How to handle the first few dates
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- What’s the best protocol for the first few dates? Should you feel immediate chemistry? How much do you reveal about yourself? My video shares best practices for your romantic success: #firstdates
Anna writes, “Susan, a huge thank you for your advice. Could you do a show about dating, as in 1st, 2nd, 3rd dates. What should they be like? What should we feel? If having butterflies on the first and second date is a bad sign, then what should we be feeling instead? If I don’t feel immediate attraction for someone, should I pursue this or leave it? If there is no immediate chemistry, then what is the point?”
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“If you like how you feel around them, they become more & more attractive” amazing
Especially after a few drinks. LOL
“I was so easy to be with in my 20’s.” 😂😂😂 Oof, I feel that…
LOVE that you mentioned the power of visualisation! The power of thought is so powerful
My attraction for a man doesn’t grow. It dwindles. If I’m on the fence about him it’s a no.
Because you're a woman, hold all the power, and hence make the decision. What's one guy when you have 10 others vying for your attention
Wonderful as always! Have been following your videos tor a few years now. So enlightening... thank you Susan xx
You are the BEST Susan. Thank you for existing.
Great Chat Susan love the show !!!
I needed this, Susan--chef's kiss 💯 for perfect timing!
Susan, you are super helpful. Thank you so much for these videos.
Susan this is absolutely brilliant
Thank you, Susan!!
You truly are a blessing Susan.....love from UK ❤
I love the comment about being unedited. I would like to hear more about that :-) I think that means being totally open & totally yourself
I believe so. I’ve read something by Susan where she emphasized authenticity, as the goal is to find someone exactly in line with our true selves/desires
Susan, you're a genius 😍 Greetings from Poland!
Susan thanks,
i wasn't looking but i liked him online at the first conversation .
It is strange liking someone in that way so much and needing to meet him whatever the cost. i finally met him and fell so hard without hesitation. He changed me in the sweetest way ever, felt like i had always known him all along. You may think it is crazy or weird if I tell you that he has not left my mind and soul for a single moment to date...several years gone now and still in LDR..
I have to go slow and get to know a guy really, really well and trust him. My mother taught me not to make love with someone you're not in love with. A very valuable lesson, right? I've only been with about five men my whole life and I'm 58 years old. But it seems a lot of men want to know early if and when I'll go to bed with them. I divorced a control freak and if I sense a man's controlling, I run like my hair's on fire.
More videos on early stages of dating /verge of starting a new relationship - this was super helpful Susan!
H0T flash LOL! You are too funny
One of your best live streams... multiply subjects all in one. L O V E I T... :)
I know someone who can help you.
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Thanks! ❤✨
I love you Susan! Part of the problem is also many average looking people are trying to date above average. If you know your own smv...go for it
You say "people", let's be real here - "women" *
And they can, because they have all the options
"Safe chemistry"
What now? Some more Susan's Winter videos ❗🦋
How to ask for a date. You should do a video on that.
"oh my god this is the one!!!" XD
Great topic, I'm about to go on date this weekend altough I'm still in mind with my ex. Never did such a thing, but I decided to do everything opposite than before.
I know someone who can help you.
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I’m in exactly the same situation. Still in love with my ex but have a second date with a new guy tomorrow. It’s confusing, that’s for sure
He can help you get your ex back
@@katepaul8206 if my ex is meant for me we will get together some day, without my interfering...
You are like the real person version of the hot lady on Roger rabbit I just realized, kind of hahaha. Great listen, as always. Have a great weekend!
I need the ' constructive dreaming' advice.
We love you Sasan
The problem now is I dont even get a first date. Im a divorced man in his mid 60s. I always get reiend zoned. Im only 5'7" and make less than 50k. I am borderline ADHD and Asperger's plus am introverted quiet and shy. When I ask a woman if they want to meet for something as simple as coffee, a drink, or a bite to eat, it is like pulling teeth to them. It is very frustating and I am facing the possibility of never trying anymore. I am tired of being told by women ehat a great guy I am but they wont give me a chance.
Susan Thank you for all your awesome advice! I am putting myself back out there after a recent break up. Still longing for my ex but I know it's over. After your last video about no contact with an ex I finally got it. It's been 4 months after almost a 2 year relationship. After each first date now, I cry thinking how I blew it with my ex and how unfair it is that I have to be back out in the dating world. Is it fair to keep dating? I haven't gotten past a second date yet because no one compares yet. Should I keep going or stop and wait until I'm completely over him?
Heal yourself first, love. You are right now a wandering open wound and each day is the salt!
Can you please do a TH-cam live on Energy Retraction? I find that topic so interesting.
I know someone who can help you
Messag he on whatzppz
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Susan❤
Whats your opinion about online dating? I am 50 years old and going through my second divorce.
The Universe always asks: “Are you sure?” 😝
He's 50 he's not a child ..I'm 64 ...what do you ppl think ???
Ha! I can’t even get a date !!
It took me 4 years to get a date after I had my first few dates with 25. When u r ready someone will show up even when u think it will not
It's pretty difficult in this time of COVID. Don't be hard on yourself. It's super hard to flirt with a damn mask on. LMAO You gotta laugh.
I was going out with this girl I met on line and after about 14 months I let her go because she wanted $6k to import coL to England and after a month I met a different girl and it turns out she's the same gril I left and tells me she loves me and made a mistake I do love her but don't want her how do I end this
What to do when she is stunning? Successful.
U should do how to date when u ugly. It will help a lot of us
Too many ads during vid
Now I feel scared when a guy asks me what do you do :( becauseveach time I talk about myself and what I do/ study they get scared and joke about me being too smart. Even when I try to down play it I come across as intimidating and it's really affecting my dating experience. Growing up my parents taught me tjat Inshould study hard and be acomplished and throughout my 29 years I achieved many things for a girl my age, but I still feel a void when it comes to my love life. Im trying to just focus on myself and get to know more people but once I get in a discussion with a man they all make remarques about my achievements and how it scares them bla bla they say it like a joke but i feel with timr they actually mean it and the their interest just fizzle out and they chose someone who is " average," to them. 😕😩
What do you do?
That just weeds out the men who aren't meant for you! Don't lose hope, you're rare -- so the person that fits you will be rare too.
Those hot flashes are real!!! ⚡️🌡🥵😳
Hi Susan I like your videos and spacialy I love your personality your charming face...
Susan, I love your little dog. I wish my landlady would let me get one. It would help with the loneliness.
Get a bird or a smaller animal! They are just as comforting 💖
I am so sick over the scammers and catfisher’s posting on Susan’s channel. Disgusting. Have some respect.
Kim Turner It would help if you reported their comments so they can get flagged.
@Lisa Cunningham..Hello! I see you post comments on most of the sites I do..I am a recent widow who is feeling
lonely, and could use a good friend right now..See me on FB, I’m the one with the guitar..lol..let’s chat sometime!
@@marykarle9592 I'd be happy to…where for you live? Mary is a very common name.
I'm getting ready to go out with a 50 year old man , im 64 ..I realized ...if he doesn't like me ...I dont gave to fall spart
I wasn't done
Im looking for a good man
What's going on Octavia
That’s right?? the sex will be better because you know my favorite color🙄
Hello Susan, watched this...great one ! A stellar 11 !
If I may, you look great and I love the,still shot of you..looking very profesh'nl and very hot yet very classy...I d love to see the full photo, picture..btw, hello from wareham/ cape code gateway town....! Stop by !
Dating for dummies ?...men know what they are dealing with in first 10 minutes...if she's a keeper or a fling