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Aww thanks for making this a free community to join. Honestly, I can’t afford another subscription or service in this life. But been looking to connect to others and share thoughts. That’s really kind of you Aaron!
@@douaae6319 It minds that if you are Kind, you are without an Agenda, if you are Nice to everyone there might be an Agenda behind, meaning that Kind is more Genuine and real than being Nice.
I learned alot about energy that people put off when my fiance died.when I showed up and waited with his body for the coroner.I felt that missing energy that I never even realized was there until it was gone.I was searching all around him for that energy that I always felt around him and I found it to be the weirdest feeling when he no longer put that energy off.Even when I laid my hand on him it was just gone.I found that to be the oddest feeling. That's when I realized that our bodies are just a shell.
I did too feel the absence of energy when my son Dylan died unexpectedly 7 weeks ago F29. My body and brain continuously seek his energy, and life source. This is the most surreal and painful experience It feels like the entangled particles of the cells Dylan left in me before he was born, as all children do, are looking for their counterparts and are in a state of chaos because they can’t find them living and have lost communication.
@@HeavenlyLights I am truly happy for you, but not speaking spiritually, I am talking about actual physical energetic neuron panic in my body, it truly is unusual physical feeling
This came at a good time as a nice reminder, because for three years I waited for who I thought was the love of my life (and he said I was) long distance to travel towards me. Yesterday, I wrote him a gratitude text for being in my life at a time of need after my divorce and sent him love and truly cried and let go of my grip on him because since he travels for work, the communication has been very hot and cold and I can’t do this anymore to myself and feel he is barely hanging onto me with a text once a week. I think the best way to send energy IF you can’t stop thinking about someone is to send a burst of love or “hugging” energy, and then let go. It’s a nice way to get closure as well. I am ready to surrender and stop day dreaming about a life together as much as I have been over the years and I know he will feel that surrender too in whatever way that means for him. I just want him to be happy now as I find my happiness.
@@waterlilynymph oh wow…. Same thing happened to me. I’m crying reading this. To know that someone went through basically the same thing .Having to let this person go in spite of having only good times together… but knowing that when we were apart he could barely hang on with the hot and cold communication…. I felt like he had me “ on reserve”… finally I said “ no more” and I ended it. I know I have to cut the thinking about him. But get this …. Last night had a dream about him. God…. please end this chapter once and for all… I pray. 🙏
I hug you gently, you're not alone, I've felt the same, also for 3 years :)))) now I'm also open to new real love of my life. :) I wish you luck and happiness and love! 🤗🤗🤗
OMG! LITERALLY MY ENERGY KNOWS This RULE FOR 10 years! But I met my twin flame 🔥 & all of a sudden my trauma (that I work on often & letting go) started smothering my thoughts of this guy. So much I could feel it pushing him. He’s also an empath and can feel my energy when we are apart. Long story short - I am listening again to this & know this, took a deep breath & let go, chuckled a bit because I haven’t stop going back to this place and just like that… Within 2 minutes I got a text. I also did the same thing yesterday & again took a breath- let go and within seconds a phone call. Take your deep breaths, laugh & think of anything else cut that thought cord. I promise it always works! You are the most important person & you validate YOU! Namaste. ❤
This explains why I have a strong desire to separate myself from toxic family members. I feel a string of connection to my mother but it's painful and keeps me in a dark place mentally. The negative identity she puts on to me(through how she she treats me) holds me back from my highest vibration because I believe what she says, she is my mother. I have to break free and believe what I say, I have to become my own mother.
Ive been through this and im sure many people have because they’re family and blood is thicker than water right? WRONG. That’s the manipulation. People only love you depending on how much they can control you. It was hard to say no in the beginning because I love my family but I realise That “love” is what they used against me. The day i said no to them i saw their true colors. You have to break away for your own happiness/sanity. Love them from a distance. It’s always the ones closest to you that hurt you the most because you don’t see it coming. Saying no is so easy now and i love it. After you say that first no to them watch their behavior. Very important, because if they curse at you and call you names, they don’t care about you,just what you can do for them. But if they respond with understanding and respect that’s the difference.
I agree with you.. every time I was in relationship I gave away my positive energy and attention to other person even if we broke up.. and that person kept on growing.. when I focus on myself I grew .. I even had an encounter where felt someone else’s negative thoughts about me entering my space .. I cannot explain it in words but it is true
I think we send you energy. I'll bet there are a lot of people who watch you regularly that were already becoming aware of the energy they send others. No shit. I am sitting here eating Arby's in my car before work. In the drive through, an elderly woman was taking a long time to drive through the parking lot and place her order at the speaker. I recognized that the older me would have been inconvenienced and probably said something like "Hurry up grandma" but this situation prompted more observation. It felt like she was uncomfortable with her ability to drive and read the menu. I sent comforting energy to her, because this could be very difficult for her. Not sure if she received it, but that's not for me to know. Anyway, it was super cool to park my car and the first thing TH-cam shows me is this recent video that explains a topic which is highly interesting. The algorithm knows!
16:20 FACTS. First time I ever stood up for myself at work as an apprentice I was so scared it would make things worse but it made them respect me more!!
I highly agree about the narcissistic husband case. The psychology behind it is actually clear: Narcissists only want the house and the kid because WE want it. The moment you stop wanting it, they'll give it to you, because why bother to take something you don't crave. They are a small kid, who will fight over a toy they never played with but will want it and punch you for it, because YOU decided to play with it now. I know horrible to use it in an example with a child, but this is the mechanism behind their actions. I know cause I've been there...
Watching this while dealing with obsessive thoughts and dreams about someone I know I shouldn’t be fixating on 🙈 Life feels like a progressively challenging and paradoxical mental boot camp! 😵💫
@@spiritualawakeningstuff you know finally I am knowing my worth and how it's precious to be with me it's was hard to get over my thoughts and day dreamings but it ended when I thought clearly about it and left him
been in that same process myself. Stay true to yourself as your in the process so others don't distract you from pulling your energy back and away from themselves.
Same... It's disturbing if you ever have been around pathological narcissist (I grew up with BPD/NPD chaos combination) father... Emotions really are enrgy and if you have a narc... Emptiness, cold, no humanity, just big ego and yall should better serve them... They really feed off your energy lol It's actually disturbing....having a crazy disturbed father, completely dissociated and not in reality but as a normal kid... Really, empty shell. Had to deatch and dissociate severly to survive that I only was able to have cognitive empathy... Was the death of my true self... what he even described in this video lol Only in head...
whenever I’m doing good and happen to think ab this person and feel connected to my body all at the same time, they text me. this video and the divine timing wow.
This came at the right time. Resetting. Drawing that energy back into myself and keeping my frame, honouring the space between self and other. Appreciate you 🦋🍊✨
Ok, so this works the other way as well. I got divorced my ex narc left and I just let go actually I feel God did for me what I could not do. Well, after the divorce I would out.of absolutely nowhere get upset, angry or experience intense anxiety or pure hatred I would catch myself and say to myself " what is wrong with you" one day I just put the tips of my fingers together, closed my eyes and said this is not me go away, and it worked!! Crazy right!! I don't really understand it all but, figuring that out saved my life.❤
Omg! I just experienced the same thing! I've been going through a rough divorce. My ex spouse was full of hatred that they tried to hide, but as an empath, you feel it all around you. I was so angry and agitated for 2 weeks with no reason or causation. Typically I'm generous but I was even saying no to homeless ppl which is very unlike me. I asked God to remove the energy of hatred I was feeling and to allow me to be able to forgive my ex partner, and it also allowed me to understand how she feels as well. After we submitted the papers, I was still pretty upset. But after the prayer and self reflection and holding myself accountable for what I can control, I no longer carry that anger. It really does feel like a 100-pound dumbell was lifted off of my body.
S’times we can forget the Power is within us not on external persons, situations. “He/the Power that is in you is greater than the power outside of you.” 1st letter of St John Their abuse is meant to cripple our belief in the power within us. But once we awake as you did saying “This isn’t me.” It’s game over. The lie comes clashing down. When we are ‘asleep’ it becomes easier to be controlled & told who we are••
I agree with this... for generations our mother's told us not to miss our babies when we leave them to work/farm because the baby feels that and becomes restless making it difficult for whoever is watching your child while your away. You need to be at peace, same applies to when you are breastfeeding.
Amazing video, I am struggling with this issue and can't let go of a Narcissistic friend and her negative energy. It is harmful for me.Thanks for sharing, finally I am hopeful.
This video showed up at a great time for me, because I've been sending WAY too much of my own energy to other people. Trying too hard to be a people-pleaser and worrying about how what I say might affect others. Didn't realize this expelling of energy from my body was repelling other people, but what Aaron told me actually makes perfect sense. Drawing that energy back into my body is just what I need right now... Imma try practice this when I'm around other people and see what happens!
I gave him lot of energy that’s true, he said I want to slow things down I shut off completely 😂😂😂 now I pull away automatically so let him crave that energy
This is such a gem of a video, this changed my whole perspective which I might have not understood my entire lifetime. Thank you Aaron for sharing such valuable knowledge ✨God bless
Thank you.... You do not believe how much u helped me out with this information. Im sending you some kindness and compassion energy right now.... Bus loads :)
I'm in the same boat. There are so many great comments here, and Aaron's message is sooo good!! We can do this!! You're not alone. Cut the cord, you got this. 🤗💐🌹🌻
Oh good timing, I need this exact idea discussed. I have too many people asking for my time, help at work, help babysitting, can I stay with you when I'm in town, all stuff I'm not thrilled with, I feel like I have no boundaries and my energy is bad because it's trying to manage other peoples' expectations - I can't live my life because I am waiting for them to do and say something
Aaron, you've done it again! I can't believe I didn't know about you sooner. This is amazing. Thank you, and keep up the great work. I absolutely love your content!
This is very helpful for me in retracting my energy from my ex husband. I keep saying that I still love him, I'm sad bc of the separation, but I know that I have to pull my energy back. It will help me getting over the relationship. Thank you Aaron
Wow ! This is the lost KEY i was looking for !! I used to do this casually, but didn't put it in perspective, .. Now you show me the way, so grateful to be leaded to your video, subscribed 😊
While I am on board with your views on a persons personal energy, I would to add to what you are expressing. I attended a spiritual group for a number of years with an X-girlfriend. The number one rule we learned was respect for self. This ties in so neatly with what are saying in my opinion. If you have “respect for self” you will not allow others to disrespect you, and as you say, draw a line which you will not allow people or manipulative, to cross………now these energy vampires must go elsewhere to rob someone else of their energy.
I feel someone special thinking about me and it doesnt make me feel icky at all. It makes me feel loved and cherished and the love that comes from him is penetrating the walls that I built inside of me to protect myself (due to past trauma). It's like I cannot escape this love and resistance is futile. Him thinking lovingly about me is only repellent for my traumas (the part of me that feels not worthy of such love) but Im working on them and the more I work on healing myself the more I can revel in this love that I feel coming from him.
This is some gooood work here….. at 53 now I used to do all of this naturally when I was younger Putting this all back together at this age Is a great big test💚 So thank you A⭐️ Your videos help me so much 🏆⚡️🤝🕊️
I didn't even realize I was doing this. I can't stand to see tv shows where people screw up, and it's extremely jarring for me to watch people fighting even in a movie. I need to stop letting that energy become absorbed as my energy so I won't get so upset.
But this is so much easier said than done. I actually DO Tell myself to let go and stop thinking about my crush, but somehow he creeps in and just lingers in the back of my head constantly..😂
I know right ?!😭 recently I do wake up in the middle of the night and boom he is on my mind. I wonder if that's even coming from me or do I react to his energy?! It drives me crazy because logically I have understood and accepted that he is not for me and I want to let go but something holds me back like a chain with a cannonball
I was like this for 5 years with a man who is a lot younger than me and I couldn't stop thinking about him and had feelings for him until several very hurtful things happened in my family that were so difficult and painful that literally woke me up from that spell. By the way I am trained in many disciplines to mange my energy but with this man I don't know what happened that I couldn't forget about him for that long. That part of my life makes me believe that there is manipulation in this reality and things are like a video game and you have to go through some lessons and until you reach certain point you cannot go beyond the same pattern.
I have had a few people ' on my mind ' lately... so being able to instead choose to FEEEL the separation between myself and others.. is a very reassuring, relaxing experience. I imagined - space - between myself and them, as you were chatting and I felt instantly relieved. Thank you Aaron. I will remember to practice this with people around me. Nicole
I am still working with the frame technique. It really has helped learning about all these things that I would not have researched without finding out from a trusted source. Thank you again ✨💖✨
Wow you blew my mind with this one! I for sure thought sending thoughts was an attractant rather than a repellent. This could change everything! Thank you brother!
Hi Aaron, wow... this is awesome! First time I watched you, and I really enjoyed it. I have now subscribed. Thank you ...I can't wait to watch more. I am really trying to keep my energy it's so hard to ground. I will perfect this wow! I feel like my energy is simply taken from me I then spiral so fast and loose myself. I have great energy, and I want to keep it. I don't have to take on the burden of others energy and no wonder why I never feel safe. Great info Love it ...thank you so much can't wait to learn more. Love this!
Aaron I can't wait to join your CCC challenge for coaches. Since participating in CBA in July I have finally stepped into my power and started sharing my gifts in a big way and use my voice. One of these days I'm going to go viral like you. Thank you for all the magic you share with us. Thank you, thank you, thank you
I really appreciate the way you articulate all of this. I was entrenched deep in the world of woo for a long time but have recently largely separated myself from all the woo folks. It's nice to see someone talk about these concepts in a down-to-earth kind of way. Too many airy headed folks trying to talk about the dynamics of separation and connection, I just can't stand it anymore. It reminds me of the way the art world behaves when you make a painting and then the whole art intelligencia projects some sort of pseudo-meaningful lore they pulled out of their ass. And you're standing there thinking: "Uh, I just like the color red guys". Thanks for keepin' it real
Ay thank you for this, I always feel so consumed by the people around me and what they feel towards me and I tried this today and never have I felt so at peace and still in such calmness, your knowledge and enlightenment is a gift
I for sure think when someone's on your mind often, that its because there is an energy bond of some kind that's there. They are thinking of you and you can feel it... In my opinion, sometimes we are thinking of someone randomly because God puts them on our minds for a reason. He wants us to pray for them, they need prayer, help right now.
Not only does Aaron make a lot of sense and I use it in my dating world and it actually does work but not only does it work but it does make you feel stronger as a person and you take back your power and really confuses the other person cuz they're used to you crawling back to them or calling them or texting them and you stop all that. Not Flirting with you ,but damn Aaron I are a handsome guy definitely reminds me of Chris Cornell
I'm exploring this concept as an INFJ trauma survivor/Retired Psych Nurse on the healing path. Whether or not the secret obsessions our type can have on a person sometimes are harmless or not, is something I'm exploring. I stopped being a Reiki practioner when I found out my Ex was a dead spy whose deathbed confession was delayed 7 yrs reaching me & his 2nd wife's house was burned down. I feel the space between us acutely. We are all energetically connected, regardless, imo. Best wishes in your career. I'd love to sit down to have a talk with you if you ever visit Sarasota, FL. Our healing from our Narcissistic & S/A abuse histories has to come first before sending energetic stuff towards others, imo. I don't consider secret obsessions harmless atm, so your opinion is interesting. Most my teachers in Sarasota moved to Sedona. IDK why. TY.🙏💚🤔
I love learning from you because the information you share is very interesting, helpful and insightful. It gets me to reflect on things in a deeper way so thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤
OK REAL TALK..I LITERALLY THOUGHT OF ONE OF MY FRIENDS (MALE) , he usually simps for me super hard but i've been mia for a while so no contact. So i woke up and literally said" hmm you should message me i wanna know all u did all this time"..i kid you not HE MESSAGED ME LIKE 10 MIN LATER.!?! then i open YTB and this video slaps me in the face ! 100% facts Aaron you rock
Wow. Thats incredible, Aaron. I always had an underlying sense of this energy moving and being received, and now youve corroborated it and added to my awareness. Ty very much. Love you.🍃 There is so much power in this subject.
Hi Aaron, I’ve just come across your channel a couple of days ago and wanted to say thank you for your videos, for sharing your insight, wisdom and helping us grow, your strength and authenticity resonates right through the screen. I oddly get the sense that I’ve met you before but maybe it’s just that you have ‘one of those faces’. Anyways, keep up the good work 👍
Aaron please do a parallel reality video which covers everything that you have taught till now relating it much with Neville Goddard teachings. I know you have done a video earlier about this but I just want a new video on this concept from you because your teachings inspire me a lot. I hope you find my comment
wow, amazing explaind. Ive been looking for this information about how to mold energy to create faster. Thank you so much for sharing. Im listening to this over and over until it become part of me.
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Tried to join but my request was declined twice🙈😅
Aww thanks for making this a free community to join. Honestly, I can’t afford another subscription or service in this life. But been looking to connect to others and share thoughts. That’s really kind of you Aaron!
@@LittlePandaMusic yeah girl! Good eye. He is probably so busy. Nice reminder!
exactly!! don't abandon yourself to make others happy! feel the separation. Be in your own energy, other people are responsible for their own stuff
I love these words… they help me… thank you for your comment. I’m posting this on a post-it note on my wall.
@@angelab.804me too!! 🥰
Agreed. Wish they could actually take responsibility for themselves.
"Kind is who you are, nice is with an agenda" - Aaron Doughty 2024.
Thats Solid! Love that Guy.
Whats that mean
@@douaae6319 It minds that if you are Kind, you are without an Agenda, if you are Nice to everyone there might be an Agenda behind, meaning that Kind is more Genuine and real than being Nice.
Definitely makes me consider the concept of the Good Man and the Nice Man.
Yes, it's a pearler
I learned alot about energy that people put off when my fiance died.when I showed up and waited with his body for the coroner.I felt that missing energy that I never even realized was there until it was gone.I was searching all around him for that energy that I always felt around him and I found it to be the weirdest feeling when he no longer put that energy off.Even when I laid my hand on him it was just gone.I found that to be the oddest feeling. That's when I realized that our bodies are just a shell.
Thats really sad
Brought tears to my eyes
I did too feel the absence of energy when my son Dylan died unexpectedly 7 weeks ago F29. My body and brain continuously seek his energy, and life source. This is the most surreal and painful experience
It feels like the entangled particles of the cells Dylan left in me before he was born, as all children do, are looking for their counterparts and are in a state of chaos because they can’t find them living and have lost communication.
Weirdly enough I feel the opposite. I feel like my angels are always right there with me.
@@HeavenlyLights I am truly happy for you, but not speaking spiritually, I am talking about actual physical energetic neuron panic in my body, it truly is unusual physical feeling
The Energy that people give you doesn't lie. You can feel it in your gut.
Especially when you’re a Scorpio
@@ghezalkmar2691 if your moon sign is scorpio
@@ghezalkmar2691 Yes! am a Scorpio!!
Certain people don’t belong
@@missmorena1049 spot on
That’s why social media is so dangerous the exchange is never fair for someone who isn’t protected
Protect yourself energetically
@@RubGoddess and how would I do that?
@@howtotimetravelI only accept the energies of beings who unconditionally love me.
@@howtotimetravelDelete your account. Problem solved
Knowledge is protection
This came at a good time as a nice reminder, because for three years I waited for who I thought was the love of my life (and he said I was) long distance to travel towards me. Yesterday, I wrote him a gratitude text for being in my life at a time of need after my divorce and sent him love and truly cried and let go of my grip on him because since he travels for work, the communication has been very hot and cold and I can’t do this anymore to myself and feel he is barely hanging onto me with a text once a week.
I think the best way to send energy IF you can’t stop thinking about someone is to send a burst of love or “hugging” energy, and then let go.
It’s a nice way to get closure as well. I am ready to surrender and stop day dreaming about a life together as much as I have been over the years and I know he will feel that surrender too in whatever way that means for him.
I just want him to be happy now as I find my happiness.
That is beautiful!
Beautiful
@@waterlilynymph oh wow…. Same thing happened to me. I’m crying reading this. To know that someone went through basically the same thing .Having to let this person go in spite of having only good times together… but knowing that when we were apart he could barely hang on with the hot and cold communication…. I felt like he had me “ on reserve”… finally I said “ no more” and I ended it. I know I have to cut the thinking about him. But get this …. Last night had a dream about him. God…. please end this chapter once and for all… I pray. 🙏
Sending you love and strength ❤🙏🏼💙
I hug you gently, you're not alone, I've felt the same, also for 3 years :)))) now I'm also open to new real love of my life. :) I wish you luck and happiness and love! 🤗🤗🤗
OMG!
LITERALLY MY ENERGY KNOWS This RULE FOR 10 years! But I met my twin flame 🔥 & all of a sudden my trauma (that I work on often & letting go) started smothering my thoughts of this guy. So much I could feel it pushing him. He’s also an empath and can feel my energy when we are apart.
Long story short - I am listening again to this & know this, took a deep breath & let go, chuckled a bit because I haven’t stop going back to this place and just like that…
Within 2 minutes I got a text.
I also did the same thing yesterday & again took a breath- let go and within seconds a phone call.
Take your deep breaths, laugh & think of anything else cut that thought cord. I promise it always works!
You are the most important person & you validate YOU!
Namaste. ❤
I heard twin flames have strong attraction for each other
This explains why I have a strong desire to separate myself from toxic family members. I feel a string of connection to my mother but it's painful and keeps me in a dark place mentally. The negative identity she puts on to me(through how she she treats me) holds me back from my highest vibration because I believe what she says, she is my mother. I have to break free and believe what I say, I have to become my own mother.
I’m there with u sister
Wow, same with me..hang in there ❤
now 38 and still living with the trauma of a toxic family memory. some people simply don't deserve to become parents.
Ive been through this and im sure many people have because they’re family and blood is thicker than water right? WRONG. That’s the manipulation. People only love you depending on how much they can control you. It was hard to say no in the beginning because I love my family but I realise That “love” is what they used against me. The day i said no to them i saw their true colors. You have to break away for your own happiness/sanity. Love them from a distance. It’s always the ones closest to you that hurt you the most because you don’t see it coming. Saying no is so easy now and i love it. After you say that first no to them watch their behavior. Very important, because if they curse at you and call you names, they don’t care about you,just what you can do for them. But if they respond with understanding and respect that’s the difference.
@@Ninalover4realyo legit spot on , then you look like the bad guy for putting yourself first when we are all responsible for ourselves as beings
I agree with you.. every time I was in relationship I gave away my positive energy and attention to other person even if we broke up.. and that person kept on growing.. when I focus on myself I grew .. I even had an encounter where felt someone else’s negative thoughts about me entering my space .. I cannot explain it in words but it is true
Finally someone explains the difference between kind and nice. Thanks! 😊
I think we send you energy. I'll bet there are a lot of people who watch you regularly that were already becoming aware of the energy they send others. No shit. I am sitting here eating Arby's in my car before work. In the drive through, an elderly woman was taking a long time to drive through the parking lot and place her order at the speaker. I recognized that the older me would have been inconvenienced and probably said something like "Hurry up grandma" but this situation prompted more observation. It felt like she was uncomfortable with her ability to drive and read the menu. I sent comforting energy to her, because this could be very difficult for her. Not sure if she received it, but that's not for me to know. Anyway, it was super cool to park my car and the first thing TH-cam shows me is this recent video that explains a topic which is highly interesting. The algorithm knows!
It does know...😮
Beautiful 🪷
I'm happy with your awareness and being present.
Arby's is still around?
@@azummallenhow does it know?
You don’t wanna be nice , you wanna be kind 💯💯 yes man.
WOW. Now I understand why people tend to stay away from me. I'm a therapist and I always have a tendency to send energy. I'm going to stop that.
Aww
An an empath, the idea of separation is really valuable.
16:20 FACTS. First time I ever stood up for myself at work as an apprentice I was so scared it would make things worse but it made them respect me more!!
I highly agree about the narcissistic husband case. The psychology behind it is actually clear: Narcissists only want the house and the kid because WE want it. The moment you stop wanting it, they'll give it to you, because why bother to take something you don't crave. They are a small kid, who will fight over a toy they never played with but will want it and punch you for it, because YOU decided to play with it now. I know horrible to use it in an example with a child, but this is the mechanism behind their actions. I know cause I've been there...
Also first it doesn't make any sense and it's contraintuitive but you get me guys ..
Kindness comes from within. Nice is something learned. Remember when your parents would tell you to be nice?
Huge! This is the blind spot in my consciousness that I've been searching for to help me move forward. 🌿
Watching this while dealing with obsessive thoughts and dreams about someone I know I shouldn’t be fixating on 🙈 Life feels like a progressively challenging and paradoxical mental boot camp! 😵💫
Omg same I'm being very Delusional about a someone new in my life 😃and it's being so frustrating for me 🥲
Me too 😂
Me too
You got this
@@spiritualawakeningstuff you know finally I am knowing my worth and how it's precious to be with me it's was hard to get over my thoughts and day dreamings but it ended when I thought clearly about it and left him
I have struggled with being an empath for as long as I can remember. Now that I’m older I’m trying to bring myself back to myself.
been in that same process myself. Stay true to yourself as your in the process so others don't distract you from pulling your energy back and away from themselves.
Same... It's disturbing if you ever have been around pathological narcissist (I grew up with BPD/NPD chaos combination) father... Emotions really are enrgy and if you have a narc... Emptiness, cold, no humanity, just big ego and yall should better serve them... They really feed off your energy lol It's actually disturbing....having a crazy disturbed father, completely dissociated and not in reality but as a normal kid... Really, empty shell.
Had to deatch and dissociate severly to survive that I only was able to have cognitive empathy... Was the death of my true self... what he even described in this video lol Only in head...
whenever I’m doing good and happen to think ab this person and feel connected to my body all at the same time, they text me. this video and the divine timing wow.
come to JESUS :)
Me too. This happens so often and I thought its scary 😂
you're doing "well"...
This came at the right time. Resetting. Drawing that energy back into myself and keeping my frame, honouring the space between self and other. Appreciate you 🦋🍊✨
Kindnesses is who you are, nice is with an agenda. ❤
Ok, so this works the other way as well. I got divorced my ex narc left and I just let go actually I feel God did for me what I could not do. Well, after the divorce I would out.of absolutely nowhere get upset, angry or experience intense anxiety or pure hatred I would catch myself and say to myself " what is wrong with you" one day I just put the tips of my fingers together, closed my eyes and said this is not me go away, and it worked!! Crazy right!! I don't really understand it all but, figuring that out saved my life.❤
J marzinsky "that's a lie"
Omg! I just experienced the same thing! I've been going through a rough divorce. My ex spouse was full of hatred that they tried to hide, but as an empath, you feel it all around you.
I was so angry and agitated for 2 weeks with no reason or causation. Typically I'm generous but I was even saying no to homeless ppl which is very unlike me.
I asked God to remove the energy of hatred I was feeling and to allow me to be able to forgive my ex partner, and it also allowed me to understand how she feels as well.
After we submitted the papers, I was still pretty upset. But after the prayer and self reflection and holding myself accountable for what I can control, I no longer carry that anger.
It really does feel like a 100-pound dumbell was lifted off of my body.
S’times we can forget the Power is within us not on external persons, situations. “He/the Power that is in you is greater than the power outside of you.” 1st letter of St John
Their abuse is meant to cripple our belief in the power within us. But once we awake as you did saying “This isn’t me.” It’s game over. The lie comes clashing down. When we are ‘asleep’ it becomes easier to be controlled & told who we are••
I agree with this... for generations our mother's told us not to miss our babies when we leave them to work/farm because the baby feels that and becomes restless making it difficult for whoever is watching your child while your away. You need to be at peace, same applies to when you are breastfeeding.
Amazing video, I am struggling with this issue and can't let go of a Narcissistic friend and her negative energy. It is harmful for me.Thanks for sharing, finally I am hopeful.
Yeah me too. The mind goes tò him even if i try tò not see him anymore. very strange and a waste of energy
I’m learning as an empath l am learning to separate to myself it’s a beautiful shift journey. It gives so clarity to everything 🙏
This video showed up at a great time for me, because I've been sending WAY too much of my own energy to other people. Trying too hard to be a people-pleaser and worrying about how what I say might affect others. Didn't realize this expelling of energy from my body was repelling other people, but what Aaron told me actually makes perfect sense. Drawing that energy back into my body is just what I need right now... Imma try practice this when I'm around other people and see what happens!
I gave him lot of energy that’s true, he said I want to slow things down I shut off completely 😂😂😂 now I pull away automatically so let him crave that energy
This is such a gem of a video, this changed my whole perspective which I might have not understood my entire lifetime. Thank you Aaron for sharing such valuable knowledge ✨God bless
Thank you.... You do not believe how much u helped me out with this information. Im sending you some kindness and compassion energy right now.... Bus loads :)
Your energy first. Ground, with kindness with no attachment. You don’t need to figure out other people’s energy.
I don't want to think about him anymore. His silence is deafening and heartbreaking. 😢
I'm in the same boat. There are so many great comments here, and Aaron's message is sooo good!! We can do this!! You're not alone. Cut the cord, you got this. 🤗💐🌹🌻
Oh good timing, I need this exact idea discussed. I have too many people asking for my time, help at work, help babysitting, can I stay with you when I'm in town, all stuff I'm not thrilled with, I feel like I have no boundaries and my energy is bad because it's trying to manage other peoples' expectations - I can't live my life because I am waiting for them to do and say something
I was literally thinking this exact thing about energy and thoughts of people two days ago!!!
Absolutely 💯💯 right. It's very necessary to draw boundaries in every relationship.
Ground yourself in your " I AM"
Feeling safe in your own body/frame very good one as well 🤍💜🩷🦋💫🪽🌌🌸
Aaron, you've done it again! I can't believe I didn't know about you sooner. This is amazing. Thank you, and keep up the great work. I absolutely love your content!
This is very helpful for me in retracting my energy from my ex husband. I keep saying that I still love him, I'm sad bc of the separation, but I know that I have to pull my energy back. It will help me getting over the relationship. Thank you Aaron
I feel like I wrote this, hope all is well ❤
बहन अब तुमने उसको छोड़ दिया है । अब तुम्हारे पूर्व पति खुद तुम्हारे पास आएंगे।
Wow ! This is the lost KEY i was looking for !! I used to do this casually, but didn't put it in perspective,
.. Now you show me the way, so grateful to be leaded to your video, subscribed 😊
Thank you for explaining space, self, separation, mindfulness in this different way. I get it.
I am Practicing this now 🙏🏻
Thank you so much Aaron. Your videos literally change my life continuously. I am sending you love and light
I am enough i am complete. I am worthy. I give to others because im already fulfilled.
Thank you for this. The part about bringing energy to the bottom 3 chakras specifically is very helpful and very grounding.
While I am on board with your views on a persons personal energy, I would to add to what you are expressing. I attended a spiritual group for a number of years with an X-girlfriend. The number one rule we learned was respect for self. This ties in so neatly with what are saying in my opinion. If you have “respect for self” you will not allow others to disrespect you, and as you say, draw a line which you will not allow people or manipulative, to cross………now these energy vampires must go elsewhere to rob someone else of their energy.
I feel someone special thinking about me and it doesnt make me feel icky at all. It makes me feel loved and cherished and the love that comes from him is penetrating the walls that I built inside of me to protect myself (due to past trauma). It's like I cannot escape this love and resistance is futile. Him thinking lovingly about me is only repellent for my traumas (the part of me that feels not worthy of such love) but Im working on them and the more I work on healing myself the more I can revel in this love that I feel coming from him.
This is some gooood work here….. at 53 now
I used to do all of this naturally when I was younger
Putting this all back together at this age
Is a great big test💚
So thank you A⭐️
Your videos help me so much 🏆⚡️🤝🕊️
This was needed! Thank you so much, i was starting to lose myself again and it was getting scary
I didn't even realize I was doing this. I can't stand to see tv shows where people screw up, and it's extremely jarring for me to watch people fighting even in a movie. I need to stop letting that energy become absorbed as my energy so I won't get so upset.
It takes me 3 to 5 days to work through that movie..if I make it to the end... ! Thank you for sharing
But this is so much easier said than done. I actually DO Tell myself to let go and stop thinking about my crush, but somehow he creeps in and just lingers in the back of my head constantly..😂
Exactly. These so called TH-cam prophets don't understand some things you cannot control
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@@bonton9441you can control it,
I know right ?!😭 recently I do wake up in the middle of the night and boom he is on my mind. I wonder if that's even coming from me or do I react to his energy?! It drives me crazy because logically I have understood and accepted that he is not for me and I want to let go but something holds me back like a chain with a cannonball
I was like this for 5 years with a man who is a lot younger than me and I couldn't stop thinking about him and had feelings for him until several very hurtful things happened in my family that were so difficult and painful that literally woke me up from that spell. By the way I am trained in many disciplines to mange my energy but with this man I don't know what happened that I couldn't forget about him for that long. That part of my life makes me believe that there is manipulation in this reality and things are like a video game and you have to go through some lessons and until you reach certain point you cannot go beyond the same pattern.
I have had a few people ' on my mind ' lately... so being able to instead choose to FEEEL the separation between myself and others.. is a very reassuring, relaxing experience. I imagined - space - between myself and them, as you were chatting and I felt instantly relieved. Thank you Aaron. I will remember to practice this with people around me. Nicole
I am still working with the frame technique. It really has helped learning about all these things that I would not have researched without finding out from a trusted source. Thank you again ✨💖✨
You might have just saved my life.
The explaining about relationships here is good for the community.
We are electromagnetic this is all the laws of magnetic attraction repulsion. Really beautiful talk here thank you
Wow you blew my mind with this one! I for sure thought sending thoughts was an attractant rather than a repellent. This could change everything! Thank you brother!
Hi Aaron, wow... this is awesome! First time I watched you, and I really enjoyed it. I have now subscribed. Thank you ...I can't wait to watch more. I am really trying to keep my energy it's so hard to ground. I will perfect this wow! I feel like my energy is simply taken from me I then spiral so fast and loose myself. I have great energy, and I want to keep it. I don't have to take on the burden of others energy and no wonder why I never feel safe. Great info Love it ...thank you so much can't wait to learn more. Love this!
"Turn this person to reflect back the energy that wasn't there by Mom and Dad" Gold!
Aaron I can't wait to join your CCC challenge for coaches. Since participating in CBA in July I have finally stepped into my power and started sharing my gifts in a big way and use my voice. One of these days I'm going to go viral like you. Thank you for all the magic you share with us. Thank you, thank you, thank you
This makes so much sense. I needed to hear that exact message right now!! Thank you!! 🙏🏻
Hi 👋 Greetings from New Zealand. I wish i had this knowledge years ago. People often project onto others.
Thank you! I needed to hear this, and practice bringing my energy back into me.
Awesome content ! Very clear and SO SOOOOOOO helpful ! Thank you mate, you just earned yourself a new subscriber !
Blessed be, and so it is in Christ Consciousness 🙏🏻 💞 🌟
I really appreciate the way you articulate all of this. I was entrenched deep in the world of woo for a long time but have recently largely separated myself from all the woo folks. It's nice to see someone talk about these concepts in a down-to-earth kind of way. Too many airy headed folks trying to talk about the dynamics of separation and connection, I just can't stand it anymore. It reminds me of the way the art world behaves when you make a painting and then the whole art intelligencia projects some sort of pseudo-meaningful lore they pulled out of their ass. And you're standing there thinking: "Uh, I just like the color red guys".
Thanks for keepin' it real
Love the distinction you gave between nice and kind.
Ay thank you for this, I always feel so consumed by the people around me and what they feel towards me and I tried this today and never have I felt so at peace and still in such calmness, your knowledge and enlightenment is a gift
Thank you Aaron! I love the examples you give. They help me to feel how my own energy is dispersed. I will be checking out the Frame technique.
I for sure think when someone's on your mind often, that its because there is an energy bond of some kind that's there. They are thinking of you and you can feel it... In my opinion, sometimes we are thinking of someone randomly because God puts them on our minds for a reason. He wants us to pray for them, they need prayer, help right now.
This is remarkably true, thank you very much. ❤
making people happy and blessed. thanks. much love! ❤
Not only does Aaron make a lot of sense and I use it in my dating world and it actually does work but not only does it work but it does make you feel stronger as a person and you take back your power and really confuses the other person cuz they're used to you crawling back to them or calling them or texting them and you stop all that. Not Flirting with you ,but damn Aaron I are a handsome guy definitely reminds me of Chris Cornell
I just love all your videos ! SOOOOO INSPIRATIONAL! FANTASTIC
This is great fortunate to stumble upon it today. Thank you :)
Thanks man. I been needing to see this and after months it turned up. Thank God, I understand now 🙏🏻 cheers have a good weekend ❤
i admire your effort to help people understand things, that never been though.
This information is so helpful,
You explain everything in details very simple & clear.
Awesome 💯✅
Finally someone puts it in a way I get it! I actually have a situation or two I can heal (at least help) at work much easier now...
I actually discovered this by accident with my boyfriend when we met each other... we feel each other's energy in a very amazing way...
Loving your hair Aaron! 👱🏽👱🏼♂️. Blessings to you and your amazing content 🎉
I'm exploring this concept as an INFJ trauma survivor/Retired Psych Nurse on the healing path. Whether or not the secret obsessions our type can have on a person sometimes are harmless or not, is something I'm exploring. I stopped being a Reiki practioner when I found out my Ex was a dead spy whose deathbed confession was delayed 7 yrs reaching me & his 2nd wife's house was burned down. I feel the space between us acutely. We are all energetically connected, regardless, imo. Best wishes in your career. I'd love to sit down to have a talk with you if you ever visit Sarasota, FL. Our healing from our Narcissistic & S/A abuse histories has to come first before sending energetic stuff towards others, imo. I don't consider secret obsessions harmless atm, so your opinion is interesting. Most my teachers in Sarasota moved to Sedona. IDK why. TY.🙏💚🤔
Man, this was SO illuminating and useful for me! Thank you 🙏🏻 I was able to finish “giving shape” to some issue.
I love how you are explaining things!!so cool!!
This is such a massive concept, thanks for sharing!
I've tested this and its true...positive vibrations being grounded kind educated
What a great explanation 👌🏻
Thank you for sharing this wisdom and techniques for to stay aligned 🌺🙏🏼🌺
This is like when buddhist monks say you have to set your beliefs on fire in your head. I really have been putting off doing my own internal work. 😮
I love learning from you because the information you share is very interesting, helpful and insightful. It gets me to reflect on things in a deeper way so thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤
Wonderful! Thank you for sharing this wisdom. It's helping me healing and changing my mindset.
Thank you very much for this. TH-cam suggested me this video at the right moment 🙏🏼
OK REAL TALK..I LITERALLY THOUGHT OF ONE OF MY FRIENDS (MALE) , he usually simps for me super hard but i've been mia for a while so no contact. So i woke up and literally said" hmm you should message me i wanna know all u did all this time"..i kid you not HE MESSAGED ME LIKE 10 MIN LATER.!?!
then i open YTB and this video slaps me in the face !
100% facts Aaron you rock
I found this video at the right time... thank you very much for these insights!
I’ll be saving your vid ❤ I need to install this into my psyche 😊 so appreciate x
Wow. Thats incredible, Aaron. I always had an underlying sense of this energy moving and being received, and now youve corroborated it and added to my awareness. Ty very much. Love you.🍃 There is so much power in this subject.
Hi Aaron, I’ve just come across your channel a couple of days ago and wanted to say thank you for your videos, for sharing your insight, wisdom and helping us grow, your strength and authenticity resonates right through the screen. I oddly get the sense that I’ve met you before but maybe it’s just that you have ‘one of those faces’. Anyways, keep up the good work 👍
Aaron please do a parallel reality video which covers everything that you have taught till now relating it much with Neville Goddard teachings. I know you have done a video earlier about this but I just want a new video on this concept from you because your teachings inspire me a lot. I hope you find my comment
wow, amazing explaind. Ive been looking for this information about how to mold energy to create faster. Thank you so much for sharing. Im listening to this over and over until it become part of me.
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This video is so helpful. Thank you !