Introverts On Party Be Like
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 พ.ค. 2022
- Introverts On Party Be Like is a short animation about an introvert doomer that is pulled out of his room by a friend to meet new people. Assured how cool it will be he believed. It turned out, however, that he is going to a party that is among people who are not looking for an extra third wheel. The topics discussed do not concern him and he has a problem getting into the conversation. Slowly he realizes that this group is made of people who all have some kind of a "past" with each other.
Wondering if he wants to be around them and if he did the right thing leaving his house tonight, he slowly begins to be more reluctant towards meeting new people.
Sitting in awkward silence, he dreams of going back to where he wanted to get out.
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Can this type of friend group be healthy?
PS: Imagine you are sitting there.
What would you do?
Well , when you are a teen it's ok
leave
Listen.
Drink more
Id probably leave i hate when a group of people see a new individual enter their social space and not even try to interact with them. Always talking about crap i know nothing of
> Goes to party
> Eats their entire fridge
> Doesn’t even elaborate
> Leaves
lol, I'd do this out of spite
Based
Literally chad
Sigma guy
Doesn't even know who's house it is
This hits close to home. I love the attention to detail with Sebastian randomly looking around the room, with nothing to do but just observe as if he's not even there.
Bruh, what does this have to do with my comment? @Sense
Holy shit it's Void Eon.
Heyo. @@lemonyzz0681
Sup guys
dude why are you talking to yourself?
To be honest it doesn matter if you're introvert or extrovert, that whole situation was just objectively awkward lmao
Agreed
Nah tbh
Yeah honestly I would've left tbh, and I'm an extrovert
Yes lol, I’m definitely an but this video was still incredibly relatable. I hate awkward situations like that
I think thats kinda the point. He tried once, then immediately gave up when change proved to be difficult
As an extrovert there is no possible way to join that conversation without sounding intrusive
You can ask for details of what they are talking about to get the attention. Or (hard for introverts) instead talking, propose to do something instead talking
@@Mistrz-mw4db But it was too personal. And he did when he ssked about the trip
@@ZaynePillow-tf2gx OMG NO WAY IT'S BEEN 8 MONTHS SINCE I WATCHED THAT VIDEO I REMEMBER IT SO FKING WELL WTF
love that the zoomer/chad cares for seb despite him being such a negative doomer... man, cant help but appreciate those extroverted friends you got sometimes ykno
probably not chad but something more like gym rat or gym obsessed
Yeah like @@andeemengaming5000 said he's not a Chad. Just because someone is all yoked doesn't mean they are also a Chad. I know a few huge guys like that but they have crappy personalities.
Not a Chad
I'm that extrovert friend who wants to help their introvert friends being more outgoing, and yes, it is hard.
@@parkouremaster its hard being pushed to do things u dont want to sometimes
I've definitely been that guy before. It's so awkward. I think if you host a party it's kind of your job to make people, especially newcomers, feel comfortable. This didn't even seem like a party, just some get together he shouldn't have been to.
I'm not really an introvert, more like a very very shy extrovert so I'm pretty much an introvert at first, but I can chat when I'm comfortable (after a friend has started the "get to know each other" stuff).
Anyways, I never host parties, but whenever I'm at one with friends and someone not in the group is there I try to make conversation about anything that the new guy could participate in. It sucks being stuck in a group when you only know one of the people there and they keep talking about their own stuff, so I try to steer away from that
It's very uncomfortable to be in the middle of a group of friends you don't know, especially when you're shy or introverted. That's why, whenever I organize something, I wonder if that person will get along
@@MehdiGlz Ha, if I were to list all the times I've mixed people who were unhappy about it on at least on side, I'd probably have my own Nuremberg trial. The traumatised introverts, the cringed extroverts, chill people put out of their comfort zone with no consent... Ah yes, open mindedness is a curse
I agree! When I invite anyone over I try to mention everyone from time to time and say stuff. If someone is quiet, I try to throw them a compliment if it's my place. When they say things I go out of my way to react to it and loosen them up. Or I offer them a drink. "We have a lot of booze, we need help drinking it all. Wanna snack? Come check out the kitchen my home is yours!" I like entertaining people and introducing them.
honestly if youre drunk enough its so easy to socialise with new ppl
The unrealistic part is sebastian having a friend that cares about him.
his friend is a sigma who was probably in the same situation as him before changing. so he tries to help her.
Actually, introverts have just one or two friends, but those friends are like his brothers
@@Antonio-qm3bi Not all of em man...
That diagram he drew up in his head hit me so hard. Any time I'm introduced to a group like that it's one of the first things I do. It's almost cathartic at this point, seeing as I'm incapable of socializing well.
that chart is funny as hell looks like ivo boned them all
You can always ask people how they met each other or became friends. People love to talk about themselves. Asking questions is the way to go.
I’m at the point in life of hearing instead though- it’s nice to talk but man there are so many cool stories out there
sometimes when you dont have enough presence in that group, you can feel a pressure that you really can't slip in between their conversation, especially when they dont stop talking. worse, not even making an eye contact with you or towards your direction.
I didnt come to play 20 questions
I feel like asking too many questions or generic questions make things too stiff
yeah but the thing is idgaf about them or their life so i can't be bothered to ask them and listen to them.
"They kept talking about people I don't know and events I didn't participate in, and I wasn't able to slip in the conversation"
As an introvert this the biggest problem I face when I try to socialize or meet new people.
Same bro
I can relate, I don’t blame people who do that but I get anxiety if I invite someone to a gathering and I know that person knows no one.
Ask them questions about the things you weren't there for.
If things are getting heated, sometimes the outside perspective from you as an outsider might be a good option since you are new so they might listen to you more
@@mathieul4303 It's hard because they might respond negatively to an outside. What matters the most is being genuine but tactful, curious but sensitive, open but empathetic.
All honestly difficult to be when you're a raging hormone teen.
Relatable
This goes way beyond parties and more to social awkwardness. Even though I'm extroverted, I still feel like an introvert when I'm around new people. Watching people talk about situations I don't care about to people I wouldn't even like if I met them. To the point where I ask myself "what's the point of being social"
maybe you are an ambivert
Maybe you are a ambivert, or a shy extrovert
Probably just business stuff
You know shit's rough when an extrovert can't hang.
@@Mrdksr Maybe being shy isn’t a personality trait or just a feature of introversion. Actually, it’s not.
This is brilliant, it captures so well the essence and the mood of those kind of parties.
To me there is always that awkward moment at a party when people you do not know start arguing in a passive aggressive tone and it is utterly confusing. To make it even more awkward, I leave at 4 am because I am bored, hungry and uncomfortable. The fact that so many people relate to this kind of experience makes me feel less lonely. Thank you.
I went to a party a couple of weeks ago. This video literally spoke to me because of how much it fits. Met gymbro at my gym, had a good convo for about an an hour, and he ended up inviting me to a little grill they were having. At first I didn't wanna go because I just don't do well in those scenarios. But he kept insisting. I ended up going because I wanted to challenge myself and finally make a friend.
I went, and the whole thing went like the video. Show up, I dont get introduced, it was a big gathering, like +12 people, I have to greet people one by one, and for a solid hour I was jsut there while everyone was in their own thing. Gymbro left me to die too.
It went on like that for like 4 hours until they all agreed it was time to go, so I get my shit and leave. A couple of days later, I found out nobody left the party. They just pretended so I would leave.
Gymbro hasn't tried to contact me and has ignored a couple of messages asking if he wanted to workout.
It's shit like that that makes me question if attempting to be social is even worth it anymore.
Man that's brutal...they all faked that they were leaving just to get you out of there.
Man.. that's tough. Although I haven't experienced something like that. I can relate so much when people invite me and try to find some conversation topics and how to integrate me but I can't. It's to difficult for me trying to meet new people, when all the people that already are there know each other.
I spent 2 years in high school like that. With no friends to contact with
I am sorry Bro , they are just dumbs , if u need a friend u can talk to me :)
This is something that would totally happen to me lol , I’m sure it has happened to me already i just tend to forget about how awful my social life has been
@@dardalion3199 Honestly, just a simple "Hey can I talk to you?" and a "Look man, people really dont like you around here so please leave" would've been enough. Idk what he expected either. It's a group of people I have 0 connections with, in an environment that's out of my element, and to top it all off they all know each other for a while. I even warned him about that. Idk, it doesn't hurt. But it just bothers me, still even after 3 weeks.
When he said “They were talking about people I don’t know and events I didn’t participate in, there’s was no right time for me to slip in the conversation” most relatable to me
Practice just saying dumb shit even if they think ur weird. Try having a convo with a random person even if the reason you strike up the convos is bs. For example ask someone when the bus is coming even if you really don’t want to. Small things build confidence over time
@@charliebowes2718 thank you
who tf wouldnt relate to that
me when i sit with my friend and his friends at lunch
@@charliebowes2718 Tried it, didn't work. Now I'm seen as "desperately looking for conversation" or simply as an NPC. The thing is social people (and especially young) are really hard on who they decide to hear and who is an annoyance for them. But that's normal ofc.
To extroverts that don't understand, it feels like you are spectating. Even if you want to join in and be friendly, such as myself, your mind kind of goes blank and you can't think of anything nice to say because you're either too nervous or you're not but your mind goes blank, or your just bored and don't want to be there anymore and you'd rather be home watching movies or playing games or spending time with the one or two friends that you do know and are very close to you.
Extroverts don’t click on this type of video
@@agrougrougraouu How can you be so sure?
@@agrougrougraouu I think you worded your sentence incorrectly, extroverts do click this video but they convince themselves they are introverts because normies have decided its cool and mysterious.
@@agrougrougraouu you can tell if someone is an extrovert if they say they would leave or get mad, this is because introverts can cope and wont do that in a situation like this
@@orangutex468it isn’t cool but it certainly has a mysterious vibe to it.
I don't consider myself an introvert but being at a place where everyone else just speaks about their personal relations and shitty boyfriends that you have no chance understanding because you just met them always sobers me up in a bad way at parties lol
Dude fr i dont know why people turn parties/gatherings into trauma dumping like my guy idgaf im trying to have a good time
I cringed a little bit when Zoomer left his bro alone with strangers at a party. That is introvert HELL
Im not even an introvert and its a anxiety for me
FR
True
@@loudshadow7947 This is it. It doesn't matter if you're an introvert or not, you can be the most confident/outgoing person in the world but you still wont be able to join a conversation like this.
@@szabomate1179 I'm an ambivert but i do have social anxiety. It's more of a who I'm being left with than anything.
At least Sebastian is a good listener. Seeing his inner mind connecting the dots on what relationship each of those people have was impressive
I'd say it was stupid. He knew he was wasting his time and this was a cope. A cope in place of potential action
@@antonikudlicki1100 what was the potential action?
@@The-Devils-Advocate Maybe trying to get himself heard instead of overthinking everything.
@@davidcardozo290 what if he didn’t have anything to say?
@@The-Devils-Advocate oe he was too bored by the convo the others were having, that always happens with me and I just space out and try to think of something interesting or overanalize to make it interesting for myself, may sounf selfish but ehh it is what it is
I had a date with a girl a few weeks ago. We didn’t really connect on a lot of things and the whole thing was a bit awkward. Eventually she took me back to her place and met her roommates.
They talked about stupid shit like sex and boyfriends/girlfriends and hating work and how high they all got last night.
Eventually I just left. I couldn’t care less about people who have nothing better to do than to sit on their ass and smoke weed all day and drink at 2pm.
I’d rather be alone than in bad company. And that should apply to everyone. Don’t force yourself to got to social events you know won’t benefit you at all just because a friend asked you to. Do things that you genuinely enjoy. Don’t look for outside influences to change you, be the change that you wish for.
That’s a great advice. We use to think about extraverts as superior people. But in reality they’re often stupid and lame. Value yourself and your time.
Facts bro, focus on yourself
Congrats on getting yourself out there and going on that date though
bro wtf is wrong with you
i love you
I became a master at feeling the emotions of others when crap like this happens. It’s usually a good thing to “grab” the person that feels more awkward and start a conversation with it, instead of just staring at the walls and waiting for the clock to speed up.
Yeah, I would have started talking to the girl next to me.
During the middle half of the video you almost forget that Sebastian is there at some points, despite being this episode's protagonist. This really sends a message of how "invisible" you can feel (and be) as an introvert (who is reluctant in social situations) sometimes. You're not really part of the group, and instead are just there... taking up space while your mind runs wild processing the conversation(s) going on around you, with no hope or even intention of slipping your input into it.
You can learn so much about other people by eavesdropping on their little conversations here and there. You can even remember these details for years to come. You could tell them so much about themselves if they'd ever take a chance to try and know you. But somehow the weight of initiating the conversation always falls on your shoulders. And so you remain silent, invisible, unknown, and forgettable...
No big problem anyways, it's not like you'll always leave an impact everywhere and with everyone.
Ye
For me I managed to build a friendship with someone I don't actually had much in common (I later disliked her a lot), but through that friendship I met her best friend and I noticed how toxic my first friend was and this second friend never noticed and always got hurt because of it. And I was nice and played her game til inevitably the first friend fucked her real hard just like I predicted and I saved the situation and there she finally noticed how fucking trustworthy I am and I managed to get her trust, finally. I lost most other friends I had because of other reasons (some of them were they weren't very nice people). But luckly I kept this friendsship which she is an ok friends, but the most important part is that she is a pretty looking girl who kinda seems sociable and reasonable at first and that's why she attracts people who I can then meet and they become my friends. It finally works. Also completly on my own I somehow managed to get a gf, it didn't last that long, but gave me a huge confidenze boost :).
But once you come out of your shell years of being the observer will pay off. Now I just observe someone behavior for 5 minutes and it always gives me something to initiate conversation with them.
@@samueldubik4418 What do you look for when you observe them?
There's one way this could have hit home harder: Sebastian getting singled out for being "too quiet" despite not being the only one who barely talked.
K stop right there a little too relatable
broooo hell naww dude why people like that
"Hey, just enjoy yourself bro"
"Just be with us longer and you'll start talking"
"I'll introduce you to this person who'll teach you how to be chatty"
Among us in a nutshell
My name is sebastian bro
"Don't you want to meet new people?"
No.
Having social anxiety (+being introvert i guess) really hits hard with this video. I would be in the same spot as Sebastian with the only difference of constantly questioning myself about "what am i doing here?" , "are they judging me?" , "should i leave" , "would it be too awkward if i just stand and go to kitchen?" , "what if i trip over when i stand?" and the list goes on....
i know that not all “parties” are like this, but knowing these do exist makes me not want to go to parties at all. it’s not the parties i’m worried about, it’s the people.
Don't make me laugh 😁 oh 🙀 wait.
Well howdy didn't expect u here totally ....
my man, if the first half hour goes like this, grabe your shit and go home, dont be in a place that people dont make u feel comfortable
@@vinicyusgomes9745 Right.
meet some Mexicans, our parties are actually good.
It's nice to see Zoomer trying to give Sebastian a new set of friends so that he can finally stop being alone. I just realized how much he cares about his homies but his toxicity for fame and appearance is what's taking control over him
he turns into chad slowly but surely
The cruel irony is that Zoomer's toxicity for fame and appearance is the only way to become successful for someone of his generation. If anything he works out too much for a young man trying to attract women.
@@yamerrune he is growing up
I've seen a lot of people like that over my twelve plus years here on YT (not my first channel) and I have seen far too many to ever count crashed and burned for a few reasons. At best they fade back into the background without much if any baggage but too often it destroys their mental health and their lives in general.
I get paid to get high & smoke weed on my TH-cam channel, send it 😈
This is exactly what always happened to me at parties. I would always go to either not seem rude or distant, or because I had a crush on a girl that kept going there (who was also an introvert but managed it much better than I did and everyone talked to her still), but then I would just sit on the couch the entire time, being bored out of my mind doing nothing. When people would talk to me, I would actually try to keep the conversation going like everyone else was doing and seemed so good at, but no matter what I did the other person would always lose interest for some reason unknown to me.
And the part where he just sits there and is forced to listen to events other people participated in but not himself is ALSO incredibly accurate to my experience. It felt like torture, especially when others would talk about fun roadtrips they were going on, or their love lives which was nonexistent for me still.
And basically, that was my entire social life after highschool.
As an introvert i can say:
I gtg.
same😞
Sebastian is actually a really good listener, well that and that he can put the dots together while in the middle of hearing a bunch of "friends" spill out everything, that's kinda impressive tbh
Idk if it's that hard to put the dots but props to him i guess. We introverts are indeed good listeners.
i'd say all introverts are good listeners because guess what, we dont usually do anything else in the conversation other than just listen.
I talk quite a lot in conversation despite being an introvert
@@rah8693 I only talk if the topic of armored vehicles, weapons and war are brought up, I know nothing about anything else.
@@rah8693 yeah I think this goes further than the normal "introvert" type of videos, like a friend circle that has gone through so much is something incredibly difficult to get into, you have to put in the effort if you want to. Meeting new friends is hard, but I think that the most important thing on this vid is that Zoomer actually cares about his buddy, beyond his fascination with superficial stuff he really does care or at least his heart is in the right place
Even in a room full of people it could still feel like you’re alone. Sebastian like so many other introverts felt as if he has no reason to be there cuz he heard more about the folks there than actually talking to them. Lot of people could relate to that I’m sure.
Yup, rather be by myself, then be ignored by others around me. That's even more lonely.
I'm shy and very socially awkward and I can give you an advice: get a bit drunk and the true you will come out. I remember one night being with my friends and we meet a group of people. I don't know why but I was the only one that just sat at their table and started talking, I was being funny and confident, I think that if I was a bit more drunk I could even had the courage to make out with a girl that was interested in me. If I wasn't drunk I think I could have done one thing: stay silent and use my phone, even if I just open and close the applications because I wouldn't have any messages to read...
@@Trapped_Bird that's a bad tip tho because you're not always gonna be drunk. Also you don't want to always have to be drunk and rely on that to be more open.
Well... I don't always say this but...
Literally me
@@emjay1249 I rather being drunk that silent and nervous.
You don't have to be drunk all the times, for example I go out whit friends I arleady know most of the times and I don't have to be drunk to have fun whit them, but when i meet new people it gives me the ability to not ruin my night and have a good time.
"you can't just sit in one place"
meanwhile him sitting in the same position for 5 minutes straight
That soundtrack you use is crazy. It left me uneasy the whole video. Awesome work of art!
When his bro walked off and left him alone on the couch I was screaming inside 😭
My worst nightmare to be abandoned in a group full of strangers. Not wanting to get up and leave in fear of being rude. But also having nothing much to contribute and ending up being rude/awkward anyways. Especially if the conversation is inner circle drama. Absolute torture....
If this happens I'm telling you, it's better to just leave. Don't fear being rude as they don't matter to you at that point, and ignoring the new guy is rude in itself.
For fuck sake just go back to your friend or leave. You don't have to sit in one place to not be rude
I'm telling you dude, having the ability to just cut your losses, get up and leave is like having a super power. The earlier the better. If it makes you feel any better, if they're ignoring you they won't even notice you left, and conversely if you get a text asking where you're at, at least they cared.
Why? Drink their beer, eat their food. Probably the more you drink the more chatty you will get anyway. Bailing out early could mean you miss out on meeting your next best friend or girlfriend. And bailing out early is a good way to stop being invited to places.
Wym rude??? If you want to get out just get out
"My first instinct when I see an animal is to say 'Hello'. My first instinct when I see a person is to avoid eye contact and hope it goes away" - Spongebob
Why do you put so little effort into your comments?
@@HereForTheComments Why do you speak pure facts?
@@fosoofkkkfkfkckd Seeing this guy everywhere with his low effort bullshit was bad enough, but now he's come to my secret club. Thinker's work is wasted on him.
@@HereForTheComments Why do you have to put effort in a TH-cam comment?
@@novus1589 When you want something like Comical Realm Animations does, you have to. He's just doing this so we visit his channel. These comments are just advertisements, but he won't admit it.
3:50 the slight disgust and disappointment in ivo's facial expression makes me feel bad for him
I was never an introvert, but I only hung out with my friends. The first time I went to a party and met some people from my school who Ive only known from seeing, i actually managed to just be myself and talk to everybody. It was so great and it changed my life to the better
I remember one day in the 8th grade, this guy came in for his first day. He seemed quiet, he was small, and he was overall new so he wasn;'t comfortable. Although I myself am an introvert, i thought to myself, how would i feel if i were in his situation. Then i decided to walk up to him during break and start a conversation, i never felt so extroverted in my life (i guess its because he seemed shyer than me and i felt more comfortable in that sense). Either way, we've been friends for years now and is one of my closest friends, so make sure to always go up to the quiet guys. they can end up being really really good people, its just that people dont give them a chance (:
bro same, i always talk to quiet ppl, i feel like im more comfortable talking to them since were both introvert 🤓
Weird enough that im ultra introverted but i do more enjoy chatting with extrovert person who easily laugh and humorous
@@UY-SCUTInohomo until he starts teasing you in front of other people
Ikr, one of my best friends rn is an introvert I talked to
A lot of kids especially middle schoolers don’t give people a chance unless they’re attractive and fit social standards in middle school and high school are hard to keep track of
As an introvert, this is why I always get a little bit tipsy before walking into a party. Nobody deserves to walk into a room without knowing anyone, sitting there and listening to them talking about their lives while you feel like a ghost.
That has nothing to do with you being an introvert. Get out of your comfort zone you fuking loser.
Tipsy as being scared or being drunk
@@themixer5029 Tipsy = drunk
Wym no one deserves that? That's just something we as people have to experience sometimes
@@tnl-warrior3218 Aye.
amazing quality bro. attention to detail of each character's slight movements were very nice would love to see more
I was actually in situations like Sebastian was in, for two instances.
Once was on New Years Eve, I was drunk and a bit high. Me, my mums boyfriend and her son wanted to go to the boardwalk in town (where my family was). So we all go out, we get there. It was all good. I said hello here, hello that. After all was said, about 30 minutes later we all started walking to my cousins place and when we all got there. Everybody was drunk lol and in my family, we all have like groups that hang out together. The uncles over there, sisters and aunts at at table there.. Then there's just me, sitting by myself on my phone, legit just waiting for someone to come up and say "Hey, you good". Nobody did, so I went outside without telling anyone where I was. I sat outside and thought, "Shit, these people. They sound like they are having fun without me" so, I just left. Walked all the way home drunk, vomited a quarter of the way and had hiccups. 😅
And the second one, was on January 14th. I was going to my friends place, who I hadn't seen in a while. I was walking in the stormy rain, it was cold, calm and in the afternoon. Somehow, that was way better than the stay 🤷🏾♂ I get there and I see 1, 2, 3, 4 people on the couch. 4 of them being my friend, his girlfriend, his roommate and his other friend. When I came in, all I saw were stares. I was also soaked, so I asked him if I could go for a shower. He nodded and I did. Anyways, when I got out of the shower I actually introduced myself, fist bumped my friends girl and his friend who was sitting to the left of me (the other dude had left). We all sit down, chill out. I'm trying to make small talk about a fight I was watching tomorrow morning while drinking outta my Baileys bottle and we're taking turns on UFC 4. I'm sitting there giggling at the stupid ragdolls and again, I'm met with awkward stares or silence. Another girl came in as well and she sat opposite of my friends girl. Like I've seen her before over there, sometimes me and my friend would be smoking or chilling out playing the game. I don't know if I was doing anything wrong or maybe she's introverted too but everytime I'm met with again, awkwardness. *I will be using that word often* 😂.. Also, I gotta mention this. Me and my friend, we go way back but we had complications of connection because I was in a really bad relationship and was emotionally locked in. So, when I'm over at his. There's always somebody else there, that doesn't know me, that doesn't want to interact with me, I kinda just gotta look up every now and then to be like ✌🏿"I'm here". Now, we are all just watching Deadpool 2 and my friends roommate bought us all pizzas. I was like "How much did this cost?" And he said "It doesn't matter". Not a big point but I thought it was sweet atmost 🤷🏾♂ We watch this movie and I feel like, I'm at a need to keep quiet because I feel, laughing or giggling will ruin it for the other 4 people sitting with me. I got burnt out. I was full and just tired of the air. We go into his room, we smoke up and here's the part! You've been waiting lol.. I'm sitting there on the edge of his bed, I'm listening in on something they're talking about. His roommate goes to bed, passes out 😂 and I'm stuck here, looking at my phone. I actually wanted to hear what they were talking about so I moved closer until I was just in front of my friend and his girl with the other girl 😅 on the left. They're talking about some shit. "Oh did you hear this about this? Yeah, yeah. We should go there" They were also passing around a vape but it was never to me, which okay. Maybe understandable. Still sitting there, the other girl is like talking about somebody and she says she want to fuck him. My face physically went like 🤨 and I dipped out quickly to go sit out in the lounge room. Later on my friend would come and get me to go back into room, not knowing how I'm feeling or how this could be affecting me. (Which isn't his fault). Just before we go back in, I look back and the two girls are walking towards but stop as soon as I turn. The image in my head of them just stopping, boggles me lol. It was as if I was a threat or some shit, as if I'm this disgusting thing.. Again, we are all in his room and I gotta suffer through another like 15-30 minutes of chatter until the other girl leaves for the night and I'm with my friend and his girlfriend. They start kissing, I start blitzing, my mind is kind to be dismissing. I left again. I wouldn't go back in there, I'd stay out in the lounge room, occasianly my friend and his roommate would come out. While I stay up from 1AM to 9AM to watch KSI fight Temperr (which was a good morning).. I came to that party with my highest thoughts and came out of it just feeling.. Unwanted and unneeded. See though and invisible. Mind numb and broke felt. I don't think people realise how much the small things matter and I will do my best to make sure, others do not feel this hurt.
I kinda felt the awkward vibe in him. Listening to people you've never met before, talking unrelatable stuff, not knowing what to say but to keep the silence, hoping that someone might ask you something or hoping they might change the subject into something more relatable.
All you can do is think about leaving, or feeling bad that you've came to such a party in the first place
at least there was free booze.
that's okay.
And then out of nowhere they hit you with the "Why are you so quiet?"
@@rakijr9176 The video was pretty relatable, at least from my point of view
@@rakijr9176 brother, this is the WORST
Yeah fr
Much respect for becoming the biggest and highest quality wojak/doomer film maker. I use the term Film Maker intentionally here because you are creating art my friend.
There used to be a guy called Prince of Zimbabwe but unfortunately he quit
@@qwerty975 I think there were rumours he an hero'd.
@@Leon.Stanic what is hero'd ?
@@weissshizuru3687 it's a meme, another way to say suicide.
@@weissshizuru3687 means he quit life
When I was 30 I got introduced to my current group of friends on a birthday party with like 20 people including a couple of girls, I only knew 1 person there and when I arrived I almost got too scared and left before I even entered the party. Thankfully I pushed through and kept an open mind.
Turns out most people there were just as weird and had a great sense of humor. I didn't become friends with every single one, but the ones I did I cherish a lot since from there on we became super close and went on to do lots of things together, going on trips, starting doing activities like, going to the gym and playing tennis, and it gave me an opportunity to discuss my love for anime, games and stuff like that.
So my advice is that even though things can get scary, try to give people a chance when you can.
6:54 That whole bit is so true! I hate when I'm hang out with some people that I not really know and they just talk ONLY about themselves on events that I don't participated, it makes me feel like I shouldn't been there at first place.
It's not only about beeing shy or something, sometimes it's just pain, specially when you TRY to find a gap to talk and that's it.
He actually did a real good job, he tried his best. As an introvert myself, I can confirm that it wasn't easy at all.
The worst part is actually going to the party, like if u agree on it you can't back up, so most of the times you force yourself to attend, even if u don't want to
@@olakpasa6486 I've never even been invited to a party lmao
@@ChickentNug bruh 💀
@@ChickentNug same
I'd be the life of it, I'm still fueling up for my next one. Gonna have more energy than ever.
Yeah I've never been to a party either, not even a shitty birthday one at like chucky cheese or some shit.
Zoomer is a true chad, as he tries to up"lift" his friend without anything to gain in return.
Character development, dude
L
The benevolent chad offers a hand up instead of kicking the ladder down. We need to develop and clone these men.
@@space_obama3708 but helping him better is true friendship
@@space_obama3708 progressive overload
I am astonished to see a video of this quality. Great job; you've earned my respect!
5:00
LMAOOO
THIS PART KILLED ME
I have been in the situation before, many times, trying to decipher everybody's relationships, sitting amongst a crowd I don't know, trying to find a place to step into the conversation and make myself known, but never getting to that point. Eventually, I started thinking to myself "why didn't I just stay home"?
The feeling of missing out is a strong one, sometimes you want to go out and meet new people and try your best to put yourself out there, at the end of the night, I'm not going to lie, I'd rather just sit at home and do my own thing then be amongst a group of friends that's full of drama and complicated relationships. I don't have the time for it, and I don't care for it.
I strongly believe that its because we are looking for our own people which are rare and you can only meet them in special scenarios
We find good company usually when we least expect them.
I'd like to ask a question.
In this situation, would it just be appropriate to go home in your opinions? I've been in that situation before and just realised it wasn't going anywhere and left without saying anything.
It's like playing Assassin's Creed Irl and your only objective is to eavesdrop on random people.
That's why you go to party's with people that hear the same music. You don't understand the Convo? Listen to the music. I've been on many afterparties after the club was over, where I didn't knew anyone. The music connects.
When he was going through his head and trying to figure out who slept with who, that one hits way too close for me. Whenever I meet a new group of people, I always visualize what they are talking about, hoping if I figure things out, maybe I could get into the conversation and offer advice on things.
If they could speak only the truth it would be easyer
Same
samee
This is why I hate meeting people who only talk about people. If you don't know anything about any of the subjects, what's there to say?
Id say to never give advice on these situations, there's just no way to enter the group talk they're having, unless you go like "eeh so you guys been know for each other since when?" for your best chances, this might make then include you so they can relive some memories by letting you in, otherwise an advise might be seen as "the newbie" in the setting prying and being arrogant, people might sometimes ask some advice to evaluate something on themselves, but more offten than not, people don't like hearing someone suggest they should do something some sort of way
In this situation I listen to music. My headphones always with me.
Woah... First time watching these kinds of short films. Usually I see these on TikTok, but its out of context... This is pretty funny, and accurate... Good video.
holy shit the timing on this man. after meeting old friends for the first time in two-ish years this is exactly the situation ive faced myself in
@Sense yo daddy came back from getting milk?
@@scavhub5006 when of your problems
@@scavhub5006 -100000 hearts
@@ChimmneyMan holy shit just saw my mistake auto correct is going wild
Right? I was thinking to myself earlier, the amount of self-reflection I see in his videos almost make me feel like he's watching events in my life. It's a bit freaky, but the same time, it really gives me some introspective
i just hope people know that theres a difference between social anxiety and introvertedness
lots dont
what's the difference?
@@sunny0042 introverts can enjoy going out, but not very often, and in smaller groups. Doing it too much will tire them out for a long time. Social anxiety is more of an aversion and fear of social situations. Thats how i see it
@@alexp.7068 Gahdamn that's me spot on, both sides actually, just depends on the group I'm going with
@Clone Marine Definitely
Thanks to made this video. I needed that.
love your animations
*Protip:* You can avoid awkward interactions at parties if you simply never get invited to any
I've been doing this for at least 10 years, works really good, can recommend
Man, awkward conversations are life's hot sauce.
@@glpv2486 just 10? rookie numbers
@@Luv-dq5th agreed
I never get invited to any of them, because I'm friend but not that type of a 𝙁𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙, It's quite sad what my life has become from being the It's not complete without you to I barely know you I just talk to them because I have to I have no one they never answer they ignore me or they just call because they need something and that's all...I know them for 4 ears or some of them for 9 years. I hate this but this is going to happen once I'm not in the same country as them It's over and I will end up alone and so I hope I will find better friends at least 1.
Holy shit when he tried to think and understand who had been with who or who is interested in who, that was the most relatable thing I've seen in a while. I do that at literally any event. Trying to see who I would even have the best chance to talk and connect with. Then sometimes you end up being cool with some chick that is already seeing some other dude, such a fucking bummer man.
I was in similar situations a lot and at first I was unsure why I pick up on such details and make the connections in my head. I dont really care about this stuff, then why am I entertaining myself with these hunches and assumptions? With time I realised that its because they are mostly talking about uninteresting, surface level stuff, seemingly without end. As such, my mind starts to occupy itself with something, anything, just to avoid the sheer overwhelming boredom of the conversation that I forcefully try to take attention to.
I mean, I dont need every conversation to be a deep philosophical dive, but I could not care less for who slept with who, how drunk they were at the last party, what stupid shit they did under delirium and what is the latest news regarding substinance celebs. To me, this seems practically talking about nothing. And I am not fond of small talk either.
Dude.. all the fking time.. the Good ones are already taken
That last one hits close to home. You meet a cool girl and she already has someone. The other is she's gay and realize you have no shot at all
I can relate to this exactly situation, I feel anxiety , I love your channel, really made me feel sad this one
This video made me felt like I am a lot more socially aware for once in my life
hello again
@@TheDestroyerG7X hello again as well
You make no@Sense
This pleases the nut
@@Saberdud yes
This is why it's so hard to make friends as an adult. People get so wrapped up in the politics and drama of their own social circle that anybody else is just a background character.
As an introvert I can confirm that having a party with unfamiliar people is very tedious.When you spend time with friends, that’s really nice. I went to a camp with my class and that was really amazing. I am on good terms with all of my classmates.
But when I went to a university courses first time, I felt really disappointed.
As a introvert I can say I’ve never been to a party
This video is so relatable to me, literally every social reaction ever
Trying to listen to the meaningless conversations was hard, and my brain kept trying to zone out. This video is accurate, and I've been in these sorts of situations. I always got up and left as soon as I was able.
And ppl got mad at me for not listening - like I had any stake in it...
@@MeEraVideo I've always found the concept of "friend groups" to be strange and alien. People who have nothing to do but sit around and talk about nothing.
@@ivorkovac303 you just put in the words what i was thinking
Muchas veces me pasa lo mismo de que mi amigo se va a hablar con otros sobre algo en lo que yo no estoy y mis otros amigos justo no estan(eso me pasaba en la escuela)
@@xalciaqx9026 I just have a few friends here and there, and most do not know eachother. When people say "friend group" I usually think of some grouping function on facebook. I don't understand how one socializes with an entire group IRL. You can exchange much more information one on one than you can with a group.
Can strongly relate. When in public or at a party, I stopped caring about people looking at me weird when I have nothing to say. All I have to do is breathe, look happy ,smile from time to time, sometimes keep eye contact, judge them in my mind, not tell them what I really think about them & look like I care about anything they say. Been called out weird multiple times for acting like this, but people still keep hanging around me. Idgaf for anyone anymore at this point. I've been mentally torturing myself for too long. I rather keep myself mentally calm & happy than try to impress/entertain someone's ass, just because no one has to say anthing else.
Time to hang out to the real homies
Its not that hard
same, people around me think that im some kind of robot. they say that i walk, act and talk weirdly. i also seem to have some kind of communication problem, so i just prefer not to talk on most occasions. i just listen.
I’m tryna be like you
@@folabi1076 same
If i was there i would have 2 options 1. Look like im listening but answer nothing 2. Just go afk
I like the overly tense and uneasy music in a calm and relaxed environment. It helps to portray the feeling of social anxiety and paranoia to the viewer.
It's scary how much I can relate.
I literally have one only friend that is fit and taller than me and goes to parties sometimes inviting me to meet some people so I can have more friends. However, more than once people have started talking about relationships and that stuff and I haven't known what to say while in theory I was "participating" in the conversation without saying a single word so I didn't feel leaving was ok. So uncomfortable. And, as always, I feel bad and useless because I have no social skills, and end up alone with my computer playing video games, one more day and one day less...
Finding a good friend is honesty pure luck, I haven't find a friend that I can be close with for almost 4 years now, but I honestly prefer just having a single small group of friends just so I can spend more quality time to them and myself.
I don't have an advice since I'm bad at it, but hope you can find more best friends like the buddy you mentioned, I also play computer games for almost 12 hours a day and I don't think it's a negative thing, it's a good thing as long as you are happy doing it :) (there are limits ofcourse)
@@ilikeanimals5015 I just wish I had friends
This video’s dialogue is too realistic for me. It hits me hard.
Look up Julien blanc and owen cook b!tch. Theyre on youtube and the vids are free.
David LG if you want to say something but don't know what you can make metaphores, jokes (be very careful with them), help people, ask them questions, say what the situation reminds you of. You should learn a lot you never know if a fact will be useful in a conversation, situation, metaphore or joke it can be something really random. You should listen, remember as much as you can and use them in future conversations, watch people's behavior.These elements can make the conversation more interesting, longer or help people think of what to do in relationships it can remind them(and you) of stuff.
It's impressive how absorbed people are in their own matters, unwilling to even see the things outside of the purview of their own concerns, such as this guy sitting there, all silent, all alone, feeling completely out of place, having all of this shit pushed onto him... And I say that as an extrovert.
I once saw a girl having a borderline mental breakdown at a festival, right next to her best friend. And no one cared or noticed, they were all busy chatting. Moments like these make you hate people. All people. In general.
This has nothing to do with being introverted, this has everything to do with self-absorbed assholes being inconsiderate of every presence aside from themselves. I'd know, because I once was that doomer, and trust me, the other side is not at all what you think it to be. It's not as bad as you think... but also not as good as you hope either, it just... it is what it is. Be prepared for that, if you want to get out of that shell.
feel like introverts and extroverts arent that different. Both have their only few very close friends and the rest is either surface level or not existant. i think extroverts are just better at keeping the interactions going for longer and see many situations to slip in since they get empowered by said things and are good at knowing what people want to hear and checking the mood aswell as making people like them. introverts have a lack of experience because they get drained too fast with overthinking and evaluating situations/people so much so that they automatically whatever the social setting getting too invested in people hence why they need a time off to reload otherwise its becoming too much of a drag.
@@cheesemaster6463 And don't forget that some introverts are decently good at conversation
@@cheesemaster6463 Introverts differ from extroverts by this that they RECHARGE their energy by being alone for sometime after Recharging they are back to socializing again.
tbh I preferred most of the time to be ignored at those parties instead of beeing in the center of attention...
i cant wait to die alone in an insane asylum
I have been in situations like this one...most of those were when I had to come along to events with my family and awkwardly just stare at my parents talk it out with strangers I've never met...and when they start speaking to me they ask a very general and personal question and I as always give the obvious answer
Bro I cant relationship bubble was too realistic 😭
I really liked Sebastian's thought bubble. It's so good at representing the attempts to figure out who is who in the completely unknown company. That's what I experienced myself a hundred times, yet I did not picture it like that in my head. Very nice!
Вот для меня, кстати, вообще не жизненно. Услышав подобную чепуху, я бы даже не пытался вникнуть, просто уйдя бы к холодильнику)
Yep, relatable
@@zeo7085
Truly relatable.
We've all been there.
This is funny, when me and my then-boyfriend (now husband) invited to some party, we were just standing at the door and looked at each other "you wanna come in or not?", we were both introverts and nerds, we hated parties and after we kept hearing the music from the outside we decided to leave and just had coffees and breads at the cafe nearby then went home
Wow you're cute bro
Nice
That's wholesome, honestly
what country do you come from?
@@user-ej3iw8lw3w uh.. why do you want to know?
It's actually uncomfortable, especially when they talk about making love. I can just imagine myself getting disappointed while listening.
Man, that kind of content is so cool. After me during my life being in all of these roles in the same situations, I can actually see the mistakes that they made. Thank you very much❤(author)
Introverts : The party is not real I am in a dream because I cant even talk with another functional being
@Sense shut up like spamming the same link all over again
Being introvert isn't the same as having social anxiety
@@thomas.thomas completely agree. most people generalize introverts as people that have social anxiety and its infuriating
why am I dreaming?
Big relate..
But ultimately-what helps, is that even if they can talk functionally, doesn't make them a wholeheartedly-functional person. None of us are functional human beings in the end..we are all have stitches, sins and dysfunctional parts of ourselves, that sometimes, only Christ can mend.
There's always an expectation for guys like him to participate in conversations like those, then people get upset when he doesn't. How the hell is he supposed to? A lot of people who socialize more than most tend to lack self-awareness
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Most people don't care about others' well being as long as they're having fun. You kinda can't blame them, look at zoomer. He's having a good time out of an effort put in stepping out of his comfort zone and hitting the folk up, while doomer is being passive and miserable. You can be sad about people not being emphatic and not treating others like toddlers all the time, or you can get better at judging group's worth for you and put your attention where it's worth your time
As an introvert and somewhat of a doomer I’ve experienced this situation quite a few times. If they talk about an event you didn’t participate, ask for details. They’ll love to talk about it directly to you. If they’re telling stories about their group, show that you’re confused and ask things like “wait, who’s that again?” “No way, you did that? You don’t look like someone who would!” Just slip in bits and pieces, and you’ll be part of the group before you know it. If they give out dry answers, then they just didn’t want you there. Try again.
Lol what, have you ever been in a social group before? People don't expect anything from you, if you are quiet, introverted, nobody cares, all everybody wants to do is make eachother laugh, or leave a positive impression off of eachother, other than that they couldn't care less
@@Natimarinhu this assumes that you already know some of the folks in the circle. in which case there is no need to pretend to be impressed by their harmless badinage
why is this so relatable dude, detail, example of what it looks like, and feels, etc. .As a introvert, it is indeed hard.
The fact that these feel even more real and depressing than Bojack Horseman says a lot about the effort you guys put in these videos! They hit so close to home.
LOL, I was invited up to a girl's apartment one time where a small "party" was happening (they saw me from the balcony and invited me). After brief introductions and no effort on their part to include me in their inane conversations, I proceeded to sit alone on the couch watching Seinfeld. The girl told me to turn it back to some stupid music channel and reminded me that I could watch my shows in my own apartment. I got up and did exactly that.
You did yourself a favour, well done
fucking CHAD
Very nice to you
@@CardinalSinner lmao you people are weird dude. If I invited someone to have drinks with a few other people at my place of course I would be upset that this guy starts watching shows on my television because it shows he's not actually interested in me or the other people there. If you don't like it don't come or at least don't pretend llike you like it. Watching a series while other people are sitting around you talking just makes you look like an antisocial elitist douche.
The perfect mindset
I hate it myself when you make an effort and try carrying conversations but the others don’t, you just give up and see they could care less about you.
I just do my own thing and leave when i feel like it
I think that Sebastian is the best character who literally describes the suffering of millennials
Well he does it to himself.
@@leo565j6 exactly
Agree.
@@leo565j6 Being socially isolated isn't always the fault of the person.
@@gibraltar0553 That is true but staying isolated is theirs fault, getting help my be difficult but its essentail to make your life better.
I would have an anxiety attack when they talk about drama
I'm an introvert and this hits me hard.
This video gave me social anxiety.
B
How have u commented hours before the video was uploaded
@@hasaansamad2995 yes indeed strange
@@hasaansamad2995 patreon probably
His vlogging account
I used to relate to this heavily back when I was more introverted. I forgot the vibe of these situations. the awkwardness and the inability to join in on the conversation, the weird stories they would tell and me trying to figure out what they were talking about. now a days I have methods for this as I forced myself to become extroverted. the trick is to talk to the people who have been silent for a while. the girl standing next to the couch for example, n that situation your best bet it to try and talk to her and ask her what's going on. depending on the response is how you proceed. if she has no idea then try and come up with a basic thing to talk about. if she does know then listen to her explain things and then proceed from there.
You are still an introvert. You just emulate being an extroverted. Real extroverts have _no_ strategy behind their doing. They just do.
You kill demons bro don't bullshit me
@@dorn885 i wouldnt really say that they have no strategy, more like it just comes to them naturally
@@timtams_6 no strategy, but a goal. No higher reflection takes place: I want, I get. Its classic charme.
@@timtams_6 That is a strategy when you don't know when to join in a convo you have you see A) who isn't really talking B)who is nearest to you or hell even just talk to whoever you want as long as you dont interupt and ongoing convo and maybe just add to it
I remember when I was a kid in one of the first days of a new year in school.
Some other kid got transfered and I thought it would be nice to tell him that I'm available in case he needed something.
Introduced myself and told him he could ask me anything.
Easiest friend I've ever made. During the first week we got to eachother's houses to play games and even made some permanent trades on some of those.
Dude was totally ok with my need for space and solitude, and totally got it when I wasn't up to something.
I'd say that the key is to find out how eager others are to meet new people.
If you identify someone who's clearly not interested, just walk away.
Bro.. the background music, for some reason its so relatable
This feels so relatable. Sure I may be an introvert with little to no friends but I'd rather play games alone than sit around with a couple of people talking about things I can't relate with.
Sadly, if you want to meet new people you have to risk experiencing something like that. But still I get your point.
Im an introvert and my tip is just to get a bit tipsy at parties and you'll have lots of fun. Dont get insanely drunk tho
Oh and dont smoke weed that gets you paranoid af. Well me anyway
Actually same here the most of my time i play games alone for myself. And I think when there are people around me, it's just annoying for me.
Especially to interact with them I prefer to just listen and think for myself
@@VarietzHD Introvets just get tired after long time being in the group, so they have to get sometimes fresh breath in their alone time.
5:01 Sebastian's thought process is so damn accurate.
yep
Dude that would be me😆
Big thumbs up and love to that person who added Persian/farsi subtitle
Damn. Long time since I was an introvert. It all went poof when I stopped caring about what others thought and just had fun. Talking with people went much smoother. If I do or say anything that makes people uncomfortable, I have learned to talk people down again and/or stop caring if it isnt worth saving.
To be honest, that was the most shitty lame ass party ever, all of them were there because of the free alcohol and food, that’s it.
Those people hold nothing interesting and engaging it’s all about faking that you are interested at that point, while gaslighting each other off like the good friends they are. The gesture was nice from the gym nerd, although he kind of deserted him unintentionally causing the introvert to feel abandoned and out of touch with all the new faces. It’s wrong but I don’t blame him, the intention was good…
I've been in that place before, that's an absolute hell for an introvert specially.
The whole time you're cold sweating wishing the earth just cracks and swallow you immediately rather than being there, the worst part is others unwillingly making you feel bad, awkward and lacking something about fact that you can't relate to them.
The worst is : they fake about being intereted then tell is the most intereting stuff
You summed up %90 percent of the parties(just needed to add the possibility of getting laid tho)
Almost half the population in the west (25 to 40%) are introverts, why are we treating a personality type like its a handicapping disease or disability? Sebastian was always free to stand up and go to the kitchen or start whatever conversation in his vicinity with anybody in the room, but he chose to not so.
I'm an introvert myself, but I know from experience that this is not the same as shyness or social anxiety, which I had also had in the past. Well, the reality for latter is that you only can conquer your fears if you are exposing yourself to it (Behavioural Therapy 101), which I did like Gym dude tried with his friend here.
The most simple answer to "git gud" at social gatherings is, you apply the same game strategy on it: you play until you're actually good. Starting a small talk is as easy as asking genuine questions to ask about their relationships, listening actively, and giving people attention - which we as a species all crave - and it helps to read and watch some current dramas. Especially dramas and "chick flicks", if you want to know about female interactions and what topics they are up to these days. The rest is really "people science" which you gather along the road of all these interactions. You get to know personality types and common tropes and fallacies.
If anybody wants a head start in this field, you can read "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie
@@minzblatt Because people want to act like being a introvert is something unique or special which it isn't. Theres plenty of people who are just like that. However some just have odd expectations of people, nobody is gonna gravitate to you for no reason.
the monotone soulless TTS voices enhanced the video by a factor of a million. actually represented how shit it feels to be thrown in a room with a bunch of strange and uninteresting people, good shit MT.
Stop blaming other people
@@baylego preach
@@baylego bars not there fault you have no social skills
@@baylego 👨🦯
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I don't know man but I think that this should be playing in schools for education about world, problems, people and much more. You deserve a lot more attencion for masterpieces you are making. You always isnpire me a lot. Keep doing these great stories, much love!
I love how relatable this is
Honestly my extroverted friends making me go out to parties and stuff like that saved my life. I was introverted to the maximum degree and they forced me out of that shell and it worked for the best
i guess you're somewhat lucky then. My friends never really pressure me into doing things like this. On occasion, when i'm at an event with other people, I'll go try to find someone to socialize with on my own, but I have basically never attended a house party like this. Then again, my friends probably never pressure me into doing these things because they figure out that it's damn near impossible to peer pressure me into doing something that I don't want to do.
Same, and it even got me a job working on events and concerts. Hanging with "the life of the party" sort of people made me realise - its just not my scene and that's fine, and its ok that people just like to party
@jersey jake stop the 🧢
@@yamclapper2504 why do you think it's 🧢 ?
You guys having friends ??
God, I can't count all the times I felt uncomfortable in a "party" like this and ended up texting my dad to call me as to make it look like there was some kind of emergency or something for me to leave without seeming rude.
Nice trick , some times in this situations , I just leave , walking 4 hours in the middle of night to get home at morning and go to sleep is better than forcing myself to be where I don't want to
Protip: Just be rude. You don't owe anything to these people who totally don't care about your existence. Self love is aways better than forced relationships and, if you have any friend that really matters, f#ck off with parties and go focus on this friend. Just say you don't like parties and go out to do something with who really matters.
My highschool life in a nutshell. Being at parties where you don’t talk for 5 hours straight…
A good moral I learned is "I was waiting for my life to change, until I realized, my life was waiting for me to change"