I Was Raised By The Wrong Mother and No Father | The Smart Guy (Full Unedited For Membership)
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CAN I PLEASE HEAR FROM THE QUEEN IN THE WHITE
What queen? Man stop it. Queens are graceful and have no problem with hearing the facts come from alpha African men! She was so tight up there in opposition of the truth the brother was speaking. She'd have no problem bowing to a mediocre European and yet shows disdain towards this brother. What Queen in white?
Yasssss queeen 😂😂😂😂
why not listen to the men I mean the topic is about men at the end of the day
@@anthonydelaphous5920She quietly listened. She has not interrupted while he spoke. Now, she is giving her viewpoint.
Is that okay with you?
No
I expected this episode to be short. The community don't embrace intelligent brothers like this. He not pushing the BS narrative or agenda.
Says a lot about this channel ta be honest
I won't be checking this channel out for that reason of editing the truth out..like he said a hit Dog Hollar
That Part 🎯
Nah... they chopped this up real good. We gotta pay for the whole thing.
@@zoeskidoeski8563 that was a mic drop quote.
The one in the white dress didn't even realize that she was proving everything he was saying by the way she was acting.
I think she’s just trying to take him in. He’s a lot.
This part
Facts
Bro vibrations on GOD mode and she couldn’t STAND to be that close to it. Literally couldn’t sit still next to him. Fascinating 😮
EVERYTHING
As a black woman, I applaud him for standing in the paint! I appreciate everything he says. Homegirl in the white was bothered by his auora, hes not someone she can little boy. Smart Guy is amazing! ❤
Facts! The none-verbal queues were way too obvious to ignored. The young man was sharp, and owned the room with his presence and his views were on point 💯
He was describing her to a tee
Her jaws got tight quick. When she was clearing her throat as he was speaking I knew what was going on. Lol.
Facts
Facts! His aura is undeniable which is welcomed. The one in white was completely unnerved by him which verifies she was the "type" he was describing.
The chick in the middle hated everything about this conversation…especially him. Confidence is a killer
Nahhh….she was attracted to him…..she just didn’t know how to handle it
@@keithmcneish3190it could have been both lololol
I don’t think she knew how to handle him at all. Like whoa
Which one
Naw she definitely hating. I done watch too many videos of black women hating us. It's sad
He speaking for the inner city blackboy who had to navigate the world with a shitty nurturer and an absent protector..most don’t understand the emotional capacity it takes to be a black man..without parents 💯
facts.
Bro this is fucking facts it’s like we talking about our same experience even tho we difference . That shit sucked and I didn’t even realize I was hurting until I was an adult
Yes but every Black woman isn’t his mother but when he sees Back women he sees his mom. He needs therapy and he needs it yesterday
That's both genders......Why do you think their are women out there who are aggressive, verbally, and mentally abusive to people?
@@kirawong4629NO. YOU DID NOT LISTEN!
Go back and listen AGAIN.
He clearly STATED multiple times~ He was speaking specifically about his mother~ HIS STORY.
He STATED MULTIPLE times how he reconciled with TMH, He said he isn’t “mommy” bashing.
I SWEAR yall hear what you want to hear and PROJECT on to others.
Smh,
It is AMAZING, that he said ALL the words, REPEATING certain things multiple times for CLARITY ~ and you are PROJECTING. EMBELLISHING, what he’s spoke on.
Sheesh.
BM and BW will NEVER come together, EVER because BW DO NOT LISTEN TO US!
Man, I’m over half a hundred years old, and BW haven’t listened nor respected us for all my life I can remember.
Damn, HE EXPLAINED HIS THOUGHTS clearly and with succinct clarity.
And that’s what you got out of it.
Wow.
The fact that the guy said he was S.A'd by his mother as a child and the woman in the white dress could'nt even say "no child should have to go through that" specks volumes about the lack of empathy she has towards males.
I’m sure he doesn’t like women now
Nobody did though so does that mean the entire panel don’t have or lack there of (empathy) for males?
@@rodneishasawyer7353well...perhaps because she was the one he was addressing? That's the custom to address individually even in a group when addressed directly. So...yes it is quite odd she couldn't even acknowledge that. Props for wearing her disdain clearly i guess 🤷🏿♂️
@@rodneishasawyer7353she was the one trying to discredit his argument by mentioning he had disdain for his mom; then when he mentioned he was molested, she didn’t even acknowledge it. She was interrupting him the whole time so yes she could’ve showed empathy then.
@@senecaureliuslocke9432 it didn’t seem as though he was addressing her 🤷🏾♀️. Why nobody else had empathy it was a sad situation everyone could have awww I’m sorry that happened 🙄.
Smart Guy representing black masculinity unapologetically 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
No he is not! Most guys who talk on that level is because they didn’t get or feel love by their mother! So they compensate and take his anger out on black woman! All that information “the smart guy” is expressing he is deflecting from how he really feels about himself! Or “Lack their of”Most black woman LOVE the black men but due to generational trauma. most black men don’t know how to treat a black woman. We’ve experienced it so much that now most black woman are confident to be single. It’s not disrespecting a black men but more so I’m not going to be in a relationship with someone that doesnt make me feel safe!
@@Maximizeyourspace🧢🧢🧢
@@Maximizeyourspaceknock it off... That's not accurate and your being dismissive. Probably didn't like accountability
@@Maximizeyourspace you are brainwashed by Amerikkkan propaganda
@@Maximizeyourspacecoulda did sum sit ups 🤣 but u typed un-graded essay foh 🗒️
/*Edited, clarified, and expanded, but the message is the same.*/
A bad mother who is present is always going to be worse than a bad father who is absent, and many absent fathers are not absent by choice but because the mothers were spiteful. (I used the word deadbeat the wrong way in the original comment)
The damage his father's absence caused pales in comparison to what his abu5ive mother (who was "present") caused; watch the full video and pay attention to what he says.
Women: You are just as capable of being awful as men, but when you are shown the mirror, you blame the mirror because your image in the mirror is broken. Truth always cuts deep, I know.
You are as awful as us. We are as sweet as you! We are both broken! Deal with it!
That’s why the women should leave the children at the fire station.
@@LaeliaLove2024 you figured it out, smart skirt!
@@LaeliaLove2024 or OD on Plan B's 🤷🏾♂️😂
@@cassiusclayreels 40 at a time since they don’t care enough about themselves to stop laying down with men!
Majority of the Guys we call “dead beat fathers” never were fathers and never wanted to be fathers. They aren’t deadbeats just sperm donors.
When a woman gets artificially inseminated it was their choice to do it and their choice to keep it.
Dear BLACK MEN.. We love you, you’re strong, you’re protected and you are blessed WE LOVE YOU FOREVER THANK YOU🥰🥰
lol what a pick me
@@Lenasevilla-yb4ei for holding black men high? You’ll be bitter, nasty, and lonely forever, that’s a guaranteed.
@@Lenasevilla-yb4ei at least she is being picked!
@@williammason475 she’s not being picked that’s why she’s in the comments still trying hard for dusty male validation 💀💀💀💀💀💀
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They bought the wrong one up there that day lol. They thought they was going to do some man bashing and sh*t with that deadbeat daddy narrative😂! Shorty was about to turn into an alcoholic all that coping she was doing 😂😂😂😂
Lol 😂
I don’t understand how men like have the audacity to disrespect black women but black women educated than black men. At this rate, black women will eventually make more money and be more successful than black men, and ol boy will yall red pill folk be mad😂😂Women also grow up in single parent households. Why aren’t they among the most incarcerated in America, most violent, most uneducated and so forth, or is that women’s fault too. The only thing yall care about is the opportunity to not only disrespect women but disrespect black women. “Men” here trying to justify and excuse the actions of cowardice and abusive fathers. Y’all like white lives matter to Black Lives Matter. Y’all hate women so much yall be the extreme opposite. Just say yall gay and move on.
BLACK MEN HATE HAVING TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY 😂😂
Black men live in accountability!
Faxts!
I am female and I think there are more deadbeat moms out there, people just dont talk about it is as much. Or as eloquently as The Smart Guy. I felt what he was saying. He spoke nothing but facts, I can see why he has that name.
Because a lot of people think just being present is enough or better than the absent father. But you can be physically present and still neglect your kids emotionally which is equal to having a non existent father. My mother was a single parent and I never knew who she was. But from the outside looking in “single present mother” is the narrative, so women don’t get knocked as much.
There just might be just as many deadbeat mothers as there is dads. I personally have a few friends who married single fathers who had custody of their children w deadbeat uninvolved mothers. I think the single dads aren't as vocal as single mothers are. Also, when I worked at the welfare office there were a few young single dads who had stories about their deadbeat bms.
@@misspiscesdreamznah you're still a little delusional due to conditioned programming of your mind threw out your life. Their arent any deadbeat dads. Men love women and children. If a man not in a woman and childs life its her. I wouldnt say its no deadbeat dads but its way more single deadbeat moms. Its sad.
@@misspiscesdreamzthey’re VERY vocal but the feminized society we live in shuts those men up or get manipulated/overshadowed by”women’s problems”
@@misspiscesdreamz”might” man yall people delusional😂😂none of this is about dialogue, or fixing issues. This is about yall hating and being bitter towards women. Y’all will deliberately ignore statistics and people’s real life stories, yall be the same sad red pill peope too😂😂yall embarrassing.
I am thankful the world could witness the very "sick spirit" that these women exude when the brother speaks.
👿Z AGENTS OF GENOCIDE JEZEBELS FOR PINK JESUS ✔️ PURE EVIL✔️
That dude is different. I rock with them. Dude is way too real for those black females and he proved how emotional they are.
Facts 🤣🤣💯
We all different bro, once we realize it, that’s when we’ll rise.
You hate yourself.
All of us are different that’s why all the content online is changing. But yeah they don’t like it😂
Absolutely. They were taking every word personally
I am a black woman and I can totally agree with him when he says black women don’t like being held accountable it’s true. Me and one of my friends aren’t talking right now because I told her she was wrong in a situation after that she told me she needed a break from our friendship 😮🤯.
Nah you to real for her fake ass queen keep being real
Kudos to you for being honest with your friend when they needed it.
😂😂that’s insane, WHAT IS WRONG WITH WOMEN
Sorry to be so blunt but fuk her...don't let no one make you feel bad for expressing how you feel she know she was wrong with whatever it was that has happened... look at it as a blessing God is removing those out your life that don't belong...
That’s just was God doing. Some times he subtract people because he know they’ll subtract our blessings with their actions
The brother in the pink shirt really really gets it! Because of his situation with his dad & now he’s thinking 🤔damn, “He’s talking about my mom, maybe she’s the reason dad left!!”
When he said a “a hit dog holler” everything he said up and to that point was slowly proven by her. This brother was spot on and she was fighting her own demons to not explode right then and there smh… stay up kings and stay focused!
I'm curious how did his mother molesting him correlate to her body language and behavior.
Wow, the description Smart gave is how the lady in white was behaving. I’ll never understand how interviewers don’t realise that your audience can see all your facial expressions and read your body language. Lady in white was trying to nod her head as if she was in agreement with what Smart was saying, however, her body language screamed how childish and rude she was. Also looking at her watch, who does that. Interview was highly edited, with many of Smart’s points removed, which was disappointing.
She a typical black woman that hates black men. American black women dont understand theyre in danger by not being under the american black mans protection
I agree...she was so uncomfortable she could not hold it together.
Agreed
This for sure was edited I want to hear the full message
Facts and truth in all your points…
For some, a broken nail, feels like a broken finger, for others, a broken finger feels like a broken Spine, and for some, a broken Spine, feels like a broken nail....Those are DEEP WORDS
Exactly!!!
Bro is literally a fresh breath of air.. He hit it right on the head and the TRUTH HURTS. Thats why she’s acting like that bc shes apart of the problem
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Your crazy. The women are not saying anything. They are being nice and listening. You want trouble.
Haha the woman in white was responding out of hate and unaccountability @@blackapples4744
@@blackapples4744So why does she slap her mic after she speaks ?? 🤔
She wasn’t trying to hear nothing he was talking about. The man said his mother wasn’t shit, and she tried to make him feel like he was wrong for speaking about it.
That “ sisterhood “ demonic nonsense
Can’t make this shit up if we tried to
It's cause our trauma isn't valued enough for us to express unless it's about our father's
This female is taking real talk personally.She needs to grow up .
Man i'm watching the energy in the room and it's very telling. 70% of communication is nonverbal...
💯💯💯💯 yesss!
I love me some the SMART GUY but this podcast is horrible the woman were a waist of space the energy was off.
100 percent
once you listen and pay attention TWICE as much as you speak you’ll find out all you need to know FACTS💯
They HATE him for no reason!
She sipping the hell outta that champagne 😂
Not use to it and she can't stand that he advocating for the power to be removed from her.
😂
Listening to him bash all black women bc his mom was horrible is annoying.. he rambles we can’t pay for what his mother did… he has not forgiven her and he needs therapy… he’s still super hurt
@@kirawong4629 so he's the only one who needs therapy..
what about watching that woman prove his point..
did you have anything to say or do you share the same spirts as her.
He needs therapy because he is clearly not healed from what his mother did and his trauma DRIPS off of him and his demeanor. Listening to him would give me a headache and I would mentally zone out after the first ten minutes. When you are at a certain level of communicating it’s not easy to listen to this brother ramble. Maybe you can take it because you share something in common with him.
She proved his point, over and over again.
It’s crazy how the woman is so focused on high lighting the father’s wrongdoing and just skipping over everything this man is saying about his mother. Women can’t FATHOM looking at a black mom in a negative light, they don’t even have to know the woman personally they’re always gonna extend the grace and say “well she did what she could do with her circumstances” we can’t keep sweeping that shit under the rug
I’ve spoken about my relationship with my mother in this show plenty of times for my track record to prove that I don’t mind holding mothers accountable, bc at that end of the day, we all have to pay the piper when it comes down to what we do to people. Not sure why you think I’m trying to equate his parents’ wrong doings. At the beginning we clearly opened the show about daddy issues, so we needed things to relate and tie back. Remember, we are producing a show that we’d prefer to not cut up for continuity. At the end of the day, we appreciate you watching, but I’d prefer to not be mischaracterized, esp when he made us aware of the disgusting things his mother did to him. To be honest, I felt bad for him. Real pity. No one deserves that, esp from a person who birthed you, and I truly wish him the best in fighting those traumas and course-correcting. It’s quite apparent that he has a lot to overcome, so me exacerbating that does nothing for him, me, or our show. Again, we appreciate the views and comments. ❤️
At the beginning of the show the married woman said, "it's an American problem ". It's a world problem with every child who is born into a single family household. But here in America, the black community has a 75% rate of being born into a single parent household is a problem. Why try to include other demographics to deflect or distract from the reality of an issue within the community? Accountability! The black community needs to do better, women have access to sex, and men have access to marriage. Can't have a child unless a woman decides to sleep with someone out of wedlock. But because of feminism, which is the work of white supremacy, has these women enabling and being supportive of BEING single mothers, especially if they are raising boys!
@@etcamp1913you said you don’t mind accountability but anyone who watched the show can clearly see your facial expressions and how you kept looking at the lady off camera you were visibly triggered by what he was saying about women and we know this because the first thing women say you shouldn’t generalize it’s not all women not the women I’m around all phrases women use to duck accountability
@@ebreezee2440guess I missed you in the studio that day, bc clearly you were there, right? Or were you apart of the editing team? Lol. Must be something along those lines for you to be so sure of what was going on and what transpired. I only speak for myself, even though I understand both genders will be generalized, so that’s a point I rarely make. Only person I can speak for is me-which I say allllll the time. His message about men being confident and having a space is incredibly valid; I’ve said this many times over the last year. I feel that way bc i see the detrimental affect not having it has had on the men in my life. But to say that women are intimidated by him bc of his confidence is a serious stretch. Like come on. Lol. Dude had to pull a Simone biles level act to put those statements together. Regardless, thanks for the engagement and being a fan of the show.
@@etcamp1913 I don’t think women are intimidated by confident men women don’t like dealing with them cause they’re not going to kiss their butt to make them feel good you either get with the program or keep it moving because a confident man doesn’t care about your feelings
He just rapped my whole life story 🔥🔥🔥💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💯💯💯
The smart guy made them black women feel uncomfortable… they ducking accountability
😂😂😂
I don’t understand how men like have the audacity to disrespect black women but black women educated than black men. At this rate, black women will eventually make more money and be more successful than black men, and ol boy will yall red pill folk be mad😂😂Women also grow up in single parent households. Why aren’t they among the most incarcerated in America, most violent, most uneducated and so forth, or is that women’s fault too. The only thing yall care about is the opportunity to not only disrespect women but disrespect black women. “Men” here trying to justify and excuse the actions of cowardice and abusive fathers. Y’all like white lives matter to Black Lives Matter. Y’all hate women so much yall be the extreme opposite. Just say yall gay and move on.
BLACK MEN HATE ACCOUNTABILITY
Y’all hate people calling you out on your cowardice and abusiveness. Black men are the only race men blaming they own women for they choices and actions. Y’all not men yall little girls 😂😂
Stop the kap!
Such a hurt soul.
Great strength and perseverance continue to find yourself young king.
Black Women don’t like to hear the truth. You can tell by the lady with the white dress, her body language changed when he started spitting bars.
It's women not just black women. I say this for edification purposes
It's just black women😂😂
It’s American women bro
@@quizzyquandadon9289BW are literally destroying the community yall need to start holding them accountable
@@HealMyHeart2 yes indeed, it is womn in general, however it is expedient that black women begin to wake up to the bigger picture. Can't keep using this same tactic every generation. 1. Minimize 2. Dismiss 3. Dodging Accountability 😂😂 is not cool for anyone anymore expecially (BLACK) men & WOMEN.
Erin is the exact definition of what homie was talking about and thats wild cuz this is her program 😂😂😂😂 she may be married but definitely wears the pants in her household which is crazy lol
A hit dog 🐕 is going to holla 😂😂😂😂
Yup!😊
That ain't no wedding, where the engagement ring.....lol
When he said black women don't respect black men at all, the way she smirked told me everything I need to know about her. I am pretty sure he caught that to because he starts ripping into black women and she can't stand it because the truth hurts.
look at the chicks faces when he said BEAT IT... One thing about these chicks man, if they're not being praised or having an opportunity to "Tell him about himself". I can see how uncomfortable they were in his presence and the fact he SPOKE on it, she knew he was talking about her. The "some women hate me" because he was able to read her emotion.
I don’t understand how men like have the audacity to disrespect black women but black women educated than black men. At this rate, black women will eventually make more money and be more successful than black men, and ol boy will yall red pill folk be mad😂😂Women also grow up in single parent households. Why aren’t they among the most incarcerated in America, most violent, most uneducated and so forth, or is that women’s fault too. The only thing yall care about is the opportunity to not only disrespect women but disrespect black women. “Men” here trying to justify and excuse the actions of cowardice and abusive fathers. Y’all like white lives matter to Black Lives Matter. Y’all hate women so much yall be the extreme opposite. Just say yall gay and move on.
On god. My ex turned into a hoodrat after 11 years together just to hurt me. She said you made your bed now lay in it. She tried to come back 2 months later and asked me how i was doing. I told her i was laying in this california king i made and dont call my mom ever again
They were uncomfortable because secretly they yearn for a man like him. But he don't fit the narrative, so they don't pursue. What u saw was women having to deal with their private grappling in a public setting
Facts@@bonafidetruckingpresentsea8222
@bonafidetruckingpresentsea8222 when you say don't fit the narrative which narrative exactly I agree with your statement
“I’m very surgical with my information” 👌🏽
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You can tell when a person has genuinely done the internal work salute to The Smart Guy
This the second show I have witnessed Smart dominate the room! First one was on Math Hoffa's show, that's a must see too... salute to you Smart 100% every time.
I seen that a few years ago.... amazing episode....
Kisses
Yea i don’t think Math liked him having that spotlight either …Heard and noticed a lot indirects after that episode !
Salute Smart !
@@krlliving Math is literally a satanic sellout. lol
@@kirawong4629 That's why women should stfu. You don't care about the message, but how the message is delivered.
he didnt dominate the show. he start talking about conspiracys and every told him he needs to come back to reality. did you even watch it??? 😂😂😂
The demon in her was uncomfortable, help her find the door 💀
I don’t understand how men like have the audacity to disrespect black women but black women educated than black men. At this rate, black women will eventually make more money and be more successful than black men, and ol boy will yall red pill folk be mad😂😂Women also grow up in single parent households. Why aren’t they among the most incarcerated in America, most violent, most uneducated and so forth, or is that women’s fault too. The only thing yall care about is the opportunity to not only disrespect women but disrespect black women. “Men” here trying to justify and excuse the actions of cowardice and abusive fathers. Y’all like white lives matter to Black Lives Matter. Y’all hate women so much yall be the extreme opposite. Just say yall gay and move on.
It was clear as Day. Wonder why the other beautiful sisters’ energy was not disturbed🧐😳
She is probably a beautiful woman too. It is literally demons. We are living in scary times. She was indoctrinated.
It was kicking her ahh 😂
She has no smiles for this black man, RAISED BY HER DADDY.😊😊
Because she hates the truth when it involves her and women like her. Accountability
As a woman, I don’t have an issue with how Smart spoke/viewed his mom. Women, this doesn’t go against all mothers. Only crappy ones, that don’t put their best foot forward for their kids. We not perfect but we should work to give our kids the best of us. They didn’t ask to be here, we brought them into this world.
Keep it real this definitely goes against most mothers. Because most children have negative traumatizing experience with their mothers. Their mothers don’t care the trauma that they have delivered onto their child, nor the harmed they cost. Most women never say I’m sorry. I will need to they don’t need it. So it’s more than most. Because as we grow and mature in life and deal with other women whether we do now or female we see the negative attributes of most women. Especially after they become mothers.
@@jordanglasper1064your right on so many levels and some mothers are saints GoD bless the women for their work is never done. From the kitchen to the bedroom from the office to the grocery store with carrying the burden of putting them up and putting them down cleaning the pan and here comes another round
But did you see the deep disdain she created in herself so quickly? It’s interesting to watch that poisonous energy
@@pandoraspocks4102 I think the ancestors, I think God, I think the angels, I think the universe that I have a mother who is a genuine Woman of great worth. That is exceedingly rare for the women of our race in particular.
@@pandoraspocks4102it’s your duty we don’t have to glorify your duties
Nah they cut out so much. They didnt want him to keep it a buck 💯
Wheres the unedited version???
Exactly
i think you have to join to see the unedited version
The editor is not professional, there is a way I would have edited the video that no one would notice.
Her glass of wine change so random. Im surprise if she not drunk
It's ashame this was a great message. Yet they wanted to chop 🥩🪓 the video and make people pay. I believe feelings were involved in this upload@@streetz_is_watchn
so they cut the part where he said hit dogs holler after she was talking about generalizations? LOL
He not crazy. You want a man that’s chasing purpose not nothing else. If he’s chasing purpose he’s chasing God. He’s a leader allow him to cover you.
On CRIP
He starts uplifting black men and she was uncomfortable that's what we go through and face in real time they're so use to people kissing women's ass she couldn't understand
I don’t understand how men like have the audacity to disrespect black women but black women educated than black men. At this rate, black women will eventually make more money and be more successful than black men, and ol boy will yall red pill folk be mad😂😂Women also grow up in single parent households. Why aren’t they among the most incarcerated in America, most violent, most uneducated and so forth, or is that women’s fault too. The only thing yall care about is the opportunity to not only disrespect women but disrespect black women. “Men” here trying to justify and excuse the actions of cowardice and abusive fathers. Y’all like white lives matter to Black Lives Matter. Y’all hate women so much yall be the extreme opposite. Just say yall gay and move on.
Hey I think that you really hit the point, brothers need to uplift One another more often, that brother is a real teacher
I like the way this brother speaks because he talks about his trauma in his life with his mother being a bad example of a mother and his father being absent in his life and us as black people as a whole and I wish more of us spoke like this all the time. And on a side note I have a you tube channel type in Russell Mills May 22, 2017 to find me.
shorty in the middle need to check ha attitude.. u can tell she has a problem with the truth😂😂😂
FACTS
No she has a problem with his vulgar demeanor and I get it
@@kirawong4629bs
@@kirawong4629foh with that bullshit
Bruh, those truth booms got her heated !!!
He broke her down immediately and he wasn’t even speaking about her, she told him he was with every response 😭. I could listen this brother for days!
Facts , I need to google him get his IG
Dude disrespecting women talking about BJs. And then talk about how disrespectful women talk about men. SMH
@@454linThat's what the majority of the group talks about nowadays so highlighting it is not disrespectful!
@@454linlmao that’s what you read from this?! Poor thing.
@@454linhow he disrespect females talkin about what he wants to dream about. Women don’t give BJs? Tf are you talking about?
Smart taking over the whole episode is what was needed.
He throwing off the females frequency right now on that show 😂
I don’t understand how men like have the audacity to disrespect black women but black women educated than black men. At this rate, black women will eventually make more money and be more successful than black men, and ol boy will yall red pill folk be mad😂😂Women also grow up in single parent households. Why aren’t they among the most incarcerated in America, most violent, most uneducated and so forth, or is that women’s fault too. The only thing yall care about is the opportunity to not only disrespect women but disrespect black women. “Men” here trying to justify and excuse the actions of cowardice and abusive fathers. Y’all like white lives matter to Black Lives Matter. Y’all hate women so much yall be the extreme opposite. Just say yall gay and move on.
Wow . This is a great lesson on body language and self awareness. Our brother Smart is the truth.
I love his attitude, it is refreshing!
The whole interview is chopped up whenever he's talking, anyone who has actually followed Smarts career or knows him, knows that he doesn't hate black women and actually speaks highly of us in several other interviews. There was a point trying to be made hear but we can't even hear the full conclusion of the matter to see him drive it home. Why interview someone and not post the actual interview? 💁🏾♀️
I peeped that too. It would have been better to see the full interview. I understood what he was saying and it was no real reason for them to be triggered or start taking his words personally. Their energy was off, to begin with.
@@ShavonêChristine Period !
Word I realized they chopped the interview up and he doesn’t hate women at all he speaks very highly of black women all the time
Look at how even THEY play it...even the image that THEY are trying to give of a man with some level of understanding by chopping up the video to make him appear in a negative
They clearly were not ready for him....Mentally or Spiritually. Their frequency was off.
it sucks that our children are so affected by these kinda of women. 🤦🏼♀️ and there’s a whole new generation of mothers like this which is even sadder.
I don’t understand how men like have the audacity to disrespect black women but black women educated than black men. At this rate, black women will eventually make more money and be more successful than black men, and ol boy will yall red pill folk be mad😂😂Women also grow up in single parent households. Why aren’t they among the most incarcerated in America, most violent, most uneducated and so forth, or is that women’s fault too. The only thing yall care about is the opportunity to not only disrespect women but disrespect black women. “Men” here trying to justify and excuse the actions of cowardice and abusive fathers. Y’all like white lives matter to Black Lives Matter. Y’all hate women so much yall be the extreme opposite. Just say yall gay and move on.
Yep love on ya kids yo
You misspelled “INFECTED”.. (yes it affects and takes effect) but in all seriousness they’re the true INFECTION in need of CURING..
Soo true
Facts
This episode was heavily edited. But I will say it was wild watching the woman in all white next to him. She went from I'm intrigued ohhh Mr smart thug to you ughhh! I wanna throw some salt on what he saying but couldn't because he wouldn't let her. Then she just sat there like lemme keep my mouth shut so I can keep my job. The guy was right and the women had no come back, other than to poke holes at him but even that failed. It's going to take a bit to unlearn these ill mentalities.
I can relate to him. Having a mom that was lesbian and sold drugs and did them and growing up on the system. I can relate. He straight raw and to point.
Sorry you went thru that!
Exactly! Women don’t give af how their actions effect people
That’s absolutely disgusting bro I’m sorry you had to go through that hope life is alg for you now
This young man is speaking the truth! Sisters can’t handle it! Sister in the white dress couldn’t handle it! Her spirit was all tore up! She couldn’t keep still
Crazy to have someone read you perfectly like that on the internet 💀 Straight Masterclass
Lĺĺ@@iononharris
His talking about that lady sipping on her wine 🍷 you can tell the shoe fits her perfectly
As this man is talking, Erin is squirming, shifting her position...I love this!!!
AYO!!! 😂😂😂
Erin attitude is unwarranted ‼️‼️‼️
Erin is catching the crosses being thrown. 😕😳
She realizes that the guest is actually addressing her feminine masculinity.
@@slimcutz2081 Well observed.
She was ALL f*cked up 😂😂😂
Sister in the white is tight cuz my brother is spittin truth !....Ma, get out ur feelings and listen with an open ear to what this young man is saying !
Exactly!!! Being there doesn't make you a mother!
Been following smarts for a while now, dude is a fckn genius, his intellect is on another level
He’s going against the oppressed being silenced, and speaking up for them via uncomfortable truth. Balance is in effect it just takes time.
I don’t understand how men like have the audacity to disrespect black women but black women educated than black men. At this rate, black women will eventually make more money and be more successful than black men, and ol boy will yall red pill folk be mad😂😂Women also grow up in single parent households. Why aren’t they among the most incarcerated in America, most violent, most uneducated and so forth, or is that women’s fault too. The only thing yall care about is the opportunity to not only disrespect women but disrespect black women. “Men” here trying to justify and excuse the actions of cowardice and abusive fathers. Y’all like white lives matter to Black Lives Matter. Y’all hate women so much yall be the extreme opposite. Just say yall gay and move on.
"Pay my bills eat my 🍑 " took me out 😂😂😂😂😂
Drizzle Drizzle
This is the guy most mothers try to raise you from being
Smart dropping truth bombs and mfs cant run and hide...😂😂😂 salute
I don’t understand how men like have the audacity to disrespect black women but black women educated than black men. At this rate, black women will eventually make more money and be more successful than black men, and ol boy will yall red pill folk be mad😂😂Women also grow up in single parent households. Why aren’t they among the most incarcerated in America, most violent, most uneducated and so forth, or is that women’s fault too. The only thing yall care about is the opportunity to not only disrespect women but disrespect black women. “Men” here trying to justify and excuse the actions of cowardice and abusive fathers. Y’all like white lives matter to Black Lives Matter. Y’all hate women so much yall be the extreme opposite. Just say yall gay and move on.
What truth bombs
This dude is HIM. He knows his stuff and he's READY.
His open honesty is pure. This is what black men need for us to be honest with one another and not be ashamed of the horror and terror that we’ve experienced and learn how to forgive.
Shawty with the white dress was sick every time smart hit a gem 😂😂 women 🤦🏾♂️
He aint said none wrong, but they wasn't ready....
I don’t understand how men like have the audacity to disrespect black women but black women educated than black men. At this rate, black women will eventually make more money and be more successful than black men, and ol boy will yall red pill folk be mad😂😂Women also grow up in single parent households. Why aren’t they among the most incarcerated in America, most violent, most uneducated and so forth, or is that women’s fault too. The only thing yall care about is the opportunity to not only disrespect women but disrespect black women. “Men” here trying to justify and excuse the actions of cowardice and abusive fathers. Y’all like white lives matter to Black Lives Matter. Y’all hate women so much yall be the extreme opposite. Just say yall gay and move on.
Even at birth she ain't push me💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
He solid, face it and deal with the realism a lot of us were raised completely wrong. Respect the BLACK MAN and WOMAN!
❤❤
Why if most of us were raised wrong?
I understand why this video is short . Overdose of truths
🎯
Say it again. 💪🏿
Heavily edited it
Smart need his own show he tha truth
Yes he does
This is a powerful message from a man who's been sharpened by the stones of life. I love the fact he stayed on topic. Never flinched. And clearly that young lady was uncomfortable with as she described his "disdain" for his mother and kept trying to bring his father into his story. Sometimes we have to acknowledge and deal with the fact there are some bad deadbeat horrible mothers out there. And that doesn't mean women in general are terrible. However too many people, this woman in particular can paint the picture that all men are bad because of possibly her father. We have to do better as a society.
Due to the topic of mothers being overlooked in the negative fashion by a vast majority of women. There’s not some there’s an overwhelming majority of shitty moms. Because they have the title of mom, just like the god of Bible has a title of God no matter what wrong they do it’s easily washed away by the title. That is evil.
Why I don’t listen to women that much💯as the great plies once said it’s always somebody else fault 😭
@@Dipset415like y’all try to right now in this comments. “Men” literally trying to sit and ignore and excuse the behavior and cowardice of absent fathers. Thats why she wanted to pick, cause she know what this is. Men will watch this and do what they doing right now, attack single mothers and try to write them all off as bad and evil using his mother vicariously to do so, ain’t nobody a fool. Black men don’t know how to accept accountability, that’s why white men are so successful with putting them in jail😂😂😂
We need to denounce certain ideologies that were taught to us by women so we can stand as a men again.
The disdain on her face the ENTIRE interview from the moment he said “They know who I am” was palpable. She didn’t even have to say a word. When he told the brothers in the room that they were beautiful, she looked disgusted. I love people who wear their thoughts and emotions on their face. Confidence does indeed make some people extremely uncomfortable. Don’t try to convince people who you are. Take note, and move accordingly.
Chick in white 🏳️🌈
That lady in the white was sizing him up from the moment he introduced himself. I mean damn, what’s her problem
He was strong
His confidence.
Because everything he's saying is true and she doesn't like it.
Her demon is irritated
Alcohol
When he said he was focusing on the women she got triggered 😂 everything started going in one ear and out the other
😂😂
that's all yall focus on
Yes, it irritated me as well. He took no accountability for men. He completely avoided the conversation. Took the anger he had for his mom which he hasn’t forgiven, I can’t tell you that, and went on a rant that put black women down completely. He didn’t help anything. He just pushed accountability on to black women and gave them no value other than to serve. He’s not a god. He’s trauma.
@@JOALKR11black women are a joke now and you made that clear🚪
@@JOALKR11his father wasn’t their but his mother still treated him bad maybe that’s the point he’s saying. Having no father is one thing. But have no amother that’s their physically but not actually there in any other way and very demeaning is prolly worse than not even having a father to begin with.
Them bars should be called “Dear Mama Revisited”.
THE BTICH IN THE WHITE IS THE VERY WOMAN HE'S REFERRING TO.. PEEP HER FACIAL EXPRESSIONS AND BODY LANGUAGE
Word!!!
Stop the bs 🤡
She gets on my damn nerves. Shes an ol arrogant somebody. 😑
@@40acresandatractoryea
I like the way the woman kept quiet. They're not used to real man talking
I don’t understand how men like have the audacity to disrespect black women but black women educated than black men. At this rate, black women will eventually make more money and be more successful than black men, and ol boy will yall red pill folk be mad😂😂Women also grow up in single parent households. Why aren’t they among the most incarcerated in America, most violent, most uneducated and so forth, or is that women’s fault too. The only thing yall care about is the opportunity to not only disrespect women but disrespect black women. “Men” here trying to justify and excuse the actions of cowardice and abusive fathers. Y’all like white lives matter to Black Lives Matter. Y’all hate women so much yall be the extreme opposite. Just say yall gay and move on.
Y’all not men, yall little girls😂😂😂
Maybe they were quiet because they were listening. Stfu. It was a woman who brought your sorry ass into this world. She could have ended you. Be humble
Not use to real Man Dude STFU
that's Her Son Oh Course! She will
listen to Her Son.
Erin is clearly uncomfortable with his words and presence. You can tell that she wears the pants in her house.
I was uncomfortable bc he was incredibly rude to ppl in the room. Over talking ppl and stuff. Once we realized what he was on, there was nothing for me to say. I love strong men, esp those who don’t have to do a lot of talking to establish strength and respect. Everything they do and say speaks for them. I come from a family of real men, and I also wholeheartedly give respect when it’s given. Once you cross that line, it’s done. Only reason I didn’t say anything else is bc I respect my cohosts and the production team, and I’m not about to have us waste time on footage we can’t use. That’s bad business. Hope that helps you understand how erroneous your statement is, bc his presence didn’t bother me at all, esp when there were other men in the room and the men in my life are on speed dial.
@@etcamp1913 understandable. It’s just that I’m a fan of the show. Any episode where women “pop their shit” you’re on board. The off-chance, like today, when men speak openly and from the heart then it creates an issue. I honestly believe that men and women should serve one another. You tend to put out “toxic femininity..”
If a man can’t bring anything to the table financially then he is as invaluable as his opinion (respectfully)
@@88AJizzle I’ve actually never said that. (If you believe otherwise, cite the episode and minute marker, and i will acknowledge it.) What i have said is that it costs to live. And I’m not about to struggle when I don’t have to at this point in my life. That’s completely fine for someone else who is okay with that. But not for me. Everything ain’t for everybody. Also, You’ve never seen me back a woman with whom i disagree with, bc right is right and wrong is wrong. If anything, I ask questions to understand (like I was doing in this clip) or I sit and listen. Like really, how can one have an opinion on that guys life?? I don’t know him, never heard of him, and have been fortunate enough to have never experienced the trauma he’s been through. So, yes I was sitting there and listening and trying to understand, and trying the keep the show on track with respect to the stated topic. Hell, at the beginning, you can even see me nodding my head agreeing with him. Bc i do believe that men need a space and should have a voice-also, something I’ve said multiple times on this show. But like I said, once he became disrespectful to production and my cohosts, and me, I was good on that. I didn’t have anything else to say. In my opinion, adults (real men and real women) don’t act like that, so I was fine with sitting there and being quiet until it was cut time. Thanks for being a fan of the show.
@@etcamp1913 I didn’t hear the guest say or do anything disrespectful in this clip. (I’m assuming due to editing)
What I did see is a young man with trauma that he has to overcome. Honestly, I believe that a woman can make or break a man with her words. Black women should uplift black men and vice versa. That creates strong black families. Black men are nothing without black women and black men don’t exist without black women.
@@88AJizzle just because you didn’t see it, doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. And it can be left at that. However, what you did see was him over speak one of my cohosts, which I find disrespectful, but again, we can leave it at that.
I just find it ironic that you set out to knock me and my husband by saying I wear the pants. If you believe what you just stated, why would you attempt to disrespect me and my husband in such a way, when you claim that you believe that we need each other to create strong bonds and families?
I absolutely love the Smart guy! Men take your places!! Black men, you are a king. Love it… and yes so many women have fallen short of their place. The system has the black woman to think we're the head of the house (all by design to destroy our race). Allow a man to be a man and take his place in the home. Give respect, and honor, and uplift that man so he can be the king he is supposed to be. Now if he's just a deadbeat and all-out disrespectful, let him go!
He’s hurt and bitter. Sounds like he should have a conversation with his parents because he is projecting. For men who have these types of demons, seek counseling. Stop dragging “black women” into your problems. Hold your parents accountable and take accountability for your own actions.
BW are the problem.. Especially when you're raised by a single momma with other siblings by multiple men.
27:23 look at the insecurity in her eyes 👀 😂😂😂 she had an “Oh sh*t, they’re laughing at me!” Moment😂😂😂😂
Look at how the ladies look so uncomfortable when they get the other side of the story.
She in a trance.
You cannot only blame your Dad! Your mother is just as responsible as your Dad! I met my Dad at the age of 37. However, my Mom was a very difficult person. People only want to blame the father, but the mother always gets a pass!
I too will say it til I bleed. Black mothers need to be held accountable. Mine, and ALL my friends, ALL OF THEM! have had horrible mothers.
This man is the most admirable man I have ever heard. He reminds me of myself before I let the devil win. Smart if you ever read this, thank you for reminding me that this demeanor I gave up is and was always the correct choice to make. Today forward.
Let's Go Kings!!!!💯💯💯
🗣YESSS...I said before I watched this:
I hope "SMART" put Erin & Amanda in their place...."and" he did that! 🗣YESSSSSSSSSSSS
Smart Guy broke it down like a compound fraction and I can personally relate to what he is speaking On
He spoke nothing but truth! I'm a 52 yr old black mother of 5 adult children & 7 grandloves so I've witnessed & gone through alot. There is not enough women that hold themselves accountable for their actions, instead of protecting & saying well men this & men that just look within self & be REAL with self, this goes for all humanity if we do that the world would be so much better & we wouldn't have so many broken children. The young lady in white was so uncomfortable she could not hold it together your emotions was sitting right on her shoulders & he definitely proved his point right before our eyes. Why she was so uncomfortable I'm not sure cause he definitely was speaking straight facts. Much love to all!
Freestyle at the beginning is deep.
Shorty Proved His Point 100x Over lol
Look at how the woman on the right, looked at him when he said to all the black men “do you know how beautiful you are?” And he girl on the left was listening the entire time without switching her position or having a disfigured look on her face while he spoke
This is such an eye opening video it should be studied by the whole community. You see the truth play out as he’s speaking, one woman up there respects and loves BM, one does not,🤔🤯
Everybody wasn't missing the point! In fact the women who interrupted him only proved his point 💯! 😂😂😂😂
Literally
Spot on
He talked the whole entire time🤷🏿♀️
I said LET HIM COOK!
That young brother needs to be heard by ALL of Black America!!! Peace & Love to the young Brother!
The excuses we as a society make for “terrible mothers” specifically needs to be talked about more, my mom is the same way she feels like because she provided an did just didnt dessert me that I should be grateful when in reality I basically raised myself. Now I’m older with my own kids I tried to sit down and talk to my mom about my issues with her and she dismissed every word I said & even told me “I was acting like a bitch that I need to get over the past”
After that conversation I completely washed my hands with her & my sister, all family ain’t really family. I don’t give single mothers extra credit for CHOOSING to be single mothers & treat their kids like a burden I’m sorry that’s just me tho
He's saying all facts 💯
When you around an ALPHA ...
white dress: alpha what???
Fellow God: ALPHA man, hey hey!!
White dress : action:head turning left / right looking for help!!
Priceless moment 😂😂
They can’t understand your pain Smart. They never will
Smart need his own TH-cam channel. That man is blessed keep spreading that Wisdom Smart 🙏🏼🙌🏼‼️‼️‼️