I feel like most people shouldn't be ashamed of having a high body count, women feel ashamed when they their body count is high and men feel ashamed when their body count is low.
Three minutes in & I had to stop watching because this conversation is childish. Most women hide their body count because it lowers their value & lessens their chance of being chosen by a quality man. It's not rocket science people🙄
Shit made my head hurt. Women would rather spend an hour telling men what we should want or think, rather than spend 10 minutes listening to what we do want or think.
Question why does the information matter? My uncle told me if a man ask it’s because he is concerned if they 🍆 is bigger and it was… I don’t feel it matters when most men don’t remember the number which.
isnt that what it all boils down to? If the only thing the woman is offering is her sexuality, then the least she could do is keep it in mint condition or close to it. I like to think of it like a cake, imagine if a baker handed out cakes to a group of people and each slice he sold for 2 dollars, but when you wanted a piece suddenly it's $50 a slice.
@@ashleysimmons31 you're a woman. I don't expect you to understand. The same way I don't expect a man to understand what having period o being pregnant feels like..
Bruh the last chick I dated, whenever she couldn't get her way with me she'd try to threaten me by saying she should give one of the simps in her inbox a chance 😂
@@mrmoe110 I would've told her do what'cha do. She probably already doin it. Happened to me. She didn't threaten me, she just snuck around and did it. In the words of The Great Cornjulio - "are you threatening me" is what I would've told her.
Women- If ima get called a ho for alot of bodies then im gonna lie. You could just choose not to have a high body count. But that would take accountability.
When women start being and accepting themselves we’ll cuff them. Rico said it best I’ll marry a honest woman any day. That’s the thing women act like somebody they not and tell us “but you liked how i faked the experience right? Wasn’t you happy?” 😂 yeah but somebody can be what I’m actually looking for
Wrong if you are a man with 100 body count then the man is high value cause it’s not easy for a man to get sex like it is for women. In order for a guy to have sex multiple women he has to bring some value to her. Also any females from average to good looking can go to any bar or club and ask any guy for sex and men will say yes. If a man does the same he will get no unless he over six feet making six figures, good looking and handsome.
Why would a brotha sleep with 100 girls & not expect the same treatment 🤔 Accountability is a boys biggest fear. King up. Seek logical thinking (Logically speaking, body count is not gender specific)👑
Inherently, women understand that creating the illusion of sexual purity, makes them more attractive to men, so sharing a list of her sexual partners makes her a less likely candidate for LONG TERM commitment. I capitalized long term to place emphasis on the difference between having a short term sexual relationship with a man, which is fairly easy for women, and actually being able to find a husband.
Women want to be ran through and still be respected so bad. This ish crazy and they know that it is bullshit but continue to force the issue and act as if they do not understand how things work.
@@aaliyce You really do not know the meaning of RESPECT. These whole "you should" "You should" quotes and statements are stupid. If we are going to use these "You should" statements then if she wants respect and marriage she SHOULD NOT have been sleeping around.
@@aaliyce No. Only an idiot would think so. Respect only those who have earned it by doing things worthy of respect. Sleeping around is not one of those things.
@@gensaikuroki1793 What women do with their body has no connection to how a person should be treated. Tf. I know your mother raised you better than that.
I would leave someone who lied about their body count or in the very least I'd feel deceived and look at them differently. Male or female. Be honest and let me accept/reject you on your truth.
But how would you go about verifying it? If a woman wants a man with a specific income all she has to do is look at his W2 form. But there is no way to know about a body count. Also, I hope I never get asked my body count which is 0.
@@Sagefrakrobatik Maybe I will never know but I definitely do not want a liar. And why would a man want to be with someone he has to lie to? I am not interested in people with high counts. It's unattractive to me and shows there is clearly a values difference. Everyone has their preferences.
@@Sagefrakrobatik 3 years ago I was “dating” this guy he would ask me about my body count multiple times (he’s insecure) I told the truth because I have nothing to hide but apparently he did at first he would say 4 then 5, then 6 and later 7 HE TOLD ON MYSELF AND COULDN’T KEEP UP WITH THAT LIE RED FLAG oh and after we was over I ended up finding out it was Atleast half or near his age, he likes to judge women about lying saying “ I always found out and I always get to the bottom of it” well he does the same thing but he gets really offensive once you call him out on it, but we lived in a small town so it was easy to find out. I dump him because of other reasons too which he lied about.
@@sonderexpeditions I dont know. every once in a while I will lie I.e. "No sweetie, your hair looks/those pants look amazing" "That was delicious yum yum" or to impress a girl I just met I'll pretend to be into the same things she is like saying "That's crazy! I'm also a huge fan of Tim Mcgraw too!" As far body counts, I just need to know if she has an STI, that's my main concern.
@@arianaracquel2521 you must be high, child support favor women, hitting a female favors women, being broke marrying rich favors women i can go on an on
This is why honesty is EVERYTHING! if I’m not ready to be with someone I keep it real at all times and if she’s with it, she’s with it and if she’s not I keep it pushing.
I honestly feel like more women have a problem with honesty then us men. Like I think maybe in our younger years young men lie a little more, but as you get older we tend to be more straight forward and don’t play the mind games and lie as much as some of these women do.
High body count for women usually means.....poor pair bonding. Lack of ability to choose mates. Accountability issues. The inability to be content. How do these things suggest wife material? The avg man knows that a avg looking woman is going to be between a threshold of bodies as we are not oblivious to the fact that sex is not something women have difficulty aquiring. Very very few men are looking for virgins. However we understand that the Xtreme other end of the spectrum carries potential tremendous problems. I believe women understand this as well. Hence the reason some women attempt to lie about it.
The top three traits men look for in a woman are youth, beauty, and FIDELITY, which is the trait most often left off the list. Why because it speaks to all the issues you listed above.
Most women: I want a man who can be completely honest with me and let me decide if I can handle it. Also most women: Let me lie about my body count so that I can get a good man.
Simply put, men see a women body count the same way women view a man's income/money level. Most men could care less how much a woman earns but women care because they understand there's usually more to it. The same holds true for men's viewpoint on body count.
If a man goes to his friends and one knows what his wife was doing in the past. It downgrades him but if it was the other way round, no one would care cause out of all the women the man played with, the wife got cuffed. Sad but true.
Feminism or no feminism but if you are a girl and tell your boyfriend you have a body count of 100, chances are very very high that he will leave you...
One of my friends said women have mental issues, I thought he was a misogynist, but the more I hear women, like these 3 open their mouth to speak, the more my friend sounds right.
@Dr. Who? Damn I honestly wish I grew up around more of my female cousins and sister just to see the delusion early on so I would understand women better. I got programmed to be a gentleman by my mom and pops though early on. So I had no clue to how women really were until I got older. But I really didn’t understand the true dynamics until I got red pilled. Now I’m really repulsed by a lot of them. My last relationship led me to redpill and boy oh boy did I realize what I was doing wrong and how I should’ve avoided my ex entirely or smashed and passed. Smh oh well you live and you learn. 🤷🏽♂️
They seem to don't understand that we see two games: The Play Play Game and The Marriage Game. Body count does not matter to game 1 but is a no no to game 2. Would you like to show your friends, your boss and your family "a partner" that had 100 bodies before you?
People fail to understand relationships goals. women just don't get it, Ladies and gentlemen...There is a reason why people should abstain from sexual activity out side of marriage and it could clearly be seen on this panel. When a man and a women enter into a relationship with baggage(sexual) there will always be an issue with trusting one another, chances of infidelity are high. That is why when a woman knows about a man's past she will be with him, but will not trust him, and vis-versa. Once a woman is promiscuous she will always want to experience that, that is why the body count matters, she will no longer be thinking of you, (man) she got some other shit in her mind(she is not pure), if you want to be in a serious relationship DO NOT BE A HOE. This why a woman will save her self for marriage (men also) so that the relationship could be kept as pure as possible... but, if you have been with more than 5 men 🤔 do you! but never get married it ain't going to work...Esso hit the the nail on the head when he says "But leave it up to me" (12:13) cuz a woman being a hoe has not stopped a man from being in love with her. So basically woman want to sleep around and then settle down 🤔 she will never be satisfied sexually nor emotionally , because she will be looking in you what she found and enjoyed in those other men, then guess what else happens...I could keep going but simply put women just don't get it they always feel that they got it under controlled...
Honestly, I really wish even men didn’t feel inclined to sleep around either. I agree that this agenda to push us to sleep around and have “fun” is ruining the fabric of dating and marriage. I just don’t like that this is what our generation has become.
I met a woman that was the woman of my dreams and this chick told me her body insane body count. On that day I had to reevaluate the females in attract. But the crazy thing I really love her vibe, yes the sex is incredible, and she checks the box on everything I like.
I don’t believe in double standards when it comes to relationships. There is always an asymmetrical dynamic. My mom can punish me, but I can’t punish her. That would be a double standard. Women like men with beards, but men don’t like women with beards. That would be a double standard. Men and women place value on different traits and actions. Why are men constantly shamed for the 3 things we value?
"What if you don't care about the game?" That's cool, but that game is getting wifes up by a man. So if you ain't looking for marriage, do you. Men judge women and judge the man that commit to promiscuous women as weak. And it's okay to be weak, just don't complain about weak outcomes.
🤣🤣🤣 they were so uncomfortable they were squirming in their seats! As a man that's how you figure out if a woman has a lot of bodies, when you go to ask pay attention to their BODY LANGUAGE
@@elisaaguilar6423 Spoken like someone with a lot of bodies 🤣🤣🤣 a true "bodysnatcher" if u will 🤣 As a man this is another way to figure out if a woman has a lot of bodies, they try to minimize distinct hints and clues to throw u off the scent lmao ain't nobody dumb u just revealed urself prob was squirming and uncomfortable when u read my comment huh lol
@@Taylor2942 Wow. You said all that without knowing me. Did I trigger something in you or do you just have a problem with a woman just simply stating her opinion? 😂😂😂
I'm from the 70s era,growing up,women had respect for their bodies,they knew sleeping with a lot of men would lessons their chances of having a healthy and meaningful relationship. I remember listening to big mama tell her daughters that your body is your essence,and the more you sleep around the more you loose your essence and become part of that man's DNA until theirs nothing left of you. Now you have to ask yourself,why are women acting more and more like men? Just a thought.
Let me be absolutely clear about something. We are in the last days, and the "Men Of The Lord" will be exalted by his mighty hand (His Only Begotten Son). Isaiah 4:1 “And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.” We will not care how women rationalize their past actions. We will not be shamed about our standards that we WILL hold women to. WE will dictate what we will accept, and what we will NOT accept. You can lie all you want, and sleep around all you want, but you will be rejected. A woman's "opinion" about "fairness" and "double-standards" will mean absolutely nothing to us; and our decision will be FINAL. There will be no discussion at all.
@@DreDay53 So when will be the end times? 100 years from now? 1000? Wake up and look at the signs...we're done here. "Thy Kingdom come" Is here. He was NOT joking.
I'm a Christian as well and what your saying is bogus .. everyone has a past .. if u confess your sins to God and let him know what u did wrong he pits them in the sea of forgetfulness .. so my question now is do men think that they are higher than God? That they are to high and mighty to let the past be the past ect.
It’s like this. A relationship requires sacrifice. If a woman is telling me she can’t resist other men any everything is kosher in her life, do you really think she’ll be able to resist other men should I fall on hard times or our relationship faces internal or external challenges? As a man I need to know there is a sense of discernment in you to where you do what’s right, not what’s most convenient, easiest, or what you can get away with. Because what I can’t have is my kid’s mom destroying our family because some new diq came around…as though she didn’t know other dudes existed when she swore loyalty to me.
Women are born with innate value, which means just being a woman, men fine your value for your, youth, fertility, virginity, and upbringing. These innate value that women have make it easier for younger women to get things from men. Men on the other hand have build themselves financially and mentally to gain value in women’s eyes. Women can use this value they possess to bargain for high caliber man when they are younger, feminine, and traditional. Generally men will judge a woman’s past, because women judge a man’s future. If I hold a public office, I’ll will be wary of my wife past, because it can hurt my image. Women with higher body counts are more likely to file for divorce, because they can bond with one man deeply after a huge body count.
You're right higher partner counts increase risk of divorce (except for someone with only 2 life partners where they are more likely than someone with 3+) but that same rate shows for men in increased cheating and pair bonding. Researchers found the same negatives for both genders and found they were more likely to be impulsive, but these are red flags you'd find before knowing someone's number based on their life choices.
@@sonderexpeditions To be honest, one woman can satisfy a man’s sexual desire unless she has a high sex drive. As any woman if she will any time a man ask to smash and she will say no, but a man if he will smash anytime his woman as him to and he will say hell yeah. More so, most women nowadays won’t cook their men. Next, a lot of women bring more nagging than peace to their men. Most men will hardly leave a woman that provides him sex, peace, and can cook for him. Also, a man is only as faithful as is options. I high value man can be monogamous if his woman get in his program and follow his lead, but still most woman don’t want to have sex every time a man wants to, so men with options have no choice but to exercise options. That’s why some married man can have an affair with other women, but he always comes back home. He will leave only if the woman refuse sex, won’t cook for him, and nags all the time.
Like from the movie, Silver Linings Playhouse, when the girl admitted to sleeping with many men, then wanted forgiveness, is proof that running trains on men is gross. Only in Hollywood does the guy actually still want her. When I was 26, I dated an 18 year old who told me after a week she slept with over 20 men. That visual almost made me vomit.
Women want to be married to a man w/o respecting what a man wants. Let ya mans know what he’s dealing with before someone outside the marriage does. Iman & Teyana told each other their body counts to protect each other when they in LA at these parties, so nobody from the outside can tell each other about each other 🔗
A woman having sex with multiple men is a deep rooted hurt similar to men. On the other hand, women will put her emotions into it while a man will not have that female on his mind on move onto the next quest. Some females will say they can careless once they sleep with a guy but it'll catch up to you eventually. Playing the game that men play will always keep that woman at the end of the rope. Men takes time to grow emotions and feelings for a woman and once he does then he's in it. Women cannot separate emotions from sex and it doesn't matter how much of a player or emotionless a woman think she is.
@Angel Noel exactly and men will high body count tends to cheat, I had a friend who only had 3 and her guy had 22 and he was cheating on her, and he was very insecure plus he was beating on her too, I even know some girls with high body counts that cheat too so it applies to both
@Angel Noel exactly I know some guy with a high ass body count over 30 and he can’t stay faithful in a relationship and he be so quick to call a girl a wh0re after he sleeps with her or when he knows the girl only had 1 or 2 bodies lol
@Angel Noel me and my friend don’t live in that city no more, he still kept running his mouth a year in an half even after he had a girlfriend, my friend had to get guys to press him then we never heard anything since
They never will tell you the truth. Unless she’s truly a virgin or it’s extremely low then maybe. Most of the time you can just tell in her demeanor and how feminine she still is. If she’s overly masculine or a lot of tatts and piercings or switches up her style or hair a lot especially after y’all have fallen out or have been on a break or break up that’s a dead giveaway. Shows she has multiple personalities bpd or npd run she most likely for the streets.
Nothing wrong with sleeping around, just don't lie about it. I don't encourage men or women to have a lot of sexual partners and this might seem that men are allowed to sleep around more, *just know that a woman that has a big body count she is damaged and can't form a healthy bond in the long run with a man.*
The men speaking facts, guess what, yes it is a double standard. Either deal with it or get out of the way! You all know what men want, now decide if you want a man, and do what it takes to catch a good one.
@@frankmatthews404 ok… Let me break it down for you… If you’re gonna admit what you’re willing to do in a relationship, then there’s a level of truth that you’re relying on to put forth what you’re feeling… If you lie about what you want to do, either way you’re relying on truth- Hear me out… If you’re an honest liar, at least you’re operating in a realm of knowing that you’re a liar (Truth to thine self)!!! Again, being “HONEST” in your position will only put you in a position to be who you are in the truth that you display… I’ll break it down if you still don’t understand…
I'm a lesbian and I say this. People are more worried about a body count due to personal insecurities & trying to "measure up" to past partners but be real slow to go get tested & show those papers. You can have a body count of 2 & be burning while the chick with a higher count is clean & healthy. I would never intrude into anyone's past who I'm expecting to build a future with. And it's always hilarious when someone has multiple baby mothers/fathers but are hounding about a count. You're literally at the bottom of the dating pool with that negative equity there so don't rule out a potential solid partner if they're CLEAN & RESPECTABLE over something that's not your business from the past. Only thing that you're owed are clean STD results. I dated someone with a decent body count and she was the most LOYAL & SOLID woman ever. Helped level me up. Imagine if I had passed her up all because of her past.
As a woman I have highly body count and so does my husband. We didn't judge each others for it. We have been married for 22 years and I have been faithful this whole time. Every one makes mistakes in their past its what you learn from that mistake that matters.
You’re a lesbian and a woman, different consequences and mind sets. Men and women are not the same so we care about different things. It’s also possible that a kid in raising is not mine. I am risking so much for a person who does not have a track record of being faithful and it’s gross whether she gets tested or not
"Double standards" - Some are just wrong, but when are people going to stop ignoring the fact men and women value different things in the opposite sex? And in some ways value the same. (Therefore people lie). The reality is for some, past sex experiences weigh more heavily than others depending on the partner. Both men and women overwhelmingly seem to share this idea, if not consciously, definitely subconsciously. It is not social influence. Might be due the fact women have more delicate, complex bodies created for a very important role in continuing human existance (pregnancy, child birth, etc). Don't lie, stay safe, stay healthy and find someone you see eye-to-eye with and keep it pushing ( mean that literally and figuratively). If you find yourself lying to be accepted you should check if it's for a positive outcome or not? Would you rather live by good truth or a good lie?
why is this still a convo? Women with high body counts are looked down on because women don't have to do anything to get sex. So if she has a high count she was just easy poon for a lot of dudes. Whereas men have to actually work to get women. Be charming, good looking, swag, etc.
The sad reality is you gotta lie to women who push for commitment. I try to be straight up, but once the other option lies and gets it the dynamic changes and I took an L.
A woman is concerned about your future as a man, will u provide..will u protect her and be a good husband.. Men are concern about womans past Men and woman are different, we are attracted to different stuff..you dont see men complain they have work will wife stays home...or willing put their life in danger die for wife if need arises... Theres no double standard Im not willing cuff and who knows die for a woman whos been run over like the Brooklyn bridge
C'mon, you don't know that men and women are different? Sex affects women differently then men. If you choose to have a high body count, then you also have to be prepared for how it affects you, how you will be perceived and all of the trauma that you will have to deal with.
@Angel Noel - I never sad that both sexes shouldn't value sex. They should, it effects women differently than men. That's what the research shows, that's what I am saying.
Its way easier for women to get sex. If a women walks outside and 11am and asks 20 men “lets have sex” all 20 will say yes. If a man does the same most, if not all, will say no or rake me out on a date first
On the flip side…if a guy haven’t been getting it like that then that’s a problem she sees too, so either way no one wins or cool with either situation. 😳🙄
Bam " men telling you what we want , but you try to debate us in what we want " . Thank you Rico for the mic 🎤 drop moment . And as usual they still don't want to listen . Is it really surprising that black women are lossing at the relationship game . Like I say if all black women , where talent scouts they would have the worst track records .
A woman is attached by emotions. Periodt. Why as a man must I have to wonder if you still feel emotionally attached to the next while I'm giving my soul. It just doesn't settle right with a man
Man it’s sooo hard for them to take accountability it’s crazy. At the end they spend hours painting a mask on so we shouldn’t be surprise. Men are simple ,those women rather to stupid and apathetic to get it , or they just trying to justify they own behaviours. At the end it’s all about loyalty, as men we feel often disposable.
Dude in the red jacket TOO real 😂 breakin da game down for da women acting as if promiscuity runs parallel between men & women. It just doesn't unfortunately
When you have the means, you won't buy a high mileage car? quality men don't want used goods it may not sound fair, but life isn't fair. while you clocking up bodies for fun, some people are dying due to a lack of food and water in other parts of the world. Treat your body with respect, low self-esteem is beyond a lot of this anyway.
Rico hit the nail on the head with dating women from out of town. 'Let me tell you a story I dating this girl in the U.S. nation' (Biz Markie)....in a reserve unit I was in I had a friend that was a cop full time job and he said something that went 'Barry Bonds' (grand slam)..he said a woman can be the worse in her hometown etc and relocate elsewhere and become a queen. (so true!). Active duty years prior cocoa beach,FL. One guy friend I met in the same doom and another friend from basic training (ended up at the same base) both told me about this chick from N.C. that was in florida (both bumping with) staying with an aunt while attending school. While at the local mall with the basic training friend he mentioned the same thing about a chick that my other friend was dating and bumping. So I said it's probably not the same chick. my friend immediate responded 'I bet it is'. And sure enough it was. she was a redbone and looked very nice. The basic training friend from Virginia stopped seeing her. I personally would not have. Everyone is seeing someone when you meet them whether it's mentioned or not and most times not. Everyone is human. Now as a reservist in a diff city I dated a woman that I learned enjoyed experiencing diff men style/approach to sex but I did not know this upfront for awhile. Now that person is at the larges naval base in the U.S. and says she wants to make things right with god. I would hope but b4 she left I visited and her phone was texting off the chain. So I doubt that her lifestyle has changed. that's like a druggy trying to stop drugs but goes into the environment of drug users daily/quite often. (Chris Rock in 'New Jack City'.
Women and men should stop lying period because that’s called entrapment! If you can’t keep it 100 with the person that you’re investing in then don’t make a lifetime commitment to them.
Its easy for a woman to acquire a high body count with little or no work while a man has to put in a lot of work to get a fraction of a woman's body count. Getting a man to sleep with her is the easy part but getting him to stay is a different ballgame.
Men and women view the world in a different perspective. They are not the same. Since the ancient times female promiscuity has been frowned upon and that is not by accident. Society doesn't care whether man has slept with 100 gals but if a woman did that , she will be laughed at by the society. It may seem like a double standard but Life IS NOT FAIR. JUST Accept the reality and move on.
@Angel Noel that’s not true at all. You keep trying to spout these nonsensical ideas that men and women are equal. We aren’t. No amount of denial with change that.
@Angel Noel that’s not true. Women are most certainly attracted to a man that can and has had many women wanting him. The same isn’t true for men. That’s the biggest fallacy going that men and women value the same things in the other. It doesn’t work that way. Again you can spout nonsense if you want. And maybe YOU don’t want a man that’s bedded many women, but most women want the guy other women want.
There is no double standard when it comes to body count. If women wanted it to be "fair" they have to set the standards on what they accept from men the same way men do with women. Women can literally say we aren't dealing with men that have had more than 5 women and there will be a shift in the culture. Men would then sleep with less women before settling down. Don't blame us, blame yourselves.
They are angry because, despite what they say, they secretly like promiscuous men (they want to be that one special person who can tame him) and want us to feel the same way about it that they do but we, on the other hand, don’t like promiscuous women when it comes to commitment (can’t turn a 304 into a housewife).
Exactly that’s why I broke up with my ex. The lies and combativeness and the lack of trust I had for her ultimately showed me what I was dealing with and I had to leave. Not even the sex could make me stay with that amount of crazy. She most definitely had to be cheating cause her actions didn’t always line up with her words.
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If, you have to lie about it, it means you're ashamed about it ... so don't do it. Always be honest.
They know guys dont hold women to the same regard with high body counts.
Exactly, just say that your insecure about your body count and keep it moving 😆
I feel like most people shouldn't be ashamed of having a high body count, women feel ashamed when they their body count is high and men feel ashamed when their body count is low.
Or it isn't due to being ashamed of it but they just don't want to deal with the reaction that it generates.
Yup
Three minutes in & I had to stop watching because this conversation is childish.
Most women hide their body count because it lowers their value & lessens their chance of being chosen by a quality man. It's not rocket science people🙄
I love straight to the point blunt conversations. Beating around the bush irritates me so badly!!! Lol
Shit made my head hurt. Women would rather spend an hour telling men what we should want or think, rather than spend 10 minutes listening to what we do want or think.
Exactly. No amount of social engineering will ever make it okay.
If you have to hide your body count, man or woman, then you already know what you are
Question why does the information matter? My uncle told me if a man ask it’s because he is concerned if they 🍆 is bigger and it was… I don’t feel it matters when most men don’t remember the number which.
If your body count doesnt matter, my finances dont matter. Real simple 👌🏾
isnt that what it all boils down to? If the only thing the woman is offering is her sexuality, then the least she could do is keep it in mint condition or close to it. I like to think of it like a cake, imagine if a baker handed out cakes to a group of people and each slice he sold for 2 dollars, but when you wanted a piece suddenly it's $50 a slice.
Lol i mean that shit sound good cuhhhhhh. But we know it aint that simple
If only most dudes were strong enough to really be like this
both person's body counts and fiances matter. *drop mic.
@@Sagefrakrobatik the women you deal with only brings sexuality?
High body count = how easy are you going to go with another dude once shit starts not to work
FACTSSSSS
that’s not true
@@ashleysimmons31 you're a woman. I don't expect you to understand. The same way I don't expect a man to understand what having period o being pregnant feels like..
Bruh the last chick I dated, whenever she couldn't get her way with me she'd try to threaten me by saying she should give one of the simps in her inbox a chance 😂
@@mrmoe110 I would've told her do what'cha do. She probably already doin it. Happened to me. She didn't threaten me, she just snuck around and did it. In the words of The Great Cornjulio - "are you threatening me" is what I would've told her.
Women- If ima get called a ho for alot of bodies then im gonna lie.
You could just choose not to have a high body count. But that would take accountability.
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Facts
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That's not called accountability. Thats called self control
Bro Did you just use the Words Accountability and Women in the same sentence? They don't mix like Water and Oil lmfaooo
Accountability is a woman's kryptonite. Women want to sleep 100 dudes and still be considered pure. They wonder why they ain't getting cuffed.
When women start being and accepting themselves we’ll cuff them. Rico said it best I’ll marry a honest woman any day. That’s the thing women act like somebody they not and tell us “but you liked how i faked the experience right? Wasn’t you happy?” 😂 yeah but somebody can be what I’m actually looking for
If you’re a man and sleep with 100 women then you’re not pure either.
@@Natalie-fj7fs it’s not an argument lol. Most men don’t lie about their body count.
Wrong if you are a man with 100 body count then the man is high value cause it’s not easy for a man to get sex like it is for women. In order for a guy to have sex multiple women he has to bring some value to her. Also any females from average to good looking can go to any bar or club and ask any guy for sex and men will say yes. If a man does the same he will get no unless he over six feet making six figures, good looking and handsome.
Why would a brotha sleep with 100 girls & not expect the same treatment 🤔
Accountability is a boys biggest fear.
King up. Seek logical thinking (Logically speaking, body count is not gender specific)👑
Inherently, women understand that creating the illusion of sexual purity, makes them more attractive to men, so sharing a list of her sexual partners makes her a less likely candidate for LONG TERM commitment. I capitalized long term to place emphasis on the difference between having a short term sexual relationship with a man, which is fairly easy for women, and actually being able to find a husband.
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Women want to be ran through and still be respected so bad. This ish crazy and they know that it is bullshit but continue to force the issue and act as if they do not understand how things work.
Um..you should respect everyone idiot
@@aaliyce You really do not know the meaning of RESPECT. These whole "you should" "You should" quotes and statements are stupid. If we are going to use these "You should" statements then if she wants respect and marriage she SHOULD NOT have been sleeping around.
@@aaliyce No. Only an idiot would think so. Respect only those who have earned it by doing things worthy of respect. Sleeping around is not one of those things.
@@gensaikuroki1793 What women do with their body has no connection to how a person should be treated. Tf. I know your mother raised you better than that.
I swea to god 🤦♂️🙆♂️🤒
I would leave someone who lied about their body count or in the very least I'd feel deceived and look at them differently. Male or female. Be honest and let me accept/reject you on your truth.
I think you are so beautiful
But how would you go about verifying it? If a woman wants a man with a specific income all she has to do is look at his W2 form. But there is no way to know about a body count. Also, I hope I never get asked my body count which is 0.
@@Sagefrakrobatik Maybe I will never know but I definitely do not want a liar. And why would a man want to be with someone he has to lie to? I am not interested in people with high counts. It's unattractive to me and shows there is clearly a values difference. Everyone has their preferences.
@@Sagefrakrobatik 3 years ago I was “dating” this guy he would ask me about my body count multiple times (he’s insecure) I told the truth because I have nothing to hide but apparently he did at first he would say 4 then 5, then 6 and later 7 HE TOLD ON MYSELF AND COULDN’T KEEP UP WITH THAT LIE RED FLAG oh and after we was over I ended up finding out it was Atleast half or near his age, he likes to judge women about lying saying “ I always found out and I always get to the bottom of it” well he does the same thing but he gets really offensive once you call him out on it, but we lived in a small town so it was easy to find out. I dump him because of other reasons too which he lied about.
@@sonderexpeditions I dont know. every once in a while I will lie I.e. "No sweetie, your hair looks/those pants look amazing" "That was delicious yum yum" or to impress a girl I just met I'll pretend to be into the same things she is like saying "That's crazy! I'm also a huge fan of Tim Mcgraw too!" As far body counts, I just need to know if she has an STI, that's my main concern.
Notice these women not so quick to inject themselves in this conversation like they normally do
So what it's a double standard?...There are many double standards that favour women
Exactly! 👏🏽
Name em! The only
Double standard that works on our favor is not being considered gay for an experimental moment. Everything else y’all got!
@@arianaracquel2521 you must be high, child support favor women, hitting a female favors women, being broke marrying rich favors women i can go on an on
@@JuicedUpLA hitting a female? How does abuse favor women? 🤣 y’all weirdos say anything.
@@arianaracquel2521 if a female strike a man first and he defend himself he wrong no matter what! Stop being stupid like you don’t know
Red Jacket is making all of the Valid points! I’m feeling his bluntness.
Every time! He is on it! I like when he is on the panel.
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Yea he’s a mans man, out here droppin big gems. Big diamonds
Jada was unsettled in this topic.
Ladies no matter how you see it, there is a limit to everything
Yes
Exactly....she was triggered
This is why honesty is EVERYTHING! if I’m not ready to be with someone I keep it real at all times and if she’s with it, she’s with it and if she’s not I keep it pushing.
I honestly feel like more women have a problem with honesty then us men. Like I think maybe in our younger years young men lie a little more, but as you get older we tend to be more straight forward and don’t play the mind games and lie as much as some of these women do.
High body count for women usually means.....poor pair bonding. Lack of ability to choose mates. Accountability issues. The inability to be content. How do these things suggest wife material? The avg man knows that a avg looking woman is going to be between a threshold of bodies as we are not oblivious to the fact that sex is not something women have difficulty aquiring. Very very few men are looking for virgins. However we understand that the Xtreme other end of the spectrum carries potential tremendous problems. I believe women understand this as well. Hence the reason some women attempt to lie about it.
The top three traits men look for in a woman are youth, beauty, and FIDELITY, which is the trait most often left off the list. Why because it speaks to all the issues you listed above.
and high amount suppose to be above anything 3-4
You're definitely an intelligent fella. I agree.
Best explanation ever💯
Well said.
I agree with Esso on this and Rico. They are spitting the truth a lot of women aren't listening to what we men want in a wife.
Of course women don't know what men want/need it done think women should be in conversation like these to add just to listen and learn
These women CAN'T be that naive. Women physically shouldn't have a high body count 😕
Telegony and microchimerism which leads to inability to pair bond.
Neither should Men.
Most women: I want a man who can be completely honest with me and let me decide if I can handle it.
Also most women: Let me lie about my body count so that I can get a good man.
Kevin samuels was that man and they hated him
Simply put, men see a women body count the same way women view a man's income/money level. Most men could care less how much a woman earns but women care because they understand there's usually more to it. The same holds true for men's viewpoint on body count.
I wholeheartedly agree!
That was so lame, women hate having a conversation specifically about them.
Hiding your sexual experience aka body count is the same as lying about being rich
Hell no!! Where is the connection?🤣🤦🏾♂️
If a man goes to his friends and one knows what his wife was doing in the past. It downgrades him but if it was the other way round, no one would care cause out of all the women the man played with, the wife got cuffed. Sad but true.
The difference is woman have kids. And DNA isn't always the man they walk through life with!
No. I don't want anyone from my small city just for that reason. All the gossip and bull shit. You must be from a big city.
If it's ok to lie in the relationship fine then if I cheat its ok to lie about it. Relationships built on lies don't last
no matter what number she says, she's lying.
Buddy with the braids be speaking the truth...why when a man tells a women what they looking for why y'all debate it
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Men just want to know how many miles is on a preowned car. Just because it’s got some miles doesn’t mean it won’t sell.
Men don’t want a lemon.
Feminism or no feminism but if you are a girl and tell your boyfriend you have a body count of 100, chances are very very high that he will leave you...
Ok but why do you have the uefa conference league logo as your avatar tho🤣
Amanda throws it to the wind, extra defensive in her body language and eyes 👀
One of my friends said women have mental issues, I thought he was a misogynist, but the more I hear women, like these 3 open their mouth to speak, the more my friend sounds right.
@Dr. Who? Damn I honestly wish I grew up around more of my female cousins and sister just to see the delusion early on so I would understand women better. I got programmed to be a gentleman by my mom and pops though early on. So I had no clue to how women really were until I got older. But I really didn’t understand the true dynamics until I got red pilled. Now I’m really repulsed by a lot of them. My last relationship led me to redpill and boy oh boy did I realize what I was doing wrong and how I should’ve avoided my ex entirely or smashed and passed. Smh oh well you live and you learn. 🤷🏽♂️
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They seem to don't understand that we see two games: The Play Play Game and The Marriage Game. Body count does not matter to game 1 but is a no no to game 2.
Would you like to show your friends, your boss and your family "a partner" that had 100 bodies before you?
Think of that scene in Best Man Holiday, when Candy the stripper’s past came up on a business meeting 👀
@@dd470_ love that movie !
@@shutit4024 same! Both part 1 and 2
Must be hav hiv
I agree
It's the fact that you might lie to me about the body count, which we would be starting the relationship with wrong step.
People fail to understand relationships goals. women just don't get it, Ladies and gentlemen...There is a reason why people should abstain from sexual activity out side of marriage and it could clearly be seen on this panel. When a man and a women enter into a relationship with baggage(sexual) there will always be an issue with trusting one another, chances of infidelity are high. That is why when a woman knows about a man's past she will be with him, but will not trust him, and vis-versa. Once a woman is promiscuous she will always want to experience that, that is why the body count matters, she will no longer be thinking of you, (man) she got some other shit in her mind(she is not pure), if you want to be in a serious relationship DO NOT BE A HOE. This why a woman will save her self for marriage (men also) so that the relationship could be kept as pure as possible... but, if you have been with more than 5 men 🤔 do you! but never get married it ain't going to work...Esso hit the the nail on the head when he says "But leave it up to me" (12:13) cuz a woman being a hoe has not stopped a man from being in love with her. So basically woman want to sleep around and then settle down 🤔 she will never be satisfied sexually nor emotionally , because she will be looking in you what she found and enjoyed in those other men, then guess what else happens...I could keep going but simply put women just don't get it they always feel that they got it under controlled...
Honestly, I really wish even men didn’t feel inclined to sleep around either. I agree that this agenda to push us to sleep around and have “fun” is ruining the fabric of dating and marriage. I just don’t like that this is what our generation has become.
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I would not date someone who expects marriage before sex. How am I supposed to know if were sexually compatible before I make a lifetime commitment.
Sex is marriage
I met a woman that was the woman of my dreams and this chick told me her body insane body count. On that day I had to reevaluate the females in attract. But the crazy thing I really love her vibe, yes the sex is incredible, and she checks the box on everything I like.
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Sounds like fun sex trumps love in that case
We tell women what we looking for y’all try debate us-Rico
I don’t believe in double standards when it comes to relationships. There is always an asymmetrical dynamic. My mom can punish me, but I can’t punish her. That would be a double standard. Women like men with beards, but men don’t like women with beards. That would be a double standard. Men and women place value on different traits and actions. Why are men constantly shamed for the 3 things we value?
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That's kind of where I agree as well. You explain it much better than me lol
"What if you don't care about the game?" That's cool, but that game is getting wifes up by a man. So if you ain't looking for marriage, do you. Men judge women and judge the man that commit to promiscuous women as weak. And it's okay to be weak, just don't complain about weak outcomes.
Like it or not, the higher the body count the lower the value of the woman. Period!!!!!!!!!!
True and the lower the value of the man too. So a low value man only deserves a low value woman
@@keishapuryear8180 no only high value men can sleep with a lot of women
@@liggmabawls5634 not true all men can sleep with a lot of women if they choose to.
@@keishapuryear8180 no they can’t. Men have to work to get laid , women get laid just for existing
@@liggmabawls5634 whatever. Why are you complaining? Trust me you don't want to be a woman. I could list a million reasons why but it's unnecessary.
🤣🤣🤣 they were so uncomfortable they were squirming in their seats! As a man that's how you figure out if a woman has a lot of bodies, when you go to ask pay attention to their BODY LANGUAGE
100% facts!
😂😂😂😂 then you really don’t know women. You really think it’s that easy to tell? Ok. Thank you for the laugh.
@@elisaaguilar6423 Spoken like someone with a lot of bodies 🤣🤣🤣 a true "bodysnatcher" if u will 🤣 As a man this is another way to figure out if a woman has a lot of bodies, they try to minimize distinct hints and clues to throw u off the scent lmao ain't nobody dumb u just revealed urself prob was squirming and uncomfortable when u read my comment huh lol
@@Taylor2942 Wow. You said all that without knowing me. Did I trigger something in you or do you just have a problem with a woman just simply stating her opinion? 😂😂😂
@@elisaaguilar6423 Lol neither. All I'm saying is a hit dog will holler and u hollering rn 🤣🤣🤣
These chicks are the ones you don’t wife…
Run brothas run!!!!
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I'm from the 70s era,growing up,women had respect for their bodies,they knew sleeping with a lot of men would lessons their chances of having a healthy and meaningful relationship. I remember listening to big mama tell her daughters that your body is your essence,and the more you sleep around the more you loose your essence and become part of that man's DNA until theirs nothing left of you. Now you have to ask yourself,why are women acting more and more like men? Just a thought.
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Exactly agree what the guy's are saying. I don't want no woman that been with 100 men.
Let me be absolutely clear about something. We are in the last days, and the "Men Of The Lord" will be exalted by his mighty hand (His Only Begotten Son).
Isaiah 4:1
“And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.”
We will not care how women rationalize their past actions. We will not be shamed about our standards that we WILL hold women to. WE will dictate what we will accept, and what we will NOT accept. You can lie all you want, and sleep around all you want, but you will be rejected. A woman's "opinion" about "fairness" and "double-standards" will mean absolutely nothing to us; and our decision will be FINAL. There will be no discussion at all.
@GOD No. Isaiah was talking about all the "Daughters of Zion" scattered all over the world.
We aren’t in the end of times colleges are messing with how the majority thinks and the main thing is lack of accountability and cancel culture
@@DreDay53 So when will be the end times? 100 years from now? 1000? Wake up and look at the signs...we're done here. "Thy Kingdom come" Is here. He was NOT joking.
I'm a Christian as well and what your saying is bogus .. everyone has a past .. if u confess your sins to God and let him know what u did wrong he pits them in the sea of forgetfulness .. so my question now is do men think that they are higher than God? That they are to high and mighty to let the past be the past ect.
If I find out about what you did afterward I will divorce you. In fact if I don’t think I can trust your words I will never trust you.
Conversation is pointless when talking to women.
"men will marry an honest women." thats the title for this episode
It’s like this. A relationship requires sacrifice. If a woman is telling me she can’t resist other men any everything is kosher in her life, do you really think she’ll be able to resist other men should I fall on hard times or our relationship faces internal or external challenges? As a man I need to know there is a sense of discernment in you to where you do what’s right, not what’s most convenient, easiest, or what you can get away with. Because what I can’t have is my kid’s mom destroying our family because some new diq came around…as though she didn’t know other dudes existed when she swore loyalty to me.
A woman's womb is a gift to her husband, not a cheap carnival prize that anyone can win.
Women are born with innate value, which means just being a woman, men fine your value for your, youth, fertility, virginity, and upbringing. These innate value that women have make it easier for younger women to get things from men. Men on the other hand have build themselves financially and mentally to gain value in women’s eyes. Women can use this value they possess to bargain for high caliber man when they are younger, feminine, and traditional. Generally men will judge a woman’s past, because women judge a man’s future. If I hold a public office, I’ll will be wary of my wife past, because it can hurt my image. Women with higher body counts are more likely to file for divorce, because they can bond with one man deeply after a huge body count.
Where is your church Rev? You just preached a whole sermon!
@@chrisisslick I’m a nomadic preacher, so I’m always moving from one TH-cam channel to the other. You can fine me in the chat section.✌️
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You're right higher partner counts increase risk of divorce (except for someone with only 2 life partners where they are more likely than someone with 3+) but that same rate shows for men in increased cheating and pair bonding. Researchers found the same negatives for both genders and found they were more likely to be impulsive, but these are red flags you'd find before knowing someone's number based on their life choices.
@@sonderexpeditions To be honest, one woman can satisfy a man’s sexual desire unless she has a high sex drive. As any woman if she will any time a man ask to smash and she will say no, but a man if he will smash anytime his woman as him to and he will say hell yeah. More so, most women nowadays won’t cook their men. Next, a lot of women bring more nagging than peace to their men. Most men will hardly leave a woman that provides him sex, peace, and can cook for him. Also, a man is only as faithful as is options. I high value man can be monogamous if his woman get in his program and follow his lead, but still most woman don’t want to have sex every time a man wants to, so men with options have no choice but to exercise options. That’s why some married man can have an affair with other women, but he always comes back home. He will leave only if the woman refuse sex, won’t cook for him, and nags all the time.
Like from the movie, Silver Linings Playhouse, when the girl admitted to sleeping with many men, then wanted forgiveness, is proof that running trains on men is gross. Only in Hollywood does the guy actually still want her. When I was 26, I dated an 18 year old who told me after a week she slept with over 20 men. That visual almost made me vomit.
Women want to be married to a man w/o respecting what a man wants. Let ya mans know what he’s dealing with before someone outside the marriage does.
Iman & Teyana told each other their body counts to protect each other when they in LA at these parties, so nobody from the outside can tell each other about each other 🔗
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A woman having sex with multiple men is a deep rooted hurt similar to men. On the other hand, women will put her emotions into it while a man will not have that female on his mind on move onto the next quest. Some females will say they can careless once they sleep with a guy but it'll catch up to you eventually. Playing the game that men play will always keep that woman at the end of the rope. Men takes time to grow emotions and feelings for a woman and once he does then he's in it. Women cannot separate emotions from sex and it doesn't matter how much of a player or emotionless a woman think she is.
@Angel Noel I agree
@Angel Noel exactly and men will high body count tends to cheat, I had a friend who only had 3 and her guy had 22 and he was cheating on her, and he was very insecure plus he was beating on her too, I even know some girls with high body counts that cheat too so it applies to both
@Angel Noel exactly I know some guy with a high ass body count over 30 and he can’t stay faithful in a relationship and he be so quick to call a girl a wh0re after he sleeps with her or when he knows the girl only had 1 or 2 bodies lol
@Angel Noel sad thing is he runs his mouth I remember he ran his mouth after he “took” my friend virginity and called her a thot lol
@Angel Noel me and my friend don’t live in that city no more, he still kept running his mouth a year in an half even after he had a girlfriend, my friend had to get guys to press him then we never heard anything since
I met my girlfriend off a dating site and I had to catfish as her to find out that she lied to me about her body count smh
They never will tell you the truth. Unless she’s truly a virgin or it’s extremely low then maybe. Most of the time you can just tell in her demeanor and how feminine she still is. If she’s overly masculine or a lot of tatts and piercings or switches up her style or hair a lot especially after y’all have fallen out or have been on a break or break up that’s a dead giveaway. Shows she has multiple personalities bpd or npd run she most likely for the streets.
if you tell the man the truth about your body count and he rejects it, this is good. find a man who accept it. just tell the truth
Great question, ladies, if it is not soo bad, then why lie and hide ur body count?🤔
Nothing wrong with sleeping around, just don't lie about it. I don't encourage men or women to have a lot of sexual partners and this might seem that men are allowed to sleep around more, *just know that a woman that has a big body count she is damaged and can't form a healthy bond in the long run with a man.*
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The men speaking facts, guess what, yes it is a double standard. Either deal with it or get out of the way! You all know what men want, now decide if you want a man, and do what it takes to catch a good one.
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Mistakes mean they weren't intentionally done or regrets.
Most of them do not regret their actions.
That's just the way it is.
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@@frankmatthews404 that sounds about right
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It’s all about honesty at the end of the day🤷🏾♂️
Nah its about purity and Integrity
@@frankmatthews404 purity and integrity all relies on truth…
@@phillydagoon215 you're very slow lol
@@frankmatthews404 ok… Let me break it down for you… If you’re gonna admit what you’re willing to do in a relationship, then there’s a level of truth that you’re relying on to put forth what you’re feeling…
If you lie about what you want to do, either way you’re relying on truth- Hear me out…
If you’re an honest liar, at least you’re operating in a realm of knowing that you’re a liar (Truth to thine self)!!! Again, being “HONEST” in your position will only put you in a position to be who you are in the truth that you display… I’ll break it down if you still don’t understand…
@@phillydagoon215 your opinion is irrelevant
The chocolate girl is gorgeous, she’s sitting there just glowing
Agreed
Yasss! She reminds me of Yandy !
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These girls LOOK good hut have no brains. Stop simping
A woman i was messing with told me she let 20+ men run a train on her. Needless to say that was a definite deal breaker 🤣
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I'm a lesbian and I say this. People are more worried about a body count due to personal insecurities & trying to "measure up" to past partners but be real slow to go get tested & show those papers. You can have a body count of 2 & be burning while the chick with a higher count is clean & healthy. I would never intrude into anyone's past who I'm expecting to build a future with.
And it's always hilarious when someone has multiple baby mothers/fathers but are hounding about a count. You're literally at the bottom of the dating pool with that negative equity there so don't rule out a potential solid partner if they're CLEAN & RESPECTABLE over something that's not your business from the past. Only thing that you're owed are clean STD results. I dated someone with a decent body count and she was the most LOYAL & SOLID woman ever. Helped level me up. Imagine if I had passed her up all because of her past.
You’re a lesbian
As a woman I have highly body count and so does my husband. We didn't judge each others for it. We have been married for 22 years and I have been faithful this whole time. Every one makes mistakes in their past its what you learn from that mistake that matters.
@@ratmistress7352did video stresses “if you lie” not “if you confess and it’s okay” the anecdote you just said has no meaning in context to the video
You’re a lesbian and a woman, different consequences and mind sets. Men and women are not the same so we care about different things. It’s also possible that a kid in raising is not mine. I am risking so much for a person who does not have a track record of being faithful and it’s gross whether she gets tested or not
All those men have an effect on a woman. I dont cate what anyone says. Ive seen it too many times.
"Double standards" - Some are just wrong, but when are people going to stop ignoring the fact men and women value different things in the opposite sex? And in some ways value the same. (Therefore people lie). The reality is for some, past sex experiences weigh more heavily than others depending on the partner. Both men and women overwhelmingly seem to share this idea, if not consciously, definitely subconsciously. It is not social influence. Might be due the fact women have more delicate, complex bodies created for a very important role in continuing human existance (pregnancy, child birth, etc). Don't lie, stay safe, stay healthy and find someone you see eye-to-eye with and keep it pushing ( mean that literally and figuratively). If you find yourself lying to be accepted you should check if it's for a positive outcome or not? Would you rather live by good truth or a good lie?
It's not wrong! Woman carry life. And they choose the father no matter if the kid is his
why is this still a convo? Women with high body counts are looked down on because women don't have to do anything to get sex. So if she has a high count she was just easy poon for a lot of dudes. Whereas men have to actually work to get women. Be charming, good looking, swag, etc.
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Wouldn't you be upset if you had been sold a car that had 5000 miles but later find out it had been 150,000? Don't let me on that show.
Lmao I say the same thing if I was on that show women would be pissed.
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Great analogy
I feel like women know the answers, but be stuck on this “why” bs.
You can tell all these women have had over a hundred men each and counting.
Yeah check the body language and how they get defensive and talk out there asses tryna make valid points with zero logical sense behind them. Lol
"I feel like, it's not fair to call a girl foolish for believing what a guy tells her and having sex with him."
Women want no accountability...AT ALL.
The sad reality is you gotta lie to women who push for commitment. I try to be straight up, but once the other option lies and gets it the dynamic changes and I took an L.
It's hard to please a woman with a higher body count!!😂
😂😂
That's true
A key that opens multiple locks is a master key, a lock that’s open by any keys is a shitty lock 🤷🏾♂️
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If you gotta lie or hide it you shouldn't do it
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And from the OG corner, once we sleep with you we will know how experienced you are. So, stop lying.
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You’ll be surprised about girls in my hometown that are hoes but are wack af in bed so sometimes that’s not always true but I still agree with you
I HOPE YOU WOMEN CAN UNDERSTAND WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARD IS NECESSARY!!
A woman is concerned about your future as a man, will u provide..will u protect her and be a good husband..
Men are concern about womans past
Men and woman are different, we are attracted to different stuff..you dont see men complain they have work will wife stays home...or willing put their life in danger die for wife if need arises...
Theres no double standard
Im not willing cuff and who knows die for a woman whos been run over like the Brooklyn bridge
C'mon, you don't know that men and women are different? Sex affects women differently then men. If you choose to have a high body count, then you also have to be prepared for how it affects you, how you will be perceived and all of the trauma that you will have to deal with.
@Angel Noel - Hi Angel. Yes, it does. No question. But, it does not affect men the same.
@Angel Noel - I never sad that both sexes shouldn't value sex. They should, it effects women differently than men. That's what the research shows, that's what I am saying.
I agree . But I also didn't want a man with a high body count when I was restrictive with myself. Yuck that guy is for the streets not my bed
Remember fellas,she's not yours. Your girlfriend/wife was for recreational community use before she got with you. She's on loan to you for now.😂
Its way easier for women to get sex. If a women walks outside and 11am and asks 20 men “lets have sex” all 20 will say yes. If a man does the same most, if not all, will say no or rake me out on a date first
On the flip side…if a guy haven’t been getting it like that then that’s a problem she sees too, so either way no one wins or cool with either situation. 😳🙄
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💯Same goes to some female too.
Bam " men telling you what we want , but you try to debate us in what we want " .
Thank you Rico for the mic 🎤 drop moment .
And as usual they still don't want to listen . Is it really surprising that black women are lossing at the relationship game .
Like I say if all black women , where talent scouts they would have the worst track records .
Chocolate chica looks like a super hero. Mad pretty. Same with Brazil.
Short hair the baddest (Male Perspective)
A woman being open and sexual is not okay.
A woman is attached by emotions. Periodt. Why as a man must I have to wonder if you still feel emotionally attached to the next while I'm giving my soul. It just doesn't settle right with a man
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Man it’s sooo hard for them to take accountability it’s crazy. At the end they spend hours painting a mask on so we shouldn’t be surprise.
Men are simple ,those women rather to stupid and apathetic to get it , or they just trying to justify they own behaviours.
At the end it’s all about loyalty, as men we feel often disposable.
“Even hoes don’t wanna be considered hoes”Future
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All they concluded was its a double standard? Women only acknowledge double standards when they don’t play in their favor.
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Dude in the red jacket TOO real 😂 breakin da game down for da women acting as if promiscuity runs parallel between men & women. It just doesn't unfortunately
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They try to normalize trashy over classy and negativity over positivity with shows like this.
enjoy ur sexuallity ur body ur choice is another way of saying " i wanna be a hoe but don't judge me "
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Don’t matter if you are a virgin or have a high body count , you will get judge.
Virgins don't get judeed.judged. don't be a fool
These women thought process is so childish. Always feelings attacked and coming from their personal experiences when the conversation is generalized.
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Lack of accountability from these women, as usual. Listening to argue and being so defensive tells me all I need to know!
When you have the means, you won't buy a high mileage car? quality men don't want used goods
it may not sound fair, but life isn't fair. while you clocking up bodies for fun, some people are dying due to a lack of food and water in other parts of the world. Treat your body with respect, low self-esteem is beyond a lot of this anyway.
Facts homie , men will marry a honest women before a lying one . Shit was just a turn off .
She doesn’t want you to know that she can’t pair bond
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Rico hit the nail on the head with dating women from out of town. 'Let me tell you a story I dating this girl in the U.S. nation' (Biz Markie)....in a reserve unit I was in I had a friend that was a cop full time job and he said something that went 'Barry Bonds' (grand slam)..he said a woman can be the worse in her hometown etc and relocate elsewhere and become a queen. (so true!). Active duty years prior cocoa beach,FL. One guy friend I met in the same doom and another friend from basic training (ended up at the same base) both told me about this chick from N.C. that was in florida (both bumping with) staying with an aunt while attending school. While at the local mall with the basic training friend he mentioned the same thing about a chick that my other friend was dating and bumping. So I said it's probably not the same chick. my friend immediate responded 'I bet it is'. And sure enough it was. she was a redbone and looked very nice. The basic training friend from Virginia stopped seeing her. I personally would not have. Everyone is seeing someone when you meet them whether it's mentioned or not and most times not. Everyone is human. Now as a reservist in a diff city I dated a woman that I learned enjoyed experiencing diff men style/approach to sex but I did not know this upfront for awhile. Now that person is at the larges naval base in the U.S. and says she wants to make things right with god. I would hope but b4 she left I visited and her phone was texting off the chain. So I doubt that her lifestyle has changed. that's like a druggy trying to stop drugs but goes into the environment of drug users daily/quite often. (Chris Rock in 'New Jack City'.
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They need to be accountable everyone should
Women and men should stop lying period because that’s called entrapment! If you can’t keep it 100 with the person that you’re investing in then don’t make a lifetime commitment to them.
Its easy for a woman to acquire a high body count with little or no work while a man has to put in a lot of work to get a fraction of a woman's body count. Getting a man to sleep with her is the easy part but getting him to stay is a different ballgame.
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Men and women view the world in a different perspective. They are not the same. Since the ancient times female promiscuity has been frowned upon and that is not by accident. Society doesn't care whether man has slept with 100 gals but if a woman did that , she will be laughed at by the society. It may seem like a double standard but Life IS NOT FAIR. JUST Accept the reality and move on.
@Angel Noel that’s not true at all. You keep trying to spout these nonsensical ideas that men and women are equal. We aren’t. No amount of denial with change that.
@Angel Noel that’s not true. Women are most certainly attracted to a man that can and has had many women wanting him. The same isn’t true for men. That’s the biggest fallacy going that men and women value the same things in the other. It doesn’t work that way.
Again you can spout nonsense if you want. And maybe YOU don’t want a man that’s bedded many women, but most women want the guy other women want.
These women are in trouble
Why lol
There is no double standard when it comes to body count. If women wanted it to be "fair" they have to set the standards on what they accept from men the same way men do with women. Women can literally say we aren't dealing with men that have had more than 5 women and there will be a shift in the culture. Men would then sleep with less women before settling down. Don't blame us, blame yourselves.
They are angry because, despite what they say, they secretly like promiscuous men (they want to be that one special person who can tame him) and want us to feel the same way about it that they do but we, on the other hand, don’t like promiscuous women when it comes to commitment (can’t turn a 304 into a housewife).
Women do not want to be held accountable for ANYTHING
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Facts
Lies will always mess you up when you least expect it. If you can lie about one thing you can lie about everything
Exactly that’s why I broke up with my ex. The lies and combativeness and the lack of trust I had for her ultimately showed me what I was dealing with and I had to leave. Not even the sex could make me stay with that amount of crazy. She most definitely had to be cheating cause her actions didn’t always line up with her words.
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