On mine and wife's first date, we literally talked for hours. Then on the way back home, she pointed at a koala bear that I had on the sun visor and I handed it to her. Then the lightbulb went off I said, "That bear is getting more attention than I am..." Then I slipped my hand in hers and that is how we started holding hands. So feeling comfortable w/each other is the start of a great relationship. Lord Willing, we will be married for 39 years in September!
Count it a blessing from the Lord. It may seem like there's something wrong with you but it's probably Jesus sparing your heart from a breakup. It's hard when it's the norm to be in and out of relationships all the time. I dated one guy at 19 for a few months and God and I had 3 days together and He healed my heart. Everyone I liked didn't like me back and the ones I didn't like would like me. Gah! But I asked him to keep the ones that weren't meant for me away. Then I regretted it lol! I wanted to settle for 2nd best every year I got older. To lower my standards. But I didn't. ... then when I lost all hope even after I asked God to pick a man out for me cause I had a bad judge of character, at 34 I got married. I didn't have to deal with any relationship baggage. Our first kiss on our wedding day. I never compared him to any other man. My beloved was mine and I was his. So don't worry about that. In the meantime, work on your bad habits, character, get your life ready to share it with someone, count your blessings, ie. You're the only one that stinks up the bathroom, you don't hear farting and burping sounds whenever he's near, you only clean up after yourself, you don't have to cook if you don't want to, you can go wherever you want to go for as long as you want, ect ect enjoy these moments being single, the grass can sometimes be greener on the other side. Marriage takes time energy and there will be tears and heard times. You must give 100% all the time and not expect you'll always get 100% back. It's. Not 50-50 like some say. That marriage will not be healthy. Try and bloom and flourish in whatever season you're in. Endurance, patience and faithfulness will produce maturity that you can build on in a marriage.
1. They ask you a lot of questions. 2. They follow up and initiate another time to hang out if your original plans fell through. 3. They initiate conversation. 4. They are awkward or nervous around you. 5. They compliment you. 6. They offer personal information to you, they open up, they don’t stay on surface level topics, they share goals and etc. 7. They laugh at you very easily or they try to make you laugh. 8. They initiate touch - holding hand, brushing hair/shoulder. 9. If they stare/smile at you a lot.
Could you guys make a video on how to determine if God is guiding you to date someone or a video on the godly way to choose between two interests or how to tell which person God wants you to be with?! Love you guys so much 💗💗
The fact that he kinda asked for her permission to hold her hand is so unique and kind! He didn't just grabbed her hand even if it's something so simple! Loving so much the relationship you have built guys! May God bless you and your beautiful family! ❤️❤️
I would like you guys to talk about how to overcome heartbreak after a break-up and especially when you find out that your ex is dating someone new. Love you guys and your content so much!
I want to add something to the texting first part. A guy's texting first can be a good sign, but it doesn't mean he's necessarily interested in you for you. Some guys are shallow and will flirt with you over text just for an ego boost. (I think this can work both ways too, though I can only speak from my experience as a girl.) I've learned not to read too much into texts, but it is also important to pay attention to things like consistency and intentionality through all forms of communication when considering whether to date or continue dating.
My crush did like me but it was not God's will. It's been a hard day. Please keep me in your prayers that God will send who he wants me to have. Thank you.
Sorry to hear that. I think a verse that's helped me is the one where it says that God will withhold no good thing from the one He loves & the other one that says He gave us His son, will he not also give us all things. Sorry you may need to look up the verses on Google as I don't have the references right now. God is for you, if he prevented this from happening there's a really really good reason for it & I pray it will be easy to trust Him during this time
Varaidzo1 This brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for the encouragement and comfort! Here are the Scripture verses: Psalm 84:11 and Romans 8:31. I love you both in the Lord! Blessings
Omg!!!! My husband is like that too... hahahahaha even if it’s something serious , he smiles. Not that he’s not taking whatever is happening serious. It may be a nervous reaction. Lol
Maan I cant wait for my beautiful man I be improving everyday hopeing I see him it's on Gods time not to far from now he told me I was going to have a family I couldn't stop crying lol I love yall you all are helping me prepare just know I appreciate your teachings. Your my learning source c: ♡ I'm so happy for yall such a beautiful loving family ♡ God bless you.
Some people r very shy and are not purposely hiding their feelings…..they may be scared of rejection or they son’t even know if you’re single….and another sign is every time u make eye contact, they immediately look away. The worst is when 2 shy ppl like each other 🤣😭
1) Do you regret holding hands or kissing and maybe you should of kept that for marriage? 2) what if your crush has a bf/gf , how do you, or should you show them these signs that you like them?
As long as it's in line with God's will, go for it, it doesn't hurt to try!! I remember going back and forth as to whether my crush liked me back or not despite it being apparently very obvious to everyone but us lol (that's something I'd recommend to do when trying to figure out if your crush likes you: ask other people because it's very hard for the love between two people to go unnoticed by those around them). It was super confusing at times, but nice as well because it was just months of prayer and relying and trusting in God and His timing. Those months of uncertainty were very well worth it and my boyfriend and I have been together for just over four months now.
@@shawtieluv3336 No problem!! I'm so glad I was able to encourage you in some way. But yeah, go for it and no matter what happens, God is always with you!!
Please do a video on how to discreetly ask a person about their religion/faith, react to what they may say, and share your own views on religion without coming off as judgey and without taking it too personally.
Your relationship is a goal in itself but right now both your dazzling smile white perfectly aligned teeth my goal🤞🤩 God Bless you both keep smiling sending lots of love to both the little ones💖🙏🏻🤗
When should I start dating? I'm 18 years old and I feel that I'm not ready but other people tell me I am and alot of times I'm too hard on myself. But I do feel that God is telling me to wait on him. I feel like I should wait until I'm 21 but I fear that it would be a lot longer than what I expect but I know if thats God's will than that's what I have to follow. How do I handle this? How late is too late and how early is too early?
I was in such a dilemma 2 years ago and I am still working on this. I am 20 and have never been in a relationship . Am I pressured by people and society to get into one? Sure, but I honestly I am in no hurry. I have taken this time to learn more about myself and Jesus and so should you. If God is telling you to wait then go with His will not that of what people think. I don't think there is such a thing as too early or late. May Christians date early others date late and get married even later. Many people just want to settle and you shouldn't. Meet new people and enjoy yourself as you do according to God's will. Go on dates but do not settle for a guy that does not have God as his head.
I am 22 years old and have never been in a relationship. Sometimes I have the desire to know someone and prepare for marriage but ultimately, we all operate on God's timing and from experience, His plans always prove to be magnitudes superior to our own. This alone comforts me and assures me that the right person will be chosen for me by God and not by my own will.
Great video!! I just feel like this is when you’ve already started hanging out and started to get to know each other more than just friends. Could just be I have a different definition of “crush.” ❤️❤️❤️😊
“Want see what it feels like to hold my hand”? “What if you used that for the kiss also”? “Want to see what my lips feel like”? I laughed so hard😂 Y’all are too cute!!💖 But in all seriousness I already knew most of the signs so it’s not too hard for me to tell when someone likes me.
This was awesome you guys! I have been praying about when to know to start putting effort into this relationship with a boy I’ve known my whole life. He’s been snapping me and I think he likes me! This Video cane out like one of the first days I started talking to him. We will see what happens!!
I am laughing so hard at the ending! You two are awesome! I seriously look forward to these videos all week. I came on & looked a couple hours ago to see if you had uploaded one yet & was disappointed that there wasn't but I reminded myself that it's 4th of July weekend, you're probably extra busy so we might have to wait til next Sunday. Glad I didn't have to wait!!
Can y'all do a video about how to go from talking awkwardly with your crush to developing a serious relationship? Because right now I feel like I'm in between those two places...the crush is mutual but because of COVID and other life circumstances we can't start dating yet. I'm still praying about our relationship though and am wondering also about how to develop a strong and healthy relationship with open communication and all...makes it harder since my parents fight all the time even if they're Christians but I KNOW that's not right!!! Not to be critical of them or anything. Please please do more videos about talking to your crush etc, I absolutely LOVED this video and can't wait for more!!! Anticipating your response!🙂
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Could you guys talk about being patient waiting for the right one, and knowing if God wants you to be together
Great suggestion!:)
God doesn't decide that.
@@AliceRoche-ii2ke
Do you mean that we have our part to play in it too?
they will come when its time :)
@@benjiman7
Exactly!:)
On mine and wife's first date, we literally talked for hours. Then on the way back home, she pointed at a koala bear that I had on the sun visor and I handed it to her. Then the lightbulb went off I said, "That bear is getting more attention than I am..." Then I slipped my hand in hers and that is how we started holding hands. So feeling comfortable w/each other is the start of a great relationship. Lord Willing, we will be married for 39 years in September!
Congratulations!!
40 years now?:)
My crushes never like me but the people I don't have a crush on like me.
Story of my life!!
Same it happens all the tims
Talk to God about it He will direct you n set your heart in synchrony with the one He has for you
Count it a blessing from the Lord. It may seem like there's something wrong with you but it's probably Jesus sparing your heart from a breakup. It's hard when it's the norm to be in and out of relationships all the time. I dated one guy at 19 for a few months and God and I had 3 days together and He healed my heart. Everyone I liked didn't like me back and the ones I didn't like would like me. Gah! But I asked him to keep the ones that weren't meant for me away. Then I regretted it lol! I wanted to settle for 2nd best every year I got older. To lower my standards. But I didn't. ... then when I lost all hope even after I asked God to pick a man out for me cause I had a bad judge of character, at 34 I got married. I didn't have to deal with any relationship baggage. Our first kiss on our wedding day. I never compared him to any other man. My beloved was mine and I was his. So don't worry about that. In the meantime, work on your bad habits, character, get your life ready to share it with someone, count your blessings, ie. You're the only one that stinks up the bathroom, you don't hear farting and burping sounds whenever he's near, you only clean up after yourself, you don't have to cook if you don't want to, you can go wherever you want to go for as long as you want, ect ect enjoy these moments being single, the grass can sometimes be greener on the other side. Marriage takes time energy and there will be tears and heard times. You must give 100% all the time and not expect you'll always get 100% back. It's. Not 50-50 like some say. That marriage will not be healthy. Try and bloom and flourish in whatever season you're in. Endurance, patience and faithfulness will produce maturity that you can build on in a marriage.
Same, girl, Same!
i love it when nate said "thats okay because I know god was protecting me for sutton" I love that our god is so good !!
1. They ask you a lot of questions.
2. They follow up and initiate another time to hang out if your original plans fell through.
3. They initiate conversation.
4. They are awkward or nervous around you.
5. They compliment you.
6. They offer personal information to you, they open up, they don’t stay on surface level topics, they share goals and etc.
7. They laugh at you very easily or they try to make you laugh.
8. They initiate touch - holding hand, brushing hair/shoulder.
9. If they stare/smile at you a lot.
You get a like
Ugh the guy I’m not into does some of this stuff and he has a girlfriend.
Could you guys make a video on how to determine if God is guiding you to date someone or a video on the godly way to choose between two interests or how to tell which person God wants you to be with?! Love you guys so much 💗💗
The fact that he kinda asked for her permission to hold her hand is so unique and kind! He didn't just grabbed her hand even if it's something so simple! Loving so much the relationship you have built guys! May God bless you and your beautiful family! ❤️❤️
Could y’all make a video on Christian dating for college age kids!? Love y’alls channel so much!
"do u want to see what it feels like to hold my hand?" nate had been watching one too many hallmark movies lol
could you make a video on how to become friends with a someone before getting too attached/ starting a relationship?
Yes, pleeease do this
Ooh that's a super good idea!! What I do personally is not flirting and just getting to know them before I jump in and be all flirty!
@Lauren Elizabeth
oooo yeah that is a good idea! i have such a hard time not getting attached to guys and overthinking things 😂
@@nataliaj27 haha same but honestly just got to pray for self control!
yaaa
I would like you guys to talk about how to overcome heartbreak after a break-up and especially when you find out that your ex is dating someone new. Love you guys and your content so much!
The Serenity Prayer helps me with something like that.
Or even heartbreak in any relationship such as friendships, family etc.
Yes heartbreak sucks! I did a video on this and its been pretty helpful!
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I completely understand! My advice is to focus on a personal goal and accomplish it. It may not completely heal it but it helps.
Ahhaha the last second of the video when Sutton moved so fast made me laugh so hard😂😂
SAME especially since right before their lips touched my phone started buffering😂
I feel like one of the biggest ones is if someone is really smiley when talking to you
I want to add something to the texting first part. A guy's texting first can be a good sign, but it doesn't mean he's necessarily interested in you for you. Some guys are shallow and will flirt with you over text just for an ego boost. (I think this can work both ways too, though I can only speak from my experience as a girl.) I've learned not to read too much into texts, but it is also important to pay attention to things like consistency and intentionality through all forms of communication when considering whether to date or continue dating.
i’m so obsessed with both of your smiles. they’re the cutest!!
Loved the holding hands thing. Almost like asking permission - getting Sutton's agreement to move to the next level. Nice work. :)
Loool, my crush likes someone else. Great tips though!
Also, Nate's hand holding line was pretty genius! 😂😂😂
I liked his first kiss maneuver even better ! 😉
And when guys show off or do something stupid that’s a big one I think🤣
Fr they be getting themselves hurt sometimes 😂
You both have beautiful smiles, and I love the way you look at each other, you have something very special. You are so blessed.
Oh my gosh the ending 😂😂, my jaw dropped when Sutton flew into Nate.
I love ya'lls interactions with each other no matter the video type! such wholeness, authenticity, and pureness.
The ending was priceless!
My crush did like me but it was not God's will. It's been a hard day. Please keep me in your prayers that God will send who he wants me to have. Thank you.
Sorry to hear that. I think a verse that's helped me is the one where it says that God will withhold no good thing from the one He loves & the other one that says He gave us His son, will he not also give us all things. Sorry you may need to look up the verses on Google as I don't have the references right now. God is for you, if he prevented this from happening there's a really really good reason for it & I pray it will be easy to trust Him during this time
Varaidzo1 This brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for the encouragement and comfort! Here are the Scripture verses: Psalm 84:11 and Romans 8:31. I love you both in the Lord! Blessings
@@aidylweiss. Oh thank you! haha - love to you in Christ likewise my sister =)
ARE WE ALLOWED TO KISS ON CAMERA? Sutton kisses him 😍❤️❤️ such a beautiful moment ❤️
you guys are hillarious! your love is so beautiful!
Me watching this even though I’ve never talked to my crush like :👁👄👁
Wow!! She’s right! This guy’s always smiling!! Haha!!
Yes Nathanael looks like such a friendly person cause he looks like he is smiling alot
"I took a lot of signals as if they were green lights when they might have been red lights" sooo common mistake! 😆👍
Interesting compliments....😅
Nate: Your head is symmetrical
Sutton: Are your teeth fake?
Very glad it worked out 😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Dating boundaries!!!
Yay for another “light hearted” video y’all are so cute and funny in a good way
Literally don’t care for this topic , just love you guys 😂
Also , this is like your go to thumbnail 😂😂😂
Thank you for this!!
Btw I just started a youtube for Christian advice and yall really inspired that channel!! So tysm🥰
i love that even at my age, being single....your advice and stories are so very encouraging to me at this time God is getting me ready :) thank you!
Omg!!!! My husband is like that too... hahahahaha even if it’s something serious , he smiles. Not that he’s not taking whatever is happening serious. It may be a nervous reaction. Lol
It really is amazing how Nate can talk about anything while smiling lol
Just in time! This is an answered prayer. I have been asking God to guide me on this one 😇
You two were soooo adorable in this video!! I love all the laughing :D
Singles let's cry together 😭
Maan I cant wait for my beautiful man I be improving everyday hopeing I see him it's on Gods time not to far from now he told me I was going to have a family I couldn't stop crying lol I love yall you all are helping me prepare just know I appreciate your teachings. Your my learning source c: ♡ I'm so happy for yall such a beautiful loving family ♡ God bless you.
Sutton: You never burp
Me: How is that even possible? 😄
Hmm natural phenomena
I can't burp either
@@account10558 then you must be extremely fit
I honestly don’t know how😂😂 i don’t know how to whistle or snap either I have to snap with my pinky
Some people r very shy and are not purposely hiding their feelings…..they may be scared of rejection or they son’t even know if you’re single….and another sign is every time u make eye contact, they immediately look away. The worst is when 2 shy ppl like each other 🤣😭
You guys kill me LOL!!! Y'ALL are SO cute! 😂🤣 you could read the phone book and it would STILL BE ADORABLE!
“So…do you wanna see what it feels like to hold my hand?” 😂 I’m going to use this in the future lol
8:00 I’m with Nate on that one- I would have to say something if I’m going to hold someone’s hand 😆😂
Nate & Sutton. Loved this vlog. Thank you both for sharing ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️
Who’s here just to see if they’re not accidentally doing one of these signs to their crush ?😅 or is it just me??😂
I think I’ve done all these signs on my crush (apart from the holding hands one😂)
Happy Sunday!!! I would like you to please to talk about how to make a relationship work to lead to marriage
Don't rush it. Best tip I can give.
1) Do you regret holding hands or kissing and maybe you should of kept that for marriage?
2) what if your crush has a bf/gf , how do you, or should you show them these signs that you like them?
These two are so cute and funny.
This was a fun video to watch.
"Your face is very symetrical" 🤣🤣
That's so funny. I needed this video now! Many people believes that my crush likes me
As long as it's in line with God's will, go for it, it doesn't hurt to try!! I remember going back and forth as to whether my crush liked me back or not despite it being apparently very obvious to everyone but us lol (that's something I'd recommend to do when trying to figure out if your crush likes you: ask other people because it's very hard for the love between two people to go unnoticed by those around them). It was super confusing at times, but nice as well because it was just months of prayer and relying and trusting in God and His timing. Those months of uncertainty were very well worth it and my boyfriend and I have been together for just over four months now.
Cristina Barriga thank you Christina for your words of encouragement! ❤️💕
@@shawtieluv3336 No problem!! I'm so glad I was able to encourage you in some way. But yeah, go for it and no matter what happens, God is always with you!!
I do like the complete opposite, whenever my crush is near me. I try and come up with an excuse to leave so I’m not awkward around him 😂 I’m terrible.
You two are absolutely precious 🥰
You compliment each other and you both have a good smile 😊
i saw the thumbnail and literally chuckled! i knew i was gonna love this !!
Hahaha you guys are just so cute. Your innocence is captivating ✨
Love it!!!
I have question : What do think about second chances in a relationship?
Love you guys!
Im so happy for you guys...you can see love is in the Air
Really enjoyed this much, was smiling a lot.
Nate has been smiling the whole time while he talks during the video
The way Sutton grabbed Nathaniel to kiss him left me drowning in laughter 😂😂
LOLLLLLL i don’t even talk to my crush 😂😭😭 but we move
Please do a video on how to discreetly ask a person about their religion/faith, react to what they may say, and share your own views on religion without coming off as judgey and without taking it too personally.
Definitely saving this, it was very informative 😁✊🏾
This is all great advice.God bless you all 😃👍
Wow I was literally looking this up and then this video came up. I love your channel and love how you inspire me in my faith!
Wow what amazing timing!
I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!!!❤️
Could you guys make a video on when to start dating
What if someone likes you and you don't feel the same but in a way you know that he can be your potential husband?
this is hilarious. i love it guys
THIS WAS SO HELPFUL!
Wow!! I love how you guys went back to these kind of videos!! :D Thank You!! :)
Your relationship is a goal in itself but right now both your dazzling smile white perfectly aligned teeth my goal🤞🤩 God Bless you both keep smiling sending lots of love to both the little ones💖🙏🏻🤗
Crushes can be painful. It is nice when both people have the same interests.
When should I start dating? I'm 18 years old and I feel that I'm not ready but other people tell me I am and alot of times I'm too hard on myself. But I do feel that God is telling me to wait on him. I feel like I should wait until I'm 21 but I fear that it would be a lot longer than what I expect but I know if thats God's will than that's what I have to follow. How do I handle this? How late is too late and how early is too early?
I was in such a dilemma 2 years ago and I am still working on this. I am 20 and have never been in a relationship . Am I pressured by people and society to get into one? Sure, but I honestly I am in no hurry. I have taken this time to learn more about myself and Jesus and so should you. If God is telling you to wait then go with His will not that of what people think. I don't think there is such a thing as too early or late. May Christians date early others date late and get married even later. Many people just want to settle and you shouldn't.
Meet new people and enjoy yourself as you do according to God's will. Go on dates but do not settle for a guy that does not have God as his head.
I am 22 years old and have never been in a relationship. Sometimes I have the desire to know someone and prepare for marriage but ultimately, we all operate on God's timing and from experience, His plans always prove to be magnitudes superior to our own. This alone comforts me and assures me that the right person will be chosen for me by God and not by my own will.
@@colourfulkenyan9362 Thx!! And for me *do not settle for a girl* because Im a guy😂
I feel that it veries from person to person, do what God is telling you to do
God’s timing is perfect. Wait upon the Lord. He knows when the time will come so just wait and don’t be discouraged.
You guys need to make a tiktok! Lol I love y’all.
That time you're displaying all these signs and your crush doesn't like you back
Awweh, y’all are the cutest 🙆🏼♀️
Called out! I'm one of those people who WON'T under ANY circumstances give any hints that I like someone. Yeah, it's dumb, but that's just me.
This was so helpful! Thanks so much you guys are the best🤗
Haha I love y’all and how genuine you are! Love the video!
So good. Felt this one.
Great video!! I just feel like this is when you’ve already started hanging out and started to get to know each other more than just friends. Could just be I have a different definition of “crush.” ❤️❤️❤️😊
"You want to see what it feels like to hold my hand"🤦
Still cute though
I know I have a girlfriend for 6 months, I know she likes me. But I'll still watch y'all's video :)
I literally do all of these things.
Have you guys ever heard the song "I Choose You" by Sarah Kroger? It's really beautiful and I think it reflects your relationship 💗
That kiss at the end😂😂 so cute💕
Y’all are legit couple goals! I pray that God will continue to bless y’all in mighty ways! ❤️
“Want see what it feels like to hold my hand”?
“What if you used that for the kiss also”? “Want to see what my lips feel like”? I laughed so hard😂 Y’all are too cute!!💖
But in all seriousness I already knew most of the signs so it’s not too hard for me to tell when someone likes me.
This was awesome you guys! I have been praying about when to know to start putting effort into this relationship with a boy I’ve known my whole life. He’s been snapping me and I think he likes me! This Video cane out like one of the first days I started talking to him. We will see what happens!!
So far the only guy I know that has had a crush on me was a Grade 6 boy (I was graduated!😅).
You guys always put me in the best mood! God bless
lol you guys are the best and so funny. i always like your videos. keep your good stuff up
I love your beautiful family :)) God bless
I am laughing so hard at the ending! You two are awesome! I seriously look forward to these videos all week. I came on & looked a couple hours ago to see if you had uploaded one yet & was disappointed that there wasn't but I reminded myself that it's 4th of July weekend, you're probably extra busy so we might have to wait til next Sunday. Glad I didn't have to wait!!
This video was super helpful, you guys! It also made me kind of sad though. I've had a dozen crushes, but none of them have ever been returned 😟😟
Can y'all do a video about how to go from talking awkwardly with your crush to developing a serious relationship? Because right now I feel like I'm in between those two places...the crush is mutual but because of COVID and other life circumstances we can't start dating yet. I'm still praying about our relationship though and am wondering also about how to develop a strong and healthy relationship with open communication and all...makes it harder since my parents fight all the time even if they're Christians but I KNOW that's not right!!! Not to be critical of them or anything. Please please do more videos about talking to your crush etc, I absolutely LOVED this video and can't wait for more!!! Anticipating your response!🙂
yayyyy i wil be praying 4 you. !!! keep staying in the Word!!
@@benjiman7
Aw thanks so much!!:) I sure appreciate it!!
Any way I could pray for you?
Esther Nelson yessss... for patience , endurance , and perseverance! And strength to be consistent! Tyyyy