unless the OP took it down, there was another update to this where he finds out that his wife lied to her friend that it was OP’s idea to completely stay away from the friend. So when OP confronted the friend in public, the friend admitted this and said that OP’s wife doesn’t deserve OP because she’s controlling which is why she made a move on him. In the end, OP is filing for divorce and “getting away from all the crazy”.
I dunno if my anger is justified... but I think the wife is TA, possibly putting it lightly. I mean, OP was SA'd by Lynn, but the wife treats him like a serial cheater and is taking advatage of him. If the tables were flipped and Lynn was the one who had a friend come onto her, I doubt the wife would call her friend a harlot. Instead, she'd show empathy, compassion, and treat Lynn like the victım.... but she didn't even ask if her husband is doing well mentally.
OP, WTF is wrong with you? Your wife has overreacted to the extreme. You came clean, you didn't actually cheat and the only reason you didn't tell her immediately is because you worried about her. You've done almost nothing wrong. Like the only better thing to do was to tell her immediately. But your wife had a MASSIVE overreaction to this and if you don't put your foot down regarding some stuff, like the stuff you say you are uncomfortable doing, your marriage will be over.
I am still a little heated, so sorry if this comes out harshly, but he did nothing wrong at all. Aren't women considered brave for admitting SA years later? So why isn't it the same case for OP?
@@Maninawig Well, since 9.5 times out of 10, men are stronger than women physically, its difficult to imagine a Guy being assaulted by a Girl. Like the assault over here was being kissed. If a girl says she was assaulted when a guy kissed her, most of society will add certain bad parts themselves and treat it seriously. In case of a guy, the question "you cant be assauted you are a guy", "you could always push her away" etc come up. Not to mention most of the Guy's friends would high five him for that event. Really have to train people about the sensitivity of such matters.
hey, it would be great if you could leave the usernames of the people in the stories in the description or a pinned comment. i and many others would greatly appreciate it
@@DurvishZadoo Man they won't be any more exposed to harassment as they already are. Remember that these stories are picked from reddit itself? I personally would love to have a link to the original post in the description
unless the OP took it down, there was another update to this where he finds out that his wife lied to her friend that it was OP’s idea to completely stay away from the friend. So when OP confronted the friend in public, the friend admitted this and said that OP’s wife doesn’t deserve OP because she’s controlling which is why she made a move on him. In the end, OP is filing for divorce and “getting away from all the crazy”.
Wow, i thought op's wife is also having something behind his back after she went ballistic
I dunno if my anger is justified... but I think the wife is TA, possibly putting it lightly. I mean, OP was SA'd by Lynn, but the wife treats him like a serial cheater and is taking advatage of him.
If the tables were flipped and Lynn was the one who had a friend come onto her, I doubt the wife would call her friend a harlot. Instead, she'd show empathy, compassion, and treat Lynn like the victım.... but she didn't even ask if her husband is doing well mentally.
OP, WTF is wrong with you? Your wife has overreacted to the extreme. You came clean, you didn't actually cheat and the only reason you didn't tell her immediately is because you worried about her. You've done almost nothing wrong. Like the only better thing to do was to tell her immediately. But your wife had a MASSIVE overreaction to this and if you don't put your foot down regarding some stuff, like the stuff you say you are uncomfortable doing, your marriage will be over.
I am still a little heated, so sorry if this comes out harshly, but he did nothing wrong at all. Aren't women considered brave for admitting SA years later? So why isn't it the same case for OP?
@@Maninawig Well, since 9.5 times out of 10, men are stronger than women physically, its difficult to imagine a Guy being assaulted by a Girl. Like the assault over here was being kissed. If a girl says she was assaulted when a guy kissed her, most of society will add certain bad parts themselves and treat it seriously. In case of a guy, the question "you cant be assauted you are a guy", "you could always push her away" etc come up. Not to mention most of the Guy's friends would high five him for that event. Really have to train people about the sensitivity of such matters.
hey, it would be great if you could leave the usernames of the people in the stories in the description or a pinned comment. i and many others would greatly appreciate it
No? That would leave these people open for harrasment.
@@DurvishZadoo Man they won't be any more exposed to harassment as they already are.
Remember that these stories are picked from reddit itself?
I personally would love to have a link to the original post in the description
@DurvishZadoo tf? They're posting on reddit, people seeing the story on TH-cam is a small fraction
@@VeryGoodDeals Small fraction true, still could leave people up for harrasment, it's better they stay anonymous.
@@DurvishZadoo theyre already anonymous on reddit