Hey! have you joined the High Vibe Tribe yet? its my new free community! I go live and do free workshops and meditations in there, join here! aarondoughty.com/highvibetribe
When the night gets dark , and the sky gives a lightening spark, Heaven would shower us with rain , To wash and heal the pain , Wonders and miracles we see again ...
Wisdom tells me I am nothing. Love tells me I am everything. And between the two my life flows. Nisargadatta Maharaj To explain , love tells us that we are one with everything or everything and everyone is us from inside reflected outside ...As within , so without ... All is one and one is all . Wisdom or enlightenment tell us that we are nothing as to not be identified by anything .We are what we choose to be and nothing can define us if we do not allow it ...
Just so true! I was "manifesting" a SP for over 1 year and then I grew within that time and healed so much and started putting the focus on myself and my self-love, I was not attracted anymore to this person and I realized I lost myself in him. Not anymore, that's over 😊
Yesss, this happened to me too, and he hadn’t grown at all in the time we were not in contact but I had. I was blinded for so long (years) and I was repulsed by quite a few things when he came back.
@@thedelliesful some people are only familiar with the unhealed version of us who was blinded and accepted/tolerated their behaviour. They aren't worthy of the healed version of us and can't go where we are going. We're levelling up Queen 👑
This is so true. My parents kept me codependent with abuse and I keep looking for partners to save me who end up abandoning like my dad did. And I keep trying to prove them I’m worthy. I think my lesson is independence and finding safety within myself not others. I’ve been practicing this for two years. I’m learning slowly. Thank you for always posting at the right times. Because of your videos I get through my daily 5 am walks in the cold Canadian temps outside haha. 🤣
Before I got sober, I was drawn to people who depended on me just to make sure I wouldn't be abandoned. I got bored very quickly and I abandoned these guys. When i got sober I started attracting emotionally unavailable people instead. When sober I rather chased to getting high on dopamine. At the same time I was too scared to get close to a person. I was afraid to show my true self. My addictive tendencies have been active even when I got sober. I realize now I just switched addictions . Today I work on the relationchip to my self. Thanks for sharing this video! It’s only gets better and better 😃🙏🏻💫
You will notice that all the success stories shared by manifestation coaches say ‘my client’s SP came back but she realised he wasn’t what she wanted anymore and she went on to marry the love of her life in just 6 months’. So, the clients are not getting what they originally asked for and the coach probably knew this all along. In fact, this is probably the outcome they want - they’re lowkey undoing your pattern without explicitly telling you. Funnily enough, that’s what the good coaches will do anyway, at least you’ll end up with what you’re worth.
You just freed me from keeping on trying to manifest my SP. I don't want him anymore. Really. Thanks, this video is BOMB !!! Something really just clicked within me, and I honestly do not want him anymore!!! And I feel good about it.
I just made the link between my childhood and having an unavailable person. Thanks so much ❤ I love having this realization on something from 30 years ago.
That was difficult to listen to..... Yet crucial if one really wants to break through the subconscious familiarity and grow into something more mentally and emotionally healthy. Yes,, the first step to empowerment is admitting that one is really seeking an old, out dated energy pattern from childhood and not that of an actual person being missed. Aaron nails it!
Yes . I’m under ketamine listening so it HITS different…with me it IS a pattern . Specific pattern . Nothing more than that . 😮and yea he does nail it . Makes one think ❤
Have been a subscriber for a number of years, and have found great value and wisdom from your videos. At 68, I am so grateful to you for assisting me to see patterns present throughout my life, so that I am finally free of restrictions and repetitive behaviour. You are a wise man Aaron. Many thanks and am sending you and your subs much love and light.💓✨️🙏
Each person in our life will mirror our wounds/patterns. Everyone teaches us something about ourselves that we need to heal💫🦋 Appreciate you Aaron and All you do for the collective 🙏✌️🐦🔥
I have been watching Aaron’s videos for quite some time now & now I can see why he says we always fight for what is familiar which the root word would be FAMILY I recently joined a few clubs where we are accountable & get to discuss topics on relationships & everything in between 🔥🐦🔥
For those obsessing over an SP its usually because they made you feel unsafe. Please please don't try to manifest anyone, that did not make you feel anything other than loved, valued and appreciated. I 100% guarantee you they are NOT your SP.
I’ve listened to your videos every time they come out and you’ve repeated a lot of things over and over. For some reason I just had this urge to continuously listen to the same lessons over and over and with this video I finally had a break through. I mean I have understood what you have talked about before, but now I really get it. I’m holding an energetic pattern that’s missing a puzzle piece, and I’m just attracting people that fit this messed up pattern. So now I need to find or fill in this missing puzzle piece that makes me feel whole and create a new pattern that attracts something better for me that’s more whole. Or something like that.
Aaron,I’ve just stumbled on your channel and it was Divine Intervention! I’ve had such quick awakening since thinking about your ideas. The Frame, Ho’Oponopono and now this SP Concept. Thank you for your honesty, authenticity and vulnerability. All things I’m embodying and really inculcating (or better still uncovering) in myself. ❤️🌹❤️
This makes perfect sense, I do think you need to be healed enough to really understand what your saying I hope everyone receives clarity and understanding on this beautiful message you have put here for us today. Ty for this it really made me see some things from a place of clarity as I am in the surrender phase now.
Dude… this is the greatest vid ever!! She’s not my specific person… she’s my specific pattern. F$&k this blew my mind. Thank you thank you thank you!!!
I love you Aaron but somehow I feel you just injected a whole load of resistance and disbelief in many. I completely agree of the letting go part to a level- you have to imagine, feel and I mean really feel your manifestation then let go and expect it to be delivered/done. But saying that wanting an SP,whomever that may be, is a childhood pattern and that you need to get rid of it is just silly. What happened to unlimited universes, that offers you the very idea that in one version of it you are living your happily ever after with your SP, or the power of your imagination, that you can imagine whatever you want and it can be possible just by imagining it with all your senses- feel it, touch it, taste it, see it to really make that idea a reality. More to the point what if you don’t know your SP. You met the person once you talked to them and had a good vibe but for whatever reason you didn’t have the chance to make a move but a week or so later the person is still in your vibration. So you decided to shift- to a reality where you can explore that potential even further. So I say people you just carry on manifesting your SP. Be mindful about it, don’t obsess about it - but then again that’s the same advice you’d get if you manifested a button 🤷🏻♀️ have faith in you, the universe and trust and expect it to be done and it shall be yours. In the meantime be grateful, see and seek joy every day and have fun! 🫶🏻
I was raised by a narcissist mother who suffered a great deal of childhood trauma herself. As a teenager and as an adult I’ve always been attracted to girls/women who have a lot of trauma. I’m an empath, INFJ, highly sensitive person, and a healer so I have a strong desire to want to “fix” or somehow help those women. I’ve learned to be careful and look out for victim-minded narcissistic women because I know that they cannot be helped unless they truly want to help themselves. That doesn’t stop the desire to want to heal them. Not all women with trauma are victim narcissists but many of them are. It’s a dilemma.
I have the same dilemma with pickleball! I don’t go to the gym as much bc I’m spending so many hours playing and it is so addictive. Very impactful insights on the inner child patterns. Why the hell would I want someone to treat me with the same shitty treatment I got as a kid? Being dismissed and made to feel unimportant and ignored. It did shape me into the bomb ass person I am today but I don’t need that anymore. Thank you
This is insane to me. I just got some results. I was just in your 21 day challenge and I’m also in college at university in Boulder Colorado so I didn’t make it to all of the lives because I’m just so busy . . . This is so corny, but just after I watched this video, the man who I care for deeply and don’t want to lose texted me and wants to see me tomorrow. During the video I started crying but I really felt a release. I started to feel free. I haven’t seen him in 3 and a half months since we broke up. He only texts me when I detach. It’s like magic. I’ve been listening to the song “you make lovin fun” and there’s a part about believing in miracles. I like to call it ‘entering unity consciousness’ and it’s uncanny. The honoponopono never worked for me until I heard the way you described it in this video. but I feel I was able to select the timeline I wanted due to your LOA teachings. Now I just feel curious to find out if this is the right path for me.
Wisdom tells me I am nothing. Love tells me I am everything. And between the two my life flows. Nisargadatta Maharaj To explain , love tells us that we are one with everything or everything and everyone is us from inside reflected outside ...As within , so without ... All is one and one is all . Wisdom or enlightenment tell us that we are nothing as to not be identified by anything .We are what we choose to be and nothing can define us if we do not allow it ...
Good analogy and helps to process properly and heal completely. Definitely not wanting the old SP in my now environment. Appreciate your educative frankness Aaron.!
Love you and this. So bang on. I’ve finally let go of “wanting” a guy who actually made me feel like shit. Just repeated what had with my mum. Constant sense of “lack” and not beign good enough. But ultimately it came down to a dopamine chase - which had to let go of. Just “chasing” now the serotonin i.e present moment and accepting. That I’m not really gonna have relationships at the moment… But trusting they’ll come at the right time! Also like the part about letting go of the energy and the true divine in. Not religious but I liken it just to allowing energy in from the universe and just going with it. Thanks for this xxx
Big big truth to that. It’s a needed trigger to help you work on a better you and putting yourself in a stratosphere way beyond where those who hurt you are.
Literally, just bumped into my ex and felt nothing, it’s just the memories and nostalgia of the past, if I tried to hook up with him now it wouldn’t feel the same
Agree to disagree. It is what you believe it is and feeling is the secret, right? So if you already have it then it’s yours. I see your point of view and it’s pretty valid but you manifest what you are.
Exactly. And what he is saying would only apply if it were an ex and even then it’s only a possibility. People are constantly manifesting sp that didn’t know who they were and vice versa It’s literally how people meet and start dating. Everyone is an SP! 😂
God speaks to the natural man in the language of desire. Change the concept you have of a man and you have changed that man. I believe this is the reality of those who are especially in close proximity to us.We are all connected. Those who are closest to us mirror us almost exactly. That’s why they get that close. The more you ruminate on what happened in your past the less room there is for something new to happen let alone what it is you want. Time doesn’t exist. Theres a story in Joe Dispenza’s Becoming Supernatural book where he talks about one of his mystical experiences, basically he traveled forwards in time and was observing himself, really admiring himself, sending love to himself. And what do you know, at the exact moment his past self was observing his now present self (when Joe was now in that present moment) all the sudden he was over come with love. And he made the connection. This story gave me even more evidence of the whole, “your desires are for you thing”. All those spontaneous positive feelings come from a source who’s to say it’s not from your future self showing what’s really for you. What already exists. I understand what Aaron’s talking about. If we have a real heart desire for something and we decide to release that pattern from ourselves. If those we are closest to truly mirror us then they will mirror our release of fear back to us. Letting go of their barriers to love as well.
I could not have articulated it better! It's like it's easier to attract someone if there's someone else you fancy... And you use them as motivation to get in your frame...
When the night gets dark , and the sky gives a lightening spark, Heaven would shower us with rain , To wash and heal the pain , Wonders and miracles we see again ...
Cant record now,thanksss ❤ JJ,just time out in Buddha pujanita festivals annurslly held in our place..28Buddha images processed in car for 7days people,all happy
I seen the title and said, "yeah I know but I can hang onto my image of him while I find my path. It serves me." Nothing and no one ever is, true? 😅🙁🤗 Thank you, Aaron.
It's really hard to detach at first when there is no safety. Thank you for teaching me things no one else will. It's not something a counselor or therapist, not many take the time to do for their own reasons/expectations.
For me personally, I feel completely fine and it seems as though it's hard to relate to anybody because nobody else seems fine; if that makes sense. Like where tf do I find people who are just... 'normal' happy to be alive people who aren't stuck on something superficial or surface level all the time.
But the critical step, like in 12 Step programs is to admit that not only are you powerless over these thoughts about the “SP” but the thoughts have made your life UNMANAGEABLE. The critical step is to realize the unmanageability, and that’s the hard part because once you realize that you will have to think different. I could have accepted my maladaptive drinking, but unless I recognized its effect on my life, i would just keep on drinking,
i dont think she have some bad pattern, the problem was inside of me. I was depressed for 4 years and i had anxiety, so i think i lost her to be better me. I healed from everythink within month and now im on my spiritual way. But i still love her. Now i know i wouldnt be attached to her and not even jealous.
But I don't understand because I had a good childhood. I'm not fighting for him, I know he isn't good for me. But everyday I wish he is healthy and happy 😊 I wish that to him so so much.
so today i got alil disappointed because this guy i really like wasn’t too interested in going to the splatter studio with me on sunday. he rather watch football on Sunday. understandable lol. but instead of getting upset i invited my best friend. i sat with the disappointment i went shopping and had a good conversation with a retired teacher in the store (im in school to become a teacher) then i went home to do some course work. i got inspired to bring the focus back on me. later tonight he texted me something random in which i responded pleasantly and he liked one of my facebook post. i’m really not disappointed anymore. i detached & i’m still gonna have fun with my bestie on sunday ❤
I can't believe I was fighting for SP!!! I deserve so much better but it never was about any person but it always was the same familiar childhood pattern😮
Here is the law regarding “vampires” , they can only enter if invited by the owner of the home “ your body “ . If you realize you are dealing with a vampire remember this rule .
I just don't understand why people want to go backwards instead of forward. No way do I or would I ever want to go back to a relationship that didn't work in the first place 🙄.
Hey! have you joined the High Vibe Tribe yet? its my new free community! I go live and do free workshops and meditations in there, join here! aarondoughty.com/highvibetribe
When the night gets dark ,
and the sky gives a lightening spark,
Heaven would shower us with rain ,
To wash and heal the pain ,
Wonders and miracles we see again ...
Wisdom tells me I am nothing. Love tells me I am everything. And between the two my life flows.
Nisargadatta Maharaj
To explain , love tells us that we are one with everything or everything and everyone is us from inside reflected outside ...As within , so without ...
All is one and one is all .
Wisdom or enlightenment tell us that we are nothing as to not be identified by anything .We are what we choose to be and nothing can define us if we do not allow it ...
Hi Aaron, you look very tired and lowkey sad. Hope everything is fine!
Do you not know how manifestation works Aaron? 😂
What is the name of the German therapy?
Just so true! I was "manifesting" a SP for over 1 year and then I grew within that time and healed so much and started putting the focus on myself and my self-love, I was not attracted anymore to this person and I realized I lost myself in him. Not anymore, that's over 😊
I hope to get there soon 😔
I had the same experience. Levelled up and then saw the truth about 'sp' and was no longer attracted to their behaviour. It repulsed me.
Yesss, this happened to me too, and he hadn’t grown at all in the time we were not in contact but I had. I was blinded for so long (years) and I was repulsed by quite a few things when he came back.
@@thedelliesful some people are only familiar with the unhealed version of us who was blinded and accepted/tolerated their behaviour. They aren't worthy of the healed version of us and can't go where we are going. We're levelling up Queen 👑
This is so true. My parents kept me codependent with abuse and I keep looking for partners to save me who end up abandoning like my dad did. And I keep trying to prove them I’m worthy. I think my lesson is independence and finding safety within myself not others. I’ve been practicing this for two years. I’m learning slowly. Thank you for always posting at the right times. Because of your videos I get through my daily 5 am walks in the cold Canadian temps outside haha. 🤣
Fellow Canadian in British Columbia. 😊
@ hello neighbour ! I’m in Alberta. :)
Before I got sober, I was drawn to people who depended on me just to make sure I wouldn't be abandoned. I got bored very quickly and I abandoned these guys. When i got sober I started attracting emotionally unavailable people instead. When sober I rather chased to getting high on dopamine. At the same time I was too scared to get close to a person. I was afraid to show my true self. My addictive tendencies have been active even when I got sober. I realize now I just switched addictions . Today I work on the relationchip to my self.
Thanks for sharing this video! It’s only gets better and better 😃🙏🏻💫
You will notice that all the success stories shared by manifestation coaches say ‘my client’s SP came back but she realised he wasn’t what she wanted anymore and she went on to marry the love of her life in just 6 months’. So, the clients are not getting what they originally asked for and the coach probably knew this all along. In fact, this is probably the outcome they want - they’re lowkey undoing your pattern without explicitly telling you. Funnily enough, that’s what the good coaches will do anyway, at least you’ll end up with what you’re worth.
You just freed me from keeping on trying to manifest my SP. I don't want him anymore. Really. Thanks, this video is BOMB !!! Something really just clicked within me, and I honestly do not want him anymore!!! And I feel good about it.
A TH-camr I listen to says " YOU are the SP" and now it means so much more
Which TH-camr is that?
Everything outside is a reflection of u from the inside ...
@@sofifl he just took his channel down so he could relaunch his new one...I can check back with you when it's back up 😁
I just made the link between my childhood and having an unavailable person. Thanks so much ❤ I love having this realization on something from 30 years ago.
That was difficult to listen to..... Yet crucial if one really wants to break through the subconscious familiarity and grow into something more mentally and emotionally healthy. Yes,, the first step to empowerment is admitting that one is really seeking an old, out dated energy pattern from childhood and not that of an actual person being missed. Aaron nails it!
Yes . I’m under ketamine listening so it HITS different…with me it IS a pattern . Specific pattern . Nothing more than that . 😮and yea he does nail it . Makes one think ❤
Family constellation work is incredible. Its so good for EVERYONE.
it's apparent Aaron did so much guided deep work on himself ...so helpful especially for those not able to get therapy by themselves
"Specific pattern"--YES!! Understanding our attachment style and healing our attachment wounds is key.
Have been a subscriber for a number of years, and have found great value and wisdom from your videos. At 68, I am so grateful to you for assisting me to see patterns present throughout my life, so that I am finally free of restrictions and repetitive behaviour.
You are a wise man Aaron. Many thanks and am sending you and your subs much love and light.💓✨️🙏
Each person in our life will mirror our wounds/patterns. Everyone teaches us something about ourselves that we need to heal💫🦋 Appreciate you Aaron and All you do for the collective 🙏✌️🐦🔥
I have been watching Aaron’s videos for quite some time now & now I can see why he says we always fight for what is familiar which the root word would be FAMILY I recently joined a few clubs where we are accountable & get to discuss topics on relationships & everything in between 🔥🐦🔥
For those obsessing over an SP its usually because they made you feel unsafe. Please please don't try to manifest anyone, that did not make you feel anything other than loved, valued and appreciated. I 100% guarantee you they are NOT your SP.
Aaron. I’m crying. Wow. Full body chills. Familiarized emotion from the past
I love this video so much!! So spot on! I'm glad to finally see a spiritual TH-camr calling this out! 💯
Hi! These videos are so profound. I’m a therapist and I’m going through your awesome work and forwarding to clients. You are spot on my friend!!
This was needed! Perfect timing Aaron 😊
you grew so much over the past years and it is so beautiful to witness ;)
I’ve listened to your videos every time they come out and you’ve repeated a lot of things over and over. For some reason I just had this urge to continuously listen to the same lessons over and over and with this video I finally had a break through. I mean I have understood what you have talked about before, but now I really get it. I’m holding an energetic pattern that’s missing a puzzle piece, and I’m just attracting people that fit this messed up pattern. So now I need to find or fill in this missing puzzle piece that makes me feel whole and create a new pattern that attracts something better for me that’s more whole. Or something like that.
5 mins in and I already feel relieved. Thank you so much
Thank you for being you and your "ADD-ish" quirks. Starting with conversations about SP and ending with leg day and surfing ...BRILLIANT!!
Thank you Aaron!! Pattern makes so much more sense than person!! Even just hearing the word, brought instant clarity!
Aaron,I’ve just stumbled on your channel and it was Divine Intervention! I’ve had such quick awakening since thinking about your ideas. The Frame, Ho’Oponopono and now this SP Concept. Thank you for your honesty, authenticity and vulnerability. All things I’m embodying and really inculcating (or better still uncovering) in myself. ❤️🌹❤️
This makes perfect sense, I do think you need to be healed enough to really understand what your saying I hope everyone receives clarity and understanding on this beautiful message you have put here for us today. Ty for this it really made me see some things from a place of clarity as I am in the surrender phase now.
The SP explanation was amazing. I can now move on.
Dude… this is the greatest vid ever!! She’s not my specific person… she’s my specific pattern. F$&k this blew my mind. Thank you thank you thank you!!!
I love you Aaron but somehow I feel you just injected a whole load of resistance and disbelief in many.
I completely agree of the letting go part to a level- you have to imagine, feel and I mean really feel your manifestation then let go and expect it to be delivered/done.
But saying that wanting an SP,whomever that may be, is a childhood pattern and that you need to get rid of it is just silly.
What happened to unlimited universes, that offers you the very idea that in one version of it you are living your happily ever after with your SP, or the power of your imagination, that you can imagine whatever you want and it can be possible just by imagining it with all your senses- feel it, touch it, taste it, see it to really make that idea a reality.
More to the point what if you don’t know your SP. You met the person once you talked to them and had a good vibe but for whatever reason you didn’t have the chance to make a move but a week or so later the person is still in your vibration. So you decided to shift- to a reality where you can explore that potential even further.
So I say people you just carry on manifesting your SP. Be mindful about it, don’t obsess about it - but then again that’s the same advice you’d get if you manifested a button 🤷🏻♀️ have faith in you, the universe and trust and expect it to be done and it shall be yours. In the meantime be grateful, see and seek joy every day and have fun! 🫶🏻
This
As in a course of maracles says.... if you think you are better in another place that it is not " Now" you are manifesting from a sense of lack
I totally agree with you! Thank you for this nuanced and wise answer.
For my self I stop watching this video and move on. 🙏🥰
😊😅😮 you had me at "I want to be nice about this" I love how honest you are that's better than being nice about it.
Nailed it dude! Right on!
I was raised by a narcissist mother who suffered a great deal of childhood trauma herself. As a teenager and as an adult I’ve always been attracted to girls/women who have a lot of trauma. I’m an empath, INFJ, highly sensitive person, and a healer so I have a strong desire to want to “fix” or somehow help those women. I’ve learned to be careful and look out for victim-minded narcissistic women because I know that they cannot be helped unless they truly want to help themselves. That doesn’t stop the desire to want to heal them. Not all women with trauma are victim narcissists but many of them are. It’s a dilemma.
I have the same dilemma with pickleball! I don’t go to the gym as much bc I’m spending so many hours playing and it is so addictive.
Very impactful insights on the inner child patterns. Why the hell would I want someone to treat me with the same shitty treatment I got as a kid? Being dismissed and made to feel unimportant and ignored. It did shape me into the bomb ass person I am today but I don’t need that anymore. Thank you
This is insane to me. I just got some results. I was just in your 21 day challenge and I’m also in college at university in Boulder Colorado so I didn’t make it to all of the lives because I’m just so busy . . . This is so corny, but just after I watched this video, the man who I care for deeply and don’t want to lose texted me and wants to see me tomorrow. During the video I started crying but I really felt a release. I started to feel free. I haven’t seen him in 3 and a half months since we broke up. He only texts me when I detach. It’s like magic. I’ve been listening to the song “you make lovin fun” and there’s a part about believing in miracles. I like to call it ‘entering unity consciousness’ and it’s uncanny. The honoponopono never worked for me until I heard the way you described it in this video. but I feel I was able to select the timeline I wanted due to your LOA teachings. Now I just feel curious to find out if this is the right path for me.
Wisdom tells me I am nothing. Love tells me I am everything. And between the two my life flows.
Nisargadatta Maharaj
To explain , love tells us that we are one with everything or everything and everyone is us from inside reflected outside ...As within , so without ...
All is one and one is all .
Wisdom or enlightenment tell us that we are nothing as to not be identified by anything .We are what we choose to be and nothing can define us if we do not allow it ...
Good analogy and helps to process properly and heal completely. Definitely not wanting the old SP in my now environment. Appreciate your educative frankness Aaron.!
On point...and down the rabbit hole we go..
ThankU Aaron! Brilliant again! Love "pattern for person"
you're my favorite content creator love
Wow! This was so helpful! Thanks Aaron! You’re defo doin your service to humanity 🎉
Wow, Mind blowing!!!! You’re awesome , thank you for making us see through our soul ❤️
This was helpful. Thank you Aaron ❤❤
We chase what we lacked in childhood.....mine eas chasing attention and recognition. Tidsy i chase unavailable men who dont love me back.
Great insight,Aaron! Thank you!❤
Today was the best timing to hear this message. Thank you Aaron🤍
Love you and this. So bang on. I’ve finally let go of “wanting” a guy who actually made me feel like shit. Just repeated what had with my mum. Constant sense of “lack” and not beign good enough. But ultimately it came down to a dopamine chase - which had to let go of. Just “chasing” now the serotonin i.e present moment and accepting. That I’m not really gonna have relationships at the moment… But trusting they’ll come at the right time! Also like the part about letting go of the energy and the true divine in. Not religious but I liken it just to allowing energy in from the universe and just going with it. Thanks for this xxx
One of the best videos you've ever made imo 👏
After healing, we are not even attracted to those people anymore, different energy now, different kind of people too are attracted to you.
Even when I was in a higher thought sphere, I did get dragged back down into being attracted to a "pattern" person, we must keep ever vigilante
💯
Big big truth to that. It’s a needed trigger to help you work on a better you and putting yourself in a stratosphere way beyond where those who hurt you are.
Literally, just bumped into my ex and felt nothing, it’s just the memories and nostalgia of the past, if I tried to hook up with him now it wouldn’t feel the same
Heyyyy,welcome back JJ,thank youuu😮❤
Perfect timing
Agree to disagree. It is what you believe it is and feeling is the secret, right? So if you already have it then it’s yours. I see your point of view and it’s pretty valid but you manifest what you are.
Exactly. And what he is saying would only apply if it were an ex and even then it’s only a possibility. People are constantly manifesting sp that didn’t know who they were and vice versa
It’s literally how people meet and start dating. Everyone is an SP! 😂
God speaks to the natural man in the language of desire. Change the concept you have of a man and you have changed that man. I believe this is the reality of those who are especially in close proximity to us.We are all connected. Those who are closest to us mirror us almost exactly. That’s why they get that close. The more you ruminate on what happened in your past the less room there is for something new to happen let alone what it is you want. Time doesn’t exist. Theres a story in Joe Dispenza’s Becoming Supernatural book where he talks about one of his mystical experiences, basically he traveled forwards in time and was observing himself, really admiring himself, sending love to himself. And what do you know, at the exact moment his past self was observing his now present self (when Joe was now in that present moment) all the sudden he was over come with love. And he made the connection. This story gave me even more evidence of the whole, “your desires are for you thing”. All those spontaneous positive feelings come from a source who’s to say it’s not from your future self showing what’s really for you. What already exists. I understand what Aaron’s talking about. If we have a real heart desire for something and we decide to release that pattern from ourselves. If those we are closest to truly mirror us then they will mirror our release of fear back to us. Letting go of their barriers to love as well.
Ditto
I could not have articulated it better! It's like it's easier to attract someone if there's someone else you fancy... And you use them as motivation to get in your frame...
When the night gets dark ,
and the sky gives a lightening spark,
Heaven would shower us with rain ,
To wash and heal the pain ,
Wonders and miracles we see again ...
Yesss someone had to say it! Agree 100% with this
This is profound, thank you 😊 🙏
Wow, profound, thank you brother.
Right now my SP is me! 💖😊💖
Your SP is you, always. That's why you attracted them and want to attract them again if they have left.
@@NZee-jk4kw True! … But, I just meant that I’m taking a little break from dating and focusing only on myself for right now. 😊
I just went to the "Little Sedona" convention last month. This is the universe telling me I need to take a trip to Sedona.
Thank you for speaking truth to codependency ❤️❤️❤️❤️😘
This is amazing, and you are so right!
You gained a subscriber forever! This is so eye opening. I love this side of YT !
where would we be without the internet.
Cant record now,thanksss ❤ JJ,just time out in Buddha pujanita festivals annurslly held in our place..28Buddha images processed in car for 7days people,all happy
I seen the title and said, "yeah I know but I can hang onto my image of him while I find my path. It serves me." Nothing and no one ever is, true? 😅🙁🤗 Thank you, Aaron.
It's really hard to detach at first when there is no safety. Thank you for teaching me things no one else will. It's not something a counselor or therapist, not many take the time to do for their own reasons/expectations.
My mom gave me a tomato plant of hers that was outside, it came with a caterpillar friend. Reminded me of the transformation butterfly.
German, family reconciliation?😮
16:16 🤔💭 hmm not anymore 😮😃
This was a great video!!
I wanna see you surf!! 😊✨
Great video by the way!! 😊
Aaaron by this video u cured my anxiety a lot
Advertising that drink was great 👍 completely through me off what you were saying!
Sometimes, our attraction to a specific person might stem from where we are emotionally or mentally at a certain time. Cmiiw
this format of videos suits me a lot
For me personally, I feel completely fine and it seems as though it's hard to relate to anybody because nobody else seems fine; if that makes sense. Like where tf do I find people who are just... 'normal' happy to be alive people who aren't stuck on something superficial or surface level all the time.
I m back home got 10mnts rain in wet,Super day,every day ceremony JJ,..great time
Very energetic sharing ,thanksss, Authenticity ❤
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I did the same retreat in Sedona “life changing” seemed a little freaky but it’s real!
Yup. I always get attached to the girls I like and This is the reason .
Try loving and accepting them for who they are instead of getting *attached* to them 😉
SP ... Specific Pattern... Brilliant!
Enjoying this type of content
But the critical step, like in 12 Step programs is to admit that not only are you powerless over these thoughts about the “SP” but the thoughts have made your life UNMANAGEABLE.
The critical step is to realize the unmanageability, and that’s the hard part because once you realize that you will have to think different.
I could have accepted my maladaptive drinking, but unless I recognized its effect on my life, i would just keep on drinking,
You're a gem💎
Specific Gem 💎
i dont think she have some bad pattern, the problem was inside of me. I was depressed for 4 years and i had anxiety, so i think i lost her to be better me. I healed from everythink within month and now im on my spiritual way. But i still love her. Now i know i wouldnt be attached to her and not even jealous.
Felt blessed on 19October JJ❤
Love the shirt!
Cool JJ gym,Surfing 🌊 alternately depends
Thank you Aaron I love you
But I don't understand because I had a good childhood. I'm not fighting for him, I know he isn't good for me. But everyday I wish he is healthy and happy 😊 I wish that to him so so much.
great video as always, I would suggest people looking into this to read 'Magnetic Aura' from Talesio
Just wear 2 pairs of socks to bed and ignore everything else 🟩
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so today i got alil disappointed because this guy i really like wasn’t too interested in going to the splatter studio with me on sunday. he rather watch football on Sunday. understandable lol. but instead of getting upset i invited my best friend. i sat with the disappointment i went shopping and had a good conversation with a retired teacher in the store (im in school to become a teacher) then i went home to do some course work. i got inspired to bring the focus back on me. later tonight he texted me something random in which i responded pleasantly and he liked one of my facebook post. i’m really not disappointed anymore. i detached & i’m still gonna have fun with my bestie on sunday ❤
you got a new sub
Since you are a divine vessel or temple of God , u are everything and lack nothing...
But you use loa to attract the commited and changed version of the SP not the same old version. So they conform to be with you.
I can't believe I was fighting for SP!!! I deserve so much better but it never was about any person but it always was the same familiar childhood pattern😮
Have a great day 😘 JJ,artartantattt..ahanhan, Bonaparte,fav lunch..Namaste ❤😅)
Here is the law regarding “vampires” , they can only enter if invited by the owner of the home “ your body “ . If you realize you are dealing with a vampire remember this rule .
to be honest I always thought I had to be my own "specific person" It just gets tiring with life though you know.
For the people who struggle with attraction, maybe you should give a read on a book named Magnetic Aura from Talesio!
Wow🎉🎉🎉🎉finely someone to blow it out❤
So good topic'SP'😮❤
Holy…..okay this resonated. Jeezu Cristo … god we humans really do this thou 😂
Need on repeat 🎉
I just don't understand why people want to go backwards instead of forward. No way do I or would I ever want to go back to a relationship that didn't work in the first place 🙄.