I agree with your friends, you need someone on your own level; Someone who rolls their eyes at you and dismisses you when you talk, who doesn't do anything around the house and expects you to do it all, someone who openly mocks you and has no respect for you, someone who takes your love for granted and throws it in your face.
Yeah I agree. Also, she’s definitely going to miss her and come back to her and isn’t happier without her… She’s talking like she’s such a prize and any guy would be lucky to have her… She’s also says that he will come back to her and misses her, but she’s the one reaching out to him… Wow just wow. The level of entitlement, stupidity and arrogance is so high that even the friends would run away like they’ve done.
You mistook kindness and love for weakness. Enjoy your cats. BTW you gave NOTHING but scorn and disrespect to your husband. You're the embodiment of if you treat her like a queen.She will eventually start to view you as a mere subject. I know it's a fantasy but perhaps one day you will take accountability for your actions but I doubt it narcissists, like you always see everybody else as the problem but not your part in it.
I just don't understand people who are either in the deepest delusions of denial and entitlement or are simply just incredibly stupid. When you finally have enough and leave they are all like "I don't understand, I don't understand"! Then short circuit they're brains about why the person left them. Cause your a crappy person that's why.
I don’t understand…. why did she lose respect for her husband for pretty much keeping her happy? What did she want? An abusive husband- God forbid who always gives you “a challenge”?
You call Jack a "perfect husband," and yet you belittle him at every chance you get when you're with your friends and community. You deserve what you get.
Key lesson to all. If someone can't ask for something in a kind and respectful way they don't deserve it. Don't desperately work for the love of someone who doesn't treat you with kindness or respect. If someone does something wrong they have to own it and apologize so it's established it is unacceptable behavior. So Jack needed to enforce healthy boundaries and expectations. Let me explain the cycle. One partner wants to be loving but doesn't enforce healthy boundaries and expectations. The other partner selfishly demands something unreasonable. The loving partner gives in. The selfish partner then starts expecting it. The selfish partner demands increasingly more unreasonable things. If the loving partner argues the selfish partner gets mean and/or withholds affection and affirmation. Sometimes even if the loving partner doesn't argue the selfish partner does that to establish power. This leads to a problem where the loving partner is treated as worthless and unloved and disrespected. The loving partner instead of demanding reasonable expectations and boundaries(equitable distribution of responsibilities and treatment) becomes desperate for their selfish partner's love and affirmation. The selfish partner becomes less and less invested and loving and respectful of their partner. This often leads to cheating and or divorce but is poisonous and needs to end. To have a healthy relationship this cycle needs to be avoided. That requires both partners to establish healthy boundaries and expectations. This involves communication to ensure problems are addressed and fixed or explained in an open way without getting defensive. i.e. husband works and feels tired and notices house is a mess when he works all day. Wife who is home with kids took care of them and trying to clean while loving and take care of them is difficult and she is tired and wants rest. Proper communication can make them understand each position without getting angry or resentful. Most importantly if someone can't be polite and respectful with their demands they don't deserve them.
@@kylec3150Thats why i think that matching partners energy is perfect strategy. Be kind, but when partner doesnt respect you, put them in their place immediately. Treat fire with fire and love with love.
That is what happens to people when no one puts boundaries on them and especially women. My dad used to be this nice helping guy, who was helping people all around. Then he started putting boundaries and everyone got hurt that he wouldn't bend backwards for them anymore. He lost few "friends" but in the end he got better friends who actually respect his boundaries now.
@@Hoki4i think the biggest problem society has is kissing each other rear. Speaking truth is way more important than useless friends who make your life worse. Too many people are affraid to be alone.
"I know he'll regret and miss me" LMAO, he finally realised he's far better off without a useless waste of space that is OP. Let's just hope she stays single forever and doesn't torment other potential partners in the future.
😢 this genius had the nerve to say she gave everything she had to her friends and her husband has the funniest thing I’ve ever heard in my life. I’ve met stupid broadside before but this chit takes it to a new level 😀😋🤪
Here's the thing about alcohol. It lowers your inhibitions and allows your suppressed thoughts and feelings to take the forefront. So, instead of blaming alcohol, blame yourself.
What’s funny is that she spent all her time egging her husband for her friends validation only for her marriage to implode and all those friends leaving her in the dust. All that teasing and disrespect towards her husband was for nothing.😂
Everybody has a breaking point, so of course Jack is gonna say "screw this, i'm out of here" i'm glad that nowadays more people are more open to cutting off toxic relationships rather than simply putting up with it
"I have better things to do than create a fake reddit post." Things like ridicule your husband with your friends at every opportunity? This is why you should nit be a stay at home wife if there aren't children under school age in the home. It leads to too much idle time, which leads to trouble.
He made the effort, and she dumped hydrofluoric acid in his face and he finally gave up on her being savable. He moved on and she wonders why? The advice I would give her, move on, there is nothing she can do to fix this because she wants the safe back but has not changed.
I get the impression that OP will never improve.Never ever read a post before that was so full of self-pity and delusion.Contragulations to OP's ex for his much happier life that will surely result from ditching this awful,toxic creature.
Now your ex husband Jack, have you a challenge. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Also, your college friends just wanted drama for God’s sake…. How didn’t you get that? Why would they fuel your resentment and ego towards your husband?
He's better off without you. YOU ran him off AND allowed YOUR friends to contribute to the END of the marriage. Change your tune drastically when getting back into the dating scene or enjoy the boxed wine and cats. Gentlemen, NEVER NEVER EVER accept an unemployed woman who doesn't contribute to the household in any way monetarily, as well as physically. You did this all yourself toots.
He was validating her by doing all of that stuff. She wanted validation from others because she is one of those people who need many people to validate them because of their own self hatred
Why should he take you back. You hurt him sooo badly. You saw the hurt on his face, but you kept on going. Your friends are NO friends. Move on with your life and find someone else. You will find someone else. I do sincerely hope that you have a good life and happiness.
"I gave so much to my friends and Husband and now i'm left with nothing" pog the hubris, she knew she was slowly killing he husband and when the dude finally had enough and divorced her ass now she plays the victim.
What a selfish lady. She deserves to be alone until she gets her crap straight I hope the ex finds someone who treats him with respect and he never again settles for less then that.
Since you are obviously not taking responsibility you are going to have a long hard Road. Your marriage is over. He will never trust or love you ever again
So she isnt hurt or confused. Ya sure beating someone senseless leaves your knuckles lil sore sorta but hey your not the injured party. He resented him for loving and caring for her. Emotionally abusive and openly enjoying being a degrading pos. He rewarded her horrable behavior instead of just tossing her out.
Yup, if you work all day, come home, cook, clean, do laundry, dishes, trash, yard work, and the vehicle maintenance you don't need a worthless wife you are single, might as well end it and be single.
You know its fake because he was able to get her out of the house so quickly. Its almost impossible to get someone out of your house if they had been living there for a while. If she was just renting he would bare minimum need at least 2 weeks. If hes divorcing her, the only thing getting her out is the courts.
You gave nothing to your husband, mocking and insulting your husband is giving him something? You gave more to your friends than the man who actually cared about you.
I would want a man who loved me so much that he put me first, but I would do the same. Why complain on SM if you just want justification. Be a woman and prove that you are just like you expected your husband to be a man
You were the 1 that was toxic toots. Of course they wanna get with him, they see what a good man he is. He doesn't want you nor them gee can't imagine why bwahahahaha!
Wait wait wait did you address everyone in the comments? Saying that the hate is too much? Did she even asked herself that question when it came to her husband??
This woman calls reddit toxic, reddit is pathetic a den of gossipers and cuckold simps. She is pathetic and her ex a total simp doormat Mr nice guy. She is toxic, she destroyed this nice guy. I hope the wimp learned something or his life is going to be a hell. He had no spine.
Wow OP needs to grow tf up. People spend their whole life looking for a partner like Jack & OP got one & 💩 all over him. I hope Jack is living his best life now & I hope OP is living the life she deserves.
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All I heard was "Me, me, me, me." What a pathetic waste of space.
1 he won`t regret it
2 he won`t miss you
any questions?
will i find myself in a situatiopn like yours?No, i don`t constantly demean someone i tell everyone i `love`.
@@TheCentralScrutinizerAgain Whats the meaning of life.
I agree with your friends, you need someone on your own level; Someone who rolls their eyes at you and dismisses you when you talk, who doesn't do anything around the house and expects you to do it all, someone who openly mocks you and has no respect for you, someone who takes your love for granted and throws it in your face.
Yeah I agree.
Also, she’s definitely going to miss her and come back to her and isn’t happier without her…
She’s talking like she’s such a prize and any guy would be lucky to have her…
She’s also says that he will come back to her and misses her, but she’s the one reaching out to him…
Wow just wow.
The level of entitlement, stupidity and arrogance is so high that even the friends would run away like they’ve done.
You mistook kindness and love for weakness. Enjoy your cats. BTW you gave NOTHING but scorn and disrespect to your husband. You're the embodiment of if you treat her like a queen.She will eventually start to view you as a mere subject. I know it's a fantasy but perhaps one day you will take accountability for your actions but I doubt it narcissists, like you always see everybody else as the problem but not your part in it.
This behavior is far too common, to even consider marriage a viable option.
"My relationship isn't over" she got kicked out and the i know he'll regret this had me laughing out loud nearly crying form laughter
A woman's job is to bring her man peace, NOT be a piece of the problem.
That's not a woman's job, that's a partner's job. It goes for both men and women.
When she said he would come back to her but she'd reject him.... What? Even in her remorse she's full of herself.
Her life was destroyed, but if she gets it back, she's going to reject him . . . . what a trudwipe!
I don't think he would come back, but if he did, she'd take him back. She's obviously desperate enough. She's just talking big.
He won’t come back, you foolish….,
She disrespects her husband and now finds it unfair he walked out or the marriage? Seriously?!?!
I just don't understand people who are either in the deepest delusions of denial and entitlement or are simply just incredibly stupid. When you finally have enough and leave they are all like "I don't understand, I don't understand"! Then short circuit they're brains about why the person left them. Cause your a crappy person that's why.
Oh honey, your relationship is SOOOOO OVER, and he ain’t coming back.
I don’t understand…. why did she lose respect for her husband for pretty much keeping her happy?
What did she want? An abusive husband- God forbid who always gives you “a challenge”?
She wanted a Tyrone and wonder why she feels as the victim.
Because she stupid
You call Jack a "perfect husband," and yet you belittle him at every chance you get when you're with your friends and community. You deserve what you get.
Key lesson to all. If someone can't ask for something in a kind and respectful way they don't deserve it. Don't desperately work for the love of someone who doesn't treat you with kindness or respect. If someone does something wrong they have to own it and apologize so it's established it is unacceptable behavior.
So Jack needed to enforce healthy boundaries and expectations. Let me explain the cycle. One partner wants to be loving but doesn't enforce healthy boundaries and expectations. The other partner selfishly demands something unreasonable. The loving partner gives in. The selfish partner then starts expecting it. The selfish partner demands increasingly more unreasonable things. If the loving partner argues the selfish partner gets mean and/or withholds affection and affirmation. Sometimes even if the loving partner doesn't argue the selfish partner does that to establish power. This leads to a problem where the loving partner is treated as worthless and unloved and disrespected. The loving partner instead of demanding reasonable expectations and boundaries(equitable distribution of responsibilities and treatment) becomes desperate for their selfish partner's love and affirmation. The selfish partner becomes less and less invested and loving and respectful of their partner. This often leads to cheating and or divorce but is poisonous and needs to end.
To have a healthy relationship this cycle needs to be avoided. That requires both partners to establish healthy boundaries and expectations. This involves communication to ensure problems are addressed and fixed or explained in an open way without getting defensive. i.e. husband works and feels tired and notices house is a mess when he works all day. Wife who is home with kids took care of them and trying to clean while loving and take care of them is difficult and she is tired and wants rest. Proper communication can make them understand each position without getting angry or resentful. Most importantly if someone can't be polite and respectful with their demands they don't deserve them.
Jack was a perfect doormat
@@kylec3150Thats why i think that matching partners energy is perfect strategy.
Be kind, but when partner doesnt respect you, put them in their place immediately.
Treat fire with fire and love with love.
the way she acted so entitled and played the victim this whole time after hurting her fiancé so bad is crazy…
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That is what happens to people when no one puts boundaries on them and especially women. My dad used to be this nice helping guy, who was helping people all around. Then he started putting boundaries and everyone got hurt that he wouldn't bend backwards for them anymore.
He lost few "friends" but in the end he got better friends who actually respect his boundaries now.
@@Hoki4i think the biggest problem society has is kissing each other rear.
Speaking truth is way more important than useless friends who make your life worse.
Too many people are affraid to be alone.
The fact you think your husband is gonna regret leaving you is music to my ears 😂
😊
He's gonna miss her like a dog misses its fleas
Don't do to others what you don't want to be done to yourself.
What a horrible human being. She blames her friends and did not mention the cheating.
Yeah probably.
How did she suddenly withdraw and disconnect from her husband?
He won't regret it!
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Lisa, you brought this upon yourself. Him leaving is exactly what you deserve.
he treated her like a queen so she treated him like a peasant.
Reddit is toxic? Really? Sooooooo she's humiliating her sweet husband for fun and she's not toxic?
"I know he'll regret and miss me" LMAO, he finally realised he's far better off without a useless waste of space that is OP. Let's just hope she stays single forever and doesn't torment other potential partners in the future.
😢 this genius had the nerve to say she gave everything she had to her friends and her husband has the funniest thing I’ve ever heard in my life. I’ve met stupid broadside before but this chit takes it to a new level 😀😋🤪
Here's the thing about alcohol.
It lowers your inhibitions and allows your suppressed thoughts and feelings to take the forefront.
So, instead of blaming alcohol, blame yourself.
So he treated you beyond what you were worth and belittled him. Now you’re upset he had enough of your abuse
What’s funny is that she spent all her time egging her husband for her friends validation only for her marriage to implode and all those friends leaving her in the dust. All that teasing and disrespect towards her husband was for nothing.😂
She decided to destroy her relationship as usual
Everybody has a breaking point, so of course Jack is gonna say "screw this, i'm out of here" i'm glad that nowadays more people are more open to cutting off toxic relationships rather than simply putting up with it
Causes all of this and has the audacity to call people who criticized her toxic. OP has a lot more to reap and sow.
"I have better things to do than create a fake reddit post."
Things like ridicule your husband with your friends at every opportunity? This is why you should nit be a stay at home wife if there aren't children under school age in the home. It leads to too much idle time, which leads to trouble.
Remember even the wonders in Garden of Eden is not enough for eve
Its amazing how easily she says she's taking accountability while doing everything but actually take accountability for her actions.
S1, YATI, obviously, you had better go out and buy some new outfits, because you’re getting back on the market as a divorcee
He made the effort, and she dumped hydrofluoric acid in his face and he finally gave up on her being savable. He moved on and she wonders why? The advice I would give her, move on, there is nothing she can do to fix this because she wants the safe back but has not changed.
Yeah we're all just as shocked as she is that Jack is happier without her. Such a surprise.
What'd she give for her husband? Nothing? Yeah thats what i thought.
What man that can do better regrets doing better.
And with how many you cheated? You left it out intentionally?
Probably fake story. But this shiit does happen in life.
I get the impression that OP will never improve.Never ever read a post before that was so full of self-pity and delusion.Contragulations to OP's ex for his much happier life that will surely result from ditching this awful,toxic creature.
Now your ex husband Jack, have you a challenge. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Also, your college friends just wanted drama for God’s sake…. How didn’t you get that?
Why would they fuel your resentment and ego towards your husband?
They not your friends lady 😅😅😅
To OP I ask a single question: What did you learn from this experience?
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He's better off without you. YOU ran him off AND allowed YOUR friends to contribute to the END of the marriage. Change your tune drastically when getting back into the dating scene or enjoy the boxed wine and cats. Gentlemen, NEVER NEVER EVER accept an unemployed woman who doesn't contribute to the household in any way monetarily, as well as physically. You did this all yourself toots.
Disrespecting your husband is never a good thing. He tried everything to save his marriage
He was validating her by doing all of that stuff. She wanted validation from others because she is one of those people who need many people to validate them because of their own self hatred
1. This OP is disgusting and a dummy to boot. Jack deserves a better woman.
Why should he take you back. You hurt him sooo badly. You saw the hurt on his face, but you kept on going. Your friends are NO friends. Move on with your life and find someone else. You will find someone else. I do sincerely hope that you have a good life and happiness.
"I gave so much to my friends and Husband and now i'm left with nothing" pog the hubris, she knew she was slowly killing he husband and when the dude finally had enough and divorced her ass now she plays the victim.
Im glad i got to see healthy relationships and marriages growing up
What a selfish lady. She deserves to be alone until she gets her crap straight I hope the ex finds someone who treats him with respect and he never again settles for less then that.
This should be satirical, but . . . there really are people that stupid, vile, atrocious.
*Love how women have excuses even when it comes to abusing their partners.*
The only reason she's with him is because she is lazy. 😮😅
Wow the delusional entitlement lol
“Emotional intelligence?”
What dat?
*Christ! Jack needs some self respect. I wouldn't put up with an ounce of the crap that doormat did.*
This woman is truly gross.
Since you are obviously not taking responsibility you are going to have a long hard Road. Your marriage is over. He will never trust or love you ever again
So she isnt hurt or confused.
Ya sure beating someone senseless leaves your knuckles lil sore sorta but hey your not the injured party.
He resented him for loving and caring for her.
Emotionally abusive and openly enjoying being a degrading pos.
He rewarded her horrable behavior instead of just tossing her out.
12:52 She's still set on having vengence and hurting him.
Yup, if you work all day, come home, cook, clean, do laundry, dishes, trash, yard work, and the vehicle maintenance you don't need a worthless wife you are single, might as well end it and be single.
You know its fake because he was able to get her out of the house so quickly. Its almost impossible to get someone out of your house if they had been living there for a while. If she was just renting he would bare minimum need at least 2 weeks. If hes divorcing her, the only thing getting her out is the courts.
You gave nothing to your husband, mocking and insulting your husband is giving him something? You gave more to your friends than the man who actually cared about you.
So he treats you good and you crap on him...women and accountability SMDH
Another goofball story 😅😅😅 she embarrassed him
Women ☕️
He is not weak, he just loves You. Youre just ungrateful.
I would want a man who loved me so much that he put me first, but I would do the same. Why complain on SM if you just want justification. Be a woman and prove that you are just like you expected your husband to be a man
Respect to ur husband....and karma got you haha tsk you dont deserve them jack tsk
bruh this is just rage bait lmao.
You can tell when they say their name. No one actually does that.
Yeah, it definitely is. But it is also accurate rage bait LOL. Women are very much like this
Men is marriage worth it anymore really?
You were the 1 that was toxic toots. Of course they wanna get with him, they see what a good man he is. He doesn't want you nor them gee can't imagine why bwahahahaha!
I empathize with his actual friends telling him deserved better. I get why they left. He was a doormat
Hmmm
Jack was an idiot. He should put his foot down as soon as she wanted to be a stay at home wife.
No. Waaaay sooner, and not put his foot down but divorce
What exactly did she give to her husband? That was positive
So, you are a modern woman with a traditional husband. How did that work for you? Traditional men will only put up with so much.
Wait wait wait did you address everyone in the comments? Saying that the hate is too much? Did she even asked herself that question when it came to her husband??
13:35 gave what exactly?
Fake af
What's the game playing? N Lisa is a horrible person
Hummm woman kkkkkkkkk
Well this is the story of a weak man.
This woman calls reddit toxic, reddit is pathetic a den of gossipers and cuckold simps. She is pathetic and her ex a total simp doormat Mr nice guy. She is toxic, she destroyed this nice guy. I hope the wimp learned something or his life is going to be a hell. He had no spine.
Wow OP needs to grow tf up. People spend their whole life looking for a partner like Jack & OP got one & 💩 all over him. I hope Jack is living his best life now & I hope OP is living the life she deserves.
So he treated you beyond what you were worth and belittled him. Now you’re upset he had enough of your abuse