Intense Q&A - LGBTQ, Drinking, Birth Control, Baby Names
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- Intense Q&A - LGBTQ, Drinking, Birth Control, Baby Names
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My daughter is 18 and has been on birth control pills since she was 12. She has Von Willebrands disease. Without the pill she would never stop bleeding.
@@fiftyfiftylifestyle456 thank you!!! And I absolutely don't care what others think. This is medically necessary!!! Thank you again for your kind word's ❤
It's important to take the pill if you need it for medical reasons.
If your daughter agrees with Nate and Sutton' s argument, she could simply use an additional form of contraceptive as well as the pill, such as a condom.
You know Jesus made the first hospital so I think and it’s just my thoughts not facts that if she needs that for medical reasons . It would be okay . I know a lot of Catholics family of Catholics I’m Christian that don’t believe in fertility and oh man I’ve seen the good that fertility docs can bring to couples . It’s such a difficult subject .birth control and bring life into the world
@@hannahwright6995 Von Willebrands disease is very similar to hemophilia. She has to take the pill. Her first period lasted for 77 day's
@@Kwildcat13 I'm Catholic. My 37 year old daughter just had her first baby in May. After 10 years of infertility. 7 miscarriages she did Ivf and I now have a beautiful granddaughter. Ellie Marie ❤❤
We shouldn't be asking "is this a sin?" but rather "does this glorify God?" and "does me practicing this bring me closer to God?"
“if i’m wrong, i’ve wasted my life. if your wrong, you’ve wasted your eternity.” -lecrae
c8 may but really living a Christian life is the most wonderful, beautiful, loving, fulfilling path on earth that produces the sweetest fruit so even if it is wrong I wouldn’t consider my life wasted.
oh yeah totally i get that. it’s just quote. i think he was trying to not only make a point but also just kinda show nonbelievers the impact. but yeah, living for Jesus is sweet
And this is why I love Lecrae! 👏🏽👏🏽
If you're wrong and waste your life, you waste your eternity
Who wants eternity? It's unnecessary.
I can not believe that Nate did not let Sutton speak on the birth control question!
He rarely lets her speak but this question should have been answered by the person who has to take it…the woman!!
He’s the absolute worst
I think as Christians we really have to try to understand LGBTQ people more and try to feel how difficult it is for them. But I guess one can’t understand what it’s like unless they’re actually going through it themselves. The film Boy Erased really opened my eyes.
Why do I feel like I’m being called a slur when Christians say “homosexuals”
Also “beliefs” like these taught me to hate myself for 15 years but I’m glad y’all can get a laugh out of your gay friends from time to time!
mahlatsi moroka thanks mahlatsi! makes so much sense now, you’re so kind♥️
mahlatsi moroka sorry if I think you’re a bigot, it’s just how I feel❤️
mahlatsi moroka just for the record, you are not acting kind
hayden j personally that is never what I try to insinuate when referring to a person who is homosexual, though I believe that homosexuality is not correct. I do not see homosexuals/non-believers as below me. Some Christians try to make it seem like an unforgivable sin, but I believe it is nothing more than another sin such as lusting after one who is not your spouse. If anything, it only goes to show how much we need Jesus Christ as our Messiah because no one other than Him has defeated sin.
If i was gay and my 'friend' called me a homosexual i would be out of there so fast
Why
* whispers * internalized homophobia
But how. You are talking about a group of people.
@@kamibucholz6718 I don't know where you've been the past 20 years but no one calls gay people "homosexuals" anymore. It just feels like an outdated term. I don't know why people can't just say 'gay' or 'lgbtq' it's not that hard.
@@user-mi3vr3vb4c lol ive thought about this, bothing jokingly and seriously. like ill think 'wait..did that guy just say homosexual? yaa he's a homophobe' lol but in all seriousness sometimes with how ppl say homosexual and their tone u can often get an idea of how they fell about the gays
The pill doesn’t kill fertilized eggs. Period. Being Christians doesn’t mean being ignorant. Let’s please not add to misinformation.
Lucy C. RN here- If an egg becomes fertilized, many oral contraceptives cause the uterus to become uninhabited for implantation. More often conception does not occur but if it does, it can act as an abortificient by preventing implantation.
Here’s some info:
www.stanfordchildrens.org/en/topic/default?id=contraceptionbirth-control-85-P01509
Nikita DeGraaff yep that's all we were saying!
@@nd0158 I agree. That is why they say to stop it if you suspect pregnancy a majority of the time.
Nikita DeGraaff Hi, based on the info you’ve given me what you’re saying is incorrect. It’s not the pill doing what you’re describing, it’s IUD’s.
Please check:
Intrauterine device (IUD). Devices placed in the uterus through the cervix by a healthcare provider. The IUD works by thickening cervical mucus to make it hard for sperm to enter the cervix. Or by preventing the fertilized egg from attaching to the wall of the uterus. IUDs containing hormones are also called intrauterine systems and must be replaced every 5 years, while copper IUDs can last up to 10 years.
Nate and Sutton sorry, the info Nikita gave confirms that she’s wrong. It’s not the pill that does this. It’s IUD’s. So you can use the pill but not IUD’s.
Reference is right here. This is from here link.
Intrauterine device (IUD). Devices placed in the uterus through the cervix by a healthcare provider. The IUD works by thickening cervical mucus to make it hard for sperm to enter the cervix. Or by preventing the fertilized egg from attaching to the wall of the uterus. IUDs containing hormones are also called intrauterine systems and must be replaced every 5 years, while copper IUDs can last up to 10 years.
Hey! I am a 20 year old girl from Pennsylvania! I am striving to live my life completely for Jesus! I stumbled upon your channel and I am loving it!! Thanks for encouraging me to live for the Lord!! I am proud of you all for being a light for Jesus!!! Don’t ever not share something cause you are scared of what people will think!! It is better to obey Jesus rather than man!! Keep doing what you are doing!!😊😊
Amen sister! Keep the faith! Stay strong! Persecution will come, but Jesus is stronger!
Run away! Having sexist, homophobic, transphobic, and sex negative beliefs is on a sharp decline. Christianity is a sinking ship.
@@binaryvoid0101 us Christians arent going to run away from God because other people are attacking us. we don't follow God as an excuse to be all those things you listed, and we don't want or try to be any of those things in the first place
Our mission as christians is to be light in this world and love people unconditionally, don't matter their sexual orientation. Showing Jesus's love through our actions and the way we treat others is such an important thing. We could be hated because of Jesus but nobody should hate Jesus because of us. ❤
No word spoken even had a whiff of hate. Agreeing with God is the only motiation. There is NO hatred from them, it myself, anytime I post anything, it's not hate. Not. I have faced a lot of horrendous things in my life. I don't believe LGBT behavior is the worst sin; I'm only speaking out of love, and a desire for all people to be able to fulfill all God wants them to. Our fleshly desires, LGBT, etc, shouldn't be the guiding point of my life. Our feelings, or pseudo science, as a Christian, never should supersede God's loving directives for our lives; I wish everyone who reads this could truly receive my words in the love and compassion given.❤️✝🙏🏾🤗
Too bad Jesus didn't know this when he told the woman caught in adultery," go and sin no more."
I highly recommend talking to a OB-GYN about contraception, especially since you are really committed to actual truths versus things that you "feel" or "think." Contraception has saved so many women's lives.
I’m a dude and I know more about birth control smh 🤦♀️. You do realize that a vast majority of women take birth control because they have extremely painful and uncontrollable periods right??
Splits Mcgee or hormonal cystic acne. I’m on it continuously for this reason.
Yep. That’s why I took the pill and got the IUD, after a while my periods were so much lighter and less painful.
If it is bc of medical issues it is a whole different idea
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Splits Mcgee i deal with that, and there are soooo many other options beside birth control
When Nate said that he could see the holy ghost in Sutton, that got me😭
Olivia White Omg Harry
When I think of devout Christians, I have always thought of staleness or suffocating militaristic rules. But you both illuminate the beauty and love of Christ and what he symbolizes. Thanks be to God for allowing an opportunity to know of you!
Thank you for sharing this, because I know many of my friends are seeing this and I want to tell them my story. I went down a path that was not following Jesus and I wanted to get out of there because I was stuck in an endless cycle of no spiritual growth and I would scream out "what is the point!". I started changing my life by following Jesus and it was the BEST decision I have and will ever make. I feel SO free and and am bursting at the scenes with hope. I will never go back
this couple seems to cling to fear/shame and igorance. it's sad seeing them enjoy their homophobia and bigotry, and pass it off as 'love' from 'christians' pff
Yassss I love having straight people tell me why being gay is not okay.
Don’t be gay if you don’t like it
@@YourMom-bl1dr shockingly, not the worst thing my mother has told me in regards to my sexuality. Gotta try harder than that sweetie.
Nate Crawford I mean... I’m sorry? Being gay is controversial just like abortion so don’t be mad when someone disagrees... just go on with your life and be you lol.
Your Mom Except...it’s not controversial anymore? At least not to open-minded, accepting people. Most people in the U.S. are okay with it. It’s only controversial to close-minded bigots who weaponize religion to make it controversial. Also, your previous comment “Don’t be gay if you don’t like it” is extremely telling. It’s not a choice. Gay people can’t help it if they’re gay, just like straight people can’t help that they’re straight. You know what is a choice, though? Being homophobic.
crapentertainment I’m sure it’s controversial to most you just live in a fairy land where you wanna be accepted but you’re not so that’s why you’re arguing with some dude named Your Mom on youtube.
I feel like Sutton should’ve answered the contraception question
They took turns answering questions - he just so happened to get that one 🙈😊
I think the same
That wouldn’t be biblical silly!
They obviously share the same outlook on it.
Sarah Bellum what do you mean it wouldn’t be biblical?
I’m so so so thankful for you both!! It’s so important to watch our approach to worldly subjects, gotta protect our witness. Thanks for being role models for younger generations . I’m excited to see God’s work done through you !! I’ll be praying for you & your babies!
Tell me you have white privilege without telling me you have white privilege
LMFAO who said birth control kills a fertilized egg ? 🤣
www.hli.org/resources/abortifacient-brief-birth-control-pill/
Glint of Light on Broken Glass stop using biased sources. www.politicalresearch.org/2018/05/08/profile-on-the-right-human-life-international-hli
@@moniquemartin127
You mean, like these?
Endnotes
[1] United States Department of Commerce, Bureau of the Census. Reference Data Book and Guide to Sources, Statistical Abstract of the United States [Washington, DC: United States Government Printing Office], 2012 (132nd Edition). Table 98, “Current Contraceptive Use by Women, by Age, Race, Hispanic Origin, Marital, and Cohabitation Status: 2006 to 2008.” The entire Statistical Abstract in PDF format is available on the United States Census Bureau website.
[2] Bogomir M. Kuhar, Ph.D. “Pharmaceutical Companies: The New Abortionists.” Reprint 16 from Human Life International, 4 Family Life Lane, Front Royal, Virginia 22630.
[3] Robert A. Hatcher, et. al. Contraceptive Technology (17th Revised Edition) [New York City: Ardent Media, Inc.], 1998, Table 19‑1, “Relative Potency of Estrogens and Progestins in Currently Available Oral Contraceptives Reflecting the Debate about the Strength of the Progestins,” page 407.
[4] Federal Register, 41:236, December 7, 1976, page 53,634.
[5] United Press International news release in the Cincinnati Post, January 11, 1973.
Most of the sources are "unbiased" - or, at least, not biased to life. They're biased, all right - to death. They use "choice" to make death appeal to the brainwashed masses.
HAHAHAHAHAHA right? I was like um what in the actual shit?
Science? . . . . Depends what birth control you are talking about but there are 3 ways a contraceptive works 1. prevent spem reaching the egg (ie. thickening cervical mucus or creating a hostile environment to sperm (IUD)) 2. prevent ovulation 3. prevent a fertilized egg from implanting (by thinning the endometrial lining)
For the most part the primary purpose of the combined oral contraceptive is 1 & 2 HOWEVER 3 is very much a 'back up' mechanism for the COC and definitely does mean that birth control CAN ' kill a fertilized egg'.
The progesterone only pill and copper IUD however do not prevent ovulation therefore rely on 1 & 3 to work.
(The mirena or hormonal IUD I believe does prevent ovulation so works similar to the COC)
There is probably a lower chance of mechanism 3 occurring than the other two and that may mean that someone doesn't have a problem with taking birth control and that is their choice! However it IS important for everyone to be informed and make their own decision as for some people even a small chance that it prevents a fertilized egg from implanting means they do not want to use it and that is also a valid decision!
Source: Medical student with an interest in Obstetrics and Gynaecology! :)
I love the fact that no matter how controversial a question is, you will always speak the truth based on God's scriptures you don't care about subscribers you're really preaching the father's word without hesitate, i just discovered your channel todsy and I'm pretty sure God's using you both to bless people around the world, thank youuuuu
Ah, the brainwash is complete. Have fun with no mind of your own.
Exactly, they preach without fear of criticism
They're homophobic asshats.
@@TheIfe_bd truth hurts. Deal with it.
@@tainadelva7008 I don't get you. I was commending them for speaking without fear o criticsm, so what's the truth that hurts that I have to deal with?
you’ve inspired me to evaluate my relationship with god and with those around me and i’ve really been hearing the holy spirit pressing on me to let jesus bring changes into my life and to accept these changes and spiritually grow
my grandparents are strong christians but my parents not so much, so it’s a true blessing for me when you guys post a new video. so much wisdom and knowledge at the tip of my fingers. thank you guys 💛💛
“LGBTQ” if 5 letters are a lot of words for you than I’m concerned...
That's just the short form. There's also LGBTQQIP2SAA, or LGBTTQQIAAP. And that doesn't include every identity, the list seems to keep getting longer.
Well the +++++ if you look into it includes much over 5 letters and is growing every year or so...
I feel like non-believers came to this video just to negatively comment on it. Bless you guys for sharing the truth and following God's word! There will always be attacks from the opposing side. It's not easy to state a belief or opinion nowadays without getting ran over with hate.
Amanda Kay true
sad how 'christians' always feel attacked when someone has a different perspective than them. it's also sad when 'christians' cherry pick from the bible to facilitate their fear and hate of others who are different than them
@@kh7632 aww assumptions, who is making them, lol, wow... ;) you're coming at a this from a funny angle, kind of stacking it in your favor, setting up your narrative that favors your bias...but i guess that is what an ASSumptive person does ;)
you ASSume that i'm 'not a christian' - thanks for asking lol, or wait, assuming. this also proves you barely read any of the MANY 'chats' i've had here where i've shared about myself and spoke with many 'argumentative' christians who prefer to feel attacked rather than share dialogue, funny how i'm getting a similar vibe here?! most of these people argued and said mean things and ended up deleting ALL their comments, sad they can't just chat... anyways, i am in a relationship w christ and was raised in 'organized religion' for over 25 years...kind of throws off your whole angle, huh? anyways, so i speak from a variety of experience when i say that many people who claim to be 'christians' i feel are using the religion for comfort and an excuse to condemn others who are 'different' than them, like how nate and sutton claim the bible says homosexuality is wrong, when it's really their 'opinionated/subjective interpretation' that they sadly pander off as 'truth' and that 'god told them so'...it's sad and it's not christlike love. so many of these types (not assuming you) of christians take verses out of context and ignore cultural/historical contexts and favor new/modern translations that fit their insecurities and shame....it's not what christ intended, so much lost in translation and sadly so many words swapped out to accommodate fear. try checking out an early translation, they are all available online, you'll see what i'm saying...
the very fact that you replied to disagree with me speaks exactly as to what my first comment was, lol, sorry you can't see that - what is your goal here? think about it, even if i wasn't a 'christian', as you admit to assuming - how would your reply to me be anything christlike?! basically condescending and defensive, that is my concern with so many 'christians' here in this forum, it's a sad community, just trying to share some insight and love, if you dn't like it, or worse, don't get it or feel it, scroll on :)
and no, i don't feel a little confronted (thanks for telling me how i feel lol, try 'i' statements).... i feel more disappointed when someone USES their so called 'important belief' in a self serving way to accommodate their fear/insecurity of others and ultimately themselves (particulaly referring to 'christians' here like nate and sutton who think homosexuality is a sin and further take verses out of context to fit their agenda of this). if someones 'important belief' is condemning someone and using the bible out of context to do selfishly so, then yea i'm concerned about that and going to call them out, that isn't an 'important belief' that person has, it's actually called ignorance, bigotry and hate....disguised as 'important beliefs', sadly using christianity in the opposite way god designed it...
love and accept yourself and someday you will love and accept others, as christ hoped for us to do
@@kh7632 wow, now telling me that i'm 'angry' and have 'taken offense of you' - i don't feel that way, thanks for assuming and not asking, again lol... i actually expressed clearly how i feel in the previous comment, yet you seem to be focused on exterior aspects and projections that cater to your narrative here - it's weird and manipulative to tell others how they feel and in turn avoid your own feelings...try it out
i'm guessing we could have a much better conversation, without enmity, if you didn't tell me how i feel or assume this and that, and speak on your own feelings and experience. i also think it would be a smoother conversation if you'd actually do some research and check out early/christian translations of the very verses you cling to as 'truth' that homosexuality is a 'sin' - until then this will likely just be bickering 'around' a conversation and 'how we are talking' instead of what we are talking about... i'm here (as you claim to see my other comments) to encourage people to reconsider their perspective on homosexuality/lgbtq and notice it might be their own fear/shame/insecurity that facilitates their feelings and NOT God's word as many sadly claim. this has been my concern here and it's what i'm here to create dialogue around - otherwise, i'm not sure what you're interested in talking about?
i wonder, do you have any friends/acquaintances who are homosexual or lgbtq? i also wonder, how do lgbtq people effect you, is it positive or negative? why are some christians concerned with others that have ZERO effect on them?
at the end of the day, you will have to decide PERSONALLY about how YOU alone feel about lgbtq/homosexuality. while there is a lot to read in the bible, there is equally a lot to interpret...subjectively. it can't tell you how to feel, merely reflect it. my point is that if there is no absolute clarity in all the bible that it says this or that (which is why many people debate it's history)... it's up to us and merely a reflection of us on how we choose to see it and feel it in our hearts... it is fine if someone doesn't approve of lgbtq/homosexuals, but to take christs words and use them to facilitate personal feelings, i find that disgusting and inhumane and i pray for those people...
@@kh7632 wow, again with the 'you' statements, telling me that 'i'm taking it the wrong way agaiiinnnn' ugh... google 'i' and 'you' statements ;) it seems you don't realize you aren't taking responsibility for your feelings right now and instead making it about mine and how you say 'you're taking this the wrong way'....you do know that it might be YOU caught in that. see how that works? re=phrase it from a place of your feelings, using an I statement, i assure you it'll feel great and will help you understand yourself and others better...
and i'll stop 'accusing' you of assuming if you simply stop assuming - you absolutely DO NOT have to 'assume some' but instead ASK QUESTIONS, it's easier than ever on comments to do this - until then, i'll keep having to contradict the 'little bit' you claim you have to assume. good luck having conversations with anyone doing that...
to make clear AGAIN, you'll learn nothing if you don't ask questions of others, no need to assume or claim their feelings to situate your own... to make clear AGAIN, you earlier said the bible does have verses that says homosexuality is a sin, yet you now all of a sudden don't know how to search for those verses?! i'm confused, if you claim there are verses that justify your feelings, use bible websites to look those up, once you find them, scroll through the multiple amounts of translations and discover the old ones, i can't do this for you, and if you don't do this we don't really have much to talk about, and you won't understand where i'm coming from?
i disagree, it is not your responsibility to be concerned with others as a christian...i'm not sure where you learned that? i'm not sure where it says this in the bible? i feel it is our responsibility to accept ourself and in turn accept others, as christ designed us. being 'concerned' with anothers sin is a great way to ignore our own...i hope people here that are obsessed with homosexuals and being 'concerned' with them will wake up and realize it's their own feelings, not christs guidance, causing them to feel that way...being 'concerned' with others isn't unconditional love.
it's funny how you say you don't have any friends that are lgbtq (obviously) yet you somehow feel compelled to be 'concerned' with them? how can you love and respect someone who you know nothing about?! oh yes, i forgot, you like to 'assume just a bit'...remember, these are your personal feelings towards homosexuals, the bible doesn't validate them, and until you can 'prove' that, i'm not sure what else we have to talk about....care to know any more about my perspective? just ask! don't assume ;)
i have more questions... why do you not have homosexual/lgbtq friends? what do you think of the 'ones' in your 'industry'?
how do homosexuals effect you or the world negatively? why do you think so?
I have so much respect and admiration for you two. You stand by the truth and you don't sugar coat it. It takes a lot to put your opinion out on the internet regarding such controversial "unpopular" beliefs. But just know a lot of us got your back and are thankful that you are our voice and represent us. Please don't ever stop being you! ❤️❤️❤️
Laura Thank you!! 💛💛
What truth do they stand by?
Laura I second you! First time watching their videos and wow I’m so glad that young ppl out there stand for God’s word! 😊👍🏽
Laura I agree 110% With you!
This is why I just subscribed to their channel!
Yes to monthly Q & A 's. I can relate to "wants" verse "needs" struggle, Nate. I am reminded that God does take delight in the prosperity of his children. And there is nothing wrong with be blessed to be a blessing. Being a good steward over the resources that God gives you is the key. Tell Oaklan I said "hey". Tfs
"We're not naming him." 😂
Love the way you use the word to explain controversial issues with love! We need more Christians like that and I’m striving for that!
I’m really proud of you Nate!! You continually handle questions kindly but out of truth. They aren’t always easy to hear even for me but I respect them and they challenge me in my walk! Which I’m sure is what you created this channel for. I love it!!
Jacqui Fricke Agreed!
I loved this video! So glad to see two strong believers spreading the word of God💛
Ok but what would you do if your child was gay?
Love them always, pray, try to guide them to love which you and I every human being we all need. Every human being needs God. He is love and in love there is within Him only the uttermost truth. We all need Him everyone of us. I have to read the bible to read and understand the bread (food of life) and I myself too to not make a God that I am comfortable with in my own mind because that is idolatry a sin right there, I have realized hearing more of the truth explained to me out of the care for me has helped me even if it is years later. We are all people. Sometimes we don't always want to read the bible or do things that we know God wants us to do or trust in Him but He is the most loving and all knowing Father , I can't rely on myself nor to save myself I can only rely in Jesus to save me. No one is perfect but its so important for our spiritual health our growth in our relationship with God. You want to get to know God, I do too. Pray, seek Him, just talk, spend time with your Father get to know Him and His word which clarifies in truth and spirit what He means and is saying too. Ultimately I don't want to rely on myself to speak but only let God His holy spirit to guide me and instruct me in what to say so I need to pray and submit that submit in that He knows what is best which is His will not mine even if I may get ahead of myself. God knows everything He knows what is best for us out of love, life spiritual growth and salvation through Him alone. Christ paid The price for us imagine how much He loves us but wants us to trust Him and follow Him. His all knowing and most loving will not our own will. The best I can say I guess is talk with Him go to Him and trust in Him to guide you but give Him all to Him. Submit your life give your life to Him entrust and trust in Him. He knows what we truly need and every thought of ours. We have to entrust in him even if we are not perfectly trusting sometimes still give it to Him too entrust that and submit that to Him. If you want, a TH-cam channel I've watched lately and has helped me is Living Waters I've realized and learned a lot about some things that I've heard and read before and then there were things that I honestly did not understand before. Its very loving I've had and may still have my moments sometimes and I believe God is always with us but we do need to give anything everything every area even in the area of not wanting to read the bible everyday and trusting in Him we need to give all that to Him. I hope that people can pray for me too as I hope the same for everyone. I think there are a lot of precious people.
they’ve answered this in another video along the lines of “i’d love him but would hope he changes his mind. “ ... 🤦🏽♀️
@@ellacreative2842 you don't "change your mind" about being gay. It isn't an interest or a hobby, it isn't a choice or a decision that is made. It is who the person is. Just the same way you are straight
@@buttermepancake3613 I understand this. I’m not agreeing with them, I answered the previous comment that Nate and Sutton said this in another video.
@@buttermepancake3613literally why can’t all the homophobes in the comments understand that
Nate, why are you referring to men as you talk about masturbation, ladies love to do it as well. I am a single man and talked to my doctor about NOT masturbating and he told me that it could cause cancer if you don't release yourself. Please could you come back on that?
First let me start off by saying that I couldn’t wait for you guys to post. Each one of your videos are motivation for me to continue to walk in the direction God wants me to walk. Thank you so much for being you❤️
Laila Olé that's an answered prayer for us 🙏🏼💛
Y'all made me laugh so much in this Q&A!!
Love y'alls channel!! Sewing truth! So true! 💕
God bless you two!
Why do straight people still use the term ‘homosexual’? It’s just so formal 😂😂
Anything to not annoy
Crim-son Anims white ppl an I right?? 😂😂
If they have the same views as Girl Defined, then it's because they feel that the word "gay" was stolen to make something just **terrible** seem not as terrible since gay meant happy. (Rolling my eyes, too.)
It also could be that they're in the SSA camp - same sex attraction. Usually people in this camp believe it can be cured (a lot of Mormons, for example). However, they also talked about gay people staying single so I'm not sure.
It's like they're afraid of offending us by saying gay
@@sarahmlt2277 I mean, it's literally Christian propaganda to belittle gay people and try and make it powerless by referring to being gay as "being homosexual" or suffering from "SSA." For those of us who have been persecuted by the church for our orientation, it's hurtful. But go off, I guess.
For a 63 year old woman I really love your Channel my prayer is that the young people watch it and learn from it you two are a blessing to everyone around you. Keep up the good work. And I am praying that you have a healthy and happy baby. Much love and God bless
I very rarely comment on TH-cam but when Nate spoke on Sutton's eyes and the Holy Spirit... Made me emotional. God bless you guys. Your connection is so inspiring and it's so clear God is at the centre of your marriage. I was saved in May after two years of suffering from the backlash of an abusive relationship, right now I feel God has called me to be single/build a partnership with Him. But watching you guys is so healing, it gives me hope for my future family and husband. Lots of love for you both. Clara, 24, from London xx
clara you're so sweet thank you for your kind words 🙏🏼💛
that part reminded me of song of songs 1:15
Such a nice comment, I agree with you Clara May the lord bless you
Praying for you Clara
Definitely a marriage to look up to
I literally do the "what day is today" thing with you guys and what a smile it brings on my face.😂😂 Aww, love you guys!! 😍😍❤️
Kay Bovana 😂😂
That answer about looking into Sutton’s eyes and seeing the Holy Spirit was so beautiful. Made me tear up! You guys are the best 😊
Dayna!!! Lol I love finding my Facebook friends in TH-cam comments!
You guys are so fun to watch! Thanks for the great content, could not stop laughing with you guys 😄
I love y’all so much! Your videos are always so encouraging and refreshing. I will be praying for y’all through the pregnancy!!
I can't wait to see the new baby! I am so excited for you guys! I wanted to thank you for what you do for TH-cam, now a days it's hard to find content that is appropriate or Godly and what you bring to the table for viewing is so amazing! You two are true blessings from God and I am so happy for both of you and your new addition to the family! God bless you guys 💛💛
Destiny Brown we can't wait either!! And that's so sweet thank you for encouraging us 🙏🏼🙏🏼
When Nate said "we're not naming him", I died 😂 You guys popped up in my suggestions a while back and then when Paul & Morgan did the video with you all, I knew I had to subscribe 🙈 I've got loads of respect and love for them haha so I knew whoever they hopped on board with would be legit too :) So thrilled I "stumbled" on your channel and I love love LOVE how solid and unashamed you are on the things that really matter :) Keep chasing Truth and I pray the Most High uses you guys mightily for His Kingdom!!!
Greetings from a high school student in South Africa 👋🏻 🇿🇦 Just wanting to let you know that you're helping the Kingdom reach the nations! Thank you for reflecting the Lord - bless you guys 😁
And you also answered my DM in a day! So you’re doing great :) Your answer even helped me start a video company so! ☺️
Jacqui Fricke Yayy that's so cool!!
Love you guys so much! Every question was answered so wisely. And Nate's expressions!!! Couldn't stop laughing.
Birth control is not the same as an abortion, just so you know^^ I watched your video, and have a lot of questions about where you get your resources from.
Who says that it has the potential of killing a fertilised egg?
19:12 lgbtq questions starts
Thanks❤💛💚💙💜
Thank you
this couple is hateful and validate it through their 'religion', this couple is so manipulative and sad
@@PC-bd3uh It's not hateful to tell someone is wrong in their behavior and yet still love them. The two can be separated. Love does not automatically mean agreement.
@@Kiki-fe2le hmm ok let's try...i think you're wrong, i think your behavior is wrong if you choose to condemn others for their beliefs or way they live - i think it's wrong because it's actually bigotry - only Christ can decide our fate - i think nate and sutton are incredibly wrong and misleading
you need to consider that there are actually people that are 'different' than these people that will feel pain and judgment from them and apparently you - call it love all you want - but it is not, and it won't be accepted as that just because 'you say so'
love yourself and you will love others, it's magical!
But that is so easy for a straight man to say, you're straight and your love is accepted by the world and your family and your wife- not having nice things for yourself is not the same as being alone or procreating with someone you are sexually and physically unattracted too. Your argument is so flawed.
you can't just dismiss what he said based on his demographic, his answer is literally based off what the bible said not what he feels and that was the whole point of what he was explaining. It's not easy or warm and fuzzy
I would use the example of a Christian who believes they should wait to have sex until they are married. Some Christians never find the right person but they desperately want to have sex. However, according to their beliefs-even though sex is a natural and innate desire- they would be sinning by giving in to that very deep desire. So even heterosexual people who are truly trying to do what they believe is right are forced to go against a very natural desire that they were born with in order to do what they believe honors God.
Anna Rocha so in your example, a christian doesn‘t get to have sex. Okay. But what DO they get to do? They get to be in a relationship. They get to hold hands with their significant other in public. They can introduce them to parents and friends. Even when they‘re not in a relationship they get to say out loud if they fancy someone they‘re interested in. They get to have every aspect of their identity respected and valued. Does a gay person get that, according to you? I don’t think so.
Sex is a bodily function and a desire. Sexuality is a part of your identity that you don‘t choose.
Yess Agree girl this is all very easy for him to say
Anna Rocha sounds horrible and unreasonable
seriously guys I absolutely love how honest and truthful ya'll are! God bless you and can't wait for you guys to reach 100K!!
Luiza C thank you Luiza!! We so appreciate your support from the beginning 💛💛
@@nateandsutton funny, i find you both avoidant and judgmental. it's sad that you can't create communication here and reply to actual 'comments' that could conjure and sustain dialogue you desperately need....yet, you gladly pander replies to mindless glad handing compliments on here, lol
P C we are more interested in focusing our energy on people who have sincere questions, not ones who's purpose is to bring us down and be argumentative. With that said we know there are many comments that are left unanswered. We just don't have the time to answer them all
@@nateandsutton oof, my point exactly - you 'pick and choose' what is 'comfortable' for you, just like you do with the bible...very self serving and sad - but, feel free to create a homogenized bubble of people (community) that 'think like you' and continue backhandedly shame people like me and others who have/had genuine questions/comments that you write off as 'argumentative' - people like you push people away from christianity, consider that!
anyways, this is your position that you choose, very telling - considering you both seem very defensive and sadly very hateful, i'll move on and find a channel more loving and christ-like!
P C wow and i keep seeing you post comments that Christians like them need to somehow “love better” and all you say to them are mean and hateful comments. If you’re so perfect in your loving shouldn’t you show more love to everyone not just the people who agree with you? Like Jesus said to love your enemies? (Not saying that you’re somehow saying they’re literally your enemies though cuz I’ve seen how you like to twist the meaning in comments that disagree with you)
I am a gay woman who grew up baptist, I appreciate your kindness in your response toward the lgbt community and I understand where you are coming from. It is difficult for me to understand why God would allow me to be this way and never want me to fall in love or experience spending my life with someone. It is hard to surrender when you fall in love with someone you weren’t expecting. It is hard for me to believe that God wants me to just be single for the rest of my life. It is easier to say that you would just be single and serve God than actually doing it when all you are doing is loving another person.
remember you are perfect just the way you are. God loves you the way you are and it is perfectly fine to be a gay christian woman. 💜
@Val J I deleted it before I knew you responded because I don’t need the negativity and judgement that most Christians respond with about this topic. We wouldn’t even be having a conversation if it were any other “sin” because many Christians think being lgbtq is the worst for some reason. I apologize for assuming anything about your life though. We can have different paths and that’s okay. I wish you the best.
@Val J have a great one 👍
Go ahead and meet someone. God doesn't care. Look around you! Do you REALLY think God cares whether you love someone! That the whole point of life !
@@lanecrescent4161 But God does care. He cares so much that He brought Jesus to die on the cross for our sins. What do you mean?
I feel like I watched this at such a perfect time. I’ve been struggling with my feelings towards someone and you guys reminded me that I should do what the Lord says & to love your enemies! No matter how hard it is, that I’m his servant and he’ll reward those who walk in his footsteps. I feel so blessed every time I watch your guys’ videos!! Thank you 💕
lol so you're basically saying you have been struggling with 'hate' and 'difference' toward someone and this video justified it for you?! curious, is your feelings about a lgbtq+ 'human' person? i assume you think you are better than them because you are 'normal' lol, hate comes in so many shapes and sizes!
@@PC-bd3uh in other comments you got angry at people for assuming and here you very obviously state that you assume things that it is not fair at all to assume about other people
@@seventyseven5140 hmmm wait, what did i assume here, simply state it please. otherwise it feels your really trying to spin this here? but i won't assume! ;) in my above comment i asked the person questions...they never answered. how is that assuming lol. i assume nothing and i just let the homophobes and bigots express themselves here. these people have expressed their bias and i simply respond to that aspect of them, no assuming needed. i certainly don't agree with them so i do enjoy debating/arguing, nothing wrong with that...
funny you've replied to me a couple times now, you seem to be playing audience or a referee here? why not participate in actual dialogue? can i ask - how do you feel about homosexuals, personally. and, how do homosexuals affect you negatively, if at all? otherwise, why are you interested in talking to me? no need for patronizing ;)
@@PC-bd3uh ive got no different opinion than Laura, one of the people you beat up, no need to argue or even talk to you because you wont take a loss and well just keep going on forever. look at her replies to you
Really love you guys! Have been here since before you guys blew up, and just wanted to say that you guys are my favourite youtubers to watch! I love your hearts and your wisdom. I've been really encouraged and inspired - keep doing what you're doing
The fact that all I want to do at Sunday's evening is just sit and watch your new video makes me so motivated to get my whole work done in the morning. ❤ Greetings from Poland!
Dorota Nicewicz haha that's so sweet we love you! 💛
Greeting from Poland too :)
You guys address these questions so incredibly well!! I truly appreciate the both of you and your heart for God, thank you!
I really enjoyed your guys honesty and perspective, I would love to hear Sutton speak more on the political questions !
Great video guys, I like that you guys don't shy away from questions. God bless.
Hey guys thanks for your content, you guys are great. You are reaching people all over the world. All the best from South Africa. May you be blessed!
Dieter Stark wow so cool all the way from South Africa!! 🇿🇦
Hey Nate & Sutton,
❄️Greetings from Alaska!❄️
Just wanted to say that y'all are such a blessing!
You've continually inspired and encouraged me in my walk with the Lord! You give me tremendous vision for what I pray/hope my future marriage will be someday!
Y'all make me wish TH-cam had a "Love" button! ❤️
Keep up the good work!
On LGBTQ:
"If God says it's a sin, you shouldn't do it regardless on if you like it or not."
"If God said in the Bible that I had to drink my own pee, I'd do it whether I liked it or not."
"I have a problem with God saying sell your possessions and give it to the poor because I want a big house."
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
I know. I lost some brain cells listening to that faulty argument.
He says he has a hard time submitting to those commands but still experiences joy and more fulfilment when he steps out of faith to follow them.
so... he didn't really give a clear answer about their views on homosexuality. Here's what I got from it: It's not a sin to be gay, you just can't act on any of your sexual feelings or desires. I don't understand how that is fair AT ALL. I don't appreciate how they say homosexuality isn't a sin, but they still cannot accept that it is totally fine for people in the LGBTQ community to do everything straight people can. If you're gay and wanna have sex, DO IT!!
Anna Randall THANK YOU!!! My view is always on the fact that at the time of the Bible’s creation pro-creation was absolutely necessary for couples. However, as time has passed it is no longer simply about pro-creation so any God should not be against two people loving each other, no matter their gender.
That “surrender to your creator” basically came out as just accept ur role as a straight man bc that’s what god made u
They might be in the camp that the desires are not sinful, but acting on them are? Not sure.
Hannah Thomas mmmm, I think the biggest issue in regards to very closely following the Bible is that when reading it I never found a specific statement about that, it’s just implied in a couple places and one of them was a mistranslation (man shall not lie with a man).
@Hannah Thomas I just looked up that verse and it doesn't say anything about what you said. Did you link the wrong verse?
Just caught myself singing and clapping along to the Q&A song in the beginning lollll
katelyn chisolm 😂👏🏼👏🏼
Love hearing from you guys! You guys are one of my favorite families on TH-cam!!
I actually found out about y'all through Nate's personal channel because I got the SARPE surgery last summer so I watched his videos! haha good stuff
I've been waiting for this video the whole day!!
It takes a lot of courage to do Q & A's , just scrolling through the comments makes me so anxious and sad and angry too because people are not only savage but a lot of people are so lost. I pray God gives you courage and the grace to continue telling the truth even when it hurts and I pray people's hearts are transformed .
The truth? 😂
They really are lost. The excuses of but it is love, over and over again, completely misconstruing what this lovely couple says.
The truth is that birth control does not kill fertilized eggs and according to all major health organizations in the US, Canada, Australia, Europe, and the UK, there’s nothing wrong with being LGBTQI+.
I think it does take a lot of courage to continue believing in fairytales and magical thinking when you’re living a world that values science and facts more.
it takes a lot of courage to be homophobic and bigoted and sadly try and twist the bible to prove your sorry ignorant narratives. they speak NO TRUTH, merely reflect their sad singular subjective perspective of the world, seems full of shame and fear....that is a dangerous combo that will hurt themselves and sadly others in the long run....
I love your guys videos! They are so encouraging! It's crazy how I have been praying for answers regarding the topics you guys talked about and your video pops up on my feed. Thank you for making these videos!
it's really not that many letters? lmao
LGBTQAAIP2AQ? How big is the rock you’re living under and does it have its own zip code?
@@joegalley2187 how small is that brain of yours? It's usually mentioned as LGBTQA+
Or GSM.
@@tuhimerameraa1 just like there are only 2 genders and not 72 (as recognized by NYC or 51 recognized by Facebook)? Apparently the volume and surface area of my grey matter dwarfs yours by at least an order of magnitude
@@joegalley2187 I hate the fact that you watch Kyle kulinski lmao he ain't pathetic like you
The answer to the question about homosexuality started off so good, but went in a really strange direction...you’re talking about having to spend your life without love...no family...no lifelong relationship with the person you love most...who in their right mind would wish that kind of „life“ on anyone?
Cause they're hateful and think they're superior. Enough of this bullshit
@@paulaz.flaquer9570 I think they aren't the ones cussing Paula. Superior isn't the right word... Loved is, unconditionally loved by God. You are loved by God, but u probably don't feel it bc u close urself off. Also we don't hate on LGBTQ.
Paula get the hell out of here pAuLA
they are bigoted hateful people and sadly try to validate it with the bible, so gross - you know, racists use to validate and legitimate slavery back in the day, claiming the bible said it is ok and right?! claiming whites are superior to blacks and the bible supports it?! so sad people twist gods words to fit their hate and ignorance...
@@avery7964 aww, you don't know how to communicate very well, do you? no surprise, most bigoted 'christians' don't know how to witout just getting mad lol - get out of here, lol!
Thank you ( I am a momma of eight and grandma now ) May you have grace and boldness to continue with this amazing testimony !
Christine Ford wow congratulations on so many kids!
Could be in the past this was normal but we should be mindful these days. Science has proven that if we continue the way we are we won't be able to continue on this planet. This is not any higher power's plan only we can control the population now and take care of our planet. If we didnt have birth control or terminations we would be in trouble. We already are with over 400,000 kids in foster care!!
Well I guess we will just let the Muslim population take over then .
@@christineford6763 What?
The muslims don’t count having children a burden like us .... I was being sarcastic . Because they will take over world population while we abort and conveniently choose to eliminate beautiful innocent children’s lives . It is a blessing to have children and we have turned it into a market instead .
I get excited when you guys post a new video, once a week is to long to wait. I give every video a thumbs up. Hope you get over 100k subs by December. Praying for a safe delivery for sutton. Dalton would be a beautiful name 😁
You are such a special family ❤️ just want to thank you both for being so honest when answering questions and being so strong in your faith ! 🙏🏻 Continuously praying for you all and the baby on the way 💛 keep inspiring !
in regards to your answer to "what if Christianity is wrong" question and your reference to Pascal's Wager, it is important to consider other religions. For instance, what if Islam is true and, despite being a Christian and living a holy and good life, you are still sent to hell since you did not believe in Allah. You only considered two options, 1. Christianity is true or (2) there is no god and afterlife. I grew up in a very conservative Christian community and this is an aspect of the argument (towards Pascal's wager) that needs to be taken into account. In reality, there are lots of possibilities when it comes to god and afterlife's.
There's only One. God, the Triune Being we know as the Father (the Soul), the Son (the Body), and the Holy Spirit (the Spirit).
All others are lies.
I’m a Christian because I know of miracles done in the name of Jesus. The Holy Spirit is real...
The thing about you guys and your channel is that you don't feel like Paul and Morgan or Girl Defined when you speak. You're so gentle and seemingly respectful of other people and their beliefs and I love that. The way you talk isn't in a way that feels like you're trying to shame those who think and believe differently, and I really appreciate that. We don't have the same beliefs on a lot of things, but at no point in watching this video did I feel like you were making me to feel lesser than you. Thank you :)
I have never grown up with strong religious beliefs, but I love watching youtube channels like these so I can have a more open mind and make my own opinions. i really appreciate you guys talking about these controversial topics!
Your guys truly inspire me! Such a Godly marriage and I love how real and raw you answer your questions! Thank you for always being so open and honest!
When i get married im gonna ask you guys to film my wedding😂
You guys are couple goals!❤️😂
Also if u put commercials before your video or in the middle of it, you guys can make a lot of money:)
I know why your TH-cam channel is growing, there is so much love and beauty. You two are beautiful inside and out, your house is beautiful, your editing is beautiful, your wisdom is beautiful. You just radiate the joy of living through Christ. People want to hear what you have to say because people crave the joy you have.
Outermost_Owl aww you're so sweet thank you for all of the kind words 💛💛
Man! I could not have said these things better if I tried! Thank you for not shying away from the hard stuff! Adding you guys to my preyer list for sure! So thankful for what you are doing!
Please do more q and a videos! I feel that by listening to your answers I am learning more about God and His word. I’m very new to Christianity and I know that I have a lot to learn!! God bless ❤️
Love you guys! Praying for you all and a smooth pregnancy!
I love your videos and I am really glad you make these because it helps me direct my friends in the right direction when they ask me questions about my faith!
every few weeks, I watch ya'll and this is exciting. I am so glad you have stayed consistent in faith and in sharing creatively on TH-cam! yay!!! God is working
I can tell they haven’t interacted with the lgbt+ community often....
"Gay people are so funny"...umm sexual orientation has nothing to do with a persons sense of humor.
@@notcountingsheep3361 theyre so ignorant
For sure. They sound dumb
Not only can u tell they haven’t reacted with them you can tell they judge them. They referred to gays as funny people” and even tho they were trying to be kind it was disgusting. The more I think abt it the more angry I get. Christians.? Hmmm doubt God would be individualizing out LGBT folks.I am done.
If their sons are gay I feel sorry for them.
LGBT people deserve to find love, have a family, etc just as much as straight people do.
we really do
facts
That's your ego talking, not God.
@@i.k5143 it's not ago at all
@@buttermepancake3613 Then justify it through scripture and not your emotions, please.
Your honesty and transparency is very admirable 🙌🏾
We're going to be taking a leaf out of your body 😊
Well said...on all of the above! Very impressed with how well you answered the tough questions, especially. God bless you all and your sweet, growing family! 😃
I’ve never seen a man talk for his wife more, I’m an atheist but don’t let that make you think I judge them, I think it is so awesome that they are so strong in their faith. But I wish he let her talk more
508makeup I don’t think he does it on purpose. I mean look at them, they are two people. One person will naturally speak more than the other, and you can naturally tell Sutton is more introverted and likes to process things in thought, so she naturally doesn’t talk as much. So the more talkative person will generally take over. I don’t think it’s like he’s trying to talk over her in any way.
Agreed!!
Paul and Morgan....
I think he is worse than Nate, he is a lot more controlling of his wife and does not let her talk at all
It's not him not letting her talk it's her allowing herself to be treated that way.
Just so you know Jesus loves you and died for you on the cross for your sins and he is the son of God. I pray you find him
Really liked this video! Thank you for being so open about your beliefs in Christianity and pointing to the Bible, I feel like we agree on a lot of things. I appreciate you guys! ❤️
Thank you both for your truthful answers. I love to hear you guys speak because you actually reference the word rather than speak on just your own opinion and that goes a long way for me. The four of you are in my prayers!
It’s so important to be reminded of where we stand in this world as Christians! Thank you for this!! ✨
"I don't think I'd want to birth four kids, I think I'd want three boys and a girl"
Math.
Tea Zone she's referring to the possibility Of having twins
Nate and Sutton that’s still birthing four kids...
Ashley Brown probably just meant like 4 pregnancies. It’s not that serious
It sounded more like she was saying she doesn't want to go through labor 4 times if you considering the context, hand gestures, and tone she used.
Tea Zone yeah she meant she’d love to be a mom to 4 kids but not HAVE them. Like she could adopt or something but not go through pregnancy and birth 4 times
*realizes the “regular” comment is offensive yet chooses to include it*
literally, it’s embarrassing
U r a snowflake if u think that is offensive. Get out in the real world and it will say otherwise.
@NPC#1658 it’s not meant to make you different from everyone else as a person it’s meant to explain your sexual orientation. It’s different but it doesn’t make them not regular and that’s pretty shitty to say especially since they themselves noticed it and then kinda made fun of the fact that people would get mad about it.
@Russell Jordan yeah agreed lol, I wasn't saying the word "regular" is offensive in and of itself but referring to LGBTQ+ people as "not regular" is offensive
@NPC#1658 being LGBTQ+ doesn't mean you're not regular, being straight is not and shouldn't be the default or ideal or regular
Aww you guys are so kind and respectful. I really appreciate your realistic and yet biblically correct view on difficult topics.
Just watched this and I think you guys are great! I appreciate how you tackle the more challenging topics, but in a loving way. God bless you both x
when Nate said that they weren't naming their baby, I actually believed him for a few seconds
morgan robitaille same 😂
Lol
This was deep and insightful. There's nothing like allowing the Holy spirit to work in and through and it shows forth in your answers. God bless you! ❤
I'm so happy I've found this channel, I searched Godly couple a few weeks ago and you popped up. So helpful in living a Godly life. Thanks and keep going. GOD BLESS YOU.
It’s super cool to see someone believe the same things that I do! Gives me encouragement.