What is Charisma? - Presence. Power. Warmth. How to be more present. 1. Focus on your toes. 2. Look into their pupils 3. In general 'People will accept whatever you project.' How be perceived as more powerful 1. Power pose. 2. Alpha gorilla visualization. 3. Take up space. How to be perceived as having warmth 1. You can't fake it. Too much body language. Picture a person,place, or thing that brings up emotion. 2. Method acting. Visualization. (Eyes) 3. Voice. Tonality & Pitch. How to handle the Impostor Syndrome 1. Destimatization 2. Detach 3. Rewrite
Charisma is a DECISION, not a technique. It's a decision that you make way before you arrive to the event. It happens when you're by yourself and are reflecting on your life. It happens the moment you decide to put 100% of what is inside of you on the outside. In other words, you stop living in your head. When you are fully visible to people, that is the beginning of charisma. Add to that a drive to be a lifelong learner, and you will have something to share with people and help them. Charisma is not technique, but it's making your inner self visible and improving on that self so that it helps others. Bill Clinton would never have charisma just because he was "present." His charisma began long ago when he decided to try to change the world. It's what's in his head that makes him attractive, charismatic, not whether or not he is wiggling his toes to stay present.
Pretty cool. I've always had confidence issues regarding public speaking and interaction for the exact reason she has pointed out. The knowledge of impostor syndrome has made me feel more confident. I'm going to try out some of these techniques as well.
Instead of "giving the impression" that you care, why don't you simply decide to actually care? Non-charismatic behaviour emerges from self-interest. Change your intent and new behaviours will emerge.
Love the distinction that all you have to do when engaging is "alpha gorilla body language" to not appear arrogant is to bring your chin down so you're not looking down your nose at someone.
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What is Charisma? - Presence. Power. Warmth.
How to be more present.
1. Focus on your toes.
2. Look into their pupils
3. In general 'People will accept whatever you project.'
How be perceived as more powerful
1. Power pose.
2. Alpha gorilla visualization.
3. Take up space.
How to be perceived as having warmth
1. You can't fake it. Too much body language. Picture a person,place, or thing that brings up emotion.
2. Method acting. Visualization. (Eyes)
3. Voice. Tonality & Pitch.
How to handle the Impostor Syndrome
1. Destimatization
2. Detach
3. Rewrite
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Charisma is a DECISION, not a technique. It's a decision that you make way before you arrive to the event. It happens when you're by yourself and are reflecting on your life. It happens the moment you decide to put 100% of what is inside of you on the outside. In other words, you stop living in your head. When you are fully visible to people, that is the beginning of charisma. Add to that a drive to be a lifelong learner, and you will have something to share with people and help them. Charisma is not technique, but it's making your inner self visible and improving on that self so that it helps others. Bill Clinton would never have charisma just because he was "present." His charisma began long ago when he decided to try to change the world. It's what's in his head that makes him attractive, charismatic, not whether or not he is wiggling his toes to stay present.
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Pretty cool. I've always had confidence issues regarding public speaking and interaction for the exact reason she has pointed out. The knowledge of impostor syndrome has made me feel more confident. I'm going to try out some of these techniques as well.
Your comment is 10 y old and still only 3 likes XD
Instead of "giving the impression" that you care, why don't you simply decide to actually care? Non-charismatic behaviour emerges from self-interest. Change your intent and new behaviours will emerge.
Awesome vid! Alpha body language + empowering visualizations ALL DAY, AIR DAY!
Love the distinction that all you have to do when engaging is "alpha gorilla body language" to not appear arrogant is to bring your chin down so you're not looking down your nose at someone.
One question but what if someone finds it super difficult to take compliments?
"It really should not be that difficult people. Maths is not your forté, clearly!" Hmmm
+Jo Do I thought the same thing!
major cringe
She was a little nervous getting the talk but she plays it off pretty well so probably nobody noticed.
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Does someone know what the presenter name is? Thanks in advance!
she seriously needs to work on the 'warmth' component of her formula
I would have to disagree. She doesn't need kindness charisma.
She appears unnatural, forced. She's definitely not gifted at social skills. But the book is valuable nonetheless.
Marcus oeaky and her or the best she is really a some and Marcus also
I can tell she admires Clinton ..great talk
Treating your audience like teenage students. Patronizing, but informative.
She's kinda hot.
Down bad
‘How to be charismatic’
-The most uncharismatic person ever
What that saying " those who cant teacb do"
I nearly didn't watch this because of that annoying guy at the start (mustn't be charismatic), lucky I stuck it out.
What an attention grabbing talk. I didn't even felt that I was waiting it for last 27 minutes.