Things Girls Do That Are Unintentionally Attractive
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I just asked my husband, his answers
1. Hearing me pray 2. Freely giving to needy 3. Being a mother 4. Cooking!! 5. My sunglasses..HAHAHA...says I look sexy in them..HAHAHAHA 6. Independence ..thee end!! Btw..we r in our 60's..almost 40 yrs married! ( he said he may have "forgot some")..lol
Haha that is AWESOME! Y’all are precious! That’s def a fun question to ask your spouse! We’re gonna post the one for guys this week so you’ll have to put on there what you think about him! 😉
Same from a gals perspective, seeing a guy praying, worshipping and reading his Bible is soooo attractive also💜👍🏽
I highly agree sister !
Agree 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Yup 💖
Agree!!!
Yeahhh
Kindness is the most attractive trait in anyone.
This video came at a perfect time as I’m eating chipotle in my car in the parking lot 😄
The #1 thing I find attractive in a man is when they worship the Lord without having to drag them to church, they do it on their own. That is a person that is letting himself be led by the Lord, it also gives the message that he will also one day will lead their own family.
Loveee chipotle! Haha and yeah that’s a great one!
Most attractive thing is loving Jesus and being fully submitted to Him.
When a man defends someone weaker than him, that’s super attractive. Guys who are anti-abortion are so attractive!
Also, when a man can have opinions of his own but also listen to people who disagree respectfully.
Girls who read their Bibles, girls who dress modestly, girls who are into theology and doctrine, girls who watch sermons and Christian related content at home outside of Sunday's service
Im a girl but I also agree w the emotional vulnerability one for guys, bevause alot of times I’ve found they can sometimes be emotionally stumped or have a wall up but when a guy is in touch w his emotions, emotionally mature and feels comfortable enough being vulnerable w me I find that soooooo attractive
Agreed!
For me attractiveness In a man looks like:
1. Having a relationship with God (obviously)
2. Leading me spiritually
3. Humble
4. Has a sense of humor and is not serious all the time
5. Good listener
6. Bold and confident
aw the worship one I agree with so much. when I see guys worshipping I think it is the cutest thing and it says so much about what that guy is like. that he feels like he can worship Jesus without worrying about what others think. I love that
Modesty makes a woman instantly more attractive.
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I would have never thought so
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@@marketa4074 Yes like it's breath taking when a petty girl is so confident she doesn't have to show off her body in an ungodly manner. It'll also attract more Godly men to you than dressing inmodest which will bring more lukewarm men to you. Also it should make you happy you're not being a stumbling block like Jesus said not to
Things that make my gf attractive is:
1. How she interacts with kids and babies (specifically my siblings)
2. When she lets me read the Bible and lead spiritually
3. How she loves spending time with her parents
4. She plays 3 sports (very athletic and hard working)
5. Doesn’t show off her body
Modesty is key. Respecting her own body proves to me she is guarding the temple that God made her to be. Also living out her faith. I love to talk with people and listen to how they talk and see if how they talk is how they act. I could say I am Christian but never show it by actions or words... THAT ISN'T ATTRACTIVE IF YOU LIE!
Yeah that’s a good one! Gotta walk what they talk!
I love how Suttons humor and confidence is being shown in this video! 😄
Aw thank you 🥰🥰
“That’s the girl I want to hangout with vs that’s the girl I want to marry”
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Yes it's so true when I was in the world I'd see girls dress unmodest and my mind was just thinking of sexual things with them but when I'd see a girl dress modest I'd always think she's wife material. It's interesting how what's Godly can even have an impact on worldly men but now I'm born again😇
Kindness is attractive in any guy. I had this one boy in my youth group who was very very very very kind and friendly. It attracted me to him a lot more than I thought it did 🙈. Anyway, great video guys! I have basically all these traits but I don't display them openly, except the challenging one. This was such a fun video 😊
I fell in love with my husband's kind heart. He loved that I dress ladylike... A good man will respect you for dressing modestly and not sleeping around x
I would say giving and receiving respect is quite attractive in any relationship 💕
Loved your guys video!! Something that guys do that’s unintentionally attractive is serving and humility. Not necessarily serving me but serving others!
We got one for the guys coming this week! 🤩
I think a guy is attractive when #1He is respectful to his parents and elders. #2 when he is well rounded;can laugh/joke around, cry, work hard, likes learning and growing... #3 when he is confident #4 when he does NOT have a potty mouth. If a man does worship God in heart then he is marriage material, but this should be done of his own accord and without being coaxed BEFORE the dating process, if not then his faith is not real. Thanks for the video, God bless you both!❤️🙏👍😊
Let me add generous to others, appreciative and driven to this beautiful list ♥️
@@annaskyfta7678 indeed!👍❤️
Ooo yeah being respectful to parents is a great one!!
1. he loves God more than me
2. provider
3. leader
4. compassionate
I find it's attractive when a guy cries but in a humility kind of way.
What do you mean by that?
Mmmm🥴 rly
I'm a bit different than most guys as I don't look for physical attractiveness first (beyond preferred eye color), but I enjoy women who are talented in their skills/hobbies and also doesn't wear a ton of makeup everyday. I'd say personality is much more important than looks overall.
That’s awesome!!!👍
Agreed!
That is awesome for you man! I am more shallow and if I am not physically attracted to a women I am not going to ask her out! That is great for you! 💥 boom
I just never want to have to lie if my future gf/wife asks if I had any questions about her physical beauty to me. My cross to bear. Lol
@@mscottster444 it is possible to grow attraction to somebody if your compatible in other ways as long as they aren't unattractive to you. I've found most of the conventionally attractive women (especially those who aren't saved) have an air of entitlement that becomes much worse long term.
Think about it this way, as a man you are always wanting to look for other women no matter how pretty they are, so beauty is only short term and doesn't matter after 3-5 years of marraige anyways. Rather be with someone I can have fun with.
@@jdkayak7868 yeah I’m not saying I’m asking out a beautiful non-Christian girl, I am just saying unless a Christian female is physically beautiful to me I will not ask her out because unless it is related to her weight their is nothing she can do to be more physically attractive to me.
Like if a women’s face turns you off for me it is a no-go.
Someone once said if you can’t see yourself having sex with the female (or the male for a female perspective) with the lights on, don’t pursue it.
I think beauty does fade of course, but I’m not one of the guys that can just flat it ignore it. One because to me it feels unfair to the women and two the Bible talks about beauty in some many places and it isnt just the stories like Sampson and Deliah, etc.
But I definitely get your perspective! You are more than likely wiser than me!
For me it’s humility. Soooo underrated in today’s culture.
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yooo that clap at the beginning gave me a heart attack LOOOL 🤣🤣 my volume was so high 😥
These are awesome. I also think that a person walking in their purpose is so attractive. God bless!
Sutton is so well balanced, I love hearing her perspective! I watch other youtubers and I enjoy them as well, but some can get a little goofy or just ramble. You two seem to get to the point and stay focused! Very well balanced relationship. And I loved hearing hubby's answers!
I love everything you named everything that’s true of Sutton, specifically of course ! This is a great video for girls of all ages, teens, 20s…that aspire to be holy and godly. But you don’t have to focus on what makes you attractive, being a follower of God will attract the right man for you! Just like what Sutton did for you :) y’all continue to grow in love with one another. Be intentional with your time together. God bless!
Loling to “crying” because my husband once said the same thing. I don’t often cry for myself it’s usually for joy or pain others are experiencing. My husband said it showed him how compassionate my heart is. He really loved that quality about me and was drawn to that in a spouse.
Aw that’s sweet 😭
Those claps really got my attention there 😂😍 love you two!
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My boyfriend has told me he likes it when I cry. Not that he’s happy that I’m sad but he loves comforting me and he’s appreciative of how deeply I care about things.
One thing I find really attractive is a girl who knows her bible and can have a theological conversation with. They don’t need to be scholars or experts but a girl who can talk doctrine with me is super attractive!
Being humble is attractive.
Sutton don't let him tell you how to eat, that was rude and embarrassing for him to say
That clap at the beginning 😂😂🙌 I almost fell off my chair🤣🤣
🤣 you shoulda heard him on the other intro he did! He clapped like 5 times cause he kept missing his hands. Then this one he got a solid one 🤣
I don't think God could have found a better match for the two of you. I know that there are many people who can potentially be a good mate for each of us, and I don't know who else you each considered, but I swear you ABSOLUTELY made the right choice. You're a really good balance for each other. Thanks for always sharing and keeping Christ at the forefront where He belongs.
Aw thank you! We believe so too! 🙌🏽
Thanks foe all the awesome videos!🤍😃
Y’all are so funny u remind me and my husband sometimes I feel my husband is a little rough not to comforting either 😅 . Modest is hottest 🤣
I will say the first quality is being a Godly lady, other things that I feel both men and women can attract is being the quiet type because some people can try to read you and test you later. It annoys me today that many people Godly or not still engage in promiscuous behaviors that is against God and hurtful to others. Thank you guys for all the videos you do 🙏
This video should be called “ things Sutton does that’s attractive! “ :)
I love this relationship 😍.
This is very interesting. Before I came to Christ (and later as I was in the process of coming to Christ), I was involved with a terrible, narcissistic man (though I didn't know this in the beginning, obviously). When I was crying one time, he actually said it was very unattractive. Later, all his lies came out, and it was so awful to learn to what he had done-and made what he said about my crying even crazier (clearly, I had been accurately sensing his crazy-making/what was going on). It's nice to hear a man who seeks after God say the opposite. God bless you both!
Let’s Pray for him
@@makenzieadams9006 I've prayed many times for him. Hopefully, he repents and comes to the Lord. God bless you!
I was sooo confused when I first saw the title I thought it said “things girls do that are unintentionally unattractive” lol but boy was I wrong!
Yes You were wrong
Me too 😅
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But that should be the next video!!! 😏
I find leading soooo attractive! It's kind of crazy because if I would have watched this video three or four years ago and leading was mentioned my thoughts would be, 'nope, no guy is leading me or telling me what we're doing.' Lol and now i love it.
Yeah God really changes our heart. I was lukewarm and the thoughts of pursuing a women was a huge no I always let women come to me and I never wanted to lead. Now becoming born again it makes me happy to eventually pursue a women and get to lead her spiritually. Especially how scripture calls us both to submit to each other but specifically a man to give himself up like Christ did for the church so a sacrificial leadership where you let your wife get what she wants like going out to eat or only a little money for new clothes let her get new clothes.
“I don’t find that attractive. You don’t speak for all of us.” 😂😂
Even though we DO have the same name 🤪
I loved watching this video! It was so interesting. I had no idea that any men would find these traits attractive.
Love watching you guys! Can't wait for more! 😊
I LOVE this thank you so much for sharing!! 😄🥰
Lol my husband really doesn’t like it when I cry it actually makes him angry because he thinks that’s being weak 🤦🏼♀️and he wants me to be strong 💪🏻 as you said in the beginning of this video , people are attracted to different things and that’s okay 👌🏻
Amen to all of those!!! You guys are so awesome!
Thank you for the very first point❣
Seeing guys worship etc is attractive
Your videos always make me happy 😊
WOW, thank you for sharing, Nate!
It's so funny that you have that disclaimer everytime 😂😂😂😂don't be apologetic about it, especially if it isn't contrary to God's word♥️
Think the same haha But you know how things are !
Nate is something else. God bless Sutton! 😂
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1. Don’t make the first move.
2. Don’t show all her physical assets with her clothing
3. Speak up when prompted but don’t ramble.
4. Be kind and humble
5. Don’t gossip.
6. Don’t be afraid to worship.
There's nothing wrong with a girl initiating the conversation. It'll show she's friendly and easy to talk to but I agree that she shouldn't ask the guy out as it'll catch us off guard
@@vivaeuropa Thats just you. There are A LOT of shy guys. You know the famous rock climber, Alex Honnold? He was at a speaking engagement....at the end....his now wife made the first move and told him "You are cute" and invited him over to a get together that night. Guess what? They are married with a daughter. I know an ex Navy Seal who is happily married. Guess what? His beautiful wife made the first move.
What I've been told by a male is most attractive about females is: their love for the Lord, simply being yourself, showing respect for others, hearing you talk about the Lord in a natural conversation.
I actually have fun while watching you guys, keep it up. God bless!
Red flags imo 🚩🚩🚩🚩 imagine telling your partner that your relationship will only work if their body looks a certain way… oft not unconditional or Godly love
Nate came in Ready to give us this list 😅 lol, Love u guys 🥰
Come on they are important.
You guys are awesome. I've been watching your videos and keeping up with y'all for awhile and really enjoy watching. Btw Sutton looks great in that shade of Blue and Nate looks great (I totally meant to rhyme right there) in white. Just some positivity!
I love how he included modesty... sometimes I think I'm looked over because I dress modestly...*shrugs**
I can't say I've never felt that way, however what helps encourage me to dress modestly even though it might not get me the most "attention" from guys is that the guys that would just pay attention to me because of how I'm dressed, or how much skin is showing, probably aren't the guys I would want the attention from anyway. In
short: dressing modestly is protection, not just getting overlooked.
@@stacysummers8882 Oooh that's a very good way of putting it. Thank you =)
I’m not concerned about being overlooked! The right guy will notice and appreciate modesty. :) I have very high standards of modesty, but just the other day had a random stranger tell me I looked very pretty. Be classy and meek and confident. 👍🏻
@@stacysummers8882 YES!!! Thank you it's so true I'm a follower of Christ and it's soooo attractive when girls dress modest it shows a different kind of confidence. Yeah when I was lukewarm I'd look at unmodest women and just think sexually while a modest women would always make me think she's wife material. Now I'll just assume they're lukewarm and fully avoid unmodest women because it's the first thing I can see about her.
things boys do that are unintentionally attractive: share their vulnerabilities, show kindness, make me laugh, believe in themselves, are unafraid to follow a woman's lead, have deep conversations, practice a life of compassion, accept and love all people without judgement, laugh at my jokes, make art or music, love nature, find joy in the ordinary, work at undoing their implicit biases, know how to forgive themselves and others, take responsibility for themselves, understand why purity culture is against god, are humble, treat every moment as sacred, have passion and a sense of purpose in their life, able to change their minds, good with animals and children, to name a few!
Love most of those things you listed there, but what do you mean when you say “Understand why *purity culture* is against God”? Are you saying that *purity* is against God (and you don’t need to wait till marriage ect.) or are you saying that the *culture* around certain purity issues is bad? (Like saying virginity is your greatest gift which shames people who did stuff before they became Christian and survivors of sexual abuses ect.)?
@@Knighty-hr2dw Hi Sarah, Anything that causes so much unnecessary suffering is against God. Anything which provides so much cover for sexual abuse and hatred of women is against God. Anything that uses shame and judgment to control people is against God. Anything that lies is against God. Anything that supports the idea that some of us are superior to others is against God. Anytime we use our sexuality to hurt others, as purity culture does, we are going against God. People often use God's name to go against God, to serve themselves at the expense of others, to make themselves feel morally superior. This is what purity culture does and that makes it even more sinful than other forms of misusing sexuality. In general, I'm not attracted to a man who thinks being faithful means policing or judging others as opposed to cultivating his own relationship with God.
Love it!! Jijiji I'll have to write in the comments if it worked when Mr.-Right-from-God comes😁😂😆.
That’s so interesting about the crying!! My husband gets instantly annoyed when girls cry😂 he will shut down as soon as the tears start to flow hahaha
Haha oh no!
There bond gets me 🥰 and they make me laugh
Well we work all of our lives to be that healthy and godly... and once we're perfect here comes boys that does not know our worth, attracted by those qualities ruin our peace because they only want us to them.
I love these two.
Nate you were describing the proverbs 30 woman
I love you Nate and Sutton! 🤍❤️🤍❤️
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@Nath and Sutton, I love your connection. It's beautiful
Interesting to hear your perspective ☺️
The worst sound effect of clapping while wearing headphones. Very obnoxious. I still enjoy your videos. Please be mindful guys.
Thank you so much for your advice
God bless you both!
A man who wholeheartedly respects and supports women is very attractive to me!!
This describes me!! And guess what? I’m married to a godly man 🤗
Expecting your spouse to feel the same about food & exercise is not good. It’s fine to encourage, but excepted/demanded it is setting someone up for failure.
A healthy lady dressed modestly while crying in prayer is definitely something that is attractive to me!
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I kept waiting for the “I’m kidding” after a few of those… :/
nate and sutton my favorite couple.i always feel so inspired to wait on God as my future husband.
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For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16
Nate: *rubs hands together* "Man, that's what I'm talkin' about. Come on over." hahaha!!!
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Late comment - but I can totally relate to the disagreeing one. I tried to be so agreeable with my first husband and I think it eventually bothered him. 😬 Learned communication lessons the hard way. 😕
I agree that it depends on the person. These unintentional things are very dependent on the spouses personality… a choleric spouse is most likely going to have a very different list than a sanguine or peaceful spouse… ex. A choleric spouse won’t like crying or questioning…
I already do all of these things… 😂🙈 where my guy at?? 💀😅😂😂
Satton and I same whatapp group,I always cry during worship,and one guy approached me said it's attractive,I think it's wierd ewwww
You two are so funny!😆
I guess I am Unintentionally not Attractive.
Throwing your sandals on the roof is attractive
Smiling, hair flicking, hair scratching, dressing nicely having a nice back
I agree on the crying point 😁
Interesting!
No on the crying, but when my wife is mad… YEOWEE!!
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When a girl twirls her hair around her finger - something about it haha.
Mmmmmm
The only one I think would end up on my list is the one about disagreeing. It helps me respect her more and I think respect is an important part of love. If I respect a girl I am far more likely to be attracted to her.
There are a few others you mentioned that I agree are attractive but that probably would not have ended up on my list because I think they're obvious.
A good one 👍 👌
According to the last few videos it seems like Nate’s been traumatized by the comments one too many times
Prob so 😂
Sutton is just an opinionated woman 😊
Right worshipping God
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