and how she isn’t “up for sale”
I'm not disrespectful to her but she try to show she is better the way she live maybe you are right
Why dont they try something different and sale the parents.
Who the hell's gonna pay for a pair of old complaining farts!
@@SponsorShort of course him
Francisco Ulloa lmao I’d pay to watch that
no buyers
Francisco Ulloa ahahaha
Video at 0:45 mentions Kalaitchi tribe of gypsy people. The word 'Kalai" in Sanskrit means coating of Tin on brass or copper vessels. Maybe the forefathers of these gypsy people who originated from India did this particular work as profession.
The art of kalai (kalhai or qalai) is the process of coating an alloy surface such as copper or brass by deposition of metal tin on it.[1] The word "kalai" is derived from Sanskrit word kalya lepa, which means "white wash or tin". "kalaya-lepa" in the chapter of cookery or "supashashtra" which means applying kalai on utensils. People practicing the art of kalai are called Kalaiwala or Kalaigar.[3] Basically, Kalaigars or Kalaiwalas are community craftsmen.
True
They were from Rajasthan as far as I heard
Such were the customs in olden times which they still practice passed on through generations.
I was at a museum in Minneapolis, Minnesota (Institute of art) and actually read something similar. Also went to Africa I believe or some such?
10:50 there's literally an entire piece of the documentary explaining that, why do you say "maybe" and that man literally demonstrates his work?😂
teh only thing holding them back is that effort to keep tradition, everyone agrees they don't like the idea of women being sold (surprisingly even the men) yet they still choose to follow it. its very sad yet there is hope. i also wanna mention the obvious sadness in the girls eyes when they both said they want to have careers but cant.
Can we talk about how naturally pretty Vera is?!?! Like im shook how beautiful is their family in general!!
Uzair Chaudhary If you’re going to insult someone, at least use proper grammar. Also, I’m sure that they are beautiful.
@@uzairchaudhary1202 ok.
1. thats not me.
2. you didnt have to be that rude.
3. i never asked about your opinion on my looks.
Now go and stop commenting this things because reading this wastes a lot of our time. Thanks :)
@@eliimin03 stop crying
Uzair Chaudhary Quit being jealous, faceless you.
Can we stop talking about women's beauty all the time? It's so fucking boring! Compliment her strength, her humor, her attitude - something she can control, something she has achieved ffs
Neither the brides nor the suitors like the bride market but both allow tradition to dictate their involvement.
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Beautifully well spoken
yeah im surprised no one has opposed the system before. Unless someone has? Maybe they’re just okay with being married off lol.
@@qraee I think so too
@Tina Yael Severinovna M. i she said, or it was implied, that Vera didn't have choice. She had to obey her parents.
Hope that helps. 🙂
I am Bulgarian and really enjoyed watching this video. The gypsies live a completely different life than the rest of the population icluding traditions, views on education, careers and quality of living conditions.
is this legal in Bulgaria? what is the religion of the girl and her family?
@@micomarinas2753 it's not legal, but laws in gypsy communities and small cities/villages often go unenforced. Keep in mind this is not at all representative of the look and culture of bigger cities like Sofia or Plovdiv
@@micomarinas2753 The video makes it look like a market for brides. In essence, this is an event that sets the stage for arranged marriages that are common in many countries around the world. I believe the religion of the family is Christian.
I need Bulgaria viza
@@tasneemhayat4909 What for ?
Let me just express how truly shocked and perplexed I was to learn which group this video was about
Just because it's tradition, doesn't make it moral or right. This is no different than slavery
Alex To go THANK U
@@shaleibaby2115 Go educate yourself child
Nevaeh Harris it’s modern slavery
Why dont you say the same when you are talking about religions? Because Islam and Catholicism and etc are all SHIT
Like stepping 3 foot backwards whenever a cat pass through?
Peppa what are you doing in a wife selling community
Piko Panko peppa I told u not to go there! 🙄
boba queen ちゃん lmaoo
And she wearing pink ikyfl😂
I was just about to write that😂😂
😂😂😂😂🐷
More respectable than onlyfans.
nice satire
Both are disgusting
15:35“I had to obey my parents, I had to go with whoever they chose but overtime I fell in love”-the mother
19:30 “Bride market is like a giant speed dating event and not a force marriage area”-The reporter
If you're trying to say she's contradicting the mother, you're not quite right. They clearly said the bride market isn't like it used to be anymore
Bride market says it all. You can't really put a different spin on it.
15:35 is mother telling about bride mkt of her time. 19:30 is present scenario
*Before watching this video*
Me: Ugh I hate school 😑
*After watching*
Me: I appreciate school. 🤐
Same
Я внимавай кучка тъпа
What?
Engraçado como as pessoas só valorizam a escola, quando sabem que outras pessoas não podem frequenta-la
J a I don’t understand I’m so sorry 🤔
I just want to mention that I love the way the interviewer behaved in this movie! She seemed so professional and relaxed. She wasn't scared off immediately by their unusual culture. She really tried to experience it in the best way possible!
I loved watching you interact with the girls and seeing you dance at that family party
our culture is considered weird to them as well.
Lina P she seems very biased
Professional? She can't even hide her feelings of superiority and contempt for the tradition. Thanks to such mindless and childless women we'll soon be forced to wear hijabs.
@ Lina P Totally agree! She was wonderful. She walked the line between respecting the culture, completely being herself, and connecting with the girls yearning for freedom, growth, and choice. Re: FlyHigh saying she's biased... huh? Biased w/ the hope that youth can fulfill their dreams & live a life of happiness & purpose. Ahh YA. 😳 Other than that she was respectful & as fun as one could be - given the potentially fricking sad scenario going on here.
@@alexbrown2401
Wait... What the heck is going on?
7:25 Suddenly in a Bride Market Documentary, start the silly music and a happy doggo smiling and waving the tail.
Wtf youtube, I searched for Bulgarian music reactions and this is the third result I got?!
The clothes are very 2005-2010s
So weird how trends don’t go away even in this day and age 🤔🤔
The trends go there but this people are gypsies they dosen't care about trends most of gypsies make money out of trash or they buy there clothes in sales and little market cause there is cheaper .They doesn't go to school cause they want to get married and have kids for money it's not always like that cause they're a second tip of gypsies they are good and intelligent people and they want to earn their money like everyone else with fear job. (SORRY FOR MY BAD ENGLISH)
you can see that a lot in the balkans
The time it was recorded was something aroubd that period.
Dude, come to any of Eastern Europe and its an eye opener. Im off to Bulgaria next week and its like going back in a time machine
@@gergankageorgieva3131 hey, it's okay! There's no law saying you have to speak perfectly English in order to confidently express your opinion in English. If your not born or live in a English speaking country, it's natural not to have perfect English. You aren't do anything wrong, no need to apologize!
Pepa’s cousin: “They’re all ugly”
Cameraman: Zooms in on ugly guy
Lmaoooo
I know,right? Nobody desires them because they are ugly or fat. Thus they are virgins
Who cares, they are girls. I don’t care if they are ugly, this is wrong.
That's
not nice is all i can say, and as a straight guy, he's not too bad looking.
@@ethanweeter2732 yeah obviously messed up but I wasn’t supporting anyone if anything I’m on the girls side. I said, “zooms In on ugly guy” not “zooms in ugly girls”. And to A10 it’s a joke…
This is sad in a way. It’s clear that none of the young people are particularly excited about the buying and selling and are just excited to get to know girls or boys. But they are so matter of fact about how this is how it is. Like that one boy she interviewed, and obviously all the girls.
You can see the fear in their smiles. So scary, I couldn't imagine raising my daughter just to be sold like livestock.🤦🏿♂️🤢🤮
There a family ik that from Sofia and they said there alot more to it it sad yes but they said they talk to both sides and they make a price and sometimes it don't happen they should show end part where there negotiate either way it still sad but like that boy abd mother and they said tradition
The matter-of-fact way they talk about this abusive system breaks my heart.
Just you looking with a western lense and no appreciation for cultural variety
@Seh Yun Han it's not infringing on human rights. This is their culture and it's their decision to change as they wish. Also you probably didn't watch the video. This isnt a real bride market. At this point the "bride market" is just a gathering of unmarried men and women who meet up. The idea of arranged marriages within a tribe is an ancient practice.
@Seh Yun Han you're still stuck in a western liberal lense. In England this doesn't work because it doesn't fit the value system. "Human rights " is a western construct that tries to apply western values everywhere. If you want to understand the world better try to keep an open mind. They are not executing people here. They have arranged marriages. It's very much a tribal practice for them.
@Seh Yun Han lol now this is becoming funny. No one told you to embrace it. You live your way they live their way. Easy.
No one needs to police the world. These ideals of policing the world, and trying to enforce western morals everywhere ends up costing precious resources and lives.
@Seh Yun Han bottom line for me is that we don't understand their culture, and their frame of reference or their history. We don't understand the complexity of how they feel about it or how modern they are at this point. There are many very bad things happening in the west that people suffer in. Not to compare , but we try our best and we make improvements. Same for them. They've changed a lot in the passed few generations.
Her name is pepa and they have pigs?
Coincidence???
Think not
Wtf how did i get so many likes
isn't her cousin also named Pepa?
Lol. Peppa pig
Lmao
LMAO
Peppaaa what are you doing in my comment section?? 😳😳😏😏😏
16:35 is that Tani from the DW documentary?
To anyone defending this by saying that it is tradition needs to understand that normality is more than confirming to social roles.
Just because something is socially acceptable somewhere, does not mean that it is normal.
Exactly, some comments shocked me
It’s so surreal to me that women are still treated like objects in some countries which makes me thankful for the lifestyle I live
I just watched this and link to this video: China: All the single men | 101 East |中国：所有单身男士| 101东
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Kidnap wives because there are 30-50 MILLIONS more men in China.
In Bulgaria only the gypsy girls are treated like that. Yes, it's sad, but the other girls in Bulgaria have a chance to decide who they want to marry. I am not the person to talk about it, but maybe it's their own fault that they live like that.
@@DoctorDoomsPvP Incel spotted
DoctorDoomsPvP and yet men can sleep with however many people they want to and it’s okay right? People like you deserve to be alone.
DoctorDoomsPvP your mother must be proud . You are actual human trash and people with your mentality aren’t very smart.
It is sad that they cant even follow their dream just because of TRADITION.
Cassandra Caparos this is not a tradition. These are the so called Bulgarian gypsies and they’d do anything for money. They’d sell their children, beat you up on the street, break into your house and even kill you just to get the smallest amount of money you have. They’re also one of the reasons why I no longer live there. Bulgarian traditions are nothing close to what you see in this video, thank god. This is just some fuckery to get money from.
@@user-lo7wn6ku8l oh god I just feel sorry for them....
@@user-lo7wn6ku8l well said and Romania where ever the fuck that is and a Romainian friend of mine will be the first to tell you two things.
It is where Count Dracula was living in the dark medieval times and the other is as he would say. We are gypsies and will fuck you up the ass without lube and the children and wives will rob your camp while you're being dry bones the others will steal everything and your undrwear are never pff limits because them Fruit of the loom are the real prize. after the dust clears you have nothing left and even your ass has been left with nothing butt the stretched little brown ring.
@@alextreasurehunter3811 that's why they're outcasts and complain about unfair treatment for their "culture". That's not culture! It's a lame excuse for their sick behavior.
@@ms.sanchez3924 both of you are fucking uneducated. that's not part of romanian culture, it's part of gypsy culture. The reason why they're outcasts is because uneducated morons like you say such stupid shit
Anyone know the app?
Amazing interview
Their little bedroom party is so wholesome.
It really is.
No offense but at first i misread it as whoresome
@@yohaneschristianp LMAO STOP🤣🤣😭😭
HOLY POCAHAUNTEZ BATMAN
Is it “wholesome” when the interviewer tells the girls they should be sleeping around instead of maintaining their virginity?
the scariest part is how normalized this whole concept is; it's way too close to human trafficking
It literally is human trafficking
Uh...you do know that women can work and earn and support themselves nowadays, right? Also, aside from that, this whole process is just dehumanising but I guess it looks good from where you stand bc you're not a woman so go off ig
@@nukiy8442 @nuki Y Its just a speed dating. Stop making drama out of nothing.
@@SBahamondes No it's not. It's their culture. It's actually good for the women because they don't have to work and go through all that hard life. They just live freely on their husbands money, without any problem.
@@captain6876 agree
Whats the song at the ends please?
Experiencing this as a teenager would have been nerve wracking for me!!! When I was a teen I was deathly afraid of talking to girls I were attracted too!!!!! All the kids are acting so natural like they've been doing it for ages, interacting with the opposite sex so effortlessly and fluidly!!
Did anyone think about peppa pig when she said her name on 1:39
Yes XD
yeah hahahahahahaha
Yeah lol
And she was wearing pink lol
Lol
when they said they want to chase their dreams a part of me died inside
@channel break bruh be nice
I had dreams too..her and the lawyer took them from me.
Join n development
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Ultimately they accept their fate and are hopeful for the right outcome, but truthfully they want to have options and freedom and a life.
If you ask your average 16-year-old girl what she finds as desirable traits for a boyfriend, I suspect he would get considerably different answers than you would if you asked a 35-year-old woman what she finds as attractive or desirable traits in a husband. Also. If marriage is something like leasing a car; that is when you get tired of it, you get rid of that one and just get another one. That is going to set some criteria. If, however, marriage is a union of two individuals to be bonded together as one flesh and remain faithful and true to each other and each other ONLY; and both people presume the relationship is to last until death separates them, that would sets higher standards on the criterion of choice, wouldn’t it? The standard, biblical rendering of what are commonly called “wedding vows“, are very, very, serious words… Serious promises about very grave matters, AND - spoken while looking directly into the eyes of one’s significant other, prompted by one who fully comprehends the gravity of the words being spoken, in front of what perhaps is the largest and most unique collection of BOTH persons’ seperate friends and family, and most importantly, before God, qualifying it has a sacred oath.
Traditions are VERY particular to a group of people, and as much as we think it is "weird" or "wrong", at the end of the day, it is THEIR tradition.
The bride selling is closed due to the COVID 19
Ha ha ha 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for the update😅😅😅
Lol
But I wanted to stock up 😢
Mustafa Shams bs lol
"Less disturbing" ??? they are literally selling even 13 years old girls.
age aside. its not selling. just think of it as dowry. hope that calms your nervous tiddies.
@@ZaheerFirdaus reverse dowry
Yes cos media made it sound like they were sold off like goods in a market but on closer inspection it was more like a Speed Dating... So Yes less disturbing...
@@alamotungoe8478 it's not less disturbing, they are selling them for sex, because they are "virgins" this is pedophilia.
@@arrianetessriel9084 married people have sex ya know.
It is a meet up and not necessarily a force marriage or bride market. It looks fun though, where girls meet up with guys and they are lucky if their parents found the right guy whom they like too.
this is not the case given that girls are not allowed to have an adequate education, they are often not allowed to work and have economic independence. They are considered objects of property, first owned by the father and then owned by the husband once married. It's really disgusting
If Vice dint Show that i Wood never have known it about. Now i go to Bulgaria every summer to buy some. Thank Vice.
After watching this, i thought "i'm lucky"
As an unmarried 21 year old girl who is going into college next month, I did too. So tragic 😔
@@daylightbright7675 which country gal?
Don't show this video to Indian parents for god sake
@IndiaTV lol true😂😂😂
Why do girl's parents pay it doesn't make any sense here .
Hahaha😂😂🤣
@@THE____ also i dont know why we use old tradtions forbpaying a dowry still. Since almost every country still does this. Its like paying a dowry/payment.
why
Definitely don't agree with it, but people forget how much marriage is and was a business transaction.
WHERE CAN I GET ONE!!!!!
Wow, no matter where you go in the world everyone is drinking Coca Cola
In a study they found out that the most commonly known English word in the world is coke and okay 😅
Not in bosnia we drink cockta
@@fasilo2000 cocta je ljepsa hahahah
@@Nina-bt5oj thats right baby
I hate cola.
VICE is getting really lazy. Re-uploading 3+ year old pieces. This channel is supposed to cover stories in Asia.
Maybe they are out of money and reuploading to earn some
Old piece🤔 but they could have made one in same topic
Seriously
@@devrai3126 Because this is Vice Asia?
Lazy and olde
Retreading eastern fablea
Just putting it out there but wow what a family of beautiful women 😻
- "Do you have any money?"
- "Not yet but I intend to steal a lot"
That one woman literally dreams of being respected. Turned so sad, so quick
Hlo dear
Hlo dear
@@manishsanaatan94 lol fck off dude!
@@manishsanaatan94 starving...
@@manishsanaatan94 LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
I'll buy the big sister and let her live the life she wanted it to be
I was thinking the same,its messed up what they're doing
Don’t save her. She don’t wanna be saved
@@jefeaa9165 you're an idiot she quite literally says if things were different she'd love to be a banker.
@@jefeaa9165 is that a j.cole reference?
@@jefeaa9165 lmao Cole World😂😂
Going by what I know about the internet, I'd be shock if there wasn't a website equivalent for the whole world.
A super documentary - great job. We all need to learn to be less judgemental about the cultures and traditions of others. What a fascinating people the Kalaidzhi are - most interesting to see them continuing this age old trade of copper-smithing and to see them tinning the metal to protect against tainting food with the toxic copper. These are skills which have long disappeared from Western Europe.
I also wonder why this handcrafting cant be revived? Seems like many people want to uphold traditions...
"What the f××k?"
A wise word once said by a wise woman to a child
OncetoArmy 1 I laughed way to much than I should’ve have
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тejaѕнwι that’s kinda a really creepy thing to say
This video makes me appreciate my life at another level. The girls are so cute and lovely. It makes me sad that they’re missing out on many opportunities in life but they seem happy, at least I cannot deny that.
Edit: wow, 2.7k likes! Ty!
same i’m really grateful to live in the US despite everything no-so-good happening here right now
Ice_cream_fan_101 thx for understanding im romanian my self i was born in ireland romania is quite a poor country but therr are lots of rich ppl too ive been living in ireland all my life my parents are romainan we have our own house tho and hello from ireland
Mar.h thank u for understanding
JUICE WRLD EDIT VIDS i’m from ireland too :))
Haha opportunities like fucking every guy in the neighborhood and all yeah yeah I understand fucking hoes
It's painfully funny how this shows in my recommendations when I'm sitting in my room waiting for something like this happening to myself 💔
It's consentual, cheap and you get to know eachother before the arrangement. In western world where women are doing onlyfans, have high milage and wants a 50k ring, nice car and a millionare before considering you. This is refreshing. Though husband should let the woman study if she likes but she still have to understand the importance of keeping a good family together.
I wonder if the guys compare prices with each other like I have a wife worth $200 and urs is only $150. Like the younger sister who had a higher bid than the older one. Must feel weird to know that you are worth less than your sister. It must also be harsh for those brides that are sold for lower prices, imagine being the cheapest bride there.
You don't need price tags to have people be judged by their looks.
Yes the men do sit around and say how much did you pay for your wife that's a fact price comparison
No, that is not what it is about lmao ... Women only see this from their shit point of view.., you are a most likely not a virgin... 🤣😂🤣... You are 0$ at this market... If you had been an option you would have 0$ price range because once again it is not about money determining class, like the one young man said what matters most is love, but you sound western... So to you it is all about money
@@phantomrs2082 oh yeah, for me its all about the money. Lets make it more interesting, put the guys for sale instead. Every inch is $10
It's literally not so diff from another culture or circumstances where one girl can say to another, I have more likes on insta than you, or get more money from onlyfans, or get taken on more expensive dates, or can get more money from a sugardaddy or whatever..
i love how those girls' mum was sold to their dad, yet she ended up commandeering the family.
Funny how that works eh? I watched a vid some years ago about a morman who had like 8 wives or whatever, and he straight up said hes basically all of their servant. They run the show, often by council, and he has a list of things he must do for every wife. TBH it sounds like hell.... but I guess his reward is the 30+ kids he will father.
“Let me tell you something Toula; the man is the head, but the woman is the neck and she can turn the head any way she wants.”
Man is the head of the family to provide and protect, but it is the woman who runs the house, this is her domain and this is where she excels. We have this tradition all over the world for a reason. It worked for thousand of years and it works for these Roma people till today. I did not see that these girls were unhappy. In fact this market had an atmosphere of a party to it. Also boys have to work hard to earn money for the bride and it teaches them the value of money and hard work, something a lot of young people do not understand.
Oli B Female mutilation has also existed for years. Does that mean we leave it alone? Do a little research of the high level of abuse that exists in the Roma community. The men want virgins but they’re not. That is BS!
@@Itsallaboutlove52 As if male mutilations aren't practiced anymore. Ask a Jew. As for the biological virginity, men do not possess it. They also have external genitals easy to keep in proper hygiene. Women on the other hand carry theirs inside and every time they sleep with a random man they acquire all sorts of bacteria and they carry them around. Thus it is safer for a man to marry a virgin woman and for the woman not to sleep around and carry shit from casual encounters. Pure biology. Also promiscuous women have trouble pair-bonding, a well established fact. Mother Nature did not mean for them to sleep around. Btw, my wife was a virgin when we met and she was in her mid-twenties and she was neither unhappy about it nor ashamed of it. And she is not Roma.
It’s sometimes hard to understand other cultures. But just because it’s different, doesn’t make it bad.
Hello friend nice story greatting from Macau
I’m not going to lie, I’ve been binge watching horrible and sad documentaries that I find interesting for the past hour. This is just wrong.
Edit: damn 3K likes? LMFAOOO
Shit same here...on a positive note...it makes me realize HOW LUCKY and happy i have been all my life. I started watching young girls arranged marriages in Pakistan...they are beaten and raped. At least these girls get to dress how they want, marry who they like and seem happier.
A F - There are a LOT of old world arranged marriages out there, even today, among people who honor sacred traditions. This one here is fairly "tame" compared to many of them.
@Joe Dirt You're a despicable human being.
@Joe Dirt Those things aren't necessarily mutual, you can be a pure abusive pious mother or a great but impure mother with horrible work ethic. People aren't 2 Dimensional and virginity isn't a character trait.
I'm very curious how you came to the understanding that most women in the west are destimed to be impure wives (i assume you mean non-virgins here) and terrible mothers (i assume you mean poor parenting here)
I've been binge watching alot of stuff about child marriages for the past 2 hours. It is sad how it works and how girls will be sold like there a piece of meat. It also scares me sometime because I was watching documentaries abt lil girls being prostitutes and like I am close to there age.
I feel sad about this women being sold and bid by their parents. 😞
Money talks bullshit walks.... it sure is sad babygirl , im thankful for living in the United states
i wouldn't buy any of them.. they look old and with kids
@Lzb Lmvm nah once they become adults most women look younger than men because they take care of themselves better, and its not only skin care or stuff like that, women statistically drink and smoke less and they generally eat healtier, those are all things which make people age faster
@Lzb Lmvm i mean just look at kate middleton and prince william, she is a few months older than him but looks younger and better than him
It's not your culture. You can't force your shitty culture on them.
It seems like the night before going to Costco, and you want to make sure you have your list and alarm clocks set.
You clarified everything I thought it was 🙌 It isn't actually a bride market.
How
Also to inform you, this tradition isn't practiced in the whole of Bulgaria. Just a small underdeveloped community in Bulgaria. So stop blaming the whole Bulgaria for this. Almost every country have some people who are always behind time.
Yes people need to understand that
We have backwards clans in the U.S., too who do similar shit. Like some Mormons, Orthodox Jews & the most traditional of Muslims.
@@sugaredwards6207 no. FLDS Mormons have no choice at all. They're usually raped. They don't dress up
@@sugaredwards6207 Orthodox Jews don't do this. They may be told who they should marry, but don't have too
@@Brocklanders80085 That's probably different for all of them though. Very conservative people of many religious communities are often made to marry who the parents want them to, whether they like it or not. Not trying to be rude, just informing
I really feel uncomfortable with the idea that daughters are meant to be sold..
Don't see you feeling "uncomfortable" with the idea that sons are meant to be taken advantage of. Remember behind each of these girls stands a guy sweating a bucket working. AHhhh... that you don't feel uncomfortable with. Hypocrite.
John Villanueva So you are supporting that girls are born to be sold by their families? That’s why girls should be sent to school, to be educated and do what they want. To pursue something they wish to do, and by doing this females can support the family too so guys are not the only one sweating buckets. Girls are capable to do that to. Since when did i perceive that sons are meant to be taken advantage of?
Jeruza Chan they're looks like gipsi... Bulgarian music and dance are different I know they're too much mixed with other nationalities. Bulgarians looks like Eastern Europe
I don't think it's forcefull because they look happy.
I would feel uncomfortable around all of those horny dicks. One might try to putt me in the rough.
I'm glad it's not as terrible as it's being portrayed in the media
Location ?
The interviewer is one of the best I have ever come across. She's Friendly, understands well, not easily offended.
Really great job!
She is very welcoming. ❤
She is Anti-Semitic
There is also another interviewer from Asian Boss, she mostly does Japan interviews and is good at being an interviewer.
@Tropic Lightning I ain't gay bub.
yes she was friendly, but she also made them feel as if they are missing out. let the people make their own decisions, but i do understand that they entirely are not able to so it's a catch 22..
@@shirishtipanwar2662 why would she be offended….she was being valued highly by them…for all their beauty standards for being light eyed and light skinned…send a brown skinned or dark eyed person there and see the offensive remarks and behavior they get
The girl who’s 16 is my age and it’s so sad she’s so gorgeous and she’s getting married off like... I could never imagine getting married now
Welat 62 lol fuck off clown
Why is getting married sad? She'd be in a serious relationship where her husband always has her back....
Syed M it’s sad because she’s 16. she has her whole life to be married but she’s marrying at an age where her brain isn’t even fully mature yet. it’s statistically proven that those who marry young are more unhappy in their marriages and are at a higher likelihood of divorce. in these communities, I doubt they divorce much, and so this girl would be trapped in her unhappy marriage for her entire adult life. it’s depressing.
I'm nearly 22 and I can't imagine getting married soon probably after 11 or 12 years or not at all.
But it's okay to get knocked up at 16. We had a day care in our high school in FL for the students with kids. I think that's more sad than this
I like the ending remarks, it's their world and it's perfect.
This is very interesting - I am Bulgarian but never seen how things work exactly in the gypsy culture in such a detail. They showed very pretty girls in the show, and I wish them all well to marry the guys they love.
mom was so proud of the stuff she bought from that internet store
😂😂😂😂
She genuinely believes she's doing what's best for her girls. No matter how primitive or tacky it might seem to you, this woman loves her daughters and the daughters seem happy and excited 💁♀️
They look quite ghastly tho 😭
They poor as hell and splurging on clothes when they already have enough. 🤦🏿♂️
Daughter: dad ,how did u meet mommy??
Daddy: I bought her at the market.
this is so disgusting
Hahaha 😅
they wouldn't even ask that, they'd know. they're raised by their parents to be slaves for men. it's their tradition, but that dosent mean it can't be disgusting lol
Darian Patet and the dialogue continues
Daughter : really😳
Daddy:Yes dear, and one day you will be sold to your future husband too 😊
wow what a healthy circle of life. if the daughter is u, would u or wouldnt u ask?
😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
how do i sign up
Be born in that specific part of that ethnicity in that community.
@@ChloeEIizabethPrice cap, if you have enough money and a 500 day bulgarian streak on duolingo u could get it.
This interviewer acts like this is barbaric, and then reveals that she’s 33 and unmarried. Yes I’m sure she’d be miserable with a husband who could support her financially, and a couple of children.
The words "selling the brides" are so disturbing 😒 and why everybody looks so happy for the fact being sold and all 🙄
So in the islam we don't selling girls we pay for her to buy her stuf this is the trully of money and she should be virgin bcuz it's haram to get sex befor marriage so they take some things from the religion like the money and verginity
It’s because they grew up like that. From young these girls were taught that this was their future and nobody thought otherwise. It’s their beliefs and they think this is okay because in their culture it is. Whereas in our culture it’s not
Jay Lo and you get men who look like they’re in 2nd 3rd trimester pregnant.. full of estrogen than a man should have.
@Jay Lo oh please, in our culture we have something called choices and are not tied down by traditional obligations because you know..... Freedom and eduction
@Jay Lo Women in western societies do not need to have sex with men nor do they need to adhere to any beauty regime. Most women simply choose to, nobody is forced to and that is on the woman. You have the freedom to decide what path you walk, what value and worth you put in yourself.
The funny thing is yes lots of men will walk away if you are not jumping into bed with them because women think it is liberating to have easy casual sex and have trained men to expect that, nonetheless a man worth having will respect a woman who does not jump into bed with him far more than the one who just opens her legs.
How many women lose their children after a break up and ordered to pay child support and leave the family? Very very few.
Woman do not get paid less than men for doing the same job to the same standard or let's face it why hire men? Why would it be hard to get the job as a woman if you are a cheaper option, business is about making money.
Where are the quotas for men to get the job rather than the best candidate... That only exists for women or certain minorities not for just for being a man.
The dangerous jobs you think men are no longer doing lol are still being done by men, so are the nasty jobs and exceptionally few woman can be found in the dirtiest, hardest and most dangerous jobs.... And silence from the femenists on quotas for any of these roles.
Women are often too busy trying to build carrers and or out partying and having flings, casual sex and short term fun than they are with creating a family.
Women scream for equality only when it is in their favour.
Women want to have their cake and eat it.
Women buy into the impossible dream of having it all.
Modern women make crap wives and crap mothers, they are entitled and selfish.
I am so happy to be old fashioned enough to navigate this materialistic, narcasistic, soul destroying times that has no focus on family.
Imagine your husband saying
*"I own you."*
*And I oop-*
Maybe he doesn't say that. And just how many western men do you think actually say that, either in words or in actions?
@@lovelybydecay7811 I know some say that because I am from this type of culture where the man acts superior...so...I know someone would have atleast said that...but not all...don't take this to heart lmao...its a joke please...😇💕✨
@@0hynim yeah thats true
50 shades of grey be like
I’d like to buy one of the men! How much are they!
The mom really said “we got a nightclub at home.” Lol
This is not as described by the narrator where women are oppressed by this tradition. This looks like a big Kalaidzhi family gathering and bringing their children together to get to know each other and if it suits them to get married. They do not sell themselves, the price of money is like an agreed dowry. The meeting that day also doesn't have to involve a couple, but rather getting to know each other between families and it could be continued later with a wedding. This is a good tradition compared to what happens in Western Europe, where couples live in the same house but don't get married, which frustrates women, especially when they are pregnant and have children.
"Blonde, blue eyes and fair skin"
*Ze fuhrer wantz to know your location *
Building the Aryan Race lmaoo
lmfao
@@alizafar3708 imagine how much less crime there'd be.
@@alizafar3708 their way to dark to be aryans lol
@@t.wynderogriffin798 true Aryans are Persians,they not ve nothing to do with blonde hair n bleu eyes...
I love how incredibly inviting people in foreign countries can be. She went to the store and bought snack so “they could treat themselves”.
so thats normal in East Europe for example, where are you from ?
@@danielpletikosic9021 I’m from America and honestly I wish that we as a country were more inviting and a more helpful community. But there are also a lot of crazy people out there so we have to be on guard. It’s a shame but someone may rob or hurt you if you let some stranger into your home.
In Brazil we are very receptive as well. I think it's cultural.
I'm from Macedonia, a neighbor of Bulgaria, and generally people here are very welcoming to strangers, especially in rural aerias. But I'm not. I'm too suspicious and generally I don't like to interact with people that much.
@@obthree2830 it's really common, uk in my country we fed our guests a lot and we have a saying that guests are like gods so we do everything for them so they can be in comfort
music name please?? 16:09
10:38The brown dress girl 😍 and the blue (teal) dress next to her is just as PHEWA too 🤩