With the title, I thought it was the story where OP wanted to name her kid after her late ex and banned her husband from the delivery room to do so. But I quickly realized that's not the case and that OP is NTA
YTA. You can hate your ex husband as much as you want, yet it's not up to you to disregard what you both agreed on. You took him away the choice to pick a name of a baby you're both going to raise for the rest of your lives. He was right in proposing to pick one you both could agree on, because it's also his right as long as he's compliying with his duties
I'll come out and say it, she's a hypocrite. She went to court to prevent her ex's girl from being around the kids because it wouldn't be "stable" but says "boohoo my ex husband made things difficult for my new guy because he doesn't want him around the kids". Overall she's petty and self centered.
There's a big difference between the two. It wasn't just that the husband had an affair partner, or that he moved on, but that he did so with someone who was very prominent in the childrens' lives. The children are already confused, so to add "Auntie is your new mom and we dated when your old mom was pregnant" (which will come out no matter how hard both sides try to hide it) is actually quite traumatic for little kids. Had it not been the best friend, I would agree that she went overboard.
@@Maninawig I understand her argument, I just don't agree with it. Not many divorced parent bluntly tell the kids to call the stepmother mother, she's full of shit on that one, most of the time, the "step" leave the kids band just tries to be welcoming. what of the fact she made it harder for him to see his kids? Because if you forbid the girl to come near the kids, you limit how many times the guy can come to family gathering. I won't change my mind that she's petty about that. Not to mention the whole mess about the name. "blah blah blah it's my baby, my name, blah blah blah", no mate, regrettable as it is it's also his kid.
Bringing your AP to your martial bed is psychotic.
I hope there is an update soon with the status of her new man 😜
I know she doesn't deserve it, but a single mom of 3?, it's not likely someone is gonna jump into that road
@@thestalker67she was already dating by the end of the story, so more then likely
@@yaoilover0oh I didn't catch up the last part good for her
With the title, I thought it was the story where OP wanted to name her kid after her late ex and banned her husband from the delivery room to do so.
But I quickly realized that's not the case and that OP is NTA
Why did the husband leave the house though even if he cheated it's still his house
Meh, just don't cheat.
Without context: yta
With context: nta
I read the title and audibly said "Yes. Yes you are an asshole." Then I watched it and was like "meeeeh, no not really"
YTA. You can hate your ex husband as much as you want, yet it's not up to you to disregard what you both agreed on. You took him away the choice to pick a name of a baby you're both going to raise for the rest of your lives. He was right in proposing to pick one you both could agree on, because it's also his right as long as he's compliying with his duties
I'll come out and say it, she's a hypocrite.
She went to court to prevent her ex's girl from being around the kids because it wouldn't be "stable" but says "boohoo my ex husband made things difficult for my new guy because he doesn't want him around the kids".
Overall she's petty and self centered.
There's a big difference between the two. It wasn't just that the husband had an affair partner, or that he moved on, but that he did so with someone who was very prominent in the childrens' lives. The children are already confused, so to add "Auntie is your new mom and we dated when your old mom was pregnant" (which will come out no matter how hard both sides try to hide it) is actually quite traumatic for little kids.
Had it not been the best friend, I would agree that she went overboard.
Wrong 🤡
I found the cheater!
@@Maninawig I understand her argument, I just don't agree with it. Not many divorced parent bluntly tell the kids to call the stepmother mother, she's full of shit on that one, most of the time, the "step" leave the kids band just tries to be welcoming.
what of the fact she made it harder for him to see his kids? Because if you forbid the girl to come near the kids, you limit how many times the guy can come to family gathering.
I won't change my mind that she's petty about that.
Not to mention the whole mess about the name. "blah blah blah it's my baby, my name, blah blah blah", no mate, regrettable as it is it's also his kid.
Without context it was an easy YTA.
With context... still YTA.
Women are genuinely awful.