The pain in my heart is unbearable, my husband leaving our marriage have put a ton in my heart, I have been telling myself am strong enough but am not sure I am, I haven’t been able to get him of my mind, I just want him back.
Most people are unhealed, emotional immature and not vulnerable enough to be in these types of relationships that require vulnerabilities and maturity.
Thank you ismael for your guidance 🎉❤ 1. Deep Focus 2.Avoid tension 3.Make him invest You are best mentor dear ❤️ I will always remember the instance of bridge to make healthy and long lasting relationship 😊
I dont recieved flowers from my man since we were still dating but he invest in our relationship he keep coming here in the philippines because of me that’s the most important for me , we have great conversation and his really nice to me and we are planning to get marry and having our own kids together
GREAT video. Honestly I ALREADY KNEW this but to hear you teach it was very heartwarming and appreciated. You're a good man helping us ladies for free. Lol
Thank you for the bridge and weather analogies....wish I'd heard those decades ago when u was young and naive. But now at 60, starting over, and actually loving myself enough to not NEED another in my life, but now finally interested in exploring, those are two very helpful guides for me.
I bought my husband flowers all the time and surprised him at work with them. I never asked for them, or anything really, but I did tell him which ones I liked the most. 😊
yeiii the challenge thing was very funny idea :D but yea just by being yourself and if it doesnt click you just need to accept it. life is very short and is not worth wasting time on 1 sided relationship. maybe showing up is 1 thing thats very hot
I give thanks to your aunt and mother for living life in front of you so you understand the needs and thoughts of a women,, and you are able to instill your wisdom.
Really good vid. One little thing: I understand and appreciate that you want us to focus on the video and on what you say (instead of multitasking). Just that here the same is valid that you say yourself in this video: demands/commands create (at least in me) strong reluctance, positive words create openess and a smile. Just my 2 Cents. Apart from that awesome content.
The exercise of looking into your eyes was FANTASTIC! Thank you. The best practical exercise I have done this month. You are indeed a wise man and I truly value that. Thanks again for sharing your knowledge Ismael ;-)
Oh... you are totally right Ismael, but if you can prepare the footage about where we can meet the attractive man, i will be grateful😀. Of course i mean place with men 36+ ages😉 Forasmuch if we don't have chance to meet someone , we can't practice Your advice, and don't have chance for find and create excellent relationship. Have a beautiful night.
This video is overflowing with helpful advice, but it can be hard to know where to begin. However you can always copy the exact words women use that makes any man have an unforgettable time. Celestine Dessike, googling her and knowing the way to sneak into his mind is mind blowing powerful lol
So what do you think is emotional insight it's none of the external both require to be ready life is a challenge Why does a challenge make it happen drama is reactionaries Wen flowers are the external example then he should see a coach like you 🤔 It's effort on his part determined to show his woman his genuine internalized self Todays world is a coach for everything and anything Majority of Men they are lazy their mother has made them lazy The father is their Coach Life is the mans Coach so what's gone wrong Still a boy in a mans body emotional growth as a stump
If you’re ugly no rich or handsomely guy will come to you. Its a rare case if it happens. No hate but this is reality. A guy will put your whole personality, education aside if he doesn’t finds you attractive
Only superficial people feel this way...people don't love you because of the way you look...also you don't have to be beautiful to have your own special style
Why is it that the woman has to do all the work, what about the man making an effort to connect emotionally with the woman. Perhaps there's no emotional connection because he is not making an effort to connect with her. It seems the woman has to make the man do this or that? It should be a natural process; i.e. attraction, chemistry and emotional connection. What about him making sure she is emotionally fulfilled. Come on now, these videos are always about what the woman has to do to get a man, hold on to a man and if it does not work out, it's something she did wrong or something she did not do for the man.
My man connects with my daily by text but I only see him in person once a week or sometimes fortnight. He does work long days and sometimes on the weekend. I would like to see him in person twice a week. Am I being unreasonable? I haven't pushed this idea with him yet.
❤THANK YOU SO DEARLY, FOR YOU HAVE THOUGHT ME SOMETHING, WHICH I NEVER KNEW, I APPRECIATE YOUR TIME AND EFFORT IN TALKING SERIOUSLY TO US,AS I AM NOT GOOD AT READING MEN,AS I SERIOUSLY SHOULD,i ALSO BELIEVE IF ONE ISN'T THOUGHT THESE THINGS ABOUT PEOPLE, HOW ELSE CAN WE TRULY UNDERSTAND THEM AND WHAT ACTUALLY MAKES THEM TICK, THINK YOU AGAIN, ❤JULIEANN WHELAN FROM IRELAND, SEPTEMBER 2024,
There's this high school thing now where a girl says, "Hey, put your arms around me." If the guy does, she then says I guess you like me. Then the goal is to have the guy stand in front of a bathroom mirror with her while she takes a selfie of him putting his arms around her and sometimes around her waste. What's this? The girl takes the selfie and posts it on her facebook showing whomever he's my boyfriend. How's that an emotional connection? Then the guy puts her (usually minimal) on his facebook to finally show other girls he has a relationship. Whatever.
Your video was awesomeeeeee🫡😝so insightful. And just to let you know, those 10 seconds my eyes were fully focused on you😂😂😂I always watch and listen to your videos without any distractions due to you being so knowledgeable and there's no way I'm doing anything else at that time😅im serious and I can't wait for your next video❤
Ah, the age-old mystery of 'Why does he text back like a robot?' Thanks for confirming it’s not just my 300 memes a day strategy that needs adjusting. Emotional connection... noted! 📝😂
Im.waiting lol, where were you 50 yrs ago Ismeal??...Oh you weren't born yet but you know I'm kidding and as you also know you are a wonderful and inspiring for all human❤
Does he mean he loves me or what?????? Mixed signals scenario 😢 He was feeling horny n asked me to come over... Me: Being 1400 km away, I can only pray for you to get well soon 🤣🤣🫶🌸💗 Minus the distance.... well, I am not easy n can be a trouble for u 😉 tell me if you're up for trouble 🫶🤣 He: yes lov this trouble 🫦
Great advice, part of having him go plain crazy and unlocking his primal impulses is a result of speaking out just the right words. Yes, where to begin? Celestine Dessike's latest (go'ogle her) takes you by the hand if you really want to cut out all the guesswork and get him going!
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It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.
The pain in my heart is unbearable, my husband leaving our marriage have put a ton in my heart, I have been telling myself am strong enough but am not sure I am, I haven’t been able to get him of my mind, I just want him back.
This is a very familiar pain. I know how unbearable it feels.
Did you go through similar situation and how did you deal with it?
Yes I did but I got my partner back with the help of a spiritual Counsellor Father Akabu. He has a gift for restoring broken relationships.
Do you think he can help me?
I’m sure he can. You can find him online he’s a very powerful spiritualist.
Most people are unhealed, emotional immature and not vulnerable enough to be in these types of relationships that require vulnerabilities and maturity.
Amen!
No place at the adult table
Thank you ismael for your guidance 🎉❤
1. Deep Focus
2.Avoid tension
3.Make him invest
You are best mentor dear ❤️
I will always remember the instance of bridge to make healthy and long lasting relationship 😊
Flowers?? I am dealing with a guy who doesn't even spend a few words texting me for free on a regular basis. Gosh we women settle for ver little!!
Same
Bro, dumb his ass
Don't just don't!
Walk away.
Why are you dealing with him?
Do not give money
Do laugh at their appropriate jokes
Do smile
Let them give to you….
It feels so good to hear your voice,”j”
Fabulous analogy using the bridge example. Thank you, I will NEVER forget this.
New knowledge unlocked ✅
I dont recieved flowers from my man since we were still dating but he invest in our relationship he keep coming here in the philippines because of me that’s the most important for me , we have great conversation and his really nice to me and we are planning to get marry and having our own kids together
If you’re dating an avoidant attacher ..good luck with that! I didn’t know mine was until a year later and I was left betrayed, blindsided and broken.
GREAT video. Honestly I ALREADY KNEW this but to hear you teach it was very heartwarming and appreciated. You're a good man helping us ladies for free. Lol
Your relationship advice is life-changing! You are a God-send, Ismael. Stay true to your calling.
Thank you for the bridge and weather analogies....wish I'd heard those decades ago when u was young and naive.
But now at 60, starting over, and actually loving myself enough to not NEED another in my life, but now finally interested in exploring, those are two very helpful guides for me.
The only thought that came to me within those 10 seconds was that you have beautiful eyes 😊
I love your content btw, thanks for sharing it with us 🙏
Thanks again for the opportunity to learn how to build a better relationship.
I bought my husband flowers all the time and surprised him at work with them. I never asked for them, or anything really, but I did tell him which ones I liked the most. 😊
To vo izzat krta h??
yeiii the challenge thing was very funny idea :D but yea just by being yourself and if it doesnt click you just need to accept it. life is very short and is not worth wasting time on 1 sided relationship. maybe showing up is 1 thing thats very hot
I give thanks to your aunt and mother for living life in front of you so you understand the needs and thoughts of a women,, and you are able to instill your wisdom.
Really good vid.
One little thing: I understand and appreciate that you want us to focus on the video and on what you say (instead of multitasking). Just that here the same is valid that you say yourself in this video: demands/commands create (at least in me) strong reluctance, positive words create openess and a smile. Just my 2 Cents. Apart from that awesome content.
Thank you! It is very helpful❤
The exercise of looking into your eyes was FANTASTIC! Thank you. The best practical exercise I have done this month. You are indeed a wise man and I truly value that. Thanks again for sharing your knowledge Ismael ;-)
Muchas gracias, Ismael, por tu ayuda!!!
you are so smart ismael❤
WOW 😮 I'm impressed!! 😮 You ARE really a wise man!!! 💪💪 WOW Impressive!!! Thank You Thank You sooo much!!! 💖🤗🎉🎉🎉
What about making a video about making him invest. It would be worth watching
thanks for your sharing
I say, all the time, I have a lot to give ... However, I would not give a man $$. Enjoyed the video. Thank you ✨️
You Wont give anything.
Thank you for your guidance once again Ismael ❤️
I really enjoy your advice & tips; helpful information. Thank U!! 👍💗
Thank you for the short and sweet vids .
Good advice. Thank you. Caroline 🙂
Thank you for this & being funny & entertaining while giving very good examples! Your explanations are always helpful & we can never learn enough! 👍
It was very good
Thanks
I act the same way on a first date whether or not I’m attracted to him or not mostly because I’m not rude. Is this bad?
Oh... you are totally right Ismael, but if you can prepare the footage about where we can meet the attractive man, i will be grateful😀. Of course i mean place with men 36+ ages😉 Forasmuch if we don't have chance to meet someone , we can't practice Your advice, and don't have chance for find and create excellent relationship. Have a beautiful night.
This video is overflowing with helpful advice, but it can be hard to know where to begin. However you can always copy the exact words women use that makes any man have an unforgettable time. Celestine Dessike, googling her and knowing the way to sneak into his mind is mind blowing powerful lol
The only man i trust😭
So what do you think is emotional insight it's none of the external both require to be ready life is a challenge Why does a challenge make it happen drama is reactionaries Wen flowers are the external example then he should see a coach like you 🤔 It's effort on his part determined to show his woman his genuine internalized self Todays world is a coach for everything and anything Majority of Men they are lazy their mother has made them lazy The father is their Coach Life is the mans Coach so what's gone wrong Still a boy in a mans body emotional growth as a stump
Excellent video!
If you’re ugly no rich or handsomely guy will come to you. Its a rare case if it happens. No hate but this is reality. A guy will put your whole personality, education aside if he doesn’t finds you attractive
Only superficial people feel this way...people don't love you because of the way you look...also you don't have to be beautiful to have your own special style
Excellents Gomez!!!
Ja uważam że ludzie podobni się do siebie dobierają,jeśli jest facet atrakcyjny to przy nim też jest piękna kobieta ❤przecież tak jest ❤
Why is it that the woman has to do all the work, what about the man making an effort to connect emotionally with the woman. Perhaps there's no emotional connection because he is not making an effort to connect with her. It seems the woman has to make the man do this or that? It should be a natural process; i.e. attraction, chemistry and emotional connection. What about him making sure she is emotionally fulfilled. Come on now, these videos are always about what the woman has to do to get a man, hold on to a man and if it does not work out, it's something she did wrong or something she did not do for the man.
100% I for one am done w it!!
Thank you Ismael!!!! I adore you ❤❤❤
I appreciate the kind words dear.
My man connects with my daily by text but I only see him in person once a week or sometimes fortnight. He does work long days and sometimes on the weekend. I would like to see him in person twice a week. Am I being unreasonable? I haven't pushed this idea with him yet.
Thanks ismail
For a man which attraction matters most physical or emotional?
Thank you Ismeal
Thank very much
Please I know how you said don't soiplayed that part. Grfoh
I thought about Matt. 😂😂. I tried to focus. 😂😂
Thank you!!
❤THANK YOU SO DEARLY, FOR YOU HAVE THOUGHT ME SOMETHING, WHICH I NEVER KNEW, I APPRECIATE YOUR TIME AND EFFORT IN TALKING SERIOUSLY TO US,AS I AM NOT GOOD AT READING MEN,AS I SERIOUSLY SHOULD,i ALSO BELIEVE IF ONE ISN'T THOUGHT THESE THINGS ABOUT PEOPLE, HOW ELSE CAN WE TRULY UNDERSTAND THEM AND WHAT ACTUALLY MAKES THEM TICK, THINK YOU AGAIN, ❤JULIEANN WHELAN FROM IRELAND, SEPTEMBER 2024,
There's this high school thing now where a girl says, "Hey, put your arms around me." If the guy does, she then says I guess you like me. Then the goal is to have the guy stand in front of a bathroom mirror with her while she takes a selfie of him putting his arms around her and sometimes around her waste. What's this? The girl takes the selfie and posts it on her facebook showing whomever he's my boyfriend. How's that an emotional connection? Then the guy puts her (usually minimal) on his facebook to finally show other girls he has a relationship. Whatever.
Hi sir esmael to be honest you are attracted guy😊 thanks for the adviced😊
Your video was awesomeeeeee🫡😝so insightful. And just to let you know, those 10 seconds my eyes were fully focused on you😂😂😂I always watch and listen to your videos without any distractions due to you being so knowledgeable and there's no way I'm doing anything else at that time😅im serious and I can't wait for your next video❤
Ah, the age-old mystery of 'Why does he text back like a robot?' Thanks for confirming it’s not just my 300 memes a day strategy that needs adjusting. Emotional connection... noted! 📝😂
300 memes a day? They better be really funny haha
Love u Ismael❤
What if he is online
OMG! I fuckn love you! Your insight is beyond! 👊🏽💪🏽🙏🏽💙
I had no thoughts
I felt
Ok
♥️♥️♥️thank you
I started to smile 😅
Im.waiting lol, where were you 50 yrs ago Ismeal??...Oh you weren't born yet but you know I'm kidding and as you also know you are a wonderful and inspiring for all human❤
🤣🤣🤣🤣 the focus
I don’t want to play games! 🤦♀️😂.
Alot of single men aren't emotionally available so don't waste your time or energy
Match people's efforts or you will get played
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Just one thought in those 10 seconds. Damn, those are some beautiful eyes 😂 Sorry!
Thanks for the compliment. Much appreciated.
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YOUR EXCESSIVE COMMERCIALS. No Way!
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How to attract losers 😂
Does he mean he loves me or what?????? Mixed signals scenario 😢
He was feeling horny n asked me to come over...
Me: Being 1400 km away, I can only pray for you to get well soon 🤣🤣🫶🌸💗
Minus the distance.... well, I am not easy n can be a trouble for u 😉 tell me if you're up for trouble 🫶🤣
He: yes lov this trouble
🫦
Great advice, part of having him go plain crazy and unlocking his primal impulses is a result of speaking out just the right words. Yes, where to begin? Celestine Dessike's latest (go'ogle her) takes you by the hand if you really want to cut out all the guesswork and get him going!
WOW 😮 I'm impressed!! 😮 You ARE really a wise man!!! 💪💪 WOW Impressive!!! Thank You Thank You sooo much!!! 💖🤗🎉🎉🎉
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