Can you please do another episode and more about how the higher libido partner can ever feel wanted? And how low is actually a problem? What if the lower libido partner is fine only having sex twice a year? And the other issues around that…the high libido partner is just supposed to take what they can get?
Thank you, @alanapeterson1359, for sharing your thoughts and questions about desire discrepancy in relationships. It's a complex and often emotionally charged issue, and I want to acknowledge the frustration and pain that can arise when there's a significant difference in sexual desire between partners. Your concern about how a higher libido partner can feel wanted, especially when the lower libido partner is content with a much lower frequency of intimacy, is valid and incredibly important. It can lead to feelings of rejection, loneliness, and a sense that you're not desired. These feelings are real and deserve attention. In future episodes, we plan to dive deeper into this topic by exploring how both partners can navigate this dynamic in a way that honors each other. We'll also address what happens when a lower libido might actually signal a deeper issue, whether it's related to the relationship, individual well-being, or other external factors. Understanding these nuances is crucial for finding a path forward that feels connected and fulfilling. Thank you again for bringing this up-it's a vital conversation, and we're committed to exploring it more thoroughly in upcoming episodes. Stay tuned!
Can you please do another episode and more about how the higher libido partner can ever feel wanted?
And how low is actually a problem? What if the lower libido partner is fine only having sex twice a year? And the other issues around that…the high libido partner is just supposed to take what they can get?
Thank you, @alanapeterson1359, for sharing your thoughts and questions about desire discrepancy in relationships. It's a complex and often emotionally charged issue, and I want to acknowledge the frustration and pain that can arise when there's a significant difference in sexual desire between partners.
Your concern about how a higher libido partner can feel wanted, especially when the lower libido partner is content with a much lower frequency of intimacy, is valid and incredibly important. It can lead to feelings of rejection, loneliness, and a sense that you're not desired. These feelings are real and deserve attention.
In future episodes, we plan to dive deeper into this topic by exploring how both partners can navigate this dynamic in a way that honors each other.
We'll also address what happens when a lower libido might actually signal a deeper issue, whether it's related to the relationship, individual well-being, or other external factors. Understanding these nuances is crucial for finding a path forward that feels connected and fulfilling.
Thank you again for bringing this up-it's a vital conversation, and we're committed to exploring it more thoroughly in upcoming episodes. Stay tuned!