I use a lot of thrifted sheets, I like vintage printed for backings and buy a lot of sheets for neutrals or solids. Ladies at my guild just look away when I say I use 100% cotton sheets in my quilts - so don't report me to the quilt police - I will get arrested for sure!
The list is long, lol. - I don’t use ‘quilting fabric’ or batting. Instead, I use (mostly) men’s dress shirts that I buy at thrift stores for fabric. I also use sheets, but they’re cotton ones that I buy new on clearance. And denim, corduroy, and twill from pants, too. I use flannel sheets or old blankets for batting. And I have a huge bolt of beige fleece that I bought at a thrift store for $14 that I’m still using up for backings. - I iron only when I think it absolutely necessary (and then usually do it in big batches while watching videos) because I hate ironing. - I use Hobby Lobby thread (gasp!, lol) because my machine likes it, it’s never given me a problem, and it’s cheap/what I can afford. Thank you for making these videos, Kristen. I appreciate it.
The rule I eventually started ignoring is that quilts should be made from 100% cotton. The world didn't end when I put a recycled polycotton duvet cover on the back of a quilt. 🙂
You know, it bothers me how much people try to gate keep quilting. It’s expensive, really expensive, so they need to stop. You wanna use frankenbatting, cool! You wanna use crumbs, cool! You wanna use polyblend, cool! It’s your quilt. It’s just a hobby ffs. Kristen we are lucky to have you, the voice of reason in a sea of gatekeepers! My rule I always break is I don’t always trim and I just fudge it. This isn’t precision engineering. It’s fabric. Haha ❤🎉
I was gonna say the same thing. I cut my fabric to size to make the blocks, so they should be the right size. I can usually tell if there's one that completely off - and do something about it. I also don't meticulously square up before I add binding, I used to, because that's what we're supposed to do.... But I don't anymore. No one who's received a quilt from me has ever complained, and when I hold them up to take a picture, they look pretty darn good (even if I say so myself). It's kinda liberating to 'break' the rules that don't matter anyway...
@ShazBookOwl who has time to square up to add binding? Lol. I have started adding binding on using my overlocker and that makes it much easier. But to be clear, I do square corners, I don’t miter any corners 😂😂. If it’s good enough for John Lewis, it’s good enough for me!
The Quilting Marine has a saying. ‘It’s only fabric, it’s only thread’. So we don’t need to be so precious about it and so do things our own way. It’s a good philosophy I think.❤😊
Make the quilt you fall in love with. Ignore the number of pieces. Just love the doing of it. Ignore time, its not a race. Its joy. Its mental health. Its warm for sleeping ))).
Dear Kristen, I did comment earlier to this video. I appreciation your honesty so very much because…..I’m dyslexic. I absolutely love quilting and any fabric fun. But it’s almost impossibly for me to read and follow patterns. So I just improvise….a lot. It’s been difficult for me to find encouragement and motivation for my unconventional approach…..cause I don’t follow the rules. When I need to do any math and check myself, my husband, Michael, is always available. He is a computer scientist and math expert….plus he has an incredible eye for color and composition. Thank you Blessings Suze
"permission slips" are a good thing )))) I"M THE QUILTER I'LL DO IT MY WAY. ))))))) We love your methods because they are so free. Things turn out beautiful regardless of "rules". No quilt police required. Eccentric is my middle name. )))
I started sewing quilts a couple of years ago and I hear what you are saying and my brain is shouting hurrah! I much prefer to wing it and go with whatever flow I am in. I subscribe to the "do what makes you happy" motto. When I discovered I could color outside the lines, unlike that childhood coloring book rule, I was a happy camper. I also, like many, grew up hearing over and over again "practice makes perfect". It took me decades to let that one go and "good enough" works for me. I also subscribe to your philosophy! We all create in different ways and how wonderful is that? Cheers from Minnesota and thanks for all your videos! I bet many folks might clutch their pearls if they stumble on "Dave's Craft Room" and see his delightful way of doing his own thing when it comes to creating quilts!
You go girl !!! I like your attitude ,quilting is supposed to be enjoyable not a race to get it done.!!!I dislike all the tubers out there saying so this can be done so fast! Who cares I like creating and enjoying the process.So thank you for this tutorial.🤗😍🙏
I almost didn't start sewing because I had so many rules thrown into my lap by grandma's, aunts, friends....it made me nuts. Thank you for making it easier to start anywhere and see where I go. I have embroidered pieces that I want to incorporate and was told they wouldn't go together. You've given me the confidence to do it anyway. So what if I mess up. It's only fabric. I can get more. Thanks, Karen Maiden
I am sorry you got discouraged by other people’s rules. It is such a common experience. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - just cause that one person doesn’t think your embroidery will work together doesn’t mean they are ‘right’. You do you!
If you REEEEally don't like a part, you can redo it differently. Or just leave it and ignore it. Warm is the final reason to make it in the first place. Its for sleeping under, not for winning contests.
I'm always one to do my own thing. I think that is why I like your channel ... because you DO break the rules. 😊. And it usually makes for more interesting quilts.
🎉 you have embraced the way I love to sew. For me, the love of quilting is the process. I'm usually quilting and have to wait for the quilt to tell me where it will go when it's finished.
Oh my goodness, totally agree with all of your points. I really like the last one (closing the rotary cutter). I never closed my cutter so I bought one that you squeeze the handle and the blade comes out and I love it!
Quilting is my stress relief. So I'm happy with what I do my way. Otherwise I would not quilt😊 Please continue with your videos and do your thing. You will be happier Thank you 😊
@@bevl3988 same, when she said in the video about scrapping things that hinder her path to happiness, I kinda just let out a little sigh of relief haha. That’s exactly what I do.
I love everything about this video! I'm 100% on the rule breaking train, choooooo, choooooooo!! 🙃😂 I sew in chaos, with my blade bared, and not a straight cut, or stitch to be seen! And, I'll throw whatever fabric I have into a quilt (usually something thrifted), and back it with a sheet in a heartbeat! Thanks for breaking the video making rule, so the rest of us know there are others like us. 🥰
I too use second hand flannel sheeting for batting and throw together unique things. Ive never had an unction to enter into a quilt show...each quilt is unique and heartfelt love, sweat and more love into that..
Thanks so much for this! Like you, I’m very independent. Having arbitrary rules tossed like grenades infuriates me! I’m fascinated by the way you work.
Love your comment about wanting to get to the fun stuff without all the not fun prework ironing or pre washing fabric. And bias, which I do understand but usually choose to ignore. You were spot on with the rules I break all the time.
Just found your channel as TH-cam suggested this video. It was joyous to watch. Made me smile. I’m in this quilt life for creativity not perfection. I do push myself once a year in a complicated quilt but the rest is about creativity, color and design. Thanks for the video.
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. When you are rather timid , lacking confidence, you need to hear the positive vibes every now and again. I will not be brow beaten into conforming. I'm with you, sister! Well until, that is, someone absolutley insists on the one true way!😊
I break them all and I love it. My quilting space so my rules. When I sew, it's my relaxing and creating time. I also leave my rotary cutter open. Oops! I have just tried your method of quilt as you go and it's such a game changer. Keep the videos coming, please.
Love your attitude! I don’t close my cutter at home also. When I’m sewing with the guild,I do. Just in case one of the ladies comes in contact with it.
Love this ! My first quilt was a denim and polyester cotton made on an overlocker! I didn’t know I had to sew with a quarter inch seam and not use polyester fabric! My backing was a remnant piece of chambray!Interesting point, that quilt was made 25 years ago and is still in use today! Some of the best examples of ‘no rules quilts’ would be the Gees Bend quilts! They are made in the manner that the pioneering ladies used…..making do with what you have and can afford. I can remember going to a guild meeting and one lady was laying out her. Backing ready to baste her quilt…….it was a sheet!!! O MG. There were so many ladies around her saying she can’t put that on the back! Totally embarrassed her! She kept going but I’ll bet she didn’t go back there! I sure didn’t
New subscriber here. Love this video. There are times when I am in the mood to have my seams nest perfectly (or as perfect as possible) and other times when it is not at the top of my list. Like you said, this is supposed to be fun. I would never want someone to give up sewing because of not feeling competent enough. I am 70 years old and still learning! I also agree about quilt shows. I go to see all the pretty things, whether they were a winner or not. Many times, the winners were not always my favorite. And that’s okay. After all, art has always been subjective. I will be looking forward to enjoying more of your videos. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts! I watch a lot of TH-cam quilting channels and you are by far one of my favorites. I have learned ALOT ( I am a newbie) from watching you. You are an excellent teacher and your style has encouraged me to be creative and take more risks in my sewing journey. So thanks for breaking the rules and showing us that we can too!!
Love,love,love! Just found you, and you have a new follower. Am old enough to be your grandmother (just turned85) and you've been quilting longer than I have. Have 1 room in house shared with daughter and family. First quilts were for granddaughters baby...made with baby clothes...and I was hooked! Have yet to use a pattern, am a little intimidated. Have done the log cabin, just figuring it out by copying a quilt I loved. But following rules...no. And I make tote bags with applique, so my scraps are saved in all sorts of shapes. And save every piece.Would enjoy learning free motion quilting ,but no machine...all mine is done by hand, piecing and quilting. Am going to enjoy watching you create!
Just found your channel. I’m already in love with it. Thanks so much for the permission to do all the things I do in quiet (secretive) guilt🤣. I love fabric, saving things that would have been thrown out by someone else and creating something new with it. I was really looking forward to making quilts…. But the price of batting stopped me for a long time. I decided to go ahead anyway. I use old blankets, fleeces, …& even hoodies. I was so glad to read all the comments that passionately agree with you. Let’s not stem that creativity, let’s just go for it!
I love this!! There are lots of guidelines in quilting, but sometimes they are treated like rules, which they are not. Even something as simple as a 1/4 inch seam doesn't always apply!! We should all do what works for us and what we enjoy!
I agree with you. For me it's about creating something from basically, nothing. The whole creative process, whatever it is for you, the accomplishment, for me, is quite fulfulling . If it please other's mores the better, not exclusive. Love the videos. Keep quilting your way.
Great attitude. Maximize the parts of the process you enjoy. Minimize the parts you don't. I love touching my fabric, including washing, ironing, and cutting. I work from home. A pretty high pressure job. I sometimes take little breaks during the where I iron and cut just to destress. The rhythm of the iron and rotary cutter (which I do close).
The first rule I didn't follow was to choose a simple pattern as a beginner. I made my own pattern in centimetres as I didn't use inches ( I had the idea that being Italian I had to use '' our'' measuring system. I now use both, even in the same quilt)cutting hundreds of squares and rectangles as I wanted the blocks to be small .... I always close the rotary cutter because I don't want to wash again the fabric in case of blood splitting everywhere 😅. I like your style, you are inspiring for people like me who are too fussy . I'm better now, I'm hand quilting a quilt and I 'm quite appreciating the unconsistency of my stiches. Elena, Italy
Love the idea of using cm and inches in the same quilt! I’m from Canada and live in the UK but I still use inches for quilting. It did take me a while to get used to…
Love this! As someone who doesn't have a lot of quilting time I've been trying to think of what barriers there are to me just getting in and working on a project and this all resonated with me. Thank you!
te he - you rebel!! I still laugh about one of your previous videos where you spoke about not ironing fabric. I believe you said something like, "my hobby, my rules!" Still makes me laugh. Considering where patchwork began (putting together bits of cast off clothing) and how a surprising number of those very old quilts still exist, it's clear that using only new fabric and new batting isn't necessary at all. I have a few WIP that I've "frankenbatted" with reclaimed old blankets. I really enjoy your take on quilting.
I pretty much follow most of your “rules”. I do like a good quality batting like 60/40. But quilting should be a journey that is enjoyable and satisfying I watch you frequently. Keep being real
I have learned so much from you and I o also love watch Dave. You both seem to jump in almost like you don't have a plan, but you do, you just are not super attached to it. I am always amazed at your ability to rescue your ideas and transform them. I definitely break all the same rules as yours. Although I never followed them. I began quilting during lock down, so no one was looking.
The rotary cutter “rule” had me giggling from the get go. My rotary cutter quit retracting 6 months after I bought it, some years ago. 😂 Love the rest of the “rules” you break! I break em all plus some you didn’t list!
Thank you so much! I have only been quilting since June 2024 and I loved it until I came across all the countless rules everyone says you should do. I now do just what you suggest-if I want to do it and it works for me I "follow the rule". If not, I don't. So far it has worked beautifully for me and I get a lot more accomplished because I am enjoying myself. I have six lovely quilts done having never followed a pattern. I just find a quilts that I love the looks of and make my own creations.
I love your views. I started sewing nearly 50 years ago but quilting has become my passion. I have never entered a quilt show because I have only been to one near Area 51, desert of Nevada. I am defiant by design. I do however love patterns to help when I get stuck. My only Rule I use now, since last week is closing my rotary cutter. I had just changed the blade and nicked my finger by the joint. Those tiny cuts hurt like HELL!! Other than that I love to watch how others are so brilliant and talented. I admire your love of using jean scraps.
Love your work and how you share what you do. 100% agree with everything you said and know it wont work for everyone. But isnt it so wonderful to have choices and if they dont like it they can find somewhere else that works for them. I love seeing different ways of doing things. Even if i dont follow it myself its all education and ideas. Keep doing what you do ❤
Hi Kristen. I follow your channel because I like the way you do things. I do my quilts in different ways sometimes too. So I vary up my own "rules" depending on what I am working on.
I agree with all of your comments in your video . Except the rotary cutter . I am to nervous to leave mine open ...but you do you ! Like you said we all have our own sewing rooms .... Love your take on quilt shows.... I think you have the right outlook . Its about the sharing a piece of yourself . And seeing all the creations . PS love both of your QAYG videos .... thats how I found you .... Havent tried it yet but shared your video many times .Everyone loves the methods you show .Thank you ...
The only time I prewash a fabric is when I use flannels from Joann Fabric in combination with better quality fabrics. Not only do the reds run like mad, they shrink dramatically.
I am a rule follower! But I haven't heard of some of your rules, but I definitely will follow them now! lol ! I like to buy scrap fabric and yardage from others who don't have a use for it anymore. For me that is so much fun. I don't precut my scraps either. I've been trying it for awhile, but I'm not sure what I want to use them for or what I will make next. So, I'm not sure how long I will precut. I don't always close my rotary cutter either! I have no children, I just have to watch my bird to make sure he doesn't cut his beak. I enjoy your channel very much.
Totally agree about quilting shows! To me it’s the beauty of the art, everyone’s interpretations, use of color, design that I love to see. I love the wonky quilts! Although I can appreciate the “perfect” quilts, I enjoy seeing the wonky, colorful, hand stitched, not perfect quilts!
as soon as you talked about not worrying about bias I subbed. i also only really work with scraps/remnants/thifted fabric so I think I will enjoy seeing your work and videos in the future
I was fast and loose with my rotary cutter too lol, and I learned that lesson the hard way. I had to get in the habit of closing it, stitches are expensive in America!! 😂 It was an easy habit to gain though, that one mishap was enough to make me respect the blade. You are fun, just discovered your videos tonight. Thank you for posting!
I came from garment making. You talk about RULES! So I started following YT makers, books and etc. Soon I was intimidated out of my mind. I made a table runner by the pattern, and then have launched into my own way of making. This has included making things that I cobble together using my ideas and ideas from several sources. I am by no means as free as you (I am 78yrs old). I have greatly enjoyed watching your content and appreciating your creativity. I am delighted with your end products. I do not have your vision or color savvy. I hope you forge ahead with your making. You are also entertaining.🤣🤣🤣
I agree with the breaking of rules . I am a total newbie and I have my own tiny youtube channel . I love your channel and aspire to quilt ! Watching one of your quilt as you go videos gave me confidence to try quilting. While some of the tutorials out there are so technical and make me intimated to even try.
I already subscribed a few weeks ago but now I have a deeper appreciation for you with this video. I’m a beginner afraid actually start because of the rules. Thanks for making “no rule” normal.
Like you, I don't follow many rules. As an example, I just finished a quilt, it has a mix of 100% cotton, and poly cotton. I used scaps of jersey knit for the back that I assembled together and quilted it with polyester thread. And it's beautiful!
Definitely agree about entering a show! Enter to share your beauty and go to a show to get inspiration from others. And agree about your FPP.... any size piece added on, then trim. When I did my new York beauty, I cut strips and worked from them. And in my classroom, I worry more about open rotary cutters, when working in my studio, I often leave mine open!😊
Love this video! I don’t follow the rules either because I quilt for fun. No one has ever returned one of my gifted quilts, So I keep enjoying the craft😊. Can’t wait to hear about your group sew alongs.
I totally agree with your reasoning for not precutting your scraps!!! How do I know today what I’ll want to quilt some other day?! 🎉 ❤ I like to press all my seams open! I never pre-wash for quilting Last but not least… Totally agree with your feeling about showing your quilts! I don’t expect to be blue ribbon… I’m not that person… I too don’t need to follow all those “quilty rules” …but I am proud of each creation 🎉❤😂 Keep being you!
I have been quilting for over 60 years. I didn't have anyone to teach me. I took a book and taught myself. And until a few months ago I had never used a sewing machine for my quilting. I did everything by hand. Hand quilting is more precise. Matching seams is easier and everything goes together differently. I found that machine piecing was difficult and it has thrown me for a curve. I love your attitude about quilting because I feel the same way. I have always had to use what I have and I have been very successful that way. In my opinion, machine quilting is a pain but that comes from doing it by hand for so many years. Love your videos
Thanks for voicing your aversion to the "rules". I agree with all of them except the rotary cutter rule. I've been trained by nosy cats to cover my blades. I've subscribed and look forward to more fresh opinions.
I break a lot of rules also but if I didn't I would have quit long ago. I love quilts and intend to keep on sewing regardless. No one really mentioned the MATH part of this and that is a huge one for me. I am doing a potato chip quilt now and have to have a cheat sheet with numbers on it to figure the cutting of my scraps that makes the best use of my fabric. I just cannot for the life of me, look at it and just cut! Soo many patterns have exact cuts or at least that is what people tell me. I am only a couple years in but intend to do it MY WAY. My quilts ( probably about 6 or 8 now) are all made quilt as you go and just trying to master that has been a challenge but I love it when done. I love your channel Kristin and thank you for all you do to make my quilting more on the fun side instead of the perfect side!
Loved this!❤ I rarely use an actual pattern, prefer to figure it out for myself. I even make up my own FPP block patterns at times. my favourite batting is the silk/bamboo blend, and the only reason is that I like the ‘feel’ of it…the 80/20 stuff sets my teeth on edge to touch it(but that’s a me thing) I don’t pre-wash, I do press/iron the snot out of my fabrics and use lots of steam and some BestPress/Flatter. Thank you
I agree with you 100%! One thing that I was told ( I’ve only been quilting for a little over a year) to only use cotton thread and cotton fabric. Don’t buy at Joann’s or Hobby Lobby. My feelings are that if you’re financing my hobby maybe you can tell me what to or not to buy. Then you hear other quilters that do what they want to. Tell me the reasoning behind the need to do something a certain way then let me decide what I want to do. Like your attitude. Like your videos and quilts. Do love scrappy quilting.
Thank you for this video!!! I'm new to quilting and learned to sew by watching youtube videos. I break all of these rules too! I mostly love using sheets, vintage fabrics, even cotton clothing in my quilts (and use textiles other than cotton). I hate cutting down scraps too. I really enjoy your improv and quilt without a pattern videos. I would like to join a quilting group in my town, but worry that more experienced and 'rule follower' quilters would not understand my style.
You are so funny! I'm in your camp too. I am self taught (started the day after I retired) so when I started making quilts I didn't know there were any rules. I didn't know that quilt designs and blocks had names, or that there were tons of different tools: specialty rulers, templates, hopping feet (what the heck!) etc. Then as I shared my work with "seasoned" long time quilters, they started throwing rules and such at me. UGH! That's nice but I like my way better. The only "rule" that I tend to follow (most of the time) is "to press to the dark side".
OMG I do almost all the same as you. I used to sew years ago but not quilts and one day I just decided to try. I haven't used a pattern yet and I like to make my own creations with my own colours. I like symmetry and only a few colours per quilt. I do experiment and do some things outside my comfort zone, but it's my art, made my way. I do enjoy watching all sorts of videos to get ideas and try new things. This year I think I am going to try some FPP and do more applique, I've quite enjoyed the few things I've made. It is nice to hear other people function like I do when it comes to quilting. I find it's almost a compulsion, an idea gets into my head and it drives me crazy until I do it and that's the only way to get it out of my head. I do enjoy your channel and will continue to use it as a source of inspiration
Love your way of thinking. And brave to say it. If you have fun and people love your quilts that’s great.ill take advice but don’t tell me I did it wrong. …
I’m disabled so my rules are what serve me. Fabrics are washed before I work with them because I don’t want anything that runs like crazy or shrinks badly so I hot wash everything before I work with it and any that bleed are consigned to the vinegar soak until they stop.. i’m very very sensitive to perfumes, smells, and others laundry detergents etc so it’s also a safety thing as I don't want a 999 call for fabric reactions. Most of my collection also appears to be what others call scraps but my needs are varied like you so I don’t believe I know the size future me wants. And the most fun I have is going through my tiny scrap pile (items under 2 inches square) and deciding what to do with them. I find patchwork and quilting can be very very expensive so want to participate but queen and king sized items are definitely not for me. This year wall hangings and cushion fronts are my thing and there are no rules bar use what you have to achieve what you want for maximum enjoyment. Thanks for the encouragement.
You are quilting just like I do. I agree with all of your comments. I have a huge collection of small scraps and want to see what they can make. I love used material. Straight of grain. Don't care. Etc. Keep up the good work. No rules here either
I enjoyed this episode because I feel the same way When I started quilting I thought all those quilting rules were gospel now I relax & enjoy quilting without all those man made rules. I enjoy making scrappy quilts, string quilts & improving quilting. Now I know why I enjoy watching your program you’re just like me!
Hey, I started quilting when I realized making clothes resulted in scraps. So, that was 50+ years ago (I was very young). No patterns, no 100% cotton, no rotary cutter, cutting mat or quilting rulers. I managed. So, I get it, and love your approach! There are a lot of rules I still don’t follow - but my skills have definitely improved by using some of them - not to mention my wide array of rulers, templates, mats, precut bundles, etc. Still can’t stand to throw away even the smallest scrap, and still make scrap quilts every year. If the quilt police ever come knocking, I’m a goner. But I’ll risk it.
I don’t intentionally leave my rotary cutter open, but sometimes I’m so into what I’m doing that I forget! I did Have an accident once which required stitches, but it was my hand slipping over the ruler while cutting fabric!
Loved this message Kristen. Also, for what it’s worth, that woman at the quilt show should be reminded she is attending a Festival of Quilts not a Festival of Winners. Ghesh. All the best ❤
Which quilting rules do you break?
I use a lot of thrifted sheets, I like vintage printed for backings and buy a lot of sheets for neutrals or solids. Ladies at my guild just look away when I say I use 100% cotton sheets in my quilts - so don't report me to the quilt police - I will get arrested for sure!
@aninasmiles1 brilliant! 😂
The list is long, lol.
- I don’t use ‘quilting fabric’ or batting. Instead, I use (mostly) men’s dress shirts that I buy at thrift stores for fabric. I also use sheets, but they’re cotton ones that I buy new on clearance. And denim, corduroy, and twill from pants, too. I use flannel sheets or old blankets for batting. And I have a huge bolt of beige fleece that I bought at a thrift store for $14 that I’m still using up for backings.
- I iron only when I think it absolutely necessary (and then usually do it in big batches while watching videos) because I hate ironing.
- I use Hobby Lobby thread (gasp!, lol) because my machine likes it, it’s never given me a problem, and it’s cheap/what I can afford.
Thank you for making these videos, Kristen. I appreciate it.
@michellekennedy6382 love your list! You do you!
I think you must be my twin sister. 😂 😂😊
I agree our quilting journey is supposed to be to bring us joy so we need to enjoy the process😊
You are a breath of fresh air! Thank you!!!
The rule I eventually started ignoring is that quilts should be made from 100% cotton. The world didn't end when I put a recycled polycotton duvet cover on the back of a quilt. 🙂
Fab! Love it!
You know, it bothers me how much people try to gate keep quilting.
It’s expensive, really expensive, so they need to stop.
You wanna use frankenbatting, cool!
You wanna use crumbs, cool!
You wanna use polyblend, cool!
It’s your quilt. It’s just a hobby ffs.
Kristen we are lucky to have you, the voice of reason in a sea of gatekeepers!
My rule I always break is I don’t always trim and I just fudge it. This isn’t precision engineering. It’s fabric. Haha ❤🎉
I was gonna say the same thing. I cut my fabric to size to make the blocks, so they should be the right size. I can usually tell if there's one that completely off - and do something about it. I also don't meticulously square up before I add binding, I used to, because that's what we're supposed to do.... But I don't anymore. No one who's received a quilt from me has ever complained, and when I hold them up to take a picture, they look pretty darn good (even if I say so myself). It's kinda liberating to 'break' the rules that don't matter anyway...
Yes less gatekeeping! Totally agree.
Love it!
@ShazBookOwl who has time to square up to add binding? Lol. I have started adding binding on using my overlocker and that makes it much easier. But to be clear, I do square corners, I don’t miter any corners 😂😂. If it’s good enough for John Lewis, it’s good enough for me!
@@Sam_the_quilterInteresting idea. I have never used my serger 🇨🇦 to put on binding. What is the benefit of doing it that way?
The Quilting Marine has a saying. ‘It’s only fabric, it’s only thread’. So we don’t need to be so precious about it and so do things our own way. It’s a good philosophy I think.❤😊
Make the quilt you fall in love with. Ignore the number of pieces. Just love the doing of it. Ignore time, its not a race. Its joy. Its mental health. Its warm for sleeping ))).
Dear Kristen, I did comment earlier to this video. I appreciation your honesty so very much because…..I’m dyslexic. I absolutely love quilting and any fabric fun. But it’s almost impossibly for me to read and follow patterns. So I just improvise….a lot. It’s been difficult for me to find encouragement and motivation for my unconventional approach…..cause I don’t follow the rules. When I need to do any math and check myself, my husband, Michael, is always available. He is a computer scientist and math expert….plus he has an incredible eye for color and composition. Thank you Blessings Suze
"permission slips" are a good thing )))) I"M THE QUILTER I'LL DO IT MY WAY. ))))))) We love your methods because they are so free. Things turn out beautiful regardless of "rules". No quilt police required. Eccentric is my middle name. )))
Yesssssss, 100%❤
I started sewing quilts a couple of years ago and I hear what you are saying and my brain is shouting hurrah! I much prefer to wing it and go with whatever flow I am in. I subscribe to the "do what makes you happy" motto. When I discovered I could color outside the lines, unlike that childhood coloring book rule, I was a happy camper. I also, like many, grew up hearing over and over again "practice makes perfect". It took me decades to let that one go and "good enough" works for me. I also subscribe to your philosophy! We all create in different ways and how wonderful is that? Cheers from Minnesota and thanks for all your videos! I bet many folks might clutch their pearls if they stumble on "Dave's Craft Room" and see his delightful way of doing his own thing when it comes to creating quilts!
You go girl !!!
I like your attitude ,quilting is supposed to be enjoyable not a race to get it done.!!!I dislike all the tubers out there saying so this can be done so fast!
Who cares I like creating and enjoying the process.So thank you for this tutorial.🤗😍🙏
Amen!!!
I almost didn't start sewing because I had so many rules thrown into my lap by grandma's, aunts, friends....it made me nuts. Thank you for making it easier to start anywhere and see where I go. I have embroidered pieces that I want to incorporate and was told they wouldn't go together. You've given me the confidence to do it anyway. So what if I mess up. It's only fabric. I can get more. Thanks, Karen Maiden
I am sorry you got discouraged by other people’s rules. It is such a common experience. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - just cause that one person doesn’t think your embroidery will work together doesn’t mean they are ‘right’. You do you!
If you REEEEally don't like a part, you can redo it differently. Or just leave it and ignore it. Warm is the final reason to make it in the first place. Its for sleeping under, not for winning contests.
I had no idea we were so alike in our "rebellious ways"! A kindred soul. Thank you, Kristen.
I'm always one to do my own thing. I think that is why I like your channel ... because you DO break the rules. 😊. And it usually makes for more interesting quilts.
Thanks!
🎉 you have embraced the way I love to sew. For me, the love of quilting is the process. I'm usually quilting and have to wait for the quilt to tell me where it will go when it's finished.
Oh my goodness, totally agree with all of your points. I really like the last one (closing the rotary cutter). I never closed my cutter so I bought one that you squeeze the handle and the blade comes out and I love it!
@@wendedragoset2716 I have that one too
Quilting is my stress relief. So I'm happy with what I do my way. Otherwise I would not quilt😊
Please continue with your videos and do your thing. You will be happier
Thank you 😊
@@bevl3988 same, when she said in the video about scrapping things that hinder her path to happiness, I kinda just let out a little sigh of relief haha. That’s exactly what I do.
I love everything about this video! I'm 100% on the rule breaking train, choooooo, choooooooo!! 🙃😂 I sew in chaos, with my blade bared, and not a straight cut, or stitch to be seen! And, I'll throw whatever fabric I have into a quilt (usually something thrifted), and back it with a sheet in a heartbeat! Thanks for breaking the video making rule, so the rest of us know there are others like us. 🥰
I too use second hand flannel sheeting for batting and throw together unique things. Ive never had an unction to enter into a quilt show...each quilt is unique and heartfelt love, sweat and more love into that..
Fab! Great philosophy!
You are my twin sister from another mother. I agree with everything you said. Just keep up the good work. I think your quilts are beautiful.
You are my quilting soul sister. I enjoy trying to figure out how to fix or change a quilt pattern way more than following it. Love this video!
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Thanks so much! Glad I’m not alone! 💕
Thanks so much for this! Like you, I’m very independent. Having arbitrary rules tossed like grenades infuriates me!
I’m fascinated by the way you work.
Love your comment about wanting to get to the fun stuff without all the not fun prework ironing or pre washing fabric. And bias, which I do understand but usually choose to ignore.
You were spot on with the rules I break all the time.
Just found your channel as TH-cam suggested this video. It was joyous to watch. Made me smile. I’m in this quilt life for creativity not perfection. I do push myself once a year in a complicated quilt but the rest is about creativity, color and design. Thanks for the video.
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. When you are rather timid , lacking confidence, you need to hear the positive vibes every now and again. I will not be brow beaten into conforming. I'm with you, sister! Well until, that is, someone absolutley insists on the one true way!😊
I break them all and I love it. My quilting space so my rules. When I sew, it's my relaxing and creating time. I also leave my rotary cutter open. Oops! I have just tried your method of quilt as you go and it's such a game changer. Keep the videos coming, please.
Love your attitude! I don’t close my cutter at home also. When I’m sewing with the guild,I do. Just in case one of the ladies comes in contact with it.
Brilliant - you have a double standard just like mine with my kids!
Once i had a quilt longarmed with no batt, and the backing was a wool tweed. It was very successful and was nice and warm for the recipient!
Fab!
OOOO I LIKE that!! They don't ALL need to be stuffed, do they.....
Love this ! My first quilt was a denim and polyester cotton made on an overlocker! I didn’t know I had to sew with a quarter inch seam and not use polyester fabric! My backing was a remnant piece of chambray!Interesting point, that quilt was made 25 years ago and is still in use today!
Some of the best examples of ‘no rules quilts’ would be the Gees Bend quilts! They are made in the manner that the pioneering ladies used…..making do with what you have and can afford.
I can remember going to a guild meeting and one lady was laying out her. Backing ready to baste her quilt…….it was a sheet!!! O MG. There were so many ladies around her saying she can’t put that on the back! Totally embarrassed her! She kept going but I’ll bet she didn’t go back there! I sure didn’t
New subscriber here. Love this video. There are times when I am in the mood to have my seams nest perfectly (or as perfect as possible) and other times when it is not at the top of my list. Like you said, this is supposed to be fun. I would never want someone to give up sewing because of not feeling competent enough. I am 70 years old and still learning! I also agree about quilt shows. I go to see all the pretty things, whether they were a winner or not. Many times, the winners were not always my favorite. And that’s okay. After all, art has always been subjective. I will be looking forward to enjoying more of your videos. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts! I watch a lot of TH-cam quilting channels and you are by far one of my favorites. I have learned ALOT ( I am a newbie) from watching you. You are an excellent teacher and your style has encouraged me to be creative and take more risks in my sewing journey. So thanks for breaking the rules and showing us that we can too!!
Love,love,love! Just found you, and you have a new follower. Am old enough to be your grandmother (just turned85) and you've been quilting longer than I have. Have 1 room in house shared with daughter and family. First quilts were for granddaughters baby...made with baby clothes...and I was hooked! Have yet to use a pattern, am a little intimidated. Have done the log cabin, just figuring it out by copying a quilt I loved. But following rules...no. And I make tote bags with applique, so my scraps are saved in all sorts of shapes. And save every piece.Would enjoy learning free motion quilting ,but no machine...all mine is done by hand, piecing and quilting. Am going to enjoy watching you create!
Just found your channel. I’m already in love with it. Thanks so much for the permission to do all the things I do in quiet (secretive) guilt🤣. I love fabric, saving things that would have been thrown out by someone else and creating something new with it. I was really looking forward to making quilts…. But the price of batting stopped me for a long time. I decided to go ahead anyway. I use old blankets, fleeces, …& even hoodies. I was so glad to read all the comments that passionately agree with you. Let’s not stem that creativity, let’s just go for it!
I love this!! There are lots of guidelines in quilting, but sometimes they are treated like rules, which they are not. Even something as simple as a 1/4 inch seam doesn't always apply!! We should all do what works for us and what we enjoy!
I agree with you. For me it's about creating something from basically, nothing. The whole creative process, whatever it is for you, the accomplishment, for me, is quite fulfulling . If it please other's mores the better, not exclusive. Love the videos. Keep quilting your way.
Thanks!
Great attitude. Maximize the parts of the process you enjoy. Minimize the parts you don't. I love touching my fabric, including washing, ironing, and cutting. I work from home. A pretty high pressure job. I sometimes take little breaks during the where I iron and cut just to destress. The rhythm of the iron and rotary cutter (which I do close).
The first rule I didn't follow was to choose a simple pattern as a beginner. I made my own pattern in centimetres as I didn't use inches ( I had the idea that being Italian I had to use '' our'' measuring system. I now use both, even in the same quilt)cutting hundreds of squares and rectangles as I wanted the blocks to be small ....
I always close the rotary cutter because I don't want to wash again the fabric in case of blood splitting everywhere 😅.
I like your style, you are inspiring for people like me who are too fussy . I'm better now, I'm hand quilting a quilt and I 'm quite appreciating the unconsistency of my stiches. Elena, Italy
Love the idea of using cm and inches in the same quilt! I’m from Canada and live in the UK but I still use inches for quilting. It did take me a while to get used to…
Love this! As someone who doesn't have a lot of quilting time I've been trying to think of what barriers there are to me just getting in and working on a project and this all resonated with me. Thank you!
Good luck making the time to sew! Do the bits you love!
I love to guesstimate ( wing it ) - bending and stretching the rules - great video !!
te he - you rebel!! I still laugh about one of your previous videos where you spoke about not ironing fabric. I believe you said something like, "my hobby, my rules!" Still makes me laugh. Considering where patchwork began (putting together bits of cast off clothing) and how a surprising number of those very old quilts still exist, it's clear that using only new fabric and new batting isn't necessary at all. I have a few WIP that I've "frankenbatted" with reclaimed old blankets. I really enjoy your take on quilting.
I pretty much follow most of your “rules”. I do like a good quality batting like 60/40. But quilting should be a journey that is enjoyable and satisfying I watch you frequently. Keep being real
I have learned so much from you and I o also love watch Dave. You both seem to jump in almost like you don't have a plan, but you do, you just are not super attached to it. I am always amazed at your ability to rescue your ideas and transform them. I definitely break all the same rules as yours. Although I never followed them. I began quilting during lock down, so no one was looking.
The rotary cutter “rule” had me giggling from the get go. My rotary cutter quit retracting 6 months after I bought it, some years ago. 😂
Love the rest of the “rules” you break! I break em all plus some you didn’t list!
Loved this video. I'm a new quilter. I do my own thing too and have learned a lot doing it this way. Thanks Kristen. Pat in Florida
I love that you throw caution to the wind ❤❤❤
Thank you so much! I have only been quilting since June 2024 and I loved it until I came across all the countless rules everyone says you should do. I now do just what you suggest-if I want to do it and it works for me I "follow the rule". If not, I don't. So far it has worked beautifully for me and I get a lot more accomplished because I am enjoying myself. I have six lovely quilts done having never followed a pattern. I just find a quilts that I love the looks of and make my own creations.
I love your views. I started sewing nearly 50 years ago but quilting has become my passion. I have never entered a quilt show because I have only been to one near Area 51, desert of Nevada. I am defiant by design. I do however love patterns to help when I get stuck. My only Rule I use now, since last week is closing my rotary cutter. I had just changed the blade and nicked my finger by the joint. Those tiny cuts hurt like HELL!! Other than that I love to watch how others are so brilliant and talented. I admire your love of using jean scraps.
I am with ya!!!! I love to iron but I don't watch grain and I press seams open sometimes
Thank you for removing the guilt! I hadn’t thought of it in quite the same way. I love scrappy sewing and so, no rules is just fine after all.
Love your work and how you share what you do. 100% agree with everything you said and know it wont work for everyone. But isnt it so wonderful to have choices and if they dont like it they can find somewhere else that works for them. I love seeing different ways of doing things. Even if i dont follow it myself its all education and ideas. Keep doing what you do ❤
Totally enjoyed this.
Hi Kristen. I follow your channel because I like the way you do things. I do my quilts in different ways sometimes too. So I vary up my own "rules" depending on what I am working on.
I agree with all of your comments in your video . Except the rotary cutter . I am to nervous to leave mine open ...but you do you ! Like you said we all have our own sewing rooms .... Love your take on quilt shows.... I think you have the right outlook . Its about the sharing a piece of yourself . And seeing all the creations . PS love both of your QAYG videos .... thats how I found you .... Havent tried it yet but shared your video many times .Everyone loves the methods you show .Thank you ...
Thanks so much!
The only time I prewash a fabric is when I use flannels from Joann Fabric in combination with better quality fabrics. Not only do the reds run like mad, they shrink dramatically.
I am a rule follower! But I haven't heard of some of your rules, but I definitely will follow them now! lol ! I like to buy scrap fabric and yardage from others who don't have a use for it anymore. For me that is so much fun. I don't precut my scraps either. I've been trying it for awhile, but I'm not sure what I want to use them for or what I will make next. So, I'm not sure how long I will precut. I don't always close my rotary cutter either! I have no children, I just have to watch my bird to make sure he doesn't cut his beak. I enjoy your channel very much.
Totally agree about quilting shows! To me it’s the beauty of the art, everyone’s interpretations, use of color, design that I love to see. I love the wonky quilts! Although I can appreciate the “perfect” quilts, I enjoy seeing the wonky, colorful, hand stitched, not perfect quilts!
My thinking is just like yours. I do what I want. I don't care what anyone says.❤
Good for you!
Love the way you think! For some reason people seem to think that everyone should believe as they do.
as soon as you talked about not worrying about bias I subbed. i also only really work with scraps/remnants/thifted fabric so I think I will enjoy seeing your work and videos in the future
I was fast and loose with my rotary cutter too lol, and I learned that lesson the hard way. I had to get in the habit of closing it, stitches are expensive in America!! 😂 It was an easy habit to gain though, that one mishap was enough to make me respect the blade.
You are fun, just discovered your videos tonight. Thank you for posting!
You are my sewing spirit animal and kindred spirit and I'm so here for it
😂 love this!
Your channel has taught me the freedom to enjoy. Also to stretch my wings and try new ideas and be proud of the outcome. Thank you 😊
I loved this. I don't follow the rules either and that's just fine with me. Thank you❤
I came from garment making. You talk about RULES! So I started following YT makers, books and etc. Soon I was intimidated out of my mind. I made a table runner by the pattern, and then have launched into my own way of making. This has included making things that I cobble together using my ideas and ideas from several sources. I am by no means as free as you (I am 78yrs old). I have greatly enjoyed watching your content and appreciating your creativity. I am delighted with your end products. I do not have your vision or color savvy. I hope you forge ahead with your making. You are also entertaining.🤣🤣🤣
There should be no rules just tips and tricks and pure enjoyment 😊 love your videos keep them coming thankyou🎉
I agree with the breaking of rules . I am a total newbie and I have my own tiny youtube channel . I love your channel and aspire to quilt ! Watching one of your quilt as you go videos gave me confidence to try quilting. While some of the tutorials out there are so technical and make me intimated to even try.
I already subscribed a few weeks ago but now I have a deeper appreciation for you with this video. I’m a beginner afraid actually start because of the rules. Thanks for making “no rule” normal.
Like you, I don't follow many rules. As an example, I just finished a quilt, it has a mix of 100% cotton, and poly cotton. I used scaps of jersey knit for the back that I assembled together and quilted it with polyester thread. And it's beautiful!
Definitely agree about entering a show! Enter to share your beauty and go to a show to get inspiration from others.
And agree about your FPP.... any size piece added on, then trim. When I did my new York beauty, I cut strips and worked from them.
And in my classroom, I worry more about open rotary cutters, when working in my studio, I often leave mine open!😊
I wanted to tell you that I love your quilt as you go joining video ❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks so much!
Love this video! I don’t follow the rules either because I quilt for fun. No one has ever returned one of my gifted quilts, So I keep enjoying the craft😊. Can’t wait to hear about your group sew alongs.
I totally agree with your reasoning for not precutting your scraps!!! How do I know today what I’ll want to quilt some other day?! 🎉
❤ I like to press all my seams open!
I never pre-wash for quilting
Last but not least… Totally agree with your feeling about showing your quilts! I don’t expect to be blue ribbon… I’m not that person… I too don’t need to follow all those “quilty rules” …but I am proud of each creation 🎉❤😂
Keep being you!
Love this, about time someone broke the rules !
I have been quilting for over 60 years. I didn't have anyone to teach me. I took a book and taught myself. And until a few months ago I had never used a sewing machine for my quilting. I did everything by hand. Hand quilting is more precise. Matching seams is easier and everything goes together differently. I found that machine piecing was difficult and it has thrown me for a curve. I love your attitude about quilting because I feel the same way. I have always had to use what I have and I have been very successful that way. In my opinion, machine quilting is a pain but that comes from doing it by hand for so many years. Love your videos
Thanks for voicing your aversion to the "rules". I agree with all of them except the rotary cutter rule. I've been trained by nosy cats to cover my blades. I've subscribed and look forward to more fresh opinions.
Kristen I love your channel, this video is me to a tee! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I break a lot of rules also but if I didn't I would have quit long ago. I love quilts and intend to keep on sewing regardless. No one really mentioned the MATH part of this and that is a huge one for me. I am doing a potato chip quilt now and have to have a cheat sheet with numbers on it to figure the cutting of my scraps that makes the best use of my fabric. I just cannot for the life of me, look at it and just cut! Soo many patterns have exact cuts or at least that is what people tell me. I am only a couple years in but intend to do it MY WAY. My quilts ( probably about 6 or 8 now) are all made quilt as you go and just trying to master that has been a challenge but I love it when done. I love your channel Kristin and thank you for all you do to make my quilting more on the fun side instead of the perfect side!
Loved this!❤ I rarely use an actual pattern, prefer to figure it out for myself. I even make up my own FPP block patterns at times. my favourite batting is the silk/bamboo blend, and the only reason is that I like the ‘feel’ of it…the 80/20 stuff sets my teeth on edge to touch it(but that’s a me thing) I don’t pre-wash, I do press/iron the snot out of my fabrics and use lots of steam and some BestPress/Flatter. Thank you
I break all the rules and make what l want to make. Its my fabric my sewing room, my creation.
I love your thinking you go girl !♥️👍🏼 you r so right !
I agree with you 100%! One thing that I was told ( I’ve only been quilting for a little over a year) to only use cotton thread and cotton fabric. Don’t buy at Joann’s or Hobby Lobby. My feelings are that if you’re financing my hobby maybe you can tell me what to or not to buy. Then you hear other quilters that do what they want to. Tell me the reasoning behind the need to do something a certain way then let me decide what I want to do. Like your attitude. Like your videos and quilts. Do love scrappy quilting.
❤ love your video, love the "rule" breaking .
Quilting is such a happy space to enjoy 😊
Thank you for this video!!! I'm new to quilting and learned to sew by watching youtube videos. I break all of these rules too! I mostly love using sheets, vintage fabrics, even cotton clothing in my quilts (and use textiles other than cotton). I hate cutting down scraps too. I really enjoy your improv and quilt without a pattern videos. I would like to join a quilting group in my town, but worry that more experienced and 'rule follower' quilters would not understand my style.
You are so funny! I'm in your camp too. I am self taught (started the day after I retired) so when I started making quilts I didn't know there were any rules. I didn't know that quilt designs and blocks had names, or that there were tons of different tools: specialty rulers, templates, hopping feet (what the heck!) etc. Then as I shared my work with "seasoned" long time quilters, they started throwing rules and such at me. UGH! That's nice but I like my way better. The only "rule" that I tend to follow (most of the time) is "to press to the dark side".
OMG I do almost all the same as you. I used to sew years ago but not quilts and one day I just decided to try. I haven't used a pattern yet and I like to make my own creations with my own colours. I like symmetry and only a few colours per quilt. I do experiment and do some things outside my comfort zone, but it's my art, made my way. I do enjoy watching all sorts of videos to get ideas and try new things. This year I think I am going to try some FPP and do more applique, I've quite enjoyed the few things I've made. It is nice to hear other people function like I do when it comes to quilting. I find it's almost a compulsion, an idea gets into my head and it drives me crazy until I do it and that's the only way to get it out of my head. I do enjoy your channel and will continue to use it as a source of inspiration
I definitely know that feeling of having an idea in your head that needs to get out!
Love your way of thinking. And brave to say it. If you have fun and people love your quilts that’s great.ill take advice but don’t tell me I did it wrong. …
I love your color catcher rule!
Voice of reason ❤
I’m disabled so my rules are what serve me. Fabrics are washed before I work with them because I don’t want anything that runs like crazy or shrinks badly so I hot wash everything before I work with it and any that bleed are consigned to the vinegar soak until they stop.. i’m very very sensitive to perfumes, smells, and others laundry detergents etc so it’s also a safety thing as I don't want a 999 call for fabric reactions. Most of my collection also appears to be what others call scraps but my needs are varied like you so I don’t believe I know the size future me wants. And the most fun I have is going through my tiny scrap pile (items under 2 inches square) and deciding what to do with them. I find patchwork and quilting can be very very expensive so want to participate but queen and king sized items are definitely not for me. This year wall hangings and cushion fronts are my thing and there are no rules bar use what you have to achieve what you want for maximum enjoyment.
Thanks for the encouragement.
You are quilting just like I do. I agree with all of your comments. I have a huge collection of small scraps and want to see what they can make. I love used material. Straight of grain. Don't care. Etc. Keep up the good work. No rules here either
I enjoyed this episode because I feel the same way When I started quilting I thought all those quilting rules were gospel now I relax & enjoy quilting without all those man made rules. I enjoy making scrappy quilts, string quilts & improving quilting.
Now I know why I enjoy watching your program you’re just like me!
I agree with you 💯. It's rebel quilting...do what feels right for you and if it works go with it. ❤
Thanks! So glad it chimes with you!
Such a sensible video.
I always get comments because I press my seams open. It gives the front of the quilt a flatter finish.
I agree with just enjoy and have fun
Sound advise! All of it!
You quilt YOU, Folks!!!
Hey, I started quilting when I realized making clothes resulted in scraps. So, that was 50+ years ago (I was very young). No patterns, no 100% cotton, no rotary cutter, cutting mat or quilting rulers. I managed. So, I get it, and love your approach! There are a lot of rules I still don’t follow - but my skills have definitely improved by using some of them - not to mention my wide array of rulers, templates, mats, precut bundles, etc. Still can’t stand to throw away even the smallest scrap, and still make scrap quilts every year. If the quilt police ever come knocking, I’m a goner. But I’ll risk it.
You are so original! ❤😂
Great video! I love your approach to creating.
I do exactly as you do. It works.
I don’t intentionally leave my rotary cutter open, but sometimes I’m so into what I’m doing that I forget! I did Have an accident once which required stitches, but it was my hand slipping over the ruler while cutting fabric!
Loved this message Kristen. Also, for what it’s worth, that woman at the quilt show should be reminded she is attending a Festival of Quilts not a Festival of Winners. Ghesh. All the best ❤