I tell you this woman thinks she's something. She didn't even mention anything like apologizing..... right? Or maybe I didn't get that. But either way she should just be better. The husband didn't say anything because he was hoping that she would see the wrong and correct herself, but in the end she it was just herself. Just stay single
Oh no, she's a princess, so she never does anything wrong. And if you try to help her see otherwise, then you are toxic! On the other hand, I've observed that most married Western women under age 60 love to insult their husbands in public, and take advantage of their husbands in private. MGTOW or Passport Bros, gentlemen.
You call Jack a "perfect husband," and yet you belittle him at every chance you get when you're with your friends and community. You deserve what you get.
Key lesson to all. If someone can't ask for something in a kind and respectful way they don't deserve it. Don't desperately work for the love of someone who doesn't treat you with kindness or respect. If someone does something wrong they have to own it and apologize so it's established it is unacceptable behavior. So Jack needed to enforce healthy boundaries and expectations. Let me explain the cycle. One partner wants to be loving but doesn't enforce healthy boundaries and expectations. The other partner selfishly demands something unreasonable. The loving partner gives in. The selfish partner then starts expecting it. The selfish partner demands increasingly more unreasonable things. If the loving partner argues the selfish partner gets mean and/or withholds affection and affirmation. Sometimes even if the loving partner doesn't argue the selfish partner does that to establish power. This leads to a problem where the loving partner is treated as worthless and unloved and disrespected. The loving partner instead of demanding reasonable expectations and boundaries(equitable distribution of responsibilities and treatment) becomes desperate for their selfish partner's love and affirmation. The selfish partner becomes less and less invested and loving and respectful of their partner. This often leads to cheating and or divorce but is poisonous and needs to end. To have a healthy relationship this cycle needs to be avoided. That requires both partners to establish healthy boundaries and expectations. This involves communication to ensure problems are addressed and fixed or explained in an open way without getting defensive. i.e. husband works and feels tired and notices house is a mess when he works all day. Wife who is home with kids took care of them and trying to clean while loving and take care of them is difficult and she is tired and wants rest. Proper communication can make them understand each position without getting angry or resentful. Most importantly if someone can't be polite and respectful with their demands they don't deserve them.
@@kylec3150Thats why i think that matching partners energy is perfect strategy. Be kind, but when partner doesnt respect you, put them in their place immediately. Treat fire with fire and love with love.
Thats because she knew she got the simp and she can say and do anything she wants because he is a simp. Dont ever put a girl on a pedestal because she will treat you like a fan.
Jack was actually smart in a way. Instead of reducing all the perks, he made her increasingly more dependent on him then suddenly dropped her like a stone 😈
At least she's being honest! Letting us see the true HER! Few women are this accommodating! Few ever take accountability in a case like this! Often blaming the husband to the last! ;-(
@@Fiero425 She wasn't really taking accountability, though. She blames her friends for "driving a wedge between her and her husband", she blames her husband for leaving her over it and though she pays lip service to "trying to become a better person" and claims to understand that she's "suffering the consequences of her own actions" the line about knowing her husband will regret it and that she won't take him back (as if she is the one who has been wronged) are very clear indicators that she hasn't done any real introspection at all and still considers her husband to be over-reacting and her friends to be the villains of the story - as does her dismissal of all the people on Reddit pointing that out as "toxic haters". She also doesn't get credit for her honesty from me, either. She's only being as candid as she is because she truly doesn't understand how terrible she is and is expecting people to side with her.
@@Fiero425 And yet at the end she believes her husband is wrong. There is a difference in telling yourself you are wrong and accepting you are wrong. She takes no accountability for her actions.
@@lonwolf7922Yeah, I feel like she's kinda lying about the story about her friends.Her friends probably weren't even berating him.She did claim one of them were saying.What a good husband he was and she was most likely.The one berating him and them not talking to her.Is them realizing how absolutely narcissistic and crazy she was But that's just my theory
@Baptisteog18 Which most women tend to figure out when its far too late. But i suspect the 'toxic' responses were not bad, but just saying she was in the wrong and was a bad person and she couldn't handle the accountability.....this is why you should never, EVER treat a woman like a Queen, she will take you for granted.
@@laumay7364 I've started to believe 4chan stories are more credible than reddit stories at this point. Is this story realistic? Somewhat, yeah. But its too unrealistic for a woman like that to make such a post.
She went to therapy, presumably expecting support and validation. She will come to be disappointed when the therapist diagnoses her with narcissistic personality disorder and ways to cope with it by changing her behavior.
@@hibosmo Well men are good at physical fighting while women cornered the market in emotional/reputation warfare. Makes sense and speaking from my time in highschool females are far more cut throat than men are baring serial killer CEO's.
I agree with your friends, you need someone on your own level; Someone who rolls their eyes at you and dismisses you when you talk, who doesn't do anything around the house and expects you to do it all, someone who openly mocks you and has no respect for you, someone who takes your love for granted and throws it in your face.
Yeah I agree. Also, she’s definitely going to miss her and come back to her and isn’t happier without her… She’s talking like she’s such a prize and any guy would be lucky to have her… She’s also says that he will come back to her and misses her, but she’s the one reaching out to him… Wow just wow. The level of entitlement, stupidity and arrogance is so high that even the friends would run away like they’ve done.
You mistook kindness and love for weakness. Enjoy your cats. BTW you gave NOTHING but scorn and disrespect to your husband. You're the embodiment of if you treat her like a queen.She will eventually start to view you as a mere subject. I know it's a fantasy but perhaps one day you will take accountability for your actions but I doubt it narcissists, like you always see everybody else as the problem but not your part in it.
The irony, that every one of her friends tried to swoop up Jack for herself as soon as the divorce ended. Her trash was quite literally every other woman's treasure, yet she couldn't see him as that.
Sounds exactly the same as my ex wife. She came home drunk again one evening. She stood there and prodded my chest with her finger telling me I didn’t have the balls to leave her. I was gone by the time she woke up.
@@timmy1tap678 If he raised his voice once society will label him an abuser. She loved treating him like a doormat and if he showed any restraint, she would've turned the entire neighborhood against him.
@@timmy1tap678 That's how society will see it and last I checked, a man is guilty until proven innocent. Women like these are always yapping about looking for an equal partner until they get someone who doesn't give them their way and run to social media. Several times in the video she said she was wrong and still managed to play victim where people like you blame him for her mistakes.
Hey..don't forget a good number of us average looking women, hate these chicks too... We are worried these crazy chicks are gonna destroy the good thing that we women have in the West.. And it's never good for society to complete destroyed a hopes of your young men, and make it impossible for them to settle down.. Instead of praising masculinity that is positive, like protection, and stoicism, these women exploit men's traits to humiliate them.. I am so angry&sad about the backlash that's gonna happen because of the way that they're being treatedm@@lonwolf7922 But I'm hoping this is an AI story, because even though I've heard very similar stories from women, the way this one is told ..isvweird.. But maybe she just ChatGPT to create her post cause she's lazy&gross
This is why men need to have standarrds and boundaries. They need to set the borders of acceptable behaviour early, otherwise, they will end in a miserable marriage with a wife that doesn't respect him. I will give her credit, where credit is due, she did not cheat on him, at least, she did not admit it in her post.
"...and I won't take him back!" Uh huh. Sure. "I don't need anyone's pity or judgement." Yes, you do. You genuinely need their judgment to correct your trifling idiocy.
I can bet you 100 bucks. She is stocking him right now and when he gets a new girlfriend that does respect him and have children of his own, she’ll be the one that’s gonna be venting and we have more updates soon.
The best part was her saying "I did so much for my husband and now I'm left with nothing" like wut.? She was a stay at home wife who did nothing but trash the house and expected her husband to cook and clean all by himself all while working to support her leech ass and then she makes fun of him constantly and somehow thinks she did "sooooo much for him.!" Then to think he'll regret it and come crawling back. Honey, why would he want to come back to a leech who abused him.?
The moment I heard that bit I said to myself "this is one goofy ass story". Then she starts talking about how she's learning from her mistakes and pulls the "after everything I did for him". I just couldn't hold it in, this is probably one of the most hilarious reddit story I've ever listened to.
One of her friends, probably the one who laughed at Jack the least and participated in belittling Jack the least, pumped her fist when she heard Jack left OP and made her play to date Jack with hopes of marrying him. She played OP like a fiddle and now she can take what she convinced OP throw away like trash.
And her saying she's hurt because he looks so happy without her. Like jeez I wonder why he would look so much happier without an abusive leech in his life.? The fact she got upset over people doing to her what she did to Jack is just wild to me. She's delulu.
@@johnclemons2208 so true, when we are punching above our weight it’s tempting to believe we are in love but I suppose to some extent we are. And as you write quite out he was devoted why wouldn’t a man be devoted if he was in love with a woman. (I know, a blue pill concept but at my age, 67, I still have some of it) unfortunately, devotion may not be a weakness but it certainly a vulnerability.
OP, It's over. When a man says "I'm done", you've crossed a line that you cannot come back from. It means any good feelings he had for you are gone......
Yep, Jack did everything to try and make the relationship work but OP couldn't see it. When a man says he's done there is no amount of begging, crying, or therapy that will fix things
I just don't understand people who are either in the deepest delusions of denial and entitlement or are simply just incredibly stupid. When you finally have enough and leave they are all like "I don't understand, I don't understand"! Then short circuit they're brains about why the person left them. Cause your a crappy person that's why.
@hainleysimpson1507 I know plenty, but even stupid people don't flaunt their stupidity and cruelty like that. That's not how they operate. Only AI and people farming rage bait write self aware Saturday cartoon villains.
"Treat her like a star, she'll treat you like a fan." This chick is so delusional to think he'll dream of taking her egotistical,condescending, toxic butt back. Good on you Jack for finally dumping her.
Yeah you can’t do what Jack did in this video. When you do everything for a partner and don’t check them on their behavior they’re going to walk all over you. It would be nice if you could be like Jack but it’s just not possible.
Yeah, he's not really an idiot or simp in the end, good for him, some guys just don't realize that, kindness and warmth can make us look weak and pathetic if only we lived in a perfect world, I'd even be better than this jack guy
@randy4609 I wouldn't call him either he's just a genuinely Genuinly great person this woman just is such a shitty person idk how on gods earth she could take advantage of her husband and mock him for being a good person and then have the gal to say "he's going to come back" shameless behavior
No way this is real. It has to be rage bait. There is no way somebody is so moronic that they would admit this online and then act like a victim when they get hate for not having learned their lesson
It's worth noting that these reddit stories on TH-cam have become a bit of a niche hussle and it's not out of the realm of possibility that some of these channels are outright fabricating rage bait on reddit using creative writing at best and AI generated slop at worst.
OP left her home for a hotel. She did nothing but mock him. And when he finally grew a spine, her entire life fell apart. OP got exactly what she deserves and needs to do better.
Im glad to hear that jack is doing well now that he is single. He never really needed her. All she did was tear him down despite what he did for her. He slaved for her, did everything for her and she never even really gave him the respect he deserved. She was literally a ball and chain for him, holding him back. I came from a relationship that was very similar to this. I did everything. The cooking, the cleaning, the laundry, paying for dates, buying her gifts, even took care of her dogs while she did nothing but smoke weed and party with her friends and other guys. I left similarly to Jack. After about 2 years of that at the end of a 5 year relationship I just had had enough. I just packed up my things one day and left.
“The very people who drove a wedge between us” she really is pushing all the blame on everyone else rather then taking accountability for her actions. He gave her countless opportunities to change and she didn’t take a single one and when he finally snaps she plays the victim card and cries about Reddit being toxic. Thsi woman will never find a lasting relationship
"I know he'll regret and miss me" LMAO, he finally realised he's far better off without a useless waste of space that is OP. Let's just hope she stays single forever and doesn't torment other potential partners in the future.
What’s funny is that she spent all her time egging her husband for her friends validation only for her marriage to implode and all those friends leaving her in the dust. All that teasing and disrespect towards her husband was for nothing.😂
Only for her to then use her pitty-party as an excuse to get more validation on reddit by constantly posting "last updates" and telling off the haters... People truly don't change... And the sad part is that it's not because they can't, it's because they don't want to. She'll chase cheap validation forever because it's easier than putting in work for a healthy relationship.
The dude needed to stand up for himself early. Good boundaries are needed in every relationship. Also, the common trend I notice in these disrespectful wife stories is discipline not only brings them in line, but restores intimacy.
@@benjaminmarshall5071 I disagree. If he had said something earlier she would have stopped now and then continued later a husband shouldn't have to ask his wife to stop treating him like shit
@@Lemonpepperwett Exactly this shit right here^^^. This is why the Modern Concept of a Relationship is Dead Basically. Too many Women and Men pull these same tropes it's so tiresome. Women want a Badboy who treats them like Shit and an Object. Then when they've have their fun want to settle down with Mr.Dependable/Captain Saveahoe. And Men bend over backwards way too easily and have put Women on a Pedestal. And for anyone who sees this and wants to say otherwise in my Short Life I've seen this Very Scenario first hand well over 100 times at this point just from First Hand Experience. Tell me I'm wrong cause as far as I'm seeing this is just the way Modern Trend went way too far and there's no real going back. And people wonder why I actively refused to get into a Relationship Post Highschool. With all this Drama, Monetary Issues of the World, and My Overall Incompatibility for a Relationship and I just sit there looking at them dumbfounded. Like is that even a question in this day and age and don't even get me started on Marriage. That is such an Institutionalized Mess I wouldn't even know where to begin on that Topic.
"I gave so much to my friends and my husband" 1.- You don't have friends, you have people who find amusement on your situation, you don't know what a friend is 2.- What exactly did you give to your husband? you sat on your ass all day to talk smack of him behind his back and then in front of him. What exactly does he gain by staying with you? What would he miss or lose by divorcing you? Hopefully he takes areally long look at himself, grows a spine, and then rebuilds his life, slowly but making sure there's no one to take advantage of him
She probably said something really harsh like him being replaceable, got so bored spending all his money or looking for someone with passion. The nasty bits that got left out so that she didn't seem to be such a bad person.
When quiet men like Jack get hurt by the partner like this, you can bet a lot of money that he will stay out of relationships for a long time, hurting an introvert who opened up to you is a surefire way to make sure he doesn't open up again.
@@Yama_44 That’s exactly correct. The only way I see it working out is if this lady (Lisa, right?) completely destroyed her own ego (ego death), and did all in her power possible to be a good wife for him, and to focus herself on being there for him. You do not hurt someone like this without hurting yourself. You just go through fire and you spit it out
Heard this one before. She's *still* delusional - she still thinks Jack will be back and she'll reject him. She only belatedly realizes that her 'friends' were the real toxins in her life and even that wasn't total. She doesn't realize that by falling in with them and doing what they did so enthusiastically made *her* just as bad. Women, the worst enemies of your own happiness isn't 'The Patrirchy" or men. It's other women and yourself.
he wont regret it. This type of guy are rare, loyal, doted and kind. When he loves, he pour everything for you, once you broke him after being damn patience, You lost him forever. He'll not gonna open his heart for you anymore. He is the type I seek in my life. ❤
Here's the thing about alcohol. It lowers your inhibitions and allows your suppressed thoughts and feelings to take the forefront. So, instead of blaming alcohol, blame yourself.
If that's the case oh thank god, when I got drunk I made more jokes than usual and had a weird urge to run. No reason, just wanted to get a good old jog around the town
I will forever hate this arguement since I'm pretty fucking confident 14 year old me didn't wanna sleep in a wheelbarrow in some random farmer's field.
I agree, alcohol doesn't change a person it just removes all your sober filters and exposes who you truly are. When I drink i literally stay just me. I already don't have filters I say what I mean and mean what I say.
"This place is more toxic than I expected" you are telling me she was bullying him for years and expected everyone just to tap on her shoulder and say "there, there girl"?!
@@TheFlyingPilgrimIf that dancing man incident with 4chan is anything to go by, the internet has a limit to how much of a jerk somebody can be. Before everyone just goes "stop it".
Alimony shouldn't exist. She treated him like shít and took advantage of him until the marriage reached its breaking point. It was completely her fault they got the divorce and as 1 last f u she forced him to be legally obligated to keep wasting money on her
He displayed what a real husband is and she spat on it. Most women nowadays aren’t built to be wives. Marriage is about giving and not being selfish, how you treat is your spouse is an indicator of how you are as a parent. She’s a horrible spouse which indicates she would be an even worse parent.
@@donaldjgumpofficial5754 No, he wasn’t a loser. He’s a traditional man who holds himself to a higher standard and takes his relationship serious. If you ever meet people from different cultures you’ll know that what Americans call “simping” is actually normal behavior in other countries. I have African friends, Middle Eastern, and European friends and the way they describe their relationships would be seen as simp behavior but these are all traditional men living traditional lifestyles.
“I came here for advice not to be insulted can you stop this hate is so overwhelming” How do you think your husband felt when you so openly disrespected him every chance you had
The only difference is strangers on the internet are just that random people. Your spouse is the person supposed to be on your team. Its ironic how reddit was toxic for merely telling her the truth
My bloodpressure is at 100 right now. She finds a guy who loves her unconditionaly, despises him because he doesent stand up to him, and in the end gets exactly what she wanted only to cry over it.
I don’t understand…. why did she lose respect for her husband for pretty much keeping her happy? What did she want? An abusive husband- God forbid who always gives you “a challenge”?
Who do you respect more? The person who caters to your every wish like they're your personal manservent? Or the person who treats you like an equal and expects and demands to be treated like an equal in turn? Husband's biggest problem was that he didn't tell her "no" on occasion. He was a doormat to her. I don't respect my doormat. I wipe my muddy boots on it.
>I wabt to fix things >I want to show Jack I can change He waited for you to do that for a long time. That time's up. You don't get to sit on the grass for 90 minutes and then tell your coach you can still score the winning goal. You can't Sit on the station bench until 4PM and then insist you'll still catch the morning train.
these are the women that turn good men cold. I fight every damn day to not do something that can hurt my bf and here we have some disgusting piece of crap woman that's once again hurting the one person that gave the world to her. it makes me hurt for the guy cause he's a walking green flag and your a red flag walking
at this point jack won't take it back, some men are like, if we get to the point of realizing our worth is more than what other people think, it's over
That is what happens to people when no one puts boundaries on them and especially women. My dad used to be this nice helping guy, who was helping people all around. Then he started putting boundaries and everyone got hurt that he wouldn't bend backwards for them anymore. He lost few "friends" but in the end he got better friends who actually respect his boundaries now.
@@Hoki4i think the biggest problem society has is kissing each other rear. Speaking truth is way more important than useless friends who make your life worse. Too many people are affraid to be alone.
as was said in a speech back in the 1600's beware the wrath of a quiet man - she took him for granted, in school years ago we had to cover a story in Irish gaelic called in in english the turning of the worm - the guy in question worked his arse off and finally reached the end of his fuse and left his wife after she took a lump hammer to the front door when she forgot her keys and then spewed filth on him in front of all the neighbours about it
"I gave so much to my friends and Husband and now i'm left with nothing" pog the hubris, she knew she was slowly killing he husband and when the dude finally had enough and divorced her ass now she plays the victim.
She didnt mention if he had any conversation with her about her behaviour. She makes it seem like he never talked to her about it then suddenly snapped
She conveniently left it all out to make herself look better for reddit. Anytime he brought it up she dismissed him and called him toxic and controlling
It's inevitable this role reversal! A victim & the abuser gained momentum & rolled out of control very early on! I couldn't be friends w/ someone like this! Who'd want her? ;-)
@@cynthiaholland13I think he did realize it. He just wanted to believe that she would change. He was clearly a man who believed in second chances. But that wasn't the case here, unfortunately.
This lady mistook tenacity, patience, and fortitude for weakness, she unironically poked a proud quiet creature (use whatwver animal you want for this analogy)
It's what was needed! Characters like this can only get worse; expanding their reign of terror! No wonder she lost her friends! I'm surprised they lasted as long as they did! ;-)
if the story is not fake then, probably, they were playing along, just to not cause tension. I am pretty sure they didn't respect her and they were talking about her as bi*** if she was absent
@nuubnoobski3297 Of course, how do you respect someone who doesn't respect themselves? Trashing your partner is trashing yourself. It says,this is the best I can get.
@@nuubnoobski3297 i said this elsewhere, but this story is clearly not real. That said, situations like this story do exist. At times women (and men) can be jealous of another persons boyfriend or husband and will intentionally sabotage the relationship so they can either get a shot with him or so they can both be miserable
Can't imagine a much more toxic woman than the OP. Such an awful person! She literally provides nothing of value to Jack, yet still has a massive ego. Jack never should have permitted the disrespect even once. She's going to be a cat woman in her older years, alone and broken, as a toxic narcissist should. On top of that, she deserved no alimony.
😢 this genius had the nerve to say she gave everything she had to her friends and her husband has the funniest thing I’ve ever heard in my life. I’ve met stupid broadside before but this chit takes it to a new level 😀😋🤪
Everybody has a breaking point, so of course Jack is gonna say "screw this, i'm out of here" i'm glad that nowadays more people are more open to cutting off toxic relationships rather than simply putting up with it
1 he won`t regret it
2 he won`t miss you
any questions?
will i find myself in a situatiopn like yours?No, i don`t constantly demean someone i tell everyone i `love`.
@@TheCentralScrutinizerAgain Whats the meaning of life.
AI is the answer
@@loqutisborg5416 The meaning of life? Do you wish for a full explanation?
I tell you this woman thinks she's something. She didn't even mention anything like apologizing..... right? Or maybe I didn't get that. But either way she should just be better. The husband didn't say anything because he was hoping that she would see the wrong and correct herself, but in the end she it was just herself. Just stay single
Reddit is toxic? Really? Sooooooo she's humiliating her sweet husband for fun and she's not toxic?
Typical r/relationship posts......
The dude needs to keep running from her. She's more toxic than all of reddit.
She is so disgustingly egotistican that somehow made redditors looks good :|
Oh no, she's a princess, so she never does anything wrong. And if you try to help her see otherwise, then you are toxic!
On the other hand, I've observed that most married Western women under age 60 love to insult their husbands in public, and take advantage of their husbands in private. MGTOW or Passport Bros, gentlemen.
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You call Jack a "perfect husband," and yet you belittle him at every chance you get when you're with your friends and community. You deserve what you get.
Key lesson to all. If someone can't ask for something in a kind and respectful way they don't deserve it. Don't desperately work for the love of someone who doesn't treat you with kindness or respect. If someone does something wrong they have to own it and apologize so it's established it is unacceptable behavior.
So Jack needed to enforce healthy boundaries and expectations. Let me explain the cycle. One partner wants to be loving but doesn't enforce healthy boundaries and expectations. The other partner selfishly demands something unreasonable. The loving partner gives in. The selfish partner then starts expecting it. The selfish partner demands increasingly more unreasonable things. If the loving partner argues the selfish partner gets mean and/or withholds affection and affirmation. Sometimes even if the loving partner doesn't argue the selfish partner does that to establish power. This leads to a problem where the loving partner is treated as worthless and unloved and disrespected. The loving partner instead of demanding reasonable expectations and boundaries(equitable distribution of responsibilities and treatment) becomes desperate for their selfish partner's love and affirmation. The selfish partner becomes less and less invested and loving and respectful of their partner. This often leads to cheating and or divorce but is poisonous and needs to end.
To have a healthy relationship this cycle needs to be avoided. That requires both partners to establish healthy boundaries and expectations. This involves communication to ensure problems are addressed and fixed or explained in an open way without getting defensive. i.e. husband works and feels tired and notices house is a mess when he works all day. Wife who is home with kids took care of them and trying to clean while loving and take care of them is difficult and she is tired and wants rest. Proper communication can make them understand each position without getting angry or resentful. Most importantly if someone can't be polite and respectful with their demands they don't deserve them.
Jack was a perfect doormat
@@kylec3150Thats why i think that matching partners energy is perfect strategy.
Be kind, but when partner doesnt respect you, put them in their place immediately.
Treat fire with fire and love with love.
@@xavier32421people always love to use this as an excuse to mock someone instead of hailing the actual bad person
Thats because she knew she got the simp and she can say and do anything she wants because he is a simp. Dont ever put a girl on a pedestal because she will treat you like a fan.
Jack was actually smart in a way. Instead of reducing all the perks, he made her increasingly more dependent on him then suddenly dropped her like a stone 😈
Didn't even think of that, truly genius
I have done...this...with my second gf...😈....She seen Hell...😈..
That was probably subconscious as a way of fighting back
Love bombing ?
@@Nebulaquest_123
Don't even try to suggest that he was the abusive part of this, unless you have ample proof.
"This place is toxic and the hate is overwhelming can you guys be nice to me" how fucking ironic is that
the audacity 😂
Some people deserve no kindness.
That part for real. The caucasity. Then has the nerve to say I'll give him the divorce and when he comes back i won't take him. Narcissists.
@@grindhouse53 I have a strong feeling you meant what you said, but just in case: it’s audacity.
@bbanksracing yes I know but she is white and audacious so the caucasity of it all
When she said he would come back to her but she'd reject him.... What? Even in her remorse she's full of herself.
Her life was destroyed, but if she gets it back, she's going to reject him . . . . what a trudwipe!
I don't think he would come back, but if he did, she'd take him back. She's obviously desperate enough. She's just talking big.
He won’t come back, you foolish….,
AI doesn't care what it has written before.
She dreams of being powerful. Which is why she treated him like shit. It simply felt so good to her, a narcotic feeling that she would give up.
All I heard was "Me, me, me, me." What a pathetic waste of space.
At least she's being honest! Letting us see the true HER! Few women are this accommodating! Few ever take accountability in a case like this! Often blaming the husband to the last! ;-(
@@Fiero425 She wasn't really taking accountability, though. She blames her friends for "driving a wedge between her and her husband", she blames her husband for leaving her over it and though she pays lip service to "trying to become a better person" and claims to understand that she's "suffering the consequences of her own actions" the line about knowing her husband will regret it and that she won't take him back (as if she is the one who has been wronged) are very clear indicators that she hasn't done any real introspection at all and still considers her husband to be over-reacting and her friends to be the villains of the story - as does her dismissal of all the people on Reddit pointing that out as "toxic haters". She also doesn't get credit for her honesty from me, either. She's only being as candid as she is because she truly doesn't understand how terrible she is and is expecting people to side with her.
@@Fiero425 And yet at the end she believes her husband is wrong. There is a difference in telling yourself you are wrong and accepting you are wrong. She takes no accountability for her actions.
Welcome to Gynocracy. Women actually think they are the center of the universe
@@lonwolf7922Yeah, I feel like she's kinda lying about the story about her friends.Her friends probably weren't even berating him.She did claim one of them were saying.What a good husband he was and she was most likely.The one berating him and them not talking to her.Is them realizing how absolutely narcissistic and crazy she was But that's just my theory
this sounds like a combination of things:
- good man = boring
- the sisterhood crab in a bucket mentality
Take a break and catch up on my new story!
@Baptisteog18 Which most women tend to figure out when its far too late.
But i suspect the 'toxic' responses were not bad, but just saying she was in the wrong and was a bad person and she couldn't handle the accountability.....this is why you should never, EVER treat a woman like a Queen, she will take you for granted.
Sounds like fan fiction.
Except replace good man with simp. Cause dudes clearly a simp
@@laumay7364 I've started to believe 4chan stories are more credible than reddit stories at this point.
Is this story realistic? Somewhat, yeah. But its too unrealistic for a woman like that to make such a post.
A true narcissist. No sympathy.
@@SKBottom If she wants sympathy, tell her that she can find it in the dictionary, somewhere between "sh*t" and. "syphilis."
She went to therapy, presumably expecting support and validation. She will come to be disappointed when the therapist diagnoses her with narcissistic personality disorder and ways to cope with it by changing her behavior.
If the therapist is a woman, then she'll get support and validation
If she actually accepts it and works on it, then I think it’s for the best
@@Jonathan-A.C.0.001% chance that happens
She literally turned his man into a villain and got the nerve to play victim
I agree with you but this dude was a spineless lo.oser and an omega simp.
Women am i right?
@@hibosmo ☕
@@hibosmo Well men are good at physical fighting while women cornered the market in emotional/reputation warfare. Makes sense and speaking from my time in highschool females are far more cut throat than men are baring serial killer CEO's.
V E R
M I N like this cant help herself and her friends are just as bad.
"I gave so much to my husband"
Yeah. A lot of grief.
What did she even actually give? 😂
@@freddie4682fr tho
I feel bad for jack
I don't feel anything for Jack. He sounds stupid. There's loving someone and there's having low esteem. @@Xkylecormed
@@freddie4682 just her holes
I agree with your friends, you need someone on your own level; Someone who rolls their eyes at you and dismisses you when you talk, who doesn't do anything around the house and expects you to do it all, someone who openly mocks you and has no respect for you, someone who takes your love for granted and throws it in your face.
Yeah I agree.
Also, she’s definitely going to miss her and come back to her and isn’t happier without her…
She’s talking like she’s such a prize and any guy would be lucky to have her…
She’s also says that he will come back to her and misses her, but she’s the one reaching out to him…
Wow just wow.
The level of entitlement, stupidity and arrogance is so high that even the friends would run away like they’ve done.
You mistook kindness and love for weakness. Enjoy your cats. BTW you gave NOTHING but scorn and disrespect to your husband. You're the embodiment of if you treat her like a queen.She will eventually start to view you as a mere subject. I know it's a fantasy but perhaps one day you will take accountability for your actions but I doubt it narcissists, like you always see everybody else as the problem but not your part in it.
Perfectly stated
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 yes brilliant comment, top marks 🎉
That explain why women like drug addicts and men who make them feel miserable instead of decent guys
Surrounded by friends? The same ones that prodded you, not that you needed it, and didn't help you when you became homeless? Yeah, friends
The irony, that every one of her friends tried to swoop up Jack for herself as soon as the divorce ended. Her trash was quite literally every other woman's treasure, yet she couldn't see him as that.
That was a lot of words for her just to say "I haven't learned anything from this"
Sounds exactly the same as my ex wife. She came home drunk again one evening. She stood there and prodded my chest with her finger telling me I didn’t have the balls to leave her. I was gone by the time she woke up.
Bro🤣
Congratulations.
Based!
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Daaaaamn. That was a HUGE 180 on her. Wicked bro. Awesome 👍😎
he treated her like a queen so she treated him like a peasant.
@@timmy1tap678 If he raised his voice once society will label him an abuser. She loved treating him like a doormat and if he showed any restraint, she would've turned the entire neighborhood against him.
@@timmy1tap678 That's how society will see it and last I checked, a man is guilty until proven innocent. Women like these are always yapping about looking for an equal partner until they get someone who doesn't give them their way and run to social media. Several times in the video she said she was wrong and still managed to play victim where people like you blame him for her mistakes.
Hey..don't forget a good number of us average looking women, hate these chicks too...
We are worried these crazy chicks are gonna destroy the good thing that we women have in the West..
And it's never good for society to complete destroyed a hopes of your young men, and make it impossible for them to settle down..
Instead of praising masculinity that is positive, like protection, and stoicism, these women exploit men's traits to humiliate them..
I am so angry&sad about the backlash that's gonna happen because of the way that they're being treatedm@@lonwolf7922
But I'm hoping this is an AI story, because even though I've heard very similar stories from women, the way this one is told ..isvweird.. But maybe she just ChatGPT to create her post cause she's lazy&gross
Yes. Never do that.
This is why men need to have standarrds and boundaries. They need to set the borders of acceptable behaviour early, otherwise, they will end in a miserable marriage with a wife that doesn't respect him. I will give her credit, where credit is due, she did not cheat on him, at least, she did not admit it in her post.
"My relationship isn't over" she got kicked out and the i know he'll regret this had me laughing out loud nearly crying form laughter
"...and I won't take him back!" Uh huh. Sure.
"I don't need anyone's pity or judgement." Yes, you do. You genuinely need their judgment to correct your trifling idiocy.
I can bet you 100 bucks. She is stocking him right now and when he gets a new girlfriend that does respect him and have children of his own, she’ll be the one that’s gonna be venting and we have more updates soon.
"My relationship isn't over" is like a villian saying "you've not heard the last of me" lol
The best part was her saying "I did so much for my husband and now I'm left with nothing" like wut.? She was a stay at home wife who did nothing but trash the house and expected her husband to cook and clean all by himself all while working to support her leech ass and then she makes fun of him constantly and somehow thinks she did "sooooo much for him.!" Then to think he'll regret it and come crawling back. Honey, why would he want to come back to a leech who abused him.?
The moment I heard that bit I said to myself "this is one goofy ass story". Then she starts talking about how she's learning from her mistakes and pulls the "after everything I did for him". I just couldn't hold it in, this is probably one of the most hilarious reddit story I've ever listened to.
She won't take back the man who no longer wants anything to do with her. Strong move.
One of her friends, probably the one who laughed at Jack the least and participated in belittling Jack the least, pumped her fist when she heard Jack left OP and made her play to date Jack with hopes of marrying him. She played OP like a fiddle and now she can take what she convinced OP throw away like trash.
They would do that..
@@ClarkMcfcker I mean , a man's loss is another man's treasure
'All those who drove a wedge between us...' There was only one person wielding that hammer, girl.
The fact you think your husband is gonna regret leaving you is music to my ears 😂
😊
He's gonna miss her like a dog misses its fleas
@@davidfield4886 GOOD ONE! I'm going to have to borrow that one... :)
And her saying she's hurt because he looks so happy without her. Like jeez I wonder why he would look so much happier without an abusive leech in his life.? The fact she got upset over people doing to her what she did to Jack is just wild to me. She's delulu.
Yep. Years from now she’ll be telling her cats how “he’ll be coming back any day now…any day now…”
"Do not mistake my Kindness for Weakness, my Silence for Ignorance, nor my Calmness for Acceptance..."
But he was actually weak. That's the thing.
He wasn’t weak. He was in love and totally devoted. It can happen when a man thinks he is batting out of his league. But anyone can be pushed too far.
@johnclemons2208 He was weak because he constantly let people cross his boundaries and he kept sweeping it under the rug to avoid confronting people.
@@Mbrace818 bruh don't even have boundaries, he broke until the glass was filled.
@@johnclemons2208 so true, when we are punching above our weight it’s tempting to believe we are in love but I suppose to some extent we are. And as you write quite out he was devoted why wouldn’t a man be devoted if he was in love with a woman. (I know, a blue pill concept but at my age, 67, I still have some of it) unfortunately, devotion may not be a weakness but it certainly a vulnerability.
OP, It's over. When a man says "I'm done", you've crossed a line that you cannot come back from. It means any good feelings he had for you are gone......
Yep, Jack did everything to try and make the relationship work but OP couldn't see it. When a man says he's done there is no amount of begging, crying, or therapy that will fix things
She doesn't regret that she degraded him she regrets that it went far enough for him to get fed up lets be honest
“Reddit is toxic” but mocking and insulting my husband isn’t
Not mutually exclusive. She did go back for the validation boosts after all.
She disrespects her husband and now finds it unfair he walked out or the marriage? Seriously?!?!
I just don't understand people who are either in the deepest delusions of denial and entitlement or are simply just incredibly stupid. When you finally have enough and leave they are all like "I don't understand, I don't understand"! Then short circuit they're brains about why the person left them. Cause your a crappy person that's why.
She disrespects him over and over in front of her friends and neighbors and then can't figure out why people on reddit trashed the hell out of her.
Don't worry it's not real.
@@GLoLChibsYou obviously don't know any stupid women.
@hainleysimpson1507 I know plenty, but even stupid people don't flaunt their stupidity and cruelty like that. That's not how they operate. Only AI and people farming rage bait write self aware Saturday cartoon villains.
Jack had a happy ending. That makes me happy.
Honestly he deserved so much better, he gave her the fucking world, heart, body and soul and her stupidity and ego destroyed their marriage.
I hope he is happy
What a terrible woman.
Wife: Please! I'm sorry! We can work it out!
Husband: Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn.
What a horrible human being. She blames her friends and did not mention the cheating.
Yeah probably.
How did she suddenly withdraw and disconnect from her husband?
@@ArabicLover101 She said she started flirting with other guys, maybe she a cheata
I bet she cheated. She just left that out to look better.
She's a Sausage Eater just like her friends, there's no doubt that she cheated.
New stories just dropped! Have a look?
"Treat her like a star, she'll treat you like a fan." This chick is so delusional to think he'll dream of taking her egotistical,condescending, toxic butt back. Good on you Jack for finally dumping her.
Treat her like a star, she'll treat you like the Sun. If she doesn't, she's not the one.
Yeah you can’t do what Jack did in this video. When you do everything for a partner and don’t check them on their behavior they’re going to walk all over you. It would be nice if you could be like Jack but it’s just not possible.
If this is true, then she went way beyond the point of no return.
He is not weak, he just loves You. Youre just ungrateful.
Yeah, he's not really an idiot or simp in the end, good for him, some guys just don't realize that, kindness and warmth can make us look weak and pathetic if only we lived in a perfect world, I'd even be better than this jack guy
@randy4609 I wouldn't call him either he's just a genuinely Genuinly great person this woman just is such a shitty person idk how on gods earth she could take advantage of her husband and mock him for being a good person and then have the gal to say "he's going to come back" shameless behavior
She is nasty
To many people mistake kindness for weakness, at the same time it makes it easy to surprise someone.
@@randy4609I heard a quote once “don’t mistake my kindness for weakness”. Wish i remembered where it was from.
No way this is real. It has to be rage bait. There is no way somebody is so moronic that they would admit this online and then act like a victim when they get hate for not having learned their lesson
Yeah there are parts that are written kinda weird
It's worth noting that these reddit stories on TH-cam have become a bit of a niche hussle and it's not out of the realm of possibility that some of these channels are outright fabricating rage bait on reddit using creative writing at best and AI generated slop at worst.
This is the woman your mom would warn you about
“I gave so much to my husband, and now I’m left with nothing” what did she give him?? 😂😂😂
emotional trauma
regret?
@@marcosdheleno xD
Yes that was something I could not distil from her story...
Suffering
OP left her home for a hotel. She did nothing but mock him. And when he finally grew a spine, her entire life fell apart. OP got exactly what she deserves and needs to do better.
A woman's job is to bring her man peace, NOT be a piece of the problem.
That's not a woman's job, that's a partner's job. It goes for both men and women.
@@Mark73true...it goes both ways
Or the whole problem.
He tried to make her life peaceful, yet she wanted chaos. Lol
@@Mark73the harder you try for a woman, the worse she will get sadly
Im glad to hear that jack is doing well now that he is single. He never really needed her. All she did was tear him down despite what he did for her. He slaved for her, did everything for her and she never even really gave him the respect he deserved. She was literally a ball and chain for him, holding him back. I came from a relationship that was very similar to this. I did everything. The cooking, the cleaning, the laundry, paying for dates, buying her gifts, even took care of her dogs while she did nothing but smoke weed and party with her friends and other guys. I left similarly to Jack. After about 2 years of that at the end of a 5 year relationship I just had had enough. I just packed up my things one day and left.
“The very people who drove a wedge between us” she really is pushing all the blame on everyone else rather then taking accountability for her actions. He gave her countless opportunities to change and she didn’t take a single one and when he finally snaps she plays the victim card and cries about Reddit being toxic. Thsi woman will never find a lasting relationship
She doesn't miss him. She misses what he did for her.
Right on. It's often about that unfortunately.
"I know he'll regret and miss me" LMAO, he finally realised he's far better off without a useless waste of space that is OP. Let's just hope she stays single forever and doesn't torment other potential partners in the future.
I bet money she's going to start dating those "strong passionate men" who will treat her like the garbage she is and probably cheat on her too.
What’s funny is that she spent all her time egging her husband for her friends validation only for her marriage to implode and all those friends leaving her in the dust. All that teasing and disrespect towards her husband was for nothing.😂
Worse still, those horrible friends were actually betraying her because they wanted a shot at Jack. Female competition at its most brutal.
Yet she takes no accountability. It's all her friends fault she abused her husband. She clearly had no control /s
The fact that now that she's out of the picture all her former "friends" are fighting for her ex-husband attention is deliciously ironic.
Only for her to then use her pitty-party as an excuse to get more validation on reddit by constantly posting "last updates" and telling off the haters...
People truly don't change... And the sad part is that it's not because they can't, it's because they don't want to. She'll chase cheap validation forever because it's easier than putting in work for a healthy relationship.
Attention is a drug for women
" i know he'll regret it and miss me" is just another level of entitlement
The dude needed to stand up for himself early. Good boundaries are needed in every relationship.
Also, the common trend I notice in these disrespectful wife stories is discipline not only brings them in line, but restores intimacy.
For the record, the wife was 100% in the wrong, but he could have done something to nip this in the bud.
@@benjaminmarshall5071 I disagree. If he had said something earlier she would have stopped now and then continued later a husband shouldn't have to ask his wife to stop treating him like shit
@@Lemonpepperwett Exactly this shit right here^^^. This is why the Modern Concept of a Relationship is Dead Basically. Too many Women and Men pull these same tropes it's so tiresome. Women want a Badboy who treats them like Shit and an Object. Then when they've have their fun want to settle down with Mr.Dependable/Captain Saveahoe.
And Men bend over backwards way too easily and have put Women on a Pedestal. And for anyone who sees this and wants to say otherwise in my Short Life I've seen this Very Scenario first hand well over 100 times at this point just from First Hand Experience. Tell me I'm wrong cause as far as I'm seeing this is just the way Modern Trend went way too far and there's no real going back.
And people wonder why I actively refused to get into a Relationship Post Highschool. With all this Drama, Monetary Issues of the World, and My Overall Incompatibility for a Relationship and I just sit there looking at them dumbfounded. Like is that even a question in this day and age and don't even get me started on Marriage. That is such an Institutionalized Mess I wouldn't even know where to begin on that Topic.
"I gave so much to my friends and my husband"
1.- You don't have friends, you have people who find amusement on your situation, you don't know what a friend is
2.- What exactly did you give to your husband? you sat on your ass all day to talk smack of him behind his back and then in front of him.
What exactly does he gain by staying with you? What would he miss or lose by divorcing you?
Hopefully he takes areally long look at himself, grows a spine, and then rebuilds his life, slowly but making sure there's no one to take advantage of him
Good point you didn't give him a d*** thing
She probably said something really harsh like him being replaceable, got so bored spending all his money or looking for someone with passion. The nasty bits that got left out so that she didn't seem to be such a bad person.
Exactly correct
@@boeingnz
Either way, she seems like a bad person. At least a person who has a lot of work head of her
@@boeingnzher comment about flirting were probably a watered down version of she was getting her back blown out.
If this real then Jack is probably gonna be jaded af. Good job ruining him for actually decent women.
When quiet men like Jack get hurt by the partner like this, you can bet a lot of money that he will stay out of relationships for a long time, hurting an introvert who opened up to you is a surefire way to make sure he doesn't open up again.
@@Yama_44
That’s exactly correct.
The only way I see it working out is if this lady (Lisa, right?) completely destroyed her own ego (ego death), and did all in her power possible to be a good wife for him, and to focus herself on being there for him.
You do not hurt someone like this without hurting yourself. You just go through fire and you spit it out
A long, long, long, long, loong - - - time.
Heard this one before. She's *still* delusional - she still thinks Jack will be back and she'll reject him. She only belatedly realizes that her 'friends' were the real toxins in her life and even that wasn't total. She doesn't realize that by falling in with them and doing what they did so enthusiastically made *her* just as bad.
Women, the worst enemies of your own happiness isn't 'The Patrirchy" or men. It's other women and yourself.
Amen and I am a woman
Single women keep other women single.
It is the patriarchy. It affects everyone. Including women. Don't downplay systems of rot and exploitation. Cause it does the same to men.
Preach it one hundred percent
Misery love company.
he wont regret it. This type of guy are rare, loyal, doted and kind. When he loves, he pour everything for you, once you broke him after being damn patience, You lost him forever. He'll not gonna open his heart for you anymore.
He is the type I seek in my life. ❤
Ugh my heart breaks for Jack. I hope he finds someone who truly loves, appreciates, and respects him like he always deserved.
I'd buy that bro a beer any time.
By 2:15 it is clear she was the town bicycle... sorry I meant she "explored herself".
Who hurt you Steve?
"Therapy Speak" they called it.
Well, "exploring themselves" is therapy speak for Tinder as a hobby.
@@stevewall7044
You're hurting bad
@@grantsmith505 you must be the girl from the story how you trying to stand up against people pointing out the bullshit in the story lmao
@@grantsmith505 its a waste of time arguing with these people mate, he doesn't even realize how toxic his initial post was.
Here's the thing about alcohol.
It lowers your inhibitions and allows your suppressed thoughts and feelings to take the forefront.
So, instead of blaming alcohol, blame yourself.
If that's the case oh thank god, when I got drunk I made more jokes than usual and had a weird urge to run. No reason, just wanted to get a good old jog around the town
A drunk person's words are a sober person's thoughts.
I will forever hate this arguement since I'm pretty fucking confident 14 year old me didn't wanna sleep in a wheelbarrow in some random farmer's field.
I agree, alcohol doesn't change a person it just removes all your sober filters and exposes who you truly are. When I drink i literally stay just me. I already don't have filters I say what I mean and mean what I say.
"This place is more toxic than I expected" you are telling me she was bullying him for years and expected everyone just to tap on her shoulder and say "there, there girl"?!
Yeah, pretty sure Reddit, or anyone sensible, doesn't like bullies.
@@HighPhoenix1754Reddit is pretty toxic, but so is this woman. Redditors are right in this case.
@@TheFlyingPilgrim True
Well, thats what women do. But Reddit dont have a lot of women
@@TheFlyingPilgrimIf that dancing man incident with 4chan is anything to go by, the internet has a limit to how much of a jerk somebody can be. Before everyone just goes "stop it".
Those stupid fake Redditstories....sheez
Alimony shouldn't exist. She treated him like shít and took advantage of him until the marriage reached its breaking point. It was completely her fault they got the divorce and as 1 last f u she forced him to be legally obligated to keep wasting money on her
So he treated you beyond what you were worth and belittled him. Now you’re upset he had enough of your abuse
I hate it when people take kindness for weakness. Her not doing ANYTHING was a huge red flag.
He displayed what a real husband is and she spat on it. Most women nowadays aren’t built to be wives. Marriage is about giving and not being selfish, how you treat is your spouse is an indicator of how you are as a parent. She’s a horrible spouse which indicates she would be an even worse parent.
@@PureBusiness-ef7xuHe was a loser too. He let her walk all over him. That's being a bad man.
@@donaldjgumpofficial5754
There’s nothing wrong with him
@@donaldjgumpofficial5754 No, he wasn’t a loser. He’s a traditional man who holds himself to a higher standard and takes his relationship serious. If you ever meet people from different cultures you’ll know that what Americans call “simping” is actually normal behavior in other countries. I have African friends, Middle Eastern, and European friends and the way they describe their relationships would be seen as simp behavior but these are all traditional men living traditional lifestyles.
She is complaining about toxicity. Oh, the irony.😂😂
“I came here for advice not to be insulted can you stop this hate is so overwhelming” How do you think your husband felt when you so openly disrespected him every chance you had
The only difference is strangers on the internet are just that random people. Your spouse is the person supposed to be on your team. Its ironic how reddit was toxic for merely telling her the truth
I am at 1:46, and it is so damn clear from the words she is using. She is a bad person
My bloodpressure is at 100 right now.
She finds a guy who loves her unconditionaly, despises him because he doesent stand up to him, and in the end gets exactly what she wanted only to cry over it.
This behavior is far too common, to even consider marriage a viable option.
That's why more and more men are saying no to marriage.
Say it wit ya chest lil homie.
Get off the Internet and go out into the real world. Most of these stories are fake.
I don’t understand…. why did she lose respect for her husband for pretty much keeping her happy?
What did she want? An abusive husband- God forbid who always gives you “a challenge”?
She wanted a Tyrone and wonder why she feels as the victim.
Because she stupid
Who do you respect more? The person who caters to your every wish like they're your personal manservent? Or the person who treats you like an equal and expects and demands to be treated like an equal in turn?
Husband's biggest problem was that he didn't tell her "no" on occasion. He was a doormat to her. I don't respect my doormat. I wipe my muddy boots on it.
@@markbigbadbear don't act surprised when the doormat turns on you too 😂
@@TheRaiderman1 why tyrone specifically? why not a toby? or a brutus? or a brock?
Oh honey, your relationship is SOOOOO OVER, and he ain’t coming back.
The guy's probably still on a psych couch 2 or 3 days a week! ;-)
>I wabt to fix things
>I want to show Jack I can change
He waited for you to do that for a long time. That time's up. You don't get to sit on the grass for 90 minutes and then tell your coach you can still score the winning goal. You can't Sit on the station bench until 4PM and then insist you'll still catch the morning train.
these are the women that turn good men cold. I fight every damn day to not do something that can hurt my bf and here we have some disgusting piece of crap woman that's once again hurting the one person that gave the world to her. it makes me hurt for the guy cause he's a walking green flag and your a red flag walking
Its amazing how easily she says she's taking accountability while doing everything but actually take accountability for her actions.
"Jack will miss me and when he comes crawling back, I won't take him back" 😂
The amount of Copium is unhealthy
at this point jack won't take it back, some men are like, if we get to the point of realizing our worth is more than what other people think, it's over
@@Wedausgamer She is close to an overdose at this point.
@@himthatis6698W reply
That's just mental gymnastics to feel good about herself. She knows damn well it won't happen
the way she acted so entitled and played the victim this whole time after hurting her fiancé so bad is crazy…
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That is what happens to people when no one puts boundaries on them and especially women. My dad used to be this nice helping guy, who was helping people all around. Then he started putting boundaries and everyone got hurt that he wouldn't bend backwards for them anymore.
He lost few "friends" but in the end he got better friends who actually respect his boundaries now.
@@Hoki4i think the biggest problem society has is kissing each other rear.
Speaking truth is way more important than useless friends who make your life worse.
Too many people are affraid to be alone.
Female nature they ALL do it.
as was said in a speech back in the 1600's beware the wrath of a quiet man - she took him for granted, in school years ago we had to cover a story in Irish gaelic called in in english the turning of the worm - the guy in question worked his arse off and finally reached the end of his fuse and left his wife after she took a lump hammer to the front door when she forgot her keys and then spewed filth on him in front of all the neighbours about it
Jack should change the locks, get a new phone number and block her number.
Then, never EVER entertain any type of contact with her.
As a woman, I've never really understood why MGTOW exists.
Now I'm starting to.
MGTOW continue to exist because of straw woman fictional stories like this one.
This was written by a MGTOW guy.
@YurideGroot aww you miserable old woman, we dont need you lmao
@YurideGroot Ah, yes, "believe all women"... except for this one because she's making us look bad. I get it, I get it.
As a woman you should know what your sisters do to men all the effing time.
@@YurideGroot Yeah that's not what that means. Don't use words you don't understand.
"I gave so much to my friends and Husband and now i'm left with nothing" pog the hubris, she knew she was slowly killing he husband and when the dude finally had enough and divorced her ass now she plays the victim.
OP is right about one thing, there are a lot of decent people out there. However, she is not one of them.
This has to be a rage bait
She didnt mention if he had any conversation with her about her behaviour. She makes it seem like he never talked to her about it then suddenly snapped
She conveniently left it all out to make herself look better for reddit. Anytime he brought it up she dismissed him and called him toxic and controlling
Jack made the mistake of treating her like a queen. She is abusive.
It's inevitable this role reversal! A victim & the abuser gained momentum & rolled out of control very early on! I couldn't be friends w/ someone like this! Who'd want her? ;-)
@@Fiero425 Exactly!
It's a great thing to treat your spouse like they are royalty. His mistake is not also realizing that he was royalty.
@@cynthiaholland13I think he did realize it. He just wanted to believe that she would change. He was clearly a man who believed in second chances. But that wasn't the case here, unfortunately.
This lady mistook tenacity, patience, and fortitude for weakness, she unironically poked a proud quiet creature (use whatwver animal you want for this analogy)
Exactly right
Bro what are u talking about he was weak as fuck
Humans are incredibly stupid and shallow.
Did that girl just say, " i know he'll regret it and miss me." Holy crap what's going on in that lady's head?
Copium so much it’s an overdose
@@TheWarhawkandtheiowa coping so hard she's trying to rewrite reality. 😂
Glad Jack finally woke upand realized his worth
"i didnt come here to be insulted" im sure your husband could say the exact same thing.
He won't regret it!
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".. and I won't take him back .." HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
I mean, good? You'd be doing him a favor?
Nothing of value was lost.
She just said she gave “everything” to her friend and HUSBAND! Hahahaha. What a piece of garbage
She's really experiencing the whole fuck around and find out experience, no sympathy for her whatsoever 😂
She thinks everyone is toxic except herself
She thinks her husband needs her and not her him
She's beyond delusional at this point
The toxic mushroom cloud calling other people toxic is just awesome 😂
*The sheer lack of self awareness is utterly dazzling...*
I’m hoping it’s fake just because I don’t want this ridiculous hypocrite to actually exist
Female nature.
The quickest way to lose a woman is to treat her properly
"Where are all the good men"
Lisa, you brought this upon yourself. Him leaving is exactly what you deserve.
It's what was needed! Characters like this can only get worse; expanding their reign of terror! No wonder she lost her friends! I'm surprised they lasted as long as they did! ;-)
My god I didn't even clock her name. The irony is. I know 9 Lisa's and 6 of them are abusive as hell.
99;/.of people lose their loved ones because they are too loyal that they think they will never leave.
SAD FACT.😔
Shes so delusional bro she even called the woman that helped her "decent"
Her 'friends' were hinting about what a terrible wife she is, and she kept taking it as an invite to humilate her husband more.
if the story is not fake then, probably, they were playing along, just to not cause tension. I am pretty sure they didn't respect her and they were talking about her as bi*** if she was absent
@nuubnoobski3297 Of course, how do you respect someone who doesn't respect themselves?
Trashing your partner is trashing yourself. It says,this is the best I can get.
@@nuubnoobski3297 i said this elsewhere, but this story is clearly not real.
That said, situations like this story do exist. At times women (and men) can be jealous of another persons boyfriend or husband and will intentionally sabotage the relationship so they can either get a shot with him or so they can both be miserable
Its an unfortunate that Jack's love and support only had value once it was lost. Poor jack, I hope he finds true happiness.
Lady hit the mother of all jackpots and she goes and squanders it
“Resenting him for always being so accommodating” that sentence alone says everything about her as a person…
Can't imagine a much more toxic woman than the OP. Such an awful person! She literally provides nothing of value to Jack, yet still has a massive ego. Jack never should have permitted the disrespect even once. She's going to be a cat woman in her older years, alone and broken, as a toxic narcissist should. On top of that, she deserved no alimony.
Truly a horrible woman. People like that deserve to never know love.
😢 this genius had the nerve to say she gave everything she had to her friends and her husband has the funniest thing I’ve ever heard in my life. I’ve met stupid broadside before but this chit takes it to a new level 😀😋🤪
Everybody has a breaking point, so of course Jack is gonna say "screw this, i'm out of here" i'm glad that nowadays more people are more open to cutting off toxic relationships rather than simply putting up with it
11:02 Nah, continue scolding her.
She mistook kindness and patience for weakness.