Do You Need A Size 1 or Size 2? | How to Choose Your Menstrual Cup Size

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ย. 2024
  • When you look at the guidelines for which size menstrual cup should be right for you they seem rather specific- over 30 and haven't given birth, you're a Size 1. Over 30 and/or you've given birth- you're a Size 2.
    These guidelines aren't just arbitrary, there's a reason the under 30/over 30 number exists but it's not a hard line. Plus the "given birth" line is confusing! Kim will explain WHY this is the guideline and when you should follow it, or when you shouldn't.
    How to pick a menstrual cup size is the first choice you will need to make when you are getting started so use this video to guide you to a better understanding of how.
    I did check my audio set-up and adjust the mic 5 times before filming sooooo I am hoping it's better for everyone.
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  • @alainaleone5120
    @alainaleone5120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    So, I recently started using a menstrual cup, and I use the Saalt soft in the size “regular” (as opposed to small). I’m 15, I’m a virgin, I’ve only stuck tampons up there prior to this. The reason why I chose the regular instead of the small is because I have an EXTREMELY high cervix. Like, my fingers are very long and I can hardly touch it. It DID hurt at first to put it in and take it out, but once it was in, it was totally fine! Just wanted to share! ❤️

    • @cheaminks
      @cheaminks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Would you recommend it for someone who has a high cervix but can reach it + a heavy flow?

    • @alainaleone5120
      @alainaleone5120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Cheaminks I would definitely recommend it!! It’s a great cup, and I’ve only leaked once (which was my fault).

    • @supernova11711
      @supernova11711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The diva cup would probably be great for you (it’s extremely long). Both size sm and large are 57mm long so you could get one that’s smaller in diameter if you would like but it would reach your cervix as well. In firmness it’s rated at a 3 so pretty good that way also. Just thought I’d comment in case you’d like to try different ones as well :)

    • @lavenderhazel5125
      @lavenderhazel5125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cheaminks YES!! I have an extremely heavy flow and the regular is very good. I got the duo pack and I almost never use my Saalt small. Hope this helps!!

    • @Latifa-dx2qb
      @Latifa-dx2qb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alaina Leone I keep leaking with my saalt cup :( maybe i need the size two.

  • @lubeeluonline
    @lubeeluonline 4 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    I’m a 36-year-old ballet teacher with no children & I use size 1 menstrual cups. So I 100% agree that size depends on your activity level rather than age

    • @PutACupInIt
      @PutACupInIt  4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yup! Muscles can be worked out so it's got a lot to do with that.

    • @luckystars5510
      @luckystars5510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I'm kinda the opposite of you lol. I'm a 21 year old dancer with no kids and have to use size 2 my periods are extremely heavy too

    • @taylorn2574
      @taylorn2574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You guys are dancers can you tell me if your cups leak when you do the splits cause my tampons do and that’s why I’m thinking of switching

    • @lubeeluonline
      @lubeeluonline 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Taylor N No leaks ever! I have a meluna sport & it stays put no matter what I’m dancing.

    • @stellagriffith3696
      @stellagriffith3696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m 16 with no kids and I’m a size 2

  • @daisypitt2217
    @daisypitt2217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I’ve just turned 15 and am on my 5th period. Was so self conscious on the amount of plastic and waste being thrown away already so I got a size one lily compact and it has worked incredibly so far! This channel is very helpful

    • @BeckyMesser
      @BeckyMesser 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Congrats on discovering cups so early!!! :D I still remember the first time I used a tampon at age 16, it was terrifying & it took me a few tries (no way I coulda done a cup lol), now I’m 27 & after two or three previously failed attempts, I finally had my first successful zero-waste period last month ♡ big kudos to you for getting to that point at an even younger age!! 👏🤩

    • @daisypitt2217
      @daisypitt2217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@BeckyMesser thank you ! I don’t know how this notification ONLY just popped up but I hope it’s been going well - still using cups , they’re brilliant

  • @vj6090
    @vj6090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Interestingly enough, I'm 26 years old, never been pregnant, a virgin, and find that I need something bigger. It's kinda like I'm coasting in-between the two sizes, but given my very high cervix and serious blood flow (I know that's not supposed to dictate things, but higher capacity really helps day-to-day life in a third world country), I wound up getting the bigger XO Flo. Not the most comfortable to get accustomed to, but I leak SO much less, feel it less, and am generally more comfortable once it's in. It does open up when inside, usually pretty easily, and... Well, I'm a generally active person. I'm not an athlete, at least not at the moment, but maybe the muscles I'm working day-to-day are unrelated to the pelvic muscles...?
    No idea, just know size 2 seems to be working better than the smaller ones (compact was a nightmare) and I don't want to go back LOL. Though I've not stuck to multiple sizes in one brand for comparison.

    • @bolabeedee
      @bolabeedee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      thanking you for explaining this! I was starting to feel weird about getting a bigger cup

    • @danakuizheva624
      @danakuizheva624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So you just assured me that ordering both sizes was a good decision

    • @vj6090
      @vj6090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@danakuizheva624 If you can order both, I'd say go for it.

  • @MizzKittyBichon
    @MizzKittyBichon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Another factor to take into consideration is the shape of the cup. After much trial and error, I discovered that traditional funnel-shaped cups don't work for my body no matter what size they are because my cervix is tilted towards my tailbone. I need a cup that can reach far enough in the back of my vagina so it doesn't easily miss my cervix. It turns out that fishbowl-shaped cups (like my Merula) are ideal for me.

  • @anonymousnunyabiz5803
    @anonymousnunyabiz5803 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I can use both sizes. Neither one is uncomfortable for me but I tend to use the larger cups because my flow is heavier. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @v141717y
      @v141717y 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too! I use the bigger one for the first 2-3 days and the small ones for the rest of my period.

    • @mebutinglasses9152
      @mebutinglasses9152 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for saying this! I was wondering if it was just a me problem. Now, with your confirmation of having two sizes, I'll definitely get a bigger cup for the start of my pireod.

  • @danceronblue
    @danceronblue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    As my 30th birthday is coming up next week, I got a kick out of this. Thanks for all this info!

    • @PutACupInIt
      @PutACupInIt  4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Happy Size 2 Day ;)

  • @hersevenpillars
    @hersevenpillars 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This is so true. After I had my third child a soft cup worked because my pelvic floor wasn't as toned. Then I worked hard on strenghtening my pelvic floor...well I had to get a firmer menstrual cup because my muscle were so toned it was causing my cup to collapse which caused leaks. I switched to a firmer cup (Lena) which worked wonders!

    • @noora1214
      @noora1214 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Healing Mama Remedies thanks for this ... so I’m active and I work out regularly. I got the regular size soft cup and it keeps on sliding down ... is it because my muscles are toned ?

    • @GiraffeOmelette
      @GiraffeOmelette 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Noor A Absolutely! You would probably benefit from a Merula, a Moon Cup, or a MeLuna Sport. They’re all pretty firm, the Merula is pretty bulbous so that may take a little getting used to for some. I personally have the Moon Cup at the moment and it never gets crushed inside me like many other cups have.

    • @supernova11711
      @supernova11711 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m strange I guess. I’m 38 (average size and weight) and not overly active and use a small si-bell cup. It’s the softest cup you can get and I chose it because I was worried about a firmer cup giving me cramps. So I have no idea what kind of muscle tone I have! I have a cup that’s a 1 in firmness so that would indicate weak muscles but it’s a small which would indicate stronger muscles lol! Who knows! What works just works I guess 😂

    • @angierichards9541
      @angierichards9541 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have the same problem, but I needed to get the Saalt soft because harder cups caused me severe cramping 😭😭

  • @helenashatalova7828
    @helenashatalova7828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I switched to menstrual cups after watching your videos about cervix position and cup length, cup quiz and comparison chart was also very helpful. Thank you for sharing all the information and explaining everything!

  • @decadentnight
    @decadentnight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    When you said "29 almost 30" I cringed lol I'll be 30 in a few months.

    • @psychedelicyeti6053
      @psychedelicyeti6053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ever since I was 27 I've been saying "I'm almost 30" so now that I'm 29 and turning 30 at the end of the year, I'm pretty used to the idea now. But it was so worrying at first and I was having a crisis 😅

    • @decadentnight
      @decadentnight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Update: 30 is weird lol

    • @keykey7646
      @keykey7646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@decadentnight loooll

    • @YogawithAliBeale
      @YogawithAliBeale 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My 29th year of life was filled with dread knowing 30 was around the corner. The day after my birthday I woke up and realized my 20's were over and felt this weight lifted. Your 30's are soooooooo amazing. It's like you become who you were meant to be. Care less about what people thing and start taking on the world.

    • @imnotyourunicorn91
      @imnotyourunicorn91 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same
      I never got interested in these cups until I was 29

  • @RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea
    @RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    There’s soooo many factors to consider. My brain is scrambled trying to decide on just a brand and size. I’m 31, never had sex or children, I have days with a bit of heavier activities, and my cervix is about halfway (abt 2 inches). I’m going to maybe say too much, but I feel quite small down there even when relaxed. I’m also worried about a cup being too rigid or too soft. Every time I think I have it down another thing pops up. I’m so lost.

    • @molsondutch93
      @molsondutch93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Your username is cracking me up 😂

    • @jade1798
      @jade1798 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      just remember that this whole MC situation has a large learning curve, your first cup will likely not be perfect! do not be afraid because you will continue to learn and experience what works for you. It is very much a trail and error situation and you can invest in a couple reusable panty liners and panties dedicated to your cycle to help with the inevitable mishaps. It is all so worth it in the end

    • @jess9722
      @jess9722 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Real Mexican Food Shouldn't Give You Diarrhea start cheap with the blossom cup, they sell a two pack for$16 dollars, one small and a large. they are average to firm. i think they are a good cheap baseline, if it works then you stick with them, if not you will know if you need to look for something shorter or longer or bigger or a diff shape etc

  • @lidet19
    @lidet19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    This just answered all the questions I had! New cup user after finding your channel 😊

    • @PutACupInIt
      @PutACupInIt  4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's why we are here

  • @amberallen9287
    @amberallen9287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Am I the only one watching this smiling and doing kegels? No... Just me? Ok. 🤣

  • @IngaBaang
    @IngaBaang 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ha ha it reminded me so much of my first cup picking experience! 😁 Of course I've started doing brands research and came up with the list of options, but soon got super annoyed as I could not get any of my list as a singular item, all of them were in bundles of 2 - size A and size B 🥴 Since I was keen on the brands I've chosen, thought, okey whatever, I'll spend extra cash for something I don't need. Was sooo sure I was a large size (age 35, never gave birth and too lazy to exercise). The bundle became to be the best thing ever as I've could not even insert the larger size! So guys, please learn from my story - all good things come in a pair 😂😂

  • @bbekah
    @bbekah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When I decided to try a menstrual cup, I decided on Saalt. I accidentally bought a large, but decided to try it anyways. I was 18 and a virgin, but it was still SUPER comfortable inside of me. It's a bit short, so I'm going to try the Lily cup next because its longer (me cervix is HIGH).
    Also, side note, the PACII chart says that the Saalt cup is a 4 on the hardness scale, but it was still comfortable and I was surprised to see it was a 4/5. So if someone reading this is super worried about that, it obviously depends on the person, but my sensitive virgin vag was fine!!

    • @bhavanapenmetsa9467
      @bhavanapenmetsa9467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same here! i'm 21 but i use a SAALT regular (large) because i have a really high cervix. i'm not a virgin but i don't think that changes that much lol

    • @dingalingdongly
      @dingalingdongly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Saalt has a soft and regular hardness as well as two sizes

  • @fleurstube
    @fleurstube 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kinda bummed I just now found this video. I’m 36 and bought my first menstrual cup, Diva Cup 2, at 34, going by the guidelines in terms of age, cause I don’t have children. Have never been able to use it and I spent $40 on it. I’m happy this video exists so those new to menstrual cups won’t make that costly mistake.

    • @djpixie84
      @djpixie84 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is why I went with June.. I couldn't afford to drop $20-$40 and it not work, but during the pandemic they started offering them as low as $6 for their regular cups..in all sizes..So I have it a shot. I have several different sizes and it still only cost me about the same amount I'd spend on tampons on just 1 month..I got a small originally and was afraid it would be to small, but the mini actually ended up being a better fit.

  • @Jordan-nv6hb
    @Jordan-nv6hb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lol I love the phrase shooting a baby out of your baby cannon!!

  • @Nini-hd7pd
    @Nini-hd7pd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've ordered my second cup now because the first one was too short. They are both a small and I can put my first cup into the second cup because they are so different. 😅 Some companies small is truly more like a M/L 😂 so I'm thankful for your video it makes it easier to know what to look for

  • @vickie_l_b
    @vickie_l_b 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love Kim's hat!! I'm a lover of space too🙃

  • @craftducky
    @craftducky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    After my 3rd cycle using a small saalt soft, I upgraded to the larger size and I experienced no more overflow! My only complaint is (TMI warning) pee! Sometimes it won't come out!

    • @maddyoliver1642
      @maddyoliver1642 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should probably get that checked out. It probably isnt anything, but it might be worth getting a checkup?

    • @craftducky
      @craftducky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@maddyoliver1642 Nah, it all comes out if I poo lol!

    • @lavenderhazel5125
      @lavenderhazel5125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That used to happen to me too!!! I found that if you change the position of the cup (for me it was to not have it as high). Now it feels so much better

    • @lavenderhazel5125
      @lavenderhazel5125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maddy Oliver this actually happens to a lot of ppl. When you use a cup, it might put some pressure on your bladder and make it either hard to pee or makes you feel like you have to pee 😊 🤗 ❤️

    • @rituparnadesai3665
      @rituparnadesai3665 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same happened to me then I realized I was wearing it too low. Push the cup a little higher that even the stem of the cup is in. That worked for me.

  • @noamelran4816
    @noamelran4816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi, just wanted to thank you guys for recommending me on a cup! I asked for advice and you suggested the Organicup. Using it for my firat cycle and I'm LOVING it! I watched some videos of yours and literally got it in 5 minutes. No leaking , I can't feel it at all and it's soooo much nicer compared to pads. Thank you so, so much!!

  • @kwunnkzz
    @kwunnkzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm 23, i started with Moon Cup size 1 and it leaked a lot because the cup liked to tilt. I took the quiz and was recommended OrganiCup size 2. I was very hesitant about the fit, but tried it out anyway, and it seems to work better than the Moon Cup. It still leaks, though much less, but i'm trying out the different folds !

    • @ladybugflv
      @ladybugflv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for sharing, I am in the same situation, of losing the cup upwards. I am currently using OrganiCup size 1 and I am really stuggling with major leakage in the first days. I am definitely thinking about switching to size 2, though I am 30 and have not had any births.

    • @Yaddayaddago
      @Yaddayaddago 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds to me like to an improvement might come with one of the more uniquely shaped cups. Bell with inside reinforced rim(less ridgy on the outside), thin flexible but long bucket shaped(high suction and high capacity, or the bulby/ ball shaped with strong and forward leaning rim.
      Sometimes a curvier inside can fail to hold a long or short bullet shaped cup in place.
      But if you prefer that shape, a fun cup or other firm and ergonomic shaped product could improve your experience with leaking.
      Pro tip. Remove excess mucus (safely) before insertion, also dry cup completely.
      Also TPE products are firm AND respond to heat, meaning, it conformes to your shape!

  • @labhrais6957
    @labhrais6957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Just over 30, 1 birth, and am using size 1 collapsible Lilycup. Day 2 and so far it's working but I'm wondering if having a tilted uterus will affect the size and type of cup I should use?

  • @christiewelty173
    @christiewelty173 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You beanie is so cute 🌞

  • @bacchaed2430
    @bacchaed2430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've had 3 babies. (All vaginal births) I used to get size 2 as recommended, but found going down a size worked and I started using a 1. Also, I'm 53. 😂 I get the suggestion sizing. But it really can be a personal fit.

    • @djpixie84
      @djpixie84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true. I felt so rediculous ordering a mini at 36 years old (no kids, but not a virgin either and heavy periods I excepted I would need a bigger size) and thought I was just using my bigger one wrong..but it was perfect

  • @user-bd3op5qp2t
    @user-bd3op5qp2t 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have just started using a mensural cup ,(I am 13) I have a high cervix so I thought I would try out a diva cup and got a diva cup size 0. it took me about 20 minutes to even put it in. Before me using a mensural cup I used a tampon so I am pretty comfortable with putting stuff in my body and just my body in general. I am very lucky because both my mom and sister use a mensural cup and convinced me to get into a menstrual cup. It’s gonna be difficult but I want to concur using a mensural cup. Good luck to me.

    • @londonfleurina2388
      @londonfleurina2388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm 11 and have a saalt small and I have been training my pelvic floor muscles it works wonders

    • @maddydickens7554
      @maddydickens7554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did the 0 fit? My cervix is high, like 4 inches and a little bit more, I’m 15, their quiz said I should get a 2!! But I’m debating between a 0 or 1

    • @user-bd3op5qp2t
      @user-bd3op5qp2t 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maddy Dickens yeah the 0 fit just fine, I can’t imagine getting a bigger size because it was quite hard to figure out in the first place and I think if it was bigger it wouldn’t have worked for me. I think it is just based on your body type. It helps a lot if you are more comfortable with you body because you really will need to get in there😂 just trust your gut and if you think you need a bigger size then try a bigger size. It’s all just a learning experience so make sure to take your time and to not get frustrated. Good luck!

    • @maddydickens7554
      @maddydickens7554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aiva ;D this might be weird but how high is your cervix ? I’m debating between the lily cup and diva cup and for my cervix height I’m not sure which to go with. I understand if you aren’t comfortable sharing. Some people have trouble gripping the diva cup for removal with a high cervix, have you experienced that?

    • @user-bd3op5qp2t
      @user-bd3op5qp2t 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maddy Dickens personally I have never had trouble griping the diva cup. But it’s all about finding the way that works with you while putting it in and removal. There are many tricks and different ways to help while putting in your mensural cup and when you are removing it, you just need to find the right way for you. This may be a little nasty but the diva cup is about a finger long so if you finger fits in there😂 then the diva cup should fit just fine(I am a 0 so the 1 or 2 could be bigger). Also don’t be worried about it getting stuck in there or lost because there is no where for it to go.

  • @proxyhacker89
    @proxyhacker89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've seen was reviews from petite over 30 mothers that size 1 worked. So I bought a size 1 and hoping for the best.

  • @kriistiinbabii
    @kriistiinbabii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm 24 & I had a baby at 32 weeks, he was 4lbs. I find I can use my old small cups and large cups, and they mostly feel the same as long as they aren't too long for my low cervix. I think that most cups are actaully really close in size and I think most people could use either without too much trouble

    • @PutACupInIt
      @PutACupInIt  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Depending on the brand the differences are practically imperceptible so you're right, but some brands have a larger difference. That's why it's also useful to look at our comparison chart to see the actual diameter because for some brands their size 1 is the same as another brand's size 2. The other video we did about picking cup sizes addresses that more.

    • @kriistiinbabii
      @kriistiinbabii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PutACupInIt Your comparison chart is an amazing tool, thank you guys for all the hard work you put into pacii! ❤

  • @Emily_the_silly
    @Emily_the_silly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m 15 and a virgin. I have quite a low to medium cervix I got the OrganiCup. I got the mini at first because of the low cervix. I leaked in the night because of the flow. So I brought size 1. I now use the mini for light days and size 1 for heavier days.

  • @DonaBologna
    @DonaBologna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm 39 and have spent $70 now on menstrual cups that are far too wide for me 😡😡😡 I shouldn't have followed their generic age guidelines. I have a narrow vagina and STRONG pelvic floor and haven't had children. Wish I could get my money back. Ugh.

  • @GothicSarah543
    @GothicSarah543 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The “giving birth to your cup” dramatic scenario cracked me up. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @imienazwisko3204
    @imienazwisko3204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    3:15 😂

  • @redforrori
    @redforrori 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I never could figure out why this advice was so far off for me, but my twins were NOT over 37 weeks gestation. Off to retake the quiz. Thanks!

  • @rebeccahetrick6576
    @rebeccahetrick6576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Still, the C-section thing doesn't apply to everyone. Some of us needed a C because the cervix didn't dilate.
    Or we had our C before labor progressed because of multiple late decels (baby's heart rate dropping or stopping)

    • @arareanddifferenttune3130
      @arareanddifferenttune3130 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep! This happened to me! However, I chose a size 2 Diva Cup bc I’m 35 and it fits - doesn’t hurt to put in or take out - seals properly and no leaks. I’m considering buying a size 1 though bc I do get a little bit of cramping and I very rarely get period cramps. So I don’t know if it’s period cramps or cramping from the cup being too big 😅 But overall my experience has been wonderful - I didn’t do really any research before buying one and just chose one at my local CVS and it honestly could not have been easier. For the first time in my LIFE my sheets were clean when I woke up!! ❤❤
      Edit to add: thank you for pointing out the C-Section info 😊

  • @Madhatteroncrack
    @Madhatteroncrack 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m 33, no children and I just switched to size 2. The 30 year mark is so subjective

  • @ninivengl
    @ninivengl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok, this kid of calmmed me down.
    I purchassed a cup a couple of weeks ago. The girl recommended the large one, because I'm 33, but i was not so sure that would be the right size for me, because i haven't been pregnat and i can only fit twi fingers on my vagina without feeling mayor disconfort.
    I actually try it as soon as it came to my home, but i was not on my periodo, actually i was like 5 days passed from my period, and even tho it wasn't the easiest thing I've done, i think it fits me well. But I'm kind of exited for muy period to come so i can finally test it properly.
    Wish me luck!! 😝

  • @annaledge9313
    @annaledge9313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a great video. I had lily compact A and It would leak from time to time and I ordered lily compact B and solved my problems. I didn't give birth but this one works for me better. So it really depends on the body!

  • @winterkitten2113
    @winterkitten2113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can’t seem to figure which cup i need at all or how to go about it for that matter. The quiz told me i need size regular or size 2 but im 27, no kids, a virgin and i have never used tampons before. EVER! Im very confused and really want to master this. I hate using pads!! I could use some help:/

  • @tara20394ox
    @tara20394ox 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm 37, have given birth BUT my cervix is on the first day so low, that even my lunette 2 without stem is to long... I hope I can make a saalt soft s work ( for the first crampy day)- I will see in 2 days 🙏

    • @helenashatalova7828
      @helenashatalova7828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let us know how is going with Saalt soft, I am currently using Saalt cup cuz of my active lifestyle, no regrets

    • @tara20394ox
      @tara20394ox 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm Sorry, I'm late for the first time in years 🤷‍♀️

    • @tara20394ox
      @tara20394ox 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ok, after one day and night I can say it is working. But I have to place it more precisely / check a little bit more...because it's the soft one

  • @fromthezoo
    @fromthezoo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Giant cavernous vagina” 😂😂😂 💀 Thanks for the laugh. ❤️

  • @Iffanytay
    @Iffanytay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for making these videos, I just found your channel (while looking for a nixit review) and am now watching a ton of your videos as this is the best info I've ever found on menstrual cups! thank you thank you!!!!

  • @IevaKambarovaite
    @IevaKambarovaite 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much. Your channel is really helpful. I'm about to purchase my first cup and rather confused not knowing which one to get. Now at least I know which size I am :) Thank you

  • @Underthesun123
    @Underthesun123 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am 38 and mother of 1 and still need a small size cup.
    My cup fills easily and I have to empty it several times.
    Medium size cup can't fit in.😭😭😭

  • @KateKosmo
    @KateKosmo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm 34 and have had no children. I got a size 2 in the diva cup and I feel like I have to pee constantly and I can definitely feel it inside me. So I'm guessing I need smaller size. I looked at the sizes and I still feel like size 1 would be too big so im thinking probably size 0.

  • @rachelosborne5982
    @rachelosborne5982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am almost 36 and had 2 full term pregnancies. I use a lunette size one because when I bought a regular size China cheapy it wouldn't open so I thought maybe I'm more narrow? Lunette size 1 fits me just fine, it's actually a little hard to try and get out.

  • @jessicaflores170
    @jessicaflores170 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great information! Thank you for this!!!! I am learning so much from this channel as I am new to the cup world.

  • @DaNdO0Ni
    @DaNdO0Ni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I made a mistake of getting Lynette size two. I can’t even put it in and it was so hard to squeeze I wish I saw this video I went based on my Flo

  • @PRoseLegendary
    @PRoseLegendary 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I would love more short wide cups like the Juju4.
    My cervix height is too low for a lot of cups with high capacity... But I know I could fit a wider cup than I currently have.
    Is there a cup that's like 50mm in diameter and slightly taller than the juju4?

    • @miss_jess
      @miss_jess 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Check out their cup comparison table on their website, it gives all measurements for all cups and you can sort the table by size

    • @PRoseLegendary
      @PRoseLegendary 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, i've seen it. There is not a lot of options in the low cervix range. I could use the "small" sizes in some brands which have the height I need but not the width.

    • @kaivinai_lifestyle
      @kaivinai_lifestyle 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can try meluna shorty

    • @PRoseLegendary
      @PRoseLegendary 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kaivinai_lifestyle that's a much smaller cup than the Juju4

    • @user-og7pq7xf9n
      @user-og7pq7xf9n 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      PRoseLegendary the femmycycle low cervix cup maybe?

  • @deepajoshi640
    @deepajoshi640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am 43 with a 30 weeks premature c-sec delivery, 8 yrs ago. Although i might not need it for long now😬, still want to try cup. I wnt to stop using pads.

  • @Hannah-hx5sp
    @Hannah-hx5sp 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm glad I took it in good faith that i'd be a small size (i'm 34 but no kids) because even it has trouble unfurling inside me...! My 30th birthday came and went and i did not have a vaginal blowout lol

  • @wednesdeyy9449
    @wednesdeyy9449 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish the links mentioned during the video were listed in the description. I don't want tu stop watching this video to look at other videos, but I'd like to check them out next.

  • @rAiNiCoRnLoVe
    @rAiNiCoRnLoVe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am 24 and have one child and the size 2 works for a couple months after I got my period back but now it's too large and uncomfortable so I went back to a size 1 and works great no slipping out

  • @cheaminks
    @cheaminks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The quiz said I should get saalt soft regular so that's what I ordered, I think it's correct because I have a high, slightly tilted cervix and heavy flow. I have the small mooncup but it always leaks a little :( edit: I'm 18 tho

  • @deliriumstragedy
    @deliriumstragedy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i’m forty with no child and i use a diva cup size 1. i only have leaks when i’m having a fibromyalgia attack during my period and at those times i use a canack cup size 2. i must say i love my diva cup 💜

  • @4TheLoveofLauren
    @4TheLoveofLauren 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Obsessed with your hat!!

  • @PaolaRosario27
    @PaolaRosario27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m 22 and a virgin and I cannot get it in. When I do the push down fold, the top goes it but when it gets to the wider part, it doesn’t go in and starts hurting. What should I do?? 😩😩😩

    • @michellereed479
      @michellereed479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You must be relaxed and remain relaxed.
      Also try putting some water based lubricant on the cup

    • @so0ffi97
      @so0ffi97 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have the same problem. I have tried for tío cicles and have up. But im going to try again soon. Día you achive it?

    • @maddyoliver1642
      @maddyoliver1642 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sometimes, your vagina will make putting anything up there painful as a way of protection.
      It's a natural paranoia, try breathing and practice using while not on your period, so that you can familiarize yourself with the feeling, position, the fold that works for you and basically the physics of it, without getting blood everywhere. Hope this helps! ❤

    • @faithwalker2287
      @faithwalker2287 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Use a lube around the rim, and push out as if you’re taking a poop while putting the cup in. This should open you up a bit more. I usually change my cups in the shower. I take showers 12 hours apart during the week of my cycle. Maybe a hot shower might help you relax.

  • @kubeczekdlaciebie3781
    @kubeczekdlaciebie3781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello Girls! You are doing wonderful things, thank you both!!!
    Have you tried Lamazuna cup and Perfect cup?
    I love your channel so so much!!!
    A big hug from Poland💙

  • @kar3n35
    @kar3n35 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Size 1 or smallest the size 2 hurt so much to take out. I fell like i gave birth in my toilet.

  • @alight9781
    @alight9781 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you guys so much! I really wish I binged all your vids before buying a cup. Thank you so much. I'm taking notes before buying a different cup You guys are really helpful.

  • @mick5330
    @mick5330 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    35 and two births. I use a size 1 but I can also wear a 2. But I like a 1 better.

  • @kaitjones1678
    @kaitjones1678 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    26 here and had a c section... zero change in muscle tone for me personally but I am very active and had been before pregnancy.

  • @deeschetrom4430
    @deeschetrom4430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for your videos I watched a video from you about how to troubleshoot your cup. And I had my 1st successful. With my cup and it was the best thing ever thank you

  • @eloisebrynlee
    @eloisebrynlee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very well explained!

  • @hpysparrow
    @hpysparrow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very Informative! Thank you :)

  • @audrey-jg7gz
    @audrey-jg7gz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i’m very young (13) and i bought a menstrual cup size 1 over a size 0. it was working great till i had to take it out. it was so painful because of the suction so i bought a smaller size. i almost think the 0 might be a bit too small.

    • @maddydickens7554
      @maddydickens7554 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m 15, and I still can’t decide between a size 0 or 1 diva cup😔

  • @RockinRedDirt
    @RockinRedDirt 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    MeLuna has size xs-xl, 2 lengths, 3 stem options and 3 firmness options. I started with a small LENA and it kept collapsing and hanging out. I figured out my cervix drops very low during my cycle and was pushing it out (it was also painful) and when I exercised it would collapse. I found out MeLuna made a shorter cup so I compared the rim sizes and ended up with a sport shorty ball stem size L (yes the LENA size S is the same as MeLuna L) and it’s my Goldilocks! I’m over 30, very active and have 1 child.

    • @faithwalker2287
      @faithwalker2287 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish Meluna would make cups from a smooth silicone and not a TPE.

  • @zaynah_elizabeth
    @zaynah_elizabeth 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m 22, had a baby via cesarean at 39 weeks. (Uterus stayed abnormally small, surgeon commented on how it was a 27-28 week size uterus so maybe that had a little to do with this) but I’ve only ever been comfortable with a small. My cervix hangs kind of low and I feel like a large would be hanging out of me. 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @aprilvscott4787
    @aprilvscott4787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was an amazing video!

  • @kathrynk5184
    @kathrynk5184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m 24 and have never had a baby but I consistently get recommended “the larger size” in saalt/lunette/lena when I take the quiz. Do you know why this might be? Flow and cervix and activity levels are average and sometimes my current cup (small lunette) leaks. Would greatly appreciate any insight!

    • @vixerminator
      @vixerminator 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      same heree

    • @MsIGetLotOfThat
      @MsIGetLotOfThat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Everyone says you’re lying about being a virgin because you wear a size 2 cup, but It’s not your fault you have a heavy flow and a wide set vagina

  • @nataliegiacchina8910
    @nataliegiacchina8910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great information!! Thank you!!👍🏻😊

  • @juliesharpe9385
    @juliesharpe9385 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I beg to differ on the age tightness ratio lol honey I'm over 30 and have 2 babies and my vagina is sooo tight it's painful to be on my feet too long or standing too long bc I have a condition. My vagina go tighter and well that's bc I had no time to lay around and heal like most new mother's while someone else does everything. So I believe it just depends on your build as well as muscle tone.

  • @KerriKitty
    @KerriKitty 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if you're over 30, and have had 2 c-sections - does that count as haven't given birth, or have given birth for sizing reasons?

  • @vvkouna
    @vvkouna 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the explanations! I've kind of given up on wearing cups as I got older. I accidentally pushed out my cup once while doing a number 2... 😧 So I tried a larger diameter, but it feels ackward. I went back to wearing pads, it just feels better not having anything in. Maybe I'll give reusable disks a try at some point.

  • @finwilliams4865
    @finwilliams4865 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s the ‘are you under 17’ thing that confuses me

  • @chandrikabv4610
    @chandrikabv4610 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your explanation is too good..!!👌👍

  • @otakuxuening879
    @otakuxuening879 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had a baby (19 months old) but i can’t put a size 2 in. I tried punch down fold, s fold, c fold, but i can’t even put a size 2 in. I tried n it hurts like hell
    I used to use a size 1 before i gave birth n have no problems with that. Size 2 hurts more than that to put in (because i can’t get it in) and to take out (when it is stuck half way). What should i do?

  • @louisa1291
    @louisa1291 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm 37 and use both. I also have a low cervix. I had to start with a small cup because it was too painful to get a large one in at the beginning. But I need a large cup for my flow now I am used to them. I use Saalt it has the right firmness and is not to large. I tried to use a tampax cup because its larger but it was agonizing to put in and out.

  • @bswithcas5787
    @bswithcas5787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m 31, not very active, but I do tend to be small. I currently use a diva cup size 1 and the only time I find it “slipping” is during a bowel movement when I’m straining a bit. Is that an indicator that I need a size 2 or should I still be okay in a size 1?

    • @anishajs5799
      @anishajs5799 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ditto! Im often suffering from constipation and I wonder if a size 1 will pop out or if I need to remove it before I "go"? Im 31, hardly any sexual activity. Took the quiz and once I got size 1 and measured my cervix height, changed the answer on the quiz, and now getting size 2. So confusing!!

  • @karaszubinski6314
    @karaszubinski6314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so lost I have a lunette size 2 I am almost 29 and have had a vaginal birth (shot him out in 2 hour 😜 beast mode for my first birth). I do pole fitness as well.
    I can get the cup in but cant get it far enough before it opens and it is crazy uncomfortable makes me feel like my insides wanna crawl out of my body. Idk what to do hahaha I guess I am gonna take the quiz and hope for the best hahaha

  • @faridamutiara2094
    @faridamutiara2094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The thing is I’m over 30yo but never pregnant before so which size should I pick 😞

    • @Rose_Macabre
      @Rose_Macabre 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everyone is different. I'm 39, never had baby, and I use size 1/small. My 1st cup was a size 2 and it was really uncomfortable, so I sized down. You have to try a cup for yourself and see how it feels.

  • @ms.chubbyblue
    @ms.chubbyblue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is so difficult to find the perfect size. I measured my cervix height and took the test. But the brand I was suggested to buy doesn’t offer an easy return or refund. The risk of wasting money-this is my only concern with buying menstrual cups.

    • @PutACupInIt
      @PutACupInIt  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We also have a Buy/Sale/Trade on Facebook to either buy a cup to try or sell the one that didn't work. facebook.com/groups/paciicupswap/

  • @kassiejohnson1155
    @kassiejohnson1155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So my confusion is things like the quiz recommending the Saalt soft or Lena sensitive "in the larger size" when I told it I'm 20. And then there's things like the Tieutcup Large having the same diameter as the Diva cup Small and very close to the Lalicup Medium, and there are medium cups that are slightly smaller than Diva....soooo?
    I'm trying to find a cup that's softer than the Diva but has more capacity than it. My Diva cup leaks at about 5 hours....

    • @PutACupInIt
      @PutACupInIt  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is a tall order, I've looked at the chart and about the cloest thing I can think of is the Venus size Small which holds 29 ml but it's rated a 3 on our scale, same as Diva. www.formoonsacup.com/english

    • @PutACupInIt
      @PutACupInIt  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whoops wrong link. putacupinit.com/chart/

    • @kassiejohnson1155
      @kassiejohnson1155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PutACupInIt What about either size of the Super Jennie, or the Medium or large Lalicup, or even the Mermaid large? They seem to be pretty similar in diameter....? How does the lalicup compare to Diva's firmness?

  • @MichaellaLynnSlater
    @MichaellaLynnSlater 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok… I need help.. please.
    I’m 28.. I have 2 sons(vaginal births)
    I purchased the Lena… which is also what your quiz told me.. months ago..
    I’ve tried it multiple times, and I just can’t get it right. It hurts my bladder & I can’t pee.
    I have a tilted uterus & high cervix…
    Please help me pick something

  • @faithwalker2287
    @faithwalker2287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What brand is that clear small one you showed towards the end? I’d like to know the name of the cup. Thank you!

  • @gnubaum9768
    @gnubaum9768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i just bought a size b lily cup. i'm 23 years old, no pregnancies but i have a very heavy flow. i used to have a medium size luna cup that would leak all the time and wasn't big enough to last me through the night. the lily cup goes in fine, sits comfortably and doesn't leak but i cannot get it out for the life of me. it is impossible to break the seal. i've only used it for one period now and will not give up on it yet. but is that a sign that the cup is too big? or is it just that i lack skill and it will get better over time?

    • @peggyt5409
      @peggyt5409 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      gnubaum are you able to reach up to the rim?

    • @gnubaum9768
      @gnubaum9768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@peggyt5409 sorry that i never answered. I'm on my second cycle with this cup now and I'm getting on with it really well. So it was just technique after all or maybe not relaxing enough

  • @trenagilkes7392
    @trenagilkes7392 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m 44 I have three kids vaginally ordered a L and it’s so uncomfortable to wear. Maybe I’m doing something wrong. Stressing over here. 😩😩because I want to use the cup so bad.

  • @Ana_DFM
    @Ana_DFM 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I asked on Facebook but here I see that if the cup doesn't open it's probably too big. I started comparing the diameters of the one I have with the ones the quiz recommended and mine is 2 or 3 mm wider (depending on the brand I compare it to). Capacity is the same though lol so many things to consider 🤔

  • @serenajackson2410
    @serenajackson2410 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is probably why mines leaking. I’m 24 but had a C-section at 17 but definitely assumed the sizing chart meant I had to have shot a baby out of my baby cannon 😂

    • @serenajackson2410
      @serenajackson2410 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bought the large saalt cup (the blue one- I was using the pink) and it doesn’t leak anymore. Thank you!!!

  • @vanesamachado714
    @vanesamachado714 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi. Thanks for all the info! I have a question about the cervix finger measuring method, should i do it standing up or lying down? Thanks in advance!

  • @equineellie8130
    @equineellie8130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mum said I can't wear one :( I am 12 and have had periods for over a year...

    • @riverhatesu
      @riverhatesu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's your body! I know it can be tough to get one without the help of your parents but if you can manage it try to get one and store it secretly ;)

    • @redolentblossom
      @redolentblossom 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      try to have her watch some informative videos about them, maybe she'll end up wanting a cup too!

  • @tatiesvlogs
    @tatiesvlogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What is the best cup when you work outside and you don’t have a bathroom near? And ur 18.

    • @lillypring
      @lillypring 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tatiana Lykken you can leave them in for 12 hours and you put it in the morning and take it out at when your about to go to sleep to empty it and wash it and then you re insert it and you sleep with it in and then take it out in the morning and wash then re insert it basically that c

  • @amandadieckhaus4530
    @amandadieckhaus4530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Does this muscle tone aspect apply to discs? I've used Nixit for almost ten months, the last few months, maybe two or three months, after changing my workout I noticed my disc slipping out when I cough or work out. I've tried everything, I thought it was a user error, but after coughing and my disc slipping out and making a mess I figured something was wrong.

    • @jess9722
      @jess9722 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amanda Dieckhaus based on your description the answer seems yes

  • @jessicazhang6132
    @jessicazhang6132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't understand the Diva cup size 0 ... it only says 18 yrs old or less

    • @PutACupInIt
      @PutACupInIt  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This size is geared towards teens who are going to be using internal protection for the very first time or who are inexperienced. A smaller diameter than their size 1 is going to be even easier for them to use and also appear less large which is often the thing holding people back from trying a cup. In all likelihood the size 1 works for someone under 18 but this is an intro to cups diameter that they've launched.

    • @jessicazhang6132
      @jessicazhang6132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PutACupInIt Thank you so much!

  • @carol-annemartinalolafrase8473
    @carol-annemartinalolafrase8473 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Got the divacup size 2 but got a different brand called life size a the smaller one for under 30 yet I'll be 32 praying I have better luck with cup a lol 😆

  • @uWu_m0mmy69
    @uWu_m0mmy69 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay but I give birth 8 months ago and I’m thighter than before , I’m 21 , I can’t even put a tampon in so what should I do 😅

  • @caitlynmartin9049
    @caitlynmartin9049 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I recently decided to switch to a cup and went with the June cup because of price. I got the large because it was recommended for those who gave birth. It doesn't leak or slip and isn't uncomfortable, but I'm feeling it might be too big because it doesn't seem to be opening completely. Also how do I know if it is too long? Where should the tip of the stem be?

  • @lindseykillian6323
    @lindseykillian6323 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi there! I tried to take your menstrual cup quiz and the link isn’t working on my phone

  • @ujjwaladineshballa268
    @ujjwaladineshballa268 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are the cups available of 20mm or 25mm or 30mm of diameter as 38mm is too big for me ,I am a mother of 43 years old

  • @kashish9487
    @kashish9487 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my 9th cycle on a menstrual cup and it never leaked all these months even on my heavy flow days. But its leaking today(heavy flow day) while i am emptying it every 3hrs and making sure that its open completely and in the right position. Last night i ruined my bedsheet bc it kept leaking. So dies this mean that i should buy a new cup or should i keep emptying it in regular intervals even during night. I srsly need an advice. Help me😭

  • @slugbug229
    @slugbug229 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So I’m 20 and a virgin. I have the Saalt soft cup small. I’m active very little. I have a pretty regular flow and don’t over flow the small cup, use like two regular tampons on an average day. But my cervix seems so high. I put the cup in and have to reach my pointer finger in all the way to reach the stem and base of cup and struggle to get my thumb in the get it out! Any recommendations?