I guess it’s meant to celebrate some saint who made it legal but now it’s used by candy companies to get more money. Also: Are you every gonna try to make your characters look different? You’ve copy and pasted the same faces many times.
@@ilikepancakes2368 Can't be alone when we're all together! Keep working on yourself king, romance will come around. But you have to work on yourself first. But not for some girl or for other to see, but for *yourself*! 💪👑
I’d rather not go without sex before I hit 30. A wholesome, Christian wife is all I fucking want, dammit. Is that so hard to get? What did those old bastards have that we don’t?
In my town there is Friends day for men and another for women, and they are not far from the Valentines day. So if you have no woman or friends or family, December, January and February are the absolute worst combined with really cold and depressing weather. Stay strong loners.
Valentine’s Day hits different when you’re alright by yourself. It can be difficult, but learning to be okay on your own is an enormous source of strength and stability.
@@no-xr8wv by “alone” I don’t mean isolated, I mean not romantically involved with anyone. Learning to not depend on that to be “okay” is ideal, not only so that you feel fine with yourself without it, but because when you do find someone, you’re choosing to be with them as opposed to doing so out of dependency, which makes you a stronger partner better able to give to the relationship.
@@Slim_Charles Not romantically involved with someone IS isolated my guy. You're just posting more copes. You are not okay on your own, even if you feel fine, because you're missing out on an intrinsic element of human existence. Nobody is alright by themselves, humans are social sexual animals. And the longer you are by yourself, the less alright you become.
23 y/o here, I'm doing fine, I've been "alone" all my life, but at least I have a loving family, health, food, clean water, and the opportunity to study. And I know the world sucks for everyone not just for young men. Stay strong everyone! and be nice with those who cares about you.
These are some possible red flags I've noticed in certain women for a while now. If you're looking for a good partner for a stable, healthy relationship filled with peace of mind or just curious, this could be worth a read: 1. Long (fake) nails 2. Fake hair (~long and/or bright colored) 3. Makeup (mostly heavy makeup) 4. Big earrings 5. Provocative clothing 6. Very active on social media (attention seeking content; thirst trap antics, etc.) 7. Questionable.. questions (e.g. "Babe, would you date me if I were a worm", "babe do you think I'm pretty"..) 8. Tattoos/body mods/piercings (especially in weird places) 9. Most/all of her friends are male. 10. Promiscuous or Using se>< as a proxy for feeling loved and adored (this can be especially true for people who struggle with attachment issues/daddy issues) 11. S.I.G.N language (Shaming, Insult, Guilting & Need to be right) 12. Herd mentality/No sign of individualism (follows beauty standards, fashion trends, body ideals, bad friends or other trends without questioning or reflecting on their reason[s] for doing so) [often correlates with No. 2, 3 & 5] 13. Spoilt brat-like/elitist behaviour (e.g. people who refer to themselves as "bad b*tches", claim to have "very high standards" or are "high maintenance" ) [often correlates with No. 1, 2, 3, 4 & 5] 14. Materialistic [often correlates with No. 12 & 13] 15. Their actions don't follow their words (cognitive dissonance) 16. No sense of boundaries 17. Uses past events or personal information you gave when you 'opened up' to them, as ammunition against you during fights or quarrels. 18. Clingy, jealous or possessive (e.g. not being allowed to have any female friends) 19. Frequent quarrels over trivial things--it seems some people think toxicity makes relationships more 'fun or exciting' (or even straight up admit they enjoy toxicity in relationships) 20. Habit of lying (shouldn't be ignored [along with No. 7, 14 & 16] as it could escalate over time [often correlates with No. 10, 11, 13 & 15. Possibly with No. 6] ) 21. Has a tiny, little girl/baby-like voice (possibly due to trauma or abuse at a young age [Reference: Dr. Drew Pinsky - Loveline] ) 22. Expects you to 'mind-read' their thoughts and/or 'hints'--- (Quora; Do women expect men to be mind-readers?) *Their mentality of dependence and expectations is so high they use emotions to smoke screen this shameful behaviour. [Shouldn't be ignored. Could correlate with No. 19] 23. Sh*t Tests---"used to determine your frame. Frame is a concept which essentially means 'composure and self-control.” (shouldn't be ignored; usually continues indefinitely, may escalate over time [Often correlates with No. 11, 16 & 19. Possibly with No. 7 & 17] ) 24. Ultimatums (could correlate with No. 13, 16 & 18) 25. Can't/doesn't take 'No' for an answer (Strongly correlates with No. 16, possibly with No. 11 & 18 [Shouldn't be ignored; possible sign of an abusive person, may lead to tantrums, physical assault or other 'crazy' behaviours] ) 26. Comes from a broken/toxic/abusive home and/or lacks (proper) parental figure(s). (Often correlates with No. 4, 6, 8, 10, 16, 19, 20 [compulsive or pathological lying] & 21) *The issue is simply not just coming from aforementioned homes, but many don't seek professional help and/or properly work on themselves so they carry that mental/emotional baggage into their relationships. 27. They're often passive aggressive (Could correlate with No. 22. Possibly with No. 7, 11, 19 & 25) A link to my book, if you're curious: www.amazon.com/dp/B09PJGWWY8 CONTINUATION BELOW
28. Bisexual ("People with loose sexual boundaries like bisexuality, polyamory & pansexuality- sexualities where they can't really declare a major or stick to a specific type tend to be trauma survivors*." [*May correlate with No. 26] ) 29. Exhibits 'infantile/neotenic' behaviours when in need of aid (e.g. using a childlike voice* and speech pattern, acting "cute", naive; sometimes with a 'sensual' undertone - often used to avoid accountability, responsibility or get their way) [*Not to be confused with No. 21; this one (29) is intentional while No. 21 is 'involuntary'] [Could correlate with No. 10 & 25. Likely with No. 16] ) 30. Frequent mood swings-- could be 'preemptively' identified with certain comments e.g. "Having someone who can handle your mood swings is such a blessing", "Need a man that can handle me (when I'm mad, act crazy..)" [Correlates with No. 19. Possibly with No. 13, 17, 18, 22, 23 & 25] 31. Really into astrology (has their personality, behaviours or actions based on zodiac signs) 32. Being "Free-spirited"; 'Hippie' or 'Gypsy-like'. (Could correlate with No. 8, 10 & 26. Possibly with No. 28) 33. Often/always plays the victim-- "When you're so used to playing the victim you don't realise when you're being the villain." (Often correlates with No. 15, 20 & 29. Possibly with No. 6, 10, 11, 16 & 17) For those who are perplexed about No. 1-5, google search for images of Saweetie or blac chyna or sumn idk These flags could be a result of insecurities, emotional and/or mental immaturity, childhood emotional neglect, attention/validation seeking, attachment issues, etc. Observing people's personalities, character and behaviours rather than focusing on their 'physical attractiveness' is a good way to overcome the halo effect. Also, like attracts like, so make sure to be self-aware and reflect on your actions/behaviour to grow and mature as a person. And be compassionate to others as you'd be to yourself. These are just my observations & opinions and should be held up to scrutiny.
@UFO DeathKult it all started going down when the smartphone came about lol.. 2006? the smartphones ruined it. before that women didn't really have any tech
I don't like that mindset though. I wouldn't want people to be lonely like me. I'd want other men to be happy too. Like I'd feel bad for anyone who has the same thoughts as me
@@shabushabu5319 you're right and wrong. While it's true that nobody should go through what you're going through but at the same time, seeing somebody going through the same problems like you assures you that you aren't the only one going through them so that it gives you the willpower to push through whatever you're going through. This can help the other guy/girl too. I might've worded myself a little wrong there but when you're in the moment as the victim finding somebody who's just like you, you'll know what to do to get rid of your issues for once and for all
@@lukemorgan6166 relax buddy. Nothing wrong with looking for love. The need to mate with a girl you love has been a thing since the dawn of time and feeling like that in a day that's all about that is completely normal. The problem is you making that the only important thing in your existence
the scary shit is when you stop being lonely, even when you're alone, yet feel the most lonely when surrounded by others. there is no longer any motivation to not be alone.
@@no-xr8wv If you feel lonely around people, you're around wrong people. I aspire to be happy alone. If I can't make myself happy, how can I make someone else happy?
@@a_unreal_cat you literally cannot be truly happy alone. that's the point. you can cope, and tell yourself otherwise, but its just that - a cope. humans are social, sexual animals. its intrinsic to the human existence. aspiration to be happy alone is pursuit of failure as a human disguised as self-improvement.
The only time I had a relationship I actually felt bad for single people it was like a source of confidence but I definitely just see happy couples now
He never said that, there's no fucking wayyy Johny Bravo will say something like that, his character is made to be a stupid lovable looser who doesn't really understand love but starts flirting with any woman on their appearance
A while ago, a friend and I fell for the same man. When I found out she had feelings for him too, I backed off. Stopped pursuing him. She had experienced nothing but horrible men in her life, and deserved a chance to be happy. They celebrated valentines day together this year, and I spent it alone. Mixed feelings about it. I'm just glad she's happy, I think.
Sometimes not having a GF is not that bad. Having nobody who actually understands you is far worse... Can't share your true thoughts and feeling, can't share your discoveries, can't do anything...unless you want to be ostracized. That's what people mean when talking feeling lonely while not being alone.
even with a girlfriend and/or a wife, you still won't be able to share your true thoughts and feelings. unfortunately women are wired in a way that if they ever sense any weakness in you, you will be permanently downgraded in their eyes. with them you're meant to feign strength and resolve at all times, even if you don't feel like it. the purpose is not to look like a muscle-bound testosterone-filled chauvinist caricature, but to be someone they feel they can rely on in times of distress and need and that you can shelter them from the perils and adversities of our fucked up world. if you really want someone to confide your anxieties in, talk to your man friends
@@リンゴ酢-b8g you know, that's a terribile tought, you just associated selfishness to 50% of the world population... but I agree in a certain way about the suggestion, women's and men's minds work differently. Nobody will ever fully understand you but the ones who can do it the most are those who belong to your same gender
@@lukaszkozon6177 that's what works for you, some people can find this joy with other (and potentially sillier) things like going on a walk at night, reading a good book or simply being alone without any problems or people to bother you, to name a few
@@ChloeIsSad if being with your partner causes problems or they bother you then they are not for you. The whole point of a relationship is to find someone what is similar to you in mind, allowing you to enjoy every second of your time spent together, your wife is also your best friend at that point and vice versa.
Don't get down because you don't have a girlfriend. I was with my now ex-fiance for 6 years. She was beautiful and in public we would often get compliments on how happy and great of a couple we made. In reality, at home, she was abusive and made me feel miserable. I live alone now, but I'm the happiest I've ever been. Sometimes the grass isn't always greener, remember that guys.
@@barrontrump3943 We moved in together, and no, there was no cheating. I got tired of her trust issues and constant fights that she'd start, sometimes physical, and moved out.
@@swamp1138 i dont mean to tear you down m8 but moving in with a woman is bad deal. i made a mistake similiar to that and the wretch acted insane on me after that. i will NEVER let a woman in my house for longer that 24 hours
@@bang2goeezy496 Also happened to me years ago, but there is a happy end, because everything changed and I was invited by someone to spend this day together, so don't give up. I had to get rid off everyone I knew from my life, because they were toxic and from a time perspective I can finally notice it.
26 here. after 3 years of actually taking time to learn myself and be single instead of simply relationship hopping, i got to know a new girl. took all the things i learned over that time and applied it, treated her like gold, and we really opened up to each other, became intimate, and got very close. 3 months in she told me she wanted to be alone. Modern dating is toxic, bros. people that actually take the time to address their shortcomings are met with those unable to do the same for theirs. Rely only on yourself, do not contrive or seek it out, it truly will happen if it is meant to. be prepared for it not to, though.
Mudafucka that is one relationship. Relationships aren't always going to work out. If you feel as if you genuinely work better alone, then by all means. But generalizing with the statement 'modern dating is toxic' just makes it seem like you're lashing out.
I found myself in exactly the same situation. I approached the relationship very responsibly, took the first steps, was very polite and respectful, did not violate personal boundaries, showered the girl with gifts. In the end, she said that she did not have feelings for me, although she initially offered a "serious relationship" herself. I think the Russian poet Pushkin was right when he wrote "The less you love a girl, the more she likes you." Women love independent guys who don't get attached to the opposite sex. In this case, we need experience, we must learn to be real men. As Nietzsche said: "A real man should be in love with eternity, and not with a woman."
Hey kings, remember, "Valentine's Day" is just another grinding session in order for us to become the best version of ourselves. We're all gonna make it brah!
I'm 21 and recently celebrated my first Valentine's Day with my girlfriend. I still felt empty, so I guess having a gf on Valentine's Day won't make you happy. When I was single I hoped a gf would make me happy and now I'm still miserable. So when you hear that "you need to work on yourself" stuff, don't think it's just a phrase to make you feel better, it's the only truth. Women won't make you happy, you need to work on yourself to be happy. I learnt that lesson today.
How the lonely guy feels is like the equivalence to Tom Cat sitting on the train track waiting for him to end his misery after getting rejected by his would-be partner.
It's ok man. A lot of us need the get well, to recover before enter into a relationship. Sometimes it's better to stay alone and to resolve some issues. But resolving your issues is important.
It also can take a lifetime, so why wait if you may never solve all your issues, infact most people in relationships still have there issues so it is hard to expect someone to be fully Mentally healthy before entering a relationship, I feel like that's just what they tell lonely people to make them feel better in some way
@@jaredlindblad5485 nobody says you have to solve all of your issues, no one is perfect, but some major issues should be solved before entering in a relationship
At least you would be killing two birds with one stone. Then you would only have to deal with the sadness of having no family on Christmas, and not getting invited to any parties on new year's and Halloween.
@@projay87 Idk your situation but literally just talk to each other. You need to communicate what's bothering in your relationship to fix things. And if that doesnt work you can always leave.
@@mashmeloazul yah man it so easy like that.. fun fact if a woman leaves an abusive relationship they are in 10x more danger than if they were to stay.. kids are most likely to ne raped by family
@@lolwtnick4362 Bruh wtf are you even talking about? Did you pulled those "facts" out of your ass? Healthy relationships are built not found. The most important thing is communication
@@magicmarlie I've not heard anything from mine since I lost internet connection after midnight at the start of the 14th. I would have an idea of what happened if only my damn router didn't reset itself in the middle of an intimate conversation.
I know somebody who's born on valentine's day but doesn't have a girlfriend. He got a PS5 though, which in my opinion is probably better than having a date for a day.
I feel like valentine's day hits hard for single people because it makes them feel like they are unlovable or incapable of getting love from someone else. Which is not true, because as long as you are a good person with good intentions, you deserve to be loved. On that note, modern relationships are not what they paint them like. If a couple is always that perfect and always showing off, then they probably have the worst problems between each other. That is why you see older couples talking to each other more like friends and not being very physical, because they know they are stable and have no need to show off.
@@Slenderman63323 Lonely is a feeling, being alone is another thing. For example, I could sit in a crowd of people, and still feeling lonely because I don’t have my friends by my side. And, I could be alone in my house and don’t feel lonely at all.
Being able to lift weights 6 days a week, grind away at school/work, AND still have time for your friends is pretty lit. Enjoy the single years while they last, boys! The better you make YOUR life, the less you NEED someone else.
Bro you and me got the same plans. I wake up at 5 to grind at the gym, go to all my class and study in between, and have time to meet up with my friends during the evenings. This is enjoying life imo.
Enjoy the single years while they last? That's only a good idea if those years eventually end. The older you get without experiencing love, the less likely you'll experience love. Fuck, I'm probably gonna be single till the day I die
22 here as well bro,never been in a relationship but we will all make it.Just keep grinding to get better and keep real with yourself meaning who you are what you stand for.Eventually if you expose to yourself to life and being present in the moment not holding back because of fear or judgement you will find love(and a lot of casual relationships that will make you secure when you get a real one).
@@okada1103 I m 20 single but my case is one sided since 15 yrs I met her in school in my earliest days can't seem to move past her . I m going to tell her everything before 23
The smile at the end isn't him smiling because he's alone but happy. He's smiling because he doesn't have to spend 100-150 bucks on valentines day gifts that will rot/be eaten, shelved in the corner of a room in 3 days tops.
@@Sohelanthropus you know what a simp _is_ right? the word has been so watered down now. showing someone you love a gesture of affection isn't being a simp, assuming they love you back and appreciate it. But if they're suppose to be in a *relationship* I'm assuming its a yes.
@@rq96 simping is putting women on a pedestal, as a man you shouldn't tell your girl you love her, keep her guessing, once you tell her romantic shit, she loses respect for you
"Just work on yourself, bro", "Put yourself out there, bro". If only they knew how long we've worked on ourselves and actually gave some help instead of parroting from a self-help book!
You are not done working on yourself. I can tell, because your comment seems bitter. I’m still alone too, never had a girlfriend despite being 29 years old. Something clicked this year though, you may call it giving up, but I stopped caring. I still have random times when I desire a romantic relationship, but I can look at that feeling more objectively, and I’m not attached to it anymore. I’m free.
Glad I live in a country where people don't give a shit about this day that much, but ofc you meet the couples who actually did something specific and they won't shut the fuck up about how cool valentines was while everybody else treated it like a normal day
At this point I pay closer attention to these videos than anything else on TH-cam, Netflix, tv, etc. Most everything I’ve seen has this weird way of sticking with me throughout the day.
Those of you who are alone today understand this: Even though you want someone to be in your life, whether that be for companionship, romance or to just hear you out, realize that they can’t fix whatever’s broken in your life. Whatever you have going on whether that’s something mental (ex. depression) or financial (ex. bills) is something you have to come to terms with and figure out. You wouldn’t want someone to be put in a situation that they don’t have all the tools at their disposal to fix. I know that a lot of ppl say, “I’ll be there to help you every step of the way” but realize that they can only do so much and at some point they will reach their limit of help. The majority of it has to be taken into your own hands. What I’m tryin to say in so many words is today isn’t a day to sit around and mope about your lack of romance or whatever you got going on. It’s another day that you’re alive and capable of making your current situation change for the better for yourself.
@@MMattikkie they don’t speak for the majority of ppl’s situations. There’s always gonna be someone new out there so they don’t truly have the simp’s loyalty like they assume they will.
i can care less about a partner helping me through my problems or money issues, im just tired of the porn bro.. i just want to be hugged, kissed, reassured that ill be okay when i need (her) the most when im at my worst (if a family member passed away and i need her to cry on, or im sick and want to feel better etc) i worked on myself for so long and ppl always tell me focus on yourself and you will strive and get through it, you dont need a relationship to be happy. yeah i get it, i work and work and work, i treat myself out and go shopping to get my mind off of being lonely, but the night comes, im literally hit in my feels while i sip on a bottle of whiskey and get stuck in my thoughts man. porn is evil bro.. money dont always make me happy either only sometimes but in the end i crave intimacy.
Love and lust are not polar opposites tho. Intimacy is important. One must not live an extremely lustful life however. But true love is something that transcends beyond pure lust or any other fleshy desires. Unfortunately society (and many people in it) is too fucked up to realize the beauty of such a thing. It’s all about the instant gratification and only about selfish desires. In short love exists, just think beyond your lizard brain and look at the bigger picture of reality. I’m not saying that true love is an easy thing to come across however.
@@fellipedasilva99 "I hate to break it to you but what people call love is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed it hits hard Morty then it slowly fades. Leaving you stranded in a failing marriage" -Rick
@@nosupes929 I don’t think that’s *only* what love is. There’s also a contradiction made here, first the claim is that love doesn’t exist. Then saying love does exist, but it’s only a biological and natural explanation.
I do take joy in knowing that there are many people like me who will always be single on this specific day every year. Ironically, it makes me feel less lonely.
Valentines Day. It's a day for people to celebrate love, it doesn't have to be with a lover. Could be a family member, a close friend, or even a pet. No one's completely without love, even if we don't have anyone or anything to love we can still use this as a day to love and appreciate ourselves.
Nah dude Its all ilusion, think about it you have 365 of the year for being in love, and then exist one especific day for that, why .. i prefer stay with pet at least, they are loyalty ,dont ask for some expensive gift or something else, for a woman you have to provide to her, for busted their ego, with a little dog you are in peace and they will love you the same way I'm just on earth, living free with my soul.. peaceful
in islam there is no valentine's day islam tells you should love and cherish your significant other every year,month,week,day,hour,minute,second not just one day(basically valentine's day is every day)its kinda useless and sad to show more affection than usual only one day of the year. But to answer your question yes society needs this holiday for the money they can get from individuals but individuals dont need this holiday because it is futile and a waste of money.
You're better than that, you're more powerful by ignoring it and moving on, find a way to release the anger, don't keep it in and move on from such a bad experience
Valentine’s Day isn’t just about lovers,it is also a holiday to show your love to people,family,friends,pets.U can make them a gift card,or flowers or a nice present for it,and remember to greet them a happy valentines day
Today is Valentine's Day, and as usual, I spend it alone, like every year, while walking, I see how many people are holding hands, while all I have left to do is spend this time in front of the computer like every year :( (so am I a doomer?)
That’s only cuz ur looking at the people who’s holding hands. There’s more lonely people that together people on valentines days all the time. I’m alone too, the majority of this viewerbase is lonely. And if it feels bad, it’s natural. you’ll find the one, one day. Just wait. Or you can make the first move if you want
it is better to be alone and secure, then with someone who you dont really know. you will find em one day, dont rush into relationships, learn from the mistakes of others. till then, find your passion, be it a hobby, a job, or even a form of recreation, being atleast a little happy with your life is better then being forced to take care of another man's kids, just for a few minutes of happyness in bed.
That was me a year ago, I was rejected so many times I gave up looking, I was hopeless. 26 yo virgin. But trust me, if you surround yourself in social situations and have fun with it, they will come, as hopeless as it seems, you’ll be surprised
I felt like this around 3 years ago. I felt like no one would ever love me and I told myself it was because of my appearence and attitude, but then this guy came along when I was about to give up, and everything changed. I have never loved someone more than him, but we don't celebrate this holiday. Why? Because it's superficial and it only works for couples to show off and feel better about themselves. Valentine's day should be everyday with your special someone, this day is just an excuse to show off.
This day actually originates from the Catholic tradition of honoring Saint Valentine. However, it became a secularized day of honoring generic love instead in modern times.
Does society need this holiday?
not this current generation
No
Just another way to rip money off people
no
I guess it’s meant to celebrate some saint who made it legal but now it’s used by candy companies to get more money.
Also: Are you every gonna try to make your characters look different? You’ve copy and pasted the same faces many times.
That smile at the end.... Alone, but not alone.
@YeaMan who?
Alone, but not alone in being so.
Alone, but not lonely
Misery loves company
@I'm a ghost. That's the greatest smile of all.
It's comforting in a weird way to know that you're not the only one going through this.
Facts
Let’s all be alone together.
@@ilikepancakes2368 Can't be alone when we're all together! Keep working on yourself king, romance will come around. But you have to work on yourself first. But not for some girl or for other to see, but for *yourself*! 💪👑
I’d rather not go without sex before I hit 30. A wholesome, Christian wife is all I fucking want, dammit. Is that so hard to get? What did those old bastards have that we don’t?
@@karlgoodman9194 they had pre-industrial society
Valentine's Day hits harder when it's actually called "Friends' Day" in your language and you still have no reason to celebrate.
Which language?
@@giovannip8600 spanish I think, aka "Love and friendship day", día del amor y la amistad, I say it bcz I speak spanish xd
In my town there is Friends day for men and another for women, and they are not far from the Valentines day. So if you have no woman or friends or family, December, January and February are the absolute worst combined with really cold and depressing weather. Stay strong loners.
Whew
💀
Valentine’s Day hits different when you’re alright by yourself. It can be difficult, but learning to be okay on your own is an enormous source of strength and stability.
Cope. Nobody is alright by themselves, humans are social sexual animals.
And the longer you are by yourself, the less alright you become.
@@no-xr8wv this is true. I been alone for 37 years and now a felon
I've done it for 21 years already It has had no effect on me
@@no-xr8wv by “alone” I don’t mean isolated, I mean not romantically involved with anyone. Learning to not depend on that to be “okay” is ideal, not only so that you feel fine with yourself without it, but because when you do find someone, you’re choosing to be with them as opposed to doing so out of dependency, which makes you a stronger partner better able to give to the relationship.
@@Slim_Charles Not romantically involved with someone IS isolated my guy.
You're just posting more copes. You are not okay on your own, even if you feel fine, because you're missing out on an intrinsic element of human existence.
Nobody is alright by themselves, humans are social sexual animals.
And the longer you are by yourself, the less alright you become.
Valentine's Day be like: *“I'm just here to remind you that you'll forever be alone & you'll never found your true love.”*
I agree reality is hard
couldnt get simpler
Maybe at first place you need love yourself.
Worst holiday of the year
yep
I can't imagine how much it must suck to be a young man in the current madness. Stay strong brothers and do what you gotta do.
23 y/o here, I'm doing fine, I've been "alone" all my life, but at least I have a loving family, health, food, clean water, and the opportunity to study. And I know the world sucks for everyone not just for young men. Stay strong everyone! and be nice with those who cares about you.
Left hand to the rescue 🥵😏
These are some possible red flags I've noticed in certain women for a while now. If you're looking for a good partner for a stable, healthy relationship filled with peace of mind or just curious, this could be worth a read:
1. Long (fake) nails
2. Fake hair (~long and/or bright colored)
3. Makeup (mostly heavy makeup)
4. Big earrings
5. Provocative clothing
6. Very active on social media (attention seeking content; thirst trap antics, etc.)
7. Questionable.. questions (e.g. "Babe, would you date me if I were a worm", "babe do you think I'm pretty"..)
8. Tattoos/body mods/piercings (especially in weird places)
9. Most/all of her friends are male.
10. Promiscuous or Using se>< as a proxy for feeling loved and adored (this can be especially true for people who struggle with attachment issues/daddy issues)
11. S.I.G.N language (Shaming, Insult, Guilting & Need to be right)
12. Herd mentality/No sign of individualism (follows beauty standards, fashion trends, body ideals, bad friends or other trends without questioning or reflecting on their reason[s] for doing so) [often correlates with No. 2, 3 & 5]
13. Spoilt brat-like/elitist behaviour (e.g. people who refer to themselves as "bad b*tches", claim to have "very high standards" or are "high maintenance" ) [often correlates with No. 1, 2, 3, 4 & 5]
14. Materialistic [often correlates with No. 12 & 13]
15. Their actions don't follow their words (cognitive dissonance)
16. No sense of boundaries
17. Uses past events or personal information you gave when you 'opened up' to them, as ammunition against you during fights or quarrels.
18. Clingy, jealous or possessive (e.g. not being allowed to have any female friends)
19. Frequent quarrels over trivial things--it seems some people think toxicity makes relationships more 'fun or exciting' (or even straight up admit they enjoy toxicity in relationships)
20. Habit of lying (shouldn't be ignored [along with No. 7, 14 & 16] as it could escalate over time [often correlates with No. 10, 11, 13 & 15. Possibly with No. 6] )
21. Has a tiny, little girl/baby-like voice (possibly due to trauma or abuse at a young age [Reference: Dr. Drew Pinsky - Loveline] )
22. Expects you to 'mind-read' their thoughts and/or 'hints'--- (Quora; Do women expect men to be mind-readers?)
*Their mentality of dependence and expectations is so high they use emotions to smoke screen this shameful behaviour. [Shouldn't be ignored. Could correlate with No. 19]
23. Sh*t Tests---"used to determine your frame. Frame is a concept which essentially means 'composure and self-control.” (shouldn't be ignored; usually continues indefinitely, may escalate over time [Often correlates with No. 11, 16 & 19. Possibly with No. 7 & 17] )
24. Ultimatums (could correlate with No. 13, 16 & 18)
25. Can't/doesn't take 'No' for an answer (Strongly correlates with No. 16, possibly with No. 11 & 18 [Shouldn't be ignored; possible sign of an abusive person, may lead to tantrums, physical assault or other 'crazy' behaviours] )
26. Comes from a broken/toxic/abusive home and/or lacks (proper) parental figure(s). (Often correlates with No. 4, 6, 8, 10, 16, 19, 20 [compulsive or pathological lying] & 21)
*The issue is simply not just coming from aforementioned homes, but many don't seek professional help and/or properly work on themselves so they carry that mental/emotional baggage into their relationships.
27. They're often passive aggressive (Could correlate with No. 22. Possibly with No. 7, 11, 19 & 25)
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28. Bisexual ("People with loose sexual boundaries like bisexuality, polyamory & pansexuality- sexualities where they can't really declare a major or stick to a specific type tend to be trauma survivors*." [*May correlate with No. 26] )
29. Exhibits 'infantile/neotenic' behaviours when in need of aid (e.g. using a childlike voice* and speech pattern, acting "cute", naive; sometimes with a 'sensual' undertone - often used to avoid accountability, responsibility or get their way) [*Not to be confused with No. 21; this one (29) is intentional while No. 21 is 'involuntary'] [Could correlate with No. 10 & 25. Likely with No. 16] )
30. Frequent mood swings-- could be 'preemptively' identified with certain comments e.g. "Having someone who can handle your mood swings is such a blessing", "Need a man that can handle me (when I'm mad, act crazy..)" [Correlates with No. 19. Possibly with No. 13, 17, 18, 22, 23 & 25]
31. Really into astrology (has their personality, behaviours or actions based on zodiac signs) 32. Being "Free-spirited"; 'Hippie' or 'Gypsy-like'. (Could correlate with No. 8, 10 & 26. Possibly with No. 28)
33. Often/always plays the victim-- "When you're so used to playing the victim you don't realise when you're being the villain." (Often correlates with No. 15, 20 & 29. Possibly with No. 6, 10, 11, 16 & 17)
For those who are perplexed about No. 1-5, google search for images of Saweetie or blac chyna or sumn idk
These flags could be a result of insecurities, emotional and/or mental immaturity, childhood emotional neglect, attention/validation seeking, attachment issues, etc.
Observing people's personalities, character and behaviours rather than focusing on their 'physical attractiveness' is a good way to overcome the halo effect.
Also, like attracts like, so make sure to be self-aware and reflect on your actions/behaviour to grow and mature as a person. And be compassionate to others as you'd be to yourself.
These are just my observations & opinions and should be held up to scrutiny.
@UFO DeathKult it all started going down when the smartphone came about lol.. 2006? the smartphones ruined it. before that women didn't really have any tech
When he smiled at the end, I felt it. The knowledge of that you are not the one struggling gives you a narrow escape of the blatant reality
I don't like that mindset though. I wouldn't want people to be lonely like me. I'd want other men to be happy too. Like I'd feel bad for anyone who has the same thoughts as me
@@shabushabu5319 very nice of you to think like that brother
@@shabushabu5319 you're right and wrong. While it's true that nobody should go through what you're going through but at the same time, seeing somebody going through the same problems like you assures you that you aren't the only one going through them so that it gives you the willpower to push through whatever you're going through. This can help the other guy/girl too. I might've worded myself a little wrong there but when you're in the moment as the victim finding somebody who's just like you, you'll know what to do to get rid of your issues for once and for all
Struggling? If you're desire to fuck someone is your only reason of living and that you struggle without it then you truly are a sad person
@@lukemorgan6166 relax buddy. Nothing wrong with looking for love. The need to mate with a girl you love has been a thing since the dawn of time and feeling like that in a day that's all about that is completely normal. The problem is you making that the only important thing in your existence
Even if you feel full, the loneliness doesn’t go
the scary shit is when you stop being lonely, even when you're alone, yet feel the most lonely when surrounded by others.
there is no longer any motivation to not be alone.
Yeah, couldn't describe it better. It seems humans were not designed to be happy after all.
@@no-xr8wv If you feel lonely around people, you're around wrong people. I aspire to be happy alone. If I can't make myself happy, how can I make someone else happy?
Average sans fan
@@a_unreal_cat you literally cannot be truly happy alone. that's the point. you can cope, and tell yourself otherwise, but its just that - a cope.
humans are social, sexual animals. its intrinsic to the human existence. aspiration to be happy alone is pursuit of failure as a human disguised as self-improvement.
When you're single, all you see are happy couples. And when you are not, you find happy singles.
Indeed.
Lol no
there is no such thing is happy single and who ask you? no one leave people alone and make their love life happy
@@rudeegruenberg9184 imma be honest I have no freaking clue what you just said
The only time I had a relationship I actually felt bad for single people it was like a source of confidence but I definitely just see happy couples now
"Attraction always has a reason, something must draw you in. But love? Love should not have a reason. Love is what makes you stay!" - Johnny Bravo
Loyalty and love are different from each other
@YeaMan 😬
In which epsiode did he say that?
Dude, I always see you in comment sections
He never said that, there's no fucking wayyy Johny Bravo will say something like that, his character is made to be a stupid lovable looser who doesn't really understand love but starts flirting with any woman on their appearance
A while ago, a friend and I fell for the same man. When I found out she had feelings for him too, I backed off. Stopped pursuing him. She had experienced nothing but horrible men in her life, and deserved a chance to be happy.
They celebrated valentines day together this year, and I spent it alone. Mixed feelings about it. I'm just glad she's happy, I think.
You just gave your friend the greatest and most selfless gift doing that, I respect you and hope you find a good man as well
Did the same thing for a friend of mine in high school. I was moving to another state anyways. They are still happy together and im happy for them.
Good man
I respect that a lot
That's so selfless... Hope you find someone
Sometimes not having a GF is not that bad. Having nobody who actually understands you is far worse...
Can't share your true thoughts and feeling, can't share your discoveries, can't do anything...unless you want to be ostracized. That's what people mean when talking feeling lonely while not being alone.
me who has neither of those things
Yeah, most people don't really want love, they just don't want to be lonely and that's totally different
even with a girlfriend and/or a wife, you still won't be able to share your true thoughts and feelings. unfortunately women are wired in a way that if they ever sense any weakness in you, you will be permanently downgraded in their eyes. with them you're meant to feign strength and resolve at all times, even if you don't feel like it. the purpose is not to look like a muscle-bound testosterone-filled chauvinist caricature, but to be someone they feel they can rely on in times of distress and need and that you can shelter them from the perils and adversities of our fucked up world.
if you really want someone to confide your anxieties in, talk to your man friends
@@リンゴ酢-b8g you know, that's a terribile tought, you just associated selfishness to 50% of the world population... but I agree in a certain way about the suggestion, women's and men's minds work differently. Nobody will ever fully understand you but the ones who can do it the most are those who belong to your same gender
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Honestly i wouldnt care about a girlfriend or not, all i want is just enjoyment in life.
Cope
@@raoufrachedi2383 uh.....ok
Having a girlfriend/wife is what enjoyment in life is. Seeing your wife smile cannot be replaced with anything material, utterly priceless joy.
@@lukaszkozon6177 that's what works for you, some people can find this joy with other (and potentially sillier) things like going on a walk at night, reading a good book or simply being alone without any problems or people to bother you, to name a few
@@ChloeIsSad if being with your partner causes problems or they bother you then they are not for you. The whole point of a relationship is to find someone what is similar to you in mind, allowing you to enjoy every second of your time spent together, your wife is also your best friend at that point and vice versa.
Remember, it's better to be alone than with a psychotic lunatic, don't let loneliness make you go for the psycho.
Damn, that hits too close to home. I've fell for one and I feel too hurt now.
Very true
I am alone with a psychotic lunatic.
Sage advice
Then after 4 years of isolation, I even miss the psycho
Don't get down because you don't have a girlfriend. I was with my now ex-fiance for 6 years. She was beautiful and in public we would often get compliments on how happy and great of a couple we made. In reality, at home, she was abusive and made me feel miserable. I live alone now, but I'm the happiest I've ever been. Sometimes the grass isn't always greener, remember that guys.
your first mistake was moving in with her before tying the knot and second calling her 'ex-fiance' just says to me you were cucked
@@barrontrump3943 We moved in together, and no, there was no cheating. I got tired of her trust issues and constant fights that she'd start, sometimes physical, and moved out.
@@swamp1138 Was she better looking than you?
@@urevya
I don't understand the question. I'd assume every man in the world thinks the woman he's with is "better looking" than them.
@@swamp1138 i dont mean to tear you down m8 but moving in with a woman is bad deal. i made a mistake similiar to that and the wretch acted insane on me after that. i will NEVER let a woman in my house for longer that 24 hours
I remember when my entire class got a rose for valentine's day from their secret admirerer. Everyone except for me.
Life is a joke sometimes.
This happened to me bru. Even the nerds got gifts. I usually don't feel lonely but this day is just pouring salt on the wound lol.
@@bang2goeezy496 Also happened to me years ago, but there is a happy end, because everything changed and I was invited by someone to spend this day together, so don't give up. I had to get rid off everyone I knew from my life, because they were toxic and from a time perspective I can finally notice it.
@@bang2goeezy496 damn lol that salt on the wound tho. i feel it
@@bang2goeezy496 I mean, nerds at my school end up with nerdy girls. That stereotype of nerds being alone isn't always true.
26 here. after 3 years of actually taking time to learn myself and be single instead of simply relationship hopping, i got to know a new girl. took all the things i learned over that time and applied it, treated her like gold, and we really opened up to each other, became intimate, and got very close.
3 months in she told me she wanted to be alone.
Modern dating is toxic, bros. people that actually take the time to address their shortcomings are met with those unable to do the same for theirs. Rely only on yourself, do not contrive or seek it out, it truly will happen if it is meant to. be prepared for it not to, though.
sorry man i know how that feels, that can really do a number on ones mental state
Mudafucka that is one relationship. Relationships aren't always going to work out. If you feel as if you genuinely work better alone, then by all means. But generalizing with the statement 'modern dating is toxic' just makes it seem like you're lashing out.
I found myself in exactly the same situation. I approached the relationship very responsibly, took the first steps, was very polite and respectful, did not violate personal boundaries, showered the girl with gifts. In the end, she said that she did not have feelings for me, although she initially offered a "serious relationship" herself. I think the Russian poet Pushkin was right when he wrote "The less you love a girl, the more she likes you." Women love independent guys who don't get attached to the opposite sex. In this case, we need experience, we must learn to be real men. As Nietzsche said: "A real man should be in love with eternity, and not with a woman."
@@kamilminiakhmetov513 thats crazy cuz im going through the exact same thing, can do everything right and still fail, its ight tho its whateva
@@dreamcatcher6937 What a blue pilled comment lmfao.
Hey kings, remember, "Valentine's Day" is just another grinding session in order for us to become the best version of ourselves. We're all gonna make it brah!
Shut up with the zyzz cope
Ew
hell yeah
@@urevya face the wall
You shouldn't need to have the best version just to get the basic human necessity of a girlfriend
Having a relationship is hard, staying home and playing with yourself is easy.
Cope.
Seeth.
fuck. I feel this statement
It's hard because you get depressed
Man you took the words straight from my soul. Maybe its selfish but Im happy and balanced better alone
I'm 21 and recently celebrated my first Valentine's Day with my girlfriend. I still felt empty, so I guess having a gf on Valentine's Day won't make you happy. When I was single I hoped a gf would make me happy and now I'm still miserable. So when you hear that "you need to work on yourself" stuff, don't think it's just a phrase to make you feel better, it's the only truth. Women won't make you happy, you need to work on yourself to be happy. I learnt that lesson today.
thanks man for the sharing
@r0FL I was having a drink with a friend. She approached me and asked me for my number. We started talking and ended up in a relationship.
LOL BRO ? YOU GOT A GIRLFRIEND WITH THE INTENTION OF NOT FEELING LONELY WHAT DID YOU EXPECT THATS NOT HOW IT WORKS MAN👎
You need Islam in your life bro
@@louislowstress Maybe
How the lonely guy feels is like the equivalence to Tom Cat sitting on the train track waiting for him to end his misery after getting rejected by his would-be partner.
@YeaMan Nobody cares.
@YeaMan Dumpster fires are indeed the hots this year.
bro why you keep following me
Fucking bots at it again in the replies
indeed
It's ok man.
A lot of us need the get well, to recover before enter into a relationship.
Sometimes it's better to stay alone and
to resolve some issues.
But resolving your issues is important.
What if you feel like you need no one and is just you and you because i…
It also can take a lifetime, so why wait if you may never solve all your issues, infact most people in relationships still have there issues so it is hard to expect someone to be fully Mentally healthy before entering a relationship, I feel like that's just what they tell lonely people to make them feel better in some way
@@jaredlindblad5485 nobody says you have to solve all of your issues, no one is perfect, but some major issues should be solved before entering in a relationship
@@jaredlindblad5485 so fucking true, I know for a fact it’ll be a while before I solve all my problems.
Thank you, got played by a girl on thursday and feeling even shittier than normal this valentines
This is my first Valentine's that I don't spend alone. It feels good knowing I've been able to make it this far.
That's good man, happy for you!
Me too man, I crawled out of a very dark place and It is really great to know that I can be loved... when I remember I did not even love myself.
And then you realize there is more to life then dating like every other part of your life.
My condolences
'There is sex without love, and there is love without sex.
And then there are you, without both.' - anon
Imagine having Valentine's day as your birthday...
Bismarck moment
i'd rather kill myself
@YeaMan Its literally terrible songs with graphics straight up stolen from millenia thinker
At least you would be killing two birds with one stone. Then you would only have to deal with the sadness of having no family on Christmas, and not getting invited to any parties on new year's and Halloween.
mine b-day the 16th, so I've got some buffer. It's actually kind of nice because it makes up for it
Why the fuck did I tear up over a video with goddamn meme characters
Joke's on you, this bloomer is off and doesn't have to go in for his 10 hour shift today
Easy win :)
Im reading this on my lunch break of my 10 hour shift…
@@roonisgaming7885 get that moner
Just so you guys know, you can still be in a relationship or married and feel lonely on Valentine's Day
@@projay87 praying for you my man
@@projay87 Idk your situation but literally just talk to each other. You need to communicate what's bothering in your relationship to fix things. And if that doesnt work you can always leave.
@@mashmeloazul yah man it so easy like that.. fun fact if a woman leaves an abusive relationship they are in 10x more danger than if they were to stay.. kids are most likely to ne raped by family
@@lolwtnick4362 Bruh wtf are you even talking about? Did you pulled those "facts" out of your ass? Healthy relationships are built not found. The most important thing is communication
@@magicmarlie I've not heard anything from mine since I lost internet connection after midnight at the start of the 14th. I would have an idea of what happened if only my damn router didn't reset itself in the middle of an intimate conversation.
For those who don't have a valentine's date it could be worse, imagine your birthday being on valentine's day and still not getting a girlfriend
I know somebody who's born on valentine's day but doesn't have a girlfriend. He got a PS5 though, which in my opinion is probably better than having a date for a day.
My birthday is 3 days after valentines day, so i have it almost just as bad as them 😢
I feel like valentine's day hits hard for single people because it makes them feel like they are unlovable or incapable of getting love from someone else. Which is not true, because as long as you are a good person with good intentions, you deserve to be loved.
On that note, modern relationships are not what they paint them like. If a couple is always that perfect and always showing off, then they probably have the worst problems between each other. That is why you see older couples talking to each other more like friends and not being very physical, because they know they are stable and have no need to show off.
Being a good person isn’t enough for a girl to be sexually attracted to you.
@@jokerpilled2535 Yeah but being funny aswell helps
@@jokerpilled2535 A lot of people grow into liking someone from their personality more than they do for their appearence, there is hope.
@@RAD-m3x you know what helps even more? Being tall, rich, and handsome.
nobody deserves to be loved in a vacuum.
for those who lack traits which inspire love easily, love is something which must be earned.
The dogs barking outside the apartment was a hit of realism and relatableness I was not ready for.
Valentines day makes me sad every damn year
Why cos u want someone so bad??? Make love love happy happy fun fun 😃😃😃
Some people don't know how to be alone without feeling lonely.
I used to know how, but as the years add up you start to forget.
That makes no sense, if you are alone then you are naturally gonna feel alone. Being alone without feeling lonely is basically lying to yourself
@@Slenderman63323 Lonely is a feeling, being alone is another thing. For example, I could sit in a crowd of people, and still feeling lonely because I don’t have my friends by my side. And, I could be alone in my house and don’t feel lonely at all.
This is one of the few channels on TH-cam that force me to think deeply
true shitb same here
The heck tomorrow's valentines day and this just pops up on my recommendation here in YT.
Another day in a year again. Alone and single.
samez
LOL HE WAS WATCHING THE 12 HOUR OBLIVION RESPECTIVE this guy is.... literally me....
Finally, the comment I've searching for. Ok, not many people know of this retrospective, but I can't find anyone else mentioning the Oblivion part.
lmao facts I always watch video game retrospectives or lore videos.
Them first 7 seconds have already hit my feelers. I despise Valentines day...
villain origin story
@@kinikinito lmao.
@@kinikinito lol
I'm glad I'm not the only one who's alone on Valentines day. This holiday sucks
Not rly to be honest. Just an excuse to demand free chocolate,
It's almost like modern dating is toxic AF
It's because it is
And people just don't accept!
@@femcelled so become one
@@qwerty975 some people don't want meaningless sex with random 304s
@@qwerty975 how to become one?
Being able to lift weights 6 days a week, grind away at school/work, AND still have time for your friends is pretty lit. Enjoy the single years while they last, boys! The better you make YOUR life, the less you NEED someone else.
If only I had time for something else than just work/study😔
Reminds me of some advice I was given, never seek out a relationship when you need one wait until you only want one
Cope
Bro you and me got the same plans. I wake up at 5 to grind at the gym, go to all my class and study in between, and have time to meet up with my friends during the evenings. This is enjoying life imo.
Enjoy the single years while they last? That's only a good idea if those years eventually end. The older you get without experiencing love, the less likely you'll experience love.
Fuck, I'm probably gonna be single till the day I die
"Don't fall in love , just let the darkness consume you instead."~Devin Haywire
True I guess?
0:11 that quick look at doomer of "look what i have"
That's just petty. Wait until he goes through that breakup, and then it's a look-what-you-lost look for him.
I got rejected by my crush recently, and this hits specially hard. Worst aspect- she ain't even my friend anymore.
I feel ya bud, I've been there as well
I feel ya bro
At least you had a girl who was a friend. Try being overly infatuated by a girl who doesn’t even know you exist
Among people and yet so alone.
So alone and yet among people, not so alone.
22 years old and slowly losing any hope of getting someone who'd genuinely love me. Well, at least I have beer to get shitfaced.
22 years and i already know i gonna die alone.
22? Chill bro you giving up too easily.
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22 here as well bro,never been in a relationship but we will all make it.Just keep grinding to get better and keep real with yourself meaning who you are what you stand for.Eventually if you expose to yourself to life and being present in the moment not holding back because of fear or judgement you will find love(and a lot of casual relationships that will make you secure when you get a real one).
@@okada1103 I m 20 single but my case is one sided since 15 yrs I met her in school in my earliest days can't seem to move past her . I m going to tell her everything before 23
was a sad day today, i may be weak but i wish for you all to be strong
Valentines day is not the day of love. It's in fact, the opposite for people who have not found it yet
The smile at the end isn't him smiling because he's alone but happy. He's smiling because he doesn't have to spend 100-150 bucks on valentines day gifts that will rot/be eaten, shelved in the corner of a room in 3 days tops.
or just a box of chocolate? Rose?
@@urevya no, simps do that, don't be a simp
men spend this much for valentine days? good grief
@@Sohelanthropus you know what a simp _is_ right? the word has been so watered down now. showing someone you love a gesture of affection isn't being a simp, assuming they love you back and appreciate it. But if they're suppose to be in a *relationship* I'm assuming its a yes.
@@rq96 simping is putting women on a pedestal, as a man you shouldn't tell your girl you love her, keep her guessing, once you tell her romantic shit, she loses respect for you
Most of the life we will just be the side character or the background, but eventually we all will grow to become the main one.
@HV Good luck son
Good luck I guess wh
Relationships are hard why not just cry in your bedroom with the light turned off and the door closed at 11 pm.
"Just work on yourself, bro", "Put yourself out there, bro". If only they knew how long we've worked on ourselves and actually gave some help instead of parroting from a self-help book!
You are not done working on yourself. I can tell, because your comment seems bitter. I’m still alone too, never had a girlfriend despite being 29 years old. Something clicked this year though, you may call it giving up, but I stopped caring. I still have random times when I desire a romantic relationship, but I can look at that feeling more objectively, and I’m not attached to it anymore. I’m free.
TRUE my god
Doomer knows that there are many out there just like him.
Best comment
I don’t think Valentine’s Day should be the only day in the year to show your loved ones that you really love them 🤨
This is basically me except I don’t smoke.
My mans watching Oblivion Videos, he dont need no bitches, they need him
Funny how humour and sadness are both presents in your skits, but sadness usually overcome humour.
better to be alone than with someone that makes you feel alone xD
Hey, even if everything seems lost, maybe we'll find a love. Life may suck, but i'd rather live in the known pain than get lost in the unknown.
every day is a torture, but this holiday is just plain mental punishment for things, literally, we have not done.
Glad I live in a country where people don't give a shit about this day that much, but ofc you meet the couples who actually did something specific and they won't shut the fuck up about how cool valentines was while everybody else treated it like a normal day
I'm from India and can relate with your statement, Just Asian things but still it's spreading rapidly.
Christmas is pretty much Valentine's Day in Japan from what I've heard.
Why does he smile at the end?
@0McSlav0 something about your pfp tells me it’s from a hentai
0:09 That hit too close to home :c I spent my day watching +1 hours long video retrospectives/essays on videogames.
It's sad, it's supposed to be about St. Valentine, now it's just about reminding me I'll never find a girl.
_"It was never about finding the right one, but becoming the right one"_
Cultivate yourselves, mighty sequoias 👍
At this point I pay closer attention to these videos than anything else on TH-cam, Netflix, tv, etc. Most everything I’ve seen has this weird way of sticking with me throughout the day.
Perhaps he is happier now then he would be with most women from today's society...
"women bad men good"
based
@@chilliobones5348 based
@@chilliobones5348 truth spoken
grossen andrew he speaking about society when he got a maximillianus pfp
And then Japan enables ppl to rent a girlfriend, not a prostitute, a simple date for the week or day.
How transactional we've all gotten.
A release from stressful work in Japan 24/7 I suppose.
Pain. Just pain, once again society is here to remind us that not all are created equal, but oh well what can we do about it.
Those of you who are alone today understand this:
Even though you want someone to be in your life, whether that be for companionship, romance or to just hear you out, realize that they can’t fix whatever’s broken in your life. Whatever you have going on whether that’s something mental (ex. depression) or financial (ex. bills) is something you have to come to terms with and figure out. You wouldn’t want someone to be put in a situation that they don’t have all the tools at their disposal to fix. I know that a lot of ppl say, “I’ll be there to help you every step of the way” but realize that they can only do so much and at some point they will reach their limit of help. The majority of it has to be taken into your own hands.
What I’m tryin to say in so many words is today isn’t a day to sit around and mope about your lack of romance or whatever you got going on. It’s another day that you’re alive and capable of making your current situation change for the better for yourself.
What's the point of having a relationship with a woman?
Tell that to twitch thots
@@MMattikkie they don’t speak for the majority of ppl’s situations. There’s always gonna be someone new out there so they don’t truly have the simp’s loyalty like they assume they will.
@@japethspeaketh7034 What’s the point of having a relationship with a man?
i can care less about a partner helping me through my problems or money issues, im just tired of the porn bro.. i just want to be hugged, kissed, reassured that ill be okay when i need (her) the most when im at my worst (if a family member passed away and i need her to cry on, or im sick and want to feel better etc) i worked on myself for so long and ppl always tell me focus on yourself and you will strive and get through it, you dont need a relationship to be happy. yeah i get it, i work and work and work, i treat myself out and go shopping to get my mind off of being lonely, but the night comes, im literally hit in my feels while i sip on a bottle of whiskey and get stuck in my thoughts man. porn is evil bro.. money dont always make me happy either only sometimes but in the end i crave intimacy.
We live in a society where a day is created to remind us to cherish our loved ones
I think it was created to prey on lonely people imo
does your woman also bring this up when you forget her birthday?
How bold of you to assume I have a woman
Yes, battleship bismarck was launched this day...
What is love intensifies
Absolutely no, the girl I loved since I was 7grade married a rich daddy. He punches her jaws and nose but she gives him good kisses on his cheeks
Oneitis is absolutely haram.
@@Noname-ut1ye he married her
How did he merried her?
@@entertainment-ox8gl he gave her money and she didn't refuse.
@@Quranly oof 😣 that's not good I feel u bro :( here a chocy milk 🥛
"Maybe not this year... But next year for sure..." ~Nobody
"Love is a lie, a delusion of the lustful sinners to think themself pure."
-Me
Love and lust are not polar opposites tho. Intimacy is important. One must not live an extremely lustful life however. But true love is something that transcends beyond pure lust or any other fleshy desires. Unfortunately society (and many people in it) is too fucked up to realize the beauty of such a thing. It’s all about the instant gratification and only about selfish desires.
In short love exists, just think beyond your lizard brain and look at the bigger picture of reality. I’m not saying that true love is an easy thing to come across however.
@@fellipedasilva99 "I hate to break it to you but what people call love is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed it hits hard Morty then it slowly fades. Leaving you stranded in a failing marriage" -Rick
@@aleksimoose Ah yes, a wild nihilist naturalist appears.
@@fellipedasilva99 is he wrong?
@@nosupes929 I don’t think that’s *only* what love is. There’s also a contradiction made here, first the claim is that love doesn’t exist. Then saying love does exist, but it’s only a biological and natural explanation.
I do take joy in knowing that there are many people like me who will always be single on this specific day every year. Ironically, it makes me feel less lonely.
0:08 glad to see they worked out
Valentines Day. It's a day for people to celebrate love, it doesn't have to be with a lover. Could be a family member, a close friend, or even a pet. No one's completely without love, even if we don't have anyone or anything to love we can still use this as a day to love and appreciate ourselves.
Nah, it's to feed women's ego's and delusions.
Nah dude Its all ilusion, think about it you have 365 of the year for being in love, and then exist one especific day for that, why .. i prefer stay with pet at least, they are loyalty ,dont ask for some expensive gift or something else, for a woman you have to provide to her, for busted their ego, with a little dog you are in peace and they will love you the same way
I'm just on earth, living free with my soul.. peaceful
as someone who spent his valentine's day playing tf2 I can relate
Ah, I forgot today was Valentine's day...
Wish youtube didn't remind me of it, or anything in general.
in islam there is no valentine's day islam tells you should love and cherish your significant other every year,month,week,day,hour,minute,second not just one day(basically valentine's day is every day)its kinda useless and sad to show more affection than usual only one day of the year.
But to answer your question yes society needs this holiday for the money they can get from individuals but individuals dont need this holiday because it is futile and a waste of money.
@Adrena Lynn if you don't care why did you say anything? people can share their beliefs and cultures
Im Christian but Islam is based.
My girl left lied to me and cheated
I wish her the worst
You're better than that, you're more powerful by ignoring it and moving on, find a way to release the anger, don't keep it in and move on from such a bad experience
Bro I cant even imagine your feelings.
I literally dont know what can be worse than that
Man i m feeling this video damn
Valentine’s Day isn’t just about lovers,it is also a holiday to show your love to people,family,friends,pets.U can make them a gift card,or flowers or a nice present for it,and remember to greet them a happy valentines day
This is literally me even if I'm only 16.
Same
💀 go get some bitches
I was like that when I was 16, now I'm 18 and it's the same bro, hope you will do better
@@violetgumibear trolling failed 😐
You still have a ton to live, don't give up.
Today is Valentine's Day, and as usual, I spend it alone, like every year, while walking, I see how many people are holding hands, while all I have left to do is spend this time in front of the computer like every year :( (so am I a doomer?)
That’s only cuz ur looking at the people who’s holding hands. There’s more lonely people that together people on valentines days all the time.
I’m alone too, the majority of this viewerbase is lonely.
And if it feels bad, it’s natural. you’ll find the one, one day. Just wait. Or you can make the first move if you want
it is better to be alone and secure, then with someone who you dont really know.
you will find em one day, dont rush into relationships, learn from the mistakes of others.
till then, find your passion, be it a hobby, a job, or even a form of recreation, being atleast a little happy with your life is better then being forced to take care of another man's kids, just for a few minutes of happyness in bed.
You are never alone.
I love how there's always an unexpected end
This is literally me as a complete virgin on Valentines since I have no hope and reputation to get my future wife.
I'm in the same boat, easier said than done but
don't focus to much on that stuff. Focus on yourself
it hurts but were all gonna make it Bruh
That was me a year ago, I was rejected so many times I gave up looking, I was hopeless. 26 yo virgin. But trust me, if you surround yourself in social situations and have fun with it, they will come, as hopeless as it seems, you’ll be surprised
Anyone else who just doesn't care nor remember whenever valentines day is? I live just as I want without celebrating these crap man made holidays
yeah man, no time for this stuff
Lol
He is lucky I worked 9 hours today with only 2.5 hour sleep...
Sometimes you need to appreciate the inner peace of being single.
Another way of robbing a man off of his money while he's just there to find love and care.
That happens too often, seems like a mirror
I felt like this around 3 years ago. I felt like no one would ever love me and I told myself it was because of my appearence and attitude, but then this guy came along when I was about to give up, and everything changed. I have never loved someone more than him, but we don't celebrate this holiday. Why? Because it's superficial and it only works for couples to show off and feel better about themselves. Valentine's day should be everyday with your special someone, this day is just an excuse to show off.
@Miyamoto Musashi I am very appreciative I think. And it is not needed, because it only works to make the lonely feel more alone. It's sad.
You're severely underestimating how easy for a woman to get into a relationship these days.
@Miyamoto Musashi But we still have our dignity intact, stay strong
Lmao it's literally so easy to get into a relationship as a female. Stop whining
The fact that society genuinely needs to dedicate a day to express their love to someone, out of 365 days of the year, is just sad.
This day actually originates from the Catholic tradition of honoring Saint Valentine. However, it became a secularized day of honoring generic love instead in modern times.
It’s better to be alone than with someone who kills you inside when you’re both alone
Stay strong
We all gonna make it brahs
We can't all be winners man. Its over.
@@novarem9828 Fortunately we can. It all comes down to your personal goals in life.