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7 Ways to SPEAK WITH CONFIDENCE to People Who Make You Nervous at Work

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  • How to Speak With Confidence to People Who Make You Nervous at Work // In this video, you will learn the proven strategies that have helped me to have confident conversations with people who make me nervous. 👇 NEW Product Recommendations below 👇
    In the professional world, speaking with confidence is really important. But sometimes you might be in a conversation with somebody who is intimidating (like your boss, a coworker or a client). In those times you must present a confident version of yourself. But how can you do that when you're feeling nervous, stressed or anxious on the inside?
    Knowing how to speak with confidence is a skill I've mastered over many years and now I know how to look confident when I don't feel confident on the inside. These tips have definitely worked for me and I know they can work for you too.
    Let's learn how to have confident conversations with people who make you nervous! This video includes 4 main tips to help you speak with confident and 3 bonus tips, so 7 tips in total to help you speak with confidence to people who make you nervous.
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    00:00 How to speak with confidence to people who make you nervous at work.
    00:29 How the fight or flight response stops you from speaking confidently.
    01:29 Why does that person make you nervous?
    02:50 Plan for the conversation that makes you nervous.
    05:12 Have the conversation.
    06:15 Bonus Tip #1: Go into that conversation bold!
    06:51 Reflect on the conversation so you can improve for the next time.
    07:41 Bonus Tip #2: Use confident body language in stressful conversations.
    08:12 Bonus Tip #3: Be careful of passive language giveaways.
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  • @kararonin
    @kararonin  2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks for watching! Do you get nervous when speaking to certain people at work? What was the reason you wrote down as to "why" you get nervous?

  • @PaulaAndreaGaviriaMarmolejo
    @PaulaAndreaGaviriaMarmolejo ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Not seeking validation is the greatest tip that helps for me. I don’t like confrontation and always like people to like me which makes me super nervous when speaking up. I’m reminding myself that there are other principles that are more valuable to me than being liked, like staying true to myself. ❤

  • @VeronicaMokoka-jn3ci
    @VeronicaMokoka-jn3ci ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This video was literally made for me.. I'm usually intimated by people more knowledgeable than me

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm glad to hear this video was helpful!

  • @sarasarassss
    @sarasarassss ปีที่แล้ว +28

    As the youngest person in my workplace and in all external meetings… I needed this. Also good to know that I’m not the only one struggling with this, since I’m surrounded by lots of outgoing folks. I appreciate you so much! Much love from Washington DC

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You're definitely not the only person who suffers this. I hope this video and the others on my channel help you.

  • @lil.mushie
    @lil.mushie ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don't know is it just me who listen her so clear and easy to understand her English. Her articulation is purely gold! I'm not good in English but despite of the low volume, I'm so proud of myself that I can still listen your voice clearly.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so happy to hear that!

  • @jenniferogonda7816
    @jenniferogonda7816 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your youtube is a hidden gem.
    Love it.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad you enjoy my content!

  • @emmanuelkehinde2503
    @emmanuelkehinde2503 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Stumbled on your channel and the practical tips you share here is invaluable. Just subscribed!

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much Emmanuel! I'm thrilled you like the content I create. Thank you!

  • @fatoukanyi6666
    @fatoukanyi6666 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am new at work, but I feel little bit nervous and unconfident. I wish I have watched this video before performance my Morgenkries yesterday in Germany. You are one of the best adviser I have had. I will use this video to improve my confidence and interlegent. I thank you!

  • @sunvaj6754
    @sunvaj6754 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Kara, I worked for a non-profit agency for 23 years. And, the executive director always put me down and oppressed me. I didn't know what to do because she was the ED. When she said negative things to me I just ignored her. Now, I'm out of there and I learned to forgive her slowly. Thanks for your valuable information.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm glad this video has helped you now in your career. Thank you!

  • @shankar9191
    @shankar9191 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Kara, I am from 🇮🇳 . I Must have done a good karma in my life to find your youtube channel, Your content's are really influencing my life in a big way. thank you 🙏🙏

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your kind message Sivasankar! I'm delighted you found my channel too 😀

  • @kaycoleman6432
    @kaycoleman6432 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for the valuable advice.

  • @rob5800can
    @rob5800can ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This totally made sense to me. If I can sing in a band and we rehearse to be better, why would I not do this in business? Crazy simple, but until you said it, I never made the connection.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm glad this video has helped you make the connection!

  • @Bill-ws4ke
    @Bill-ws4ke ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant, thank you. I DO need to have a conversation like this.
    This was helpful. Again, thank you.
    Key: set a date. Don’t put it off. Be prepared. Practice.

  • @monikabrunner6355
    @monikabrunner6355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for that great video. Greetings from Switzerland 🏵

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Monika! Thank you for watching!

  • @YogaLoveAngie1118
    @YogaLoveAngie1118 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this video. I'm always experienced this when I talked to someone specially my boss. But bcoz I watched your video. I am so impressed and learned. Thanks for sharing.🇵🇭

  • @GUAYABAFELIZ
    @GUAYABAFELIZ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Kara - I wanted to thank you for making this video and sharing this information. This is precisely what I need at this moment. I recently faced a challenging experience at work with an undermining boss. I felt that I was not valued or appreciated in my organization. I am slowly recovering from that situation. Your words about thinking I am capable and worthy have impacted me tremendously. I will be watching the video about becoming more acertive. Thank you, and God bless you.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am so happy this video and the concept of thinking you're capable has helped you. It's important to remember this because others may not always recognise your value (for their own reasons). But you need to so you can keep progressing. Thank you for watching Diana!

    • @Native_love
      @Native_love ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Definitely those self encouraging words do help!

  • @thammakinjai
    @thammakinjai ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you very much. This video is changing my life. Please Keeping on doing more great video like this.❤❤❤

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow! Thank you very much!

  • @gabrielvasquez905
    @gabrielvasquez905 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My first time watching your videos, and I’m so impressed what I learned from u. Thanks for share with us part of your knowledge, big hug from 🇵🇦

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Gabriel! And welcome!

  • @NaveenKumar-td5bo
    @NaveenKumar-td5bo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like the awesome way of understanding 👍

  • @cristinasilva3564
    @cristinasilva3564 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is precious- 5🌟! Thank you🙏

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!

  • @janj5913
    @janj5913 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so passive, ugh. I will work on this going forward. Thank you!

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope this video and others on my channel help you. Thank you for watching!

  • @phatphan6139
    @phatphan6139 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you.😃watch again and again to learn it and also learn English

  • @bigbithafrancis
    @bigbithafrancis หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep up the good work

  • @Marked992
    @Marked992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You definitely need more subscribers!

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much! More subscribers will come as my channel grows!

  • @mohibquadri6957
    @mohibquadri6957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great one ! I don't know if its nervousness or not as i get nervous when speaking to new people & at professional events.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is really common Mohib. New people and professional events get a lot of people nervous.I hope these tips in this video will help you out.

  • @user-ke6mq1ui4n
    @user-ke6mq1ui4n 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ok it was really helpfull❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @faisalabbas9803
    @faisalabbas9803 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello mam ya you are saying true I need a lot of practice but continue to speak without halt is so easy because it depends on my presence of mind .....how aware we are with our surrounding for example if someone says to me to speak on snow fall as winter season is on so snow fall is More in hilly areas but in planes there rate of falling is less as compared to hilly area ...And two things arises peninsular rivers filled with water whereas some other river has no effect of it because there are filled thought out the year with water much water can cause a situation of flood Or many stream can be start to flow from mountain because rivers originate from stream ..And stream is cause of breaking rock when flow of water is so high Or strong .....And One More thing when speak your focus is so strong you don't distract for a moment And other two thing are also good which I found Or see in you for example a little smile with speaking make a good impression on opposite Person so Chain method is the best way to improve this language because in that method each One get a proper chance to speak fluently ....🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @ashikislamofficial786
    @ashikislamofficial786 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great👍👍

  • @asifmuniruniverse7732
    @asifmuniruniverse7732 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'll continue in next my other part of my accomplished in theology and also made better in my formal not much

  • @user-xw1uw8si4q
    @user-xw1uw8si4q ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear Kara, I have recently started listening to your videos, they are very effective and informative Thankyou. However, In my work place the things come up very uncertainly. My Ceo is quite a talkative person who do not let me speak, or sometime I am talking but he would be on phone or stated to talk to other people that is too confusing. Often this happens that he misses the good part of my discussion. Suggest please.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm glad you like my videos! I have another video that might help you out with your situation th-cam.com/video/NYZQqznROCw/w-d-xo.html It's about how to stop people interrupting you. Other than tips I share in that video, I'd recommend being persistent and repeating your key message to your CEO.

  • @marcellinemendoume773
    @marcellinemendoume773 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this great video, it will help me!!! Just subscribed!
    From Gabon...

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad to hear this video helped you! Thank you for subscribing!

  • @cabdirisaaqdaahir7884
    @cabdirisaaqdaahir7884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for speaking my needs, when I start my lecture I get nervous. Please give me example s of stoping, From Somalia

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Getting nervous is common for many people. I think the tips in this video will definitely help you out. I also have another video on public speaking that will help you th-cam.com/video/Ew2QMDoQyA0/w-d-xo.html

  • @HenriquesPiresDumboManue-hx1sq
    @HenriquesPiresDumboManue-hx1sq ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you my teacher

  • @fascinationofquotation
    @fascinationofquotation ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a great teacher.

  • @ankursingh9023
    @ankursingh9023 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing tutor😮

  • @juanromero3181
    @juanromero3181 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exelente .

  • @FRIENDSKEEPER
    @FRIENDSKEEPER ปีที่แล้ว

    Love love love your Video❤️

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!

  • @user-ke6mq1ui4n
    @user-ke6mq1ui4n 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks am shy but i will manage❤❤❤❤❤😂❤😂😂😂😂

  • @IsraelBrizuela
    @IsraelBrizuela ปีที่แล้ว

    I am now a fan Kara :)

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว

      Fantastic! Thank you Israel!

  • @larajames9972
    @larajames9972 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How do you appear collaborative without using passive comment giveaways? For people who are confident and assertive (e.g. me), who have been told to use more passive language to show openness to others input, how would you advise us?

  • @sharonbolmentbolment8951
    @sharonbolmentbolment8951 ปีที่แล้ว

    amazing video

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!

  • @mdmoniruzzaman2112
    @mdmoniruzzaman2112 ปีที่แล้ว

    very amazing

  • @lilabukvic4216
    @lilabukvic4216 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You speak fast and use many words. But I love to listen to you even its not possible to me to learn from you.
    I have posttraumatical stress syndrom.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Keep trying and replay the videos if you don't understand something.

    • @lilabukvic4216
      @lilabukvic4216 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kararonin yes, yes I know that😀

  • @alexandradaniil7980
    @alexandradaniil7980 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤩🤩🤩i subscribed

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  ปีที่แล้ว

      Brilliant! And welcome!

  • @gopinathg2277
    @gopinathg2277 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you mam 🙏.

  • @TourTanDa356
    @TourTanDa356 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I learn more English, but don't confident when SPEAK ENGLISH with people, can't speak out loud, I'm so nervous to speak, maybe I'm no practice speak everyday !

  • @user-sm6qu2yh4w
    @user-sm6qu2yh4w 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Send this to me I can't keep my concentration right now

  • @MobstaaMob
    @MobstaaMob หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if he just stand and watches you😢😊

  • @theonmorales9905
    @theonmorales9905 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am in love with you

  • @asifmuniruniverse7732
    @asifmuniruniverse7732 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have to go now bye

  • @Gachartales7124
    @Gachartales7124 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nonsense