How to STOP OBSESSING Over Any Guy in 8 Minutes

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  • @SaveTheMessenger
    @SaveTheMessenger  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Thanks to all of you that have subscribed to my channel.
    It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.

    • @Lotta_222
      @Lotta_222 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ismael, can you please make a video on how men realy feel with their girlfriend having guy friends? I would really appreciate it as I am in a relationship where my boyfriend does not feel comfortable with me haning out with friends that are guys. We agreed that I will not meet with a guy friend one-on-one, but he is still uncomfortable with it being in a group (with girls there as well). He is a wonderful guy, everything besides this topic is great. We have a very healthy relationship otherwise, it’s just this only thing

  • @Extraordinary15
    @Extraordinary15 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +89

    the real one will never ignore you, and if they ignore they are not real to you...if they left you in the pain for suffering alone....believe me they don't deserve to be in your life....if they have gone, they were never 😴

    • @THECHEESYGRIN04
      @THECHEESYGRIN04 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Yup those who feel for you will never let you be alone

    • @reemsaif3105
      @reemsaif3105 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      True but we are the manifestors that's what he's saying. All in your hands. Love yourself and the mirror will be clearer 🩷😊💫

  • @ShopgirlNY182
    @ShopgirlNY182 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    That reminds me of what Matthew Hussey says “attention is not intention”. They could give you all the attention in texting and still not have the intention to take you out on a date.

  • @foreignlovedreams
    @foreignlovedreams 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I totally agree with everything said. I also think that both men and women should learn to love themselves on the first place, and look for the partner only after that. That’s how healthy relations work, in my opinion.

    • @SaveTheMessenger
      @SaveTheMessenger  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely. Self-love sets the foundation for a strong, healthy relationship.

  • @helenj-b4s
    @helenj-b4s 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    ATTENTION IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN INTENTION..
    You’re so damn right

    • @orchidchambers6865
      @orchidchambers6865 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Isn’t this the other way around?

    • @helenj-b4s
      @helenj-b4s 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ what you mean?

    • @SaveTheMessenger
      @SaveTheMessenger  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      New insight unlocked ✅

  • @DS40764
    @DS40764 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    This was so helpful. Thank you. Sometimes we are just lonely. I obsess in my mind, never in my actions, but that can be bad too.

  • @paulaz9680
    @paulaz9680 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is the exact pep talk I needed to hear and I have to save the link to hear it once again in a moment of emotional crisis... probably tomorrow

  • @sherryelmore5546
    @sherryelmore5546 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Thank you Ismail. I think online dating brings out the worst in us, in my opinion. Guys can leave you over one small problem because there are so many others to choose from.

    • @SaveTheMessenger
      @SaveTheMessenger  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I hear you. Online dating can definitely feel frustrating at times, especially with how easily people move on. It takes patience to find someone who truly values connection over convenience.

    • @sherryelmore5546
      @sherryelmore5546 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ thank you!

  • @lemonchan2013
    @lemonchan2013 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This one was so helpful omg! I love how you always try to bring new points to the table and not just repeat points constantly, so thank you for your efforts

  • @lalalajuice
    @lalalajuice 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I have been so hurt by men but always given them all of me. But after getting so oftdn hurt I dont do that anymore. My now bf is the only guy who is this inlove with me and kind of obsessed with me. He is a lot more inlove than i am with him and he knows it. But its great to feel so loved for once. But I dont do too much for him unless he does more for me.

  • @TaunaWestCoast
    @TaunaWestCoast 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks!

  • @rebeccajones8628
    @rebeccajones8628 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are so right. Treat them mean, keep them keen. I need to keep this in mind.

  • @TotalCountryGirlHere
    @TotalCountryGirlHere 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Every single point, sounds like me. Makes me depressed, as this is one man I would like to have been with the rest of my life. Almost 74, but look and act 20 yrs younger. I'm at the point now with a him, that I'm probably going to end it, because I know it's all about the sex... Makes me want to cry, because I know I blew it with him. Wish I knew then, what I know now!

    • @SaveTheMessenger
      @SaveTheMessenger  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Letting go of someone you care about always comes with pain, but it also creates space for beautiful, new opportunities to enter your life. Stay strong-you’re making room for something better.

    • @TotalCountryGirlHere
      @TotalCountryGirlHere 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @SaveTheMessenger there's nothing I can do to fix this? I've tried stayong in my feminine energy. I don't chase him. Just wish I knew what I wrong or what mistake I made. I let me call me...Once a week + . Sometimes every 2 or 3 weeks.

    • @eileenstasczak6606
      @eileenstasczak6606 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @TotalCountryGirlHere Please don't think about how much time you've invested in him and the relationship, or time wasted. That's not productive. We ALL make mistakes. Break up with him immediately. Now you have time to meet the right man and be emotionally available for him. Please, though, make and take the time to fly solo while you heal, and work on yourself. This will give you clarity and peace. I'm praying and rooting for you!❤🙏

  • @agneswroblewski8834
    @agneswroblewski8834 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank You Ismael. Funny thing about life. You never stop learning

  • @adele9925
    @adele9925 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Thank you so much for all your advice Ismael. 🙏I finally understand what I was doing, and why, at 69 years of age! 😉
    These days I feel complete on my own, and am focused on my transition to veganism and my fitness. it is such a freeing feeling to be able to separate the desire for a relationship, to the desire for a fulfilling and equal relationship. I didn't know half the things you have taught me, which seems incredible at my age. Yet, you have shown me that for my life to change, I have to change. Such elegant and simple wisdom! 🙏
    Wishing you continued success Ismael. Stay safe and happy. 🙂 And to those who are still struggling to incorporate Ismael's wisdom into their lives, please stay positive and don't give up on yourself. Life is good! 💕

    • @SaveTheMessenger
      @SaveTheMessenger  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Really appreciate you sharing that. It’s great to hear you’re feeling complete and embracing this new chapter.

    • @adele9925
      @adele9925 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​Your advice has been instrumental in my new direction, so thank you again. 💞@SaveTheMessenger

  • @ZionISIBOR
    @ZionISIBOR วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks Ismael😊

  • @theneerunarang
    @theneerunarang 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Attention is more important than Intention!! That means attention = Focus and Energy flows where your Focus is!!

  • @TaunaWestCoast
    @TaunaWestCoast 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So valuable! Thank you Ismael! ❤

  • @coletteHawk
    @coletteHawk วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was really good, very wise. Thank you!

  • @christinebarletta6489
    @christinebarletta6489 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So very true!! Its hard to accept the truth ❤❤

  • @nirmaladevivelayutham3562
    @nirmaladevivelayutham3562 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    thanks so much Ismael! Real eye opener. from Malaysia

  • @lovinglife58
    @lovinglife58 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    You are the BEST Ismael!!! I really needed this. It was like you made this video just for me. This helped me more than you know. Thank you and keep the videos coming!!!

    • @SaveTheMessenger
      @SaveTheMessenger  วันที่ผ่านมา

      How so? Are you struggling to let go of someone? Thanks for your lovely comment.

    • @lovinglife58
      @lovinglife58 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@SaveTheMessenger No, I have been just obsessing over him proposing. When I let that go, things are now moving forward. I stopped bringing it up because all it did was stress both of us out.

  • @theneerunarang
    @theneerunarang 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Awesome, crisp and clear!!! Request you to put all the points in the end for a screenshot Ismael ❤

  • @SharonOoko-n8j
    @SharonOoko-n8j 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This has been worth listening to ❤

  • @ChristineNonn
    @ChristineNonn 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Another amazing video. Thank you so much for sharing! Super helpful.

  • @agnieszkalewandowska9896
    @agnieszkalewandowska9896 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ismail, you have so many valuable videos on your channel, but for me this is one of the most valuable. I can relate to it so much, as I've been obsessed with guys for years. Thank your for sharing all of these thoughts and lessons to other people!

  • @julieponce3345
    @julieponce3345 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wonderful content. Subscribed thank you

  • @monicabaral8929
    @monicabaral8929 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes!!! by offering our feeling we are offering million dollar or priceless value. What an empowering concept. Life changing view. Thank you very much esmail !!!!

  • @James_charles124
    @James_charles124 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks

  • @Keiju333
    @Keiju333 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wise words as always! Oh, you're a Virgo! That's why I like you!😂
    Porque nunca he encontrado un chico como Ismael?🤔😅

  • @nicolebaab
    @nicolebaab 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Why is it always raining in the background 👀

  • @amisha8238
    @amisha8238 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes thank you

  • @marilyndivinagracia7362
    @marilyndivinagracia7362 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you coach.. God bless you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @CaliforniaAndBeyond
    @CaliforniaAndBeyond 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great advice. Thank you.

  • @deepiikaa47
    @deepiikaa47 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amazing video ismael I had the same tendencies in the past &now im relating to it completely

  • @kareematbello6535
    @kareematbello6535 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I need to hear this,so badly

  • @CeciledeLuire
    @CeciledeLuire 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this is an excellent video.
    i can confirm every single point.

  • @amirarivera6828
    @amirarivera6828 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video, thank you

  • @IamNana2022
    @IamNana2022 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    1million cash! Good insights!!!🎉🎉🎉

  • @sandrasaunt6441
    @sandrasaunt6441 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thought provoking 🤔

  • @elitework9675
    @elitework9675 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Ia there any thing called Soulmate? Is that real .. please make a video

  • @XYZ-qu4yq
    @XYZ-qu4yq 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Yes, it makes sense. The thing is women want men because they want to be in a couple, instead of being single.

    • @vivhiggins5656
      @vivhiggins5656 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Know not rearly some off us are own woman in this life you have too depend on ur self,yes men need woman more than we need them,yes love your self be fore eny one else,

  • @carmenmacias6551
    @carmenmacias6551 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Graciasssss por tus palabras

  • @paulinaprieto19
    @paulinaprieto19 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Este vídeo llegó en el momento justo 😅

  • @anushkamukherjee6382
    @anushkamukherjee6382 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can u please make a video on "what can i gift him" To make him feel special and will make him realise that I really love him alot.

    • @nyuuuchan
      @nyuuuchan 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      don't. he knows

  • @tenor9471
    @tenor9471 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ismael How do u get such beautoful background?

  • @liliankemunto2433
    @liliankemunto2433 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Am from 3 broken relationship,. tried this , little did i know am on my own,and desperate

  • @almendravaldez6926
    @almendravaldez6926 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ismael is a virgo ?

  • @heenamanzar9483
    @heenamanzar9483 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Exactly 🎉

  • @GracefullyMe82
    @GracefullyMe82 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Interesting

  • @SpeedSpirit-ej1ii
    @SpeedSpirit-ej1ii ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    How to stop obsessing over them?

  • @alanoudalsaleh
    @alanoudalsaleh 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    إسماعيل

  • @astridhanl4861
    @astridhanl4861 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thinking about myself as a million dollar.. A billion dollar.. I cash is smart as hell

  • @lemarginalmagnifique8547
    @lemarginalmagnifique8547 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    👍 Super vidéo ! C'est souvent compliqué l'amour, mais ça vaut toujours le coup, ça peut être beau, il ne faut pas se décourager... 💖🙂 Bah, les filles, en complément, personnellement, si vous voulez trouver un homme sincère qui vous ira comme un gant, je vous conseille le livre "SÉDUIRE L'HOMME DE VOS RÊVES", de Nathan Stone. Le gars est psychologue et tout apparemment. Une copine m'a dit qu'il y a tout ce qu'il faut savoir, clair, pas de discours superflu, le top. Elle dit que ça a changé sa vie et ses relations carrément ! 👌

  • @prarthana2804
    @prarthana2804 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    3:50

  • @mariamosher13
    @mariamosher13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are a healer Ismael ❤️‍🩹

  • @khushboogupta2051
    @khushboogupta2051 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @kngsslgirv7004
    @kngsslgirv7004 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    C'mon im a pisces who's obsessing over a virgo😂

    • @puresoul23tv38
      @puresoul23tv38 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me😂😂

    • @Carrie6219
      @Carrie6219 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me, at work 😅😅😅😅 but after watching this video I'll move to something else

  • @surjeetsingh-gg8ql
    @surjeetsingh-gg8ql 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    1:35 💗🤌🏻 great