Story 1: Yea OP was an AH for using his GF in his revenge but he's NTA for feeling left out of the family when they left him out of the family. And holy shit that therapist is awful. Yea you don't let your family dictate your self worth but you certainly don't absolve them from blame.
Katie kinda annoyed me with how she pulled the "keep the peace, go to this event that's all about your sister when I know you just had her ruin your event." She wanted OP to "be the bigger person" and then got mad when the doormat didn't lay flat anymore. There eat no mention that sister ever apologized or acknowledged that what she did was shitty, and now everyone is mad she's being treated the way OP was taught by her is OK to treat people. Was it childish and petty? Yeah maybe, but I'm not going to demonize OP for finally giving his sister a taste of her own medicine. His entire family sucks, he's better off cutting them off and focusing on himself. EDIT: How lovely, Reddit successfully gaslit OP into being the doormat to his emotionally abusive family. Way to go!
I'm hoping that him choosing to focus on his career and hobbies is the first step to him placing boundaries and distancing himself from that toxic ass family.
Story 2 Time to show everyone how Tim and Meg are treating Mary and James so everyone can see their true colors and favoritism with the step kids……… Tim has decided his perfect new family is more important than his own bio kids. Meg wants Mary and James out of the house and family so the house and family only has Tim, Meg and her kids………
Story 1: I understand where OP's coming from but I don't understand why he didn't talk it out with Katie before executing his plan. Years of favoritism and the fact that Emma did steals OP's thunder, her behavior is quite literally supported by everyone, all of them are awful. For God's sake, even when rebuilding relationship, neither Emma nor his parents ever apologize to OP for anything. That's not reconciling, that's just OP letting everyone walking all over him again just like in the past
He said it was a spontaneous idea. With how upset he was at that moment, OP didn't even consider Katie because he was just too focused on getting back at his sister.
Story 1. Esh. Emma and the parents are for constantly stealing the lawn light the parents are for enabling her and always putting Op on the back burner. Op is because I get why he wanted to be petty with his sister and his mom and dad the thing is though he drug Katie into it without her consent. That was extremely unfair to Katie.
Story 2: has to be my favorite OP EVER!! Her bro is such a simp, his pos gf has him whipped. Edit: Is Tim also not “expected” to treat frigid Meg’s kids like they’re not his? I bet not. Meg is the quintessential selfish heartless harpy who will drain the life out Tim. Worse, he will provide, pay, and house her for it.
Story 2 is just so sad. The father is pathetic and the girlfriend an absolute See U Next Tuesday. I hope those kids get a better situation in life or the dad wakes up to how abusive he is. Seriously, the parents should get a private investigator to collect evidence against them and take them to court and sue the brother for custody. If he's loaded he can afford the child support, because he's doing nothing for those poor kids now.
Am i the only 1 who thought he was valid from the start? The special treatment his sister got was obvious by the fact he thought steam rolling his girlfriend like that was absolutely okay. Being 2nd best all your life would make anyone snap at some point. 🤷♀️
Story 2. I have seen this happen a lot. Don't worry, Tim will get his. Eventually, when his new family is done with his support, they will throw him away. He will cry to his kids and family, but they will ignore him. He will end up alone and miserable, wondering why this happened to him. I always feel bad for the kids, but the grandparents seem to always step up at least
S1: I'm glad you grew but the original problems were never solved. I get wanting to have a relationship with family but it doesn't seem like they want one with op. The sister is clearly the golden child.
Story one: Wow, what a "success" story. /s Everything just went right back to the way it was, only now OP is alone to boot. Try having an ounce of self-respect and ditching that trash fire of a "family" instead.
re: Story 1 -- why is OP the AH? Why is it his fault he's "holding onto resentment" for his parents treating him like crap his whole life? Why is he the one who has to "deal with his own insecurities" and "work on himself" to "be the bigger person" and "let go of his resentment"? Particularly when it was his parents who created the situation in the first place?
I think that he is an AH because he decided to propose at that day just to spite Emma. If he had talked it out with his gf beforehand, like, I want to one up my sister, let's announce that we are engaged, and she agreed, I wouldn't have any problems with it
Story 1 op shouldn’t have used his gf in revenge but he should cut out the family and not accept the blame for everything he should’ve made post on Facebook etc showing everything that his parents stole to give Emma
*STORY 2:* Meg's definitely being hypocritical about the situation. She says she doesn't want to be a parental figure for James and Mary, but based on how they describe family time, she definitely expects Tim to be a parental figure for her kids.
Katie kinda deserved it TBH, she demanded he appease his toxic family and go into a situation she knew would upset him because of how his family treated him in the exact same situation.
TBF, he DID need therapy, but he wasn't at fault. The therapist should have validated the way he felt because it was totally justified. THEN the therapist could have helped him work on his issues.
This guy is great! What he needs to do is to accept that he got what he wanted. I had full attention. Take it! Hold your head high! You did what you should have done.
Story 1- Nta due to treatment of sis being golden child-the a hole for not telling gf before hand but Emma she deserved it. All these people saying you’re the AHOLE well they must be Emma’s .
S1: Slight ESH. Don't dish it out if you can't take it. If the sister can't stand getting her attention stolen, then she shouldn't be doing it to someone else. Still, I feel bad for OP's partner. I get the petty revenge, but putting an innocent party in this just rubs me the wrong way. S2: YTA imo. Tim abandoned his kids for anyone to do god knows what to them, allowed his girlfriend to mistreat his kids, and...you lay on your hands on her and not your brother? At the end of the day she's just the girlfriend and doesn't have to have a relationship with them (don't mistreat kids of course but I find it messed up how Meg got physically attacked for way less than Tim).
story one: reddit coming to another woman's defense so she can avoid responsibility as usual. definitely a dick move towards his fiance but the sister had it coming.
Just stop watching then, before you click on a video there’s the bit at the bottom under the thumbnail with three dots that you can click and it says don’t recommend
@Intrepid_A Ive been doing that for days but the shitty stories made by AI that doesn't understand how to end a story keep popping up. How many times do I have to click not interested?
![[FULL STORY] My Family Shamed Me for Being Childless, So I Adopted the One Person They All...](/img/n.gif)
Story 1 makes my blood boil. Reddit gaslit this man into acepting blame for years of mistreatment.
I gess that was pure women thoughts
Yeah I can’t understand their reaction. But let’s be clear, he was an asshole to his girlfriend. The rest of the family he should go no contact with
@@Catherine.Dorian. true
And can we get the name of the therapist so we can stay far tf away from them.
@@ИвнСергеевичI had to think so. Because wtf
Story 1: Yea OP was an AH for using his GF in his revenge but he's NTA for feeling left out of the family when they left him out of the family. And holy shit that therapist is awful. Yea you don't let your family dictate your self worth but you certainly don't absolve them from blame.
Wait…did SHE apologise for stealing the limelight at your Graduation Party…?!
@@gtc9966 nope
No, but he's such a terrible person for having normal human emotions about constantly being mistreated by his family 🙄
Story 1 The proposal was wrong, but her pregnancy announcement was wrong as well he needs to go LC
Story 2 OP is amazing Tim needed a slap too
Katie kinda annoyed me with how she pulled the "keep the peace, go to this event that's all about your sister when I know you just had her ruin your event." She wanted OP to "be the bigger person" and then got mad when the doormat didn't lay flat anymore. There eat no mention that sister ever apologized or acknowledged that what she did was shitty, and now everyone is mad she's being treated the way OP was taught by her is OK to treat people.
Was it childish and petty? Yeah maybe, but I'm not going to demonize OP for finally giving his sister a taste of her own medicine. His entire family sucks, he's better off cutting them off and focusing on himself.
EDIT: How lovely, Reddit successfully gaslit OP into being the doormat to his emotionally abusive family. Way to go!
I'm hoping that him choosing to focus on his career and hobbies is the first step to him placing boundaries and distancing himself from that toxic ass family.
story 2 op has an amazing set of friends
Story 2: Meg is a golddigger. There is a chance her kids have different fathers.
Story 2
Time to show everyone how Tim and Meg are treating Mary and James so everyone can see their true colors and favoritism with the step kids………
Tim has decided his perfect new family is more important than his own bio kids. Meg wants Mary and James out of the house and family so the house and family only has Tim, Meg and her kids………
Story 1: I understand where OP's coming from but I don't understand why he didn't talk it out with Katie before executing his plan. Years of favoritism and the fact that Emma did steals OP's thunder, her behavior is quite literally supported by everyone, all of them are awful. For God's sake, even when rebuilding relationship, neither Emma nor his parents ever apologize to OP for anything. That's not reconciling, that's just OP letting everyone walking all over him again just like in the past
He said it was a spontaneous idea. With how upset he was at that moment, OP didn't even consider Katie because he was just too focused on getting back at his sister.
Story 1. Esh. Emma and the parents are for constantly stealing the lawn light the parents are for enabling her and always putting Op on the back burner.
Op is because I get why he wanted to be petty with his sister and his mom and dad the thing is though he drug Katie into it without her consent.
That was extremely unfair to Katie.
Story 2: has to be my favorite OP EVER!! Her bro is such a simp, his pos gf has him whipped.
Edit: Is Tim also not “expected” to treat frigid Meg’s kids like they’re not his? I bet not. Meg is the quintessential selfish heartless harpy who will drain the life out Tim. Worse, he will provide, pay, and house her for it.
Story 2 is just so sad. The father is pathetic and the girlfriend an absolute See U Next Tuesday. I hope those kids get a better situation in life or the dad wakes up to how abusive he is. Seriously, the parents should get a private investigator to collect evidence against them and take them to court and sue the brother for custody. If he's loaded he can afford the child support, because he's doing nothing for those poor kids now.
Am i the only 1 who thought he was valid from the start? The special treatment his sister got was obvious by the fact he thought steam rolling his girlfriend like that was absolutely okay.
Being 2nd best all your life would make anyone snap at some point. 🤷♀️
Story 2. I have seen this happen a lot. Don't worry, Tim will get his. Eventually, when his new family is done with his support, they will throw him away. He will cry to his kids and family, but they will ignore him. He will end up alone and miserable, wondering why this happened to him. I always feel bad for the kids, but the grandparents seem to always step up at least
2nd story her brother is a failure as a father .
S1: I'm glad you grew but the original problems were never solved. I get wanting to have a relationship with family but it doesn't seem like they want one with op. The sister is clearly the golden child.
s2. meg wont press charges because she knows if she does she'll get investigated for neglect.
She is not neglecting her children. The brother, who is not married to her, is neglecting his own children.
Story one: Wow, what a "success" story. /s Everything just went right back to the way it was, only now OP is alone to boot. Try having an ounce of self-respect and ditching that trash fire of a "family" instead.
That beginning had me concerned
Good I'm not the only one
Same
Yes
Yep
story 1 is ONLY an ahole to his girlfriend. that’s it. his sister did the EXACT SAME THING
so story 1 he just re became the family's dogs again
Worse the black sheep
re: Story 1 -- why is OP the AH? Why is it his fault he's "holding onto resentment" for his parents treating him like crap his whole life? Why is he the one who has to "deal with his own insecurities" and "work on himself" to "be the bigger person" and "let go of his resentment"? Particularly when it was his parents who created the situation in the first place?
if he was a girl probably they wouldnt say that
I think that he is an AH because he decided to propose at that day just to spite Emma. If he had talked it out with his gf beforehand, like, I want to one up my sister, let's announce that we are engaged, and she agreed, I wouldn't have any problems with it
Fair, but he went about it wrong. He proposed to his girlfriend at the wrong time for the wrong reason.
OP in S1 went at it wrong. What he needs to do now is to be a monk.
@@sheepphees3350has nothing to do with gender lmao
Story 1 op shouldn’t have used his gf in revenge but he should cut out the family and not accept the blame for everything he should’ve made post on Facebook etc showing everything that his parents stole to give Emma
*STORY 2:* Meg's definitely being hypocritical about the situation. She says she doesn't want to be a parental figure for James and Mary, but based on how they describe family time, she definitely expects Tim to be a parental figure for her kids.
Story one: OP is an AH, but to Katie, Emma deserved that
Katie kinda deserved it TBH, she demanded he appease his toxic family and go into a situation she knew would upset him because of how his family treated him in the exact same situation.
Wow, the doormat stands up for himself once, but then immediately gets bullied into 'therapy' by Reddit. How shocking.
TBF, he DID need therapy, but he wasn't at fault. The therapist should have validated the way he felt because it was totally justified. THEN the therapist could have helped him work on his issues.
This guy is great! What he needs to do is to accept that he got what he wanted. I had full attention. Take it! Hold your head high! You did what you should have done.
Story 1- Nta due to treatment of sis being golden child-the a hole for not telling gf before hand but Emma she deserved it. All these people saying you’re the AHOLE well they must be Emma’s .
S1: Honestly, the guy needs to set boundaries and limit time with his family. They are not good for him, and are the root of the problem.
Story 1: the parents don’t deserve an apology they literally play favorites dude should move on from all those clowns
S1: Slight ESH. Don't dish it out if you can't take it. If the sister can't stand getting her attention stolen, then she shouldn't be doing it to someone else. Still, I feel bad for OP's partner. I get the petty revenge, but putting an innocent party in this just rubs me the wrong way.
S2: YTA imo. Tim abandoned his kids for anyone to do god knows what to them, allowed his girlfriend to mistreat his kids, and...you lay on your hands on her and not your brother? At the end of the day she's just the girlfriend and doesn't have to have a relationship with them (don't mistreat kids of course but I find it messed up how Meg got physically attacked for way less than Tim).
S-1 Nta wtf
I hate that he apologized to Emma and she is still acting like a victim that pisses me off
S1: ESH. Everyone did something wrong, and no one deserves peace
never get involved with a childed person, period
yikes your brother better get a prenup.
Um the small silence in yhe beginning was a bit too loud
Ops neighbor is tbe mvp
St one everyone gaslighted him he was screwed his whole life then got blamed for finally having enough wtf
All I see is another Rem victim
story one: reddit coming to another woman's defense so she can avoid responsibility as usual. definitely a dick move towards his fiance but the sister had it coming.
Now op is the black sheep
Only women would be upset with a man going against his precious golden sister op didn't do anything wrong in story one
Im not
Why do you hate women?
Secret voices the worst stories on the Internet....how do i block you?
Just stop watching then, before you click on a video there’s the bit at the bottom under the thumbnail with three dots that you can click and it says don’t recommend
@Intrepid_A Ive been doing that for days but the shitty stories made by AI that doesn't understand how to end a story keep popping up. How many times do I have to click not interested?