Good question (not that I haven't heard it before). Answer: They want to hear themselves talk as well as everyone else to hear them get their point across. The more they do it during a conversation, the more it appears as a way of dominating the conversation. Some women just want to hog the spotlight like an egotistical leader of a singing group.
@@americanexplorer459 If she getting an education it shrinks her pool of potential candidates because women don’t date down. If the man is paying for her education it kinda keeps it all in check. Leave a woman to her own devices she will self destruct
This is why the brutal Kevin Samuel approach works. Control the conversation and cut her off when she is interrupting. I used to think KS was not being nice and fair when he did that, but now I realise it is the best way to debate with a woman or any being listening and arguing with their emotions, rather than logic and facts. This emotional interjections is why you never get sense from debating with a woman.
That sounds good in theory but not in practice. Men are having kids so at least get your prenup signed 6 months before the wedding. She'll later end up saying that she signed the prenup under duress.
You think the receptionist at UPMC is telling the CEO she “Deserves half his company if not more.” for answering the phone? Hell naw! This is entitlement at its best.
Bruh just flip it the other way around.. these women better keep that same energy when they build a company from the ground up and their men who only answer the phone call deserves Half if not more.
Lol I get it. Maybe what she should have clearly communicated was that if she was there from the bottom......she feels like she deserves half. Not I was there when it started answering phones. Lol
Even if you in that scenario just answering phones doesnt equate to half. U answering phones u an employee. if not you answering phones less than half the time So some one else answering the phone more than you if you getting half what are they getting 80%? Answering the phone something you should do for your significant other anyway is not a skill worth half of any company even if the company is kicking rocks on the side of the road. After you answered the phone u take a message or you give the phone to someone who actually knows something and is doing the actual work.
This scenario doesn’t make sense because you’re speaking from an employee standpoint. When two people are married it’s a union and everything becomes one unless it’s a pre-marital asset. If your partner has stayed home and take care in care of the kids while you go out to work and have the ability to run your multi million dollar business and yes your partner and kids get half. And I don’t even know why Half of the men on here or even making comments about finances when they’re not the bread winners in their home lol
@@taylormiller8937 even if she was there from the bottom if he was building the company negotiating deals and she was answering the phone, that does not warrant anything😂😂
@@bronjesamuel1054 no cap. Say Im a millionaire and she thinks putting shower curtains up and cleaning the house make her deserve half😐 bxtch I’d clean that shxt myself no one asking you to do it
ima just use the women logic for a second. So let’s say my wife has a make up line and I pick up the phone and on the opposite end of that line is Rihanna Fenty beauty and they wanna invest and partner with my wife make up line. So by that logic although I didn’t put any equity or money investing in my wife company I deserve half IF NOT MORE just cause I picked up the multi million dollar call.. LISTEN TO HOW THAT SOUNDS… it’s funny how women wanna get married to financially protect themselves but when a man wants a prenup then he don’t really love a woman… just cause I buckle up my seat belt don’t mean I expect my friend to crash. Just cause I want a prenup don’t mean I expect a divorce.
Women will not give you half because they go off emotions. When things don't work out they will leave the guy high and dry. Once they don't get what they want they don't care about you at all.
You should know marriage is an L when women look at it as insurance lmao. Shorty said 'when my titties sag and ass flat' So is that the only value you bring? How you open yo legs and how you look?
I think that the same way men are so careful about who they will make their wife women should be as careful of who they have kids with. Kids take a lot out of women physically, mentally and kids are a lot financially so I see the benefit of Marriage when planning a Family.
Thats a straight up fact tho.. You doing a job I can play anyone else to do. So if a hire a mf to do that job as my employee now I owe him/her half the company? lmao cmon man
If I’m a man worth $50m she comes into my life and we get divorced she can leave with $25m, why would a man want that. If she comes into my life she’ll leave with $2-3m max.
Jada, Marry you so you can divorce me in six months, take half of everything my car, my house 🏠 my kids over, Fake Emotions, Fake Feelings, Fake Love 💔Jada ain't no man gonna marry you she staying she wants half if you get divorced that shows me you already want a divorced For you even get married when Rico was talking about the system flipping on men Jada was laughing smh 🤦that's not even funny there men who take they life over women their men who harm they self over women like women don't understand what men Go threw behind the scenes men suffer from depression all the time nobody is their for me when it's a women you want sence of security Get The Hell outta Here im telling you Black women personality im not attracted to you all anymore ima Die Alone Respectfully 💯 I'm so tired of women saying iam the tabel when they add no value to a man some can't even cook a Hot pocket correctly let alone clean the Home some cant even give you head the right way women want men to do everything for them why we get nothing us fellas deserve Better we should demand better cause this Generation is finished in my opinion nobody believes in a capnaion every wants a partnership 💵 their a difference what happen to the days of being loyal Honest Faithful Respectful caring loving Everything today is lying cheating hurting one other & taken men For Half Everything
She doesn't deserve half because of that, if you did half the work you get half. Using their logic then every coach that a professional athlete had deserves half of that athlete's money just because they "helped out"....doesn't make sense
Good point, VJ (and I don't mean video jockey). TLA has some very insightful and informative videos. He's one of the good upcoming TH-camrs today putting out some great content for all to see and hear.
1.) men nature is to provide and procreate.... how successful can a single male provider be? It’s rare. They need to chase tail... and get money...children tend to be in the way and exposed to things. Naturally women are nurturing, interested in the small things in their development. I can go on...children need both parents and if a man doesn’t know who he is marrying then that’s his problem... his nature is to see far into the future and think logically and not with his little head. His fault! Adam ate the apple HIS FAULT! He’s the head and at fault for everything so why would a judge rule in his favor?
These women just saying anything that sounds good….it’s all cap until they are actually in the situation. They talk about love like thats how they actually make their decision.
EVERY man should get a prenuptial agreement. Sign that she gets nothing see how many of these so called women still marry you. These women on the panel acting like women are angels and deserve what a man has worked for.
I disagree. I say just dont get marry. Every contract can be broken. Legal marriage is broken by divorce. Prenuptials can be broken and often times do. Safest bet is not to get married. Marriage nor kids in this country is a necessity.
woman: "It's not fair you're out there living your best life and I'm out here taking care of your snot nosed kids" man: "It's unfair that men don't get a fair fight to take care of their kids in custody" woman: "You didn't birth them. You didn't have to go through pregnancy" So the man is not entitled to the children nor the money but women are entitled to both? This logic here!! smh
Can we kill the stereotype that men actually need a woman to take care of them. We don't, its just nice to be taken care of. That whole, comment about bathroom being nasty and half a shower curtain, this is 2021. We got men out here living better than some women.
Exactly! Men are literally expected/required to do everything in society. Being average as a man isn’t praised like being an average woman, so men have to rise above more just be valued the same as females. Nobody wants to hear our complaints; it’s expected of us to just let stuff go and “learn from it”, almost as if we aren’t allowed to defend ourselves or speak our minds now.
Basically these woman said nothing substantial. You see how society as a whole gives women something for doing virtually nothing?? Some of them are equating "picking phone calls" to the hustle and grind it takes to build a business.
These women are throwing terms out there trying to look smart “investor, shareholder” I can tell they lying about what they contribute when the one girl thought she was going to answer the phone for a million dollar call😂🤦🏾♂️
@@b.simmons1011 you really can’t though. You can commit to someone without a marriage license, true. However, God forbid someone passes away…the “spouse” gets NOTHING! Everything will go to the “next of kin”, and if you don’t have any children, then you’re SOL. Now, you can put a will together, but wills are contracts that are upheld by the law, which are upheld byyyyyyy….THE GOVERNMENT.
Yo, did anyone see that movie “Why Did I Get Married Too”? When Janet Jackson and Malik Yoba’s characters were going through their divorce, Malik Yoba requested that they split the money from Janet Jackson’s book sales. She didn’t wanna give it up because he didn’t write a page of it, but he said he stayed up a lot of nights listening to her ideas and giving her some of his. So please miss me with all this “if I answer the phones, I deserve half” Secondly, how is Nikki asking Rashaan to stay home and be a “stay at home dad” and STILL want him taking her out on dates and making her feel good? With what money???
When you give your job your all for 15 years and they let you go do you get half of the company? No you don't, so why because you're in a relationship you think you do?
First & foremost, Congratulations 8 at the Table on another season. Congratulations 🎉🎉👏🏾👏🏾 The new edition fits in so much better than the other previous 3 sisters. A million subs before the summer next year. ‼️💯💪🏾
A healthy marriage is beneficial. A healthy relationship provide emotional, spiritual, and financial growth. If you want to be married, it gives both partners legal responsibility to carry each other especially during sickness and hardship.
Woman do be faking for the ring 💍.Told my wife don’t ever call me daddy in bed.She said why?I said because u have called everyone that smashed before me daddy😉
The is why women need to have they own. I will take of my kids but you have to take care of yourself as an adult. They make it look like when we leave the world is ending and they can't survive.
Jada, Marry you so you can divorce me in six months, take half of everything my car, my house 🏠 my kids over, Fake Emotions, Fake Feelings, Fake Love 💔Jada ain't no man gonna marry you she staying she wants half if you get divorced that shows me you already want a divorced For you even get married when Rico was talking about the system flipping on men Jada was laughing smh 🤦that's not even funny there men who take they life over women their men who harm they self over women like women don't understand what men Go threw behind the scenes men suffer from depression all the time nobody is their for me when it's a women you want sence of security Get The Hell outta Here im telling you Black women personality im not attracted to you all anymore ima Die Alone Respectfully 💯 I'm so tired of women saying iam the tabel when they add no value to a man some can't even cook a Hot pocket correctly let alone clean the Home some cant even give you head the right way women want men to do everything for them why we get nothing us fellas deserve Better we should demand better cause this Generation is finished in my opinion nobody believes in a capnaion every wants a partnership 💵 their a difference what happen to the days of being loyal Honest Faithful Respectful caring loving Everything today is lying cheating hurting one other & taken men For Half Everything
Men have to be extra careful.in whom they choosing as a lifetime partner....a wife. Because a man have to have some type of insurance that she the right one. Or else these women will take anything and everything you have. Men please be extra careful and choose wisely.
Also women are human also we go thru greed and desires just like men . Imagine being 18-29 and all kind of men are throwing their self at you . It’s like fight temptation.it’s just that God put a time limit on us women. Something a lot of women don’t realize.
@@Liinabadd20 I’m saying women knowingly deal with men they know ain’t shit cuz it’s fun and exciting while they talk down and try to embarrass good dudes until they old n the good dude made it he don’t owe them anything
@@Liinabadd20 I can definitely imagine that because men have women throwing themselves at them as well. And if your a man that’s about his business women go nuts over so I get your point and agree
Women swear they help build yo legacy ……. Helping is sleepin wit men in yo crib while u running yo company an wen u get home irritating df out u wit no food cooked , yea thats help 😒
Yoo this hits because I agree with the move for good men protecting themselves. Men do go through shit. Look at Brandon Frasier, his ex is getting 900k a month, I believe. Crazy. Sometimes I believe the system wants to break all men, especially those that are out of the tax bracket.
That expectation of men having to be okay when dealing with a lot of stress leads to mental health and depression. Broad shoulders aren’t going to help you win mental battles against stress and depression. Men have much much higher suicide rates than women for a reason. It’s not healthy for us to repress our emotions.
Of course marriage is relationship insurance for women I've always said this... historically men were the primary earners so this guarantee her a piece of his pie if the relationship ends even if she end it🤷💯
I really appreciate these type of discussions where everyone is not screaming and yelling trying to be heard at once. Everyone here had some good points and this is one of those topics really worth discussing.
The fact Jada tryna justify her having kids by a man as collateral in why she should be getting #1 100% financially supported or #2 get half of the money the man makes when/if they divorce is a huge problem. A woman chooses the man. A woman chooses when they sleep with a man (or else its called rape and is against the law..). A woman chooses when they have a child. Theres condoms, there's birth control, there's plan B, there's abortion and there's even adoption. Don't speak of children like it was something the man decided and you didn't want so because of it you deserve financial compensation. Such an awful way to look at something so precious, having children. Just say you're lazy and provide nothing besides sex and your looks. Cuz you saying it w/o actually saying it.
Jada, Marry you so you can divorce me in six months, take half of everything my car, my house 🏠 my kids over, Fake Emotions, Fake Feelings, Fake Love 💔Jada ain't no man gonna marry you she staying she wants half if you get divorced that shows me you already want a divorced For you even get married when Rico was talking about the system flipping on men Jada was laughing smh 🤦that's not even funny there men who take they life over women their men who harm they self over women like women don't understand what men Go threw behind the scenes men suffer from depression all the time nobody is their for me when it's a women you want sence of security Get The Hell outta Here im telling you Black women personality im not attracted to you all anymore ima Die Alone Respectfully 💯 I'm so tired of women saying iam the tabel when they add no value to a man some can't even cook a Hot pocket correctly let alone clean the Home some cant even give you head the right way women want men to do everything for them why we get nothing us fellas deserve Better we should demand better cause this Generation is finished in my opinion nobody believes in a capnaion every wants a partnership 💵 their a difference what happen to the days of being loyal Honest Faithful Respectful caring loving Everything today is lying cheating hurting one other & taken men For Half Everything
Jada, Marry you so you can divorce me in six months, take half of everything my car, my house 🏠 my kids over, Fake Emotions, Fake Feelings, Fake Love 💔Jada ain't no man gonna marry you she staying she wants half if you get divorced that shows me you already want a divorced For you even get married when Rico was talking about the system flipping on men Jada was laughing smh 🤦that's not even funny there men who take they life over women their men who harm they self over women like women don't understand what men Go threw behind the scenes men suffer from depression all the time nobody is their for me when it's a women you want sence of security Get The Hell outta Here im telling you Black women personality im not attracted to you all anymore ima Die Alone Respectfully 💯 I'm so tired of women saying iam the tabel when they add no value to a man some can't even cook a Hot pocket correctly let alone clean the Home some cant even give you head the right way women want men to do everything for them why we get nothing us fellas deserve Better we should demand better cause this Generation is finished in my opinion nobody believes in a capnaion every wants a partnership 💵 their a difference what happen to the days of being loyal Honest Faithful Respectful caring loving Everything today is lying cheating hurting one other & taken men For Half Everything
Lady with the red boots doesn't understand that her mentality makes her unmarriageable. Women outnumber men, she is easily marked off the marriage list.
This is an interesting topic. I think it would be interesting to understand how people view marriage. Back in the day, when women didn't have any rights to vote, own property, or make decisions about her money that her family gave her, going into a marriage was like an 'insurance policy' to make sure she is taken care of by a husband who will not only provide but manage any funds that she might have inherited. Fast forward to these "modern times", we have women who now have the rights and means to make money by working outside of the home or through entrepreneurship and may not necessarily marry for security. Having multiple streams of income is common now and should be the norm. Unless that woman's ultimate goal is to be a stay-at-home mom, or she want to homeschool their children, there is at least a two income household existing. And for those women who want to stay at home for whatever reason, that man and woman should discuss how they will manage the household and uphold the marriage prior to getting married. I personally think marriage is for those who love each other and who want to build something together for their legacy(children/children's children). Marriage is a partnership -- it's a reason why the Pastor says, "What God has put together let no man asunder". You are One. Therefore, from the point of unification everything you do is for the bond(family, legacy). That requires maturity, selflessness, patience, and respect. If folks are worried about if the marriage fails, and they both have risk in the union, then I don't see anything wrong with a prenup. I just think most folks are not thinking about having such a document or don't have enough to justify the extra paperwork. And depending on where you live, honestly it might not be needed if you live in a community property state where everything is split 50/50 if you divorce. Marriage is actually good for both man and woman if they are with the right person. Married men tend to take care of themselves more health wise b/c the wife insists on it, and the wife has the security of her husband regardless if she is working or not. If they are really doing it right, they both help and support each other as they grow as individuals and as a couple. They will be force that is unstoppable.
Rashaan has got to be theeee most logical level headed most realistic most intelligent man I've ever wanted to encounter!! I'd marry him WITHIN the first year or two of being with him!! He gets iiiit
Entering into a marriage is no way similar as to entering into a million dollar contract. The contract is too benefit myself(the individual), a marriage is to benefit the woman. Take care of home 🤔 I've lived alone for some years, I'm not dead yet 🙄. And I don't have any children, I can leave any money I got to my family or a good charity 🤷🏾♂️. There we go.
Bro sounded real smart, until he said that you get married to protect both parties. Andre Young (Dr. Dre) is payin' MILLIONS a year in child support, after his divorce. Who is protectin' him?
@@butterflymage5623 that couldn’t be less true. That is if you’re not paying what you should for the child. And you’re literally affecting another person’s body. I really think men and women have an inability to see outside themselves with this type of stuff
@@sbrooks904 are you high? Child support isn’t as bad as divorces you literally lose half of your lifes work in an instant ridiculous of you to say that, and also the courts favor woman heavily why are you choosing to ignore these things?
@@Strange-diggs723 I think it’s hilarious that you’re looking at the child support situation (which does take a huge chunk but never half) and ignoring the fact that a woman takes primary custody in most cases and pregnancy takes a huge toll on their body. By looking and one side and not the other you’re doing exactly what women do and makes you no better than them. I refuse to not be objective. There are pros and cons to both sides.
You own a Business why not hire her as a Employee or Independent Contractor with annual review set up with 401K now she is not idle you will see her value vice versa hire your Man as a Employee
@@nalyzamariano9634 Yes I own a Business and when work at a Law Firms lots of Attorneys who own the firm they would give there wife a job instead if her working for someone else same thing hire your children give a them job in your business and if there a certain age there not subject to taxes
y'all if your wife helps you start a company and she is your secretary for awhile, months or years. don't forget there was all the time she would of spent helping you before the company began, maybe it was building the idea staying up late with you going over the accounts papers, helping you get it registered. These are just examples I'm stating but the emotional and physical support that she gives she deserves some money if both of y'all split. May not be half it could be 30% or whatever but shordie deserve some monetary appreciation for her work.
A woman's logic: A relationship is like a million dollar contract. They both need you to sign contracts. Observation of a man: One has contract in its name (aka million dollar contract), the other has no word contract in it (relationship). They are incomparable. Lesson: You need good abilities in logic to make analogies.
How bout this lil rebuttal... say my wife is an ig model and I took all her pics and she got hella revenue from the pictures, ad revenue and sponsorships that were lined up due to the photos. Based on what the ladies said about answering the phone calls for the business and how they must deserve it for how much they carry their own weight in a relationship, I should also get half of her ig-made money, specifically ig, due to my contribution on her business by being her photographer (non-contractually, just like their situation)... now after hearing that malarkey are we really going to get half fellas... fuck no. get a prenup.
Not for nothing but that Prenup generally protects both sides interests should things fall apart. Given it has to be ironed out and agreed upon by both parties involved. I don't understand why the women are so averse to the idea of a prenup(in either scenario of when the union came about)
Until the marriage laws change in this country. Marriage is off the table. Men should definitely protect themselves. Prenuptial! judges are going around it. I don't trust these feminist judges.
Advice and being therapeutic isn’t really helping build. You can get that from anyone. Helping build is being out their on the grind with him. And I mean stuff like putting me in touch with a contact, not transferring a call from a contact I made. Everything she said was just a consolidation of a babysitter, housekeeper, 304, muse, therapist, massager, etc into one person.
@@sbrooks904 I don't have kids. Marrying the mother of your child is Nobel but that's about it. Men want that family thing but women don't think about the kids when they fille for divorce.
@@RobertHDaGod even if they don’t I can’t control another human being. it’s up to us to vet properly bc we know it’s a lot of trash out here. We all been wrong before tho
Right!! Being a doctor isn’t change your life money? Because you punch a clock? SHES definitely not making that money being an ig model or wtv she does ,she cannot relate .
When you change the word from “submissive” to “service” it gives the situation a new perspective. Being of service to your man is about being the help mate God designed women to be. It’s not about being in control of a woman. I feel it’s about having your woman be of service to you as you are being of service to her as the protector and provider in the marriage. Marriage is about love, respect and collaboration with each other to help the entire family unit to achieve the goals to put them on the life path both spouses want their family to be.
Interesting learned this a)I will be submissive if certain conditions i consider important have been fullfilled, thats when i will be in womans nature, but this same ladies expect u to be on your masculine form 24/7 b)Because i was there when u were building then i deserve half upon divorce...fyi this same woman who only accepts rich men when approached, when a man set up his foundation ans was on his way to make money.most of times theres nothing a woman can do...sportfigures etc To a man theres no incentive to get married, especially if you wealthy...u at disadvantage...fyi u investing on A woman who has been run over and been toxic rships forever and she expects you as wealthy man be faithful... Ladies your past matters and for men your future matters.. I think middle east and someparts in asia truly is last bastion of hope men can get naturally submissive women.. Ladies and gentlemen.. The west is doomed
If u are willing to bend(go out of your way for money) for work than your relationship is with money. Any 2 people in a relationship have to bend for each other
@@KailebM because men are the ones being serviced in the marriage and still have freedom. Women have to permanently sacrifice her old life style over all for the marriage, family , kids ,etc . We now Have to answer to our husbands. We can’t just get up and go like we did when we were single .
@@KailebM I feel like this is one of the reasons why Women don’t glorify the wife life Style like before and American had giving women “options” so women are definitely viewing them.
@@Liinabadd20 See this is confusing cause both parties have to permanently change their life style we got kids, we got a home, we cant just get up and go, especially since women exercise the courts to take these things from us if we do.
This is first podcast where I agree with Rico. If you weren't there before or during the process of his time building his business, I think it's fair to ask for a prenup. If the roles were reversed, a woman would the need to protect themselves let alone wouldn't even acknowledge a man that's not making more than her. A man is not obligated to take care of the women after the relationship is over. Yes they have kids, so it's his responsibility to make sure his kids are good. If women are not financially in a position to take care of her kids, then it shouldn't be a problem for them living with the father until she gets into a position where she can take care of them. Usually the men don't have a problem with it. Marriage is more beneficial for women. Relationships are investments, you win some you lose some. The question is are you genuine supporter by heart are are you being the supporter to get something out of it?
@17:50 no mother or father is entitled to anything from ANY OF THEIR CHILDREN. Doesn’t matter what the parents did, no parent is entitled to anything from their kids.
This is hilarious. 2 women on the right is garbage. Even tried teaming up and disrespecting shawty on the right when she expressed that compromising in a relationship is important. Nikki clearly doesn’t understand what adjusting and supporting means when speaking about compromising
*Nikki's jelly of the new chick Crystal* 😆😆 & It's obvious, like the new girl at school & all the other chicks start hating. Whether she percieves Crystal as prettier/younger/flyer/lightskinned whateva....It's obvious & hilarious. B4 you dismiss - check the timestamps, lol: [@21:35 - 21:42] *the shut down* ..... [@24:03 -24:44] Nikki tries to stump her with the questiosn, "What do you have to offer".."Are you emotionally stable".. *Then the KICKER, peep this dumbass question*, "Are you good w/dogs.." *LOL Bitch, you're supposed to be directing this to the men NOT your co-anchor women,...LOL* [@30:27] Nikki, not even looking Crystal's way as she's speakin..She's super dismissive & big Mad at something..LOL..[@32:28] Notice Nikki's body positioning as if her back is towards Crystal & speaking indirectly of her, Crystal picks it up and calls her out as she should. *Commence FAKE LAUGH* @32:30. Peep Ra's facial experssion @32:32 😆😆 .....
Change your life money...? That's the problem with this sister in the middle. If you had it and lost it all, you bet your last breath, she's out and you're on your own....someone tell me if I'm lying.? Not many modern women wanna build with a decent man. It's all about the look, the hype, the flex....gimme. break, as a people, we're heading the wrong way
Jada, Marry you so you can divorce me in six months, take half of everything my car, my house 🏠 my kids over, Fake Emotions, Fake Feelings, Fake Love 💔Jada ain't no man gonna marry you she staying she wants half if you get divorced that shows me you already want a divorced For you even get married when Rico was talking about the system flipping on men Jada was laughing smh 🤦that's not even funny there men who take they life over women their men who harm they self over women like women don't understand what men Go threw behind the scenes men suffer from depression all the time nobody is their for me when it's a women you want sence of security Get The Hell outta Here im telling you Black women personality im not attracted to you all anymore ima Die Alone Respectfully 💯 I'm so tired of women saying iam the tabel when they add no value to a man some can't even cook a Hot pocket correctly let alone clean the Home some cant even give you head the right way women want men to do everything for them why we get nothing us fellas deserve Better we should demand better cause this Generation is finished in my opinion nobody believes in a capnaion every wants a partnership 💵 their a difference what happen to the days of being loyal Honest Faithful Respectful caring loving Everything today is lying cheating hurting one other & taken men For Half Everything
Jada, Marry you so you can divorce me in six months, take half of everything my car, my house 🏠 my kids over, Fake Emotions, Fake Feelings, Fake Love 💔Jada ain't no man gonna marry you she staying she wants half if you get divorced that shows me you already want a divorced For you even get married when Rico was talking about the system flipping on men Jada was laughing smh 🤦that's not even funny there men who take they life over women their men who harm they self over women like women don't understand what men Go threw behind the scenes men suffer from depression all the time nobody is their for me when it's a women you want sence of security Get The Hell outta Here im telling you Black women personality im not attracted to you all anymore ima Die Alone Respectfully 💯 I'm so tired of women saying iam the tabel when they add no value to a man some can't even cook a Hot pocket correctly let alone clean the Home some cant even give you head the right way women want men to do everything for them why we get nothing us fellas deserve Better we should demand better cause this Generation is finished in my opinion nobody believes in a capnaion every wants a partnership 💵 their a difference what happen to the days of being loyal Honest Faithful Respectful caring loving Everything today is lying cheating hurting one other & taken men For Half Everything
🗣🗣🗣🗣Speak Jada #Submissive a lot of black women don’t know how to be submissive, #Period🎯 it’s a Woman Thang, I’m the same way, I want balance and I’m here to help my man and grow with him👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
It sounds good but in reality I don't think too many women will give up half of they shit. However if it is a man its expected to be half or more she fronting for the camera.
The difference between a million dollar contract and a marriage contract is the marriage contract is heavly incentivised for women to break the contract ... any sports milli contract for a player the team still has to pay the player if they cut the player in most cases if player is not performing up to the contract
Thank God for Rico because that other guy is weak. I feel sorry for him. He either broke or waiting to get taken advantage of. If a woman is there from the start she should get what she deserves. That may or may not behalf. That needs to be discussed. If a man builds a 20 million dollar company a wife is not worth 10 million. That is not the going rate, but you all need to talk and have that clear. Nowadays both parties usually work. In that situation, there is little need for financial support. A woman that thinks she is worth half no matter what is not a woman worth marrying.
Why do women panelists in general have a bad habit of interrupting the second they disagree, but demand not to be interrupted.
Narcissistic solipsism. They’re created broken 😞
Good question (not that I haven't heard it before). Answer: They want to hear themselves talk as well as everyone else to hear them get their point across. The more they do it during a conversation, the more it appears as a way of dominating the conversation. Some women just want to hog the spotlight like an egotistical leader of a singing group.
Typical woman double talking just like they wanna be a man without losing being a woman see how that make no sense but this how they think
Smh
@Lola lmao who does it most??
Nikki be cutting people off when they’re about to say some fye shit, just to say some irrelevant ass shit 😂
Facts
Why is the man paying for her education? She should pay for her own education. Who’s raising these females
@@americanexplorer459 ion get how men feel comfortable doing shit like that I feel like it’s not my place lol
@@americanexplorer459 If she getting an education it shrinks her pool of potential candidates because women don’t date down. If the man is paying for her education it kinda keeps it all in check. Leave a woman to her own devices she will self destruct
This is why the brutal Kevin Samuel approach works. Control the conversation and cut her off when she is interrupting.
I used to think KS was not being nice and fair when he did that, but now I realise it is the best way to debate with a woman or any being listening and arguing with their emotions, rather than logic and facts.
This emotional interjections is why you never get sense from debating with a woman.
The only way a man can protect Himself do not marry her do not get her pregnant you’re safe
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That sounds good in theory but not in practice. Men are having kids so at least get your prenup signed 6 months before the wedding. She'll later end up saying that she signed the prenup under duress.
@@airfuture9464 6 months? I say 2 months from the engagement moment
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You think the receptionist at UPMC is telling the CEO she “Deserves half his company if not more.” for answering the phone? Hell naw! This is entitlement at its best.
Faxxx 😂😂😂😂
Frl like you’re an employee
@@solomonKachi7000 she think she get half for a 9-5
Bruh just flip it the other way around.. these women better keep that same energy when they build a company from the ground up and their men who only answer the phone call deserves Half if not more.
This is also stupidity 😆
Imagine thinking you deserve half of someone’s multi million dollar company FOR ANSWERING PHONES 🤣🤣🤣
Lol I get it. Maybe what she should have clearly communicated was that if she was there from the bottom......she feels like she deserves half. Not I was there when it started answering phones. Lol
Even if you in that scenario just answering phones doesnt equate to half. U answering phones u an employee. if not you answering phones less than half the time So some one else answering the phone more than you if you getting half what are they getting 80%? Answering the phone something you should do for your significant other anyway is not a skill worth half of any company even if the company is kicking rocks on the side of the road. After you answered the phone u take a message or you give the phone to someone who actually knows something and is doing the actual work.
This scenario doesn’t make sense because you’re speaking from an employee standpoint. When two people are married it’s a union and everything becomes one unless it’s a pre-marital asset. If your partner has stayed home and take care in care of the kids while you go out to work and have the ability to run your multi million dollar business and yes your partner and kids get half.
And I don’t even know why Half of the men on here or even making comments about finances when they’re not the bread winners in their home lol
@@taylormiller8937 even if she was there from the bottom if he was building the company negotiating deals and she was answering the phone, that does not warrant anything😂😂
Yo she 30+ dresses like that and talking about marriage.
What we really doing?
That’s all she got to offer
Fr
no one want her
She belongs to the street and she hit the wall
THANK you, no man worth anything is wifing that mess up
“Entitlement is the theif of hard work and progression” 🤯🤯🤯 ain’t no way he freestyled that
Beanie Siegel said it on Drink Champs
People should state the reference when quoting other people.
Barz
Every woman: I’m the type of woman who deserves half
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Prolly can’t even boil water
@@bronjesamuel1054 no cap. Say Im a millionaire and she thinks putting shower curtains up and cleaning the house make her deserve half😐 bxtch I’d clean that shxt myself no one asking you to do it
@@bronjesamuel1054 I'm laughing so hard 😂🤣
10:13 this chick had the nerve to say she deserves half, if not MORE. Let that sink in, she think she deserves MORE than 50% of your earnings lololol
@@nolimit4484 everything a vvoman does can be replaced by a service but you can’t buy a person that will buy you a house. 🏡
ima just use the women logic for a second. So let’s say my wife has a make up line and I pick up the phone and on the opposite end of that line is Rihanna Fenty beauty and they wanna invest and partner with my wife make up line. So by that logic although I didn’t put any equity or money investing in my wife company I deserve half IF NOT MORE just cause I picked up the multi million dollar call.. LISTEN TO HOW THAT SOUNDS… it’s funny how women wanna get married to financially protect themselves but when a man wants a prenup then he don’t really love a woman… just cause I buckle up my seat belt don’t mean I expect my friend to crash. Just cause I want a prenup don’t mean I expect a divorce.
Thank you sir 👏🏽
women listening : "sounds pretty fair to me" :'D
@@AM-jx3zf okay. Well ima make sure to tell her to cut that check
Perfect wording my guy....
Big d word energy
Women will not give you half because they go off emotions. When things don't work out they will leave the guy high and dry. Once they don't get what they want they don't care about you at all.
Facts
Sounds like a self entitlement to me...this is just why marriage doesn't benifit men at all
Big fucking FACTS!!!
I felt the same way I put the Cap on because it was so much of it on that couch lol
You should know marriage is an L when women look at it as insurance lmao. Shorty said 'when my titties sag and ass flat' So is that the only value you bring? How you open yo legs and how you look?
2:47 dudes be having nice homes though. She got us fucked up like we all dirty cavemen’s or something lol
Facts
Thank you! Not all men live in filth
@MMALifestyle acting like we couldn't do that shit ourselves lmao
I think that the same way men are so careful about who they will make their wife women should be as careful of who they have kids with. Kids take a lot out of women physically, mentally and kids are a lot financially so I see the benefit of Marriage when planning a Family.
Exactlyyyyyyyyy
so! whys that a mans problem? lol
@@NyakzOTSD nigga did u read she literally just holding woman accountable for there actions pointing out the woman’s problem
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@@xKingSavagz bro she wasn’t holding anyone woman accountable what are you talking about?
Rico is funny 😄 as hell. “You get the flat rate 😂 for answering the phone for ten years.”
Haha wait we was jokin? 🤔 lmk
It's facts though. As an owner you still bare the responsibilities, rise and falls of the company. Whereas she just wants a check.
It wasn’t funny it was facts
Makes perfect sense though. You answered phones now you want half the company, as if answering phones is a rare skill. Cmon now
Thats a straight up fact tho.. You doing a job I can play anyone else to do. So if a hire a mf to do that job as my employee now I owe him/her half the company? lmao cmon man
If I’m a man worth $50m she comes into my life and we get divorced she can leave with $25m, why would a man want that. If she comes into my life she’ll leave with $2-3m max.
fact
Me in my life 100k max
Jada, Marry you so you can divorce me in six months, take half of everything my car, my house 🏠 my kids over, Fake Emotions, Fake Feelings, Fake Love 💔Jada ain't no man gonna marry you she staying she wants half if you get divorced that shows me you already want a divorced For you even get married when Rico was talking about the system flipping on men Jada was laughing smh 🤦that's not even funny there men who take they life over women their men who harm they self over women like women don't understand what men Go threw behind the scenes men suffer from depression all the time nobody is their for me when it's a women you want sence of security Get The Hell outta Here im telling you Black women personality im not attracted to you all anymore ima Die Alone Respectfully 💯 I'm so tired of women saying iam the tabel when they add no value to a man some can't even cook a Hot pocket correctly let alone clean the Home some cant even give you head the right way women want men to do everything for them why we get nothing us fellas deserve Better we should demand better cause this Generation is finished in my opinion nobody believes in a capnaion every wants a partnership 💵 their a difference what happen to the days of being loyal Honest Faithful Respectful caring loving Everything today is lying cheating hurting one other & taken men For Half Everything
She doesn't deserve half because of that, if you did half the work you get half. Using their logic then every coach that a professional athlete had deserves half of that athlete's money just because they "helped out"....doesn't make sense
Great example
@@isaacprice6213 Wait until it is her son
shorty was interrupting mfcas the whole time, bro tried to talk n she said that shi toxic masculinity 😭👎🏾
It’s a blessing though, dudes everywhere waking up to the bull!
You guys need The Lead Attorney to give facts to women having the kids after a marriage and how the court system old laws always lean towards women.
Good point, VJ (and I don't mean video jockey). TLA has some very insightful and informative videos. He's one of the good upcoming TH-camrs today putting out some great content for all to see and hear.
1.) men nature is to provide and procreate.... how successful can a single male provider be? It’s rare. They need to chase tail... and get money...children tend to be in the way and exposed to things. Naturally women are nurturing, interested in the small things in their development. I can go on...children need both parents and if a man doesn’t know who he is marrying then that’s his problem... his nature is to see far into the future and think logically and not with his little head. His fault! Adam ate the apple HIS FAULT! He’s the head and at fault for everything so why would a judge rule in his favor?
@@SanctifiedLady accountability is like kryptonite to y’all
@Lola “he’s the head and at fault for everything” she just held him accountable for 100% of the downfall in the marriage.
@@SanctifiedLady why did Adam eat the apple though? 🤔
Shorty n the middle sound like a short term investment
Nvm just take the investment back 🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Naw just a smash & dash
@@AD-eh3xn not even that not all 🐱 good 🐱 an investment isn’t just money it’s also yo time n u ain’t getting that back from shorty
@@xKingSavagz lol tru that
These women just saying anything that sounds good….it’s all cap until they are actually in the situation. They talk about love like thats how they actually make their decision.
The chick in the middle keeps saying, oH iTs nOt aBOuT mOneTaRy VaLUe....yeah like women don't go into marriage thinking about that right lol
We’re not gonna compare my mother to my woman! Bingo Rico! Goodnes the entitlement in this episode is Crazy!!
He hit it on the nose lol
Guys, the wife comes first though 😂… but if theyre talking about girlfriends, i agree
@@MaroonTiger wasn’t talking about wife lol
@@MaroonTiger nah ... our mothers are first
@@Userdoesnotexit in the words of Oliver.. “do.not.get.married.”
these woman think doing the bare minimum means to get them half because they get old waste of time
"What do I do if I invest in her and she leaves me? That wouldnt be good for me." Answer: "You cant think like that stop projecting." I'm loving this
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But in real life that does happen.
Lol then you’re not part of reality 😭
That’s like saying “Don’t plan for the worst”
@@kingkazma4538 I never plan for the worse. I’m a entrepreneur since 7 years old. I not ever once think my idea going to fail at all.
EVERY man should get a prenuptial agreement. Sign that she gets nothing see how many of these so called women still marry you. These women on the panel acting like women are angels and deserve what a man has worked for.
I disagree. I say just dont get marry. Every contract can be broken. Legal marriage is broken by divorce. Prenuptials can be broken and often times do. Safest bet is not to get married.
Marriage nor kids in this country is a necessity.
Offshore Asset Protection Trust is a 100 fold better.
@@LORD-ELITE yes.
woman: "It's not fair you're out there living your best life and I'm out here taking care of your snot nosed kids"
man: "It's unfair that men don't get a fair fight to take care of their kids in custody"
woman: "You didn't birth them. You didn't have to go through pregnancy"
So the man is not entitled to the children nor the money but women are entitled to both? This logic here!! smh
Yeah I didn't get why she said that, basically contradicted the other girls theories. But that's literally how women think🤷♀️
@@Suziee_Suee These women want things and try to come up with reasons and arguments to support their ideas instead of the other way around
Can we kill the stereotype that men actually need a woman to take care of them. We don't, its just nice to be taken care of. That whole, comment about bathroom being nasty and half a shower curtain, this is 2021. We got men out here living better than some women.
Exactly! Men are literally expected/required to do everything in society. Being average as a man isn’t praised like being an average woman, so men have to rise above more just be valued the same as females. Nobody wants to hear our complaints; it’s expected of us to just let stuff go and “learn from it”, almost as if we aren’t allowed to defend ourselves or speak our minds now.
I wholeheartedly agree!
Basically these woman said nothing substantial. You see how society as a whole gives women something for doing virtually nothing?? Some of them are equating "picking phone calls" to the hustle and grind it takes to build a business.
These women are throwing terms out there trying to look smart “investor, shareholder” I can tell they lying about what they contribute when the one girl thought she was going to answer the phone for a million dollar call😂🤦🏾♂️
honestly bruh like these women ideals seem bernie mack like
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When it comes to marriage, you should keep the government out of it. That is true trust between women and men.
You can’t tho
@@CDiggze1 yes U can, no marriage license, you don't need the Gov to tell you when to commit/marry to a women.
@@b.simmons1011 you really can’t though. You can commit to someone without a marriage license, true. However, God forbid someone passes away…the “spouse” gets NOTHING! Everything will go to the “next of kin”, and if you don’t have any children, then you’re SOL. Now, you can put a will together, but wills are contracts that are upheld by the law, which are upheld byyyyyyy….THE GOVERNMENT.
Women just don't think with any logic. They really think with unrealistic expectations. #Period
They get to live in Disney fairytales
I agree with Rico the most. These girls are capping A Lot!
Yo, did anyone see that movie “Why Did I Get Married Too”? When Janet Jackson and Malik Yoba’s characters were going through their divorce, Malik Yoba requested that they split the money from Janet Jackson’s book sales. She didn’t wanna give it up because he didn’t write a page of it, but he said he stayed up a lot of nights listening to her ideas and giving her some of his. So please miss me with all this “if I answer the phones, I deserve half”
Secondly, how is Nikki asking Rashaan to stay home and be a “stay at home dad” and STILL want him taking her out on dates and making her feel good? With what money???
When you give your job your all for 15 years and they let you go do you get half of the company? No you don't, so why because you're in a relationship you think you do?
First & foremost, Congratulations 8 at the Table on another season. Congratulations 🎉🎉👏🏾👏🏾
The new edition fits in so much better than the other previous 3 sisters. A million subs before the summer next year. ‼️💯💪🏾
This is why men swear we speak with logic and women just speak with emotions. It’s like they don’t hear what comes out there mouths.
Jada said what all women say. "I deserve half" I never heard a woman say nah, I'll just leave.
A healthy marriage is beneficial. A healthy relationship provide emotional, spiritual, and financial growth. If you want to be married, it gives both partners legal responsibility to carry each other especially during sickness and hardship.
Facts
It’s only beneficial for women
@@JasonDrvmz why isn’t it beneficial for men? Both people can grow in a relationship.
@@obessbeauty Men have way more to lose in a marriage. A Man is in a better position in life if he stays single and doesn’t have any kids.
@@obessbeauty Men get NOTHING out of marriage, only women. Save that spiritual non-sense for story-time for the kids.
Woman do be faking for the ring 💍.Told my wife don’t ever call me daddy in bed.She said why?I said because u have called everyone that smashed before me daddy😉
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Facts. I thought I was the only one who think like that.
looooooooooooooooooooll
@Buckmarley2x That's All Facts
Damn. He's right
Rico is a genius coming with the facts. Great debater. Rahsaan too very fair and realistic.
The is why women need to have they own. I will take of my kids but you have to take care of yourself as an adult. They make it look like when we leave the world is ending and they can't survive.
Women think being there for you is worth millions. Ladies its worth flowers and dinner
Jada, Marry you so you can divorce me in six months, take half of everything my car, my house 🏠 my kids over, Fake Emotions, Fake Feelings, Fake Love 💔Jada ain't no man gonna marry you she staying she wants half if you get divorced that shows me you already want a divorced For you even get married when Rico was talking about the system flipping on men Jada was laughing smh 🤦that's not even funny there men who take they life over women their men who harm they self over women like women don't understand what men Go threw behind the scenes men suffer from depression all the time nobody is their for me when it's a women you want sence of security Get The Hell outta Here im telling you Black women personality im not attracted to you all anymore ima Die Alone Respectfully 💯 I'm so tired of women saying iam the tabel when they add no value to a man some can't even cook a Hot pocket correctly let alone clean the Home some cant even give you head the right way women want men to do everything for them why we get nothing us fellas deserve Better we should demand better cause this Generation is finished in my opinion nobody believes in a capnaion every wants a partnership 💵 their a difference what happen to the days of being loyal Honest Faithful Respectful caring loving Everything today is lying cheating hurting one other & taken men For Half Everything
Men have to be extra careful.in whom they choosing as a lifetime partner....a wife. Because a man have to have some type of insurance that she the right one. Or else these women will take anything and everything you have. Men please be extra careful and choose wisely.
If marriage is so crucial for women why do they waste years 18-29 hoeing and dealing with the wrong dudes then want somebody to save them?
Great question
That’s because they don’t understand the women’s biological clock.
Also women are human also we go thru greed and desires just like men . Imagine being 18-29 and all kind of men are throwing their self at you . It’s like fight temptation.it’s just that God put a time limit on us women. Something a lot of women don’t realize.
@@Liinabadd20 I’m saying women knowingly deal with men they know ain’t shit cuz it’s fun and exciting while they talk down and try to embarrass good dudes until they old n the good dude made it he don’t owe them anything
@@Liinabadd20 I can definitely imagine that because men have women throwing themselves at them as well. And if your a man that’s about his business women go nuts over so I get your point and agree
Shorty said pillow talk .... deserves half? Also PLEASE hire a stylist. Cause the ladies went left with the pink theme.
Women swear they help build yo legacy ……. Helping is sleepin wit men in yo crib while u running yo company an wen u get home irritating df out u wit no food cooked , yea thats help 😒
Geez that sounds super personal
S Brooks well i seen it happen 🤣🤷🏾♂️😂💯
@@sbrooks904 but it's true and it happens more times than not in America
Yoo this hits because I agree with the move for good men protecting themselves. Men do go through shit. Look at Brandon Frasier, his ex is getting 900k a month, I believe. Crazy. Sometimes I believe the system wants to break all men, especially those that are out of the tax bracket.
Apparently the courts gets a cut
900k a month is crazy
That expectation of men having to be okay when dealing with a lot of stress leads to mental health and depression. Broad shoulders aren’t going to help you win mental battles against stress and depression. Men have much much higher suicide rates than women for a reason. It’s not healthy for us to repress our emotions.
Of course marriage is relationship insurance for women I've always said this... historically men were the primary earners so this guarantee her a piece of his pie if the relationship ends even if she end it🤷💯
"Entitlement is the thief of hard work and progression."
"The biggest room in the house is room for improvement" my man had bangers over this chat lmao
How is marriage beneficial for a man? Somebody pleeeaaassseee explain to me 🤣😂😭
It is not in any at all.
There is no benefit at all. We have nothing to gain and everything to lose.
“Legacy” only if your able to see them. Other than that nothing at all.
@@randomhobbyist99 u can have legacy without marriage. The question was how is MARRIAGE beneficial
Its really not cause at the end of the day a woman can leave with half if not all
I really appreciate these type of discussions where everyone is not screaming and yelling trying to be heard at once. Everyone here had some good points and this is one of those topics really worth discussing.
Nah females was trippin
The women had no good points…
Rico is the highlight of the show is the only reason to watch the show.
Facts...
Facts
The fact Jada tryna justify her having kids by a man as collateral in why she should be getting #1 100% financially supported or #2 get half of the money the man makes when/if they divorce is a huge problem. A woman chooses the man. A woman chooses when they sleep with a man (or else its called rape and is against the law..). A woman chooses when they have a child. Theres condoms, there's birth control, there's plan B, there's abortion and there's even adoption. Don't speak of children like it was something the man decided and you didn't want so because of it you deserve financial compensation. Such an awful way to look at something so precious, having children. Just say you're lazy and provide nothing besides sex and your looks. Cuz you saying it w/o actually saying it.
Jada, Marry you so you can divorce me in six months, take half of everything my car, my house 🏠 my kids over, Fake Emotions, Fake Feelings, Fake Love 💔Jada ain't no man gonna marry you she staying she wants half if you get divorced that shows me you already want a divorced For you even get married when Rico was talking about the system flipping on men Jada was laughing smh 🤦that's not even funny there men who take they life over women their men who harm they self over women like women don't understand what men Go threw behind the scenes men suffer from depression all the time nobody is their for me when it's a women you want sence of security Get The Hell outta Here im telling you Black women personality im not attracted to you all anymore ima Die Alone Respectfully 💯 I'm so tired of women saying iam the tabel when they add no value to a man some can't even cook a Hot pocket correctly let alone clean the Home some cant even give you head the right way women want men to do everything for them why we get nothing us fellas deserve Better we should demand better cause this Generation is finished in my opinion nobody believes in a capnaion every wants a partnership 💵 their a difference what happen to the days of being loyal Honest Faithful Respectful caring loving Everything today is lying cheating hurting one other & taken men For Half Everything
Jada, Marry you so you can divorce me in six months, take half of everything my car, my house 🏠 my kids over, Fake Emotions, Fake Feelings, Fake Love 💔Jada ain't no man gonna marry you she staying she wants half if you get divorced that shows me you already want a divorced For you even get married when Rico was talking about the system flipping on men Jada was laughing smh 🤦that's not even funny there men who take they life over women their men who harm they self over women like women don't understand what men Go threw behind the scenes men suffer from depression all the time nobody is their for me when it's a women you want sence of security Get The Hell outta Here im telling you Black women personality im not attracted to you all anymore ima Die Alone Respectfully 💯 I'm so tired of women saying iam the tabel when they add no value to a man some can't even cook a Hot pocket correctly let alone clean the Home some cant even give you head the right way women want men to do everything for them why we get nothing us fellas deserve Better we should demand better cause this Generation is finished in my opinion nobody believes in a capnaion every wants a partnership 💵 their a difference what happen to the days of being loyal Honest Faithful Respectful caring loving Everything today is lying cheating hurting one other & taken men For Half Everything
Man where is uncle Kev lol this is why Kevin Samules is needed
Lady with the red boots doesn't understand that her mentality makes her unmarriageable. Women outnumber men, she is easily marked off the marriage list.
This is an interesting topic. I think it would be interesting to understand how people view marriage. Back in the day, when women didn't have any rights to vote, own property, or make decisions about her money that her family gave her, going into a marriage was like an 'insurance policy' to make sure she is taken care of by a husband who will not only provide but manage any funds that she might have inherited.
Fast forward to these "modern times", we have women who now have the rights and means to make money by working outside of the home or through entrepreneurship and may not necessarily marry for security. Having multiple streams of income is common now and should be the norm. Unless that woman's ultimate goal is to be a stay-at-home mom, or she want to homeschool their children, there is at least a two income household existing. And for those women who want to stay at home for whatever reason, that man and woman should discuss how they will manage the household and uphold the marriage prior to getting married.
I personally think marriage is for those who love each other and who want to build something together for their legacy(children/children's children). Marriage is a partnership -- it's a reason why the Pastor says, "What God has put together let no man asunder". You are One. Therefore, from the point of unification everything you do is for the bond(family, legacy). That requires maturity, selflessness, patience, and respect.
If folks are worried about if the marriage fails, and they both have risk in the union, then I don't see anything wrong with a prenup. I just think most folks are not thinking about having such a document or don't have enough to justify the extra paperwork. And depending on where you live, honestly it might not be needed if you live in a community property state where everything is split 50/50 if you divorce.
Marriage is actually good for both man and woman if they are with the right person. Married men tend to take care of themselves more health wise b/c the wife insists on it, and the wife has the security of her husband regardless if she is working or not. If they are really doing it right, they both help and support each other as they grow as individuals and as a couple. They will be force that is unstoppable.
Everyone knows the answer to this question. It’s definitely an insurance policy and WE ALL KNOW THAT!
I like Rashaan he brings some balance & maturity.
He is a simp
Nah he be Simping
Rashaan has got to be theeee most logical level headed most realistic most intelligent man I've ever wanted to encounter!! I'd marry him WITHIN the first year or two of being with him!! He gets iiiit
7:04 answering the phones ain’t 50%
Just because you give birth to a child does not make you the better parent. Men should have the same rights as women. Most men are crushed by divorce.
I say this earnestly; I almost lost a brain cell listening to this.
Entering into a marriage is no way similar as to entering into a million dollar contract. The contract is too benefit myself(the individual), a marriage is to benefit the woman. Take care of home 🤔 I've lived alone for some years, I'm not dead yet 🙄. And I don't have any children, I can leave any money I got to my family or a good charity 🤷🏾♂️. There we go.
Rico made a lot of good points this episode 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Bro sounded real smart, until he said that you get married to protect both parties. Andre Young (Dr. Dre) is payin' MILLIONS a year in child support, after his divorce. Who is protectin' him?
If you having kids with a woman I really don’t see the pushback on marriage. Without kids it’s a different story though.
Because making a mistake that results to having a kid is cheaper and less disastrous then making a mistake when getting married
@@butterflymage5623 that couldn’t be less true. That is if you’re not paying what you should for the child. And you’re literally affecting another person’s body. I really think men and women have an inability to see outside themselves with this type of stuff
@@sbrooks904 are you high? Child support isn’t as bad as divorces you literally lose half of your lifes work in an instant ridiculous of you to say that, and also the courts favor woman heavily why are you choosing to ignore these things?
@@Strange-diggs723 I think it’s hilarious that you’re looking at the child support situation (which does take a huge chunk but never half) and ignoring the fact that a woman takes primary custody in most cases and pregnancy takes a huge toll on their body. By looking and one side and not the other you’re doing exactly what women do and makes you no better than them. I refuse to not be objective. There are pros and cons to both sides.
Homeboy in the dreads was speaking facts this whole video 🔥🔥
You own a Business why not hire her as a Employee or Independent Contractor with annual review set up with 401K now she is not idle you will see her value vice versa hire your Man as a Employee
That's better than just feeling entitled to something.
That’s not a bad idea, I’m using this lol
@@nalyzamariano9634 Yes I own a Business and when work at a Law Firms lots of Attorneys who own the firm they would give there wife a job instead if her working for someone else same thing hire your children give a them job in your business and if there a certain age there not subject to taxes
y'all if your wife helps you start a company and she is your secretary for awhile, months or years. don't forget there was all the time she would of spent helping you before the company began, maybe it was building the idea staying up late with you going over the accounts papers, helping you get it registered. These are just examples I'm stating but the emotional and physical support that she gives she deserves some money if both of y'all split. May not be half it could be 30% or whatever but shordie deserve some monetary appreciation for her work.
Besides that she took care of the house, gave you kids, made sure you're straight.
You guys need to just release the full conversation minimal to no cuts/edits
A woman's logic: A relationship is like a million dollar contract. They both need you to sign contracts.
Observation of a man: One has contract in its name (aka million dollar contract), the other has no word contract in it (relationship). They are incomparable.
Lesson: You need good abilities in logic to make analogies.
Never ever get married, there is no good reason to do so for men.
Women get their value through looks men get their value through their finances it's not a man's fault that y'all lose y'all value early
How bout this lil rebuttal... say my wife is an ig model and I took all her pics and she got hella revenue from the pictures, ad revenue and sponsorships that were lined up due to the photos. Based on what the ladies said about answering the phone calls for the business and how they must deserve it for how much they carry their own weight in a relationship, I should also get half of her ig-made money, specifically ig, due to my contribution on her business by being her photographer (non-contractually, just like their situation)... now after hearing that malarkey are we really going to get half fellas... fuck no. get a prenup.
Not for nothing but that Prenup generally protects both sides interests should things fall apart. Given it has to be ironed out and agreed upon by both parties involved. I don't understand why the women are so averse to the idea of a prenup(in either scenario of when the union came about)
Until the marriage laws change in this country. Marriage is off the table. Men should definitely protect themselves. Prenuptial! judges are going around it. I don't trust these feminist judges.
Advice and being therapeutic isn’t really helping build. You can get that from anyone. Helping build is being out their on the grind with him. And I mean stuff like putting me in touch with a contact, not transferring a call from a contact I made.
Everything she said was just a consolidation of a babysitter, housekeeper, 304, muse, therapist, massager, etc into one person.
I will consider marriage once the government takes it hands out of it.
Thinking about what Rico says. It really is a bigger expectation as a man! Some fold. Some dont! I can’t wait till we can be y’all’s audience live!!
And you shall fold your 304 mouth.
Who would get married with these American laws?
Why have kids then? Seems pretty unfair on your part
@@sbrooks904 I don't have kids. Marrying the mother of your child is Nobel but that's about it. Men want that family thing but women don't think about the kids when they fille for divorce.
@@RobertHDaGod even if they don’t I can’t control another human being. it’s up to us to vet properly bc we know it’s a lot of trash out here. We all been wrong before tho
Me and you 💕
If marriage is so crucial for women why do they waste years 18-29 hoeing and dealing with the wrong dudes then want somebody to save them?
The lady in the middle and the lady sitting next to Rico: I would avoid like THE PLAGUE!💯💥
#THOSE2 LADIESARESTRAIGHTUPGOLDDIGGERS
Right!! Being a doctor isn’t change your life money? Because you punch a clock? SHES definitely not making that money being an ig model or wtv she does ,she cannot relate .
Stay at home dad 😂🤣 I’d laugh at a woman if she ever ask me that smh
Stay at home dad is the epitome of foolishness, a man was built n designed to work it's part of his purpose here on earth.
When you change the word from “submissive” to “service” it gives the situation a new perspective. Being of service to your man is about being the help mate God designed women to be. It’s not about being in control of a woman. I feel it’s about having your woman be of service to you as you are being of service to her as the protector and provider in the marriage. Marriage is about love, respect and collaboration with each other to help the entire family unit to achieve the goals to put them on the life path both spouses want their family to be.
Interesting learned this
a)I will be submissive if certain conditions i consider important have been fullfilled, thats when i will be in womans nature, but this same ladies expect u to be on your masculine form 24/7
b)Because i was there when u were building then i deserve half upon divorce...fyi this same woman who only accepts rich men when approached, when a man set up his foundation ans was on his way to make money.most of times theres nothing a woman can do...sportfigures etc
To a man theres no incentive to get married, especially if you wealthy...u at disadvantage...fyi u investing on A woman who has been run over and been toxic rships forever and she expects you as wealthy man be faithful...
Ladies your past matters and for men your future matters..
I think middle east and someparts in asia truly is last bastion of hope men can get naturally submissive women..
Ladies and gentlemen..
The west is doomed
If u are willing to bend(go out of your way for money) for work than your relationship is with money. Any 2 people in a relationship have to bend for each other
marriages actually benefits the man more . Divorces benefits the women more.
Why do you think this
@@KailebM because men are the ones being serviced in the marriage and still have freedom. Women have to permanently sacrifice her old life style over all for the marriage, family , kids ,etc . We now Have to answer to our husbands. We can’t just get up and go like we did when we were single .
@@KailebM I feel like this is one of the reasons why Women don’t glorify the wife life Style like before and American had giving women “options” so women are definitely viewing them.
@@Liinabadd20 See this is confusing cause both parties have to permanently change their life style we got kids, we got a home, we cant just get up and go, especially since women exercise the courts to take these things from us if we do.
This is first podcast where I agree with Rico. If you weren't there before or during the process of his time building his business, I think it's fair to ask for a prenup. If the roles were reversed, a woman would the need to protect themselves let alone wouldn't even acknowledge a man that's not making more than her. A man is not obligated to take care of the women after the relationship is over. Yes they have kids, so it's his responsibility to make sure his kids are good. If women are not financially in a position to take care of her kids, then it shouldn't be a problem for them living with the father until she gets into a position where she can take care of them. Usually the men don't have a problem with it. Marriage is more beneficial for women. Relationships are investments, you win some you lose some. The question is are you genuine supporter by heart are are you being the supporter to get something out of it?
As a woman it’s your job to bring value to a man after sex. Women choose who has sex, men choose who gets rings.
99% of modern women think their box is worth the universe, thats the problem lol
A wife's job is to be a help meet to her husband in all to give their kids a bright future
This story is like Dre issue. She trying to get everything he had 😒🤦🏿♂️
She didnt get even close to everything he has though
@@MaroonTiger 3 million a year. That’s insane. She should get 200k a year she needs to be realistic
@17:50 no mother or father is entitled to anything from ANY OF THEIR CHILDREN. Doesn’t matter what the parents did, no parent is entitled to anything from their kids.
This is hilarious. 2 women on the right is garbage. Even tried teaming up and disrespecting shawty on the right when she expressed that compromising in a relationship is important. Nikki clearly doesn’t understand what adjusting and supporting means when speaking about compromising
*Nikki's jelly of the new chick Crystal* 😆😆 & It's obvious, like the new girl at school & all the other chicks start hating. Whether she percieves Crystal as prettier/younger/flyer/lightskinned whateva....It's obvious & hilarious. B4 you dismiss - check the timestamps, lol: [@21:35 - 21:42] *the shut down* ..... [@24:03 -24:44] Nikki tries to stump her with the questiosn, "What do you have to offer".."Are you emotionally stable".. *Then the KICKER, peep this dumbass question*, "Are you good w/dogs.." *LOL Bitch, you're supposed to be directing this to the men NOT your co-anchor women,...LOL* [@30:27] Nikki, not even looking Crystal's way as she's speakin..She's super dismissive & big Mad at something..LOL..[@32:28] Notice Nikki's body positioning as if her back is towards Crystal & speaking indirectly of her, Crystal picks it up and calls her out as she should. *Commence FAKE LAUGH* @32:30. Peep Ra's facial experssion @32:32 😆😆 .....
Change your life money...? That's the problem with this sister in the middle. If you had it and lost it all, you bet your last breath, she's out and you're on your own....someone tell me if I'm lying.?
Not many modern women wanna build with a decent man. It's all about the look, the hype, the flex....gimme. break, as a people, we're heading the wrong way
Jada, Marry you so you can divorce me in six months, take half of everything my car, my house 🏠 my kids over, Fake Emotions, Fake Feelings, Fake Love 💔Jada ain't no man gonna marry you she staying she wants half if you get divorced that shows me you already want a divorced For you even get married when Rico was talking about the system flipping on men Jada was laughing smh 🤦that's not even funny there men who take they life over women their men who harm they self over women like women don't understand what men Go threw behind the scenes men suffer from depression all the time nobody is their for me when it's a women you want sence of security Get The Hell outta Here im telling you Black women personality im not attracted to you all anymore ima Die Alone Respectfully 💯 I'm so tired of women saying iam the tabel when they add no value to a man some can't even cook a Hot pocket correctly let alone clean the Home some cant even give you head the right way women want men to do everything for them why we get nothing us fellas deserve Better we should demand better cause this Generation is finished in my opinion nobody believes in a capnaion every wants a partnership 💵 their a difference what happen to the days of being loyal Honest Faithful Respectful caring loving Everything today is lying cheating hurting one other & taken men For Half Everything
Jada, Marry you so you can divorce me in six months, take half of everything my car, my house 🏠 my kids over, Fake Emotions, Fake Feelings, Fake Love 💔Jada ain't no man gonna marry you she staying she wants half if you get divorced that shows me you already want a divorced For you even get married when Rico was talking about the system flipping on men Jada was laughing smh 🤦that's not even funny there men who take they life over women their men who harm they self over women like women don't understand what men Go threw behind the scenes men suffer from depression all the time nobody is their for me when it's a women you want sence of security Get The Hell outta Here im telling you Black women personality im not attracted to you all anymore ima Die Alone Respectfully 💯 I'm so tired of women saying iam the tabel when they add no value to a man some can't even cook a Hot pocket correctly let alone clean the Home some cant even give you head the right way women want men to do everything for them why we get nothing us fellas deserve Better we should demand better cause this Generation is finished in my opinion nobody believes in a capnaion every wants a partnership 💵 their a difference what happen to the days of being loyal Honest Faithful Respectful caring loving Everything today is lying cheating hurting one other & taken men For Half Everything
🗣🗣🗣🗣Speak Jada #Submissive a lot of black women don’t know how to be submissive, #Period🎯 it’s a Woman Thang, I’m the same way, I want balance and I’m here to help my man and grow with him👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Stop the cap with her im going to give him half... Lol she wouldnt serieus stay with a men who less than her... Really big lying caps
It sounds good but in reality I don't think too many women will give up half of they shit. However if it is a man its expected to be half or more she fronting for the camera.
Yes, marriage is an insurance policy for women when they done hoing
this show is very touchy when it comes on to most topics.
you can tell these ladies feel entitled plus where are the rings 💍
And you’re answering the phones🤣🤣 gtfoh!! I don’t deserve millions if I deliver Amazon packages and then quit the job!
The difference between a million dollar contract and a marriage contract is the marriage contract is heavly incentivised for women to break the contract ... any sports milli contract for a player the team still has to pay the player if they cut the player in most cases if player is not performing up to the contract
What’s in marriage for a woman everything what’s in marriage for a man nothing in the end he may lose it all is she a liability or an investment
Thank God for Rico because that other guy is weak. I feel sorry for him. He either broke or waiting to get taken advantage of. If a woman is there from the start she should get what she deserves. That may or may not behalf. That needs to be discussed. If a man builds a 20 million dollar company a wife is not worth 10 million. That is not the going rate, but you all need to talk and have that clear. Nowadays both parties usually work. In that situation, there is little need for financial support. A woman that thinks she is worth half no matter what is not a woman worth marrying.