To hear him talk about what good parents do to put their children's feelings first and hide their adult struggles is validating for a person who grew up with the opposite scenario.
I hear you bro, grew up in a similar scenario as you and opposite to tom’s but I just wanted to point out that it’s important to know that everything in this world has it’s blessings and curses. my parents never hid their struggles from me and my siblings. It was hard as a younging knowing that I couldn’t help them but today as a grow man i am able to help others with their struggles in any shape and form and I would like to think it’s because of the environment i grew up in. To clarify am not saying people who didn’t grow up in the same circumstances as me can’t also help people but i just feel like being in it for a long time truly makes you understand the necessity of helping eachother through thick times cause no one is making it far in this world on their own. Anyways sending love and guidance to everyone reading this, keep pushing.❤
I worked with Tom as a stuntman on one of his films. I sat in the backseat of a car for multiple shots with him which allowed us to chat for a little bit in between takes. He is just as humble and personable on the job/in person as he is in this interview. Great actor and a fantastic human being.
Jesus it makes me so happy to hear it. God bless those who r unaffected by Hollywood and money, and God protect them cuz they need that in that awful industry. Be safe plz, Garrett, your job is quite dangerous 💖
My son who is 24 just told me that he stopped drinking alcohol all together because of this interview. Just so you know how you are changing people’s lives. I’m so grateful ❤️
He doesn’t have mental illness. He simply doesn’t know what actual mental Illness is. Big big difference between nervousness and anxiety… and big big difference between feeling anxious and having an anxiety disorder.
I agree, but we shouldn't let that diminish his goals and his accomplishments! I do agree though, many people get these things mixed with each other. Everyone does experience depression, anxiety, etc, but they often forget about the crowd that don't go through the "phases"... that these things are their way of life and we're just coping everyday.@@user-qd1ei2ww6e
Regardless of how you feel about his work, you can't deny that Tom's one of the few humble and realistic celebs, and I admire him for striving to keep it that way!
@MultitudeOfChaos There are some Tobey/Andrew Spider-Man purists who've always hated Tom, simply because he isn't them and/or his version of Spidey started off as more of "Iron Boy, Jr." (Their words).
Tom Holland is so emotionally mature, he is so kind and a nice guy and I feel like you could talk to him forever. I am glad to be a fan of someone like him because he is someone people can really look up to. I love Tom!
Please explain what makes him a real life super hero😂 hes a humble inspiring human being sure, but where the fuck do u get real life super hero from, hes not gonna shag u lol
I don't know that I've ever seen an "interview" where two people were bringing out the best in each other to such an extent, and being so open and receptive to each other's stories. You could just see them enriching each other's experience in real time. I loved it, I felt just so happy for them both :)
It is so refreshing to hear a man speaks so openly, and authentically. He seems to embrace his vulnerability AND also embrace the masculine as well. I’m a forever fan of Tom now :)
I rarely watch celebrity interviews, but hearing how balanced of a human Tom is, is refreshing. How he sets boundaries and can see this bigger picture of his place in the scope of things is really nice. I believe his close relationships. and connections to family and friends can be attributed to this. More people should try to a wholesome mind set he has. It’s unfortunate many people as he says loose themselves.
Seems like a great guy, and really enjoyable to listen to, and interesting to know about his upbringing. Doesn't seem to me that he simply "tried" a wholesome mind set, but has a really interesting journey.
His gay sex scene threw me off, but then I saw zendaya (his partner) hooking up with 2 men at once in a raunchy sex scene.. and then I realized it’s all good, everyone deserves love ❤
Nah his raunchy gay scene was way too much over the top for me…. It was a drug fest no boundaries in your face wokefest & it’s enough already!!! Society is getting out of control… I for one am over it!
The beauty of this podcast is that both are curious about eachothers perspective of life,tom is asking so many amazing question to jay it really makes this podcast amazing.
There´s no Toxic Masculinity. Masculinity is part of male essence what there´s is Toxic Men and running in the same road, There´s no toxic feminility but toxic Women.
What an refreshing podcast! Tom is not only so open and honest, he also takes a real interest in Jay and takes on the role of asking him questions. This whole podcast felt like a really safe space for both of them to learn and reflect and inspire one another!
@@jac9301 Gross and insecure. Think about how showing weakness at your manual labor job would be a very bad idea. Now, remove the constant threat of losing your job for any momentary lapse. That security would be nice, right? People, such as yourself, are the reason "safe spaces" even exist.
Tom is so emotionally intelligent, I’m impressed by not only the actor he is, but purely the person he has become. Really proud and loved this episode so much 🤍
yes I said the said thing while watching this, he seems so emotionally mature/intelligent and this has been a great interview! I love especially how he has his boundaries set when it comes to specific areas of his life - mainly his relationship with Z, but I can definitely understand how they keep that so sacred and close to them.
@@lunagd2450 well I’ll admit, I did peep that part - about the interviews of him mentioning her, but I honestly don’t think it’s for fame, tbh lol. Yeah so that is quite interesting, how he’ll mention her in other interviews etc but not this one as much. But maybe, it’s because he’s actually sitting down with someone for more then 10-20 minutes and he probably figured discussing their relationship ( like more into details were just off limits) I’m assuming. Also, idk if it was me or not, but he came off kinda anxious a bit. Just moving around a bit and he couldn’t really just sit that still. Maybe he was nervous, I know when i start to feel anxious I just start to move around and get like fidgety as well. But I’m not really sure
Tom is so emotionally intelligent, I’m impressed by not only the actor he is, but purely the person he has become. Really proud and loved this episode so much
From his family dynamic to his discipline and awareness, I truly love learning more and more about him, and trying to mirror a lot of his qualities. It’s life changing
This is the healthiest conversation between the healthiest people I’ve had the privilege to watch from third person. At no point was it boring, on the contrary, it was emotionally and intellectually very stimulating and eye-opening. As someone who constantly craves conversations and bonding experiences like these, and to learn about the human psychology, it was truly thrilling to watch this video and learn on a deeper level about shared experiences and their impact on your lives. Seeing such spiritual people also be so ordinary and relatable is truly inspiring.
I love how Tom even as a celebrity appears so humble and down to earth. He seems like such a positive influence. I also highly respect that although he is a big world celebrity he has boundaries for his personal life. And Jay does such a great job of getting genuine and thought provoking interactions out of the guest. Thank you
It's so wholesome seeing guests ask questions about Jay's experience as a monk. It's so respectful and many guests asked him like Joe Jonas Lili Reinhart. The mutual respect is sooo sooo important. I LOVE THIS LOVE RULES 🫶🏻
I saw a TH-cam short of Tom explaining alcohol and decided to check this video out. I’m 23 and going through the same issues Tom did. Haven’t quit yet but this makes me so happy to hear someone who was in same position and pushed through it. I thought I would have to drink forever to be comfortable socially until I saw this. Thank you Tom for giving me hope
This is the most beautiful and natural conversation I’ve ever heard. I love that Tom is not just being interviewed, but he’s genuinly interrested in Jay’s experiences and opinions. The best episode yet!! ❤
I am now 2.5 years sober and it continues to be the best thing I've ever done for myself and others around me. Thank you Tom for being vocal around this subject and hopefully the more people it reaches, the better!
I love how this is a deep conversation between two people who respect each other and not like a podcast or interview. Huge respect to Jay for not asking Tom anything about his relationship, rather he let Tom share what he wanted and didn't comment on it or ask for more information. Given how much people online want to know about Tom & and Zendaya, it would have been so easy to try to steer the conversation that way to increase views and likes.
This is probably the best interview I’ve seen! The conversation just flows beautifully and smoothly. The respect you both have for each other is admirable! A lot of interviewers should definitely take some serious notes! Thank you 🙏🏽
As a mom, I can only really hope I'm doing just as good of a job as Tom's mom did, because I'would be so proud of a son like him. He is such good person.
I've never been one to listen to long celeb interviews but this podcast episode was gold. I've always been a huge fan of Tom Holland just for the kind of person he is. And I wish more people had his compassion, maturity and humility. Thank you Jay for such an enlightening episode.
I don't know how I hadn't discovered this podcast prior to this one! You're an amazing host and I love how engaged you are with all of these conversations! I'll be watching them all now!
A few years back, I was really struggling with depression and mental health issues. I was hooked on cigarettes and alcohol, but then my wife suggested I try psilocybin mushroom therapy. Honestly, it saved my life. It's been 11 years since I've been totally clean. Those shrooms are like a miracle.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in UK. Really need
Tom Holland is such a good person I wasn't a fan of his spiderman for the longest when I was younger (nothing to do with his acting more to do with the writing) but I became a huge fan of him as a person and his parents raised a good man and that goes for the rest of his family
@@AnxyTpYou think Tom's gonna go into another MCU trilogy ? Whenever he's being asked about the future of Spider-Man I always get the vibe that Tom, as grateful as he is, is kind of done & ready to move on to the next thing.
This was more of a deep conversation rather than an interview, in my opinion. Viewing Tom as just as a normal man with issues and goals in life is very refreshing. I see him more now than I did before.
Man i respect how friendly and enthusiastic tom is while speaking. It feels like jay and tom know each other from way back! Great podcast. Thank you Jay! ❤
One of the best interviews I have ever seen. Two remarkable people having an incredible conversation. Both gentlemen were sincere, humble, incredibly interesting and respectful of each other. I will definitely watch this again. My day started out pretty crappy and I feel a lot better now. Thank you Tom and Jay!
Thank you guys for having this dialogue. The part about being sober and living through sobriety literally punched me in my face. It was exactly what I needed to hear.
This was such a good listen. I'm a 22 year old who has lived in wisconsin my entire life. I am 7 1/2 months alcohol free....and I never would have imagined how good it feels. No more headaches, no more week long depression, no more blackouts, no more regrets. When pulling away, you really notice how much of an impact it has on your whole life. Living in a state where alcohol is the culture makes you forget its a poison. Proud of the both of you and also talking about not pushing it on other people you have yo choose it for yourself ❤
I am also the same age but felt the complete polar opposite most of my life so I am not sure how to go about changes if I am being honest with you mate personally.
@@TheGoldenPlatoon757either way, changes should happen, and we should never look back with regret. Like stages of becoming a butterfly, it cannot become a caterpillar again…and becoming a butterfly took a lot of pain to get there. If you sense something needs to change, don’t compare yourself to others to see what you should or shouldn’t be doing…look to whoever you sense is the great Creator, ask them who they want you to be and work towards that daily.
@fuzzykittens04 You put it beautifully. It’s difficult to be surrounded people who see poison or addiction as normal. People who literally can’t function without a cup of coffee think that’s normal. That’s bondage, friend. You broke free from bondage of alcohol, keep speaking out about that. You will offer strength to others through your experience.
I just love how this felt like a genuine conversation and not an interview just because it's Tom Holland. Thank you for this one, Jay! I really learned quite a lot!
Upon my first shroom trip, my depression disappeared overnight. It shifted my perspective on the way I viewed myself. It showed me that I was stuck in one way of thinking. This was unhealthy mentally and it was affecting me physically. Within 6 months of the trip, my chronic lower back pain disappeared, I'm sure it was due to tension and stress, and hasn't returned.
Allowing the mushrooms to blast you into self awareness, showing you the shadows and trauma that have been hiding under the rug. Micro dosing has helped me stay on the pulse of my shadow work, helping me remember my best self.
Mushrooms are without a doubt one of the best things on this existence when it comes to self improvement and simply enjoying life. It's something people should do at least once, I don't care what anyone says. It's life changing stuff.
Im 15 and I have already decided I don’t want to drink. Hearing Tom talk about how it has improved his life and how he’s the DD and how it’s fun to see his friends a little drunk while he’s sober just makes me know that my decision is going to be something that really makes my life better.
Indeed. 19 here, never feel the hype around drinking and being drunk. Like you cant be emotionally vulnerable and be honest without some alcohol usage? That’s sad. Keep it. For you. And you’ll meet like-minded friends i promise. (P/s: i do enjoy cocktails, and drink for the taste too. Or on very rare occasion with really closefriends, or family. Never got hung over or too drunk to know what’s going on tho)
@@アフィフislam also says having multiple wifes is ok. Islam also says women should obey their husband. Islam also says women should cover their hair and face. Says alot doesnt it
@@aaroncousins4750 indeed it says a lot, during the time of the prophets war was happening here and there therefore lots of men were died in war, leaving a lot of woman being alone and not have a man to support them, this is why it was allowed for men during that time to marry up to 4 wives, which is still allowed today because it was allowed to our prophet we still do it today but not many because there is no war going on, next Woman should obey their husband which part of this is wrong actually? should a wife not obey their husband the head of family, if a woman was walking alone at new york at night what would be the reason she was scared of? obviously men! then that is were good men come to protect the woman, basically woman needs men to protect them why should a wife not obey their husband? woman should cover their hair this is also a way Allah SWT protects woman if your were to put a woman wearing a crop top and shorts in the middle of the street would men look at them in a weird way? would they think of evil, dirty things looking at the woman? imagine if this were your own sister? you would feel sick, so Allah SWT tells the woman to cover up head to toe to protect them from the lust of man, allah knows how men thinks because is the one created them , this is way allah protects woman, Say alot doesnt it?
I loved how open he was with his sobriety & how it has inspired his mom to give up drinking. It also makes me happy because Zendaya has also been very vocal about never wanting to drink alcohol & avoiding the party culture in Hollywood, so it's great knowing he's surrounded by a wonderful support system in his journey to sobriety.
One of the best conversations on life, a healthy state of mind, and finding peace I've heard. It was less an interview and more a deep philosophical conversation at a friends' home.
This might be the best interview with Tom I've ever seen (even tho it felt more like a chat between old friends). Tom is my fave actor and what I admire him for is the fact how normal, humble, nice, open, genuine, easy-going and funny he is while also being smart and thoughtful. This conversation was really interesting, insightful, informative and inspiring, just like Jay's questions and input into this conversation. BTW, I absolutely agree about The Crowded Room being a great show.
Disagree. I love all his interviews and very interesting except he did with Tom. Tom doesn't know what he is talking , he is every where. The only i heard is screaming each other and loughing to much. I just sow he did interview with Selena Gomez and i was so very interesting to listen .❤
So proud of Tom for breaking away from social media. It seems harmless, but it can cause so much mental strain without people even realizing it. Stay healthy friends!! ❤
I absolutely love and respect this man and how he expresses what kind of a healthy father is and how parents should treat their children correctly, it's amazing.
Tom Holland as a guest asks such elaborate questions and listens so interested and respectfully that a lot of the time it feels like he is the host of this podcast. I knew is was an extraordinary actor from watching his films and shows, but I had no idea he was such an extraordinary human being in general!
Tom Holland is one of the many living examples of what a great parenting can do ❤ he seems like the kind of person you would like to be friends with ☺️
I especially loved when Jay and Tom were talking about their interactions with wildlife,being present and so close to the animals,it's incredible how connected it makes one feel.What I admire about Tom is that he's so down to earth and humble,humility shines through.I really felt like by the end it was just like old pals sharing stories and catching up on life.Thank you Jay for this conversation ❤️
I love the way Tom responds while listening to Jay; it's not just simple 'uh-huh' like many others, but Tom inserts words like 'sure', 'absolutely' 'love it', 'totally!' ' a 100%'...etc.etc. Tom is an excellent communicator. Not only he is very eloquent but also he makes his counterparty aware that he is well listened. You can tell that Tom is an intelligent and caring man.
This feels refreshing. To see Tom without makeup speaking about life as we all know it. He plays a character on screen, in late night Tv interviews and in the red carpet. What the rest of us don’t realize is he plays a character to go to Starbucks, the mall, etc. We really can’t understand what it’s like to always be on. He’s done all of this in his formative years when one’s ego is developing. Tom, I am happy for you that you’ve woken up a bit early on. The journey will become easier and takes a lifetime indeed. Just being conscious enough to realize how unconscious we are is 99% of the battle. Rooting you on. Best to you, your family, and your loved ones, now and always.
Tom Holland really understands the risks involved with Hollywood 1:16:33 As Tom said, “you can get lost in it” is such a true and bold statement. But I’m just grateful that he has taken time off for himself and had an amazing interview. Let’s go Tom 🙏 Great interview from Jay Shetty.
i love when interviews don’t feel like interviews. when they are more like a simple conversation about life between two people that are obviously enjoying each other’s company. such a great host!!
This is one of the best episodes in a long time and sounded like two friends chatting! I love how open, honest and down to earth Tom is, also clearly so respectful of his relationship with Zendaya, a real gentleman!
I'm so happy that Tom and Zendaya found each other. Seeing how authentic the both of them are, I really hope they last forever. Tom, I just want to say that I'm happy how you are so self aware and grounded. You are a really good one!
His emotional intelligence is astonishing his mind is so healthy it’s amazing to see. Also he is such a great storyteller you could listen to him for houuuurs. I just love this guy 🤗
Thank you for having Tom Holland on the podcast, Mr Shetty. And thank you Mr Holland for being on the podcast, and for taking on "The Crowded Room" series. It's hard to imagine how Mr Holland was able to compartmentalize that well between that series and real-life, even without thinking too deep about it.
The crowded room wss the best tv series that i have seen this year and let's face it best performance by any actor in years it must have been so hard this was like joker on cocaine I mean 6 completely different characters
I love this conversation. The story Tom told about taking the social media break and the press spinning the story in a negative light was definitely a missed opportunity. We are definitely in a time where it's becoming more and more accepted to be open and honest and ask for help when it comes to our mental health and I love that this is a part of Tom's mission. Keep up the good work, Tom! You're one of the good ones💛 - Julia
So inspirational watching a celebrity like Tom Holland talk about the everyday struggles that we all go through in such a raw and personal way. His journey is so beautiful and he brought so such perspective to my day! Thank you Jay + Tom for this video!
I had to quit alcohol because of a medication I'm on. Hearing Tom talk about the struggles with quitting has been really powerful. I'm considering not drinking after I'm done with it because of this.
I agree! He was on the "SmartLess" podcast with Jason Bateman and Will Arnett recently and he also did one with Seth Meyers, the podcast is called "Family Trips with the Meyers Brothers" and his episode is supposed to come out soon.
@@millsromeI listened to the Meyer Brothers podcast, it's really fun! Always love Tom's interviews because he talks so well, and podcasts are better than tv interviews, more relaxed.
Just wow.I just became a fan of Tom Holland as a person.His outlook and the energy he carries is so rare and authentic.Thank you Jay for this wonderful podcast.
Tom could totally do a show where he speaks with people (like a podcast or host a travel show where he talks to people about life). He's such a well rounded thoughtful human being who always seems genuine in his interest in others.
I really loved how Tom and Jay really listened to each others and didn't try to cut each other off. Jay made it really comfortable and safe for Tom to speak his mind and they didn't just stay on one topic, I love how he didn't make it feel like an interview but rather like they were just chatting. this is my first time watching a Jay Shetty podcast and I absolutely love it!.
Tom and Zendaya come across as just everyday people following their dreams. That is what I love about each of them. I am not obsessed with their personal relationship because that is their business but I must admit that I love seeing them interacting in interviews. I hope that they come out of the entertainment business unscathed.
i love this interview so much. it is very safe. you guys were really safe with each other in just expressing yourselves freely, no judgment, no extra professionalism, no pulling words for the sake of views. it was such a genuine conversation and made me feel like i was there in the room and having this conversation with you guys. i really didn’t want it to end that i paused a lot so i just dont finish it in one sitting. this is definitely the kind of interview that i would watch over and over again. thank you Tom and Jay.
Hearing Tom speak about the need to take a brief break from filming crowded room to tend to his well-being and find balance is a testament to his humanity.
36:13 It's such a fresh nice perspective about alcoholism. I know I have a problem since covid "ended" and I didn't end the daily consumption. I tried to stop so many times but each time I would see my friends again, they would push me to have at least a drink, two drinks, one shot, two shots...because we are young let's live, and also I'm not the stereotype of the alcoholic person who does crazy stuffs and causes scenes. I'm a chill alcoholic, I started drinking to calm my nerves, to go to school and be an obedient student. Then it was to have fun, to black out "to enjoy life" and to forget the working week. Except, I know now, enjoying life as nothing to do with being drunk. At least not for me. Tom was lucky to have a supportive circle. I've never had that. Maybe it's time for me to cut off with my friends and seek support elsewhere. It's so hard to do it alone. But it gets even more lonely to be around people who supposed to love you, care for you but never do.
stop this is actually the best podcast ever. I love how easily the conversation flowed, nothing was forced, felt super natural. you guys have great chemistry and seem very genuine.
tom is one of the very few people I could listen to talk for hours (and that’s saying a lot because I can’t concentrate for long) he just seems like the person you could talk to about the meaning of life at 3:00 AM. Idk if it’s his charismatic energy but it always draws me to his stories
I absolutely LOVE interviews like this. Jay , Zane Lowe and Zach Sang are some of the best in the business when it comes to interviews. They get down to it without getting to personal, they engage with the people they’re talking to. You can tell the person they’re speaking to is very comfortable. When people are comfortable talking to you, that’s when you hear things you normally wouldn’t hear in a normal interview. Zach, Zane and Jay also don’t ask the same run of the mill questions that celebrities constantly hear. We need more people like them
LOVEEE all 3 of these interviewers!! Jay gets into mental health and wellness, Zane gets into the reasons behind music and why musicians make particular music, and Zach’s quirky personality makes artists comfortable.
My mouth dropped open when you said you had just met the day of this interview!! I thought you were old friends the way the conversation flowed! Amazing interview! And I commend Tom for being super protective over his relationship and sticking to that no matter what! I am a huge fan of him, Z, and them together. Kudos to Jay for honoring that as well! Well done!
Imagine the privilege of seeing acting as a hobby and just having that natural talent, deciding to pursue it, and ending up with this lovely career. Crazy how things work out, he seems so grateful.
A conversation I’ve really enjoyed listening to. I like Tom’s attitude - themes of gratitude, insight, and his sensibility (about his personal relationship with alcohol), family, and staying connected with valued friends. He might humbly suggest he is ‘trying to be as authentic as possible’, but be assured, Tom, that is what I respect and admire about you. Engaging in such a long interview where you reveal more about yourself is courageous. Love that Tom is the Dependable Designated Driver! Thank you, Tom and Jay. 🇳🇿🇳🇿🐑🐑NZ
As a person who had never liked alcohol ever since I tried it years ago, I'm just happy to hear about how you love being that sober friend. Happy that the choice you took was supported by your friends.
I knew this episode would be great. But, it definitely exceeded all my expectations. It was deep, honest, raw, inspiring, funny moving. One of the best interviews ever 🔝🔝 Thank you Jay for going deep and showing us the real Tom Holland. He’s authentic, grounded, really focused, smart and has s great sense of humour
This is an AMAZING interview!! The level of comfort here is that of two friends having a good conversation over tea and biscuits. Honestly wish more interviews were like this. Tom is such a genuine guy and has a good head on his shoulders. It's so refreshing to see a young person like that from hollywood. And Jay, you are so excellent at creating a safe space for your guests, and making them feel comfortable to open up and be heard while also respecting their boundaries. It's truely wonderful.
I am a thirteen yr old and i was addicted to my phone until i watched this. This video changed my life as well as made me a better person. Everyday i argued with my mom about my phone i didn't sleep always was angry having anger issues and couldn't focus do anybody who is reading this please quit while you still can. Jay Shetty thank you so much i owe you my whole existence!
Hearing that Tom watches my videos to unwind absolutely brightened my day! Thanks for this incredibly insightful interview.
Yes , so cool ,isn’t it ?!? 🥳🙏🏼♥️
I mean your videos are S tier Chris ❤
Props to you chris!
Chris makes amazing videos
Thank you so much for the kind words and for being a part of brightening days!
To hear him talk about what good parents do to put their children's feelings first and hide their adult struggles is validating for a person who grew up with the opposite scenario.
Yeah same and I totally agree with him
Yeah it felt good to hear this
Am the same like. Tom's parente are amazing people.
I hear you bro, grew up in a similar scenario as you and opposite to tom’s but I just wanted to point out that it’s important to know that everything in this world has it’s blessings and curses. my parents never hid their struggles from me and my siblings. It was hard as a younging knowing that I couldn’t help them but today as a grow man i am able to help others with their struggles in any shape and form and I would like to think it’s because of the environment i grew up in. To clarify am not saying people who didn’t grow up in the same circumstances as me can’t also help people but i just feel like being in it for a long time truly makes you understand the necessity of helping eachother through thick times cause no one is making it far in this world on their own. Anyways sending love and guidance to everyone reading this, keep pushing.❤
That might work for young children, but after a certain age it can lead to lack of maturity and being too emotional
I worked with Tom as a stuntman on one of his films. I sat in the backseat of a car for multiple shots with him which allowed us to chat for a little bit in between takes. He is just as humble and personable on the job/in person as he is in this interview. Great actor and a fantastic human being.
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👏👏👏looks genuine really
Jesus it makes me so happy to hear it. God bless those who r unaffected by Hollywood and money, and God protect them cuz they need that in that awful industry. Be safe plz, Garrett, your job is quite dangerous 💖
I do want to like Tom Holland but he’s so short.
@@alanjaime2506 yeah thats short
My son who is 24 just told me that he stopped drinking alcohol all together because of this interview. Just so you know how you are changing people’s lives. I’m so grateful ❤️
definitely. Im 22 and I decided to do the same and it is the best decision i’ve ever made.
Tom Is such a Sweetheart :)
Wow, wish him all the best ❤ I can recommend meditation if starting to think about the negative thinking.
I literally did the same, at 32, because this interview.
Wow that's amazing!
I think he is a great example of what good present honest parenting can do for a person.
Yes, truly!
He doesn’t have mental illness. He simply doesn’t know what actual mental
Illness is. Big big difference between nervousness and anxiety… and big big difference between feeling anxious and having an anxiety disorder.
He's being Indistractable❤ 💯👍
I agree, but we shouldn't let that diminish his goals and his accomplishments! I do agree though, many people get these things mixed with each other. Everyone does experience depression, anxiety, etc, but they often forget about the crowd that don't go through the "phases"... that these things are their way of life and we're just coping everyday.@@user-qd1ei2ww6e
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Regardless of how you feel about his work, you can't deny that Tom's one of the few humble and realistic celebs, and I admire him for striving to keep it that way!
What’s wrong with his work?
@@MultitudeOfChaosNothing at all
@MultitudeOfChaos There are some Tobey/Andrew Spider-Man purists who've always hated Tom, simply because he isn't them and/or his version of Spidey started off as more of "Iron Boy, Jr." (Their words).
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I love how Tom made Jay talk about himself, being genuinely interested in his life
making connections gotta on his mental health list. its so sweet
You can tell he’s humble.
Yeaaa I loved that too how he brought the conversation to being 360. This is how we should have conversations with each other
Here I'm, trying to learn English watching this beautiful podcast. Thanks for make it possible.
@@yoxisleylopezfernandez182it is a confusing language with rules that don't make sense. Good on you!
Tom Holland is so emotionally mature, he is so kind and a nice guy and I feel like you could talk to him forever. I am glad to be a fan of someone like him because he is someone people can really look up to. I love Tom!
This is a calculated career move, IMO.
How is being emotionally mature and kind, a calculated career move?!
Obviously he wants more complex, mature roles.
@@BC08your life must be miserable to think that
@@Luke101 Not at all, but your life must be extremely simplistic and lackadaisical to think otherwise
Tom Holland is a real life superhero. Just a genuine and humble human being. Best conversation I've heard in a long, long time.
He’s a down to earth person who pretends for a living. Settle down with the real life super hero stuff 😂
Please explain what makes him a real life super hero😂 hes a humble inspiring human being sure, but where the fuck do u get real life super hero from, hes not gonna shag u lol
He was an amazing guest!
I don't know that I've ever seen an "interview" where two people were bringing out the best in each other to such an extent, and being so open and receptive to each other's stories. You could just see them enriching each other's experience in real time. I loved it, I felt just so happy for them both :)
Agreed this podcast has been extraordinary
Glad you enjoyed the conversation! Tom was an amazing guest.
"Enriching each others experience in real time" your words are like drinking pure sugar syrup.
It is so refreshing to hear a man speaks so openly, and authentically. He seems to embrace his vulnerability AND also embrace the masculine as well. I’m a forever fan of Tom now :)
I rarely watch celebrity interviews, but hearing how balanced of a human Tom is, is refreshing. How he sets boundaries and can see this bigger picture of his place in the scope of things is really nice. I believe his close relationships. and connections to family and friends can be attributed to this. More people should try to a wholesome mind set he has. It’s unfortunate many people as he says loose themselves.
Seems like a great guy, and really enjoyable to listen to, and interesting to know about his upbringing.
Doesn't seem to me that he simply "tried" a wholesome mind set, but has a really interesting journey.
He's lucky to have that support from his family and friends
His gay sex scene threw me off, but then I saw zendaya (his partner) hooking up with 2 men at once in a raunchy sex scene.. and then I realized it’s all good, everyone deserves love ❤
Nah his raunchy gay scene was way too much over the top for me…. It was a drug fest no boundaries in your face wokefest & it’s enough already!!! Society is getting out of control… I for one am over it!
@@DivaliciousCouponing are you not a fan anymore because of that scene?
The beauty of this podcast is that both are curious about eachothers perspective of life,tom is asking so many amazing question to jay it really makes this podcast amazing.
it’s so nice to see someone like tom being so open and friendly back and forth, felt like a real convo between friends!
This felt so natural!! Hope they do all those trips together and do another episode in the future
They had a great connection
This is the most non-toxic masculinity I've ever experienced all in one place. Beautiful podcast, I really enjoyed it
What does masculinity have to do with it? 🤦🏻♂️ you obsessed with it ?
Shut up why bring in masculinity go work on youre self
there is no such thing as toxic masculinity therefore you're non-sensical
Lol there's definitely this forced agenda a bit. Most men aren't toxic. That's just what activists would have you believe and it became a buzzword.
There´s no Toxic Masculinity. Masculinity is part of male essence what there´s is Toxic Men and running in the same road, There´s no toxic feminility but toxic Women.
What an refreshing podcast! Tom is not only so open and honest, he also takes a real interest in Jay and takes on the role of asking him questions. This whole podcast felt like a really safe space for both of them to learn and reflect and inspire one another!
A safe space?? Would you like a pacifier and a call to mommy too.
@@jac9301Yeah a safe place. Without people like you, who judge others harshly to feel good about themselves.
I felt exactly the same, love too see it 😊❤
@@jac9301toxic masculinity in action
@@jac9301 Gross and insecure. Think about how showing weakness at your manual labor job would be a very bad idea. Now, remove the constant threat of losing your job for any momentary lapse. That security would be nice, right? People, such as yourself, are the reason "safe spaces" even exist.
Tom is so emotionally intelligent, I’m impressed by not only the actor he is, but purely the person he has become. Really proud and loved this episode so much 🤍
that doesnt exist hun , lol
yes I said the said thing while watching this, he seems so emotionally mature/intelligent and this has been a great interview! I love especially how he has his boundaries set when it comes to specific areas of his life - mainly his relationship with Z, but I can definitely understand how they keep that so sacred and close to them.
@@ayoub.boughaba”hun” it does.
@@winter8646 "sacred and close to them" meanwhile he's always talking about their rs in interviews and mentioning her name for fame lol
@@lunagd2450 well I’ll admit, I did peep that part - about the interviews of him mentioning her, but I honestly don’t think it’s for fame, tbh lol. Yeah so that is quite interesting, how he’ll mention her in other interviews etc but not this one as much. But maybe, it’s because he’s actually sitting down with someone for more then 10-20 minutes and he probably figured discussing their relationship ( like more into details were just off limits) I’m assuming. Also, idk if it was me or not, but he came off kinda anxious a bit. Just moving around a bit and he couldn’t really just sit that still. Maybe he was nervous, I know when i start to feel anxious I just start to move around and get like fidgety as well. But I’m not really sure
Tom is so emotionally intelligent, I’m impressed by not only the actor he is, but purely the person he has become. Really proud and loved this episode so much
Couple of kind, vulnerable, hard-working London boys showing us what healthy masculinity and connection can look like. Love it.
If you didn't love Tom Holland before now this is the best way. He seems like such a genuine and wonderful person 😊
He definitely is!
@@JayShettyPodcast. please give us an update if you manage to fit in any of those adventures with Tom.
From his family dynamic to his discipline and awareness, I truly love learning more and more about him, and trying to mirror a lot of his qualities. It’s life changing
Almost two hours with Tom. That's perfect. Thanks so much for inviting him❤
Of course, it was a pleasure to have him on the podcast!
This is definately a two way conversational podcast. Really loved the episode. Tom is as much interested in Jay's life as Jay is in his.
I hope they became friends after this.Their conversation is very seamless ❤
This is the healthiest conversation between the healthiest people I’ve had the privilege to watch from third person. At no point was it boring, on the contrary, it was emotionally and intellectually very stimulating and eye-opening. As someone who constantly craves conversations and bonding experiences like these, and to learn about the human psychology, it was truly thrilling to watch this video and learn on a deeper level about shared experiences and their impact on your lives. Seeing such spiritual people also be so ordinary and relatable is truly inspiring.
I love how Tom even as a celebrity appears so humble and down to earth. He seems like such a positive influence. I also highly respect that although he is a big world celebrity he has boundaries for his personal life. And Jay does such a great job of getting genuine and thought provoking interactions out of the guest. Thank you
It's so wholesome seeing guests ask questions about Jay's experience as a monk. It's so respectful and many guests asked him like Joe Jonas Lili Reinhart.
The mutual respect is sooo sooo important. I LOVE THIS
LOVE RULES 🫶🏻
I saw a TH-cam short of Tom explaining alcohol and decided to check this video out. I’m 23 and going through the same issues Tom did. Haven’t quit yet but this makes me so happy to hear someone who was in same position and pushed through it. I thought I would have to drink forever to be comfortable socially until I saw this. Thank you Tom for giving me hope
This is the most beautiful and natural conversation I’ve ever heard. I love that Tom is not just being interviewed, but he’s genuinly interrested in Jay’s experiences and opinions. The best episode yet!! ❤
Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed it as much as I did
I am now 2.5 years sober and it continues to be the best thing I've ever done for myself and others around me. Thank you Tom for being vocal around this subject and hopefully the more people it reaches, the better!
Quitter
@@RumblesBettr 💀
I love how this is a deep conversation between two people who respect each other and not like a podcast or interview. Huge respect to Jay for not asking Tom anything about his relationship, rather he let Tom share what he wanted and didn't comment on it or ask for more information. Given how much people online want to know about Tom & and Zendaya, it would have been so easy to try to steer the conversation that way to increase views and likes.
The flow of the conversation between you two is so effortless and easy I loved watching this felt like two friends catching up
This is probably the best interview I’ve seen! The conversation just flows beautifully and smoothly. The respect you both have for each other is admirable! A lot of interviewers should definitely take some serious notes!
Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you very much!
But how can u all understand English.these guys are so faster 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I'm understanding with subtitles 😅
@@youngchullee36 😢
@@shaikhlion2266I mean I just do?
As a mom, I can only really hope I'm doing just as good of a job as Tom's mom did, because I'would be so proud of a son like him. He is such good person.
I've never been one to listen to long celeb interviews but this podcast episode was gold. I've always been a huge fan of Tom Holland just for the kind of person he is. And I wish more people had his compassion, maturity and humility. Thank you Jay for such an enlightening episode.
he’s truly a role model for our generation
I don't know how I hadn't discovered this podcast prior to this one! You're an amazing host and I love how engaged you are with all of these conversations!
I'll be watching them all now!
It’s jojo, you should do a trying cuisine asmr video
Thank you so much & welcome!
hey jojo, i love your videos and i love listening to your takes on your commentary channel!
Same just subscribed
WOW!@@JayShettyPodcast. I've never seen any of your podcast show up on my YT feed until this one! - I HAVE LOT TO CATCH UP you're an amazing host!
A few years back, I was really struggling with depression and mental health issues. I was hooked on cigarettes and alcohol, but then my wife suggested I try psilocybin mushroom therapy. Honestly, it saved my life. It's been 11 years since I've been totally clean. Those shrooms are like a miracle.
Microdosing helped me get out of the pit of my worst depressive episode, a three year long episode enough to start working on my mental health
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in UK. Really need
The shroom experience stands as my most remarkable journey, an awe-inspiring encounter that left an indelible mark of amazement.
He’s on insta?
Does he make delivery across the UK??
Tom Holland is such a good person I wasn't a fan of his spiderman for the longest when I was younger (nothing to do with his acting more to do with the writing) but I became a huge fan of him as a person and his parents raised a good man and that goes for the rest of his family
His Spider-Man is my favourite, he's a great peter parker. Can't wait for his new trilogy, he's going to boss it
@@AnxyTpYou think Tom's gonna go into another MCU trilogy ? Whenever he's being asked about the future of Spider-Man I always get the vibe that Tom, as grateful as he is, is kind of done & ready to move on to the next thing.
@@shanouboubouSpiderman 4 is happening Tom already said if they can't outdo No way home with 4 it's done
This was more of a deep conversation rather than an interview, in my opinion. Viewing Tom as just as a normal man with issues and goals in life is very refreshing. I see him more now than I did before.
"You can be mentored by people you've never met" this is exactly what's happening for me rn
Man i respect how friendly and enthusiastic tom is while speaking. It feels like jay and tom know each other from way back! Great podcast. Thank you Jay! ❤
Thank you for watching!
One of the best interviews I have ever seen. Two remarkable people having an incredible conversation. Both gentlemen were sincere, humble, incredibly interesting and respectful of each other. I will definitely watch this again. My day started out pretty crappy and I feel a lot better now. Thank you Tom and Jay!
Thank you! Glad the podcast lifted your spirits!
Thank you guys for having this dialogue. The part about being sober and living through sobriety literally punched me in my face. It was exactly what I needed to hear.
This was such a good listen. I'm a 22 year old who has lived in wisconsin my entire life. I am 7 1/2 months alcohol free....and I never would have imagined how good it feels. No more headaches, no more week long depression, no more blackouts, no more regrets. When pulling away, you really notice how much of an impact it has on your whole life. Living in a state where alcohol is the culture makes you forget its a poison. Proud of the both of you and also talking about not pushing it on other people you have yo choose it for yourself ❤
I am also the same age but felt the complete polar opposite most of my life so I am not sure how to go about changes if I am being honest with you mate personally.
@@TheGoldenPlatoon757either way, changes should happen, and we should never look back with regret. Like stages of becoming a butterfly, it cannot become a caterpillar again…and becoming a butterfly took a lot of pain to get there.
If you sense something needs to change, don’t compare yourself to others to see what you should or shouldn’t be doing…look to whoever you sense is the great Creator, ask them who they want you to be and work towards that daily.
@fuzzykittens04
You put it beautifully. It’s difficult to be surrounded people who see poison or addiction as normal.
People who literally can’t function without a cup of coffee think that’s normal. That’s bondage, friend.
You broke free from bondage of alcohol, keep speaking out about that. You will offer strength to others through your experience.
@@8dreamersfarm Thanks, I needed this so much.
@@8dreamersfarmThere's no creator to have a chat with.
I just love how this felt like a genuine conversation and not an interview just because it's Tom Holland. Thank you for this one, Jay! I really learned quite a lot!
Upon my first shroom trip, my depression disappeared overnight. It shifted my perspective on the way I viewed myself. It showed me that I was stuck in one way of thinking. This was unhealthy mentally and it was affecting me physically. Within 6 months of the trip, my chronic lower back pain disappeared, I'm sure it was due to tension and stress, and hasn't returned.
Allowing the mushrooms to blast you into self awareness, showing you the shadows and trauma that have been hiding under the rug. Micro dosing has helped me stay on the pulse of my shadow work, helping me remember my best self.
Mushrooms are without a doubt one of the best things on this existence when it comes to self improvement and simply enjoying life. It's something people should do at least once, I don't care what anyone says. It's life changing stuff.
𝕴𝖓𝖘𝖙𝖆𝖌𝖗𝖆𝖒
dr.wheelershrooms
Mushroom trip, the best medication for the body and soul ❤️
Im 15 and I have already decided I don’t want to drink. Hearing Tom talk about how it has improved his life and how he’s the DD and how it’s fun to see his friends a little drunk while he’s sober just makes me know that my decision is going to be something that really makes my life better.
Indeed.
19 here, never feel the hype around drinking and being drunk.
Like you cant be emotionally vulnerable and be honest without some alcohol usage?
That’s sad.
Keep it. For you. And you’ll meet like-minded friends i promise.
(P/s: i do enjoy cocktails, and drink for the taste too. Or on very rare occasion with really closefriends, or family.
Never got hung over or too drunk to know what’s going on tho)
islam prohibits alcohol, says a lot doesnt it?
@@アフィフ are you asking if I’m Islam. If so no, I’m a white Christian, liberal, girl.
@@アフィフislam also says having multiple wifes is ok. Islam also says women should obey their husband. Islam also says women should cover their hair and face. Says alot doesnt it
@@aaroncousins4750 indeed it says a lot, during the time of the prophets war was happening here and there therefore lots of men were died in war, leaving a lot of woman being alone and not have a man to support them, this is why it was allowed for men during that time to marry up to 4 wives, which is still allowed today because it was allowed to our prophet we still do it today but not many because there is no war going on, next Woman should obey their husband which part of this is wrong actually? should a wife not obey their husband the head of family, if a woman was walking alone at new york at night what would be the reason she was scared of? obviously men! then that is were good men come to protect the woman, basically woman needs men to protect them why should a wife not obey their husband? woman should cover their hair this is also a way Allah SWT protects woman if your were to put a woman wearing a crop top and shorts in the middle of the street would men look at them in a weird way? would they think of evil, dirty things looking at the woman? imagine if this were your own sister? you would feel sick, so Allah SWT tells the woman to cover up head to toe to protect them from the lust of man, allah knows how men thinks because is the one created them , this is way allah protects woman, Say alot doesnt it?
I loved how open he was with his sobriety & how it has inspired his mom to give up drinking. It also makes me happy because Zendaya has also been very vocal about never wanting to drink alcohol & avoiding the party culture in Hollywood, so it's great knowing he's surrounded by a wonderful support system in his journey to sobriety.
One of the best conversations on life, a healthy state of mind, and finding peace I've heard. It was less an interview and more a deep philosophical conversation at a friends' home.
This might be the best interview with Tom I've ever seen (even tho it felt more like a chat between old friends). Tom is my fave actor and what I admire him for is the fact how normal, humble, nice, open, genuine, easy-going and funny he is while also being smart and thoughtful. This conversation was really interesting, insightful, informative and inspiring, just like Jay's questions and input into this conversation. BTW, I absolutely agree about The Crowded Room being a great show.
Thank you for your comment! Glad you enjoyed the episode ❤
Disagree. I love all his interviews and very interesting except he did with Tom. Tom doesn't know what he is talking , he is every where. The only i heard is screaming each other and loughing to much. I just sow he did interview with Selena Gomez and i was so very interesting to listen .❤
So proud of Tom for breaking away from social media. It seems harmless, but it can cause so much mental strain without people even realizing it. Stay healthy friends!! ❤
How do we all learn to be as grounded as Tom Holland?! What a gem!
I absolutely love and respect this man and how he expresses what kind of a healthy father is and how parents should treat their children correctly, it's amazing.
i love how Tom asked questions back. And they were like deep or really interesting and not obvious. Liked it
Tom Holland as a guest asks such elaborate questions and listens so interested and respectfully that a lot of the time it feels like he is the host of this podcast.
I knew is was an extraordinary actor from watching his films and shows, but I had no idea he was such an extraordinary human being in general!
Tom is such a great conversationalist. I felt like I was in the room with both of them
"Conversationalist" that's crazy bro💀
@@IM-vf6ry it's literally a word
@@IM-vf6ryur a kid bro😂
you weren't tho you nerd
He was a great guest! Glad you enjoyed the episode.
What a genuine, humble human being. Defo someone you would want in your close circle. Huge respect for Tom.
Tom Holland is one of the many living examples of what a great parenting can do ❤ he seems like the kind of person you would like to be friends with ☺️
No
He is such a great example of healthy masculinity, introspection and connection to himself. Beautiful to watch you too interact!
I especially loved when Jay and Tom were talking about their interactions with wildlife,being present and so close to the animals,it's incredible how connected it makes one feel.What I admire about Tom is that he's so down to earth and humble,humility shines through.I really felt like by the end it was just like old pals sharing stories and catching up on life.Thank you Jay for this conversation ❤️
It was such a pleasure chatting with Tom! Thanks for your comment ❤
I love the way Tom responds while listening to Jay; it's not just simple 'uh-huh' like many others, but Tom inserts words like 'sure', 'absolutely' 'love it', 'totally!' ' a 100%'...etc.etc.
Tom is an excellent communicator. Not only he is very eloquent but also he makes his counterparty aware that he is well listened. You can tell that Tom is an intelligent and caring man.
What the hell bot
This feels refreshing. To see Tom without makeup speaking about life as we all know it. He plays a character on screen, in late night Tv interviews and in the red carpet. What the rest of us don’t realize is he plays a character to go to Starbucks, the mall, etc. We really can’t understand what it’s like to always be on. He’s done all of this in his formative years when one’s ego is developing.
Tom, I am happy for you that you’ve woken up a bit early on. The journey will become easier and takes a lifetime indeed. Just being conscious enough to realize how unconscious we are is 99% of the battle.
Rooting you on. Best to you, your family, and your loved ones, now and always.
Tom Holland really understands the risks involved with Hollywood 1:16:33 As Tom said, “you can get lost in it” is such a true and bold statement. But I’m just grateful that he has taken time off for himself and had an amazing interview. Let’s go Tom 🙏 Great interview from Jay Shetty.
Nice to see an interview where the interviewer actually listens to their guest and allows them to talk without disturbing their flow.
i love when interviews don’t feel like interviews. when they are more like a simple conversation about life between two people that are obviously enjoying each other’s company. such a great host!!
I enjoyed this so much I felt like I didn't want it to end. Great conversation!
Love you Lana! 😘
It is the same feeling we (your followers) get from your videos Lana :)
Wow thank you so much! Appreciate it
I could listen forever 😭😭🥹
Lana you gotta meet me in the room where the kisses ain't free
I love how Tom is also asking Jay questions making the dialogue more inclusive and interesting to hear experiences from both of them
This is one of the best episodes in a long time and sounded like two friends chatting! I love how open, honest and down to earth Tom is, also clearly so respectful of his relationship with Zendaya, a real gentleman!
I'm so happy that Tom and Zendaya found each other. Seeing how authentic the both of them are, I really hope they last forever.
Tom, I just want to say that I'm happy how you are so self aware and grounded. You are a really good one!
The more Tom speaks the more I get to like him, what a down to earth person
“A champion is someone who had it all, lost it all & got it right back again” - Tom 👏🏽 wow
His emotional intelligence is astonishing his mind is so healthy it’s amazing to see. Also he is such a great storyteller you could listen to him for houuuurs. I just love this guy 🤗
Thank you for having Tom Holland on the podcast, Mr Shetty. And thank you Mr Holland for being on the podcast, and for taking on "The Crowded Room" series. It's hard to imagine how Mr Holland was able to compartmentalize that well between that series and real-life, even without thinking too deep about it.
The crowded room wss the best tv series that i have seen this year and let's face it best performance by any actor in years it must have been so hard this was like joker on cocaine I mean 6 completely different characters
It's also how real and scarily relatable it is@@parsaalishiri8138 Am watching it for the 4th time, all 10 episodes
I love this conversation. The story Tom told about taking the social media break and the press spinning the story in a negative light was definitely a missed opportunity. We are definitely in a time where it's becoming more and more accepted to be open and honest and ask for help when it comes to our mental health and I love that this is a part of Tom's mission. Keep up the good work, Tom! You're one of the good ones💛
- Julia
Hy
So inspirational watching a celebrity like Tom Holland talk about the everyday struggles that we all go through in such a raw and personal way. His journey is so beautiful and he brought so such perspective to my day! Thank you Jay + Tom for this video!
I had to quit alcohol because of a medication I'm on. Hearing Tom talk about the struggles with quitting has been really powerful. I'm considering not drinking after I'm done with it because of this.
Tom Holland is a great young man. Also, obviously very empathetic and a good listener. Great episode. Thank you, Jay!
He was a wonderful guest!
Tom should do more podcasts. He's great at holding a conversation and telling stories.
I agree! He was on the "SmartLess" podcast with Jason Bateman and Will Arnett recently and he also did one with Seth Meyers, the podcast is called "Family Trips with the Meyers Brothers" and his episode is supposed to come out soon.
I can see that as a positive for him 😮.
@@millsromeI listened to the Meyer Brothers podcast, it's really fun! Always love Tom's interviews because he talks so well, and podcasts are better than tv interviews, more relaxed.
Just wow.I just became a fan of Tom Holland as a person.His outlook and the energy he carries is so rare and authentic.Thank you Jay for this wonderful podcast.
Tom could totally do a show where he speaks with people (like a podcast or host a travel show where he talks to people about life). He's such a well rounded thoughtful human being who always seems genuine in his interest in others.
I really loved how Tom and Jay really listened to each others and didn't try to cut each other off. Jay made it really comfortable and safe for Tom to speak his mind and they didn't just stay on one topic, I love how he didn't make it feel like an interview but rather like they were just chatting. this is my first time watching a Jay Shetty podcast and I absolutely love it!.
Tom and Zendaya come across as just everyday people following their dreams. That is what I love about each of them. I am not obsessed with their personal relationship because that is their business but I must admit that I love seeing them interacting in interviews. I hope that they come out of the entertainment business unscathed.
Tom is so emotionally intelligent and tender hearted! Really enjoyed this episode.
notice how Tom maintain the conversation with words “Amazing” “Fantastic” what makes this interview the way interesting and alive
i love this interview so much. it is very safe. you guys were really safe with each other in just expressing yourselves freely, no judgment, no extra professionalism, no pulling words for the sake of views. it was such a genuine conversation and made me feel like i was there in the room and having this conversation with you guys. i really didn’t want it to end that i paused a lot so i just dont finish it in one sitting. this is definitely the kind of interview that i would watch over and over again. thank you Tom and Jay.
One of the rare guests who actually asks questions and is interested in his amazing experience. Loved this interview !
tom seems like a real genuine guy its cool to see for a hollywood superstar like that
Hearing Tom speak about the need to take a brief break from filming crowded room to tend to his well-being and find balance is a testament to his humanity.
36:13 It's such a fresh nice perspective about alcoholism. I know I have a problem since covid "ended" and I didn't end the daily consumption. I tried to stop so many times but each time I would see my friends again, they would push me to have at least a drink, two drinks, one shot, two shots...because we are young let's live, and also I'm not the stereotype of the alcoholic person who does crazy stuffs and causes scenes. I'm a chill alcoholic, I started drinking to calm my nerves, to go to school and be an obedient student. Then it was to have fun, to black out "to enjoy life" and to forget the working week. Except, I know now, enjoying life as nothing to do with being drunk. At least not for me. Tom was lucky to have a supportive circle. I've never had that. Maybe it's time for me to cut off with my friends and seek support elsewhere. It's so hard to do it alone. But it gets even more lonely to be around people who supposed to love you, care for you but never do.
stop this is actually the best podcast ever. I love how easily the conversation flowed, nothing was forced, felt super natural. you guys have great chemistry and seem very genuine.
This is not a podcast episode, this is a beautiful conversation which happened to have two mics and cameras. I LOVED IT ❤️
Same here! This is wonderful and inspiring. Mental health is everything.
Yes 😮
Love Tom's authenticity in here. It radiates through every statement. Hearing his vulnerability shifted the way I see him before. Much respect.
Two most precious & wise men, being so kind towards each other. ❤
tom is one of the very few people I could listen to talk for hours (and that’s saying a lot because I can’t concentrate for long) he just seems like the person you could talk to about the meaning of life at 3:00 AM. Idk if it’s his charismatic energy but it always draws me to his stories
Literally, I just watched this whole interview in one sitting and now it’s two am 😭 but I didn’t get bored once
Thanks for staying up to listen! Means a lot ❤
I absolutely LOVE interviews like this. Jay , Zane Lowe and Zach Sang are some of the best in the business when it comes to interviews. They get down to it without getting to personal, they engage with the people they’re talking to. You can tell the person they’re speaking to is very comfortable. When people are comfortable talking to you, that’s when you hear things you normally wouldn’t hear in a normal interview. Zach, Zane and Jay also don’t ask the same run of the mill questions that celebrities constantly hear. We need more people like them
LOVEEE all 3 of these interviewers!! Jay gets into mental health and wellness, Zane gets into the reasons behind music and why musicians make particular music, and Zach’s quirky personality makes artists comfortable.
My mouth dropped open when you said you had just met the day of this interview!! I thought you were old friends the way the conversation flowed! Amazing interview! And I commend Tom for being super protective over his relationship and sticking to that no matter what! I am a huge fan of him, Z, and them together. Kudos to Jay for honoring that as well! Well done!
Imagine the privilege of seeing acting as a hobby and just having that natural talent, deciding to pursue it, and ending up with this lovely career. Crazy how things work out, he seems so grateful.
A conversation I’ve really enjoyed listening to. I like Tom’s attitude - themes of gratitude, insight, and his sensibility (about his personal relationship with alcohol), family, and staying connected with valued friends. He might humbly suggest he is ‘trying to be as authentic as possible’, but be assured, Tom, that is what I respect and admire about you. Engaging in such a long interview where you reveal more about yourself is courageous. Love that Tom is the Dependable Designated Driver! Thank you, Tom and Jay. 🇳🇿🇳🇿🐑🐑NZ
As a person who had never liked alcohol ever since I tried it years ago, I'm just happy to hear about how you love being that sober friend. Happy that the choice you took was supported by your friends.
I knew this episode would be great. But, it definitely exceeded all my expectations. It was deep, honest, raw, inspiring, funny moving. One of the best interviews ever 🔝🔝
Thank you Jay for going deep and showing us the real Tom Holland. He’s authentic, grounded, really focused, smart and has s great sense of humour
I'm so glad you enjoyed it!
This is an AMAZING interview!! The level of comfort here is that of two friends having a good conversation over tea and biscuits. Honestly wish more interviews were like this. Tom is such a genuine guy and has a good head on his shoulders. It's so refreshing to see a young person like that from hollywood. And Jay, you are so excellent at creating a safe space for your guests, and making them feel comfortable to open up and be heard while also respecting their boundaries. It's truely wonderful.
I am a thirteen yr old and i was addicted to my phone until i watched this. This video changed my life as well as made me a better person. Everyday i argued with my mom about my phone i didn't sleep always was angry having anger issues and couldn't focus do anybody who is reading this please quit while you still can. Jay Shetty thank you so much i owe you my whole existence!